2011 newsletter by 1 At The Top, LLC

Angel On My Shoulder 2011 NEWSLETTER

What’s Inside PAGE 2 Guardian Angel PAGE 4 Uplifting Angels PAGE 6 Angel Scholarship Program PAGE 8 How To Be An Angel PAGE 10 Angel Wings PAGE 12 Angel Golf Spectacular PAGE 15 Healing Angels PAGE 16 Camp Angel/Camp Teen Angel

A Message from Founder/Executive Director Lolly Rose

It is with deep eternal and personal “Angel” honor that I proudly dedicate this newsletter in loving memory of my Mom, Lorraine Justman. She was one of our very first Angel volunteers, preparing “thinking of you” gift baskets at the inception of our Uplifting Angels visits. She was unequivocally my biggest fan and cheerleader. Mom was truly an inspiration in my life and in making Angel On My Shoulder everything it was meant to be and more. She was a witness through her actions to the importance of people and their needs. Mom loved them, and they loved her back. Her giving and caring spirit emulated compassion, faith and hope–touching many hearts and lives along the way. Like all of our Angel On My Shoulder volunteers who go above and beyond, she gave of herself, sharing our passion for helping those in need.

PAGE 22 Angel Care

Mom showed me that a major part of joy in life is expressing gratitude and to that end, I and Angel On My Shoulder proudly acknowledge all of our fabulous “Angel” volunteers. They generously open their hearts and schedules to give time and energy to help others.

PAGE 23 Door #1, #2 or #3?

Volunteers are shining stars and come to you on Angel’s wings…

Anita Domnitz, RN, MS, ND

In wisdom God looked around one day, and thought, “There’s much to do”. Then placed within the hearts of some the need to see it through.

PAGE 17 Angel Adventures

PAGE 25 Real Benefit Benefit Cathy’s Ice Cream Social PAGE 26 Angel’s Harley Raffle

Across the Earth I’ll place each group and let them choose at will, the mission they hope to dignify and then I’ll grant them skill.

PAGE 27 Calendar of Events Cruzin for A Cause

Finally, I’ll need a name, one word that will prevail to indicate their valued role and all it will entail.

PAGE 28 Lung Cancer 2010 Dr. William Hocking

PAGE 29 Memorials Love, Hugs and Prayers PAGE 30 Polar Plunge Plus Much Much More

“Mom and Me”… Lorraine Justman (left) shared a special moment with Lolly. Below: Lorraine (left) and her friend Ruth preparing Angel baskets.

To stand for Helper, Friend and Angel, and always, ever near. Let it be known till the end of time, the word is VOLUNTEER!!!!! (author unknown) As you journey through this newsletter, you will discover why we are truly blessed to walk side-byside with these phenomenal volunteers who graciously give of their time, talents and knowledge to be there with us to bring peace and hope to those living with or affected by cancer. We humbly and gratefully salute each and every one of them. Their genuine and tireless efforts, along with their enormous commitment to our mission, does not go unnoticed. We couldn’t do it without them. Take care and God bless, Lolly Rose

All that I am or hope to be I owe to my mother. Abraham Lincoln

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Guardian Angel and Angel Halo Recognition

Angel volunteers, Charlie and Emily Wilfer, were pleased to present Kevin Aponte with a well-deserved Guardian Angel Award. His wife, Patricia and son, Rolly, proudly shared this special recognition time with him.

Through its Guardian Angel Program, Angel On My Shoulder proudly recognizes and honors outstanding individuals that are a part of the care giving community. Unselfishly giving of themselves, these phenomenal caregivers provide unwavering support, comfort and care from many dimensions to those living with cancer. Time is no factor. A Guardian Angel may have helped with someone’s experience with cancer, perhaps for years, or is just now joining the ranks to make that difficult battle less painful. A Guardian Angel may be a spouse, sibling, child, family member, nurse, doctor, hospice worker, health care professional or a longtime friend. In recognition of their tireless and incredible efforts these “above and beyond” Guardian Angels are presented with a “just for you” gift package and a well-deserved certificate of commendation.

Ray Woller and Lynn Lecher (Janet’s husband and daughter) surround Guardian Angel recipient, Janet Woller, as she proudly displays her “Angel” Commendation Plaque.

Angel Halo Recognition A Special Wing of “Guardian Angel”

We’d like to hear from you. We invite people to share their stories and pictures with us. If you are sending photos, please send hi-res digital files whenever possible. Include your story or picture caption in the email. Most cell phone photos are too poor quality for us to use.

Webster describes “Halo” as “The aura of glory surrounding a person or thing”. A “wing” of our Guardian Angel program . . . Our Halo Recognition was created by Angel On My Shoulder to honor those that climb that ladder of support a step higher. At one time or another all of us fit that description whether it is out of concern for a family member, friend, co-worker or neighbor. A very special acknowledgment goes to these exceptional caring Angels. It is a great honor and extreme privilege for Angel On My Shoulder to recognize the following Guardian Angels and Halo Award Recipient who have been brought to our attention in 2010.

Guardian Angel Recipients: Kevin Aponte Beth Gering Jody Gillis Kay Hayward Linda Le Clair Ted Schnetker Lynn Staples Janet Woller Don & Ruth Zerfas Angel Halo Recognition Recipient: Linda Sarner Sharing just one of our many heartwarming Guardian Angel stories received in 2010 . . . Lynn Lecher lovingly nominated her mom, Janet Woller. In Lynn’s words . . . “My Mom, Janet, is my Guardian Angel. Since I found out about my colon cancer in July of 2007, my mother has been my traveling companion, my driver, and my caregiver. She has driven me to every appointment, surgery and treatment. In June of 2009, my Mom and Dad retired and moved to be closer to me and help me out. It was then that we found out my Dad, Ray, also has colon cancer. Now Mom is taking care of him too. Dad and I were both receiving chemo treatments but on opposite weeks so Mom drove every Monday to the clinic and sat with us and took us back on Wednesday to be disconnected. It’s difficult to be a care giver to one person not to mention two. She gives all her strength to us. In my eyes, my Mom is an Angel.” We extend our deepest THANKS to each and one of our remarkable volunteer Angel messengers who prepare and deliver these “right from the heart” gifts of gratitude and appreciation to and for our recipients. If you know of someone who cares without limits and gives without reservation, someone whose turn it is to be lifted up, please contact us through the information listed at the end of this newsletter. “Your Angel Wings are Made of Love”

What do we live for, if it is not to make life less difficult for each other? George Eliot

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A special thank you from two of our Guardian Angels ~ To the Angels of Angel On My Shoulder… “On May 27 a very pleasant “Angel” volunteer, Pat Barnhouse, arrived on our doorstep with a most special gift box, filled with an assortment of lovely gifts.

Ron Vorpahl’s younger students took time from their Taekwondo class to have their picture taken as Ron presented a check to Angel Volunteers Chuck and Darlis Wilfer for Angel on My Shoulder. Ron is the owner of the American Taekwondo studio in Hartford, WI. He is also the main instructor. He not only teaches boys and girls of all ages the art of defense but instills in them the importance of kindness, compassion and generosity. Ron is truly one of our Angels on earth.

Angels are everywhere – even at the Mardi Grai parade in New Orleans. It is truly a small world. These particular Angels live in Georgia and were at a Mardi Grai celebration with their parents. AOMS volunteers, Chuck and Darlis Wilfer, were there too “catching” beads. They told this family about AOMS and our camps and that the beads would be given to our campers to enjoy. The boys (left), Michael, Sean and Jack Gooding, enthusiastically joined in to “catch” beads for the kids. Upon returning to Georgia, their mom packed up the 70 pounds of designated “camper” beads and sent them on to us. It is truly a “small, small” world that has many Angels with “big, big” hearts.

We spent more than 30 minutes with Pat, sharing stories of love and survival and shedding a few tears as well. That was OK – it all goes with this situation called “living with cancer”. We cannot begin to tell you how touched we were that someone would want to “gift” us just for doing what any parent would do and that is to support a child in crisis. In this case, we love and support our daughter, Bethany Ames, in every way that we are able. If you’ve ever had any questions about whether this work you are doing is a worthwhile effort, put those questions to rest and be assured that this gift brings a feeling of love and warmth to all who receive it. That certainly was how it was welcomed by us. We have also expressed our thanks to our friend, Connie and Mike Hammack, who submitted our names for consideration. Connie is also a cancer survivor, finishing up her current chemo treatments and looking forward to a long and happy life. Thank you again to Angel On My Shoulder and to the individual volunteers who were directly involved with our gift box. Please let us “pay it forward” by offering a donation to help give a gift to another family in crisis. Thank you again for your thoughtfulness”. Don and Ruth Zerfas

Dancing for Angel Bryan and Melissa Camp made their wedding reception extra meaningful through a generous donation to AOMS in lieu of favors. They also graciously designated their dollar dance as “Dancing for Angel” with AOMS being the recipient of the monies collected. Melissa commented that they were thrilled to make donations to an amazing charity that had touched the lives of someone they loved.

Bryan and Melissa Camp proudly gathered with Bryan’s parents and brothers. Back row: Alexander, Eric & Brad Camp; Front row: Walter, Melissa, Bryan and Kim Camp

Bryan’s mom, Kim is a breast cancer survivor and was a Healing Angels participant.

If a friend is in trouble, don’t annoy him by asking him if there’s anything you can do. Think of something appropriate and do it. – E. W. Howe

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Uplifting Angels

Messages (some in part) received following our 2010 fall and spring Uplifting Angels “little purple bag” visits…

Uplifting Angels was introduced in 1995 as Angel On My Shoulder’s very first program.

Dear Angel On My Shoulder: Please accept our sincere thanks for your kind donation. Hospital days are often long and may at times be somewhat scary. The Child Life staff helps infants, young children, teens and entire families by providing therapeutic activities and interventions to assist in coping with a health care experience. Your gift helped us to do that important work while brightening the day for children and families.

Very meaningful “thinking of you” Angel packages are delivered to over 80 hospitals and oncology clinics throughout the state of Wisconsin and received by approximately 5,400 cancer patients (young and old alike). Our above and beyond volunteer Uplifting Angels Director, Mary Long, thoughtfully plans, prepares and coordinates these uplifting visits and packages which carry messages of hope, healing and support. They are specially created to brighten the day of those living with cancer. Uplifting Angel’s volunteer, Scott Defebaugh, diligently assists with the preparation and delivery of our now famous and oh so familiar “little purple bags.”

Thank you for caring enough about these things to let your actions speak through your donation of gift bags to the patients at Children’s Hospital of Wisconsin-Main Campus. We are truly grateful for your generosity and thoughtfulness to help us provide the best possible care to the kids in our communities.

A special “right from the heart” acknowledgement to the Uplifting Angel volunteers who help with our “Angel” deliveries–a genuine and greatly appreciated labor of love.

Thank you for putting a smile on so many faces. We appreciate your support in so many ways. Eileen Clark Family Services Manage Children’s Hospital of Wisconsin Dear Mary, (Angel On My Shoulder) “Just wanted you to know that the patients love their pillows and as always they enjoy getting the Angel pin. Thanks for all you do to put a little light in the lives of cancer patients”. Linda Sarner, MSW Oncology Social Worker Wheaton Franciscan HealthcareElmbrook Memorial Center for Cancer Care Dear Mary, (Angel On My Shoulder) “Thanks for the wonderful gifts. The patients truly appreciate and enjoy them. We can’t tell you how much it means. Thanks for your kindness and caring”. Carol Paul

Uplifting

Angels

Aurora Advanced Healthcare Oncology Glendale, WI Dear Angel On My Shoulder – THANKS, “I visited my Green Bay oncology doctor today and was handed the little purple bag with goodies. I especially loved the little Angel pin and already have that on my hat. Thanks so much for caring and for the little Angel… it did brighten my day”. Chuck Dear Angel On My Shoulder: On behalf of the child life staff at Saint Joseph’s Children’s Hospital, I would like to thank you for the generous donations of blankets, handmade gift bags, and teddy bears. The kids ALL love them and we will continue to hand them out as new patients are admitted. Thank you so much again.

Too often we underestimate the power of a touch, a smile, a kind word, a listening ear, an honest compliment, or the smallest act of caring, all of which have the potential to turn a life around. - Leo Buscagli

Maggie Goldbach Saint Joseph’s Children’s Hospital Marshfield, WI A very “warm” acknowledgement and recognition from all of us at Angel On My Shoulder to our “quilt” ladies at Pioneer Lake Lutheran Church in Conover, WI. Since 1999 these wonderful “angels” have been making baby quilts for our Uplifting visits to pediatrics. Our last batch received brought it to a total of 405. We gratefully salute each and every one involved.

Angel Volunteer Tom Schuller

I volunteer for AOMS to help support others in our community, and to honor the memory and courage of family members and friends affected by cancer. It has been an honor to be a part of the Healing Angels and Uplifting Angels programs. The participants and volunteer’s are a constant source of inspiration and strength. I enjoy sharing my sense of humor to lift other’s spirits!

I get by with a little help from my friends. John Lennon

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Angel On My Shoulder Uplifting Angels visits were made to the following Oncology Treatment Centers in 2010 Ashland Cancer Clinic, Ashland Aspirus, Rhinelander Aspirus Wausau Hospital, Wausau Aurora Medical – Vince Lombardi Cancer Clinic, Kenosha Aurora/St. Luke’s Medical – GYN Oncology Services, Milwaukee Aurora Women’s Pavilion, West Allis Children’s Hospital of Milwaukee, Milwaukee Columbia/St. Mary’s – Constance Walker Oncology Center, Milwaukee Columbia/St. Mary’s – North Point Clinic, Milwaukee Columbia/St. Mary’s – Oncology Inpatient, Milwaukee Columbia/St. Mary’s – Ozaukee Medical Oncology, Milwaukee Columbia/St. Mary’s – Ozaukee Inpatient, Milwaukee Columbia/St. Mary’s – Ozaukee Radiation Clinic, Milwaukee Community Memorial Cancer Care, Menomonee Falls Elmbrook Hospital, Brookfield Fox Valley Hematology & Oncology, Appleton Fox Valley Hematology & Oncology, Oshkosh Fox Valley Hematology & Oncology – St. Elizabeth Hospital, Appleton Franciscan Skemp Health Care, LaCrosse Froedert Memorial Hospital – Hemotology, Milwaukee Froedert Memorial Hospital – Inpatient, Milwaukee Froedert Memorial Hospital – Radiation, Milwaukee Green Bay Oncology – Door County, Sturgeon Bay Green Bay Oncology – Oconto Falls, Oconto Falls Green Bay Oncology – St. Mary’s Hospital, Green Bay Green Bay Oncology – St. Vincent’s Hospital, Green Bay Gunderson Lutheran Medical Center, LaCrosse Holy Family Memorial Cancer Care, Manitowoc Marshfield Clinic Cancer Care, Marshfield Marshfield Clinic Cancer Care, Weston Center Martha Siekman Cancer Center, Appleton Medical Consultants, Milwaukee Meriter Hospital, Madison Michael D. Wachtel Cancer Center, Oshkosh Oconomowoc Memorial Hospital, Oconomowoc Oncology Alliance – Burlington Clinic, Burlington Oncology Alliance – Columbia Hospital, Milwaukee Oncology Alliance – East Clinic, Glendale Oncology Alliance – Franklin Clinic, Franklin Oncology Alliance – Kenosha Clinic, Kenosha Oncology Alliance – Mequon Clinic, Mequon

Oncology Alliance - North Clinic – Medical Oncology, Milwaukee Oncology Alliance - North Clinic – Radiation Oncology, Milwaukee Oncology Alliance – Racine Clinic, Racine Oncology Alliance – Rawson Clinic, Franklin Oncology Alliance – St. Luke’s Clinic, Milwaukee Oncology Alliance, Waukesha Reiman Cancer Care Clinic, Franklin Riverview Hospital, Wisconsin Rapids St. Agnes Hospital, Fond du Lac St. Claire Hospital, Baraboo St. Elizabeth’s, Appleton St. Francis Hospital, Milwaukee St. Joseph’s Community Hospital, West Bend St. Joseph’s Hospital – Oncology, Marshfield St. Joseph’s Hospital – Pediatric Unit, Marshfield St. Joseph’s Hospital – Radiation, Marshfield St. Joseph’s Hospital – Sherman Cancer Clinic, Milwaukee St. Luke’s Medical Center – Inpatient, Milwaukee St. Luke’s Medical Center – Radiation, Milwaukee St. Luke’s Medical Center - Vince Lombardi Clinic, Milwaukee St. Luke’s South Shore – Vince Lombardi Cancer Clinic, Milwaukee St. Mary’s Hospital, Rhinelander St. Vincent Hospital, Green Bay St. Vincent Hospital – Door County, Sturgeon Bay St. Vincent Hospital – Pediatric Unit, Green Bay Sinai Samaritan Medical Center, Milwaukee Sinai Samaritan Medical Center – Vince Lombardi Clinic, Milwaukee Turville Bay Radiation Oncology, Madison UW Cancer Center, Johnson Creek UW-Children’s Hospital, Madison UW Medical Foundation, Madison UW Paul P. Carbone Comprehensive Cancer Center, Madison VA Veterans Hospital – Milwaukee Vince Lombardi Cancer Clinic – Aurora Bay Care, Green Bay Vince Lombardi Cancer Clinic, Two Rivers Waukesha Memorial Hospital, Waukesha West Allis Memorial Hospital, Milwaukee Wheaton Franciscan Cancer Care, Franklin Wheaton Franciscan All Saints Cancer Care, Racine

Get the latest information about Angel On My Shoulder & our programs,

www.angelonmyshoulder.org

Pastor Bill Trosien

I volunteer as an AOMS board member because it is a way to bring support to those affected by cancer. Being involved in our Camps and Uplifting Angels visits are such tremendous opportunities. I see the real purpose of Angel in actionsharing and caring with those in need. Being a part of AOMS is such a blessing and gift and I am grateful to be a part of it.

Yesterday’s the past and tomorrow’s the future. Today is a gift - which is why they call it the present. - Bill Keane

You have just received overwhelming news. As with any other unexpected bad news, it is normal to find yourself in a state of shock. Feeling shocked is a normal reaction to being told you have cancer or that the cancer has come back. You have just received overwhelming news. Don’t expect to be operating at full capacity. Don’t be surprised if you have difficulty thinking clearly. Not being able to think clearly is part of being in shock. You are not going crazy. Your ability to think clearly will return. Your mind is simply trying to cope with overwhelming news. This is not your fault. When people receive a cancer diagnosis, they often feel that they are to blame. It is normal to try to figure out why you got cancer. For the majority of people who develop cancer, however, there is no clear reason. It is not because of something you did or did not do. Don’t try to do everything. Whether it’s taking your children to sports activities or thinking clearly at a meeting at work, you just may not be up to it. Try not to be too hard on yourself about the limitations cancer has imposed on you. Pace yourself. You likely won’t have the same energy level you had prior to cancer. Don’t try to push yourself to do everything you used to be able to do. You may need to complete a task, and then take a rest. Many people being treated for cancer find that they need a daily nap. Try to accept that uncertainty is now a part of your life. Uncertainty and unpredictability are a part of life when you have cancer. This can be more difficult to weather than the cancer itself. As hard as this can be, trying to fight this will just lead to more stress. Never forget that you are important and that you are more than a disease to be treated. You are a unique person and you deserve to get the care that meets your needs, not just the care that treats your disease. Dr. Gail Gazelle

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Scholarship Program Brings Expanded Dynamics to Angel by Lois Rogacki Angel On My Shoulder was founded on the basic belief, that children and family members are affected by cancer within the family, as much the person who has cancer. With that in mind, Angel initially created programs that targeted children and families affected by cancer with camps, hospital visits, support for caregivers and support for cancer survivors.

Dear Angel On My Shoulder: It is truly an honor and a blessing to receive this scholarship. I appreciate your support. I plan to stay in touch and keep all of you at Angel On My Shoulder in my prayers. God Bless, Parker

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SCHOLARSHIP

In 2008, however the Angel Board began to examine how best to expand its mission to more fully achieve its goals. As a result of these decisions, the Angel On My Shoulder Scholarship Program was established. In its first year the Scholarship program awarded five (5) $1000.00 Scholarships. The response was overwhelming. In the next two (2) years, the number of scholarships was increased to four (4) $1500.00 scholarships and nineteen (19) $1000.00 scholarships. To date, $55,000.00 has been awarded to 51 students to further their education. While still in its formative stages, the Angel On My Shoulder Scholarship program has proven both successful and popular. Each year, we receive appproximately 400 applications for the 24 scholarships available. We believe the scholarship program may prove to be among our most long lasting and tangible efforts. Financial access to a college education in families, who are often hard hit economically by cancer, offers a ray of light to those directly impacted by cancer. Nothing is more rewarding than to see, hear and feel the appreciation expressed by the scholarship recipients and their families when the awards are announced. We are pleased to announce the 2010 Angel On My Shoulder Scholarship Winners… $1,500.00 Scholarships Carol Lewis, Alma Area Schools • Karrah Watson, Parker HS • Parker Wolf, Sheboygan North HS Sarah Zillmer, Northland Pines HS

Dear Angel On My Shoulder: Thank you for choosing me to receive one of your scholarships. My family and I greatly appreciate it. It will be a tremendous help to me with my education. Chantel (pictured with her brother)

$1,000.00 Scholarships Kristen Beck, Ladysmith HS Matthew Christoff, Luxemburg-Casco HS Brooke Ericson, Coleman HS Gary Grinnell, Darlington HS Chantel Kornas, Oshkosh North HS Jessica Link, Cambria-Friesland HS Rebecca Lohagen, Three Lakes HS Brittany Misna, Tomah HS Angela Pappas, Appleton East HS Danielle Pazurek, Lincoln HS Hillary Pechacek, River Falls HS Elizabeth Rand, Belmont HS Jamie Restock, Germantown HS Aubrey Roberts, Kimberly HS Jacob Schreiner, Medford Area SH Grant Scray, West De Pere HS Erin Steffen, De Pere HS Jason Tutkowski, Menomonee Falls HS Plamenko Vasic, Wauwatosa East HS A very special THANK YOU to our Angel Scholarship Program Committee (pictured above): AOMS Board Members Lois Rogacki, Nancy Schuller, Karen Siegmeier. In 2011, we will again be offering scholarships. Check out our website: angelonmyshoulder.org for information and application forms for our 2011 Scholarship. Deadline is March 31, 2011.

See every difficulty as a challenge, a stepping stone, and never be defeated by anything or anyone. ~ Eileen Caddy

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Cancer Myth: Drug companies and the Food and Drug Administration (FDA) are blocking or withholding new cancer treatments. Truth: Your doctor and the FDA, which must approve new drugs before they can be marketed, are your allies. As such, they make your safety a high priority. Unfortunately, scientific studies to determine the safety and effectiveness of new cancer treatments take time. That may create the appearance or lead to reports that effective new treatments are being blocked.

K.C. and Shelly Swan of the Swinging Door Exchange, Milwaukee, graciously hosted their holiday party with all raffle proceeds benefiting Angel On My Shoulder. Thank you to those two special Angels for their generous donation!

If you still believe a cure is being purposefully withheld, ask yourself why a doctor would choose to specialize in cancer research. Oftentimes doctors go into cancer research because they have a family member or friend affected by the disease. They’re just as interested in finding a cure as anyone else, for exactly the same reason — it affects them personally. They hate to see a loved one in pain and don’t wish to lose this person. They also want to spare others what they have gone through. - Mayo Clinic

A presentation was made in August to Bob Wenzel and Bill Hinckley, officers of the Wisconsin Antique Power Tractor Reunion Club at their annual meeting. The club, consisting of approximately 200 tractor owners, became aware of Angel On My Shoulder through an angel basket presented to a club members wife. Following the presentation, AOMS was honored to receive a monetary contribution from the club. The above picture shows the tractor club helping out a local farmer who was unable to continue his plowing due to health issues. These good deeds of neighbors helping neighbors are an annual tradition. What a spectaular sight to see! It is a touching experience when tractor lovers young and old pull together for one another.

If you want to forget all your other troubles, wear too tight shoes. ~The Houghton Line, November 1965

Angel Volunteer Sue Ingham Being a cancer survivor myself, I like helping out with an organization that helps out all of the people who are affected by cancer, not just the patient themselves. It is also a fun organization to be involved with as all the volunteers are great to work with and a good time is always had at all of the events.

The Second Annual Judy’s Ride was a huge success. There were over 98 riders. All the money raised was once again sent to Angel On My Shoulder. Judy commented,”We are very excited that we are able to raise the money for such a great cause. Thank you again for your help during my chemo, and cancer process. As a side note I just wanted to let you know that as of Sept. 15, 2010 I received my one year free and clear. I am including a picture of me and my cancer fairy (Dan). We will have the 3rd annual ride next summer. We will keep you all posted on the date.”

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Donating Stock Sometimes, when we look at all we have, we look for ways to pay it forward. We can help ourselves in several ways by donating appreciated stocks or funds to our favorite charities and help avoid paying capital gains taxes as long as we have held the investment for more than a year. We can also receive a tax deduction for the value of the investment donated (see your tax advisor) to the charity. Angel On My Shoulder received generous stock donations from a couple in Milwaukee. Their gifts of stock motivated us to established an account to accept securities from donors who wish to take advantage of the tax benefits and support our mission. To donate stock, instruct your broker to transfer your stock or mutual fund (some funds may not be eligible) to Angel On My Shoulder through our broker, Raymond James Financial Services. DTC Clearing #0725. FBO: Angel On My Shoulder; Account #22141120. If you need additional information please contact Bob Boschke, RJFS, Financial Advisor, at River Valley Investment Services, an independent firm. Phone 715-358-3434 or email, Robert.boschke@raymondjames.com. Donating stock to charity is a smart approach to philanthropy. Stock gifts have several advantages over cash. When you give stock that has grown in value since you bought it, no capital gains tax is paid. This allows you to give more to the charity at less cost to yourself. Plus, you can take a tax deduction for the larger amount of the donation. Securities offered through Raymond James Financial Services, Inc. Member FINRA/SIPC, and are: • Not deposits • Not insured by FDIC or any other governmental agency • Not guaranteed by the financial institution • Subject to risk, may lose value.

How To Be An Angel

We are frequently asked for ways to help us help those living with or affected by cancer. Angel On My Shoulder operates solely on a volunteer basis. To request a volunteer application form we invite you to write, e-mail, call us toll free or obtain one by visiting our website. Angel’s contact information is listed at the end of this newsletter. Whether it is “hands on”, financially, and especially prayers for those in need, your support is greatly appreciated. We can always use an extra pair of “wings” and it is a wonderful way to give from the heart. We have compiled the following list of suggested ways of how you too can be an “angel”:

Angel Care / Healing Angels Retreats and support for caregivers and survivors. Create awareness of these wonderful support retreats.

Angel Wings Special requests for support by those living with cancer. Create awareness by informing others of this very special program. Contribute Items for “thinking of you” baskets (i.e. relaxation cd’s, unscented hand/ body cream) See Wish List.

Camp Angel/Camp Teen Angel/ Angel Adventures Camp Angel (ages 8-12)

fishing-summer & winter, water craft, boat ridespontoon & speed boat) • Entertainment/ demonstrations (all types considered, i.e.: music, educational)

Guardian Angel A program which honors and recognizes exemplary cancer caregivers for their tireless efforts. • Deliver and present gift baskets to recipients on behalf of AOMS • Provide items for gift baskets (i.e. relaxation cd’s, gift certificates, lotions) • Offer services: (i.e. manicures, hair styling, massage)

Uplifting Angels Visits made to hospitals/oncology units throughout the state to those affected by cancer to offer support and encouragement. • Transport gifts to hospitals

Fundraisers

including but not limited to:

• Angel Golf Spectacular, St. Germain • The Angel Ball, “An Evening for Angel” • Polar Plunge, St. Germain • Cruzin for a Cause • Love, Hugs & Prayers Frisbee Golf Tournament • Cathy’s Ice Cream Social, June, St. Germain

Camp Teen Angel (ages 13-15)

A Gift of Remembrance

Angel Adventures (ages 16-18)

A gift of remembrance to Angel On My Shoulder in recognition of a loved one is a heartwarming and wonderful way to help make a difference to those living with or affected by cancer. This loving gesture of “giving back” in their honor or memory is truly a beautiful tribute to their life.

One-of-a-kind camps designed to address the needs of young people affected by cancer through loved ones (parent, sibling or grandparent) or who have experienced the recent loss of a loved one through cancer. • Counselors (age 18 or over) • Volunteers/varied duties (set-up, assist campers, bus chaperones, etc.) • Activities (assist campers; provide activity (i.e. snowmobile rides, dog sleds, sleigh rides,

Their names will be listed in our annual newsletter and you will receive a very heartfelt card of appreciation. We can also provide acknowledge ments of your kind and generous gift to family members of loved ones who are honored or remembered.

Get up-to-the-minute information about Angel On My Shoulder, our Events and Programs, and download application forms, camp checklists and more from our website:

www.angelonmyshoulder.org The difference between the impossible and the possible lies in a person’s determination. Tommy Lasorda, baseball manager

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Corporate Giving Programs/ Dress Down Days

Opportunity to Sponsor a Camper

Angel On My Shoulder gratefully acknowledges the many corporations that support employees who are involved in charities. Corporate giving programs, contributions from designated Dress Down Days, and special donations to support our programs are warmly received and greatly appreciated.

Sponsoring a camp experience for a child or teen affected by cancer through a loved one (parent, sibling or grandparent) is a wonderful gesture of love and caring. Camp Angel (ages 8-12) Camp Teen Angel (ages 13-15) and Angel Adventures (16-18) provide young people the opportunity to be with others like themselves in an atmosphere of love and support knowing that their pain is understood. These camps are costly even though they are cost-free to the campers. Our goal is to give as many kids as possible a chance to be part of these fun-filled and inspiring weekend retreats designed to meet their unique challenges. If you are able to sponsor a camper, we (and the young people it benefits) would greatly appreciate your support.

Please let us know if your company has a matching gifts program, or a charitable foun dation. Grant/giving guidelines available through your place of business can be forwarded to us using the contact information listed at the end of this newsletter.

Return to Sender Angel On My Shoulder must pay for return postage on all forwarded or non-forwardable mail. Notify us of any change in address or if you wish to be removed from our mailing list.

Angel Presentations We are pleased to give presentations to schools, businesses, organizations and service clubs to provide information and answer questions which will give you a clearer picture of our foundation, its services and programs. We can also offer you suggestions on how you can help us, help others. Our “angel” presenters look forward to receiving invitations that allow us to create awareness of the programs and services of Angel On My Shoulder.

The approximate costs per camper are: Camp Angel $350; Camp Teen $550; Angel Adventures $650. Whatever amount (big or small) will truly “make a positive difference”!!

Angel Wish List We are always looking for items to fill our gift baskets and supplies for our programs. Some of the items that would be useful and appreciated include:

3 Relaxation CDs 3 Phone Cards 3 Gas Cards 3 Gift Cards starting at $10 3 Postage Stamps 3 Static Stickers 3 Neon Necklaces / Bracelets 3 Hand & Foot Warmers 3 Shredded Basket Filler (not

shiny) yellow and/or purple

3 Beverage Coasters 3 Trinket Boxes

Charitable Project

We request that all items be new.

Stamp drives through groups, schools, or organizations are wonderful ways to help Angel On My Shoulder reach out to those living with or affected by cancer.

Stampers & Crafters

Individual stamps or rolls of stamps are always needed and gratefully accepted. A “breast cancer” stamp drive can make your project even more meaningful.

In Loving Memory…

Put your talents to work for a cause. Create handmade greeting cards which Angel On My Shoulder can include in our gift baskets or offer for sale at our silent auctions. Individual cards and envelopes, or packs of 6, would be useful. Cards should be blank or generic in sentiment so the user can choose.

At her request, the family of Barbara Kieffer asked that any tributes to her be sent in her name to Angel On My Shoulder and the Lupus Foundation. Barb passed away from cancer in September and very generous donations to Angel On My Shoulder were made in her name.

Think how many people you could please with your talents.

Barb was the sister-in-law of AOMS board member Kathy Mathie. She is survived by her husband Ken, four children, two sons-in-law, and three grandchildren.

Study after study has pointed to the cancer-beating power of exercise. Research from Norway has found that even a tiny dose of exercise has big benefits. A study of 29,110 men published last year in the International Journal of Cancer shows that men who exercised just once a week had a 30 percent lower risk of metastatic prostate cancer than did men who didn’t work out at all. Increasing the frequency, duration, and intensity of the exercise correlated with a further, gradual reduction in risk.

She was a loving person and always interested in the work of AOMS. Since her illness prevented her from hands-on work with us, she honored us with her bequest.

SEALED IN HOPE. For the Breast Cancer Awareness semipostal, the U.S. Postal Service used the artwork of illustrator, designer and educator Whitney Sherman. The price of the self-adhesive, non-denominated semipostal stamp is 55 cents. As a semipostal, it is valid for postage at the First-Class first-ounce letter rate in effect at the time of purchase. As of September 2010, sales of Breast Cancer Research stamps have raised $71.1 million for research since July 1998.

To reach (our goal), we must sail sometimes with the wind and sometimes against it. But we must sail and not drift, not lie at anchor. - Oliver Wendell Holmes Sr.

Invest a little sweat equity

PAGE 10 - Angel On My Shoulder 2011 Newsletter Angel Wings “thinking of you” baskets filled with an array of meaningful and inspirational items are specially prepared and delivered by our caring volunteer Angel messengers. It is our hope to bring messages of peace and gently lift the spirits of those living with cancer in a comforting and positive way. Here is a heartwarming message we received (in part)…

Angel Wings

Dear Lolly, (Angel On My Shoulder) I want to let you know about the basket you prepared for me to deliver and present to Bob. It is still bringing up so much conversation. His mother proudly displays the angels from the basket in her living room. Everyone she knows has heard about your kindness and what it meant to her. She accepted the basket for Bob and went through it with him. As she settled one of the angels on his chest and as she was telling him all about it he took his last breath. She said that he was finally comfortable in leaving her behind knowing then that she would be OK and that she was surrounded by people who cared. I can’t say enough about how much Angel On My Shoulder does for everyone it touches. Kind regards, Christine (volunteer AOMS messenger)

The purpose of Angel Wing’s is to provide individuals experiencing these hardships with broader opportunities to receive help through different avenues of support without duplicating the services available through other foundations and organizations.

Rick Murillo I started doing volunteer work for Angel On My Shoulder because I felt as a person I have been fortunate and benefited from the help of others. Through my mom I was introduced to the organization, and I found out that giving rather than taking can be much more rewarding. I started with helping at the auctions but in recent years I became a counselor for Angel On My Shoulder’s Camp Teen Angel; and I can honestly say I’ve never done something that has had such a positive effect on my life and hopefully I’ve made a positive impact on others as well.

The mission of Angel Wings is to address the needs of those living with or affected by cancer as a whole. We become keenly aware of the great personal hardship so many experience through our close alignment with the cancer-affected community. There are extremely difficult circumstances brought on by the cancer crisis where no apparent relief or remedy may exist.

Although we compassionately understand the need and would like nothing better, we are not structured or able to provide direct financial assistance (i.e. payment of bills, insurance, rents, mortgages, auto or house repairs, etc.). Angel On My Shoulder created Angel Wings with the hope of alleviating the stress brought on by the cancer crisis in unique and purposeful ways. Please contact us by the information provided at the end of this newsletter, if you or someone you know would benefit from the tender touch of our Angel Wings. We consider each and every one of them. Independent verification of underlying circumstances, resources, merit, etc. is established for each request.

Sharing a few heartwarming Angel Wings messages with you… Dear Angel On My Shoulder: How can the words thank you be enough when your heart is so full – thank you for your granting my request for a laptop. What an amazing giftknowing that with cancer in my spine, I can now sit somewhere comfortable without pain and be able to keep in touch with the world. May God Bless You All…Claudia and Scott

suit for him. He was very emotional when he told me how his mother had always seen to it that he was dressed nice and now he couldn’t even afford a suit for her funeral. Like you say, Heaven sends helping hands and caring hearts when we need them most. Angel On My Shoulder helped a hurting heart. God Bless, Mark and Janet Michael

Dear Angel on My Shoulder: We had a great time at the horse competitions and I am so happy that we could go thanks to Angel On My Shoulder. I got to see a horse that we used to own compete in the Kettle Moraine Rough Riders Drill. The jumping competition was fabulous. I’ll probably never be able to see anything like it again in my lifetime. I was extremely tired when we got home but it was well worth every bit of it. My husband and I thank you again for what you did for us. Carol Dear Lolly, (Angel On My Shoulder) These past few years have been really hard on Mark. With him battling CML and his mother having a blood condition that turned into AML. We are so financially stressed, making weekly, biweekly trips to Madison for transfusions for Mark and the doctor and hospital trips weekly for his mother. There was no way we could afford a

Dear Angel On My Shoulder: Recently, we received generous support from you. My son, Michael relapsed in April with ALL Leukemia. He was first diagnosed back in April of 2002 and he was in remission for five years. He is now 11 years old and receiving high dose chemo. He has had very intense therapy, it has compromised his respiratory system, which makes it very difficult for him to sleep comfortably at night. He has been sleeping on the couch because that way he can prop himself up. As his Mom, I felt he deserved better than that. Thanks

“Courage doesn’t always roar. Sometimes courage is the quiet voice at the end of the day saying, ‘I will try again tomorrow.’ “ - Mary Anne Radmacher

Angel On My Shoulder 2011 Newsletter - PAGE 11 to you and your support we were able to purchase him a Sleep Number bed. Yesterday was his first night in his new bed – and guess what-he slept thought the night for the first time in four months. This would not have been possible without your help. I want you to know that we are truly blessed by your compassion and generosity. Thank you from the bottom of our hearts. Michael’s Family More Angel Wings To alleviate long distant challenges getting to and from oncology treatments and appointments, Angel Wings has provided greatly needed gas gift cards throughout the year. Lolly and Angel On My Shoulder, Thank you so much for the generous gas gift card. Lord knows… we’re burning lots of rubber. :O) I just want to encourage you in your mission. You’re definitely a light and a blessing to so many. Mitch, Jolene, Dylan, Derek, Faith and Drew

Rochelle’s Story Hi, my name is Rochelle S. Shavers, I am sixty-four years old, and I have Chronic Lymphocytic Leukemia, (CLL). I always had a “cold” growing up, and I was constantly sick as an adult with colds and bronchitis, etc. My Doctors kept writing prescriptions for medicines that had little or no effects. I wondered, why I am always sick. I changed doctors and nothing else seemed to change. In 2005, I found a lump on the right side of my neck. I had a terrible cold with bronchitis. My doctor prescribed anti-biotics and told me if the lump was still there in three months to come back for more tests. The anti-biotic did not work; I was back in her office in one month telling her the lump on my neck was still there. She then ordered a blood test and called me that night to tell me to The Hinkens Family come to her office the next day. I was in her office the next day, somewhat alarmed. I thought maybe there was something they could do to boost my immune system. She told me I had cancer. A controllable form of the disease. Much like having diabetes, that I could go for years without any signs of the disease.

Our husband and wife AOMS volunteer couple (above), Todd and Abbey Wright “spread their wings”, bringing a caring Angel Wings basket along with a little ray of sunlight to six year old Jaxson Hinkens who is battling neuroblastoma.

We have been volunteering for Angel on My Shoulder for the past 7 years. Both of our families have been affected by cancer and we feel that Angel on My Shoulder provides us with a great opportunity to help bring hope and comfort to others affected by this disease. Whether delivering angel gifts to hospitals, visiting with families, or helping with camps, we feel a bond through this organization. Abbey & Todd Wright

Jaxson’s mom writes… It was heartwarming to see Jaxson play with the hot wheels. I was very impressed with your messengers and AOMS. It is wonderful what they do… another pair of Angels here on Earth. Thank you. Mary

She sent me to an Oncologist who did a number of tests. I read everything I could find about my disease. Six months later, my white counts were soaring over 130, and I needed treatment. I decided to look into clinical studies because they are the cutting edge of medical research and my best chance for survival. I found a study located in Houston, Texas at M.D. Anderson Cancer Clinic, University of Texas, one of the leading centers for cancer research. I made an appointment and my husband and I flew to Houston. That day was a whirlwind of activities in waiting rooms, blood tests, and a bone marrow biopsy. I was very frightened by the time I met my doctor. It turned out, the person I made this appointment with made a terrible mistake setting it up a month late for the clinical study, I started to cry and the doctor very kindly said, “if you would like to get into another one of my Clinical Trials, I have room for you”. I accepted this offer. It turned out this doctor, Dr William G. Wierda is one of the world’s leading doctors researching Chronic Lymphocytic Leukemia. In November 2007, Dr. Wierda enrolled me in an ongoing CFAR Clinical Trial. I received Chemotherapy for the first week of a six week Protocol at M.D. Anderson Cancer Clinic in Houston, Texas. I came back to Milwaukee to finish the remaining five weeks of the Protocol with my local Oncologist, Dr. Scott Maul. I had a very bad time with the Chemo. I had every negative side effect listed with each

drug and was very ill. At the end of the protocol, I was in the hospital five weeks with pneumonia. Rochelle continued These treatments resulted in a two-year remission. Other patients in this study were in much longer remissions, but my leukemia is very aggressive. Last March I was in for a routine blood test and my cancer was back. I spent this summer receiving more chemotherapy, which resulted in Hemolytic Anemia. My husband and I went back to Texas to consult with a bone marrow transplant doctor, but they have been unable to find a donor partly because I have an unusual gene map. Currently, I am sort of in a mini remission. I do not know how long this will last, but I have not given up hope. There is a clinical trial on the horizon with a drug called ISF35 that highlights cancer cells making them easier targets for chemotherapy. Phase II of this study has not started recruiting patients yet and I am keeping my fingers crossed hoping to be selected to participate in this very promising clinical trial. What I want to tell everyone is you must be your own advocate. Do not entirely depend on friends, family, or doctors, you must depend on yourself. Educate yourself about your disease and options for treatment. It is not like the times when doctors read a few medical journals to keep up with new information. There is so much new research on-going. Today, we have the Internet with new information posted daily on a worldwide basis. Thank you, Angel On My Shoulder for being here in my time of need. Thank you, Lolly Rose for all the heart felt work you are doing making life better for us. Using the laptop you provided me, we found a website called giveforward. com, that has allowed my friends and family to make donations that have paid for my COBRA premiums until I am eligible for Medicare next summer, so I no longer have to work and can focus on my health needs. The laptop has enabled me to do more research into my disease as well as keep in contact with friends and family that did not know I was ill. My grandchildren enjoy showing me how to use the computer, and have given us new ways to spend quality time together. Even on days when I do not feel well, I can go on line and find friends and family to lift my spirits. Finally, I would like to thank my husband Max who has been at my side every step of the way. Again, Thank You, Angel On My Shoulder and Lolly Rose. Rochelle S. Shavers

Most of the important things in the world have been accomplished by people who have kept on trying when there seemed to be no hope at all. - Dale Carnegie

PAGE 12 - Angel On My Shoulder 2011 Newsletter The Fourteenth Annual Angel Golf Spectacular was a creative and “wet” venture and then some. Over 150 golfers were registered and enthusiastically prepared for a day on the beautiful St. Germain golf course, the largest and fastest 18-Hole course in the Northwoods of Wisconsin. And then the rains came down – a first time “no golf, golf tournament” in the fourteen years of our “Spectacular” – oh my!!!! THANKS and KUDOS to each and every one (sponsors, golfers, participants, volunteers, ALL of you)!!!! We are overwhelmed with appreciation to announce that our hopes and

& Jenny Minado, along with Jo Daniels, and their wonderful Bear’s Den staff for hosting the incredible Party with the Pack. The award winning Wolf Pack Café in St. Germain was the setting for another Packer opportunity available for the golfers. Golf foursomes (or individual golfers) were offered a chance to bid on “Breakfast With A Packer”. Compliments of owners, Joe and Kathy Lass, teams (or individual golfers) submitting the highest bid were able to share a true Wolf Pack experience with our Packer celebrities. A big thank you to Joe and Kathy for making

Angel On My Shoulder Golf Spectacular spirits were not “dampened” with remarkable support maintained to benefit the programs and services of Angel On My Shoulder. A huge round of applause goes to everyone for hanging in there with us and for us to support those living with or affected by cancer. We are grateful “Angels” and we wholeheartedly acknowledge and give each of you a welldeserved standing ovation.!!

“Our Packers” made quick work of Bears fan Joe Minado in a friendly bit of silliness.

It was our extreme honor and privilege to dedicate, with eternal gratitude, the 2010 Angel Golf Spectacular to the memory of a true American Hero, SGT. Ryan C. Adams – “Angel’s Angel”!!

As at all of our “Spectaculars”, many outstanding offerings were set and ready to enhance the golf experience including a putting contest along with other interesting on-course “incentives” for our golfers at designated golf holes ($10,000 in cash and a 2010 vehicle among them). Wonderful “Angel” Mulligan Prizes perked interest among the golfers who took on the rain challenge, purchasing mulligans to support our efforts- the show DID go on!!

Together we moved forward with our Cocktail & Hors d’oeuvre Reception and an Awards Ceremony, Dinner and Silent Auction. The evening culminated with Angel’s signature Live Auction. We were pleased and proud to welcome three former Packer greats, Gilbert Brown, William Henderson and Dorsey Levens, as our very special celebrity guests. The golfers were provided the unique opportunity of having an autographed team picture taken with these football heroes.

Breakfast with the Pack at the Wolf Pack Café in St. Germain.

this unique offering an annual and very special occasion.

The night preceding the Spectacular (Angel’s pre-season event), our Angel Golf Spectacular Ice Breaker, “Party With The Pack”, was held at the Black Bear Lodge in St. Germain. Participants mingled with our Packer legends who graciously signed pictures and other sports memorabilia that was available on site. The evening included a buffet-style steak dinner and an exclusive silent auction. As always, we salute our chief “angel chef”, Ron Rose of LeRoy Meats of Horicon for once again providing the steaks+ and for his amazing service and extreme generosity. A heartfelt acknowledgement to Diane Misina, owner of the Black Bear Lodge, Managers, Joe

Auctioneer Jim Miller with Vincent Bunny.

Our “Spectacular” auctioneer, Jim Miller, received a very warm welcome. Jim specializes in auction fundraising for 501(c)(3)non-profit organizations. He has worked with organizations of all sizes, helping raise millions of dollars during his over 10 years as “auction entertainer” while at the same time adding humor and fun to the setting. He is a true crowd pleaser and certainly brings our live auction to life. Mark Menzel, an amazing man of genuine caring, was named our Angel On My Shoulder 2010 Honoree. He is Branch Manager, Waukesha-Chicago Division of Crossmark and

I’ve developed a new philosophy... I only dread one day at a time. - Charles Schultz

Angel On My Shoulder 2011 Newsletter - PAGE 13 Experience and Two Premiere corporate Tickets to Superbowl XLV at the NEW Jerry Ones Dallas Stadium. Our “Spectacular” Bruce Krier was the highest bidder for “Vincent Bunny”, graciously donating this special Bunny back to raise more monies for next year’s live auction. He is a five time highest bidder of Vincent – a tremendous THANK YOU to Bruce for this meaningful gesture of giving.

Mark Menzel received the 2010 Honoree award from board member Bruce Krier.

recruits, coordinates and brings multiple golf teams to participate in our event each year. And in an added spirit of giving - he graciously provides special treat bags on the golf carts for our golfer’s pleasure. Mark’s generous support of Angel and the other worthy causes he champions brings honor to him not only professionally but also personally. It is a fine tribute to him and demonstrates the high esteem in which he is held. The world needs more people in the world like Mark Menzel. Angel On My Shoulder is blessed to have this kind and special Angel among us. Unique raffle opportunities were a big hit which included the Treasure Chest (containing $1,000 in coins), the Rose Raffle, a precious jewelry piece; the card raffle and our newest raffle opportunity – the Harley Raffle (the awesome 2010 Harley was showcased on site). The room was engulfed with silent auction tables showcasing many enticing gift baskets and bid item opportunities. The selection included: Eagle River Roasters/AOMS Coffees/Teas; a unique dream catcher (feathers, beads and all); a set of wildlife “loon family” pictures; Pheasant Hunt Package; gift card extravaganza; Amelia Island Getaway; “This is It”- Michael Jackson Fan Package; Kids Movie Basket; Toy Story Gift Package; Basket of Beauty Items; Hope Purse; Griller’s Delight; “House on the Rock” package; Private Vineyard & Winery Tour & Tasting; Autographed Green Bay Packer Football; Madison Concourse Getaway, Black & Chocolate Labrador picture . . . the list seemed endless.

Two of the 2010 Angel $1500 Scholarship winners so graciously joined us for our banquet and were introduced during our evening program. Through the generous support of those who attended our 2009 golf auction, AOMS was able to award four $1500 scholarships and nineteen $1000 scholarships to outstanding high school seniors throughout the State of Wisconsin based on qualifications and need.

AOMS board members Bruce Krier, Molly Ahlborn and Lolly Rose

Sincerely and yet again, from our hearts to yours - a tremendous THANK YOU to each and every one of you (Sponsors, Golfers, Participants, Volunteers, Coordinators, Donators and the list goes on). We deeply appreciate YOU for your unwavering support, incredible commitment and hard work to benefit those living with or affected by cancer. You are unequivocally the “best of the best”!! The Board of Directors of Angel On My Shoulder enthusiastically invites YOU to participate in our 15th Annual Angel Golf Spectacular at the beautiful St. Germain Golf Club in St. Germain, Wisconsin. Those in the cancer affected community need you to be there for them and so do we!! Please mark June 10, 2011 on your calendars!! See you there!!!! Please contact Angel On My Shoulder at 800-860-3431, e-mail us at info@angelonmyshoulder.org or fax us at 715-542-4500 if you are interested in sponsoring a team, golfing, or would like to attend the auctions and award banquet. Donations are tax-deductible. More details are available on our website at www.angelonmyshoulder.org as well as registration forms to download.

Chuck Wilfer, Sr. I volunteer because it makes me feel good.

Great excitement filled the room created by our signature “angel” live auction. Included in this intriguing array of “priceless” items were: The Ultimate Disney Family Vacation in Orlando, Florida package; an Overnight Spa Escape at the beautiful Sundara Spa in the Wisconsin Dells; a Heritage Hunt Club Pheasant Hunt Package, a Sunset Yacht cruise; Lady GaGa Concert Tickets; and Ultimate Derby

Jalane and Peter Adams received a snow globe in remembrance of their son SGT. Ryan C. Adams.

AOMS baord member Andy Phillips with two of our scholarship winners.

It’s not easy taking my problems one at a time when they refuse to get in line. ~Ashleigh Brilliant

PAGE 14 - Angel On My Shoulder 2011 Newsletter Girl Scout Slogan: Do a good turn daily. Various girl scout/brownie troops have been so very caring by naming AOMS as a project to help others. We have received cookies from girl scout cookie sales, craft kits and tie-dyed bandanas for our campers made and prepared by the troop members. Northern Lakes Service Area Girl Scouts also collected and presented us with much needed and greatly appreciated AOMS wish list items. Dale Peterson of Lost Lake Custom Rods in St. Germain, WI presented a generous check to AOMS board member Lois Rogacki for our AOMS Healing Angels program for cancer survivors. Cheri Anderson, left, of Sisters Saloon in St. Germain raised the money through a raffle of a pink graphite spinning rod with matching reel made and donated by Dale.

Dan Beihoff of Eagle River Roasters enjoying a cup of Angel On My Shoulder Uplifting coffee with AOMS Board Members Pastor Bill Trosien and Nancy Schuller.

Angel On My Shoulder coffees and teas

Olivia Sullivan (center) donated 200 boxes of Girl Scout cookies for our Camp Angel and Camp Teen campers to enjoy. Olivia is pictured with AOMS board member Nancy Schuller and Troop Leader Marcellla Sullivan. (Troop #7129/Sugar Camp Daisies and Brownies.)

Help support Angel On My Shoulder and enjoy a great cup of coffee or tea. Eagle River Roasters has generously provided a line of special Angel Coffees and Teas, with profits going to us. What a warm and tasty way to support our work. They also make great Holiday and Hostess Gifts!! There is a link to Eagle River Roasters website from the Angel website or go to http://www. eagleriverroasters.com

Girl Scouts from Troop 4245 Badgerland Council helped Roberta Smith make greeting cards for AOMS and also provided postage stamps. Brent Swan is their leader. The girls had a great time and asked to do it again.

AOMS board member Lois Rogacki, was presented with beautiful and fun tie-dyed bandanas made and donated for our campers by the St. Germain Junior Girl Scout Troop, Land O’ Lakes Brownie Girl Scout Troop and Eagle River Junior/Cadette Girl Scout Troop.

Bob and Nannette Kallas present a very generous “caring and sharing check” to AOMS board member, Karen Siegmeier, from “Bob’s Battle with Cancer” benefits created to help with Bob’s medical bills and to raise brain tumor awareness. Nannette’s words (in part)… ”Bob doesn’t feel right about receiving all of the funds for himself. After reviewing your website and after we attended and received information at your Angel Care retreat for cancer caregivers, we would like to share the funds with AOMS to help others and create awareness of your cancer support foundation”.

“I love a parade”… An AOMS banner topped off the “Princess Calla” float in the Eagle River, WI Fourth of July parade. “Princess Calla” Norsman was the reigning “star” with her Grandpa, Joe Hanson, as the driver. Calla’s parents, Shawna and Brent Norsman, accompanied the float and handed out AOMS bookmarks to the spectators lining the streets.

When we are no longer able to change a situation, we are challenged to change ourselves. ~ Viktor Frankl

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Healing Angels

Special messages from Healing Angel’s Participants:

The beautiful Wilderness Resort and Conference Center in Wisconsin Dells in conjunction with the intriguing Sundara Spa truly provides the perfect setting to provide an environment of love, camaraderie, hope, understanding and educational opportunities for cancer survivors. “Celebrate Life” is the theme of our dynamic Healing Angels retreats. They are custom designed to create a sense of community for those who have courageously weathered the cancer experience.

“I am grateful for this opportunity to have been in an environment that was so relaxing, yet educational. I enjoyed being with other “warriors”. This weekend I was able to hear and learn. I do feel that this wonderful retreat has been a great benefit to me. I felt more relaxed than I had been in eight months. I am so thankful to Angel On My Shoulder and your generous donors”. Thank you. Bonnie

These Healing Angels are given the heart connecting opportunity to come together and share the ultimate victory of surviving. Alongside the fears and struggles associated with battling cancer, the joy of surviving exists. These retreats are available to those now in the recovery timeframe who have completed their oncology treatments (i.e. chemotherapy and/or radiation), procedures and/or surgeries and are at the gateway of physical and emotional healing. We are privileged to have long time AOMS board members, Karen Siegmeier and Nancy Schuller serve as our Healing Angels Coordinators/Directors/Hosts. Veteran Angel friend, Tom Schuller, and two other AOMS members, Bill Trosien and Bruce Krier are also on the Healing Angels host/facilitating team. Bill and Bruce are both members of the founding board of AOMS and we proudly acknowledge their unending commitment and dedication to our mission. Our spring retreat brings us Healing Angels aluminus participant, Karen Kelley, as guest presenter. Karen returns to share her “healing” story each spring to offer tips to our survivors in a very meaningful and special way. The Healing Angels fall retreat is blessed with the presence of yet another gifted facilitator, cancer survivor, Kitty Sookochoff. Our Healing Angels’ are honored to have the up close and personal opportunity to witness Kitty’s inspirational story as she shares her insight, knowledge and wisdom on moving forward with the post cancer healing experience. A new addition to our team of presenters was introduced and very well-received at our Fall 2010 Healing Angels retreat. Lisa Lammert, RD (Registered Dietician) of Mayo Clinic in Rochester, Minnesota, provided information and answered questions on healthy living after cancer. We give Lisa an A+ and then some as we look forward to her return for future Healing Angels retreats. Our Healing Angels team simply wouldn’t be complete without the presence of Angel’s very own Yoga Guru Extraordinaire, Vicki Potrykus, RCY. Vicki generously offers healing and peace-filled Yoga sessions (“I AM Happier and Healthier)-Movement for joyful living) to our survivors at both of our retreats. Spring Healing Angels

Fall Healing Angels

Special acknowledgement and a huge thanks to Dodie Felger, who so graciously served at our 2010 Fall retreat as Yoga Instructor while Vicki was away with her loved ones celebrating the birth of her second grandchild, Matthew. He joins his brother, Ethan, as the newest member of the Potrykus family. A big Angel congratulations to all… Our Healing Angels are also treated to extremely well-deserved mini spa sessions which are also available to our survivors as part of the awesome Healing Angels retreat weekend.

Life’s challenges are not supposed to paralyze you, they’re supposed to help you discover who you are. - Bernice Johnson Reagon

“Thank you for this wonderful weekend. We are not alone. We are survivors!!!! Lovely, gracious and caring leadership”. Sheila “This was a great opportunity to interact and share with others about our cancers. In my situation, I don’t talk about my circumstances with anyone and when I do they are very uncomfortable with the subject”. Thank you. Kenneth “The time we spent here was a weekend we will never forget. Healing Angels gave us time to forget about treatments and tests. I wish your organization could get the information out to those people I saw every week that would appreciate the same experiences we had this weekend. THANK YOU ALL for this “Special Weekend”!! Steve “The retreat was so much more than I could have imagined. When I left on Sunday, I felt so filled with hope and gratitude for being able to be a part of this group. I do believe I made new friends. I always felt that I was given cancer for a reason.-it opened so many opportunities and connected me with so many other amazing people that I would not otherwise have met. I get teary eyed when I think of the Angel On My Shoulder organization and what you have given me this past weekend. The sharing and connection I felt was surreal. Thank you again for what you have given me”. Patricia

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The philosophy of Camp Angel/Camp Teen Angel/Angel Adventures is

to help young people realize: • It’s okay to smile, laugh and have fun even though a loved one is hurting. • It’s okay to be sad, angry and frustrated about what they are going through due to a loved one’s illness. • They are not alone, others are experiencing similar feelings.

Through the co-partnership of Angel On My Shoulder and Marshfield Clinic we are pleased to offer two unique cancer support camps. Camp Angel for ages 8-12 and Camp Teen Angel for ages 13-15 were designed to address the needs of young people affected by cancer through loved ones (parent, sibling or grandparent) or who have recently experienced the loss of a loved one through cancer. Two outstanding campsites located in the beautiful northwoods of Wisconsin are the settings for Camp Angel and Camp Teen Angel. Our camps are offered cost-free to the campers. These special weekend retreats are wellsupervised and provide the campers an opportunity to meet others like themselves, create special friendships and participate in a variety of fun-filled activities. Our camps are safe and joyful places for our campers to share a heartwarming spirit of bonding and camaraderie. Camp Angel for ages 8-12 is offered twice a year: the second weekend of July and the third weekend in January. Camp Teen Angel for teens ages 13-15 is held once a year in late July and offers a four day camping experience. Camp Angel campers may attend two sessions of Camp Angel. Based on their age, they may also be eligible to attend the summer session of Camp Teen as well. Our transportation to and from camp is provided on coach buses from designated pick-up points throughout the state. Parents/Guardians are responsible for transporting their child(ren) to and from the established bus stop locations.

The Marshfield Clinic system provides patient care, research and education with 52 locations in northern, central and western Wisconsin, making it one of the largest comprehensive medical systems in the United States. www.marshfieldclinic.org

Our camps are truly blessed to have a fantastic team of counselors and staff who generously volunteer their time and talents to make a positive difference to our campers. They enthusiastically tell us how rewarding it is to witness these young people come rushing up with bright smiles even though they are experiencing (or have experienced) extremely difficult times. Our Camp Angel/Camp Teen staff members just can’t help but be touched. If you know of a child or children who could benefit from the loving care and support of

Camp Angel/Camp Teen Angel, or for further information, please visit our easy-to-navigate website, complete with photos of past camps, downloadable registration forms and camp checklists or call us toll free at (800) 8603431. We invite you to contact us via e-mail at info@angelonmyshoulder.org

While we try to teach our children all about life, Our children teach us what life is all about. - Angela Schwindt

Angel On My Shoulder 2011 Newsletter - PAGE 17 Lolly and Angel Crew,

Our well-received first Angel Adventures Camp was held in February 2010. Ten 16 to 18-year-olds attended camp, and we had a blast. We went cross country skiing, tubing, played broom ball, took a horse-drawn sleigh ride. Like Camp Angel and Camp Teen Angel, Angel Adventures hopes to address the needs of healthy young people in a family affected by cancer. This camp mixes fun, physical activities with sharing session chats that will allow the campers to share their experiences and feelings and learn empowerment skills. Our 2011 session will be held Febuary 1821. Enrollment will be limited to 12 campers. Campers, who are experiencing cancer through a loved one, must be attending high school. Coach bus transportation to and from camp will be provided from designated pickup points throughout the state. Campers preferring to drive must surrender their keys to chaperones upon arrival at camp. Campers will arrive Friday evening. Saturday and Sunday will be filled with activities and Campers will begin their trip home Monday morning. This camp is scheduled to coincide with a Monday holiday. For more information, check out our website: angelonmyshoulder.org; phone 800-860-3431; email: info@angelonmyshoulder.org

The greatest exercise of the human heart is when we bend over to pick someone else up. - Margaret Chase Smith

Thank you so much for having Derek as a part of the Camp Angel. He had to overcome and break free of many fears to go. We were so proud of him. With being the second child and having a sick brother he really needed that special time to focus on and just be accepted. Every time we spoke I could hear the excitement in his voice. We were all so happy for him. Blessings on your mission. The Myers Family Dear Lolly and Angels, Thank you for investing the energy and resources to make Camp Angel a memorable event for Lauren. She was beaming when she returned home. Thank you for all the little extras too. May God continue to bless you in ALL you do! The Holtermans

I spent the last couple hours with Liz hearing about how great Angel Adventures was; Joan is still with her listening to the related teenage drama. This is the happiest I have seen Liz in the past few weeks. She told me that she learned some new coping skills that we are going to talk about tomorrow. Liz said that the staff was excellent. Thanks again for everything. Ron

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Winter Camp Angel Camp Teen Angel

Both the July and October Camp Teen Angel sessions, as well as the January Camp Angel session, are held at: Camp Manito-Wish YMCA P.O. Box 246 Boulder Junction, WI 54512-0246 Phone: 715-385-2312 Fax: 715-385-2461 www.manito-wish.org From U.S. Hwy. 51 north of Woodruff, take Cty Hwy M to Boulder Junction. In Boulder Junction County M will come to a “T” intersection without a stop sign. Turn left and follow Hwy. M through the main strip of Boulder Junction. At the end of the strip there is a 3-way intersection; veer left to join Hwy. K. Proceed on Hwy. K about 3/4 mile and continue past the large Musky painting on the propane tank on the right. The next right will be the back entrance to Camp Manitowish YMCA. (There is a wooden sign.)

Summer Camp Angel Angel Adventures Angel Adventures and July Camp Angel camping sessions are held at

History of Our Camps. In 1995, I founded Angel On My Shoulder in memory of my late husband, Dick, who fought a courageous battle with cancer. My hope was that it would become an emotional backbone for the cancer-affected community. After forming a Board of Directors, of individuals from throughout the state of Wisconsin, who had been affected by cancer, it was time to determine the best ways of helping to improve the quality of life of those living with or affected by cancer. I began meeting with various individuals in health organizations to explore possibilities for offering comfort and support. During a discussion with a hospice social worker, the suggestion of a cancer related camp for kids came to light. I was truly inspired and remembered all too well how Dick’s cancer journey had affected our own grandchildren. My hope was to create an environment of love, support, and understanding for young people, who many times, unavoidably, become sideline kids. To the best of my knowledge, there was not a camp that addressed their needs. I presented the concept to the Angel On My Shoulder board members who overwhelmingly supported implementing this program. Shortly thereafter, a meeting took place with Marshfield Clinic to explore their interest in partnering with Angel On My Shoulder to create Camp Angel. The Clinic was extremely receptive, and saw this as an opportunity to help care for the entire family, not just treat the disease

Marshfield Clinic would provide input to the camp’s design, funding, and help recruit a majority of the children who would eventually attend camp. In July of 1997, Camp Angel, a one-of-a-kind support camp for young people experiencing cancer through a loved one became a reality and changed my life forever. Angel On My Shoulder and Marshfield Clinic created a family of care, directly from the heart. As Camp Angel continued to grow, we decided to improve and expand the program to ensure the best experience possible for these very special young people. In January 2001, Angel On My Shoulder and Marshfield Clinic proudly introduced Camp Teen Angel for teens, ages 13-15. Camp Teen Angel, a wing of Camp Angel, is designed to meet the needs of young teens. It has become a source of strength and camaraderie for this unique age group. In 2009, in an effort to reach out to more young people, we developed Angel Adventures Camp for 16 to 18-year-old high school students. With the generous financial support of Serve You Custom Prescription Management, Inc., our first Angel Adventures Camp became a reality. Our goal is to provide each age group with the opportunity to have fun, share experiences, and perhaps gain some insight and coping skills, while bonding with other people in situations similar to their own.

Camp Luther 1889 Koubenic Road Three Lakes, WI 54562 Phone: (877) 264-CAMP or (715) 546-3647 Fax: (715) 546-2396 Email: info@campluther.com Camp Luther is located approximately 2 miles north of Three Lakes, WI off Hwy 45 on Cy Williams Road.

We can’t help everyone, but everyone can help someone. Dr. Loretta Scott

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Ahoy Maties… It has become a unique and favorite tradition of our

Camp Angel and Camp Teen campers to experience a one of a kind pirate ship voyage down a breathtaking Chain of Lakes. These incredible journeys are made possible through the caring and giving spirit of the Strauss Family of Pirates Hideaway in Eagle River, WI.

On their intriguing Pirate Ship, Captain Steve with “Quartermaster” Steve-O at the helm provide an unimaginable experience to become a “Pirate” for a day on their awesome Pirate Ship. Our campers return home with many exciting stories to share of this magical adventure. Our campers are extremely grateful to Captain Steve and Steve-O for this opportunity and so are we! THANK YOU Strauss Family!!!!!! Shiver Me Timbers. ARRH!!!!

Angel On My Shoulder Wins NAILBA Grant Earlier this fall, Angel On My Shoulder was awarded a grant from The NAILBA Charitable Foundation. NAILBA is the philanthropic arm of the National Association of Independent Life Brokerages. The organization provides grant funds to organizations in the United States with great purpose which serve to enhance the quality of life for those less fortunate, with special emphasis on children. The grant proposal was written by Michelle Bansemer, Marketing & Product Development Specialist at Serve You Custom Prescription Management. Michelle works with Sharon Murillo, President of Serve You, who sits on our Board of Directors. The grant will help subsidize the costs associated with the Angel Adventures Camp scheduled for Friday, February 18 – Monday, February 21, 2011. The camp focuses on teens ages 16-18. Thank you Michelle and Sharon for helping Angel On My Shoulder win this grant.

Photo courtesy of Vilas County News - Review

The July 2010 Camp Team Crew of Pirates with Captain Steve, Camp Teen Director Kathy Mathie, Angel Volunteer Connie Falk, Executive Director Lolly Rose, Quartermaster Steve-O.

“Sister Act”… Janis Stoffel (left) and Jackie Sickler, volunteer Camp Angel Bus Chaperones with the campers they safely escort back and forth to the campsite. “I volunteer for AOMS because it gives me a heartwarming opportunity to be with these children and see them getting to know each other and having fun”. Janis Stoffel, Camp Angel Bus Chaperone. “I love to do what I can to help with Angel On My Shoulder. Just seeing the children laugh and smile for a weekend at camp, forgetting all of their troubles and making new friends with children in the same situation makes it all worthwhile”. Jackie Sickler, Camp Angel Bus Chaperone.

Sometimes your only available transportation is a leap of faith. - Margaret Shepherd

Our Camp Angel Camper and Staff sweatshirts were proudly worn and dedicated in loving memory of Sgt. Ryan Adams. As a special tribute to Ryan, our campers and bus chaperones proudly displayed their meaningful “Patch of Honor and Remembrance” shirts.

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Nikki Herr

What motivates me to volunteer for AOMS is that I get to help kids, feel like kids. Starting as a Camper with the very first Camp Angel it was helpful to know that there were other kids going through the same thing and that I wasn’t alone. AOMS helps me to remember and honor my mother who is looking down on me from heaven.

Rachel Brooks

I was in a Fundraising for Nonprofits course this year, and we each had to pick an organization. The presentations were to help us practice asking for donations and knowing how to present information on our organizations. We all pretended we were representing a foundation and had $500,000 to distribute any way we chose. I selected Angel On My Shoulder to raise money for the Angel Camps. I discussed the mission, goals and objectives, and the programs of the organization. I asked my class for $20,000 to sponsor kids for the camps for a year, but after we all distributed our donations; I actually raised $350,000 for the camps. If only this money were real and could actually be used for the camps. I have always felt strongly about Angel On My Shoulder and am very happy to see that with a short presentation I could get other people to care about this organization as well. I have volunteered as a life guard for Camp Angel for three years and will continue doing it. I love seeing the joy those kids get from being at the camp. I enjoy helping people and making a difference in their lives.

Valerie’s Story… “We’re not going,” five of our children came to me at once and nearly shouted their intention. Twelve-year-old Micala was crying. “I can’t go,” she complained. “My friend is having a sleep over.” “Not going,” Ten-year old Shammond confirmed. He didn’t elaborate but I wasn’t surprised. Shammond had difficulty sharing his feelings but did not find it difficult telling me what he would and would not do. Ten-year-old Joshua did not have a different stance, but it seemed as if his position was fueled entirely by the rest of the group. Nine-year-old Korrina was the loudest; “I’m not going to know anyone there and I’m not going to have any fun,” she protested. “I’m not going either,” she repeated. Seven-year old Kayla had joined the mutiny of the crowd but at least she had tried to make it to Angel Camp. She had gotten her suitcase out of the basement and had the supply list in her hand. I could not help hearing them. Five foster children now adopted in our family and I’m the mom with Acute Lymphoblastic Leukemia, laying in a make-shift bed in the living room because I’m too weak to climb stairs to my bedroom. Foster kids have already lost a birth mother and birth father. They were all facing the loss of me, a.k.a.: mom too. I was home from the hospital after being away for months at the big city treatment center and now I was asking them to leave with a bedroll. You have got to be kidding. I began to rethink this myself. We live on Washington Island in Wisconsin, with a small clinic and rescue squad but no oncology unit nor blood products available. For more than two months, my treatment since diagnosis on November 10 had been in Green Bay at the big hospital, more than 100 miles away from my family. Finally, I was home some weekends and returned to the hospital for weekly overnights and chemo. At St. Vincent’s Hospital, the child life specialists had kept me busy making scrapbooks and writing love letters to our children. She also suggested Camp Angel and provided brochures and literature if I was interested. When I was strong enough to make contact with Lolly Rose through e-mail, I did. She sent a package of registration forms and thankfully, a self addressed stamped (I had no way to get to the post office) envelope for return. The registration forms were too lengthy for me in my condition and the many I needed for our number of children so the child life specialist helped me fill in the blanks. We worked on the registration forms several days in a row until completed and ready for the mail. When I adopted our children, the adoption trainer had said that one of the most important pieces I could give to our children was permission and support through grief and a family system healthy enough to accept personal journies with no two alike. As a United Methodist pastor, I was acquainted with grief and know that grief is work. I was committed to noticing and supporting the grief work of our children and family, as well as my own through the cancer journey. But, was Camp Angel the place to be? I had lots of questions. For example; were the counselors heavy handed with needs of their own like a wicked witch of the west who might appear with a bony-like finger pointing in the child’s face spurting words like; “I hear your mother is dying of cancer,” as if investigating a crime, or something totally wrong without waiting for the child to speak first. How would the subject of parent with cancer be approached? Did the staff and volunteers at Angel Camp know when to stop with expectations, experienced enough to realize

they could not take away the child’s fear or sadness but at best, sit with the child through a portion of the trauma. I did not know what to expect but even my years in camp ministry through the United Methodist Church had taught me that training for all counselors working with children is crucial. An over zealous and immature guide can be threatening to a vulnerable child even when meaning well. Finally, I decided to take the risk. I had shoveled all the books, pamphlets, pictures, notes and words, hugs and conversations with our children that me, the child life specialist, friends and family could muster. What the kids needed now was to be with other kids in situations similar to theirs. Of course, this could be traumatic too; what if my child came away with a sense that “the whole world is dying,” instead of just my mom. Being dressed in hospital pajamas, laying in a hospital bed with I.V. drip bags, pills and pokes of chemo was teaching me a lot of about trust and team work. My motto became Angel Camp or bust. But, I was not prepared for their unison outburst of “no.” Fortunately, by this time, I had come to far to back down. I enlisted the help of the school counselor and the clinic nurse. The clinic nurse put on a program for the K-12 Washington Island School student body about leukemia. Our children were learning about the disease and their peer community were joining in learning so they could share the same language and not feel so different. The school counselor did wonders. She talked with each of our children, separately and as a family group. The night before leaving for camp, they got off the bus and came inside the house to pack. Lolly Rose and volunteers made our way easy by providing transportation from the ferry dock at Northport to Green Bay. The trip would not have been possible for me. The idea of being picked up by bus was part of the excitement that became a selling point of the adventure for the kids. When packing, they found many of the items they needed were not present in our home so I provided them with a blank, signed check so that they could buy personal care products at a Walmart shop enroute to the big bus pick-up in Green Bay. Big mistake. I expected toothpaste and gum. They maxed my account with a check over one hundred dollars and came away with large size bottles of Axe, Alberto Vo5 and an assortment

Sometimes when we are generous in small, barely detectable ways it can change someone’s life forever. - Margaret Cho

Angel On My Shoulder 2011 Newsletter - PAGE 21 of personal care products that sizzled me, then had me laughing upon their return. Call the blank check “chemo brain.” Chalk it up as my contribution to create a pampering treat. The dear couple who transported our children treated them right and even included sight seeing and stops at points of interest in Door County that I had never visited.

Serve You Helps Grant Angel Wings Request

A huge, unexpected bonus of Camp Angel for our family was the personal at home time that my husband Joe and I had together and with our teen age son Steven. We had no idea that we had so much to talk about with each other and Steve. Camp Angel for the younger children was wonderful respite for us, a bonus I had not considered until the house got quiet and they were gone. When the camp completed, we were waiting at the Fleet Farm parking lot in Green Bay. I was so excited that I called the cell phone number that had been provided to us several times to keep track of the position of the bus and estimated arrival time. Then, when the bus pulled into the parking lot all the kids started spilling out and down the steps with smiles on their faces, beaming with super sweat shirts saying “Camp Angel” on the front and trinkets, stories, gifts, hugs for joy. Our reunion was all the better when In the first five minutes off the bus, I heard “I’m going back next year,” from each child. I could feel their hugs more sure and strong than before camp when they may have considered me fragile or their fear and insecurity with my health kept them holding back. In that Fleet Farm parking lot I felt like a normal healthy family again and cancer seemed to evaporate for me as I received each one and saw their happy faces. I don’t know all that happened at the camp and not all the children told me a lot but some how -- maybe in the swift snowmobile rides, maybe in the face of the others, maybe in the pack of counselors and those like-me campers, I don’t know how or when it happened but I think my kids were able to look at little deeper into the face of loss and feel a little stronger that they were coming through. My kids getting off that bus had gotten a little closer to opening the door on their fears. They are Angel Campers and not alone!

Milwaukee, WI – Employees of Serve You Custom Prescription Management recently teamed up to grant an Angel Wings request. Serve You specializes in managing prescription drug benefits. The company, comprised of more than 45 employees, has adopted Angel On My Shoulder as its corporate charity. Several years ago, Serve You established a Giving Tree as part of its holiday tradition. Each ornament on the Giving Tree featured an item that employees could purchase for donation to various AOMS programs. This year Serve You decided to focus on efforts on fulfilling an Angel Wings request. When we received a request from the Oncologist Social Worker from Bellin Hospital in Green Bay, we knew we wanted to help brighten the holidays for Lourdes Ramirez-Soto and her family. Ms. Ramirez-Soto was diagnosed in June with Ewing Sarcoma (a rare disease in which cancer cells are found in the bone or soft tissue). She underwent chemotherapy until October, at which time it was determined she needed a double-knee replacement to remove the affected bone. She will remain in chemotherapy for the next 4-6 months and is going through physical therapy to try to regain use of her legs. The Giving Tree was a great success! Serve You employees contributed more than 50 items that included Christmas gifts for Lourdes and her family as well as gift cards to try to help with expenses. The gifts were delivered to Ms. Ramirez-Soto and her family in time for Christmas by Sharon Murillo, President of Serve You. Lourdes was very thankful for the generosity of AOMS and Serve You for making Christmas special for her and her family. In this season of giving, Serve You is proud to support Angel On My Shoulder as its corporate charity. AOMS Board Member Sharon Murillo (left) presented gifts to Lourdes (front) and her family on behalf of of Angel On My Shoulder and Serve You Custom Prescription Management.

Jan and Chuck Olson with campers Kayla, Makayla, Korrina, Shammond and Joshua. AOMS long-time volunteers, Chuck and Jan Olson, responded to our call for “angel” action and transported this family of Camp Angels from Washington Island to our Lamer Bus Line transport point in Green Bay so they could join us for our Camp Angel winter experience. Note: Sadly last spring, Chuck made his heavenly transitionthis caring Angel is greatly missed by all - he was always there to lend a helping hand, touching many hearts and lives along the way.

When one door closes another door opens; but we so often look so long and so regretfully upon the closed door, that we do not see the ones which open for us. - Alexander Graham Bell

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Angel Care Retreats for Cancer Caregivers Angel Care was created with the hope of focusing on the needs of those “above and beyond” caregivers who sacrifice (or have sacrificed) their time and energies to care for those living with cancer. The overall objective of these retreats is to provide these caregivers the opportunity to learn how to take care of themselves while providing the best care and support for family, friends and other loved ones living with cancer. These unique retreats were designed to offer these special individuals an opportunity to come together and learn techniques that enable them to reduce fatigue associated with physical, mental and emotional stress brought on by their extraordinary care giving efforts. Burnout is a serious threat, risk and reality, no matter the reason, whether it may be a duty, obligation or family necessity. For some of these “Guardian Angels” the gift of care giving comes naturally and for others it is a trained profession. Angel Care’s remarkable facilitator is Anita (Nita) Domnitz, R.N., M.S., ND. Nita has designed a safe, non-judgmental and nurturing environment for these self-sacrificing “angels” to share their experiences and focus on relaxation and education. She is there to gently help them gain insights into self-care and healing. The official Home of Angel Care is the Wintergreen Hotel & Conference Center in the Wisconsin Dells. Our cancer caregivers are generously provided the perfect setting to gather by owners, Chuck and Dianne Thompson and Julie and Bob Johnson. Shirley Lewandowski along with the rest of the amazing Wintergreen staff take care of all the needs of “Angel Care”. Their service is always incredible and truly the “best”. Spring Angel Care Group

Fall Angel Care Group

Dear Angel On My Shoulder, Thank you for remembering me for the Angel Care retreat. There were times in those early days of care giving that I felt so alone and that just everything was so out of control and where does one turn. I had worked in the medical field all my life and actually even worked in hospice but nothing had prepared me for my husband getting cancer. Our world changed that day as I have heard so many, many people say after the diagnosis of their loved one. I have certainly taken a more active role in managing our lives and healthcare. But I certainly don’t mind it. I have realized more now than ever that one needs to speak up and make sure every avenue is pursued and that all and any help is so greatly appreciated. But as a caregiver and “The Manager” I have also realized that it is exhausting and mentally challenging to keep it up without some understanding and support. I was so happy to see that the Angel On My Shoulder group exists. I look forward to coming to the Angel Care retreat. Sincerely, Jeanne Dear Lolly, Bless you a thousand times for your wonderful work. What an amazing, loving, healing organization you have created. The enclosed donation is to honor Anita Domnitz for her enormous generosity and her magnanimous, loving beautiful heart. With gratitude, Sara (Angel Care participant) Thank you so very much. I cried a lot… some happy, some sad. Overall I feel very relieved that I’m not alone in this and there are others. Strangers who became friends – we’re all connected somehow which was great. Thanks again. Heidi A lot of healing conversations took place! Discussions on body, mind, spirit and nutrition. All were especially good. It was very relaxing. Nita is a very warm, friendly, intuitive person and it was a pleasure to get to know her. Sue Wonderful experience. Excellent information and fellowship. Nita is very knowledgeable and compassionate. Angel Care is a renewing experience. Thank You. Laura

I have not failed. I’ve just found 10,000 ways that won’t work. - Thomas Edison

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Door #1 #2 or #3??? By Anita Domnitz, RN, MS, ND Take a few minutes and imagine that you are given the choice of being the person you most want to be. Close your eyes if that helps. OK, some ideas are already manifesting as you think and feel how you look, where you live and how you journey through life. How do you feel about your day ~family, friends, home, job, finances, schedule, interests, food, entertainment, yourself, etc.? How do you interact with others ~ or not? Let’s play a little game. I am going to describe three attitudes that can dominate your life. They will be behind doors #1, #2, and #3. Unlike the game show, you get to see what is behind each door and then make your choice. How do YOU want to live? Door #1 “The Victim” We have all experienced this door at one time or another. The victim is a universal archetype. Other names for the victim are: poor me, martyr, rescuer and enabler. This person focuses on their sad state of affairs whether it be physical, mental or emotional. “Yea but...” is often #1s’ response when others offer advice on how a situation could be changed. If you listen to a #1 talk they may use blaming statements like, “I couldn’t...because he...” Someone or something else becomes the responsible party. #1s need to learn that they are responsible for filling themselves up. Many #1s keep score and hold grudges that paralyze them from forgiving others. Some #1s wear dark glasses and are unable to see the beauty in the world around them. Not only do they miss nature, but the beauty in others. #1s are great at the guilt game. “If you really cared about ME you would... Sally’s daughter does...for her.” Door #1 finds it hard to compliment others and is often jealous of the attention given to others. #1s fear there is not enough positive to go around. False! Happiness has no limit! Energetically they are exhausting! In their quest for attention they actually push people away. #1s focus on their unhappy state and therefore manifest more unhappiness. The dominant attitude of door #1 is blame/entitlement/victim. Door #2 “The Procrastinator” This individual dwells in the past. These people surround themselves with stuff that is no longer useful to their lives. Denial and fear and are associated with #2s. They find comfort and security being surrounded by insignificant and significant items; but cannot fully enjoy them because it is difficult to determine which are which! These folks have much difficulty living in the NOW. They are continually saying, “I was going to...but... didn’t get to that...next visit...next year...” They are missing their lives because they are not focused in the present moment. Hoarding, a national epidemic, is a condition associated with #2s. So many people are choosing door #2 that there are now therapists and TV shows dedicated to organizing homes, garages and businesses. Hoarding is not limited to material possessions. Many #2s hang on to hurt feelings,

emotional attachments and physical pains. We are wholistic beings remember! Letting go and forgiveness can release #2s from the bonds of pain. Financial worries find their way behind this door. #2s hang on to everything for fear that they may “need it” or profit from it someday. The dominant attitude of door #2 is loss/resentment/victim. Door #3 “The Inspiration” The person of balance and freedom. #3s find happiness in being alive. They are positive, grateful and humorous. They wear a smile most places they go and readily compliment others. They are generous of spirit and instinctively teach others how to look for the gifts in all situations. They are basically fearless when it comes to sharing their feelings and their material possessions #3s live in the present and are observant of their environment and the beauty of nature. They are engaged in life in a pro-active manner. Their intentions are for the good of all people. Insecurity is not an issue because they know there is enough good to go around. These thoughtful #3s savor life for the magic it shares. They are good at setting boundaries because they know they must take care of themselves first, yet they are not selfish, rather self-preserving. Most #3s have many friends and many interests. They embrace life changes in career, home, health, relationships, and habits with renewed curiosity and adventure. Most importantly, #3s take responsibility for their lives. They realize that they are the creators and not the victims of their lives. The dominant attitude of door #3 is love/joy/gratitude!!! Which do you choose? Two of them see the world as half empty and one sees it as half full. Doors #1 & #2 are fear based, while door #3 is love based. The choice seems obvious~CHOOSE DOOR #3!! All it takes is a positive attitude and the realization that what you put out comes back to you. Success breeds success. It is never too late to change. Change takes a second, resistance takes a lifetime~YOUR lifetime. There are many more doors to choose as you journey through life. As you open them, remember you can also close them and choose another! Two amazing examples of door #3s are Lolly Rose and Sara Sherman, my cousin, mentor and soul sister. Lolly, as we all know, is the founder and visionary who created this beautiful organization, Angel On My Shoulder. Lolly had a dream to help others when family members are dealing with cancer. Her dedication, devotion and love has brought comfort and caring to thousands of cancer patients and their families. Lolly, we are so grateful for you and your dream come true. Sara made it easy to describe door #3 because it was based on her and the way she lives everyday of her life. She is also loved by thousands. Bless you both. I love you with all my heart.

I may not have gone where I intended to go, but I think I have ended up where I intended to be. - Douglas Adams

Anita Domnitz is a psychotherapist, hypnotherapist and naturopathic doctor in private practice in Milwaukee, WI. She also teaches Nia, a dance exercise. Her specialties include personal development, empowerment coaching, nutrition, weight and wellness, and Bach flower remedies. “Nita” is on the Board of Directors of AOMS. The opinions expressed here are her own. She welcomes comments and questions, 414-276-5265.

Tommy Geraty

In my life, I have been completely blessed in many, many ways… with a great family, wonderful friends and a career that I love. Because my parents over-filled my life with love and support, I feel that I have ‘extra’ to spread around. This is the reason I choose to share time, energy and love with those affected by, or lving with cancer. Plus, my favorite Aunt Jo battled cancer and went to be with the angels. She is my guiding force and true motivation. Lolly Rose and Angel on My Shoulder help ME succeed!!!

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Lester Kamarowski Jr. I have been an Angel volunteer for 9 years and do so because I enjoy helping others and believe in all that Angel On My Shoulder does for the cancer community. Every volunteer helps to make Angel On My Shoulder what it is today and I’m very proud to say I am part of that team. I have made some great friendships through Angel that will last a lifetime.

“Thank you so much for your time and energies to present to the West Bend, WI Woman’s Club. Many members mentioned how meaningful it was to be made aware of AOMS and its positive impact. Your enthusiasm is contagious”. Avis, Committee Chairman

Angel On My Shoulder and The Way Outfitters… collaborated to bring happiness and a little ray of sunlight to Caleb, through an exciting and fun-filled fishing excursion on the Mississippi River. Caleb’s compelling story came to our attention through Joyce, his very caring social worker at a UW-Health facility. She shared these words with us in passing forward a message from Caleb’s mom on this special adventure for him. “Hello Lolly and AOMS… I thought you would appreciate the family’s message. You can hear the emotions and feelings in mom, Melody’s words. Regarding my perspective on what I do… I consider it is an honor to work here and to meet and enter into the lives of these very, very special kiddos and their families”. From Melody regarding Caleb’s fishing opportunity: “Thanks so very much, Joyce. This sounds very exciting. It has come at a good time since we are all a bit weary of chemo. We are in month 23 of 40 for Caleb. It’s a long haul and this trip will certainly be a very bright spot in the journey”.

“Thank you for spending an evening with us at the Leukemia & Lymphoma Family Support Group. It was a pleasure to learn more about AOMS. Your passion for the organization and its work is obvious.” Judy and Kristen

You’ve Finish Your Cancer Treatment!

Texting for Angel

What Happens Next? The end of cancer treatment is often a time to rejoice. You are probably relieved to be finished with the demands of treatment and are ready to put the experience behind you. Yet at the same time, you may feel sad and worried. It’s common to be concerned about whether the cancer will come back and what you should do after treatment.

If everyone that is reading this used their cell phones to text AOMS to 85944, it would raise enough money collectively to support ALL our camps for another full year!! Please show your support now… it only takes a minute.

Just scan using a barcode app from your smartphone and sms.

Students of the Three Lakes High School Yesterday-Today Class (above) handmade a beautiful rag quilt and auctioned it off. They split the proceeds between us and one other organization. Very Nice.

Chuck Wilfer Sr. and Crystal Schmitt, our Angel grandfather/granddaughter team, present Bob Knutson of West Bend (center) with one of our specially prepared “Thinking of You” baskets.

Darlis Wilfer

“I volunteer for AOMS because everyone needs someone walking beside them to help ease their pain. I want to be one of those Earth Angels”.

Those who have gone through cancer treatment describe the first few months as a time of change. It’s not so much “getting back to normal” as it is finding out what’s normal for you now. People often say that they look at things differently now. You can also expect things to keep changing as you begin your recovery. Your new “normal” may include making changes in the way you eat, the things you do, and your sources of support. What Does the Future Hold? Whether good or bad, life-changing situations often give people the chance to grow, learn, and appreciate what’s important to them. Many describe their experience as a journey. It’s not necessarily a journey they would have chosen for themselves. But it sometimes presents the opportunity to look at things in a different way.

Things turn out best for the people who make the best of the way things turn out. - Art Linkletter

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Real Benefit Benefit Celebrated on Angel’s Birthday

Held annually, the Real Benefit Benefit is celebrated on February 21st – Angel’s birthday!! It’s the perfect time to reflect on the life of someone who has gone before us, visit a friend or a family member living with cancer, or give a lending hand to a caregiver, thereby really making a positive difference in the world around us. Participants in this event are able to enjoy a quiet evening at home, not listening to the entertainment that won’t be entertaining nor the speeches that won’t be given at Angel On My Shoulder’s Real Benefit Benefit. Since you won’t have to sponsor a table, take the jet out to fly to another gala event, wear black tie or high heels to be bored with stiff-upper lip chit-chat, we ask that you make a donation to Angel On My Shoulder and its programs that greatly benefit those in the cancer-affected community.

Ali Wilkens

I volunteer for AOMS because I love to see the joy the teens get from coming to camp and not having to worry about anything for four days. I benefit from the teens more than I could ever give. Angel On My Shoulder will always be a part of my life. Ali Wilkens, Camp Teen Counselor

You can make on-line donations to Angel On My Shoulder using your Visa, Mastercard, Discover or your Pay-Pal account. We invite you to visit us at www.angelonmyshoulder.org

Cathy’s Twelfth Annual Ice Cream Social MMMM… the universal word for ice cream!!!! Cathy’s Twelfth Annual Ice Cream Social at Cathy’s Ice Cream and Candy Shoppe in St. Germain, WI once again topped the charts with a whopping $1,700 raised to benefit Camp Angel/ Camp Teen Angel/Angel Adventures. Our awesome ice cream royalty, Cathy and Dave Clark, were with us and for us as always to make this sweet event an over the top success. It goes without saying that the best part is it will greatly benefit children experiencing cancer through loved ones.

A big round of applause to all of our amazing volunteers who shared in the excitement of the day and gave of their time and talents to make Cathy’s Twelfth Annual a phenomenal success. Carol Deines Nancy Nagel Connie Dillahunt Dan Scafaro Noah Dillahunt June Vogel Samantha Dillahunt Chuck Wilfer Connie Falk Darlis Wilfer Kari Nagel along with our “scoopers”: Roannah Vogel-Tlusty, Alex Camp and Erin Jacobi.

The games, raffle prizes and 32 flavors of ice cream were a tremendous hit and enjoyed by all. The bounce house (Cathy’s special treat) was a new addition this year bringing extra smiles to all the “bouncers”–truly an uplifting experience. And we couldn’t do it without our best of the best Angel DJ, Dan Scafaro, who provided the musical topping on the ice cream for this fun and delicious festival.

Hats off to the businesses that so graciously and generously provided donations and prizes for our raffles and games. Marlene’s “Fresh Start”/St. Germain Ray’s Landing and Hawk’s Nest Canoe Outfitters

If you’re headed in the wrong direction, God allows U-turns. - Unknown

Cathy and Dave Clark, and all of us at Angel On My Shoulder, enthusiastically invite you to join us for Cathy’s “Thirteenth Annual Ice Cream Social. Please mark your calendars for… SUNDAY, JUNE 12, 2011~ That’s the “scoop” - we’ll see you there!!!!

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American Cancer Society Hope Lodges Offer Lodging, Hope to Cancer Patients Cancer treatment carries an emotional burden. When that treatment is found in a facility in distant city the burden grows, and a financial burden is added. The American Cancer Society is making this difficult situation easier through Hope Lodges – free, temporary housing facilities for cancer patients who are undergoing treatment as well as their caregiver. Bernette Petermeier-Finken is fighting acute myeloid leukemia. Her husband Wif is her caregiver. “We were looking for a place to stay after consolidation chemotherapy for her condition,” Wif said. “When we took a tour of the facility we were in awe.”

Former Green Bay Packer William Henderson posed with the 2010 Harley at our annual Golf Spectacular.

You Could Win…

Staying at the Hope Lodge meant not having to make the 200-mile round trip drive from their home to treatment each day. Hope Lodge guests often acknowledge that the financial benefits are tremendous, but the supportive environment and the relationships made and nurtured by a common purpose provide the greatest benefit to cancer patients. “We have been overwhelmed by the staff and what Hope Lodge offers, including support groups and many activities to meet others and share.” Wif said. “We have made so many friends as we laugh and cry together.”

a 2011 Harley Davidson Street Glide Motorcycle or $15,000 Cash!

There is a Hope Lodge in Marshfield which accommodates more than 1,500 guests each year.

The 2010 Harley Raffel winner was Jane Pastorek. She and her husband Eddie decided to take the $15,000 instead of the Harley. Not a bad deal for one purchased ticket!

Supporting Angel On My Shoulder…

Accommodations and eligibility requirements may vary by location. To find a Hope Lodge and to learn more about a specific facility, call the American Cancer Society at 1-800-227-2345 or visit cancer.org.

Our 2nd annual Harley Raffle is on and you can choose either a 2011 Harley Davidson Street Glide or $15,000 if you win!

What if Angel On My Shoulder earned a penny every time you searched the Internet? Or how about if a percentage of every purchase you made online went to support our cause? Well, now it can!

Good news, Racine Harley Davidson is onboard in 2011 and helping out with a great deal on the motorcycle. Tickets are only $10 each or 6 tickets for $50 and 15 tickets for $100. You can go on-line and get them now at angelharleyraffle.com.

GoodShop.com is a new online shopping mall which donates up to 37 percent of each purchase to your favorite cause! Hundreds of great stores including Amazon, Target, Gap, Best Buy, ebay, Macy’s and Barnes & Noble have teamed up with GoodShop and every time you place an order, you’ll be supporting your favorite cause.

The winner will be drawn at the Angel Golf Spectacular banquet on June 10, 2011.

GoodSearch.com is a new Yahoo-powered search engine that donates half its advertising revenue, about a penny per search, to the charities its users designate. Use it just as you would any search engine, get quality search results from Yahoo, and watch the donations add up!

Just go to www.goodsearch.com and be sure to enter Angel On My Shoulder (charity id: 880669) as the charity you want to support. And, be sure to spread the word! If you share this with 10 other people, Angel On My Shoulder could benefit in a big way for something everyone is already doing. Here’s the link… http://www.goodsearch.com/?charityid=880669

Cancer Myth: Cancer is always painful. Truth: Some cancers never cause pain. For people who do experience cancer pain, especially people with advanced cancer, doctors have become more aware of the need to control such pain and have learned better ways to manage it. Although all pain may not be eliminated, it may be controlled to the point at which it has little impact on your day-to-day living. - Mayo Clinic

Optimists convert stumbling blocks into stepping stones. W. Howard Wight, Jr.

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Cruzin for A Cause by Dennis Herman Cruzin For A Cause was started in the fall of 2007 when my brother thought that a poker run of sort from tavern to tavern would help the establishments with business and also raise money for cancer research. Dave Herman contacted me and asked if I would help him to organize this event, he had already asked Patty Rabl and Tina Samuelsson and several other establishment owners to help out. The final event was held at Lola’s Northern Way in Arbor Vitae and we raised about $3,500 for the Leroy Butler Foundation. We were very happy with the turnout and the outcome of the event but we wanted to do this for a local organization as we had no idea what the money went for, that we had raised and given to the foundation. When we heard about Angel On My Shoulder we knew right then this was the organization that we wanted to donate to. In the fall of 2008 we set up the 2nd Annual Cruzin For A Cause to benefit Angel On My Shoulder. We had a total of 13 bars located in the Arbor Vitae / Woodruff area participate. The final event was held at the Arbor Vitae town hall that was so graciously donated to us by the town. This benefit was run to honor the memory of James Johnson who lost his battle to cancer. We had dinner donated to us by Trigs, a open bar and hundreds of raffle prizes. we finished the night off with live music from Rusty and friends. In total we raised $6,000 for Angel On My Shoulder.

Date With An Angel December 15, 2010 - February 19, 2011 Cruzin for a Cause Saturday, January 8, 2011 - Polar Bear Plunge January 21-23, 2011 - Camp Angel Winter Retreat February 18-21, 2011 - Angel Adventures Camp February 21, 2011 - Real Benefit; AOMS’s Birthday March 12, 2011 - The Angel Ball An Evening for Angel Spring 2011 - Uplifting Angels visits Angel Care Spring Retreat - TBA Healing Angels Spring Retreat - TBA June 10, 2011 - Angel On My Shoulder Golf Spectacular June 12, 2011 - Cathy’s Ice Cream Social July 8-10, 2011 - Camp Angel Summer Session

Our 2008 benefit was better than 2007 but still not good enough. In the fall of 2009 we signed up 25 bars for the ride, from Sayner, St. Germain, Lake Tomahawk, Woodruff and Arbor Vitae. The town of Arbor Vitae again donated the town hall and Trigs supplied us with a outstanding dinner. We had live music and a open bar by donation. We had hundreds of raffle prize from t-shirts to grills and Packer Tickets. This event was in the loving memory of Cheri Sheppard who lost her battle with cancer. We had a wonderful turn out for the event and riders were given 2 months to complete the ride and get all the stamps, which put them in the running for the grand prizes of $1,000, $500, and $250 in cash. we were able to raise $10,500 for Angel On My Shoulder.

July 21-24, 2011 - Camp Teen Angel

Tragedy has struck our little benefit organization. Christine Schaefer died on March 30 2010 from lung cancer. Christine was one of our volunteers for Cruzin For A Cause, so this year the ride and benefit will be in the memory of Christine. We have 25 bars signed up this year and about 20 sponsors, and as always Trigs will be supplying the dinner for all those that attend. We have also lined up a great band this year, we are honored to have Tuscan Road playing at this years event. The ride is running from December 15, 2010 until February 19, 2011 with the final event being held at the Arbor Vitae town hall on February 19, 2011 starting at 5:00 until ? We will again have a first place prize of $1000 and several other cash prizes not to mention flat screen TV’s, the man cave drawing, packer ticket drawings and plenty of raffle prizes. We are trying to raise $15,000 plus for AOMS so come on out and have a night of fun.

Check our website to confirm dates and other events as they become available. Registration forms for most programs are available online. Golf Registrations can be made online this year.

August 14, 2011 - Be An Angel Day Fall 2010 - Uplifting Angels visit Healing Angels Fall Retreat - TBA Angel Care Fall Retreat - TBA January 7, 2012 - Polar Bear Plunge

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The Angel Ball An Evening for Angel

In 2010, AOMS received word that Dr. John Tollack of Ohio passed away and had named our foundation as a beneficiary of his trust in support of our work. Dr. John was an extremely caring “giver”. He was a dear friend and staunch supporter of Angel On My Shoulder. Lolly is proud to share that he was her classmate throughout her school years in West Bend, WI and a highly respected member of her high school graduating class. AOMS and Lolly personally were deeply touched and honored to be named a recipient of this generous trust that will greatly benefit those living with or affected by cancer. John is truly an “Angel” on OUR Shoulder.

Always bear in mind that your own resolution to succeed is more important than any other one thing. - Abraham Lincoln

Saturday, March 12, 2011 Eagle Waters Resort Eagle River, WI Watch our website for more details.

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Lung Cancer 2010 by William Hocking, M.D.

Lung cancer causes approximately 160,000 deaths annually in the United States, more than 1 million deaths globally and is the leading cause of cancer-related mortality. Lung cancer accounts for almost 30% of all cancer deaths, more than the deaths from colorectal, breast, prostate and pancreatic cancers combined. While smoking is the major risk factor for developing lung cancer, about 15% occur in never-smokers. The 5-year survival rate for a person diagnosed with lung cancer is about 15%, and there has been minimal improvement over the last several decades. This compares with 5-year survival of 65% for colon cancer, nearly 90% for breast cancer, and over 95% for prostate cancer—all of which have improved dramatically in recent years. Why are the results with lung cancer so poor? There are a number of factors, beginning with funding. Compared with other common cancers, funding for research in lung cancer lags far behind. In 2009 total federal funding for breast cancer was over $1 billion, for prostate and colon cancers over $300 million but for lung cancer, the number 1 killer, less than $200 million. Other factors include the difficulty of diagnosing lung cancer at an early and potentially more curable stage—over 50% of lung cancers are discovered after they have metastasized, or spread to other organs, and only about 15-20% are found when surgical removal is still possible. Finally, lung cancers have been more resistant to established treatments like chemotherapy that are effective in other cancers. There are several types of lung cancer which are broadly classified as small cell (SCLC) and non-small cell (NSCLC) lung

cancers. SCLC accounts for about 15-20% and is a very aggressive form of cancer treated primarily with combinations of chemotherapy and radiation, with little role for surgery. The majority of lung cancers are NSCLC, which includes a number of subtypes such as adenocarcinoma and squamous carcinoma. When found at an early stage, these cancers may be curable with surgical removal, with a 5-year survival rate of 60-70%. The problem is that most are found when the cancer is advanced and surgery is no longer an option. Until recently, efforts to detect lung cancers at an earlier stage had not been effective. However, in November, 2010 preliminary results of the National Lung Screening Trial (NLST) were released. The NLST, a randomized controlled trial, funded by the National Cancer Institute, enrolled over 50,000 high-risk but healthy individuals who either underwent annual chest x-ray or annual chest computed tomography (CT) screening for 3 years. The result shows a 20% reduction in deaths from lung cancer in the CT-screened group. If put into practice on a large-scale, screening has the potential to favorably impact lung cancer mortality. At this time, there are no official recommendations to incorporate screening into medical practice. Screening would not be beneficial for everyone, and does carry some risks, such as radiation exposure and undergoing invasive biopsy procedures, so that guidelines for implementing screening programs are still under consideration. Another major advance in lung cancer is the identification of certain molecular subtypes that benefit from therapies targeting the molecular abnormality. The first of these is mutation in the epidermal growth factor receptor (EGFR). These mutations occur most commonly in adenocarcinomas, women, never-smokers, and Asians. Cancers with these mutations respond very well to drugs that target the EGFR, such as erlotinib

(Tarceva®), which is an oral medication generally very well-tolerated. Recently, a mutation in the ALK gene has been identified in about 5% of lung cancers. Cancers with this mutation respond quite dramatically to an agent targeting this gene (crizotinib), which is still undergoing testing in clinical trials. As research identifies other potential targets for treating lung cancers, our therapeutic armamentarium will continue to grow. Recent clinical trials have also demonstrated improvements in the use of chemotherapy for treating lung cancer. In some patients who have early stage lung cancer, giving (adjuvant) chemotherapy after surgical removal of the cancer, reduces the risk of recurrence and improves survival. In more advanced lung cancers, the development of new chemotherapy agents such as pemetrexed (Alimta®) and new strategies employing maintenance treatment have improved the outcomes for these patients. In summary, we are beginning to see real improvements in our ability to detect lung cancers at an earlier stage and to treat cancers based on a better understanding of tumor biology. A continued emphasis on smoking cessation and avoiding tobacco exposure is critical to reducing lung cancer mortality, but is important to remember that 15% of lung cancers occur in people who never smoked and these cancers alone would be the 5th or 6th most common cause of cancer death. Increased funding for lung cancer research is essential to reducing the terrible burden of this disease.

William Hocking M.D. Hematologist-Oncologist Marshfield Clinic

The secret of health for both mind and body is not to mourn for the past, worry about the future, or anticipate troubles but to live in the present moment wisely and earnestly. - Buddha - Philosopher

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Memorials Many precious donations, truly “tributes of love and honoring” are received throughout the year in memory of loved ones who have gone before us or in honor of loved ones today. Angel On My Shoulder warmly receives each and every one and is privileged to acknowledge these special and meaningful memorials.

In memory of those we have loved, In honor of our loved ones today, And in hope for those we will love in years to come! IN MEMORY OF: Lorraine Justman Sgt. Ryan Adams Bernie Arieff Bobby Arieff Jean Barber Bob Bathey Mildred Bear Shirley Bellack Kealie Beilke Janet H. Bresina Doris Breyer Lorraine Brody Pat Bronkalla Mary Ann Daubner Joan Devereaux Hy Domnitz

Jim Falk Sr. Bill Forrer Jonathan Friedman Amy Fross Nate Garber David Garske Caroline Gesler Ed Gesler Rive Goldman Adolph Gottlieb Joe Gottlieb Patti Herr Mildred Hinkle Mike Hunter Nancy Hutts Jeanne Joy Harry Kane

Jeffrey Scott Kane Lawrence “Larry” Kane Irma Kaufman Barb Kieffer Edward Kieffer Ben Komisar Shirley Kroll Sandy Lipp Glenn Marshall Joyce Marshall Jim Meyers Michael Meyers Harold Novak Bill Olson Peter Pratz Evelyn Priefer Mary Ann Radue

Charles Roginske Dick Rose Mark Rutberg Richard Schmidt Joan Schumacher Bud Seifert Clarice Seifert Antia Sernoe Mel Sernoe Bill Servant Lillian Stefonik Jim Stoehr Patti Tischmack Dr. John Tollack Doris Webb Brian K. Welker Mitzi Wiviotte

Jeannie Wood Ardis Zarem IN HONOR OF: Anita Domnitz Kurt Krippendorf and his friend, Nick John Mathie Mr & Mrs. Gordon Schneider (50th Wedding Anniversary) Cecelia Stewart John Stokes

I have planted a forget-me-not in the garden of my heart for you. Love, Hugs and Prayers Disc Golf Tournament

Eric and Lolly share memories of Jadelynn (in pictures).

The fourth annual LOVE,HUGS and PRAYERS disc golf tournament took place Aug. 7-8, 2010 at the Sugar Camp Frisbee Disc Golf Course. This tournament was started in 2007 in memory of our daughter Jadelynn Schoeneck who passed away from a rare form of brain cancer in 2007 at 3.5 years old. Throughout her 7 month battle with her cancer, Angel on My Shoulder played an important part. That is why for the third year in row we were pleased to donate all of the Disc Golf Proceeds to Angel. This year we did have some interesting weather but still had a successful turnout. Saturday was sunny and bright with 13 teams playing at least one round of Disc Golf. Saturday night into Sunday morning the rain fell very heavy causing a large flooded area on hole 18. The golfers had to roll up their pants and take off their shoes and socks and wade into knee deep water to get their disc out of the basket. That was fun for all the golfers and was definitely a great photo opportunity. We had 8 teams participate on Sunday. The tournament was divided into 3 groups, 2 person “pro” division, 4 person family division and we also had groups just come out and play for fun.

We also had an overwhelming response from the community and received a lot of donated items for our raffle prizes. The Big Ticket item we had this year was a week long fishing trip to Ignace, ON, Canada graciously donated by Gayle and Dave Kadlec from Sugar Camp. This trip was done with raffle tickets sold from 1 month prior to the event to the day of the event. This raffled raised over $3700. The winner was Mike Holewinski of Sugar Camp. Our event this year had such a spectacular response and turnout that we can only say THANK YOU, THANK YOU, THANK YOU to all of the participants, businesses and family and friends that again made this a heartwarming and emotional event. Jadelynn was definitely smiling down on us and proud of what we all accomplished for the fourth year in a row. Our grand total at the end of the event was $11,000. WOW!! Next years event is planned for August 6th and 7th. We look forward to seeing you all there. LOVE, HUGS and PRAYERS. Eric, Tricia, Masen Schoeneck and always our angel Jadelynn

Memory is a way of holding onto the things you love, the things you are, the things you never want to lose. ~From the television show The Wonder Years

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Eleventh Annual Northwoods Through the dedication, commitment and leadership of Founders and Organizers, Mike Wolf, acclaimed radio personality of WRJO Radio, George and Lois Ruediger along with Kaye and Rob Manthie, owners of Fibber’s Bar and Restaurant in St. Germain, WI the NORTHWOODS ORGINAL POLAR BEAR PLUNGE once again became a reality. PBP 2011 was presented marking the 11th consecutive year of the Plunge. And we keep on rolling (or plunging) … it just doesn’t get any better than that!!!! Along with the founders/organizers, the entire “Polar Plunge Team” of remarkable volunteers gave it their ALL – pulling out all stops and generously giving of their time, talents, knowledge and influence to make this frosty fundraiser another HUGE success. It truly is “COOL” to care!!!! Eternal Angel gratitude goes out to each and every one involved. Kudos to Mike Wolf and Amy Linnett, WRJO Radio personalities for co-hosting and once again bringing forward the renowned “Pledge-A-Thon” on their station. Mike and Amy stayed on the air for a 30hour bonus round to enhance the proceeds of the Plunge.

Plunge photos coutesy of Nick Beihoff

This caring duo are shining stars in our midst and truly Angels among us!! Angel volunteer extraordinaire, Eric Schoeneck, was right there with Mike and Amy for the entirety of the “Thon” to make it all happen. Another phenomenal Angel volunteer, Dick Lemke, also diligently participated in this non-sleep event. This year a whopping amount of $11,200 in pledges was raised by these incredible “sleepless in Eagle River” Angels. The score board lit up reflecting a record breaking amount of over $33,000 raised to benefit Camp Angel/Camp Teen Angel, Angel Adventures and

other programs of Angel On My Shoulder. WOW and then some!! A very special drum roll please … a total of $245,096 (1175 Plungers) has been raised in the past eleven years to support those who so greatly benefit from Angel On My Shoulder and its programs. We are extremely grateful Angels!! The cheering section was overflowing with many spectators giving over the top encouragement to those 102 (including 26 first timers) courageous warriors who lined up ready to take on the icy waters of Big St. Germain Lake, up close and personal. Many of the Plungers donned creative and fun costumes (not sure goose bumps count) which brought “warm” smiles and enthusiastic applause from the audience. And the winners of the costume contest were two very adorable “Polar Bears” (Matt Reuss and Liz Barber). They even gave a quick little tail shake before taking their plunge!! The grand finale to the plunging was created by the fabulous Polar Bear leader himself, Mike Wolf and his dynamic sidekicks Dick Lemke and Eric Schoeneck. They made the final big splash of PBP 2011 in a true blue race to the finish line!!!! Now that’s making a statement – they are not only top notch leaders but also extremely inspirational and entertaining followers. At our “after the Plunge” festivities, there was an array of raffle items which were graciously donated by many caring individuals and businesses to entice those seeking a winning ticket. Creating great interest and “catching” the eye of many was an exceptionally unique offering… a “Fishing with John” raffle. The winner would experience a day of fishing on the waters with remarkable television host, John Gillespie along with fishing guide, Rob Manthei. It will be

Laugh and grow strong. - Ignatius of Loyola

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Original Polar Bear Plunge filmed and aired on national television - what an opportunity and what a prize!! And the winner is … CONGRATULATIONS to Sharon Piske of St. Germain– we’ll stay tuned for your big television debut!!!! A special Angel THANK YOU to John for making this possible through his kindness and generosity. A huge round of applause to Russ (Moses) Huizinga, Dick Lemke and WRJO DJ, Mike Wolf – these dedicated Polar Plunge veterans have plunged every year since the inception of the Plunge in 2001. How about that fantastic “Moses” … always a crowd pleaser and title holder for collecting the highest pledge total brought in by an individual with pledges totaling $2,565.00. He is certainly one of the “best of the best”!! In remembrance of their perfect little Angel, Jadelynn Schoeneck, the remarkable Schoeneck Family and their friends once again formulated an “in loving memory” team, gathering the highest pledges brought in by a group in an amount of $1,836 to support those living with or affected by cancer. This family of Angels also lend their time and talents as hard working members of the Polar Bear Plunge team of volunteers. Way to go Schoeneck Team!! At the conclusion of the festivities at Fibber’s, the PBP 2011 “Guardian Angels” award was announced. Lois and George Ruediger, two of the outstanding Founders/Organizers of the Northwoods Original Polar Bear Plunge, received this welldeserved recognition. Their grand style of giving, hard work and unending dedication to the Plunge has greatly contributed to the amazing success it has become. The access ramp and elevated platform on the ice is generously provided by Pier of d’North Corporation to ensure the safety of those taking the plunge.

A very special acknowledgement goes to commemorative t-shirt designer Caitlyn Hook of St. Germain. Our deepest and sincere gratitude goes to the sponsors of this chilly event: Fibber’s Bar & Restaurant, WRJOldies 94.5fm, Business Connection, First National Bank, Trademark Graphics, White Pine Printing, Lakeland Times, Sam’s Rental, Radio Shack of Eagle River, St. Germain Lodge & Resort, Lakeland Lawn, The Pool People, Timber Bay of Woodruff, Northshore Dirtworks, and Pier of D’Nort Corporation along with an uplifting supportive boost from the marvelous media … Lakeland Times, Vilas County News Review and Channel 12 of Rhinelander. We simply couldn’t do it without the SAFETY SUPPORT GROUP and extend our most sincere appreciation for all that they do to keep us all “Polar Bear Plunge Safe”: the Town of St. Germain; the Vilas County Sheriff’s Department; the stand-by ambulance provided by the Plum Lake Ambulance Crew, and members of the BoBoen Snowmobile Club for security at the plunge site. We gratefully acknowledge Bill Nichols of Timber Bay Sport & Dive who was on site to assist the plungers safely in and out of the water and the ice cutting crew led by George Schroeder of Northshore Dirtworks. You can revisit the 11th Annual Polar Plunge by checking out the websites of www. angelonmyshoulder.org or www.wrjo.com. We invite you to join us for the 12th Annual Original Northwoods Polar Bear Plunge. Please mark your calendars for Saturday, January 7, 2012. We’ll see you there!!!! Please contact us: info@angelonmyshoulder.org or 1-800-860-3431 if you are interested in being a “plunger”, volunteer, spectator, donator or sponsor.

The prestigious “Polar” awards were gratefully acknowledged and accredited to: (Based on Cumulative total collected by each plunger over the past 11 years) Glory Board ($1,500-$2,499) George Ruediger . . . . . . . . . $1,503 Gayle Peters. . . . . . . . . . . . . $1,540 Fritz Richter. . . . . . . . . . . . . . $1,599 Steve Soltwedel . . . . . . . . . . $1,615 John Soulier . . . . . . . . . . . . . $1,620 Cecil Stewart . . . . . . . . . . . . $1,666 Ann Kakacek . . . . . . . . . . . . $1,810 Deb Carlberg . . . . . . . . . . . . $1,878 Dan Ojala. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . $1,993 Alison Castro . . . . . . . . . . . . $2,100 Brian Stoffel. . . . . . . . . . . . . $2,170 Charlie Taylor . . . . . . . . . . . . $2,230 Courtney Draeving. . . . . . . . $2,313 Larry Braasch . . . . . . . . . . . . $2,351 Angel Board ($2,500-$4,999) Sue McCutchin. . . . . . . . . . . $2,891 Trig’s. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . $4,500 Halleluiah Board ($5,000+) Schoeneck Family. . . . . . . . . $5,340 J.J. Johnson. . . . . . . . . . . . . . $5,485 Pete Adams . . . . . . . . . . . . . $6,640 Dick Lemke. . . . . . . . . . . . . $11,215 Russ (Moses) Huizinga . . . . $12,998

Happiness can be found, even in the darkest of times, if one only remembers to turn on the light. ~Harry Potter and the Prisoner of Azkaban

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Mission Statement As Angels it is our objective and purpose: • to further the well being of those affected by the cancer crisis through the empowerment of individuals, enhancement of quality of life and perpetuation of a vision of limitless possibilities. • to assist individuals, families and caregivers who demonstrate a need for support. • to grant requests of those living with cancer in their lives in an effort to prove the disease is powerless over living a life of rich quality and endless possibility; and • to further awareness of the plight of those affected by cancer through advocacy and networking with other cancer service organizations.

Angel On My Shoulder Newsletter is published annually to highlight the activities of Angel On My Shoulder and its various programs. If you have articles or photos you would like to contribute for consideration in future newsletters, you can contact us by using the information below.

Lolly Rose

Founder, Executive Director

Board of Directors The Board of Directors of Angel On My Shoulder is comprised of caring individuals who are genuinely committed to improving the quality of life of those living with or affected by cancer. These “hands on” angels serve on a voluntary basis. Their dedicated efforts are acknowledged with heartfelt appreciation.

Molly Ahlborn Chris Becker Anita Domnitz Bruce Krier Kathy Mathie

Sharon Murillo Andrew Phillips Lois Rogacki Lisa Rose Lolly Rose

Mark Rose Nancy Schuller Karen Siegmeier Donna Stone Pastor Bill Trosien

For more information on any of Angel on My Shoulder’s programs, to become a volunteer, or to make a tax deductible contribution, please contact us at:

Angel On My Shoulder P.O. Box 747 • St. Germain, WI 54558 800-860-3431 • 715-542-4500 (fax) www.angelonmyshoulder.org •info@angelonmyshoulder.org Angel On My Shoulder is a registered 501(c)(3) non-profit organization and donations are tax-deductible. Every effort has been made to be accurate in the information contained in this newsletter. We apologize for any errors or exclusions. The information contained in this newsletter is intended for general reference purposes only. Designed and printed at Sun Printing, Wausau, WI

What would life be if we had no courage to attempt anything! - Vincent van Gogh