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Stuttering

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There truly is no place like home —by Matthew L. Reger

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How to inspire a child’s alone time —by Christa Melnyk Hines

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Correction In the April Ann Arbor Family the store hours and clothing sizes available at the Kids Fashion Jungle, located on 7073 Dexter-Ann Arbor Rd., were incorrectly listed. Their hours are Monday thru Friday, 9:30am-7pm and Saturday 9am-5pm. The Kids Fashion Jungle offers clothing sizes from newborn to size 14.

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KIDS HOROSCOPE

LEO July 23 – Aug 22 By Sue Lovett At birth they quickly get into position to look into the delivery room mirror making sure they are handsome or pretty. After all, they are the kings and queens of the zodiac. They are very much aware of their appearance and even as toddlers they want to pick out their own clothes. Often they want to wear hats (or crowns) to accent their royal appearances. They are dramatic and enjoy singing and dancing – both the boys AND the girls! They like entertainment – often participating in musicals and plays in the neighborhood, nursery school, and Sunday School. They enjoy being teacher’s pet and follow orders cheerfully. They are FUN!

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CULTURAL BEAUTY “Adorned in Gold and Silk to celebrate her first wedding – Bel Bibaha – Pelzom age 6, poses outside of her family home in Nepal. The Hindu ceremony is one of three that girls of Newar culture experience”.

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Ypsilanti Heritage Festival Celebrate the rich heritage of Ypsilanti at this annual bash, which takes over Riverside Park and spills into downtown and Depot Town. Besides the fully-loaded Kid’s Corner with entertainment and activities for youngsters, there are enough displays and activities to occupy family members of any age. Be sure to check out the art and crafts offered through the festival’s partnership with DIYpsi (pronounced “dipsy”) Indie Art Fair, including Barrel of Monkeys and Sparklepants. On the music slate, Ryan Racine and Gas for Less mashes up punk, bluegrass, pop, and rockabilly, while Motor City Beat brings solid Detroit grooves to rock the banks of the Huron River. Don’t miss the big parade (check website for time and route), and for quieter thrills, you can tour homes, gardens, and the Ypsilanti Historical Museum. Corn dogs, elephant ears, and lemonade will be available in large quantities, as well as sit-down dinners in the Community Food Tent at Huron and Cross St. Friday-Sunday, August 16-18 Free Check website and Facebook page for times and locations. (734) 483-6071,www. ypsilantiheritagefestival. com/www.facebook.com/ ypsiheritagefestival/info.

Michigan Firehouse Museum Fire Truck Muster Many kids get a huge thrill in the presence of a single fire truck. But at this event, they’ll see more than 20––and not just the current models, but also the historic machines and antiquated fire-fighting equipment to match. The free gathering is offered by the Michigan Firehouse Museum. “Our mission is to help people appreciate firefighting history and promote fire safety,” says Steve Wilson, museum manager. “We make it as hands-on as we can.” Attendees can experience old-school fire fighting down at the river in nearby Riverside Park as they relay water from the river to the rigs. Some trucks will be available for climbing and exploring, while other antique models, some older than a hundred years, are just for looking. Regardless of age, there’s no shortage of activities. Saturday, August 24. 10am-3pm Free; donations accepted. Riverside Park, 6 W Cross St, Ypsilanti. 734-547-0663. www.michiganfirehousemuseum.org

Saline Summerfest: Start your quackers The Rubber Duck Race at Saline Summerfest is just one of the unusual competitions you can enter. Other games include watermelon eating, a fishing competition just for kids, bean bag and egg tossing–though not at the same time–and good old-fashioned volleyball. Between these adventures, you’ll be able to refuel on pizza, burgers, ice cream and other treats from area vendors. After your snack, stroll over to check out the entries in the juried art and craft show to the tunes of local favorites like the Saline Fiddlers and the Barbara Payton Band. And if you need a break to sit, jump on the Trolley Tour and learn some area history. Throw in some Mini-Z racing, a 5K run, a bike tour, a teen block party and you’ll run out of time before you run out of things to do. Friday, August 9, 5-11pm, Saturday, August 10, 8am-11pm. Downtown Saline, 734-604-0051. www.salinesummerfest.org

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Thunder Over Michigan Look! It’s definitely not a bird. It’s a plane. Actually, it’s several of some of the most awesome planes you’re likely to see. Thunder Over Michigan, a family-focused air extravaganza, is one of Michigan’s premier aviation events, and it’s right down the street at the Willow Run Airport in Ypsilanti. “This year, the line-up’s incredibly exciting,” says Herb Gillen, airshow spokesperson. “There are very rare warbirds and classic military aircraft, including some that served in the Vietnam era.” Special guests include superstar pilots Sean D. Tucker and Michael Goulian. “They’ll be doing all sorts of loops, spins and stalls,” says Gillen, “and Sean does a stunt called the Triple Ribbon Cut, where the plane cuts ribbons tied to poles. It’s spectacular.” A Kid Zone with aviation-themed inflatables, including an aircraft carrier, will provide plenty of on-the-ground entertainment. Classic fair food will also be available, in addition to sit-down catered meals available with premium seating tickets. Put in your earplugs and prepare to get blown away by large-scale battle reenactments with tanks, artillery and aircraft; WWII and Vietnam battles are scheduled. Saturday and Sunday, August 1011 Children 15 and under free; 16 and up, $30 advance purchase (see website), $35 on site. Parking additional. For schedule and premium packages, see website. 801 Willow Run Airport, Ypsilanti, 734-485-6666. www.yankeeairmuseum.org/airshow/performers

Hello! Ice Cream & Gelato: Frozen Treats with a Twist Zoey and Joey Children’s Hair Studio + Boutique

Family is the name of the game at Zoey and Joey Children’s Hair Studio + Boutique, where kids, teenagers and parents can all get a stylish haircut under the same roof. Owner Ilze Meija Ham, formerly a stay at home mom, came up with the idea for the business after realizing there weren’t any salons in town that catered to kids as well as adults. She used this idea to create a hair studio that cuts everything from 1st Owner Ilze Ham wants to cater to baby haircuts (any age they can sit in the people of all ages at Zoey and Joey ‘mini-cooper’ kids chair) to adult cuts. “We really try and take care of the whole family,” Ham says of her business. “We offer areas for parents to take a break and enjoy some coffee and tea while their kids get their hair styled.” Zoey and Joey opened in December of 2012, but they have already expanded their salon to include an area for teenagers to hang out while they get a hair cut. The new lounge has comfortable furniture and a PS3 for teenagers to play while they wait, the end result being a cool and relaxing area for teens to socialize after school. And for all the swimmers out there, Zoey and Joey is the only carrier in Ann Arbor of Original Sprout conditioner and Malibu Sea shampoo --vegan, phosphatefree products designed specifically to treat a swimmer’s hair. Ham’s salon is perfect for adults who want to get their hair cut with their kids. “We have had parents come in at the same as their kids, even grandparents bring their grandkids,” says Ham. “We want everyone to feel at home at Zoey and Joey.” Zoey + Joey Childnen’s Hair Studio + Boutique, 3260 Washtenaw Ave., Ann Arbor. Hours: Monday, Wednesday through Saturday 9:30am-6pm, Sunday 12pm-5pm. 734-975-9400. www.zoeyjoeystudio.com—GMK

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If during summer you often catch yourself longing for the days of carefree tagplaying, sprinkler-jumping and ice-cream-truck-chasing, this truck is for you. Hello! Ice Cream & Gelato is the result of Ann Arbor entrepreneur Margaret Schankler’s hard work and desire to add a retro-inspired twist to the traditional ice cream truck. “I love vintage things, and I got enamored with idea of having a vintage ice cream truck,” she says. After locating a 1965 International Metro Van, Schankler had it restored by Full Auto Custom Shop in Ann Arbor, beginning the nostalgia-soaked venture. Ingrid, Schankler’s name for the truck, is a vintage cream and green beauty. But, the Italian-style frozen desserts Ingrid serves are show-stoppers as well. Gelato, ice cream and other delights are prepared by Schankler in a commercial kitchen in Ann Arbor, where se also sources local milk, cream and fruit. “We make a Rum Fig Sauce for Vanilla, and we have classics like pistachio, Gianduia (chocolate and hazelnut), Tiramisu and Zabaglione,” she says. Favorites include Salted Caramel, Vanilla Custard, Strawberry and 3-inch mini ice cream cones. “Ice cream, to me, is about happiness,” Schankler says. “When you’re working at a job where you give someone something that makes them smile, that’s what it’s all about. That’s why I’m doing this at this stage of my life.” Hello! Ice Cream & Gelato caters weddings, parties, and special events. Catering details feature customizable menus, themed decorations for the truck, and fun costumes for the staff. Truck too big? Ask for the retro-inspired ice cream cart instead. Custom orders are available for pickup or delivery. Visit them at the Ann Arbor Farmers Market, Kerrytown NashBash, www.helloicecream.com, or 734-945-0901. ––KG Schankler uses her retro-inspired van to deliver fresh, delicious gelato.

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Help for children who stutter

Non-profit organization offers new DVD for parents By Nan Bauer

“Many children start to stutter as early as age two,” says Jane Fraser, president of the Stuttering Foundation. “If they do, there are many things you can do to help. It’s really important for parents to know that they don’t cause stuttering.”

As kids learn to speak, all sorts of experiments with language take place–repeating syllables at the beginnings and ends of words, stopping and starting phrases in unusual places. But are these symptoms of stuttering? Should parents be concerned? Less involved than visiting a speech therapist, this DVD available at area libraries (listed below), may yield some help. Created by the Stuttering Foundation, a non-profit organization dedicated to helping children who stutter and their families, “Stuttering and Your Child: Help for Parents” directs parents to understand what to look and listen for in pre-schoolage children who might stutter.

Speech language pathologist, Kristin Chmela, assists a child The Stuttering FounWinston Churchill, Joe Biden, and the dation website (stutteringhelp.org) and voice of Mustafa himself, James Earl Facebook page also offers a wealth of Jones. How is it that actors and singers support, including a “Just for Kids” can say and sing their lines perfectly? section that speaks to children in “When reading lines for a movie or play, easy-to-understand language about you know the words by heart,” says everything from what makes people Fraser. “For some people, word retrieval stutter to dealing with teasing. There are also tips on how to talk with a child or finding the words may play a role in stuttering.” who stutters.

Look for the “Stuttering and Your Child” DVD at the following area libraries:

• Plymouth District Library; Ann Arbor, MI • Ann Arbor Public Library; Ann Arbor, MI • Chelsea District Library; Chelsea, MI • Dexter District Library; Dexter, MI • Milan Public Library; Milan, MI • Saline District Library; Saline, MI • Ypsilanti District Library; Ypsilanti, MI

“Don’t bombard them with questions,” says Fraser, “say ‘I wonder’ instead, and the communication door opens.” And there are plenty of famous people with a stutter to inspire: Emily Blunt,

“We’re teaching good communication skills, to parents and children,” says Fraser. “That builds confidence, and that’s wonderful for every child– –whether they stutter or not.”

GOLF IN THE ANN ARBOR PARKS: HURON HILLS & LESLIE PARK

Summer

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Nite Lite Golf events - Try this fun event if you enjoy “night putting!” Huron Hills on Friday, Aug. 30; Friday, Sept. 13 and Friday, Sept. 27. Nite Lite Golf is a fun, unique option for group outings. Contact Huron Hills for more information 734.794.6246 or www.a2golf.org. Join us for our birthday party on Saturday, Aug. 3 at the Ann Arbor Farmers Market (315 Detroit St.) It’s a fun-filled day of games and activities to celebrate the market’s 94th birthday!

Huron Hills Junior Golf Camp, Aug. 5 to 15 & Aug. 19 to 29 - 3465 E. Huron River Road, 734.794.6246, www.a2golf. org. We provide an opportunity for young golfers (ages 8 to 15) of all abilities the chance to learn the game of golf. Each golfer will receive a junior program tee shirt, a Miles of Golf range card, a FREE round of golf at Huron Hills Golf Course and a merchandise coupon for 20 percent off in our pro shop. Fee: $115/camp, $15 off each additional camp. Aug. 5-15 Monday through Thursday from 9 to 11 a.m. and again from 11:30 a.m. to 1:30 p.m. August Summer Splash Days - Summer Splash Days at Ann Arbor’s outdoor pools. Join us from 2 to 4 p.m. for special activities at our pools during Summer Splash Days. We offer water balloon games, water baseball, raft races and a hula hoop relay. For youths ages six to 12. Regular pool-admission rates apply. We hope to see you at Buhr (Aug. 10), Fuller (Aug. 17) and Vets (Aug. 24). Do you want to volunteer to help at this event? Contact

the city’s Give 365 program volunteer@a2gov.org / 734.794.6230, ext. 42510 / www.a2gov.org/volunteer. Upcoming Golf Events - Call today to register for the Miles of Golf Senior Amateur Championship at Leslie Park (2120 Traver Road), Aug. 17 to 18 or Leslie Park’s Longest/ Hardest Course Event (2-person scramble) on Saturday, Sept. 28. www.a2golf.org or call 734.794.6245.

Friday, Aug. 23, 8–11 p.m. Full Moon Paddle on Gallup Pond - Gallup Canoe Livery, 3000 Fuller Road. Watch for deer, muskrats, herons and other wildlife as you paddle in this 2.5-mile pond section of the Huron River. Bring family, friends and a flashlight. No preregistration. Fee: $18/boat rental. 734.794.6240 / www.a2gov.org/canoe. Monday, Aug. 26. 6–7:30 p.m. Stand-up Paddling (SUP) 101 - Argo Canoe Livery, 1055 Longshore Drive. We will provide the boards, paddles, leashes and lifejackets; Urban Wave will provide the instruction. Ages 13 to adult. Fee: $30/person. Pre registration required: www. a2gov.org/parks; details: 734.794.6240 / www.a2gov. org/canoe. Don’t miss Back to School Night at the Wednesday Evening Farmers Market. Wednesday, Aug. 28 from 4 to 8 p.m. College students: kick off the new school year right with live music, fresh produce, food carts, baked goods and more! 315 Detroit Street in Kerrytown.

Register for the 2013 Dog Swim. Buhr Park Outdoor Pool (2751 Packard Rd.) Sept. 4 and Sept. 5, 3 to 8 p.m. One dog, $6 resident/$7.50 non-resident; two dogs, $3 resident/$3.75 non-resident. Call for a swim time 734.794.6234.

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THE LINES TWEEN advice for parents with children 10-16 Saline Girl Scouts participate in the Mackinac Island Honor Guard

A memorable experience of dedicated service By Kristen Gibson

Some local Girl Scouts have snagged the prestigious summer gig working as the Mackinac Island Honor Guard for Governor Snyder. Members Allison Collins, Katie Fedoronko, Lexi Morris, Jillian Santos, Sarah Stockton, Evalyn Stow, Elizabeth Weeden and Katherine Weeden were chosen from troops throughout Michigan to serve on the island.

Trained and ready to volunteer

“If you make it in, training is from January through June. We’re already trained for our ten days of service on Mackinac Island, at the end of August, For most of the other groups that go, it’s seven days, but we’re the last group, so we get Labor Day Weekend,” says 16-year-old Evalyn Stow. The girls raise money to go, volunteer their time and also work as tour guides at Historic Fort Mackinac. “Every day, we raise and lower 26 flags around the island simultaneously. We also do service projects,” 17-year-old Allison Collins says. “In our free time, we can visit the fort, bike, or just hang out at the barracks and play yard games like stilts and capture the flag.”

Eager to return

Applicants have to be accepted by the State Park Service. If they perform well, they may be invited back,

Saline Troop Leader Kathy Van Buren notes. Most are eager to return. “I have been a Girl Scout for 12 years. One of the main reasons I stayed was because of the sisterhood I found in the Mackinac Scout program. There are several girls that have been in it for four or five years Chosen Girl Scouts train for months to prepare for their work on Mackinak Island with me and we have grown up together,” Collins says. Many girls find that they had since my first yearin the program, and they’re make good, life-long friends through the program. probably some of thepeople I know best,” Stow says. The scouts sometimes also have the opportunity to “I’ve also met the past two governors. They come to meet the governor they’re volunteering for, a chance visit us sometimes, and that’s pretty fun.” not every Girl Scout has. “There are some friends I’ve

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Motivate kids to excel

Kindergarten teacher at St. Francis of Assisi Catholic School and mother of four, Julie Bohl, shares her tips for igniting a child’s passion and interest to do their best in school.

Give constant encouragement..

At a young age, stop and listen when they show you a “picture” they have drawn, or read a story they memorized. As your child grows, continue with this praise, which will ignite their internal love to learn.

If a child struggles, don' t give up..

Find a subject that appeals to them, and try to bridge those interests into other areas.

Be an example.

Talk positively about school, teachers and learning.

Help with homework. .

Praise the effort your child puts into the work, more than the work itself.

School is difficult academically and emotionally. .

Encourage your child and build confidence with every word spoken.

Read every day to your child.

They never get too old to listen to a good story, magazine, comic book, or article. A parent is the best example for their child.

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Shop—and breathe—easier

Tips on a making kids clothes shopping fashionable not frantic During back to school shopping season, it can be easy to feel overwhelmed. From commercials to coupons to mailers, there’s an overload of information about where the deals are for all the stuff your kids need this school year. Even if you are a shopaholic, navigating the mall with your children in tow can be tiring. “We’re bombarded with too much information to truly process when we’re out shopping, with so many ads, brands and ongoing sales competing for our attention,” says Mort Aaronson, CEO of PlaceWise Media, which provides integrated marketing services to more than 300 shopping malls in 75 markets across North America. “Shopping is easier and more fun when we can eliminate the clutter to hone-in on just what we want, right where we are.” Take steps to simplify the experience and avoid those headaches that occur when you realize you’ve forgotten those things your kids need most.

Make a List

what you want with an online and mobile “shopping companion” that can deliver personalized, timely and relevant product information and deals based on your interests and location. When selecting a shopping companion, look for one that safely uses a combination of your location and stated preferences to determine the most relevant deals, stores and products nearby. From keeping up with trends to getting directions to stores, a free online and mobile app, such as Shoptopia can ease the shopping experience from the planning stages to the trip to the mall. Above all, when selecting a shopping companion, don’t just settle for one from a single store or brand -- find one that captures your entire shopping universe in a single app. More information can be found at www.shoptopia.com/news.

Compromise

Remember, you’re not the one who is going to be wearing all those new clothes. And let’s be honest, kids can be picky. So even if that pink flowered skirt seems like a great deal, if your daughter refuses to wear it, you have thrown your time and money down the drain.

Figure out exactly what you need and want before leaving home. A checklist can help you map out a game plan, stick to a budget and stay organized.

Being a good listener and respecting your child’s preferences can help you avoid closet duds. By picking out things together, you can ensure everything is in line with your budget and your child’s taste.

Conduct a little fashion show with the kids at home before heading to the stores, to see what still fits and is in good condition, and what’s too small and worn out for the new school year.

Don’t shop ‘til you drop. By preparing ahead and using new tools, you can make shopping more pleasant and more effective -- from identifying the hot new trends, to finding the stores that carry them and getting the best deals.

Utilize Technology

Most of us don’t have the means to hire a personal shopper, but new technology can replicate the benefits of this luxury. Zero in on just

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De-stress before the big day Here are strategies for easing your child back into school.

Preparation is key

“The more parents can help their kids know what to expect, the better,” says Julie Kaplow, Director, Trauma and Grief Center for Youth, University of Michigan Medical School. Do a “dry run” of the school or classroom over summer break to alleviate fear of the unknown.

You can build excitement by letting them pick their own school supplies, or mark off the calendar until school starts. Pack lunch and set out clothes the night before to ensure everyone is ready for the big day.

Early to bed...

Another way to prepare kids for a new routine is to gradually shift bedtime, so they’re used to it a couple weeks before school starts. Parents might say “We have been having so much fun over the summer, but it’s important to start to get to sleep a bit earlier so we can be fresh and alert when school starts,” Kaplow says.

Do right by your kids the morning of

It’s important for you to keep calm to ease first day jitters, even if socks go missing. I like to cook a hearty breakfast to make my kids feel special, I create pancake letters to spell each one’s name, hearts and dinos work too. An alarm lets us know when it’s time to go; then at drop-off I give hugs and say, “I love you, have fun learning!”

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“Pack colorful, fresh lunches that are visually appealing. You can serve veggies raw, or mixed into soups, salads, on sandwiches, etc.” Want to pack good-for-you treats? Try fruits like raspberries, blueberries or cherries.

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TRY THESE FUN, HEALTHY OPTIONS Like any mom, Lisa Drayer, M.A., R.D., knows how hard it can be to get kids interested in healthy eating, but as a nutritionist she understands the importance of wholesome foods for a child’s growth and development. Through the years, Lisa has developed creative ideas for snacks that are both nutritious and “kid-approved.” Children enjoy making and eating the snacks listed here, and most travel well in the lunchbox, too! Fruit kabobs: Cut cantaloupe, honeydew and pineapple into chunks. Wash and halve some strawberries, and wash a bunch of blueberries. Thread the fruit onto small wooden skewers, alternating colors, and then remove the skewers’ sharp ends before serving. Peanut butter “face”: This playful dish provides your child with protein and fiber. Spread allnatural peanut butter on one slice of whole wheat bread, then top with two banana slices for the eyes, two orange segments for eyebrows, a strawberry half for the nose, and a string of raisins to make a mouth. Turkey roll-ups: You and your child will have fun preparing this low fat but protein-rich snack! Spread low-fat honey mustard dressing on a whole-wheat tortilla. Place a slice of roasted turkey (avoid highly-processed deli meat that contains nitrates and fillers) and a slice of Swiss cheese on top. Roll it up and slice into bite-size pieces. Creamy orange smoothie: This orange refreshment is full of protein, calcium and vitamin C – perfect for after soccer or gymnastics. For four 8 ounce servings, combine 2½ cups low-fat plain yogurt, 1 teaspoon vanilla extract, 1½ cups fresh orange juice and 3 teaspoons NECTRESSE Natural No Calorie Sweetner. Blend until smooth. Serve well-chilled. Crunchy chocolate-dipped kiwis: This treat has antioxidants and vitamin C. Heat one ounce of dark chocolate in the microwave for 30-second intervals until soft; stir until smooth. Dip four peeled and sliced kiwis in melted chocolate. Place on wax paper and sprinkle with almonds, then chill until the chocolate solidifies.

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Petrified of peanuts & frantic over fur

Does your child have food or pet allergies? By Leah Foley

One of the many Mongolian adventures taken by this traveling dad

Traveling Dad:

A dad’s absence brings appreciation for home Matthew L. Reger

This summer has brought its share of memorable events in our family — horse lessons for my daughter, potty training for my son, another trip to Central Asia for me, and testing the patience and endurance of my wife. The Mongolia trip is an annual adventure that takes me to remote places as an election monitor. Through this ongoing project I have visited some far-flung parts of Central Asia, fulfilled an unending passion for travel and came home to a family enthusiastic about my return. After one of these trips, though, my wife admitted she did not know whether to “hug me or hit me.”

Taking the long way home...

The 2011 Kazakhstan presidential election looked like a great opportunity to visit somewhere I had never been. This was a ten-day trip and my wife insisted she would be fine alone with the kids. Even though I had some trepidation, my desire to travel caused me to overlook any harbingers of trouble. My days in Kazakhstan went fast and soon my obligation was complete. I was in the remote western edge of the country when we began our return. Before leaving, I contacted my wife after what had been an extended time of no contact. It was then that I found out how frustrated she was and how tough things had been. The news from home was “get home as soon as you can.” The first leg of my return was a flight to the capital. The plane took off, but two hours into the flight we were diverted to another city because of weather. I rolled with it, even though I realized I was going to miss my next flight to Frankfurt and thereafter, the connecting flight to get home. The plane landed, our group of moni20

tors disembarked and tried to figure out what was going to happen next. While several members of our group argued about the best move, I found a wifi connection and texted my wife. The response to “how are you” was “the car broke down, what should I do?” I decided to hold off telling her about my own situation. “What happened?” I texted. “I don’t know. It just stopped running. I am visiting mom and I don’t know what to do!” “Call my dad,” I texted back. “I did. He gave me options. Did not help!” That is not what she wanted. My dad is a mechanic and she wanted him to solve her problem.

Use in Emergencies Only

I decided to call her on the “use only in an emergency” phone. This seemed to qualify. Through the frantic call I hurriedly explained my predicament while she shared her’s. I never felt more helpless. The kids had been difficult; her mother had been critical of her child rearing; the dealership told her the only option for the car was to spend $3,000.00; my father had not helped and all I could do was tell her that I was stuck in Central Asia. Ultimately, she got my father to speak to the dealership and the car was fixed for less than $100; I returned a day later than scheduled and we all met at the airport. It was there that I saw in her eyes a desire to hit me; she had every right. But in spite of her frustration she hugged me. There certainly is no place like home, even for a father with an annual wanderlust that his wife patiently indulges. Email Reger c/o editor@annarborfamily.com

With allergies more prevalent, parents are seeking answers to their most basic questions. 15 million Americans suffer from food allergies- a large portion are children — 5% of those under the age of 5 have some type of allergy to food.

Red alert foods

Eight red alert foods cause 90 percent of all food allergies. These include: milk, eggs, peanuts, tree nuts, soy, wheat, Fish and shellfish. Cross contamination during preparation, even in the smallest amounts, can cause allergic and potentially dangerous reactions, sometimes as severe as anaphylaxis – constriction of the airway. More common symptoms include hives, diarrhea, abdominal cramping, mouth and throat discomfort, dizziness and difficulty breathing.

Take action

Consult medical experts if you suspect a food allergy or your child presents allergic symptoms. Always call 911 if a child is unresponsive or is having difficulty breathing. Following an incident, immediately consult your pediatrician to discuss treatment options. When dining out, alert wait staff to your child’s special food restrictions and be sure to inform your child’s caregivers and school of allergic conditions.

Take the test

Allergy tests are rarely performed on children unless a food allergy presents itself. Generally, skin tests are preferable, because they deliver faster and

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more specific results than blood tests. Can children outgrow food allergies? Some, but not all. Children may outgrow allergies to foods such as eggs, soy products and milk as they mature. However, it is important not to make assumptions and consult your physician.

Man’s best friend?

Eleven million Americans suffer from cat allergies alone. 15 percent of all Americans suffer from animal allergies. Parents with these conditions are most likely to have children with the same dilemma. However, that is not always the case. A child with two allergic parents could be completely allergy free! Also, it is important not to be complacent. Children may develop a pet allergy at any time. Symptoms may include watery, red and swollen eyes, sneezing and runny nose. Children also may develop hives, rashes and even asthma. It is recommended that you limit your pet to certain areas of your home, invest in a HEPA filter, remove carpets that trap dander and wash your child’s hands after they play with the pooch or feline. Consult your physician if your child’s symptoms persist or worsen. By being aware, parents can help make sure every child is safe from dangerous allergies. Leah Foley is a graphic designer for Ann Arbor Family as well as a concerned mom who desired to “spread the word” after witnessing a child’s severe allergic reaction at a local restaurant.

Create an imagination bucket for your child’s quiet time and change out the contents to keep it interesting.

With an older child, set a timer and encourage him to play alone for 10 minutes. Model time alone whether through reading, journaling or simply resting.

Encourage self-directed play Even if your child complains about how bored she is, avoid jumping in as the designated Calling for a Little Peace and Quiet entertainer. How time spent alone can foster creativity and independence among children. By Christa Melnyk Hines

Ever felt the need for a peaceful retreat if for no other reason than to collect your thoughts? Your kids might need to do the same. Some experts fear that in a world muddied with thousands of distractions, structured activities and constant entertainment options, our children do not spend enough time alone simply relaxing or engaging in quiet, unplugged play. “The demise of children learning to amuse themselves has negative consequences...when they become adults,” says Ann Dunnewold, a psychologist and author of Even June Cleaver Would Forget the Juice Box.” As a society, we’re lacking on this kind of time. “Children who are constantly entertained prove less likely to show initiative and more likely to have problems motivating themselves upon entering the work world. On the other hand, kids given regular time alone are more likely to exhibit time management and problem solving abilities. Time alone also fosters creativity, self-confidence and independence. Plus, solitude gives kids the opportunity to drive their own play without having to compromise or go along with what the group demands.

Follow your child’s cues

There is no doubt that extracurricular activities enhance a child’s physical and social development. However, when those activities dominate a child’s day, they do not get ample opportunity to unwind. A child’s reaction to overstimulation varies depending on their personality, but typical signs that your child might need some down time include crankiness, irritability and not getting along with others.

Teresa Bondora, an educator and mother of two children, believes in respecting our children’s changing needs for social and solitary time. She says you may be surprised at how much time alone they choose on their own. ”In my opinion, time alone or (time) spent recreationally is just as personal and timely as hunger.And dictating (their time) is disrespectful and teaches children to ignore their own body speaking to them. If we ask and respect this need, then we teach them to respect it for themselves and listen to it,” Bondora says.

Schedule daily quiet time

Carve out quiet time in the day if your child isn’t used to initiating it on their own. Daily quiet time allows kids to relax, listen to music, read or simply daydream. But, your child’s needs may vary. While all children need down time, not every child must be alone to recharge. “Some children who really like to be with others might like it best if they are lying on the couch reading a book while mom reads her book right next to them. Other children might really want to be off alone,” Dunnewold says. Babies as young as two-months-old can play on their own for a little while. “Have (your) baby play in five to ten minute increments on a blanket on the floor. Babies of this age can amuse themselves by looking at pictures in board books or at mirrors or lights,” Dunnewold says. Alternate between playing with your baby for five minutes and giving them five minutes to play on their own. Slowly increase the amount of time.

Building blocks are another exWith an older child, set a cellent choice that encourage timer and encourage him Babies as children to practice fine moto play alone for 10 minyoung as two tor skills while using their utes. When the time is months can play imaginations. up, play for 10 minutes with your child and then on their own for set the timer again for 10 a little while. Model time alone minutes of solitary play. If Constantly playing the role of your preschooler no entertainer or running from one longer naps, set aside an hour a activity to the next is exhausting and day for your child to play quietly, look at stressful. Set an example for your chilbooks and relax. dren about how to best manage stress by modeling quiet time on your own, Encourage self directed play whether through reading, journaling or Even if your child complains about simply resting.

how bored they are, avoid jumping in as the designated entertainer. Self-directed play leads to more imaginative play. If your child isn’t used to playing alone, suggest activities that they can do on their own. List activities on a chart or have them pick an idea out of a jar. Afterward, reward them with a sticker or extra time with you and use positive reinforcement: “Didn’t you have fun?! What a big girl!” Create an “imagination bucket” for your child’s quiet time and change out the contents from time to time to keep it interesting. Depending on the age of your child, include popsicle sticks, crayons, glue, beads, pipe cleaners or stickers. Let them go to town creating, coloring or designing.

Ester Buchholz, a psychologist and author of the book The Call of Solitude, says time alone is needed more than ever in our lives. “Being alone gives us the power to regulate and adjust our lives,” she writes. “It can teach us fortitude and the ability to satisfy our own needs. It brings forth our longing to explore, our curiosity about the unknown, our will to be an individual...Alone time is fuel for life.”

Schedule daily quiet time

From enhanced introspection and creativity to valuable life skills, a restful respite in the middle of a busy day will support your child’s physical, mental and emotional health today and into the future. And, as a hardworking parent, you’ll reap the benefits too!

Christa Melnyk Hines, the mother of two lively boys and finds moments of quiet time are instrumental to the well-being of her family.

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A victim of fashion

Mother Mayhem attempts to be stylish By Mary Helen Darah

Until I got hips, I wore my brother’s hand-me-downs. It was actually a blessing since back in the day there were hardly any others that would fit. I towered over the “you must be this tall to ride” sign at the amusement park and could experience the scariest of coasters in the second grade. I loved skirts, not out of a burning desire to be feminine, but because I didn’t have to deal with my “Jolly Green Giant” inseam. Things have improved since then. However, the last time I was in Ann Taylor, I commented to the saleswoman that I had never seen capri pants made of corduroy. She curtly responded, “Those are NOT capris.” Eddie Bauer recently shortened their “tall” pants an inch so I guess I am destined to look like I am anticipating high water at any given moment. At least I have progressed from wearing holiday sweaters and homemade sweatshirts my girls decorated for more “toned down” options, but I refuse to give up my “critter attire” including my moose boxers and the ones with the big fish on the behind that proclaims “NICE BASS.” I have somehow managed to rise above the “fashion faux pas” moments of my past. The most memorable was when a gentleman came up to me during the intermission of a theater performance and asked “Are you having trouble telling them apart?” I had no idea what he was talking about until my child pointed out the big “L” (for large) sticker that I neglected to remove from my left breast. I am still recovering from the trauma of not trying on a swimsuit my friend lent me before a pool party I was to attend. She was adamant that my one piece Speedo was far too conservative. I had a “Meet the Parents” moment in a bikini as I spent the night hiding behind any and all objects that would cover me. Thank God for that well-placed ficus tree. In need of an exit strategy It is important to check and see if garments have an “exit strategy.” My friend Claudia kindly came over and helped me get into an “Alice in Wonderland” dress for a photo shoot. It wasn’t until everyone departed that I realized I couldn’t get out of it solo. There is nothing like spending eight hours as a Disney character to find your “inner Alice.” My friend also experienced a terrible case of “stuckness.” She had the brilliant idea of safety pinning her Spanx bodysuit to her strapless dress—as if a garment containing the chemical components equivalent to a seal suit would budge. She discovered when she was trying to go to the bathroom that she had pinned the zipper as well. She lost her balance when she tried to get free from her self-imposed bondage. Needless to say, her physical pain healed far faster than the emotional ordeal of being found spread eagle on the bathroom floor still wrapped in the shower curtain she had grabbed to break her fall. 22

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A family matter Other family members have had their fair share of dressing disasters. My usually conservatively dressed father was convinced to step “outside the box” by a persuasive salesperson when he rented a tux for a charity event. He received numerous comments and questions about his attire most notably, “What instrument do you play?” He was wearing the same

tux as the band members. My daughter showed up at a family event wearing a t-shirt she got for free during spring break. Working in the medical field, she has been exposed to Latin, but her Greek still needs work. This became evident when her greatgrandmother read her t-shirt with Greek symbols that said, “I love Sigma Epsilon Chi” or in English “SEX.” All Gram could do is give her a knowing smile— especially since she once looked like the Hunchback of Notre Dame after one of her blouse’s shoulder pads came loose during a church service. It ended up taking up residence in the middle of her back. Gram and her new “hump” ended up on the prayer request list. A bit of wisdom I have learned a lot of fashion wisdom over the years. Remember, even if the chart on the back of the panty-hose box states, “up to six foot” the crotch will be four inches south from where it should be and if you hear a strange swishing noise while walking in the woods, it’s most likely coming from your 80’s parachute workout pants and not some unknown creature. In the future, I will desperately try to keep the Canadian mammal attire to a minimum (my Mom has a loon and wolf wardrobe that defies explanation), check my view from the “rear” for any unwanted external cling-on undergarments, and do what I always do: Rely on my inner beauty and sense of humor while wearing comfortable shoes. Contact Mother Mayhem at mothermayhem@adamsstreetpublishing.com

Fun facts

Providing parents and kids a happy place Owner of My Urban Toddler Rosa Lee By Christine Holliday

Do you have a favorite parenting motto? “Find Balance.”

Do you have a parenting motto? “Stay

calm and listen to your kids. They have great ideas.”

Do you have favorite spots to take kids in Ann Arbor?

“Pizza House, The Hands on Museum, Top of the Park, Gallup Park”

What’s the best parenting advice you ever received and who gave you the advice?

“Enjoy your kids!” (Heard from my mom)

Are there books you recommend to folks about to be parents? TV shows that are good for new parents to watch? children’s shows that are worth watching?

Photo Credit: Lorissa Farr, Photography By Lorissa Of Saline, Mi

My Urban Toddler, a “destination play site and store” in Saline is a happy place, but it came to be out of owner Rosa Lee’s period of postpartum depression. Before starting her family, she worked as an architect in Chicago, enjoying the company of colleagues and the challenges of 90-hour work-weeks and travel weekends. She changed careers to work in a business environment, running a design showroom for an architectural firm, where she learned valuable project management and team leader skills. When she became pregnant with the first of her four children, she put work on hold. “I didn’t know it at the time,” she remembers, “but I had a very bad case of post-partum depression. I didn’t leave my house for six months after my baby was born. I looked normal; I took care of my hair and everything, but felt guilty for not

“Books: Usborne books for children TV: no television during the week! They get detached and stop communicating with us and each other. We learned the hard way”

being happy. We moved to St. Louis, where I knew nobody, then back to my hometown of Ann Arbor. By then, all my high school friends were gone, or didn’t have children, so I felt very isolated. I was looking for a place to meet other adults and decided on this business. I started My Urban Toddler as my own group therapy place!”

Working with the Kraemer Design Group of Detroit, she designed a place she loved, and found her management skills to be invaluable as she organized her business. “We have a real team effort here,” she notes, “and all employees are cross-trained. Anybody can answer any question about what we do here.”

What kids do at My Urban Toddler is play, what Lee promises is imaginative play. There are no TVs or video games here, just tools for community play. A kid-size little town includes a fire station, school, market, and library for lots of interaction also. Music, karate, ballet, and introduction to Montessori classes keep kids busy. Camps, run by employees with early childhood education backgrounds, are week-long adventures, such as Wild Wild West, Under the Sea, or Fantastic Foods. Moms and dads are welcome to join the children as they play or watch from the café, and are invited to take parenting and childbirth classes on their own.

The Saline location also offers a retail shop for maternity items, baby furniture, baby clothes and accessories, toys and books. Lee explains, “I can’t lie. I love going to the juvenile product shows. We do all the research for the things we buy and I try everything. I can’t sell it to someone if I don’t know if it is good!”

Any general comment about the need for classes like yours? “Our store motto is

Something for them and Something for you (goes with my FIND BALANCE motto). The classes are fun and educational for the children AND the adults find a way to connect with other adults. Each mom has her own way of doing things; we try to support moms as they make decisions about how they will parent their children.”

Brag a bit about your business.

We host drop-in play dates and were voted the BEST Birthday Party Venue of 2012 in Ann Arbor Family!

The new location in Ann Arbor opens in late August, and will feature only the retail store. Lee says she is taking the expansion of her business slowly, but looks forward to going to work everyday. “I don’t have to take work home, so I can spend all my home time with my kids. I feel very blessed.” My Urban Toddler is located at 7025 E. Michigan Avenue in Saline. 734-944-3628. www.myurbantoddler.com. The second store is located in the new Arbor Hills Shopping Center on Washtenaw between Huron Parkway and Platt Road.

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Come and Get It

Hotel Hickman Chuck Wagon BBQ rustles up good cooking and friendly cowboys in Dexter By Katy M. Clark

Hotel Hickman Chuck Wagon BBQ

8050 Main Street Dexter, MI 48130 Phone: 734-646-6261 Summer hours: Thurs-Sun 6am-9pm www.hotelhickman.com “Where’d you get your cowboy hat, young lady?” asked the cowboy behind the counter.

“The mall,” replied my six-year-old daughter, gently touching the pink sparkly cowboy hat atop her head. “Well, I sure do like it!”

And so our friendly cowboy lunch at Hotel Hickman Chuck Wagon BBQ began. Proprietor Scott Thomas and his crew, all dressed like cowboys, recently welcomed my family of four to his quaint restaurant in downtown Dexter. Open since November, Hotel Hickman rustles up cowboy fare— think smoked meat and sides cooked family-style—every Thursday through Sunday.

The small restaurant, decorated straight out of the Wild West, boasts lunch and dinner menus with delectable meat (and even more meat). There’s BBQ pulled chicken or pork, Texas-style beef brisket, smoked sausage, and half or full slabs of baby back ribs. Sides include mashed potatoes, cowboy beans, coleslaw, and macaroni and cheese. For dessert, there’s apple, cherry, or peach bourbon cobbler. My husband and I ordered the $10 chuck wagon lunch special including any sandwich, one side, a drink, and dessert. I chose a BBQ pulled pork sandwich, mashed potatoes, and bourbon peach cobbler. My husband opted for a Texasstyle beef brisket sandwich, mashed potatoes, and apple cobbler. Our kids,

ages nine and six, gravitated towards

a side of macaroni and cheese ($2). The cowboys assured us their macaroni and cheese, made with real butter, cheese, and milk, would please and would be enough to constitute a child’s entire meal.

Eat out, cowboy style

Hotel Hickman says you can get your food to go or eat it cowboy-style, which means outside. There’s no indoor seating so my kids and I perched on three milk jugs by oak barrel tables out front. My husband stood. There is a park with picnic tables just across the street for those in need of more traditional seating, but we saw many customers during our visit order carry-out. My BBQ pork was yummy, with generous chunks mixed with a tasty, mild sauce. The brisket also had good meaty flavor, its ends sporting perfect pink smoke rings. “It’s all good stuff,” my husband said. The sandwich buns, which Chuck Wagon gets from Zingerman’s, were fresh and substantial, holding everything together well. Our sides of mashed potatoes, doused with a pleasing mixture of cheese, chives, sour cream and bacon, were delicious. I don’t think many

cowboys were lucky enough to taste potatoes this appetizing out on the range. Nor did the cowboys probably binge on such opulent macaroni and cheese, which satisfied both my kids. “This is the best mac and cheese I ever had,” raved my 6-year-old. I confirmed the dish’s cheesy goodness after snagging a bite (or two). However, parents of picky toddlers be warned: the macaroni and cheese is made with shell pasta, not macaroni noodles. The peach cobbler was sweet, but too mushy for me. I found my husband’s apple cobbler more pleasing with firm apples and crunchier crumbles. My kids, not big fans of food mixed together, actually passed on the cobblers for dessert.

Although we went for lunch, Hotel Hickman also serves a cowboy breakfast of two eggs, ground sausage or smoked bacon, potatoes, cornbread and cowboy coffee for $5. Hours may change with the seasons so check their website or call ahead.

Find your inner cowboy

“It’s the cheese, cheese, cheesiest this side of the Mississippi!” declared my husband with a drawl as he finished one last bite of macaroni and cheese. It was time to get him away from Hotel Hickman. If we stayed much longer, he’d be donning flannel, growing facial hair, and joining the cowboys around a campfire.

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Experience the wild west with family-style sides and great barbecue.

THE SHORT COURSE

Kid-friendly Yes To avoid wait Not a problem as most people get take out.

Noise level The old-fashioned west-

ern music they play inside is fun. There is no dining room and limited outdoor seating. Bathroom amenities None High chairs No. Got milk No. They offer pop, water, coffee and iced tea. Kids’ menu No, but the macaroni and cheese will please most kids. Anything healthy for kids Cowboys aren’t worried about health, just good, hot food. Food allergy concerns No nuts are in any ingredients; soy is present in the barbecue sauce. Call ahead and they’ll check for other concerns.

August 2013

Thursday, August 29-31

You’re a Good Man Charlie Brown Ann Arbor Musical Theater Works will present the 1967 musical You’re a Good Man Charlie Brown at the Children’s Creative Center Theater. The show is an off-Broadway musical that is based on the ever-beloved “Peanuts” characters. While the production will go from Thursday, August 29 through Saturday 31, the Thursday production will also function as a fundraiser for the University of Michigan Medical School’s Timothy RB Johnson MD Professorship in Global Women’s Health. The fundraising ticket can be purchased for $25 for just the production or $50 for the show and a chance to go to DayGlow with the cast. Seating is limited, so it’s best to purchase tickets in advance to avoid missing a fun-filled performance with your favorite “Peanuts” friends. Call or visit website for tickets. (Friday and Saturday). Aug. 29 & 30 at 8pm; Aug 31 at 8:30pm. Children’s Creative Center Theater, 1600 Pauline Blvd. 734-546-5087. www.annarbormusicaltheaterworks.com—DL

1 THURSDAY Depot Town Cruise Nights - Depot Town hosts Cruise Nights Thursday evenings this summer with classic cars, hot rods, and customs. Thursdays through September 26, 6-9pm. Cross Street, Depot Town, Ypsilanti. Brooklyn Castle - Come for this special screening of the award-winning 2012 documentary of a group of how a group of inner city kids defied stereotypes to become the highest ranked junior high chess team in the nation! 6:30-8:30pm. Free. Downtown Library, 343 S. Fifth Ave. 734-327-8301. www.aadl.org Camp Nicola’s Books for Kids! - The first of four summer fun activity groups in August for kids ages 7 to 12, the theme this week is making paper airplanes with The Kids’ Paper Airplane Book. You must sign up to participate in this event. You can sign up for one event or all four. Purchase of the book (which will be discounted) is required, as there are materials to be used in the book. Thursdays, 1:30pm. Nicola’s Books, 2513 Jackson Ave. 734-662-0600. www.nicolasbooks.com Monroe County Fair - Michigan’s finest fair features performances by Hunter Hayes and The Charlie Daniels Band, Marlin Goff Memorial Demolition Derby, U.S. FMX National Championship Series motocross, Ed Clock Memorial Tractor Pull NTPA Tractor Pull, Monster Truck Show, 4H competitions, midway rides and much more. Visit the website for a full schedule of events. July 28-August 3. Sunday, 10am-11pm; Monday-Saturday, 9am-11pm. $5 adult / $2 children ages 6-12 / Free, children 5 and under. Monroe County Fairgrounds, 3775 S. Custer Road, Monroe. 734-241-5775. www.monroecountyfair.com

2 FRIDAY The Little Star That Could - Little Star, an average yellow star, searches for planets of his own to protect and warm. He meets other stars, learns what makes each star special and discovers that stars combine to form clusters and galaxies. Little Star also learns about planets and our Solar System. 1:30pm. $5. Planetarium, University of Michigan Museum of Natural History, 1109 Geddes Rd. 734-764-0478. www.ummnh.org

4 SUNDAY 106th Jackson County Fair - Enjoy all your fair favorites like rides, food and livestock, photography, fine arts, crafts, antiques, horticulture, floriculture, home economics, and youth 4-H competitions and exhibitions. Don’t miss music headliners The Band Perry on August 4, and Godsmack wsg Pop Evil on August 5. Visit the website for a full schedule of events. August 4-10. Jackson County Fairgrounds, 200 W. Ganson St., Jackson. 517-7884405. www.jacksoncountyfair.net

5 MONDAY 67th Annual Wayne County Fair Along with midway rides & games, there’ll be livestock shows, wood carving demos, super cross championships, demolition derbies and live music throughout the week. Visit the website for a full schedule of events. August 5-10. Gates open everyday at 7am. Wayne County Fairgrounds, 10871 Quirk Rd., Belleville. 734-697-7002. www.waynecountyfairgrounds.net

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6 TUESDAY Incredible Edibles - Who doesn’t love to eat? Be a farmer at the U-M Campus Farm by harvesting vegetables and identifying different pollinators. Using games you’ll learn where our food comes from, and participants will prepare a takehome treat. Meet at the U-M Campus farm, which is on your right as your enter Matthaei from the service drive. Program is free and designed for ages 6-12. 10-11:30am. Free. Matthaei Botanical Gardens, 1800 N. Dixboro Rd. 734-647-7600. www.lsa.umich.edu

8 THURSDAY NAP 20th Anniversary Party Join the City of Ann Arbor Natural Area Preservation (NAP) in celebrating 20 years of working to protect and restore A2’s natural areas! Stop by for some ice cream and live music and help create a mural for the new location. Also, chat with current and former NAP staff. 4-7pm. Island Park “New Shelter,” 1450 Island Dr. 734-794-6627. www.a2gov.org/NAP 8th Annual Contest - Enter your best LEGO project in the 8th Annual Contest! Get the complete rules and guidelines online at aadl.org or any AADL location. Prizes will be awarded in six categories: Preschool; Grades K-2; Grades 3-5; Grades 6-8; Grades 9-12 and Adult. All projects must go home with their creators that night! 9am-8:30pm. Kensington Court, 610 Hilton Blvd. 734-327-8301. www.aadl.org

10 SATURDAY Preschool Yoga For 2–5 Years Enjoy stories, puppets, and movements that promote coordination, flexibility, and storytime fun with Ananda Children’s Catalina Arango. 10am. Pittsfield Branch Library, 2359 Oak Valley Dr. 734-327-8301. www.aadl.org

11 SUNDAY Family Splash Days - Held on the second Sunday of each month, activities include crafts and games with treats and prizes for children. 1pm. $4 adult / $3.50, youth 17 & under and seniors / Free, 3 & under with a paid adult. Mack Indoor Pool, 715 Brooks St. 734-7946237. www.a2gov.org/mack

12 MONDAY Back To School Prep: Caregiving For A Kid With An Autism Spectrum Disorder Diagnosis - This presentation begins with an overview of common social, academic, and cognitive challenges experienced by children living with ASD and also includes a workshop format where parents and caregivers will have an opportunity to work through a method for specifying concerns, exploring coping strategies, and preparing their children for the start of the next school year. The speaker for this event, Dr. Fiona Miller, is a licensed clinical psychologist who directs the program in the diagnosis and treatment of ASD at the University Center for the Child and the Family (UCCF) in Ann Arbor. 7pm. Downtown Library, 343 S. Fifth Ave. 734-327-8301. www.aadl.org

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MONDAYs-Fridays Lactation Consultation, Consultant Shin

THURSDAYS Parent Toddler Group, This is a unique

MONDAYs Homebirth Circles, On the second

Mama Circle, Mothers & Mothers-to-be

Ai Shyn is available for advice, bra fittings and general info about breast and bottle feeding. Call for appointments.10am-12pm. Free. My Urban Toddler, 7025 E. Michigan Ave., Saline. 734-944-3628. www.myurbantoddler.com

Monday of the month attend this social gathering and discussion group for families who are considering homebirth, planning a homebirth or have birthed at home. Meet the Midwives from 6:30-7:30pm. 7:30-8:30pm. Free. Center for the Childbearing Year, 722 Brooks St. 734-424-0220. www.newmoonmidwifery.com

Yoga For Mamas, This hatha postnatal and prenatal yoga class helps mothers and babies during the childbearing year to relax the mind, strengthen the body, alleviate discomfort and support a growing bond. Through May 13, 10-11:30am. $110 for 7 week series / $190 for 14-week series. Single class Drop in $18. Hygeia Center for Healing Arts, 220 N. 5th Ave. 734-769-6100. www.hygeiacenter.org Wednesdays Parent-to-Parent, This is a free, informal drop-in group for parents. Moms, dads, infants, and toddlers all welcome!10-11:30am, Center for the Childbearing Year, 722 Brooks St. 734-663-1523. www.center4cby.com

Nursing Cafe, Hang out with other breastfeeding moms and enjoy a pot of nursing tea, with professional support on hand for questions and help. Pregnant moms are welcome, too. 2-3pm. Indigo Forest, 4121 Jackson Rd. 734-994-8010. www.visitindigo.com

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opportunity for children 12-36 months and adults to spend quality time together playing, working on simple art projects and having a snack. Older siblings are also welcome. 9:15-10:45am. $92. Lamaze Family Center, 2855 Boardwalk. www.lamazefamilycenter.org gather to laugh, talk, & cry on their journey through motherhood. In this safe place, discuss topics of interest, create long-lasting friendships & build community; your children are welcome as you care for them while you attend. 9:30-11am. Indigo Forest, 4121 Jackson Rd. 734-994-8010. www.visitindigo.com

FRIDAYS Breastfeeding Café, This is a free drop-

in group for breastfeeding mothers and their babies, hosted by lactation consultant Barbara Robertson. Stop by for a cup of tea, some good company, baby weight checks, bra fittings, and more! 10-11:30am. Free. Center for the Childbearing Year, 722 Brooks St. 734-975-6534. www.bfcaa.com

Saturdays Children’s Story Time, Story time for children ages seven and under. 11am. Free. Nicola’s Bookstore, 2513 Jackson Ave., 734-662-0600. www.nicolasbooks.com

Super Saturday Storytime, Stories, songs and a simple craft for preschoolers and older children. 10:30am. Free. Ypsilanti District Library, 5577 Whittaker Rd., Ypsilanti. 734-482-4110. www.ypsilibrary.org

15 THURSDAY Take a Hike! - Go on a nature walk with a staff naturalist from Natural Area Preservation (City of Ann Arbor) that will loop through both Dolph Nature Area and Lakewood. Learn about native plants and trees, invasive plants, ecological restoration, and volunteer activities in Ann Arbor Parks. Dress comfortably to walk and enjoy nature! 7-8:30pm. Wagner Rd., between Jackson Rd. & Liberty St. 734-327-8301. www.a2gov.org/NAP Fairy Tea - Children and their families are welcome for tea and cookies served by real fairies! Celebrate with enchanting fairies as they serve tea, treats, and magic. There will be a story time and fairy attire is encouraged. Be creative! 1pm & 4pm. $11. Crazy Wisdom Bookstore and Tea Room, 114 South Main St. 734-665-2757. www.crazywisdom.net

17 SATURDAY Gardening & Cooking with Kids A gardening and cooking workshop geared for the whole family to enjoy, from “farm-to-table.” Registration required. (Scholarships are available based on financial need.) 11am-1pm. $15 per family. The Growing Hope Center, 922 W Michigan Ave, Ypsilanti. 734-786-8401. www.growinghope.net Mushroom Workshop for Kids and Teens - A hands-on workshop to help kids learn the mushroom lifecycle. Participants will learn about different edible gourmet mushrooms and use them to create a one-of-a-kind collage of spore prints. Advance registration required. 1-3pm. $25. Matthaei Botanical Gardens, 1800 N. Dixboro Rd. 734-647-7600. www.forestorganics.net Look Mom! Drawing & Painting - Guided by an Ann Arbor Art Center Instructor, families will discover works of art together through looking, learning, and making. In each workshop, parents and children will explore a different artist, artifact or art movement from the permanent collections and collaborate on a drawing and/or painting activity. All materials included. Price includes two family members and supplies for one shared project. No children under 5, all children must be accompanied by an adult. Registration required. 1pm. $38 members / $45 non-members. University of Michigan Museum of Art, 525 South State St. 734-764-0395. www.umma.umich.edu

18 SUNDAY Chelsea Community Fair - 76th Annual Fair features a demolition derby and tractor pulls, crafts, exhibits, games and rides. Visit the website for a full schedule of events. August 18-24. Chelsea Community Fairgrounds, 20501 Old US-12 Hwy., Chelsea. 734-475-1270. www.chelseafair.org

24 SATURDAY Dancing Babies - Denise Owens, leader of Kindermusik programs, presents a program of music and movement. 10am. Pittsfield Branch Library, 2359 Oak Valley Dr. 734-327-8301. www.aadl.org

27 TUESDAY 78th Annual Saline Community Fair - Fair week kicks off with a parade on Monday, August 26 at 6:30pm.

Throughout the week there’ll be activities for all ages including tractor pulls, carnival rides, livestock auctions and the popular Miss Saline pageant on Tuesday, August 27 at 8pm. Visit the website for a full schedule of events. August 27-September 2. $7. Washtenaw Farm Council Grounds, 5055 Ann Arbor-Saline Rd. 734-429-3145. www.salinefair.org

29 THURSDAY Friendship from Shakespeare to Dickinson to Milne - The 5-6-7-8 Summer Players will be at Nicola’s Books reciting a collection of classic poetry, quotes and passages titled: “Friendship from Shakespeare to Dickinson to Milne.” The troupe this year has kids ranging in age from 5 to 20. 6pm. Nicola’s Books, 2513 Jackson Ave. 734-662-0600. www.nicolasbooks.com

30 FRIDAY Michigan State Fair - The 2013 Fifth Third Bank Michigan State Fair will be Bigger, Better & More Fun! The Fair brings together the best food, rides, games, exhibits, animals, agriculture, entertainment and so much more of all the things that make Michigan special! Visit the website for a full schedule of events. Adult, $6 adv. & $8 gate / Children 11 and under, $5 adv. & $6 gate. Weekend passes available. Suburban Collection Showplace, 46100 Grand River, Novi. 248-348-6942. www.michiganstatefairllc.com

31 SATURDAY German Park Picnic - The German Park Recreation Club hosts three picnics on the last Saturdays in June-August. Enjoy live music, authentic German food & beer and live German dance performances.4-9pm. $5 / Free, 12 and under. German Park Recreation Club, 5549 Pontiac Trail. 734-769-0048. www.germanpark.org

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