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Charming Finds Looking for the perfect paint for DIY family projects? Check out Chalk Paint at Charming Finds in a variety of colors at $12.95 for a 4oz. can or $38.95 for a quart. Chalk Paint workshops are available to teach techniques, or Chalk Paint can be used easily right out of the can. It requires no sanding or primer and can be used on glass, metal, plastic, wood and more. 16280 E. State Rt. 12, 567-301-2396, charmingfindsboutique.com, “Charming Finds Boutique” on Facebook

Kids talent show at Flag City BalloonFest Ten of Findlay’s most talented kids, grades K-12, will perform on stage at this year’s Flag City BalloonFest. The Flag City Stars Talent Search will take place August 10 from 10amnoon with talent including musicians, singers, jugglers, gymnasts, dancers and magicians. To qualify, students submitted a 2-minute video by July 25 that was scored by three preliminary judges. The top 10 will be on the BalloonFest stage!

Hancock County Fair kicks off

The Hancock County Fair kicks off on Wed. August 28 and runs through Monday, Sept. 2. The admission cost of $7 includes one adult and any children under age 15. The Old Millstream Center will feature fun activities for children, including special exhibits and demonstrations from COSI, the Columbus Zoo and Imagination Station. Other events include the 3rd annual Donkey Race (proceeds benefit Flag City Honor Flight), the Cheer Expo, drag racing, barrel racing, tractor pull, the Broken Horn Rodeo, a gospel concert and much more. For a full schedule of events, visit hancockfairgrounds.org.

Flag City Clothing Show support for your favorite area businesse with a t-shirt from Flag City Clothing. The local business section at their shop features t-shirts from favorites such as Dietsch Brothers, Findlay Hope House, Oler’s, Darnall’s Christmas Trees and more. Show your local pride! T-shirts are $19.99. 521 S. Main St., 419-722-2233, flagcityclothing.com, “Flag City Clothing” on Facebook

RooBarb Studios Tell your story with the “Your Life’s Treasure... Your Stories” necklace at RooBarb Studios. With custom sterling silver hand stamped names and charms, you can create your story and keep it close to your heart. RooBarb Studios offers a variety of one-of-a-kind hand stamped jewelry. Prices on custom pieces vary. 622 S. Main St, 567-250-9440, RooBarbStudios.com, “RooBarb Studios” on Facebook

Homestead Collection Head to the Homestead Collections’ cute “Village of Shops” where you can pick up a variety of scents from Swan Creek Candle Co. Items range from a pack of Break Apart Drizzle Melts for $7.99 to a large jar candle for $20.95. Available scents vary from season to season but, no matter your preference, there will be something you love! 11300 County Road 99, 419-422-8286, “Homestead Collection” on Facebook

Hancock County residents can sign up for alerts Hancock County residents you can now be alerted to any emergency situation. The City of Findlay, using an emergency alert system since 2012, recently collaborated with the County to expand the system’s reach. The alert system will notify you of vital situations, including flooding, tornadoes, street or road work, or missing children, via an email, voice call or text message. The Findlay Police Department and Hancock County Sheriff’s office issue the alerts. To sign up, visit findlay.com.

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Cooper Tire recognized for corporate board diversity Cooper Tire & Rubber Company will be recognized by the Women’s Forum of New York at its Breakfast of Corporate Champions on Nov. 7 for having a corporate board comprised of 30 percent women, (exceeding the national average of 23.4 percent women). The Women’s Forum of New York, through its Corporate Board Initiative, is working toward achieving 50/50 gender parity in the nation’s boardrooms by 2025. “Diversity in the boardroom is good business,” said Cooper President & Chief Executive Officer Brad Hughes. “Different backgrounds and perspectives bring about healthy debate on strategic opportunities and challenges.” Cooper will join 323 S&P/Fortune 1000 companies to be honored in November.

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Sidelined by Skin Problems Tips to eradicate teenage acne By Bailey Poland

Penn Station opens new location Fans of East Coast-style subs should visit Penn Station’s new Findlay location at 1044 Interstate Drive. The restaurant opened its doors on June 3 and features a new line of food based on the chain’s Penn Station 2020 concept with a menu that includes new cold subs, wraps and salads. Penn Station is famous for its subs, fresh cut fries, hand squeezed lemonade and homemade cookies. The franchise was started in Cincinnati in 1985 and has since expanded to around 300 locations. Penn Station, 1044 Interstate Drive, 567-250-9801, order online at www.penn-station.com, open Mon.-Sat. 11am-10pm, Sun. 11am-8pm.

Arlington’s Appleseed IGA to close

The Appleseed IGA, a locally owned grocery store in Arlington, is closing. Owned by Larry and Kay Lovell, the IGA has been part of the community since 1985. In a Facebook post, the couple wrote: “For the past 33 years, Lovell’s Appleseed IGA has had the privilege of being part of this great community. Three decades of memories that will last a lifetime.” The Appleseed IGA, named after Johnny Appleseed who is known to have visited the area and planted apple trees, will be missed by many in the community.

One of the most dreaded teenage experiences is acne: pimples, whiteheads, blackheads and other skin blemishes can seem disastrous. According to Dr. Michael Cairns, MD, a dermatologist at Blanchard Valley Associates, acne is a common, normal part of bodily changes during puberty, but kids and teens can take steps to care for their skin and perhaps avoid, or minimize, the condition. Myths busted First, let’s clear up some myths. Dr. Cairns says that one myth is that acne is due to being dirty, which is not true. “Another common myth,” he said, “is that diet is very important in acne. Although it can play a minor role in some people, it is not as important as most people think that it is.” The true cause of acne is glands that produce oils which get trapped inside hair follicles. “The oils cannot get out of the hair follicles easily and can build up to form a whitehead or a blackhead,” explained Dr. Cairns. Redness, soreness and inflammation that sometimes accompanies acne is due to a common bacteria that can break down those oils and cause swelling. Children as young as 8 or 9 who might

be in the early stages of puberty may begin experiencing acne. However, acne problems typically begin around age 12 or 13. Over the counter products Dr. Cairns recommends two overthe-counter products that can be effective for treating acne. Adapalene gels “can help to release the oils that are trapped in the hair follicles,” while benzoyl peroxide products “help to decrease the number of bacteria that contribute to inflammation and also, to a lesser degree, help to release the oils that are trapped in the skin and in the hair follicles.” Dr. Cairns noted that these treatments can dry out the skin, making it important to use a gentle cleanser and to moisturize daily. Time to see a dermatologist? Dr. Cairns said that over-the-counter treatments are usually effective for mild to moderate cases of acne. However, “when someone is bothered by their acne and it has not responded adequately to safe, over-the-counter products, it’s time to consider seeking further help, which is available through medical care.”

Townhomes open in downtown Findlay

Nine new townhomes opened in downtown Findlay at the corner of West and Front Streets near the Marathon Center for the Performing Arts. The three-story, 1,500 square foot units, which rent for $1,825 to $2,300 per month, offer a new residential option in Findlay. The same developers plan to construct a 32-unit townhome development at the former location of St. Michael’s Elementary School.

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A brick residential home has been overhauled inside to provide the 501(C) (3) non-profit Grace Speaks with three well-equipped clinic rooms for families in need of affordable speech therapy. Grace Speaks was founded by Nicole Leslie and her husband Dr. Todd Leslie to provide a low-cost option for speech therapy for families in Hancock County. The organization, which previously rented space in downtown Findlay, now occupies the corner of Tiffin Avenue and Woodworth which Nicole says provides “freedom to make changes and to control the organization’s destiny.” The Leslies bought the home and donated it back to the charity. They spent family vacation time creating the cheerful clinic rooms, comfortable waiting room, restrooms and an all-important observation hub.

do the teaching, we do the fundraising and supply the off-campus teaching location.”

Win-win partnership Grace Speaks is a partnership between the non-profit and Bowling Green State University’s department of communication sciences and disorders. Nicole coordinates with Donna J. Colcord, M.S., CCC-SLP, clinical director at BGSU and supervisor of graduate-level student assistants who provide speech therapy. While area speech therapy services can cost greater than $5 a minute, Grace Speaks charges around $.50 per minute. During the 2019 summer semester, eleven BGSU interns have provided therapy for 42 children. There is now a waiting list, which Nicole says is true of every area speech therapy provider. “Without the cooperation of the University, we’d be in big trouble,” says Dr. Leslie. “They

Planning for the future The move to the new location was a huge step forward, but Grace Speaks has even bigger plans for the future. The organization hopes to expand their services by partnering with occupational and physical therapy interns. The Leslies also would like to establish a “college promise” program to meet the ever-growing demand for speech therapists.

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Helping local children Ainsleigh Bates, 30, credits Grace Speaks with the growth evident in her five-year-old son, Clayton. After two years of therapy at Grace Speaks, he has improved enough for his pre-school to modify and then eliminate his IEP. Ainsleigh credits the BGSU interns for their “awesome hard work” and “creative activities” to improve Clayton’s speech impediments. Ainsleigh was referred to Grace Speaks through a family doctor and highly recommends the non-profit to families hindered by a lack of insurance coverage, saying “They work so well with kids. Parents will be satisfied with the results.”

To learn more about Grace Speaks or to make a donation, visit grace-speaks.org or call Nicole Leslie at 419-359-6629 or 888-485-8155.

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GUIDE The lazy days of summer are coming to an end, and it’s almost time to head back to school. Are you ready? We’ve compiled a guide to help you prepare for a successful school year!

By Emily Remaklus New backpacks full of school supplies are ready to go, the first day of school outfit is picked out, and open house is just around the corner. It’s great to start off the year strong, but how can you help ensure that your child is successful throughout the entire school year? As a teacher myself, I’m hoping these five pieces of advice will help lead your family to a great year!

Keep your child’s teacher informed. It’s amazing how quickly a child’s behavior can change due to circumstances happening outside of school. Keeping your child’s teacher informed on changes at home — divorce, death in the family, birth of a new sibling — can help the teacher better understand how to help your child. If the teacher knows that there is a change in the student’s life, then we can be more understanding and forgiving if the student struggles more in school during that time. Teachers are also great listeners, and we can help the child through the transition.

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Get to know the teacher. Teaching is a group effort, and teachers love to know that you’re onboard. Most schools have open houses at the beginning of the year where parents are able to bring their children to meet the teacher(s) and see their classroom. This is a great way for kids to get comfortable in the new space, and for you to introduce yourself. If you can’t make open house, don’t worry! Many teachers send home contact information during the first week. Send an email or give the teacher a call during the first weeks of school to introduce yourself. Be sure to include some information about your child too. What are their interests? Where have they struggled academically in the past? This not only begins a dialogue and good relationship between you and the teacher, but it also allows the teacher to have some insight into your child’s individual needs.

Communicate. Communication is key to building a relationship. Many teachers now are using apps to stay in contact. I use an app called REMIND which sends text message reminders to parents and students about projects, tests, and papers. These apps are a great way for parents to know what’s going on, but if you have individual concerns about your child its best to send an email or make a call. I find emailing to be the best form of communication because I’m teaching throughout the day and it can be difficult to take parents’ calls. Teachers love when parents are invested in their child’s education, but do keep in mind that, depending on their grade level, a teacher may teach 25-125 students, so try to ask your child first about that missing homework assignment or bad grade on a test before

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contacting the teacher right away. Also, take advantage of conferences. If you can’t make the designated conference times, see if you can schedule one that would work for you.

Volunteer. For younger grades, parent volunteers are essential and a huge help. Taking 25 students on a field trip or hosting a holiday classroom party can be difficult for one teacher, so your help as a volunteer can make a huge difference. Older grades don’t need parent volunteers quite as often, but as kids grow up they get more involved in clubs and organizations that require fundraising. Allowing and encouraging your child to participate in those fundraising events takes a

lot of stress off the teacher adviser for that organization. Plus it’s a great way for your child to learn new skills.

Loosen the reins. As your child gets older, start to let them advocate for themselves. As important as communication is between you and your child’s teacher, it is equally as important, if not more important, for your child to communicate their concerns to their teacher. When you notice a problem with a grade, or you want to know how your child can pick their grades up, have your child ask the teacher first. This helps them gain more independence and it shows that their education is also their responsibility. Teaching is a team effort, not just between a parent and teacher, but also between the student and teacher.

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Area teens take College Credit Plus courses By Lisa Crawford

As college tuition costs continuing to soar, the College Credit Plus (CCP) program helps local teens to get a no cost head start on college coursework. The Ohio Department of Education has offered CCP since 2015 for public school students who plan to attend a public Ohio university. Eligible students can begin the CCP program as early as 7th grade.

Locations and eligibility After taking an assessment exam which determines eligibility for the program, a student may choose to physically travel to classes (transportation is not provided), take an online course or do their coursework (Advanced Placement or AP classes) at the public middle school or high school where they regularly attend. Cooperating institutions for area students include Bowling Green State University, the University of Findlay, Owens Community College, Rhodes State College and Tiffin University. Eligibility requirements and specifics of College Credit Plus include a number of details, but a helpful tool for understanding the system is available on the Findlay City Schools’ website at http:// fhs.findlaycityschools.org/ccp/CCP_Presentation_2019-2020. pdf. Many County schools also have information available on their individual websites and from their school guidance counselors. Cory-Rawson High School guidance counselor Melissa McFarland reports that 22 students are enrolled to take advantage of CCP during the 2019-2020 school year. Doubling down during senior year Faith Dearwester and her twin brother, Patrick, graduated from Cory-Rawson in May 2019. Both added CCP to their senior year experience. Faith took classes at Rhodes State Community College and Patrick at Bowling Green State University. “It was an easy way to get general education courses out of the way so I can be more major-focused once (I begin taking classes at) college,” Faith said. Patrick shared: “CCP conditioned me for the higher learning community. Before, I was skeptical about how I would handle the collegiate workload, but now I am confident in my abilities to tackle the next level.” Both Faith and Patrick mentioned the financial benefits of CCP. While there may be small costs, such as a student i.d., gasoline or a parking permit, the coursework costs are covered. Patrick said, “I would’ve cheated myself if I had passed up this opportunity. It was one of the best decisions of my senior year and I recommend it to every college bound student.” The Dearwester siblings will attend college this fall. Patrick, now familiar with the BGSU campus, will pursue an English education degree, and Faith will work as a STNA (State Tested Nurses Aid) while taking additional courses to receive her nursing degree from Rhodes State in Lima.

Tips for back-to-school mornings By Sarah Lyons

chool mornings can be stressful for both parents and kids, with limited time to eat breakfast, get dressed, gather belongings and get to school on time. Here are some ideas for families to lower the stress and create a smoother school morning routine. Lunch solution Packing a healthy school lunch (or multiple lunches) can take up a lot of time in the morning. Get a head start on lunch preparations by starting the evening before. “If my kitchen is clean, I feel like I am ahead of the game. Every night before going to bed I prep lunches for the next day, put away clean dishes, and reload the dishwasher.” says Kim Burnette, mother of two. Getting a head start the night before eliminates a big step, leaving you time for other things in the morning. Backpack solution After the kids have completed their homework, have them pack their backpacks up. Parents can sign permission slips, go through school papers, and gather any supplies needed for school the next day and pack them up. Does your child have their gym uniform and band instrument? When everything is ready the night before, there is less to do on school mornings. Wardrobe solution Check the weather the evening before so that kids

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can lay out their clothing and outerwear for the next day. With the coats, hats, gloves and boots laid out there is less scramble to find everything the next morning. Also try laying out the entire week’s clothing on Sunday. “We have a small plastic set of drawers with 5 drawers that can be purchased in the storage section at home goods stores. We put an outfit for both of the kids in each on Sunday.” says Alicia Dafferner, mother of two. Prep yourself Many parents find that if they can wake up before the kids, they feel more refreshed and prepared for a productive morning. This gives them the time to take a few minutes to wake up, enjoy a cup of coffee, or grab a quick shower. Mother of three, Jessi Cole, says “I find that it helps if I get up early and get myself ready before my kids get up. That way, I only have to worry about them.” Breakfast solution Help make breakfast healthier and quicker by planning ahead. Sherry Hoffman, mom of two boys, says “I make several breakfast options that are freezer and toaster oven friendly on the weekends that we can choose from throughout the week.” Ideas for freezerfriendly breakfast items include breakfast burritos, waffles, french toast, or muffins. There are also easy to make options

like whole grain cereal, yogurt with fruit and granola, or a breakfast smoothie. Many of these items can be prepared the night before to help morning go smoother. Early to bed, early to rise “I have noticed that it makes our mornings much smoother if my kids get enough sleep, so early bedtimes are a must.” says Hoffman. Kids who have a consistent early bedtime are more rested for an early wake up. Rested kids are in better moods and stay on task on school mornings, causing less stress and conflict in the morning. Eliminate electronics With limited time to prepare for school, it is best to eliminate electronic distractions. Parents and kids need to focus on the goal, which is getting to school on time. Distractions like television, handheld devices and video games only slow down the process. Remind kids that there will be time for electronics after school, when their chores and homework are complete. Adjusting to a new school schedule can take awhile, but if parents do their best to prepare the night before and teach kids to do the same, the mornings will run much smoother. Sarah Lyons has the task of getting her six children to school in the morning. Planning and preparation help her household run smoothly.

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Picking foods that fuel the mind and body By Laurie Wurth-Pressel

Some foods are packed with so many vitamins, minerals and antioxidants that nutrition experts have dubbed them “Super Foods.” Be sure to include these powerful and delicious snacks in your child’s lunchbox this school year.

Blueberries. They rank highest among all fruits for antioxidant activity. Try mixing them in yogurt if your child doesn’t like eating them plain.

Yogurt. This dairy product offers an excellent source of protein and calcium, as well as good bacteria for gut health. Some yogurt brands marketed toward kids contain a lot of sugar, however, so choose wisely. Hard-boiled eggs. Purchase omega-3 eggs that contain higher amounts of fatty acids proven to benefit skin, allergies and brain function. Avocado. This heart-healthy food contains monounsaturated fats and more than a dozen vitamins and minerals. Make a guacamole dip and serve with chips.

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Corn. This vegetable contains thiamin, which is essential for energy production. Try sprinkling sweet corn on a salad. Purple grapes. This tasty snack may be the reason why the French enjoy excellent health. Look for deep purple grapes which contain more flavonoid— a powerful antioxidant.

Watermelon.

This juicy fruit will help your child stay hydrated and it’s loaded with vitamins A and C.

Carrots. Packed with carotene, carrots are excellent for eye health, reducing inflammation and boosting immunity. Serve with a side of ranch dip or shred into salads.

Oranges/ tangerines.

Rich in vitamin C, orange slices are a perfect choice during cold/flu season.

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Help your kindergartener score a smoother transition into school by Christa Melnyk Hines

or many parents, kindergarten signals an important transition from the all-consuming baby and toddler years. Suddenly, your “baby” is expected to make more choices on her own, stay focused over a longer period of time, learn new skills and navigate a social circle with less oversight from you. Plan ahead to pave the road to a happier kindergarten transition for all. Visit the school. Before school begins, attend school orientations and meet the teacher to help your child grow familiar with his new learning environment. Calm kindergarten jitters. Build excitement and optimism for school. Shop together for a new backpack or lunchbox, school supplies and new clothes. “Even if parents are feeling nervous, they should do their best not to portray that to their child,” says Kathy Weller, a kindergarten teacher. “Be very upbeat about the upcoming new experience.” Recognize friendly faces. Before school starts, arrange play dates with future classmates. A few familiar faces on the first day may help calm those nervous butterflies. Read together. Reading to your child teaches valuable listening skills and creates an opportunity to help your child prepare for the kindergarten experience. Check out books like The Night Before Kindergarten by Natasha Wing and Kindergarten Rocks by Katie Davis. Tackle a few skills. While knowing his colors, the ABCs and how to count to ten will give your child a head start, work on other skills like teaching him to tie his shoes and knowing his full name, phone number and birthday. Plan transportation. Avoid transportation snafus by sticking to a plan and keeping your child (and the teacher) informed. If your child will ride the bus

and is nervous, listen and reassure her. Drive the route ahead of time. Also, seek out a “bus buddy” for your child; that buddy can be a responsible older neighbor child or another bus-riding classmate. On the first day of school, arrive early at the bus stop. Introduce yourself and your child to the driver. Assure your child that you (or whoever you’ve designated), will be waiting for her when the bus returns after school.

presence, which now will be more and more often.” Mark the occasion. Celebrate your child’s first day of school with a special outing after school like a frozen yogurt, dinner out or a playdate at her favorite park. Who knows? You may find that initial celebration turns into an annual first-day-of-school tradition for your family.

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Get good eats and sweet dreams. Make sure your new kindergartener gets plenty of rest and eats healthy meals, which will help him better manage the stress of the transition and stay focused during school. Wake up a little earlier to avoid a rushed first day. Team up with the teacher. Share insights about your child’s strengths with the teacher to help her understand what motivates and interests your child. “Parents should approach school with the idea that the teacher has their child’s best interest at heart,” says Dr. Holly Schiffrin, an associate professor of psychology at the University of Mary Washington, who specializes in child development and parenting practices. “The parent should convey that they are on the same team as the teacher (even if they have different ideas about how to assist their child).” Manage adversity. Every child is bound to have a rough day. Encourage her to resolve her own problems and take responsibility for her actions. “Ask your child for her input and perspective, genuinely listen, acknowledge and empathize, and then shift the focus towards reaching solutions as a family and in unison with your teachers and school,” says parent coach Tom Limbert, author of Dad’s Playbook: Wisdom for Fathers from the Greatest Coaches of All Time. “Focus on giving your child the tools, morals and lessons she will need when not in your

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Childhood Virtues

Books that teach virtues

By Laurie Wurth Pressel

Reading and discussing books with your child is an excellent way to instill virtues, according to Dr. Baer. “Children learn from book characters and try to emulate their behavior.” Here are Dr. Baer’s recommendations:

Raising kids with character

Raising kind, caring, contributing children is the most important— yet daunting— job for parents. Virtues make up an individual’s character and instilling virtues starts at a young age. Five local experts share their advice on virtues and parenting.

Kindness

KINDNESS

GRATITUDE

Allison Baer, Ph.D. Professor of Reading, University of Findlay

Geri Leibfarth Director of Religious Education, St. Michael the Archangel Parish Gratitude is deeper than a simple feeling of thankful appreciation. Gratitude involves a relationship, whether that is with another person or with God. Living with gratitude, we take nothing for granted. We learn to acknowledge that everything—including life itself—is a gift. In this materialistic world, it’s easy to assume that all I have is due to my own efforts. Gratitude helps us step away from selfishness and accentuate the importance of selflessness and humility.

HOW CAN PARENTS INSTILL GRATITUDE? Through your daily encounters, exemplify that gratitude can exist only with reverence. Recognize the dignity of others. Give gifts freely for the benefit of another, not to show superiority. When we freely give, then one can respond freely in gratitude. Teach your children that at any given moment we can be grateful for something. At dinnertime, have each family member name something for which they were grateful that day. Before going to bed, you and your children could name the gifts and blessings you received that day and offer up a prayer of gratitude.

Kindness is based in empathy and a general concern for others. It is the ability to look beyond our own needs and desires and carefully consider someone else and then to intentionally do the best for them. Kindness isn’t just thinking or feeling it’s taking action.

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HOW CAN PARENTS INSTILL KINDNESS? First, be kind to your

children and model kindness toward others—not just people you know, but strangers. Notice acts of kindness from others and talk about them with your children. Ask your children how they can be kind to their family, friends and pets and do this with intentionality by making a plan to do acts of kindness daily.

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Courage

Sadako by Eleanor Coerr and Ed Young When You Are Brave by Pat Zietlow Miller

HONESTY

Michael Scoles, Ed.D Principal, Lincoln Elementary School

COURAGE

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Courage is the ability to face challenging situations by being brave and pushing yourself, although you might fail. It can also mean standing up for others, even if you are the only one doing it. Courage pushes us to better ourselves and makes us open to new experiences.

A great way to define purity is freedom from contamination. It reminds me of having a water purifying system. The purpose of the water filter is to eliminate any bacteria or substance that may cause illness. I want the filter because it keeps me safe and healthy. In the same way, purity keeps the heart and mind healthy and focused on goodness. Purity and innocence go hand in hand.

Nicole Cramer Coordinator of Children’s Faith Formation, First Presbyterian Church

HOW CAN PARENTS INSTILL COURAGE? Challenge your child to

try new activities. If you child is afraid of being in front of a crowd, encourage him or her to join the choir as a first step. Finding courage in a group setting when confronting a fear can truly help. Courage can also be built when your child tries a new playground structure that seems “scary” even though we as adults know it is safe. Have your child exclaim “My name is (insert first and last name) and I can do it!” before trying something challenging. It may give them the inner strength to go for it. Most of all, courage grows when your child knows he or she will be loved or supported, even in failure. 14

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HOW CAN PARENTS INSTILL PURITY? Be vigilant and consistent in

helping your children avoid adult content which could be explicit language, violence or sexually explicit content. The next time you are looking for a bingeworthy television show or a movie, challenge yourself and your family to find something innocent to watch. Don’t expose a child to content they cannot understand nor be able to or handle emotionally. Children and young teens should be playful, competing in sports, learning a musical instrument and being creative.

Honesty is speaking the truth. The key is choosing to be honest or not—it’s a choice. Whether a person chooses to be honest or dishonest reflects on their character. Honesty is one of the most important ingredients of a healthy, genuine and simple life. It’s critical to establishing trust and healthy relationships with friends, family members and co-workers. Dishonesty leads to a complex web of lies that must be remembered to be maintained, which leads to anxiety and stress.

Purity

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Simplicity

Beautiful Moon: A Child’s Prayer by Tonya Bolden Hello Hello by Brendan Wenzel

Honesty

Last Stop on Market Street by Matt de La Pena The Lorax by Dr. Seuss HOW CAN PARENTS INSTILL HONESTY? Teach your children the

virtue of honesty through modeling. When you can demonstrate honesty in your own behavioral choices, discuss these moments with your child. These positive examples can become points of reference for your child as they grow. In addition, when your child demonstrates honesty, positive reinforcement can create intrinsic motivation for “doing the right thing.” And when your child makes a mistake, as all of us will do, make it a teachable moment, rather than focusing on the consequences.

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CONNECTIONS

Meant to Be a Mom

International adoption connects mother and son By Lisa Crawford

When Rachel Walter was a little girl, she dreamed of adopting a child someday. Eventually, in travels for her former employer, the University of Findlay (UF), that desire was enhanced. On one visit to an orphanage in the Dominican Republic, a UF student showed Rachel a picture he had taken. The camera had captured Rachel holding a woman’s sweetly sleeping baby. The photo was the clincher, says Rachel, a single woman. That photo helped Rachel understand there are many ways to build a family. The adoption journey begins And so, at age 32, in March 2016, Rachel channeled her research-oriented personality toward the pursuit of adoption. Though she expected nay-say-ers among her family and friends, there were none. Rachel turned to the America World Adoption Agency. Due to her young age and marital status, as well as her desire to choose a country whose adoption practices were deemed highly ethical, India became the best choice. Throughout the 19-month process, Rachel explains she expected a call saying, “You’re not allowed, or you’re not eligible!” Instead a call came in February 2017 with word that she had been matched with a child. And finally, in October 2017, she travelled with her aunt to India to retrieve her son, 4-year-old Ezekiel Deepak Walter. Be aware, but be astounded Rachel, now the director of community engagement at Findlay’s Family Resource Center says those considering international adoption should fully expect a child with developmental delays. “The only kids eligible for international adoptions are kids with special needs. But that term is different than we often think of “special needs” in the United States. Special needs can mean an older age, attachment to a sibling group, or some minor, but fully correctable, physical condition,” she said. Rachel explains, “(Zeke) has done amazingly well!” She credits the laser focus the mother and son had while bonding oneon-one. Zeke was highly verbal, but didn’t know any English. “People don’t believe it, but communication was truly never a problem,” explained Rachel. Similar to the way an attentive mother of an infant learns the child’s non-verbal cues, Rachel did the same. And she was communicating with a very bright 4-year-old during those early attempted conversations.

Rachel Walter and her son Ezekiel

Intentionally finding connections With Cleveland, Columbus and Cincinnati just a few hours away, Rachel and Zeke have had opportunities to experience Indian cultural events. They have attended “Holi” which is a “Festival of Color”, traditionally held to celebrate spring, and they always stop at an Indian grocery store chain when visiting Columbus. Rachel has also been delighted to find through social media a “weirdly large number of single moms who have adopted from India and who reside in Ohio.” In fact, a trip to Niagara Falls was planned this summer to unite the group. Rachel is also committed to providing Zeke with male role models and “racial mirrors”—individuals in Zeke’s life who share his race/ethnicity and to whom he can look to see himself. Even so, Rachel admits to “going into it a little naive, not fully understanding the time and energy needed to make sure he has positive mirrors in his life.” Rachel’s efforts include intentionally buying only children’s books with illustrations depicting people of color, and she takes advantage of continued connections with international students on the UF campus. “Right now, he’s a sweet little boy,” she said. “But he will be a man of color someday and I want to teach him how to be safe and how to be strong and how to be proud of that.”

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Regular date nights help to keep the spark alive. Or perhaps a night out with friends is what you need. So grab a sitter and check out these local events this month to enjoy some fun downtime!

Enjoy Music, Dance, Comedy Marathon Center announces new season By Emilee Evans

Start planning for special date nights! The Marathon Center for the Performing Arts recently announced their lineup for the 2019-2020 season which runs from September to June.

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Sunday, October 20, 7:30pm Postmodern Jukebox

Saturday, September 14, 7:30pm The Family Stone

Relive memories and re-charge with The Family Stone. Make time to party with Jerry Martini and Greg Errico, founding members of Sly & The Family Stone, joined by Phunne Stone, multi-talented daughter of Sly. Close your eyes, take a deep breath and forget about the last five decades… at least for a while!

The 1920s gave us jazz and Postmodern Jukebox thinks they can top that. Their performances highlighting current hits re-imagined as songs from bygone eras have sold out on six continents, topped iTunes and Billboard charts and boast more than 1.7 million Facebook fans.

Friday, November 15, 7:30pm Arlo Guthrie

Arrested for littering and creating a nuisance at age 19, Arlo Guthrie penned the anti-establishment anthem, “The Alice’s Restaurant Massacree,” and launched the song into worldwide airplay. Guthrie went on to make albums, record “The City of New Orleans” and founded Rising Son Records, one of the first Indie labels. Yes, you can get anything you want (musically) at this concert.

Wednesday, December 4, 7:30pm Celtic Woman: The Best of Christmas Tour

National Ballet Theatre of Odessa’s Romeo & Juliet The 55 ballet dancers of the National Ballet Theatre of Odessa bring Prokofiev’s music and Shakespeare’s tragic love story alive in Romeo and Juliet. The company, recognized as one of the most prestigious institutions of classical ballet in Ukraine, performs great masterpieces of classic ballet from Giselle to Swan Lake. Watching the world’s best perform on a local stage will inspire ballet aficionados and first time attendees alike.

Sunday March 1, 3pm Chanticleer

Called “the world’s reigning male chorus” by The New Yorker, these ensemble singers have sold more than one million albums and won two GRAMMY Awards. Formed in San Francisco and named after a Chaucerian rooster, Chanticleer first performed in 1978. They have showcased their choral music excellence in diverse venues, from a barn in Canada to Central Park with the New York Philharmonic. From Renaissance to jazz, Chanticleer sings with precision and brilliance.

Monday June 8 Spongebob the Musical Spanning rich ballads to jubilant modern melodies, the Celtic Woman Christmas Tour is a must-see for the holidays. Accompanied by the Lima Symphony Orchestra, the four members of the ensemble perform much loved holiday releases. It’s a great way to make unique holiday memories with your loved one.

Spongebob the Musical may not be ideal for a parents night out, but would be a special musical event for parents and children to enjoy together following the antics of the underwater hero and his cast of friends. These shows are just a few in the entire lineup for the new season. For the full lineup, additional information and to purchase tickets, visit mcpa.org. Marathon Center for the Performing Arts, 200 W. Main Cross St., 419-423-2787, mcpa.org, “Marathon Center for the Performing Arts” on Facebook

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QA 1. At what age should children first get their eyes checked? The American Optometric Association recommends that children have their first eye examination between the ages of 6 and 12 months. This ensures that we can detect potentially sight threatening conditions, such as lazy eye or amblyopia, as soon as possible. As the area’s only optometrist with a 2-year advanced practice fellowship in pediatrics and binocular vision, and a volunteer for the InfantSee® program through the American Optometric Association, I help provide these comprehensive eye examinations at NO COST to the patient. It does not matter if you have insurance or not- you don’t pay anything for that visit. 2. How often should children get eye exams? Prevention and early intervention are key. Nearly 80% of what we learn is through the visual system. For young and school age children it is best to have a comprehensive dilated eye examination every year from an eye doctor that truly understands vision in children. Also, don’t skip the eye drops. Eye drops are not fun, but they are critical to properly assessing a child’s vision. This helps to find any problems that can affect reading and learning as soon as possible. We can then help treat these issues immediately and help prevent major issues down the road.

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3. Are there signs parents should watch for that could indicate a child is having trouble seeing? There are so many signs to look for. Rubbing the eyes, squinting, eye turns, losing place when reading, re-reading lines, covering or closing an eye when reading or doing schoolwork are some of the more common signs that there is a problem. Symptoms of a vision problem can even mimic symptoms of ADD or ADHD. If a parent notices any of these signs or symptoms they need to contact an eye doctor with advanced training in these areas for help. 4. What advice would you give to a child that has just learned they need to wear glasses? Glasses can be a lot of fun! Even Superman and Supergirl wore glasses! Not only will they help you see better, they can also help show off your personality! Have fun with the colors and ask about customizations! I usually recommend parents to pick out three or four frames that they like and let their child pick from those. When a child is happy with their glasses, they are much more likely to wear them.

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Dr. Shasteen is the ONLY pediatric and vision therapy masters fellowship trained and published optometrist in Northwest Ohio, a distinction achieved by less than 10% of optometrists nationwide. Her research has been published and presented at meetings of the American Academy of Optometry and The Association of Research in Vision and Ophthalmology. Her experience as a clinical researcher provides her a unique insight to provide the most scientifically based eye care possible.

5. Can / does screen time have an impact on a child’s eyesight? There are many ways that screen time can affect children’s eyes. Eye strain, disrupted sleep, even dry eyes can occur with increased screen time. One of the biggest things that we see is screen time means more time indoors and less time outdoors. Research is showing that children that spend less time outdoors have a higher risk of developing nearsightedness (myopia). With research estimating that nearly 50% of the world’s population will be nearsighted by 2050 we want to make sure we are doing everything we can to help. Myopia detection and prevention is another important reason for children to get a yearly eye exam.

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6. Anything else you’d like parents to know about their child’s eyes? Don’t settle for 20/20 vision. Utilize professionals with advanced training to give your child their best possible vision for life. There is so much more to vision and eye health than just being able to read a letter chart at a vision screening. Just like every other area of medicine, early detection is key to avoiding major problems. I have had so many adults come through my office never knowing why they didn’t enjoy reading. Some even chose careers to strategically avoid reading. We thoroughly evaluated and determined they had a binocular vision disorder that made reading difficult. If only they or their parents would have known, they could have been helped years earlier!

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Advocating for Foster Families

YMCA operations director starts The Beam of Light By Anita Doseck

Stephanie Parsons has faced challenges and tragedy in her life, but the mom of three and operations director of the Findlay Family YMCA has turned her trials into something positive to benefit others. A foundation of values Stephanie attributes her success in life to the values that her parents instilled in her at an early age. Her dad taught her to work hard, to be dependable and to be honest and her mom motivated her to be a person of integrity who does the right thing. Growing up in the small town of Columbus Grove, Stephanie learned leadership values through organized sports, which led to her passion for sports and wellness. She earned a bachelor’s degree in exercise physiology at Bowling Green State University. Upon graduation, she worked as a physical therapist assistant for several years before taking a parttime position as a wellness coach with Findlay’s YMCA. Within a year, she was promoted to a full-time position. Today, as operations director, she oversees the day-to-day operations at both the East and Downtown facilities. Building a family Stephanie and her husband, Ryan, longed to be parents. The couple struggled to conceive and turned to adoption through foster care as a way to grow their family. While in the process of inquiring about the two children who would become their first adopted son and daughter, Stephanie experienced an unimaginable loss. Her mother and grandmother were killed in a car accident. Stephanie was grateful that her mother was at least able to see photos of her future grandchildren before her accident. And despite the tragedy, Stephanie says she saw God’s hand at work. “Two loved

ones were taken from me, but two more were subsequently given to me.” The Parsons eventually adopted another son. Although she experienced a long and hard road, Stephanie says that the grace of God got her through and put the plan for her family in place. A beam of light As a foster parent, Stephanie saw the need for support of the foster community. Foster parents experience several struggles, she explained, including the emotional turmoil of having to say goodbye to children you’ve grown to love (this happened to her and Ryan), as well as the scramble of preparing your home for a newborn at a moment’s notice. Stephanie founded a nonprofit, The Beam of Light, to support local foster families. The non-profit is named after her mother and grandmother, whose last name was Beam. The Beam of Light’s Project Alex partners with the Wish Boutique of downtown Findlay to provide clothes to foster families within 24 hours of an emergency placement. Project Eli will follow, aimed at helping foster families who receive an infant through emergency placement. Working with local hospitals, The Beam of Light hopes to provide these families with a “baby box” that includes a swaddle, bottles, pacifier, an outfit and diapers. Eventually, Beam of Light would like to provide car seats for the families. Remaining Humble Stephanie is quick to note that anything she has accomplished or any difference she has made isn’t about her, but rather has been done in the service of God. She continues to work hard, both at the YMCA and at The Beam of Light, looking forward to what’s to come and having faith in God’s timing and plan.

Stephanie Parsons operations director of the Findlay Family YMCA

What has been your strongest motivation? My mom, she was my mentor. I respected her and the mother she was. She taught so much. I always wanted to please her because of who she was. What’s next for The Beam of Light? The Beam of Light has several other upcoming projects and they are all named after a family member or foster child who was in our care. Project Dax will provide foster care children, ages 4 and older, with bicycles. Project Lena will provide children in foster care with birthday boxes. Project Chris, named after my late mother, will be a mentoring program involving veteran foster parents and new foster parents. Project Joanne, named after my late grandmother, will provide a care basket for foster parents after a new placement to help get through the first week. How can people get involved with The Beam of Light? Visit our Facebook page: facebook.com/TheBeamofLightFindlay. To donate or volunteer for the project of your choice, send a message.

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Pregnant women who are addicted to opiates face an increased risk of health complications from both the drug use and the lack of prenatal care. Every woman who gives birth at Blanchard Valley Hospital is screened for drugs in her system, something that is standard at most hospitals. But by then, the effects of the mother’s drug use on the baby could include dependence on the drug, inhibited development, weight loss, sleeplessness, low birth weight and seizures. MOMS to the rescue In Hancock County, a new program called the MOMS (Maternal Opiate Medical Support) project, is a collaborative effort between Blanchard Valley Health Systems, A Renewed Mind, Century Health, and Full Circle. The program’s goal is to engage women during their pregnancies and to provide the appropriate treatment in order to reduce the effects of drug use on moms and their babies. Comprehensive care MOMS project wants women to feel welcomed, and not ashamed, to come to them for help. Each woman who joins the MOMS project receives individualized care. Prenatal care is a coordinated effort involving an obstetric provider, outpatient mental health providers, outpatient medication assisted treatment specialists and the Blanchard Valley Labor and Delivery Department.

The program includes medication-assisted treatment to help the women and their fetuses detox safely. The medication does not cause euphoria and is used to help diminish withdrawal symptoms in the mother and the fetus. Expectant mothers also participate in weekly MOMS meetings with education on topics like how to care for a newborn baby, what to expect in labor and delivery, the signs of postpartum depression, accessing local resources and how to stop smoking. The MOMS project strives to keep the mothers engaged after delivery, too, because the postpartum period can often be marked by anxiety, depression, hormonal changes and lifestyle changes that increase the risk of relapse. Empowering expectant mothers The goal of the MOMS project is to provide a resource to expectant mothers within Hancock County to help them get clean safely, receive the proper prenatal care, and learn new life skills in the process. By empowering these mothers-tobe to change their lives, get healthy, and be confident in their ability to be mothers, their babies have a significantly increased chance of thriving. For more information, call the MOMS project at 419-429-0170 or A Renewed Mind at 419-422-7800.

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A Delicious Trip to Ada

Italian and American options tempt any appetite

VIVA MARIA

By Betsey Watson Mascaro

124 East Buckeye Ave., Ada 567-940-8482 “Viva Maria’s” on Facebook Open Monday-Wednesday: 4pm-10pm, Thursday, Friday, and Saturday: 10:30am-10pm, Sunday: Closed. Features live music on Friday and Saturday nights, 6-9pm. www.vivamariapizza.com

Dining with children can be, um, an adventure. From finicky taste buds to short attention spans to rambunctious behavior, eating in public with kids is not for the faint of heart. Nevertheless, the allure of a meal cooked by someone else and zero dishes to clean up is certainly well worth it. Despite Findlay’s impressive variety of restaurants, we were intrigued to visit Ada to give Viva Maria a try. We arrived on a gloomy, rainy evening and easily found Viva Maria housed in a large, historic building known as “the Armory.” A simple entry opens into a cavernous and fun space that includes a large stage that hosts live musicians on Friday and Saturday evenings. White lights created a warm, festive atmosphere while also making the vast building feel inviting and welcoming. Pieces by local artists line the walls along with notices for upcoming restaurant events. Impressive variety Viva Maria’s extensive menu features both American and Italian favorites with choices from onion rings, subs, wings,

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philly cheesesteaks, both red and white pizzas, Strombolis, calzones and an impressive assortment of pasta dishes. We chose to mix-and-match our selections to get a feel for the menu (also, I just really love both carbs and fried food). We chose garlic cheese bread and a mixed appetizer basket which included pizza logs, potato wedges, mozzarella sticks and onion rings. The garlic bread featured open-faced French bread smothered with mozzarella and sprinkled with herbs. The soft, buttery, garlicky inside and crisp edges made the bread irresistible for our fiveyear-old, Mae. The appetizer basket offers some standard choices (including homemade onion rings!) plus the interesting addition of a “pizza log.” This unusual treat featured pepperoni and cheese wrapped inside a crisp eggroll shell. Entrees and more We finished sampling the appetizers and moved on to our main meals. The kids kept to their Italian roots with our nine-year-old, Leland, picking a calzone while Josephine, our eight-yearold, chose spaghetti and meatballs. Mae, meanwhile, chose a thin crust bacon and pineapple pizza. I dined on eggplant parmigiana while my husband Jeremy selected chicken carbonara with a side of Italian sausage. Our food arrived hot and looked beautiful. Generous servings of pasta weighed down the dishes while the ends of the calzone extended beyond the plate. Joey practiced her noodle twirling and sampled the meatballs. It should be noted that, at home, Jeremy and Joey make our meatballs from scratch, so she has a keen taste for them. Joey demonstrated her approval of Viva Maria’s meatballs by devouring the first one in two bites before moving on to another! Jeremy and I are excited anytime we find a calzone made with ricotta cheese anywhere outside of New York. Apparently we passed that same enthusiasm on to Leland who eagerly dug into the enormous (and ricotta fortified) calzone. Jeremy reported that his pasta carbonara was delicious, an ample serving of pasta smothered in a creamy sauce with pieces

of bacon throughout. The grilled chicken gave the dish depth and a subtle yet delicious smoky flavor. The Italian sausage also suited Jeremy’s exacting standards for Italian fare. Like the other dishes, my meal featured a generous portion of pasta and several slices of breaded eggplant smothered in cheese. Though the breading lost its crispness beneath the cheese, it offered excellent flavor that went well with the spaghetti. Sweet treats, perfect ending It’s rare for us to experience cannoli outside of family gatherings in New York, so despite our full bellies, we were compelled to order two to sample! The kids couldn’t remember having them so Jeremy and I were excited to share the deliciousness. The cannoli were presented beautifully with chocolate sauce drizzled across the top. The sweet ricotta cheese filling offered just a hint of cinnamon. The girls licked the plates clean! We also ordered tiramisu, another traditional Italian dessert, featuring ladyfingers soaked in rum, layered with sweetened cream filling, then dusted with cocoa. The result is a blend of big flavors: bitter coffee, rich chocolate, and rum all balanced with the sweet whipped cream. As with their dinner portions, Viva Maria went all out on the tiramisu which made it too intense for the kiddos. Jeremy and I, however, were more than happy to indulge in the delicacy!

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We ended the evening with a rainy drive back to Findlay past rolling farmland. Getting away from the familiar streets and restaurants of Findlay proved to be as refreshing as it was delicious. Thankfully, with such generous portions, we were able to enjoy the delicious flavors of Viva Maria the next day as well, which will have to suffice until we’re able to visit Ada again.

The Short Course: Kid-Friendly: Definitely!

To Avoid a Wait: Visit during an off-peak time or order takeout or delivery. Noise Level: Average. Bathroom Amenities: Clean but no changing table.

High Chairs: Yes. Kids Menu: Yes. Anything Healthy for Kids: Yes. Food Allergy Concerns: Glutenfree pasta available. Speak with your server about specific allergy concerns.

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All calendar events are subject to change, cancellation and limited size. Calling ahead for confirmation is recommended.

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TUESDAY n AUGUST 6 Flag City National Night Out

National Night Out is an annual communitybuilding campaign that promotes police-community partnerships and neighborhood camaraderie to make our neighborhoods a safer, better place to live. The National Night Out program takes place annually on the first Tuesday of August. Neighbors across thousands of communities from all 50 states, U.S. territories, Canada and military bases worldwide participate in the event. Flag City National Night Out will be held at Riverside Park near the volleyball courts. There will be live entertainment and demonstrations as well as free food and refreshments. There will also be several local mascots there to meet and greet children and they will participate in the 4th Annual Mascot Games.

Wood County Fair - The annual county fair continues through 8.6 and features all the family favorites like animal showcases, baking contests, craft displays, rides, rodeo shows and carnival food. $7 entry. Event prices vary. 8am-8pm through 8.6. Fairgrounds, 13800 W. Poe Rd., Bowling Green. 419-352-0441. woodcounty-fair.com

Music Under the Stars - Visit the Historic Toledo Zoo Amphitheatre for an evening with the Cakewalkin’ Jass Band. 7:30pm. Toledo Zoo, 2 Hippo Way. 419-385-5721. toledozoo.org Free

Disney’s Aladdin Jr. - This musical performance presented by the Young Repertoire Theatre follows young Aladdin, Jasmine, the Genie and Jafar. $13.75 - $16.75. Through Sunday. Showtimes 7pm, ThursdaySaturday. 2:30pm, Sunday. Toledo Repertoire Theatre, 16 10th St. 419-243-9277. toledorep.com

Adventure Day Camp - Kids 6-12 years will explore amphibians, reptiles, turtles and snakes during camp. Snacks provided, pack a lunch. (Register by 8.2) $15. 9am-3pm. Oakwood Preserve, 1400 Oakwoods Lane. 419-425-7275. hancockparks.com

6-9pm, Riverside Park, 231 McManness Ave.

Conversation on Natural History Kids ages 12 and up will learn about animal courtships and wild animal survival. Register in advance. 7-8pm. Oakwood Preserve, 1400 Oakwoods Lane. 419-425-7275. hancockparks.com Free

A local favorite, the Flag City BalloonFest celebrates 20 years this month! It's Findlay's largest, family-fun festival and it's completely FREE to attend. Head to Emory Adams Park for a variety of hot air balloons, kids’ activities, food trucks, fireworks, live entertainment like Cruisin Zeake, the annual Vintage Baseball Tournament, the Car & Motorcycle Show, Let Your Dreams Take Flight Craft Show and more. Families can also meet Miss Ohio and enjoy an ice cream sundae bar! And this year the Flag City BalloonFest will feature its very first Flag City Stars Talent Search for Hancock County students in grades K-12! Visit their website or Facebook page for more information on specific events and times.

2 FRIDAY First Free Fridays - Take a selfguided tour of the grounds that once housed countless ‘poor farm’ inmates. The Pestilence House tells the grim tale of the limited care given to victims of TB, while the exhibition “For Comfort & Convenience” completes the picture of early mental health care and all its failings. 10am-4pm. Wood County Historical Center, 13660 County Home Rd., Bowling Green. 419-352-0967. woodcountyhistory.org Free Seussical - The CTW presents a whimsical musical based on the works of author Dr. Seuss. $10-$12. 1pm & 7pm, Friday & Saturday. Children’s Theatre Workshop, 2417 Collingwood Blvd. 419-244-5061. ctwtoledo.org

3 SATURDAY Give Cancer the Boot Walk/ Run Support the Denise Tebbe Memorial Scholarship at this 5k walk/run through the park. Sign up to participate $20. The Dog Walk/ Run begins at 9am. The Glow Run starts at 8pm. Riverbend Park, 16618 Township Rd. 208. facebook.com/ hancockgivecancertheboot Car Tunes on Main - On view will be countless antique, collector, hotrod, and limited edition autos in the heart of downtown. Awards will be given for Best Street Rod, Best Custom and Best of Show. 11am-9pm. Downtown Findlay, Main & Main Cross St. visitfindlay.com Free Cupcake Showdown - Kids in grades 2-8 will compete for the title of best cupcake. The competition will be held throughout the day, sign up for a slot. 9:30am-5pm. Findlay Library, 206 Broadway St. 419-422-1712. findlaylibrary.org Free History Day at the Lathrop House - Stop by the preservation site Saturday for live reenactments, lawn games and guided tours of the house. 3-5pm. Lathrop House, 5500 Main St., Sylvania. 419-517-5533. sylvaniahistoricalvillage.org Free

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Outdoor Education Camp - This outdoor camp for ages 5-10 years will learn the basics of hiking, plant identification and outdoor cooking. Scholarships are available. $100. 8am-3pm, Monday-Wednesday. Franciscan Earth Center, 194 St. Francis Ave., Tiffin. 419-447-0435. felctiffin.org

6 TUESDAY Adventure Day Camp - Kids 6-12 years will search for signs of animals, insects and learn how to read tracks and signs of wildlife. (Register by Aug. 5) $15. 9am-3pm. Oakwood Preserve, 1400 Oakwoods Lane. 419-425-7275. hancockparks.com Archery Open Range - Ages 9 and up can practice on the open range at Oakwoods. Register in advance. $10. 6:30-7:30pm. Oakwood Preserve, 1400 Oakwoods Lane. 419-425-7275. hancockparks.com Flag City Night Out - The Police Department will host a gathering, promoting safe neighborhoods and police visibility. The evening will feature presentations, food and drink, and live music. 6-9pm. Riverside Park, 231 McManness Ave. facebook.com/ findlaypolice Free

FRIDAY n AUGUST 9 SUNDAY n AUGUST 11 Flag City BalloonFest

Friday 4-11pm, Saturday 7am-11pm, Sunday 7am-5pm, Emory Adams Park, 1861 S. Blanchard St., flagcityballoonfest.com, “Flag City BalloonFest” on Facebook

FRIDAY n AUGUST 9 SATURDAY n AUGUST 10 Arlington Village Festival

Are you ready for some family fun? Head out to the Arlington Village Festival just a short drive from Findlay. A community tradition, the festival kicks off with a parade on Friday evening at 6:30pm on State Route 68. Additionally, there will be food, Kids Zone, Family & Entertainment Zone, a cornhole tournament, Blast of Color 5K, live music and more! Some activities require registration and a fee. For more information, visit their website or Facebook page.

4-11pm, Arlington Village Park, Arlington, arlingtonvillagefestival.org, “Arlington Village Festival” on Facebook

SATURDAY n AUGUST 17 Camp Fire Back-To-School Carnival

7 WEDNESDAY Dr. Seuss Storytime - Youngsters will enjoy three stories and cupcakes during storytime. $5. 10am & 11am. Also at 10am & 11am on Wednesday Aug. 14. Sara’s Sweets, 435 S. Eastown Rd., Lima. 419-371-4745. sarassweetslima.com Adventure Camp - Kids 6-12 years will hike the trails learn more about the leave-no-trace policy, insect identification and more. Register by Aug. 6. $15. 9am-3pm. Oakwood Preserve, 1400 Oakwoods Lane. 419-425-7275.

Head over to Camp Fire Northwest Ohio for a last hurrah before the start of school! There will be over 15 Carnival games offered, a dunk tank and a bounce house. Tickets for games will only be $.50 each and each game requires just one ticket. Food, drinks, cotton candy and snow cones will also be available for a donation. Admission to the event is FREE! Bring the whole family (and friends) for a memorable time before heading back to school!

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1:30-3:30pm, Camp Fire Northwest Ohio, 305 W. Hardin St., 419-422-5415, “Camp Fire Northwest Ohio” on Facebook

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hancockparks.com Willie Nelson Concert Take the family to see a Country-Western legend, joined by Alison Krauss and others on stage. $28-$124. 7pm. Huntington Center, 500 Jefferson Ave. 419-255-3300. huntingtoncentertoledo.com Family Movie - The Church of the Nazarene will host a carpool to the movies. Play some games and meet with other parents before you head out to Cinemark. 9am. $1. Tiffin Church, 777 E. Township Rd 201, Tiffin. 419-447-0363. Facebook event

8 THURSDAY Adventure Day Camp - Ages 6-12 years will spend the day learning about the outdoors. The day camp will give an introduction to wilderness exploration, how to identify edible plants and more. Register by Aug. 7. $15. 9am-3pm. Oakwood Preserve, 1400 Oakwoods Lane. 419-425-7275. hancockparks.com Minecraft for Kids - This two-day workshop focuses on Minecraft arts, crafts and more.1-4:30pm, Thursday & Friday. $69. Lima Bean Arts, 2500 Shawnee Rd., 567-371-1447. limabeanartsandcrafts.com

9 FRIDAY 20th Flag City Balloon Fest - The three-day festival is all about hot air balloons. Take a ride up in the sky, visit the Kids Fair for carnival games, inflatables, a visit from the Jungle Island Petting Zoo, a fireworks display and tons more to do everyday. Admission is free, prices vary per activity. 7am-10pm, Friday. 6am-10pm, Saturday. 7am-5pm. Sunday. Emory Adams Park, 1528 S. Blanchard St. flagcityballoonfest.com Free Adventure Camp - Ages 6-12 years will get a lesson on biology and natural sciences through hands-on demonstrations and research. Register by Aug. 8. $15. 9am-3pm. Oakwood Preserve, 1400 Oakwoods Lane. 419-425-7275. hancockparks.com 12th Summer Harvest Gala - Dine in style at the St. Francis’s annual dinner gala, held outdoors ‘wedding tent style’ on the Earth Center campus. Dinner will be catered by Canticle Cafe and Carolyn’s Catering. Enjoy live music and an auction. Reserve your space today. $75. 6-9:30pm. St. Francis, 200 S. Francis Ave., Tiffin. 419-447-0435. felctiffin.org

10 SATURDAY American Girl Tea - American Girl Doll Josefina Montoya will be the focus of the tea party. Ages 7-12 years with an adult will enjoy Mexican foods, games and crafts. Register by Aug. 9. $15 per child. 10:30am-12pm. Litzenberg Woods, 6100 US224. 419-425-7275. hancockparks.com Meteor Shower Presentation The Millstream Astronomy Club will give a presentation on the Perseid Meteor Shower. After, view the night sky through shared telescopes. 9-10pm. Riverbend Park, 16618 Township Rd. 419-425-7275. hancockparks.com Free Second Saturdays are for Kids The Art Guild will host a fun art project for kids 8-15. All abilities are invited. $15-$20. 10am-noon. Tiffin Art Guild, 130 S. Washington St., Tiffin. tiffinartguild.org STEM Saturdays - STEM focuses on science, technology, engineering and math skills. Each month a new activity challenge is planned. Admission varies. 11am-1pm. CMF, 1800 Tiffin Ave. 567-250-9616. cmfindlay.com

12 MONDAY Discovery Story - Kids 3-5 years with an adult will take a short hike, learn to use binoculars and take home an arts and crafts project. 10-11am. And 1-2pm. Oakwood Preserve, 1400 Oakwoods Lane. 419-425-7275. hancockparks.com

13 TUESDAY Parents’ Educational Rights Program - If you are a parent with kids enrolled in school, Legal Aid of Western Ohio wants you to know your rights. Topics include: bullying, access to special education, disabilities and other common conflicts. Register to attend. 6-7pm. Bluffton Library, 145 S. Main St., Bluffton. 419-358-5016. blufftonpubliclibrary.org Free

14 WEDNESDAY Sculpture Class - This two day class will lead students through an educational lesson about Oaxaca Folk Art, and then create crafts using the traditional designs and motifs. Also on Aug. 21 $40. 4:30-7:30pm. Awakening Minds, 317 S. Main St. 419-302-3892. awakeningmindsart.org Homeschoolers Learning Kids 4-11 years will learn about science, exploration and creativity at these monthly educational social hours. 1-2pm. Bluffton Library, 145 S. Main St., Bluffton. 419-358-5016. blufftonpubliclibrary.org Free

15 THURSDAY Full Moon Hike - Take a hike during the full moon and discover why this time of year was called the Sturgeon Moon. 8-9pm. Riverbend Park, 16618 Township Rd 208. 419-425-7275. hancockparks.com Summer Educational Series Students will learn about the history of the Great Lakes and our closest one, Lake Erie. Using maps and photographs to gain firsthand knowledge. STEM activities are planned. Register, space is limited. Admission varies. 10am-noon and 2-4pm. Hayes Museum, Spiegel Grove, Fremont. 419-332-2081. rbhayes.org Free $5 Thursdays - Admission for the whole family is only $5 after 5pm on the third Thursday of the month. 5-8pm. Imagination Station, 1 Discovery Way. 419-244-2674. imaginationstation.org Theatre Workshop - Visit the Children’s Museum Thursday. Kids can participate in theatre games and demonstrations at no additional cost. Admission varies. 1-2pm. CMF, 1800 Tiffin Ave. 567-250-9616. cmfindlay.com

16 FRIDAY Blanchard River Farms Tour Take a guided tour to three local farms in the area and learn about modern conservation efforts and organic practices. Register to attend. A bus tour will be scheduled. Hosted by the Ohio Farm Bureau Federation. 9am-3pm. 616-249-2400. ofbf.org/events Free

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Allen County Fair - From farm animal showcases and pie competitions to carnival rides and carnival food, this county fair has it all. There are just too many activities to list! Admission $7. Kids 7 & under free. All day, through Saturday Aug. 24. Allen Fairgrounds, 2750 Harding Hwy., Lima. 419-228-7141. allencofair.com Firefly Nights Music Festival Enjoy a night of local fare, shopping, a farmer’s market and more, accompanied by live tunes, all in the heart of BG. 6-10pm. Main & Wooster St., Bowling Green. 419-354-2323. fireflynightsbg.com Free 36th NWO Rib-Off & Music Fest Enjoy live music while national and local food vendors compete for the coveted prize of Best Ribs! Bands include Night Ranger and Justin Moore. Free admission during these hours: Noon-2pm, Friday. 8-10pm, Saturday. Noon-4pm, Sunday. Evening concerts are ticketed and begin at 8pm. Lucas County Fairgrounds, 1406 Key St., Maumee. 419-893-2127. nworiboff.com

18 SUNDAY Olde Thyme Baseball The Spiegel Grove Squires take on the Canton Cornshuckers in a head-to-head game of 1860s baseball on the Hayes lawn. 2-5pm. Hayes Museum, Spiegel Grove, Fremont. 419-332-2081. rbhayes.org Free

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Teen Movie Night - This night at the library is all about teens and having fun. Watch a movie with friends and popcorn. Movie is TBD. 5:30-8pm. Findlay Library, 206 Broadway St. 419-422-1712. findlaylibrary.org Free

Farmers Market Storytime Meet at the Bluffton Farmers Market for an afternoon of outdoor storytelling. 10am. Bluffton Library, 145 S. Main St., Bluffton. 419-358-5016. blufftonpubliclibrary.org Free

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Verandah Concert - Enjoy an ice cream social and a live outdoor concert with the North Coast Big Band, playing swing and jazz from the 1940s and beyond. 6:30pm. Hayes Museum, Spiegel Grove, Fremont. 419-332-2081. rbhayes.org Free

Findlay Civic Choir - The Choir and community members will perform Vivaldi’s Gloria. $20. 3pm. Marathon Arts, 200 W. Main Cross St. 419-423-2787. mcpa.org

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22 THURSDAY Bluffton Town Hall Concerts - Enjoy a folk concert upstairs in the community room of the Historic Town Hall. The Rough & Tumble duo will perform. $5-$10 donations. 7-9pm. Bluffton Town Hall, 154 N. Main St., Bluffton. 419-358-2066. facebook.com/townhallconcerts

Family Pottery - Kids 4- 6 years with an adult will create multiple handbuilt ceramics and decorate with colorful clay slip dyes and clear glaze. Register in advance. $30. 1-2:30pm. 577 Foundation, 577 E. Front St., Perrysburg. 419-874-4174. 577foundation.org

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Family Center Visiting Artist Bring your child to TMA for a special art project led by artist Shelby Sweinhagen. 6-7pm. Toledo Museum of Art, 2455 Monroe St. 419-255-8000. toledomuseum.org Free

Fitness Challenge - Kids will be introduced to new ways to exercise and participate in fun physical games at the Children’s Museum. Admission varies. 1-2pm. CMF, 1800 Tiffin Ave. 567-250-9616. cmfindlay.com

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Tuesdays

Lima Farmers Market Lima hosts a large market on Main St. every Tuesday, now with earlier hours through October 8. 2-5:30pm. Lima Square, S. Market & W. Market St., Lima. 419-222-6045. facebook.com/ downtownlimafarmersmarket Free Chill Zone Teens and tweens can relax and play games after school. 3:30-4:40pm. Bluffton Library, 145 S. Main St., Bluffton. 419-358-5016. blufftonpubliclibrary.org Free Painting Classes No registration is required for these weekly art classes for kids ages 6-13 years. Everyone is welcome. $10. 10-11am. Awakening Minds, 317 S. Main St. 419-302-3892. awakeningmindsart.org Storytime This story time is for kids of all abilities. Sing-along to a creative story, create a craft and learn about a subject or person. Every Tuesday 10:30-11:30am. Findlay Library, 206 Broadway St. 419-422-1712. findlaylibrary.org Free Makerspace Grades 2-6 will learn about science and technology through arts and crafts workshops. A different project will be featured every week. Meets Tuesdays and Wednesdays 2-3pm. Findlay Library, 206 Broadway St. 419-422-1712. findlaylibrary.org Free

Wednesdays

Bowling Green Farmers Market The weekly Market comes alive with live music, fresh vegetable vendors and community conversation. Cash is king. 4-7pm. BG Farmer’s Market, 201 S. Main St., Bowling Green. 419-354-4332. bgfarmersmarket.org Free Baby Storytime Sing-along with your child to a fun storybook story, hand play, games and more. Meets every Wednesday & Friday, 9:45-10:15am. Findlay Library, 206 Broadway St. 419-422-1712. findlaylibrary.org Free Food Truck Wednesdays Grab lunch from one of the many food trucks that will be lined up at the Marathon Center on Wednesdays through the warmer months. 11am-2pm. Marathon Center, 200 W. Main Cross St. 419-423-2787. mcpa.org

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Saturdays

Bluffton Farmers Market The Bluffton Market opens its doors Saturdays 8:30am-noon. 102 S. Main St., Bluffton. 419-369-2985. explorebluffton.com Free Toledo Farmers Market Toledo’s Market is year round, with outdoor space for a large variety of goods, from fresh eggs and bacon, buttery croissants to organic summer produce. 8am-3pm. Toledo Farmers Market, 525 Market St., Toledo. 419-255-6765. toledofarmersmarket.com Free

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Train Rides Visit the Preservation area for train rides and museum tours. Prices vary. 1-4pm. NWORRP, 1205 County Rd. 99. 419-423-2995. nworrp.org

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68th Riverside Concert Series The series continues, now in its 68th season. August performance schedule: The Matchsellers (Aug. 7), Lake Plains Barbershop Chorus (Aug. 14), and David Gerald (Aug. 21). 7-8pm. Riverside Park Bandshell, 231 McManness Ave. hancockparks.com Free

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Hancock Farmers Market Market season is in full swing. The market will be filled with produce vendors and artisan culinary goods, crafts and more. Don’t forget your shopping bags! 4-6pm. Hancock Farmers Market, 200 W. Main Cross St. 419- 422-5594. facebook.com/ hancockcountyfarmersmarket Free

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