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BIG STORY

The truth about the Water Crisis

GAMECHANGERS The IPL Women

IMMIGRANT DIARY SPICING UP AMERICA!

DHARMENDRA A retrospective

Q&A with Abhijeet

Singing to his own beat

BIFF! Bang! Boom!

Exclusive INTERVIEW

Emraan and his son fight the Big C

Nargis Fakhri

bares all

Feelings 2016 regular Columns • Fashion • Shopping... andMarch more!

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Editor’s Note

Dear Readers, Summer has arrived and how! With the temperature soaring, all one wants to do is take off to cooler climes. However, if you have chosen to put up your feet, sip a fresh lemonade and read this month’s issue of Feelings, you have chosen well too! The heat also puts the spotlight on the monsoon or the lack of it. As far as the water crisis goes, we’re in the deep end and an interview with water expert, Prof. Vandana Asthana reveals the true extent of the problem. Another interview with Abid Surti of Drop Dead Mission shows what one determined man has accomplished when it comes to saving water. This month also features many stalwarts from the entertainment industry, such as the original macho man Dharmendra in a unique retrospective, the beautiful Nargis Fakhri in a bare-all chat, and the outspoken Abhijeet in conversation with our special music columnist. Read about Patel Brothers – one of America’s most successful Immigrant stories and quench your wanderlust with our Ladakh story, make lifestyle changes with Kamlesh Handa’s valuable tips and catch up with the IPL ladies, who are making their presence felt in more ways than one! Given how packed this issue is, we recommend sitting back, refilling that cool lemonade and diving right in.

Atul Shah Editor and Publisher

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The international magazine

Women • May 2016

wellness

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lifest yle Vol. 5

Editor / Publisher Atul Shah Director Khyati Shah Executive Director Deepti Dedhia Deputy Editor Nandini Sanan Shankar Senior Associate Editor Abid Mohammed Associate Editor Vijay Rohit Editorial Coordinator Abhilash Jayachandra Contributors Kashmira Pattni Columnists Ali Peter John, Sanjay Chhel, Jayesh Chitalia, Bejan Daruwalla, Megha Chitaliya, Priyanka A Patel, Jagruti Fadia, Kamlesh Handa, Veathika Jain Heritage Revivalist Jeetendrasingh G Gaekwad Special Music Columnist Sujata Majumdar Creative Consultants Photographer Marketing Consultant Legal Advisor

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Exclusive Interview Nargis Fakhri

The beautiful actress talks to Sneha about the many problems she faces as an outsider in the industry and what keeps her going.

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Interviews

18 D HARMENDRA Ali Peter John takes us up-close and personal with Dharmendra, the original macho man of Hindi cinema.

56 IN TROUBLED WATERS Nandini Sanan Shankar talks to worldrenowned water expert and published author, Dr Vandana Asthana, on the various aspects of the water crisis.

24 E MRAAN HASHMI Ali Peter John on Emraan Hashmi’s struggle to face and overcome the biggest challenge in his life – his son’s battle with the Big C. 40 F AN With the release of Shahrukh Khan’s latest film, the focus is on real life fans. It’s their moment in the sun and Abid Mohammed puts the spotlight on some of them. 44 I PL A heady mix of game and entertainment put together, the IPL craze is contagious. Adding a woman’s touch to the gentleman’s game are the female hosts and commentators. Vijay Rohit profiles the popular ladies.

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62 AABID SURTI The famous cartoonist Aabid Surti has made saving water his mission. Abid Mohammed finds out more about the work he does under his Drop Dead Foundation. 64 WOMENENTREPRENUERS A Q&A session with Sarika Kapoor who designs temple jewellery with a twist, by Nandini Sanan Shankar. 66 Celebrity chef – Vidita Kamat Kamat’s, the well-known restaurant chain is the default go-to place for yummy vegetarian food. Abid Mohammed meets Vidita Kamat, for whom becoming a chef was only natural.

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columns 23 H UMOUR Sanjay Chhel on the plus points of playing the waiting game. 48 Kaajal’s Feelings The immensely popular youth icon Kaajal Oza Vaidya ruminates on modern day dilemmas. 74 TE CH TALK Priyanka A Patel writes about the 10year old who was rewarded one of the largest bounties by Facebook.

28 MUSICal Notes 28 A bhijeet Abhijeet who has given us some of the most melodious songs, talks to Sujata Majumdar about the past, present and future of the music industry in his typically forthright fashion.

Immigrant Diary

78 L EGAL ADVICE Megha Chitaliya, our resident legal expert on the laws regarding Equal Pay for Equal Work. 80 S MART MONEY Jayesh Chitalia likens characters from the Mahabharata to a whole variety of investors. 82 B ODY AND SOUL Kamlesh Handa stresses on the need for small lifestyle changes to bring about a healthy transformation.

50 MAFAT PATEL Most Indians settled in America have walked down the aisles of Patel Brothers sometime or the other. Feelings brings you the story of the man behind the empire.

84 TR AVEL Explore the awe-inspiring vistas of Leh and Ladakh with Veathika Jain who visited the famed tourist destination.

Made in india

90 D REAM HOMES Jagruti Fadia visits an artist’s home by a lakeside and revels in the natural setting and organic interiors.

54 The T-shirt trail Ami M writes about the inner workings of a typical T-shirt factory in Tiruppur.

12 regulars 12 SH OPPING Dress to Impress. 16 B OLLYWOOD NEWS The latest happenings in Tinsel Town. 88 RE CIPES Presenting Chef Vidita Kamat’s quick and easy to make recipes. 92 C AMPUS TALK Nash Dsouza talks to students during the stressful exam time. 94 B OOK REVIEW Emraan Hashmi’s The Kiss of Life, by Abhilash Jayachandra. 96 F ORTUNE TELLER Your monthly horoscope by Bejan Daruwala. 98 B OLD WORDS #thetweettalk

Heritage 70 Kumbalgarh Jeetendrasingh G Gaekwad explores the lesser known of the only two summer retreats in Rajasthan – Kumbalgarh, and also an eco-heritage property tucked in among its hills.

AUTOMOBILE 76 C oncept Cars Take a closer look at the cars that blend the past and the future and create iconic-cumsophisticated wheels for the present.

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letters to the editor

I have recently started reading Feelings and am amazed with the range of topics covered in one magazine; Art, culture, travel, fashion and Bollywood ...phew! There are many magazines available in the market but few that cover such a wide variety of subjects. I specifically liked the article of solo women travellers in the March issue, since I am a travel enthusiast myself. It was enlightening to read the experiences of other female travellers. Kudos to the Feelings team. RADHIKA SHUKLA, AHMEDABAD

life. One doesn’t imagine that a queen can also have a normal working day like the rest of us. That she is trying her best to preserve culture and heritage is commendable to say the least. It is ‘different’ reading like this that makes Feelings special. Hats off! Akshara Iyer, Mumbai

FEATURE

Asha Bhosle needs no introduction. She has always lived by her own rules, lifting herself above sibling rivalry to carve her own place in millions of hearts around the world. An unparalleled singer and recipient of the Padmavibhushan, her one regret is being uneducated... ALI PETER JOHN

first realized the magic of Asha Bhosle through my friend Gautam Rajadhyaksha, a renowned photographer and writer, who was a great admirer of ‘Asha Tai’, which is how she is popularly addressed, especially in Maharashtra. Gautam was an ardent fan of the singer and had openly expressed his views in various articles about how Asha tai was a much better singer than her sister, Lata Mangeshkar. We had several arguments on this subject but the last time it took an ugly turn. He started our conversation saying, “Arre, kya re Ali, abhi bhi Lata Mangeshkar ka chamcha bankar jeeta hai kya?”. I didn’t want to argue especially because we had met at a function to commemorate the memory of Asha’s father, Pandit Deenanath Mangeshkar, but Gautam continued teasing and taunting me. Known for annoying people with his own opinion, he was determined to carry on the conversation. I told him that his Asha tai was also a great singer but she was not a patch on Lata didi. His anger started getting the better of him though as he started on a rant about Lata Mangeshkar who is worshipped all over the world. “Worshipped, my foot! She just has a shrill voice which she uses whether she was singing a bhajan, a love song or even the famous, ‘Aye mere watan ke logon”. He went on to say that it was idiots like me who had given

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her so much importance. He then let out a volley of fresh abuses against Lata which I couldn’t take and I almost raised my hand when he left the auditorium, got into his car and left in a huff. We never met again after that, a pity because he died five years ago. I saw Asha’s forthrightness at a political meeting called by a leader known as the Hindu Hriday Samrat where Asha was one of the guests to be honoured at the end of the function. Though she was late, she did not even care to look at the Samrat or any of the other leaders on the dais. She knew they were blind followers of her Lata didi and anyone who could see her closely could guess that she was not interested in listening to them. When it was her turn to speak she spoke bluntly in chaste Marathi saying that she knew she was invited to the meeting because they were not able to get Lata didi to attend. She also said that she hated politics and felt very sorry for all politicians. Looking straight at the Samrat, who was feared by everyone in Maharashtra and even the country, she said, “I feel very bad for all politicians who have to keep lying and making false promises to the poor to make themselves rich. I have seen ordinary and uneducated men becoming politicians and deciding the fate of some of the most educated people. I have seen them playing around with the future of little children. I would never like to be a politician and would hate any of my friends or relatives to get into politics. It is only when we have leaders who are genuinely interested in the welfare of the people that our country can be Mera Bharat Mahaan. I have said what I wanted to say and don’t mind if you don’t give me the award for which you have called me here.” At the end the Samrat apparently issued orders to not to invite Asha to any function in the future, as she could damage the party’s image. Once, Ashaji got a little nostalgic and told me about her early days. She had lost her father when she was just eight and didn’t go to school because her mother, Mai could not afford to send her. She regrets the fact about her not being educated at all. “Apun toh bhai angootha chhaap hai, thodi si bhi padhi likhi hoti, toh badon badon ki chutti kar deti,” she says and laughs. She said her sister Lata studied only up to the second standard in a Marathi medium school. Asha came to Bombay when she was twelve. Her sister was already gaining fame

TRAVELOGUE

DUBAI BEYOND THE GLITZ

There’s more to Dubai than the largest malls and the tallest skyscrapers. Veathika Jain shares an insider’s glimpse into the lesser known treats of the city.

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Your columns titled ‘Smart Money’ and ‘Legal Eagle’ are very informative. I make it a point to read those first. I never knew that storytelling can be made into a profession! The interviews with the storytellers in the April issue were absolutely great and I will definitely try to incorporate those techniques when I read to my own children. The ‘Immigrant diary’ also makes for a fresh and interesting read. Christian Makwana, Kolkatta

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Received the new issue and was pleasantly surprised to see Sukhwinder on the cover. Though he is famous for his songs, I wasn’t aware he did such colourful photo shoots. His interview was interesting and so was the retrospective article on Asha Bhosle, one of my all-time favourite singers. I also liked the coverage of the Lakme Fashion Week. Keep up the good work. Gurpreet Singh, Pune

riving to Rajpipla, especially to meet a former queen, is a much better feeling than driving away from the erstwhile princely state, that is nestled between fields and waters of the Narmada, overlooking the Satpura Mountain Range.

As we passed through the entrance of the grand Vijay Palace, we got a glimpse of the Summer Villa Palace, which is now the Maharaja Rajendrasinghji Arts and Science College, Rajpipla. After some quick refreshments, we were ushered into the presence of Rukmini Devi, who was standing by her desk in the office, skimming through a copy of our magazine. The granddaughter-in-law of Maharaja Vijaysinhji of Rajpipla, who is well-known for winning the maximum English Derby Races, Rukmini Devi didn’t waste time and directed us towards a couch, with a smile on her face.

I am becoming a fan of your magazine, slowly but surely. The article on the queen of Rajpipla showed a different side of the royal

Despite what she claimed, the former Maharani’s memory was stronger than ever. She recalled with fine clarity the early days she spent at her father’s palace in Jaisalmer, Rajasthan. Telling us in detail about her years there, she also spoke about adapting to life in Rajpipla, after marriage and how she learnt to speak Gujarati fluently, almost like a native speaker. Hindi is still her first love though, and her preferred language of communication.

When we mention music, there is an excited glint in her eye. Her day begins with singing devotional songs to her favourite Lord Krishna. In her youth, she and her siblings would listen to popular hit songs on a ’78 Turntable. It was a fashionable instrument that was rare in those days and is even rarer today. “I still have the records and the turntable, although I haven’t played it in years,” she says wistfully. Her mornings are usually spent in pooja and kirtan. Vijay Palace Museum, her home, does not house too many religious idols and the pooja is a somber affair. She has two idols of the Baby Krishna which she prays to. Once upon a time she used to light a lamp in front of the idol but was told not to. “Krishna is himself the Light. How do you light a lamp to the Light?” she claims. After that suggestion was offered to her, she stopped the lighting lamps for Krishna but continues the tradition of bathing the baby Krishna in milk every morning and offering him his favourite sweets.“The pooja itself ends with me singing to Krishna. Later on, I move to a room nearby where I practice my singing,” she explains.

Rukmini Devi trained in Hindustani Music under the guidance of Pandit Manikbua Thakurdas. At 7 PM sharp, every morning, after the pooja is done, she commences singing (mainly haveli kirtans and bhajans) with the harmonium. When asked if she plays other instruments, she says none, “But at some point, when

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I have been planning a visit to Dubai and your recent article on it has motivated me further! My nephew really appreciated the Amazon article on self-publishing, for he is a budding author. Kudos to your magazine for having something to read for everyone in the family! Shilpa Sen, NYC

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SUSHANT SINGH RAJPUT CONFIRMS BREAKUP ON TWITTER

he industry has been abuzz with stories about Sushant Singh and Ankita Lokhande heading for a split but neither of them have admitted this. Finally, Sushant Singh confirmed it on Twitter. There were speculations that it was due to Sushant’s closeness to Parineeti Chopra and Kriti Sanon, and Ankita’s lack of work and being an alcoholic, among others. But Sushant Singh has put all to rest. On twitter he posted “Neither she was an alcoholic nor I am a womaniser . People do Grow apart & its unfortunate . Period!!” (sic). Seems like he must have been flooded with questions to clear the picture, and he did! Now it remains to be seen if this is for real or another stunt for his forth-coming movie. You never know!

AAMIR KHAN BUYS A ‘SPECIAL’ BIKE

amir Khan, who never had a bike, even after acting in bike centric movies as Dhoom 3, finally decided to buy one. The Bollywood star has become a proud owner of the new Bajaj V15, a motorcycle which contains metal from India’s de-commissioned aircraft carrier INS Vikrant. Aamir Khan was inspired to buy the V15 when he learnt that the Bajaj V contains metal from INS Vikrant. INS Vikrant was commissioned as the first aircraft carrier of the Indian Navy. After years of distinguished service, she was decommissioned in January 1997. Metal from the warship was molded to make the special edition of Bajaj Bikes.

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Aamir said, “The V is a special bike and I wouldn’t compare it with anything else. It has a piece of history ingrained into it. For me it’s a proud moment to own a piece of metal from INS Vikrant which was the military pride of India for decades.” Rajiv Bajaj, Managing Director of Bajaj Auto made some customisation in the bike. He met Aamir at his residence in Mumbai and personally handed over the customised V15 to him. The new V15 made for Aamir has a customised embossing of the initial A on the fuel tank and one-off graphic design of “Chote Lal” affectionately inscribed on the rear seat.

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Kangana Ranaut recieves National Film Award

Celebrities with Jimmy Shergill at the screen of Punjabi film Vaisakhi List

Jacqueline Fernandez arrives to launch Leeco mobile phones

Jaya Bachchan and Amitabh Bachchan and inaugurate Kalyan Jewellers showrooms in Kolkata

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Son of the Soil

Fighting Fit at Eighty!

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With his strong, robust and earthy persona, Dharmendra is the original â&#x20AC;&#x2DC;machoâ&#x20AC;&#x2122; man of Hindi cinema. Ali Peter John talks about the long journey of a boy from Phagwara who came to Bombay with only dreams in his pocket.

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s a young man who only had his dreams some of his friends from Punjab in the railway quarters to inspire him, he pursued them like an where he only had a place to sleep. ardent, passionate lover. And like it is for all great lovers, it was not easy for him too. Say Dharmendra and I think of a man who was not so He decided to live with his dreams and thankfully they well educated and knew nothing about wily ways of the didn’t let him down. The grand success of Dharmendra world but who hung on to fulfill his dreams. He stayed Singh Deol, now known variously as Dharam, Dharamji on to become the Adonis who rocked the Hindi screen, and Dharam Paaji is one of the most outstanding stories making true the prediction made by Dev Anand who once of our times. called him from a crowd outside a studio, telling him not Dharmendra turned eighty on December 8, last year and to give up because he was destined to make it big! completed more than fifty years of a memorable career. An extraordinary feat very few have Say Dharmendra and I remember his win accomplished because they are not and in a talent contest and then the following cannot be like Dharmendra, a man success in films like Dil Bhi Tera who has received the unending love Hum Bhi Tere, Shola Aur Shabnam of his admirers for five generations. and Anpadh, proof that he was not A giant among the leading stars, he just handsome, but also a man has been a fascinating actor each who could express the innermost time he has been challenged with a feelings of a human heart. different role. Today, he has his own production company, Vijayeta Films Say Dharmendra and you might and a most modern recording studio think of Dharmendra taking off his called Sunny Sound and Recording shirt and looming large over a widow Studio. With his two sons, Sunny and in white - Meena Kumari in Phool Aur Bobby carrying on his legacy, his is Patthar, an act that made him the a chapter that will be etched in the craze of the entire nation! history of Indian cinema forever. Dharmendra turned Say Dharmendra and I think of eighty on December the unbelievable story of a humble Say Dharmendra and I think of a 8, last year and son, a true son of the soil of Punjab. man who worked as a driller in a And a son who worshipped his father quarry in Phagwara. He is still so completed more and adored his mother. down to earth despite his stature in than fifty years of a the film industry, a man whose heart Say Dharmendra and I think of memorable career. overflows with love for those around the young, handsome and tough man him. who saw Dilip Kumar once and then again and again till he decided to Say Dharmendra and you think leave for Bombay where his idol lived and ruled like a of the two women in his life: his first wife, Prakash and ‘Shahenshah’. Dharmendra Singh Deol was just one of then his controversial marriage with Hema Malini. The the millions of his fans. two women understood him, cared for him and walked by his side in different stages of his life. Say Dharmendra and I think of his struggle to find a roof over his head in Bombay, his next meal, or someone Say Dharmendra and you find it difficult to believe who would understand his ‘seene mein aag’ (the fire in that the once-upon-a-time heartthrob is eighty because his belly), his ‘sultagte armaan’(burning desire) and the heroes always remain heroes in our hearts - timeless and ‘sunhere khwab’(lofty dreams) to become an actor one ageless icons whose reel life characters remain etched day. A man who still remembers the time he lived with forever in our memories. n

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LESSER KNOWN FACTS ABOUT DHARMENDRA nD haram has always been a very grateful man, grateful to his parents for bringing him up with the right values, grateful to Arjun Hingorani, the first filmmaker who had the courage to cast him as the leading man way back in 1958. Dharam has acted in all his films, “because I just can’t say no to a man like him”. He can never forget the great heroine Meena Kumari, who agreed to work with a new actor like him in Phool Aur Patthar, the film after which there was no looking back for him. nH e was the first hero to bare his chest in Phool Aur Patthar, long before Salman, Shah Rukh or Aamir Khan. This was the film which gave him the title, ‘Garam Dharam’. nD haram was the true macho man. He was very weak in playing scenes in which he had to cry. nA survey conducted by an international magazine in the early seventies voted him as one of the ten most handsome men in the world. nD haram first married Prakash, a Punjabi girl, chosen by his parents. She is the mother of Sunny and Bobby and their two sisters. Dharam’s younger brother Ajit Singh Deol tried his luck as an actor but couldn’t make it. Abhay Deol, the talented actor is the son of Ajit Singh. They all live together in the same bungalow, with Yash Chopra, the Ramanand Sagar family, J. Om Prakash and Ajay Devgn and Kajol as neighbours. n Dharam worked with all the leading ladies of the fifties including Mala Sinha, Waheeda Rehman, Nutan and even Zeenat Aman. nD haram worked with Hema Malini in a record number of twenty-eight films. They fell in love and defied all tradition when Dharam took Hema as his second wife. They have two daughters, Esha and Ahaana. The two families live separately and Dharam manages to head both families. nD haram has always had a fiery temper when hurt or humiliated. The story of his smashing the head of a male journalist for writing gossip about him and Hema and threatening another female journalist made front page news in the eighties. nH e has tried his best to solve problems in an amicable manner, but when things have gone out of control he has always used his fists. His favourite line is, “Yeh haath Dharam ke haath hai, yeh pyaar se samjha bhi sakte hai aur hathoda ban kar maar bhi sakte hai”. nD haram has had a very long and strong affair with

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alcohol. He has tasted every kind of liquor, from that distilled by tribals in distant villages, aunty’s homes and the costliest Scotch. “Log glass se peete hai, baatliyo aur baltiyon se bhi peete honge, lekin humne drumon se pee hai,” he sometimes says. He has however given up drinking since the last two years, vowing never to drink again. His sons Sunny and Bobby are teetotalers. nD haram tried keeping away from politics but was forced by circumstances to join the BJP and fight the elections from Bikaner. He won by a large majority. While he did a lot of good work for the people there, he was totally disappointed with the dirty games that come with politics. Though he spent a large amount of his own money to help the poor, he refused to contest the elections again in spite of leaders like Atal Bihari Vajpayee requesting him to do so. He continues to help the people of Bikaner anyway. nD haram has now taken over the responsibility of running the campaign against cancer which was once run by the late Sunil Dutt. nD haram came into films because of his love for Dilip Kumar. He calls Dilip Kumar his ‘God’. nH is first goal after reaching Bombay was to have a glimpse of Dilip Kumar. He made the rounds of every studio for that one chance till he finally saw him at a studio in Dadar. He spent the next three days at the

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same studio just to have another look at his hero. He won a talent contest run by Filmfare where he found a very good friend in a journalist called L.P. Rao. He told Rao about his dream to see Dilip Kumar and Rao introduced him to a young woman who was also working as a journalist in Filmfare. That woman was Dilip Kumar’s sister. She arranged an evening for the young Dharmendra with her brother. Dharam couldn’t believe what happened to him that night. The legend spent three hours with him and treated him to a sumptuous dinner. By the time they finished, it was midnight. It was also very cold. Dilip Kumar gave him a coat and asked him to wear it to protect him from the cold. Dharam walked all the way from Pali Hill to Juhu that night and the coat still finds a very important place in Dharam’s wardrobe, even fifty years later. He still observes Dilip Kumar’s birthday in his own way. He always wanted to work with him and there was a time when the two were teamed in a film called ‘Chanakaya’, to be directed by B.R. Chopra. Unfortunately that film was never made. nD haram is now working only in films made under his own banner and in some Punjabi films he has chosen to do recently. nT hese days he is obsessed with writing poetry in Urdu which he hopes to publish as a book soon.

moods and masti

Sanjay Chhel is a well known Bollywood film writer and director

WAAAAIIIT! I AM LATE!

There’s nothing wrong with being late, feels Sanjay Chhel. In fact, it’s good for your rating on the social popularity charts.

t was late; very late. I reached late for the 9.30 film show. It happens to the best of us. The show had begun and we had to try and settle down in our seats without disturbing the other spectators – an impossible feat anyway. Then again, we also had to leave suddenly, before the film ended. An emergency elsewhere and we had to miss the climax too. Happens, right? The philosopher in me finds a similarity between this and the phenomenon called life, where we usually arrive later than we should (I wish I was born ten years earlier!) and then exit unceremoniously! With due respect to those who pride themselves with being on time, being late (and that too fashionably late) is quite the social skill. The latecomers soar high on the popularity charts as they cater to the subconscious human instinct of yearning for that which is not present. What is easily available, however, is taken for granted. The fun lies in the waiting and not in the actual meeting. Once the thrill of the much anticipated arrival is over, the the equation goes for a nosedive, again human nature. A lover awaiting her partner harbours innumerable thoughts and anxieties if her partner is late. The latecomer, when he comes, is then celebrated with a welcome stating how worried she was and how eagerly she was waiting for him. A man who is always on time will not have the pleasure to witness all the care and yearning.

In another instance, she is all dressed up for the lovely evening awaiting them. Her lover did not turn up for three hours. She changed back into her comfort clothes and removed her makeup just in time for her partner’s arrival. Strange as it sounds, she actually finds it cute when he smiles and says, “Hey, are you not ready yet?” Despite being late, he’s saved just because she interpreted his response as an apology, and her irritation dissolved right there.

The latecomers soar high on the popularity charts as they cater to the subconscious human instinct of yearning for that which is not present. On the other hand, if the man were always punctual, then in the event of an argument or a fight, he would be relegated to the position of the needy one. The woman would probably say something like this, “Hey, listen, it was you who was running after me, okay!” The lesson here is that it’s beneficial for your vanity and self respect to learn the art of being late, be it a party or a rendezvous with a lover. Ladies, please don’t get all up in arms! After all, it’s only human nature I’m talking about. Look at the bright side - running late also counts as exercise! n

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Nothing can make a man feel more helpless than seeing his child fight for life. Emraan Hashmi may be known as the ‘serial kisser’ on screen but not long ago he went through an ordeal most cannot even imagine. Fighting his biggest fears Emraan stood by his four year old son while he battled with cancer... ALI PETER JOHN

magine this scene: Popular and successful actor Emraan Hashmi who is nearing the peak of his career and his wife Parveen Shahani are having lunch with their only son, Ayaan, who is barely four years old (three years and ten months to be exact). They are in a very jovial mood as they have found time for themselves after ages. Usually Emraan’s hectic shooting schedules take priority. They have ordered pizzas which Ayaan loves. The parents are busy catching up when they suddenly find Ayaan behaving in a strange manner. He is apparently in some pain. Parveen takes him to the washroom and is shocked out of her wits when she sees blood in Ayaan’s urine. They forget all about their outing and rush Ayaan to a hospital. It is just the beginning of a trial very few parents have faced... A series of checkups follow the incident and a happy home gradually becomes one filled with despair and depression. The parents visit the best doctors with hope in their hearts and prayers on their lips. Their shock turns to disbelief and disillusionment when it is finally diagnosed that the little Ayaan has cancer of the kidneys (Wilms’ cancer). Such a situation can easily lead to panic but Ayaan has a father who is not just a superhero in films. Emraan was determined to do his best in this most gruelling battle to save the life of their only son. He took a complete break from all his work and flew to Canada where he was told that he can find the best cure for his son, especially since the cancer was only in its first stage. The parents found it extremely difficult to make their son realize the gravity of the situation: Going through the most perilous time of their lives, they inspired Ayaan with his favourite superheroes to help him bear the pain that the cancer was making him go through. Emraan’s plan worked because Ayaan believed that Batman and Iron Man were

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on his side and would help him fight and conquer the demon that was cancer. Unaware of the life threatening disease, Ayaan’s spirits lifted under the constant care of his parents. His father’s superhero stories and his mother’s strong will and prayers kept him going... They were in Canada for more than four months and Ayaan went through regular chemotherapy sessions which are very painful, especially for a child. Emraan had several acting assignments on hand, especially the biopic on Mohammad Azharuddin, titled ‘Azhar’ and some other films but for those four months nothing else mattered to him: neither his fame as a star nor all that comes with it. His only goal was to inspire his son to battle the Big C, to beat it and crush it under his delicate feet. The battle took all kinds of cruel twists and turns and there were times when it seemed that all was lost. It was at such dark moments that messages of encouragement and support from all over brought back some hope for the family. For four months of chemotherapy and medication, Emraan stayed strong for his wife and especially Ayaan, giving them hope where there seemed to be none. It was his hope more than the chemotherapy sessions that worked a miracle for Ayaan when after those four months the doctors gave Emraan news that was beyond

Coming back full circle

Ayaan had conquered cancer with along with Iron Man, Batman and his father Emraan by his side. all the happiness he could have imagined - Ayaan had conquered cancer with along with Iron Man, Batman and his father Emraan by his side. A father who had forgotten time and the world around him as long as he was with his Ayaan. The family returned home like an army that has fought a most dangerous war and emerged victorious... Ayaan is now six years old, a rare child who remembers everything about his journey through nothingness. Not an ordinary boy, but one who has conquered the most dreaded, killer disease, he has no qualms about describing it to his friends and teachers. He knows he emerged triumphant only because he had a superhero with him in flesh and blood - his father who had indomitable courage throughout aand who helped him defeat the cancer that was trying its best to snuff out Ayaan’s short life... It is difficult to guess what little Ayaan will grow up to be, but one can only hope that he grows into a brave young man who can do his father Emraan Hashmi aka his ‘Batman’ and ‘Superman’ proud in the years to come. n

alking about Ayaan’s cancer, an emotional T Emraan said, “It all started in 2013, when I was at the top of my career and was very successful and happy. On January 13, 2013, my wife Parveen and Ayaan were having lunch at a restaurant and that’s when we noticed peculiar symptoms in my son.

y wife took him to the washroom and M he passed blood in his urine. We freaked out and took him to the nearest hospital. We couldn’t see him go through physical trauma as parents.”

fter certain tests, Emraan found out that A there was a “tumour growing on top of Ayaan’s left kidney”.

mraan said that though he was doing E everything for Ayaan financially, his chemotherapy treatment created a kind of fear in him.

n “As parents, we fought really hard for several

months. Every time there was this fear that during chemotherapy everything is fine, but what will happen when it stops. I wanted to be sure that he’ll be fine after that.”

mraan said he is now happy it’s been E two years after Ayaan was diagnosed with cancer, and that he was now cancer free.

fter a rough ride, life is beautiful again for A the Hashmis. Ayaan is a normal six year old and Parveen is happy with the family having returned to the kind of life she had feared they might lose forever. Emraan is back to fight another kind of battle, this time to prove himself as a superhero in reel life, with his biggest challenge as an actor in the just released biopic, “Azhar”.

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ABHIJEET

Saari Duniya par main Chhaoon...

Bas itna saa khwaab hai!

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Sujata Majumdar is a renowned playback singer and special music columnist

ith an outstanding voice that has enthralled us with a number of superhit songs such as Chandni raat hai, Main koii aisa geet gaaun, Chaand taare tod laaun, Zara sa joom lu main, Ole ole, Suno na suno na, Tumhe jo maine dekha, Dhoom tana and many others, Abhijeet Bhattacharya has a distinct position in the Indian music industry and a fan following of millions all over the world. Often criticized by the media due to his outspoken nature and shocking statements, Abhijeet is actually a prudent, truth-loving person who believes in being transparent. A qualified commerce graduate, he left his chartered accountancy studies halfway to pursue his musical career. Life has not been a bed of roses for this musical artist whose songs have a timeless appeal. Special Music Columnist Sujata Majumdar interviews this powerhouse of talent as he talks about his journey of turning dreams into reality. TELL US SOMETHING ABOUT YOUR JOURNEY FROM A SMALL TOWN BOY TO THE BOLLYWOOD PLAYBACK SINGER ABHIJEET. I was naughty, action oriented and over active as a child, yet very disciplined. Belonging to a lower middle class and very conservative family, there was no scope of getting spoilt. Music for me was everything. Anything that I perceived...even the nonliving things, be it a door, a tap, a table, or a chair, I connected them with music. If I was standing by the door I would play a rhythm on it with its handle. There used to be steel chair on which I used to play the drum. Right from nursery school I used to be in the front row during prayers. I have inherited this musical trait from my mother. She was a terrific singer but unaware about this fact throughout her life as there was nobody to encourage or recognize her talent. I realized this after I became a singer. My childhood did not last long as there were ample responsibilities upon me and my brothers. We started earning from a very young age. I earned

by doing stage shows ever since I was in ninth grade and that money was enough to run my own expenses: school/college fees and pocket money etc. I miss my childhood now. It was not possible to flirt or have a girlfriend during college days as nobody wanted a poor boyfriend. The dream of going to Bombay to pursue a musical career was in my mind right from the beginning. However, I thought it was better for me to complete my graduation and then go to my dream city. After graduating I started studying chartered accountancy but the dream of going to Bombay was still very much alive within me. So I started saving money for that purpose. I finally got a contact in Bombay through a sound technician and reached the city. The technician was kind enough to invite me to stay at his place which happened to be at Dharavi (the famous slum in Mumbai). I still remember those 4 days in a small room which already was occupied by several other family members. There was no toilet or bathroom. Only public toilets were available. Even in such an unfavorable situation I really appreciated the spirit and hospitality of the technician and his family members who welcomed me and fed me unconditionally. I thought of going to a guesthouse but with my limited funds I couldn’t dare to do so. All my dreams seemed shattered as the city of dreams turned out to be something else in reality. Eventually I went to stay at my cousin’s place for a few days. But for my own self-respect I had to have a place for myself. I had to spend a night at the railway station in those days. Amidst this roller coaster ride my struggle to become a playback singer was on but I chose not to sing in a bar, hotel or marriage events for survival. I met Gulaam Mustafa Khan Saab with a recommendation letter given by my music mentor from Kanpur. Finally, he helped me to get a job at Santacruz with a salary of 360 rupees. Then I started staying in a paying guest accommodation. The struggle was

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still on. I remember going to different studios to meet music directors with a hope that someone would give me chance someday. I remember meeting R D Burman for two years, requesting him to listen to me just once. Eventually he did listen to my recorded voice demo and was pleased. He promised to give me a solo break as a playback singer when it was the right time. This was when Kishore Kumar and Amit Kumar were in full form and every composer would think several times before giving a break to a new singer. My big break was given to me by R D Burman in Dev Anand’s film Aanand Aur Aanand. Though the film flopped, my song was a superhit. This actually made things more difficult for me. Although I enjoyed stardom as a singer of one hit song, I had no money and no work for almost a year. I met Kalyanji-Anandji who did the maximum stage shows at that time. Interestingly, despite loving my voice, they refused to give me work as they were looking for Kishore Kanthi (duplicate voice of Kishore Kumar). I was a diehard fan of Kishore Kumar but never imitated him and always made it a point to sing in my own voice and style.

“My big break which broke all records of that time was Chandni Raat hai from the film Baaghi. After that there was no looking back.” he failed to reach studio on time! (Laughs)

WHEN DID THE NEXT BIG BREAK HAPPEN? During the 80s, film music was going through a bad phase. Typical South Indian films were prevailing with double-meaning lyrics. Even eminent lyricists like Indeevar had to write such vulgar lyrics to keep in pace with the time. Singers like Kishore Kumar were made to sing vulgar songs. As a side-effect during that time, ghazals became popular as people would rather listen to ghazals instead of film music. I also started singing ghazals but didn’t get noticed. After few years the trend changed and melodious music by music directors like Anand Milind, Nadeem Shravan, and Anu Malik gained ground. Subsequently, Kumar Sanu, Udit Narayan, and Abhijeet emerged as the most popular singers. We were called Kishore, Rafi and Mukesh of that time.

BE IT A LIVE PERFORMANCE OR A RECORDING, YOUR VOICE MODULATION AND THE ‘DYNAMIC THROW’ OF VOICE IS ALWAYS TALKED ABOUT. IS IT BECAUSE OF RIYAAZ? I would rather say that I sound better in live stage performances than in recordings as I innovate every time I sing, incorporating and adding better expressions. I am a very careless singer when I am recording. I take it very easy. My carefree attitude helps me sing well. My vocal chords are quite strong and by God’s grace I don’t have any problems after eating or drinking cold or oily things. As for riyaaz I should mention that the important thing is singing - if one does not know how to sing then no riyaaz will help. Riyaaz cannot make any besura a singer. Riyaaz is meant to polish the gold. I am one of those lucky few who is blessed with a golden voice by birth.

My big break which broke all records of that time was Chandni Raat hai from the film Baaghi. After that there was no looking back. Actually Amit Kumar was supposed to sing the song. Incidentally, he didn’t reach the studio on time and Anand Milind decided to make me sing the song. I went for one song and ended up singing three songs. I am ever grateful to Amit Kumar as

WHAT DO YOU THINK OF THE MUSIC THAT IS BEING MADE NOWADAYS WITH THE AUTO TUNE SYSTEM IN RECORDINGS? I feel the music industry has shut down since the last 7-8 years. When we arrived in the industry during 80s, even then it was almost dead. There was only HMV ruling as a music company. Companies like Polidor which

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was later renamed Music India was also on the verge of closing down. It was our generation of singers and music directors who brought back the music industry. There were at least 20 music companies after our generation of singers. While HMV revived, Universal, Tips, Venus, T Series, Royal, and many other companies took off. Every producer started setting up his own company. We stepped aside and now again there is no music industry. You can see that there is no T-series, the music company. They are into fulltime production - only caller tunes, no CDs or cassettes. There is no music at all. Whatever is happening today is definitely not music. The contemporary singers are probably bad as software and auto tunes are being used for their voice. Software in studios is made for them. Now one cannot differentiate between a good and bad singer as all of them sound alike due to similar recording techniques. Neither can you make out who is the music director of the song, as the songs sound identical due to same software, recording styles and techniques. I will not even abuse anybody, as they do not even deserve condemnation. YOU HAVE JUDGED MANY REALITY SHOWS. PLEASE SHARE YOUR VIEWS REGARDING THEM

AND HOW FAR SUCH SHOWS ARE BENEFICIAL FOR THE NEWCOMERS. I have been watching reality shows since 1994. In all these years I can only remember Abhijeet Sawant who emerged a winner out of it and got some fame. I cannot remember any other singer who made a name after winning a reality show. I hate to watch or judge reality shows now. When I used to judge them, everybody would appreciate me for blurting out the truth publicly. Some contestants I judged were really outstanding, especially the children. However, lately whenever I am invited to a reality show I am surprised to see that the level of singers is no longer up to the mark. And since I am a transparent person I can never applaud a bad singer. Even children now are losing their innocence due to these reality shows. All of them seem to sound alike with their high notes and Sufi & qawaali style singing. I donâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;t regret not judging reality shows as I prefer to utilize that time to do other things on my priority list. YOU ARE A VERY STRAIGHTFORWARD AND UPFRONT PERSON. THIS QUALITY OF YOURS HAS OFTEN BEEN CRITICIZED BY PEOPLE AND MEDIA. HAS IT EVER AFFECTED YOU? I think it is a bad quality to have for the industry that I work in. The film/music industry works on groupism and mutual admiration. â&#x20AC;&#x153;Ek dusre ki wah wah karte

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raho”... which I can never do. My problem is that I speak the truth. I call good as good and bad as bad, instead of manipulating or making hypocritical statements. I do not abuse or insult anybody, I just blurt out the truth. However, this has not affected me. I possess fame, position, money and everything today due to my work as a singer. I am choosy about my projects as I want to do only good work. I am among those lucky ones whose songs will remain evergreen. THERE WAS A CONTROVERSY REGARDING YOUR STATEMENT ABOUT PAKISTANI SINGERS COMING TO INDIA. WHAT WAS THAT ABOUT? My point was that, despite having so much talent in India, why are Pakistani singers being called to sing for Indian films. They have good script quality and good television serials which I appreciate. But musically India is much stronger than them. Pakistani singers use their qawaali style of singing as mainstream singing in Indian movies! India is a hub of talented singers, yet Pakistani singers “ko laake sar pe bithaana” is very wrong, I feel.

nickname ‘Saptarshi’ for some of my albums. I also did music direction for a Bengali Movie. YOU HAVE WORKED THE TOP MUSIC DIRECTORS OF THE INDUSTRY. TELL US SOMETHING ABOUT YOUR LEARNING EXPERIENCE WITH THEM. I really enjoyed working with Anand Milind. They gave me full freedom during recording and allowed me to sing the way I wanted. That really worked wonders in the song. It was very difficult to work with Jatin-Lalit as they were hardcore perfectionists. They would never compromise and made me sing those songs which they really knew that no other singer but Abhijeet can do justice with. With Anu Malik I really had a fun time. He is the most unpredictable person. During recording it was difficult to make out how he will react then, and in the immediate next moment. I sang one song for AR Rahman Aye Nazneen Suno Na which became a big hit although the film flopped. I was called for another song of his however the recording was scheduled to be during midnight in Chennai and I had a commitment for other recordings in Mumbai, so I left. Since I worked with R D Burman, my attitude became similar to his. I am a hardcore professional like him.

YOU HAVE MADE A LOT OF INDEPENDENT MUSIC AND YOUR NON-FILMY ALBUMS ARE QUITE POPULAR. YOU ALSO FORAYED INTO MUSIC DIRECTION. TELL US A BIT ABOUT THIS ASPECT. There was a time when Rapid fire questions: people wanted to categorize me as a particular star’s Q: Your favorite song sung by you voice. So I wanted to release A: All my songs are my favorites my non-filmy album to prove that I sing in my own Q: Your favorite song sung by anvoice and don’t sing as other singer per any star on whom it is A: All songs of Kishore Daa picturized. Further, I don’t imitate Kishore Kumar in Q: Favorite cuisine my singing. I did not want A: Food cooked in Bengali style (veg/ any film star to feature in non veg) my album. My albums Tere Bina, Kabhi yaado mein ao Q: Your Strength and many others became A: Myself super hits only because of the melodious music/lyrics/ Q: Your weakness singing, not because of any A: My family filmy formulas or stars. I composed music by the

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YOU ARE A FAMILY ORIENTED PERSON. WHAT IS THE CONTRIBUTION OF YOUR FAMILY IN YOUR SUCCESS? Although I am called a Casanova, flirt and flamboyant by the media, as far as family is concerned, I am the best husband, best son, and best father. If I have had any affair, I stated it as an affair! I don’t believe in hypocrisy. My family has been a constant support for me. As long as I have the support of my family, I hardly care if anybody makes unfavorable statements about me. Both my sons are very good singers. However it is not sure what they will decide on as their career. I am a flexible father and have left it on them to pursue their respective passions.

READERS WOULD WANT TO KNOW ABHIJEET AS A PERSON. HOW DO YOU DEFINE YOURSELF AS A PERSON? In today’s world it’s bad to be a good person. However, I cannot change myself. My problem is I cannot keep quiet if I see anything wrong happening, be it at a national level or anything else. I always step forward and comment on it! Panga le leta hu, due to which my enemies are born. Ultimately I find myself alone fighting for the cause! There are enough two faced snakes who appreciate me on my face but act just the opposite behind my back. I am against such people with double standards. HOW RELIGIOUS ARE YOU? THE DURGA PUJA ORGANIZED BY YOU IN MUMBAI HAS BEEN NOTED AS THE BEST IN ASIA. I am not a religious person at all. I believe there is a power higher than us. I consider myself a staunch Hindu. However, I am not against any other religion. I am agitated when anyone underestimates Hindus. People misinterpret me that I am against Muslims. I am not against Muslims. 90% of the workers in my Durga Puja Celebrations are Muslims. So, it is foolish to even think that I hate Muslims. YOU HAVE CREATED A STYLE STATEMENT FOR YOURSELF ON STAGE AS WELL AS YOUR ALBUM VIDEOS. DO YOU HAVE A DESIGNER? I look for value for money. I would never waste money on a brand unless I find something really exceptional. I would rather buy interesting stuff which suits me from a common shop. I prefer wearing stylish glasses; however they are not necessarily branded. I am my own designer. Sometimes my wife chooses clothes for me. Off late I am fascinated by shorts. I often feel like wearing them on stage! (Laughs) YOUR FANS WOULD LOVE TO KNOW ABOUT YOUR FORTHCOMING PROJECTS. In contemporary times nobody can talk about forthcoming projects. In a film there are not one but five different music directors. Everything today is “singles”...so what can anyone say about projects! WHAT ENTHRALLS YOU APART FROM MUSIC? I am fascinated by nature. I love travelling. I am a big

“My family has been a constant support for me. As long as I have the support of my family, I hardly care if anybody makes unfavorable statements about me.” foodie. I am very fond of various cuisines. WHAT IS YOUR MESSAGE FOR THE CONTEMPORARY GENERATION OF SINGERS? I would advise them not to get influenced by what you are hearing now. You cannot learn anything from the artificial music happening today as it is mostly software elements. Listen to good music and real music. Listen to Rafi Saab, Mukeshji, Kishore Kumar, Lataji, Ashaji, Alka Yagnik, Kavita Krishnamurthy, Sonu Nigam and currently Shreya and Sunidhi. Listen to my songs a lot to learn the technicalities I used in my singing. n

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Nargis Fakhri

The

Determined

Actress

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ockstar gave the industry a tall, unconventional, non-resident beauty – Nargis Fakhri. She debuted with superstar Ranbir Kapoor. Post Rockstar, while Ranbir took all the praise and accolades, Nargis had to face a lot of criticism from the media. Everyone spoke about her perfect pout and figure more than her acting skills. Typically, a hit as big as Rockstar should have sky rocketed her to stardom, but it did not. Though she did gain fame, it was not for her acting skills. Now the pretty girl is back in the biopic of the controversial captain of the Indian Cricket Team, Mohammad Azharuddin. Nargis, who plays the role of Sangeeta Bijlani in the film, opens up to Sneha in a candid chat about the ups and downs in her life, her inhibitions and her struggles in the industry. Photographs by Avinash Gowarikar How did you bag Azhar? It was through a production house. They are always on the lookout for the right actors and if they feel that you fit in the role they call. I don’t really know cricket or the cricket captain and I heard about his life for the first time. I liked the genre - almost a documentary form. It was interesting to portray someone’s life behind the scenes. I had to do a lot of research. I didn’t meet Sangeeta but googled her to know more about the incidents in her life and her films. The film itself, the music, the drama and the oye oye song sounded so cool.

How do you look at your journey until now, in Bollywood? It has been very difficult. Though it has been very tumultuous with lots of ups and downs, I feel blessed because I have got enough work. A lot of people have to struggle but I have – what you say – a little bit of kismat. It’s tough because I am alone here and I struggle with the language too. I can understand Hindi but can’t communicate in it. When someone uses big words, things get lost in translation. If I want to express my true feelings I can only do it in my language because I understand it. Have you ever faced rejection? I feel rejected all the time. I feel like an alien. I always feel that people don’t like me. Why do you feel that? A lot of people behave strangely. I got a lot of criticism for Rockstar. It’s okay because it can’t get worse now, only better. I used to feel really bad when I came to work after Rockstar, but now it is okay.

“I am shy, super friendly and emotional.”

What was the one thing about Sangeeta Bijlani that struck you? Her beauty! She’s beautiful, her body language was so graceful! And her hair… I got to wear the hair and the clothes to act as a girl who was a model. In real life I wear pants and t-shirts. I don’t wear so much make up or dress up. Here I got to experiment. It was a big deal for me. The love between these two was very intense and it’s a nice story.

What do you find most difficult here? Everything in life is difficult here, it’s very stressful. If you are not born or raised here then it’s very tough as an outsider. Also if you are not so busy and life is not hectic then again it’s tough.

Have you made friends in the industry? Not really. My management is my friend as I work and spend so much time with them. My driver is my friend. My maid is my friend and I help her clean. I don’t speak to many people after my films are over. I came here as an outsider and understand that the business is very demanding, so one dedicates any free time to one’s family and real friends. My real friends are abroad and I have to go see them to keep in touch or else I will lose the foundation of friendship. I don’t want that to happen.

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Do you feel lonely? Actually, I do. Most of the time I talk to myself. How do you take care of your skin and health? I don’t wear makeup and keep washing my face all the time. I regularly use a cleanser and moisturiser. I drink a lot of water, two to three litres a day to keep myself hydrated. I do Pilates every day, though lately I have been taking it easy as I hurt my knee. I sleep early and wake up at 6.00 in the morning to go to the gym. My diet is healthy and I take care of the Leptin levels. When I am hungry I have peppermint tea with honey and clear soups. I eat the ‘boring’ greens, broccoli, potatoes and cauliflower. I want to be a vegetarian but it doesn’t last for more than six months. Every so often I go vegetarian and feel so much better. It’s not possible but I wish one could walk in Mumbai… What does success mean to you? What you believe is success may not be success for me. Right now, I don’t think I am successful because I am not happy. I don’t get to see my friends and family as often as I want. When I achieve a work-life balance I might say I am successful. I am trying to restructure my life so I work less and be with my family more. Life is nothing without friends and family. One can make money and get famous but if there is no one by your side to share that happiness or truly love you, then it means nothing.

is self-love. No one will love you better than you love yourself. If you don’t love yourself you won’t even get a good partner. One should never try so hard to find a boyfriend and get married. I don’t care where he is right now. He is going to come to me when everything is in order and the time is right. One should become a full individual first. For now, I am focusing on balancing work and seeing more of my family and friends. What is important for a woman in a relationship? A woman should love herself the most and not the other person. Instead of depending completely on her partner she should take care of herself, take up a job and save her own money. Then if he ever leaves, she won’t cry so much. Any new projects? I was in the Hollywood blockbuster Spy which released last year. This year I am back in Bollywood. Apart from Azhar, I will be seen in Housefull 3, Danger and I have a cameo in Dishoom. How would you describe yourself? I am shy, super friendly and emotional. I am an introvert here because I don’t know the people. A lot of them are judgemental which is why I prefer to be alone. I love people though and make them laugh. I like the atmosphere to be fun.

“I want to inspire and motivate other human beings in every way possible.”

Do you have a goal in life? I want to inspire and motivate other human beings in every way possible. Any dream projects in mind? I would like to have a farm but not the kind you see in films. I want it to be a holistic, healing place - a bed and breakfast where people can relax and get away from this kind of life. I would love to grow organic vegetables there, to be used in the kitchen. Have you found love? It may sound weird but the best and most important love

What do you do in your spare time? I read a lot and am obsessed with natural healing and Ayurveda. I like to work on documentaries. What have you discovered about yourself in the last few years? I have found a negative side of me – being angry because I can’t control things. If things are not organised and I can’t control the situation then I can’t bear it. If I want to see my mother and they decide when I can do that, there’s a lot of frustration. I am learning meditation to let go and go with the flow. To trust in a Higher Power and stay calm. n

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Simply Fan-tastic! Feelings speaks to two die-hard fans and also shares some bizarre fan stories.

ans are those who put their favourite stars on a pedestal and worship them every single day, sometimes literally. They are the true driving force that keep a star going. They are the sturdiest marketing tool that film makers bank on. They choose to remain in the wings - always invisible. But now, Yash Raj Films’ movie Fan, starring the charismatic Shah Rukh Khan, has brought all the real fans into the limelight! THE SWEET FANS Kareena fan gifts a diamond set! Kareena Kapoor’s fanatical fan spent half his life writing letters to the actress but to no avail. When he received no reply to his letters, the star-struck fan gifted her a diamond set worth a whopping rupees forty lakhs! Shahid Kapoor’s Haider flys high! After viewing Haider, an NRI fan of Shahid Kapoor went to the base camp of Elbrus (highest mountain in Europe, which stands at 18,510 feet above sea level) to hoist the Haider flag high on top. Shahid must really feel on the top of the world at that moment! Aamir Khan’s cyclist fan Kishore Kumar rode on a cycle all the way from

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Ranchi to Mumbai just to meet the actor. He also took hand written letters from the people that he met on the way and who guided him on his journey to meet the actor in Mumbai. A website for Deepika Padukone Mohit Jain, a huge fan of Deepika Padukone, designed a website for Deepika as a gift to her. His website iamdeepikapadukone.com is meant for fellow fans of the actress. Mohit has also managed to get his hands on Deepika’s never-before-seen childhood photographs. Amitabh Bachhan’s samosa surprise by a fan! A samosa seller from Mumbai drove a truckload of samosas to Jalsa, Amitabh Bachchan’s Juhu residence, to take the superstar’s blessing so that he could distribute the samosas to his fans as ‘maha-prasad.’ THE DANGEROUS ONES A Rajinikanth fan attempted suicide so that his kidney could save the actor’s life In the year 2011, when Rajinikanth went for his dialysis to Singapore, Rajniraja Arockiasamy from Sundarapuram took innumerable sleeping pills so that on his death, his kidney could be removed and donated to the actor. As luck would have it, he was immediately admitted to the hospital and his life was saved!

Aditya Roy Kapoor received a marriage proposal etched out in blood Aditya Roy Kapoor received his share of fanfare when the crew of the movie Fitoor, shooting in Kashmir got a letter written in blood by a fan who was more than eager to marry the hot actor. Abhishek Bachchan’s fan slit her wrist On the day of Abhishek’s wedding to Aishwarya Rai, model Jhanvi Kapoor slit her wrists outside his bungalow telling the world that Abhishek was already married to her. She was later arrested by the police after she created quite a spectacle in the vicinity. Imran Khan attacked by fan The actor who was in Dubai to promote his new film had a shocking experience. A female fan pushed through and grabbed his hands and began shaking them. Imran kindly reciprocated with a smile, but the fan absolutely refused to let go. When Imran’s bodyguards had to step into action the offended girl bit into Imran’s hand to stop his bodyguards from pushing her away! Imran yelled in agony, but the lady refused to let go even as his bodyguards pulled her away. Obsessive fan attacks Shruti Haasan In the year 2013, a Shruti Haasan ‘fan’ started visiting Shruti’s sets and also her home. One particularly day this ‘fan’ forcefully entered Shruti Haasan’s house and lunged at her throat. Fortunately, she escaped the attack and managed to throw him out. Actor Raj Kumar’s daughter became infatuated with Shahid Kapur, insisting she was his wife Vastavikta Pandit, daughter of yesteryear actor Raj Kumar, moved in next to Shahid Kapur’s Yari road house. Soon Vastavikta began trying to get in touch with Shahid by trying to climb into his house and by following him to his shoots. She shocked Shahid by claiming to be married to him. Eventually, Shahid Kapur had to file a police complaint. Kangana’s fan sent her passionate love notes Akash Bhardwaj was so madly in love with Kangana Ranaut that he started having hallucinations of being in a relationship with her. Romeo style love letters and

Harshita Vaishnav - THE FAN GAL Describe the moment that made you a fan? The day I saw Arjun Kapoor doing Chokra Jawaan, I decided he is the one. Which celebrity fan club do you manage? Arjun Kapoor’s, its called @arjunkapoorfb How long have you been managing this club? The fan club came into existence since 10th May 2012, the day I met Arjun. Have you got a chance to meet your idol? Of course, I have been fortunate to meet him just before Ishaqzaade released. Luckily I just came up with this word Arjunzaadi and that got registered in his mind. What does your idol say about you? Well, Arjun has been a sweetheart. He has always mentioned me in his interviews as the first ever Arjunzaadi. What more can a fan ask for? Have you met any crazy fan? Yes, I have. As his fan base increased they started contacting me on Facebook and expressed their love for Arjun. I felt my craziness was nowhere close to them.

SMSes compelled the actress to file a police case against her stalker. WHEN THE STARS ARE OVERWHELMED Aamir Khan meets his young fan who suffers from Progeria Aamir Khan found a fan in a boy suffering from a genetic disorder called Progeria. In this rare disorder the body ages eight times faster than normal. Nihal Bitla who loved the movie Taare

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Zameen Par for its inspiring message, thanked the star for making this film through a Facebook post. When Aamir came to know about this he arranged a meeting between him and the teenager was speechless on seeing Aamir. He thanked him heartily for all the goodies that the actor got for him. Amitabh Bachchan’s Surti fan The superstar shares that he can never ever forget this fan from Surat. He says, “It all happened when the I got injured during the shooting of Coolie. This man wished that if I recover fully, he will come to Siddhi Vinayak walking backwards! He did that and today he is Jaya’s rakhi brother!” Sachin Tendulkar addresses this fan as ‘National Icon’ Sudhir Chaudhary is a die-hard cricket fan and can be seen on the television in every international match that India plays. Sachin Tendulkar calls him a ‘national icon’. Sudhir follows the Indian cricket team diligently and has remained single as he does not want to spoil a girl’s life, his first and only priority in life being cricket. Once at a press conference, Sudhir fought through the sea of journalists to fall at

Sachin Tendulkar’s feet. Sachin was bewildered and touched and called him for lunch. Since then the two hold a special place in each other’s hearts and Sachin is only too happy to help Sudhir whenever the latter wishes to travel to watch a match abroad. Hrithik Roshan’s surprise visit to a fan Jyoti Vishwakarma, fan of Hrithik, has a collection of over 10,000 pictures of the actor. The lady also displays a tattoo of his name on her hand. While Jyoti was here in Mumbai for a show, Hrithik dropped in to see her. Not only this, but he also made coffee for Jyoti. She shed tears of joy on seeing Hrithik and living her dream! Fan’s creativity lands him a job with SRK A die-hard Shah Rukh Khan fan created his own version of the trailer of King Khan’s film Fan. The Badshah of Bollywood was so impressed with the trailer that he offered the individual a job in his VFX department. Haryana to Mumbai for Akshay Kumar A young boy from Haryana walked for over 42 days to Mumbai, just to get a glimpse of his favourite actor Akshay Kumar. When the fan reached Akshay’s

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Describe the moment that made you a fan? The moment Karan Johar himself followed my fan club and was soon joined by stars of the film ‘Student Of The Year’ Alia Bhatt, Varun Dhawan and Sidharth Malhotra justified the fact that I was doing something right. Moreover, that one call from Kjo’s personal assistant that the man himself wants to meet me personally in Mumbai for the screening of the film, took me to another high. That, I would say, was my

Which celebrity fan club do you manage? I’m a fan of a few celebrities but what drew me to start fan clubs was my passion and love for all the films Dharma Productions has made.

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How long have you been managing this club? I started in 2012 with the release of ‘Student Of The Year’, and went on to do fan club pages for ‘Gori Tere Pyaar Mein’, ‘Yeh Jawaani Hai Deewani’,

‘Hasee Toh Phasee’, ‘2 States’ and ‘Brothers’. It’s been almost 4 years that I have involved myself with these pages. Have you got a chance to meet your idol? Yes! I got to meet Mr. Karan Johar at the celebrity only screening of ‘Student Of The Year’. We have been in touch via messages post that event and he was the one who made Sidharth Malhotra follow the SOTY FC after I requested him to. Meeting Varun and Alia was an additional advantage for me anyway. Not to forget meeting the ever so humble Parineeti Chopra.

building, the Khiladi was out of town. But the young lad made the road his home for days. When Akshay got to know about this on his return, he immediately met the boy and was extremely overwhelmed by witnessing the boy’s love for him. NO LESS THAN THE GODS Amitabh Bachchan temple in South Kolkata In this temple located in South Kolkata, a huge photograph of Amitabh Bachchan sits cosy on a throne straight out of his movie Aks, along with a pair of shoes that he wore in his film. The head priest Sanjay offers prayers to this photograph of Amitabh with the shloka ‘Amitabh Chalisa’. Kushboo’s temple in Tiruchirapalli, Tamil Nadu The fans of Khushboo built this temple in honour of this scintillating actress in Tiruchirapalli. The temple was later demolished by protesters due to the controversial statement that she made on pre-marital sex and AIDS in 2005. What do your idols say about you? When I met Karan Johar, he expressed how glad he was to finally see me in person, not just that, he introduced me to the his PR Nilofer Qureshi at the event saying this is the hardworking boy I was talking to you about, and the woman handles only A-listers. I clearly remember Alia Bhatt saying ‘This is my first film, thank you for making it big. You’re the most important person in my life’. In fact, Varun Dhawan gave me the tightest hug of my life saying, ‘Thank you so much Buddy!’. The next day I had met

Namitha’s temple in Tirunelveli, Tamil Nadu This is another example of reverence by fans of actress Namitha of the Kollywood film industry. Although Namitha initially rejected the idea of having a temple built and dedicated to her, she later accepted it. Pooja Umashankar’s temple in Sri Lanka Not only is she loved and adored in Kollywood, but Pooja has a huge following further down south in Sri Lanka too. Impressed with her acting in various Sinhalese movies, her fans have created a temple just for her and offer her image prayers daily! Maruthur Gopalan Ramachandran’s temple in Nathamedu near Thirunindravoor, Chennai There is yet a South Indian movie lover to walk the earth who does not love the late Puratchi Thalaviar- Makkal Thilagam MGR. Madly in love with this actor, a dedicated couple fan of the star, built a temple for the late actor at Nathamedu, Thiruninravur, 40 kms from Chennai. Special “Kumbabishekam” was carried out by priests on the day of inauguration which was attended by lakhs and thousands of devotees from across the country. n

the marketing manager of Dharma Productions who was left astonished at the way I got my hands on everything before the production house itself. They have collaborated with me a number of times to trend contests and deliver merchandise to the fans.

Have you met any crazy fan? I remember when I started the fan club for ‘Shuddhi’ which initially had Kareena Kapoor Khan and then the rumours suggested Deepika Padukone might replace her. The page handling Deepika’s largest fan group mentioned my handle and tweeted “Deepika is in her own league and needn’t replace anyone.” Well, I was just doing my duty of informing the fans but this fan club tried turning the whole situation nasty, which they later apologised for.

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Female Anchors Play a Vital Innings in the IPL

IPL’s grand success is not only due to the cricketers’ skills on the field but also in part due to the anchors and hosts. Intelligent women commentators are changing the rules of the previously exclusive ‘gentleman’s game’, discovers Vijay Rohit

ot long ago, Bollywood diva Neha Dhupia’s remark “Sex and Shahrukh always sells”, created a lot of buzz. If we tweak this remark a little to ‘Cricket and glamour always boosts TRPs’, it is equally true! Indians’ affection for Bollywood and cricket is no secret and the prolific T-20 IPL (Indian Premier League) tapped into this insight from its inception in 2008. The BCCI launched the IPL with an idea to market cricket as not just a game but also entertainment. In the same vein, IPL team owners got expert commentators to host shows in between innings, including glamorous female anchors. Let’s take a look at some of the coolest female anchors who change the on-field - off-field environment for the better:

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Mandira Bedi: Talking about popular female cricket anchors, the first name that comes to mind is Mandira Bedi. She had a successful TV career before she tried her hand at anchoring. By the end of it she became a household name by hosting cricket shows. Her anchoring style and cricket knowledge became the talk of the town. She opened the door for many aspiring models and actors in this otherwise male-dominated field and became famous for hosting cricket shows wearing her trademark sarees. Mayanti Langer : Roger Binny, a player from the World Cup winning squad in 1983 is the father-in-law and Stuart Binny who currently plays for Royal Challengers Bangalore, is the husband of this beautiful lady. She has created her own niche however, by anchoring

shows and is popular in India and abroad. Apart from hosting several cricket events, she also hosted the 2010 FIFA World Cup and Commonwealth Games 2010. She earlier worked with ESPN and Ten Cricket Sports Channel.

Pallavi Sharda : The latest sensation in the IPL, Pallavi moved from Melbourne to Mumbai to follow her twin passions of modeling and anchoring. Crowned “Miss India-Australia” in 2010, she rode high on the wave of success. Her cricketing knowledge along with her style quotient is a huge attraction for the viewers. She also bagged a cameo role in the blockbuster movie ‘My Name is Khan’.

Shonali Nagrani : A Delhi girl, Shonali was crowned Miss India and Miss India International. She has hosted and appeared in many TV shows like Popcorn, Great Indian Laughter Challenge, IIFA awards in Dubai in 2007, Khatro ke Khiladi and Big Boss. Her cricketing affair began in 2006 with the Champions Trophy followed by hosting the 2007 Cricket World Cup. She also worked for ESPN and Star Sports. Hosting the IPL for four consecutive seasons, she has built up the faith in her talent over the years.

Isa Guha : Isa Guha actually played cricket (for England) and is now doing equally well with a mike in her hands as a cricket host. She made her debut in 2002 against India, at the age of seventeen. Part of the winning team in the World Cup 2009, she announced retirement from cricket in 2012. Her second innings as a host and cricket expert is equally mind blowing. Stylish and glamorous, Isa has always impressed with her sound knowledge of the game. You can also see her in the current IPL 2016.

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Lekha Washington : She anchored the IPL’s maiden event with ease and grace. Chennai born, Lekha is of mixed descent, but considers herself a South Indian due to her upbringing. She has acted in movies - mainly in Tamil, Telugu, Kannada and Hindi apart from directing and acting on stage too. She also runs her own product design company. Anchoring the maiden tournament of the IPL was a big responsibility for which she took help from Ajay Jadeja to understand the nuances of the game, apart from her own research. Shibani Dandekar : Shibani Dandekar grew up in Australia and then moved to America to pursue her career as a TV show presenter. A singer, actor and model by profession, Shibani has been part of various IPL seasons. She has been hosting Extra Innings since the fourth edition of IPL. She also has a music band - D-Major, along with her sisters. Apart from anchoring some shows in USA, she has also been a contestant and presenter of many commercial and reality shows in India. Rochelle Maria Rao : If you are watching IPL 2016, then you must have seen this beautiful lady hosting shows or interviewing cricketers on the field. She earlier co-hosted IPL in 2013 with the gorgeous Karishma Kotak. Crowned ‘Femina Miss India International’ in 2012, Rochelle is a model turned host. Part of reality shows like Zalak Dikhla Ja, Big Boss, Fear Factor, Life Mai Ek Bar, she

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plays the nurse in Kapil Sharma’s new comedy show and had a cameo role in ‘Fitoor’. Karishma Kotak : Born in Britain, this gorgeous lady’s dream was to be a school teacher. Destiny brought her to India, however, and she realized the huge potential that the fashion and film industry had to offer here. A model on the Kingfisher calendars, she was also seen in many commercials and covers of leading women’s magazines. She hosted the IPL season VI alongside Rochelle Rao. Though she appeared only in one IPL season, she is still remembered by viewers. Archana Vijay: One of the most beautiful models and VJs, Archana, hosted IPL-4 in 2011. She took part in many reality shows in addition to anchoring and presenting various events. Travelling is her

hobby and she also hosts shows like ‘Freedom Express I and II.’ She is currently signed up with Neo Sports for its cricket shows “Tour Diary for Extra Cover” and “Cricket Masala Mar Ke” where she is very popular for her presentation. n

eventtalk Tech Kaajal’s report Feelings

Kaajal Oza Vaidya is a prolific writer and a popular youth icon, well-known for her honest and forthright views. She has a huge fan following, especially on the social media

A Journey towards Nothingness…

Where are we truly going and what are we looking for in this hyper-connected world? Kaajal Oza Vaidya tries hard to find meaning in modern life. From up here in the crow’s nest I see a small crowd gather, Why do you gather my townsmen? There is no news here, I am not a trapeze artist. I am busy with my dying… Three heads lolling, Bobbing like bladders. No news. The soldiers down below Laughing as soldiers have done below for centuries. No news. We are the same men. You and I, The same sort of nostrils, The same sort of feet. My bones are oiled with blood And so are yours. My heart pumps like a jack rabbit in a trap.

he alarm rings and we open our eyes, it’s just another day…we leave the bed reluctantly…5 minutes more is what our mind says! But no, it’s middle of the week! Must reach before the others, prove to the boss how hard working we are. The morning sun has lit up the house. The temperature is rising and one more hot day awaits as we drag our bodies to the main door and open it to pick up the milk, newspaper…

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And so does yours. I want to kiss god on his nose and watch him sneeze. And so do you, Not out of disrespect. Out of pique. Out of man to man think. I want heaven to dissent and sit on my dinner plate. And so do you, Because we need; Because we are sore creatures. My townsmen, go home now I will do nothing extraordinary. I will not divide into I will not pick out my white eyes. Go now, this is a personal matter. A private affair! None of your business! - Anne Sexton (America)

‘Vidya Balan’s husband is upset with her because she took a stand and made a statement supporting Kangana Ranaut. Meanwhile Hrithik Roshan is awaiting justice and Adhyayan Suman rises against Kangana’ What is all this? Why are we so interested in other’s lives? Our day starts with reading about others and ends with talking about others. Our Whatsapp messages are not for us, they are

simply forwards. We get depressed if we do not get a certain number of likes on Facebook or Twitter. All we want to do is upload our photos and talk about I, me and myself. Updating what we eat and what we wear, we do everything for public announcements. We don’t travel for pleasure or for knowledge, we travel because we want people to know where we have been. A home maker is always worried about whom her husband is chatting with. A working couple talks on Whatsapp, matter of fact. But people fall in love on the internet. Virtual relationships become real and real relationships go for a toss just because? We eat and drink in disposables and even dispose of important relationships in our lives so conveniently. Comfort, convenience and careless calculations make valuable relationships breathless. We want to know all about others and wish for others to know all about us. We are loud but talk about maintaining privacy. A “Do not disturb” board hangs on our serious faces but curiosity is alive in our eyes. A new age mom barters with the child, “If you finish homework, I’ll give you a chocolate.” The grown up son barters with the father, “Transfer your property to me and I’ll take care of you,” All our little children listen to in the morning is, ‘Hurry up, be quick, make it fast’. They do not know how to count but we teach them to how to come first. We don’t teach them how to win, but we teach them how others can lose. All we want is truth! But truth that we want to listen to, that we recognise. Our own image of truth is hazy and hollow. We claim to love the truth but there is no love and no truth. We don’t know

what we want but we are searching for something constantly. We do not want what we have but crave for what others have. We run fast to reach where the others are and once we reach there, we run again… A wife asks the husband, ‘Do I look good?’ If husband says yes, the wife smiles in disbelief, ‘You’re fooling me.’ she says. Actually he is, but cannot admit it. We strive to keep our surroundings intact and come what may, we hold on to our security blanket. We are all naked under this comfort blanket. We want to snatch away the comfort blankets of others, exposing them. They want to do the same to us. We think we are running a race and try to win, but there is no race. It’s a circle…the circle of life which starts nowhere, ends nowhere and goes nowhere. We all want our stories to be told the way we think they should be, not the way they are actually. If someone among us tries telling a true story we are scared…that it’s our turn next. We don’t want to tell, we only want to know. We only want to talk about what is missing in other people’s lives. But we all are naked under the blanket! We better know that. We have no right to clap when we see one of us helpless or hiding. It’s not about Kangana or Vidya, it’s not about Hrithik or Adhayayan either. Be it Meena Kumari, Divya Bharati or Jiya Khan, be it Geetanjali or Pratyusha, insecurity caresses everyone with its smooth and dangerous touch. We all are rushing towards a ‘better’ future, but where is it? It is utopia, a land that does not exist! We will all reach the edge of nothingness and end up snatching each other’s blankets… The alarm is ringing. Time to wake up… n

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The Immigration Diary

SPICING UP AMERICA

THE PATEL BROTHERS’ SUCCESS STORY From one store in Chicago in 1974 to a most well-known chain of 55 grocery stores across America, Patel Brothers has come a long way, as has its founder, Mafat Patel. Little did he know that his little venture would become the roaring success it has today, especially amidst the Indian immigrant community. Feelings talks to the man behind the business that is built up and bound together by family ties.

ne’s own food is the closest connect that can be, with one’s own roots. Indians are no different, and food tempered with Indian spices is what they long for, when settled in a foreign land. Mr. Mafat Patel was one such Indian who moved to America in the

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early 70’s for an MBA. He had studied to be an engineer but destiny had other plans for him. Craving for home food during his time there, he saw other Indians around him facing the same plight. Indian spices and ingredients were hard to come by in America and when

available were highly priced. This prompted the young Mr. Mafat Patel to start the maiden Patel Brothers store in 1974. Today they are a chain of as many as 55 stores across America. Every item an Indian kitchen needs can be found on their shelves and it is the go to grocery store for any Indian who is missing her homeland. This extraordinary feat is a result of the passion and hard work of Mr. Mafat Patel and his family. It has been a long journey for the boy from Bhandu village in Mehsana who came to America with a dream to make it big, all those years ago. He still visits India every winter to meet friends and relatives and to do some social work, before going back rejuvenated. After all, who would know the value of staying connected with his country better than him? Mr. Mafat Patel and his colleague, Director of Patel Brothers, Varshaben, met Atulbhai Shah, the Managing Editor, Feelings. Here are some excerpts from the conversation: Tell us about your background and how you made it to America? I was born on 17th January, 1945 in Bhandu village of Mehsana. We were five siblings; two brothers and three sisters. My schooling was in Mehsana and I completed my Diploma in Mechanical Engineering in Patan. But, my dream to go to America was realized in 1968 when I secured a student visa to study there. I completed my MBA from Indiana University. How did the idea of starting a grocery store come about? After completing my MBA, I joined Jefferson Electrical Co.

in Chicago as a Quality Control Engineer. During this period, I observed that Indians staying there, particularly Gujaratis really miss home food. So I thought of starting a small grocery store. To start that however, I needed people. So I requested my Bhai and Bhabhi to come to America. We opened the first store in 1974 in Chicago, which stayed open from 9 am to 9 pm. This store was looked after by my bhai, Tulsibhai and bhabhi, Arunaben. There is a tremendous contribution of these two in the success of Patel Brothers. This is how the journey started. The prices of Indian products were kept very high in those days, since they were available at only very few places. So, we thought of starting such stores in other places too. For this again I needed people. So, I brought my brother, nephew and almost all family members to America. After Chicago, we started stores in Houston, Atlanta, New York, Detroit, among other big cities. What position do the Patel Brothers enjoy in America today? Patel Brothers is today the biggest Indian wholesaler among Indian provision/ grocery stores. The famous brand is now a chain of 55 stores in all, which itself is a record. We have also introduced various packaged foods under the brand name â&#x20AC;&#x2DC;SWADâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;. How you manage such a big business, spread over so many states? I have engaged all my family members in this business. My two sons, Rakesh and Svetal look after day to day operations of the chain along with their bit of social service. Besides this, my nephew, sonin-law and sons have established warehouses, where the material is stored. Rakesh and Svetal look after

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the Chicago warehouse, while my nephews Mahendra and Harshad and son-in-law, Paresh look after New York warehouse. Your entire family is settled here and engaged in this single business, what is the family dynamics like? Everybody’s contribution is important in Patel Brothers’ success as every member of the family holds a key role. As a united family, we believe in caring for one another’s happiness and peace. Apart from my sons, both my daughters Meena and Rita also contribute their bit along with my three sisters who are settled in New York and Detroit. Two other nephews Jayesh and Bharat manage the stores in Ohio, Michigan, Indianapolis

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and Texas very well. In short, while running the business successfully, we have simultaneously been able to maintain love and affection amongst the family members, which is a most pleasing and satisfying aspect. n

With great power comes great responsibility n Besides grocery, Mr. Mafat Patel has ventured into several other businesses too. He owns a travel agency - Air Tours in Chicago, which is managed by Varshaben. He also runs a cruise business. With his liberal and benevolent nature, he has been able to keep together a family of more than 300 members, all settled in America. Mr. Mafat Patel makes it a point to pray for each and every member of the family. He has earned the respect of Pakistanis and local Americans, not only for his business acumen, but also for his ethical business policies and the love and affection he shows towards people. Mr. Mafat Patel is also associated with several other organizations such as the Indo-American Centre of which he is the Hon. Director and the Indian American Medical Association – Charitable Foundation. The latter extends financial help to people who cannot afford costly medical treatment here. They also organize many activities and events for senior citizens which include about 60–70 Gujarati lunches annually, comprising of Dal-Bhat-Shak-Rotli. n ‘I feel happy that I am able to do something for the society’, says Mr. Mafat Patel when asked about the social service activities that keep him busy.

“If you want to succeed in America, you have to give utmost importance to hard work and honesty,” is his suggestion to those who desire to make it big in America. “If you work hard with full sincerity, you will definitely succeed. Dreams do not come true just by coming to America. Hardwork is what pays here - it is something which will be remembered by everyone.”

n Though Mr. Mafat Patel and family are considered to be millionaires, he is down to earth and has a heart full of compassion. He is Director on board of Lion Hospital in Mehsana. A man with a social conscience, he funded the construction of a hospital and overhead water tank for the people of Bhandu. In 2004, he lost his wife Chanchalben in whose memory he has established the Patel Foundation. He also donated to Rs. 2 crores for a Nursing College in Gandhinagar, apart from donating some ultra-modern medical equipment called ‘Simulation’ which helps in taking care of newborn babies. “This is the only such machine available here in all of Gujarat,” he claims. Mr. Mafat Patel has established a burn care centre in Ahmedabad’s L G Hospital under the aegis of the Samvedana Foundation, a trust founded by him. Here, state of the art technology is available to save lives of critical patients. He also organizes eye care camps regularly. In one such camp organized at Sabarmati Jail, more than 4000 prisoners benefitted from eyes checkups. During the 2001 earthquake in Gujarat, Mr. Mafat Patel built 160 houses in Kutchh, an area which is well known as the Chicago Township!

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made in india

The T-shirt Trail A detour on a summer holiday leads Ami M to Tiruppur, India’s textile hub. A factory visit to Noble House follows and she is amazed with the nitty gritty of T- shirt making.

his summer we were travelling to Ooty with a few friends. Towards the end of our trip we had one day to spare and my friend suggested a short trip to Tiruppur - about 100 kms from Ooty, where his factories are situated. We jumped at this last minute change in plans; it would certainly be interesting to see how T-shirts for top brands were made from scratch, in Tiruppur, also known as ‘Knit City’. On the way our friend Birju Mashru told us all about his family business that was started by his father, Mr.

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Ramesh Mashru and his uncle Mr. Prakash Magdani. Noble House originally started as a trading firm for plastic granules in 1986. One day, someone from among his several business contacts asked Mr. Mashru if he knew anyone who could export T-shirts to Spain. A risk-taker himself, he saw this as an opportunity to try out a new business and he soon packed his bags for a trip to Las Palmas. On this first trip, he bagged an order of 5000 pieces of basic T-Shirts. His next trip was to Tiruppur, where he was going to learn everything about T-shirt making, right from the beginning. There

was no looking back after this first shipment was sent out. Orders from various European countries and USA followed. Initially, the orders were completed by giving work on a job basis to factories at Tiruppur. In 1995, Noble House set up its first T-shirt factory with 40 machines. By 2008, they had expanded to 500 machines and were supplying T-Shirts to various brands across the globe such as Diesel, Cortefiel, Springfield, US Polo, Zara, Tommy Hilfiger, Tom Tailor, S. Olive, Robe-de-kappa, Women’s Secret, PDH, Gabban and Ripcurl, to name a few. The company also manufactured for Indian brands such as Lee, Wrangler and Pepe. We were super excited to visit a factory that manufactured garments for so many well-known brands! On reaching Tiruppur we noticed that every vehicle on the road was carrying some kind of cloth - either taking it for dyeing, or stitching, or embroidery or any other process in between these. Tiruppur, known as the Textile city of India, contributes up to 90% of the total cotton knitwear exports from the country. The industry provides employment to over six lakh people and contributed to exports worth rupees 200 billion in the year 2014-15. Most factories outsource certain processes of T-shirt making for efficiency and cost-effectiveness. The first thing to do is to select the quality of yarn which is then knitted in a specific gauge machine to get the required fabric quality (i.e. weight in gram per square metergsm). This knitter grey fabric is now ready to dye - with appropriate chemicals and softeners. The European countries and USA have banned certain chemicals like A20 and the use of light chemicals is preferable. This finished fabric is now ready for cutting and stitching. Each factory has a special trend quality control staff which checks garments for holes, oil stains, cross embroidery as print, measurement, loose threads and other reasons for which it may be rejected. Finally, the ‘good’ garments are sent for ironing and packing. With the introduction of machines many processes are now easier, whether it is cutting the fabric to size with the help of laser cutters or embroidery machines that are much faster and uniform. Printing machines reduce variations or errors in garments. All these also reduce

the dependency on skilled labor, which is a constant problem in most factories across the city. Noble House has received two presidential awards - for best quality conscious exporter and highest growth in a year. Emphasis on timely deliveries and quality control helped Noble House expand until the European recession which hit all exporters in 2008. Competition from Bangladesh was another problem that needed to be addressed. Noble House took this as a challenge however, and diversified into 2 new companies - ‘Second Image’ and ‘Bason’. Second Image manufactures readymade garments for both the international and domestic market, while Bason is an exclusive dealer of cement for ACC Cements Limited, pan India. We had reached the end of our factory tour and having witnessed the T-shirt making process first hand, from the yarn to the final tags, we looked at the ubiquitous garment with new eyes. An interesting learning experience had also become a meaningful end to our holiday! n

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In troubled

waters

Largely unaware and ill prepared, mankind faces itâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s biggest challenge yet...

ater has become the predominant challenge of the twenty-first century, according to Dr Vandana Asthana, who recently co-authored Water Security in India: Hope, Despair and Challenges of Human Development, which was published in October 2014 by Bloomsbury. Nandini Sanan Shankar talks to her to get a reality check of the situation. They say the coming wars will be fought over water. How serious is the problem? The idea of water wars was brought to the forefront by the UN Secretary General, Ban Ki Moon while referring to the major challenge of securing safe and plentiful water for all. No doubt that numbers and statistics paint a gloomy picture on the access and availability of water in the present and future.

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On an international level, however, the possibility of water wars is less likely. While upstream and downstream countries may have accused each other of misusing allocated waters, there is little evidence to support war over water. Most of the time states tend to cooperate in resolving trans-boundary water issues. The recent Nile conflict between Egypt and Ethiopia was resolved jointly by both parties, as an example. Conflict over water does occur at the local level, especially as populations increase and states continue to grow and modernize. This could lead to future international conflicts. Being an optimist I hope that as the water crisis intensifies, the risks involved will compel states to find mutually beneficial solutions to trans-boundary issues. Is water a problem all over the world or just in India and a few other countries? Most people working in the water sector would agree that the crisis in water is a global one. Across the world several reports reveal severe global water challenges

as reservoirs and aquifers dry up. More than a billion people lack access to safe drinking water. The Global Risks Report, 2011 which provides a unique and timely analysis of the risks that are shaping the global environment recognizes the water- food- energy security challenge as a major risk due to a rapidly rising population and growing prosperity that is putting unsustainable pressures on resources. To quantify this challenge may be difficult. Though it may be felt acutely in parts of the developing world, the crisis exists across the globe. The impact is largely going to be felt in the developing countries of Asia and Africa that are already experiencing various forms of water stress. Countries like India and China are emblematic of these global water challenges. With a rising population and rapid economic growth, water-dependent sectors such as agriculture, industry and urban areas are growing at an unprecedented rate. Recently, in the Brazilian city of São Paulo which is home to 20 million people and was once known as the ‘City of Drizzle’, bad drought caused residents to drill through basement floors and car parks to try to capture ground water for their needs. In the United States, California reached its fourth successive year of drought, leading to rationing of water in certain cities. Current projections of population and economic growth imply that in 2030 global water requirements will be 40 percent greater than current supply — and that one-third of the world’s population, mainly India and China will live in basins where this deficit is larger than 50 percent. Similarly, in the Middle East there exists a water crisis. Large sections of population in Africa do not have access to clean and safe drinking water. In South Asia, over exploitation of ground water, economic growth, erratic weather patterns, recurrent drought and climate change has been leading to various forms of stress. Many

rivers including the Colorado, Rio Grande, Yellow, Indus, Ganges, Murray, and Nile — are now so overused and exploited that they discharge little or no water to the sea for months at a time. If 70 percent of the planet is covered with water, why is there a water shortage at all? While water availability is constant, revolving within the hydrological cycle, access to freshwater has become scarce in many parts of the world, making countries water-stressed. Availability of water by itself does not create a water secure nation but availability at the right place, time, quantity and quality, so that people within a particular region can actually access it is what makes a state water secure. Availability refers to the physical presence of adequate water supplies while access is about structural inequity and socio- political challenges. Water scarcity is in part a “social construct” because it is determined both by the availability of water and by human consumption patterns. Scarcity largely exists as a result of social processes that has little to do with basic needs. Scarcity can be a result of demand and supply changes, governance systems, climate change and inadequate infrastructure/technology. How much of the water problem would you say is man-made and how? The water ecosphere is dominated by human behavior and sustained and vitalized by natural processes. A large part of our water problems range from existing water use practices — wildly inefficient agricultural practices, virtually unchecked growth in demand for water that is linked in turn to the high rate of industrialization, urbanization, and population growth as well as a wide range of policy weaknesses. For example, when water is polluted, access is constrained and core needs suffer as there is no substitute for it. Unfortunately, a wide range of human activities is degrading the water quality worldwide, and the intricate hydrological cycle is being distorted. Poor agricultural water productivity and

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efficiency combined with aging infrastructure leads to severe supply-demand gaps in many basins with their current crop choices. You mentioned that big projects including the Sardar Sarovar Dam are failures? How is that? Although in the initial years dams in India did provide the necessary food security and served the multipurpose needs they were designed for, these projects have been criticized socially, economically, politically and environmentally for structural inequities of access and availability. For example, big dams have been legitimized in the name of public purpose and national interest with statistical data compilation that actually masks the political interest behind these big projects. One of the reasons that the World Bank pulled out of the SSP (Sardar Sarovar Project) after the report of the Independent Review Commission was that the technical feasibility, environmental impacts and resettlement and rehabilitation issues regarding the project had not been properly addressed and were flawed. The Controller and

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Availability of water by itself does not create a water secure nation but availability at the right place, time, quantity and quality, so that people within a particular region can actually access it is what makes a state water secure. Auditor General Report, first published in 2004 pointed to economic insolvency, undue favors, indiscriminate borrowing of funds etc. and reprimanded the government for its failure to supply water to its target population. The Independent Peoples Tribunal 2010 has held the governments of Gujarat, Maharashtra and MP responsible for violating the right to life, livelihood and rehabilitation of thousands of oustees who stand at the risk of being destitute and deprived in the absence of proper rehabilitation. Similar concerns and criticisms have been leveled for the Tehri Dam, especially as it stands in a vulnerable

an has always settled close to water. Looking back at the greatest ancient civilizations one can see that they have developed along the banks of rivers. For the Indians it was the Indus and for the Egyptians, the Nile. The Chinese had the Yellow River to sustain them while the Mesopotamians had the Tigris/Euphrates. Not a co-incidence given how critical water is to man’s survival water, and continues to be.

depends in great measure on the resourcefulness we bring to managing this water.

Yet this hasn’t stopped man from defiling these very rivers that sustain him, causing them to shrink, dry up, and in some cases virtually disappear. Down the centuries, rivers have literally ended up being caught between the devils (us) and the deep sea. Yet they continue to flow, mostly silent and suffering, occasionally defiant when they rise to flood cities on their banks.

In a country as diverse and geographically spread as India, where the availability of water is limited by time and space primarily during the four months of the monsoon in the region, paradoxes abound. There are those select few who live in elite river-front properties and those who walk miles to get a day’s worth of drinking water. There are those who have three showers a day and those who commit suicide for lack of water to irrigate their crops. Such stark examples highlight the complexity of the Indian case and the fact that no ‘one size fits all’ solution exists. Experts agree that ensuring water security will only come from different collaborating solutions. The options range from publicprivate partnerships, large scale projects and indigenous micro scale successes at the local level.

While 70% of the Earth’s surface is covered with water, freshwater resources are limited to just 2.5 percent of which only 1 percent is easily accessible to society. So, in essence, only 0.007 percent of water is available to feed people and fuel the lives of a population of over 7 billion. The continued well-being of the human race

According to a major study using a NASA satellite GRACE (the Gravity Recovery and Climate Experiment), the Rajasthan-Punjab- Haryana region has among the highest rates of groundwater depletion in the world, which is now spreading across northern India, all the way to Bangladesh.

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seismic zone. Recent studies demonstrate that the cost of power supplied per unit from Tehri is almost twice the cost of power supply in neighboring states of Punjab and Himachal Pradesh. It was for these reasons that the WCD on dams reported that dams at any cost and dams at no costs are both extremist positions. It recommends that large projects should be the last resort while medium and minor scale projects should be encouraged for their efficiency, sustainability and accountability. The above two dams have failed in maintaining the core values and are constructed in the interest of political economy, not that of the communities. You have seen indigenous water harvesting methods around the world. Which ones struck you as innovative and are there any we should try using in India? The ‘Falaj’ at Al Ain in UAE, ‘Kanaat’ in Iran, Tanks in South India or Step Wells in north western India are some example of indigenous water systems. Examples also abound in the form of community and village efforts in India. ‘Johads’ are earthen dams built along the contours of the mountain slopes to arrest and store rainwater. With the help of 95 johads built by villagers, TBS (Tarun Bharat Sangh) in Rajasthan has not only captured water but also managed to revive the perennial flow of a river called Arvari in 1995, after 8 decades of it running dry! In the rock salt intrusion areas in Gujarat, there are people working on check dams as the big Sardar Sarovar project (Narmada Dam) that was built on the promise of supplying water to these villages in Gujarat, has failed to deliver. The villagers took a loan from a bank and built a check dam on a

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nearby seasonal river that flowed past their village. They also undertook a micro-watershed project that led to irrigation of over 400 ha of land and provided them a sufficient amount of drinking water. Similar initiatives were undertaken in two other villages, Khopala and Jhunka, in the Bhavnagar district of Gujarat. In Kathiawar, two NGOs— Swadhyay Pariwar and VRTI, Bhavnagar, have been recharging wells by draining water through a natural drainage channel to a pit that is a few feet away from the well that is to be recharged. A pipe connects the pit to the well below the ground, thus allowing water to flow in. This process has recharged several wells in the neighboring fields. In southern India there is an effort to revive tank irrigation and increase rainwater harvesting in urban buildings. Tamil Nadu was the first state to make rainwater harvesting compulsory in high rise buildings under the municipal corporation. Such micro-success stories need to be replicated. Mainstream policy makers tend to neglect folk technologies. While these stories are not without constraints, they

have improved productivity, rural market economy, drinking water availability, and the general quality of life for all, but specifically for women. You are based in the US. Do they have any water problems there? What is the major difference between their water policies and ours? The United States has the highest per capita water use in the world. 2014 was the hottest year in America that strained nearly one in 10 watersheds. America is also entering a phase where fresh water is being consumed faster than it can be replenished back into the system. This phase known as ‘Peak Water’ will increase the stress on water. The Government Accountability Office recently published a report in which 40 out of the 50 state water managers in the United States expect water shortages in parts of their state in the next ten years. We are already seeing reservoir rundowns, droughts and water conflicts in the south between New Mexico and Texas and in the southeast as Florida, Georgia and Alabama fight over water flows. Washington State known for its water abundance is facing low snow pack and depleted water levels in the rivers. Like India the United States lacks a cohesive water policy. The policy is fragmented and numerous federal laws and agencies oversee various aspects of water policy, including both water supply and water quality. The difference lies in implementation of policy. Agencies here ensure that water quality meets required standards. In India, challenges of enforcement and implementation are huge. States vying for investment tend to reduce environmental standards leading to huge water degradation. Is it true that it takes gallons of water to make one pair of jeans?

The entire process from the growing of cotton to the making of cloth and the final product of jeans does require over 2000 gallons of water. It takes 39,090 gallons of water to make a car! But it’s not just about jeans, automobiles or other consumer products. Industrially produced meat is especially waterintensive, requiring up to 5,000 gallons of water to produce a kilogram. Both population growth and increasing meat consumption in emerging economies will therefore have a tremendous impact on resource needs. Nearly 95 percent of our water footprint is hidden in the food we eat, products we consume, energy use and services we rely on. How did ‘Water’ become your subject of study? Growing up in Kanpur, India, on the banks of the river Ganges, I was fascinated by the free flowing, ecoresilient waters of a river that many revere and worship and that provides material goods and services to the cities on its banks. Over time, the river grew polluted with PCBs, heavy metals, lead and cadmium from agricultural washouts and industrial and municipal sewage. It was here that my engagement with water actually began. I became an active participant in the effort to mitigate the river’s pollution and revive it through an NGO called Eco Friends. Ever since, water has been the focus of my study, where my goal has been to harmonize a sciencepolicy relationship for better water governance. n Vandana Asthana, a Professor at the Eastern Washington University, USA, writes and researches the human and developmental challenges of water and environmental security in South Asia with a special focus on India. She holds doctorates in both Political Science from Kanpur University and in Natural Resources and Environmental Science from the University of Illinois at Urbana–Champaign.

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“God is my fundraiser!” Aabid Surti talks to Abid Mohammed about water conservation and his Drop Dead Foundation.

rtist, Painter, Author and Director, Mr Surti launched Drop Dead Foundation in 2007, after a leaking faucet at a friend’s house bothered him enough to cause an epiphany. Since then, Drop Dead Foundation’s team (consisting of a plumber, a volunteer and Mr Surti) makes the rounds every Sunday, fixing plumbing leaks around Mira road, Mumbai where he also lives. With its free plumbing services for Mira road residents, the foundation has helped save millions of litres of water.

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How did the idea for Drop Dead Foundation occur to you? Though I officially started this NGO in 2007, it actually started for me ages ago. I grew up on the footpaths of Mumbai and while growing up I saw so many fights over water that I can say most of my childhood was spent around ‘water’. As I grew up everything else was forgotten but these ‘water’ episodes stayed with me. We are made of 70-80% water, but with these experiences, more was added to me! I remember going to my friend’s place and I could hear

the water drip in their kitchen or bathroom. When I asked them they said they would get it repaired soon. But after months when I visited again the same tap was dripping. On being asked why it wasn’t repaired, most of them said that for such a small job no plumber was ready to come while others said it’s just few drops, not a flowing river. I didn’t have a reply to this. This added to my frustration and made me very restless. I came across an article in the newspaper about a study that proved that a single drop wasted every second translated into 1000 litres a month going down the drain! This was the answer that I was looking for. Now I had hard, proven facts to back up my restless feeling. As for the plumber problem, I decided to hire a plumber myself and visit all the houses to get those leaking taps fixed. From there started the journey that led to the formation of Drop Dead Foundation. Why is there a lack of awareness when it comes to water conservation? There are many reasons for this. The major factor is that people are dependent on the government to take the lead. Another reason is that our priests, mullahs or pundits do not preach or talk about the importance of water conservation. Our priorities have changed and so have our morals. While growing up we had a subject called Moral Science but I don’t think that subject is taught anymore. Globalisation is the main culprit. We are more inclined towards money and not so much towards culture. How did you manage the finances for this campaign? There came a time when I had to think of the expenses too. Apart from the plumber there was the cost of tools. I was worried about these expenses when suddenly in 2008 the Uttar Pradesh Sahitya Sanstha decided to bestow me with a Lifetime Achievement Award along with the prize money of rupees one lakh. This came as a blessing and I thought of it as a sign from God to keep up the work. For three years I used this money to create awareness on water conservation. Pamphlets, t-shirts and stickers were made and distributed. Slowly the money ran out. I

thought that I had done enough and maybe I should stop now. Once again, the Maharashtra Government gave me a Lifetime Award for Hindi Literature along with rupees fifty thousand. It was another sign from God. HE never wanted me to stop. I have felt it and experienced it which is why I am sharing it with you. I realised that when one does good deeds without any selfishness then God becomes the fundraiser. That is the reason I have not asked for a single penny from anyone. I was on the verge of closing down in 2015 as things were beyond my control. I didn’t have enough resources to hire staff or have a proper office when suddenly Mr Amitabh Bachchan decided to donate some money to the cause. Now I have to continue the work. Any hurdles? I haven’t faced any major problems as such but small instances keep happening. When I first started going to people’s houses some people wouldn’t open the door or close the door on our face, inspite of early intimations. It took me some time to realise that it was the plumber who would ring the bell and people would get scared to see someone who looked like Bin Laden at their door. Since then I have a pretty woman volunteer who rings the bell and gives a lovely smile to break the ice. And support? The support has been tremendous. I didn’t get enough love while growing up but now I am getting that love back from everyone. Any new projects? Lately, we have started Drop Dead Cinema and launched a one minute film competition to spread awareness on water conservation. The idea is to make a 60 second movie that will inspire, touch and move people to start saving water. Juhi Chawla, Amole Gupte and Subhash Kapoor have been kind enough to support us by becoming our judges. The competition is still running. In the other project that we are launching soon - ‘Save Water Said God’ - we are using religion to spread our message. We have created posters that will appeal to people using lines said by God. These posters will be stuck in all religious places across India. n

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WOMENTREPRENEURS

Follow ing her hear t

Sarika Kapoor believes that wearing jewellery is more than just adorning your body. It should inspire and uplift your spirits too. Nandini Sanan Shankar talks to the banker turned designer.

arika is a handcrafted jewelry brand born out of Sarika Rajeev Kapoor’s love for jewelry making. For Sarika who left a highly paid banker’s job, designing jewellery is not just a profession but an extension of who she is. “It’s not just another brand in the market, but is an emotion, a love for accessorizing, a desire to make a statement and stand out in a crowd,” she says. Sarika specializes in ornate handwoven jute neckpieces interlaced with temple pathakams. Customizing a one-of-a-kind piece for a client gives her a great high. She loves the artistic process of connecting with her heart to design and knot each metal or gemstone, all the while infusing them with positive intentions and affirmations. As a designer she plays with materials, processes and techniques until she comes up with what she thinks is an

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exquisite piece of wearable art. An alumnus of SINGem Institute of jewelry design, she was featured in their hall of fame for her achievements in the field of fashion jewelry. More recently she showcased the contemporary bridal look for the Schwarzkopf Academy show in Chennai. You quit a high paying banker’s job. Any regrets? I have absolutely no regrets. The bankers job was good, but soon my passion for creating something took over. I did a crash course in jewelry designing when I was still working. After quitting my job I did a full time diploma in jewelry designing. There was no looking back after that. Actually my love for designing started as a child, but I never knew I would make it a profession one day.

How old is Aarika? Where is it available and what is the price range? Aarika started in the year 2009. But my passion and craze for jute jewelry interlaced with temple pathakams is fairly recent. Apart from this I also make jewelry with stones, metal, wood, crystals or for that matter anything that catches my fancy. It is currently available in Silk Worm Boutique, Home and Style and Shilpi in Chennai and in Nowhere Else in Nagpur. I also hold exhibitions and shows with the Crafts Council of India, DakshinaChitra, Handloom Export Promotion Council Ministry of Textiles, Government of India and Madras Market. Plans of going online are in the pipeline too. Aarika starts from 1500 rupees and can go upto 15000 rupees, depending upon the material used and the workmanship. I also customize jewelry, if the client has any particular design or color in mind then I work around it. How long does it take for you to make one piece and where do you get your ideas from? It is a very labor intensive process and takes anything between 3 days to one week depending on the workmanship involved. The ideas just come to my head. I may be walking on the road, looking at a picture or just talking to someone!

How is your jewelry different? What is your USP? I make statement pieces. It is not something that is easily available off the rack anywhere. I believe jewelry should not just adorn your body but also inspire and uplift your spirits, and that is what I strive to achieve with every piece. Most people are hesitant to wear Temple jewelry as it is traditional but I try to give my collection a different twist so that it can be worn with almost anything! Which jewelry brands or designers are your favourites? My personal favourites are Suhani Pittie and Amrapali Why the focus on Temple jewelry? Do you do other kinds too? I have always loved Temple jewelry because of its lovely, intricate designs and aesthetic appeal. The reason I chose it is because the radiant jewelry sets off very well against a dull jute background. It is also very versatile. I can make it look glamorous or as â&#x20AC;&#x2DC;everydayâ&#x20AC;&#x2122; as I want to. I can give it a contemporary look or make something very ethnic and ornate. Yes, I do other kinds of jewelry too with crystals, stones and metal. I have recently started working with silver too. n

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interview

“Hospitality

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Vidita Kamat, scion of the Kamat family is a chef extraordinaire. The pretty, bubbly, energetic young woman talks about her family, food and her brand Mezclaa to Abid Mohammed Tell us something about the Kamat family? Our family has been in the restaurant and hotel business for the past 5 decades. I thank my stars to be born in such a family. My parents have always guided me and have instilled the right values in me and my siblings. My dad, Dr. Vithal Kamat is a true visionary and a legend in the Indian hospitality industry. Orchid-The EcoTel Hotel, in Mumbai was the pioneer Eco-Tel Hotel in India. My mom has been a support for the entire family and is the woman behind my dad’s success. In a nutshell, hospitality runs in our blood! What is Kamat’s famous for? The Kamat family is famous for its foresight in hospitality industry. Orchid Eco-Tel Hotel is a classic example. The hotel has been designed, built and is maintained keeping environment issues in mind. It is Asia’s first five star hotel to win the Ecotel Certification. Dr Vithal Kamat’s ‘Vithal Vada’ served in all Vithal Kamat restaurants is the best appetiser one can have. You have to try it at least once! How was your childhood? Though I was average in studies in school and college, it was creativity and innovativeness that inspired me throughout, all thanks to my parents. Mom taught us the values of life and Dad imparted logic and technique. I have always loved cooking, right from my childhood and used to imitate my mom’s traditional way of cooking. I loved helping mom in the kitchen and was an eager learner. She taught me how to work with various ingredients and balancing them with the spices. The tradition of ‘Athiti Devo Bhava’ is ingrained in me since childhood as we had frequent visitors to our home. Cooking and hospitality were my childhood friends! Were you fussy about food as a child? Fussy and me?! (laughs). I love any type of food and when I say this, I mean it. Mom and dad took us

everywhere with them, from the high-end parties to road-side dhabas, and my taste buds are quite versatile because of that. What is your favourite food? I love all kinds of food. I am a chef who is always eager to taste food from across the globe. Food is like an ocean where there is always something new to explore. When did you decide to become a chef? From my childhood. Mom’s traditional food and dad’s innovative cooking gave birth to the chef in me! Cooking has always been my first love; I love everything that is associated with food and culinary. When I disclosed to my family that I want to pursue my career as a chef, they were like ‘Wow’! My dad kissed my forehead and my mom hugged me tightly. My father then guided me to specialise in bakery and confectionary, seeing my interest and creativity. Where did you train to become a chef? It began in my mom’s kitchen and later at Sophia Polythenic College. After passing the course I trained at the Taj Land’s End (Mumbai), The Oberoi’s, Mumbai. Orchid and Vits, Mumbai, were my second homes. How would you describe your style of cooking? Natural, creative and soothing with a special blend of my spices! Do you have a signature dish or favourite dish you enjoy cooking? Everyone drools on whatever I make but the best dish that people really crave for is the classic carrot cake with cream cheese frosting. What are the new trends in food which you find exciting? Food is a vast subject and there is always something

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“Customers are like God and they are always welcome in my kitchen and I feel proud to show them my art of cooking.”

happening. The culinary art of presenting the same food in a different manner to give it a new look is exciting! Are there any ingredients that have fallen out of fashion for you? (Laughs) Whatever is out of fashion is in fashion for me! I don’t go by what’s trending, instead I try to create things that I know people would appreciate and remember me for. I love being myself and I showcase it through my cooking and baking skills. What inspired you to start Mezclaa? I always wanted to have my own brand as an individual. If you see the brand logo it has many things to say. Everything is minutely incorporated with bits of my character in it - that’s what ‘Mezclaa-Blend It’ is all about. Most chefs have their quirks. What’s yours? My team calls me a ‘walking chef’ as I am always walking around reviewing food, and talking about hotels

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and restaurants. What is your favourite food? I am born in a GSB (Goud Saraswat Brahmin) family, from down South, so I love the typical South Indian food from Karnataka. You let customers into the kitchen? Customers are equivalent to God and are always welcome in my kitchen. I feel proud to show them my art of cooking. Tell us about the waste management in your kitchen. This aspect of the restaurant business plays a vital part in my scheme of things. We as a team take care to not waste whenever possible. Food is sacred and its wastage is an insult. If we have surplus food, we donate it to the needy, rather than throwing it away. What are your ongoing projects ? Well, this year is going to be quite hectic. We have tied

Summer coolers recommended by Vidita Melons: Summer’s coolest, juiciest and healthiest food is melons. You can use them in salads, desserts, smoothies, milkshakes and even salsa. Bottle Gourd: this might not be your favourite vegetable but it’s extremely popular for weight loss. It’s rich in calcium, magnesium, Vitamin A, C and foliate. Salad leaves: Amaranth leaves, rocket leaves, basil and other summer herbs should be tossed in a salad bowl and topped off with a yogurt dressing to make a great summer salad. Watermelon Juice: Watermelon is approximately 90 per cent water, so it’s undoubtedly the best way to keep you hydrated. It helps with digestion and keeps the stomach cool. Aam Panna: Two glasses of Aam Panna can help with digestion and make you feel fresh all day. Mint water with lemon: A glass of strained mint water with two drops of lemon works wonders. It acts as a liver cleanser and boosts your metabolism.

up with EventGuru and are now ready to roll out many projects. Apart from taking Mezclaa to other metros we are also organising workshops, exhibitions, certified courses, a YouTube channel and a TV show. Which chef do you most admire? My parents would come first on the list as they are my home-chef’s. Next would be my teachers - Chef Linus D’silva, Chef Hufriz Motawara and Chef Meher Dasondi. They were my guides in Sophia College. In my professional life, Chef Sunil Matre from the Orchid Hotel as I have ‘grown-up’ while working with him, Chef Vikas Bagul from The Oberoi’s in Mumbai, Chef Varun Inamdar from Chocolatier, Chef Gaurav Kapoor fron Taj Lands End, and many other chefs from different hotels and restaurants who have helped me understand the nuances of being a chef in some way or the other. n

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he land of the Rajputs or the Rajputana is known for its stories of chivalry and sacrifice. With its golden deserts, hilly topography and dense jungles, Rajasthan is a â&#x20AC;&#x2DC;must-doâ&#x20AC;&#x2122; for holiday seekers, especially those looking for both culture and adventure. The daunting hills of Rajasthan are lined with formidable forts built at strategic and breathtaking locations. The bastions and imposing walls of the forts are awe-inspiring for any traveler. One of the most expensive forts of Mewar, in its north-east corner and overlooking its vast plains is the majestic mountain fort of Kumbhalgarh. Mewar, which shares most of its border with northern Gujarat, was immortalized by the great Sisodia warrior, Maharana Pratap.

of 36 km, second only to the length of the Great Wall of China. Home to a variety of places of worship, the fort has temples with stone carving, a Jain Jinalaya and a mosque! Kumbhalgarh separates the lush and fertile farmlands of Mewar from the arid and dusty Maarwaar, which was ruled by the Rathores. It was to this fort that Maharana Udai Singh was brought by his devoted nurse Panna Dai. According to the famous story, she sacrificed her own child, Chandan to the sword of the renegade Balbir to save the young Udai Singh, who later went on to found the city of lakes, Udaipur in 1559.

Perched at 1100 metres above ground level, Kumbhalgarh stands tall among other sister fortresses and has the rare distinction for being one of the few forts in Rajputana that has never been captured. Built by Maharana Kumbha in 1458 and using locally available material and skilled craftsmen, the fort boasts of a 6000 acre wildlife sanctuary, which is home to a large species of flora and fauna. The peripheral walls of Kumbhalgarh run over a length

A Majestic

Summer Retreat

Lesser known of the two hill stations of Rajasthan, Kumbhalgarh is a paradise waiting to be discovered. Jeetendrasingh G Gaekwad visits the World Heritage Site and experiences Rajput hospitality at its best. 70 | Feelings May 2016

Just 50 km to the south west of Kumbhalgarh lies the Maharana Kumbha Jain temples at the sacred village of Ranakpur. These exquisitely carved temples idolizing all 24 Tirthankaras of Jainism were built by same king Maharana Kumbha, who built fort of Kumbhalgarh. The Kumbhalgarh fort and its surroundings are protected as an UNESCO World Heritage site. Climbing up the slope from the village, one cannot but admire the sublime scenic beauty of the Kumbhalgarh hills and the lush green, misty forest that lies on either side of smooth roads. The main square of the village is adorned with an artistic statue of Maharana Pratap. The entrance to the fort called “Halla Pol” is hardly half a km away from here. Our destination was a little further up and we wound our way up towards Kamboda village, into the impressive wrought iron gates of the “Fateh Safari Lodge”. Once inside, we drove past a well maintained vintage and classic Car & Jeep museum, with glass exteriors only to come upon a huge expanse of paved open space that served as a parking lot. As I entered the main courtyard, I was greeted by the fresh fragrance of roses and the soft splashing sound of running water fountains. The air was cool and moist, a perfect welcome for a weary traveler. Situated on top of a hillock, the resort laid out on over 13 bighas, is surrounded by large green open spaces and water bodies. As I soaked in the ambience, my eyes

caught the azure blue swimming pool and the huge garden that seemed to blend into the horizon. The statue of pair of movable elephants mounted over by lions adorned the west side of the pool. I could feel the distinct temperature drop at the top of the hill as compared to the village. A blend of colonial and traditional Rajput design, the Fateh Safari Lodge is built out of locally available stone and decorated with light pastel columns that accentuate the cool surroundings. The staff, well trained in the local traditions, welcomed us with garlands and cool rose sherbet, typical to Rajput hospitality. The regal touch in the interior design of the Lodge is unmistakable, for it is designed in period style by Kanwarani Saheba Gayatri Kumari Baisa, wife of the owner and chief architect, Kunwar Jitendra Singh Rathore of Kelwa. Their niece, Kumari Madhuri Baisa is an accomplished artist and over 150 beautiful paintings by her, adhering to the wilderness theme adorn the sanguine walls of Fateh Safari Lodge. The entire project from conceptualization to operations has been done inhouse by the Kelva Royal Family. Care has been taken to maintain Zero noise, Vibration, and Harshness (NVH) levels which maintains the relaxing ambience even if all the 35 rooms are occupied. Broad balconies with intricate wrought iron grills run right across all the floor levels, lending openness to the property. Just across the reception area lies a sprawling dining hall done up in colonial style that can comfortably seat sixty people. With a spa, pool parlour and a play area, there is enough to help you get in holiday mood. The comfortable rooms are set in colonial style but the best feature is the balcony sit-out out of each room! The steward announced that lunch was ready and A-LaCarte dishes prepared in ethnic Marwari style with Ker-Sargri vegetable, turmeric Kadhi, Gatey Ki Subji, Makai Ki Roti, Maarwari green & red

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chilli fry, halka-fulka pulao and Marwari kheer set our appetites blazing. True to their reputation, all properties belonging to the Kelva family are known for archetypal Rajput hospitality and ethnic cuisine. The Kelvas are also known as the defacto “Marble Kings” of Rajasthan. Satiated and drowsy, we retired to the inviting rooms for an hour-long afternoon siesta. At four in the evening, delicious, baked scones were served with tea in a typically British fashion. Enjoying the cool western breeze, we devoured the ‘high tea’, till we could eat no more. Our host arrived to take us around the estate for a much needed walk! Lotus ponds, fountains, waterfalls and cascades all around were a treat for the senses, as the breeze moistened the air with the sprinkling water. A sunken, sit-out garden and a large ‘No-smoking’ garden zone situated at the Sunset

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Point are other features in this paradise at Kumbhalgarh. Passing by the kitchen gardens that had an assortment of organic herbs, roses and fragrant flowers, we took a detour from the backyard towards a wonderfully laid out private sit-out, in the shape of a round cake, which our host described as the Gol Baithak Lawns. A Jharokha Baithak in the vicinity looked ideal for young couples, looking for a private moment together. In the glow of the setting sun, I could feel a chilly breeze blowing, with the temperature having dropped to 25 degrees in March! The climate in Kumbhalgarh is a holiday-goers’ delight, with crisp, cold and misty mornings, azure skies and imminent rain on the mostly cloudy afternoons. The evenings are cool and breezy and the nights are usually cold, around the year. The maximum temperature during peak summer is a mere

29 degrees! Bliss compared to summers in the city! As evening descended, delectable snacks and drinks were served and shawls distributed to keep the chill away, while light folk music was played by a village belle. Her male companion delivered renditions of classic Maarwari love Songs as a young girl in colourful attire danced gracefully to its rhythm. A different venue was set up for dinner around a crackling fire. The menu was an assorted ethnic range, to suit all the taste buds and we settled down to a hearty meal after an eventful day in the wilderness of Kumbhalgarh Fort. Fateh Safari Lodge is not only Vaastu compliant but is also a “Green” Heritage project. The common utilities like water heating, lighting, kitchen water supply and garden lighting is solar powered. The domestic water effluent plant supplies recycled water for gardening purposes. It boasts of a state-of-the-art captive landing plant, a one of its kind in Kumbhalgarh. The kitchen waste management system is innovatively designed with the edible by-products used to feed birds & cattle, while the inedible ones go into the compost pit that nourishes the organically grown vegetables and fruit. Many hoteliers visit to study the efficient and modern system of operations put in place at Fateh Safari Lodge. Other Kelva properties include Fateh Garh in Udaipur, reputed for its location that offers a magnificent view of the Lake City, The Fateh Baug Royal Retreat in Ranakpur, known as the best romantic holiday resort in Mewar and Ram Pratap Palace near Lake Fateh Sagar, and Fateh Niwas at Rampura-Sisarma Road that are reasonably priced for budget travelers visiting Udaipur. We woke up the next morning to the welcome sounds of peacock calls, the chatter of monkeys and the occasional cahoot of the crow pheasant. Stepping on to the balcony of my room, I filled my lungs with fresh air. Savouring a cup of tea, surrounded by the misty hills and the morning chill, I felt like a lord. Tea was followed by a sumptuous breakfast, laid out for us on the patio before the pool garden and as we settled down into our chairs, chants of Ram-Ram filled the air. Refreshed and invigorated after this short break, we

Holiday Activities Some of the most sought after holiday runs at Fateh Safari Lodge are: n Late afternoon visit to Kumbhalgarh fort followed by the fabulous Sound & Light show n Wild Life Safaris in the mornings and evenings n Trekking with an Eco-Guard of Forest department or a village trek n Nighttime village Safari n Fish-feeding at Hameer Ki Paal

readied ourselves for the long drive back. Driving out amidst the parting pleasantries of Paacho Padharo and Padharey Maro Dwar from our hosts, I couldn’t help thinking about the many facets of our Indian-ness, hospitality being one of the foremost among them. n

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tech talk

Priyanka A Patel is an avid blogger and has worked as PR in tech journalism for a year. She continues writing regularly about her first love: Technology.

Ten year old is latest star of

Facebook’s Bug Bounty program Facebook awarded $10,000 to a 10-year-old for pointing out an Instagram bug. Priyanka A Patel gets us the details

he Helsinki-based 10-year-old Jani (full name not revealed) is too young to sign up for Facebook or Instagram, but that didn’t come in his way of discovering a major flaw in the photos and videos sharing network, Instagram, owned by Facebook. This boy genius was awarded $10,000 by Facebook, for discovering a security flaw in Instagram that allowed him to delete any comment he wished. He reported the bug via mail and the flaw was fixed in February. Jani, who learned the basics of security on YouTube spoke to a major Finnish publication, Iltalehti, saying, “I would have been able to eliminate anyone, even Justin Bieber.” With his money, Jani, who hopes to become a security researcher, plans to buy a new bike, football gear, and computers for his brothers. Ousting a 13-year-old, Jani is now the youngest ever recipient of Facebook’s bug bounty program that has awarded about $4.3 million to around 800 researchers around the world. Melanie Ensign, a security representative at Facebook, told the The Washington Post that most such payouts are much smaller, compared to what Jani received. The average reward is about $1,780,

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but larger bounties are based on the scope of the risk, rather than the novelty. She added that what Jani found “would have impacted everybody on Instagram.” The Instagram bug that Jani caught was an issue with its Application Program Interface (API), referring to how the app communicates with a server. It checks if you have the authority to delete a comment. Ensign said that this checking process wasn’t working properly, as you’re only supposed to be able to delete comments that you own. When Jani emailed Facebook about the same, they created a test Instagram account and posted a comment which he easily deleted. It’s interesting that Jani didn’t violate any of Instagram’s terms and conditions. Being just 10 years old, he isn’t allowed to make an Instagram account (users must be at least thirteen). To delete that comment, Jani didn’t even have to sign in! In fact, if he had done that, he wouldn’t have received the reward, as Facebook has denied rewards to hackers who failed to follow the rules. For now, we are just thankful that Jani didn’t delete any influential person’s comments! n

automobiles

Welcome

to the Future We bring you the lowdown on the cars of the future

oncept cars are basically cars made to showcase new technology, style or just ideas. Although most concept cars are never mass produced, they are displayed at carshows to gauge reactions and get feedback, depending on which they may be produced. And of course, they are also the show-stoppers! The Opel GT is one such amazing concept car that was recently launched..

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The OPEL GT CONCEPT car The Opel GT concept car is impressive is to say the least.The colour combination of red, black and grey give it a ultra sporty look. The red tyres in front and black at the rear makes it look funky, very contemporary. Everything about this GT has changed, the only thing that remains from the original is its long body.

A bright red line, aslo technically called the â&#x20AC;&#x2DC;A-lineâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;, runs from the back of the front tyre to the back of the rear window giving it a sort of a futuristic look. The doors have no visible handles and the windows are part of the door giving it one smooth finish. The doors are long and open vertically, to assist you in tight parking spaces. There are no immediate plans to go into production but looking at the feedback we just might get to see this one in the Indian markets. We will be the first to let you know!

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Tech talk legal eagle

Megha Chitaliya is A.G.P., Gujarat High Court and a renowned social activist

Equality at the workplace Your pay package cannot be determined by your gender. Megha Chitaliya outlines the laws regarding the dynamics of ‘equal pay for equal work’

he fundamental concept of ‘equal pay for equal work’ implies that individuals performing similar work should receive equal remuneration. While this principle is universally applicable, it usually highlights the ‘gender pay gap’ i.e that it is illegal to receive different pay for the same work, based on your gender.

Certain Fundamental Rights with reference to this principle are: a. Art.14: Mandates equality before the law b. Art.15: Prohibits discrimination against any citizen on the ground of religion, race, caste, sex etc. c. Art.16: Mandates equality of opportunities in matter of public appointments for all citizens.

The origins of this principle, which is now adopted by most industrialized nations may be traced to the industrial revolution when the need for labour increased and women entered the workforce too. The difference in pay between men and women led to the unionization of the women labour in the 1830s – compelling nations to pass laws based on the principle of ‘equal pay for equal work’. The International Labour Organization reiterated the principle in the 1951 Convention on Equal Remuneration.

Certain Directive Principles related to this principle are: a. Art. 39(a): Mandates that all citizens have the right to an adequate means of livelihood. b. Art. 39(d): Aims for equitable distribution of resources of production among all citizens. Also provides equal pay for equal work. c. Art. 42: Provides for provisions to secure just and humane conditions of work and maternity relief.

After the Second World War, more women were pulled into the labour force and European countries vigorously promoted the principle of equal pay for equal work prohibiting all discrimination based on gender, in the matters of pay. Gradually, most countries came to adopt the principle. In India too, the Constitution addresses such problems within various articles – aimed at prohibiting any discrimination on the grounds of caste, community, religion or sex.

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The government has also passed various Acts to ensure the principle of ‘equal pay for equal work’ at the workplace. Some of these laws are summarized below: Equal Remuneration Act, 1976 was enacted keeping in mind the equal physical and sociological condition of women at the time of childbearing and rearing. The Act provides equal pay for men and women for equal work. Contract Labour (Regulation and Abolition) Act, 1970: Provides separate provisions for utilities and fixed working hours for women.

Factories Act, 1948: Improves the condition of labourers employed in the factory. Minimum Wages Act, 1948: Provides for a statutory fixation of minimum wages and prohibits discrimination on the basis of gender. Industrial Disputes Act, 1947: Provides the machinery for regulating the rights of the employers and employees while also ensuring ‘equal pay for equal work’ and other social benefits including Provident fund, bonus, Social security and maternity benefits etc. Let us also look at certain rulings of the Supreme Court on this principle of ‘equal pay for equal work’. In the case of Randhir Singh v. Union of India, the Supreme Court held that ‘equal pay for equal work’ may be considered a constitutional right of all Indian citizens. In another case, Mackinnon Mackenzie & Co. Ltd. v. Audrey D’Costa & Anr., a lady stenographer was being discriminated against on the basis of her gender and was being paid lesser than her male counterpart. The Supreme Court held that stenographers could not be discriminated against on the basis of their gender as the work they

performed was equal in every measure. In the case of Shyam Babu Verma v. Union of India, the Supreme Court held that while the nature of work may be similar, the scale of pay could nevertheless vary based on academic qualifications or experience – which may form the basis of a justifiable classification. Thus the principle of equality in remuneration is not to be applied mechanically, and it remains open for the employer to classify employees on the basis of qualification, duties and responsibilities. It was further observed, in respect of daily wagers that, “Even if a daily wage employee is discharging the same functions as a regular employee the authorities would not be bound to grant equal pay to such a person.” The above array of laws should thus be understood and used by any worker wishing to avail the principle of ‘equal pay for equal work’. Many laws that are in favour of equal pay for equal work have been enacted. Labourers though, are still deprived from such benefits. Acknowledging them for their rights would be a long overdue step in the right direction. That however is another issue altogether. n

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Smart money

Jayesh Chitalia is a renowned financial journalist

Mahabharata and the Stock Market Jayesh Chitalia draws a fascinating comparison between ancient characters from the Mahabharata and modern day investors.

ven today, the Mahabharata remains one of the most popular books read in the country. The classic is deeply ingrained in the Indian ethos and has been retold for centuries in one or the other form. TV series and plays based on the epic are huge successes, each time they are shown to Indian audiences. It might sound surprising that the characters of the Mahabharata, their virtues and their flaws, can be compared to the various types of investors in the stock market. Each character teaches a lesson, which if put into practice, can ensure success in the market. As in Mahabharata, there are two sides in the stock market, the difference being they are not warring, but trading. Letâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s begin with the central character of the beloved Lord Krishna. Krishna - The smartest investor: He has a comprehensive view of the market and his actions are always well thought-out. This smart player employs various techniques to succeed in the market. His methods are the best for getting handsome returns from investments in the stock market, because he studies and

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analyses the market, in depth. Krishnaâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s knack for understanding subtle shades of the other charactersâ&#x20AC;&#x2122; behaviours can be compared to understanding the fundamentals of the concerned companies. The selection of stocks based on such intellectual capacity is bound to be sound. Arjuna - The emotional investor: He is capable of comprehending the rules of investment and the functioning of the market, but is led by emotion and thus loses clarity. Such investors need guidance from an investment guru, who like Krishna makes him realize the outcome of his actions. An investor like Arjuna does not sell off scrip, even when he knows it is weak and must be sold, sometimes for a loss. He gets emotionally attached with the scrip and commits one blunder after another. However, he readily accepts reasonable and logical arguments presented before him and needs a sensible investment guru to guide him. Yudhishthira - The patient investor: His investments are long term and he is therefore not disturbed by the day-to-day movements of the stocks in his portfolio. Investors akin to him only buy fundamentally strong scrips and enjoy

the fruits of patience. Even if his position is under threat, he is clear about the choices that he has made, and does not get unnerved. He willingly endures a lengthy wait for the result. However, he is prone to imprudence, especially if someone prompts him to gambling or speculation. In such a scenario, he does not mind betting on his own house! The only precaution for investors like him is to steer clear from gambling in the stock market or making rash decisions. Draupadi - The obstinate investor: This investor is easily provoked when faced with a critical remark. Competing with others, he buys and sells shares unreasonably. He goes by hearsay; sometimes making investments by imitating others. Such investors are very sensitive and so their decisions are susceptible to volatility. This propensity proves detrimental to the growth of their investments. Dhritrashtra - The gullible investor: This type of investor has neither his own vision nor an understanding of the stock market. Such investors form opinions based on others’ counsel, which they often consider as the final advice. Never doubting the intentions of others, they often support wrong, illogical or risky decisions and consequently suffer losses. Duryodhana and Shakuni - The manipulative investors: They are interested only in speculation and are comfortable with practices like insider trading, circular trading or price rigging in the market. Making money through such methods is the sole aim of such investors, who like Duryodhana are unable to get rid of their affinity even if it causes loss and privation and they get

penalized for their actions. Surprisingly, they are aware that their actions are wrong, irresponsible, illegal and immoral. Still, bereft of patience, they employ cunning tactics. Karna - The impressionable investor: Though Karna has all the characteristics of becoming a smart investor, he is fascinated by those who speculate and manipulate to achieve power by hook or by crook. Such an investor is also sensitive, owing to the fact that he does not have enough resources of his own. He ends up following the ‘manipulative investor’, to his own detriment. Not greedy by nature, he is least bothered about own wealth. But under the influence of the wrong people, he follows a wrong path. Bheem - The rich and foolish investor: Such investors are ultra rich but do not possess the power of discrimination. Just having wealth is not enough for succeeding in the stock market; patience and sharp intellect are equally important. Such investors need to invest strategically in the market. Sahadev - The calm and composed investor: His knowledge of the market is very sound, but he prefers to be a silent investor and maintains a low profile. People aware of his capabilities, can learn from them. Those investors who follow the ‘Sahadev’ style of functioning are called silent but successful players, in the market parlance. Apart from the above characters who are familiar for almost all of us, there are many more from whom we can learn. Needless to say, one can learn not only from the successful, but also from the so-called failures. n

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Body and Soul Kamlesh Handa is a practising Clinical Nutritionist who treats diseases with changes in diet and lifestyle at her clinic in Vadodara

What You Eat is What You Become The key to health is self-awareness at all times and mindful eating is a big part of that, emphasizes Kamlesh Handa, as she shares some crucial health tips.

he doctor in the future will no longer treat the human frame with drugs, rather he will cure and prevent disease with nutrition - Thomas Edison

How different life would have been if we humans lived with the awareness that everything we ingest has a direct effect on not only our health but also our personalities. Food is a strong medium through which our body interacts at the physical, mental and cosmic level. The food we eat has the power to keep us calm or agitated, happy or unhappy and of course, sick or healthy. Today we are spoilt with too many options which results in health related issues, mainly due to eating the wrong type of foods. Wild animals and birds on the contrary hardly die or fall sick due to wrong dietary patterns. It is also unheard of wild animals suffering with dental cavities or high cholesterol or diabetes. They have stuck to their healthy, unchanged lifestyle, over millenia, a boon indeed. Humans though, have â&#x20AC;&#x2DC;evolvedâ&#x20AC;&#x2122; in this respect. We have decided to consume refined, processed, stale, fermented and toxic foods, drink alcohol and smoke! Just look around. We sit in air-conditioned office, labour less, eat more and eat all the time, whereas animals in the wild work

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hard and eat proper food at set times. An ideal life would be one lived with complete awareness, where one evolves constantly and contributes the maximum possible to this world with the help of the human intellect. A step in that direction would be conscious consumption of foods which are energy boosters and full of nutrients and enzymes. Eating food which energizes, cleanses, builds, rebalances, heals and nourishes our system instead of food which makes us sluggish, lazy, toxic, aggressive and irritable is evolution in the true sense. We should also know how much and how frequently to eat. Raw vegetables, fruits, dried fruits, beans, green leafy vegetables, soaked nuts and seeds are dynamic foods which energize and at the same time make us feel light, focused and active, as they are easily digestible. Oily fruits like coconut, avocado and nuts such as walnuts, almonds and freshly ground flax seeds, rich in omega 3 fatty acids also build the brain tissue. Fruits are best consumed in the morning as they are good cleansers and aid in residual digestion from the previous night. Sesame, sunflower and pumpkin seeds, soaked almonds and other

nuts can also be eaten in the morning. Soaking produces an alkaline effect and also gets rid of harsh chemicals. Come midday and salads, sprouts, green apples, tomatoes and carrots will keep you feeling energized. Sipping water all through the day is essential to stay well hydrated. Squeeze some lime juice in water for lots of health benefits, or infuse your drinking water with herbs, fruits or vegetables of your choice. Herbal teas like mint and lemongrass tend to reduce blood pressure levels naturally. During the day, wholegrain cereals like Ragi, Jowar and Bajra (finger millets and pearl millets) can be consumed in moderation and in proportion to your physical activity levels. Soups in the evening followed by pulses and legumes for dinner are ideal as they contain proteins which will keep you full for longer. Dinner should be had by 7:30 pm. At the same time keep in mind not to over eat live foods as they are packed with nutrition compared to the over cooked, processed and refined foods which have very little nutrition, apart from being high on calories. Overeating creates digestive stress and of course infinite diseases. Eat your food as medicine else you will end up eating medicines for food.

It is sad but true that what we are eating today is food laden with chemicals. Grow your own food if possible. Modern technologies of food refinement and chemical additives deplete food of its natural life energy. Avoid sharp spices very salty and very sour foods, coffee, tea and alcohol. Make sure you include an adequate amount of protein in all your meals. Cultivate a strong conviction that small life style alterations are key to living a â&#x20AC;&#x2DC;naturally healthyâ&#x20AC;&#x2122; lifestyle. Overeating or binging, followed by starving, dieting, kick boxing, circuit training or boot camps is extreme, and the results are temporary. A better way is to keep yourself physically active throughout the day rather than going to the gym for an hour and sitting like a couch potato for the rest of the day. Try not to sit in one position for more than 15 minutes. Keep moving and doing your daily chores. Donâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;t hyperventilate if your househelp is on leave, instead plan out the day, skip your gym and accomplish all the chores yourself. Apart from burning calories, you will actually feel a sense of achievement! In short, exercise to be fit not skinny, eat better, move more, and respect and be thankful for your body as it is the only real dwelling place you have. n

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Travelogue

Ladakh The road less travelled

Stunning vistas, white deserts and serene surroundings make Ladakh a most attractive tourist destination. Veathika Jainâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s visit leaves her head over heels in love with its beauty.

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hoosing a holiday destination in India can be quite tough, as the country is vast and travelers are spoilt for choice. One place that has an abundance of natural beauty and is still not swarmed by tourists is Ladakh. A part of Jammu & Kashmir, Ladakh’s terrain is rough and tough. The high altitude cannot be ignored and acclimatization is a very important part of traveling there. However, once you reach there, it is sheer beauty in all its rawness. Our trip was planned for the month of May and we took a flight from Delhi to Leh, which is the capital or the main city of Ladakh. It’s certainly advisable to take one full day to get used to the rarefied air and weather, before starting on your adventure. There are some acclimatization medicines that must be started 3 to 5 days before flying to Leh. Once we were acclimatized, our first stop was Shey and Thiksey Monastery (monasteries are known as gompas), a 45-minutes drive from Leh. Set atop a hill, the Thiksey monastery is serene and beautiful. Leh Palace which is modeled on Potala palace, the Dalai Lama’s former home in Tibet and Shanti Stupa are some of the other places to visit when in Leh. Our next outing was to the highest motorable road of the world - KhardungLa Pass. While we were enroute, it began snowing! The twists and turns up the mountain amidst the snowfall were absolutely breathtaking. However, the roads were so narrow that the cars were in a single file and it took us some time to reach the pass itself.

A hot cup of tea at the Khardungla pass and clicking a picture with the signboard there is a must-do. After a quick tea stop, we proceeded towards the Nubra valley. Traveling in Leh is only possible by car, during which one can see the ever-changing landscape against the Great Himalayan and Karakoram ranges, each mountain different from the other. Nubra Valley is where part of the film ‘Bhaag Milkha Bhaag’ has been shot. White sand and the double hump Bactarian Camels make this cold desert an exotic locale. Today you can ride on these unique mammals that were once used to carry the trading material across the Silk Route. Camping in the Nubra Valley is a good idea; however make sure your tents are sturdy as the winds here can be quite strong. Other sites to visit in and around Nubra Valley include the Deskit Monastery, Hot Water Springs and Panamik that is a confluence of Shyok and Nubra. There are so many unique sites in Ladakh and so many activities to do, that one really needs to choose and prioritize. We opted to visit an extremely scenic spot - Pangong Tso/Spangmik Lake via Changla Pass. Changla Pass is 17,350 feet above sea level. When we went through the rough terrain of these passes and saw the Indian Army soldiers posted there, our pride and respect for our soldiers grew tenfold! Braving the extremely dry and harsh weather to serve the country in these areas is no mean feat. Since it was still snowing in May, the access roads

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were closed and the food supply from Srinagar was erratic. We had to make do with Maggi, tea and potatoes. It’s a good idea to carry some food with you, lest you be stranded like us! The Ladakhi people are very friendly and hospitable. They work together easily and don’t lose their cool. The Pangong Lake is 14,270 feet above sea level and is so beautiful that you can’t help staring with eyes wide open. The various shades of blues and greens in the water are splendid. About 40% of this lake is in the Indian Territory and the rest is in China. Parts of movies like Three Idiots and Jab Tak Hai Jaan were

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shot here. Though we took so many pictures of the lake, the camera couldn’t capture the colours that we saw through the naked eye. Returning to Leh, we had brief stops at Lamayuru monastery and also covered Likir, Basgo and Alchi. Lamayuru monastery is surrounded by a peculiar looking land surface that resembles the moon’s surface. Its rugged cliffs and hills are unmatched elsewhere in the Ladakh region. Another interesting stop was the Magnetic Hill that apparently pulls the car uphill. The experience was

The Buddhist Mandala A Mandala is something you can buy and take back to remind you of your visit here. This ancient art form occupies a significant religious role in Buddhism. Also known as “The Architecture of Enlightenment," the Mandala is an ancient Buddhist/Hindu graphic symbol of the universe. It is used as a powerful aid to meditation and concentration. The monks at the Tibetan Buddhist monasteries learn how to construct Mandalas as part of their training.

quite surprising, for when the driver stopped the engine, we saw our car moving uphill! The surrounding slopes create an optical illusion, where the cars on the hill appear to go uphill, defying gravity, when they are actually going downhill! Next to the Magnetic Hill is the Gurudwara Sri Pathar Sahib, another must-visit. It was built in 1517 to commemorate Guru Nank’s

visit to Ladakh. Today it’s managed by the Indian Army and people of all faiths are welcome. Rugged and stark landscapes filled with pristine expanses of sand, lakes and mountains in Ladakh, present one of the most unique and mesmerizing experiences on offer for any tourist who visits here. n

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recipes

SUMMER COOLERS

Presenting Chef Vidita Kamat's quick and easy to make recipes

HERB, CUCUMBER & TOMATO SALAD SERVES: 2 TIME: 15 MINS

INGREDIENTS

3 tablespoons extra virgin olive oil 2 tablespoons red wine vinegar 1 teaspoon chopped fresh oregano 1 1/2 cucumbers, peeled, seeded, and sliced

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1 cup Cherry tomatoes, halved 1/2 cup thinly sliced red onion/White Onions 2 tablespoons fresh mint leaves 2 tablespoons fresh flat-leaf parsley leaves 2 tablespoons chopped fresh dillweed salt and freshly ground black pepper 1/2 cup crumbled feta cheese

METHOD

 Whisk together the first 3 ingredients in a small bowl.  Toss together cucumbers, and the next 5 ingredients, and vinegar mixture in a large bowl. Season with salt and pepper. Sprinkle with crumbled feta.

Serves : 2 Time: 15 mins

LYCHEE BLAST SHOTS

INGREDIENTS

METHOD

15-20 lychees 3.5 cups soda 1 large lemon 1tbsp sugar syrup A few mint leaves Ice cubes (optional) 2 tbsp Lychee Cordial

 Remove the leathery skin of the lychee.  Then de-seed them and chop roughly.  Squeeze the lemon in a glass jar.  Add the sugar syrup, lychee cordial, chopped lychees and then pour the soda.  Garnish with fresh mint leaves and serve. Note: Add more sugar syrup or lime cordial if needed as per taste

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home decor

Beauty lies in Contrasts Jagruti Fadia is mesmerized by the spectacular views from a riverside property

lthough I have driven down this road many times in last the 20 years or more, it was only recently, that I spotted a modern villa that I hadnâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;t noticed before. It was almost as if it had sprung up overnight, like a mushroom! After the â&#x20AC;&#x153;Adlabs Imagicaâ&#x20AC;? theme park was built near Mumbai, many new properties appeared on the surrounding barren land. There was something different about this this villa, though. Standing with its head held high on

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Kavele dam in Sundergarh district off Khopoli-Pali road, it looked absolutely beautiful in its prized location. The huge main gates of the property opened as if a curtain was drawn apart, bringing me face to face with the the lovely house. Built on a 2 acre plot, it is surrounded by about 25 mango trees and other flowering and guava trees. I climbed a few steps leading to the villa which has a car park on the ground level along with a studio to work in, as the owner himself is an artist. The main

door to the villa is on the first level. A traditional bell was hanging at the entrance, in contrast to the entire house which has a modern look to it. The fabulous view from the living room, across a large verandah is jaw-dropping. Overlooking the Kavele dam which is surrounded by beautiful hills and trees, it is nature’s display at its best. It could have been a fantasy world, just like Lewis’ Narnia, and so the appropriate name for it, Narnia House! With three bedrooms and four bathrooms, Narnia House has an open and spacious ambience. The big livingroom has an open kitchen on one side. Seasonal vegetables grow in an organic kitchen garden and can be cooked in the fully equipped kitchen. The dining area is rustic chic with two classy wooden benches opposite one another and an attached centre table in between. Every meal here will feel like a picnic!. A small bar in the living room was lined with beautiful wine glasses in different shapes

and sizes and some in vibrant colors too. Preferring the unfinished and the rugged look, the artist’s temperament is visible in everything from the furniture to the decor. The storage unit’s finishing is deliberately made to look unfinished and rough. Painted wrought iron chairs with a wooden centre table seem odd at first glance but mix with the overall artistic atmosphere. A small library has tastefully chosen books. The space under the staircase that leads to the upper floor has been created as a cozy corner -with a mattress and a few colorful pillows. A window on the wall behind makes it all the more attractive and also lights up this corner. The wall adjacent can’t be missed as it has seven caricatures of Gods of different religions,

including Muslims, Hindus, Christians and Sikhs, the likes of which I haven’t seen anywhere else! There is a wash room behind this ‘Wall of Gods’, the floor of which is made with broken pieces of designer mosaic tiles, all with a prominent hue of Turkish blue. The rooms have a fabulous view with two of them facing the dam and other two facing the garden. The ceiling of the living room is double the height of the other rooms that surround it. Tall wardrobes on the upper floor, outside the bedrooms are just right to store all the extra linen of the house. There is a large, lovely viewing gallery on the upper floor but of course not grander than the spectacular beauty of nature it presents to the viewer. Just below this gallery is the deck of the living room, with scattered outdoor furniture - modern as well as traditional. The old and new come together with a modern swing, an old couch, a few garden tables and chairs and a

wooden swing far off in the orchard. With lovely paths, a walk around the villa is ideal to experience the incredibly fresh air. Though it was a very hot summer afternoon, the pleasant breeze blowing from over the river and the blue, L-shaped swimming pool, forced me to think otherwise. The monsoon here sees clouds rolling in and in winter the fog engulfs Narnia House. The beauty of the villa is in the contrasts – the old and the new, the man made and the natural, the wide open sky and earth below. Though it’s just two hours away from Mumbai city, it feels like standing on another planet. n

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campus talk

‘It’s not the end of the world’ Nash Dsouza feels the exam pressure on a recent visit to Mithibai College and finds out how students cope with the dreaded but necessary evil What is exam pressure like? Shehnaz Rizvi: Well, it’s like an unseen pressure cooker which whistles only once after all the papers are over and done with! Sometimes in due course of my exams I feel my head is about to explode because of stress. Even if I have prepared the entire syllabus, the idea of exams still gives me butterflies in my tummy and gets me all jittery. Sana Lokhandwala: Exam Pressure cannot be measured. I just hope I can answer all the questions. It’s like a huge weight on my mind and I just can’t wait till it ends.

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Jared Duarte: Exam Pressure? I don’t feel any exam pressure, honestly. Having been through so many exams right from school days to college and now post graduation, I really I don’t feel it anymore. But thinking of my Junior college days, the thought of what questions would come in the exam paper would drive me crazy. I used to keep wondering if I had prepared enough. Nevertheless, like most of my friends, I too just couldn’t wait to see the back of my exams! How do you cope with exam stress? Shehnaz Rizvi: The only thing that helps me cope

up with the pressure is a sense of hope - it’s like a countdown towards the end. Just knowing that this is temporary and that a lot of fun awaits me post exams is what keeps me going...sigh! Sana Lokhandwala: Coping up comes naturally when I know I need to study. I make sure that I have read my text for the term in due course of the semester itself. I make notes and pointers and when the exams are due, I just read my own set of notes. I am a nocturnal person and stay awake to study, almost like an insomniac, especially when it comes to a day prior to exams. How do you unwind during breaks in your exam schedule? Shehnaz Rizvi: During exams I tend to crave for breaks more than ever. Chilling out for me is texting my friends and surfing on social media, reading a novel and of course getting a good amount of SLEEP! Sana Lokhandwala: I generally listen to a lot of music to unwind. I also like to dance. An hour or two of dancing revitalises me to head back to my books. If I am too drained out I turn on the telly and watch my favorite sitcom or movie to release myself of the angst Jared Duarte: Unwinding during breaks would be meeting my friends and hanging out. Or going to the park or the beach and indulging myself in some recreational activity such playing soccer or cricket for an hour or two, works wonders for me. If I decide to stay home then playing computer games such as counter strike, warcraft, would help me to relax my mind. Any personal tips on how to combat exam stress?

“Don’t stress, read your text and attempt your papers to the best of your ability and come what may, stay calm and be positive. Keep smiling always!”

Shehnaz Rizvi: Planning your schedule is of prime importance, especially in your breaks. If planned well the breaks will help you to relax and remain focused. Avoid calling your friends to check on how much they have covered. Do not try anything new in terms of optional chapters which you have left out. Most importantly remain positive...it’s just an exam and not the end of the world! Jared Duarte: To put in a simple and sweet way - Don’t stress, read your text and attempt your papers to the best of your ability and come what may, stay calm and be positive. Keep smiling always! What Are Your Future Plans? Jared Duarte: As of now I am totally undecided when it comes to future plans, but the one thing I certainly will be doing is going on a long trip to my native place to escape from the hustle and bustle of the city. It will help me totally disconnect and act as a catalyst in the process of my retrospection for taking future decisions in life... n

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book review

The Kiss of Life

by Emraan Hashmi with Bilal Siddiqi In a heart-rending story about the cancer that affected his son’s life, Emraan Hashmi talks about his family’s struggle to overcome the dreaded malady, and how they refused to lose hope.

espite a stellar entry into stardom with the runaway hit Murder, Hashmi became stereotyped as the unconventional, philandering hero who flirts and romances his ladies on screen. He became known in the media as a “serial kisser,” for his penchant for kissing his heroines passionately on screen. This was until Shanghai came along. The movie is stars Hashmi in one of his best roles till date and he excelled at it. His most challenging role, however, was yet to come. On 14 January, 2014, Hashmi’s son Ayaan was diagnosed with Wilms’ Tumour. The Kiss of Life is the fascinating story of the hardships faced by the actor and his wife as he dealt with the ordeal of his son’s cancer. The book, which is dedicated to his son, tells the reader to never give up and to keep hope alive. It is as much about the cancer as it is a history of the actor and his struggle to survive in his initial days in the industry. It seems unusual that Hashmi would talk about himself in a book which is actually about his son, but there is a different story at play. In it, Hashmi calls his son and pretends to be Batman, inspiring his son to fight the disease, but in a role-reversal, it is the son who ultimately inspires the father to change and take more responsibility. “Suddenly, I had to prove to myself that I had in me the stuff that my role models were made off. I had to be Superman, in my own little way,” he writes. While it is a nifty piece that gives you the chills and the tugs in all the right places, it is the epilogue that captures the father’s frenzied struggle as he researches every known cure that can save his son. It is brief, and not anecdotal like the book, yet it gives a fair idea

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about the amount of research that Hashmi did. It is an excellent summary of the discoveries Hashmi made and has precise bulletins that talk about the little changes a person can make in their life to decrease the chances of getting cancer. According to the research done by him, an astonishing 40 percent of the current deaths by cancer can be prevented. Through a proper, strictly regional diet that corresponds to our system of living, many types of cancers can be prevented. A frightening experience, a heartwarming tale, and a boy who in looking up to his hero, became a hero in his own right; this is the story of Emraan Hashmi in his most challenging role yet. The Kiss of Life is a bold, personal, and beautiful story that stirs our hearts and reminds us that there is a hero in all our lives: the hero within us. Excerpt: When I walked into the room, I saw him playing with his superhero figurines on the bed. He looked up at me sheepishly. I looked back at him and raised an eyebrow. He was brimming over with excitement, fighting the urge to tell me what had just happened. ‘Daddy, guess who called!’ I sat beside him hurriedly, playing along. ‘Who?’ I whispered, looking at his big, brown eyes attentively. ‘Batman,’ he grinned. ‘He told me how to become a superhero!’ I gasped exaggeratedly, matching his level of excitement, then leaned forward and hugged him tight. My son was going to be a superhero. n Review by Abhilash Jayachandra

fortune teller

Bejan Daruwalla is a well- known Astrologer and Author

HOROSCOPE MAY - 2016

Bejan Daruwalla, Indiaâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s most popular astrologer, reveals what the stars have in store for you. Aries (21st March to 20th April) You can experience mental hibernation in the beginning and are likely to stay away from your worldly responsibilities and commitments. But this feeling will pass as the month progresses. Businessmen and professionals benefit. However, those with jobs will be on their toes. With regards to health, slow digestion may bother but some light exercise might alleviate your problems. Financial position will strengthen over the month. Singles will enjoy romantic moments. Taurus (21st April to 21st May) The month starts on a happy note, but could end with relationship issues. There will be progress and financial strengthening. Do not bottle up negative thoughts. Singles will prosper, but couples beware. When both partners become assertive and unrelenting, reconciliation takes a back seat.

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Family expenses could upset your budget. Be tactful and polite while dealing with family members. Gemini (22nd May to 21st June) Things might not be looking up this month. Unexpected family expenses might occur. Be cautious. There will be many chances to learn new skills and talents, especially those you always wanted to. Businessmen and professionals will have a lucrative time and this will have a positive effect on your marital life. Love and romance will take a back seat now. Be patient. Cancer (22nd June to 22nd July) This month, your aesthetic tastes take over. Listen to music, write poems â&#x20AC;&#x201C; do anything to elevate your spirit and calm your soul. Focus will shift as the month continues. Businessmen will gain. Some issues concerning a relationship

will keep you preoccupied. Adopt a give-and-take approach to maintain peace. Singles will have a hard time pleasing new found love. Couples too will struggle to keep their spouses content. Leo (23rd July to 22nd Aug) Time to reap the harvest as you may see some of your efforts finally bearing fruit. However, donâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;t yet go to the world announcing your achievements. Stay modest! Time looks right for finances and business to surge. Later, when things are looking up, schedule your meetings and talks, if any. Watch your mood swings, all this while, though. With the month progressing well, you may find yourself making new friends, and basically once again basking in the limelight. Go easy on partying, as you run the risk of catching an infection. Virgo (23rd Aug to 22nd Sep) The month of May will bring in

ample fortune. This looks like a good time for businessmen and professionals dealing with overseas projects. The stars look set to help you on numerous accounts now. Things are looking better, which is bound to bring more cheer. So you can rejoice. However, do refrain from getting arrogant or aggressive. And, do not take undue financial risks. If you come across as sarcastic, you may end up spoiling a relation forever. So, shun your attitude for now. Libra (23rd Sept to 22nd Oct) The month will be a low beginning, but things are bound to get better. Eventually, you can expect your fortunes to favour you. Relationships need extreme care. Do not jump headlong into a new relation. If married, watch your words, lest you hurt your spouse. Make no major financial commitments. Scorpio (23rd Oct to 22nd Nov) Relationships need care and attention. Be tactful and flexible in this domain. Although, the stars favour you, you may not be feeling lucky as yet. Stay motivated. Think positive thoughts. Health needs care, midmonth. In all spheres of life, keep a candid approach, and refrain from making a caustic remark, as this may worsen an already

bad situation. Around the end of the month things start looking up although you must keep your confidence in check. And, avoid looking at the past with so much fondness. Sagittarius (23rd Nov to 21st Dec) You are in a dilemma, and thereâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s no denying that. Best course, is to stay motivated and take advantage when the planetary positions are in your favour. Stay poised to benefit as the month continues. Work pressures will begin to ease. Results will take time to manifest, but overall, a positive time, with a little low patch for health and relationship matters, in between. Capricorn (22nd Dec to 20th Jan) Feelings of love and passion fills you. Singles may see the beginning of a special relationship, while the ones already in a relationship may marry. Enjoy while it lasts. Express anything special on your mind only around the 22nd. Finances remain comfortable, but do not take undue risks with your money. Avoid lending. A new relationship will need care. Healthwise, be careful. Aquarius

plan their moves after considerable deliberation. Singles should build long term relationships here. Love birds will be keen to take the relationship towards marriage. Those married may not be happy during this phase due to the cold response of your spouse. Routine work is free of hassles and unnecessary disturbances. Singles could be lured by someone elder to enjoy sensual pleasure. By the month end, you could be preoccupied with family matters. Health too may suffer. Be wary of an infection catching up on you! Pisces (19th Feb to 20th March) Be prepared to slog for long hours. Wait patiently to see the results and refrain from losing your cool, but if you do, remain flexible and polite. Things may get better for you eventually, but youâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;ll still need to remain very careful. Singles will meet someone. However, there will be no commitment, only intellectual and sensual gratification. Those married will be unhappy with their spouse and married life. There could be fewer hassles in routine tasks now. Those in jobs may need to multitask to meet deadlines. Sun and Saturn in opposition could affect health. Remain alert. n

(21st Jan to 18th Feb)

You may be left feeling down and out. Take a break! Businessmen and professionals will need to

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TWITTER WORLD

#thetweettalk Celebrities express their thoughts on twitter

Barkha dutt @BDUTT Dear @UKinIndia is it some sort of Empire Strikes Back desperation that makes your visa so annoying darned cumbersome.

Salman Khan @BeingSalmanKhan This younger gen is fab has a lot of integrity, respect n culture. God bless em.

Anushka Sharma @AnushkaSharma ANDDD SPECIAL thanks to all my fan clubs for ur lovely wishes,videos, cards & for your continuous support!! You guys are rockstars

Farhan Akhtar @FarOutAkhtar Happy birthday to the guy who has always led his life with a straight bat.. @ sachin_rt .. Best wishes always..

KRK @kamaalrkhan Duniya Ki Sabse Sasti Cheez Advise Ek Se Maango Toh Hazaron Dete Hain n Sabse Costly Cheez Help Hazaaron Se Maango Toh Koi Ek Karta Hai. GN. PRIYANKA @priyankachopra Congratulations @ bipsluvurself and @ Iamksgofficial I’m so happy for you both.. I wish you love luck and bliss.. Always.. Here’s to Mr n Mrs!

Kalki Koechlin @kalkikanmani ‘Be candid’ ? Yo last time I was ‘candid’ my marriage got dragged through the dirt so pls take your candid q’s and go make raita elsewhere.

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Deepika Padukone @deepikapadukone Thank you for being such an inspiration and a role model for millions! @ sachin_rt So proud #Ravi!

Varun Dhawan @Varun_dvn Very late in the day but really loved #tamasha. #ranbirkapoor is fantastic and so is @deepikapadukone. A rare gem #ImtiazAli

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