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Life of the party Warm weather means snow— snow cones, that is! The Little Snowie 2 ($219 value) is the Vitamix of shaved ice makers, a machine compact enough to travel with you (because who doesn’t want a snow cone on the way to school pickup?!). Snowie offers more than 50 flavors including sugar-free and all-natural varieties, which are a huge hit with moms. The perfect addition to a birthday party, backyard summer BBQ, or everyday as a fun warm weather treat! —LE
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Make chalk magic Unicorn horns, as we all know, are magic, and now your child can create magical chalk drawings with them! The Unicorn Horn Chalk Set by Twee includes three sidewalk chalk horns: one with cool tones, one with warm tones, and one gold and glitter-coated white chalk horn. A fun way to make chalk drawings even more magical and exciting. $15 kerrytown.com/mudpuddles
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Glacier Hills seeking volunteer musicians to perform Music speaks to people in powerful ways. Glacier Hills Senior Living Center, noticing the positive effect that music has on their residents, is seeking volunteer musicians and small ensembles to perform, particularly volunteers who can come weekly, bi-weekly, or monthly. Volunteers can perform in several different ways: in a large gathering space for residents, for just a few residents, or one-on-one for residents who cannot leave their room. A background check is required and volunteers younger than 16 must be accompanied by an adult. Share the joy of music with our senior community residents! If you are interested in learning more about volunteering at Glacier Hills or to apply, visit glacierhills.org/volunteers
University of Michigan stud ents Jeremy D' and Bryce Mes Silva (singing sman (at the ) piano) perform for Glacier Hill residents earli s er this year
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Concordia University offers advanced degree for child life professionals Concordia University Ann Arbor is launching a Master of Arts in Child Life in July 2019. Child life specialists help children to understand and manage experiences of illness, hospitalization, trauma, and other difficult and unexpected life circumstances that can be surrounded by feelings of fear or apprehension. This advanced degree will complement students who hold undergraduate experience in child psychology, family studies, child development, family life education, recreational therapy, or developmental psychology with additional knowledge to proactively support children and their families. “The child life profession is growing, continuing its work in the hospital setting but now also expanding into doctors’ offices, dentists’ offices, hospice programs, funeral homes, school districts, and private practices,” said Jennifer Fieten, MA, CCLS, who leads the child life program at CUAA. Learn more at cuaa.edu/childlifemasters
Visit a whole new world Ann Arbor Civic Theatre presents the beloved Disney classic Aladdin Jr. This version of the Broadway incarnation of the Academy Award-winning 1992 musical is specifically adapted for young actors. When down-on-his-luck street dweller Aladdin finds a magic lamp housing a genie that grants wishes, it leads to an adventure of a lifetime to earn the respect of Princess Jasmine. With familiar songs and characters, this is a great opportunity for family fun. —LE Friday, May 10, 7:3pm and Saturday, May 11-Sunday, May 12, 1pm and 3:30pm. $8/child (up to age 17), $10/adult. Walgreen Drama Center, Arthur Miller Theatre, 1226 Murfin Ave. 734-971-2228 a2ct.org
People with disabilities eligible for free, lifetime National Parks access If you or your child has a permanent disability that limits one or more major life activities, you may be eligible to receive the Access Pass, which grants you free admission to more than 2,000 recreation sites including National Parks, National Wildlife Refuges, and National Forests. The pass extends to all those in the vehicle with the passholder. At many sites the Access Pass also provides the pass holder with additional discounts related to camping and guided tours. In order to qualify for the pass, disability requirements include: a permanent physical, mental, or sensory impairment that limits one or more major life activities such as walking, seeing, caring for oneself and learning. For full information and to learn about the application process visit store.usgs.gov/access-pass
New nature playscape coming to Leslie Science & Nature Center
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On April 9, Leslie Science & Nature Center (LSNC) was awarded a $15,000 Sustaining Ann Arbor Together (SA2T) grant from the City of Ann Arbor for an outdoor play space to support imaginative learning experiences that will engage and inspire young minds to respect and understand the natural world. The nature playscape, thanks to grant funding from the Michigan Council for Arts and Cultural Affairs, Toyota Research & Development HQ and the City of Ann Arbor, is in its final design and initial construction phase, which will conclude in Fall 2020. The new playscape will be located in the wooded area behind the DTE Energy House and will be accessible to all and intended to be used year-round. At LSNC, children can play and learn by engaging with and manipulating natural materials and elements. To learn more about the Leslie Science & Nature Center, visit lesliesnc.org
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The concept masterplan for the new outdoor playscape being built at Leslie Science & Nature Center.
Bandito’s moves to Ann Arbor’s northside neighborhood
After closing almost two years ago, due to extensive construction work at their original location, Bandito’s reopened in April in their new location at the Plymouth Green Crossing Shopping Center on Plymouth Road. The new space features bright, original artwork, and a familiar menu packed with Mexican and Tex-Mex favorites. An added bonus at their new location? Easy, free parking! —LE Monday-Saturday, 10am-10pm and closed Sunday. Bandito’s, 3395 Plymouth Rd. 734-996-0234. Banditosmi.com
Ypsilanti’s Veg-O-Rama opens second location in Canton
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The local vegetarian/vegan casual food restaurant, Veg-o-rama, opened a second location at 44930 Ford Rd in Canton this past March. The restaurant’s mission is to “serve Indo-American ‘Love Food’ packed with interesting flavors, fusion and fresh ingredients.” The menu walks through many unique options to build your own burger, wrap, sub, or bowl with enticing street sides to add on as well. —HM
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Monday-Saturday, 10am-10pm and Sunday, 12-8pm. Veg-O-Rama, 44930 Ford Rd., Canton. 734-335-3952. veg-o-rama.com
English Gardens Plymouth Nursery opens latest location near Dixboro
Early this spring, in the former Plymouth Nursery (9900 Ann Arbor Rd W. in Plymouth), English Gardens hosted their Grand Opening of this location. The Dixboro Farmers Market received sponsorship from English Gardens to support a future mid-summer movie night on the Dixboro Village Green, and the new location will have weekly seminars and monthly Kid’s Club events. —HM Monday-Saturday, 9am-6pm and Sunday, 10am-6pm. English Gardens Plymouth Nursery, 9900 Ann Arbor Rd. W., Plymouth. 734-453-5500. englishgardens.com
Waterhill Music Festival ends, substitute event announced
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The organizers of Waterhill Music Festival, Claire and Paul Tinkerhess, announced earlier this spring that, after eight years and thoughtful reflection, they have decided to end the annual neighborhood festival, due to concerns for public safety, personal priorities and, most notably with the ongoing success and growth of the festival over the years, it unfortunately lessened neighbor-to-neighbor interactions and fostered encroaching commercialization. As this story was going to print Scott Newell, owner of Big City Small World, announced plans to launch the Water Hill Music Fest Continued in front of his bakery on Sunday, May 5 from 11am-6pm. —HM For more information, visit waterhill.org
Payless ShoeSource closes all stores, including Ann Arbor/Ypsilanti
Both the Briarwood Mall and the Ypsilanti (5677 Roundtree Pl.) Payless stores will be closing, along with 2,100 other stores nationwide, due the company’s bankruptcy. All Payless stores have hosted clearance and going out of business sales since the closures were announced in late February. All stores nationwide will close by May, after inventory liquidation. —HM For more information, visit payless.com
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SafeHouse Center’s Teen Voice Program Organizes Awareness Events
Local high schoolers work to stop teen dating violence By Heather Mooney
Shockingly common, one third of teens in the U.S. have been a victim of verbal, emotional, physical, or sexual abuse from a dating partner (CDC 2017 Youth Risk Behavior Survey). Just as concerning is that more than 80 percent of parents believe that teen dating violence isn’t an issue. In order to educate and eradicate abuse, SafeHouse Center, a local nonprofit focused on ending sexual assault and domestic violence, created a high school peer education program called Teen Voice in 2003. Teen Voice is a group of 17 young adult volunteers (ages 13-18) who convene to provide peer education on teen dating violence, healthy relationships and consent as well as community activism. The program is based on research showing teens learn better from their peers, rather than adults. Community events to end teen dating violence & sexual assault Teen Voice hosted an open meeting in February in honor of Teen Dating Violence Awareness Month to educate teens about techniques used to speak up in
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the community and help adults learn the signs of teen dating violence. Findings reported by the CDC 2017 Youth Risk Behavior Survey show that those who had abusive relationships as teens are more than twice as likely to encounter them as adults. Additionally, research shows that 50 percent of teens who have experienced physical and sexual abuse attempt suicide clarifies the dire importance of programs like Teen Voice. More than 25 people attended, including youth, school administrators and counselors, as the young adults personally invited school staff to see their presentations on ending the cycle of violence, hoping to promote presentations at all local high schools. Seth, teen member and a senior at Pioneer reflected “I can only hope that our presentations have made an impact on my peers, and through our work; hopefully, we will find social change.” Outside of events and field trips, Teen Voice members meet weekly on Wednesday evenings during the school year to talk about community education and event planning. According to Barbara
Niess-May, Executive Director of SafeHouse and Laura Hoehner-Dane, Volunteer Coordinator, the youth planned programs for Sexual Assault Awareness Month in April. In order to join Teen Voice, individuals must apply, complete an interview and be accepted into the program (accompanied by parental consent). Paige, a sophomore at Community High School expressed, “Whether it’s by presenting to classrooms, hosting and attending events, or partnering with other activist groups in our community, being a part of Teen Voice makes me feel like I’m making a difference in a world where making a difference as a teen isn’t always easy.” Community presentations led by peer educators Teen Voice offers one-hour peer led interactive multimedia presentations about teen dating violence, consent and healthy relationships and will present to any local classroom or organization that is interested. SafeHouse reports that Teen Voice typically provides 20-30 presentations per school year, reaching well over 700 students in local schools and organizations. Two peer educators from the Teen Voice program who have been through extensive training on sexual
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assault and domestic violence present alongside a SafeHouse staff member. Additionally, resources are identified and made accessible for youth who have surviveddomestic/emotional violence in Washtenaw County. SafeHouse provides services for teens (anyone 14 years and older). As well, pursuant to Michigan law, seventeen year olds can access services without parental consent. If you are a teen, or know one that is enrolled in any Washtenaw County High School, who would like to join the Teen Voice program, email volunteer@safehousecenter.org If you are an educator or community organization that would like to schedule a Teen Voice Presentation, fill out a form online at safehousecenter.org/ teen-voice-presentation-request Other resources for teen violence issues: loveisrespect.org breakthecycle.com safehousecenter.org
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Advocacy for a rare disease Because Kasham’s son’s particular condition is so rare, with only about 20 cases in the United States, information and support for the disease is limited. “As a parent, I almost have to just start a path and clear a path for these children,” she said, “They have no advocacy.” Kasham has learned what other parents in her situation have also learned: that she is her child’s first and best advocate. From seeking more answers with a second opinion from the Cleveland Clinic, when her son was first diagnosed two years ago, to scouring the internet for anything about her son’s condition, Kasham has taken a difficult road to find information and to find support for a struggle that is 24/7 for her family. Hope for a cure Her exhaustive search for answers initially turned up very little, but, she said, there was one doctor’s name that kept popping up on the internet— Dr. Berge
Minassian— who is involved in research on Lafora and a promising new treatment that Kasham hopes will be a cure. Minassian is a pediatric neurologist at University of Texas Southwestern Medical Center and specializes in epilepsy and neurodegenerative diseases. The family traveled to the University of California, Los Angeles in March 2018 so that Hiatham could be seen by doctors involved in the clinical trial. Kasham said it is important for Hiatham to be seen periodically so that doctors can see the progression of his disease and appropriately stage it for the clinical trial, which may take place in December 2019. She has Minassian’s phone number, which is especially important for questions, advice and to keep up-to-date on any developments in treatments. She also discovered Chelsea’s Hope, an organization that raises funds for research, treatment, and a cure for those affected by Lafora; although, the organization does not offer any financial support for families. Financial toll and search for support Kasham said the financial and emotional burden of having a terminally ill child with a rare disease is crushing, especially considering the expense of travel for clinical trials and expensive experimental drugs and treatments insurance will not pay for. That leaves families trying to fundraise on their own. “I can’t stop advocating for him, because his life depends on it,” she said. “I want people to see that his life is worth advocating for and that people should support a child that is trying his best just to hold on.” Her family recently moved to a wheelchair accessible home with some help from the Ann Arbor Housing Commission. Chive Charities donated a wheel-
Sources for Rare Disease Information n National Institute of Health Genetic and Rare Disease (GARD) rarediseases.info.nih.gov Provides plain language web pages on 6,500 rare diseases for patients and families. GARD also offers an individual inquiry service for more detailed information. n National Organization for Rare Disorders and the Genetic Alliance rarediseases.org and geneticalliance.org Offers disease information and patient support. n Chelsea’s Hope chelseashope.org Raises money to fund research for Lafora. n The Rare Epilepsy Network (REN) of the Epilepsy Foundation epilepsy.com Collects information about people with rare epilepsies to help understand the conditions and improve treatments.
Hiatham Breadiy gives his mother, Azeza Kasham, a kiss. He has a rare form of epilepsy called Lafora. The disease typically strikes seemingly healthy children in their teens and progressively gets worse over time.
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Parents of sick children can attest to the difficulty of dealing with illness. When “rare” and “degenerative” are added to the disease diagnosis, there is no comparison to the fear, isolation and daily struggle of not only keeping your child alive but also advocating for them. Azeza Kasham of Ann Arbor knows that struggle all too well. She has lived it every day since her son, Hiatham Breadiy, 17, was first diagnosed with Lafora Progressive Myoclonus Epilepsy, a rare form of epilepsy with currently no cure and no clear path for treatment. The condition is progressive and debilitating, leaving Hiatham wheelchair-bound and afflicted with many severe seizures everyday. Kasham describes it as a combination of dementia, Alzheimer’s, Parkinson’s, and severe epilepsy.
chair accessible van to the family last fall and a friend started a gofundme page to help the family with medical expenses. Hospice caregivers visit to help with some of Hiatham’s daily care needs. Kasham said she is grateful for the help received so far, but the family is still struggling under the weight of their situation. For other parents who may be going through a similar struggle, Kasham said that it is important to continue to advocate
for your child and to not be afraid to ask for help. She said that she hopes that someday she may be able to start a nonprofit organization for children with rare diseases because she knows, firsthand, what it feels like to be a parent in that situation. A GoFundMe page has been established to assist the family with Hiatham’s medical expenses at gofundme.com/jessicanovakov
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Honoring the strength of local mothers at every stage By Heidi Alene Harris, Ph.D.
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No matter how we become mothers, we can all agree on two things: one, motherhood is hard, and two, our love for our children is no different. Meet three Ann Arbor-area mamas as they discuss their journey to motherhood.
“When you observe kind and gentle mothers in action, you see women of great strength”
Nuola Akinde and her family Cliff DiAngelo, Geronimo Wale Akinde-DiAngelo, 8, Talia Eniafe Akinde-DiAngelo, 5 and Shiawassee Iwa Akinde-DiAngelo, 1
Melodee Bourdeau, Emma, Roger, and Sophie holding Rosie at the mural in Ypsilanti that Emma helped paint.
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Nuola Akinde resides in Brighton and is the mother of three children ages 8, 5, and 1.5. Nuola is an early childhood educator by trade, co-parents with her children’s father, Cliff DiAngelo, and is an unschooling family.
Melodee Bourdeau mothers and resides in the city of Ypsilanti, “There are 8 of us in our family. My husband, Randy, our oldest son is Matt and his girlfriend Ashley. Then there are Emma, Roger, Sophie, and our dog Rosie.”
What fills your day? Nuola is at home with her children and approaches education with the unschooling method, an educational philosophy that advocates for self-directed learning through life experiences. An early childhood educator by trade, Nuolo works as a consultant for various early childhood organizations. She is also an activist that works to cultivate justice through supporting two local non-profit organizations, “I work part time at Growing Hope in Ypsilanti, a non profit organization that focuses on ecological injustice issues in the area. The goal is to support low-income people to get gardens in their homes. I also work as a program coordinator for Black Men Read, an organization in Ypsilanti whose mission is to empower communities of color by inspiring literacy.”
Biggest Mom Achievement over the past year? The fact that my oldest son moved out. We are sad that he is gone but we also celebrate this monumental achievement that as parents we successfully parented one child so that now he is on his own.
Biggest Mom Achievement over the past year? I think the biggest accomplishment as a parent is to cultivate a childhood where they have opportunities to be passionate about the world. I think we do this through thinking about how we structure our time and also reflecting on how they want to spend their time. I believe giving my children the opportunity to have a voice. They are different from me and they have different ideas, so learning to balance the needs of where each child is at different stages and where I am at as well. What is your favorite local activity to do with your family? We love food and we love being outside. We love hiking. We go to lots of different places to hike, but our favorite is probably Rolling Hills. We also really like movies. What’s in your cup in Ypsilanti is a smoothie place we enjoy. Ypsilanti Farmers Market in the summer is also a favorite. What advice do you have for other mothers? There are two suggestions I have. The first is to lean on your community. Find those members that you know want to support you. Know that it is okay and important to ask for help. Give people the pleasure of helping you because they want to. Once I realized this as a mother, it was so empowering. The second is to continue to do other things that you loved before you became a mother. Remembering that there are other things that you love to do that are separate from your mothering is really important for your self-identity.
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What is your favorite local activity to do with your family? We go to Cultivate Coffee & Tap House in Ypsilanti often. I am an administrator for the Homeschoolers of Washtenaw County (HOW). We do a lot of meetups at Cultivate such as knit nights and board game days. Cultivate is great because they have community times where community members are able to reserve tables. Cultivate is a great organization in Ypsilanti with a mission to cultivate and support local community needs. What is the most difficult situation you have had to deal with as a mother and how did you handle it? I would say the most difficult situations were dealing with the diagnoses of two of my children, one with Asperger’s and one with Dyslexia. The easy part was that we were aware with both of our children that they were showing signs that something was not right. Yet, it was difficult to navigate through the health insurance and medical companies to find the right people to help before they were diagnosed. Once we got the diagnoses’, it became easier because we knew what we were dealing with and found support for their individual needs. We are grateful because Ypsilanti and Ann Arbor offer great resources to support children with identified needs. What advice do you have for other mothers? Surprisingly we are finding that parenting teenagers has been the easiest stage for us. I think the reason is because we laid the foundation with our children early on that we approach parenting as a democracy. We give our children the opportunity to have a voice. It is definitely a flip from the parenting style my husband and I grew up with. Yet, the results are that my kids are agreeable and they trust us. We have found that you can build trust and still hold boundaries by doing it without bearing your authority. We have built that foundation of trust, so they feel like we are partners and are they comfortable coming to us for everything.
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Kaytlin Howard Mangelson with her husband Josh and three children Andi, 5, Linnie, 3, & Isla, 18 months.
Kaytlin Born and raised in Wyoming, married in Utah, and now a current resident of Ann Arbor, Kaytlin Howard Mangelson and her husband, Josh, have three children under the age of five. What fills your day? We moved to Ann Arbor give years ago for my husband to attend a doctorate program at the University of Michigan. I am at home taking care of my three children and occasionally do online editing. Our 3-year-old Linnie was born with a medical condition called VACTERL. That plays a huge role in our family dynamic. My day is pretty largely filled with therapy and doctor appointments, calling about therapy and doctor appointments, and on the phone with the insurance company. Also the typical mothering work that is required to support three young children is what fills my days. Biggest Mom Achievement over the past year? A year ago Linnie suffered an anoxic brain injury as a complication of the flu. She lost oxygen to her brain. We were not sure she would survive. As a result of the complication, Linne had to spend three months in the hospital. Thankfully, she survived. Those months of rehab and really long exhausting days at the hospital helped me to redefine what it means to be a good mother. It was difficult for me to not be able to be with all my kids at once during that time. During the time Linne was in the hospital I needed to sit in the hospital and help her feel cared for while my other two children spent time out West with family. I realized that I had to be okay with the fact that mothering is going to be different at different times with each child. My biggest mom achievement is to look back at the last year and to see that my marriage is strong and my family is intact and we got through it. Linnie is still here with us and that is all that matters. What is your favorite part of being a mother? My favorite part is watching my kids learn new things and make those developmental leaps. Watching them master a skill and gain a new level of independence. Creating magic with holidays, birthdays, and traveling. I start planning for Christmas in June. Seeing the spark through my children’s eyes is the best. What advice do you have for other mothers? The best advice I ever got was what my mother told me, “Everything is a stage.” If I am frustrated that my toddler will eat nothing but goldfish crackers and mac and cheese, they will not go off to college eating only goldfish and mac and cheese. It is a stage and it will not last forever. It helped me to humble myself and to be more flexible. Where do you get your strength? My faith. I have a strong belief in Jesus Christ. It has definitely gotten me through the difficult moments. Believing that things will be okay. Also, my husband is wonderful. I absolutely could not do my schedule without his help and his great fathering skills.
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By Lori Maranville
It’s time to party! Birthdays, bar mitzvahs, and more. See how (and where) the locals are partying.
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Kennedy
Age: 3 Hosted by her parents Nathan and Kaite Morgan Party theme and décor: The party was mermaid-themed featuring the character Ariel from Disney’s animated feature The Little Mermaid. The movie is one of Kennedy’s favorites. Location: Her party was held at Fundays Family Fun Café in Jackson, where she had her party last year. It is in the perfect location for family traveling from all over the state.
Sweet treats: Family friends made the cake and the cookies.
Food: Fundays provided pizza and the most delicious Michigan salad.
Activities: Fundays is a play area in and of itself, so there’s no need to plan activities and games. An Ariel and Flounder pin-the-tail game was available for guests, but they didn’t get a chance to use it since they were having so much fun playing. Party favors: Guests were provided with goodie bags of small treats that Kennedy picked out and an individually wrapped cookie. Photography: Kaite Morgan of Captured by Kaite Photography.
Get to know Kennedy: • She loves mermaids, unicorns, rainbows, sparkles, and fashion accessories. • She loves to go to the Hands-on Museum with her siblings and just started swimming lessons. • Her favorite place to go in Ann Arbor is the Little Seedling store, which she calls “the magic fairy store.”
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Josh
Age: 13 at the time (currently age 16) Hosted by his parents Stefanie and Herb Aronow Party theme and décor: The party was Josh’s Bar Mitzvah family celebration and was sports-themed with a focus on Josh’s favorite sports of basketball, hockey, football and soccer. There were supportive messages and inspirational quotes with “Josh DID it” with a swoosh as the “J” and many quotes printed on pillows and boards throughout. Quotes included “write your own future”; “everything you need you already have inside”; and “play with heart.” Long tables were decorated with Josh’s own collection of jerseys. Debbie LeClaire Designs provided decoration and invitations were by Paper Station in Ann Arbor. Location: Josh’s party was held at the University of Michigan Stadium Big House in the Jack Roth Stadium Club. Josh grew up going to Saturday football games with extended family and it was a huge part of his childhood (multi-generational Wolverines). Sweet treats: There was no cake but there was a dessert table by Katherine’s Catering of Ann Arbor and a table with a color scheme with large glass jars and blue and silver candles done by mom.
Food: Game food stations were stocked with Josh’s favorites including sliders, Caesar salad, wings, macaroni and cheese (with exotic toppings) by Katherine’s Catering. Amanda’s Kitchen Catering was also used throughout the weekend. Activities: Star Trax Events of Ferndale provided DJ services for dancing. Guests also had Big House field time and locker room tours. Party favors: Guests were given basketball reversible mesh tank tops with Josh’s logo. Photography: Abby Rosenbaum of Abby Rose Photo. Get to know Josh: • He loves sports of all kinds, creativity, his dog Ollie and being with friends and family. • Before his Bar Mitzvah, he collected a truck full of gently used sporting goods and donations for the Detroit Police Athletic League (PALS) to help less fortunate children stay active, be part of a team and love sports. • One of his favorite books is Wonder by R.J. Palacio. • He previously attended the Hebrew Day School of Ann Arbor, Burns Park Elementary and Greenhills Middle.
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Age: 5 (party was for her 4th birthday) Hosted by her parents Abby Rosenbaum and Tom Bick Party theme and décor: Princesses were the focus of Mabel’s party. She was a big fan of Disney’s Frozen so the family went all out including Frozenthemed treats and a play snow station. Frozen characters Elsa and Anna even came for some surprise songs and visiting.
Location: Her party was held at Matthaei Botanical Gardens in Ann Arbor. Sweet treats: Sweet Heather Anne, in Ann Arbor, made an amazing Frozen-themed cake. The family also made white-chocolate dipped strawberries, representing Elsa’s frozen hearts. Food: The family had light snacks with a vegetable tray, Sven-themed cheese sticks, Jell-O jigglers which were ice cubes for Frozen’s Kingdom of Arendelle, and other goodies. Hot chocolate and coffee was available for the parents. Activities: The party guests enjoyed free play and had fun at a station where fake snow was made. Guests also had fun with Wild Raspberry Face Painting. Some amazing princesses from Enchanted Rose Productions came to surprise the guests and lead stories and songs. Photography: Abby Rosenbaum of Abby Rose Photo. Get to know Mabel Rose: • She loves the music of Ann Arbor singer/ songwriter Joe Reilly. • She loves going to the library and the Ann Arbor Hands-on Museum. • She loves eating grilled cheese at the Fleetwood Diner in Ann Arbor. • She is excited to start kindergarten at Dicken Elementary this year.
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Where to Party
If you’re looking for somewhere to celebrate, the Ann Arbor area has just the place! From jumping and climbing, to nature or animal-themed parties, there’s something for everyone on this list of party venues.
CELEBRATE YOUR CHILD’S BIRTHDAY WITH SCIENTIFIC ADVENTURES! Explore slime or volcanos, learn to survive in the wild, or meet some animals up close!
JOIN US TODAY! Parties at Ann Arbor Hands-On Museum and Leslie Science & Nature Center are fun for all ages, from 2 to 102. Look online and book your party today!
Champion Gymnastics
Zap Zone
Birthday child and guests receive one hour of private gym time supervised by staff. Games, obstacle courses, gymnastics and more! Then, the second hour is for food, cake or activities planned by the birthday family. Event pricing includes birthday-themed decorations and place settings and, of course, plenty of fun. Call to reserve a date.
Party packages include Zap Zone attractions, pizza and beverages, party room, host and supplies for 10 guests. Guest of honor receives a t-shirt and two free passes.
7240 Jackson Rd. 734-222-1810 | champgymaa.com
Leslie Science and Nature Center 1831 Traver Rd. 734-997-1553 | lesliesnc.org
The center offers nature-themed parties led by staff. Party participants may do anything from meeting birds of prey up close to building a campfire. Standard parties are two hours.
4177 Carpenter Rd., Ypsilanti 734-930-6670 | zap-zone.com
Planet Rock
82 Aprill Dr. 734-827-2680 | planet-rock.com Parties include 1 ½ hours of supervised climbing, with a break in a private party room for snacks, cake and presents (provided by birthday guest), and additional time for climbing.
Airtime Trampoline Park 800 W Eisenhower Pkwy. 734-470-0040 | airtimetrampoline.com
Party packages include a personal host for set-up, serving and cleanup, 1 ½ hour jump time and one hour of party area time, paper products, food, drink and souvenirs. Guest of honor receives a t-shirt.
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Parties include one hour of instructor-led gym time for 10 children (additional cost for more). A party room is also available. Birthday guests receive 10 percent off of new class registration.
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Sky Zone
42550 Executive Dr., Canton 734-981-0007 | skyzone.com/canton Packages include one hour of jump time, access to all courts, a party host, paper goods, party room setup and cleanup, and a digital invitation. Pizza and beverages are available.
Fun Garage
43335 Michigan Ave., Canton 734-895-7901 | thefungarage.com Packages include choices of attractions, including laser tag, Spin Zone, Rope Course and Ballocity. Parties are two hours with a party room, paper goods, pizza and beverages provided.
Goldfish Swim School
2107 West Stadium Blvd. 734-849-2038 | goldfishswimschool.com/ann-arbor Party goers receive two hours of private access to pool with certified lifeguards on duty to oversee activities. Cupcakes, beverages, centerpieces, balloons, tropical decoration and paper goods also provided.
Peachy Fitness
2385 S. Huron Pkwy. 734-681-0477 | Peachyfitness.com Kids and teens, ages 3-16, can choose from a number of party themes such as Zumba, yoga, Pajama Jam, or spa. Peachy offers several customizable party packages full of engaging activities. Parties include two party attendants, decorations, setup, and cleanup.
Kidopolis Ann Arbor 509 State Cir. 734-769-0263 | Kidopolis.net
Birthday parties include two hours in an imaginationdriven play space as well as a party space, utensils and paper goods, kitchenette for use by hosts, two blue-tooth speakers and a special gift for the guest of honor.
Domino’s Petting Farm 3001 Earhart Rd. 734-998-0182 | Pettingfarm.com
Birthday party packages include the chance for guests to feed bunnies, goats, or alpacas. There is also a party space available either in a pole barn or a pavilion. For an additional fee, pizza and tractor rides are available, as well as additional bags of animal feed.
Ann Arbor Art Center 117 W. Liberty St. 734-994-8004 | Annarborartcenter.org
Parties include a professional art instructor and all art supplies for an age-appropriate art project selected from a project menu. Setup and cleanup is provided with hosts bringing food and decorations of their choice.
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healthy kids Let’s Talk
Teaching kids conversational skills by Kate Ingersoll
For many children it’s easy to strike up conversation or join a dialogue already in progress. Yet in today’s media-centered world, many kids, tweens, and teens are lacking in social skills. They can post pictures and communicate online, but realtime conversations often baffle them. Deb Marinik, an Education Specialist with ProMedica, explains that there are many reasons for this common challenge in today’s society. “The teenage years are angst ridden and egocentric times, so it’s hard to effectively communicate because they’re primarily thinking about their own issues. This might adversely affect listening skills, which would definitely make them ineffective communicators.” Start the conversation early “Encouraging positive communication skills should start very young,” advises Marinik. “Talk to your child, ask questions, and be interested in what they have to say.” She encourages parents to let go of judgment or unsolicited suggestions. “Together, they are a recipe for getting kids to clam up.” Fundamental communication skills don’t come easily to some children, so
parents can utilize TV shows and realtime events to demonstrate proper language usage and how to stay on topic. Parents can also model examples of how to start or end a conversation with basic phrases that are easy to remember. Consistent, positive interaction is key. “Kids who are raised in a sharing and respectful environment will naturally be better at expressing their thoughts,” says Ms. Marinik. “Practicing good communication is something that needs to happen every day.” Hang up the phone Now more than ever, cell phone addiction has become a pandemic. Parents and kids alike struggle to put down their phones, so it’s no wonder conversation skills get lost in the shuffle. So how can adults find the balance between creating family togetherness and utilizing technology in a healthy way? A single mom of a 17-year-old says the best way to deal with cell phone issues is to not provide one for her child in the first place. Because her son is not distracted by texting, tweeting, or posting,
he has developed conversational skills that rival any adult. For kids who already have a cell phone, it’s important for parents to teach them how to set clear boundaries. Regularly scheduled times when the entire family goes “tech free” can be a great way to minimize distractions and encourage conversation. Paying it forward Kirt Manecke, an author and business development specialist from Milford, emphasizes that critical social skills are essential for succeeding in a career. “Communication skills are among the top skills businesses expect when interviewing and hiring,” he says. “Employ-
ers everywhere are saying that young people lack the people skills critical to be successful at work.” To help teens navigate adolescence, Mr. Manecke wrote Smile and Succeed for Teens. “It’s a crash course in social skills for teens to ensure success in school, work and life,” he says. Adults can also find valuable information through his parents’ guide (www.SmileTheBook.com) as they work alongside their teens or tweens with fun activities and role-playing. Don’t give up An easy way to practice communication skills is to do something together as a family. Everyone needs time away from their screens, especially tweens and teens, and even though it can be challenging to encourage conversation, parents should not give up. “It’s important to remember that the tween and teen years are a confusing time,” says Ms. Marinik. “Never stop trying, no matter how frustrating it is when you are getting monosyllabic responses. No one stays a teen forever, and kids need to feel unconditionally loved, even when they’re being difficult.”
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digital age Digital Interruptions a Factor in Behavior Problems Technology impacting parent-child relationships By Lori Maranville
Could parental stress and our constant “checking in” in our digital world, cause us to “check out” in our roles as parents? Could this technology interference be causing our children to act out? A study in the journal Pediatric Research took a closer look at this issue, surveying technology use in 183 couples with children under the age of 5, and results show some correlation. Dr. Jenny Radesky, a developmental behavioral pediatrician at the University of Michigan and a co-author of the study, saw the results as significant as they showed some association between a child’s externalizing behaviors (like tantrums and aggression) and technological interruptions that can get in the way of parent-child interactions throughout a typical day. Digital interruptions Parents involved in the study answered online questionnaires conducted between 2014 and 2016. In addition, the study considered one, three and six-month time points. As people were surveyed about how many times per day devices like a cellphone, television, computer, tablet, iPod and video game console interrupted a conversation or active engagement with their child. Parents reported that, on average, they experienced disruptions by at least two devices interrupting interactions, and that the interruptions occurred one or more times a day. In addition, parents reported observations of internalized problems/solutions, like whining and sulking along with externalizing behaviors like temper tantrums and hyperactivity. Parents also reported on their own feelings of stress and depression. Parent stress, child behavior and technology connection Radesky and study author Brandon T. McDaniel, a professor at Illinois State University, concluded in their findings that “parents, stressed by their child’s difficult behavior, may then withdraw from parent-child interactions with technology and this higher technology use during parent-child interactions may influence the child’s externalizing and withdrawal behaviors over time.” “It can be that the child is reacting to not getting attention and they amp up their behavior to be able to get more of a parent reaction,” Radesky said. “The other possibility is that they’re not getting as much reciprocal play time or conversation with their parents.”
Dr. Jenny Radesky, developmental behavioral pediatrician at the University of Michigan, studies family use of digital technology. Although a distinct cause and effect relationship cannot be determined from the findings, Radesky said, the results are compelling enough to warrant further study and to advise parents to be mindful of their own technology use. Radesky, who has been researching digital use and its impact on families since about 2013, said it is hard to measure, especially with how fast mobile technology has become an integral part of daily family life. “We don’t have the data yet to tell the threshold of what is too much technology use.” Also, she said, the threshold is different for different people and situations. Intentional technology use “I’m not telling parents to put their phones down altogether,” she said. “There are times when we need these devices,” adding that they can be used by parents in positive ways and for meaningful interactions with their children. She advises parents to be intentional in how they use their devices, avoiding the urge to respond to every notification that’s coming at them and interrupt their thought processes and the flow of activity with their kids. As a parent of a 5 and 9-year-old, Radesky said she understands technology interference. “What I strive for is being aware and telling my kids why I’m using my technology and being critical of the technology that’s sucking me in and also helping model that I can unplug and create a time and a place for technology too.”
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A Modern Throwback Fun and style for brunch at Anna’s House in Ann Arbor
A’S HOUSE
By Julie and David Sturza
Our kids love breakfast. The carbs. The fruit. The syrup. It is all their favorite things in one meal! Needless to say, we were all in great spirits when we checked out the new Anna’s House location on Eisenhower Road. The Ann Arbor location is the newest addition to this popular Michigan-based chain, which began in 2003 in Grand Rapids and has expanded to eight locations in total. Like the other Anna’s Houses, this one boasts a bright, cheerful and spacious interior decorated in the restaurant’s trademark “retro diner” style. The kids loved pointing out all the funky décor items such as a huge blue lamp, a red tea kettle, and a giant mural with Ann Arbor landmarks. It all made for a very silly game of “I Spy” for the whole family.
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445 E Eisenhower Pkwy #1, Ann Arbor 48108 Open daily 6am-3pm 734-726-9490 annashouseus.com
The service was really friendly and fast! Our server took our order on a mobile device and really won us over when, after we had ordered the kids’ meals, she asked, “Do you want me to send those back to the kitchen before we finish out the rest of your order?” As a result, the kids’ meals came out about five minutes after we ordered! Amazing. Kids delight The kids menu at Anna’s House is incredible. They really seem to know what children enjoy eating. And with all eight of the kids menu options offered for $5 or less, parents will be happy too. Our kids shared a Banana Splitter ($5), a split banana made with yogurt, strawberries, blueberries and homemade crunchy granola. We also ordered the Silver Dollar Cakes ($2.50), which we were able to customize in Funfetti style, with vanilla flavor and rainbow sprinkles! Jaws dropped. The kids could not believe this was an even option! Other
pancake choices— plain, chocolate chip or M&M— are sure to please any sugar-loving kid. Creative classics and unique twists The main menu is huge, with options separated conveniently by category, e.g. platters, classics and combos, savory, and sweet stuff. There’s also a robust vegan menu with a range of tasty options. We had heard great things about the Hippie Hash ($12.50), a mix of roasted veggies (cauliflower, broccoli, carrots, cabbage, radish, and beets), brown rice, and redskin potatoes, served with two eggs. It was hearty, healthy, and super tasty. We wanted to see what Anna’s House had in the way of breakfast sandwiches, so we tried the Cook’s Sandwich ($10.50). With a sausage patty, egg, avocado, green onion, cream cheese and cheddar on English Muffin toast it was satisfying, even if a bit difficult to keep together. We had to try to the Breakfast Lasagna ($12) which, hailed as an Anna’s House favorite, is made fresh daily. A play on egg casserole, this dish is layered with tomatoes, spinach, basil, mushroom, and turkey sausage with ricotta cheese all smothered in a homemade béchamel sauce. Honestly, this may have been too rich for one person, but we enjoyed sharing this unique dish. In fact, the crumbliness of the Breakfast Lasagna was perfect for our 9-month old who crushed almost half the serving on his own! Anna’s House doesn’t have a traditional dessert menu per se, but there are plenty of sweet breakfast options that will satisfy anyone’s sweet tooth. Our family chose to share one Red Velvet Pancake ($4.50) as a mouthwatering end to our meal. Served with house-made cream cheese frosting and whipped cream, we were definitely fighting for the last few bites.
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A family-friendly addition Health conscious parents, and those with allergy concerns, will love Anna’s meal coding system which easily lets you know which items are gluten-free, dairyfree, vegetarian, etc. Anna’s House also offers all-natural, chemical free meats in all their dishes and sources many items from local partners. We arrived before 9am on a Sunday morning and recommend doing the same. By the time we wandered out just after 10am the waiting area was packed as people waited for their turn to try out this great family-friendly addition to the Ann Arbor brunch scene.
The Short Course:
Kid-friendly: Yes. To avoid wait: Aim to arrive before 9am. Noise level: Medium. Bathroom amenities: Changing table. High chairs? Yes. Got milk? Yes. Kids’ menu? Yes. Anything healthy for kids? Definitely. Food allergy concerns? Anna’s House’s menu labeling system makes it easy to avoid allergens.
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SATURDAY n MAY 11 An afternoon of fun fantasy, and five dancing princesses
All calendar events are subject to change, cancellation and limited size. Calling ahead for confirmation is recommended.
1 WEDNESDAY Charlotte’s Web 10am. $12 - $15. Towsley Auditorium, Washtenaw Community College. wildswantheater.org Charlotte’s Web is possibly the best loved of all American stories for children. It tells the touching story of a rare friendship between a little pig, Wilbur, and Charlotte, a most uncommon spider. Shows also at 10am on 5/02, 5/03 also at 12:30pm on 5/03, and 2pm on 5/04 and 5/05.
2 THURSDAY 2019 Spring Open House and Recognition Program 5pm. $20. Emagine Theatre, Saline. supportfsas.org The Foundation for Saline Area Schools hosts an evening with a private showing of the highly anticipated Avengers: Endgame. All are welcome to the open house with movies beginning at 6:45pm. Emagine will provide appetizers, popcorn, soda and the film.
3 FRIDAY Bright Futures and First Fridays 5:30pm. Riverside Arts Center, Ypsilanti. riversidearts.org Free Check out First Fridays full of activities, art and adventure! Bright Futures @ EMU brings special student-focused evenings full of new activities to enhance creativity and spark your expression!
4 SATURDAY Star Wars Fest: May the 4th Be With You! 1pm. Ann Arbor District Library Downtown. aadl.org Free Don’t miss this out-of-this-world time at Star Wars Fest! Partake in Star Wars-themed crafts, games, and fun for all! Come in costume to make things more spectacular! Day Out with Thomas: Big Adventures Tour 2019 9:30am-4:30pm. $33-40. The Henry Ford, Dearborn. dayoutwiththomas.com Thomas the Tank Engine invites little engineers to join him for a day of big adventures, including a 25-minute ride with a talking Thomas the Tank Engine. 32nd Annual Spring Concert Ann Arbor Youth Chorale 4pm. $5 - $10. Bethlehem United Church of Christ. annarboryouthchorale.org Come be delighted by the sounds of seasonal tunes performed by the Chorale’s Descant Choir and Concert Choir.
5 SUNDAY Practically Perfect Tea with Mary Poppins 12pm. $30/parent and child. Plymouth Historical Museum. plymouthhistory.org Come meet Mary Poppins! Enjoy tea delicacies, make and take activities, kids can dress up and take photos. Children must be at least 4-years-old. Reserve tickets in advance.
6 MONDAY Youth Leadership Workshop 6pm. YDL-Downtown, Ypsilanti. ypsilibrary.org Free Develop communication and leadership skills in this practical and interactive workshop for ages 12-18. Register: 734-482-4110 x1329 or online. Also on 5/13 and 5/20.
7 TUESDAY MomShare Group 1pm. Women’s Center of SE MI. womenscentersemi.org Free A support group for new moms and their babies. Groups often include a mindfulness techniques for the week ahead. Also on 5/14, 5/21, 5/28 and the 1st and 3rd Saturdays of the month from 9:30-11am.
8 WEDNESDAY Wild Kratts Live 2.0 Activate Creature Power 6:30pm. $31.20-$51.50. Michigan Theater. michtheater.org Join the Kratts brothers, with Martin and Chris LIVE on stage and the the other Wild Kratts coming to you animated and on screen. Also on 5/9 at 6:30pm. Nature Storytime Wondrous Wildflowers 10am. $4 - $5. Leslie Science and Nature Center. lesliesnc.org Explore and appreciate the outdoors with your little ones. Held every Wednesday and every other Sunday for one hour. Always dress for the weather!
9 THURSDAY Saline KinderConcerts 10:30am. Saline District Library. salinelibrary.org Free Music comes alive in KinderConcerts, 30-minute concerts designed especially for children ages 2-5, inviting them to dance and play while listening to tunes.
10 FRIDAY Pets & Pajamas Movie Night 5pm. $15 - $35. Humane Society of Huron Valley. hshv.org This event is for ages 5 to 11 and includes adoptable animal interactions, a vegetarian dinner and an animal-themed movie with popcorn! Drop your kids off at 5pm; pick them up at 9pm.
Ballet Chelsea is pleased to present The Five Dancing Princesses at the Potter Center located in Jackson. This original full-length ballet with choreography by Wendi Dubois is based on the fairy tale The Twelve Dancing Princesses by the Brothers Grimm. Set to the music of Wolfgang Amadeus Mozart, the humorous narrative features sparkling choreography performed by a lavishly costumed cast of dancers. It features clever fun that includes Queen Genevieve’s foot fetish, King George’s irate attempts to keep the lovely Princesses from wearing out their pointe shoes, a heated fairy fight between the Fair Fairy Rosalind and the Dark Fairy Cassandra, and an evening of dancing with a troop of dashing Lords. —LE
Saturday, May 11. 2pm. $10-20. Jackson College, Potter Center, 2111 Emmons Rd., Jackson. balletchelsea.org
SATURDAY n MAY 18 Launch your child’s imagination for the summer
The Ann Arbor YMCA is holding a free community event to inspire more kids to keep their minds and bodies active at Healthy Kids Day®, the Y’s national initiative to improve health and well-being for kids and families. An opportunity to ignite children’s imaginations concerning what they’ll accomplish this summer, Healthy Kids Day will feature activities such as canoeing, games, healthy cooking demonstrations, and arts and crafts to motivate and teach families to develop and maintain healthy routines at home through the summer months. —LE
Saturday, May 18. 10am-1pm. YMCA Camp Birkett, 9141 Dexter Townhall Rd., Pinckney. 734-996-9622. annarborymca.org Free
Explore the world of imagination Join Mister Mullin and his magical house full of puppet critters on a whimsical journey filled with songs and games. Mister Mullin leads the way, unlocking a world of imagination for kids and families to explore during their puppet experience Mullin & Friends LIVE! coming to the Riverside Arts Center in Ypsilanti May 22-25. As the story unfolds, strange and wonderful things begin to happen, mysteries appear that must be solved, and everyone learns that you can do anything if you believe in yourself! Mullin & Friends is an original show by Mullin Entertainment known for their collection of award-winning puppet characters. Imagine everything fun and whimsical about childhood crammed into one company. —LE
Thursday, May 22-Saturday, May 25. 7pm. $13/person. Riverside Arts Center, 76 N. Huron St., Ypsilanti. 989-325-1673. mullinentertainment.com
11 SATURDAY Intro to Improv for Teens 2pm. Ann Arbor District Library Downtown. aadl.org Free This workshop will introduce you to the basics of improv comedy. You’ll also be learning to listen, collaborate, and create with others in the moment. No experience necessary. For grades 6-12. Girls on the Run 5k Event Series 9am. $28 - $30. Rolling Hills County Park, Ypsilanti. girlsontherunsemi.org The 5K course is a 3.1 mile route along the paved bike path at Rolling Hills County Park. There will be three water stations along the course and course marshals to support participants throughout the course. Continued on p.22
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12 SUNDAY Mother’s Day Celebration and Brunch 9am. $35-45. The Toledo Zoo. toledozoo.org/mothersday Moms receive FREE Zoo admission with their child. A brunch buffet is available in Malawi Event Center with seatings at 9am and 11:30am. Mother’s Day Tea! 10am. $15 - $30. TeaHaus. teahaus.com Dress up if you like and treat yourself to a tea service. Seatings at 10am, 1:30pm, 5pm. Reservations are required; space is limited so please call ahead. Mother’s Day Tea Purrty 11am. $35. Tiny Lions Cat Cafe. hshv.org Put on your party dress for the 2nd annual Mother’s Day Tea Purrty at the cat café! Seatings available at 11am, 12:30pm and 2pm. Includes tea service, refreshments and a small gift for Mom! Best for ages 6 and up.
13 MONDAY Parenting Support Group 7pm. YDL-Downtown, Ypsilanti. Ypsilibrary.org Free Laugh and learn in this informal, non-judgmental group. All parents are welcome! Childcare provided for kids ages 2-7.
14 TUESDAY Tummy Times 10am. Westgate Branch Library. aadl.org Free Meet other new parents and indulge in Sweetwaters at Westgate while your child has fun with our special toys for young babies. Parents and Babies up to 12 mos.
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15 WEDNESDAY Nature Tykes Preschool Program 9:45am. $40. Leslie Science and Nature Center. lesliesnc.org Allow your 4-5 year old to learn and grow independently in this 1.5 hour drop-off program. Registration is by the month and is designed to encourage questions, exploring and classroom skills through interactive activities indoor and out.
16 THURSDAY Build Your Own Pokémon Terrarium 6:30pm. Ann Arbor District Library Downtown. aadl.org Free Learn how to build your very own Pokémon terrarium!
17 FRIDAY YPT’s Newsies 7pm. $10-$15. UM Power Center for the Performing Arts. youngpeoplestheater.com Based on real events, Newsies is the story of newsboys who make a meager living selling newspapers on New York’s streets. Full of song and dance, Newsies features 106 locals.
18 SATURDAY Ann Arbor Roller Derby 2019 Season Opener 5:30pm. $10-15. Buhr Park. a2derbydimes.org Were bringing you two full-length games of flat-track roller derby, complete with concessions, merch and more summer fun! Buy tickets in advance to save and kids under 12 get in FREE with paid admission (2 kids for each paying adult).
Tuesdays Toddler Time 1-2pm. $7. Champion Gymnastics. champgymaa.com Also held Monday-Fridays from 9-10am for one house of uninstructed play time. All kids must have a parent present and have a signed consent form to participate. Also Thursdays 1-2pm.
Wednesdays Baby Playgroups 11am. Ann Arbor Pittsfield Branch Library. aadl.org Free Babies up to 24 months gather at the library to play with toys. Each
Pop-Up Makerspace: Spheres and Slides 10am. $12.50. Ann Arbor Hands-On Museum. aahom.org This Makerspace focuses on paper engineering by designing, testing and building. Ann Arbor Youth Art Fair Jury Session 1pm. Westgate Branch Library. artfair.org/page/youth-art-fair Free Meet with art educators to talk about artwork as part of the jury process for the 2019 Youth Art Fair. The Youth Art Fair is held during the Townie Street Party and is open to young artists in grades 4-12, residing in Washtenaw County. Also on 5/21 at 5pm.
19 SUNDAY Ann Arbor Creativity & Making Expo 12pm. Ann Arbor District Library Downtown. aadl.org Free Enjoy a day of robotics, DIY Science, historical technologies and handicrafts, student STEM and STEAM projects, hands-on activities from groups such as Maker Works, Brain Monkeys and more! 39th Annual Huron River Day Festival 12pm. Parks and Recreation Facilities. calendar.a2gov.org Free Come celebrate the wonderful Huron River during this fun festival. Ride your bike and receive a coupon for a free boat rental (or enjoy discounted boat prices). A World of Animals 2pm. $2-$5. Eddy Discovery Center, Chelsea. wnha.org Brendan Finerty of Jackson’s Wild World Zoo presents this entertaining, hands-on program featuring wide variety of live animals from around the globe. Please register in advance. Cirque du Wild Swan! 5pm. $75. Cobblestone Farm & Museum. wildswantheater.org Support Wild Swan Theater through a blend of theater, circus, and county fair at their annual fundraiser. Enjoy a colorful spectacle of dancers, jugglers, and performers, along with sweet and savory treats.
playgroup includes 15 minutes of stories, rhymes and songs. Parents/guardians must remain with their children. No older siblings, please. Grandparents as Parents 10am-noon. First United Methodist Church, Chelsea. csswashtenaw.org Free Support group meetings for grandparents on every 2nd and 4th Wednesday of the month.
Thursdays Little Paws Storytime 10:30am. $5 per child. Humane Society of Huron Valley. hshv.org Best for ages 2 to 5, the programs include animal-themed stories, fingerplays, crafts and the opportunity to meet some of our adoptable animals! No preregistration required.
20 MONDAY Dan’s Dine to Donate to WM PTA 11am. Dan’s Downtown Tavern, Saline. Support local at Dan’s, which is open on the third Monday of any month, SeptemberMay, mention the WM PTA fundraiser, and Dan & Sarah will give back 10 percent off of their sales to our school.
23 THURSDAY Pittsfield Township Farmers Market 2pm. Prairie Park. pittsfield-mi.gov Free Shop local at the Pittsfield Township Farmers Market! Enjoy live music, kids activities and cooking demos on select dates. Bridge Card, Double Up Food Bucks, and Prescription for Health tokens accepted.
Fridays
Family Fun Night 7pm. $6 - $8. Meri Lou Murray Rec Center. washtenaw.org Join the Meri Lou Murray Rec Center for Family Fun Night in the Pool. All the lane lines will be removed and there will be floats and toys in the pool. Fun for all ages.
Saturdays/Sundays Family Fun! Gallery Adventures 11am-1pm. Free with general admission. Detroit Institute of Arts. dia.org Every weekend docents provide popup tours and activities for families! Held in French galleries on Saturdays and Native American galleries on Sundays.
Saline Memorial Day Parade 10am. Downtown Saline. visitsaline.com Free Honoring America’s fallen soldiers, Saline’s annual Memorial Day parade is at Harris Street and Michigan Avenue and will proceed to Oakwood Cemetery for a ceremony and speeches. Glacier Highlands Memorial Day Parade 10am. Greenbrier Park. glacierhighlands.org. Free Honor veterans with a parade and remembrance ceremony. There parade begins at Greenbrier Park and ends at Glacier Highlands Park where there will be coffee, donuts, and other snacks.
28 TUESDAY Moms Demand Action Monthly Meeting 7pm. First United Methodist Church, Ypsilanti. momsdemandaction.org Free Attend the monthly meetings of the Washtenaw County group to find out about local efforts at gun violence prevention.
29 WEDNESDAY CatVideoFest 2019 7pm. $8.50 - $10.50. Michigan Theater. michtheater.org CatVideoFest presents cat videos culled from hours of unique submissions and classic internet clips. Only available in theaters, it raises money for local cat charities. Plan It Workshop 4pm. $8. SCRAP Box. scrapbox.org All Glam Planners, Bullet Journalers, and Sticker Diarists will love the fancy pens, markers, stamps, stickers, build-your-own collage packs, and more. Each workshop features an added bonus craft.
30 THURSDAY Nature Walk at Bird Hills Nature Area 6pm. Bird Hills Nature Area. a2gov.org Free Bring water and bug spray for this walk led by a Natural Area Preservation host. Meet at the Bird Road entrance (additional parking available at the Barton Dam parking lot across Huron River Drive).
25 SATURDAY Classics at the City Club 12pm. Ann Arbor City Club. annarborcityclub.org Free The Classic Vehicle Show attracts a wide variety of vehicles from Michigan and surrounding states. Lunch and snacks available for purchase. BMR Kids Club 11am. Black Stone Bookstore, Ypsilanti. facebook.com/BlackStoneBookstore Free BMR (Black Men Read) is an homage to the history of the storytelling among African people where the men read to children. For kids in grades K-5.
26 SUNDAY Flower Day 10am. Ann Arbor Farmers Market. calendar.a2gov.org Free The Sunday Artisan Market Flower Day includes food trucks, live music, backyard beekeeping tips, gardening tips, and more! Market growers will offer a wide variety of flowers, plants, bulbs, seeds and seedlings at a great value. Flower Day Cookie Painting! 10am. $12. Eat More Tea. eatmoretea.com Everything you need to make your own beautiful cookies is supplied. Just drop in.
27 MONDAY Dexter Memorial Day Parade 10am. Downtown Dexter. dextermemorialdayparade.com Free Celebrate and remember the brave men and women of our U.S. military in this grand community event. Parade followed by a ceremony service at the Dexter Gazebo.
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