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By Sue Lovett At birth they quickly get into position to look into the delivery room mirror making sure they are handsome or pretty. After all, they are the kings and queens of the zodiac. They are very much aware of their appearance and even as toddlers they want to pick out their own clothes.

Often they want to wear hats (or crowns) to accent their royal appearances. They are dramatic and enjoy singing and dancing – both the boys AND the girls!

They like entertainment – often participating in musicals and plays in the neighborhood, nursery school, and Sunday School. They enjoy being teacher’s pet and follow orders cheerfully. They are FUN!

Parent Publications Editor: Mary Helen Darah (mothermayhem@toledoparent.com) Watch scooby doo Calendar: Marisa Rubin (mrubin@adamsstreetpublishing.com) Get home asap to watch trl Social Media Specialist: Amanda Goldberg (agoldberg@adamsstreetpublishing.com) Play in my treehouse Staff Writer: Griffin Messer-Kruse (griffin@adamsstreetpublishing.com) sprint home to watch dragon ball z Contributing Writers: Erin Marsh, Christine Holliday, Kristin Reichardt, Karen Zickes, Sue Lovett, Laurie Wurth-Pressel, Russell Axon

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Library House Children’s Books Where book lovers can ‘take it slow’ Kids get culture, create and connect through Word Shop.

Word Shop inspires young writers

There’s more to writing than texting, and students at Rosary Cathedral School, Queen Apostles School, and Wildwood Environmental Academy will learn firsthand when they participate in WordShop this school year. This program of the Women’s Initiative of the United Way offers one-on-one writing instruction for kids to learn creative writing skills, by using field trips and themed workshops.

With the goal of encouraging students to produce writing projects of exceptional quality, WordShop works to support classroom teachers in developing writing skills.

Trained volunteers visit classrooms weekly or monthly to work with students learning to express themselves in writing. Field trips to local cultural sites, including the Toledo Lucas County Public Library, the Metroparks and the Toledo Museum of Art, will provide inspiration for wonderful plots and characters as each student works to produce a personally illustrated and written book.

Two-hour after-school workshops give kids an opportunity to meet guest artists, cartoonists, and authors and to give developing writers time to connect with writing professionals, and summer programs to continue the experience.

Rosary Cathedral School was the first school to participate (during the 2012-2013 school year); the addition of two more schools means the group is looking for adults who want to volunteer for a chance to help children in under served areas learn the excitement and satisfaction of writing.

To view stories that the children produced for WordShop or for volunteer inquiries, visit www.unitedwaytoledo. org/womensinitiative/wordshop or call 419-254-4715.

Roam, touch and feel at Li brary House Childre n’s Books

Children’s book lovers can take their cue from the giant bronze tortoise in front of Library House Children’s Books in Grand Rapids— ‘Take it slow’. As you peruse the selection of gently used books for kids from preschool to grade five.

Office Manager Kim Foote says, “We want kids to love books as much as we do.

We encourage them to roam, to touch and feel all the books we have here. There is a feeling you get with the pages of a book between your fingers that you can’t get from an e-reader!”

The books in the little yellow house are finds from library sales, auctions, and private sales, most priced less than $5.00. The store encourages home-schooling parents to visit for books, toys, and puzzles, and offers discounts to teachers. Kids of all ages will appreciate story time (Tuesdays 11am-11:30am), holiday crafts projects, and the chance to decorate the sidewalk in front of the store with colored chalk, as well as the large bronze and aluminum animals decorating the store.

As long as you’re in the book-looking mood, consider shopping at the owner Dorinda Shelley’s other shops: Library House Books and Art (with antiques, art and multimedia titles) and the Happy Historian book store, both on Front Street, and drop in to her Antiques on Front store.

Library House Children’s Books, 24124 Front Street and on Facebook at Library House Children’s Books. 419 830-8050. M-Sat 10am-5pm, Sun 12noon-4pm.

Toe shoes and tiaras will make you squeak with delight

Dancing with Angelina

Dance lovers of all ages are invited to sing and dance to Angelina Ballerina The Musical, coming to the Valentine Theatre for one show on Saturday, September 21, at 2pm. The ballet-loving little mouse and her friends will be competing in a dance contest at their new school, and will invite audience members to join their hip hop, modern dance, and Irish jig performances.

No puppets or head masks here—just real actors doing new songs and original choreography in a one-hour show. Come in your toe shoes and tiaras for lots of fun! Advance tickets at the box office are $14. On-line sales also available at www. valentinetheatre.com. This show is the first in a series of four (others are Charlotte’s Web on February 15, Five Little Monkeys on March 29, and Stuart Little on April 6.) Tickets for the series are $36 for kids and $50 for adults.

Lace up those sneakers and show your support for pink on September 29

Komen Race for the Cure celebrates 20th year

The color pink will rule downtown Toledo on Sunday, September 29, during the 20th annual Race for the Cure. Organizers hope to raise more than $1 million and draw more than last year’s 16,500 runners. Registration for the 5K (3.1 mile) race (or 1-mile course for the Family Fun Walk) begins at Summit & Monroe at 7:00 am with the race start at 9:30 am. Cost for the race: $30 for racers 18 and over, $20 for those 17 and under. Those who also run in the First Annual Race for the Cure in Findlay on Saturday September 28 can do both races for $50 (18+) or $35 (17 and under).

Aubrey Whewell, Community elations Coordinator for the NWO Susan G. Komen, notes the importance of this event. “Ohio is 34th in the country for new cases of breast cancer being diagnosed, but 4th in mortality. Seventy-five percent of the funds we raise stay in Northwest Ohio to help provide education, screening, and support services.”

Runners, walkers, donors, and sponsors can get more information about the Race and all Komen activities at www.komennwohio.org or by calling 419 724-CURE

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Childcare center opens on Owens Community College campus

A new childcare center operated by the YMCA and JCC of Greater Toledo opened on August 12 on the Owens Community College campus, 30335 Oregon Road.

An Owens operated childcare center closed in early summer for financial reasons. The YMCA and JCC of Greater Toledo now leases the 13,317 square foot facility and outdoor play area from Owens and plans to offer the same high-quality care and services.

Tamika Bumphis assists a toddler at the Owens President Dr. Mike Bower said the col- YMCA/JCC Childhood Development Center lege worked quickly to devise a solution after many parents expressed their disappointment over the closure of the Owens center. “Our partnership with the YMCA and JCC of Greater Toledo is critical and will allow us to meet the needs of our students, faculty, staff and community members,” he said.

The YMCA Child Development Center offers care for children from infants through age 12 with extended hours of operation from 6:30am to 6p.m. Before-and-after-school care and transportation for students enrolled at Lake Local and Rossford Schools is also available.

Pam Sattler, a 2005 graduate of the Owens Community College Early Childhood Education program, is the Center’s director. Owens students majoring in early childhood education will utilize the Center for real-world experience, including observation and clinical labs.

The YMCA and JCC of Greater Toledo has a reputation for quality programs and services and has been providing childcare in the Toledo area for more than 31 years.

For more information, contact the YMCA Child Development office at 419-474-3995.—LWP

Princess Dreams

Little girls always ask Laurel Lovitt if she’s a “real” princess. She responds: “Yes, I am. But you are, too.”

That’s because being a “real” princess isn’t about a title, a gorgeous gown or sparkly tiara, it’s about attitude, says Laurel. She founded Laurel’s Princess Parties to help little girls find their inner princess (self confidence) while having a ton of fun in the process.

A young entrepreneur and University of Toledo student, Laurel is learning what it takes to launch and operate a successful business. She started Laurel’s Princess Parties in May 2013, and Laurel Lovitt helps girls find their inner princess is already booked six months out.

Laurel turns a little girl’s birthday into a magical, royal affair. She arrives in full princess regalia (birthday girls can even pick out her ball gown in advance) and enthralls the crowd with princess training, a royal coronation ceremony and a celebration ball. During princess training, partygoers learn that princesses never forget to say “please” and “thank you” and that a smile trumps a tiara as a princess’s most important accessory, says Laurel. Laurel also specializes in Princess Spa Parties and Princess and Pirate Parties and she can customize any party. A professional photographer can be added to the package, so moms and dads can enjoy the special moments, instead of stressing over capturing them.

Laurel also makes guest appearances at fundraising events, new business launchings and other promotional events that need a royal touch. And, she hosts workshops for little girls in her home twice a month. “This business has been so much fun, I feel like a little kid again,” says Laurel.

Laurel’s Princess Parties Web site, www. laurelsprincessparties.com or her Facebook page for more information, or call 419-349-0850.—LWP 8

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Football cheerleaders face lots of challenges, from bad weather to sore muscles to sluggish fans. For Bethany Wissler, even Down Syndrome cannot keep her from her favorite extracurricular activity.

The Whitmer High School senior is an active member of the squad at all home games, using skills she has honed since early elementary school.

Her mom, Kathy, reports that Bethany has always wanted to be a cheerleader, and loves performing in front of a crowd of fans. Washington Local School cheerleading advisor Kelly Steele knew of Bethany’s hard work and dedication through the years and encouraged her, even offerts iri sp t lif issler and Bethany W ing her a chance to cheer at basketball Grace Haskins es sidelin on and off the games. “ Kelly loves to watch Bethany cheer, and tells me that lots of fans enjoy watching Beth, too,” says her proud mother.

Kathy also credits Bethany’s best friend Grace Haskins with helping her develop the confidence and poise needed to cheer in front of large crowds. “They have been best friends since first grade. They’ve done all the things best friends do “parties, sleep-overs, church activities. And now they are doing cheerleader camps and games together. It is so much fun to see Beth having the time of her life with her best friend.”

Bethany’s future direction isn’t a certainty, but her mom hopes she’ll be an advoJulie Christy, Bethany Wissler and Donna cate for those with Down Syndrome. “She is Posluszny cheer for the Panthers proof of what kids like that can do!”

Aqua Hut provides diving opportunities for people with disabilities

By Christine A. Holliday

Think SCUBA diving is only for excellent swimmers and/or skilled athletes? Jeff Davis, owner of Aqua Hut, emphatically denies that notion as he invites those with physical limitations to give his introductory class a try “for free”!

Except for those who experience seizures or have lung issues, anyone People with disabilities jump into new experiences at Aqua Hut can learn to dive. We’ve taught quadriplegics, and those with autism and cerebral palsy. We even have a 70-year-old blind man who has learned to dive.”

Davis provides all the equipment for the introductory lessons, from the wetsuit to the mask to the buoyancy compensator, and a one-on-one lesson with a certified instructor. Classes are open to those as young as 10, and swimming knowhow is not required. A bonus: the water temperature in the pool is 88 degrees!

“Diving is a wonderful sport,” Davis said. “Someone who is disabled on land gets a real feeling of freedom when he is under the water. He can continue after that initial class if he has a certified swimming buddy to accompany him, and then can dive at places besides our pool. Our blind diver, Marvin, recently did a dive at a quarry!”

Aqua Hut is affiliated with the Handicap Scuba Association, and works with the Toledo Fire Department to offer classes to new divers from the Ability Center.

2543 N Reynolds Rd, Toledo, OH. 419 531-4655. E-mail: aquahut@toast.net.

Find Aqua Hut on Facebook or go to www.aqua-hut.com.

M-Th 10am-7pm, F 10am-6pm, Sat 9am-5pm, Closed Sunday.

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Local teenage thespian attends prestigious New York University acting program

By Kristin Reichardt

The entertainment industry owes Toledo a debt for producing such native celebrities as Jamie Farr and Katie Holmes, and one teen is working on adding his own name to the list of local film industry notables.

Drew Gannon, 17, recently attended the Tisch Summer High School Program at the prestigious New York University Tisch School for the Arts.

The Toledo School for the Arts senior joined a group of about 60 high school students in the month-long film studies program, after being selected from more than 700 applicants. The NYCbased course earned Gannon film experience to include on his college admission application reel and 6 credit hours of college credit.

“I was always interested in filmmaking,” Gannon said in a phone interview during a break from the grueling 12-hour-a-day NYU schedule. “[The summer program] really does help you get a good reputation with NYU, and it helps you start your college reel.”

The son of Sylvania couple Michael and Becky, Gannon burned the midnight oil to finish editing the short film he wrote and directed in the final two weeks of the program. The challenges presented to the novice writer and director

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helped Gannon to understand the nuances of the film industry, such as the long process of weeding through 50 resumes to find the two actors best suited for the film.

Despite a natural level of artistic competition with his peers in the summer program, seeing his own work next to others’ is motivating and educational.

“You’re watching your peers’ movies and it’s nerve wracking, but in the end it’s good to compare and contrast and get an idea as to how they direct or write,” Gannon said.

Toledo School for the Arts Artistic Director David Saygers, who has worked with the young thespian on various performances, appreciates Gannon’s ability to amplify humor in his art.

“Andrew is an unusually creative writer and performer,” Saygers said. “He has a gift for comedy, especially for finding it within our everyday experience.”

Gannon encourages other students interested in a career in the arts to just start, and explore their craft as they go.

“Keep looking for experiences,” Gannon said.

“Everything at this age is just trying something out and making connections and learning.”

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others with obnoxious texts, or lock the account owner of his favorite game sites. Pictures are easy targets, too; a bully can post nasty comments, alter photos in an unflattering way, or take embarrassing photos and post them on the subject’s site. In extreme cases, the bully might threaten to harm or kill the victim, or suggest that the victim harm himself.

School officials, law enforcement agencies, and mental health professionals are working to shed light on the practice and support victims who might be reluctant to report being targeted. Sites like www.ncpc.org (the National Crime Prevention Council) offer young people and their parents tips on how to respond to cyberbullying.

cyber bullying Tormenting through technology We used to be able to identify a bully.

He was the fellow pushing a smaller guy into the locker, or the young lady making a point of excluding the less popular girl.

Now, we don’t see the bully. He or she is on the other end of an electronic device (phone, tablet, computer) and is tormenting or threatening or annoying or impersonating someone perceived as weak or different. The behavior is cyberbullying and can happen at any time and reach all over the world.

Research suggests that cyberbullying is especially prevalent among students in grades 6-8, that 15-35% of youngsters report being bullied via technology, and those the bullies are just as likely to be men as women. As technology improves, cyberbullies are finding more way to cause pain and suffering to their victims.

Sending taunting messages or sharing confidential personal information is the simple way to do it, but not the only one. Commenting on another’s website (“Fattest kid at Union School�) or setting up a site of photos inviting viewers to vote for the ugliest or stupidest is another. Savvy bullies can hack someone’s computer, pose as that person and deluge

Who is at risk?

Adolescents of any kind are easy targets for cyberbullies. Their need for acceptance, and their struggles with body image and the power of peer pressure make them vulnerable, and any kid could end up on the receiving end of bullying. However, the urge for conformity means that those who look or act different are easier targets for bullies.

That applies especially to lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender youth. All adolescents struggle with relationships with their peers while working out their sexual identities. But taunting words and pictures can be especially painful for LGBT teens, who worry about how their choices will be received by family and friends.

Another target group includes those with physical or social limitations. It’s not difficult to see why a kid in a wheelchair or a shy person, both perceived by bullies as weaknesses, would draw attention.

It is also easy to understand why those same kids, already feeling conspicuous because of their “disabilities� might hesitate to report any abuse and call more attention to themselves as tattle tales.

Shy kids, those who find forming friendships difficult, and those who prefer to study or play alone, are easily bullied. A bully will tell lies about why Johnny has no friends or pretend to be a nasty texter using the name or account of a usually-shy person. It’s all nasty, and

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Parents and teachers who live and work with adolescents know that the teen years are marked by insecurity and immaturity. Acne, height or lack of it, athletic prowess or absence of such, wardrobe, neighborhood, even the cars a kid’s parents drive might be fodder for examination and comment. It should be no surprise that something as integral to one’s life as his/her sexuality or personality would be equally interesting to those tempted or encouraged by others to comment in unkind or threatening ways.

Is your child being bullied?

Be aware of the warning signs Increasing numbers of youngsters are being victimized by their peers.

Happily, psychologists and teachers are noticing and publicizing the signs that a student is being bullied. Those signs might include: n Changes in attitude toward friends or social situations n Loss or destruction of personal property, especially electronics, jewelry, books, and clothing n Declining grades, unnatural anxiety about going to school n Injuries that can’t be explained n Unexplained changes in eating or sleeping patterns In cyberbullying situations that have escalated, victims might run away from home or indulge in self-destructive behavior like cutting or, in too many cases, suicide.

Bullies are emboldened when a victim is afraid to report abuse, an all too common situation.

The victim may hesitate to be a “snitch,� believing the perpetrator will cause harm to him and/or his family. The silence often leads to more satisfaction for the bully and the possibility of increased bullying behavior.

Experts are learning to tell youngsters to inform a trusted adult at the first sign of cyberbullying and to keep written copies of all threats or pictures. Parents are encouraged to discuss cyberbullying with their children, keeping the lines of

communication open about who their on-line friends are, what their Facebook sites contain, and what kind of language, photos, and information are appropriate to share on-line.

Signs your child is bullying others While bullies often come from families where bullying is familiar behavior, many youngsters do not. They may not appreciate the nastiness or their actions, or honestly believe that what they write and post are simply jokes. But even in those cases, parents are often surprised and horrified to discover that their children have been threatening or tormenting others.

How to tell is your child is acting as a bully? Friends who are known for bullying acts might be a sign that one’s child might be persuaded to follow his friends’ example. The youngster who gets into verbal or physical fights with peers, or appears increasingly aggressive with others might be bullying those who perceives as unable to defeat him.

The child who suddenly produces new possessions (new clothing, new electronic devices) or money and can’t explain how he came to afford them might be using violence to take them from others. The child who blames others for all his troubles, or who worries about his reputation, but doesn’t accept responsibility for his own actions in tarnishing that reputation might be bullying others.

Increased visits to the principal’s office or accumulating detentions for inappropriately aggressive behavior merit examination.

Parents who keep an eye on their children’s online behavior will discover if their sons and daughters are amused by acts of bullying or talk about such acts as if they are funny or entertaining. Parents who hear their children mock others or belittle those who report bullying would do well to take a close look at their kids’ email, camera photos and online posts.

There are no legitimate authority figures in the cyber world, so keeping kids safe from online bullies has to begin at home.—Chirstine Holliday

Tell youngsters to inform a trusted adult at the first sign of cyberbullying.

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Field trip & Who said only teachers can take your kids on f ield

activities guide

trips? Toledo has plenty to offer, and Toledo Parent shows you where your young ones—tykes to teens — can get their groove on, learn new skills, go exploring and more… after they've finished their homework of course!

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Mercy Autism Services

3521 Briarfield Blvd., Maumee 419-794-7259 www.mercyweb.org For children who may need a little push or extra help starting out in school, Mercy Autism Services offers a wide variety of services that help parents help their children succeed. From occupational therapy to groups to jump start groups and summer camps, there are programs to help children to find their fit and to be more comfortable in social situations at home or in school.

d Starboun ment Entertain Group 5700 Monroe St., Suite 14, Sylvania 419-474-4777 www.sb-eg.com Whether a child is an actor, vocal performer, model or dancer, the professional acting and modeling workshops at SB-EG will help young performers hone their craft, teach them how to audition and give them the necessary training to be successful in the industry. As an independent studio, they are able to control workshop sizes and give each participant the individual attention they deserve.

Kersten Kennedy of Starbound

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Kempo Martial Arts

6801 W. Central Ave. suite E 419-855-1519 www.kempomania.com www.facebook.com/KempoMA Training in the martial art of Kempo can help any child build strength, discipline and confidence that will last a lifetime. Learning Kempo is not only great exercise, it's also a great way for kids to learn about respecting others, self-defense, and stranger danger.

Taking some time for physical activity after school is the best way to keep kids focused!

Brendon Rowe, 5 of Rossford at Kempo Martial Arts

Sensational Kids Daycare and Learning Center

6060 Merger Dr., Holland 419-724-5434 www.sensationalkidsdaycare.com Sensational Kids is a place where children thrive. There is one teacher or aid for every five children in every classroom, and physical, occupational and speech therapists work with students on site to meet their social and educational goals.

At Sensational Kids, each child and parent is part of an extended family that's focused on learning — and fun!

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Toledo Botanical Garden

5403 Elmer Dr. 419-536-5566 www.toledogarden.org Take in the (manicured) outdoors with your family at Toledo Botanical Gardens. The beautiful greenery has an Alice In Wonderland feel — it's a magical place to observe nature for a few hours. But there are also more structured activities, too, like unique events for kids (such as the history-oriented Peter Navarre Day) and creative field trip opportunities for schools, summer camps and daycares. During Pioneer Life, for example, children experience social studies firsthand as they reenact life in the 1800s — one of many unique chances for learning. TBG is open seven days per week, year-round, with no admission or parking fee.

Company C Dance Club

6540 W Central Ave. 419-841-9310 www.companycdanceclub.com Company C Dance Club is an innovative and creative dance studio committed to providing excellent, professional dance training for children in a fun atmosphere. Instructors are passionate for the art of dance and pass their love of dance to future generations with focus and professionalism.

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Build it!

Levis Commons, Perrysburg 5180 Chappel Dr. 419-690-9311 www.builditperrysburg.com Whether it’s during open play or one of the many classes, Build It! encourages hands-on learning using Legos, Duplo and K’nex. Using creativity in a social environment, kids won’t even realize how much they’re learning while exploring STEM learning concepts through different building challenges.

Visiting Build It! for only $5 per hour for Open Play is an investment in their brains, so ditch the TV time and head over to Levis Commons for some Lego love and building fun.

Hunter's Run

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9241 Secor Rd., Temperance 734-856-2404 www.huntersrunmhja.com Horse lovers will delight in the options available at Hunter's Run — 61 acres to master equestrian skills under the guidance of expert trainers. It's a safe and fun athletic activity, with the security of knowing parents and their children are in good hands at this family-owned business with more than 25 years of experience. Lessons are available for all ages, with three outdoor rings, an open field and trails for your young equestrian's enjoyment!

Mini Motions Dance Center

2249 Tremainsville Rd. 419-473-0999 www.minimotionsdance.com Always wanted to dance? Mini Motions is a family-focused dance center with 22 years of teaching experience in Toledo.

The center offers an array of affordable classes for students age 2 to adults. Choose from ballet, jazz, tap, hip hop, breakdance, tumbling, lyrical, cheer and modern. Come join our variety of classes and experience the fun. A class schedule is available online.

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Imagination Station

1 Discovery Way (at Summit St.) 419-244-2674 imaginationstationtoledo.org Science is cool at Imagination Station, a museum with more that 300 hands-on exhibits for families to explore. Lucas County residents 12 and under are admitted free on Saturdays when accompanied by a parent. Take a weekend challenge of defying gravity on the high wire cycle, a bicycle ride 20 feet above the ground!

Darlyl Jervis Dance Studio YMCA of Greater Toledo

7575 Sylvan Towne Dr., Sylvania 419-843-9000 www.daryljervisdance.com Explore the beauty of movement with an award winning Toledo institution. For 78 years, Daryl Jervis Dance Studio has given the gift of dance to learners of all ages.

Throughout their journey, they've kept pace with an ever-changing art, teaching jazz, ballet, lyrical, contemporary, hip hop and tap. It's the perfect way to boost self-confidence and fitness and give children a lifelong connection to a beautiful means of expression.

1500 N Superior St. 419-729-8135 www.ymcatoledo.org The YMCA has always been a great place for a family to get active together, but that fun doesn't have to stop once school starts! The YMCA child care program offers the perfect balance of learning and fun. Kids can get help with their homework and participate in activities that reinforce what they learn at school, and then they can run, jump, play and be social with other children their age. The programs are split into two groups — 6 weeks to 5 years old and ages 5-12— to make sure that your child is getting the care and attention they need. Visit their website to request more information about financial aid.

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Rosenbloom’s Farm

2738 Shetland Rd. 419-841-3320 rosenbloomsfarm.weebly.com Rosenbloom’s Farm, located in Sylvania Township, is a fun, wholesome place to interact with horses, llamas, donkeys, chickens, bunnies and much more. Each hands-on experience is individualized to meet every group’s needs. They welcome scouting troops, preschools, play groups, special needs groups and groups of all sizes and ages. Jeff and Linda Rosenbloom are pleased to have recently acquired non-profit status, and they also welcome parents to call them for their party destination.jrsvertigo@bex.net/

Peace Love & Pottery

6750 Sylvania Ave. 419-517-4414 Newly opened Peace Love & Pottery, a paint-yourown-pottery ceramics studio, offers walk-ins and clay classes. Peace Love & Pottery also hosts birthday parties that will provide your child and guests a memorable hands-on experience. Creative family fun and quality time together!

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healthy kids

Petrified of peanuts & frantic over fur

Does your child have food or pet allergies?

By Leah Foley

With allergies more prevalent, parents are seeking answers to their questions on the subject. 15 million Americans suffer from food allergies - a large portion are children — 5% of those under the age of 5 have some type of allergy to food.

Red alert foods

Eight red alert foods cause 90 percent of all food allergies; including milk, eggs, peanuts, tree nuts, soy, wheat, fish and shellfish. Cross contamination during preparation, even in the smallest amounts, can cause allergic and potentially dangerous reactions, sometimes as severe as anaphylaxis – constriction of the airway. More common symptoms include hives, diarrhea, abdominal cramping, mouth and throat discomfort, dizziness and difficulty breathing.

Take action

Consult medical experts if you suspect a food allergy or your child presents allergic symptoms. Always call 911 if a child is unresponsive or is having difficulty breathing. Following an incident, immediately consult your pediatrician to discuss treatment options. When dining out, alert wait staff to your child’s special food restrictions and be sure to inform your child’s caregivers and school of allergic conditions.

Take the test

Allergy tests are rarely performed on children unless a food allergy presents itself. Generally, skin tests are preferable, because they deliver faster and more specific results than blood

tests. Can children outgrow food allergies? Some, but not all. Children may outgrow allergies to foods such as eggs, soy products and milk as they mature. However, it is important not to make assumptions and consult your physician.

Man’s best friend?

Eleven million Americans suffer from cat allergies alone. 15 percent of all Americans suffer from animal allergies. Parents with these conditions are most likely to have children with the same dilemma. However, that is not always the case. A child with two allergic parents could be completely allergy free! Also, it is important not to be complacent. Children may develop a pet allergy at any time. Symptoms may include watery, red and swollen eyes, sneezing and runny nose. Children also may develop hives, rashes and even asthma.

It is recommended that you limit your pet to certain areas of your home, invest in a HEPA filter, remove carpets that trap dander and wash your child’s hands after they play with the pooch or feline.

Consult your physician if your child’s symptoms persist or worsen. By being aware, parents can help make sure every child is safe from dangerous allergies.

Leah Foley is a graphic designer for Adams Street Publishing as well as a concerned mom who desired to “spread the word” after witnessing a child’s severe allergic reaction at a local restaurant.

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The REAL New Year

Resolving to keep a sense of humor in the year ahead

By Mary Helen Darah

Billy Crystal’s character, Harry in “Harry met Sally”, and I are on the same page when it comes to being confused about the New Year. While he was puzzled with the night’s theme song, “Should old acquaintance be forgot". Does that mean we should forget old acquaintances or does it mean if we happen to forget them we should remember them, which is not possible because we already forgot them!?—I am baffled why we choose the first day of January to mark the beginning of the year. I believe many a parent will tell you the start of the year begins not with the dropping of a ball in the Big Apple but with the sound of the school bus slicing through the morning quiet.

The start of school is my ruler that clearly marks another year’s passing and with it the reminder that the duties of my most cherished job as mother will once again be modified. There are however, some things that will remain constant no matter what grade your child is entering.

As the REAL New Year is now upon us I’m officially bracing myself for the following: Homework – required task that your child is expected to complete. Attempts to help him/her will result in discovering that there is a distinct possibility that you may not be smarter than a fifth grader.

After hours of trying to figure out what “X” equals, you will say “WHY” (as in, would you care). Countless story problems involving the departures of train A and train B might find you telling your child to take the bus.

School Supply Shopping – A challenging treasure hunt that leads families on a hunt for items to enhance the educational experience. Statically, a trip to more than one location is required upon discovering that ONE item is not available at the first stop. Note to parents: Be prepared to take out a second mortgage before purchasing the calculator that will be outdated or lost within six months and (not that this has ever happened to me) make certain you have THIS year’s supply list.

Projects – High octane, time consuming endeavors that allow your child to express their creativity and test a parent’s patience and need for Prozac. Please note, with the best of intentions, I tried to fight the urge to jump in and lend my talents to my children—I really did-—until the son of an electrical engineer dad showed up with a black wooden board with white lights in the shape of various constellations that were synced to the music of Elton John’s “Rocket Man”. In comparison, my child made the sun by spray painting a Styrofoam ball bright yellow (remnants of which took weeks to wash off the dog and rug) and hung it from a hanger with one of the Corgi’s squeaky toys to represent the earth. For a brief but

Sighting the safety patrol signals the New Year is upon us highly memorable time following that experience, I got a bit too involved. I eventually came to my senses. I did however, find it necessary to intervene and whip up a new batch of candy Buckeyes when we found Helena’s missing Band-Aid in the first one.

Parent/teacher conferences Thirty minutes of one-on-one with your child’s educator where you are forced to sit in chairs that are age appropriately sized for the current grade level your child is in. Advil may be required. Warning: your child may share more than you will have ever imagined and clarification on various topics may be required. I once was met with a, “Mrs. Darah, I understand you’re selling alcohol in your basement,” when in reality I was holding meetings as chairman of a wine auction for a local charity.

Sports – Organized physical activities that may cause the formation of lines on parent’s behinds from sitting on aluminum in extreme weather conditions; may also cause alienation from friends after repeated attempts to have them purchase everything from spirit wear to wrapping paper to support the team. Note to parents of student athletes; never, and I mean NEVER, smell an article left on the floor to determine whether it needs to be washed and to avoid stress, NEVER let the “lucky” socks or jersey out of your sight.

The New Year will also include driving until you can’t remember the last time your feet hit the ground; mentally putting Pop Tarts in the fruit group and endless supportive talks to get your child through everything from zits to heartache. Get creative in this department. I told my college freshman who gained that “freshman 35” instead of 15, that on the bright side, she was certainly an overachiever.

This is the year I will get permission slips in on time, bedtime will be earlier, and I will not wait to buy poster board until a crisis. In the words of Joey Adams, “May your troubles last as long as your resolutions.” Happy New Year!

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The Many Hats of Julie Zaborowski

Mother, wife, nurse, student, and nonprofit organizer assists families with adoption

By Erin Marsh

Julie Zaborowski understands the emotional turmoil and financial obligation tied to adoption, particularly international adoption, as she and her husband adopted their youngest child from China. She has made it her personal mission to assist parents going through the financial burden of adoption. After all, international adoptions can cost up to $35,000 and can take several years to complete.

With three biological children, the Zaborowskis decided they wanted to adopt a fourth child. Julie said they decided to adopt because “There are so many kids without parents in orphanages. These kids are released at sixteen into the world, and some go into prostitution... they just have no way of knowing how to take care of themselves.”

The entire adoption process took two years and cost the family $23,000. Many international adoptions can take much longer, but Julie said their shortened adoption process was mostly due to the fact that “Grace was considered special needs because of her birth marks.” According to Julie, many physical traits, such as “scars or a finger that’s longer than the others,” can qualify one as special needs in China. When the adoption agency sent the Zaborowskis a picture of Grace, they knew without

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12, and Grace 5.

Pet: Cat named Claire Law of Life: “Live each day like it’s your last.”

Reason to love Toledo: “It’s the

a doubt that she was town that I grew up in, and meant to become part of my family is here.” their family.

Julie said the people from her community Julies’s faves: and the members of her Hero: Jesus church, Church of the Readables: Toledo Parent, Cross, helped tremenA busy life does Better Homes & Gardens n’t keep Julie Za dously with the adopborowski from gi gracefully ving tion expenses. It was Band: Chicago this generosity of spirit that inspired Julie to give Food: Chinese back to her community by founding the nonprofit Grace- doesn’t it sound like I have ful Giving. The current goal of Graceful Giving is to pro- a lot on my plate? I would Beverage: Wine vide Church of the Cross members with a $500 grant to love to, but between being a TV Show: Survivor help with adoption costs. Julie’s vision for the nonprofit mother to four kids, work- Restaurant: Applebee’s is to open up the grant process to the general public and ing full-time as a nurse at St. to provide up to $2,000 per family in adoption support. John’s, going to school at UT, In order to reach this long-term goal, Julie started her and making baby hats for my nonprofit, I just don’t have own fundraising project: she makes baby hats, sold at the time!”

Bloom Flower and Gifts in Maumee, and donates all of her proceeds to Graceful Giving. Eventually, she hopes For information on Graceful Giving visit www.cotcumc.com/graceful-giving-adoption-grant-fund.php. To purchase hats visit the nonprofit “could even go global.”

In Bloom Flowers and Gifts, 203 Conant St., in Maumee or Julie’s husband would love to adopt another child www.newinbloom/InBloom/welcome.htm. from Africa, but Julie laughs and asks, “Honestly though,

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Zinfully Delicious!

Awaken your senses at Zinful

Zinful

By: Karen L. Zickes

THE SHORT COURSE

7541 Dutch Rd. Waterville, OH Kid-friendly: Yes 419-878-9463 To avoid wait: Anytime, and Tue-Thur: 4p.m.-10p.m. (kitchen reservations are accepted closes) Noise level: Moderate Fri-Sat: 4p.m.-11p.m. (kitchen closes) Bathroom amenities: No changing Sun: 12p.m.-9p.m. station www.zinfulwine.com High chairs? Yes In the words of famous Chef Emeril Lagasse, I Escape the ordinary Got milk? Yes wanted to “kick it up a notch” on a recent evening I called ahead and made reservaKids’ menu? Yes out with the family. The foodie in me was anxious tions. With a party of five, it can be to escape the ordinary. I have always enjoyed Zinful helpful if restaurants know ahead of and after learning it had been closed briefly for remodeling, I time to combine tables, etc. I must say, it was the first time I had was eager to stop back in and see what is new. ever been taken to my reserved table to find a painted bottle of wine with my name on it. My kids were laughing at me, but “Something for every palate” I sincerely loved the personal touch. Wow, they really WERE After our enjoyable visit to Zinful, I spoke with the owner, waiting for us to arrive! I always say, it’s the little things that Joyce Franzblau. She opened Zinful in April 2011 and recently make a big difference. had a brief shutdown, using the time to remodel the entrance, When guests enter Zinful, there are shelves upon shelves improve lighting, change artwork, repaint, etc. The menu seof wine bottles. Feel free to browse the selection and take one lections were also reconfigured. “The menu was redesigned to to your table to have with your dinner. Or if you prefer, they also better complement the beer and wine,” said Ms. Franzblau, rehave over 70 you can order by the glass. ally wanting to focus on what the guests are looking for. As the I was ecstatic to see they had cuseasons change, so will the menu. “We cumber gazpacho on the menu. Oh do every single thing from scratch exhow I had been craving that! I enjoyed cept the Koenig pretzel,” said Franzbthe hummus encrusted chicken for lau. Taking the ‘from scratch kitchen’ $18. It was served atop lemon rice and a step further, their pastry chef makes haricot verts with a smoked paprika all their rolls, buns, flatbread dough, drizzle. My daughter and husband etc. opted for the angel hair pasta served Zinful boasts over 200 wines, 18 with shrimp and a light yogurt alfredo craft beers on tap, and many more in for $16. There were many interestbottles. They also feature a large walk ing appetizer options such as sesame in humidor and live jazz on select evescotch cumin egg, peach tilapia cevinings. (We enjoyed the talented Canche, and smoked salmon and avocado dice Coleman, a past American Idol mousse served on toast points just to contestant.) Franzblau said their conname a few. cept is “something for every palate” My boys enjoyed a grilled cheese and the goal is to offer every guest a sandwich, and a flatbread pizza. I fabulous sensory experience. sampled the flatbread, and wow was If you’re looking for chicken the dough delicious. No doubt it is wings, a bison burger, or a unique flat Go ahead and “zin” with hummus encrusted chicken made fresh daily. We saved room to bread to accompany your choice craft share a dessert. The special was Panna Cotta which is basically beer, you’re all set. And, if you are all about choosing a perfect an Italian pudding and they served it with homemade biscotti. bottle of wine to pair with something a little more, shall we say, My oldest son left little for the rest of us. It was a sweet ending to sophisticated, well, they have you covered there an enjoyable evening. as well.

Bottom Line: Don’t be afraid to “kick Many people don’t realize that though ZinBaby Food Cooking Class it up a notch” with children in tow at Zinful has much to offer for a wonderful adult eveLearn simple ticks and easy ful. Patrons can opt to enjoy the formal ning out, they are very kid friendly and your recipes to provide your baby dining room, or head back to the more cachildren are more than welcome. As a matter of with a nutritious start to first sual sports bar portion of the restaurant. foods!

You’ll leave with an age fact, they have a kids’ menu with four winning You will love the seasonal menu as well appropriate guide for introducchoices such as pizza, chicken chunks, grilled ing new foods to your baby, as the incredible wine and beer selection. cheese, and mac n cheese. All kid’s meals come as well as some of the favorite Bon appetit! with fries or salad and a drink for only $5. I must recipes! 11am-2pm. Free. mention, if you have a child with an allergy, they Lullaby Lane Baby Boutique, Karen Zickes is a mom of three active children The Shops at Fallen Timbers, are one of the few places I have found that fries and freelance writer who resides in Holland, 3100 Main St. Suite 735, their potatoes in peanut oil. They are delicious, OH. She can be reached in c/o Maumee.

419-878-0127. but if you have an allergy, beware. www.lullabylane.com editor@toledoparent.com.

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September 2013

Born on the Bayou

Good parents know that exposing children to the arts at a young age allows them to explore their creative side and learn to express themselves in a fulfilling way. For families searching for an arts festival that is both entertaining and kid friendly, look no further than the Black Swamps Arts Festival. From Friday, September 5 through Sunday, September 8, the streets of downtown Bowling Green will be taken over by street artists, vendors, musicians, and more! Youth activities begin at 11am on Saturday with 'Youth Arts', which are a variety of kid friendly games and activities supervised by Black Swamp Youth Art Volunteers that last till 5pm. After the 'Youth Arts' activities, head on over to the Family Entertainment Stage on North Main Street for a night of music and entertainment for family members of all ages. Free. 11am. Downtown Bowling Green. 419-354-2723. www.blackswamparts.org GMK

2 MONDAY Celebrate Labor Day at Imagination Station - Come spend the day exploring our newest exhibits! 10am5pm. General admission. Imagination Station, 1 Discovery Way, Toledo. 419244-2674. www.imaginationstationtoledo.org Improving Birth Toledo Rally - This Labor Day, our community will stand simultaneously with thousands of people in over 150 cities around the country, in peaceful, family-oriented gatherings, for the 2013 second annual Rally to Improve Birth. Our purpose is to call attention to the dire state of our maternal health care system and to call for evidence-based, humane birth practices. 10am-noon. Ottawa Park (near the Amphitheater), 4210 W. Central Ave.

3 TUESDAY

Side Cut Explorer - Travel along the banks of the Maumee River and down the canal towpath as a naturalist highlights the scenery. Every Tuesday through October. Side Cut Metropark, 1025 W. River Rd., Maumee. 419-407-9700. www.metroparkstoledo.com Homeschool Appreciation Days Connect your children to local history during a visit to the Historic Village, Pioneer Settlement and much more! Pre-registration includes discounted admission to the Historic Village, and special coupons to use throughout the complex. Through September 13. Sauder Village, 22611 State Route 2, Archbold. 10am-3:30pm.

800-590-9755. www.saudervillage.org

4 WEDNESDAY Toddler Trails - This outdoor, multi-sensory nature play and exploration program runs the first Wednesday of each month.

Adult supervision required. Register toddlers ages 18 months to 3 years. 10am.

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6 FRIDAY Tea at Stranleigh: Women of Character Tea - The women who shaped American history will be on hand at this unique tea program. Local volunteers in historic garb interact with visitors and share their stories. Sponsored and presented by the Manor House Volunteers.

12pm. Wildwood Preserve Metropark, 5100 W. Central Ave., Toledo. 419-4079700. www.metroparkstoledo.com

7 SATURDAY STEM in the Park - STEM in the Park features dozens of interactive science, technology, engineering and math (STEM) activities facilitated by higher education institutions, k-12 educational agencies, community non-profit organizations and local businesses. The event was created to inspire a new generation to increase their education in the sciences. 10am2pm. Free. BGSU Perry Field House, 801 N. Mercer Road, Bowling Green State University, Bowling Green. 419-3722745. www.nwocenter.org/STEMinPark Homesteading Open House: Candle Dipping - See how much home life changed in the last 145 years. After dipping a few candles, no one will ever take bed-side lamps for granted again.

11am. Pearson Park, 761 Lallendorf Rd., Oregon. 419-407-9700. www.metroparkstoledo.com

8 SUNDAY Flags Flying High! - Check out the flags on the Tall Ships as seen in the exhibition Perry’s Victory, and create your own flag complete with your family crest. For ages 10 and younger with an adult. Free.

Sunday, 12-5pm; Tuesday & Thursday, 10am-3pm; Friday, 3:30-8pm. Through September 13. Toledo Museum of Art, 2445 Monroe St., Toledo. 419-2558000. www.toledomuseum.org

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9 MONDAY Children’s Choir Auditions - The Children’s Choir of NW Ohio is now scheduling ensemble-style auditions for grades 3-10. There is no need to prepare a piece; students will be grouped with peers and will perform various exercises with an experienced choral music educator/director. Appointments recommended.

5pm-7pm. Auditions are held at no charge; annual tuition rates are $350$420. Community of Christ Lutheran Church, 6517 Finzel Rd., Whitehouse.

419-377-7710. www.ccofnwo.org

10 TUESDAY Celebrate Our Artisans - Come celebrate the craftspeople and artisans that make Sauder Village such a great place!

There will be special demonstrations in the shops and daily drawings to win handcrafted items! Through September 15.

Tuesday-Friday, 10am-3:30pm; Saturday, 10am-5pm; Sunday, 12-4pm. $15 adult/ $8 student/ 5 & under free. Sauder Village, 22611 State Route 2, Archbold.

800-590-9755. www.saudervillage.org

12 THURSDAY Autumn Adventure Sand Dunes Track Trek- At the region’s biggest sandbox, we will scour the landscape in search of footprints left by animals. 2pm.

Oak Openings Preserve Metropark, 4139 Girdham Rd. Swanton. 419-407-9700. www.metroparkstoledo.com Film Viewing: Miss RepresentationThis documentary style film features interviews from some of America’s most prominent women leaders as they provide an inside look at the media and its messages about women. A discussion led by the UT Department of Women’s and Gender Studies will follow the film. 5:30pm7:30pm. Free. Nitschke Auditorium, Engineering Complex, The University of Toledo, 1610 N. Westwood. 419-5308000. www.womenscenter.utoledo.edu

13 FRIDAY Preschool Pioneers: Churn, Butter, Churn - Bring your 3 to 5 year old to the little cabin in the big swamp to learn how milk is produced and turned into butter.

Students churn butter to taste. Please register child only. 10am. Pearson Park, 761 Lallendorf Rd, Oregon. 419-407-9700. www.metroparkstoledo.com

15 SUNDAY Aye Aye Captain - Create a captain’s hat and attire similar to that seen in the Perry’s Victory exhibition. For ages 10 and younger with an adult. Sunday, 12-5pm; Tuesday & Thursday, 10am-3pm; Friday, 3:30-8pm. Free. Through September 20. Toledo Museum of Art, 2445 Monroe St., Toledo.

419-255-8000. www.toledomuseum.org

17 TUESDAY Wee Workshop: Fall Fun - Explore the woodland trails and observe what happens in the park as autumn begins.

Later, enjoy hands-on activities to celebrate the wonders of Fall. Includes a craft, story time and a nature walk. Register child only. Parent supervision required.

10am. Wildwood Preserve Metropark, 5100 W. Central Ave., Toledo. 419-4079700. www.metroparkstoledo.com

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19 THURSDAY Autumn Adventure Full Moon Walk - Uncover the mysteries of nature at night during September’s harvest moon.

8pm. Wildwood Preserve Metropark, 5100 W. Central Ave., Toledo.

419-407-9700. www.metroparkstoledo.com Happiest Baby on the Block - This class will discuss and demonstrate the Happiest Baby technique using the 5 S’s developed by Dr. Harvey Karp.

Information will also be provided on what to expect the first few weeks at home with your new baby. Registration required.

6:30pm-8pm. $10 per person/ $15 per couple. Lullaby Lane Baby Boutique, The Shops at Fallen Timbers, 3100 Main St. Suite 735, Maumee. 419-878-0127. www.lullabylane.com

20 FRIDAY Baby Tour - Watch your child respond to large colorful paintings and learn ways to facilitate early visual literacy skills in this 30-minute tour. Parents and caregivers with infants up to 18 months are welcome. No strollers please. 3:30pm. Free.

Toledo Museum of Art Family Center, 2445 Monroe St., Toledo.

419-255-8000. www.toledomuseum.org

22 SUNDAY Ebb and Flow! - Create a watercolor inspired by travel on the high seas using design elements such as rhythm and movement. For ages 10 and younger with an adult. Sunday, 12-4:30pm; Tuesday & Thursday, 10am-3pm; Friday, 3:30-8pm.

Free. Through September 27. Toledo Museum of Art, 2445 Monroe St., Toledo.

419-255-8000. www.toledomuseum.org

24 TUESDAY Hooray for Homeschoolers: Autumn Activities - Summer has ended and fall has put nature in full motion.

Homeschoolers discover the wonders of the season and create their own project using autumn materials. There will be a separate program for children under age 7 for $1. 10am. Secor Metropark, 10001 W. Central Ave., Berkey. 419-407-9700. www.metroparkstoledo.com

25 WEDNESDAY Apple Butter Making Week Produced in the fall to preserve part of the apple crop, apple butter was historically a community project, bringing families and neighbors together. There will be applethemed activities as well as homemade apple dumplings, pies and other treats to enjoy! Through September 28. 10am-5pm. $15 adult/ $8 student/ 5 & under free. Sauder Village, 22611 State Route 2, Archbold. 800-590-9755. www.saudervillage.org

26 THURSDAY Little Scientists: Creepy Crawly Bugs - Let your little ones discover nature as they venture outside for an insect hunt, create their own butterfly and more.

For ages 3 to 5. Registration required.

Through September 28. 11:30am12:30pm. Members: $5 per class, $40 per series / Nonmembers: $7 per class, $55 per series. Imagination Station, 1 Discovery Way. 419-244-2674. www.imaginationstationtoledo.org

27 FRIDAY Visiting Artist in the Family Center: Robert Vanivelt - Meet local artist Robert Vanivelt and see how he creates

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colorful works of art inspired by nature and underwater sea creatures. Ages10 and younger with an adult. 6pmmidnight. Toledo Museum of Art, 2445 Monroe St., Toledo. 419-255-8000. www.toledomuseum.org

28 SATURDAY Oak Grove School Open House - Ever peek through the windows of Wildwood’s Oak Grove School to see what an old-fashioned school looked like? Visitors can sit in a desk, complete arithmetic problems on a slate or browse through a McGuffey Reader in the beautifully restored 1890s schoolhouse. 10am. Wildwood Preserve Metropark, 5100 W. Central Ave., Toledo. 419-407-9700. www.metroparkstoledo.com

29 SUNDAY Japanese Sumi-e Painting Experiment with black ink and brushes to create your own ink-wash painting on rice paper. For children 10 years of age and younger accompanied by an adult.

12pm-5pm. Free. Toledo Museum of Art, 2445 Monroe St., Toledo.

419-255-8000. www.toledomuseum.org

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