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The Pointe of the Evening Ballet and Auction, an annual fundraiser for The Chance to Dance Scholarship, will feature local and professional dancers at their best. Advanced members of the Findlay Academy of Ballet will present selections ranging from traditional ballet to modern dance.

Professional pieces include a pas de deux from La Bayadere, performed by Brian Murphy of Verb Ballets and Jennifer Safonovs of Neos Dance Theatre. The entire 10person company of Neos – which brought The Nutcracker to Findlay in November of 2012 – will perform a full-length piece by artistic director and Nutcracker choreographer Bobby Wesner. Proceeds from the event go to the scholarship fund, which helps provide financial assistance and instruction opportunities for local dancers.

Battling Cancer with Chili

Spice up your February with award-winning chili and basketball – and help a good cause, too. Cancer Patient Services, providing support for people with cancer in Hancock County, will host its 16th annual Chili Cook-Off this month. The cook-off will feature more than 30 different community, church and individual teams vying for bragging rights. The day will offer chili samples, a bounce house and other children’s activities, and both a live and silent auction. More than 1,400 people are expected to attend. Plus, the organization and the University of Findlay are teaming up to offer combined admission to both that day’s men’s and women’s home basketball games and the cookoff. Fans can go to the Koehler Center and get into the chili cook-off and the games for one price. Those wishing to skip the game can still go to the cook-off for the same price.

Saturday, February 22 from 4:45-8pm. Koehler Center, 1000 N. Main St., Findlay. Admission to the 1pm women’s game and the 3pm men’s game – both against Malone University – is $7/adults and $4/children ages 6 through 12. Children under five are admitted free. Tickets can be purchased through Cancer Patient Services, 1800 N. Blanchard St. and at the door. For more information, call 419-423-0286.

Stargazing in the Night Sky Winter nights might be cold, but they also hold heavenly treasures.

The Hancock Park District is hosting a “Stars in the Sky” Planetarium Show that begins with pizza and ends with a peek at the night sky. Families will first enjoy pizza and drinks inside the Discovery Center at Oakwoods Nature Preserve. Then it’s off to lie down inside an inflatable dome, where a presentation will be given about the constellations most likely to be seen in the February sky. Participants must sit or lie on the floor due to the nature of the dome but are welcome to bring a pillow.

Saturday, March 1. The night will start with a silent auction and entertainment at 6:30pm, and the event will begin at 7:30pm, followed by a reception. Winebrenner Auditorium, 950 N. Main St., Findlay. Advance tickets are $12/adults and $10/seniors and students tickets are available through The Arts Partnership at www.artspartnership.com or 419-422-4624, or Becky’s School of Dance by calling 419-423-7423.

Tickets are $15 at the door.

Friday, February 7 from 5:30-7:30pm. Discovery Center, 1400 Oakwoods Lane off CR 144, Findlay. Registration is $5/person and must be paid in advance by Tuesday, February 4 at the park district headquarters, 1424 E. Main Cross St., Findlay. Those with questions about handicapped accessibility should call the park district at 419-425-7275.

Tap your Toes along with Millstream Singers Come tap your toes and maybe hum along when the Millstream Singers present a family-friendly choral concert. The men’s choral group, founded in 1980 at what was then Findlay College, will sing selections from their extensive choral music library that includes sacred, secular, patriotic, show tunes and some barbershop selections, and, of course, “Down by the Old Mill Stream,” their theme song and Findlay favorite written by Tell Taylor. Chase the cold away with some warm melodies!

Saturday, February 15. The concert will begin at 7:30pm. First Presbyterian Church, 2330 S. Main St., Findlay. There is no admission charge but free will offerings will be accepted.

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More Magical Performances on their Way Findlay makes room for the new Marathon Center for Performing Arts

By Dan Mcelhatten

Let the merriment begin! Actually not quite yet‌the eyes and ears of Findlay area residents will no doubt experience a multitude of delights and retain fond memories after visiting performances at the new Marathon Center for Performing Arts. The center will not be open for business until 2015, but planning is already underway for what is designed to be the center of cultural enrichment for Findlay.

Those familiar with the Central Middle School, now mostly demolished, will see the center constructed on the West Main Cross Street site utilizing the former school’s auditorium. Findlay City Schools enthusiastically donated the site for the project. Area schools will reap benefits from their donation as performances will educate and entertain all grade levels, enriching their lives and those of others, for generations to come.

The $10-$12 million project cost will partially be covered by a sizeable donation from the Marathon Oil Company, and a $300,000 grant from the Findlay-

Hancock County Foundation Board of Trustees with the balance being raised through fundraising efforts beginning this year. One-third of the $300,000 grant will be committed toward a permanent agency endowment. The groundbreaking is expected to take place this spring.

RCM Architects of Findlay president, Jerry Murray, has been associated with the firm for 25 years and is working to design this exquisite jewel that will include a box office area, atrium and fully rebuilt auditorium along with other niceties to ensure a wonderful experience for guests. Murray is also spearheading the fundraising for the project along with a consolidated group of other area organizations. Murray has been a stalwart in supporting community activities and local business ventures.

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Superb Athletes Show their Courage Bonding over sports at the Hancock County Special Olympics

Jesse Coleman is turning tribulations into triumphs

By Kay Mathias

It’s not the medal she won as a state runner-up last year in basketball. It’s not the confidence she has gained from playing sports.

It’s also not the fun she says she has when she shows off her athletic skills.

So what drives 32-yearold Michelle Boyles to return each year to bowl and play basketball in the Hancock County Special Olympics?

“My friends on my team are my favorite,” Boyles said. “I get along with them.” In her eighth year as a participant, Boyles says even though she won a medMichelleBoyles beamsasaBuck al last year because she eye and her basketball team earned secondThe program is funded 100% by doplace honors in Columbus, it is the canations with two major fundraisers that maraderie she feels with her teammates the county olympics program relies on that makes her the happiest as a Special to keep in operation. According to forOlympics participant. mer coordinator Tom Meyer, now Chair OPPORTUNITIES FOR of the Special Olympics Advisory Board, PARTICIPANTS one of its largest donations comes from According to Blanchard Valley Centhe Findlay Striders Group, which doter for Adaptive Physical Education nates the proceeds from its August Up, teacher and County Coordinator, Cara Up and Away 5K Balloon Fest run. Meyer Noel, Hancock County Special Olympics says their other main source of donations is a 501 non-profit sub-group of Special is a 10th annual fundraiser coming up in Olympics Ohio. The local program curMay- the Meijer Special Olympics Golf rently offers seven different athletic opOuting at Red Hawk Run Golf Course. portunities to county residents who have This will be Meijer’s third year serving a desire to play sports and are intellectuas the event’s main sponsor. Many other ally disabled. Currently, the seven sports local businesses and volunteers provide the program offers are bowling, swimservices and contribute to the event. ming, basketball, softball, track and field, “Besides a round of golf (scramble golf and volleyball. The program is deformat) at a top notch golf course, parsigned to provide opportunities to build ticipants can win major prizes,” said up the athlete’s self-esteem socially, psyMeyer. “Everyone gets a free meal sponchologically and physically. sored by City BBQ. The community busiNoel says the program operates siminesses that sponsor holes, carts and food lar to the Ohio Athletic Association’s get their business names viewed by over - where athletes compete locally with 100 golfers, many of whom are business opportunities to advance and compete owners themselves. This is a great opat divisional, regional and state levels. portunity for the Blanchard Valley CenThe county Special Olympics program ter community, business community and is open to anyone eight-years-old or volunteer community to come together older. To recruit potential athletes and and have some fun in the process.” rally enthusiasm and volunteerism for the program, Noel selects local athletes For more information about the program or to accompany her to county schools as fundraisers, contact Noel at Blanchard Valley ambassadors. Most recently, she made a Center at 419-422-6387. visit to Arcadia High School.

Having been through four BysurgerSarah ies and several broken bones, 15-yearold Jesse Coleman has already spent a considerable amount of time around doctors. So much so, he has decided to become one.

“I especially want to work with athletes,” said the hopeful orthopedic surgeon. “It stinks to have to sit out. I want to help them get back to the way they were playing and just get them going again.”

Because of his academic achievement, leadership potential and interest in the field of medicine, Coleman was nominated to attend the Congress of Future Medical Leaders in Washington, D.C. from February 1214. He will represent Arlington High School, where he is a sophomore.

Jesse first broke his arm in sixth grade, then broke it again a few months later. Just two days after getting his cast off, he broke his thumb… and then broke it again. This June, Jesse broke his hand. He has had hernia surgery, an appendectomy, and this summer, had surgery to remove two plates and eight screws from his arm.

The arm got infected, and he needed surgery again.

“He has done such a good job on keeping a good attitude with all of this,” said Nicole Coleman, his mom.

“He’s missed several sports seasons because of his injuries…That’s why he’s so interested in medicine.”

Coleman attended Findlay schools from kindergarten through ninth grade until moving to Arlington. His mother said since fifth grade, he has been in gifted or advanced programming at school. Jesse plays basketball

for Arlington and plans to play baseMayle ball in the spring. He is also active in the New Life Assembly of God Youth Group.

During the Congress, Coleman will join students from across the country.

He’ll receive advice from teen medical science prodigies and top medical school deans on what to expect in medical school. Nobel Laureates and National Medal of Science Winners will talk about leading medical research, and the students will learn about the future of medicine.

His mother and father, James, will join him on the trip.

“At the conference I would like to be positive of what I’m going to pursue when I go to college and what medical field I want to go into,” Jesse said. “I am really excited. “I’m very grateful for this opportunity.”

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Bigelow Hill Intermediate School 300 Hillcrest Ave., Findlay 419-425-8317 • bigelow.findlaycityschools.org

Our education guide is packed with options for your family to find great schools and hear what local students think about what makes school a perfect place to learn and grow!

By Sarah Mayle

Bigelow Hill, home of the Trojans, is located in the northwest part of Findlay. There are approximately 290 4th and 5th grade students attending the school. Students at Bigelow Hill attend Northview Primary or Jacobs Primary, sister schools, for kindergarten through second grade.

BHIS makes an effort to provide the necessary support and intervention to allow each student to meet achievement standards.

Brian Guthrie, 1st grader, Whittier Elementary

“I would like it if we could get to swim for a couple hours and then learn for a couple of hours, and then go back home.”

Blanchard Valley Center 1700 E. Sandusky St., Findlay 419-425-6387 • blanchardvalley.org

Six decades ago, parents teamed up to start the first school for children with developmental disabilities in Hancock County. Today, Blanchard Valley Center is a staple in the Findlay area with its reach spreading beyond the classroom doors and into the community. By providing support for individuals with developmental disabilities and their families, over 450 individuals benefit from the aid and services BVC offers.

Miranda Benjamin, Sophomore, Findlay High School

“I would like to see more freedom in general. We have to ask to use the bathroom, but two months from now we’re going to make a decision on a career that we’ll do for the rest of our lives. ”

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Chamberlin Hill Intermediate School

600 W. Yates, Findlay 419-425-8328 • chamberlin.findlaycityschools.org Each school year brings new opportunities for academic growth and all areas of development. Chamberlin Hill Intermediate School works to help children be knowledgeable, healthy, engaged, responsible, and caring people when they move on to middle school.

Caitlan Quinlan, 5th grader, Cory-Rawson Elementary

“My favorite school would be probably the one I’m at right now because my mom teaches there and I like it there, and it’s new. I like all of the new technology the building has, and how the lights turn on and off automatically.”

Donnell Middle School

301 Baldwin Ave., Findlay 419-425-8370 • donnell.findlaycityschools.org Donnell Middle School is a part of Findlay Middle Schools which pride themselves on empowering students to become critical thinkers, exude excellence in mathematics and reading, and having Trojan pride! With high expectations for students to serve others, students are often involved in many extracurricular activities and opportunities to be an outstanding member of the community are endless.

Elise Spears, Kindergartener, Liberty-Benton Elementary

“I would like to have popcorn machines and sit by whoever I want in class. And I want to read books all day.”

Faith Academy of Findlay 3120 Norcrest St., Findlay • 419-421-0590

Faith Academy of Findlay is an interdenominational Christian School for toddlers (3 year olds) to 8th graders. FAF strives to serve as an extension of the family and help each student, grow, mature and learn spiritually as a believer in Jesus. Their vision is to “create disciples of God that will personally know, love and serve the Messiah by making worthy contributions in the home, church and community worldwide.”

Findlay High School

1200 Broad Ave., Findlay 419-425-8289 • fhs.findlaycityschools.org Findlay High School strives to help students develop with the ability to recognize and realize their potential to be lifelong learners. With the help of families, students, staff, and community members, FHS will continue to contribute greatly to the community as the largest high school in the area.

Hailey Pendleton, 4th grader, McComb Elementary

“My ideal school would have no bullying everyone would be nice to the teachers and students. Everyone would get a fair chance at everything.”

Glenwood Middle School 1715 N. Main St., Findlay 419-425-8373 • glenwood.findlaycityschools.org

Glenwood Middle School has a mission of providing an inclusive educational community to make sure each student has opportunities that inspire learning, development, responsibility, and build self-worth, so that they can become a productive contributing member of society.

Heritage Christian School 2000 Broad Ave., Findlay 419-424-9511 • heritagefindlay.org

Heritage Christian School makes a commitment to every family whose children attend the private institution. They promise to have a personal loving relationship with God, loving relationship with students, emphasize God’s holiness in their teaching, teach self-denial, provide the opportunity for personal devotions, and provide opportunities to serve all their students.

Trent Ward, 7th grader, Liberty-Benton Middle School

“I would like to do something more like a high school, where you get to pick what classes you’d like and they give you a requirement sheet you can follow.”

Jacob’s Primary School Jacobs Ave., Findlay 419-425-8299 • jacobs.findlaycityschools.org

As a part of the Findlay City Schools system, Jacob’s Primary School educates students until third grade on the subjects they need to succeed. Their mission is to work as a team in order to create positive, respectful and responsible learners.

Liberty-Benton Schools 9190 County Road 9, Findlay 419-422-8526 • noacsc.org/hancock/lb

“Eagles learn to soar” at this K-12 educational institution that is home to some of the best athletes in the area, including Ohio State basketball player Aaron Craft.

However, their academics are equally impressive. Their devotion to providing quality education for their students is shared by the staff and community.

Arden McMath, Senior, Arlington High School

“My ideal school would take me down a path toward becoming a responsible adult and a professional in my dream job.”

Jackson Lane, 2nd grader, St. Michael School

“If I were in charge, we’d do a lot of reading in the classroom. Outside, there would be athletic things on the playground. Boys would have Nerf guns and girls would have Rebel guns and we’d battle.”

Lincoln Elementary School

200 West Lincoln St., Findlay 419-425-8310 • lincoln.findlaycityschools.org

The key to Lincoln Elementary School’s success is communicating well with all members of the school, family and community. They make it a point to integrate up-to-date technology so students can get the most out of their education. Also, teachers provide a nurturing environment so students are engaged and can reach their highest potential.

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Emma Otley, 6th grader, Liberty-Benton Middle School

“I would like teachers to use more fun techniques, such as music, games, or creative projects when teaching. Recess every day instead of once a week would be nice!”

Millstream Career & Technology 1150 Broad Ave., Findlay 419-425-8277 • millstreamctc.org

Millstream Career & Technology provides preparation for two or fouryear college careers. Students get real-world work experience, career exploration, training in the newest technologies, as well as a strong academic foundation that they need to succeed in college. Programs range to include a multitude of career paths.

Northview Primary School 133 Lexington Ave., Findlay 419-425-8290 • northview.findlaycityschools.org

Northview Primary School is part of a child-centered partnership that works to ensure all students develop a strong foundation of knowledge, skills, and recognize their abilities through guidance and support from a dedicated staff, committed families and an involved community.

St. Michael Catholic School 723 Sutton Place, Findlay 419-423-2738 • findlaystmichaelschool.org

St. Michael the Archangel School educates students from preschool through 8th grade. Opportunities for early education classes include preschool, kindergarten readiness, afternoon and full-day kindergarten. They also offer special classes including music, art, physical education, and technology. Additionally offered is Title One reading, speech, access to a guidance counselor, school psychologist, and tutors. They commend themselves on being a Spirit-filled community that develops sound and high-achieving students.

Madelyn Badertscher, 8th grader, Van Buren Middle School

“An ideal school to me would have less homework, especially for those who have extra-curricular activities.

It’s hard to finish homework and get to bed at a decent time when practices sometimes don’t end until 7:30 or 8 o’clock.”

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301 S. East St., Vanlue 419-387-7724 • vanlueschool.org

Vanlue Local School District offers K-12 with class sizes providing a teacher to student ratio of 1/10 for individualized attention. Students have academic opportunities such as Millstream, Post-Secondary Option, and online semester-long classes to help them reach their fullest potential. “Pay-to-play” is not a policy at the Home of the Wildcats!

Van Buren Schools 217 S. Main St., Van Buren 419-299-3384 • vbschools.net

Each school year is an opportunity for new beginnings at Van Buren Schools, whether it’s taking new classes, making new friends or finding out what career you are passionate about. Students in grades K-12 are proud Black Knights here, and shine in their armor when it comes to academics, sports and community involvement.

Bryson Sleppy, Freshman, Arlington High School

“I really like (Arlington’s) computer and history classes now, so I would enjoy lots more history and more computer work.”

David Hoban, Junior, Findlay High School

“My ideal school is one that has a dedicated staff and a chance to let students follow the path they want, whether it is in advanced classes, athletics or any other area that interests him or her.”

Whittier Elementary School 733 Wyandot St., Findlay 419-425-8358

Wilson Vance Intermediate School

610 Bristol Ave., Findlay 419-425-8332

As sister schools and educational partners, Whittier and Wilson Vance Schools share a mission of instilling virtues and providing experiences for each child that nurture development while creating responsible citizens and lifelong learners.

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One Winter School Morning

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One cold winter morning ____________ (an animal) woke me up at _________ (a time in the morning). I was just about to hit my snooze button and I was trying to catch up on my __________ (funny name for sleep). ____________ (child’s name) said “Wake up ________ (nickname for “mom”)! It’s time for school! Let’s get going because my new teacher ____________ (female teacher’s name) is really a _____________ (cartoon character). I can’t wait to throw __________ (type of school supplies) at her. I hear she can’t resist __________ (-ing verb) it with her hands!”

I whined and complained for ________ (amount of time), but eventually, I woke and started getting dressed. I wore __________ (color) _________ (pattern) with a very long _______________ (noun) attached to it.

My outfit was hip! I knew my kids would love it. They were covered in ___________ (type of food) from the day before. I flipped over the door mat and yelled “_________!” (an exclamation phrase!”) I snatched a _________ (eating utensil) and had breakfast off of the floor! _______________ (number) minutes later, the bus came, and my kids were off to school. At home that day, I watched two really _______________ (adjective) TV shows. Then I had to start cleaning up and getting dinner ready. I made spaghetti, that’s a favorite at our house.

When the kids got home, they told my husband and I what _______________ (plural noun) were, and when to use them. At snack and recess, they played tag. At gym, they were ____________ (“ing” verb) the basketballs into ________ (plural nouns).

I thought it was a very ____________ (adjective) idea.

After homework was completed and everyone cleaned up, it was time to _________ (verb). We needed to get to bed so we could be ready for the next day! Just before I was ready, I shouted, “_______________________ (excited phrase),” to my family!

What a day!

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Head Lice

Myth Busters and Solutions

By Laura Reagan-Porras

sites. Today’s lice are resistant Winter months mean hats, scarves Myth #5 - Head lice will go away in one to over the counter pesticides. and protection from the cold by spending more time indoors. Anytime kids are day shampooing with over the counter pesti- Avoid using them. in close contact with one another, lice are cides and will kill all lice and their eggs.

Whether you choose to go to a doctor possible, if not probable. Have no fear, the for a prescription shampoo or whether 2. Comb out lice myth busters are here!

Myth #1 – Head lice infestations occur you choose one or more of the numerDo a thorough comb out ous green products, thorough, consistent immediately after the shambecause of a lack of cleanliness.

Head lice love clean hair! It is easier comb outs with a lice comb is required poo, using a lice comb. Comb for them to grip the base of the hair shaft after the shampooing to remove all lice out after the initial shampoo so they can lay their eggs. According to and eggs. Follow up combings may be using a white crème rinse to the Center for Disease Control (CDC), lice required for 7 days, depending on the se- catch the bugs and eggs, called feed off a blood protein which they obtain verity of the infestation. nits. (Our specialists have from biting the scalp. crème rinse recommendaMyth #2 – Head lice are contions.) A lice comb has long The Facts tracted from pets. teeth and should be wiped the ut Head lice are small insects abo The CDC reports, head lice inwith a white paper towel n is ofte festation, or pediculosis, is spread size of a sesame seed. Diagnosis after every combing stroke to remove eggs. most commonly by close personthe lice and nits from the comb. Any made on the basis of finding lice brown or to-person contact. While head lice tan te, darkness you see in the white liquid is whi yish gra tiny, are s Egg can be perceived as contagious, fts a louse in one of its stages. The initial sha hair to tly tigh very ch atta ovals that head lice are really human paracomb out may take up to 2 hours. Finh off in the hair. These eggs cannot was sites. Pediatricians use language ish one small section of hair at a time effort to or be blown away. It takes some like infestation rather than infecand move to the next section. but once tion. Dogs, cats, and other pets do remove them from the hair shaft 3. Repeat out, they not play a role in the transmission removed by hand or by combing Follow up comb outs should take of human lice. ughout turn brown. Eggs may be found thro place. The specialists recommend folMyth #3 – Lice hop or fly from nape of low up comb outs. When and how ofthe hair, but often are seen at the one infected person to the other. crown the at and ears ten varies. Some say comb outs should the ind beh k, nec the Head lice multiply easily if there take place every day for 7 days after d. is close proximity to an affected perof the hea shampooing. Others say if the initial son or the brush, combs or hats of an comb out was thorough, then another affected persons are shared. Head one is not needed until the seventh day. lice are spread most commonly from head The Solution Sequence All agree, follow up is vital. to head contact. Head lice do not hop or While opinions and methodologies fly. Lice have no hind legs to hop and no 4. Head checks wings to fly. Head lice do crawl, quite vary somewhat, lice removal experts, Since the life cycle of the louse is 14 rapidly at times and blend into the hair pharmacists and doctors agree with the days, check your child’s head at the two following basics. You may do it yourself shaft very well. week mark from initial treatment in case Myth #4 – After a lice infestation you or hire a lice removal specialist in your any lice remain. must mega-clean your house, top to bottom area to do it for you and your child. They including steam the carpets and curtains and charge by the hour and some make house Prevention calls. Others have local sa1. Teach children to avoid burn the mattresses! head to head contact.

Housecleaning myths for lice eradica- lons.

TIP: A mixture of 2. Teach children not to tion abound! Lice are not bedbugs. They 1. Shampoo Pantene (conditioner) share brushes, combs or and baking soda do not survive for long when off their Shampoo with a lice killhats. is an effective and host’s head. Lice have a 24 – 26 hour ing shampoo. You may get a 3. You may choose to use a common comb out survival off a host’s head when removed prescription shampoo from solution after using preventative spray on your from their blood supply so simple vacu- a physician or use one of the a prescription lice child’s head or hair spray uming will work to pick up bugs that green products recommendkilling shampoo or product. The odor acts as a have fallen off the head. ed on the specialists’ webgreen product. repellent to the lice and the

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consistency on the hair helps to prevent lice from latching onto the hair shaft.

Lice are as common as the common cold. While they are frustrating and time consuming to deal with, they do not pose a serious health threat. Don’t panic! Get educated and get combing.

Laura Reagan-Porras is a parenting journalist and mother of two daughters who have battled lice and lived to share the tale.

These local salons will help when/if the dreaded discovery that your child has lice becomes a reality: Bernadette’s Lice Removal Center

Operates in Toledo 440-946-5423 bernadettesliceremovalcenter.com Average cost of treatment: between $85-$90 Call Jeremy for any of your lice needs at 440-946-5423

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2525 N. Reynolds Rd. #6, Toledo 419-214-0414 rapunzelslice.com Average cost of treatment: between $125-$145 Cost of having head checked: $10

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Smartphone Revolution

Jumping on the technology-savvy bandwagon

By Rose Roccisano Barto

I was late to the iPhone revolution.

When I first started working for newspapers, we had landlines and, if we were lucky, pagers. The problem was if we got paged we still had to find a phone to call the office. Then I got a bag phone – the size of a small carry-on with an antenna that went on top of the car. Yeah, I was cutting edge, as long as I was in my car.

Over the years, however, advances in mobile communications passed me by. I was content with my “dumb” phone until it broke, and I needed a new one. My new phone had a QWERTY keyboard which made texting a snap. Texting was the gateway drug into wanting a smartphone. I finally got an iPhone this past summer, nearly six years to the day after the first iPhone release in 2007. I was quickly addicted to responding to emails on the run, checking Facebook in the checkout line, and all the other stuff that really could wait until I got home.

Smartphones multiply

Soon my teenager had a smartphone.

And my pre-teen had my old iPod. On recent trips back home to New York I teased my daughters and my nieces that it was nice they were spending quality time together – all four of them in the living room staring at tiny screens. I lectured them about how important it is to come up for air from the Internet, and felt a little smug knowing that my generation actually talked to one another.

That smugness only lasted until I realized that at home we also sit together only to access the outside world through the internet. And I am one of the worst offenders.

It was a rare night off from extracurricular activities and we were sitting in the living room. I was on my phone, my teenager was on her phone (and listening to her iPod – a twofer!) and the youngest was playing a game on her iPod. We were in the same room, but not communicating despite – or, rather, because of - our devices.

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band walked in and commented that we were spending time together apart.

Time together, apart

That resonated with me. In only four years my oldest daughter will be away at college. When that happens, those devices will be a critical way to keep in touch.

Until then, I don’t want them to get in the way of actual communication.

So I have tried to stop being a slave to my phone. Sometimes I let the call go to voicemail. I ignore the obnoxious text tone that demands my attention. I stay away from the little number next to the Facebook or email icon, knowing that it can wait.

What can’t wait is helping with homework, hearing about how a rehearsal went or listening to someone talk about her day. I never ignored those things before, but now I try to be more present. These children will leave me one day, as they are supposed to. We can Facetime, text and call, a blessing of the modern age that will be welcome. But it won’t be the same.

I have noticed my daughters sometimes following suit. The oldest will put her phone on the shelf and play a board game with her younger sister, or sit next to me on the couch and talk. The youngest will want to go play outside, or bake cookies.

Sure, there are times all three of us get buried in our beeping boxes. But hopefully I have set a good example to “do as I do, not as I say”. Technology is wonderful, and can bring people who live far away closer. I want to make sure it doesn’t drive apart people who live in the same house.

And maybe that’s the next revolution – taking back family time from those beeping boxes.

Waiting for Something to Happen

A dad learns how to deal with expectations

By Matthew Reger

As parents we live with expectations. There is expectation while waiting for children to arrive. There is the expectation placed on parents through family, friends and acquaintances in every aspect of parenting from birth to . . . well, I guess everything. Expectation comes from our hope to either replicate our childhood or to never do anything like our parents. Expectation can also be imposed through the myriad of parenting books, magazines and on-line posts. Within the context of some of those expectations – real and imagined– I have tried to find my way.

Daddy Docudrama

The most recent expectation that vexed me was potty training. I will lay out all the actors in what I will call my own personal docudrama. First is my son, the subject of our story. He recently turned four and for at least six to eight months prior to his birthday we were actively potty training.

He, well aware of our intent, had a different agenda.

His favorite way to confound us was to disappear to some hidden place in our house or wherever we happened to be when the need arose. He would be playing, having fun and then suddenly he was gone. When we found him he would look up at us and say - in the same voice as the girl in Poltergeist said “they’re here” – “I poooooooped!” My response to this was usually something along the lines of “Ugh!” clasping my hands to my head in frustration.

I am the next character. I am the person waiting for an elevator to come who pushes the button a hundred times thinking it makes it come faster. I want this done now. I know I need to be patient. We had gone through this with our daughter, but she seemed to be much easier.

This was reinforced by many people who told me, “girls are much easier with potty training”. Thank you for the help!

We tried Cheerios in the potty; he had no interest. We tried rewards; they had limited success. Stickers were another attempt: that lasted for a while and then he forgot. I tried the lure of peeing with dad at the same time: not much of a motivator.

Eric Je n Roth a sen and Ste p r Learn e bringing hanie ing to J the Fla ensen g City

Teaching Literacy with Poverty in Mind

Add to this mix two other characters: my parents. These two people have the best of intents when they ask: “Is Noah potty trained, yet?” or “What is taking so long?” but it sure doesn’t help. And how am I supposed to challenge them? I don’t think they really remember potty training; in fact I am certain most parents don’t.

Like most things that are difficult, that memory is forgotten once the task is accomplished.

Puppy vs. Potty Training

I have considered some of the methods used in training our puppy. She learned after a short time to wait at the door to go outside. It can’t be much different, right?

Our final character is our heroine, my wife. She told me that “these things take time” and “he will get it when he wants to.” Not the best advice for a guy whose parents are abusing him about his failed parenting and who thinks this should come much faster. But because she is dealing with this on a day-to-day basis, she knows best.

Ultimately her patience has paid off and he is – for the most part – now trained. I have learned, once again, that the greatest expectation in parenting is patience and a willingness to work with your child’s own timetable.

Eric Jensen and Stephanie Roth join forces

By Dan McElhatten

Eric Jensen and Stephanie Roth are putting their hands together to make sure children in Findlay are getting the education they need to succeed, no matter the circumstances.

Eric, president of Jensen Learning, is bringing his program, Teaching Literacy with Poverty in Mind, from the shores of Hawaii to Flag City, and will present it in a two-day staff development training session through the Findlay City School district in November.

Jensen says he’s always loved teaching and still does, the only difference is now he teaches teachers instead of middle school kids, “same job, same love of the job.” He added that students everywhere need the same ingredients to be successful at learning. When working with kids from poverty, he says we must first avoid any judging. Second, be good at figuring out what they need to succeed and, finally, be relentless in the process of ensuring student success to make sure they are either graduate job ready or college ready.

Stephanie Roth, director of Elementary Instruction for Findlay City Schools, says Jensen has identified classroom strategies to improve the learning

abilities of economically-disadvantaged children. The poverty level in the public school system is defined by the number of students that receive reduced cost or free lunches based on state and federal income guidelines. Studies have shown that poverty does affect a child’s ability to learn. The old school of thought said you can’t change IQ, you were born with it, Stephanie said. Now science and research says you can change the brain through strategies, and teachers can use those strategies to enhance their teaching methods, she added.

Nearly 40 percent of Findlay Public School students are not learning at the level of other students, said Stephanie, who adds that current programs are not helping to close the gap effectively.

Findlay-Hancock County Community Foundation announced last November that their Board of Trustees awarded $8,000 as a HancockREADS grant, to cover the cost of the “Teaching Literacy with Poverty in Mind” training.

Without a doubt, Eric and Stephanie’s efforts to make sure every student gets the education they deserve will make a difference in the community.

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A True Delight for Dinner Bistro on Main gives diners a relaxing and delicious experience

By Sarah Mayle

Bistro on Main

407 S. Main St. Findlay, Oh 45840 419-425-4900 Mon-Fri: 11 am to 2:30 p.m.

Mon-Thurs: 5 p.m. to 10 p.m.

Fri-Sat: 5 p.m. to 11 p.m.

Sun: Closed Carry-out and full-service catering available.

Separate lunch and dinner menus.

Dining at Bistro on Main is like getting a massage - a true delight.

At Bistro, expect a fantastic, savory meal in a cozy, relaxing atmosphere.

Even with kids!

I have been to Bistro before, but rarely with the kids. The pleasant surprise was that my little ones were entertained solely by being at the Italian eatery. They were engrossed by the candle on our table, the intricate wood paneling, the soft music playing, and the food being exotic but not too exotic.

I think it’s safe to say Bistro makes adults feel that way too.

There are so many wonderful, fresh and different choices that the meal becomes truly exciting – not to mention the ambiance. Owner Sam Fittante said the recently-renovated inside is “completely different,” with all new seating arrangements, a new bar, a and host of other changes.

Sampling a blackberry in her side dish, my 5-yearold daughter exclaimed, “I like these kind of berries! I just tried them and they’re good!” Meanwhile on the other side of the table, my 8-year-old son tore through the red and dark green lettuce of his house salad like he eats it every day. (Amazing!)

Both kids stuck with their usual chicken fingers as their main dish, but ranked the taste at the top of what they’ve experienced.

Kids menu that dazzles

Bistro offers one of the most diverse and attractive kids menus I’ve seen. Patrons are provided a basket of fresh bread with flavored, sweet butter when they sit down. The restaurant’s drink menu has it all, and they offer nine alluring appetizers, ranging from $9 to $18.

You can also try tomato basil soup or the soup of the day. Five starter salads and three entree salads are also available, with a nice array of dressings from which to choose.

We tried the fresh mozzarella appetizer. I enjoyed the unique taste, as well as its fancy presentation – another little pleasure to enjoy with all of the Bistro’s food.

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THE SHORT COURSE Kid-friendly: Yes To avoid wait: Always make a reservation for lunch during the work week. Reservations for dinner are also recommended.

Noise level: Quiet Bathroom amenities: Adequate, clean and quaint High chairs? Yes Got milk? Yes, white and chocolate, plus juice Kids menu? Yes, very diverse Healthy kids options? Yes, salads, fruit, vegetables, fish Food Allergy Concerns: All food made fresh to order. Bistro can accommodate any allergy concern or dietary restriction, including gluten free meals. Just ask.

Delighted by dessert

My husband ordered the lobster risotto, one of four choices on the seafood menu. He enjoyed it and offered me a taste. I marveled over the slightly crisp yet tender texture of the butter-soaked lobster.

Nine pasta entrees adorn the menu, all something special. For example, one of the most basic choices wild mushroom spaghetti - boasts wild mushrooms, parmesan cheese, pine nuts, artichokes and pesto. It can be enjoyed vegetarian style, with chicken or with salmon.

Bistro is known for its steaks, and they can be prepared and topped in several ways, like blackened with gorgonzola chive butter, or with a whole grain mustard and cognac demi-glaze. Other entrees include duck meatloaf, braised beef short rib, pork chops, lamb or pecan chicken. Dinner prices range from $16 to $45.

I ordered one of the specials, a half chicken with red mashed potatoes and broccolini. The restaurant offers specials – something different from the usual menu - every day, and mine was delicious. The chicken was extremely flavorful and moist.

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We were all feeling quite full when it was time to view the dessert tray. It was a lovely thing to behold, taunting us. So we lost ourselves in the double truffle chocolate cake, complete with chocolate sauce, whipped cream, raspberries and a pirouline cookie.

Exquisite!

On a bitter winter’s night, we all left Bistro on Main feeling warm and content. It was a true treat. It was wonderful trying new delicious foods and just being together in a cozy and friendly place. Who needs a massage anyway?

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like. Registration required. 5:30-7:30pm. $5. Oakwoods Nature Preserve: “Doc” Phillips Discovery Center, 1400 Oakwoods Ln. 419-425-7275. hancockparks.com

All calendar events are subject to change, cancellation, and limited size.

Calling ahead for confirmation is recommended.

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Winter Blues Fest

Junie B. Jones - This is a fast-paced, funny, family-friendly musical about new friends, new glasses, sugar cookies, and a kickball tournament. Based on the book by Barbara Park. 4pm. Members, $18/ Nonmembers, $17. The Toledo Zoo: Indoor Theatre, 2 Hippo Way. 419-389-6561. toledozoo.org

Fight off the winter blues at the Winter Blues Festival. There will be live entertainment from local bands the Millstream Mojo Blues Band, The Josh Garrett Band, and Shane Piasecki.

The mixture of fabulous food, drinks and music will make this a romantic night for Valentines Day, or just savor the atmosphere for an enjoyable evening. The fest will also feature a jambalaya station along with different beer stations provided by Rochester Mills and Beer Co. The patio will be tented, so you don't have to worry about keeping warm.

Friday, February 14. 6pm-midnight. $5.

Alexandria’s, 132 E. Crawford St. 419-424-5750. visitfindlay.com —AC

Scientific Sweetness - In celebration of Valentine’s Day, taste for how sweet science can be with activities involving sugar.

Through February 14. 10am-5pm. $8-$10.

Imagination Station, 1 Discovery Way, Toledo. 419-244-2674. imaginationstationtoledo.org American Girl Victorian Valentine Tea - Teatime will highlight the time period of American Girl, Samantha. Guest are encouraged to bring their dolls and come dressed for a tea party. Participants will also make Victorian-style Valentines.

For children ages 6-12 with an adult.

Registration required. 2-4pm. $15 per pair for members/ $20, nonmembers. Hancock Historical Museum, 422 W. Sandusky St. 419-423-4433. hancockhistoricalmuseum.org

Sleigh Rides In Spiegel Grove

Go on a horse-drawn sleigh ride through the 25 acre Spiegel Grove, the estate of former President Rutherford B. Hayes. Through February 17. 1-4pm. $3. Hayes Presidential Center: Spiegel Grove, Fremont. 800-998-7737. rbhayes.org

1 SATURDAY Kids in the Parks: Ground Hog Day - This fun program will include a story, activities and a craft. 1-3pm.

Oakwoods Nature Preserve, “Doc” Phillips Discovery Center, 1400 Oakwoods Ln. 419-425-7275. hancockparks.com Free Toledo Walleye vs. Elmira Jackals On this special Beatles tribute night, watch the Toledo Walleye take on the Elmira Jackals. 7:15pm. Prices vary, see website.

The Huntington Center, 500 Jefferson Ave. 419-321-5007. huntingtoncentertoledo.com Preschool Pals: Skunks! - Join a naturalist and learn about the small forest friend and also go on a short skunk hunt. For 3-5 year olds with an adult.

Registration required. 10am. Garlo Heritage Nature Preserve, 5777 S. SR 19, Bloomville. 419-435-3915. senecacountyparks.org Free

2 SUNDAY Funday Sunday - On the first Sunday of every month enjoy themed activities, games and story time. 1:30-3:30pm.

Mazza Museum, 300 College St. 419-434-4560. mazzacollection.org Free Oh, Groundhog! - Shake away the winter chills with fun-filled activities, humorous weather lore and a visit to Wildwood Willie’s meadow habitat. Registration required. 2-4pm. Wildwood Preserve

10 MONDAY

Metropark, 5100 W. Central Ave., Toledo.

419-407-9700. reservations.metroparkstoledo.com Free

4 TUESDAY

Wee Ones: ABC of Birds - Program includes a story, activities, and craft. An adult companion is required. 10am & 1pm.

Oakwoods Nature Preserve: “Doc” Phillips Discovery Center, 1400 Oakwoods Ln. 419-425-7275. hancockparks.com Free

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Tween Olympics - Game Challenge Categories include: marshmallow challenges, chocolate games and sixty second to win challenges. Don’t miss out on winning the gold! For grades 2-6. Findlay-Hancock County Public Library, 206 Broadway St. 6-7pm. 419-422-1712. findlaylibrary.org Free Farm Fun - Stories, songs and activities that focus on farming and agriculture.

Presented by members of the Block and Bridle Club of the University of Findlay. For ages 2-8 and an adult. 7:30 pm. FindlayHancock County Public Library, 206 Broadway St. 419-422-1712. findlaylibrary.org Free

5 WEDNESDAY Toddler Trails - This is a fun outdoor, multi-sensory nature play and exploration program. For ages 18 months-3 years old with an adult. Registration is required.

10-11am. $3. Wildwood Preserve Metropark, 5100 W. Central Ave., Toledo. 419-407-9700. reservations.metroparkstoledo.com

7 FRIDAY Pizza Party & Planetarium Show Enjoy pizza and drinks followed by the Stars in the Sky show about constellations present in the sky tonight. Participants must sit on the floor, so bring a pillow if you’d

Chocolate Party - Test your chocolate skills with chocolate inspired games and lots of sweet fun. For grades 6-12. 7-8pm.

Findlay-Hancock County Public Library, 206 Broadway St. 419-422-1712. findlaylibrary.org Free

12 WEDNESDAY Tales For Tots - Enjoy a themed story time each month, with new stories to engage children at each session. Also on February 26. 11-11:30am. Mazza Museum, 300 College St. 419-434-4560. mazzacollection.org Free

14 FRIDAY Bowling Green Winterfest - This annual three-day community event features ice carvings, a chili cook-off the Frost Bite Fun Run and more! Through February 16.

Bowling Green, Bowling Green. Facebook. com/WinterfestBG Free

15 SATURDAY Titanic: The Artifact Exhibition - Take a journey back in time to experience the legend of the “unsinkable” Titanic. The exhibit will feature real artifacts, room recreations and personal stories. Through June 15. 10am-5pm. $15.50-$19.50.

Imagination Station, 1 Discovery Way. 419-244-2674. imaginationstationtoledo.org

Vanimal-Tine’s Day - Spend the day watching some of your favorite Zoo animals receive some great treats, and see how the Zoo shares the love on this very special day. 10am. Zoo Admission (50% off winter coupon is available online).

Toledo Zoo, 2 Hippo Way, Toledo.

419-385-4040. toledozoo.org One Mile Frostbite Fun Run - Take part in this fun mid-winter run. There will be award for overall male/female adult (16 and older) and youth (15 and younger), as well as a finisher’s ribbon. 10am. $15/$12/$25. Scout Building in City Park, Bowling Green. 419-354-6223.

BG Winterfest Soup & Chili CookOff - Enjoy tasting a variety of soups and chili, and then vote for your favorite.

Noon-2pm. Veteran’s Building at City Park, Bowling Green. 419-354-6224.

16 SUNDAY Mammals at Night - Explore and learn about curious nighttime animals with a story, activities and a craft. 1-4pm.

Oakwoods Nature Preserve: “Doc” Phillips Discovery Center, 1400 Oakwoods Ln. 419-425-7275. hancockparks.com Free

17 MONDAY Discovery Story: Opossums Program will include a story, activities and a craft. For children 3-6 years old with an adult. 10am. Oakwoods Nature Preserve: “Doc” Phillips Discovery Center, 1400 Oakwoods Ln. 419-425-7275. hancockparks.com Free

18 TUESDAY National Engineering Week - Explore the design process and discover that creativity and imagination are essential skills for an engineer. Through February 23.

10am-5pm. $8-$10. Imagination Station, 1 Discovery Way. 419-244-2674. imaginationstationtoledo.org Talons of Terror - Kids will learn the differences between hawks, owls, falcons and eagles and get hands-on with some of their feathers, skulls and talons. Owl dissection will also take place. For ages 7+.

Registration required. 7pm. $2. Oakwoods Nature Preserve: “Doc” Phillips Discovery Center: 1400 Oakwoods Ln. 419-425-7275. hancockparks.com

19 WEDNESDAY Family Program: Winter Critters Learn all about furry and feathered winter wildlife. Registration required. 5-6pm.

Steyer Nature Preserve, 5901 N. Co. Rd. 33, Tiffin. 419-435-3915. senecacountyparks.org Free

20 THURSDAY Alexander and the Terrible, Horrible, No Good, Very Bad Day Children will enjoy this imaginative and entertaining play. 10am. $3 (available at The Findlay Performing Arts Center).

Winebrenner Auditorium at the University of Findlay, 950 N. Main St. 419-422-3412. artspartnership.com

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Daily Flight Butterfly Exhibit, The Toledo Zoo kicks off it’s year-long celebration of flight by opening a butterfly free-flight exhibit. Butterflies flutter by as you and your family explore. Through March 2.

10am. Toledo Zoo, 2 Hippo Way. Free with zoo admission. 419-385-4040. toledozoo.org Free

MONDAYS Open Studio, This studio time is for students to independently explore art. All ages and abilities welcome.

Anytime between 3-5pm. $10 per child/$5 per additional sibling.

Awakening Minds Art, 515 S. Main St. 419-302-3892. awakeningmindsart.org

beautiful pieces of art. 6:30-7:30pm. $10. Awakening Minds Art, 515 S. Main St. 419-302-3892. awakeningmindsart.org

stay with children. For all ages.

10:30-11:30am. Findlay-Hancock County Public Library, 206 Broadway St. 419-422-1712. findlaylibrary.org Free

MONDAY-FRIDAY

WEDNESDAY

FRIDAYS

Mom & Tot Skate, Enjoy ice skating with friends and family. 10am-11am. $3, skates included. The CUBE, 3430 N. Main St. 419-424-7176. findlayohio.com

Painting Class, Individuals of all ages and abilities will have fun at this painting class. 6:30-7:30pm. $10. Awakening Minds Art, 515 S. Main St. 419-302-3892. awakeningmindsart.org

Baby Story Time, Simple stories, rhymes, music, puppets, movement for the youngest learners. Birth-36 months.

9:45-10:15am. Findlay-Hancock County Public Library, 206 Broadway St. 419-422-1712. findlaylibrary.org Free

TUESDAYS Sculpture Class, Individuals of all ages and abilities will have fun learning sculpture techniques and creating

TUESDAYS & THURSDAY Winter Story Time, Stories, songs and a simple craft. Parents/caregivers must

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Calling All Boy Scouts: Weather Scouts will find answers to questions about the weather as they complete 7/10 requirements for this merit badge through lecture and discussion. This is a drop-off program.

Dress for the weather. Registration required.

4-6:30pm. $5. Secor Metropark, 10001 W. Central Ave., Holland. 419-407-9700. reservations.metroparkstoledo.com

21FRIDAY Toledo Walleye vs. Orlando Solar Bears - It’s Hockey Heritage Weekend!

Come see the Toledo Walleye take on the Orlando Solar Bears back-to-back Friday and Saturday night. 7:15pm. Prices vary, see website. The Huntington Center, 500 Jefferson Ave. 419-321-5007. huntingtoncentertoledo.com

22 SATURDAY CPS Chili Cook-Off - Thirty teams will compete for the best chili in Hancock county. There will also be auctions, children’s activities and all you can eat chili and ice cream. Proceeds benefit the Cancer Patient Services. 4:45-8pm. $7, adult/ $4, ages 6-12/ free, under age 6. Koehler Center at The University of Findlay, 1000 N. Main St. 419-423-0286. cancerpatientservices.org Bowl For Kids’ Sake - Have fun bowling, winning prizes and enjoying snacks while supporting Big Brothers Big Sisters of Northwestern Ohio. Minimum team pledge of $250. 11am, 1:30pm & 4pm. Al-Mar Lanes, 1010 N. Main St., Bowling Green.

419-352-4637.

25 TUESDAY Teen Movie Night - Popcorn and pop provided. For teens 6th-12th grade.

Parent permission form on file is required.

5:30-8pm. Findlay-Hancock County Public Library, 206 Broadway St. 419-422-1712. findlaylibrary.org Free

27 THURSDAY Spring Alive: Fairytales, Fables and Flowers - The Nairobi Pavilion is transformed into a magical environment where beautiful floral displays help bring popular fairytales to life. Participating vendors will be on hand to share gardening tips and offer various gardening items for purchase.

Through March 2. 10am. $15, adults/ $12, ages 2-11 and seniors (60+)/ free for under 2 years old. Toledo Zoo: Nairobi Pavilion, 2 Hippo Way, Toledo.

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I had my last baby when I was thirty. And when I say last, I mean that’s it. I won’t be one of those women taking prenatal vitamins and Boniva at the same time. I don’t have the energy.

I waited until the ripe old age of twenty-eight to have my first child, then followed up with a second only twenty-two months later. I had to work quickly because way back then we were afraid to get pregnant after thirty-five. A lot has changed in the last ten years. Pregnancy over forty is now accepted and, if you believe the celebrity photos, easy.

As I inch toward forty, the biological clock still ticks. Instead of, “have-a-babyhave-a-baby,� it now says, “just-one-more-just-one-more.� I fantasize that I’d do everything right this time. I would coordinate perfect outfits, offer only breast milk and homemade organic baby food, and bathe myself every day. I’d even blow out my hair and put on makeup.

I indulge this dream for about a minute before I remember the sleepless nights, continuous feeding, and emotional extremes. Between post-partum, PMS, and perimenopause, I can’t imagine what older moms—even celebrities—are going through, but I suspect if you knocked on their doors at nine in the morning, they wouldn’t be red carpet ready.

Despite the realities of baby rearing, glitz and ease is exactly what we see in those magazines we sneak read at the grocery checkout. People complain that Hollywood glamorizes young pregnancy by holding up Jamie Lynn Spears and Ashlee Simpson as role models, but I’m more offended by the forty-is-the-new-twenty-two celebrities that are selling us regular women a bill of goods.

Gorgeous Naomi Watts gave birth to a second son at age forty.

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Over-forty Australian actress Rachel Griffiths plays an American on Brothers and Sisters. She’s pregnant with her third baby and like our homegrown celebs, she has a penchant for unique names. She already named one son Banjo. Let’s hope age has wised her up. If not, she may end up with a cute little Fiddle or Harmonica.

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