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13 APPAREL 13 Gowns, Tuxes & Jewelry 15 Alterations 15 Preserve Your Gown 18 Gallery of Images 20 Gifts to Thank Them 21 Symbols of Commitment 23 Groom’s Corner 24 Groom’s Dinner 101 25 Time to Party RECEPTION 29 Ceremony & Reception Sites 32 Location Scouting 38 #TrendAlert 38 Social Media to Plan 41 Arrangements for Travelers 42 Between Space and Time 44 Dance the Night Away 44 Entertaining Kids 46 Unity Symbols 48 Obtain a License

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CATERING 50 Your First Meal Together 55 Serving Style 56 Saying ‘I Do’ 56 Common Bible Verses CAKE 58 A Sweet Ending FLOWERS 62 Choosing Your Flowers SERVICES 66 Planning the Details 66 Raising the Bar 68 You Imagine. They Create.

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Shopping for your wedding apparel is exciting, and may even be overwhelming at times. But with the right direction, you will find the perfect wedding gown with ease and confidence. Whatever your style, there is a dress out there waiting for you.

When to Start Begin the search for your gown, accessories, and jewelry up to nine months before the wedding day to give ample time to avoid rush-order fees. Some dress designers require six months to produce a gown; others may be longer or even quicker so be sure to ask. Order early to allow sufficient time for your gown to be received, altered, and steamed.

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iar with the terms for specialty fabrics and gown silhouettes to make it easier to communicate what you want. For example, if you want a ball gown or mermaid style, let the bridal experts know your preferences. Have a budget in mind before you go, and don’t be afraid to communicate your budget to the consultant. After all, they are there to help your dress dreams come true, so they want to provide you with the best experience possible.

Where to Go If you love a particular designer, find the local bridal salon that carries that designer and start trying styles on.

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APPAREL important dress purchase. Utilize their expertise to ensure selection of a style that is right for you.

What to Look For The details of your ceremony—time of year, level of formality, location, theme, and so on, will help guide you in choosing a gown for your ceremony.

Select fabrics that are appropriate for the location and weather of your wedding day. For example, an elaborate gown with a long train might seem out of place at a small wedding with 50 guests in a park. Each possible scenario calls for a different style of gown, so be sure to share this information with the salesperson.

Who to Bring For this once-in-a-lifetime purchase, invite only one or two close friends or

family members. A crowd can make it difficult to listen to your own instincts about what makes you feel fabulous. Be sure the people who accompany you are not only supportive, but also objective.

What to Bring Wear a strapless bra for trying on strapless, halter, or spaghetti strapped dresses. Wear comfortable clothing and slip-on shoes. You will be standing on a platform, so you won’t need your actual shoes until the fitting appointment. Wear little to no makeup to see how colors complement your true skin tone, as well as to avoid staining the fabric. If the dress is not for you, surely it is another bride’s dream dress, so shop freshly bathed, avoid perfume, and do not apply lotions or tanning solutions without appropriate absorption.

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APPAREL Alterations The bridal salon will take your measurements before ordering your dress.

Order the size you are on the day you order—not the size you hope to be. It is easier to make a dress smaller than bigger. To achieve a perfect fit, your dress will likely need minor alterations, which is best done by a professional seamstress.

Understand the special order policy of the bridal salon. In most cases, when you order your dress, it is a final sale.

Preserve Your Gown Keeping your dress in good condition for years to come involves hiring a professional to clean and preserve it. This prevents yellowing, reduces the risk of mold and mildew, and protects the gown from light and dust. Your gown will be cleaned to such a degree that even the smallest

invisible stain is removed. Preservation also helps the dress retain its shape and keeps embellishments affixed to it.

Certain elements react with the dry cleaning solvent so tell the cleaners if your dress was exposed to anything unusual. Take your gown in as soon after the wedding as possible so it remains in the best possible condition. Once cleaned, gowns will be stored in an acid-free box that resists water and mildew. With preservation and care, your dress will be an heirloom to pass down.

You have found “the dress,” so stop looking, and do not second-guess yourself! You committed to your man, you can commit to a dress! Have faith in your decision, and enjoy the peace of mind that comes from having accomplished one of your most special decisions. O

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Five Gown Silhouettes When you start looking for a wedding dress, you may discover the vocabulary is a little overwhelming. There are many different options to choose from. If you feel a bit confused become familiar with these terms you’ll hear in the bridal salon.

The silhouette of a wedding dress refers to its overall shape and can be thought of in five basic categories. Naturally, your style choice will be based on your body shape—and the parts you want to accentuate will ultimately determine what style you choose.

A-line: This style has a fitted bodice that gradually tapers into a wider, more flared skirt. This look highlights the narrowness of the midsection and floats away from the hips and thighs. It is designed to flatter nearly all body types.

Ball Gown: This dress is the traditional Cinderella dress. This look will have a fitted bodice that flares to a full skirt. Ball gown dresses are appropriate for formal weddings and look great on women with pear-shaped bodies.

Dreaming of a princess wedding? This is the look for you!

Empire Waist: These dresses have a fitted bodice that ends just below the bust and free flowing skirts that help lengthen the body’s appearance. If you want to elongate your torso this is the style for you!

Mermaid: A trumpet-style dress that has a very fitted bodice then just above the knee, flares out like a tail of a mermaid into a dramatic train. This mermaid wedding dress style is ideal for brides who want to emphasize their curves.

Sheath: These sleek and sophisticated column dresses are form-fitting from top to bottom and have no waist. The style either hugs the natural curves of the body, or falls in a straight line from the shoulders to the hemline. If you are going for a romantic look and want to accentuate your natural curves, this is a great option for you! O

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GIFTS TO THANK THEM Many wedding trends come and go, but the tradition of giving and receiving wedding gifts is firmly ingrained in our culture.

Take the opportunity to say “Thank You� for helping to make your day unforgettable with unique keepsakes, engraved gifts or any of the following ideas. Consider personalizing the item with initials, monograms, or even a special message to make it a gift that will surely be cherished.

For Your Bridesmaids Assisting in your wedding preparations was probably time consuming for your bridesmaids and they certainly deserve a thoughtful gift. Consider giving jewelry to use not only for your wedding day but in the future as well. Gifts for the bridesmaids can also be practical, like an embroidered tote bag or sweatshirt. Another gift idea for your wedding party is a gift certificate to a salon and spa or a restaurant.

For the Groomsmen Consider buying them their shirt, tie or socks to be used with their tuxedo.

Engraved flasks or steins can also be a fun gift. A simple gift lets your wedding party know that you appreciate their ef-

forts and that you want to thank them for all that they have done to support you.

Thank Your Parents They worked hard raising you, showing you what love is about, and most importantly helping make your wedding day possible; give your parents a gift that is thoughtful that shows them how much they mean to you. A personalized photo album or picture frame can be very dear to the heart and you could incorporate both childhood and current pictures for a great gift. Jewelry is a nice gift for mothers, and a personalized pen or watch is a great idea for fathers. Write a heartfelt thank you letter to give to both of them.

Putting it on paper can mean the world and becomes a treasured keepsake they will cherish as they watch the love you two share grow.

Although the tradition of the bride and groom exchanging gifts on their wedding day is beginning to fade, many couples still wish to honor this tradition. If the couple is partaking in this tradition it is advisable that you exchange gifts that truly reflect the personality and needs of your spouse. O

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Introduction to the Four Cs Cut: When a diamond is transformed from rough to dazzling gem, it is cut with facets, which are different shaped and sized areas on the diamond’s surface.

Each facet is positioned and polished to create the angles that best allow light to enter and reflect back out of the stone.

Color: The Gemological Institute of America (GIA) has devised a set of guide-

lines to grade diamond color. A lettering system from D to Z is used to identify the amount of color present in each diamond, with D awarded only to rare, totally colorless diamonds.

Clarity: This refers to the presence of identifying characteristics within (inclusions) the stone. The visibility, number, and size of these inclusions determine the clarity and value of a diamond.

Carat: The unit of weight of gemstones, including diamonds. Jewelry pieces with more than one diamond will be described in terms of combined total carat weight (TW). The price of diamonds increases rapidly with size; therefore, a single 2-carat diamond will cost much more than two 1-carat diamonds. O

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More and more grooms are stepping onto the “wedding planning” field and getting into the game. Research shows most couples now tackle the arrangements for the big day jointly; after all it’s a big day for both the bride and the groom.

To share responsibilities, you could undertake tasks such as hiring the DJ or band, choosing the tuxedo style, and

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booking the wedding transportation.

There are plenty of other elements of the wedding you may be up for, so be sure to communicate with your bride.

Call time out and evaluate your game plan. This list of Q&As can help ensure you will stand out on your big day too.

What does rented formal wear include? A jacket, vest, shirt, neckwear, cufflinks, pants and shoes. You will need your own socks. Choosing colored, patterned, or bright socks is a fun way to show off your personality.

What if my groomsmen are all from different towns? Your traveling buds can have their measurements taken at their local formal wear store and forwarded on to your local store. Don’t

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GROOMS forget you can also have your fathers, brothers, and ushers dress up with you.

How early do I need to reserve my tux? You will want to reserve at least 3-4 months in advance. That way there will be plenty of time for alterations. Schedule a fitting one week before the wedding for any last minute adjustments.

How can I stand out? Set yourself apart with a different vest and tie color.

Make sure to coordinate the vest and tie colors with the bridesmaids’ dresses.

What if I am not a tux kind of guy?

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Groom’s Dinner After your ceremony “practice session” (it’s actually called the rehearsal) everyone gathers for a meal called the groom’s (or rehearsal) dinner. Traditionally, the groom’s family hosts this dinner that will include parents and siblings, weddingparty members and their spouses or significant others, the parents of any child attendants, and the officiant. Invite out-of town guests if they have already arrived in town for the wedding. O TIPS: Book the venue as far in advance as possible. Verify the use of audiovisual equipment if you have a slideshow. Give the final guest count to the venue 72 hours in advance.

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Rachel and Nick rapidly became high school sweethearts when they met their freshman year. Fast forward to July 2012. As part of Nick’s plan, they were walking a trail at Bluff Park in Mankato when they came to a tree with an envelope attached. The writing on it said, “Rachel, please read out loud.” Nick had written a letter about the special memories they shared and why he loved her so much. It ended saying, “I now have one more question to ask…”

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The memory was captured, as Rachel’s sister Heather was hiding in the trees photographing the proposal.

Each wrote their own vows without sharing with the other until in front of 300 guests on their wedding day. During an inspiring ceremony moment the couple formed a prayer circle with their parents to honor their shared faith in God. Even though it was short and sweet, the ceremony was just how they wanted it to go.

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One of the first decisions to make as you begin planning your wedding is where your reception will be held. It will be much easier to book your other wedding services after you have a wedding date selected and booked with the site you have chosen. Consider the following items as you prepare: Save the Date Together with your fiancé come up with some possible wedding dates.

Consider your own schedules, as well as the schedules of important people, without whom your wedding could simply just not take place. Contact these special guests soon after your engagement, tell them your preferred dates, and identify dates that work for them.

Now you have a few potential dates to begin your quest. You likely have a single preferred date in mind, but try to stay flexible, since your dream setting may be booked that day.

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The Guest List The number of guests expected to attend will be one of the main factors to consider when narrowing down the options and selecting a site. Do you have 300 people to invite or are there 125 on your list? Lower guest counts allow you more options, as sites have a maximum capacity that the facility can handle. Do not fill the site to the maximum allowed, as you want plenty of space for your guests to mingle comfortably.

Your Vision Every couple envisions the “ideal” venue in their own way and factors like wedding style, over-all budget, guest count, season, and whether you want an indoor or outdoor wedding will all influence your decision. Fortunately, with all of the various types of venues available in the area, you have many venue options to choose from to fulfill your vision of the perfect site.

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RECEPTION The reception typically accounts for the largest expense of your wedding day, so find a location that fulfills your dreams. It‘ll be what guests talk about the most—the food, the music, the dancing...you get the idea...a memorable reception.

Facility Types No two venues are exactly alike, with each one varying in size and formality.

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Some wedding reception sites are more formal, with ballrooms and chandeliers, while you will find others set on a ranch, at a winery, in a garden, or at an outdoor location with breathtaking views.

Another varying factor is the extent of services offered. At some locations, you rent the entire space or an empty room and it’s up to you to completely transform it with tables, chairs, and other decorations. While other facilities will provide everything you need and will have all of the decorating, lighting, and other rental items on site for you to choose from. Most facilities fall somewhere in between.

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Conduct a Phone Interview Before making an appointment with the venue, request the following information over the phone to confirm your initial criteria: Is your preferred date available?

Where do their prices per person start?

Can they accommodate your guest list?

If they fit these initial criteria, make an appointment to tour the reception site.

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in-house catering service or if you need to select your own caterer. You will likely have several menu options, and will be able to choose food that suits your needs.

If possible, request a taste-test of your preferred menu to ensure you like the meal’s quantity and quality of presentation.

will be working with for your wedding.

There should be chemistry between you and the property’s staff members. Spend ample time touring the entire facility to ensure that the site’s design, decor, and ambiance complement the style you have envisioned for your wedding. Ask to visit when another wedding is being set up to help you accurately assess what the site can accommodate. Ask to see

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Bring your camera, a notebook, and the list of questions provided in this section with you to your appointment and don’t be afraid to be thorough. The site’s event coordinators are professionals who realize that people only plan an event like this once in their lifetime; they won’t be offended with questions.

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Book Your Site After settling on the venue, grab it before it gets away! Book the facility as far in advance of your wedding day as possible—it’s not uncommon to have your site booked a year or more in advance. Be sure you are given a contract that covers all of the details. Read the clauses and fine print and clarify anything confusing before you sign. Most

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Venue Details Staying organized is one of the keys to finding a fabulous reception venue. There are many details to consider when evaluating the venues available, so use these questions to prepare before meeting with the venue’s coordinator: The Basics: • How many hours/days of rental are included, what is the fee and can we rent additional hours if needed?

• Do the hours include catering, decorating, and DJ set-up time?

• Is there a security deposit required?

• What is the cancellation policy?

• Are there reduced rates for offseason, off-hours or off-days?

• Are you able to hold the ceremony at the venue? Is there a fee?

• Is the location’s wedding coordinator included in the fee?

• Does the facility provide security?

• How much for additional staff?

• Does the fee include the staff to serve the meal?

• What are the fees associated with decorating the reception site?

Can you decorate the site yourself?

• When will the decorating be able to take place?

• Is there enough parking for guests?

The Food and Drinks: • Is there a caterer available in-house?

• If not, do they require use of a caterer from an approved list?

• Can alcohol be served on the property? Who supplies the bar?

• What is the fee for a bartender?

The Music: • Where can the DJ set up?

• Are there enough electrical outlets?

• How late can the DJ play music?

The Set-Up and Tear-Down: • Are there additional charges for set-up and tear-down?

• What are the gratuity and sales tax to be added to these fees?

• Does the fee include tables, chairs, and linens?

• Are the dance floor, lighting, and sound included in the fee, or are they available to rent?

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TIP: Use the chart we’ve included in the Planning Guide to help you compare your options. Objectively review the list of answers received from all of the interviewed locations before making the final decision to reserve a venue. The site should comfortably accommodate your guest list, and fit within the budget. Paying close attention to the fees will ensure that you make an educated decision.

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#TRENDALERT Choosing a hashtag for your celebration allows you to follow the great time your guests had, as well as all the fun candid photos from the night after it is all over.

Let your creativity shine when creating your wedding hashtag. Is there an inside joke or nickname? Choose something that will keep everyone smiling. Just make sure you let your guests know by creating a sign to display, as well as having your DJ announce it throughout the evening.

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Social Media to Help You Plan Use Facebook and other social media to stay in touch with your vendors throughout your wedding planning process. You can search your vendors, ask them questions, and even invite them to your private wedding event.

The more contact you have with your vendors the better! That way they will be able to create an event that is uniquely yours. And don’t forget to tag them in your statuses and photos that you post during each of your wedding planning stages. O

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• Our affordable Banquet Hall accommodates 2-200 guests, with outside wedding accommodations available along with all day or hourly rental.

• Our menu presents plenty of options and can be customizable with Sit Down, Family Style or Buffet available.

• An Event Coordinator is available to help with as little or as much as you want to make the special day perfect and stress free.

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Remember that people look forward to weddings as a time to reconnect with family and friends that they haven’t seen for awhile. While it’s not necessarily expected, it is a nice gesture to invite out-of-town guest to the rehearsal dinner to allow for this.

Hospitality and generosity towards your wedding guests will go a long way in making sure that your wedding is a weekend to remember. O

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Make arrangements with a couple of hotels where your out-of-town guests can choose to stay when in town for your wedding. There is no need for you to pay for the rooms, however, most hotels will work with you on a better rate if you are blocking a group of rooms. You should have options to accommodate different budgets and include the information with your invitations.

Thank your guests for coming with a welcome bag waiting for them in their hotel rooms. Items to include in the bag are locally made items, necessity items, snacks, drinks, and fancy bath items, just to name a few ideas. Have someone local be a point of contact should questions or needs arise. Put this person’s contact information into the welcome bags.

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Between Space and Time You’re husband and wife now, so shake off the last of your nerves and simply enjoy your celebration. All of your planning is behind you—now for the fun part! To personalize your reception, you should exclude any of the following reception elements that do not appeal to you: Create a map of the room and identify where each component of the reception should take place. Include the receiving line, buffet tables, bar, wedding cake, DJ or musicians, head table, immediate family tables, guest tables, guest book table, and the gift table. Your reception site coordinator has the experience of numerous receptions held at the location—experience that will help you plan your logistic options. You will want to

prevent congestion, so locate key elements apart from one another.

Have your DJ or musicians play soft background music to allow your guests to mingle. Serve appetizers and drinks as they wait for your arrival. Your photographer may finish taking photographs of the wedding party and family, or you may even choose to take a limo ride throughout this time.

The wedding party will arrive at the venue discretely, and the guests then asked to take their seats. The emcee (usually your DJ) will announce the grand entrance of each of the members of the wedding party as they enter the reception and make their way to the head table. The maid of honor and the best

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Most head tables consist of long rectangular tables where the wedding party sits, facing the guest tables. An alternative to this is the “Sweetheart” table, a small, round table for only the bride and groom. This table allows the couple a bit of privacy for their first meal, and makes it easier for guests to visit the couple without the barrier of the large table. It also allows wedding party members to join their spouses, who may otherwise be at a table with a group of strangers.

Each table, in turn, will move through

the buffet line, or will be served by wait staff. Once everyone is served, the best man presents a toast to the couple, which may be followed by additional toasts.

After dinner, take time to walk around the reception room to visit each table. Greet your guests and thank them for coming.

At the planned time, the emcee will announce the cake cutting. You and your groom complete the ceremonial cutting of the cake, and the emcee will announce the couple’s first dance. This dance may be followed by several additional special dances, and then the floor is opened for everyone to dance.

The final reception event is the bouquet toss, and garter throw. Everyone can then dance and celebrate the night away.

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Close your eyes and picture your first dance with your new husband. If you envision a flawless dance that wows your guests, dance lessons will be the best decision.

You will want to start early (4 to 6 months in advance) and will want to wear shoes to your lessons that are similar to the ones you will be wearing at your reception. As you get closer to your event, you should even wear the actual shoes to practice in.

If you already have a “First Song” picked out, bring it along to give to your instructor.

Feeling confident and poised when you are on the dance floor for your very first dance together will be a wonderful memory you can both cherish forever. O

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Entertaining Kids A wedding reception is typically a “grown up” affair with time spent by your guests waiting for you to arrive. If your guest list consists of a lot of children, create a party just for the kids.

If the kids are happy the parents will be too, so make the children’s entertainment a priority. Consider hiring a professional children’s entertainer to ensure that both the parents and children rave about how much fun the reception was. O

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During your ceremony you will have the opportunity to symbolize your love for one another and the coming together of your families. The unity candle is the traditional symbol used, however there are options to include in your ceremony.

God’s Knot. This signifies your faith and the presence of God in your marriage. Three chords of rope are braided together to represent yourself, your fiancé, and God. Sand. Pouring together different colored sand into one container is a popular way to signify your union. This is a great idea for an outdoor ceremony so you do not have to worry about keeping a candle lit.

A Box, Wine and Love Letters. This Netherlands tradition has the couple

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place a bottle of wine and love letters into a wooden box. It is then nailed shut during the ceremony. The officiate explains, “If and when the marriage gets tough, open the box, have a glass of wine, and read your love letters to each other. This will remind you of your love and commitment to one another.”

Communion. Including your first communion together as a married couple is an outward symbol bringing your faith into your ceremony and into your marriage. O

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Obtain a Minnesota Marriage License You must obtain a license from any Minnesota county Recorder’s office. The marriage does not need to take place in the county where the license is obtained, but must take place within the state. State law requires both applicants to appear in person when applying. Call or see county website for details if either bride or groom cannot apply in person.

WAITING PERIOD AND USE. State law requires a five-day waiting period and the issuance of the license. After the waiting period, your license may be picked up or it can be mailed to you. It is then valid to use for six months.

FEES. The current fee is $115. The fee for parties who complete at least 12 hours of premarital education is $40. See the county’s website or visit a local office for requirement detail. No refunds are given.

MINIMUM AGE FOR MARRIAGE. Must be 18. Be prepared to present proper identification and proof of age with a driver’s license, passport, or a certified copy of birth certificate.

PREVIOUS MARRIAGES. Information regarding the termination of the most recent marriage is required (date, court, place) or the date and place of death of the former spouse.

WHAT TO DO WITH THE LICENSE. The person who solemnizes your marriage has it signed by the couple and two witnesses and, within five days, files it with the proper government agency for validation. That agency will, in turn, record the certificate in the county marriage records and send a certified copy of the certificate to you.

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WHERE TO APPLY Blue Earth County Mankato, MN 507-304-4340 Brown County New Ulm, MN 507-233-6653 Cottonwood County Windom, MN 507-831-1458 Faribault County Blue Earth, MN 507-526-6252 Le Sueur County Le Center, MN 507-357-2251 Martin County Fairmont, MN 507-238-3213 Nicollet County St. Peter, MN 507-934-0325 Rice County Faribault, MN 507-332-6114 Steele County Owatonna, MN 507-444-7450 Waseca County Waseca, MN 507-835-0670 Watonwan County St. James, MN 507-375-1216 PLEASE NOTE: State and county marriage license requirements can change. The information provided here is for guidance only and should not be regarded as legal advice.

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Selecting a caterer to prepare the meal is more than just about flavor; presentation of the meal and service to your guests are also important aspects to consider.

Catering a meal requires a considerable amount of time for planning, preparation, serving, and clean up time. Not to mention, the food and rental costs.

This is an undertaking that, if you do it yourself, will interfere the most with your family’s participation in the reception.

For this reason, you should strongly consider hiring others to take care of the food preparation and service for you.

On-site Option or Book Your Own The venue you select will have some impact on the caterer you choose, as some venues require that you use their on-site catering service, or work within their list of preferred vendors. If this is the case, many of your decisions have already been made. You will just select from the options in the price range that 50 SOUTHERN MINNESOTA BRIDE

works for you. These sites typically include all of the china, flatware, glassware, service, clean up, and gratuity in their catering price range.

A professional caterer will provide incomparable food, presentation, and service. Their food services will include preparing the food in their professional kitchens, packaging it for wedding service, transporting it to the site, preparing and decorating the food service table, and staff to attend the food service. Discuss with your caterer if you can rent the required serve ware from them, or if you need to provide your own.

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CATERING that specialize in barbeque, ethnic cuisine, or vegetarian menus. Use the time of your reception to help narrow down your choices. If the meal will be served earlier in the day, a lighter meal is adequate, while a full meal is more common later in the day.

Special Meal Requests The caterer can help you plan for the variations in your guest list, like guests with large appetites or even the smaller appetites of the children, and will help you determine the correct amount of food to order to ensure that you don’t run out. Better to have some left over than to leave some guests with an empty plate. Discuss any special needs you and your guests may have (e.g. vegetarian, sugar-free menu items, food allergies),

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To avoid disappointment on the wedding day, make sure you test the meal you decide upon before confirming it.

Consider the Extras Are you concerned with a beautiful banquet table presentation? Do you want elaborately-draped serving tables, and stunning ice sculptures? As you can imagine, increasing the food quality and complexity, and the decorating and

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presentation of the food, the labor hours involved will result in a higher per person cost for your reception. If your budget is limited, take some time to determine your particular priorities, and spend the bulk of your catering dollars in that area.

Interview and Book the Caterer Start the interview process and book your caterer early in your planning process. Ask event professionals to refer a caterer who has experience with the

quality, style, and organization that you are looking for. Credentials count! Ask if they are licensed and insured? How long have they been in business?

Complete a contract with the caterer you choose that includes, a listing of the foods selected, services to be provided, and the cost. Know the number of servers included, the number of hours service will be provided, and arrival and departure times. Most caterers will require a final count at least two weeks in advance. Find out about all deadlines and due dates.

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We feature an extensive wine list, seasonal, domestic draft and bottled beers. Our signature cocktails and seasonal drinks are second to none!

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Questions for the Caterer The food service at your wedding is important so work with a toprate professional. Schedule an appointment to meet and use this set of questions to guide you when selecting a caterer: The Basics • Do you have my date available?

• Have you done events at my reception site and can you provide references?

• Do you have a state license? (the business meets health department standards and has liability insurance) • Will you be personally handling the meal service at my wedding?

The Food • What menu items and style of service are your specialties?

• Are you willing to include a sentimental family recipe in the menu?

• Given the style, time, and date of my wedding, what menu items do you suggest?

• Can we schedule a tasting of the menu we choose?

• What is your average cost per-person?

• Can you prepare kids, vegetarian, or gluten-free menu for a few guests?

• Can you provide a wedding cake? If we provide it, do you charge a cutting and serving fee?

The Drink • Do you provide beverage service?

Is a drink included with meal service?

• Do you have a liquor license? Or do we handle the bar separately?

• Do you charge a corkage fee If we provide our own wine or liquor?

The Business • What is the ratio of servers to guests and how will they be dressed?

• Do you provide or rent linens, dinnerware, tables, chairs, and serving pieces? If so, what color and style of linens, glasses, plates, and accessories are available?

• What service costs are included? How much time is needed for set-up and clean-up?

• What deposit amount is required and when is the balance due? What is your cancellation policy? How are gratuities figured? How quickly will we receive a contract? O

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Catering Service Styles One basic catering question is the difference between the service style options. Here is a breakdown of four popular styles: Buffet Style. Your menu will be set out on long tables and can be self-service or served by staff. Unless properly timed and executed, long lines can quickly form at the buffet tables. If there are more than 50 guests, strongly consider having more than two buffet tables.

Plated Service. While your guests are seated, waiters bring meals to the table. The meals are beautifully laid out on the plate and more formal than other options. You may ask guests to select their meal choice as part of their R.S.V.P. Because it is generally the most

expensive, this is considered the most extravagant service style.

Station Service. These serveyourself-stations are set throughout the room and offer the guests more variety.

Foods are usually grouped by theme or cuisine, and guests are invited to mingle throughout the room and sample the different dishes.

Family Style. Waiters bring platters of hot-from-the-oven foods and place them on the table for the guests to share. This is perfect for a more casual style of entertaining and is easily coupled with the use of longer tables. There are pros and cons of each style.

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‘I Do’ Promise You This is your very special day. It will only happen once, so you will want to find a minister or wedding officiant with an engaging ceremony that will leave your guests inspired.

Discuss with your fiancé your beliefs and ideas to ensure a ceremony that is meaningful to both of you. Then make plans to meet with and get to know the officiant or minister who will solemnize your wedding. Your ceremony will be more meaningful when your officiant knows more about you than just your name. Meeting in advance will also give everyone a chance to make sure your personalities blend.

The officiant will help match your personal desires with the type of ceremony you would like to have to create your unique service. For instance, you may not choose the same components for an informal outdoor wedding versus a formal religious ceremony in a church.

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Commonly Used Bible Verses Many couples choose to commemorate their love by having a scripture passage read at their ceremony. Here are two bible verses signifying love and marriage: But ‘God made them male and female’ from the beginning of creation.

‘This explains why a man leaves his father and mother and is joined to his wife, and the two are united into one.’

Since they are no longer two but one, let no one split apart what God has joined together.” Mark 10:6–9 (NLT) Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud.

It does not dishonor others, it is not selfseeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth.

It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres. 1 Corinthians 13:4–7a (NIV) O

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While you might not know where to start, or even what you like, breaking the design into several basic categories can help.

Considering each separately will not only make the task less overwhelming—and maybe even fun—but will also help you create a cake that is uniquely your own.

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Selecting the Right Size The number of wedding guests will define the cake size, as well as how many tiers it should have. A tier of cake typically consists of two layers, a filling in between, and frosting and decoration on the outside. Ask how many guests can be served per tier, figuring on one slice per guest. Wedding cakes also include an additional anniversary tier. Adding sheet cakes is an economical option and allows you to serve several flavors.

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Decorative Aspects Before your consultation it’s helpful if you have made decisions about your wedding colors and theme. Pearls, patterns, ribbons, and flowers are great decorations to included into your cake’s design. Find images that demonstrate your ideas. If you want to use fresh flowers, you can use a few as a cake topper or dozens as a cascade. Your cake decorations can be as simple or as lavish as you want, but no matter if you choose traditional or ultramodern, make sure it’s the look that makes you happy!

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Put a Topper On It Many couples select a traditional topper with a formal looking bride and groom or initials. Others choose a more light-hearted approach with a topper made to mimic the couple’s hobbies or personalities. Whichever style is used you’ll have a great keepsake and conversation piece to use in your home.

Groom’s Cake More recently the groom’s cake has been used to make a humorous statement at the rehearsal dinner or at the wedding reception. Some brides will choose to surprise their groom with a themed cake incorporating one of his obsessions. You can ask your baker to produce a fish-shaped cake, one with a sports theme, or even one with an eightpoint buck on it. The possibilities are endless and the choice is yours.

By categorizing the process of selecting your wedding cake it becomes a manageable task. Your preparation will make the process go smoothly and you’ll have nothing short of an amazing wedding cake, delightful to the eyes and delectable to the taste buds. O

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Shape, Flavors and DĂŠcor THE SHAPE Tier: One level of the cake (i.e. a three tier cake.)

Layer: A horizontal piece of the cake. One tier is often made up of two or more layers joined together with a filling.

Round: A circular cake. It is the traditional wedding cake shape.

Square: A box shape. It is a modern shape that gives the baker cleaner, more geometric lines to work with.

Hexagon: A cake with six-sides.

Scalloped: The edges are curved to resemble the petals of a flower. Generally used for casual weddings such as garden weddings, tea and brunch weddings.

Molded: The cake is shaped to resemble a familiar object. These are most commonly used for the groom’s cake.

THE DECORATIONS Basket Weave: Results in a cake that resembles a wicker basket.

Swiss Dotted: Dots that look like beads are placed randomly over the cake.

Piping: A pastry bag and tip are used to make lines on the cake.

THE FROSTING AND FILLING Buttercream: A lasting wedding favorite made from butter, cream, and eggs.

Its soft texture does not lend itself well to outdoor weddings.

Ganache: A cream sauce made from butter and chocolate. It can be used as a frosting or a filling, but melts quickly in warmer temperatures.

Fondant: A versatile sugary dough that hardens over time. It can be given a satin sheen and is very popular for the limitless decorating possibilities.

Marzipan: Made from crushed almonds and egg; can be used as a filling or a frosting, although it is mainly used to make colored shapes that are placed on the cake.

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The flowers you choose for your wedding will express your personality, complement your gown, and tie-in with the general look and theme of the day. Before you set up a meeting with the floral designer, have these important details pinned down to have a productive meeting: Wedding Size and Budget You will want to know how many bouquets/boutonnieres are needed for the bridal party, plus how many table arrangements you’ll need for guest seating. It will also help you determine the floral budget.

If you have no idea how to come up with a budget for flowers, start out with 10% of the overall budget. You can always allocate more if you are using all flowers for your aisles and centerpieces.

With that figure, your floral designer can guide you towards the flowers and designs that will help you stay within or close to that amount. Keep in mind that most flowers can be ordered any time of year, but flowers and greenery that are in season will generally be less expensive.

Flower Types and Visual Aids Are there any specific flowers or a design you just have to have? Bring in photos of the style you’re looking for to help communicate your ideas. Not that you want an exact replica, but you may love one for the shape of the bouquet, another for the type of flower, or the element and color scheme that was used.

Remember that flowers are seasonal so what you want may not be available for your wedding. Be sure to note any flower allergies that you or your groom might have and share with the floral designer.

Descriptive Words Along with the photos, decide a few descriptive words to help express the style you have in mind. Try to use meaningful words like formal, vintage, country, rustic, casual, fun, glitz and glam, etc., while avoiding basic words like elegant or simple, unless that is really what you mean. Think about how you would describe your dress, venues, wedding theme, etc. when you come up with your descriptive words.

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FLOWERS Know Your Style Prepare for the consultation by listing your color palette and other special touches like monograms, hobbies, and themes that you want to incorporate into your flowers. The atmosphere of the ceremony venue may have a big impact on your floral design {rustic, modern, etc.} Check to see if your venue allows flower petals to be dropped during the ceremony, if candles are permitted, etc.

The Consultation Thoroughly discuss your ideas, share your photos and descriptive words, and then give creative control and trust to your florist. A good florist thrives on having the blessing of doing what is best for the look of the arrangement. Keep

in mind they are working with a natural product and often enough, floral products come in different colors, sizes and shapes than planned. Be as flexible as possible and believe they have the best intentions at heart.

At the end of the consultation or shortly thereafter you should receive a quote of costs. This is not set in stone and nothing is ordered until you contract with them, so if you want to expand and make something greater let your florist know.

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Minding all of the details and being organized is essential to creating a celebration that everyone enjoys. In the months leading up to your big day you will be contracting with several vendors who can help you realize your dream.

While wedding planning can be an overwhelming task, they will do what they can to make the process go as smoothly as possible. However, to avoid misunderstandings, couples should clearly communicate with vendors about dates, deadlines, and details.

cake, the entertainment and even the dress. Be consistent in your choices to help you avoid a muddled look so you don’t overdo it.

Name Your Style and Theme A theme is usually a certain style such as ‘vintage glam,’ “rustic chic,” or ‘modern simplistic’—the words that sum up the overall look and feel of the day. It’s important to choose your colors, style and theme before you get started as it extends to every element of the wedding–the room décor, the centerpieces, the stationery, the flowers, the food, the

Raising the Bar Most people associate weddings with champagne; its sparkling bubbles are the customary choice for toasts. But wines—both reds and whites—should be taken into consideration when creating the perfect meal. Look for at least one red wine and one white to serve at your celebration. Conventional wisdom says that whites go best with chicken and fish and reds with meats.

Most venues offer bar service with a variety of spirits and beer options. Providing beer on tap for your guests is an acceptable alternative to an open bar.

This can be a perfect compromise for both your guests and your wallet.

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Java lovers could set up a coffee bar with flavors and toppings. For another unique idea, add a smoothie bar for guests to create their own beverage. Order personalized cups to double as wedding favors.

Rent the Scene Some ceremony and reception sites will require that you rent equipment such as tables and chairs, sound and lighting equipment, tents, and more from an outside source. These event rentals can turn any setting into something spectacular so you can have the wedding of your dreams without the major expense of buying the items. When you meet with the rental provider, have a guest count estimate for the quantity of items you will need to reserve. At this time, set tenta-

tive delivery, set-up, and return times and expect to place a deposit for the rental of certain pieces.

A decorating rental business will also have a wide section of accessories to rent including arches, candelabra, chair covers, and aisle runners. They also offer a variety of colors and styles of linens, china, glassware and serving pieces. Remember when renting, that you will need to enlist help with the pick-up, set-up, tear-down and return.

Coordinate and Implement You may pride yourself in being organized and creative, but when it’s time to walk down the aisle, all you will really want is to feel the love—not the stress. If your life is already busy, avoid the pressure and hire a planner. You’ll

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You Imagine It. They Create It. Amazing weddings require creative talent, many hours, and inventory. Hiring a professional to design and decorate is a convenient solution, as well as a wise investment. Many brides will under-

estimate what’s involved in the decorating process—the time researching and creating the vision, gathering the items, setting them up and then tearing them down, not to mention the cost of all of the items—and then the hassle of getting rid of them afterwards. Decorating professionals will help you avoid the frustration of producing your dream wedding on your own. Don’t choose a wedding decorator on price alone—consult with them to understand all that is included in their service. Ask to see samples of their past work and what they can custom create for you.

Get it in Writing Once you have decided to work with a particular wedding vendor, sign a detailed, written contract. Read over the contract (several times if necessary) so

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Careful attention to the details will let you enjoy every moment of your day.

Alternatives to Tossing Rice The classical rainfall of rice is a fun and happy way for friends and family to wish the couple many happy years to come. However, the following are a couple ideas for those wanting to make their wedding unique.

Butterflies or balloons. Butterflies will not likely return, once set free, however they will be very colorful and joyful to watch. Balloons of course, must be filled with helium so they go straight to the sky

for the effect you are wanting. Balloons can be personalized with the names of the newlyweds for a special touch.

Rose petals. A great alternative to rice is showering the newlyweds with colorful rose petals. Ideally these should be white, light pink, lavender or pale yellow.

Custom Designed Stationery Do you want traditional designs with formal wording or a contemporary design with your own wording? Rely on a business that can create and customize your wedding stationery.

Send save-the-date cards up to a year in advance to get onto your guest’s calendars. Wedding invitations should be sent at least six weeks before your wedding to give your guests ample time to reply and make travel arrangements.

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Step Inside–It’s Photo(booth) Fun Add instant entertainment to your reception by having a photo booth for your guests. As soon as the curtain closes, something magical happens—true personalities of those inside appear. This provides a fun keepsake that both you and your guests can laugh at and enjoy for years to come.

Some couples use a copy of the photo strip as a unique wedding favor for their guests that will provide lasting memories.

You can arrange to have a copy of each photo strip put into a scrapbook and ask each guest to write a personal note to the couple, creating a great keepsake for you.

Having props available will add to the fun and excitement of your guest’s photo booth experience. Wigs, hats, glasses, outrageous jewelry, and even fake moustaches are just a few ideas of props to have available. Some couples have chalkboards or whiteboards available for people to add messages to their photos.

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Your ceremony or reception site may need a little (or a lot of) help to give it the look that will take your guest’s breath away. Lighting will enhance the beauty of your event design and transform your space into a unique and flattering environment. Ask your wedding consultant, venue, or DJ if they offer this service.

Light decorating is an art form and an experienced professional will know where to place the lights to create the effect you are looking for. They can transform a room and make it magical by using personalized monograms, uplighting, lighted backdrops, and so much more. Opt for colors that accent skin tones and consider using softer lighting during dinner, and darker shades during your dance. These subtle changes can smooth the transitions between cocktail hours, dinner, and dancing.

If you are having your event at night, visit the site at the time of your event. Pay attention to where you can add some much needed light to improve the space.

See if your venue has dimmers and if the lighting can be adjusted to the right brightness. Make sure your venue has enough power to handle extra lighting.

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When you meet with the vendor have room dimensions and some images of what you like to help them create a solution for you. Schedule a time to visit the venue to work out the technical details. Items such as windows and where the house lighting is located will be big factors in how your room will be lit. Adding lighting to your event will take it from ordinary to extraordinary. O TIP: See our website, blog, and Pinterest board for lighting ideas.

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A Moment Worth Capturing Videography is an art that uses professional grade cameras, software, computers, and sound equipment to capture your event and puts it on DVD so your story can be retold for years to come. A video will capture every important moment that photographs can often miss.

Still photography can’t always capture the fluid movement of the bride making her way down the aisle or the trembling of the groom’s hands as he sees her for the first time, the way her parent’s hug her before she steps up to the alter, the emotion he shows as he sings to his bride, the funny way she spills her sand over the edge of the vase, the fun had as you danced the night away.

Interviews are key to successfully selecting a videographer. Ask how much experience the filmmaker has with weddings and to see several samples of their wedding videos. Always ask for referrals from their former clients. Ask if they have ever shot at your wedding venue before.

If they have, ask to see a clip. This will help you choose your vendor.

Videographers are professional storytellers, so you will want to make sure that they will capture every part of your story

that you want to be told. You and your fiancé might want to consider having your videographer create a short clip of how you met and fell in love to show at your rehearsal dinner and reception. You will need to create a script or interview questions for your videographer to ask you as they film your clip. You will need to practice being interviewed and what you want to say, so that you are comfortable in front of the camera. Having a video at your event is a fun way for members of your new family and friends to get to know you as a couple, if they haven’t had the chance yet.

Be sure to budget for a professional videographer. You’ll have great food and drinks, a wonderful venue, and lots of other wedding memories, but if you don’t budget video into the mix, in the future, you will miss having it. You’ll miss hearing your voices and seeing the emotion on your faces from your wedding day. You’ll miss the sway of your first dance as Mr. and Mrs. Video is the only way to capture those things. Hiring a professional will ensure that your wedding video will be worth sharing time and time again. O

6 Questions to Ask Your Videographer What storytelling approach will you use to shoot the video? Ask to see examples of their work. Will this fit you as a couple?

Have they worked with your photographer before? How will they coordinate?

Will the videographer you are interviewing be the same one that films your wedding?

Will they be willing to shoot a “How We Met and Fell in Love” video to be shown at the grooms dinner and reception? Are there packages to choose from?

Have they ever shot a wedding at your ceremony/ reception site before?

What type of lighting will they be using?

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Most importantly, find a photographer that you feel comfortable with and will provide you with top quality images.

Photos are Forever Photographs are one of the few things that last forever from your wedding day.

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The photojournalistic style captures moments, rather than poses, because the photographer doesn’t “direct” the participants or guests. The result is candid and spontaneous images that convey the genuine emotion of your day as it naturally unfolds. You will end up with a wide array of shots and captured moments, some you may not have even witnessed, and they will serve as a record of the great time your guests had at your wedding.

Traditional, formal photography refers to the typical posed pictures. These usually consist of the wedding party, the couples’ families, the shots of the bridesmaids with their bouquets, the groom

with his parents, the happy couple gazing into each other’s eyes, etc.

In general, most photographers take both styles. Be clear if you prefer more of one type. Be sure to request traditional family portraits. Getting everyone together at one time can be hard, so your wedding is a great place to capture those few-and-far-between family photos.

Schedule the Shots Your photographer can help you establish a wedding day schedule, taking into account your photograph goals, as well as your desire to have fun. Instead of having the wedding party and family members milling around for several hours, give them the schedule showing when they need to be there. Remember to schedule alone time to reflect on the commitment you just made to each other.

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The First Look There is only one moment when the groom sees his bride for the first time, and then it’s over. What are you going to do? There is no wrong answer, and photographers agree that there are pros and cons to either way. Some couples feel it is less romantic when their eyes meet for the first time, with the eyes of all their guests on them. Others say, no matter where they see each other, it is a wonderfully romantic moment.

Choosing to have your photograph taken with each other before the ceremony gives you a more private moment, and a longer time to be with just each other. It is the most important day of your lives, and it is powerful when you see each other for the first time. It is an important and emotional moment you will want to capture. Whether you choose before the ceremony, or after, schedule time together for your photographer to capture the really beautiful, and genuine moments. Cry, kiss, admire each other, and then relax together.

Two Are Better Than One Your photographer is only one person and cannot capture every moment.

Consider buying a package that includes two professional photographers. If one is shooting the bride, then the other will

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PHOTOGRAPHY a unique opportunity to peek into the window of your personalities. Have a session that highlights your favorite thing to do together. Couples have included horseback riding, hiking, or a hole of golf in their session to show who they are together. Be creative, go do something you love, and bring your photographer along with you.

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be shooting the groom sharing the last moments of bachelorhood with his buddies. If a photograph is being taken of the bride as she approaches the aisle, then the other will be shooting the look on the groom’s face when he sees her for the first time. A second photographer provides a chance for the love story to be told more fully, from two pairs of eyes, rather than just one. If your photographer offers a second shooter, and it is in your budget, strongly consider it. Think of it this way—you will never regret hiring them, but there is a good chance you may regret it if you do not.

Get to Know Your Photographer Begin to build a bond with your photographer by having him or her take your engagement pictures. The session offers added time with your photographer and

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Asking Your Girls Choosing your bridesmaids can be difficult. Remember this is your day. Here are a few ideas to consider while you are deciding who will stand up with you.

Discuss with your fiancé the number of attendants you would like by your side. Typically, the bridesmaids and groomsmen walk up the aisle in pairs, but this is not a rule. You both will want people who are close to you to represent you whether the numbers match up or not.

Just because you were a bridesmaid in someone else’s wedding does not make you obligated to have them in yours. You may want to consider choosing only family members if you are having a hard time making decisions. O

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Gone are the days of guest books covered in flowers and feathered pens.

When you choose to go a more creative route with your guest book you can use it not only as a way to keep track of your guests, but also as a keepsake in your home. From thumbprint trees, to signature wine corks; the possibilities are endless. Let your personality show and have fun choosing a way to cherish the memories of your special day. O

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Engagement Photos: Don’t Skip ’Em

When you book your photographer, schedule an engagement session to spend some additional time getting to know him or her. You may consider skip-

ping this step, or think that just having a friend take your engagement pictures is good enough, but you will be thankful for what you gain by using your day-of photographer.

The engagement session gives you and your fiancé a chance to get to know your photographer and how he or she interacts with you. Having pictures taken can be uncomfortable for a lot of people; engagement sessions can ease any tension and anxiety. You will be more comfortable the day of the wedding knowing that all of your personalities blend.

Your photographer will get to know the two of you; your tendencies; if your eyes blink a lot; if you need help in

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PHOTOGRAPHY posed shots; show you what to do with your hands; discover the angles that look best for your facial expressions.

This session will save time when creating a “timeless portraiture” on your wedding day.

TIPS FOR A GREAT SESSION Share Your Ideas. Talk to your photographer about locations you would like to go to, and your ideas. The better you communicate about what you are looking for in your pictures, the more likely you’ll get it.

Have Fun. Your engagement session should be stress-free and relaxed. It is an experience to enjoy together.

Look Amazing. Bring several outfits to choose the clothes that go best with each background. It is im-

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portant for your clothes to complement and look good next to each other, but try to avoid looking like twins.

Solids are great and look good next to almost any backdrop.

Bring Props. Bringing your own props will give you something to do, and make your photos unique to you as a couple. When choosing your props think of your style, the location of your shoot, your clothing changes, and your wedding theme. You will want everything to flow. O

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Wedding Day Emergency Kit Anything can happen on your wedding day, so be prepared with an emergency kit. Create a kit using this list of items to pull off the perfect day: FROM THE BEAUTY SHELF

FROM THE CABINET

FROM THE DRAWER

ALL THE EXTRAS

Brush/Comb Hair Spray/Pins Mousse/Gel Cotton Balls Tissues/Q-Tips Make-Up Kit Baby Powder Hand Mirror Hair Dryer Curling Iron Flat Iron

Deodorant Toothbrush Toothpaste Dental Floss Breathe Mints Tampons Pain Reliever Band-Aids Eye Drops Antacids

Pen and Notebook Safety Pins Crazy Glue Extra Earring Backs Mini-Sewing Kit Double-Sided Tape Tide To Go Pen Static-Cling Spray

MP3 Player Cell Phone Bottled Water Energy Drink Straws (so you do not smudge your lipstick) Favorite Snacks

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Entertainment that is fun, unforgettable and unique to your celebration is what you are looking for, right? You want your guests to dance and have fun.

You want your introductions, your first dance, and all of your special moments to be unforgettable. You want your entire day to be uniquely yours, and not a generic production.

Music sets the tone from the wedding ceremony to the last dance. It heightens emotions, creates atmosphere, fills awkward silences, and gets us to dance.

Work closely with your disc jockey (DJ) to ensure your celebration is memorable by following these tips:

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variety of music that is appropriate for the various segments of your reception.

Be sure to discuss the volume level and genre of music that you want played during each of the time periods.

Ask your DJ or band for their play list to select songs you would like played at the reception. This is a great way for you to select specific dance music, rather than expecting them to guess your preferred genre of music. A professional DJ acquires their good reputation from their ability to get guests involved at an event, so ask for referrals.

On the Mic You want a DJ for the wedding reception entertainment who has the ability to go with the flow. If you picked a first song months ago, but on the way to the wedding you heard a more perfect song on the radio, can they change your first dance with this little notice? Most DJs have a ton of popular music in their SOUTHERN MINNESOTA BRIDE

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Details It’s a good idea for your band or DJ to contact the reception site to discuss specifics and avoid potential disasters.

Your reception venue may have time or volume level restrictions, and limited electrical usage. Address these issues before the day of your wedding.

Professional DJs and musicians are exactly that...professionals. They are knowledgeable, creative and will have professional-level equipment, with a back-up system available to avoid the chance that your reception would be without music.

Schedule an Interview Have a phone interview with them first to determine if they are available on your wedding date. Ask about their experience level, their equipment quality, and if they have a back up system. Determine the variety and versatility of their song list, the cost of their services, amount of the deposit, and the due date for the final payment.

When you have all of this information gathered, select the entertainment that best meets your needs. Ensure that the following are stated in your contract with your DJ or band: date and location, music start and end times, number and duration of breaks, and total cost. Ask if they would be willing to include an option to play beyond the agreed upon end time, just in case the reception runs a little long. O

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book of albums and can accommodate your change. If your DJ acts as master of ceremony, discuss their level of involvement, and work closely with them in planning, to keep your reception on schedule.

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Timeline for Smooth Transitions Having a timeline for your reception is important. From the time you make your grand entrance, to the time you begin the slow dances, you will want to keep your reception flowing smoothly. If your DJ is going to perform emcee services you will need to discuss your event with them, and together create a timeline for the night.

Points to discuss: • The time the wedding party will be arriving at the reception.

• The names and roles of the wedding party, and how you want them introduced, for example, some couples announce how each attendant knows the couple.

• If the DJ is dismissing tables to eat, explain how you would like it done, and at what time.

• The time you will be cutting the cake, i.e. before you eat, or after.

• How many toasts will be made and what time you want them done.

• How many first dances—bride and groom, bride with father, groom with mother, and so on. Provide the song choices.

• The special songs you want, or don’t want played? Be specific.

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Song Selection For the Prelude. Set the mood as everyone is finding their seats and anxiously awaiting your arrival.

Contemporary Life is Beautiful, Keb’ Mo’ All I Want Is You, Tristan Prettyman

Traditional Air on the G String, Bach Canon in D, Pachelbel

For the Processional. Here Comes the Bride is the traditional “walk down the aisle” song. This is one of the most heartfelt and unforgettable moments of your life, so choose music that is meaningful to both of you.

Contemporary All You Need Is Love, The Beatles Make You Feel My Love, Adele

Traditional Air, Handel Cantata No. 29, Bach

For the Recessional. The hard part is done, now walk back up the aisle to a song that portrays your excitement and enthusiasm. It can be classical or contemporary, but have fun with it!

Contemporary This Will Be Our Year, The Zombies Baby I’m Yours, Arctic Monkeys

Traditional Hornpipe, Handel Prelude in C, Bach

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When all eyes are on you, looking your best is important. As you prepare for what may be the single most important and memorable day of your life, you’ll want to consider these beauty enhancement options: skin and body care routines, slimming and toning plans, a pictureperfect makeover and hair style, facials, massages and body treatments, tanning, and spa manicures and pedicures.

achieve a healthy shine; paying special attention to the parts of your skin that will be on show when you’re in your dress. Use body cream with sunscreen to smooth, moisten, and protect the skin.

Caring for Your Skin Nothing is more beautiful than the natural glow of happiness that comes from within a bride on her wedding day.

To improve your glow, schedule a series of facials, with your last one no later than two weeks before the big day. Begin to implement a daily skin care routine of three basic steps: cleanse, exfoliate, and moisturize to care for your facial skin.

You can then add any special needs products to help repair and rejuvenate your skin. Exfoliate your body weekly to

Wedding Day Hairstyle When meeting with your stylist, bring a photo of the hairstyle you would like to have done, but remain flexible. Rely on her experience to help you discover what style flatters you most. Have your bridesmaids do the same, so your entire wedding party has a consistent, complimentary look. Wearing your hair in a traditional updo shows off the neckline and shoulders, and is always flattering. On the other hand, wear your hair down to show off your tresses. Schedule a trial run of your style several weeks prior to the wedding and remember to bring your veil and any other hair accessories. Consider the wedding day schedule and set your hair appointment accordingly. Wear a

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BEAUTY button-up shirt to protect your style when you change into your dress. You will need to allow enough time for make up application after your hair is complete and before you put on your dress.

How About a Makeover If it’s been a while since you last updated your look, your upcoming wedding is a great reason for a makeover.

A professional makeup artist can help you choose a foundation and colors that compliment your skin tone and give you a smooth, natural look. Apply makeup lighter for an everyday look and heavier for a more dramatic look for photographs. Keep in mind that your cheeks will be flushed all night, and with overdone blush you will look too red in person and in pictures. Inevitably a few tears will be

shed, so use waterproof mascara. Take a picture of your new look at the same time of day as your wedding, and remember flash photography is less forgiving than a mirror. Get your makeover done early so you can use your new look and easily recreate it on your wedding day.

A Little Color A sun-kissed tan looks stunning against a white wedding gown. If your skin has the ability to tan, look for a salon that offers skin profiling to determine the best tanning unit, tanning lotion to use, and how many minutes to tan each session. Build a base tan and remember, the number one rule is never, ever burn.

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BEAUTY process involves a professional spraying a solution onto the skin that develops a tanned appearance on the surface of the skin. The development of color takes anywhere from two to four hours and usually lasts five to seven days. The amount of days that a spray tan lasts varies, so have a practice spray tan at least two weeks prior to your wedding day to be sure of the results. For best results, moisturize twice a day.

Manicured Nails Your hands will be on stage the entire day—signing the certificate, showing off your rings, shaking hands—you will want them looking pretty, polished and feminine. Painting your nails a dark color such as burgundy, even if that is your wedding color, may make you cringe

when you look back at your pictures. Do yourself a favor and choose a pretty pale pink or nude for your wedding day manicure. Use the burgundy on your toes.

Simple Advice Reduce the risk of redness or even worse, an allergic reaction, by avoiding any new treatment for at least one month prior to your wedding. Keep your regular skin care schedule and avoid new shampoos or makeup before your wedding.

Experiment with different hairstyles, but choose the one you are most comfortable with. You don’t want to look back at photos and wonder, “who is that?”

Avoid trying trendy, new hair colors or cuts in the months leading up to the wedding and then being disappointed in it, leaving you no time to grow it

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BEAUTY out. Consult a professional to learn what flatters your features. Remember, your fiancé is expecting to see the woman he knows and loves walking down the aisle.

Fitness and Bridal Boot Camp You know the drill: a combination of a reasonable but restricted diet combined with both weight-bearing and fat-burning

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Showered in Love Your bridal shower is one of the most precious parts leading up to your wedding day. It is a time for your extended family and friends to gather around you and shower you with love and gifts. Some brides opt to have more than one bridal shower to accommodate all of the important people in their lives. These parties are times when you can sit back and let others do the planning. Enjoy every minute before you become a Mrs. O

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You have been working so hard on getting every detail right, and now it’s time to celebrate the last few days of being single with your girls!

Let your maid of honor take the stress of planning off of you for a bit.

Each bride is unique, so try to come up with creative Another ways to celebrate.

Party Your maid of honor Idea: could take you out on Page 22 the town, or plan a fun weekend at the lake for you and your closest friends.

Remember, this is all about you so make sure you communicate the kind of bachelorette party you would like to have. O

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Make those dreams a reality by hiring a certified travel agent. Hiring a professional is the best way to ensure that your trip will have no hidden fees, poor service, or unpleasant surprises.

Working with a certified travel agent will save you time, and money. Travel professionals know all of the ins and outs of a destination, and will have invaluable local advice to make your honeymoon as safe and enjoyable as possible. One

great advantage of hiring a travel agent is the peace of mind you will have if something goes wrong. Your agent will help you get through it.

Think an all-inclusive trip is out of your price range? All-inclusive resorts can be very affordable and offer many different restaurant options, spa packages, and activities to do as a couple. Let a travel agent show you just how economical these trips can be.

Consider the climate where you are vacationing, and pack accordingly

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HONEYMOON for the weather, as well as for the possible activities you will be doing. Be sure to use sunscreen, you do not want to spend your honeymoon in the hotel room soaking in aloe. Start making a list of the items you will need so when the time arrives you don’t have to rush and forget items.

If you plan an international trip it will take time to get your passports, and medical clearances. Begin the process early to avoid the stress of waiting for your credentials to arrive. If there is a currency difference it may be more beneficial to do an exchange before you leave the country. Major credit cards and travelers checks offer fraud protection, plan to carry these not cash. Be sure to have your travel agent’s contact information with you for help if needed.

Check into traveler’s insurance for a

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policy that offers protection in the event of a natural disaster or illness. Hurricanes happen, and insurance against these unlikely events ensure you get your money refunded, or your honeymoon rescheduled.

Check with your travel agent a few days before the wedding to confirm your plans.

Then prepare to have an amazing first vacation as husband and wife. It doesn’t matter where you decide to go for your honeymoon, just go. Even if it’s simply a few days at location near home, it’s time spent together you will not regret! O

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Make arrangements for you and your wedding party to get to the reception and don’t forget to provide safe travel options for your guests. To help you sort through the options and make decisions, take these ideas into consideration when booking your transportation: Discover the Options Different varieties of limousines, vans, trolleys, and even horse-drawn carriages are available. You will want to include the cost in your budget, so start research-

ing and checking the local options early.

Book your transportation six months in advance—especially if you are getting married during prom season or on a very popular wedding day.

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on time. After the ceremony the groom then joins the bride on the way to the reception. If you choose to ride alone as a couple you will need to arrange a second option for the wedding party.

If you have several out-of-town guests without their own transportation consider providing transportation to get them to and from the ceremony and reception locations. Providing a shuttle service is a

nice touch, and ensures that they won’t be late because they got lost.

It’s a good idea to have cab information, or the same shuttle service available to your guests following the reception.

This is especially true if alcohol has been served, you do not want any tragedy to occur, and planning ahead for these circumstances will help to ensure only happy memories. O

Questions for the Ride Special occasions call for special rides. To get to the church on time and arrive in style be prepared with a few questions to ask the provider: The Basics • Do you have our date available?

• Are you licensed and insured?

• When booking, are we reserving the limo for just a few hours or for the day and/or evening?

• When does the time actually start and when do the overtime charges begin?

• What is your cancellation/refund policy?

The Ride • When can we see it?

• How will the driver be dressed?

• What are the features and benefits of each option?

The Business • What are your rates?

• What is covered in this fee and how many miles are allowed?

• Do the packages include gratuity for the driver?

• Do you offer any discounted rates for wedding packages?

• When is the payment required?

• What amenities are provided with the package and is there an extra charge for these items (drinks, etc…)?

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320-979-0878 alimaries.com

G&K RENTAL.............................................. (P. 67)

507-625-3238 • Mankato 952-758-5715 • New Prague gkrental.com

PARTIES & WEDDINGS PLUS.................. (P. 70)

1419 North Riverfront Drive • Mankato 507-345-7277 partiesandweddingsplus.com

855 East Madison Avenue • Mankato 507-387-7908 hilltopflorist.com

HY-VEE FLORAL........................................ (P. 63)

Fairmont • 507-238-4323 Mankato Riverfront • 507-625-1107 Mankato Hilltop • 507-625-9070 New Ulm • 507-354-8255 Waseca • 507-835-8030 Windom • 507-831-2786 Worthington • 507-372-7354

PARTIES & WEDDINGS PLUS.................. (P. 70)

SILK EXPRESSIONS ................................. (P. 68)

1419 North Riverfront Drive • Mankato 507-345-7277 partiesandweddingsplus.com

T&K EVENT PLANNERS........................... (P. 68) AND DECORATORS

308 Main Street • Mapleton 507-524-4222

Mankato 507-381-6047 Jolene silkexpressionsmankato.com

PLAID PIPER FLORAL AND GIFTS......... (P. 62)

507-217-9993 • 507-217-7295 tandkdecorators.com

GOWN PRESERVATION

DJ/MUSIC/ENTERTAINMENT

507 North Riverfront Drive • Mankato 507-387-2224

507-327-8311 partysoundpro.com

GOWNS AND TUXEDOS

SHOWTIME PRODUCTIONS................... (P. 93)

Northbridge Mall • Albert Lea 507-552-1362 blissformalwear.com

PARTY SOUND.......................................... (P. 91)

507-327-3811 showtimematt.com

STAGE 1 SOUND....................................... (P. 92)

507-520-4376 stage1sound.com

THE FRYE.................................................... (P. 90)

thefrye.net

FITNESS AND HEALTH

FRESTYL FITNESS..................................... (P. 99)

Mankato • Minneapolis • Rochester 507-351-7805 poledanceminnesota.com

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STEPHEN CLEANERS AND LAUNDRY.. (P. 15)

BLISS BRIDAL AND FORMALWEAR...... (P. 19)

BLUE BOX BRIDAL.................................... (P. 17)

72 Downtown Plaza • Fairmont 507-235-5585 blueboxbridal.com

ENCORE CONSIGNMENT &..................... (P. 19) BRIDAL BOUTIQUE

311 Riverfront Drive • Mankato 507-386-0861

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DIRECTORY OF SERVICES GRAIF CLOTHING..................................... (P. 23)

5 Civic Center Plaza • Mankato 507-345-3000 graifclothing.com

INSPIRE BRIDAL BOUTIQUE..................... (P. 1)

HONEYMOON

(SEE TRAVEL AGENCIES)

HOTEL ACCOMMODATIONS (SEE ALSO RECEPTION VENUES)

LEXINGTON INN & SUITES..................... (P. 41)

St. Peter 507-514-2224 inspirebridalboutique.com

1200 1st Street NE • New Prague 952-758-7300 • 877-539-7070

NUTTER CLOTHING COMPANY............ (P. 24)

INVITATIONS

SISTERS BRIDAL & TUX........................... (P. 14)

1750 Tower Boulevard • North Mankato 507-625-0547 • 800-899-3417 stationerygift.carlsoncraft.com

320 South Minnesota Avenue • St. Peter 507-931-4340 nutterclothingcompany.com 1201 South Broadway • New Ulm 507-359-7204 sistersbridalandtux.com

THE STATIONERY & GIFT STORE............. (P. 3)

BY CARLSON CRAFT

JEWELRY

EXCLUSIVELY DIAMONDS.........(INSIDE FRONT)

THE SILHOUETTE..................................... (P. 17)

1660 Tullamore Street • Mankato 507-345-1658 exclusivelydiamonds.com

TIP TOP TUX................................................. (P. 7)

120 Minnesota Avenue South • St. Peter 507-934-3344 juleesjewelry.com

WEDDINGS BY DEB ................................. (P. 16)

Mankato 507-469-2046 loveremainsjewelry.com

GROOM’S DINNER

Madison Avenue Hilltop • Mankato 507-625-1625 Downtown • New Ulm 507-354-2613 pattersonsdiamondcenter.com

55 Main Street • Easton 507-787-2211 silhouettewedding.com

Several Minnesota Locations 507-625-1831 tttux.com

214 Central Avenue • Faribault 507-332-7171 weddingsbydeb.com

CHARLEY’S RESTAURANT & LOUNGE.. (P. 25)

920 Madison Avenue • Mankato 507-388-6845 charleysrestaurantmankato.com

JAKE’S STADIUM PIZZA.......................... (P. 25)

330 Stadium Road • Mankato 507-345-3185 1627 South Broadway • New Ulm 507-354-3613 119 West Broadway • St. Peter 507-934-4944 jakesstadiumpizza.com

TIMBER LODGE STEAKHOUSE.............. (P. 22)

4455 West Frontage Road • Owatonna 507-444-0303 timberlodgeowatonna.com

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JULEE’S JEWELRY...................................(P. 112)

LOVE REMAINS JEWELRY....................... (P. 20)

PATTERSON’S DIAMOND CENTER.......... (P. 9)

LIGHTING

MOONLIT OCCASIONS............................ (P. 73)

507-381-3985 • 612-499-0402 moonlitoccasionsonline.com

PHOTO BOOTH

PARTIES & WEDDINGS PLUS.................. (P. 70)

1419 North Riverfront Drive • Mankato 507-345-7277 partiesandweddingsplus.com

SITT & GRINN PHOTO BOOTH............... (P. 71)

507-220-1268 • 507-763-3956 sittandgrinn.com

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BRAUNSHAUSEN PHOTOGRAPHY....... (P. 85)

201 Maverick Drive • Mankato 507-327-3103 cbraunshausenphotography.com

DANIEL DINSMORE PHOTOGRAPHY... (P. 83)

507-380-0220 dinsmorephotography.com

DESCEND FROM ABOVE......................... (P. 79) PHOTOGRAPHY

descendfromabove.com

FRANK PHOTOGRAPHY.......................... (P. 84)

507-461-3346 stevefrankphoto.com

RECEPTION VENUES

AMERICINN HOTEL &................................ (P. 4) CONFERENCE CENTER

240 Stadium Road • Mankato 507-345-8011 americinnmankato.com

BEST WESTERN......................................... (P. 35)

1111 Range Street • North Mankato 507-625-9333 bwmankato.com

CARIBOU BANQUET HALL..................... (P. 47)

30649 380th Street • Le Sueur 612-414-6948 caribougunclub.com

CHANKASKA CREEK RANCH & WINERY.(P. 31)

HMD PHOTOS............................................(P. 82)

Kasota 507-931-0089 chankaskawines.com

JESS & JEN DO WEDDINGS.................... (P. 82)

COUNTRY INN & SUITES......... (INSIDE BACK) MANKATO HOTEL & CONFERENCE CENTER

507-382-1021 hmdphotos.com

jessandjendoweddings.com

JODY HANSCOM STUDIOS.................... (P. 81)

612-998-9436 jodyhanscom.com

MAKAYLA RAE PHOTOGRAPHY............ (P. 80)

507-202-0642 makaylaraephotography.com

MALWITZ PHOTOGRAPHY..................... (P. 78) 507-420-8192 malwitzphotography.com

MELISSALEE PHOTOGRAPHY................ (P. 78)

507-822-3064 melissaleephotography.weebly.com

MI AMORE IMAGERY............................... (P. 84)

507-304-3401 miamoreimagery.com

PATTY’S PHOTOGRAPHY........................ (P. 80)

507-332-8014 • 507-330-3045 pattysphotography.com

P.S. I DO WEDDING................................... (P. 86) PHOTOGRAPHY

1900 Premier Drive • Mankato 507-388-0689 countryinns.com/mankatomn

COURTYARD MARRIOTT........................... (P. 5)

Mankato 507-388-1234 courtyardmankato.com

FARIBAULT GOLF CLUB........................... (P. 44)

1700 17th Street NW • Faribault 507-334-5559 faribaultgolf.com

GLENCOE CITY CENTER.......................... (P. 40)

1107 11th Street E. • Glencoe 320-864-6951 glencoemn.org

HOLIDAY INN & GREEN MILL................. (P. 38)

1201 Torgerson Drive • Fairmont 507-238-4771

HOLIDAY INN............................................ (P. 40)

2101 South Broadway • New Ulm 507-359-3540

LAKESIDE SUPPER CLUB........................ (P. 46)

507-360-8193 Kandi 507-276-5369 Kim psidoweddingphotography.com

32298 State Highway 13 • Montgomery 952-758-2005 lakesidesupperclub.com

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DIRECTORY OF SERVICES MAIN STREET PLAZA............................... (P. 42)

141 4th Street • Pemberton 507-869-3650 pembertonmn.govoffice2.com

MANKATO CITY CENTER HOTEL........... (P. 33)

101 East Main Street • Mankato 507-385-3505 mankatomnhotel.com

MANKATO EVENT CENTER..................... (P. 34)

12 Civic Center Plaza Ste. 1710 • Mankato 507-388-6845 mankatoeventcenter.com

MANKATO GOLF CLUB............................ (P. 30)

100 Augusta Drive • Mankato 507-387-5676 mankatogolfclub.com

MORRISTOWN COMMUNITY CENTER.... (P. 45)

402 South Division Street • Morristown 507-491-2720 morristownmn.com/communitycenter

NICOLLET CO. HISTORICAL SOCIETY... (P. 40)

1851 North Minnesota Avenue • St. Peter 507-934-2160 nchsmn.org

NORTH LINKS GOLF COURSE................ (P. 36)

THE LOOSE MOOSE SALOON................ (P. 52) AND CONVENTION CENTER

119 South Front Street • Mankato 507-345-1446 theloosemoosesaloon.com

VERIZON WIRELESS CENTER................. (P. 32)

One Civic Center Plaza • Mankato 507-389-3000 verizonwirelesscentermn.com

REHEARSAL DINNER (SEE GROOM’S DINNER)

RENTALS

(SEE DECORATING AND RENTALS)

TRANSPORTATION

CELEBRATION TRANSPORTATION......(P. 105)

Mankato 262-528-6287 celebrationtransportationmankato.com

SLEEPY EYE LUXURY.............................(P. 104) CHARTER SERVICE

800 Main Street East • Sleepy Eye 507-794-7941

TRAVEL AGENCIES

AMBER PIETAN TRAVEL AGENCY.......(P. 101)

Mankato 507-947-3355 northlinksgolf.com

507-382-0669 amberstravel.com

OLD MAIN VILLAGE................................ (P. 36)

Madison East Center, Suite 318 • Mankato 507-345-8797 • 800-767-7138 emtravel.com

RIVERSIDE TOWN & COUNTRY CLUB.. (P. 42)

400 South 3rd Street • St. Peter 507-931-6174 hometown-travel.com

ST. JAMES GOLF COURSE...................... (P. 39)

112 Marshall Street • Mankato 507-625-1658 lutestravel.com

301 South 5th Street • Mankato 507-388-1480 oldmainvillage.com Blue Earth 507-526-2764 rtccgolf.com

77818 Highway 60 East • St. James 507-375-7484 saintjamesgc.com

STARFIRE EVENT CENTER..................... (P. 43)

204 2nd Street SW • Waseca 507-833-8756 • 507-461-1387 wasecamac.com

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EMERALD TRAVEL..................................(P. 103)

HOMETOWN TRAVEL ............................(P. 102)

LUTES TRAVEL ........................................(P. 100)

TUXEDOS

(SEE GOWNS AND TUXEDOS)

VENUES

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Visit our new location (just one block north)

Now in the Historic Nicollet Hotel 120 Minnesota Ave. South | St. Peter, MN

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He’s the Groom And we’re getting married on

Planning Countdown Budget Development Detail Tracking Venue Planner Photography Checklist Wedding Day Checklist

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SouthernMNBride.com m Decide on style and size of wedding m Choose color scheme m Set your budget; discuss finances with those helping to pay m Decide wedding party size, choose attendants m Begin your guest list to get a rough count m Hire a wedding planner to help m Meet with clergy or officiant for pre-marital counseling requirements m Start to shop for gown and veil m Begin to interview and reserve as decided: m Ceremony site m Reception site m Photographer m Videographer m Caterer m Florist m Entertainment

m Order and mail save-the-date cards m Choose dress for bridesmaids m Register for gifts at bridal registries m Have engagement photos taken m Discuss honeymoon plans, apply for passport if needed

m Book transportation for ceremony and reception

6 Months

m Set the date and time for the wedding m Submit engagement announcement on

m Order dress and accessories—schedule delivery date

m Help mothers choose their dresses m Reserve rental equipment such as tables, chairs and tent if unfurnished space

m Select invitations, stationery, and thank you cards

m Book hair, nail and makeup appointments m Choose baker—order wedding cake m Choose favors m Make honeymoon reservations m Reserve rooms for out-of-town guests m Order wedding rings and arrange engraving m Take dance lessons and choreograph first dance

m Research marriage license requirements

3 to 4 Months

­9 Months

­Upon Engagement to 12 Months

12 MONTH PLANNING COUNTDOWN

m Select wedding music for ceremony, dinner and dances

m Finalize details with florist, DJ, photographer, caterer

m Finalize menu with caterer m Choose and order men’s attire m Meet with a premarital counselor m Prepare bridal shower guest list for your host m Schedule a session with your videographer to film your “How We Met and Fell In Love” video for the rehearsal dinner/reception m Confirm all reservations for honeymoon

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rehearsal

1 Week

m Address and mail invitations m Confirm ceremony details and arrange

m Pick up dress m Pick up the rings m Write rehearsal dinner and wedding toasts m Confirm out-of-town guest lodging m Get manicure and pedicure m Pack for honeymoon! m Write thank you notes as you receive gifts m Verify transportation to and from ceremony

Day Before

2 Months

12 MONTH PLANNING COUNTDOWN

m Deliver out-of-town guest gift baskets

m Prepare printed program for ceremony m Invite wedding party and guests to rehearsal dinner

m Purchase guest book and pen, unity candle,

1 Month

toasting glasses, cake knife and server, flower girl/ring bearer accessories m Complete documents for legal name change, change of address

m Obtain marriage license m Pick up rings and check engraving m Confirm details with the florist, caterer,

to hotel

m Attend ceremony rehearsal m Hold rehearsal dinner and give gifts to wedding party

m Prepare tip envelopes and arrange for

entertainers, and officiant

someone to distribute them

m Schedule fittings for gown, tuxedo,

2 Weeks

ring bearer, fiancĂŠ, parents

m Confirm rehearsal dinner plans m Submit list of must-take shots to photographer and videographer

Wedding Day

attendants’ dresses

m Buy gifts for attendants, flower girl,

m Eat breakfast m Get hair and makeup done m Get dressed m Relax and enjoy the day m Give your vows to your Maid of Honor m Exchange a note/gift with your groom

m Follow up on missing RSVPs m Arrange seating chart and place cards m Create wedding day schedule; share with wedding party, family and vendors

m Confirm final guest count to caterer and reception site

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SHARING THE COST The most useful approach for a bride and groom to take with their families is to be communicative, realistic, and courteous. Weddings are expensive and there are times when tradition should bow to practicality.

Below is the traditional division of expenses.

Bride’s Family

Groom’s Family

• Invitations, announcements, and postage • Bride’s wedding attire and trousseau • Cost of the ceremony including rental of sanctuary, chapel or other facility, organist, soloist and sexton fees, aisle carpets, flowers, and any additional decorating costs • Bridesmaids’ bouquets • Cost of the reception including food, wedding cake, beverages, flowers, decorations, music, rental equipment and gratuities for the bartenders and waiters • Engagement and wedding photographs • Transportation • Wedding gift for the newlyweds • Wedding consultant • Any welcome parties for out-of-town guests

• Their wedding attire • Wedding gift for the newlyweds • Rehearsal dinner • Their travel expenses and hotel bills • Shipment of wedding gifts to the bridal couple’s new home

Bride • Groom’s ring • Gift for the groom • Gifts for her attendants • Lodging for her out-of-town attendants (optional) • Bridesmaids’ luncheon • Gift for parents

Groom • Bride’s engagement and wedding rings • Gift for the bride • Marriage license • Fee for clergy officiant • Gifts for best man, groomsmen, and ushers • Bridal bouquet and going away corsage • Boutonnieres for all men in wedding party • Mothers’ and Grandmothers’ corsages • Lodging for out-of-town attendants (optional) • Honeymoon • Bachelors’ dinner (optional) • Gift for parents

Attendants and Ushers • Their wedding attire selected by the bride • Travel expenses and lodging • Parties for the bride and groom • Wedding gift for the couple

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BUDGET DEVELOPMENT Developing a realistic wedding budget is essential and should be one of the first things you do. Keep your budget in mind so you will be able to make the right decisions when making choices. Here are a few questions you may want to discuss before developing your final budget.

Overall Budget

Food / Catering

How much do you want to spend?

Are the necessary funds available?

Size of wedding party?

How many guests will be invited?

Do you want a caterer separate from your venue?

Sit-down service or buffet?

Will appetizers be served during cocktail hour?

Will there be alcohol?

Full bar or limited to beer, champagne and wine?

Ceremony and Reception Where will you hold it? Indoors or outdoors?

Church or venue?

Reception formal or casual?

Ballroom or hall?

Entertainment

Do you want a designer gown or off-the-rack?

Will you purchase or rent formalwear?

Will you have an orchestra or organist at the ceremony?

Band, DJ or both?

What other sort of entertainment will be needed?

Invitations Letterpress or printed?

Custom designed or just customized?

Will you be sending save the dates?

What inserts will be required with the invitations?

Photography

Transportation

What style do you prefer, posed or photojournalistic?

Do you want a leather-bound photo book or something less expensive?

What style of videography do you want?

How many copies of the video will be needed?

How will you travel from the ceremony to the reception?

Will you provide rented transportation for the entire wedding party?

Does your venue require valet parking or shuttle service?

Attire

Wedding Cake Do you want a custom designed cake or something smaller with sheet cake service?

Once you decide on your priorities, it will guide you in setting your budget. Once your budget is set, stick to it by using our handy budget worksheets (starting on the adjacent page) to keep you on task.

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BUDGET MANAGEMENT Wedding Rings

Engagement ring

___________

Stationery

Bride’s ring

___________

Groom’s ring

___________

Bride’s Attire

Save-the-date cards

___________

Invitations and envelopes

___________

Map inserts

___________

Announcements

___________

Response cards

___________

___________

Thank you notes

___________

___________

Ceremony programs

___________

Calligraphy / addressing

___________

Bridal gown

___________

Headpiece / veil Alterations Shoes

___________

___________

Postage

___________

Lingerie, hosiery, garter

Jewelry and accessories

___________

Place cards

___________

Hair, makeup, manicure

___________

Printed napkins

___________

Dress preservation

___________

Guest book and pen

___________

Other

___________

Other Women’s Attire

Mother of the bride

___________

Rehearsal Dinner

Mother of the groom

___________

Site rental

___________

Bride’s attendants

___________

Food / caterer

___________

Taxes and gratuities

___________

Men’s Formal Attire

Groom’s tuxedo, shoes, etc.

___________

Father of the bride

___________

Other

___________

___________

Bridesmaid’s luncheon

Father of the groom

___________

Gifts

Groom’s attendants

___________

Ceremony

Church / ceremony site fee

For bride

___________

For groom

___________

For bride’s attendants

___________

___________

For groom’s attendants

___________

___________

For parents

___________

Organist / musicians / soloist ___________

For flower girl / ring bearer

___________

Marriage license

___________

Other

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Officiant

Aisle runner, decorations

___________

Candles, misc.

___________

Flower girl accessories

___________

Ring bearer accessories

___________

___________

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BUDGET MANAGEMENT Transportation

Limousine / carriage

Other

Flowers Ceremony

___________ ___________

Reception

___________

Alter / church

___________

Pew markers

___________

Bride’s bouquet

___________

Site rental fee

___________

Bouquet preservation

___________

Food / service tax and gratuity ___________

Attendant’s bouquets

___________

Cake / cutting fee

___________

Mothers’ corsages

___________

Groom’s cake

___________

Grandmothers’ corsages

___________

Cake knife / server

___________

Men’s / ushers boutonnieres ___________

Toasting glasses

___________

Flower girl basket

Beverages

___________

Favors

___________

___________

Reception

___________

Cake table

___________

Decorations besides flowers

___________

Buffet table

___________

Rental items ___________ (tables, chairs, linen, china, etc.)

Head table

___________

Centerpieces

___________

Band or DJ

___________

Decorating

___________

___________

___________

Other

Photography

Engagement photo

___________

Formal portrait

___________

Wedding album and photos

___________

Parents’ albums

___________

Extra prints

___________

Photographer’s fee

___________

Other

___________

Videography Ceremony

___________

Reception

___________

___________

Extra copies of video

Other

Going away corsage Helpers (total):

___________

___________

Wedding coordinator Cake cutting / gift table attendants Guest book attendant Officiant Soloists / musicians Other

___________

Honeymoon Expenses Transportation

___________

Accommodations

___________

Bride’s apparel

___________

Groom’s apparel

___________

Daily budget

___________

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COMPARE RECEPTION VENUES Where to hold your reception is one of the most complex decisions to make. Use this comparison chart to help you decide what your priorities are, and how the cost will enter into your overall plan.

Amenities Available

1:

2: 3:

Formal / informal dĂŠcor Decorating restrictions Distance from ceremony Disabled access Capacity Air conditioned Dance floor / stage Sound system / piano Head table # of guest tables / chairs Guest book table Gift table Cake table Linens China, flatware Stemware / glassware Wedding coordinator Catering service Wait staff Bar / bartender Champagne cost Corkage fee Cake cutting charge Clean-up charge Adequate / or valet parking Other Head count deadline Hours available Early set-up availability Taxes and gratuity Deposit amount Deposit deadline Final payment deadline EST. COST TO BUDGET 120 MY PLANNING GUIDE

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PAYMENT RECORDS Date

Payment Made To

Amount

Method/ Check #

Balance Due

Date Due

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CEREMONY DETAILS Details of your ceremony will express who you are. Use this page to record all of your vendors you have selected to make your ceremony the one of your dreams.

Date ______________________Time________Location______________________________ Officiant___________________________________________Officiant fee_______________ Address____________________________________________Phone___________________ Rehearsal date_______________________________________Rehearsal time_____________ Rehearsal dinner location_________________________________Reservation time____________ Number of guests____________________________________________________________ Site requirements____________________________________________________________ Seating capacity____________________________________________________________ Site fee____________________________________________Other fees________________

Services: Photographer________________________________________Phone___________________ Videographer________________________________________Phone___________________ Florist_____________________________________________Phone___________________ Decorator___________________________________________Phone___________________ Wedding coordinator____________________________________Phone___________________ Transportation________________________________________Phone___________________

Music: Soloist____________________________________________Phone___________________ Soloist____________________________________________Phone___________________ Musician___________________________________________Phone___________________ Musician___________________________________________Phone___________________ Processional Song____________________________________________________________ Recessional Song____________________________________________________________

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RECEPTION DETAILS Use this page to record all of the vendors you have selected to help make your reception a party. It’s your first celebration as husband and wife – so make it great.

Venue: Location___________________________________________Seating capacity____________ Address____________________________________________Phone___________________ Manager_________________________________________________________________ Rental cost__________________________________________Deposit__________________ Final payment due date__________________________________Equipment rental fee__________ Date / time room is available for decorating______________________ Tables and chairs provided Linens provided

m Yes m No Quantity needed ____________

m Yes m No Quantity needed ____________

Cleanup requirements_________________________________________________________

Food: Caterer____________________________________________Phone___________________ Meal description____________________________________________________________ Baker_____________________________________________Phone___________________ Cake description_____________________________________________________________

Entertainment: DJ / Band___________________________________________Cost____________________ Contact person_______________________________________Phone___________________ Arrival time_________________________________________Hours of music______________

Songs: Father / daughter dance______________________Mother / son dance_______________________ First dance______________________________Parents’ dance__________________________ Throwing bouquet_________________________Garter toss____________________________ Wedding party dance_______________________Dollar or traditional dance___________________ Last dance______________________________Other_______________________________

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YOUR PARTY

Attendants

DAY OF SCHEDULE

Wedding Day

Name:_____________________________ Phone:_____________________________

6:00 am:

E-mail:_____________________________

7:00 am:

Name:_____________________________

8:00 am:

Phone:_____________________________

9:00 am:

E-mail:_____________________________ Name:_____________________________

10:00 am:

Phone:_____________________________

11:00 am:

E-mail:_____________________________

NOON:

Name: _____________________________

1:00 pm:

Phone:_____________________________ E-mail:_____________________________ Name:_____________________________ Phone:_____________________________ E-mail:_____________________________ Name:_____________________________

2:00 pm: 3:00 pm: 4:00 pm: 5:00 pm: 6:00 pm:

Phone:_____________________________ E-mail:_____________________________

7:00 pm:

Name:_____________________________

8:00 pm:

Phone:_____________________________

9:00 pm:

E-mail:_____________________________

10:00 pm:

Name:_____________________________ Phone:_____________________________

11:00 pm:

E-mail:_____________________________

MIDNIGHT:

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Bride’s Photos

PHOTOGRAPHY CHECKLIST

m Full Length m Back of dress m Bouquet m With both parents m With parents separately m With grandparents m With siblings m With maid / matron of honor m With all attendants m With groomsmen m With flower girl and ring bearer

Pre-Wedding

m Bride getting ready m Bride putting on veil m Candid shots of bride preparing m Groom getting ready m Attendants getting ready m Front of ceremony location m Guests arriving and being seated

Groom’s Photos

m Full length m With both parents m With parents separately m With grandparents m With siblings m With best man m With all attendants m With bridesmaids

Bride and Groom Photos

m Bride and groom together m With each set of parents m With entire wedding party m Close-up of hands displaying rings m Signing the marriage certificate

Ceremony

m Musicians / Vocalists m Attendants waiting to enter m Parents being seated m Candids of parents m Attendants walking down aisle m Child attendants walking down aisle m Groom coming down the aisle

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m Clergy, groom and best man at altar m Bride and father walking down aisle m Father giving bride’s hand to groom m Vow exchange m Ring ceremony m Candids of bride’s / groom’s faces m Unity candle ceremony m Groom kissing the bride

Recessional

m Guests throwing seeds, petals, etc.

Reception

m Guests signing guest book m Place cards, favors m Centerpieces, place settings m Bride and groom listening to toasts m Candids throughout room m Bride and groom first dance m Bride and father dance m Groom and mother dance m Guests dancing m Cake, cake table m Cake cutting m Bouquet toss m Garter removal and toss m Going away vehicle m Newlyweds departing

Videography Checklist

m Bride leaving home m Guests arriving at ceremony m Wedding party preparing m Ceremony m Guests leaving m Guests arriving reception m Announcing of newlyweds and party m Toasts m First dance m Guests dancing m Cake cutting m Bouquet and garter toss m Bride and groom with individual guests m Bride and groom leaving m Other MY PLANNING GUIDE

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WEDDING DAY CHECKLIST

m Gown (be sure it is pressed) m Headpiece and veil m Lingerie (bra, bustier, slip, petticoat) m Hosiery and garter m Shoes m Jewelry and accessories m Wrap / jacket / gloves

Groom:

m Coat, shirt, vest, trousers m Neckwear m Cuff links m Socks and shoes

Don’t Forget

m Rings and marriage license m Ring bearer’s pillow / flower girl basket m Wedding programs m Cake knife and server, toasting glasses m Favors m Guest book and pen m Unity candle m To pay officiant and vendors m Assign someone to collect / transport gifts

Honeymoon m Airline tickets (note flight number and departure / arrival times)

m Cruise tickets (note cabin number and departure / arrival times)

m Resort / Hotel (address, phone and confirmation numbers)

m Passports / Visas m Digital camera m Credit cards / travelers checks m Medicines / prescriptions m Extra contacts or glasses m Toiletries m Hair dryer m Electrical plug adaptors m Travel iron / steamer m Travel clock / radio

When Updating Your Name

m Auto registration m Bank and credit card accounts m Car insurance m Credit reporting agencies m Deeds / titles m Driver’s license m Employee records m Investment accounts / stock certificates m Life insurance m Medical / dental records m Memberships m Passport m Post Office m Social Security m Tax agencies (federal, state, local) m Voter registration m Wills / trusts

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