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As parents, we all want our children to be happy, loved and accepted. This is especially true for parents with children that have special needs. Here we’ve compiled stories of hope and resilience, along with local resources to help you and your family get the support you need to be the best version of yourself.

Blanchard Valley Center Provides Resources for All Ages By Kelsey Nevius

lanchard Valley Center, operated by the Hancock County Board of Developmental Disabilities, provides resources to youth and adults of all ages so they can live long, meaningful and happy lives. They strongly believe that empowering people with developmental disabilities by means of support, advocacy and knowledge are key to giving them the tools they need to live their lives with meaning and purpose. To do this the Center offers services from birth through the end of life, including Early Intervention for ages 0-3, Preschool for ages 3-5, School Age for ages 6-22, and Transitioning Youth for ages 14-22. All programs provide care and support throughout the developmental process to help children and adults with developmental disabilities transition through phases of life.

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Blanchard Valley Center also offers their Service & Support Administration (SSA) that acts as a point of coordination to provide people with services and resources they may need. SSA services also include an assessment to help determine the person’s needs, Person Centered Planning (PCP) Development that provides an individu10

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al and personalized plan, Provider Selection that houses resources and opportunities to choose the right provider for specific needs, and Crisis Intervention which provides an outlet for help both day and night.

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Volunteering efforts are also available, and there are many opportunities to give back to the community. Blanchard Valley Center is a huge advocate of volunteering as well as getting involved in events like the Special Olympics. Additionally, Blanchard Valley Center relies on the support of two levies, which will be on the ballot for the back-to- back years of 2019 and 2020. Over five million dollars are provided by these levies, money which is critical to support many across Hancock County— over 600 people living in the community. They have seen a rise in need for both the level of support and the number of people needing such support over the last few years, and continue to work with individuals in the community to provide a primary point of coordination for needed services. Blanchard Valley Center, 1700 E. Sandusky St., 419-422- 6387, blanchardvalley.org

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The Trutt Family Parents’ names: Allison and Thomas Children: Tyler (9), Katie (7) and Logan (3) Special needs considerations: Tyler - Autism How did you realize that your child had special needs? At 2 ½ Tyler lost speech and became very physically aggressive. Where was the first place you went for more information? The Family Resource Center for play therapy and then Harbor Behavioral Health in Toledo for developmental screening. What are some ways that your child needs extra help at home and school? Tyler used to need help with self-care, but now he can do these things himself with reminders. At school, Tyler is on an IEP and receives speech and occupational therapy. He has a shared aide in a typical classroom.

Local Special Needs Support Group Reminds Families They are not Alone Are there any local organizations that have been helpful? Special Needs Parent Support Group. Being able to talk to about the joys and challenges reminds you that you’re not alone. Awakening Minds Art. Tyler can be himself and is accepted with open arms. Last summer we went on a Joni and Friends Retreat in Shawnee, Ohio. It was amazing! What is something special that you do for yourself/your family to cope when things get difficult? Take a break to spend quality time together playing games, going on walks and to the park. Something I do for myself is catch up on books that I enjoy! What’s one piece of advice for other families with a special needs child? You are not alone. Don’t be scared to reach out for help when you need it.

Parents: Matt and Crystal

Special Needs Parent Support offers a parent support group on the first Monday of every month at Trinity Lutheran Church, September through May. The meeting is from 6-8pm and childcare is provided (RSVP required for childcare). Dinner is provided from 6-6:30pm and the meeting time is from 6:30-8pm. They feature relevant topics, guest speakers and fun events. It’s also a great time to connect with other families. Additionally, there is a playgroup in the summer months with a meal provided as well.

Special needs considerations: Bella - Phelan McDermid syndrome and Polymicrogyria How did you realize that your child had special needs? Bella stopped breathing 6 hours after she was born and was then flown to Toledo Hospital NICU where our journey began.

What are some ways that your child needs extra help at home and school? Bella is non ambulatory, non-verbal and very sweet. Bella’s weeks are filled with therapy visits (OT, PT, ST, and vision therapy) from in-home care therapists and school therapists. Thankfully, she loves them all! Are there any local organizations that have been helpful? Our family has been particularly grateful for Awakening Minds Art.

avigating the world of special needs can sometimes be confusing...and lonely. Connecting with other families and being able to easily find available resources can make a world of difference. Thankfully, there is a great group that covers Northwest Ohio right here in Findlay. Special Needs Parent Support of NW Ohio, Inc. is a local, faith-based non-profit organization that is currently still in the process of establishing 501C3 status. Their mission is to follow Jesus’s example of meeting real needs, specifically for families blessed with special needs children. The purpose of Special Needs Parent Support is to provide assistance and support for the needs of parents and families of special needs children including, but not limited to, providing resources and opportunities to assist them with their financial, social, recreational, physical, psychological, emotional and educational needs. Antonia Faisant, Executive Director of Special Needs Parent Support said, “I am passionate about [our group] because I am a parent of a special needs child. I get it. I live it daily and I offer support based on my own personal experiences. It is very intentional and relevant.”

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Children: Emma (13), Abby (12) and Bella (7)

Where was the first place you went for more information? We researched her syndrome online and joined the Phelan McDermid Family Support Group. It’s a rare syndrome so it’s wonderful to connect with families who understand. Bella has acquired other diagnoses that present many medical puzzles so she’s seen at the Complex Care Clinic at Nationwide Children’s Hospital.

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The Walter Family What is something special that you do for yourself/your family to cope when things get difficult? We try very hard to make Bella’s life full of love and fun. What’s one piece of advice for other families with a special needs child? It is very easy to become focused on the things that your child can’t do and become stressed about reaching goals. This is a trap I fell into for a couple of years. Now my focus is different; my goals are smiles, giggles, snuggles and eye contact. We are meeting and exceeding our goals!

Special Needs Parent Support helps in practical ways to help meet needs through giveaways such as: gas cards, grocery store cards and restaurant gift cards as well as miscellaneous themed giveaways, along with free meal nights and help provided to families on a case by case basis. They will also feature respite opportunities for families. They are a great resource because they continue to grow despite many transitions.. They are currently in their 9th year of meeting. Sometimes meetings are just to hang out, talk, and to share meals. They plan to expand in all areas after receiving 501C3 status. For more information visit specialneedsparentsupport.blogspot.com and connect with the group on Facebook “Special Needs Parent Support, support group, (Findlay, Ohio).

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Parents: Aubrey and Jeremy Yoder, Nick Hannah Children: Rylee Hannah (10) Special needs considerations: CDKL5 – a genetic disorder affecting fewer than 2000 people worldwide, Epilepsy, Severe Sleep Apnea How did you realize that your child had special needs? We realized when she was around 9 months old. Then we spent years doing testing only to be told that she was normal. Finally, at age four, her preschool teacher went above and beyond to research Rylee’s behaviors and came across CDKL5. Where did you go for more information? The Cleveland Clinic. A blood test confirmed it. She finally had a diagnosis, however, there’s no cure and it becomes more and more lifethreatening to many children. What are some ways that your child needs extra help at home and school? Rylee cannot walk, talk, stand or do anything without constant care and supervision. She uses a wheelchair and recently began using a communication device known as a Tobii Eye Gaze. We’re confident that it will be a game changer. What local organizations have been helpful? Rylee’s a bubbly, active, social little girl who loves the Gliding Stars Adaptive Ice Skating Program and Miracle League Baseball.

The Hannah/Yoder Family Sensory Kids: The Top 10 Best Christmas Gifts to Get Them By Meagan Ruffing

Christmas is on its way and this top 10 list can get you squared away for the holiday season. Gifts can be tricky for kids like my son Dylan. Sure, they like all the same things that other kids do but when their world already seems overwhelming, a calming sensory-activity based toy is really what they crave. Think simple. Check out these top 10 gifts for your sensory seeking child.

1. Water Beads. These things are amazing. They

start out as tiny little beads (about the size of a tip of a pen), but when you soak them in water for 4-6 hours, they expand to marble-looking bubbles. This will probably be one of your child’s favorite gifts because it is so unique.

What is something special that you do for yourself/your family to cope when things get difficult? We strive to help families just learning their diagnosis or who may have a hard time finding the silver lining in raising a medically fragile child. Some days are better than others, but we’ll never give up. We’ll never stop spreading awareness and hoping for a cure, and being an advocate for Rylee as well as for other families in need. What’s one piece of advice for other families with a special needs child? Live above the diagnosis. Do not let it define your family.

Sand can be bought pretty much anywhere. All major retailers carry it so plan on spending around $10-20 for a nice sized kit. Moon sand is similar to playdough but it feels like sand. When you pick it up with your hand, it falls through your fingers just like sand does but without the mess. This is also great for hiding toys in.

5. Playdough. A family favorite. Children with Sen-

sory Processing Disorder (SPD) like the way playdough feels because it is relaxing. The feeling of squishing something and molding something into whatever your imagination will come up with is such a soothing activity for really anyone but, especially those who have a hard time processing things around them.

6. Stress ball. A simple stress ball is great for chil-

dren with anxiety. This is also an ideal ‘tool’ to have in your child’s classroom. His teacher can store it in her desk and when she sees that your child is starting to feel overwhelmed, stressed or fidgety, she can give him the stress ball. This is a great way to get the child to refocus their attention without making a big deal about it in front of the rest of the class.

Balloons. This was one I had never thought of 2. Rice bucket with small toys. Just go to the dol- 7. before but my son’s occupational theralar store and pick up a cheap shoe box container. Grab a (big) bag of rice and a few trinket-like toys. Dump the bag of rice in the shoebox container and hide the toys in the rice. This activity will keep your child busy for a long time.

3. LEGO lunchbox. This one is awesome. Do you

have any old-school lunch boxes lying around? The tin ones that your kids like to play with? Take a LEGO base, score it to fit the inside lid of the lunchbox. Super Glue this down. Add a few LEGO pieces inside the box. Voila! Your child now has their very own LEGO lunchbox to play with at home or on-the-go.

4. Moon Sand. Hands-down one of the best sensory-based activities you will ever come across. Moon 12

pist used it in one of his sessions. Buy a bag of regular old balloons. Blow them up. Let your child toss it in the air, swat it around and watch his face light up with a smile. Better yet, join in on the fun and take turns hitting it back and forth with each other.

8. Gum, lollipops and Tic-Tacs. These would make great stocking stuffers. They are small, practical pieces of candy that help with oral stimulation. I use these all the time with my son when he is having a

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hard time focusing. Whether it be him being hyper, moody or a little bit of both, he knows he can go to the pantry in our home and take one of these items whenever he needs to.

9. Electric toothbrush. There are so many cool

toothbrushes out there for kids now. Chances are, your child has already shown you (and begged) for that new Barbie or Superman toothbrush. Use this as an opportunity to teach them about the right way to brush their teeth and invest in a quality, electric toothbrush. These are great for making sure your child is brushing their teeth for the suggested two minutes and the vibrating of the toothbrush head helps children actually feel the process of what they are doing.

10. Seamless socks and tag-less shirts and

pants. Clothes can feel like the end-all be-all for children with SPD and most families steer clear of asking friends and family to buy clothes for their child for Christmas because what feels good one day for your child, doesn’t always feel good the next day. But, chances are, your child’s wardrobe consists of primarily seamless and tagless items. Under Armor is a great brand because there are no tags on their clothes. Seamless socks can be found online and look for elastic-free pants so that your child doesn’t have to worry about getting their pants to ‘feel right’. Meagan Ruffing is a parenting journalist, author, and speaker. She always has an arsenal of sensory-based activities and toys tucked away in her pantry. Follow her on social media to find out the latest information and tips and tricks on how to make your life easier with a child who has special needs. Visit her at www.meaganruffing.com.

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We Argue About Our Quirky Kid, And It Makes Us Better Parents By Lynn Adams

The Smith/Rice Family Parents’ names: Sarah Smith & Will Rice (Engaged to be married next year) Children: Noah (12), Brady (9) and Ginger (6) Special needs considerations: Noah- Anxiety, Autism Spectrum Disorder, Sensory Processing Disorder, Obsessive Compulsive Disorder, Attention-Deficit/Hyperactivity Disorder, Lupus, Platelet Function Disorder How did you realize that your child had special needs? Noah developed normally until 18 months old but then regressed. Where was the first place you went for more information? His pediatrician. It took several months of testing and traveling before we got a diagnosis. What are some ways that your child needs extra help at home and school? Noah is on an intense IEP in a self-contained classroom with peers typical to his needs. We stay on a strict routine everyday even during the summer. Getting off routine causes major meltdowns Are there any local organizations that have been helpful? Special Needs Parent Support is a great resource! Antonia Faisant is amazing and offers so much advice. It’s nice to know there are resources for parents in times of need! What is something special that you do for yourself/your family to cope when things get difficult? When things get hard we walk away. If Noah gets frustrated, we stop for a second, talk a walk, then start over again. Noah loves to swim, so as a reward for good behavior for the week, we go swimming! What’s one piece of advice for other families with a special needs child? It’s okay to cry!! I promise.

Most parents know what I mean by “quirky:” kids with diagnoses like ADHD or autism, or learning disabilities, or difficult temperaments or complicated early histories. Instead of using words like “mild” or “high-functioning,” I’ll say that these kids don’t necessarily need special schools. They can fit into the mainstream most of the time. My ten-year-old son is one of these quirky kids. He blends into the social landscape so well that being closeted is an option, at least in certain settings. James’s dread of everyday hassles (homework, substitute teachers, nail clipping, missing toys, traffic, eating at a restaurant) leads to lengthy tantrums that limit our family life. At the same time, James is a valued member of his little league flag football team. To put that in context, my high school nickname was “chicken legs,” and I still shriek anytime a ball comes my way. How did a boy who needs his little sister to tie his cleats end up on a team that doesn’t know he has autism? My husband Bruce gets the credit.

Out in the open

Much of the time, we disagree when it comes to James. Sometimes even in front of James. Our marital disputes are more like high school debates than barroom brawls. We each pick a side of a complicated issue, and we natter away until we wear each other out and one of us wins. Since I’m writing this, I get to go first. Closeting people makes their quirks seem shameful. What’s more, you notice the quirks when they stick out, not when they blend in. And that’s usually for some negative reason like a loud voice or a loud outfit. I have other motives beyond supporting my own son, having worked for 10 years as a clinical psychologist before having him. Public understanding of individual differences lags behind even our meager professional understanding. Closeting makes it worse. I’d rather prevent a mishap by being up-front with the diagnosis than blurt out the A-word to patch one up. Autism isn’t a tragedy. It’s a difference from the norm that’s sometimes neutral or positive, and sometimes negative. So, I thought we should share James’s diagnosis with his new football coach. Was this so different from sharing his evaluations and history with his new teacher every school year? Bruce thought so. “I think you’re making a big mistake, but go ahead,” Bruce said, eyes rolling. “If we don’t say the A-word, he’ll assume James is a brat. Or not very bright.” There you have them, my two worst fears.

“It’s football,” Bruce said. “None of that matters.” Which was a low blow, since I’m an Eli Manning fan. Bruce wasn’t trying to make James “pass.” Rather, he thought the diagnosis irrelevant to football. So, why bring it up? Bruce won that argument.

The Highlights

James’s team is called The Highlights. Before it became clear they were going to lose all their games, the coach set up a weekly ritual. The boys circle around the MVP and cheer while he re-enacts his best play. Like a highlight reel. Guess who was the first MVP? James stepped into the circle, re-created his jumping touchdown catch and also the Cam Newton-style celebration he indulged himself in afterwards. First he did a “dab,” stretching out both arms and nodding smugly toward an elbow. He followed that up with a grimacing, drawn-out Superman bodice-ripper. The rest of the team erupted into laughter. It was a great end to a tough game. “Do you people realize how fabulous this is?” I wanted to bellow into the crowd. “James isn’t like these other kids! When he was little he didn’t even know what a ball was for!” Thank goodness I have some selfcontrol, and a smart husband. As good as it feels to be applauded, it feels even better to be part of a team, week after week, not the “special” kid everyone’s going out of their way to include. Using the A-word would have robbed James of a rare, pure victory. In my defense, most of my parenting mistakes come with the best of intentions. As often as I’ve wished that Bruce would back me up, I’ve been glad for times that he doesn’t. Parents don’t always need to put up a united front. Each can play an opposite – but equally important – position when the job gets tricky. Lynn Adams writes about quirks of child development. Her work has appeared online in The Washington Post: On Parenting, Redbook, and Salon. Follow her on Facebook or Twitter, or subscribe to lynnadamsphd.com

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Findlay mother works to make speech therapy accessible for all children By Halley Sullivan “Nicole Leslie (far right) accepts the Nancy Bailey Award of Appreciation from the Ohio Speech Language and Hearing Association on behalf of Grace Speaks along with her family” If necessity is the mother of invention, then Nicole Leslie is the mother of affordable speech therapy in Hancock County. Inspired by her experience seeking a diagnosis and therapy for her 10-year-old daughter Grace, Nicole and her husband Todd founded an award winning nonprofit organization to make speech therapy more affordable for local families.

Grace’s story

Grace was born under normal circumstances, however as she approached her first birthday, she was not meeting typical milestones such as babbling or walking. Doctors diagnosed her with a “global developmental delay” which provided her with Help Me Grow services, but it didn’t get to the root of her problem. At 3 ½ Grace was sent for DNA testing which revealed that she was missing a section of her 18th chromosome. This diagnosis launched the Leslie family into the world of speech therapy, physical therapy (PT), occupational therapy (OT) and, ultimately, navigating insurance policies to find the funds to address her delays and concerns.

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Nicole quickly noticed that Grace’s therapy bills were “erratic in cost.” She called the insurance company and learned that she had coverage for speech therapy, but Grace would have to meet her full deductible before the insurance company would pay for it. “I started asking around and found families who were having similar insurance issues. Many parents had to choose between foregoing important therapy for their kids or paying astronomical therapy costs out of pocket.” Leslie knew something had to be done. After visiting the Calvin Speech and Hearing Clinic at Calvin College in Grand Rapids, Michigan where Master’s students work and run a speech clinic to receive hands-on training, the idea for the Grace Speaks clinic was born. The Leslie’s partnered with the speech-language pathology department at Bowling Green State University (BGSU) to start Grace Speaks, a Findlay based nonprofit organization dedicated to providing intense speech and language stimulation to children with communication delays.

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n January 6, 2018 at 1pm Grace Speaks will host a fundraising hockey game with the Detroit Red Wing Alumni at BGSU Ice Arena. Tickets are $10 in advance and $13 at the door. VIP passes are $50 and include reserved seating and admission to the VIP after party with dinner and entertainment. The game is a family friendly event, with a free children’s area including crafts, games, and face painting. Adults can enjoy 50/50 drawings, silent auction, and basket raffles. 100% of proceeds go directly to the Grace Speaks speech center. Under the supervision of a professor, BGSU graduate student clinicians work with roughly 29 children per week at the Grace Speaks clinic. Clinic appointments are scheduled in 50 minute increments to provide individualized therapy sessions addressing a variety of speech/ communication diagnoses or delays. “Speech is so important,” elaborates Nicole, “these kids have to be able to communicate. Speech in our area runs $5.10 per minute while Grace Speaks charges $.50 per minute.” This year Grace Speaks accepted the Nancy Bailey Award of Appreciation from the Ohio Speech Language and Hearing Association, along with recognition from the Governor and Lieutenant Governor for the impact of Grace Speaks.

Family impact

The entire Leslie family has grown from Grace’s diagnosis and the inception of Grace Speaks. “We are stronger as a family. Everyone pitches in to work Grace Speaks events and the kids, especially, have learned the rewards from giving back,” says Nicole. Looking ahead, Nicole hopes to work with other universities in an effort to expand Grace Speaks services to include both OT and PT in addition to speech therapy. 419-348-4083, 2447 Tiffin Ave, Box 168, gracespeaks2013@ gmail.com, grace-speaks.org, “Grace Speaks” on Facebook

Winter is Around the Corner Are you ready?

By Rose Roccisano Barto

Mon- Sat: 10AM–9PM | Sunday: 12PM–6PM Winter is coming. This is not the winter of “Game of Thrones” with dragons and other mythical creatures. This is the winter that comes every year, and it brings with it a beast of another kind, that affects school days. Winter is coming – to northwest Ohio. And I dread it every year. I am a snow baby. I was raised in upstate New York and went to college in a city that is usually tops nationally in snowfall every year. The town garage started working on the plows in the fall. Our cars had snow tires that we put on around Thanksgiving and did not take off until Easter. I can’t remember a time I couldn’t get where I wanted to go in the snow.

Winter experience

I moved south of the Mason-Dixon line for my first job. All went well until I did a story on the city’s preparations for winter. There were none. There were two snow plows for a city of 50,000. When the following winter nearly 10 inches of snow fell during a snowstorm, it paralyzed the city for days. The mayor called for people to come to Main Street and form a shovel brigade. He lost his job in the next election. When I came north 10 years later, I figured that my days of winter worry were over. I lived in Findlay, worked in Fremont, drove Ohio 12 and only missed one day of work because of the weather. An ice storm will make even the bravest drivers think twice.

Once my children came along, I lived my life according to school delays and closings. To me, either situation meant the roads were a little dicey and I had best stay home. Eventually, however, I realized Findlay rarely delays or closes due to weather compared to the county schools. We’ve all questioned those decisions. Now that I have a teenage driver, I question them even more.

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Concern for others

The plow drivers are great guys. Some of them even make sure to not plow in the end of my driveway, and I appreciate it. I think, however, both the city and the school district can be more transparent when talking snow removal. What are the main routes and in what priority do roads get plowed? What streets does the district take into account when delaying or closing? If I were still a reporter, I would ask those questions. So, for now, I have lost my will to drive in the snow. It’s not so much my ability to drive in it, but my concerns regarding the other drivers. No one wants to slow down on a snow-covered road anymore. If I don’t have to go out, I don’t. If the roads are bad but school is on, I make my husband drive my daughters. Am I a winter wimp? Maybe. But the older I get, the more I realize that some things are just not worth the trouble. Winter is indeed coming. But I am staying inside.

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Intense, Focused and Fun Working up a major sweat at the Findlay Family YMCA By Jessica Kempf

Indoor group cycling classes have been popular in gyms across the country since the late 1990s. Today these classes continue to attract loyal enthusiasts who canâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;t seem to get enough. Sue Pasche has been teaching group cycling for 15 years and encourages anyone who has not yet tried it to come and see what the fuss is all about. â&#x20AC;&#x153;You have to come check it out. You have to come see what an incredible workout it is. Itâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s so intense, so focused and so fun,â&#x20AC;? says Sue.

Fitness level customized workout

Sue teaches the 11:45am lunchtime cycling class on Wednesdays at the downtown Findlay YMCA, which I attend. Before we get started Sue spends a few minutes helping beginners set up their bikes. Each bike has a resistance knob that the rider can increase or decrease throughout the class, allowing each person to make the workout as difficult as they choose. Sue prompts the class to adjust our perceived rate of exertion on a scale of 1-10. Riding at level one requires no effort while a 10 means working as hard as you can. There are five other participants in the class and we start with a nice, easy ride to get warmed up. Following the brief

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warm up, Sue leads the class through a workout of sprints, hills and jumps on the bike, all set to music. One song consists of thirty-second sprints followed by a brief recovery period. Another song involves climbing up a hill where we gradually add more resistance to our bikes. Sue uses visual imagery to encourage the group, cheering â&#x20AC;&#x153;imagine passing all of the other bikes on the course!â&#x20AC;? The upbeat music, the encouragement of the instructor and the energy of the class make me work harder than I ever would on my own.

Sweaty and satisfying

Fortunately, the room is air-conditioned and has several fans blowing because, friends, indoor cycling is NO JOKE. Be prepared to push yourself and find that you are drenched in sweat when class time is up. But it is a satisfying feeling that oddly makes me want to come back for moreâ&#x20AC;Śand I do! Cycling is low-impact, appropriate for all fitness levels and a darn good workout. The YMCA offers several group cycling classes throughout the week at both the Downtown and East Branches. For more information about the YMCAâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s Group Fitness classes go to findlayymca.org or call 419-422-4424.

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Juicing may be the new trend, but according to the American Academy of Pediatrics, fruit juice should not be given to babies during their first year of life. For the past sixteen years the AAP has recommended no fruit juice before the age of six months, but they have lengthened that time frame to one year based on growing obesity rates and concerns about dental health. Ami Orr, M.D., pediatrician at Blanchard Valley Pediatrics, is in favor of the change. “I think the recommendation is great. Juice adds a huge amount of extra calories. When you give kids juice, you’re filling them up with a calorie-dense liquid that lacks nutrition. In my opinion, the less juice in people’s lives, the better,” says Dr. Orr.

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The AAP states that small amounts of juice in moderation are okay for older children, but absolutely unnecessary for children under one. In addition, the Academy suggests sticking to 100 percent fruit juice for older children with the following limits based on age:  For toddlers ages 1-3, intake of juice should be limited to, at most, 4 oz. daily  For children age 4-6, fruit juice should be restricted to 4-6 oz. daily  For children ages 7-18, juice intake should be limited to 8 oz. or 1 cup of the recommended 2 to 2 ½ cups of fruit servings per day.

Focus on Whole Fruits and Veggies

Both the AAP and Dr. Orr encourage families and children to eat whole and unprocessed fruits. For those concerned about the cost and short shelf life of fresh fruit Orr suggests buying frozen fruit and veggies in re-sealable bags. “You can defrost just what you need and save the rest,” she explains. Fresh fruit will provide your child with dietary fiber, which is often lacking in the American diet. So, skip the juice section during your next trip to the grocery store and stock up on frozen fruits and veggies to instill healthy eating habits.

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Ami Orr, MD, is a local pediatrician at Blanchard Valley Pediatrics. The office is located at 1818 Chapel Hill Drive, Suite D, in Findlay and can be reached by calling 419-424-1922.

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Renz Salanga Changes His Perspective

The owner of Stix has made Findlay his home By Kay Mathias

Where Are You From?/What Brought You to Findlay? Renz Salanga moved to the Findlay area when he was 14 years old. Salanga came to the city to join his parents and siblings who were already here to help care for an ill grandparent who was living in Lima, Ohio. His initial reaction was, “There aren’t a lot of things to do around here.” 14 years later at age 31, Salanga has a different perspective. Salanga describes himself as comfortable living in Findlay along with wife La and baby daughter Raila Pfeiffer. He is owner and chef at the successful Asian-based Stix restaurant at 110 East Sandusky Street in downtown Findlay. Originally from Angeles City, Philippines, Salanga now emphatically states, “I love this city! Findlay is my home.” Some Differences/Similarities Between Findlay and Home: Salanga says both Angeles City and Findlay have tightknit communities with people who are willing to sacrifice time to help a neighbor in need. “During the recent flood here in Findlay our neighbors downtown helped us fill up sandbags to barricade our block. In the Philippines, when I was little a volcano erupted. That’s the first time I saw how selfless and helpful Filipinos are. Even complete strangers will help you in times of need. The same is seen here.” Salanga says that one difference between Findlay and Angeles City is size. “Angeles City is a metropolis,” explains Salanga. “It’s a cross between LA and New York City and a tourist destination. We have an international air-

port. The city is located in the middle of the largest island (Luzon). A 30 minute drive west or east will get you to a beautiful beach for a quick escape. Seafood is also abundant and sold fresh daily everywhere. Findlay has the feeling of “city,” but is smaller and very laid back which I love.” Favorite Findlay Spots: All of the Salanga family’s friends are restaurant owners in Findlay, so the couple likes to show support to their downtown establishments, but Renz jokingly says “Stix is our favorite with Bistro on Main a close second.” Other favorite spots are Riverside Park where Renz enjoys taking solo bike rides down the trails. Wolfe’s Produce is the couple’s favorite summer and fall store, mentioning they frequent several farmer’s markets all year round. Continuing Cultural Traditions From Home: “My parents are old school,” says Renz. “They made sure that me and my siblings never forget our traditions, but the most influential is food.” The Salangas enjoy having friends over for meals and their friends like to return the favor. “Since they are all in the restaurant business, they can really cook!” said Renz. This is an opportunity where Renz can show off his culinary skills in his own home. “Adobo, Sinigang, Kare-Kare and many more, which you’ll have to Google because they are very hard to explain!” “There has been no learning curve to American food,” Salanga continues. “We have all of it in Asia!”

A Cultural Tradition You Enjoy Here: The Salangas have grown to love the American holidays Thanksgiving and Independence Day. “We get to spend time with friends and family, plus the food is great! Our Thanksgiving dinners at our household are legendary. A mixture of traditional Filipino Laos and American food will blow your mind!” Parenting Tips: Renz and La recently became parents to a beautiful, now 2-month old baby girl, Raila Pfeiffer. When asked what style of parenting he and La will use when raising their daughter he stated, “Authoritative….I also want to instill in her to work hard,

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be independent and to always put family first.” Lasting Impressions: Renz says he likes to remember his cultural roots by referring to one of his unnamed heroes’ quotes. “I got loyalty but I got royalty inside my DNA.” Renz goes on to say, “I don’t even have to try to keep my cultural roots. It’s in my DNA. I believe that my environment raised me and it shows in everything I do.”

What To Do About Bullies Protecting your kids in cyberspace By Carolyn Jabs

Bullying in the schoolyard isn’t new. But parents today have to worry about kids being bullied online, too. In the past year, many communities and schools report an increase in the number of incidents in which children are harassed because of gender, race, ethnicity, sexual orientation or political point of view. According to Stopbullying.gov, 49 percent of children in grades 4 to 12 have experienced bullying, and 30 percent admitted to bullying others. Like old fashioned bullying, cyberbullying involves a willful, repeated effort to humiliate, harass or threaten another person. Unlike traditional bullying, cyber attacks use technology like text messages, social media, apps or even the chat option on video games.

Bark (www.bark.us). This new app uses artificial intelligence to scan communications for slang and other clues associated with bullying, grooming or harassment. Just as important, the app gives parents advice about how to intervene constructively. Bark offers a 30-day trial free and then charges $9 per month. Say no to roasting. Are insults funny or, well, insulting? That’s the question you have to ask about a new fad called roasting. Kids voluntarily post a photo or video with the hashtag #roast me. Sometimes what they get is good-natured joshing. And sometimes they get ripped to shreds. A child who asks to be roasted is hungry for attention and probably needs better outlets.

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Discuss real world consequences. Sometimes kids— and adults— use the concept of free speech as a justification for messages that denigrate or disparage other people. Although free discussion of ideas and opinions is at the heart of democracy, it should always be done with respect. Children need to understand the difference between healthy, even heated, debate and attacks on people for who they are or how they look. People can— and often do— change their minds when they are exposed to better ideas. Because of hateful posts, young people have lost jobs, scholarships, college acceptances and athletic opportunities, not to mention friendships with people who find such views offensive. Perhaps the most important thing parents can do to counter bullying of all kinds is to raise children strong enough to be compassionate, curious, constructive and courageous instead of critical, condescending, cowardly and cruel. To do that, all of us have to aspire to be models of what we hope our children will become.

Cyberbullying is different from traditional bullying in two ways. First, there’s no escape. Technology follows kids home and even to another school. As soon as a child logs on, insults, slurs and hate become vivid again. Second, as everyone now knows, nothing disappears online. Taunts that would have been forgotten at the end of the day can resurface at any time. Young people can be truly traumatized if their most embarrassing moments go viral. Now more than ever, parents need to stand firmly on the side of decency and kindness. By setting clear household rules, you can help your children develop the self-control that keeps them from making someone’s life miserable. Here are other ideas about how to combat bullying online:

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Delay social media access. Middle school students are especially vulnerable to bullying because they are trying to

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figure out where they fit socially. Often they form very strong ties to a particular peer group, and they can be insensitive, intolerant or even cruel to people outside that group. Keeping kids away from social media until they have better social skills makes sense, though it isn’t easy if “everyone” has a smartphone. “Wait Until 8th” is an effort to create support for parents who don’t think smartphones are necessary in middle school. Started by a Mom in Austin, TX, the program encourages parents to band together so teens don’t feel like the only one without a phone. Avoid anonymous apps. Being anonymous seems to encourage cruelty. The most recent example is an app called Sar-

ahah, a word which translates as honesty in Arabic. Originally intended as a way for employees to provide constructive anonymous feedback to employers, the app has degenerated into a place where people feel free to say all the horrible things they would never say face-to-face. For teens and pre-teens who haven’t yet developed thick skins, the feedback can be devastating. Anonymous apps are cowardly. Make them off limits. Enlist artificial intelligence. The survey by Reportlinker found cyberbullying was most likely to occur in text messages and social media accounts like Facebook, Instagram, Twitter and Snapchat. Supervising these environments isn’t easy, unless parents turn to software like

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The Mustard Seed at the Small Space, Big Flavors Depot By Emilee Roberts 562 N. Main St. Bluffton TheMustardSeedCafeBluffton.com 567-226-1120 “Mustard Seed Café at the Depot” on Facebook Open: Closed Mondays Tuesday – Thursday 11:00-9:00 Friday 11:00-11:00 Saturday 9:00-11:00 Sunday 9:00-3:00

The Mustard Seed Café at the Depot— it’s a lengthy name for a teeny restaurant packed full of charm and tempting food. No wonder my sister has been nagging me to try it for so long. We arrived at 5:30 on a Tuesday night to the former railroad depot. Our table was immediately inside the door with only about ten other tables

The Short Course Kid-Friendly: Yes

Noise Level: Quiet to average filling the small restaurant. Huge windows let golden autumn sunlight flood the space while above us hung paintings of fruits and vegetables were strung across the high ceilings.

Kid-friendly and comfortable

As we sat down, I breathed a sigh of relief as I saw that the white tablecloth was covered with white paper. Our server greeted us warmly and gave the kids the crayons with an invitation to color all over the paper. The kids gladly accepted while Jeremy and I checked out the menu.

Pies from Findlay’s Best Bakery Nothing completes Thanksgiving Dinner like a delicious pie. And nothing says homemade like the sweet smells of fresh pies from Brinkman’s. They put all the care, time and love into their baked goods that grandma used to. Fresh homemade pies include: Fruit of the Forest, Pineapple Upside Down, Apple, Butterscotch Cream Pie, Imperial Apple Pie, Large Pumpkin, Cherry, Sweet Potato, Peach, Majestic Cherry, Lemon Meringue, Egg Custard, Strawberry Rhubarb, Rhubarb, Peach, Peach Praline, Apple Walnut, Sugar Cream, Red Raspberry, Mince, BlueBerry and a variety of other Cream Pies like Peanut Butter Chocolate, Chocolate, Peanut Butter, Banana and Coconut. Serving a big family dinner? Serve fresh, homemade pies without the work! With so many to choose from there is something for everyone! Brinkman’s Country Corner is located at 1800 E Sandusky St. For more information visit brinkmanscountrycorner.com and “Brinkman’s Market” on Facebook.

Fine dining, indeed – the menu offered steaks and unusual combinations that sounded intriguing and an impressive wine, beer and cocktail list. Remarkably, the Mustard Seed shifts its menu by day of the week and time of day – there’s a brunch menu, a weekend evening tapas menu, a weekday dinner menu and a lunch menu. And yes, there’s a children’s menu, printed elegantly on a little card, with fairly standard options. For additional variety, we ordered an extra children’s flatbread pizza. I chose the Caprese Stuffed Chicken with Arugula and Orzo while Jeremy selected the Italian Drunken Shrimp with pasta. While waiting for our entrees, we started with the hummus appetizer which was served with soft, warm pita bread as well as cucumber slices. Joey, our six-year-old resident hummus expert, pronounced it “zingy” and devoured it eagerly (along with all the pita). As the chef prepared our meals, I sat back and observed the tiny restaurant. I noticed an old pew bench under the windows. More diners arrived. The Mustard Seed seemed like the fine dining equivalent to Cheers – familiar, comfortable and cherished. The restroom reinforced this idea— the walls displayed doodles previous guests drew on the paper lining the tables.

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When our food arrived, it was clear that the previous guests’ gushing was warranted. My chicken burst with a fresh, robust flavor from the cheese and

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tomato “stuffing.” And oh, the orzo pasta was creamy, garlicky goodness. Jeremy’s dish looked especially impressive. A trio of rolled pasta was carefully balanced into a tower on the plate. He raved about the flavor of the sauce and reported that the shrimp were delicious. The girls enjoyed their grilled cheese sandwiches, oozing with real cheese on thick slices of bread. Leland inhaled his fried chicken which was clearly freshly made in-house. The flatbread pizza appeared to be more of a tortilla with salsa and cheese than a true pizza but the kids didn’t seem to mind. And each children’s meal also came with a helping of fresh grapes. After such delicious dinners, we couldn’t resist trying dessert. Out came a monster cookie heaped with vanilla ice cream and an elegant martini glass with balls of delicate pistachio ice cream. The cookie had that perfect balance of crispy edges and melt-in-your-mouth middle while the ice cream had a refreshingly light, nutty flavor. It’s hard to determine what is most impressive about the Mustard Seed, but whatever it was, we’ll return soon.

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1 WEDNESDAY

[MISC.] Makerspace - Enjoy a kids-only space full of creativity and learning through art, science, and engineering activities. This month’s theme is Musical Instruments. Grades 2-6. 4-5pm. Findlay-Hancock County Public Library, 206 Broadway St., 419-422-1712. findlaylibrary.org Free

[MISC.] Mommy & Me at the Museum This stroller-friendly tour includes snacks and storytime, as well as a adventure through the museum for caregivers and children. No age limit. Museum admission: $5/adults, $1/ children age 10 and under. 10am-noon. Wood County Historical Center & Museum, 13660 County Home Rd., Bowling Green. 419-352-0967. woodcountyhistory.org

[MISC.] Escape Room: Looming Danger Solve puzzles and riddles, find clues and keys, and crack codes at this fun family adventure. Scary and not-so-scary rooms available. Registration required. $15/ages 12 and older. $10/children ages 11 and under. Sessions at 1pm, 2:30pm, 4pm, 5:30pm, 7pm, 8:30pm on November 1-5. Litzenberg Memorial Woods, 6100 US-224 West. 419-425-7275. hancockparks.com

3 FRIDAY

[ART] Sensory Explorers - Toddlers of all abilities are welcome to explore painting, shape, and color while using and focusing on their senses. 10:30-11:30am or 1-2pm. $10/class. Awakening Minds Art, 515 S. Main St., 419-302-3892. awakeningmindsart.org

[ART] November ArtWalk - Enjoy the art, culture, and cuisine of Findlay at this familyfriendly, biannual art walk presented by First Federal Bank and the Arts Partnership. Check out galleries, vendors, shopping, sales, live music, and delicious local food. 5-9pm. Downtown Findlay. 419-422-3412. artspartnership.com/artwalk Free

4 SATURDAY

[MISC.] Vintage Christmas Market - Get some holiday shopping done at this unique vintage market featuring art, clothing, food, gardening tools and flowers, trinkets, teas, crafts, and more. Grab some grub from the Dixie Girl Food Truck as well. $3 donation at door. 9am-3pm. The Jones Mansion, 313 E. Sandusky St., 419-427-5915. Check Facebook for details.

[FITNESS] Ice Skating Lessons for Second Session - Learn to ice skate or improve on the basics at these fun and collaborative public group skating lessons. Ages 5 and older. Also Saturday, November 11. $5. 12:10-1pm. The Cube, 3430 N. Main St., 419-424-7176. findlayohio.com

[THEATER] Pirate School! - Don’t be surprised if you get in on all the wacky action from the audience at this interactive, solo variety show by New York actor and comedian David Engel.$15/adult, $12/child. 10am. Marathon Center for the Performing Arts, 200 W. Main Cross St., 419-423-2787. marathoncenterarts.org

The fall harvest provides a bounty of food, but pumpkins might be the most popular. While we love our pumpkin spice lattes, the great gourd has a long history in the United States. During pioneer times, pumpkins were often grown in gardens and used in dishes throughout the fall and winter seasons. See how how pumpkins can be used for dishes such as pie, soup, bread and much more at the Litzenberg, McKinnis House. Visitors will get to sample these pumpkin-inspired foods. All ages welcome.

1-4pm. Litzenberg, McKinnis House, 6100 US-224, 419-425-7275. hancockparks.com Free

[FITNESS] Kiwanis Shuffle Fun Run - The Kiwanis Shuffle 5K Walk/Run and Fun Run promises to be a morning full of fun for the whole family. Proceeds benefit the Kiwanis Closet project. $20/5K, $10/ kids run. 10am. Emory Adams Park, 1827 S. Blanchard St., runsignup.com

[MISC.] Celebrating our Heritage: Native American Powwow - A powwow with The All Nations Drum will help you celebrate Native American history and culture, along with traditional dancing, flute playing, food, and crafts. Noon-5pm. $2/ adults, free/seniors and under 18. Bernard Park, 1105 Bernard Ave., 419-423-4954. facebook.com/BlackHeritageCenter

5 SUNDAY

North Pole Express Friday, November 24

Choo Choo! All aboard the North Pole Express at the Northwest Ohio Railroad Preservation. Celebrate the holiday season with Christmas decorations, an indoor winter wonderland set up in the museum, visits from Santa, and a train ride to the North Pole. Top this fantastical trip off by having your little ones drop off a letter to Santa in the North Pole mailbox. The North Pole Express will be closed on Christmas Eve and New Year’s Eve, but open on Christmas Day.

$3/adult train rides. $2/children train rides. Friday, November 24 Saturday, December 30. 5-9pm, Fridays and Saturdays. 5-8pm, Sundays. Northwest Ohio Railroad Preservation Inc., 12505 County Road 99, 419-423-2995. nworrp.org

[MISC.] Funday Sunday: Wonderful Wizards - Activities, games, and stories take your child to a place of magic and imagination as they explore the wonderful world of wizards. 1:30-3:30pm. Mazza Museum, 201 College St., 419-434-4560. mazzamuseum.org Free

[MISC.] [ADVOCACY] 13th Annual Harvest of HOPE Enjoy an all-you-can-eat menu, bake sale, 50/50 drawing, silent and live auction, and a prayer chain. Proceeds benefit Financial Assistance for Cancer Treatment. 11:30am-3pm. $8/adult meal, $4/kids meal, free/kids under 5. Meadowbrook Park Ballroom, 5430 W. Tiffin St., Bascom. 419-448-7070. Check Facebook for details.

[MAGIC] The Annual Family Magic Show - A night of magic is in store with pro magician John Sterlini and his wife Tamara. A banquet dinner and close-up magic show are available. $15/person, $6/magic show only, $5/magic show advance, $15/family special for only magic show. 7-9:30pm. St. Mark’s United Methodist Church, 800 S. Main St., 419-306-4569.

[EDUCATION] Wee Ones: Outstanding Opossums Learn about North America’s only marsupial through crafts, storytime, and more in the Phillips Discovery Center. Recommended ages 3 and under with adult, other ages welcome to attend. 10-11am and 1-2pm. Oakwoods Nature Preserve, 1400 Oakwoods Ln., 419-425-7275. hancockparks.com Free

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[EDUCATION] Reading to Ellie, a Dog in Training Help Ellie reach her certification requirements and improve your own literacy skills with a cozy reading session. For grades K-12. 6-7pm. Findlay-Hancock County Public Library, 206 Broadway St., 419-422-1712. findlaylibrary.org Free

World Percussion Night - Enjoy an evening of music from around the word, including Taiko, Afro-Caribbean, and Gamelan Ensemble performances. $7/ adults, $3/students, $10/all tickets day of. 8pm. Kobacker Hall, Moore Musical Arts Center, BGSU. 419-372-2685. bgsu.edu

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8 WEDNESDAY

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[LITERATURE] Tales for Tots - This tots and toddlers storytime includes music, activities, and even sign language, followed by an optional sack lunch.10:45-11:30am. Mazza Museum, 201 College St., 419-434-4560. mazzamuseum.org Free

Drop and Date - If you’re looking for a date night without the kids, drop them off at this fun and hands-on event full of activities, games, and friendship. Ages 4-12 welcome. $10. 6-8pm every Friday. Awakening Minds Art, 515 S. Main St., 419-302-3892. awakeningmindsart.com Cont’d on p22

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[MISC.] Little Tikes Play Date - Educational and entertaining games, toys, crafts, and activities for kids of all ages. 10:15am-noon. Findlay-Hancock County Public Library, 206 Broadway St., 419-422-1712. findlaylibrary.org Free

11 SATURDAY

[MISC.] Break It Make It - Tinker, build, and discover at a special collaborative event with Home Depot. Recommended ages 10 and up, younger must be accompanied by parent. All tools and safety gear provided. 2-3pm. Wood County District Main Library, 251 N. Main St., Bowling Green. 419-352-5104. wcdpl.org. Free

Christmas Bazaar - The 63rd Annual St. Michael Rosary Altar Society Christmas Bazaar features over 50 crafters and vendors, live music, raffles, homemade treats, and Candy Cane Lane, boasting kids crafts and shopping, gingerbread house making, cookie decorating, and even a visit from Santa. 9am-3pm. Free admission with donation of a canned/boxed food item. St. Michael the Archangel Parish, 750 Bright Rd., 419-422-2646. facebook.com/FindlayStMichael

[ART] My Grown Up and Me - You and your child can create beautiful canvas paintings at this special family Paint & Partake event. Light lunch and all art supplies provided. Noon-1:30pm. $40/two participants, $50/three, $60/four. Awakening Minds Art, 515 S. Main St., 419-302-3892. awakeningmindsart.com

[SPORTS] Glow in the Dark Dodgeball - Get your family fun on with a few rounds of glow in the dark dodgeball. Parents, stick around for a couples’ night dodgeball event starting at 8pm. $8. Family session runs 6-8pm. Flashover Indoor Sports, 11600 County Rd. 99, 419-420-1575. facebook.com/FlashoverIndoor

12 SUNDAY

[MISC.] Honoring Our Heroes: Veterans’ Day Program - Learn more about the military history of Hancock County at this special event showing honor and gratitude to veterans. Refreshments provided. 1-4:30pm. Hancock Historical Museum, 422 W. Sandusky St., 419-423-4433. hancockhistoricalmuseum.org Free

13 MONDAY

[EDUCATION] Discovery Stories: A Long, Long, Journey - Migration is a fascinating journey that many animals will undertake as winter nears. Your child can learn, read stories, do crafts, and play a migration game with peers. Recommended for ages 3-6, but other aged siblings are welcome as well. 10-11am. Oakwoods Nature Preserve, 1400 Oakwoods Ln., 419-425-7275. hancockparks.com Free

14 TUESDAY

[MISC.] Lego Play - Get your creativity on with this Lego-building extravaganza, and get the chance to display your work in the hall case. All preschool and elementary schoolaged children welcome with caregiver. 3-3:45pm. North Baltimore Public Library, 230 N. Main St., 419-257-3621. North Baltimore. nbpubliclibrary.org Free

16 THURSDAY

[CULINARY] Jambalaya Dinner - Pick-up, drivethrough, and dine-in options are available for this Louisianian feast featuring jambalaya, cornbread, white beans, and more. Proceeds go to local youth programming. $9/adults, $4/kids 12 and under. 4--7pm. Campfire Northwest Ohio, 305 W. Hardin St., 419-422-5415. facebook.com/CampFireNWOhio

18 SATURDAY

[MISC.] 2017 Community Holiday Parade BG’s “Best Hometown Holiday Parade” features bands, community groups, local businesses, and a visit from Santa Claus. 10am-1pm. Downtown Bowling Green. 419-353-7945. bgchamber.net Free

[MISC] 2017 ISI Flag City Open Team Skating Competition - The 2017 ISI Flag City Open features skaters of all ages and levels, and in all numbers. Events range from spectacular synchronized skating to light entertainment. 8am-8pm. The Cube, 3430 N. Main St., 419-424-7176. findlaysilverblades.com Free

[OUTDOORS] [EDUCATION] The Life and Death Cycle of a Star Learn all about the stars that light up our sky at a program led by Millstream Astronomy Club’s Susan Nims, followed by a viewing of Saturn and Mercury. If you have one, bring your telescope. All ages welcome. 6-8pm. Riverbend Recreation Area, Shelter 5, Township Rd. 208. 419-425-7275. hancockparks.com Free

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[ART] Mohawk Craft Festival - Over 100 vendors will be displaying their crafts and wares, with live music all day from the Boosters. Stop by for some art, shopping, and fun. 9am-3pm. New Mohawk High School, 605 S. Hwy. 231, Sycamore. 419-294-7319. findlaymusicboosters.org Free

20 MONDAY

[MISC.] Thanksgiving Break Camp: Colors of Fall - Crafts, snacks, and activities will all revolve around the beautiful autumn hues that surround us at, this special day camp. Also on November 21. Ages 6-12. Medical form required. Register by Thursday, November 16. $15/child. 9am3pm. Oakwoods Nature Preserve, 1400 Oakwoods Ln., 419-425-7275. hancockparks.com

[FITNESS] School Break Turkey Skate - Come out for a special Thanksgiving skate during the holidays. 2-4pm. November 20, 21, 22, and 24. $5/admission, $3/skate rental. The Cube, 3430 N. Main St., 419-424-7176. recreate.findlayohio.com

21 TUESDAY

[OUTDOORS] [EDUCATION] Young Adventurers: Into the Night Dress for nighttime as you explore the park and all the nocturnal creatures that thrive there. Ages 6-12. Registration required. 7pm. Tiffin University Nature Preserve, 2375 W. CR 26, Tiffin. 419-435-3915. senecacountyparks.com Free

23 THURSDAY

[FITNESS] WRC Turkey Trot - The Women’s Resource Center hosts their annual turkey trot, where you can walk or run in the race, wear costumes, and enjoy other family activities. Registration required by November 20. $25. 9am. Race starts at St. Michael Church East, 750 Bright Rd., 419-424-9948. wrchancock.org

24 FRIDAY

[OUTDOORS] Day After Thanksgiving Hike - Enjoy a refreshing walk for all ages while you take in the sights and smells of autumn. Feel free to bring binoculars. 9-10:30am. Springville Marsh State Nature Preserve, 12250 Township Rd. 24, Carey. 419-435-3915. senecacountyparks.com Free

30 THURSDAY

[EDUCATION] Pre-School Series: Sign Language Join in this interactive and enlightening lesson on American Sign Language, while becoming familiar with the hearing impaired community. Museum admission: $7/adults, $2/children 2+, Free/children ages 1 and under. 2-3pm. Children’s Museum of Findlay, 1800 Tiffin Ave. Ste 201. 567-250-9616. cmfindlay.org

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Mornings with Mommy Moms can relax and mingle, while kids enjoy crafts, activities, 9:30-10:30am, first and third Mondays of the month. $5/family per session. Trinity Lutheran Church, 301 N. Main St., Jenera. 419-326-4685. tlcjenera.org

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Event Arcadia United Methodist Church, 19397 CR 216, Arcadia, is now taking orders for apple dumplings. Dumplings are $9.00 for a pan of four. Pre-sale orders can be made by calling 419-894-6764 or 419-894-6586. The church will hold its annual bazaar on November 11,2017 from 9:00 am to 2:30 pm. where they will serve homemade noodles, soup and sandwiches in addition to the apple dumplings. There will be crafts, a quilt raffle and silent auction of gift baskets.All proceeds benefit the church and its outreach ministries

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Volume 7 • Issue 11 November 2017

November

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Finding Their Voice

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Mustard Seed Cafe

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An inside look at what we’re loving for parents this month The Homestead Collection

The Homestead Collection carries far more than beautiful home decor, jewelry and clothing including these adorable duffle bags for kids by Stephen Joseph ($26.95 each). The duffles are made of quilted cotton material, have two shoulder straps and a large compartment that easily fits overnight necessities or sports equipment for preschool aged children. Bonus, the bags are also machine washable! The Homestead Collection has a variety of boys and girls themed duffle bags, in addition to coordinating nap mats and accessories. 419-422-8286, 11300 County Rd. 99, “Homestead Collection” on Facebook

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Ohio Log House

The Ohio Log House is a hidden treasure in Mount Cory. From September to December guests can stop by to tour the beautifully restored 1824 log cabin, shop in the gift shop and dine. The gift shop features seasonal home decor, soaps, gifts, candles and linens. Many of the gift shop items are handmade and locally sourced. If you are looking for a delicious, cozy meal, The Ohio Log House has lunch and dinner options for groups of 8 or more by reservation only.

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Get a jump-start on your Christmas shopping at Rieck’s! The store has recently expanded their selection of unique children’s and baby items, including an inspiring display of Plan Toys ($15-$50). Award winning, Plan Toys are smart: encouraging creative open-ended play, safe: made with water based dyes and recycled rubberwood, and fun! Don’t take our word for it! Stop into Rieck’s and enjoy browsing the precious baby and children’s items!

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The Baker’s Cafe

Need a hostess gift, quick dessert or breakfast for your holiday guests? Stop by the Baker’s Cafe for pumpkin muffin tops. Spiced pumpkin bread with a dash of powdered sugar, the muffin tops pair perfectly with coffee or tea. The Baker’s Cafe has recently expanded their bakery options and overhauled their lunch menu featuring quiche, homemade soups and wraps. The cafe will host a grand re-opening early this month.

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On Saturday, November 11th, the 63rd Annual St. Michael Rosary Altar Society Christmas Bazaar will take place at the Main Campus located at 750 Bright Road. The Christmas Bazaar is a family-friendly event with something for everyone including live entertainment, activities for kids, great food and many shopping opportunities.

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Bring the kids and grandkids to enjoy the special kids zone, Candy Cane Lane which will feature fun activities like gingerbread house making, cookie decorating, crafts and a Kids Only Shoppe! Santa Claus will read â&#x20AC;&#x153;The Night Before Christmasâ&#x20AC;? on stage in the auditorium at 9:15am and then head over to Candy Cane Lane for visits and photos.

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Plus itâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s a great time to get in some Christmas shopping! The Gardner Gymnasium will house over 50 local crafters/vendors with a wide variety of items for sale. The auditorium will have homemade/handcrafted items for sale that are made/donated by their parishioners and raffles. You could enter to win a handcrafted baby doll cradle with an American Girl Bitty Baby, the St. Michael the Archangel Schoolâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s teacherâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s gift card tree which the school staff has put together with a value of $600-$700 in various gift cards and more! Shop the â&#x20AC;&#x153;Nearly Newâ&#x20AC;? area where there will be jewelry, purses, handbags, books and CDs and DVDs for sale. Plus there will be a lot of yummy, homemade food for sale and the Bake Sale which features homemade cookies, candies, pies, cakes, brittles, jams, etc. made by their parishioners. Live entertainment will include: SMS Kindergarten Singers, SMS 4th and 5th grade Chorus, SMS Ukulele Sing-a-Long, Findlay Elite mini-cheerleaders and FGK Music Studio Piano Students. Itâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s definitely an event you donâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;t want to miss! Admission is free, but bringing a canned/boxed food item for their Thanksgiving Food Drive is highly recommended and appreciated. For more information visit their website findlaystmichael.org and â&#x20AC;&#x153;St. Michael the Archangel Parishâ&#x20AC;? on Facebook or call 419-422-2646.

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CedarCreek Supports Moms with MOMentum MOMentum is a group for moms in every stage of motherhood based at CedarCreek Church. Meetings focus on topics directed to the hearts of moms: parenting, practical skills for home and life and spiritual development. Regular meeting times are 9:30-11:30am and 6:45-8:30pm every 1st and 3rd Thursday from September to May. Registration costs begin at $91 with childcare, $65 without childcare. Partial scholarships are available. MOMentum is open to all moms, not just those who attend CedarCreek Church. The first meeting is free to check out! 419-661-8661, 1800 Tiffin Ave, momentum@cedarcreek.tv, momentumlife.tv, “CedarCreek MOMentum” on Facebook -HS

A Call for Artists! Do you have an artist (or artists) in your family? Tiffin Art Guild is sponsoring their 2nd Annual Holiday Art Boutique on Saturday, December 2nd at their new location at 130 S Washington St, Tiffin. They are looking for artists to show and sell their work. For more information on this opportunity be sure to fill out the artist application on their website tiffinartguild.org. This Holiday Art Boutique will showcase various local artists, so even if there isn’t an artist in your family, it provides a perfect opportunity to start your Christmas shopping! Expect to find unique artwork including paintings, drawings, prints, pen and ink designs, fused glass jewelry, hand printed scarves, repurposed fabric items, photography, upcycled glass bottles, glass bead jewelry and more. Make sure to stop in after the parade where free make-and-take crafts for children will be available from 11am-1pm.

1,000 Local Students Attending Cooper Tire Manufacturing Experience Event On October 3rd-6th the Cooper Tire Global Headquarters Campus in Findlay, Ohio participated in the national Dream It. Do It. program and National Manufacturing Day/ Month. As part of this effort, Cooper connected with more than 1,000 students through the Cooper Manufacturing Experience. Students moved through a series of interactive stations designed to spark their interest in manufacturing. They learned about raw material composition, material weights and quality control monitoring. They also interacted with Cooper engineers using CAD simulations to design tires for specific performance characteristics. Additionally, they learned about the use of 3D printing and participated in manufacturing simulations that involved tire assembly, curing, finishing, testing and the importance of work done behind the scenes by millwrights and electricians. Students also had the opportunity to hone skills such as teamwork, leadership, communication and project management through hands-on activities. Many students today are not directed toward careers in manufacturing, and thousands of great jobs in the field go unfilled each year. Cooper is working to change this dynamic starting with young people at the ages where they are forming their impressions of what they may want to do and where they may want to work.

Free Learning Sessions for Caregivers The University of Findlay’s Psychology Program offers Raising Kids Today, a series of free, public health-driven information sessions to help caregivers with raising children. It includes practical information with the latest scientific research. The topics that are discussed are relevant to parents and guardians of children of all ages. The talks, which are held in Old Main’s Ritz Auditorium, are hosted by assistant psychology professors Andrea Mata, Ph.D., and Allison KiefnerBurmeister, Ph.D. 6

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All Raising Kids Today 1-hour sessions are held at 7pm, and include time for questions and answers. The next session will be held Nov. 27th with the focus of Mastering the Art of Discipline. Attendees are encouraged to bring a donation that will go to Hope House in Findlay. Monetary donations as well as the following items will be collected: canned food with pull tabs, toilet paper, diapers, paper towels, cleaning supplies and other household necessities. For more information visit findlay.edu/liberal-arts/psychology/ raising-kids-today. -ER

Being a Princess is More About Showing Kindness Than Wearing a Tiara

It is this philosophy that fueled Findlay resident Amber French to create the new local business “Party with a Princess,”is a singing and acting company that focuses on bringing magical entertainment to area children. Enlivening birthday Amber French, a wife, a mother of two, and operator parties, charitable organizations and of an in-home daycare, has taken on a new role— more, party options include song and being a princess. dance, crafts, face painting, storytime and/or special ceremonies for the guest of honor. French and crew will travel up to one hour from Findlay for an event. French is a mother of two girls and cares for her children and others at in-home daycare. She says it is her love of children, outlook on life and wanting to extend these ideas to others that made this child-focused business idea come to life for her. “I was looking for a way to give back to my community,” said French. “I feel like the magic of life is lost in the midst of all the busy-ness each day. I would love my clients to forget about everything around them for a day and be able to enjoy friends, family and fellowship. My hope is that this business will teach the children the importance of kindness and the understanding that being a true princess starts with how we treat others.” Standard princess packages cost $65 for the first hour and an additional $20 per hour after that. Discounted options are often available with specials that run monthly. Party With a Princess would like to invite the public to attend a meet and greet with its version of Princess Rapunzel at Once Upon a Child on November 12th from 1-4pm. Find them on Facebook under “Party With A Princess.” -KM

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Big Changes at The Dark Horse! The Dark Horse Restaurant has recently completed major renovations making the building more handicap accessible and family friendly. Owner Neeli Oler says, “This project has been a long time coming. I’ve really wanted to update the restaurant for my customers and I’m thrilled with how it’s turned out.” The restaurant added a new entrance with seating, expanded the restrooms (including adding a changing table) and reworked the kitchen with an additional grill for faster turnaround time. “We have a regular group of older clientele and I wanted to make sure they could navigate the building and restrooms, not to mention The Dark Horse is a family orientated restaurant, a changing table was a great addition.” Fresh paint, furniture, flooring and a parking lot are all the cherries on top for this major project. Don’t worry, the menu, generous Portions and reasonable prices that Findlay locals have grown to love hasn’t changed a bit. Stop by soon and check out the B.B.I.T. “Best Breakfast in Town!” -HS 4136 N Main, 419-424-9201, darkhorsefindlay.com, “The Dark Horse Restaurant” on Facebook

A Bowling Green Favorite is Making its Way to Findlay Pizza lovers who make the drive to Bowling Green when craving Campus Pollyeyes Pizza will no longer need to head north.The well-known BG-based pizzaria, known for its famous stuffed breadsticks, opened its doors in Findlay at the end of October. “There are a lot of BGSU alumni here and we have always had great support from Findlay at our BG location,” said Dean Smith, Findlay Campus Pollyeyes new manager and the BG store manager for the past 12 years. Smith and his family decided to move to Findlay and open a franchise located at 339 South Blanchard Street (formerly Pizza Hut). Smith and other BG Campus Pollyeyes employees helped get the new building prepped. The legacy that began in BG in 1978 now begins to take root in Findlay. “We’ll be serving some of the best pizza in Northwest Ohio, subs, salads, and soups and our famous stuffed breadsticks- an item we have shipped to customers all over the world.” A grand opening will take place in the future. 339 S. Blanchard St., 567-525-5539. -KM

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Tween Nights at the Library Learn a new skill and make a new friend By Jessica Kempf

What do making Harry Potter pendants, creating slime and learning to sew have in common? If you answered, “things my kid would LOVE to do,” then head to the library for Tween Nights! Tween Nights occur once a month for 2nd through 6th graders at the Findlay Hancock County Public Library. Each month focuses on a different skill or activity which involves a mix of crafts, STEM (Science, Technology, Engineering and Math) and food science. Tween Nights are always free and usually do not require registration.

Why Tweens?

“We have great children’s programs for the little ones as well as great teen programs for sixth grade and older. By offering the Tween Nights, we give kids in the middle their own thing,” explains Sarah Cramer, Children’s Services Librarian. Activities are geared towards the interests of eight to twelve year olds and provide a safe place for youngsters to get creative. Typically about 10 kids attend Tween Night and any 2nd through 6th grader is welcome. Cramer encourages tweens to choose an activity that interests them and come give it a try. “It’s a great way to not only learn a new skill, but also to meet other kids who share your interest,” says Sarah. The next Tween Night activity is Tile Art, which will occur on Thursday, November 9th from 6-7pm in the Children’s Programming room. More details and a schedule of upcoming events can be found at findlaylibrary.org or at the Children’s Information desk.

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From November 25 to December 10, the Zonta Club of Findlay will break the silence and speak out against human trafficking and domestic violence.

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Zonta is an international organization that empowers women and girls by improving educational opportunities and working to put an end to human trafficking and domestic violence. The days between November 25— The International Day for the Elimination of Violence Against Women— and December 10— Human Rights Day— are observed by Zontians during a campaign, 16 Days of Activism against Gender-Based Violence. The campaign brings attention to the ongoing plague of human trafficking, recruiting, harboring, transporting or obtaining a person for a commercial sex act, or for labor or services, through the use of force, fraud or coercion. It can include confinement, engaging a person in a romantic relationship, or controlling their children.

The stats

Unfortunately, Ohio and southern Michigan are one of the busiest areas in the United States for human trafficking. Consider the network of interstate and international roadways and ports in this area and you can imagine why this is the case. Last year, in Ohio, The Polaris Project estimated that at any given time 1,100 children are being trafficked with another 3,000 at risk. According to the Ohio Attorney General’s Office, the most common age for youth to fall victim to trafficking in Ohio was 13 years old; 49% were under

18. These victims can become agricultural migrant workers or work in sweatshops. They might end up as prostitutes, forced to participate in pornography, or to work in strip clubs.

About the victims

The majority of victims are female, but they also include males. Many are runaways who are lured by someone who appears to care about them and offers help. Some are sold by their own families who then use the money “earned” for their own needs. This is often a victim’s first introduction to the use of street drugs like heroin, as the captors use it to control the victim. Rescuing a victim is hindered by the fear of angering their captor due to threats of retribution or the withholding of the drugs that they become addicted to. Human trafficking is modern-day slavery. Learn to keep your eyes open to any situation that seems odd. Do workers seem to be very young? Does it appear that employees are fearful? Does someone seem to be intimidated by those they are with? If you feel that there is anything amiss, contact local law enforcement or the National Trafficking Hotline at 8883737-888. A life could depend upon it. Help support the ongoing fight to end modern-day slavery by joining Zontians during the 16 Days of Activism against Gender Based Violence campaign.

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