‘Pleasure’ – something we never know how much we dedicate for it. It would not be a problem being mentioned if it is a dedication for a common theme, such as watching movies, shopping, reading books, watching television, playing computer games or travelling to various leisure places. All of these activities will not impoverish anyone. However, a part of pleasure requires dignity, power and fame in order to build relationships in the society. These things do not really help us. They only make us feel confident, exist and accepted by friends. Nonetheless, it seems like it is becoming inevitably essential to our lives. We can notice that people starts consuming expensive, luxury things. This will eventually become an enormous social problem in the near future which is hard to predict. Prestige, power, fame and reputation are what we have learned from the lesson that these are our primary needs accordingly to human theory, but, a few of us actually know that these all come from the need of being fun and happy. So, it is no surprise that all of us need these conceptual things. Despite this fact, we cannot let people continuing to believe this way, because, if they believe that prestige, power, fame and reputation can bring us happiness, they will commit todo everything to get it. By the time people in this world have an opportunity to experience and know that it is not what truly needs, the world would be consumed too overabundant to be replenished If you have a chance to read ‘three things must know about human being’, one thing will come up immediately in your mind is the picture of people struggle for prestige, power and fame just like children scramble for their toys.And when there is any offensive, it will be a conflict and will turn to hatred, jealousy, anger, revenge that followed. More than that, if it is a conflict of adults, the result is often a big draw.The competitive struggleis always followed by destroying natural resources. Sometimes it’s called selfishness and Sometimes persecution and eventually becomes a war. In fact, fun and pleasure should rather make people love each other.
One thing I can briefly summarize is if either we do not want to be fun or we are able to find enough fun, we will not be in trouble; we will not want reputation, prestige, acceptance or power which are burden. But, still, human being has some strange mechanisms which uncontrollably push our needs of pleasure. So, it is necessary for human to find the best possible and easy way searching for the fun. And what allows it to happen begins from selfunderstanding management. Moreover, a pleasant and sympathetic society is another factor which can bring about the way to fun and happiness. This sympathy will not cause any burden. We just need a rest, a nice greeting, a joyfully talking or any impressive activities in order to remind us our delightful relationship. That it’s; what we should do. The more comfortable society we are in, the lessen dignity, power and fame mean to us. This is an important goal to maintain peace in our society. Thank you for continue your reading up to here and enjoy the next chapter.
Three things must know about human being Firstly, all humans have an obligation to survive from heat, cold, hungriness, thirst, fatigue, and boredom. We call these behaviours‘the struggling for happiness’. But, in fact, a peacefully happiness is yet an initial state of all human being meanwhile it is sorrow who always comes to visit us and grasp our happiness away. What we do is just trying to end the suffering and wishing our happiness back once again. Therefore, calling this as a method to extinguish one’s sorrow seems to be correct. However, whatever you call this method would not be wrong if you are clearly understood how it works. Nowadays, people often misunderstand and always grasp the happiness with extreme imagination that everything in life must be well satisfied.If you think like that, you will surely confront with disappointment. It won’t be easy to live your life peacefully. But if we understand the real processes of building happiness, it will make a huge difference because you are able to accept more sorrow because you know that we cannot truly appreciate with our happiness if we have never lose them. In fact, we should be grateful with those suffering. Thanks to the hungriness Thanks to the fatigue Thanks for making us realise. So if you want to raise your happiness, first, you should try to think that sorrow is your friend, not enemy. This can lessen your feeling of disappointment because happiness comes at a price of sorrow, not money alone. Second, try to know all the sorrow you have because it will tell you details and becomes so many ways we have chosen to use to find real happiness. Many people are perfectly and fully completed but they still confuse on how to find happiness. This is
because he is not known suffering well enough. Sometimes he even triesdrugs. He should be regret with his handicap. We sometimes forget that happiness is in our hands at all times which if we try putting some safety unhappiness to ourselves like making yourself hungry, tired, troubled, lonely, etc., we will find the happiness we want. It is because sometimes we are too comfortable that suffering does not build up that much but happiness seem lighten. Day by day, you might feel dullest. “The more you can handle with sorrow, the more happiness you will have�,please remember this equation. Do not mind it. Do not be afraid to it. Let it be with us as long as it is possible to endure. Whenever sorrow gone, all we have patient with will become cheerful happiness.
Secondly, the happiness from existence, from being accepted and admirable by other peoples such as having a good career, famous, a good appearance and so on. This is considered a good fortune. But if we stick with this too much until we are embarrassed about not having what other people has or jealous those who have more, this is a tremendous waste.In order to stay in the middle peacefully, whether you have less, not enough, you should understand background of sorrow you have because after you get to know it. The worry about you becomes negligible once. All of this began from quietly, secretly working instincts in our brains that we are unconscious. Its function is to observe an environment that is harmful to us making us felt jitter every time you receive a warning from it.Itworkssimilar to many other animal species that often acted jittery before a natural disaster occurs.But for instinct in human,alarmscan occur at any time just we have touch, smell,sound or atmosphere around you.A feeling that is indescribable appears immediately. It is like something around us that can inducewarning.It is very difficult to identify what is the cause of the alarm.This makes it almost useless by any means, only anxiety and depression we can feel.And we call it boredom,sufferedwhich is the only feeling that arises from our body with no limitations. How to end the suffering of this intuition is to ignore the warnings from it. You can achieve this by diverting your attention to other activities such as reading a book, watching television, listening to the radio, finding some hobbies, playing games and etc. Whenever you can ignore the warning, peaceful happiness will return. And that’s the reason why these can make us happy, never full never enough. All these things not just end at this stage because the favourable thing human most prefers is to live with friends, playing and talking to fellow. To have social is the best tool to ignore that instinct. And this extremely favour in this lead to fear which is a second wave of suffering.
This fear is the result of worrying that he is not good enough to be accepted by fellows and this anxiety makes human’s life most complicated. However, it also makes human happy too. This is why people adhere to prestige and fame that they could not leave it behind.It should be like that because the friendship is not only hard to arise but it also fragile as well.With these concerns, it is very difficult for human to unconcern enhancing his attractive fellowship. A toast of ten-thousanddollar wine, a carry of hundred-thousand dollar handbags is artifact from the attempt to solve the problem of fear of human today.Although it creates happiness in our heart more or less, is it the appropriate way you choose to live your life?
It is extravagant. It causes greed and selfishness. If friendship is easier to occur and not too fragile,various concerns would not be like this. People would not serious with enhancing his attractive fellowship that hardly depends on materialism. To make friendships happen easier and not too fragile, we just need to re-understand about human. 1. Human are talkative because talking is fun and happy. 2. Human are more likely toshy because of whatever make his fellowship diminished. 3.Human are boastful because they feel that these bring him recognition from a friend. 4. Human are jealous because they like to feel appreciated and to be loved. Human are always afraid to have anything taken away his recognition. This is a simple reason why people feel bad when other is getting better. All of these are the results from the need of social and friends. Then try to clearly consider that those behaviours are kind of disgusting habits or not. And do we have to care about those who have these behaviours. In fact, we should be sympathetictoeach other because we are all suffered from a work of instinct. Some might even addicted to gambling, drugs, computer games and in the end they become lost, losing a chance, and their future. All those cruel things are the result of being torture to find a solution which arises out of instinct anyway.Trying to understand the truth which finally becomessympathy will reducehatred in many situations. Try it! You will never feel like you have true friends if you always carp at others mistakes or if you are likely to be mad, hate and envy at all time. Do not ever ask for love because with a wrong attitude, you won’t be able to even admire someone for a long time. And if people
stillbelieve like this, we will become pessimistic and finally it will reflect the fear of being disliked as well. And that is what will make us happy in ourselves and depend on materialism. It's not the right way. These two things that I would like you to learned, I hope that you will understand it because it is what will make you smile bigger. When looking at people, it is what will unite our relationship to sustainability and stability. The foundation of love is passion and without anger which can be built by knowledge, understanding and sympathy. Finally, it will become something that will give us peace.Do not have to worry about our identity and not have the burden of unnecessary things.
Finally, third, it is how to be happy with your friends. I know I am not good inbuilding relationship, but I know we should succeed in being happy to have friends because if we cannot, there are more tendencies that you have to rely on materialism. I don’t know how happy they are when I amwith them but I have read a book ‘How to win friends’ by Dale Carnegie, I am not going to overcome someone, actually it is how to make people love us. In other words, it is how to make people love to be with us. And it works; I would like to recommend it. One thing I can conclude from this book is we must know how to be friend without feeling burdened when being together. Because staying together boredom, sometimes, happens and if it happens frequently, it will turn to be failure. In my opinion, three people are more comfortable because each person will not have to feel responsible for anything. To conclude, when you are with friend it must be fun, if it was not fun, you have to make it fun, may be by sport, games, walking, cooking, whatever it depends to you. Without prejudice, you can enjoy everything even just went out walking together. I want to emphasize Destination of Success is to have true friends. If we don’t have to worry about our friends, we will not have to rely on troublesome materialism. It is not easy to have a peaceful life in this world unless we know well enough. You could see anything other than this, please help and suggest. If we think about someone who gets lost, children, young generation, they are less chance to study in what they really want. Because learning focus on money consumed until it is what readymade answers become for them. They are taught to hunt for money and indulgently use it. Finally, it is often nothing left for life lasting peace and continue to be at risk in an attempt to make life happy. If an individual's life cannot find the principles and factors of stable peaceful life,how can our society be peaceful?