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community snapshots what’s briefly happening new kids on the block tween the lines exceptional families calendar — compiled by Marisa Rubin & Chloe Rothchild

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A Mom’s Letter to Santa If Moms could write a list for the North Pole — By Pam Monar

24 Diary of a Dad

A Christmas to Remember Truly appreciating Christmas and family — By Matthew Reger

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25 Mother Mayhem

The Holiday To-Do List

Yes, Virgina there is a Santa Claus and she needs my help — By Mary Helen Darah

26 Parent Profile

“No Wrong Door” for Sparrow’s Nest advocate

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Dr. Tamirisa encourages others to make a difference — By Mary Helen Darah

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New expanded space with old favorites — By Mary Helen Darah

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Online exclusives Our December issue is full of "holiday happenings" to get your families ready for the season. Now, to prepare yourself for the hectic holiday schedule, check out "The Holiday Survival Kit" online, which features: • Five Tips for a Peaceful Stepfamily Holiday • Gifts Money Can't Buy • "It's Not Fair!"

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Dear Editor,

As the parent of an adult son with autism, I wanted to thank you for your outstanding Special Needs issue! Years ago I contributed a story about what it's like to raise a child with a disability. Toledo Area Parent continues to have meaningful articles on individuals with special needs, their families, their schools and their providers. Keep up the good work.

Carol Holmes

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Adams Street Publishing Co. What holiday tradition are you most looking forward to this year?

Publisher/Editor in Chief

Collette Jacobs (cjacobs@toledoparent.com) Spending a week with my out of state children.

Co-publisher/Chief Financial Officer Mark I. Jacobs (mjacobs@toledoparent.com) The great gift from my wife.

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Assignment Editor: Nadine Akra (nadine@adamsstreetpublishing.com) Board Games WITH FAMILY. Calendar: Marisa Rubin (mrubin@adamsstreetpublishing.com) Scrounging for coupons.

Social Media Specialist: Brandon Doriot (aspcmedia@gmail.com) I DRESS UP LIKE SANTA FOR COMFORT HEARTS CHARITY. Staff Writer: Griffin Messer-Kruse (griffin@adamsstreetpublishing.com) eating all the chirstmas cookies.

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KIDS HOROSCOPE

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By Sue Lovett Sagittarian kids are always happy if they are given “space” to do their own thing. They are very curious and the most creative sign of the zodiac. They have super imaginations and are content to build, cut, paste and make some of their own cards and paper necklaces. Fascinated to hear about foreign countries, they may try to dig a hole to China in the back yard. They loveanimals,especiallyhorses.,and seem to take on every challenge which can be difficult for parents to understand.

Parents should remember that they resent strict time limits. Try to give them a 15 minute warning when meals will be served, it is time to go to bed or clean up their area. Often the Sagittarian child will spin a globe to find places around the world.

Learning a second language (even sign language) is fun as long as they do not have to sit still for any length of time. They are extremely bright eyed, friendly and creative. Encourage them to make their own Christmas cards and gifts.

Distribution: Michelle Flanagan (distribution@toledoparent.com) Putting up the Christmas Tree!

Publisher’s Assistant: Jan Thomas (jthomas@adamsstreetpublishing.com) Huge Italan Feast.

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Help make wishes come true Annual Holiday Craft Show benefits Make-A-Wish

Spread some holiday spirit and help make a child’s special wish come true by attending the 8th Annual Holiday Craft Show to benefit Make-A-Wish Foundation.

The organization grants wishes for children diagnosed with lifethreatening medical conditions in the United States and its territories.

Many times, the granting of a wish is what the organization likes to

The Toledo Ballet’s Nutcracker gets a new look Clara leaves Germany and heads to the Manor House

call a “game-changer” in the life of a seriously-ill child. Area crafters will be selling their handiworks just in time to assist you with your busy holiday shopping. Lunch and refreshments are also available.

There will be hourly raffles and a Chinese raffle, where ticket buyers may choose which prize to focus on, featuring items donated by area businesses. All net proceeds will benefit Make-A-Wish.

Saturday, December 7 from 10am-4pm. Lucas County Recreation Center, 2901 Key St., Toledo.

For more information contact Tracey Elmore at 419-893-4589 or TSElmore@ aol.com, or visit co.lucas.oh.us. Free.

One of Toledo’s favorite holiday traditions is getting a new look. The Toledo Ballet recently unveiled the new design for the Nutcracker Act I set. The new set will feature another of Toledo’s favorite “go-to” holiday places -- the Manor House at the former Stranahan estate, located on the grounds of Wildwood Metropark. Funding for the new set was largely provided

by William and Margaret Foster and The Anderson Fund Supporting Organization of the Toledo Community Foundation. The previous, 30-year-old set was not aging gracefully. Mari Davies, executive director for the Toledo Ballet, is thrilled to merge

two Toledo traditions and bring new energy to the Toledo Nutcracker with the new set design. She says, “I wanted the new set to debut this year in celebration of Toledo Ballet’s 75th anniversary. The wonderful thing about Nutcracker is that it is a universal tale of the magic of childhood, so we decided that Clara doesn’t have to live in Germany. We are bringing her home and moving her into the Manor House, where Performances Dates she and her family will live Saturday, December 14 for the next 30 to 40 years.”

2pm and 7pm Sunday, December 15, 2pm

The Toledo Ballet performs the Nutcracker with the Toledo Symphony on Saturday, December 14, at 2pm and 7pm, Sunday, December 15, at 2pm. Tickets range from $24-$54. Stranahan Theater, 4645 Heatherdowns Blvd., Toledo. For tickets call 419-381-8851 or visit toledoballet.org.

For tickets call 419-381-8851 or visit toledoballet.org

Toledo Botanical Garden hosts Heralding the Holidays The Toledo Botanical Garden is the perfect venue to get into the holiday spirit. The Botanical Garden conference center, Artists Village and the Seasons Gift Shop will be full of items for your family’s shopping enjoyment. Jewelry, pottery, glass, paintings, photography, textiles, lotions and soaps will help you find unique holiday gifts for even the toughest people on your holiday shopping list. The kids will delight in looking at the fairy gardens available for purchase. Edible goodies including mustards, jams and jellies, baked goods and herbs make great gifts –especially for hard-working hostesses. The event also includes a visit from Santa and live entertainment. Food is available for purchase making certain your little ones do not go hungry at this family-friendly holiday happening. Bundle up Friday night and enjoy a free horse-drawn wagon ride through TBG. Friday, December 6 from 5-9pm, Saturday, December 7 from 10am-5pm and Sunday, December 8 from Noon-5pm.

Toledo Botanical Garden, 5403 Elmer Dr., Toledo.

419-536-5566. toledogarden.org. Free.

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One woman strives to create lasting memories through her art By: Christina Cordova

Tutus, Tonka trucks, laughter and love—whatever your family is all about, Carli Felix, owner of Shutterlove Studio and Boutique, wants to capture the reality of your beautifully unique family. Through her photography, Carli hopes to preserve life’s moments by doing away with the stiff clothes and rehearsed poses of traditional photography. “Those just aren’t real,” she says.

“Photos should reflect [a] family’s personality and relationship together,” Felix says of her passion. “We strive to have the photos really show who you are. We like to let newborns sleep, toddlers pick their own outfits for part of the session (even if it doesn’t match). We will guide you into the right starting pose. We really like you to interact as a family, snuggle together, laugh and have fun!”

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There is no love like Shutterlove

Above: Owner of Shutterlove Studio and Boutique, Carli Felix Left: The Shutterlove Botique such as cloth diapers, nursery artwork, pacifier clips and designer clothes. She is always looking for new and fun items to offer for sale, and she encourages local artists to approach her with their ideas. The Shutterlove Boutique opened with studio in the spring of 2012.

“I really do think I have the best job in the world,” says Felix. “I love that I get to provide my clients with a cherished memory...[and] that people can stop in the boutique and find a unique gift while also helping support someone locally.”

The concept behind Shutterlove Studio may be new, but the results—a memory worth a thousand words—will be timeless.

Tuesday-Saturday, 10am-5pm. Shutterlove Studio and Boutique, 202 Louisiana Ave., Perrysburg. Portrait sessions by appointment.

Contact Carli Felix at 419-874-2663 or shutterlovestudio.com.

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Princess for a Day

Alencia Loredo celebrates her Quinceañera in the most royal fashion

By Christine Holliday

Alencia Loredo is a typical high school sophomore at Central Catholic. She worries about grades, looks forward to Homecoming and doesn’t go too far from her phone. But for one special day last summer, Alencia was a princess as her family and friends celebrated her Quinceanera, the marking of her fifteenth birthday and the symbolic beginning of womanhood. Alencia was marking this special event as many Hispanic girls do in Mexico, Puerto Rico, and Central and South America, with several activities that highlighted God, family, friends, music, food, and dance. As her mom, Richelle Geronimo-Angel described it, “Even though we don’t live in Mexico, I wanted her to experience something that carries on our traditions.”

The day started with a Mass at Immaculate Conception Church.

Alencia, in a white dress, was escorted down the aisle by her parents. She was met at the altar by Reverend Paul Kwiatkowski, who had baptized her as an infant and had given her First Holy Communion, who guided the renewal of her baptismal promises, offering a special prayer of dedication. A guitarist played Mexican music, and members of her family presented gifts of special significance, including a rosary and a Bible, a tiara to mark her as a “princess” in

the eyes of God, and earrings, with the hope that, in tough times and periods of doubt, she will always hear the Lord. Fourteen of her friends, with male escorts, served as a Court of Honor, acting as witnesses to her public coming of age.

The celebratory dinner also included plenty of symbolism. The Court of Honor performed special choreographed dances, which they had learned through several months of lessons, and Alencia had a special dance with her father, after changing her shoes for high heels—a symbol of her transformation from a little girl to a young lady. She received other special gifts from guests, including her “Last Doll,” a nod to the toys a young woman leaves behind. The youngest guests enjoyed candy, a photo booth and dancing to Mexican music.

Alencia’s big day was made possible by the support of her friends and family. Padrinos, or sponsors, helped to pay for everything, including beverages, flowers, music, hall decorations, her hair and makeup, even the limo. “This was a big step in life for me; I was the first girl in my family in this generation to have a Quince. The best part of my celebration was seeing all my family come together at the ceremony and reception. It made me feel special!”

Returning from the Big Apple to the Glass City as champions Southview Mock Trial Team wins the Empire City Invitational tournament

By Nadine Akra

(L to R) Emily Warner, Mattison Gibson, Neera Martin, Alyssa Brown, Jasmine Arndt, Beatrice Thaman, Maddie Krell, Charese Foster

St. Ursula Students Take Action The Lexus Eco Challenge Provides Chance to Win Grants and Scholarships

By Erin Marsh

Nine students from St. Ursula’s STEM (science, technology, engineering, mathematics) team decided they wanted to address the Maumee River’s pollution and algae problem. Jackie Kane, STEM adviser, explains how they decided their plan of action: “After much research, we found that the best place to remediate for pollution is at the site of origin. So we figured before we do anyone else’s backyard, we better do our own.”

The team decided to remediate a run-off area on the school’s property to simplify the rain garden idea to boost water quality. They removed the polluted mud, replaced it with clean dirt, and added rocks and plants from Toledo Environmental Services. They then submitted their plan to the Lexus Eco Challenge, a national contest that encourages middle and high school students to create and implement programs that positively impact their surrounding ecological environments.

The Lexus Eco Challenge, hosted by luxury automaker Lexus, and Scholastic, the global children’s publishing, education and media company, chose 16 winning teams nationwide, and St. Ursula was one of them. Each team received a total of $10,000 in grants and scholarships.

Back row: Shaleen Goel, Katherine Ellis, Yuran Chen, Officer Justin Music, Denny Lyle, Vicki Lyle, Zach Poczekaj, Claire Coder and Eric Zhu Front row: Sevil Clifford, Lily Yan, Catherine Dong, Nikila Luke After a three-day battle, the Southview Mock Trial Team returned home from the Big Apple as world champions.

The team won the world title at the Empire City Invitational tournament, topping over 40 other teams from five countries worldwide. “It Could Happen to Anyone”, the winning court case that captured the trophy, dealt with criminal charges regarding reckless driving.

Seeded in 35th place before the final championship round, the defense team made the ultimate comeback to take first place. Southview Mock Trial Team coach and local attorney Denny Lyle has had a 20-year run, training students to effectively argue and defend cases. This is the third team Denny has led from Southview to the New York City tournament. To help them further prepare for the case, Sergeant Justin Music of the Sylvania City Police and Judge Scott Ramey reviewed for them the ins and outs of working an impaired driving case.

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For the Love of Dance Adaptive Performing Arts Center makes an exceptional family

By Nadine Akra

APAC organizers Karen Medina and Katie Nault teach a new program that has captivated hearts, re-molding the possibilities for the special needs community and performing arts.

Toledo Area Parent attended a practice and performance, and watched the magic come to life as contagious smiles and bravery lit up the dance floor while bouncing to Beyoncé’s ‘Single Ladies’.

Tell me about Adaptive Performing Arts Center Karen: “What we’re doing is giving these special needs students an opportunity to experience their own dance studio. So they’re not trying to go to a competition studio and fit in. This is their home.

Dance, music lessons and theatre are also offered so that more people can be a part of it. Expression is so powerful. Everybody has ideas and visuals and it’s an amazing feeling to be able to share them.

They’re comfortable here. It’s very supportive and we all understand each other’s challenges, difficulties and obstacles.

It’s not about how you can help them.

It’s about how they are going to help you.

You have to be ready for that with special needs children.”

In what ways have the students helped you?

Karen: “Patience has been my greatest teacher. When I get the hugs and highfives, that’s what makes it all worth it.

When I see somebody able to do something that they couldn’t a week ago, that’s what makes it real.”

Katie: “They humble me. They are never afraid to try anything. I tell them I’m allergic to the words ‘I can’t, I won’t, and I don’t’. It’s incredible to see how far they will push. Another thing is that our students are told so often throughout the day what to do and how to do it. Here, you get to see their individual personalities emerge.”

How did you become involved with the special needs community?

Karen: “Earma Algee, of the Lucas County Developmental Disabilities office, approached me after a dance class and said ‘What do you think about doing this?’ And I said ‘Why not?’ I’ve been in the dance world for 30 10

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years so I’ve seen a lot of sequins, glitter and mascara. And none of that makes you a better person… this does.”

Katie: “I spent more summers than I can remember working with special needs children. When I got tickets to come see Karen’s show, I was hooked. It’s not just moving to music, dance improves your life in so many ways. We’ve learned exercises that can improve reading retention and we have the opportunity to teach it to students and their caregivers.”

What’s your long-term goal?

Karen: “I want everybody who walks through this door to benefit somehow. Our passion is our technique.”

Katie: “I want to make sure that everybody here is given an opportunity to express themselves in whatever way is healthy. We encourage anyone to let us know if their child has an interest so we can come up with a way to accommodate them.”

The Adaptive Performing Arts Center is located at 151 N. Michigan Ave., Toledo. For more information or to get involved, call 419-309-1610 or email idance@bex.net.

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It’s the most wonderful time of the year! To make sure you and your family enjoy the season, we’ve picked the best Chirstmas-themed events happening this month.

We hope these tidings bring you and your family great comfort and joy!

Ongoing

Children’s Wonderland

Sylvania, Tam-O-Shanter

7060 Sylvania Ave. • 419-885-1167 x332 • childrenswonderland.org

Children’s Wonderland is a classic Toledo tradition with a plethora of lights, life-size decrations, a ride-on train and plenty of other ways to celebrate the holidays. Buy some toys, satisfy your sweet tooth, or take some silly pictures to make this trip memorable. Santa’s Workshop will be held December 14 &21 from 8:30am to 10:30am (admission $8) and will include a strolling Santa (who will be available for pictures, so bring your camera!), a continental breakfast for the kids, a train ride, and elf workstations. Open daily, December 13-28, from 11am to 8pm (December 24, 11am-2pm; closed December 25). $5 adults / $3 kids 3-12 / $2 seniors 65 & up / $5, kids’ zone pass.

North Pole Express

Northwest Ohio Railroad Preservation, Inc. 11600 County Rd. 99, Findlay • 419-423-2995 • nworrp.org

Bring your whole family for an exhilarating quarter-scale steam train ride as the steam engine chugs its way around the track through a magical winter wonderland of sparkling holiday lights and festive decorations. Every weekend through December 29: Fridays, 6-9pm; Saturdays, 5-9pm; Sundays, 5-8pm. $1 kids 12 & under / $2 adults (price includes one train ride ticket).

The Town Center at Levis Commons

Horse-Drawn Carriage Rides

3201 Levis Commons Blvd., Perrysburg • 419-931-8888 • shopleviscommons.com

For a truly magical holiday experience, hop on a horse-drawn carriage ride. Pick-up is located on Chappel Dr. near Schakolad Chocolate Factory. Every Saturday through December 28, 5-8pm. $5 person / $10 family.

Toledo Zoo

The Lights Before Christmas 2 Hippo Way • 419-385-4040 • toledozoo.org

TThousands of lights illuminate the walkways and the animals, creating a unique experience for zoo-goers. Look for other special events throughout the month, like ice carving demos, a visit from the Toledo Walleye hockey team, a Santa Paws gift shop, and more. Zoo-goers can experience the lights every day of December (except 24 & 25): Sundays through Thursdays, 3-8pm; Fridays & Saturdays, 3-9pm. Free kids under 2 / $10 kids under 2-11 / $13 adults / $10 seniors 65 & up (discounts and packages available online).

Wolcott House Museum

’Twas the Night Before Christmas 1035 River Rd., Maumee • 419-893-9602 • wolcotthouse.com

Celebrate the timeless Christmas tale! Evoking the classic holiday poem, the Wolcott House will decorate its rooms with antique toys, treats, multiple Santas, traditional gowns, art prints and more. Open every Thursday through Sunday (until December 29) at 12:30pm. $5 adults / $4 seniors / $1.50 students.

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Sunday December 1 Downtown Pemberville

Lighted Christmas Parade Main Street • 419-287-4305 • pemberville.org

Pemberville will kick off the holiday season with their first annual Lighted Christmas Parade. Floats, marching bands, vehicles and local groups, all lit up like Christmas trees, will march from the public library to city hall. The event will cap off Pemberville’s Christmas Village festival, so be sure to arrive early for food, games, crafts and more. Parade begins at 6:30pm.

Thursday December 5 Imagination Station

Sauder Village

Holiday Lantern Tours

22611 St. Rt. 2, Archbold • 800-590-9755 • saudervillage.org

The flicker of a candle will light the way as a costumed guide invites small groups on a journey to meet historical characters in various locations. Guests will experience the holiday customs and celebrations of the 1900s. Additional tours take place December 7, 13 & 14. Pre-registration/payment is required. Tours last approximately 90 minutes and are repeated every half hour from 4-8:30pm. $12 non-member adults / $7 kids 3 & up.

Saturday, December 7

Cookies & Cocoa with Claus

Wildwood Preserve Metropark

Reserve your spot for this members-only pajama dance party with cookies, cocoa, dancing and Santa Claus.

Experiment with holiday-themed activities and demonstrations, story time with Santa’s #1 elf, a special visit by Santa’s reindeer and chilly animals from The Toledo Zoo. 6-8pm. Free to members.

Wildwood Manor House

1 Discovery Way • 419-244-2674 • imaginationstationtoledo.org

Friday December 6 The Valentine Theatre

A Christmas Carol

The Toledo Rep

410 Adams St. • 419-242-2787 • toledorep.org

The Rep’s rendition of the family classic “A Christmas Carol” will bring to life Charles Dickens’ timeless story of Scrooge, Tiny Tim and the ghosts of Christmas past, present and future. Don’t be the humbug that misses out on this great tradition! Friday & Saturday at 8pm; Sunday at 2:30pm. $25 adults / $20 seniors / $15 kids; group tickets available.

Holidays in the

5100 W. Central Ave. • 419-407-9701 • metroparkstoledo.com

A popular Toledo tradition, the iconic Manor House is celebrating its 75th year with a Christmas extravaganza. From December 7-15, walk through the manor’s 32 rooms and view the exquisite holiday decorations. Kids and adults can also participate in craft workshops at the Farmhouse throughout the nine-day run. Snacks and crafts will be available at The Cafe. 10am-8pm. Free admission.

Hilton Inn

Tea & Gingerbread Party 6165 Levis Commons Blvd., Perrysburg 419-931-8888 • shopleviscommons.com

Children will love decorating a gingerbread house that is theirs to keep during this fundraiser for ISOH/Impact. Fill up your belly and your tea cup at the buffet which will be stocked full of teas, soups and desserts. 11:30am-1pm, first session; 1:303:30pm, second session. $25 individual tickets / $45 tea & gingerbread package.

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Lucas County Rec Center Make-A-Wish

Holiday Craft Show 2901 Key St., Maumee • 419-893-4589 • co.lucas.oh.us

Browse a selection of handmade items from area crafters, and enjoy raffles, an auction, refreshments and lunch. Free admission and parking. All proceeds benefit the Make-A-Wish foundation. 10-4pm.

Hope Lutheran Church

A Night in Bethlehem 2201 Secor Rd. • 419-536-8383 • hopetoledo.net

Experience first century Bethlehem right here in Toledo! For two days, Hope Lutheran Church will transfrom into a bustling marketplace, complete with authentic wares, smells and sounds, along with a Nativity scene. Local chorale and orchestras will also perform during the event.

1-6pm. Free admission.

Sunday, December 8 Toledo Symphony

Handel’s Messiah

Peristyle Theater • 2445 Monroe St. • 419-246-8000 • toledosymphony.com

The Toledo Symphony Orchestra, Toledo Choral Society and BGSU University Choral Society will again collaborate for this stellar performance of the popular oratorio. Also, celebrate TSO’s Family Christmas at the Peristyle the day before the concert (Saturday, December 7, 3pm, $20$25), featuring holiday sing-alongs, storytelling and a visit from Santa. Handel’s Messiah starts at 2pm. Tickets available online, start at $35.

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Saturday, December 21

The Nutcracker

Toledo Symphony Orchestra

Stranahan Theater

4645 Heatherdowns Blvd. • 419-381-8851 • stranahantheater.com

The Toledo Ballet will be accompanied by the Toledo Symphony Orchestra to present the timeless holiday classic of a young girl and her magical nutcracker doll. Saturday at 2pm & 7pm; Sunday at 2pm. Cost $24-$54.

Monday, December 16 St. George Cathedral

6th Annual Cookie Walk 3754 Woodley Rd. • 419-475-7054 • stgeorgerossford.org

First Congregational Church Christmas Concert

2315 Collingwood Blvd. • 419-243-6248 • firstcc@bex.net

The Toledo Symphony Orchestra will perform your favorite holiday tunes at this fun Christmas concert. Enjoy classic melodies in an intimate space. Perfect for the entire family. Tickets available through the church. 3:30pm. $10 advance / $15 door.

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The holiday wouldn’t be complete without some delicious treats! St. George’s Cathedral will sell traditional and ethnic cookies, all homemade and complimented with warm coffee. The cathedral’s bookstore will also be open. Call any time before 2pm for more information. 10am-4pm. Lunch is available from 11:30am-2pm.

Toledo-Lucas County Library Holiday Concerts

Main Branch • 325 Michigan St. • 419-259-5200 • toledolibrary.org

Every day this week, the library will host a family-friendly, holiday-themed performance featuring local musicians and choral groups, including the Toledo School for the Arts, Masterworks Chorale, Northview High School Jazz Band and more. All the performances are free and will take place at the main branch’s Wintergarden. December 16-20. 12:30-1:30pm. Free.

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m’s o m Letter to Santa Dear Santa, I can’t believe another year has gone by. Is it just me or are the years passing faster? I think I have been a pretty good mom this year. I have driven my kids to every social event, practice and friend’s house. My wallet has been an endless fountain of money for movies, frozen yogurt and senseless mall trips. I have clocked countless hours at soccer fields, basketball courts, softball diamonds and music auditoriums. With a little help from our friend, Google, I continue to help with homework in subjects I have long forgotten. Sure, I might have lost it a few times, but I live with teenagers, Santa. They are God’s version of the Elf on the Shelf -- sent down to keep us in check, but if left without supervision, they get into mischief.

I know you are busy, so I will be brief.

To start, I need a few things for the bathroom – a sink that repels toothpaste, a splash free mirror and a never ending roll of toilet paper. Changing the roll is just too complicated for my family. I’d like a copy of “The Busy Mom’s Exercise-Free Weight Loss Plan.” I heard it is hard to find, but hey, you are Santa. As a backup, I would be happy with a copy of “The Wine Diet” instead. Unlike other programs, I think I could really stick to this one.

Remember those electric bug zappers from years ago?

If they make one for dog hair, I will take two! I am having a hard time passing off the dust bunnies as our dog’s puppies.

If you have a time machine in storage at the North Pole, I would love the ability to send a letter to my younger self. I could save her hours of unnecessary worry about career choices, raising children and neighborhood drama. I think that’s what caused these “blond” highlights I keep finding in my hair.

If it isn’t too whole week free front seat, who it is to do the right?

much trouble, I would like to have a of arguments about who rides in the drank the last Gatorade and whose turn dishes. This is the season of miracles,

Lastly, I would be thrilled to serve a meal that no one complains about. I’ve given up asking for a meal that everyone eats together before 9:00pm. Our crazy schedule is something even Santa can’t fix.

Well Santa, I can hear my daughter beeping the car horn in the driveway. I have to start round two of my carpool. Travel safe. I’m sorry if the cookies are gone when you get here. The dogs eat anything left on the coffee table. Since I made them, it’s probably better that the dogs ate them anyway.

Love, Mom P.S. All I really want for Christmas is to see the magic of Christmas morning in my teenagers’ eyes.

Pam Molnar is a freelance writer based out of Illinois.

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The Nutcracker & A Christmas Carol

The Nutcracker

Saturday, December 14 at 2pm and 7pm and Sunday, December 15 at 2pm. Tickets range from $24-$54.

Stranahan Theater, call 419-381-8851 or toledoballet.org for booking.

Taking a look at the faces behind some of our favorite holiday characters

A Christmas Carol

December 5 and 6 at 8pm and December 7 at 2:30pm.

Tickets are $25/adults, $15/ children and $20/seniors.

Performed at The Valentine Theatre.

By Christine Holliday

We talked to some of the shining stars of two of Toledo’s beloved holiday productions, The Nutcracker and A Christmas Carol. Here’s what they told us about the excitement of being onstage!

Olivia Bordin Olivia Bordin could give us lessons on how to juggle a busy schedule. The 10-year-old Christ the King School fifth grader keeps on top of her studies and fits in ballet, tap, jazz, gymnastics, voice, and musical theatre classes every week. She also spends weekends rehearsing for her two roles in The Nutcracker—the lead little white mouse and a gingersnap—and smiles at the thought of stage fright. “We’ve trained and practiced for ‘show mode’,” she said, “so we’re ready.”

Olivia has appeared in past performances, and admits she would love to dance the role of Clara someday for such a well-loved Toledo tradition. Her sister is one of the Company girls, and mom helps with costumes, so this show is a real family affair.

“This is a really fun program that is good for all ages,” she explained, “with sad and happy and wonderful all in one show.”

Dominique Glover You can’t perform The Nutcracker without some older “kids,” and Dominique Glover is one of the older kids in this year’s show. He will dance the role of Arabian for the third time, bringing his love of contemporary jazz to the role. He will also play Chinese (Tea), and promises that this year’s show will be special because of new dancers. “I am honored to participate in this show, which brings so many people to each performance. People recognize me as the Arabian in the show, and it makes me feel somewhat like a celebrity.”

Glover teaches contemporary jazz at Toledo Ballet, calling that genre a fusion of all different styles. “I like the freedom it allows in choreography, to be as expressive as the body can be.” His role as Arabian will give him the opportunity to use that expressiveness in the “most non-balletic section of the show.”

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Gabe Omlor Gabe Omlor has the role of Tiny Tim in this year’s A Christmas Carol, and some call him the “Tiniest Tim” ever. But there is nothing tiny about his enthusiasm for the theater. This 9-year-old Beverly School fourth-grader has already appeared in nine productions, and is looking forward to being the sad, poor boy who touches Ebenezer Scrooge’s heart. Gabe brings serious and comedy theater experience to his role, as well as a confidence that comes from an actor doing what he loves. “I hope to be in movies or TV…I want it all,” he admits. He rehearses three days a week, and works on his singing and dancing in his “spare time.” Gabe says he’s so used to being onstage that he never gets nervous. “And I have tons of big brothers and sisters in the show who are willing to help me. The environment on this show is like a family.”

The Martin-Hayden Family A Christmas Carol is a family affair for the Martin-Hayden family. Jamie, Dana, and children, Roan, and Raeanna are cast in the chorus, and Roan appears as a dancer and a young Scrooge. Mom Dana says that hearing the story every night as they rehearse brings their family closer and reminds them of Dickens’ powerful and timeless message.

Roan, 16 , and Raeanna, 12, both students at Toledo School for the Arts, got into acting through classes and children’s productions at the Toledo Roan, Raeanna, Jamie and Dana, in costume Repertoire Theater, and enjoy doing a show with people who have helped with their training. They have encouraged their parents to share their love of theater. This is the 4th year the family has appeared in the show together. Dana explains, “What better way to spend family time than to be part of a show promoting the same values we try to replicate as a family every day at home.”

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Brian Roush was raised in a military family, and says holiday traditions were few and far between. That’s the reason he and his ex-wife work hard to make sure their two and a half-yearold son, Jackson Robert, gets to experience customs from both parents’ families. Mom’s family Christmas isn’t complete without kielbasa, a type of Eastern European sausage, and Dad’s Christmas includes cookies from a 30-year-old family recipe. The family picks a live tree every year and makes sure to see “The Lights Before Christmas” at the Toledo Zoo. Jackson helps decorate the house with colored popcorn, and leaves a Christmas Eve snack of carrots for the reindeer and cookies for Santa. On Christmas morning, the family looks for Santa’s footprints from the stockings to the tree, then they enjoy French toast topped with red and green whipped cream, time in church, and visits to the grandparents.

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oledo families may celebrate different holidays at different times and in different ways. Yet, as the profiled families demonstrate, we all share something in common. Our loved ones and spending time together are at the heart of our diverse celebrations.

By Christine Holliday

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Musher-Eizenman Family

Hanukkah has a special meaning for the Musher-Eizenman family this year. They traveled to Israel this past summer, and visited the site where the Temple in Jerusalem used to stand. They will play with the dreidel they bought in Israel, with letters that stand for “A great miracle happened here,” and recall the two miracles marked by the holiday: the tiny Jewish army of the Maccabees that faced the Greek army, and the one-day supply of oil in the Temple menorah that lasted eight days. Foods cooked in oil, such as potato latkes and donuts, will be on the menu, and mom Dara notes she will have to add Thanksgiving foods to her table since the two holidays fall on the same day this year. The children Ella, 13, Jonah, 10, and Sylvia, 2, will receive chocolate coins called gelt.The family will light the candles on the menorah, exchange small gifts, and sing Hanukkah songs, all while basking in the joy of the Jewish holiday.

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Ayad Family

Muslims in our area won’t be celebrating the holidays in December. Their big holiday Eid occurred in October, in the Islamic month of Dhu al-Hijjah. Also known as the Feast of Sacrifice, the three-day festival commemorates Abraham’s willingness to sacrifice his son Isaac on God’s command, and marks the end of the Hajj pilgrimage to Mecca. In the Ayad household, family members celebrate with friends and family. Daughter Nadia explains, “Eid involves prayer, of course, so a trip to the mosque is in order. We get new clothes and celebrate with a lot of food. This year our family went to the Sultan Club to spend time with friends and have lunch. Many families in the Middle East will sacrifice an animal and donate it to those without food in celebration of Eid. Families in America usually donate large amounts of food and give to charity in celebration instead.” Nadia and her sisters were raised in the Muslim tradition, with additional celebrations of their mother’s faith, Catholicism. “I love getting to experience the festivities in both religious settings,” she said.

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Wawrzyniak Family

Janet Wawrzyniak is a long way from her native Venezuela, but she shares customs and traditions with her family during the holiday season. The Christmas and New Year’s holidays are times for the family to get together for special meals, and one must-have is pan de jamón, bread filled with ham, olives, and raisins. She has several Nativity sets, including one that stays up year-round, and the family likes to recall the dining-room size set her grandmother has in her home in Venezuela. The family attends Midnight Mass in their best clothes, and New Year’s Eve is a special time, too. Janet, her husband, Jason, and their three sons, AJ, 14, Caleb, 12, and Lucas, 9, sometimes get suitcases from the attic and parade around the house at midnight, a symbol that they will be traveling in the new year. They greet friends and family with Happy New Year greetings that involve rubbing money on them, and follow the tradition of the grapes at midnight. Janet explains, “It is a Spanish tradition to eat 12 grapes, one for each time the bell tolls at midnight. Of course, we get confused about how many we have eaten because we are laughing so much. It is hard to eat so many that quickly, but if you can do it, you will have 12 months of good luck.” She adds, “We don’t follow the Venezuelan tradition of throwing rice to symbolize prosperity, because nobody wants to clean it up!”

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L Unique and original gifts for children will leave them ecstatic when they receive one-of-a-kind presents from the Paula Brown Shop. The adorable creations from the shop’s Special Kid’s Nook are sure to be great gifts from Santa! There is an array of fun things to choose from so let the Paula Brown Shop personal shoppers help you tailor the most perfect gift.

Paula Brown Shop

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Who says you can’t treat yourself during the holidays? It’s easy to do with Soto Loft & Spa’s gift cards that are a great idea for friends and quality “me” time. Purchasing a $100 gift card for someone else will provide gift-givers with $100 of credit at the salon and spa. Trust the talented team of Soto Beauty Experts to leave you looking rejuvenated throughout the holiday madness this year. We know that giving is better than receiving, but why choose when you can do both?!

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The most delicious way to say “Happy Holidays” is with a unique flavor of popcorn from Rachel Michael’s Gourmet Popcorn.

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A Christmas to Remember Truly appreciating Christmas and family

By Matthew Reger

As parents we invest so much in each Christmas, hoping that it will be memorable for our kids. Many times we fall short because we pin that memory to certain gifts received rather than more important things that are often overlooked.

My favorite Christmas memory - my first as a parent – will be remembered by my kids for years to come simply because of my regular retelling of the story.

In the fall of 2006, we moved overseas to the former Soviet Union country of Georgia. We had moved on my whim to become a volunteer for one year with the American Bar Association’s Rule of Law Initiative.

Through the program I trained attorneys and judges participating in the creation of a new criminal procedure code. In short I was in a program that has been likened to a “Peace Corps” for attorneys.

Moving On

My wife was amazingly indulgent in agreeing to this move. I provided her with full information including the fact that the recent history of this country had been three wars, a revolution and an ongoing border dispute with Russia that was on the verge of breaking out in war. With this full disclosure—I may not have been too clear about the Russian threat—our family, including a 6 month old, moved to the Caucus Mountains.

After three months in this developing country, the trip to Vienna for Christmas was a welcome respite.

When we landed it was immediately clear that we were in a developed country with amenities that we certainly appreciated. Even though Vienna offered great luxury,

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our accommodations were a modest bed and breakfast.

Like everything about our overseas adventure, Christmas in Vienna was far outside my comfort zone. My Christmas experiences had been the same my entire life. We always had a gathering at my grandparents on Christmas Eve with my mom’s A magical Christmas in the Republic of Georgia family. It began with a large meal and ended with piles of wrapping paper, ribbon, boxes and toys spread everywhere. Even marriage had not significantly changed this tradition. But this year – our first with a grandchild for my parents – we were thousands had family near my parents and I arranged to have of miles away all by ourselves. presents I ordered sent to him, which he then delivered to my parents. On December 24, while we were walkA Different Kind of Christmas ing through the snowy streets of Vienna, he stood at my On Christmas Eve the three of us sat in a small resparents’ door in a Santa hat, arms full of presents. taurant ordering a traditional Austrian meal of sausage The look on the faces of my family was something and schnitzel. After dinner we walked to an evening my friend still remembers. They were stunned, excited church service while snow lightly fell, melting on our and mystified all at the same time. When we called them heads. Following two services and some nodding off on in the early morning hours, the happiness through the my part, we walked home pushing our stroller through phone line was infectious. the accumulated snow.

That Christmas is a great memory for me because The next morning we awoke and said Merry ChristI discovered how true it is that giving is better than remas with no packages, no wrapping paper, and no frusceiving. The joy my parents had in their delivery was tration. It was simple, beautiful and filled with love. exceeded only by the happiness we had in giving them But family in America was still without us. Because and spending Christmas simply, basking in the love I knew how they felt about Christmas I had set a plan in of family. place before leaving the United States. A friend of mine

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The Holiday To-Do List

Yes, Virginia there is a Santa Claus and she needs a nap By Mary Helen Darah My dear friend sent me a holiday checklist to help get me organized for the holiday season. Mind you, the first thing I write on a to-do list is, “Find where you put other to-do list,” but I decided to humor her and read it anyway.

that hangs over my pants. Either way, I do not have the time or inclination to worry about that with all the other items on the list. I think I am going to rely on dressing in dark colors, adding a colorful scarf for interest and to keep the focus upward (plus a great way to hide the second chin) and my trusty Spanx, or as my mother refers to them, “hold ‘em ins”.

Prepare and mail holiday cards I usually have this one covered although last year, we ended up sending “Happy Ground Hog Day” greetings due to our tardiness. We go all out. One year we even wrapped ourselves in gift wrap. I let the girls come up with ideas, within reason, for the holiday family photo, as long as it doesn’t include trying to put a decorative bow on a Corgi with an attitude. n

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a holiday budget I am a cancer survivor with lingering medical bills and a journalist with five people and an aging Corgi under my roof. If I were forced to write down how much money flies out of my coffers this time of year, I would not be in the holiday spirit; I would get into holiday spiritsespecially the spiced eggnog. NEXT

Exercise and eat healthy so you can indulge in a few treats I constantly see my friends on Facebook describing what they have stretched to the limit to fit into their holiday attire. I’m not certain what or more specifically where, my oblique muscle is. I think it’s the part of my stomach n

Give specific duties for holiday party preparation

Ok this is doable. Every December I make a lamb, ham and enough carbs and sweets to make your cholesterol and triglycerides beg for mercy. We call it the “Whoo Feast” because at the end of this special night, my daughter once asked, “Don’t you just want to hold hands and sing “ya hoo ya hoo” like in the Grinch movie?” The day before is the prep party. My Dad likes any job that will make noise. My Mom, although not a fan of cooking, is a heck of a slicer and dicer. I rely on my neighbor Gail for backup appliance needs as long as I keep my ham away from her kosher oven. One thing that may be a tad challenging, is finding a meat carver.

Annually, the job falls upon my date for the evening.

2013 was not a banner year in that department. Note to self: buy electric knife.

Wrap presents in different papers to distinguish recipients There are women whose wrapping talents are legendary. These women most likely remove the same amount of socks from the dryer that they put in and hand in permission slips the day after receiving them. I am not one of these creatures. My family knows that on Christmas morning it might be a bumpy ride. I sometimes forget to remove last year’s name labels from recycled gift bags and paper before slapping on a new one causing a bit of confusion. I get it honestly. We have opened presents from my parents only to have them say, “Oh no! That’s not for you,” or “Wait that’s part two of three. You have to open present “one” first.” Of course, they are clueless as to where the other parts of the themed gifts are, but it keeps things interesting.

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Condense the list I kept reading her list and when I got to “bake cookies months ahead of time, pull out of freezer to frost for a no-fuss holiday” I stopped. First, part of the fun is seeing if Noni’s rolled out cookies will look more like “rein dogs” than deer. Secondly, I secretly enjoy the frosting wars with sprinkles everywhere-although they’re a bear to get out of dog fur. A suggestion: Put two items on your list.

1. Do the best you can do 2. After #1, relax and let it go. Spend less time trying to make “perfect” and enjoy the perfect times with your family and friends.

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“No Wrong Door” for Sparrow’s Nest advocate

Dr. Tamirisa encourages others to make a difference

By Mary Helen Darah Toledo Area Parent sat down with Dr. Kamala Tamirisa of Promedica, Northwest Ohio Cardiology Consultants. The busy physician juggles patient care, poetry, painting, music and most importantly spending time with her husband and two young children. She is passionate about helping women at the Sparrow’s Nest, a shelter for homeless and abused women. Dr. Tamirisa stresses the importance of community involvement and urges others to take steps toward making a difference- no matter how small.

How did you become involved with the Sparrow’s Nest?

A few friends told me about the Cherry Street Mission and the great works they accomplish. We began volunteering and learned about their ministry for women called the Sparrow’s Nest. This ministry provides shelter, medical care, assistance with obtaining a degree, and employment counseling for the women in the shelter. I help with providing medical care and find I can relate to the women there.

How do you relate to them?

Through suffering there is inspiration. I was very poor growing up. My mother was extremely polite, very quiet but so strong. She had to sew clothes for my sister and me. Our one pair of shoes had to last for the entire year. If she had material left, she would make a small gown for another mother’s baby.

She was always giving. She had a master’s degree and had a strong interest in world history. She taught other children English. When our situation improved she did not go to clubs as other women to play cards and socialize. She preferred to teach children and give back to the community.

How do you foster giving to others with your children?

My seven-year-old has a celebration for his birthday. He keeps one favorite item and the rest we take down to the shelter. His friends are so generous and give new clothes and money for the Sparrow’s Nest. Many mothers have told me that they feel he did not come up

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The Sparrow’s Nest The Sparrow’s Nest is a 24/7 facility. They have a “No wrong door” policy meaning women will never be told that they have come to the wrong place.

The percentage of women who find shelter from homelessness and abuse at the Sparrow’s Nest is continually on the rise. There is no time limit on staying in the shelter.

Feminine hygiene products, toiletries and other nonperishable items are continually needed, especially as the shelter increases its occupancy.

Women are usually the last to be labeled “homeless” as it is more common for friends and family to take them in than men. Due to an increase in joblessness and foreclosures, relatives of many of the women in the shelter are unable to offer assistance.

For information on how you can help, call 419-242-5141 or visit cherrystreetmission.org.

with this idea on his own. That is true.

I planted the seed and have watched it grow. He gets a receipt for the donated items. He is so proud. Small steps go a long way.

What are your hopes for women in the future?

I hope that women can be fearless.

We can be the best of everything. Women are so gifted, so talented. Why the fear?

How can others get involved in the Sparrow’s Nest?

If you have a spare moment- even 30 minutes a week- volunteer your services. If you have no time, ask what you can purchase, especially during the holiday season. The gift of time, money, toys, badly needed medical supplies will make a big difference in the lives of homeless and abused women.

Zany for Zingo’s New expanded space with old favoites

By Mary Helen Darah

Zingo’s Mediterranean 106 Louisiana Ave. Perrysburg, Ohio 419.872.5800 eatzingos.com Mon-Sat.: 11:00am9pm Closed Sundays

I was informed “Same menu, more room,” when I inquired about the recent old renovations at Zingo’s Mediterranean restaurant located in historic downtown Perrysburg. The new addition offers increased seating space as well as additional registers to reduce waiting. The relaxed atmosphere proved to be just what my family needed after a long day of acting like human “doings” instead of beings.

Decisions, decisions, decisions

It was difficult deciding what to order from their extensive menu. This proved to be more problematic due to the fact that you place your order at a register before proceeding to find a seat. We received “the evil eyeball” from a few patrons behind us in line while my daughters pondered (not so quietly I might add) their options. We finally decided upon Mediterranean Junk Salad ($12), Hummus ($3.50), Feta Chicken ($14) Chicken Tawook ($14), and Shish Kabob ($16) for the four of us to share. Thankfully deciding to sit in a booth in the new addition proved to be an easier decision to conquer than the menu. Once seated, our food was brought to our table in a timely manner. The servings were plentiful. In fact, we could have easily eliminated one of the dishes and still had enough to go around.

We truly enjoyed our food. Meat and produce is delivered three times a week to the family-owned restaurant ensuring fresh ingredients and healthy options for their clientele. We devoured the Junk Salad that consisted of homemade balsamic vinaigrette over crisp lettuce, red onion, tabbouli, chick peas, gyro meat, cucumber, tomatoes and parsley. There could have been more ingredients in this robust salad but my offspring acted like sharks in the midst of a feeding frenzy. Thankfully, we savored our other selections at a slower pace. Out of the three entrees, we voted the Feta Chicken as the winner, consisting of grilled chicken, zucchini, squash, tomato, and onion on a bed of couscous with feta yogurt sauce. The oth-

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Kid-friendly Yes To avoid wait The line moves quickly

er entrees were very good, well-seasoned and even received a “tastes almost like Grandma’s” from my youngest.

Table talk

My daughters are part Lebanese and have grown up eating fatoush, grape leaves, gryos and tabbouli. The family dining next to us were enjoying many of these specialties as well the sautéed mushrooms that I wish we would have ordered. I asked the parents if their kids had objections to trying new foods. They informed me that they were Zingo’s regulars and liked to try new menu items when they visited. The family suggested that it would be worth a return visit to try one of Zingo’s sandwich options. It was also recommended that we get a sandwich “Zingo style” (for an additional 75 cents). It comes wrapped and toasted on the grill, perfect for a cold winter’s day.

There are fourteen sandwiches to choose from ranging from $6.50 to $7.50. They did relay that one of their children was not as adventurous as his siblings. He opts to order the Chicken or Gryo Chunks ($5) or the Grilled Cheese Pita ($5) from the kid’s menu.

we would return in the near future and I look forward to our next visit.

With an accommodating staff and affordable, fresh food- not to mention friendly “table neighbors”- we left feeling zany for Zingo’s.

even on weekends Noise level Moderate Bathroom amenities No changing stations High chairs Yes Got milk Yes Kids’ menu Yes, with plenty of options for children with dietary restrictions

Wheel chair accessible Yes

The perfect ending

Luckily, we debated the dessert choices at our table so we wouldn’t hold up the line again. We didn’t think we could go wrong with any of their dessert options including Baklava ($3), Carrot Cake ($2.50), Oatmeal Toffee Cookie ($2.50) Chocolate Chunk Cookie ($2.50), or the Genuine Chocolate Mess ($3). It’s not surprising, they went with the Genuine Chocolate Mess just for the name. It consisted of a gooey chocolate brownie filled with marshmallows and chocolate chips. We were happy campers. We lingered over dessert, chatted and made a few plans for the upcoming week. We did not feel rushed in any way by their courteous staff and noticed other patrons enjoying the relaxed atmosphere.

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1 SUNDAY Gyotaku Prints - As you learn the techniques of Japanese gyotaku fish-slap printmaking, you will make a masterpiece with fish replicas and paint. Visit website for additional dates. Noon4:30pm. The Toledo Museum of Art, 2445 Monroe Street. 419-255-8000. toledomuseum.org Free

Sunday, December 8 Feel the holiday spirit with an evening of live holiday-themed music, while supporting the community at the same time. The evening will feature a variety of tunes presented by the Owens Community College itional Christmas Concert Band, including trad Polar Express, and the The ie mov the carols, hits from time Rick tival of Lights. Toledo's own Rag favorite Hanukkah song, A Fes as performing l wel as Night Before Christmas, will narrate the story Twas The ring to St. Paul's offe will free a The night will provide Ragtime music on the piano. homeless, indigent and an organization that helps the Community Center of Toledo, any other assistance by providing food, shelter and mentally ill in the Toledo area icious refreshments Del s. live pendent and productive inde py, hap live to d nee they & Performing Arts at cert. 2:30pm. Center for Fine will be served following the con 081. owens.edu Free.

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Check out more information on these awesome events in out Holiday Happenings Calander on pg 12

Tree of Light Ceremony - Enjoy the beauty of Woodlawn in a whole new light. Don’t miss a special tree lighting ceremony to remember family members and friends. Registration required. 5-6pm. Woodlawn Cemetery, 1502 W. Central Ave. 419-472-2186. historic-woodlawn.com Free

2 MONDAY Hunger Games: Survive the Challenge Contest - Do you have the smarts, stealth and strength to survive the library’s Hunger Games challenge? Stop by and test your skills and knowledge of the thrilling Hunger Games trilogy. Through December 6.

9am-5:30pm. Locke Branch Library, 703 Miami Street. 419-259-5310. toledolibrary.org Free

3 TUESDAY Make a Gift: Paint a Holiday Ornament - Paint a round ornament ball to decorate your tree or to give as a gift. Class is limited to 10 participants. All ages welcome. Reservation required. 6:30-8pm. $20. The Art Supply Depo, 29 S. St. Clair St. 419-720-6462. artsupplydepo.com

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4 WEDNESDAY Disney on Ice: Passport to Adventure - Go on an adventure around the world with Mickey, Minnie, Donald, Goofy and Daisy. You will visit the magical lands of The Lion King, The Little Mermaid, Peter Pan and Lilo & Stitch.

Through December 8. Times vary, visit website for more information. $17-$54.

Huntington Center, 500 Jefferson Ave. 419-255-3300. huntingtoncentertoledo.com Youth Pottery - Students will focus on developing their creative side with many hand built wheel projects. The course will feature extruded work, slab work and development of potter’s wheel skills. Students will glaze their work and learn about the firing process. Leaders: Julie Beutler & Nadia Packard. Class is limited to 10 students. For 6th-12th graders. Through December 11. 6-8pm. $80. 577 Foundation, 577 E. Front St., Perrysburg. 419-872-0305.

577foundation.org

5 THURSDAY Ice Carving Demonstrations - If you are enjoying a Thursday evening at the zoo, make sure to watch the cool icecarving demonstrations. Key bank will be giving out 3D glasses to make the lights pop even more. Thursdays though December 26. Zoo admission. Toledo Zoo, 2 Hippo Way. 419-385-4040. toledozoo.org Calling All Bear Cubs: Sharing Your World with Wildlife - Sharing is one of the most important lessons

anyone can learn. Today’s participants learn how to share with nature. Bear Cubs perform all activities to earn rank advancement. Drop off program. Rain or shine - dress for outdoor activity.

Bring a clean empty milk jug. 4:30-6pm.

Oak Openings Preserve: Lodge, 4139 Girdham Rd., Swanton. 419-407-9700. metroparkstoledo.com

and the history of Northwest Ohio. Preregistration and pre-payment is required.

Tours last roughly 90 minutes and will be repeated every half hour. December 6, 7, 13 & 14. 4-8:30pm. Sauder Village, 22611 State Route 2, Archbold.

800.590.9755. saudervillage.org

Cookies & Cocoa with ClausReserve your spot for this membersonly pajama dance party with cookies, cocoa, dancing and Santa Claus.

Experiment with holiday-themed activities and demonstrations, story time with Santa’s #1 elf, a special visit by Santa’s reindeer and chilly animals from The Toledo Zoo. 6-8pm. Free to members.

Imagination Station, 1 Discovery Way. 419-244-2674. imaginationstationtoledo.org

Breakfast with Santa - Start the day off right and join Santa for breakfast! Enjoy face painting, coloring pages, and a kid-friendly raffle!

Take your own pictures with Santa and his elves, and listen to the Southview Jazz Band play holiday tunes. Breakfast, hot and cold, is $5 for those over 12 years old, and $3 for those under 12.

Sponsored by the Southview Band Boosters. 9am-Noon. $3-$5. Southview High School, 7225 W. Sylvania Ave., Sylvania. 419-344-6630. gosvband.com

Happiest Baby on the Block - This class will discuss and demonstrate the Happiest Baby Technique using the 5 S’s developed by Dr. Harvey Karp.

Information will also be provided on what to expect the first few weeks at home with your new baby and tips to make a smooth transition for the new family. 6:30-8pm. $10 per person/$15 per couple. Lullaby Lane Baby Boutique, The Shops at Fallen Timbers, 3100 Main St. Suite 735, Maumee. 419-878-0127. lullabylane.com

6 FRIDAY Holiday Lantern Tours Experience a turn-of-the-century Christmas at Sauder Village! A costumed guide takes small groups on a candle-lit journey to meet historic characters. Guests will experience the holiday customs and celebrations of the 1900s and hear stories about Christmas past

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Holiday Happenings - Santa will arrive in a horse drawn carriage and draw names for a bike giveaway. Following that, he will head to the depot in the Historical Village and be available for wish lists and photos. Free cookies and hot chocolate will be provided in the Historical Village Carriage House. 4:30-7:30pm. Sylvania Historical Village, 5717 N. Main St., Sylvania.

419-882-5962. cityofsylvania.com Free Kid’s Georgia O’Keefe Abstract Flowers - Students will learn about Georgia O’Keefe, warm and cool colors and will then create vibrant abstract flowers using markers, pastels or paint.

All materials provided. Ages 5-8. Noon1:30pm. $15. The Art Supply Depo, 29 S. St. Clair St. 419-720-6462. artsupplydepo.com

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continued from pg. 31 Christmas At The Peristyle - The Peristyle will be adorned in holiday style, and you’ll enjoy sing-a-longs, carols and a visit from Santa. 2pm.

Toledo Museum of Art Peristyle Theater, 2445 Monroe St. 419-255-8000. toledomuseum.org Free Flicks with St. Nick - Enjoy a special-screening of Disney’s Frozen at Rave Cinemas! Stop and visit Santa at his house on the boulevard before or after the show. 2pm. $7 per person. The Town Center at Levis Commons, 3201 Levis Commons Blvd., Perrysburg. 419-931-8888. shopleviscommons.com Holiday Craft Show for MakeA-Wish - The 8th Annual Holiday Craft Show will feature several area crafters, tons of raffles, Chinese auction, refreshments and lunch. All net proceeds

go to Make-A-Wish. 10am-4pm. Lucas County Rec Center Clubhouse, 2901 Key St., Maumee. 419-893-4589. Free Imagination Station’s Holiday Drop & Shops at Levis Commons - Treat yourself to three hours of shopping after you drop your kids off for some science fun with trained staff from the Imagination Station. Kids will experiment with holiday-themed activities, watch a science demonstration, snack on delicious liquid nitrogen ice cream and even make a special holiday gift! 10am-1pm. $20, members/ $25, non-member. The Town Center at Levis Commons, 4130 Levis Commons Blvd., Perrysburg. 419.244.2674 x250. imaginationstationtoledo.org Victorian Christmas at Oak Grove School - Get out of the cold and enjoy Christmas activities at this open house. St. Nicholas will be waiting to hear everyone’s wish list.

Reservations required. 11am-2pm. Oak Grove School, Wildwood Preserve, 5100 W. Central Ave. 419-407-9849. metroparkstoledo.com Free

Holiday Family Concert & Sing Along with Kevin Devine - Join family entertainer Kevin Devine for a rollicking, participatory holiday concert full of sing-alongs, dancing and musical antics of all sorts! Fun for the whole family! Bring Grandma and Grandpa, too! 7pm. Toledo-Lucas County Library Maumee Branch, 501 River Rd., Maumee. 419-259-5360. toledolibrary.org Free

14 SATURDAY Kid’s Gingerbread Cabin Class - Ring in the holiday season with this special gingerbread class!

Using icing and an assortment of candies, students will decorate their very own, completely edible, cabin in the woods. Pre-made cabins and all supplies provided. Parents are welcome to make a cabin as well. Noon-3pm. $15.

The Art Supply Depo, 29 S. St. Clair St. 419-720-6462. artsupplydepo.com

Check out more awesome events in our Holiday Happenings Calendar on Pg. 12. Listings updated daily at Toledoparent.com

Kid’s Q-Tip Pointillism - Using Q-tips, you can make your own pointillism painting! Students will learn about the style of art known as pointillism and the artist Georges Seurat. All materials provided. Ages 9-12. 2-3pm. $15. The Art Supply Depo, 29 S. St. Clair St. 419-720-6462. artsupplydepo.com Holiday Festivities at the Farmhouse: Kids and Family Craft Activities - Get into the holiday spirit by creating your own craft.

Also on December 8 & 14. 11am-5pm.

Wildwood Preserve Farmhouse, 5100 W. Central Ave. 419-407-9700. metroparkstoledo.com Free

8 SUNDAY Holiday Open House - Soldiers and civilians will be on hand to provide demonstrations and answer questions about the War of 1812 and camp life. Enjoy holiday music, hot cider and cookies, and hands-on activities. Shop the museum store for unique holiday gifts! Noon-5pm. Fort Meigs State Memorial, 29100 W. River Rd., Perrysburg. 419-874-4121.

10 TUESDAY Holiday Happening - Drop by for some games and holiday cookies. 6:30-7:30pm. Locke Branch Library, 703 Miami St. 419-259-5310. toledolibrary.org Free

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15 SUNDAY Suminagashi - Experiment with this Japanese marbleizing technique, which literally means “spilled ink”. For kids through age 10 and their caregivers.

Noon-4:30pm. Also on December 17-19, 10am-3pm & December 20, 3:30-8pm. Toledo Museum of Art, 2445 Monroe St. 419-255-8000. toledomuseum.org Free

17 TUESDAY Wee Workshop: Red Fox in Winter - Kids listen to the story, Red Fox in Winter, then make a red fox mask and go on a winter nature walk. Wee Workshop is a hands-on nature experi-

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ence designed to cultivate children’s love for the outdoors and includes a craft, story time and a nature walk. Parent must attend the program with their child.

Registration required. 10-11:30am. $5. Wildwood Preserve Metropark, Metroparks Hall, 5100 W. Central Ave. 419-407-9700. metroparkstoledo.com

21 SATURDAY Kid’s Face Study (Draw the Other Half) - Students will use a magazine photo of a person, cut in half, as the beginning of a drawing. Half magazine picture, half drawing. All materials provided. Ages 9-12 welcome. 2-3pm. $15.

The Art Supply Depo, 29 S. St. Clair St. 419-720-6462. artsupplydepo.com Kid’s Water Mist Globes - In this class, students will use water based markers, coffee filters and water to create a “misty” globe. All materials provided. Ages 5-8 welcome. Noon-1:30pm. $15. The Art Supply Depo, 29 S. St. Clair St. 419-720-6462. artsupplydepo.com

27 FRIDAY Holiday Hoops - The 2nd annual Holiday Hoops Basketball Skills Camp gives children in grades 4-8 a chance to develop their basketball skills with university level players and coaches. Register early to win a free gift.

Also on December 28. The deadline for registration is December 11. Noon-3pm. $50 per child. The Franciscan Academy, 5335 Silica Dr., Sylvania.

419-885-3273. franciscanacademy.org Visiting Artist in the Family Center: Emiko Lowe - The Toledo Museum of Art welcomes you to come meet artist Emiko Lowe. 6-7pm. The Toledo Museum of Art, 2445 Monroe St. 419-255-8000. toledomuseum.org Free

29 SUNDAY Harlem Globetrotters - Don’t miss America’s favorite slam-dunkers as they take over the Huntington Center with their Trick Shot Challenge and fancy footwork. 2pm. $17-$100. Huntington Center, 500 Jefferson Ave. 419-255-3300. huntingtoncentertoledo.com Origami and Daruma Dolls - Come enjoy origami and daruma dolls in the Family Center of the Toledo Art Museum.

Noon-4:30pm. Also on December 31, 10am-3pm. Toledo Museum of Art, 2445 Monroe St. 419-255-8000. toledomuseum.org Free

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