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Portrait of a (disheveled) family Putting the brood in front of the lens — by Matthew Reger

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‘Don’t be bitter, be better’

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recycle this paper For our children's future ...

Mother Mayhem battles the bulge — by Mary Helen Darah

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Aeronautic themes at The Landing Pad — by Rose Roccisano Barto

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When your child says ‘I’m dumb’

How to help kids develop a healthier mindset — by Michele Ranard

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Correction

In the January issue’s “The healing power of horses,” we incorrectly stated equine therapy organization Project H.O.P.E.’s Findlay address.

It is 6645 TR 215.

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Aquarian kids come into the world bright-eyed and bushy-tailed. Constantly looking around, they are curious and friendly. At times they seem to be in a world of their own — so make sure you have their attention before addressing them. They have “selective hearing” even as toddlers. Above all, they love everyone. Other children follow them and they all play nicely together. They include everyone in their special circle.

They are curious about many things, but not always sensible. Thomas Edison, an Aquarian, once sat on eggs to see how the chickens could hatch them. They are popular leaders who like to “belong” and love to participate in organizations such as reading groups at the library, special tours to the zoo, gardens, museums, etc. They are fascinated with computers, iPods, and gadgets of all kinds.

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Show and tell was always the day at school we anticipated the most — our time to shine in front of our classmates. For kids who are homeschooled, the opportunities to share their educational experiences can be few and far between, which is why the Findlay Hancock County Public Library is hosting the Homeschool Show What You Know event on Friday, February 15. The event will allow students to present one of their projects to their peers, giving and receiving feedback and encouragement. Held in the Lindamood Room, the Show and Tell event by Jane Hassan and the Children’s Services Staff will aid in the development of presentation and active listening skills for the participating students. For more information call, 419-422-1712 or visit www.findlaylibrary.org. —NA

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Showing off

Courageous bull riders will be holding on to bucking beasts for a shot at the big leagues when the Professional Bull Riders competition lassoes the Huntington Center on Friday and Saturday, February 8th and 9th. Described as the “NFL of professional bull riding,” the PBR will celebrate 20 years of competition with “an adrenaline-filled thrill ride,” says senior manager of public relations Jack Carnefix. Families can watch in amazement as beasts weighing 2,000 pounds buck riders weighing less than a tenth of that — the 35 competitors risk it all while hanging on to the backs of raging bulls for 8 seconds at a time in the hopes of winning a spot in the PBR's major league circuit. 7:30pm.

Kids two to 12, $12; adult tickets $22-$52, kids under two on a parent’s lap free. 500 Jefferson Ave. 419-255-3300. www.huntingtoncentertoledo.com. —EH

Mighty pucks Mini mites, squirts and pee wees from ages six to 12 are getting ready to hit the rink during the Findlay Amateur Hockey Association Winter Freeze Tournament, a puck-filled competition happening this month at The Cube.

Hundreds of hockey enthusiasts from around the state will descend on the Findlay rink for a friendly, no-checkingallowed competition that’s open to all to watch. Greg Kuhlman, Findlay Amateur Hockey Association’s director of finance, has taken part in organizing the tournament for nearly a decade, and says the game draws young players with a need for speed. “Everybody’s constantly moving,” he says.

“As you get older and progress, the game just gets incredibly faster and faster. That’s the big allure of the game.”

It’s a chance for kids to watch the sport played by kids their own age, that might just inspire them to skate onto a team themselves. Free. Saturday thru Sunday, February 9 - 10 and Friday thru Sunday, February 15 17. Friday 3-9pm, Saturday 8am-8pm, Sunday 7am-3pm. The Cube, 3430 N. Main St. For more info, call 419-957-2508 or visit findlayhockey.com. —AO

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A pirouette for a cause The ballet and the blues are both inspiring for the way they express our most basic human emotions, and the Chance To Dance Foundation aims to bring the two art forms together in the name of fundraising during their Ballet and The Blues presentation on Saturday, February 16 at Winebrenner Seminary. The Findlay Academy of Ballet will showcase their talent to the music of The Josh Garrett Band, a blues group, followed by a silent auction.

The fundraising event will allow the Chance to Dance Foundation, a non-profit, to expose young dance enthusiasts with limited budgets and opportunities to the beauty of the art form. 6:30pm. $12 adults, $10 students, $15 at door. 618 South Main Street. 419-422-3412. www.artspartnership.com. —NA

Things made the old-fashioned way, from quilts to jewelry, are the focus at Handmade Home

Home is where the boutique is

For Erin Wooden-Nagy, the business plan started not with a pen and paper, but a needle and thread. She posted a photo of a quilt she created on Facebook and, overwhelmed by the positive response (and orders), she decided to start a boutique that would cater to fans of her handmade aesthetic. She set up her shop, Handmade Home, within the children's clothing boutique Kiya Papaya in downtown Findlay, inviting nearly 25 crafters to sell their items as well, and began her journey as a business owner in June. "It's been fun, it's been overwhelming, but it's very rewarding — I'm definitely enjoying it," Wooden-Nagy says. She sells everything from 'primitive' home accessories (the new, modern version of frontier-style decor) to jewelry, scarves and candles, for $1 to $50, with the requirement that everything be made by hand. "It's very important that it's handmade. I appreciate knowing where it came from, knowing who's benefitting from my purchase," Wooden-Nagy says. "I just like that somebody put the time and effort into it because they enjoy making it." Handmade Home, 404 S. Main St. Open Tuesday thru Friday, 10am-5pm, and Saturday 10am-4pm. 419-3067973. www.facebook.com/handmadehomeshop. —AO

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A night out for a good cause

Special Kids Therapy’s new fundraising event will support their summer day camp program

Mardi Gras party will raise funds for SKT programming

By Joseph Schafer

Fundraising galas are plentiful, especially at the beginning of the new year. Special Kids Therapy was inspired by New Orleans for a new Mardi Gras fundraiser to separate them from the others. Anne Spence, executive director of Special Kids Therapy (SKT), said the goal is a good time: "The most important thing at a fundraiser is that people are having fun, enjoying what they are doing."

SKT holds its first Mardi Gras event at Alexandria's Warehouse with a cajun buffet dinner, a bachelor auction, and entertainment provided by Dave Crosser of 100.5 WKXA and 106.3 The Fox’s The Big Kahuna, along with live music courtesy of Jazz with Sax, a three piece ensemble featuring members of Night Jazz. If successful, the event will become annual.

The majority of money raised will go toward the Ann Gibson Summer Day Camp program in June and July, one of the only special needs summer day camps in Ohio. As individual education plans often require an extended school year, SKT's summer camp is a fun alternative with structure and personal interaction.

"We are offering something that is just not otherwise available to special needs children," Spence says.

SKT also offers programming for children with special health care needs, including scholarship assistance and special events. Other proceeds from the Mardi Gras fundraiser will fund the other great annual events, such as Family Fun Day and Out of the Box. Family Fun Day, held at Camp Berry each, allows special needs children and their families to spend a day performing activities such as archery and horseback riding with the assistance of a one-on-one counselor. Out of the Box is an after school program that provides youngsters with healthy opportunities from the artistic (painting) to the athletic (swimming and bowling).

Tickets $20 each and can be purchased from SKT in advance or at the door.

6-11pm Tuesday, February 12 at Alexandria's Warehouse, 132 East Crawford St. 419-422-5607. specialkidstherapy.org.

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THE LINES TWEEN advice for parents with children 10-16

An evening with Harry Potter

Speed dating takes on a whole new meaning at the Findlay Hancock County Public Library during their Teen Book Swap and Speed Date on Tuesday, February 26. The event, developed by the library's children's associate and young adult staff representative Erin Gillespie, allows teens in grades six through 12 to discover cool new reads and to socialize at the same time. Teens will have 30 seconds to leaf through a book, then jot down their opinion of the candidate, anything from "this book was my soulmate" to "I never want to see this book again." It's also a perfect chance to swap novels a teen has already read for something new. At the end of the session, teens have the opportunity to "date," or check out, the books that captured their attention — only time will tell how long their relationships will last. Free. 6:30-7:30pm. For more information, contact Gillespie at 419-422-1712 or visit findlaylibrary.org. —NA

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a childcare center with a preschool program for children ages 3-5

207 E. Foulke Ave. 419-420-0424.

920 McManness Ave. 419-423-5967.

Philosophy: “To be a safe, loving and

50 objectives: Around the Clock

nurturing place where children can grow and learn at their own pace,” says owner Ann Manley.

Get moving: 1 Amazing Place boasts a

follows a creative curriculum with 50 key objectives tracked four times a year to ensure that children are kindergarten ready.

large facility with a library, dining area, music room and gym for expanded programming. Each day, children exercise and develop their large motor skills using balance beams, monkey bars, basketball hoops and more, during structured gym time.

Back to nature: “We specialize in na-

Values: “We’re non-denominational,

well-known throughout the area for his magnificent Easter sand sculptures, landscapes and designs Around the Clock’s outdoor learning centers. Of course, he

but we incorporate basic Christian tenets, including prayer before snacks and meals, and Bible stories,” says Manley.

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ture-based learning and play. With three acres, we have one of the largest outdoor playgrounds in town with a greenhouse, garden and learning centers,” says Linda Malone, owner.

Sculpting sand: Roger Powell,

For Mom and Dad

included a large area where kids can build their own amazing sculptures out of sand.

Children’ s Montessori Village

a Montessori school for children ages 6 weeks to 6 years 220 Cherry St. 419-722-8797.

Different style: “Instead of tell-

ing students what to do, we let them experiment and try things,” says Arlene George, lead teacher and administrator.

“Our students learn how to problem solve in a systematic way.”

Individualized learning: Students in the Children’s Montessori Village learn Spanish and sign language in addition to the usual subjects. They grow and learn at their own pace with individualized instruction in a non-competitive environment.

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Extracurriculars

Google start: Google founders Larry Page and Sergey Brin both credit their success to a Montessori education and its concept of self-directed learning, says George.

Gold Medal Gymnastics and Cheerleading

gymnastics and cheerleading training facility 1850 Manor Hill Rd. 419-425-4653. www.goldmedalgymnastics.us.

Mission: To develop each individual’s

gymnastic potential in a safe, yet enjoyable, atmosphere. And to cultivate lifelong skills such as motivation, selfesteem, discipline, teamwork, leadership and sportsmanship.

Party time: It’s time to party! Gold

Medal hosts birthday parties for active

Special Advertising Section crowds who want to celebrate with tumbling, tramp time, ropes, games, music and more. An instructor coordinates the activities and a full service kitchen is available.

Night out: Every third Friday of the month, from 7-10:30 pm, Gold Medal hosts a “Friday Night Out” with supervised open gym time for kids ages four to 15. Kids can unwind while parents enjoy a night on the town.

Heidelberg University

Imagination Station

a hands-on science museum that will let visitors live, feel, and see the wonders of science

Opportunities to learn: Many

offerings are available including Little Kidspace, science story time, hands-on exhibits and camps.

Making the grade: Imagination Sta-

four-year private institution of higher education 310 E. Market St., Tiffin. 1-800-434-3352. www.heidelberg.edu.

Outreach: Numerous outreach pro-

ovated facilities in the past three years, Heidelberg’s campus has experienced a transformation.

Live healthy: A focus on healthy living

led to the construction of the state-ofthe-art Saurwein Health and Wellness Center, which opened this past fall. In addition, Heidelberg added new majors in the growing fields of health and science.

Lunch time: Soup, salad or sandwich

anyone? When word got out about the delicious fare dished up at Heidelberg’s new Fireside Café and Pub, it became a hot spot for lunch and dinner, not just for college students, but for the entire village of Tiffin.

special relationships with their “grandfriends” at the Birchaven Retirement Village. Almost all the children have a favorite “grandfriend,” says Murray.

Be my Valentine: Gotta look good, not

1 Discovery Way (at Summit and Adams St.).

419-244-2674. imaginationstationtoledo.org

tion offers “camp-ins,” field trips, workshops, professional development, energy resources and science videos to teaching professionals.

Growth spurt: With five new or ren-

Grandfriends: Children develop

grams are designed to meet the needs of children in the community, from individual classroom experiences to entire community centers.

Marilyn’ s Lifelong Educational Center

an intergenerational program for children 6 weeks to 5 years

matter what your age. For Valentine’s Day, the children and their “grandfriends” dress up and take glamour shots. Other types of planned activities during the year include cooking, science experiments and arts and crafts.

Maumee Valley Country Day School

an independent, co-educational college prep school for early childhood to grade 12; MVCDS will open a 28-bed residence hall for the 2013-2014 school year for high school students who live outside of Toledo 1715 South Reynolds Rd. 419-381-1313. www.mvcds.com

Philosophy: Students’ passions are

nurtured through experiential, individualized education.

Passport required: Winterim, a

15100 Birchaven Lane, 419-425-3049, www.mackliniginstitute.org.

Best-kept secret: “We may be Hancock County’s best-kept secret. People are always excited to learn about our wonderful program that pairs children and the elderly,” says Tiffani Murray, executive director. “We are the only intergenerational program in the area.”

month-long high school experiential learning program, includes on-campus courses, off-campus professional experiences, and international travel. “We had groups studying cultures in Thailand and Turkey this year,” says Head of School Gary Boehm.

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Millstream Career Center

vocational center for high school students in Hancock and Putnam counties 1150 Broad Ave. 419-425-8277. www.millstreamcc.org.

New building: Millstream students

moved into a brand new building this past fall. The spacious facility features the latest equipment and technology.

And for the first time, Millstream can house all its technical education classes under one roof.

College credit: Ambitious high school students can earn college credits while attending Millstream through dual enrollment opportunities.

Top chefs: Lunch dished up by future top chefs! On most Tuesdays, Wednesday and Thursdays during the school year, Millstream’s culinary arts students practice their skills with a lunch buffet open to the public. The budding chefs serve lunch from 10:30 a.m. to noon at a cost of $5 per person. Reservations are recommended.

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University of Findlay

a four-year private institution of higher education 1000 N. Main St. 1-800-472-9502. www.findlay.edu.

Mazza interaction: Crafting sentences from magnets and shapes from sand, children exploring the White Discovery Loft at the Mazza Museum kick start their imagination. The new interactive area even includes a large slide that leads back to the first floor.

Crisis management: School districts

remain on high alert after the Sandy Hook massacre. UF’s All Hazards Training Center offers a free crisis management course for schools throughout the U.S. sponsored by the U.S. Department of Homeland Security.

Informatics: Data and electronic

medical records are driving the future of healthcare. UF’s new master of science in health informatics degrees prepares professionals for this rapidly growing field.

The online program can be completed in two years and integrates the fields of health care, computer science and management.

XT Fitness

fitness classes for ages 6 through adult 2725 N. Main St. 419-306-8425. www.xtfitness.net.

Ninja warriors: Kids training to become Ninjas don’t even realize they are

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exercising, says owner Jim Steffen, who offers American Ninja Warrior training classes for kids ages 6-12.

Hot lava: Don’t step on the hot lava!

Kids try not to let their feet touch the ground as they jump, leap and swing through an obstacle challenge course at XT Fitness.

Motivation: “I wear a headless micro-

phone during class and I am constantly encouraging the kids,” says Steffen. “I want them to adopt healthy lifestyles and realize how good exercise can make them feel.”

Young Men and Women For Change

a monthly one to two day boot camp behavior modification program 567-277-5352. www.youngmenandwomenforchange.com

Goal: To educate and empower young

people from 4 years old to grade 12 to become productive, responsible and law abiding citizens Additional offerings: One on one individualized services to help children and parents

Why it works: “YMWFC gives

children an idea of the consequences of negative choices and the benefits of making positive ones,” says Atanya L. Hayes, head administrator. “Being in the program and hearing our speakers guides them or keeps them on the right path.”

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When your child says "I'm dumb" How to help kids develop a healthier mindset

by Michele Ranard

A few years back, my first-grader stepped off the school bus in tears. The words he squeaked out between sobs cut me to the soul. He said, “My teacher hates my reading ‘cause I’m stupid.” It was the start of the school year, and he had been placed in remedial reading—a group of five students, pulled from the classroom for specialized instruction with a reading specialist. When I asked around, it seemed my son was the only student struggling with self-image over the placement. So why do certain children fall apart when faced with negative evaluation while others seem to roll with the punches?

work will come easy. If she encounters failure in math or reading, the failure will feel like proof she is not smart as you characterized her. She recommends that when your child brings home an excellent grade you avoid making comments such as “Man, you are smart!” Instead, you could reference her effort and the pay off.

If your child bombs a test or comes home with a disappointing report card and says “I’m dumb,” it is important that you explain how tests and report cards are not indicators of intelligence. Children need to understand that hard work and extra help can lead to greater success.

Fixed Mindsets Have Something to Prove

Growth Mindsets Lead to Personal Growth

Due to the interaction of genetics and environment, some children react with more hopelessness than others, and Stanford psychology professor, Carol Dweck suggests mindsets may be at fault. In Mindset: The New Psychology of Success, she writes “People with a fixed mindset believe that their traits are just given…and nothing can change that.” These thinkers worry excessively about their inadequacy and believe intelligence, athletic ability, and talent are fixed traits rather than qualities which can be developed.

Dweck says kids with fixed mindsets are compelled to prove themselves over and over because of a strong need to confirm that they are smart, athletic, or talented in every situation. Since academic success at school is measured primarily with pass/fail, some children may be reinforced to think in narrow terms and constantly ask themselves, “Am I a winner or a loser? Will I succeed or fail?”

How to Praise

Believe it or not, Dweck says praise, more than criticism contributes to fixed mindsets in children. For example, if you repeatedly praise your daughter for being smart, she may grow to expect that school

“Growth mindset” is the alternative to believing there is nothing you can do with the cards you have been dealt. With this mentality “the hand you’re dealt is just the starting point for development.”

Such thinkers recognize people can grow and succeed through experience, training, and personal effort. Dweck notes that when kids think the qualities they desire are attainable their passion is sparked for learning.

If your child does not have a growth mindset and struggles with school, their self-image could be at risk. Since fixed mindsets focus on judging (“This means I’m dumb,” “This means I’m a bad kid”), a shift needs to occur. A child’s inner voice could ask instead, “What can I learn from this?” or “How can I improve?” Dweck says developing this mindset “allows people to thrive during the most challenging times of their lives.”

do something to change that internal monologue. Talk to them about the ways their self-judgments hold them back. *Explain there are other ways to evaluate themselves. In the face of failure, there is always more than one response available. If they bomb a math test after studying hard, “You’re a horrible math student” is only one potential reaction. *Teach them to talk back! They will love this one. Rather than allowing a fixed mindset to drag them down—they should talk back to the voice saying they are not good enough.

Encourage them to embrace a growth mindset which, without judging, sees the possibilities and the opportunities that may come from the setback. *Discuss how a new mindset may be put into practice. Dweck challenges us to embrace life’s trials and learn from our setbacks. She says, “Hear the criticism and act on it.” Action based on a healthier mindset will expand the opportunities

available to our kids now and through adulthood.

Michele Ranard is a professional counselor, academic tutor, and freelance writer. She is happy to report her son made great progress and has learned invaluable life lessons as a result of his academic struggles. Visit her at hellolovelychild.blogspot.com.

Four Ways to Help Kids Develop a Healthier Mindset

*Help them heighten their sensitivity to negative self-talk. When kids grow more aware of what their fixed mindset is telling them (“Face it—you’ve got no talent!”), they will be in a better position to

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Portrait of a (disheveled) family

The fun and frustration of putting the brood in front of the lens By Matthew Reger

Matthew Reger and his wife, Heidi, say cheese (sort of) with children Elizabeth and Noah “Please give me a nice family picture,” was my appeal to the photographer when I initially set up our family shoot.

I am part perfectionist, part idealist, all wrapped up in an impatient package. I want things to fit my ideal without delay. The family picture session was where these qualities, and the realities of my family, met to do battle.

The problem started weeks before the shoot when my wife found out how much the session would cost. In her mind, it was too expensive. I explained to her how important it was to have professional family pictures — my attempt to sway her made no impression. I told her that pictures would be nice to have for future Christmas cards (even though it was only summer). Once again, I was making no headway. To her, it was an unnecessary extravagance.

Due to this resistance, I stopped talking about the planned shoot, wrote it on the calendar and hoped all would smooth over. The day came and my hopes were dashed with her comment: “Are we still going ahead with this?” My wife would participate, but with a forced smile.

Well at least the kids would be supportive, right? Not! I don’t want to be unfair to the kids — they just maintained their everyday enthusiasm. Which is to say, that if we were shooting a children’s clothing catalog, they’d be fired.

Our six-year-old daughter wanted to pose, just not with the rest of the family.

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run away to play.

Add to this situation the fact that it was hot. Not just summer hot, but one of those days when sweat forms without any kind of exertion. In this heat I was running around the yard trying to corral the kids, show my wife that this was not a boondoggle, while maintaining some kind of appearance of calm for the camera, as sweat gathered on my brow and back.

In this maelstrom, I was tempted to admit defeat — “okay, this is all over.”

The kids were acting up, my shirt was getting soaked with sweat, and my wife was giving me the look of “I told you this would not work.” In spite of these obstacles I pressed on for three reasons.

One, I did not want my wife to be right.

Two, I had a lot of faith in our photographer and I believed she could give us that perfect picture I desired.

Third, I (really) did not want my wife to be right.

A couple weeks later the pictures arrived. Out of several hundred shots, there were about 30 good ones. There was even one that would look good alongside other family pictures hung on the stairway wall. I looked at each beloved family member, remembering that day, and seeing something more. My daughter is kind, beautiful yet at times, so selfish. My son is gregarious, dutiful and prone to mischief. My wife is loving, helpful and so darn cheap. I am idealistic, energetic, and much too impatient.

Together we make a family. The picture on the wall preserves those good attributes and lets us forget the negatives.

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Swim lessons ................................................

Place to swim ................................................

Indoor water park ..........................................

Vacation that won’t empty your wallet ..........................................

Family-friendly gym .......................................

Gymnastics center .........................................

Place to play rec sports .................................

Bowling alley ................................................

TELL FAF

Favorite thing about Findlay Area Family .....................................

Things you would love to see in Findlay Area Family..................................

Best Findlay Area Family Column ............................................

Reason to visit www.findlayfamily.com .............................. .......................................................... ..........................................

FEED THE FAM! Family Restaurant ......................................................

Healthy fast food .......................................................

Pizza joint (non-chain) .............................................

Burger place (non-chain) ...........................................

Ice cream shop ..........................................................

Place where kids eat free ..........................................

Kid-friendly grocery store ..........................................

Natural food store .....................................................

HEY SHORTY! IT’S YOUR BIRTHDAY!

Entertainer ................................................................

Birthday party venue .................................................

Place for goodie bag loot ...........................................

Place to buy a cake ...................................................

RETAIL THERAPY

Kid’s clothier ...........................................................

Kid’s shoe shop .......................................................

Kid’s consignment ...................................................

Place to buy maternity clothes .................................

Place to furnish your little one’s “nest” ....................

Locally owned specialty toys/gifts ...........................

GROWN-UP TIME

Support group for moms .......................................

Mom-friendly play date .........................................

Place for single parents to meet ............................

Parent blog ...........................................................

Date night restaurant ............................................

Place for Mom to be pampered .............................

Romantic getaway ................................................ ............................................. ................................................

RULES 1 You may only vote once. 2 No answer should be repeated more than three times. 3 A minimum

FINDLAY’S HIGH FLYERS

Neighborhood to raise kids ............................................

Program (activity for preschoolers) ................................

Summer day camp .........................................................

Tutor/learning center .....................................................

Teacher (and his/her school) ..........................................

Family-friendly car dealership .......................................

Kid-friendly emergency room ........................................

Place to take Dad for Father’s Day ................................

Place to take Mom for Mother’s Day ............................

Kid-friendly salon ........................................................

Picnic spot ..................................................................

Parent-friendly work place ...........................................

Bank/financial institution .............................................

Family Lawyer ............................................................

Dentist/orthodontist .....................................................

Place to give birth .......................................................

OB/GYN ......................................................................

Optometrist .................................................................

Midwife ......................................................................

Pediatric practice ........................................................

Doctor .........................................................................

Chiropractor ...............................................................

Allergist ......................................................................

Veterinarian ................................................................

Place to nurse a baby ..................................................

Kid’s photographer .....................................................

Special needs services ..............................................

Place to worship ........................................................

Preschool ...................................................................

Daycare .....................................................................

Drop-in childcare .......................................................

Family-friendly restroom ............................................

For display advertising call Shannon at 419.244.9859 or email sales@toledocitypaper.com Space reservation deadline May 15th Winners announced in the June issue of Toledo Area Parent

of 30 questions must be answered for your ballot to be eligible. 4 Your name and email address must be included. Please mail completed ballots to 1120 Adams St. Publishing Attn: Family Favorites, Toledo, OH 43604. Or vote online at toledoparent.com!

5 No ballot stuffing! No photocopies! (We will discard any ballots that we suspect are fraudulently submitted.)

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Project A

Our intrepid Findlay mom braves the Bridge To Terabithia diorama

By Rose Roccisano Barto

I am the queen of school projects.

I know, the kids ultimately do them.

But fellow parents know that projects involving more than a marker and construction paper really end up falling on mom or dad. I have a seventh grader and a fourth grader, and I have yet to run into a school project that doesn’t involve me — and my wallet — somehow.

Trust me when I tell you I am not a crafty person. I don’t sew, scrapbook or do anything with my hands other than play music, type and clean. Yet I’ve been forced to become a gladiator with a glue gun in the fight for school credit, and have lived to tell the tale.

My first major project as a parent was a fifth grade diorama on The Bridge to Terabithia. A trip to the recycling center netted a shoe box. A trip to the store was required for paint, miniature

The fruits of her labor: Rose Barto gets handy with construction paper

trees, straws for miniature soda cans and other tiny items. Over the course of two days, Terabithia was writ small on the kitchen table. That wasn’t so bad, I remember thinking.

In fourth grade, my youngest daughter decided to create a one-room school for an Ohio history project. Three bags of large pretzel rods later, we had constructed a pretzel palace that required a special mid-day delivery trip to school. It was a thing of beauty — tiny coal chunks in the corner for the stove, a miniature flag flying by the door, and an apple for the teacher. To this day, however, the smell of pretzel rods makes me gag.

That was all a warmup for the biggest project on which I’ve assisted to date — a display on the subject of China for sixth grade. My daughters are from China, so parts of it came easy. Still, I

think my oldest got tired of “display summits,” where I made her think about the relative merits of sparkle versus matte, what pictures to use, and how to attach an undulating dragon to the top without crushing the whole tri-fold board.

I considered myself lucky when I walked away from that project with only one hot-glue burn and a laceration from the X-Acto knife.

Survival tactics

We are now in science fair negotiations.

The experiment is hers. The display, I think, will again call for parent power.

But science is a cruel mistress, and I was asked to help count corn kernels into plastic baggies for the experiment. Five hundred kernels each went into nine different bags. It took most of the morning, including stopping midstream to run to the grocery store the day before Thanksgiving to get another bag of popcorn.

There are ways, however, to survive project season.

The most important rule to remember is always have a say in the project.

Often times there will be a choice. Unless you have the Martha Stewart mutation, pick the easy one. A hand-woven, meticulously crafted doll with lifelike features will be worth as many points as a pioneer journal. In consultation with your child, pick the doable project that won’t take over the kitchen table for three weeks.

Do you have materials handy, or are they pretty cheap to obtain? Part of the

Terabithia diorama included tiny stones from our garden and a snippet of evergreen from the tree out back. It is easy to run up a massive bill at the craft stores, so it’s best to think ahead about cheap substitutions. Or, find a scrapbooking friend and beg or borrow those tiny stickers and baubles.

My final words of advice have nothing to do with project construction itself.

With rare exceptions, my daughters are instructed to never bring the project back home after it is graded. I did not want to take another trip to Terabithia’s magical kingdom, nor did I want to smell pretzels in my kitchen. And I’m pretty sure I can live without hearing popcorn popping for a good long while.

Projects? Bring ‘em on. Armed with a glue gun and Google — not to mention car keys and a credit card — we’ll do just fine.

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Getting a handle on my handles

Mother Mayhem battles with the bulge

By Mary Helen Darah I wrapped, detangled lights, removed caked-on frosting from one contented Corgi who ventured into a post-holiday filled hefty bag, performed Biblical miracles by feeding a guest list that had an unexpected growth spurt, imbibed and feasted. Now the same society that wanted me to shop until I drop hours after giving Thanksgiving gratitude for all I have, expects me to miraculously lower my cholesterol, drop some pounds and lose my Spanx for the New Year. Even worse as I try to get a handle on my “handles,” Cupid’s revenge (a.k.a. Valentine’s Day) pops up on the calendar. Gratuitous chocolate consumption is always a part of this glorious holiday. Although heartshaped cards full of sentiment are nice, nothing says “I love you” like a brownie with powdered sugar and sprinkles.

I try. I really do, but there has never been a baked good I have met that I didn’t bond with immediately. Also, I have to get over the first few days of some pretty high octane psychological “stuff,” the first being the “I am going to eat every

carb in sight today because tomorrow I begin as the healthier me” mentality. This state of mind usually lasts about three weeks. Once I get beyond that negative behavior the “What? You’re telling me I can’t have that? Well, I’ll show me!” phase kicks in. This usually ends with the realization that I can’t zip my calves into my chic knee high boots and that I find it necessary to hold my upper arm when waving goodbye so I don’t flab someone to death.

This year I decided to be “hip” as I lost my hips and calculate my food consumption with an “app” on my phone.

I tracked my caloric intake and found out at the end of day one that if I were a 6’7”, 278 pound male I stayed within my boundaries. I guess as a 5’10”-ish female I didn’t hit the mark. Cranberry muffins are a wonderful mood booster and after consuming one (OK fine, two … and a half), I shooed the dust bunnies off the VCR and busted out a kick boxing tape.

I nearly killed the dog with my first back kick. I decided that maybe it would be

better and safer to hit the floor and work the abs. The combination of having a canine with two inch legs that rejoices in the rare moments when you are at eye level and trying to detect the source of origin for the stains in my carpet (which is right up there with trying to identify road kill) rendered the floor routine ‘not a success.’

The tapes that followed consisting of various models and celebrities breathing seductively (while I sounded like I was giving birth without an epidural) and clad in skin-tight leotards didn’t make the cut either. I settled for a Bollywood dance workout. I am happy to report that I have the “feed the chickens” and “elephant” moves down, but I have a long way to go before I find my “inner Indian.”

I have been trying to eat more fruits and veggies as well. I just don’t understand why blueberry Pop Tarts don’t count as a fruit serving. I also purchased

a pedometer. FYI: there are 85 steps from the couch to the TV, 153 from my desk to the bathroom and 56 from the back door to my car. Another helpful tip is to visualize how you want to look. It beats laying on your bed trying to stuff yourself into your jeans.

Crazy diet plans have been around for centuries. In 1087, William the Conqueror of England was upset because his girth kept him from riding his horse. His brilliant plan of action to shed unwanted pounds was to substitute food for alcohol.

He died from falling off his horse.

I am so proud of my daughter who shed pounds not by eating grapefruit, swallowing a tapeworm or drinking 12 glasses of lemonade a day with cayenne and maple syrup, but by doing something radical. She ate healthy and exercised. Who ever heard of such a thing?!

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'Don't be bitter, be better'

Nina Parker uses mother's words as inspiration for her work at Black Heritage Library and Multicultural Center

By Nadine Akra

Nina Parker and the source of her inspiration, mother Stella Sherard Not many people can say they are they look and then you will find your true spending their time doing exactly what friend.’ That has stayed with me — that’s they feel they were “put in this world to powerful.”

Nina recalls do.” But Nina Parker her own childhood is. Aside from being Fun Facts in Findlay, saying a wife, mother and Children: Darnell Jr., 35, and Burgess, 30 she was somegrandmother, she’s times mistreated busy bringing culGraduated from: Defiance College, with a degree with name-calling, tural awareness and in business administration which only fueled acceptance to the Favorite places in Findlay: Cedar Valley Café, her fire, driving her Findlay community as the Bistro, Senior Center for volunteering to make a differfounder and executive ence for this gendirector of the Black Favorite saying: Do unto others as you would have them do to you eration of minorHeritage Library and ity students. It is Multicultural Center.

Favorite memory with Black Heritage Library: important for othAt the Center, Being honored with a Governor’s Award in 2002 ers to understand Nina educates visitors people of different about black history backgrounds, she through art, artifacts, books, audio and visual tools from all says, but it is just as important for minority over the world. Since the Black Heritage children to take pride in their heritage.

“We do live in a world where there Library’s opening in 1982, Nina, her husband, Darnell and two sons, Darnell Jr. and is prejudice and discrimination,” Nina Burgess, have built a place to support a acknowledges. “But I say to our commumulticultural world where people can learn nity, if you will just take a moment to step and experience the beauty of other places into this goldmine; come open the doors of without leaving the Findlay area. The big- the Black Heritage Library, and be amazed gest inspiration for the library, though, and overwhelmed. It’s the responsibility was Nina’s late mother, Stella Sherard, of the education system to make sure that who Nina says was the “wind beneath my students get the opportunity. Call it an adventure.” wings.”

The Black Heritage Library also holds “My mother used to say ‘Don’t be bitter, be better,'” Nina says. “I’m very grate- annual events to promote cultural awareful to her because she had a great respect ness including a Hispanic-Latino festifor people no matter what the color of val, an All American Girl doll party and their skin.” Her parents had reason to Multicultural Celebration where creativity be bitter after growing up in Mississippi takes different forms for one similar purduring a time of tumultuous civil rights pose: to help people understand where othstruggles for African-Americans. Nina’s ers different from them came from and why mother reminded her that she would it’s special. Ultimately, that is Nina’s goal. find good and bad people in all places.

The Black Heritage Library, 817 Harmon St. “She would say ‘Align yourself with the 419-423-4954. way that people think and not the way 18

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High flyer

The Landing Pad

1123 W. Trenton Ave. 419-425-0250 Facebook page: The Landing Pad Open Sunday thru Saturday, 11am-11pm

Airplane themes makes dinner fun at The Landing Pad

By Rose Roccisano Barto

Though we’d seen The Landing Pad sign as we got on and off Interstate 75, we’d never ventured off the highway to try the airplane-themed restaurant. Now that we have, however, we wonder what took us so long.

Stepping into The Landing Pad, we were struck by all things aeronautical. From the propellers and plane wings on the wall, to the coconut trees bringing to mind a destination reached only by prop plane, it was clear The Landing Pad took its theme seriously.

That realization was reinforced while perusing the menu. Want an appetizer? You need to look at the Preflight Checklist portion of your menu. The kids’ menu is not merely a kids’ menu, it is the Lil’ Pilot’s Menu. And more than one sandwich or entrée had a catchy airworthy name, such as the No Leg Room pizza and the Destination Philadelphia cheesesteak sandwich.

But unlike air travel of old, The Landing Pad has extra conveniences that will make all members of the family happy. Lunch and dinner specials abound, with no need for trays to be pulled down. We counted at least 12 televisions in the place, excluding the two we found in the restrooms.

There is no excuse for missing the game here!

Still, people come to The Landing Pad for the food.

THE SHORT COURSE

And we found plenty to fill our tummies. We decided to try The Lost Propeller stuffed breadsticks ($6.99) as an appetizer — there was a lot of golden buttery-ness to share. My husband ordered the Open Runway sandwich ($7.99), a chopped steak BLT, while our newly-minted teenager chose the Grilled Flyin’ Chicken Sandwich ($6.95) off the lunch menu. While there were several vegetarian options to choose from, I ordered the Lil Fear of Flying Calzone ($7.99). And, just to confuse everyone, my tweener ordered the Vegetarian Wrap ($5.99) with added chicken — a combo our waitress said many people opt for.

Everyone had mile-high praise for their meals. “This has to be the best grilled sandwich I’ve ever had,” said the teen, a connoisseur of chicken sandwiches. “It’s juicy but not soggy.” My calzone was eyed by all, and I was forced to share a little bit. For once I ordered something and didn’t ask them to take the onions off, and I was rewarded with finely chopped onions that didn’t overpower the dish. Half the vegetarian chicken wrap came home, since it was such a generous portion. And my husband loved his sandwich, stating that “it’s great — it has bacon and steak.”

Kid-friendly: Yes, kids eat free on Tuesdays with paying adults

We weren’t so To avoid the wait: Consider full, however, that we off-peak times or lunch couldn’t stomach desBathroom amenities: No sert. We both ordered the changing tables, but televiCarry On brownie with sions! hot fudge and ice cream High chairs? Yes ($3.59) and the Flowing Lava Cake ($5.99).

Got milk? Yes, as well as chocolate milk and lemonWithout even asking, the ade waitress brought us four spoons to share, because Anything healthy for the that’s how we roll — er, kids? Pizza toppings include fly. What ensued was the many fresh veggies, and salads are an option international sign of a good dessert - the sound Food allergy concerns? As of clinking spoons. always, ask We are looking forward to making The Landing Pad our dinner destination in the future. How can we resist a restaurant which has such good food, and has so much fun with its menu? Maybe next time we’ll try the Crash Landing Chicken Parmesan or the Shark Attack Burger.

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{February 2013} All calendar events are subject to change, cancellation and limited size.

Calling ahead for confirmation is recommended.

Saturday, March 2

Called Out to Get REAL

Cheryl Larbus once won a Victoria’s Secret runway contest, then hung up her heels and lingerie. Now, rather than walking the runway she walks the line, speaking to young girls about modesty and confidence. Larbus is now a co-ordinator of Get REAL InC, which stands for Respected, Educated, Able, and Loyal in Christ, a nonprofit organization which mentors young girls. Get REAL operates under the motto “It is easier to build a strong girl, than to repair a broken woman.” Larbus will bring Get REAL to Winebrenner Auditorium on March 2nd for the “Called out to be REAL” event. Kylie Bisutti, winner of the 2009 “Victoria’s Secret Model Search” competition, will speak alongside Larbus, local speaker Melissa Gertz, and recording artist Brianna Caprice about bullying, peer pressure and other issues relevant to developing young ladies. Christian pop artist Shuree Rivera will close the event with a bang. $10 advance, $15 at door. 6-10pm.

Winebrenner Auditorium, 950 N Main St. 419-348-3714. www.getrealfindlay.com —JS

1 FRIDAY Bach’s Concert Series - The University of Findlay presents their 2012-2013 Bach’s Concert Series. Enjoy top quality entertainment in a relaxed atmosphere.

This month’s featured artist is “Language of Love” featuring Diego Val. 11:30am.

Alumni Memorial Union-Atrium, 1000 N. Main St. 419-434-4606. www.findlay.edu

2 SATURDAY Disc Golf Ice Bowl Benefit - The Disc Golf Community Association will be hosting the 8th Annual Ray Heverling Charity Ice Bowl benefiting the Family Center of Findlay-Hancock County. New and experienced players are invited to play one round of disc golf consisting of 18 permanent baskets and 2 temporary baskets for a total round of 20 holes. Win exclusive Ice Bowl prizes! Enjoy a warm fire and hot drinks. 12pm. $20. Riverbend Recreation Area, 16618 Township Rd. 208. 419-889-9567. www.hancockparks.com Sunburst Beauty Pageant - Have a little beauty at home, a handsome young man or a well composed tween? Then don’t miss the opportunity to get registered to participate in the Sunburst Beauty Pageant. Prizes, awards and bonds available for various age groups with male & female divisions. Pre-register online.

9:30am. Findlay Village Mall, 1800 Tiffin Ave. 419-423-8732. www.sunburstbeauty.com Learn to Cross-country Ski Workshops - Sign the family up for a single Saturday of snowy fun. Learn basic ski techniques like gliding, turning, and rhythm. Wear layered clothing, including hats and gloves. Minimum participant age is 8 years old. Youth must register with a participating adult. Register with payment

by Fri. before each workshop at the HPD office. Workshops are subject to proper snow and weather conditions. Saturdays, February 2-23. 9-10:30am. Riverbend Recreation Area, 16618 Township Rd. 208. 419-425-7275. www.hancockparks.com

Spay-ghetti Dinner - The Humane Society of Hancock County’s Annual Spayghetti Dinner benefits the Animal Medical Fund and features Olive Garden spaghetti, garlic bread and salad. Prizes include 1-night resort stays, theatre tickets, ferry passes and more. 5:30-7:30pm. $10.

Humane Society, 4550 Fostoria Ave. www.hancockhumanesociety.com

5 TUESDAY Farm Fun - Children ages 2-8 years old and their caregivers can enjoy stories, songs and activities that focus on farming and agriculture. Presented by members of the Block and Bridle Club of the University of Findlay. 7:30pm. Findlay-Hancock County Public Library, 206 Broadway St. 419-422-1712. www.findlaylibrary.org

8 FRIDAY Planetarium Night: February Nights - Find out what will be happening in the night sky in the month of February. See what constellations will be out as well as what planets might be visible. Recommended for those ages 3 and over. 7pm. Oakwoods Nature Preserve, 1400 Oakwoods Ln. 419-425-7275. www.hancockparks.com Let’s Sleep On It - In honor of February being cancer awareness month Whitson Hospitality and TASTE by Tara Catering present “Let’s Sleep On It, For Finding a cure.” This event is designed to be a luxurious giant sleepover party for adults to celebrate life, victory and the dedication to finding a cure. With two evenings to choose from, this fundraising event has activities and entertainment for the whole family. Visit the website for full list of activities. Friday & Saturday, February 8 & 9, 6pm-12pm (next day). $99 individual / $170 two guests. Country Inn & Suites, 903 Interstate Dr. 419-890-9699. www.cancerpatientservices.org

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MONDAY-FRIDAY

Mom & Tot Skate, Bring the little ones to the Cube for open ice skating Monday-Friday. 10am-11am. $2 child/$3 adult skates included.

The CUBE, 3430 N. Main St. 419-424-7176. www.findlayohio.com

TUESDAYS & THURSDAYS

Fall Story Time, Hear stories with songs and a simple craft. For all ages. 10:30-11:30am. Free. FindlayHancock County Public Library, 206 Broadway St. 419-422-1712. www.findlaylibrary.org

TUESDAYS

Starflight First Grade Trail Starter, Camp Fire USA connects children and families with caring, trained adults in an intimate group atmosphere through our club programs. first and third Tuesdays.

3:30-4:30pm. $15. 733 Wyandot St. 419-422-5415. www.campfireusa-nwohio.com

WEDNESDAYS

Toddler Art Zone, Includes a story, art project and music. For ages one to four.

11:30am-12:15pm. $5-$10. YMCA, Downtown Branch, 300 E. Lincoln St. 419-422-8249. www.findlayymca.org

First and second Grade Art Classes, each month focuses on an element of design. Students will explore new art techniques and media. 4-5pm. $30 per month. Findlay Art League, 117 W. Crawford St. 419-422-7847. www.findlayartleague.com

THURSDAYS

Jr. Teens in Action, This is for children grades six to eight. Curriculum is based on the Five Trails of Camp Fire USA. The Trail to Knowing Me. The Trail to Family and Community. The Trail to Creativity. The Trail to the Environment.

The Trail to the Future. 5:30–6:30pm.

Camp Fire USA, 305 W. Hardin St. 419-422-5415. www.campfireusa-nwohio.com

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9 SATURDAY Saturday Family Movies - Families are invited to enjoy “Hotel Transylvania” at the library. 1:30-4pm. Findlay-Hancock County Public Library, 206 Broadway St. 419-422-1712. www.findlaylibrary.org

10 SUNDAY Cabin Fever Winter Hike - Get out of the house and enjoy an afternoon hike with Program Assistant, Chris Allen.

1:30pm. Riverbend Recreation Area, 16618 Township Rd. 208.

419-425-7275. www.hancockparks.com Children Of The Light - The 2013 Edition of Children Of The Light features 14 high school students from 7 local schools in concert. 6pm. Free. Findlay First Church of the Nazarene, 2501 Broad Ave. 419-422-8660. www.findlayfirstnaz.org

15 FRIDAY Heart of Rock-N-Roll Concert Fundraiser - Get your Valentine’s Day Weekend off to a rockin’ start with an evening of music and fun with The Fossils (formerly known as the Reunion Band). In addition, there will be a raffle with many intriguing items to win! Prizes include a Large HD TV, Caribbean Resort Accommodations in Antigua, St. Lucia and Barbados, Disney World Passes, Sporting Events and Memorabilia and Many More!

Proceeds benefit CASA/GAL of Hancock County. 6-10pm. $20. Yucatan Liquor Stand, 1851 Tiffin Ave. www.casahc.org New Auto Show - Stroll the mall February 15-17 and spend Valentine’s Day weekend checking out the new car models available from area dealers. All makes and models - all in one place!

From the latest gas-saving technology, unique interior highlights and sleek design styles - over 70 models will be on display.

Local dealers will be on-site to outline the newest features and financing options.

Friday-Sunday. Findlay Village Mall, 1800 Tiffin Ave. 419-423-8732. www.shopfindlayvillagemall.com Friday Night Out! - Enjoy a date night while your children have fun at Gold Medal Gymnastics & Cheerleading.

Children 5 and up are welcome to Gold Medal’s babysitting night, where they’ll have access to a supervised, open gym, structured free play, music, pizza, and beverages. Children can be dropped off from 7 pm on, and must be picked up between 10 and 10:30 pm. $20 and up, depending on number of children. Gold Medal Gymnastics & Cheerleading, 1850 Manor Hill Rd. 419-425-4653.

16 SATURDAY Winter Blues Festival - Enjoy soulful blues music performed live by a variety of artists and Refresh yourself with a variety of craft beers at this unique outdoor event! Performing at the festival will be the Millstream Mojo Band, Chris Shutters and Josh Garrett-a Findlay Favorite! Proceeds from this event benefit the Hancock County Center for Safe and Healthy Children and The Arts Partnership Education Programs. 6pm-12am. $5.

Crawford Street, Downtown Findlay. www.artspartnership.com

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The Chance to Dance Foundation Presents: Ballet & the Blues - Be captivated by the timeless techniques of ballet and groove to the sound of smooth Blues…Be there as The Chance to Dance Foundation presents “Ballet & The Blues”.

This performance features The Findlay Academy of Ballet against a backdrop of music by The Josh Garret Band.

6:30-9:30pm. $10-$15. Winebrenner Seminary, 950 N. Main St. www.artspartnership.com CPS Chili Cookoff! - It’s time for the annual Cancer Patient Services Chili Cook-Off featuring a silent auction, live auction, kids games, Cold Stone Creamery goodies and 25 flavors of chili!

Sample just one or taste them all and vote for your favorite. Proceeds benefit Cancer Patient Services Programs. 4:45-7:30pm.

Koehler Center, 1000 N. Main St. www.findlay.edu

17 SUNDAY Hands-On Nature: Woodpeckers and Snags - What’s a snag? See why these dead trees are so valuable, especially to woodpeckers. Take a hike at 2pm to see where the snags are on the trails and hopefully find some woodpeckers, too! Children will be able to make a pinecone bird feeder for the birds. Information about the seven species of woodpeckers found in Ohio will be available. 1-4pm.

Oakwoods Nature Preserve, 1400 Oakwoods Ln. 419-425-7275. www.hancockparks.com

21 THURSDAY On Golden Pond - This is the love story of Ethel and Norman Thayer who are visited by their divorced middle-aged daughter and her dentist fiance, who then go off to Europe leaving his teenage son behind for the summer. Norman revels in teaching the boy fishing and literature while learning some lessons himself about modern teens. As the summer ends, Ethel and Norman treasure their beloved summer memories knowing their time together is fading. February 21-23, 8pm. $12.

Fort Findlay Playhouse, 300 W. Sandusky St. 419-422-4624. www.artspartnership.com

22 FRIDAY Community Outreach Day - This event features a variety of workshops and lectures designed to help members of the Findlay and surrounding communities.

A variety of medical professionals and experts will be on hand to discuss topics from Basic Life Support and First Aid to Disaster Training and Choosing and Modifying Toys for Your Child. All workshops are being offered free of charge to the community. Seating is limited for select presentations, registration required.

9am-2pm. Brown Mackie College,1700 Fostoria Ave. 419-429-8631. www.brownmackie.edu

23 SATURDAY Gently Used Sale - Gently used Children’s items, clothes, toys, etc. will be on sale to the public. 8am-12pm.

Fellowship Hall, 2330 South Main St. 419-957-8963. www.centracomm.net

Annual Photo Contest Open House View this year’s photo entries and winners at Brugeman Lodge at Riverbend. Stop in to vote for your favorite in the People’s Choice category. Contest entries must be submitted by 12pm on Monday, February 11. Check out complete details, including categories online. Saturday, 4-6pm; Sunday, 1-4pm. Riverbend Recreation Area, 16618 Township Rd. 208.

419-425-7275. www.hancockparks.com Oscar Night - Oscar Night brings all the glitz and glamour of a Hollywood Red Carpet party right here to Hancock County. This year’s theme is Oscar Night in Gotham City! Come to the party in your best evening wear or as your favorite vigilante or villian! The night features live music and dancing, with Hep Cat Revival.

There will be upscale grazing and decadent desserts prepared exclusively by Findlay’s Top Chefs as well as silent and live auctions of high end prize packages and celebrity autographed memorabilia.

All proceeds benefit the American Red Cross Hancock County Chapter. 7-11pm. $50 individual / $275 table of 5 / $525 table of 10. Findlay Inn, 200 E. Main Cross St. 419-422-9322. www.hancockredcross.org Capture the Landscape - Join multiaward winning photographer, Steve Perry, to discover the techniques the pros use to create landscape masterpieces. Steve will cover everything you need to start capturing award winning landscapes with your digital camera. Steve Perry is a self-taught landscape and wildlife photographer who has been exploring the natural world with his camera for nearly 30 years.

3pm. Riverbend Recreation Area, 16618 Township Rd. 208. 419-425-7275. www.hancockparks.com 5K Run 4 the Red - Support the Hancock County Red Cross Youth Council by participating in the second annual “Run 4 the Red 5K” race. The run will begin and end at Findlay Village Mall.

Pre-register now for an event t-shirt or register the day of the run. 8am registration; 9am race. Findlay Village Mall, 1800 Tiffin Ave. www.hancockredcross.org

25 MONDAY Wee Ones: White-tailed Deer Recommended for children three years old and under with an adult companion.

Other aged siblings welcome. Program includes a story, activities and a craft.

10am & 1pm. Oakwoods Nature Preserve, 1400 Oakwoods Ln. 419-4257275. www.hancockparks.com

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Individuals may receive one free 20-word ad per month (products offered in ads must sell for under $100). Each additional word 40 cents, payment must accompany ad. Free ads run 1 month and are reserved for private-party’s use, noncommercial concerns and free services. Ads MUST be typed or neatly printed and MAILED, EMAILED, or DROPPED OFF to Findlay Area Family Classifieds by the15th of the month prior to publication.

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Display Classifieds: Display classifieds with a box may be purchased for $25 per column inch. Photos are accepted with ads for an additional $5 per photo.

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ST. JOSEPH’S PARISH Separated-

REFRIGERATOR $60, Table and 4 chairs $60 419-841-7567

LESSONS Music Lessons. Piano, Voice, Guitar. BGSU Grad. 419-422-7804

Divorced Support Group. Tuesdays beginning Feb. 5 for 9 weeks. Main St.at Ravine Dr. in Sylvania. NonDenominational, 419-885-5791 or 419-344-0713

26 TUESDAY What’s New! Teen Book Swap and Speed Date - Meet all the Library’s new books. Watch book trailers and join in the wild book speed dating game. The speed dating game is designed to offer teens a new way of selecting books and a great way to become excited about reading. If you have any books that you are finished reading and no longer want, bring those in to swap with other teens. For teens grades 6-12. 6:30pm. Findlay-Hancock County Public Library, 206 Broadway St. 419-422-1712. www.findlaylibrary.org Open House - First Presbyterian Church Nursery School will be holding a Registration/Information Open House for prospective parents of 3, 4, & 5 year olds for fall of 2013. 7pm. Fellowship Hall, 2330 South Main St. 419-957-8963. www.centracomm.net

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Evenings 6 - 8 pm

Shorties - Tuesdays Luckies Barn & Grill - Thursdays Spaghetti Warehouse - Saturdays Zia’s on the Docks - Sundays

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February 16th & 17th Noon & 2:30pm

419.244.9859

Historic Lecture Series: Marriage Join historian, Marta Vincent who will be discussing marriage during the 19th century. Register by Friday, February, 15. Must be 18 to participate. 4:30pm. $2. Oakwoods Nature Preserve, 1400 Oakwoods Ln. 419-425-7275. www.hancockparks.com

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