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Membership Directory KC Metro Cares members

Letters from the Editor and Publisher

Taekwondo Increases Independence in Son with Autism

Yours in Health Monthly health & fitness column

We’re Here for Life Johnson County MED-ACT

Welcome New Member Unlimited Play

11 Astra Day School Kansas City Autism Training Center

13 Choices, Choices Kauffman FastTrac

14 Volunteer Spotlight Anthony Butler

15 Event Coverage: Match Banquet & Awards Big Brothers Big Sisters of Greater Kansas City

18 Play Shapes the Brain, Opens the Imagination and Invigorates the Soul Unlimited Play

20 Making Your Home Safe This Summer...and All Year Long Charlie’s House

21 Event Coverage: 2013 Big Band Benefit

Blue Valley West High School

22 Student Spotlight: Hope Williams G.i.R.L. Inc.

23 Dear Amy Monthly Advice Column

24 Kids CARE Amazing Children Doing Wonderful Volunteer Work in KC

26 Welcome to the Board! Midwest Center for Nonprofit Leadership

28 Double Your Donation Tree Fund

29 Calendar of Events Charity Events for May

30 Games Fun Stuff

Kansas City Metro CARES Sharna Rittmaster Editor editor@goicare.com Merissa Rittmaster Non Profit Liaison merissa@goicare.com STAFF PHOTOGRAPHERS David Bram Presley Ann Slack

CONTRIBUTING WRITERS Jonathan Rios Amy Hyken-Lande Alana Muller Michele Mackey ADVISORY PANEL Vanessa Faller Shawn Muller Amanda Goetz Jim Brown Mike Dalena Jean Ann Rucker

Amy Michael CARES Publisher amichael@goicare.com Phil Dellasega CARES Creative Director phild@goicare.com

KC Metro CARES 8240 W 151 Street Overland Park, KS 66223 913.890.3133

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membership directory CARES Memberships are available to local non profits that are registered as 501(c)3 organizations. The goal of CARES is to give non profits an outlet for communicating their purpose to our community. It is not just an ad, but more accurately an annual marketing plan that provides online and print resources necessary to promote the organization.As part of our Membership Package, CARES provides: 10 Full Pages

Big Brother Big Sisters of Greater Kansas City 3908 Washington St Kansas City, Mo 64111 816.777.2871 bbbskc.org

dedicated to the nonprofit, coverage of the two largest events, an online volunteer database, interactive calendar, and more. Please contact us for more details about our membership by calling 913-890-3133 or emailing editor.op@goicare.com to arrange a meeting. Let us help you show the community how your hard work benefits the Kansas City Metro area.

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Kansas City Autism Training Center

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Suicide Awareness Survivor Support PO Box 23242 Stanley, KS 66223 913.681.3050 sass-mokan.com

5800 N Patriot Drive Owasso, OK 74055 foldsofhonor.org Sponsor: Hendrick Buick•GMC•Cadillac

Unlimited Play, Inc. 4140 Old Mill Parkway St. Peters, MO 63376 636.449.1770 unlimitedplay.org

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most of the world wasn’t accessible for people who have physical limitations. Recently I was introduced to an organization called Unlimited Play whose mission is to construct fully accessible playgrounds! On page 18, you’ll find a description and pictures of their newest project under construction in Independence, Mo. I live in Overland Park but I will be making a visit to check out this playground once it’s completed. I am excited to walk up the ramps, play pirate or go for a swing, I will feel seven years old again! Let’s welcome our newest KC Metro Cares member, Unlimited Play. Thank you for designing a playground

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My ten ten-year-old ten-year year-old old son Woodie Woodie has Austim, Austim ADD and an nd OCD. OCD He is main-streamed into a regular education classroom classro oom in the Valley system Blue V alley school sys stem with the support of his special needs d teacher teacher, h r, speech speecch h and d occupational i l ther therapists h apists i and d paraprofessionals. had My husband and I ha d given up hope for team sports paraprofessional with peers, when a pa araprofessional noted how much Taekwondo activi-he enjoyed the T aekw wondo demonstration and activi Cultural Day.. What an am amazing ties at his schools’ Cult tural Arts Day mazing with suggestion that has tturned urned out to be, along wi ith an physical increase in his physica al activity he has been challenged lenged developed to keep up with his peers in class and develop ped a new self-direction since sense of self-directi self direction and confidence sinc e starting Taekwondo. T aekwo ondo.

Woodie has come along from private testing where there was no audience to a testing with an audience of his peers for the first time. Here he tested with Mr Daniel Schroeder and Mrs Janine Atteridge for his Orange belt. The stripes and belt testings have been an awesome motivator for Woodie. He comes to every class wanting to test for stripes and has been taking class without the help of a semi private instructor to help him. He has adapted very well in the main classes and is always excited to be there. 6

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May is Global Employee Health and Fitness Month This month we tackle the issues of being unhealthy in the workforce. Business here in America relies on the quality of our workforce to create a better economy. Health in the workforce has gone to another level. Majority of American employees depend on the insurance provided by their employers to cover visits to the Doctors office or a visit to the hospital in case of an emergency. Employers are now seeing the cost of employee quality of health on and off the job. The numbers are alarming. Most of us have jobs where we sit most of the time, so chances are limited to be physically active at work. We also rely heavily on modern, labor-saving devices cars, appliances, and power tools to spare us manual effort. Companies are taking action before the cost of unhealthy employees end up costing the business to fold. Does this sound unbelievable? Well, let us take a look at some numbers and some stories that will shed some light on the subject.

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Jonathan Rios Laser Sharp Fitness M.S., B.S., Wellness Expert NASM, ISSA, Master CPT

Full time workers in the U.S. who are overweight or obese and have other chronic health conditions miss an estimated 450 million additional days of work each year compared with healthy workers, resulting in an estimated cost of more than $153 billion in lost productivity annually. Roughly 60 percent of employers said they plan to impose penal-

ties in the next three to five years for workers who don't take action to improve their health. The most recent example is CVS Caremark, which has ignited controversy by requiring its 200,000 employees across Florida and the nation to undergo screenings to record their weight, body fat, blood glucose and blood-pressure levels. If they don't do so by May 1, they'll have to pay an extra $600 for health insurance in the coming year. The shift is drawing fire from patients' rights groups, which consider the policies coercive and a violation of privacy. At Michelin North America, the tire manufacturer, workers with thick waistlines â&#x20AC;&#x201D; 40 inches and over for men, 35 and over for women â&#x20AC;&#x201D; will have to pay up to $1,000 more a year in health-insurance premiums than their leaner coworkers. Already, 20 percent of firms surveyed impose consequences on employees if they "don't utilize the healthawareness tools the company provides," according to a recent report from human-resources researcher Aon Hewitt. And Honeywell International Inc. has imposed a $1,000 penalty for workers who undergo certain joint-replacement or back surgeries without first participating in a program that provides data on nonsurgical options. So the answer seems simple, start a Wellness Program that works for employees and employers to increase health and performance. As a personal trainer, business owner, and coach that have the opportunity to work with world-class executives, athletes, and clients, I often hear the same challenges, obstacles, and issues facing all of us today. The lack of motivation or resources is the biggest problem that I hear from employees from the Rios Corporate Wellness Programs. I have developed keys on how to work with all employees from the first day person to the CEO of the company. If interested in learning about a Corporate Wellness program for your company or starting it from the employee side, please contact me for more information.

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legal and ethical challenges. They must make critical decisions about a treatment plan that may mean the difference between life and death. And they must transport their patient safely to the most appropriate hospital facility all within a matter of minutes. They work when schools and businesses close for holidays and snow days, enter homes a health inspector would condemn, and console the family members of patients who didn't survive. They sometimes perform with little to no sleep during a 24 hour shift, yet stay vigilant to keep each other safe and maintain the privacy of their patients. When the emergency is not life threatening, paramedics must demonstrate humility and compassion that brings grace to moments of crisis. A paramedic might work an entire shift, or several shifts, without facing a life threatening situation, or they might respond to

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Between May 19 and 25, the nation will recognize and honor emergency medical services (EMS) workers. This tradition began in 1974, when President Gerald Ford declared the first National EMS Week. It was designed to bring together local communities and medical personnel to publicize safety and honor the dedication of those who provide the day-to-day lifesaving services of medicine's front Paramedics Mackenzie Burke and Randy McIntosh 8

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ty MED-ACT, you must also be committed to the mission and values that define excellence in pre-hospital care. If you ask the paramedics at MED-ACT, they do it for the hope; the hope of making a difference, saving a life, meeting a former cardiac arrest victim and celebrating their discharge from the hospital.

Kansas City Metro CARES welcomes new member 1. What is your mission? Unlimited Play is an award winning non-profit organization that builds universally accessible playgrounds to promote health and wellness while transforming communities by providing the freedom of play for ALL children and families.

2. What kind of Volunteer opportunities do you have? How can someone get involved? Unlimited Play is firmly rooted in a Community Engagement model. Our organization thrives by the many people, groups, businesses, foundations and sectors that invest their time, talent and treasure to help us fulfill our mission. People can join us at the very beginning of a playground project by assisting with creative design ideas, hosting fundraisers, showcasing our project during a community event, and of course spreading the word and expanding our web of support. Media promotion and strategic marketing efforts are always encouraged. There are also opportunities for community members to come out during our Community Build days and literally build the playground – install slides, climbers, landscape and more. Additionally, we host many events throughout the year. Check out our website for more details at www.unlimitedplay.org

the sidelines and be denied the fundamental right to play. Unlimited Play impacts children, families, and entire communities by building play spaces that remove both physical and social barriers so ALL people can play. Our goal is to help communities plan, design, fundraise, build and celebrate fully accessible playgrounds. We understand the cost and commitment it takes to create a play space such as this and help communities every step of the way. 4. Could you tell a short story of someone you have helped? Feel free to change names if necessary. Zachary no longer sits on the sidelines and watching other children play. Because of Unlimited Play’s features that surpass ADA standards, a child in a wheelchair can play alongside his friends. A mother with Multiple Sclerosis can take her children to a playground and access them should they need her. We continue to receive heartfelt letters and messages about how our playgrounds help children and entire families, many refer to the experience as “therapeutic” a place to “forget about life for awhile.” There is no other place in the community that is free family fun, fosters friendships, creates memories, enhances understanding of differences and encourages kids to keep active, stretch their muscles and imaginations.

3. Specifically, who/how do you help the community?

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The majority of playgrounds around the world deny children, adults, and Veterans with disabilities the opportunity for recreation, enrichment, and social interaction which other people enjoy. In fact, only a small percentage of fully accessible playgrounds exist within our nation and these are insufficient to serve the 56.7 million Americans with Disabilities – 18.7% of our population. (U.S. Census Bureau, 2010)

The McCoy Park All Inclusive Project in Independence, Mo will be hosting events throughout the summer including a ribbon cutting for the All Ability baseball field designed by the Cal Ripken Sr. Foundation and more. Check out the web site www.mccoypark.com for more information.

Unlimited Play addresses this shortfall by providing a place where people of all abilities play together, learn from one another, value differences and find strength to overcome challenges. Playgrounds play a critical role in the cognitive, social, emotional and physical development of every child. We believe that no child or family member should ever sit on

6. If you could thank one person/business in the community that has shown that they CARE, who would it be and why? Special thanks to everyone who have invested in Unlimited Play operations and each of our existing playgrounds. Giving the gift of play, sponsoring a piece of equipment, hosting a fundraiser, and volunteering time all have made a world of difference in the lives of thousands of children and families. unlimitedplay.org

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language as a tool for thinking, problem solving and understanding the world. Reading and numeracy are taught using methods that move beyond rote memorization of letters and boring counting exercises. Low student-to-teacher ratios ensure consistent instruction for both high-achieving students and more fragile learners, so that individual students receive the amount of personalized attention required to learn, rather than the amount of attention allotted to them through state regulatory guidelines. At Astra, students are guided towards the principles of empathy, kindness and friendship. For more information, please visit www.AstraDaySchool.org

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It is our cho choices… oices… that show what w we truly are, fa ar more far than our ab abilities. bilities —J. K. Rowling I have always been interested in success stories. As a child, I loved reading biographies of famous inventors, scientists, world leaders and others who excelled at their craft. Whether it was Eli Whitney and his cotton gin, Ben Franklin’s multitude of inventions, Marie Curie for her work with radiation or Helen Keller’s amazing influence on the world, I was moved by those who lived their dreams and fulfilled their life goals. Now, as Vice President of Kauffman FastTrac®, I am fortunate to be able to engage directly with many strong, visionary leaders across our city, our country and the world. I’m proud that many of these leaders are women. They are living their dreams and fulfilling their goals. I admire their strength, tenacity and unfailing belief in themselves and the organizations they lead. They are inspiring, each uniquely talented with welldeveloped skill sets. What makes these female entrepreneurs so successful? Without fail they are solid strategic thinkers, focused decision makers and above all, true to themselves and their vision. Follow their lead by adopting the following: 1. Visualize Success – No one else is going to build the life you envision for yourself. What does your “If I

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2. Toss out the Bucket List – Bucket lists are full of things you want to do “someday.” The problem is, time flies and “someday” never happens. Get after it! If you want to achieve your dreams you have to make them happen! Develop a list of SMART goals - Specific, Measurable, Achievable, Relevant, Time-Based. Create short-term goals for your vision – Identify steps and actions you will take in the next 3 months, 6 months, through the next year to move toward your vision. To hold yourself accountable…

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There has never been a better time to consider business ownership especially as a female entrepreneur. What are you waiting for? Let your someday be today.

3. Talk about your plans – There is no better way to hold yourself accountable than to let others know what you are doing. Plus, you’ll be amazed at the people who will join you and support you on your journey. To gather an even broader base of support… 4. Aggressively and intentionally build a network – It is important to note that networking is more than Michele Markey

Michele Markey is the Vice President of Kauffman FastTrac, the leading provider of learning curricula that equip aspiring and existing entrepreneurs with the business skills and insights, tools, resources, and networks to start and grow successful businesses. Kauffman FastTrac was created by the Kauffman Foundation, the largest foundation whose mission is to advance entrepreneurship as a key to growing economies and expanding ng human welfare.

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Recognized as an opinion leader, Michele has been a guest contributor for MSNBC, MarketWatch, Bloomberg News, AARP and many other national and local publications. Michele has been a featured expert for the American Management Association and has worked with hundreds of businesses to develop their business growth strategy including American Airlines, University of California-Berkley, The Gap, Sprint and Coca Cola. Additionally Additionally, ditionallyy, Michele serves on the Chief Learning Officer Officer Intelligence board. oard. Michele holds undergraduate ate degrees in political science, social studies, education and psychology and a master’ master’ss degree in business. Follow low Michele on T Twitter witter at @SheVenture. @SheV Venture. e 13

Volunteer Spotlight: Anthony Butler by: Sharna Rittmaster

Where do you volunteer? I volunteer with “ GIRL” in various schools in the Kansas City area, first as a teacher in the Kansas City Public Schools and now as a prevention specialist for the Rose Brook’s Center Project SAFE Program. I also help out as a caring citizen.

Why do you choose to volunteer?

How does volunteering affect you personally?

I choose to help because it is one way to actively make our community even better. Being a part of the solution is more satisfying than complaining about the problem.

Helping affects me personally because it causes me to reflect about how life was like when I was in the shoes of our youth. This causes me to be a better husband, father, and professional. I realize now, more than ever, how important it is to listen, encourage, and give hope to others. It is a true honor to be a part of waking people up from nightmares and to help them pursue sweet dreams. I am affected the most when I see firsthand their dreams become realities.

More specifically, what do you enjoy the most from helping your organization? I enjoy helping “GIRL” the most because it is a classy, excellent organization. “GIRL” has an outstanding reputation in the community and I have seen first hand how the ladies help our youth “see” and “do” what it takes to be productive citizens in and out of the classroom. I also learn so much from working alongside quality people who are committed, creative, and inspiring. Our connection helps me to help others in more practical ways.

How long have you been active volunteering? I have been helping “GIRL” for 3 years. (Encouraging young ladies with poetry, town hall meetings about overcoming obstacles, building better self-esteem, referring other organizations to “GIRL”, etc.)

From your experience, what are some major benefits to getting involved in the community? Major benefits from getting involved in the community are credibility with the people in the area, breaking cycles of destruction one person at a time...one day at a time, and helping people stay on track with their goals. Seeing those genuine smiles of gratitude and joy on the faces of people is like eternal fuel for my soul. This makes me want to “help others”...help others.

What else do you enjoy in your spare time? Hobbies? I enjoy writing poetry, speaking, reading, watching good movies, planning creative events in the schools where students can use their gifts to uplift, playing basketball, and spending time with God, my wife, my family, and others.

Hundreds Enjoy the 5th Annual

Match Banquet &Awards Big Brothers Big Sisters of Greater Kansas City held their 5th Annual Match Banquet & Awards on Sunday, April 7, 2013 at the Ritz Charles in Overland Park. Over 700 participants gathered to recognize the creation of life long friendships between Bigs and Littles in the program. This event was sponsored by Wireless Lifestyle, the largest Sprint retailer in the country. Little Brothers and Sisters enjoyed an Oscar-themed party with everything from walking the red carpet, posing for paparazzi and a gourmet meal. “So many of our Littles have never had a chance to be celebrated or experience a special dinner. We really want them and their Big to feel special and appreciated at this event.” said Micheal Lawrence, CEO of Big Brothers Big Sisters of KC. All Matches in attendance received an award to recognize their commitment to Big Brothers Big Sisters and their friendship. The years biggest awards including Big Brother and Big Sister of the Year were awarded to Deane McMillian and Sandra Rayford. Two alumni Matches (Barry White & Anthony Sanders and Donna Pittman & Lisa Hensley) were also be honored with the Wireless Lifestyle Lifetime Friendship Award. “Several of the Matches in our program have developed deep friendships over many years. This is a great accomplishment. It is an amazing act of kindness and commitment on the part of the volunteer, one that translates directly into improved self-esteem, better grades and a direction for the future in the lives of their Little,” said Lawrence.

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“Play….Shapes the Brain, Opens the Imagination, and Invigorates the Soul.” —Stuart Brown, M.D.

Imagine a place where ALL children can play side by side and learn from one another – a place that promotes health and wellness, socialization, and enriches the lives of children with and without disabilities in your community. Although there are lots of fun things to do in and around Kansas City, there is no place quite like this. An Unlimited Play playground is coming to Independence, Missouri. Unlimited Play unlimitedplay.org is a non-profit that specializes in the design, community engagement and build of universally accessible playgrounds. Unlimited Play playgrounds are not a standard designed playground. The features go beyond what you would see on a typical ADA compliant playground and include spongy surfacing, sensory rich environment, ramping systems, real harmonic instruments, custom themes, fenced completely around, high back swings, educational play panels, adequate shading, family friendly restrooms and much more. Together with the City of Independence, Independence Parks and Recreation Department, Cal Ripken Sr. Foundation, Vireo and Variety KC, thousands of children and families will have the opportunity to play, foster friendships and learn about celebrating differences than ever before.

Located in McCoy Park across from the Truman Library, this 11,000 square feet destination play space will include an Unlimited Play playground, Cal Ripken Sr. Ability Baseball Field, plus a 3 pad spray ground. This state-of-the-art play space will attract children, families, Veterans, school groups, therapy professionals and others from all over the area and enable ALL children to play together.

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Celebrating Independence’s rich pioneer history, the McCoy Park All inclusive project will be themed around the 3 trail systems (California, Sante Fe, and Oregon) and include custom designed wagons, climbing gold mine carts and even Hiram Young’s blacksmith shop.

Just recently, the Kansas City Royals came on board with a gift of $150,000 towards the project specifically towards the All Ability field designed by the Cal Ripken Sr. Foundation. Charitable proceeds came out of the remaining 2012 All Star funds. A VIP breakfast and press

conference was hosted on March 28th and included a special tour of the locker room for a special group of children. 12-time Paralympic gold medalist and world champion Jessica Long inspired the crowd as keynote and encouraged the kids in the audience to never look at themselves as having a disability but rather many abilities. We believe that every child has the right to play and that every community should have a place where limitations are forgotten and differences are celebrated.

Here is how you can help on the McCoy Park All Inclusive Project: s Donate good/services such as concrete, landscaping materials, printing, promotions and more. s Showcase our project at another event. We can furnish an informational kit. s Sponsor a piece of equipment ranging from a $125 brick, $4000 panel, $7,000 slide, $20,000 wagon and more. Your name, name of business or organization will be showcased for the life time of the playground and been seen by thousands and thousands of people. Catalogs and Project Wish List are available at the Independence Parks and Recreation office located at 416 West Maple Ave. (Truman Memorial Building) or on the website www.mccoypark.com Any questions call Kristin Zimmerman with the Parks and Recreation department at 816 325-6229. If you want to learn more about Unlimited Play, contact us at (636) 449-1770 or

12-time Paralympic gold medalist and world champion Jessica Long

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â&#x20AC;&#x153;Where limitations are forgotten and differences are celebratedâ&#x20AC;?

Team photo: Natalie and Todd Blakemore, Founders of Unlimited Play. Daughters Cassi and Brianna, son Zachary (namesake of Zachary's Playground in Lake St. Louis.) Community Engagement Director Victoria Schmitt Babb, Brendan (namesake of Brendan's Playground in O' Fallon, MO) and his mom, Michelle Schmitt.

First, we believe home ome safety is attainable for anyone: e: No matter who you are, where e you live, or how much money you u have, there are always steps you u can take to increase safety. safety. Second, we believe keeping eeping things safe is a continuous process: It is p more than just putting ting locks on the medicine cabinets ts and calling it good. Home safety fety requires frequent evaluation to look for new hazards and new ways to improve. That’s That’s why y we do our best to provide simple, mple, memomemorable steps you can followeveryfolloweveryday to make your home a safer h place. Review our growing list of things you can do to prevent nt injuries in and around your home. me.

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s Playground und equipment should meet the Juvenile Products ManuManufacturers Association (JPMA) approval. s Children should use protective gear when en riding wheeled play toys. s The American erican Academy of Pediatrics recommends avoidance of trampoline oline play. play.

Garage s Garden equipment and nd tools should be stored out of reach. each. sKeep children’ss playthings s Keep children’ gs in one area and within their reach. ch. s Keep floors clear of clutter clutter, r, grease, and spills.

Fire/Burns Firre/Burns n s Matchess and lighters should be locked outt of reach of a child. sNever s Never leave ave grill unattended and teach young ung children to keep a distance from rom the BBQ grill. s Only use e grill away from house and other structures. s Store lighter ghter fluid securely in a labeled container. container ontainer. s Avoid Avoid using sing kites near overhead electrical lines

Poisoning s Know and post the number mber for the Poison Control Center nter 1-800-222-1222. s Keep medications, even vitamins locked away from children. n. s Keep household cleaners rs locked away. away. s Install a carbon monoxide de detector and replace batteries tteries as detector.. directed on detector

Drowning Drrowning g s Pools should hould have fencing and locking gates ates to prevent access. s Kiddie pools should always be emptied after use. s Assign a specific adult as a “water-watcher”, “water-watcher”, atcher”, since many adults willl assume someone else is watching hing one child hild while they are tending to o another child. s Keep Keep buckets or containcontain ers out of reach of children. s Keep eep patio doors and other er paths from the living room om to the outside locked especially ecially those homes with On November 1, 2007, Charlie Horn, a N 2-year-old boy, 2-year-old ld Kansas City i bboy y, was was kill killedd when when he attempted to climb a 30" 30" dresser dresser in his home. home. It was was through this tragedy that Charlie’s Charlie’s House was was born. bornn. As A part of this mission, Charlie’s Charlie’s House Housse participates in and sponsors community-wide community-wide events to provide home hom me safety information. Plans are

outdoor swimming pools, s, kiddie pools, or other bodies of water nearby. nearby.

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also underway underway to raise fundss for a safety that f demonstration d i house h h will ill provide adults with real-life demonstraddemonstrations, tions, examples and resources resourcees on children’s children’s safety. safety. For For more information, including luding a tour of our Virtual House,, please Virtual House pleease visit us at www.charlieshouse.org www.charlieshouse.o org or friend us on Facebook Facebook at www.facebook.com/charlieshouse. www.facebook.com/charlieshouse house.

BigBand Benefit 2013 Blue Valley West High School

The 2013 Blue Valley West High School Big Band

Benefit was hosted by Hendrick Buick GMC Cadillac on Saturday April 5th. It featured Blue Valley West HS Jazz Band, Lakewood Middle School Jazz Band, Pleasant Ridge Middle School Jazz Band & Special Guest Jazz Artist Monique Danielle. It was a fund raiser for Blue Valley West HS Band, which raised over $5,000 for the band.

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Student Spotlight: Hope Williams Each year GiRL Inc. works with tremendous, talented and focused young ladies within the Kansas City Missouri area. Many of these young ladies face difficult life challenges but strive to be successful in school and their community. Determined, Caring and Outgoing are three words that describe GiRL Inc. member Hope Williams. Hope is an 8th grade student at Knowl-

Why do you enjoy participating in the GiRL Inc. Program?

edge Is Power

• I love participating in GiRL Inc. because I can talk about things that

Program (KIPP)

I may not feel comfortable talking about with anyone else. I can

Endeavor Acad-

be open to ask questions and get answers.

emy in Kansas City Missouri. She is very passionate about school, family, friends and helping others. Hope

What are some key takeaways you have learned from the GiRL Inc. sessions that will assist you in your life?

displays excellent leadership, poise, and commitment

• I have learned to take responsibility for my actions

and has made a positive impact in her school and com-

• Learned how and when to say “No”

munity. She was recently recognized by her peers to

• How to truly focus on my future goals

be the “GiRL Inc.” student of the month.

• How not to put myself in a bad situation

KIPP Endeavor Math Teacher Josh Swartzlander said: “Hope is also a natural leader and a natural teacher.

What GiRL Inc. activity did you gain the most knowledge? Why?

She will work with and help any student who is

• I really liked the baby project we completed in December 2012. I

struggling with the material. This skill, combined

enjoyed it because it really helped me with responsibility and learn-

with her excellent grades (7 A’s, 2 B’s so far this year),

ing that my actions could cause certain consequences

illustrates her commitment to her education.”

Outside of school what activities do you enjoy doing?

Once Hope graduates from High School, she would

• I enjoy singing in my church choir. I enjoy praise dancing for my

like to attend the University of Missouri and major

church, staying current with the latest fashions and doing commu-

in Business Administration to gain skills to become a

nity service

successful business owner. Hope also would like to

What advice would you give other girls?

give back to the community by becoming a foster

• Learn how to get along with others and think highly of yourself.

care parent. “I would like to help sad children that

Never allow anyone to change your opinion of yourself or block

believe life is over when they lose a parent(s).” said

your dreams.

Hope.

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Dear Amy: My 4 year-old is always telling me “no.” I get so irritated, that I just give in and do it myself (if I ask him to put his shoes away a million times and tells me “no,” I will just put them away myself)! Any advice on how to cut the “no” out of his vocabulary would be great. Jana, mother of a strong-willed son. Dear Jana: Dealing with “no’s” is a common issue for little and big ones. Since you are asking about a little, my advice will be geared towards the younger set (may need to utilize another column, for the bigs). First, as you are probably aware, giving in to your child only reinforces the behavior. Why should he do what his Mother has asked him to do, knowing that if he holds out long enough, you will just do it for him!? Kids need consequences that will make sense. Stating that, I am a big believer of natural and logical consequences. For instance, if you ask your son to put on his socks (and he still refuses after two times), you leave the house sans socks (and

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cold toes). Don’t make a big scene about it, just take a matter-of-fact attitude. A logical consequence would be, if your son refuses to put his trucks away, he loses them for 24 hours. Now let me introduce a little intervention that I like to call “banking your no’s.” This is how it works; When your

son tells you no, you simply respond by putting that “no” in your pocket. He may give you a strange look, at this point. Later that day, when he asks you for something (of course, not a basic necessity such as dinner), you pretend to pull that “no” out of your pocket. In the beginning, you might want to set up a teachable moment ahead of time. You can also give him actual “no” tokens, that he must give you when he tells you no. That way it is a more concrete idea. It may take a few consistent times, but he will get it!

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This section is dedicated to our community active youth. I know that we have amazing children doing wonderful volunteer work here in Kansas City. I want to read about your rewarding experiences helping others! Send your stories to me at editor.op@goicare.com by the 5th of every month as a word document of 200 words and please include photos. 24

My name is Kennedy. I help run the Special Olympics figure skating program at KCIC. I love figure skating and wanted to help other people who wanted to share the passion of skating. The program helps any person with special needs, and people of all ages. There are many coaches and volunteers that help any kids with any types of special needs, as well as skaters of all levels. I really like helping with this program because not only can I have fun with the sport, but I know many of the students are having fun with the sport plus learning more about it. Special Olympics teaches me to discover new ways of coaching certain elements in skating; it also challenges me to find new ways of coaching in general. I really love making connections with the kids I teach through this program. Special Olympics is an amazing program that I love being a part of.

Tyler

Hi, my name is Tyler Novorr. When I was four months old I had open heart surgery at Childrenâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s Mercy Hospital. Since they helped me, I thought I would return the favor. Every garage sale my family has I have a lemonade stand, snacks and sold some of my toys and books with the money donated to Childrenâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s Mercy Hospital. My parents take me down to the hospital to make the donation. Since Kindergarten (I am now in the 3rd grade), I have volunteered community service hours. I donate hours and hours of my time to help with many different organizations from Mitzvah Day at my Temple, selling popcorn for Cub Scouts, volunteering with Special Olympics and raising money by walking for Make a Wish foundation. I also love to go to Harvesters at least once a year to help organize food. I have helped in many sections from sorting cereals one year to frozen foods another. Volunteering time and things makes me feel good and helps others. I really enjoy it! I hope that others will be inspired to volunteer and help too.

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BOARD! By David Renz, Director The Midwest Center for Nonprofit Leadership • University of Missouri – Kansas City Congratulations!! You just received word that you were elected to the governing board of The Lonely Weasel, the nonprofit organization that was created to ensure that all small creatures in the U.S. receive the humane treatment they deserve. You are delighted, of course – you’ve long appreciated the work this organization does in Kansas City! And then, as you start to think about what lies ahead, you realize that you really are not sure just what it is that you will be expected to do as a member of the governing board. What is the work of a board member? It helps to realize that there is no single way that all nonprofit

The Legal Basics

interest of the organization. In other words, you will be loyal. This also

In the US, the governing board of directors of a nonprofit has the ulti-

means you will not participate in board discussions and decisions in

mate responsibility and accountability for the conduct and performance

which you as an individual have a conflict of interest (in other words,

of the organization. The actual work of the organization may be done by

when your personal interests conflict with the organization’s interests).

executives, staff, and volunteers, but you cannot delegate your respon-

Duty of Obedience: When you join a board, you agree that all of

sibility as a board. When all is said and done, you and your board col-

your decisions will honor and be consistent with your agency’s mission,

leagues collectively are responsible for all that is done in the name of the

bylaws, and policies, as well as honoring the terms of any and all rele-

organization. In a legal sense, you and your board colleagues have three

vant laws, rules, and regulations.

fundamental duties:

The point of all of this, of course, is to do your best to do what is right

Duty of Care: When you join a board, you agree (whether you know

for the organization and those it exists to serve. Good intentions are

it or not) to exhibit care in your work as a member. This means that you

great, but ultimately it’s what you do and how you do it that are going

will prepare for and actively participate in the meetings of the board,

to help your agency make a difference.

and you will exercise the kind of judgment that any reasonable and prudent person would exercise when making decisions important to them. The law recognizes and accepts that you may not always make the right decisions, but you are expected to do your best to be attentive, diligent, and thoughtful in all aspects of your decision making. Duty of Loyalty: When you join a board, you agree to do your best to act in good faith to make decisions and choices that are in the best 26

boards operate. There are fundamental roles and responsibilities, but the truth is that there is a huge amount of variation among nonprofit boards and how they operate. Therefore, once you have some clarity on the legal and operational basics, you need to connect with the leaders of your new board to learn more. In fact, they already should have been in touch with you to explain all of this – but we know that many nonprofits could do more to help their new board members become active, contributing members of the board. You may need to give them a “nudge!”

Fiduciary Responsibility Boards and board members often are reminded that they have a "fiduciary responsibility." At its core, "fiduciary responsibility" is the responsibility to treat the resources of the organization as a trust. In other words, you will take care that all resources are used in a reasonable and appropriate manner. What this means, in practical terms, is that your board will:

a) Adopt and follow policies that ensure all resources are used appropriately; b) Plan and establish a budget to allocate financial resources to the programs and activities that will accomplish the organization's mission, vision, and goals (e.g., a strategic plan); c) Develop and implement a system for monitoring and holding staff and volunteers accountable for their performance with regard to plans, policies, and budgets; d) Develop and use a system to monitor, assess, and report on the financial condition and performance of the organization; and e) Implement an independent external review process (such as an audit) to assess the organization's fiscal condition and health and the effectiveness of your agency’s financial systems and policies.

The Legal Roles and Responsibilities of the Member of a Typical Nonprofit Board Your legal responsibilities as a board member flow directly from the responsibilities of the board as a whole. You, individually, are to honor the same three fiduciary duties: care, loyalty, and obedience. You do not have to be a super-person to do this. It just requires active and informed preparation and participation, including raising questions that reasonably would be raised by any prudent person. Of course, a board member who does not manage to attend meetings or participate in board business cannot meet these standards – you must first “show up!” At best, inactive board members are not helping the organization; at worst, they are endangering the success of the organization and the interests of the people it serves. Such members can end up risking personal liability and even sanctions. It is every board member's responsibility to do their best to help ensure that the board as a whole is performing its legal responsibilities.

Beyond the Legal When you join the board of an organization, you deserve to know just what they expect of you. Obviously, you will need to honor your legal responsibilities. But the roles and responsibilities of the individual board member go beyond mere legal compliance. Therefore every board should communicate (best is in writing) its own set of member expectations that explains the needs and interests of the organization and what it needs and expects from its board and members. The following are among the most typical of responsibilities or expectations: • Participate actively: Attend meetings of the board. Serve on board committees or task forces. Prepare in advance for meetings and other key board activities. Be a loyal yet independent thinker in your decision making. Attend special events and other key organizational activities.

• Do your homework to ensure that you are appropriately informed about: Issues and matters that will be the subject of board deliberation or decision making. Important issues likely to have an impact on the success of the agency. • Provide active support for the fund raising activities of the organization, including: Making a regular personal financial contribution (at a significant level, according to your capacity); and Assisting the organization in connecting with others who can help with funding the organization. • Serve as an ambassador and advocate on behalf of the organization. • Provide encouragement and active support for the work of the staff and volunteers. • Serve with honor and integrity: Help enhance the image and credibility of the organization through your work. Hold the content of board deliberations in confidence and honor and actively support all board decisions once they are made. Avoid actual and perceived conflicts of interest, to the greatest degree possible. Exhibit the highest of ethical standards in all of your board work. • Support and actively contribute to the board’s efforts to work effectively as a team: Play an active and constructive role in helping the board do its work, embracing the challenges and opportunities of board work with a positive attitude and energy. Bring a sense of perspective and humor to the work of the board. Provide support to fellow board members, and take time to celebrate the successes and accomplishments of the organization and the board. A strong board is essential to nonprofit organization effectiveness, and boards that do their work well make a pivotal difference in the success of their organizations. When knowledgeable and motivated volunteers invest the time to serve on boards, we all benefit. And serving as a member of a nonprofit’s board of directors can be one of the most influential and enjoyable roles that any volunteer can play; the rewards of effective service accrue both to you as a volunteer and our community. Thank you for your service! More information and resources for boards and their members are available at the web site of the Midwest Center for Nonprofit Leadership: www.mcnl.org.

• Be knowledgeable and ensure that you understand: The mission, vision, strategic direction, and programs of the organization. The bylaws and policies that guide the work of the board. The board’s expectations of you as an individual member. 27

Double Your Donation with the

Heartland Tree Alliance (HTA), a program of Bridging The Gap, has launched a digital approach to funding trees in the Kansas City metropolitan. Dunn Family Foundation will generously donate an equal match, dollar for dollar, for each donation up to $10,000!

can specify how much they would like to give to a particular city, and then watch as the tree fund for that city grows. Each time a fund reaches $1,000 HTA will host a tree planting event with that city, giving residents the opportunity to see their dollars go to work.

Why is the Tree Fund an important program for our region? Due to the recession and budget cuts across most municipal departments, trees are getting the ax! HTA and the Dunn Family Foundation are asking residents to support urban tree planting projects by donating to their city’s Tree Fund. With a simple click on the website, www.treesformycity.com, donors

HTA’s Tree Fund and a list of its municipal partners can be found on the Bridging the Gap website at www.bridgingthegap.org/tree-fund or at www.treesformycity.com The City of Kansas City, Mo., is joined by others across the area, including Kansas City, Kan.; Belton; Excelsior Springs; Gladstone; Leawood; Lenexa; Liberty; Mission; Olathe; Overland Park; Parkville;

Paola; Platte County; Prairie Village; Raymore, and Shawnee. Heartland Tree Alliance is a program of Bridging The Gap, the region’s primary environmental education organization. The Heartland Tree Alliance mission is to engage people of the Greater Kansas City region to take action and advocate for a healthy community forest. HTA’s other offerings include its signature program, Tree Keepers, which trains volunteers from the Kansas City area to be tree stewards for their own communities. To learn more about Heartland Tree Alliance and the Tree Fund, please contact Noelle Morris at 816-561-1061, ext. 115, or email treemail@bridgingthegap.org.

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• May 1 The fabled Romantic Times convention kicks off another wild party event, with a fabulous all-day TEEN DAY event on Saturday check out the authors signing in TEEN ALLEY: http://www.rtconvention.com/teen-day#authors

• May 19 Woofstock - A festival for dogs and people. Family and dog MYPLUKS` 2 4\[[ -\U 9\U HUK 4PSL >VVM >HSR [V ILULÄ[ Northland Animal Welfare Society at the Barnes and Noble Zone Rosa KC MO. One mile walk has optional "obstacles" for dogs.

• May 1 | 10am Big Splash was a huge hit last year for hundreds of our Bigs, Littles, supporters and friends. Now's your chance to get tickets to enjoy the indoor water park at Great Wolf Lodge without having to purchase an overnight stay. For more information and dates visit www.bbbskc.org

• May 20 Legacy Invitational | Monday, May 20 and Monday, June 3, 2013 The region's best client entertainment event. A premier Nike Gift Salon and unmatched player amenities. Find out more info or reserve your spot at www.bbbskc.org/legacy. We are looking for volunteers to become a foursome concierge. Contact Scott Cruce for more information on this amazing volunteer opportunity.

• May 4 & 18th | various times The Arthritis Walk® is the signature fundraiser for the Arthritis Foundation. It's not just an event, it's a celebration of year-round movement to help prevent and treat arthritis. Dates and Cities: May 4th- Topeka & NE, KS May 4th- Kansas City, MO May 18th- Withita, KS To register or for more information visit http://www.arthritis.org/kansas/events/arthritis-walk/ • May 9 | 2pm Cass County ARC Blood Drive. Donation Type: BloodBloodBanker, Inc. is a blood plasma donation advocacy group where giving blood and donating plasma for money helps save many lives. Community can rate and review plasma and blood donation centers. • Now-May 12 Union Station. The Science of Rock ‘n' Roll exhibition provides a fresh look at the history of rock from the perspective of science and technology. See how music has shaped the tools of rock--and how those tools have changed the music. See website for times and prices www.unionstation.org • May 12 | 11:30 am Shadow Buddies Foundation 5th Annual Golf Classic. Birdies, )VNL`Z HUK )\KKPLZ )LULÄ[PUN ;OL :OHKV^ )\KKPLZ )HJRWHJR Program. For more information visit http://www.shadowbuddies.org/ • May 18 | 7am Walk for the Homeless in Town Center Plaza north side. It is a NYLH[ M\U MHTPS` L]LU[ [OH[ PUJS\KLZ MVVK YHMÅL WYPaLZ H IV\UJ` house, face painting, entertainment and a casual walk around the stores. We have a great prize for the top individual and team fundraisers. To register for the event or for more information, please contact Rachel at rdowntain@hillcrestkc.org or at 913-827-8588 http://www.hillcresttransitionalhousing.org/walk-for-the-homeless

• May 24 | 11am Often the effects from Chemotherapy can affect both the body and the mind. This bi-weekly group will be focused on clearing out the chemo cobwebs and exercising the mind with engaging conversation, brain exercises and methods to use everyday to sharpen up what chemo has dulled. Event held at the Gilda’s Club KC MO. • May 24 | 6pm Looking for a way to keep the kids busy this summer? Look no further! This modern day scavenger hunt is a great way to get out of the house and get moving. We will provide you the GPS device, an introductory how-to, and a new prize for each cache. (M[LY [OL O\U[ QVPU \Z H[ [OL ÄYL WP[ MVY OV[KVNZ HUK :GTVYLZ Participants registering as a family will receive one GPS unit per family. Register today by going to www.jcprd.com or for more information including princing call 913-831-3359 • June 1 BBBS is a charity partner of the 2013 Hospital Hill | Attention Hospital Hill Runners! If you are planning to run this year's Hospital Hill 5K, 10K or Half Marathon on Saturday, June 1 use the code 2013HHRBBBS when registering to be counted as a BBBS runner and receive a discounted registration fee. Register at http://www.hospitalhillrun.com. • June 8 A world of possibilities: Safehome June Jubilee. Entertainment starring legendary cabaret singer and musical theatre actress Marilyn Maye! Event to be held at the Doubletree by Hilton Hotel 10100 College Blvd. Overland Park. Individual tickets are $125. Please call Susan Lebovitz at 913-378-1518

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