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OPEN FOR COME DISCOVER THE PAST AT THE MUSEUM OF GEOLOGY

PLAY Learn to Skate, refine your skills and show them off at the Roosevelt Park Ice Arena. Offering classes in figure skating and hockey for youth and adults starting mid-September.

Enjoy our “Fossils of the Badlands” exhibit that brings you back in time and our large marine reptiles that are sure to catch your eye!

Stop by our Kids’ Zone with fun hands on activities and our museum store filled with great gifts and souvenirs.

Watch a Paleontologist work in our New Prep Area!

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Contents 8 Start the Morning Right

27 Parent Pinspiration

10 Back to School

29 The Happiest Kid

14 Parent Talk

Put a new twist on packed lunches for the new school year and bring on the smiles.

Area schools are improving the way kids start their day.

It’s not just for kids, you know. Parent’s share with parent’s on all things…well–parenting.

16 Secrets to a

Fearless Mindset

Create a new mantra for your family and try something new.

18 Coaches of Excellence These three standout coaches in the Black Hills have the characteristics of a coach of excellence.

22 When Your Child Needs Emergency Medical Services

22 Ask the Doctor 24 Tips for Raising

Abundantly Kind Children

Please, thank you, sharing, and beyond. It means more than you think.

26 Encouraging a Creative Life

Embrace your child’s imagination that creates reality.

Get crafty this fall with a little DIY that’s fun for everyone.

in the Cafeteria

33 Preparing for Another Successful School Year

Wendy shares what life as a homeschool mom is like.

36 Remember YOU Matter Kids take a lot of time, but remember yourself, too.

38 Steering Clear of D.D.H.

Pay attention while you’re driving. It’s a lifesaver.

41 Common Insurance Myths Exposed

42 Clapping to the Beat

Previous world record holder Kent French and his wife Jean talk family, fun, and fast hands.

44 Fall Activities

And after-school programs for children to try this year.

24 49 Black Hills Cuties Readers have submitted; the fans have approved.

52 Calendar

Live life local in the Black Hills this fall and experience all the area has to offer.

62 BHP Fun Pages

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Get Set FALL into FUN For School at Main Street Square

The first day of school is likely one of the biggest days on your family’s calendar—for us, it marks our third birthday. As our team began planning this issue, we thought about how to make this quarter easier for you, so we organized a “Fall Activities and After-School Programs” section, page 44. We also included the “Happiest Kid in the Cafeteria” study guide on page 29. These are some more highlights of our coverage: PARENT TALK

Sometimes the best advice for parents comes from other parents. You know what’s worked for you and now you can share it and get published. Join us on Facebook to give and get advice. When experienced parents share, it just might help us all worry less. REAL BLACK HILLS PARENTS

We went straight to those who know for our Rapid Chevrolet “Coaches of Excellence” feature. Read about three volunteers who love their sport and their athletes on page 18. We searched for a Guinness World Record holder and found one. A percussionist who’s also a parent to nine children shares his “most claps in one minute” story on page 42. And for the “Get Ready For Another Successful School Year,” page 33, we asked a homeschool mom to give the scoop on what it’s like to teach her own children. LIFE SKILLS FOR ALL AGES

We know learning begins before the first day of school, so our coverage this issue extends beyond the classroom. Parents can learn the “Secrets to a Fearless Mindset” on page 16. And then get schooled on “Raising Abundantly Kind Kids” on page 24. There’s a lot more packed into this issue—and if we’ve completed our assignments well, reading it will feel more like recess and less like studying for a test!

Great Downtown Pumpkin Festival Saturday, Sept. 26 The fun continues at Main Street Square! Join us this fall for a host of family-friendly events.

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Made In South Dakota Saturday, Oct. 10, noon to 6 p.m.

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Start the Morning Right By Jenna Carda

ast year, schools adopted the Community Eligibility Provision across the U.S. as part of the 2010 Healthy Hunger-Free Kids Act. The CEP assures that qualified schools receive meals to feed 100% of their students for both breakfast and lunch. In the Black Hills, six Rapid City schools have been able to see this program work, and the benefits have been reaching beyond nutrition. “[We have seen] community spirits build in those classrooms,” said Janelle Peterson, Food Service Supervisor for RCAS. “Everyone comes in from the playground, get his or her breakfast and sits down. Then [they] get a chance to talk and it has really allowed students to bond without cutting in to instructional time.” Not only is the CEP program allowing students to eat healthier, teachers have also been reminding students as the weekend approaches about what their meals should look like by taking the school offerings as an example. According to many medical experts, eating in the morning enhances memory, attention, and the speed of processing information. As a student, all of these things fit the bill to being successful in school. “They’re focusing better in class, less nurses visits, and behaviors are improving. [Because they aren’t

hungry] they can focus on learning,” said Janelle. Nutrition is important, and now there is action being taken to support the words we all know to be true. If your student(s) is not registered within one of the six schools, you may be eligible for the CEP and should check with your school district about the possibilities.

Fall Carnivals and Fairs Central States Fair

Get ready because the 70th Central States Fair will be in Rapid City Aug.14-23, and it’s sure to be packed full of fun and exciting events. Motocross races, demolition derbies, rodeos, and so much more–along with tons of vendors, a carnival, entertainment and concerts for everyone. Grab some cotton candy and enjoy the fair! 8

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Buddy Walk

The Ups of Downs will host its 15th Annual Buddy Walk on Saturday, September 12 at the Civic Center full of fun with great food and tons of activities. Celebrate the inclusion, acceptance, and awareness of individuals with Down Syndrome. Preregistration will be available along with more event details at UpsOfDowns.org.

Scare in the Square

Put on your Halloween costumes for Main Street Square’s Scare in the Square on October 31. Visit all of the booths, play tons of games and load up on sweets throughout the area. Then grab a map and Trick-orTreat downtown. Best part? Black Hills Parent will be there! Stop by and say hello.

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Back to School It’s not just for kids Buying school supplies, getting on schedules, and gearing up for a new year isn’t just for kids anymore. BHSU-RC, formerly the University Center–Rapid City, is now offering additional programs that can be completed fully in Rapid City beginning August 24. Providing accessible, high quality education to working professionals, parents, military women and men, and anyone looking to complete a degree without having to commute or move is what this university is all about. BHSU-RC provides flexible scheduling options and several student support services such as free tutoring, academic advising, financial aid counseling, and more. Visit www.BHSU.edu/RapidCity for your Rapid City program options.

Autumn Volksmarch Take an autumn hike up to the arm of Crazy Horse at their Volksmarch Sunday, September 27. The fall is such a beautiful time in the Hills with the trees changing colors and the cool breeze

THE DECISION TO RETURN TO SCHOOL IS NEVER EASY. Not sure you can do it? Many others are taking

the first step… enrollment of nontraditional students is up 30% to 40% in recent years. Some common reasons for the surge in education among this population include: • A change in career (often due to job loss) • A desire to improve job skills (leading to more pay) • A life transition (such as divorce) • Personal enrichment Here’s a fact: The more education you get, the more your professional life will benefit. And the benefits are multifold.

blowing. Families can easily do the hike creating an awesome opportunity to see the world’s largest Mountain carving in-progress together. It is a 10K round-trip lasting anywhere from two to four hours that will take you from the visitor complex and back that costs only three dollars

per person. Parking is free and there is no registration. Get your hiking shoes ready, and show up between 8 a.m. and 1 p.m. For more information, visit the Crazy Horse Memorial website at CrazyHorseMemorial.org.

For the Love of the Game When it comes to sports, athletes depend on a coach – someone to look up to and guide them along the way. That’s why volunteers like Alden Pendleton make a difference. “Without obligation, Alden generously gives his time and talents to the Special Olympics swimming team by training the young athletes to compete at the regional and state levels,” said Ryan Ryder, an athlete’s

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father. “Without his dedication, [they] would never be able to enjoy the competition and compete at the levels they do.” Whether volunteer means financial, one-time, or full-time, you can make a difference, too. “There’s always a need for oneon-one direction [during practices and at events],” said Monica Burgess, head of the Rapid City

Flame, an organization in the Black Hills that gives athletes the opportunity to compete in events like tournaments for softball and bowling this fall. Find out how you can help at www. rcflame.org.

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MAKING AN IMPRESSION Schaack Family Dentistry at Pine Peaks is preparing for a big move this coming January.

ou may have noticed the new construction, which is located on the service road of Highway 16, just south of Stonewalls and Lookout Plaza. The new location of the dental clinic will be finished in January 2016 and the move should take only one week, minimizing transition time. “I am pleased with the access and visibility of our future location,” says Dr. Jon Schaack. “It will provide our staff and patients with easy access from Catron or Mt. Rushmore Rd. and plenty of safe, off-street parking.” “The office will not be much larger than our existing location,

but the flow and design, as well as patient privacy and comfort will be improved,” says Dr. Tara Schaack. “After 14 years of practice, we are excited to be in an office that reflects our personal style and also enhances our patient’s experience. In addition, our new location will improve accessibility to more of Rapid City’s population.” Both Dr. Jon and Dr. Tara provide general and cosmetic dentistry to patients of all ages and levels of treatment needs. From your child’s first visit to enhancing your smile with comprehensive and cosmetic dentistry, Schaack Family Dentistry is happily welcoming new patients.

Dr. Tara Schaack grew up in Rapid City, graduating from Stevens High School in 1994 and the University of Nebraska College of Dentistry in 2001. Dr. Tara–as her patients fondly call her–treats her patients as friends and family with a caring and artistic touch. She cares for patients from ages 1 to 101 with attention to detail and a conservative yet comprehensive approach. As a mother to three daughters, she communicates well with both children and adults. Dr. Jon Schaack was born and raised in Pierre and graduated from the University of Nebraska College of Dentistry in 2002. Dr. Jon is not only a perfectionist with his dental work, but also with his appointments. He understands the importance of a patient’s time and schedule, and he works to be timely. “My patients are busy people and respecting their time is important to me,” says Dr. Jon.

Pine Peaks Dental rebranded to become Schaack Family Dentistry at Pine Peaks. “We wanted to add our name to the business to confirm that we have been–and will always be–Pine Peaks Dental but now with our personal touch,” shares Dr. Jon Schaack.

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Help and advice from area parents who have experienced it

“I wish I had known cute clothes at 2 a.m. are not a fun way to change a diaper in the dark, and onesie buttons are a pain. I use newborn footless gowns for nighttime wear. Secondly, “sleeping when they sleep” does not work. Use this time to shower or fold laundry or another very quiet chore.” ~ Christel Peters “Try very hard to have your newborn sleep in a bassinet, crib, pack n play – anything but with you, because it’s really hard to break them from sleeping with you!” ~ Rhiannon Hirchert “Wake up an hour or so before the kids, and eat your breakfast, drink coffee, shower/dress. My days go so much better and I have far more patience with my kids.” ~ Lindsey Rokusek “There is no such thing as holding them too much. They have known your heartbeat and comfort their entire life—that is all they want now.” ~ Cat Powers

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WHAT DO YOU WISH SOMEONE HAD TOLD YOU ABOUT THE FIRST DAYS, WEEKS OR MONTHS WITH A BABY? “Get on a schedule as soon as they can go in their crib, and never be afraid to ask for help.” ~ Chelsea Scott “Consider others’ advice, but don’t take it as law of the land. There are many “ways to raise a baby” and recommendations change constantly. For example, my baby wouldn’t fall asleep on his back and insists on being a belly sleeper.” ~ Morgan Tschetter “Don’t be afraid to ask for help! It doesn’t mean you’re a bad mama.” ~ Britney Lewis “Follow your instincts. Books are nice for ideas, but you know your baby and your family best.” ~ Annie Brinson

“Let your older children help. I was so nervous and worried about allowing my older children to help with my youngest. I didn’t want them holding him, picking him up, feeding him, etc. I regret this and wish I had let them more. Their tender little hearts just want to be part of the experience. Let them help!” ~ Amanda Trople “Enjoy every second: one minute you’re meeting your baby for the first time and next thing you know he’s crawling and eating real food.” ~ Sarah Jeitz

“They never told me that I would never get to eat with both hands ever again. ;)” ~ Amanda Johnson

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Secrets to a Fearless Mindset Having a fearless mindset serves children well in all they do–not only in schoolwork and extracurricular activities–but also in leading a fulfilling and purposeful life.

arents nurture their kids to grow up to be a well rounded, confident, and successful adults—able to face whatever comes his or her way. But when fear takes them over, what can you do to help them? Keep the following in mind as you begin helping the children in your life develop a fearless mindset. Children mimic the behaviors they see in their parents, so one of the most effective ways you will teach your child to be fearless is to lead by example. When you show your willingness to try something new it will serve as a powerful lesson for your little one. If you want them to be fearless, make sure they see you stepping outside of your comfort zone. Help your child gain experience by providing opportunities to stretch their limits. Encourage your son or daughter to try a new sport or something in the arts—painting, dance or an instrument, for example. The hope in encouraging a new activity is that he or she will grow in confidence, discover more of what they are capable of, and become

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more willing to try future activities. It’s beneficial to realize others have fears too, and having someone to go through things with can make it less terrifying. Julie McFarland, Director of Academy of Dance Arts shares, “We have found that looking for similar characteristics in those who are hesitant, pairing them up with a friend, and helping them know they are not alone in the challenge allows the more introverted students to engage more effectively.” For example, Julie tells the story of a little girl who wouldn’t even allow her photograph to be taken for fear of the spotlight. “After a few years of dance, this bold person was not only participating, but she wanted us to choreograph a solo for her, which she took to a competition and won top honors.” When helping a child develop a fearless mindset, recognize they will gain more from fixing their own mess-ups than having someone stepped in and fixed it for them. Life is a delightful, messy experiment filled with new discoveries. When your child makes mistakes, help them use creative thinking and problem solving skills to overcome the hurdle set before them. Finding ways to jump in where opportunities present themselves is the way your child will learn what they can do, right now. Forget perfection, and create a new mantra for your family; be fearless.

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COACHES OF EXCELLENCE

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to be able to combine all those definitions into one The role “coach” has – to instill the love of the many different meanings game while imparting strong throughout life, differing values to their team. These from person to person. The three coaches have shown focus can be on sports, on life, the standout characteristics it on support, or on teaching, takes to be called a coach of but it takes someone special excellence.

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children Jim has coached over the past 15 years

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Jim Bussell When Jim Bussell isn’t working as a firefighter and paramedic at the Rapid City Fire Department, he gives his time to people around him. Jim serves as captain and paramedic at Rapid Valley Volunteer Fire Department and coaches many sports in town. He holds the current position of Rushmore Little League president while coaching his own team, and also coaches basketball, and flag football. The coaching all started after Jim completed school. Playing college football, running track, and playing baseball and basketball – Jim missed the constant energy athletics provided and began coaching flag football for a Rapid City Parks and Recreation team. “Coaching and teaching have always been a passion,” Jim said, “so it was kind of a natural fit. And once I had kids – it just took off.” “[He] puts all his heart into

coaching and genuinely cares about each player on his team,” agree Wendy and Tim Kelley, parents to one of Jim’s athletes. “He encourages his players to respect themselves, respect their teammates, and respect their opponents.” These life lessons not only affect his own players he coaches, but opponents and parents, as well. Jim took the time to work with another coach and help one of his players who was hit by a pitch regain his confidence in the batter’s box. The next game, the player faced his fear and stepped up to the plate hitting the ball. “The whole crowd cheered, regardless of team affiliation,” said Tara Wilcox, an athlete’s mom.

Being a part of moments like this is what it’s about. Jim’s passion lies in helping others,” said his wife Tausha. “He always puts others’ needs before his own and is an incredible stand-up human being.” “A lot of days when I go to work, my job is to clean up the mess,” said Jim. “We don’t get a lot of opportunity to be proactive. Coaching is one of those chances where I can make a difference.” Jim has been working diligently to grow the baseball program, not only in Rapid City – but also throughout the state of South Dakota. Working with coaches on Pine Ridge Reservation in Wounded Knee, Jim has been involved with getting their baseball program off the ground. He is also taking steps to have Wounded Knee sanctioned and a part of the Rushmore Little League. “The time and energy Jim gives to baseball reaches far beyond [coaching] his son,” said Treasurer of the Rushmore Little League Marcy Morrison. “He’s making baseball better for RLL, Rapid City, and South Dakota.” A coach of excellence is more than a person teaching fundamentals of a game. They’re someone who is motivated to make a difference in other’s lives. Jim is that coach. He cares for his team and helps them succeed not only on the field and on the court, but he shows his athletes, coworkers, and family what it means to commit, be loyal, and give your time selflessly.

Jim encourages his players to respect themselves, respect their teammates, and respect their opponents.

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William has gone above and beyond trying to do what he can to help our youth exceed.

Whether players are facing challenges in their personal lives or during the game, they know they can turn to Sherry for support and advice.

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After years away from the mats, William Morrison stepped up to coaching after taking his oldest son to practice. He now has embraced the title and has become a coach of excellence building opportunities for children who love wrestling. William and his wife Marcy have three sons – which have all been coached by their dad. When he isn’t at work, William is volunteering as an Amateur Athletic Union (AAU) coach, all while coaching his son’s middle school team, and helping run high school tournaments. “William has sought out nationally-recognized wrestling clinicians and developed a summer wrestling camp so that kids and their parents don’t have to travel several hours away.” With a strong passion for the sport William makes it a point to cultivate relationships with coaches, refs, and athletes across the region to better his athlete’s knowledge of the sport. “I’m not out for everyone to be a state champion,” said William, “But [the goal is] to get the best performance [they] can give.”

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Being involved with sports all of her life, Sherry Grismer knows what athletes go through and is there to make a difference in their lives. “[The sport] is about relationships and people and being together,” said Sherry. “But, [for me] it’s all about the kids and I want them to have the best possible experience that they can have.” “In all that we do, Coach Grismer continuously reinforces hard work, communication, respect, faith, and mental toughness,” explains SWAT athlete Mackenzie Erickson. “[All of which] will take us further in life than the fundamentals of the game.” Beginning as a student coach in college, Sherry became close with the Augustana athletes and coaches. She now volunteers her time over spring break to help coach at the college’s tournament in Florida – learning tips and tricks to bring back to her own teams. Sherry has been coaching softball for over a decade and has taken strides to grow the love of the game in South Dakota, organizing multiple camps and clinics for girls to learn the basics while coaching them to be the best players they can be. “Sherry has always been about what is best for kids,” said Augustana’s Head Softball Coach Gretta Melsted. “She is our players’ biggest fan and [they] look forward to her coming every year.” Leaving her players with inspirational messages that extend farther than the field, Sherry’s goal is to “create both awesome players and exceptional people,” according to her daughter and athlete Abby Grismer.

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An emergency is when you believe a severe injury or illness is threatening

your child’s health or may cause permanent harm. Discuss with your child’s pediatrician in advance what you should do and where you should go in case of an emergency. Seek emergency medical treatment right away if your child shows any of these signs: • Acting strangely or becoming more withdrawn and less alert • Unconsciousness or no response when you talk to your child • Rhythmic jerking and loss of consciousness (a seizure) • Increasing effort or trouble with breathing • Skin or lips that look blue, purple, or gray • Neck stiffness or a rash with fever • Increasing or severe persistent pain • A cut that is large, deep, or involves the head, chest, or abdomen • Bleeding that does not stop after

applying pressure for 5 minutes • A burn that is large or involves the hands, feet, groin, chest or face • Any loss of consciousness, confusion, headache, or vomiting after a head injury Call the Poison Control Center at 1-800-222-1222 at once if your child has swallowed a suspected poison or another person’s medication, even if your child has no signs or symptoms. Call 911 for help if you are concerned that your child’s life may be in danger or that your child is seriously ill or injured. Be prepared by learning CPR and basic first aid. For classes near you, contact your pediatrician, the American Red Cross, or the American Heart Association. Information from healthychildren.org

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Tips For Raising Abundantly Kind Children (and why it matters) By Danie Koskan

indness does not come naturally to my kids. Oh, there have been proud mama moments when my boys went out of their way to be kind and considerate; but they certainly weren’t born that way. My sons came out kicking and screaming and generally preoccupied with their own wellbeing. They had to be taught to show care and concern for others, and it didn’t end there. Knowledge doesn’t always equal kindness. My kids may know better than to be unkind, but they still push and claw each other out of the way for really important things like getting to sit in the crack between the couch cushions while my husband reads a story before bedtime. They occasionally lash out at each other over a single Lego® and regularly tease one another. It’s easy to be unkind. Being kind takes practice. That’s why instilling kindness in my kids is a 24/7 endeavor. There’s never a moment too early or too late, never a matter too small or too overwhelming to not stop and ask how kind hearts may have changed the outcome. Want to raise abundantly kind children? Here are five tips for nurturing kindness in your own home. RECOGNIZE KINDNESS

You applaud your son’s good grades and give your daughter a hearty pat on the back when she scores a goal. But, do you acknowledge kindness in your child? Praise children when they voluntarily share a special toy with a sibling or take time to comfort a hurting playmate. When you make kindness as lauded a skill set as smarts, artistry or athleticism, you child will learn to value it, too. 24

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Story time is rife with opportunity for instilling kindness in kids. When you read to or with your children, make a habit of regularly pausing to discuss what’s going on in the narrative. Are the characters being kind to one another? Ask your little listeners how people or critters might have been more thoughtful. The same goes for TV shows and movies, which are essentially sermons with pictures. That animated film you just watched with your kids — what did it preach about kindness? That it does or doesn’t matter? Were any of the central figures bullied or a bully? Use your children’s responses to segue into real life. Ask if they know someone who’s picked on at practice or on the playground and how they could be a friend.

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If your family’s not in the habit of writing thank you notes, it’s time to adopt this simple gesture of appreciation. Have your children start with Christmas and birthday presents. They should specifically thank the gift giver for his or her kindness, whether or not the gift was to their liking. (Acknowledgment in writing that kindness was received not only nurtures gratitude, but helps kids recognize and name what kindness is. PRACTICE WITH PETS

Have you ever watched little ones interact with the family pooch? They’re initially more apt to be tough than tender when there’s fur involved. But pets are a great teaching tool, particularly if there’s not another sibling around to practice kindness on or social settings are few. Pets also teach empathy for people who have no voice. Animals cannot speak for themselves so they can’t vocalize their hurts and frustrations, much like the kid at school who’s struggling in silence. Encourage your child to be kind to and speak up for those who can’t.

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Give children ample opportunities to be kind, but make them own it. Before my boys’ ballgames, I ask them to pick out a few choice drinks and snacks to enjoy in the dugout or stands. Sharing is encouraged but not mandated. Occasionally, my benevolence runneth over and I hand them each a few coins to spend at the concessions stand. They may spend these treasures however they see fit. Some days my sons decide to open their hands and hearts to the people around them. Some days they keep a tight grip on their stuff and miss the opportunities right in front of them. See, in our house, kindness is anything but random. We make a conscientious choice every day to be kind or unkind. We, not chance, decide to smile rather than snarl, to care rather than cut down, to give rather than get. Danie is a mom who aspires everyday to raise three abundantly kind boys.

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eing creative is something that seems to come pretty naturally for most young children. They’ll build with blocks and imagine it to be a farm, an airport, or a secret spy world. They’ll draw a picture and though you may not recognize what it is—they see it perfectly. They’ll create a “fort” with every blanket and pillow in the house—never once considering the mess because they are in the zone and having fun. Sadly, as kids get older, the creativity fades. The focus shifts emphasizing conformity, following rules, and getting your work done; I’m certainly guilty of that mindset. And, there’s that whole other issue of the everpresent technological devices. Instead of “creating,” kids are consuming whatever game, movie, or text message is being sent

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their way. (Adults rarely take time to be creative because of these same afflictions.) What’s a parent to do? As with any challenge, acknowledgment is the first step. Then, consider getting out some paper and crayons and have a family creative session–no matter what ages your kids are. Draw pictures of a favorite memory, or have each person draw a picture of an activity they would like to do. It doesn’t matter what the project is, but it’s important to build bursts of creativity into your family time. Play a traditional board game, take a painting class together, or build a “fort” with every blanket and pillow in the house. For every age, creativity is a treat your whole family will value.

DANIKA’S CREATION Kindra’s children, ages 14, 13, 10 and 8, always have various creative projects in different stages of production in their house. They’re in 4-H, which gives an ultimate completion deadline in August for the County Fair. A recent favorite project tapped into technology— but for a creative outcome. Kindra’s thirteen-year-old daughter Danika wrote her first online book at the website StoryJumper. The free site allows authors of all ages to enter their text page by page, as well as create illustrations from the clipart gallery or upload images of their own. Danika’s idea for her story focused on the characteristics that allow each and every one of us to be a “superhero.” Her book “What Makes You A Superhero?” has received wonderful feedback for its positive message—and has earned a Best of Show at the County Fair. “I hope Danika’s book—and our many other projects— always serve as a reminder to my family and me that creativity counts,” expressed Kindra.

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The happiest kid in the cafeteria Heading back to school means parents all around will recommit themselves to packing nutritious, delicious school lunches their kids will love to eat.

By Christina Katz ating meals together at home is important for families, but don’t underestimate the importance of the meal you send to school with your child each day. In the same way that it is important to sit down and break bread with our family, kids sit down at school and do the same with peers of their choosing. A positive experience eating lunch at school begins with a positive experience opening up that lunch box and finding out what’s inside. The same old peanut butter and jelly, pretzels, and apple may work for the first couple of years of school, but as a child gets older and develops more sophisticated preferences, you can do better. Work together with your child to create portable, healthy meals your child will feel proud to eat. Instead of complaints about how friends have better lunches, you’ll start to hear stories about the funny conversations that happened at lunch or who traded what for what. With a little bit of effort, you’ll notice that Black Hills Parent

INSTEAD OF COMPLAINTS ABOUT HOW FRIENDS HAVE BETTER LUNCHES, YOU’LL START TO HEAR STORIES ABOUT THE FUNNY CONVERSATIONS THAT HAPPENED AT LUNCH OR WHO TRADED WHAT FOR WHAT. your child conveys a content, relaxed tone about lunchtime, exactly like the one you strive to create at dinnertime at home. So when it comes time to whip up a great school lunch, keep these simple tips in mind: Experiment with nut butters. Why limit your child’s sandwich to just peanut butter when there is also almond butter, cashew butter, and sunflower seed butter? Or consider a healthy brand of chocolate nut butter with whole-wheat pretzels for dipping. Expand your sandwich-making repertoire. For variety, cut sandwiches into halves, triangles, quarters, or use a cookie cutter to make shapes. Experiment with whole grain wraps, bagels, pita or flatbread. Send real fruit instead of fruitflavored or artificial fruit snacks. Stock up on small, no-leak containers before school starts so you won’t be afraid to chop up ripe fruit and send it to school. Chop up whatever veggies you have on hand on Sunday and separate into bags or containers for the week. Include a bit of damp or dry paper towel to keep veggies moist or dry—whichever helps them last. Try homemade trail mix for snack time. You can come up with combinations that are customized for each child if you visit the bulk foods section of your grocery store and create combos to offer a week at a time. Have “Thermos Thursdays” and send something hot to school like soup, mac n’ cheese, or pasta. Be sure to heat the food up well before pouring into your child’s thermos. Put the lid on tightly but not so tight your child can’t get it open. 30

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HEALTHY LUNCH FOODS TO TRY: Hummus Yogurt Dried fruit Nuts and nut butters Cheese sticks Cut veggies Rice and beans Granola Granola bars Rice cakes Trail mix Popcorn Whole grain crackers Hard-boiled eggs Pita or bagel chips Fruit leather Pistachios Protein bars Veggie chips AVOID FOODS WITH: High sugar Preservatives High fructose corn syrup Excessive salt Hydrogenated fat

Send low-fat milk in a thermos instead of sugary juice or let them buy milk at school. If you don’t want to send sugar-loaded juice, try flavored waters. In a pitcher, refrigerate water with lemon, lime, berries, or herbs. Test flavors over time to discover what combinations kids prefer. Make homemade cookies or bars over the weekend and store properly to last all week. Freeze, if necessary—they will thaw by lunchtime. If your child is new to the school, include an extra treat to offer to new friends. Cut fruit such as apples into wedges. A child confronted with a whole apple will take a few bites and toss the rest. Smaller bites are less daunting, will result in your child eating more over the course of the day and won’t hurt wiggly teeth. Why not give them something to look forward to each week? Offer bonus sweets in moderation. Keep a secret stash to offer on the last day before the weekend. Just a little something to help them celebrate the weekend with their friends like a tiny bag of jelly beans or a couple of chocolate kisses. Christina Katz knows better than to slack off on shopping for inspired school lunch foods or she’ll have to hear about it all the way home from school. Her latest book is The Art of Making Time for Yourself, A Collection of Advice For Moms.

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PREPARING FOR ANOTHER SUCCESSFUL [HOME] SCHOOL YEAR Whether we are homeschooling or sending our kids to public school, the heart and soul of a mother lies in her children. By Wendy Pitlick (pictured left with Mariana, 9, and Kenna, 3) Homeschooling my children is the most rewarding, and the most challenging thing I have ever done—and there are some days when I think I’m crazy. But I know I’m not alone. A lot of moms make themselves crazy trying to do the best for their children. It’s the challenges and rewards of motherhood, met in love, that serve as the common thread for all of us, even when our methods or backgrounds are vastly different. This year I am going into my fourth year of homeschooling our daughters. It’s a choice that is not what society considers “normal,” and therefore I regularly field questions and comments about our family’s decision. Here are some of my responses to the most common questions that get asked about homeschooling.

“DON’T YOU WANT YOUR KIDS TO BE SOCIALIZED?” This question makes me smile because a lot of homeschooled children are extremely social. There are days when I feel like there is no time to do school work because our calendar is filled with so many social activities. There is a myriad of homeschooling groups that meet regularly throughout the Black Hills area. With our involvement in these groups, my daughter has participated in track meets, gone on field trips, and had many of the same socializing opportunities as public school children. Black Hills Parent

responsibilities, no days are the same. But somehow we manage to make it through and get all of our lessons done. Savannah, 7, and Alexandria, 5, daughters of Steve and Jennifer Pletan, work on reading, sentence structures and spelling in their homeschooling room using homemade manipulatives.

imagine how much time they put into teaching a class of 18-20 kids of varying learning styles and abilities.

“DON’T YOU GET TIRED OF BEING WITH THE KIDS ALL THE TIME?”

“HOW DO YOU HAVE THE PATIENCE TO HOMESCHOOL?” I am not, and have never been, a patient person with anyone. While having children has increased my patience levels to a certain degree, there is not an extra measure that God doles out for homeschooling mothers. Just like any one who has multiple tasks going on at one time, patience is a virtue I struggle with daily. My daughters and I will argue as we go through lessons; very much like public school parents who battle through their children’s homework on a daily basis. Our days are very different. Between managing two businesses, homeschooling and handling household

One of the things I love about homeschooling is that I am with my kids all the time. Because we are together, our family bond has grown exponentially. I wouldn’t trade that for anything in the world. I witness all of my kids’ struggles, achievements, challenges and celebrations, and I love that. On the flip side, just like any mom, I crave adult interaction every now and then.

No, I don’t. Most homeschooling parents don’t and are still successful. Today’s Information Age provides a multitude of teaching resources for every kind of education method, and I have always had the resources I need right at my fingertips. Over the last three years I have spent hundreds of hours pouring over resources online, at the library, in bookstores, and at various educational institutions and attractions such as the Sanford Lab, Black Hills State University, Crazy Horse Memorial and Mount Rushmore. Every night after the kids go to bed, I find myself working on lesson plans and preparation until the wee hours of the morning. In the summer months, I devote my time to researching curriculum options for the following year. While I don’t have a teaching background, I do have a monumental respect for how much work our teachers put into their job! I know how many hours I spend preparing to teach two children, and I can’t

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I wish I had a crystal ball to answer this one! But right now, it takes everything I have to get through a school year, and when we reach the summer months I breathe a huge sigh of relief. Homeschooling is difficult and we take it year by year. So, the answer to this question is simple—we will cross that bridge when we come to it. For right now, I’m brushing up on my fractions for next year’s math lessons. Just as there are an infinite number of ways to parent a child, there are a variety of responses to these comments. Each mother is as unique as her own children, but the love we have for each of them is the common bond that unites us all.

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Remember YOU matter It makes you a better parent By Lyndsey Akley

eing a parent is a job we willingly (sometimes more than others!) take on 24/7/365. The number of hours in any given week is fixed, but the schedule that fills those hours can change in an instant. In between the play dates, sports activities, birthday parties, and countless other items your child can be a part of—we as parents need to remember to carve out hours throughout the week to take care of ourselves, and our significant others. Remembering to take time to care for ourselves is crucial, and if we lose sight of who we are outside our role as ‘parent’, the dynamics of our life can change, and sometimes not for the better. These few tips can help us maintain the balance between ‘parent’ and ‘person’: YOUR HEALTH MATTERS In between the wellness, dentist, chiropractor, eye doctor and any other visits you regularly schedule for your child, remember to do the same for yourself! While you may feel like a superhero keeping them healthy, stop and remember that you need to have wellness visits, as well. Parents don’t

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get to take sick days, so doing regular maintenance on you is just as important. YOUR ADULT RELATIONSHIPS MATTER For many stay-at-home parents, the adage “Unless Dora sings it, Bob builds it, or Dr. Seuss wrote it, I have no idea what you are talking about.” hits closer to home than we’d care to admit. We need to remember to take time to call a friend for coffee or dinner, and have an actual adult conversation. It will help your sanity as an adult, and will help make your child telling the same story for the 300th time not as exasperating. YOUR SIGNIFICANT OTHER MATTERS When a child is born, they become the new center of the household. Their wants and needs become first priority, and oftentimes, significant others take the back burner. Be sure to take time to spend with your significant other, just the two of you. A meaningful conversation once your kids have gone to bed, a periodic date night, or even spending time doing a hobby you know that they love—taking the time to remind them they are a priority in your life—is crucial. At the end of

the 18 years, when your child (hopefully!) moves out and heads off to college or other bigger/better things, your significant other will be your only other companion, and your relationship will need to have stood the test of time to make it when your home is now ‘empty’. YOUR LIFESTYLE MATTERS Children are imitators of those they are around the most, and as their parents, we need to make good choices for them to follow. By showing your children that eating healthy, staying active, and spending quality time with friends and family is important to you, it will become important to them. Showcase the type of life you want your children to live, and they will begin to naturally integrate those things into their life, as well. YOU MATTER Remember that even though you are likely part of a parenting team, you as an individual still matter. Remember your identity as an individual. Your hobbies, your likes/dislikes, what matters to you. Remember to take time to enjoy the things that make you uniquely you, and don’t lose sight of them.

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you get into the car. If you think about it, we have been trained from birth to answer the phone when it rings. By putting your phone on silent, you remove this temptation.

verall, an estimated 421,000 people were injured in vehicle crashes involving a distracted motorist in 2012, according to Distraction.gov. Teens are particularly vulnerable, as 21% of drivers from age 15 to 19 involved in fatal crashes were distracted by the use of cell phones. “Distraction” covers all types of behaviors—from talking on the phone, to eating, drinking, watching a video, putting on makeup or searching for items in a car or the ever growing trend of taking selfies. Even changing radio stations or using a GPS system can distract you from driving long enough to cause an accident. Five seconds is the average time your eyes are off the road while texting. At 55 miles per hour, your car can cover the length of a football field in five seconds. Being distracted that one time when a car comes out of nowhere or a child runs between two cars, can mean the difference between life and death. You may think, “I can’t stop doing this.” But, you can. And it’s easier than you think.

respond to it, states StopTextsStopWrecks.org. Try placing your phone in the back seat or somewhere else beyond easy access, the site suggests.

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a passenger, hand off the device to him or her so you can still respond without using your hands, StopTextsStopWrecks.org advises.

GET AN “APP FOR THAT” Apple is working on technology to cut off texting and other cell phone features while you’re driving, but until then, you can find several mobile apps that try to address the problem of distracted driving. For example, DriveSafe.ly reads your texts and emails to you while you’re driving, and AT&T’s DriveMode will send an auto-response to any text you receive when you’re behind the wheel. While the apps aren’t perfect, it’s a start in the right direction. There’s a simple reason to stop texting while driving once and for all: It’s the right thing for responsible citizens to do. Children learn from their parent’s behavior. Be an example for your children and if you need to text or talk on the phone, pull over to a safe place.

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“I should buy insurance for my house based solely on its real estate value.”

52 percent of those polled think this is true, but here’s a tip: buy coverage based on the cost to reconstruct your home. In many areas of the country, rebuilding costs are quite different from the real estate market value.

“If my friend borrows my car and crashes it, their insurance will pay for the damage.”

Handing your keys to a friend or neighbor is like handing them access to your future insurance rates. If there is damage the claim goes on your auto insurance and can affect your rates for years to follow.

“All the members of my home are covered by my homeowners policy.”

The personal property of roommates, companions, and even family members–like brothers and sisters–in your home are not covered under your homeowner’s policy in the event of a loss. This requires a renter’s policy to make sure their items are covered.

“If I have a vehicle insured for liability only and I am involved in an accident with an individual who has no insurance, my insurance company will repair my vehicle.”

If you insure a vehicle for liability only you are responsible for any repairs to your vehicle not the insurance company. You may have a legal case against the uninsured party but the insurance company is not required to fix your car.

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“If minimum liability limits are all the state requires then that is all I need.”

In today’s world, most states minimum liability requirements do not offer adequate protection. Most people should have liability limits of at least 100/300/100 in today’s age of increased medical cost as your liability helps pay bodily injury you may cause in an accident.

The bottom line: You should seek out an insurance company with licensed agents who will work with you to ensure your family is properly protected.

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Clapping to the Beat

Previous world record holder Kent, and his wife Jean, French talk 30 years of family, fun, and fast hands!

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t was 2001 when Kent’s quest for a Guinness Record began. “For awhile, clapping was just a party trick,” Kent confesses. “When you’re a drummer, you tap on things.” “All the time,” his wife Jean interjects with a smile. Kent was home exploring tools of percussion when he realized how inefficient clapping was. “Most people hold one hand and hit it with the other,” he said, demonstrating. “I thought, ‘why wouldn’t you get both hands involved?’” And so began his

perfection of the action. When he joked to friends at a party that he was the world’s fastest clapper, someone said ‘Maybe you ARE the world’s fastest!’ and planted the seed. Kent French had grown up in Laramie, Wyoming, and studied percussion at the University of Wyoming where he played center snare for the marching band and spent much of his time marching down the 50 yard line, gazing into the eyes of the lovely young woman who held his cymbals; Jean. “I knew on our first date we were going to be married. He knew on the second,” she said, laughing. “Mostly because I told him.” The couple made it official in December of 1985 and began their lives together. While flipping eggs at a diner Kent and Jean’s first daughter Sarah was born. “We’ve got a lot of Irish twins in our family,” Jean says. “You know… a wink and a headache apart.” So when the couple discovered they were pregnant with their second daughter, Christine, shortly after Sarah’s arrival, Kent

OVER THE 11 YEARS KENT HELD THE WORLD RECORD, HE APPEARED ON OPRAH & GOOD MORNING AMERICA. Polk. Twin boys John and Steve were soon on the way. “We kept on having kids,” Kent said. “Eventually, when people asked us, ‘What’d you have?’ we just started saying ‘Another Catholic Broncos fan’”; nine kids to be exact. In a fifteen-year span, Kent and Jean welcomed their kids Sarah, Christine, John, Steve, Mike, Rachel, Katie, Jacob, and Josh. After leaving the military in 1982, the family moved back to the Black Hills to be closer to Jean’s family where she worked as the Office Manager for

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View the video of Kent ‘Toast’ French warming up before going into superfast clapping mode. As well,

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decided he was going to need a more sustainable income and joined the United States Army as a mechanic. He hadn’t been enlisted long when he found out the army band was looking for drummers, and after his audition, was quickly awarded a place in the 5th Infantry Division band at Fort

her father’s dental practice and Kent went to work selling insurance. He joined a country western band when they first moved home, but it “wasn’t very conducive to family life,” he said, so he traded in his black leather vest for a black tux and tie, and began performing with the Black Hills Symphony Orchestra. The children too, developed a love of music – nearly all of them played a musical instrument. “With a big family, as you can imagine, there’s lots of things everybody can do that doesn’t cost anything.” Jean says. Music was a natural choice. “Everybody can make noise.” In 2001 Kent mailed a letter of inquiry to the Guinness Book of World Records in London and set up his clapping studio in the laundry room. For nearly a year and a half Kent worked on his speed, perfecting his technique and eventually working up to 721 claps in a minute. “That’s when we all used to look at each other and ask if anyone wanted to go outside,” Katie jokes. In March of 2003 he took his talent to KOTA radio where it was recorded and released on the AP. Two days later it was in USA Today. The Jimmy Kimmel show was brand new that year, and requested the World’s Fastest Clapper for the show. For months radio stations all over the country called, Kent did private parties and public appearances, and he traveled to Scotland and to Tokyo three times, even starring in a couple of commercials. Today, YouTube has seen a response of over 4 million views on Kent’s video. This entire whirlwind of publicity started by a curious mind and the determination to meet his goals. From a beginning with a love of music and percussion to making a mark as the World’s Fastest Clapper, Kent, Jean and their family have stories to last a lifetime.

Fall Activities and After School Programs Academy of Dance Arts

4251 Canyon Lake Dr., Rapid City, SD 57702 605.342.4426 www.rcdancearts.com We have classes for students as young as 2 years old. Classes range from Me & My Tot, Ballet, Pointe, Tap, Modern, Jazz, Contemporary, Hip Hop, and Pilates and more.

Arts Rapid City

512 Main St., Suite 980, Rapid City, SD 57701 605.716.7979 www.artsrapidcity.org We promote art-powered community development, build connections for the creative, encourage collaboration and provide tools to help strengthen the value of the arts in everyone’s lives.

Banana Bunch

924 E. St. Patrick St., Rapid City, SD 57701 605.341.2333 A place for children to imagine, explore and grow. We offer year round programs for nursery, preschool and school age. Find us on Facebook!

Batchelder’s Plummer Piano

1301 W. Omaha, Suite 101, Rapid City, SD 57701 605.342.5000 www.pianoandorgan.com We have the best teaching environment for students of all ages. All of our teachers are our staff. This ensures that when you trust us with you or your child’s music education that you are getting the best.

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Black Hills Playhouse

www.dakotaplayers.com 800.727.9893 Dakota Players is an outreach program that provides interactive and inspiring opportunities for kids of all abilities to learn theater.

Haggerty’s Musicworks

2520 West Main St., Rapid City, SD 57702 605.348.6737 www.haggertysmusic.com Our professional instructors have taught for years. They are well established with good reputations and are available for guitar, bass, drums/percussion, piano, brass, woodwinds and more. We carefully select our teachers and examine their qualifications.

Little Nest Preschool

3459 Jet Drive, Rapid City SD 57703 605.430.4268 www.littlenestpreschool.biz We believe children learn best when allowed to explore, experience, and communicate about what they are learning.

Museum of Geology

SDSM&T Campus, Rapid City, SD 57701 605.394.2467 www.sdsmt.edu/Academics/Museum-of-Geology/Home Popular events for children include the annual “Night At The Museum” (fall) and “Dinosaur Extravaganza” (spring).

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Turn 4-H into great family memories! Become a member and volunteer today! Call 605-394-2188 pennington.county@sdstate.edu www.pennco.org/4h South Dakota State University, South Dakota counties, and USDA cooperating. South Dakota State University adheres to AA/EEO guidelines in offering educational programs and services.

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• Over 1.5 miles of trails and 32 acres to explore. • Volunteer opportunities for adults and youth (Age 12+)

Outdoor Campus

4130 Adventure Trail, Rapid City, SD 57702 605.394.2391 www.gfp.sd.gov/outdoor-learning/outdoor-campus/west The Outdoor Campus provides education about outdoor skills, wildlife, conservation and management practices of South Dakota Game, Fish and Parks to preserve our outdoor heritage.

Pennington County 4-H

601 E. Centre St., Rapid City, SD 57701 605.394.2188 www.pennco.org/4h Pennington Co. 4-H is home to many amazing and talented youth that are involved in many activities and projects. 4-H youth can strive to learn life skills, improve community involvement, and explore career opportunities.

Prima School of Dancing

3401 Sturgis Rd., Rapid City, SD 57702 606.348.8125 www.primadancing.com We conduct classes for students as little as 2 years old. We offer Music Fun Time, Ballet, Jazz, Hip Hop, Lyrical, Modern, Tap, Musical Theater, Drama and more. The dance season runs from September to May.

Rapid City Parks & Rec

515 West Blvd., Rapid City, SD 57701 605.394.4175 www.rcgov.org/Parks-and-Recreation Our mission is to make Rapid City a better place to live, work and play. We provide and maintain parks and open space throughout the community as well as a wide range of recreation facilities and opportunities for all.

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Zion Lutheran School Knowing Jesus, Growing in Faith, Serving God's Children

Zion is accepting applications for enrollment in our 3 and 5 day preschool programs for 3, 4 and 5 yr olds. Our Kindergarten - 5th grade offers small class size and a caring environment. 4550 South Highway 16 Rapid City, SD 57701 P: 605-342-5749 F: 605-342-4469 W: www.zionrc.org E: zionschool@zionrc.org Zion is fully accredited with the state of South Dakota and is fully certified.

Scheels Kids Klub

1225 Eglin St., Rapid City, SD 57701 605.342.9033 www.scheels.com Scheels Kids Klub offers free events for children ages 4-12 once every month. With various learning opportunities and activities, they will have a great time acquiring new skills and information.

Someone’s in the Kitchen

2210 Haines Ave., Rapid City SD 57701 605.341.5044 www.someonesinthekitchensd.com Someone’s In The Kitchen offers kids seasonal cooking classes in the fall, winter and spring. See schedule online.

Sylvan Learning Center

5509 Bendt Dr., Rapid City, SD 57702 605.593.8367 www.sylvanlearning.com No matter what your child’s math needs are, Sylvan offers three convenient programs that deliver big smiles and even bigger academic results: personal math tutoring, Math Edge and math homework help.

Young Rembrandts

PO Box 5592, Rapid City, SD 57709 605.391.5161 www.youngrembrandts.com/southdakota Young Rembrandts drawing classes offer child-friendly and relevant subject matter to spark interest and increase knowledge retention, never losing sight that children learn best when they are engaged and entertained.

Zion Lutheran School

4550 S. Hwy. 16, Rapid City, SD 57701 605.342.5749 www.zionrc.org Our Preschool program is offered for 3-4 year olds. Our after school program runs from 3-5:30 p.m. Monday through Friday, excluding holidays. After recess, they are split into their age groups and given a snack and do activities. 46

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College Planning

Give a child the freedom to dream with CollegeAccess 529 No gift is greater than a college education. Start saving for your children’s future today. Learn more about the South Dakota CollegeAccess 529 Plan. Visit our website at www.collegeaccess529.com.

Investors should consider the investment objectives, risks, charges and expenses of CollegeAccess 529 Plan before investing. This and other information is contained in the current Plan Disclosure Statement. Before investing, investors should read the Plan Disclosure Statement carefully, and consider whether their state of residency—or their intended Designated Beneficiary’s state of residency—offers any benefit, such as a state tax deduction, which are only available for investments in that state’s 529 savings program. 48

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Free-Celebrate Black Hills Parent Magazine’s 3rd birthday with us at Storybook Island. There will be cookie decorating and goodie bags for the first 75 guests. Storybook Island 1301 Sheridan Lake Rd, Rapid City 10 a.m. - Noon

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Shrek The Musical The greatest fairy tale never told comes to life in this Broadway musical adaptation of the hit movie Shrek! 7:30-9:30 p.m., Black Hills Playhouse, Custer State Park, 605.255.4141

Monday 3-5

Young Explorers: Water Wonders Travel through the water cycle with fun stories and games. Find, catch, sort, and investigate fish. Then explore the Ocean below. All supplies provided. Age: 2-5, 1-3 p.m., Dahl Arts Center, 713 7th St., Rapid City, 605.716.7979

Monday 3-6

smARTS: Crazy Construction Build, construct and design some amazing skyscrapers, flying machines and so much more. All supplies provided. Age: 6-14, 9 a.m.-12 p.m., Dahl Arts Center, 713 7th St., Rapid City, 605.716.7979

Tuesday 4

FREE-Scheels Kids Klub Shoot an arrow at archery targets and hunt decoys! Kids will be supervised by SCHEELS experts and receive 2 FREE tries at Rollerball. Age: 4-12, 6-7 p.m., Scheels, 1225 Eglin St., Rapid City, 605.342.9033

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Tuesday 4-9

Shrek The Musical The greatest fairy tale never told comes to life in this Broadway musical adaptation of the hit movie. 7:30-9:30 p.m., Black Hills Playhouse, Custer State Park, 605.255.4141

Wednesday 5

FREE-Summer Story Time Enjoy stories & much more with a library storyteller. 9:30-10 a.m., Rapid City Public Library-North, 10 Van Buren St., Rapid City, 605.716.4098

Wednesday 5

Nature Day Camp Spend the morning being a naturalist and exploring nature! Wear water shoes, bring a water bottle, sunscreen and a snack. Age: 7-12, 9:30 a.m.-12 p.m., Shelter House 2, Angostura Recreation Area, Hot Springs, 605.745.6996

Wednesday 5

Shrek The Musical The greatest fairy tale never told comes to life in this Broadway musical adaptation of the hit movie. 2-4 p.m., Black Hills Playhouse, Custer State Park, 605.255.4141

Thursday 6-9

Custer County Fair Featured during the week are exhibits, Barnyard Olympics, Ranch Rodeo, Hitch Competition, Two-Person ranch sort and Bull Riding. All Weekend, Hermosa Fairgrounds, E. Hwy. 40, Hermosa, 800.992.9818

FREE-Name This Fish Learn the parts of the fish, play a game and even get a chance to touch a fish. (No fishing in this class.) Age: 3-4 with adult partner, 1010:45 a.m., Outdoor Campus, 4130 Adventure Tr., Rapid City, 605.394.2310

Saturday 8

Saturday Art Adventure: Temporary Tattoos Put your drawing skills to the test and make your own! Don’t forget we have scavenger hunts for the adventurous. 1-3 p.m., The Dahl Arts Center, 713 7th St., Rapid City, 605.394.4101

Saturday 8

FREE-Family Geocaching Learn how to use a GPS unit to find hidden treasure. Wear sturdy shoes (no sandals) for this high-tech scavenger hunt. GPS will be provided. 2-3:30 p.m., Outdoor Campus, 4130 Adventure Tr., Rapid City, 605.394.2310

Sunday 9

Tucker Day Rodeo Special Needs Children can participate in rodeo events. Open to the public with a free BBQ, petting zoo, gold panning and other events. 9 a.m.-3 p.m., Double Diamond Ranch, 23818 Hwy. 385, Hill City, 605.574.4560

Tuesday 11

Breast Feeding Class Learn everything there is to know about breastfeeding your baby. 6:30-8:30 p.m., Spearfish Regional Hospital, 1440 N. Main St., Spearfish, 605.593.2662

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Every Monday

FREE-Tiny Tales Story Time We entertain children with stories, flannel boards, puppetry & music! Age: 3-5, 9:30-10 a.m., Rapid City Public Library, 610 Quincy St., Rapid City, 605.394.4171

Every Monday

FREE-Movies Under the Stars Visit Main Street Square to check out a movie on the big screen. Movies will show each Monday evening. 8:30 p.m., Main Street Square, Rapid City, 605.716.7979

Wednesday 12

FREE – Summer Story Time Enjoy stories & much more with a library storyteller. 9:30-10 a.m., Rapid City Public Library-North, 10 Van Buren St., Rapid City, 605.716.4098

Wednesday 12

Nature Day Camp Spend the morning being a naturalist and exploring nature! Wear water shoes, bring a water bottle, sunscreen and a snack. Age: 7-12, 9:30 a.m.-12 p.m., Custer State Park, Custer, 605.255.4828

Wednesday 12

FREE-Paddling Course includes basic safety, paddling strokes, and hands-on practice at our pond. Wear shoes and clothes that can get wet! Age: 8-12, 10-11 a.m. OR 11 a.m.-12 p.m. OR 1-2 p.m. OR 2-3 p.m., Outdoor Campus, 4130 Adventure Tr., Rapid City, 605.394.2310

Thursday 13

FREE-Movies at Salem Park Grab a lawn chair or blanket to watch current or classic family friendly movies. 8-9:30 p.m., Salem Park, 425 Quincy St., Spearfish, 605.722.1430

Friday 14

FREE-Wild Plant Identification Hike See, taste, smell and feel common plants. Draw them in your Campus journal to help remember them and share with others. Age: 8-12, 1:30-3 p.m., Outdoor Campus, 4130 Adventure Tr., Rapid City, 605.394.2310

Every Saturday

Spearfish Farmer’s Market Fresh locally grown produce and artisan crafts. 9 a.m.-12 p.m., Brady Park, 510 Meier Ave., Spearfish, 605.717.9294

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Lecture on the Plaza: Deadwood Dead Men Join novelist Bill Markley on an exploration of what Deadwood might have been like on Historic Main Street. 12-1 p.m., Celebrity Hotel, 629 Main St., Deadwood, 605.722.4800

Take a Hike Series: Little Spearfish Creek Trail Trail maps and routes will be marked nicely so is all you have to do is follow the signs from Friday to Sunday. All Weekend, Little Spearfish Creek Trail, Spearfish, 605.722.1430

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Friday 14-23

FREE-Art Night Downtown Businesses and artists get together to create an interactive experience for participants. 5-9 p.m., Main Street Square, 526 Main St., Rapid City, 605.716.7979

Friday 14-16

Moonlight and Magnolias A comedic nod to the 75th Anniversary of the film Gone With the Wind and how it made it to the screen. 7:30-9:30 p.m., Black Hills Playhouse, Custer State Park, 605.255.4141

Friday 14-16

The Legendary Hart Ranch Rodeo Enjoy three nights of rodeo action. Gates are open to the public with fun, food and entertainment! Try

rattlesnake sausage or some kettle korn!

Hart Ranch, 23756 Arena Dr., Rapid City, 605.399.2582

Friday 14-16

Meade County Fair Have some family fun at the Meade County Fair in Sturgis! All Weekend, Meade County Fairgrounds, Sturgis, 605.347.2556

Every Tuesday

FREE-Book Buddies Join in the fun & listen to favorite stories & songs with a library storyteller. Age: 3-5, 9:30-10 a.m., Rapid City Public Library, 610 Quincy St., Rapid City, 605.394.4171

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70th Annual Central States Fair Features Motocross, Demolition Derby, concerts, Ranch Rodeo and PRCA Range Days Rodeo, free State entertainment, Carnival, Vendors, Parade and more. All Day, Central States Fairgrounds, Rapid City, 605.355.3861

Saturday 15-16

FREE-2015 Dakota ThunderEAFB Air Show and Open House The Air Show includes military and civilian aerobatic teams, ground acts and static displays. The open house highlights EAFB, civilian and military aviation. All Weekend, Ellsworth Air Force Base, 605.385.5056

Saturday 15

Childbirth Preparation Class Mothers and support person(s) are encouraged to attend this class during the 7th or 8th month of pregnancy. 9 a.m.-4:30 p.m., Rapid City Regional Hospital, 353 Fairmont Blvd., Rapid City, 605.755.8015

Every Tuesday

FREE-Women’s Try-It Day Please bring shoes and clothes that can get wet, and sturdy, closed-toe shoes for climbing (tennis shoes or hiking boots are great!). Age: 18+, 10 a.m.-3 p.m., Outdoor Campus, 4130 Adventure Tr., Rapid City, 605.394.2310

Saturday 15

Devils Tower Hot Air Balloon Rally and Car Show The Hot Air Balloon Rally starts at dawn and the Texas Trail Cruisers Car Show will begin at 10 a.m. Dawn-4 p.m., 60 Hwy. 110, Devils Tower, WY, www. devilstowercountry.com

Saturday 15

Culture Shock: Young Artist Festival Local organizations create and display a variety of interactive media. Listen to live performances by emerging musicians, dancers, poets, and actors. 1-8 p.m., Main Street Square, Rapid City, 605.716.7979

Saturday 15

10th Annual South Dakota Bat Festival Biologists will be on hand with activities and presentations to help understand and appreciate the myths and facts about bats. 6 p.m., Custer State Park, Custer, 605.255.4464

Sunday 16

Leading Ladies Marathon and Half-Marathon An all-woman marathon through Spearfish Canyon from Lead to Spearfish; women of all ages, sizes, shapes and stamina. The course is a Boston qualifier! All Day, Lead, www. leadingladiesmarathon.com

Northern Plains Art Market This event includes American Indian Artists, Native jewelry, music, dance and storytelling. “Telling our story through cultural arts.” 3-7 p.m., Main Street Square, Rapid City, 605.545.3351 or 646.770.6324

Monday 17

FREE-Nature Story Time Join us on a reading adventure as we explore our nature library. Age: 1-4 with adult partner, 9-9:30 a.m., Outdoor Campus, 4130 Adventure Tr., Rapid City, 605.394.2310

Tuesday 18-23

Moonlight and Magnolias A comedic nod to the 75th Anniversary of the film Gone With the Wind and how it made it to the screen. 7:30-9:30 p.m., Black Hills Playhouse, Custer State Park, 605.255.4141

Wednesday 19

Moonlight and Magnolias A comedic nod to the 75th Anniversary of the film Gone With the Wind and how it made it to the screen. 2-4 p.m., Black Hills Playhouse, Custer State Park, 605.255.4141

Wednesday 19

Flick & Float Party Grab a floatie and watch a movie in the pool. Water Park opens at 8 p.m. 8:30-10 p.m., Spearfish Rec Center, 122 Recreation Ln., Spearfish, 605.722.1430

Thursday 20-23

Kool Deadwood Nights Relive the 50’s and 60’s with over 600 classic cars, parades, show and shines, and two days of FREE classic rock and roll concerts. All weekend, Downtown Deadwood, 800.344.8826

Friday 21-22

Wine, Brew & BBQ Competitors will compete and visitors can do the tastetesting and vote! Vendors and lots of music will be at this fun family event! All Day, Downtown Hill City, 605.574.2368

Every Wednesday

FREE-Tiny Tales Story Time Library story time will entertain children with storytelling, flannel boards, puppetry & engaging music! Age: 3-5, 9:30-10 a.m., Rapid City Public Library, 610 Quincy St., Rapid City, 605.394.4171

Saturday 22

FREE-Waterbugs Learn what a dragonfly looks like before it learns to fly! Wear clothes that can get a little wet and muddy. Age: 3-4 with adult partner, 1010:45 a.m., Outdoor Campus, 4130 Adventure Tr., Rapid City, 605.394.2310

Saturday 22

Breastfeeding Class Explore the world of breastfeeding. Bring a stuffed animal or doll. 10 a.m.-12 p.m., Rapid City Regional Hospital, 353 Fairmont Blvd., Rapid City, 605.755.1000

Saturday 22

Lean Horse 100 Ultra Marathon Runners of all abilities and all walks of life test themselves over the 50k, 50 mile, 100 mile, the 30K and a Five person 100 Mile Relay. All Day, Custer Football/Track Complex, 605.484.5878

Sunday 23

[Love]² Bridal Fair Event planners and future brides and grooms can find everything at the Bridal Fair featuring wedding and special occasion exhibitors, activities, music, fashion shows, giveaways and entertainment. 11 a.m.-4 p.m., Main Street Square, Rapid City, 605.716.7979

Tuesday 25

Fee Free Day: National Park Service Birthday America’s Best Idea - the National Parks - is even better when it’s free! Badlands National Park: Free Park Entrance Wind Cave National Park: Free Cave Tours Jewel Cave National Monument: Free Cave Tours Devils Tower National Monument: Free Monument Entrance All Day

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Thursday 27

FREE-Movies at Evans Park Grab a lawn chair or blanket to watch current or classic family friendly movies. 7:45-9:15 p.m., Evans Park, 625 N. 5th St., Spearfish, 605.722.1430

Princess & Pirate Ball SEPTEMBER 11 • 5:30 PM • STORYBOOK ISLAND

Friday 28

FREE-Strider 2015 World Championship The STRIDER World Championship is an annual racing event that brings together STRIDER riders and their families from all over the globe. 1-8 p.m., Main Street Square, Rapid City, 605.716.7979

Friday 28

An Evening of Hope in CASAblanca Wine bar, Moroccan buffet, live and silent auction; proceeds benefit abused/neglected children in the northern Black Hills through the Northern Hills CASA Program. 6-10 p.m., WS Tretheway Pavilion, S. Canyon St., Spearfish, 605.722.4558

Saturday 29

FREE-Strider 2015 World Championship The STRIDER World Championship is an annual racing event that brings together STRIDER riders and their families from all over the globe. 8 a.m.-5 p.m., Main Street Square, Rapid City, 605.716.7979

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Purchase Tickets in the Storybook Gift Shop or Call 342-6357 Support Storybook Island with this Annual Adult Fundraiser

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Saturday 29-30

You Ain’t Heard Nothin’ Yet The three-act play will start at the Adams House to the Days of ‘76 Museum and conclude at the Adams Museum. 11 a.m.-12 p.m. OR 2-3 p.m., Deadwood History, Deadwood, 605.722.4800

10 am - 5 pm $2 per Person

Every Thursday & Saturday

Black Hills Farmers Market Come out and find the finest local producers of high quality goods. You’ll feel good about being part of something bigger. 9 a.m.-3 p.m., Founders Park, 1510 W Omaha St., Rapid City

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september Tuesday 1

Trolley on the Trail Trolley rides allow those with physical limitations to experience the George S. Mickelson Trail. Reservations are required. 1-5 p.m., Mickelson Trail Office, 11361 Nevada Gulch Rd., Lead, 605.584.3896

Tuesday 1

FREE-Scheels Kids Klub: Back to School Be prepared this school year, and see how fun learning can be! Join us for safety tips, a learning activity and a healthy snack. Age: 4-12, 6-7 p.m., Scheels, 1225 Eglin St., Rapid City, 605.342.9033

Friday 4-6

Flavor Days A three-day festival showcasing feasts & treats prepared by restaurants, chefs and caterers of South Dakota, North Dakota, Wyoming, Montana and Colorado. All Weekend, Elkhorn Ridge RV Resort, 20189 US Hwy. 85, Spearfish, 605.645.1880

Friday 4-7

Labor Day Weekend Open House at Crazy Horse Memorial American Indian artists featured throughout the Welcome Center. Waived admission to Memorial with 3 cans of food per person. All Weekend, Crazy Horse Memorial, 605.673.4681

Saturday 5

Dueling Pianos Spend of your Labor Day weekend listening to the talents of 176 keys of fun for all ages. 7-9 p.m., Main Street Square, Rapid City, 605.716.7979

Saturday 5

Old West Shootout Experience an old west shootout onboard the 1880 Train during the departures. 1:15 p.m., 1880 Train, Hill City 605.574.2222

Sunday 6

Studebaker Car Show See and enjoy the classic automobile company that was ahead of its time with style, design and features in its family sedans, trucks and sport cars. All Day, 615 Washington St., Custer, 605.431.4502

Sunday 6

Crazy Horse Night Blast In observance of Crazy Horse’s death in 1877, and the commemoration of the 107th birth date of sculptor Korczak Ziolkowski, born in 1908. At Dusk, Crazy Horse Memorial, 605.673.4681

Tuesday 8

Breast Feeding Class Learn everything there is to know about breastfeeding your baby. 6:30-8:30 p.m., Spearfish Regional Hospital, 1440 N. Main St., Spearfish, 605.593.2662

Saturday 12

FREE-Art Night Downtown Businesses and artists get together to create an interactive experience for participants. 5-9 p.m., Main Street Square, 526 Main St., Rapid City, 605.716.7979

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Saturday 12-13

Princess & Pirate Ball An enchanting evening filled with the magic of Storybook Island. This is a major fundraiser for Storybook Island. All proceeds will benefit the park. 5:30-8:30 p.m., Storybook Island, 1301 Sheridan Lake Rd., Rapid City, 605.342.6357

Navy Band Country 2015 Tour The United States Navy Band Country Current is the Navy’s premiere country-bluegrass ensemble. 7-8:30 p.m., Main Street Square, Rapid City, 605.716.7979

Friday 11-12

South Dakota State Square and Round Dance Festival Play me some mountain music in Hermosa. Hosted by the Southern Hills Promenaders of Hot Springs. Bake sale by Hermosa Girl’s VolleyballTeam All Weekend, Hermosa School, 11 4th St., Hermosa, 605.517.0716

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SDSM&T Hardrocker Football Hardrocker football vs. Black Hills State in the 130th meeting between the two teams. 6-10 p.m., SDSM&T O’Harra Stadium, Rapid City

Black Hills Heart Walk The Heart Walk is the American Heart Association’s premier event in the community while promoting physical activity and hearthealthy living in a fun, family environment. All Day, Main Street Square, Rapid City, 855.229.4424

Friday 11

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Saturday 12

Once Upon a Festival The last hoorah of the season! This fundraiser will be fun for children of all ages. Come in costume; enjoy vendors, games, & more. 10 a.m.-5 p.m., Storybook Island, 1301 Sheridan Lake Rd., Rapid City, 605.342.6357

Holy Terror Days Celebrate Keystone’s mining history with a parade, BBQ, auction, ugly truck contest and more. All weekend, Downtown Keystone, 605.666.5436

Saturday 12-13

Hill City Quilt Show Over 300 quilts displayed, trunk shows, vendor booths, demonstrations, Quilts of Valor display and more. 9 a.m.-4 p.m. daily, Hill City School Gymnasiums and Downtown Hill City, 605.574.2368

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FREE-Book Buddies Join in the fun & listen to favorite stories & songs with a library storyteller. Age: 3-5, 9:30-10 a.m., Rapid City Public Library, 610 Quincy St., Rapid City, 605.394.4171

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Wine Express into the West The scenic train ride through the Black Hills features a gourmet lunch box, with each item paired with a Prairie Berry wine. 1:30 p.m. OR 5 p.m., 1880 Train, Hill City, 605.574.2222

Saturday 12

Oktoberfest Join us for a German potluck, beer tasting and entertainment. Bring your dancin’ shoes and show off your Polka moves. 2-9 p.m., Hart Ranch, 23756 Arena Dr., Rapid City, 605.399.2582

Sunday 13

National Grandparents Day Tell Grandma and Grandpa, Nana or Papa, or Gigi and Pops how much you love them with a card or a drawing.

Sunday 13

Rapid City British Car Show A gathering of British cars and their caregivers from around the Black Hills area will be in the Alley behind Main Street Square. 1-5 p.m., Main Street Square, Rapid City, 605.716.7979

Tuesday 15

FREE-Sensory Processing 101 Understand the importance of the sensory system and how it impacts daily activities. Learn strategies that can be used at home and in the community. 6-7 p.m., LifeScape, 7110 Jordan Dr., Rapid City, 605.791.7400

Every Tuesday

Friday 18-19

Taste of Autumn BBQ Championships Includes Family Fun on Friday with food & live music. Taste of Autumn People’s Choice Judging will take place Friday evening. All Weekend, Spearfish City Campground, 404 Canyon St., Spearfish, 605.722.1430

Saturday 19

2015 Black Hills Walk to End Alzheimer’s All funds raised through Walk to End Alzheimer’s further the care, support and research efforts of the Alzheimer’s Association. 8 a.m., Memorial Park Bandshell, Rapid City, 605.339.4543

Saturday 19

POW/MIA 5K The 5K will start at Main Street Square, through Memorial Park and back to the Square. Enjoy a complimentary pancake breakfast at VFW Post 1273. 8 a.m.-12 p.m., Main Street Square, Rapid City, www. runreg.com/rc-2015-powmia-5k

Saturday 19

Walk MS Team This community event connects people living with MS and those who care about them and raises critical funds to support programs research. 9 a.m., Club for Boys, 320 N. 4th St., Rapid City, 800.582.5296

FREE-Baby Bookworms Bring your little ones for a fun-filled story time led by one of our library storytellers. Age: Infant 0-3, 9:30-10 a.m., Rapid City Public Library, 610 Quincy St., Rapid City, 605.394.4171

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Tie-Dye Family Workshop See what kind of unique design and color combinations you can create on shirts and bandanas. Families with students in grades K-6. 10 a.m.-12 p.m., Adams Museum, 22 Van Buren Ave., Deadwood, 605.578.1657

Every Tuesday

FREE-Autumn Nights Featuring live bands, kids’ activities, food, and assortment of refreshments in the beverage garden. 6-9 p.m., Main Street Square, Rapid City, 605.716.7979

FREE-Sensory Processing 102 The follow-up to Sensory Processing 101, Sensory Processing 102 will provide tactics for helping kids with daily routines. 6-7 p.m., LifeScape, 7110 Jordan Dr., Rapid City, 605.791.7400

Buffalo Round-Up Art Festival Up to 150 vendors will be selling their fine arts and crafts including many South Dakota made products. All Weekend, Custer State Park, 605.255.4515

Every Saturday

Friday 25

50th Annual Buffalo Roundup Cowboys and cowgirls roundup and drive the herd of approximately 1,300 buffalo critical to maintaining a strong and healthy herd. 9:30 a.m., Custer State Park, 605.255.4515

Saturday 26

Great Downtown Pumpkin Festival Visit Main Street Square and venture down Sixth St. and into Memorial Park for a pumpkin catapult, giant pumpkin weigh-off, Kidz Zone, wagon rides, vendors and more. 9 a.m.-4 p.m., Main Street Square, Rapid City, 605.716.7979

Saturday 26

Harvest Fest Pumpkin carving contests, Apple Pie contests, great sidewalk sales, food and craft vendors, and of course live performances of dance and music! 9 a.m.-4 p.m., Downtown Spearfish, 605.717.9294

Saturday 26

FREE – Hula Hoops Join us and make your own personalized Hula Hoop and participate in the latest craze. 9:30-11:30 a.m., Rapid City Solid Waste Education Center, 5165 S. Hwy 79, Rapid City, 605.355.3496

Saturday 26

Breastfeeding Class Explore the world of breastfeeding. Bring a stuffed animal or doll. 10 a.m.-12 p.m., Rapid City Regional Hospital, 353 Fairmont Blvd., Rapid City, 605.755.1000

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Saturday 26

Fee-Free Day: National Public Lands Day Badlands National Park: Free Park Entrance Wind Cave National Park: Free Cave Tours Jewel Cave National Monument: Free Cave Tours Devils Tower National Monument: Free Monument Entrance All day

Saturday 26

Fire Lookout Towers and Their Keepers Moon Walk Most programs last for 1-2 hours and visitors walk an average of 1 mile round trip. See the BHNF website for locations. 7 p.m., Black Hills National Forest, http://fs.usda.gov/ blackhills, 605-343-1567

Saturday 26

Miranda Lambert – Roadside Bars and Pink Guitars Tour Miranda Lambert brings her “Roadside Bars and Pink Guitars Tour” this fall in the shape of an all women’s tour. 7:30 p.m., Ice Arena, Rushmore Plaza Civic Center, 444 Mt. Rushmore Rd., Rapid City, 605.394.4115

Sunday 27

Crazy Horse Autumn Volksmarch Take an autumn hike up to the arm of Crazy Horse. Free admission for hikers. Food donation appreciated. $3 registration fee charged by AVA. 6 a.m.-4 p.m., Crazy Horse Memorial, 605.673.4681

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An Evening with Neil deGrasse Tyson Neil deGrasse Tyson is an astrophysicist, cosmologist, author and one of the most recognized science communicators. 7:30 p.m., Rushmore Plaza Civic Center, 444 Mt. Rushmore Rd., Rapid City, 605.394.4415

Friday 2-3

Oktoberfest in Deadwood Featuring live German music, free food, dancing, Weiner Dog Races and Parade. Bring the family for all the great activities. All Day, Downtown Deadwood, 800.999.1876

Saturday 3

FREE-Bierborse Featuring a microbrew tasting, homebrew sampling, polka music, beer stock exchange and more. All ages are welcome. IDs are required to consume alcohol. 12-6 p.m., Main Street Square, Rapid City, 605.716.7979

Sunday 4

Run Crazy Horse: Marathon & Half Marathon The 2015 Run Crazy Horse 26.2 & 13.1 is being dedicated to the memory of Ruth Ziolkowski, long-time inspirational leader of Crazy Horse Memorial. All Day, Crazy Horse Memorial, 605.673.4681

Monday 5-10

BHSU Swarm Days Enjoy the events held all week, the parade, a tailgate social, and then cheer on the BHSU football team. All Week, Black Hills State University, Spearfish, www. bhsu.edu/SwarmWeek

Tuesday 6

FREE-Scheels Kids Klub: How is Scheels Fudge Made? Learn how fudge is made and get a chance to make your own! Everyone will get to make a yummy treat to take home. Age: 4-12, 6-7 p.m., Scheels, 1225 Eglin St., Rapid City, 605.342.9033

Tuesday 6

FREE-Back to Sleep â&#x20AC;&#x201C; Tummy to Play Learn about safe baby positioning to reduce the potential for flat spots and tight neck muscles that may pull their head to one side. 6-7 p.m., 7110 Jordan Dr., Rapid City, 605.791.7400

Tuesday 6

Elton John: The Final Curtain Tour The farewell tour will feature iconic hits and classic album tracks from Eltonâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s incredible five-decade career. 8 p.m., Rushmore Plaza Civic Center, Rapid City, 605.394.4115

Wednesday 7-10

Western Junior 4-H Livestock Show 4-H youth throughout 5 states show off their skill and animals including sheep, swine, dairy, goats and other projects relating to livestock production. All day, Central States Fairgrounds, Rapid City, 605.394.2188

Friday 9-11

29th Annual Black Hills Powwow The premier American Indian cultural event in the region showcases dancers, singers, and artisans from across several U.S. states and Canadian provinces. Rushmore Plaza Civic Center, Rapid City, 605.394.4115

Every Tuesday

FREE-Book Buddies Join in the fun & listen to favorite stories & songs with a library storyteller. Age: 3-5, 9:30-10 a.m., Rapid City Public Library, 610 Quincy St., Rapid City, 605.394.4171

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Saturday 10

Childbirth Preparation Class Mothers and their support person are encouraged to attend this class during the 7th or 8th month of pregnancy. 9 a.m.-4:30 p.m., Rapid City Regional Hospital, 353 Fairmont Blvd., Rapid City, 605.755.8015

Saturday 10

Made in South Dakota Made in South Dakota will feature music, exhibits, food and many other local samples that represent our great state. 12-6 p.m., Main Street Square, Rapid City, 605.716.7979

Every Thursday

FREE-Baby Bookworms Bring your little ones for a fun-filled story time led by one of our library storytellers. Age: Infant-3, 9:30-10 a.m., Rapid City Public Library, 610 Quincy St., Rapid City, 605.394.4171

Monday 12

Native Americans’ Day Activities for youth, programs and performers; Educator of the Year award, and mountain blast. (Weather permitting) Waived admission with 3 cans of food per person. All Day, Crazy Horse Memorial, 605.673.4681

Tuesday 13

Breast Feeding Class Learn everything there is to know about breastfeeding your baby. 6:30-8:30 p.m., Spearfish Regional Hospital, 1440 N. Main St., Spearfish, 605.593.2662

Friday 16-17

Nelly’s Revenge An adult comedy/drama re-telling the story of how jealousy, envy, and greed brought death and destruction to Deadwood. Evening includes Ghost Tour. 5-8:30p.m., Deadwood 1876 Dinner Theater, 624 Main St., Deadwood, 605.580.5799

Friday 16-19

Rapid City Kennel Club Dog Show All-Breed Dog Show, including Obedience and Rally Trials. 8 a.m.-10 p.m., Rushmore Plaza Civic Center, Rapid City, 605.394.4115

Saturday 17

FREE-Outdoor Spookable Chimes Create wind chimes that are a little spooky. Hang around the house for Halloween. 9:30-11:30 a.m., Rapid City Solid Waste Education Center, 5165 S. Hwy 79, Rapid City, 605.355.3496

Saturday 17

Breastfeeding Class Explore the world of breastfeeding. Bring a stuffed animal or doll. 10 a.m.-12 p.m., Rapid City Regional Hospital, 353 Fairmont Blvd., Rapid City, 605.755.1000

Saturday 17

BH Symphony Orchestra: Symphonic Shakespeare BHSO Season opener features selected music and spoken word from Romeo and Juliet, The Merchant of Venice, The Tempest, and A Midsummer’s Night Dream. 7:30pm, Performing Arts Center, 601 Columbus St., Rapid City, 605.348.4676

Sunday 18

Myasthenia Gravis Walk Walk for the Myasthenia Gravis Foundation. This is a muscular disease that has infected two Black Hills children under the age of 10. 10 a.m., Spearfish City Park, 119 Canyon St., Spearfish, 605.642.1333

Tuesday 20

Korczak Ziolkowski Remembrance Day Visitors can walk to the tomb near the foot of the mountain carving to pay their respects to sculptor Korczak Ziolkowski and daughter Anne Ziolkowski Christensen. All Day, Crazy Horse Memorial,

Tuesday 20

FREE-Bowl & Bladder Issues for Kids Learn how to end accidents, constipation, and challenges with potty training. Get tips and tricks to try at home. 6-7 p.m., LifeScape, 7110 Jordan Dr., Rapid City, 605.791.7400

Thursday 22-25

Nelly’s Revenge Adult comedy/drama re-telling the story of how jealousy, envy, and greed brought death and destruction to Deadwood. Evening includes Ghost Tour. 5-8:30pm, Deadwood 1876 Dinner Theater, 624 Main St., Deadwood, 605.580.5799

Friday 23

Rush Hockey Rapid City Rush vs. Colorado Eagles 7-9:30 p.m., Rushmore Plaza Civic Center, Ice Arena, Rapid City, 605.394.4115

Friday 23

Little Big Town: Pain Killer Tour Little Big Town has added a fall leg of the tour. 8-10 p.m. Rushmore Plaza Civic Center, Rapid City, 605.394.4115

Friday 23-24

Friends of the Library Book Sale Come down and browse the many books the Friends of the Library have for sale. All Day, Rapid City Public Library, 610 Quincy St., Rapid City, 605.394.4171

Friday 23-24

Halloween Night Hike Take a guided one-mile night hike along a path lit by jacko-lanterns. Observe the interesting and humorous sights, sounds, and nightlife of Custer. 5:30 p.m., Peter Norbeck Visitor Center, Custer State Park, 13329 US Highway 16A, Custer, 605.255.4464

Tuesday 27

FREE-Speech & Language Development Typical early speech and language development and tips to help children develop speech/ communication skills. 6-7 p.m., LifeScape, 7110 Jordan Dr., Rapid City, 605.791.7400

Thursday 29-31

Nelly’s Revenge Adult comedy/ drama re-telling the story of how jealousy, envy, and greed brought death and destruction to Deadwood. Evening includes Ghost Tour. 5-8:30pm, Deadwood 1876 Dinner Theater, 624 Main St., Deadwood, 605.580.5799

Friday 30-31

Spearfish Fall Festival Youth & Family Carnival, Spooky Spearfish Trick or Treating, and a Haunted Hike are just a few of the highlights of this annual festival. All Day, Spearfish Park Pavilion, Spearfish, 605.722.1430

Saturday 31

FREE-Halloween Sock Hop Kids’ 1K Come in costume or run with friends as a centipede. Fun for all ages; Prizes for costumes. 12:30 p.m., Black Hills Runners Club, Canyon Lake Park, Rapid City, 605.484.9423

Saturday 31

FREE-Scare in the Square This features an afternoon of family entertainment and is held in conjunction with the Rapid City Downtown Association’s Downtown Trick or Treat. 1-5 p.m., Main Street Square, Rapid City, 605.716.7979

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