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KIDS HOROSCOPE January 20February 18 By Sue Lovett

They come into the world bright-eyed and bushy-tailed. Looking around almost constantly. They are curious and friendly. At times they seem to be in a world of their own and you should make sure you have their attention before talking to them. They have “selective hearing” even as toddlers. Above all they love everyone. Other children follow them and they all play nicely together. They include everyone in their special circle. They are curious about many things, but not always sensible. Thomas Edison, an Aquarian, once sat on eggs to see how the chickens could hatch them. They are popular and are leaders. They like to “belong” and should be allowed to participate in organizations such as reading groups at the library, special tours to the zoo, gardens, museums, etc. They are fascinated with computers, IPods, gadgets of all kinds. They walk with one foot in the future.

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what’s National Engineering Week at Imagination Station “Think It. Build It. Test It... Do It Again!” The Imagination Station has combined this year’s exciting engineering activities with their traveling exhibition on the famous “unsinkable ship,” the Titanic. Kids will learn about the engineering of boats, the science of buoyancy, the characteristics of icebergs, and more. Families can also check out “Engineer It” while visiting Imagination Station; visitors are encouraged to build--and then test the performance of--boats, buildings, windmills, and airplanes. These educational and entertaining activities are all focused on providing highly interactive experiences with science so that participants can witness the creativity, imagination, and skill required for an engineer. Tuesday, February 18 through Sunday, February 23. Adults $10, kids $8, seniors $9, kids under 2 free, teachers/military free. Imagination Station, 1 Discovery Way, Toledo. imaginationstationtoledo.org.

briefly happening... Celebrating Love at the Toledo Zoo “Vanimal- tine’s” Day

Bring the family to watch beloved zoo animals receive special Valentine’s Day gifts. At various times throughout the day, species-appropriate Valentine’s treats will be placed within certain animals’ exhibits. The treats will be encased in papier-mache, providing the animals with the opportunity to “use their senses to manipulate objects and engage in naturalistic behaviors.” The polar bears, reptiles, orangutans, elephants, vultures, primates, and birds will all receive Valentine’s gifts. So check the Toledo Zoo’s website for exact times and locations so that all of the family can watch as their favorite animals search for their surprise treat!

School Fundraiser with lots of “Pizza! Pizza!” One way to make sure students get involved in a school fundraiser is to include pizza in the description. Marco's Pizza is hosting a School Challenge that will keep hungry appetites happy. Participating schools register online and are listed on the Marco's Pizza Online Ordering Site. Every time family members and friends order online, they identify which school they are supporting with their order. Pizza points are earned for every online order placed and a point factor system will be determined to keep the competition fair despite different sizes of schools. The only thing left to do is tell your friends and family and host a pizza party they'll never forget. Keep the orders going and may the hungriest school win!

Admission and times: Feb. 15: 10:15am to 4pm

Admission free with zoo membership. $15/non-member adults. $12/children & seniors (Lucas county residents $2 discount) Half-price discount available online (valid until Feb 26). Toledo Zoo, 2 Hippo Way, Toledo. Visit toledozoo.org for more information.

Rescued Grey Seal on Exhibit at Toledo Zoo

The winning school of the Marco’s Pizza School Challenge will be awarded $10,000 and a pizza party for the ages! For more information, store locations and to place an order, visit marcos.com/toledo-school-fundraisers.

The Art of the Louvre’s Tuileries Garden “The Art of the Louvre’s Tuileries Garden” at Toledo Museum of Art will present more than 100 paintings, photographs, drawings and sculptures that showcase Paris’ famed Tuileries Garden. The exhibition includes works by some of the most celebrated artists from the 17th to 20th centuries, and it also honors the designer of Tuileries Garden, André Le Nôtre, who created the famous formal garden for Louis XIV (also known as Louis the Great or the Sun King). In addition to the exhibit itself, much of the museum’s educational programming will be connected to the Tuileries Garden exhibition and its impact on life and art. Bring your families to appreciate these beautiful works of art! Exhibit open from February 13 to May 11. Tuileries exhibition $8.50 for general, $5.50 for seniors/students, members free. Toledo Museum of Art, 2445 Monroe St., Toledo. Details for exhibits are available online at.toledomuseum.org.

A young grey seal is now on exhibit at the Toledo Zoo’s Arctic Encounter for all of the family to enjoy. Estimated to be only two years old, he arrived at the zoo through the National Marine Fisheries Service; which caught the seal in the wild and attempted to rehabilitate him. However, the young seal was not able to be released into the wild because he was accustomed to humans and had been eating fish from fishing lines, which could have eventually put him at risk as he aged (males can grow to more than 600 pounds and measure 10 feet or longer). With the help of the Zoo’s skilled team, the juvenile seal has settled comfortably into his new home at the Toledo Zoo. Now he just needs some visitors to brighten his day as he is “curious about people and his surroundings.” Zoo hours and more information available at www.toledozoo.org.

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Fighting the Stigma of Mental Illness with Education Robin Isenberg spreads understanding of mental illnes By Christine Holliday

Robin Isenberg, Director of the National Alliance on Mental Illness of Greater Toledo, would like to educate all community members about mental illness. “There is a stigma about mental illness and those who live with it, and that keeps us from understanding the prevalence of mental illness and the possibility of treating it,” she said. “Mental illness is a disorder that involves an imbalance in the brain. It’s not something anyone chooses, but we often treat the mentally ill as if they are bad. We wouldn’t do that to people who have other imbalances—like diabetes, for example. We shouldn’t do that to those with mental illness.” Her group, part of the National Alliance on Mental Illness, is a significant rg, Robin Isenbe resource in this area for families who want to or ect Dir ive cut NAMI Exe help and understand their loved ones struggling with depression, schizophrenia, ADHD, and behavior oppositional disorder, as well as other diagnoses. NAMI Toledo offers free classes with practical information about mental illness for those who need to know.

Classes to teach understanding

The Basic Class is geared toward parents or caregivers. The topics of the six-week course cover the ABC’s of mental illness, including medication, and the concept of providing self-empowerment. It is taught by parents who have family members with mental illness. The Family-to-Family class is a forum for any and all family members, including grandparents, siblings, and children of mentally ill parents, who want to help their loved ones. NAMI of Greater Toledo also offers support groups, recognizing the help family members can give each other. There is a specific support group for those 18-25 living with a mental illness. The African American Initiative Support group provides help for African American adults with a mental illness, and their family and friends. Ayuda (“Help”) is a group for Hispanics, and NAMI connection Recovery Support group is for adults with a mental illness, regardless of their diagnosis. These groups are led by individuals with personal experience. Isenberg notes, “We help each other by sharing our experiences and our feelings. We gain confidence in dealing with our family members’ mental illness and learn how to help them, too.” She invites calls about the classes and support groups at NAMI of Greater Toledo at 419-243-1119, or on their website, www.namitoledo.org or at their office at 2753 West Central Avenue, Toledo.

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THE LINES TWEEN advice for parents with children 10-16

Buttons, Magnets, Mirrors… The Possibilities Are Endless One 16-year-old proves there is no limit as long as you believe in yourself By Christina Cordova

If you’ve ever needed a kick in the pants, Claire Coder—junior at Southview High School and owner and founder of There’s a Badge for That—is the girl to give it to you. And not because she’s pushy, or bossy or any other term (inaccurately) applied to ambitious women, but because she is truly accomplished. On top of volunteering with youth organizations, interning at her local church, going on missions to Haiti, participating in both Toledo Rep’s and Southview’s theater groups, winning mock trials and STILL maintaining an outstanding GPA of 4.3, Claire manages to run her own business— and she’s only 16. The idea behind There’s a Badge for That was conceived when Claire’s grandmother gifted her with a button-making kit. Instead of writing the gift off as another one of Grandma’s attempts to keep her young, Claire saw the opportunity to present her friends and family with gifts that were truly one-of-a-kind. It didn’t take long for

Claire’s parents to realize that she was onto something. With a little encouragement from her mother and father, Claire’s buttons—with catchy phrases such as “Today is the day” and “Perfection is boring”—as well as magnets and compact mirrors (the most popular of which reads “Shut up. I think you’re gorgeous”) were on the market within a few short months. Now, almost a year later, her business is thriving. “I’ve been asked to badge portraits, wedding favors, business logos, name tags…People want me to do birthday parties and workshops.” When asked how she does it all, she replies, “It’s simple. I love what I do. I do what I love.” At 16, Claire seems to know more about business and life than most adults. When asked if she has any words of advice for aspiring entrepreneurs, she says, “As long as you have the inner self-confidence and passion, the possibilities are endless.”

You can find Claire’s clever badges at Schramm’s Flowers and Gifts, Embellish, The Keeper’s House, Sweet Cheeks and various art fairs across the city. Contact Claire Coder at claireannet@gmail.com or theresabadgeforthat.com/home.html.

Writing with power in their pens Eighth grade students at Maumee Valley Country Day are showing the community the “power of their pens” with their recent victory and outstanding performance in the National Novel Writing Month Challenge in November. Congratulations to the writers!

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healthy kids Heartsaver Pediatric First Aid Classes American Heart Association provides parents with the basics By Laura Blair

For every child with an allergy, asthma or a penchant for couch jumping, there is a parent or caregiver who needs basic first aid training. ProMedica has a class for parents and professional caregivers alike. The Heartsaver Pediatric First Aid class teaches basic first aid, CPR and automated external defibrillator skills. During the class, licensed American Heart Association instructors will teach participants basic first aid including how to stop bleeding, apply bandages, use an epinephrine auto injector and asthma care mask, treat burns and help a child that is choking. The class also covers how to react in medical and environmental emergencies. Classes are scheduled as needed, but they will be held for as few as two people. The class runs for six hours, and can be completed in one day or split over several days. There are no age restrictions for class participants, but they should be old enough to be able to perform chest compressions. Older children that can do chest compressions can participate, and younger children can observe and learn about first aid. This pediatric first aid class meets regulations and requirements for child care workers. Upon completion of the class, participants will receive a course completion card with a certification good for two years. Classes will be held at Toledo Hospital, and cost $55. For more information or to schedule a class, call CPR Rescue Training Center at 419-291-3053.

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Head Lice

Myth Busters and Solutions By Laura Reagan-Porras

Myth #5 - Head lice will go away in one 2. Comb out Winter months mean hats, scarves and protection from the cold by spend- day shampooing with over the counter pestiDo a thorough comb out ing more time indoors. Anytime kids are cides and will kill all lice and their eggs. immediately after the shamWhether you choose to go to a doctor poo, using a lice comb. Comb in close contact with one another, lice are possible, if not probable. Have no fear, the for a prescription shampoo or whether out after the initial shampoo you choose one or more of the numer- using a white crème rinse to lice myth busters are here! Myth #1 – Head lice infestations occur ous green products, thorough, consistent catch the bugs and eggs, called comb outs with a lice comb is required nits. (Our specialists have because of a lack of cleanliness. Head lice love clean hair! It is easier after the shampooing to remove all lice crème rinse recommendafor them to grip the base of the hair shaft and eggs. Follow up combings may be tions.) A lice comb has long so they can lay their eggs. According to required for 7 days, depending on the se- teeth and should be wiped the Center for Disease Control (CDC), lice verity of the infestation. with a white paper towfeed off a blood protein which they el after every combing obtain from biting the scalp. stroke to remove the lice The Facts the Myth #2 – Head lice are contractand nits from the comb. Head lice are small insects about is often ed from pets. Any darkness you see in size of a sesame seed. Diagnosis eggs. The CDC reports, head lice infesthe white liquid is a louse in one of made on the basis of finding lice brown tation, or pediculosis, is spread most its stages. The initial comb out may Eggs are tiny, grayish white, tan or shafts commonly by close person-to-person take up to 2 hours. Finish one small ovals that attach very tightly to hair h off contact. While head lice can be persection of hair at a time and move to in the hair. These eggs cannot was to effort ceived as contagious, head lice are the next section. or be blown away. It takes some once really human parasites. Pediatricians remove them from the hair shaft but 3. Repeat out, they use language like infestation rather removed by hand or by combing ugh Follow up comb outs should thro d foun than infection. Dogs, cats, and other be turn brown. Eggs may e take place. The specialists recomnap the at n see pets do not play a role in the transmisare n ofte out the hair, but the mend follow up comb outs. When at and ears sion of human lice. the ind beh k, nec of the and how often varies. Some say Myth #3 – Lice hop or fly from one crown of the head. comb outs should take place evinfected person to the other. ery day for 7 days after shampooHead lice multiply easily if there ing. Others say if the initial comb out was is close proximity to an affected person The Solution Sequence thorough, then another one is not needed or the brush, combs or hats of an affected While opinions and methodologies until the seventh day. All agree, follow up persons are shared. Head lice are spread vary somewhat, lice removal experts, is vital. most commonly from head to head conpharmacists and doctors agree with the tact. Head lice do not hop or fly. Lice have following basics. You may do it yourself 4. Head checks no hind legs to hop and no wings to fly. Since the life cycle of the louse is 14 or hire a lice removal specialist in your Head lice do crawl, quite rapidly at times area to do it for you and your child. They days, check your child’s head at the two and blend into the hair shaft very well. charge by the hour and some make house week mark from initial treatment in case Myth #4 – After a lice infestation you any lice remain. calls. Others have local salons. must mega-clean your house, top to bottom Prevention including steam the carpets and curtains and 1. Shampoo 1. Teach children to avoid burn the mattresses! Shampoo with a lice killTIP: A mixture of head to head contact. Housecleaning myths for lice eradica- ing shampoo. You may get a Pantene (conditioner) 2. Teach children not to share tion abound! Lice are not bedbugs. They prescription shampoo from and baking soda brushes, combs or hats. do not survive for long when off their a physician or use one of is an effective and 3. You may choose to use a host’s head. Lice have a 24 – 26 hour the green products recomcommon comb out preventative spray on your survival off a host’s head when removed mended on the specialists’ solution after using child’s head or hair spray from their blood supply so simple vacu- websites. Today’s lice are a prescription lice product. The odor acts as a uming will work to pick up bugs that resistant to over the counter killing shampoo or repellent to the lice and the have fallen off the head. pesticides. Avoid using them. green product.

consistency on the hair helps to prevent lice from latching onto the hair shaft. Lice are as common as the common cold. While they are frustrating and time consuming to deal with, they do not pose a serious health threat. Don’t panic! Get educated and get combing. Laura Reagan-Porras is a parenting journalist and mother of two daughters who have battled lice and lived to share the tale.

These local salons will help when/if the dreaded discovery that your child has lice becomes a reality: Bernadette’s Lice Removal Center

Operates in Toledo 440-946-5423 bernadettesliceremovalcenter.com Average cost of treatment: between $85-$90 Call Jeremy for any of your lice needs at 440-946-5423

Rapunzel

Operate in Toledo, OH 2525 N. Reynolds Rd. #6, Toledo 419-214-0414 Average cost of treatment: between $125-$145 Cost of having head checked: $10

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guide The ABC’s to the best education in the Toledo area

Our education guide is packed with options for your family to find great schools and local students chime in on what would make a perfect place to learn and grow!

Central Catholic High School

2550 Cherry St., Toledo • 419-255-2280 • www.centralcatholic.org Central Catholic High School, a co-educational college preparatory learning community, prepares students to excel academically, mature spiritually, grow socially and to engage in the Catholic intellectual tradition.

Christ the King School

4100 Harvest Ln., Toledo • 419-475-0909 • ckschool.org Christ the King, a Catholic K-8 elementary school in Toledo strives to incorporate our faith into every aspect of our day including exceptional academics along with our many extra-curricular activities. CK is the first school in Toledo to be a ‘Leader in Me’ school, which teaches leadership skills using The 7 Habits of Highly Effective People. We also boast 90 iPads with 90% of our classrooms outfitted with Apple TVs to enhance children’s learning experiences.

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806 Starr Ave., Toledo • 419-693-7550, ext. 211 educareacademy.com Their educational child development programs serve children ages 0-12 at ten convenient Toledo area locations. FOCUS: We are dedicated to providing the highest level of education and quality care. Our centers provide an enriching atmosphere for children to learn and play, providing parents with security and peace of mind. ABOVE AND BEYOND: Our qualified staff go above and beyond to deliver enhancement programs such as Baby Einstein Sign Language, Preschool and School Age Spanish, Read for Literacy, and Toledo Museum of Art Family Center visits. QUALITY STANDARDS: Our star rated programs are recognized by the Ohio Step Up to Quality system for offering high quality child development and educational services including kindergarten readiness, educational preschool, implementation of Creative Curriculum/Teaching Strategies Gold Assessments, and for employing a highly qualified staff.

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Gateway School

4650 W. Bancroft St., Toledo • 419-536-6503 • gatewaypre-k.com Gateway School is a nationally-accredited preschool and kindergarten. GOAL: “We teach to the individual,” says Dan O’Connor, owner and business manager. “We believe early childhood should be a time of fun, warmth, security, exploration, and discovery.” MAKING THE GRADE: Three star member of Step Up to Quality, Ohio’s voluntary quality rating system. DEVELOPING MINDS: Gateway’s curriculum focuses on social and emotional development, physical development, language arts, math, science and social studies.

Tenley Brown, Preschooler, Stepping Stones

In order to make preschool perfect, Tenley says, “I would make a real Christmas tree with lights there...and a new Christmas rug,” and she would make it “Christmas every day at my school!” Her favorite part of school is “When the teacher says it’s circle time, and everybody says, ‘Here!’”

G.O.A.L.

Green Options for Autism of Lucas County 1660 Amesbury Rd., Toledo • 419-250-0407 facebook.com/greenoptionsforautismoflucascounty G.O.A.L. provides a day/vocational program for young adults with autism and other developmental disabilities to develop job skills, an entrepreneurial spirit and self-determined job opportunities.

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SPECIAL ADVERTISING SECTION Izabella Kurtz, 3rd grader, Harvard Elementary Izabella would like to add a few things to the curriculum: “I would like to have more multiplication and more recess because to me, I’m really good at [math].” She adds that school would be better if there were “more challenges and definitely better lunches. The lunches are disgusting! When they do burgers, I call them barf burgers; that’s how disgusting they are!”

HOPE Learning Academy of Toledo 4324 Monroe St., Toledo • 419-297-6313 • hopelearningacademy.org

“The Perfect Place for Exceptional Learners” is an alternative K-8 tuition-free charter school with sensory and social skills-integration. HOPE PROMISE: We are committed to providing a rigorous academic education for the exceptional child with specialized learning needs in a non-traditional classroom setting. Our research proven curriculum, infused with social growth, sensory integration, and art enrichment, cultivates “self-reliance, critical thinking and problem solving skills”. TEACHING TO THE ABILITY: HOPE specializes in serving students identified with mild to moderate learning needs such as ADHD, FASD, Asperger’s Syndrome and Specific Learning Disabilities. Our students benefit from a learning environment with small class sizes that are immersed in sensory and social skills integration and a technology and art enriched curriculum centered on academic rigor and multi-sensory approach. PARENT POST: “I know that the staff are all motivated to see the kids succeed and will work hard to help each child as an individual to work towards their full potential.” ~HOPE Parent~

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Simon Sakowski, 5th grader, St Catherine’s

“If I could change one thing [about school] I would have no mean teachers...no more yelling! If I could add one thing about school, I would have there be doughnuts on our desks every morning.”

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James Meade Learning Center

4909 W. Sylvania Ave., Toledo • 419-843-5097 • jamesmeadelearningcenter.com Teachers are trained and understand early child development and meeting the individual needs of each child. JMLC maintains small teacher to child ratios in every classroom. Our teachers will encourage, support and teach your child through a variety of creative lessons designed for the interest and development of your child. We will strive together to nurture your child with consistent love, respect, honesty and integrity. We develop a relationship with each child that last beyond their years of early education.

Kids Unlimited Academy

Tuition free K-4 public charter school 2105 McCord Rd., Toledo • 419-725-5437 • kidsunlimitedacademy.org Kids Unlimited Academy commits to offering children in under-served areas the educational opportunities they need to reach their full potential by preparing them to graduate from high school. We will do this by helping them develop the necessary academic and social tools, along with a strong sense of values and character, within an atmosphere of love and respect. Kids Unlimited Academy fully supports the whole child in his/her pursuit of excellence in the four foundational domains of development: cognitive, social, emotional, and physical. These four domains comprise the essential building blocks of life-long success as a learner, worker, family and community member. Kids Unlimited Academy is more than a school; it is a community where students, teachers, families, administrators, board members, and the greater Toledo community work and learn together- to excel individually and collectively.

Makayla Brown, Kindergartener, Maplewood Elementary

Makayla likes being in kindergarten, but she would change one thing: “My classroom would be a princess room.” She says that school would be even better than it already is if she could “play with snails and puppies.” The best part of her day is “playing with the kitchen at recess,” which she then explains is actually “a toy kitchen.”

Lial Catholic School

5700 Davis Rd., Whitehouse • 419-877-5167 • lialschool.org This Catholic school for students beginning with readiness (4 and 5 year olds) through middle school (13 year olds) and creates a caring community while focusing on Gospel values in formation of the whole child. Students work at their own pace in multi-age groupings in open spaces for interaction among classrooms. The campus sits on 96 wooded acres. Voice and private piano lessons and Spanish are available during the day for all students. Parent volunteers make up an important part of the school’s culture, and are regular helpers in the classroom.

Jack Moorman, 1st grader, Luckey Elementary (Eastwood)

Jack doesn’t wish to change anything about school: “It’s perfect the way it is; there’s nothing wrong with it.” On second thought, he adds, “I want more recess because I play a lot in the playground.”

Bridget Stiger, Freshman, Northview High School

“If I could change something about school, I would decrease the number of tests we take, and I’d take away the fear of not having straight As. School could be improved by having teachers who enjoy what they do and are engaging with the students, rather than sitting at their desks all the time.”

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Maritime Academy

803 Water St., Toledo • 419-244-9999 • maritimeacademy.us MISSION: To provide cadets with individualized, national standards-based education that infuses nautical/maritime themes into traditional subjects. STUDENT SUCCESS: The academy’s Maritime Career Technical Education Program is the first and only in the State of Ohio and in the U.S. to cultivate a new generation of diverse mariners for the maritime industry. NEW FACILITY: Our new Maritime simulators for a unique high school-to-work Maritime Career Technical Education Program (CTE).

Maumee Valley Country Day School 1715 S. Reynolds Rd. • Toledo, OH • 419-381-1313 • mvcds.org

Maumee Valley Country Day School is an independent, co-educational college prep school for preschool through grade 12. Their mission is to enable students to become enlightened, compassionate and contributing citizens of our global community, while preparing graduates for their best opportunities in higher education. Maumee Valley attracts motivated, able students who have a range of academic interests and diverse backgrounds, and whose families value education. Its challenging curriculum, student centered school life, and supportive community inspire and equip students for a lifetime of learning.

Shiloh Reynolds, 8th grader, Springfield Middle School

“If we were able to change anything about school, I would want more hands-on experiences. I feel that many students spend a good chunk of their time at school sitting at a desk, taking notes or watching videos about the topic. Handson activities and experiments would allow students to be engaged in the topic, and learn much more... and make students less bored.”

Northwest Ohio Scholarship Fund The Northwest Ohio Scholarship Fund is accepting applications for its annual scholarship lottery for the 2014-2015 school year. If you reside in Lucas, Wood or Fulton County, your child could be selected to receive a need-based scholarship of up to $1,500 for private school or $500 for homeschool expenses for K-8. For more information and to apply, visit www.nosf.org or contact the NOSF office at (419) 720-7048. The deadline to apply is Friday, May 30, 2014.

Notre Dame Academy

3535 W. Sylvania Ave., Toledo •419-475-9359 ext. 3136 • nda.org Girls get a jumpstart on high school preparation at Notre Dame Junior Academy (NDJA). The seventh and eighth grade program encourages academic excellence, builds self-confidence, and enriches girls’ faith life and service to others. NDJA includes foreign language, classes taught by master teachers, an academic assist period, expanded math options, and one-to-one iPads. NDJA develops critical study and organizational skills for a college-prep high school. Accepting applications now, call 419-475-9359 ext. 3126 or go to nda.org.

Penta Career Center

9301 Buck Rd., Perrysburg • 419-666-1120 • pentacareercenter.org Penta offers career-technical programs for high school students in grades 10-12. Programs prepare students for immediate employment and further education. Students can choose to study a career in any of the following areas: agriculture & environmental systems; arts & communication; business; construction; education; health science; human services; hospitality; information technology; law & public safety; manufacturing; marketing; and transportation. Students benefit from opportunities such as: scholarships, college credits, early job placement, internships, certifications, and student organizations.

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Professional Skills Institute

1505 Holland Rd., Maumee • 419-720-6670 • proskills.com MISSION: Career education for a lifetime of success. DIVERSE: Professional Skills Institute proudly educates students from Northwest Ohio and Southeast Michigan. The result has been the placement of many graduates in rewarding professions such as Medical Assisting, Medical Billing and Coding, Physical Therapist Assisting and Practical Nursing. NEW FACILITY: Patricia Finch founded PSI in 1984 with just two students. Today, the student body has grown significantly and now resides in its newest location: a 60,000 square foot facility situated on 11 acres that includes larger labs for hands on experience. STUDENT SUCCESS: Upon successful completion of their program, students may earn a Diploma or an Associate of Applied Science Degree. Students are also eligible to take examinations for specific licensures. Currently, the Practical Nursing program boasts a 100% passage rate for students who have taken the NCLEXPN for the first time!

Jacob Reynolds, Junior, Springfield High School

“If I could change anything about school, I would get rid of grades. Learning should be about seeking knowledge and understanding. The current system is not even close to this. Tests do not show what a person knows.” Jacob would also start the school day later: “I think that a day more like a standard work day would be much appreciated by students. Teenagers like to stay up late and get up late.”

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St. Joseph’s School

5411 Main St., Sylvania • 419-882-6670 • stjosephschoolsylvania.org St. Joseph School Sylvania is an elementary school dedicated to Catholic faith formation and academic excellence. SJS is the only Catholic elementary school with two campuses – the west campus for preschool- grade 5 and the east campus for middle school students, grades 6- 8. Dedicated to educating the whole child, over half of our teaching staff has advanced degrees in education. Always open to the opportunities that new technology presents to classroom instruction, a 1:1 initiative will be introduced at the middle school in the fall of 2014. At SJS, there is a high level of parental support and involvement. Steadfast in the mission to grow students strong in mind and spirit, SJS is a ministry of St. Joseph’s Parish, also open to enrolling students who are non-parishioners and of alternative denomination

St. Patrick of Heatherdowns 4201 Heatherdowns Blvd., Toledo • 419-381-1775 school.stpatrickofheatherdowns.org

St. Patrick of Heatherdowns, a Roman Catholic school community, is committed to assisting families in educating their children spiritually, intellectually, emotionally, physically, and socially in a Christian environment.

Emma Brown, 7th grader, Perrysburg Junior High

“One thing I would change about school is the start time. It is especially hard when I have lots of homework and it keeps me up late.” Emma continues, “My favorite part of school is the hands-on stuff because we get to experience what the teachers are teaching, not just watch and listen to them tell us about it.”

St. Ursula Academy

4025 Indian Rd., Toledo • 419-531-1693 • toledosua.org SUA is an all-girls, Catholic, college preparatory school serving grades 6-12. MISSION: Since 1854, St. Ursula has been educating young women to develop their spiritual, intellectual, physical, and emotional well-being in light of the values found in the Gospel and reflected in the life of St. Angela Merici. IMPRESSIVE NUMBERS: 100% college acceptance; 14 AP and 16 honors courses; leadership opportunities in over 40 clubs. RECOGNIZED NATIONALLY: National and state championship-winning athletic teams, nationally recognized fine arts program, nationally recognized Science, Technology, Engineering and Mathematics (STEM) Team, and winner of the 2013 Jefferson Award for exceptional service.

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Toledo Public Schools

420 E. Manhattan Blvd., Toledo • 419-671-8263 • tps.org Toledo Public Schools’ mission is to produce competitive college and career ready graduates through a rigorous curriculum across all grade levels by implementing Ohio’s New Learning Standards with fidelity. TPS strives to be an ‘A-rated’ school district whose graduates are college and career ready.

Toledo Volleyball Club

2901 Key St., Maumee • 419-794-4656 • toledovolleyballclub.com SERVING IT UP: Toledo Volleyball Club is dedicated to teaching everything volleyball to ages 8 to 18. Skill levels include beginning to advanced levels. Private lessons and Strength & Jump Training are available in addition to local and travel teams. Individual Skill Camps & TeamClinic in summer and fall. PRESTIGIOUS ALUMNI: Lauren Paolini- All American and current member of the USA National team, Sarah Florian-Iceman- former Captain of the Junior National Team, Ashley Schatzle- All American, Ellen Herman2008 MAC Player of the year, All American Honorable Mention Rachelle Hagerty- 2005 Gatorade Player of the Year, Ashley Frazier- 2012 NCAA Senior Class Award Finalist.

TJ Borucki, Senior, Springfield High School

In order to improve school, TJ says, “I would change the ‘food’ they serve for lunch. Also, I think students should have more control over which core classes they take. Being in school would be a better experience if more people enjoyed their education.” He goes on to state, “My favorite thing about school is having a community of people whose job is to help students to learn and to make sure their lives are going well.”

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Take Aim Cupid The lowdown on love Mary Helen Darah

The last time I had a man sleep over at the house was due to a tumultuous storm; not one of passion, but of colliding air masses. Since the weather was inclement, and having an archaic value system—not to mention four young people-- under my roof, said male slept in the guest room. In the middle of the night I heard a knock at the door which I eventually opened. I looked down and saw a trail of what looked like small “cling-ons” from the Corgi (AKA fecal matter) in a straight line running down the hallway. I immediately went into sanitation mode and began picking up the little brown nuggets while simultaneously foam cleaning the carpet. It wasn’t until I picked up the last brown circular object that I realized three things. l. Corgis with two inch legs, although highly intelligent, are not capable of knocking on bedroom doors. 2. What I had picked up were actually dark chocolate Acai berries left in a directional pattern by the overnight male guest in a failed attempt of leading me to his room. 3. After two decades of parenting, I still don’t know the difference between chocolate and poop.

Actually, there is a fourth realization that I pondered that evening that tends to resurface around the day honoring St. Valentine. How has Cupid’s arrow zipped by me yet landed dead center—we’re talking perfect aim— in those around me? My grandparents for example, were together for over six decades. Gram tolerated my Pop’s lead foot, love of Molson, bass fishing and the ability to bring up a biblical quote to prove any point he was trying to make in subjects ranging from politics to why he neglected to take out the trash. My Pop’s love for my grandmother on the other hand, gave him the tolerance to accept her need for cleanliness. Through it all, including her chemical dependency-as in Clorox and Mr. Clean- their love remained strong. Even in their eighties, somehow Pops had the right “broom” that would continually sweep Gram off her feet. My parents have been married for fifty-five years. They can answer each other’s inquiries even with the slightest fragmented sentences, such as, “Sue where did I leave the…” followed by a “Bottom shelf right-hand side.” My Mom believes that my Dad was placed on this earth to get her moving and her purpose is to slow him

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down—a bit of Yin and Yang. My Dad has continually told me that the greatest gift a man can give his children is to love and respect their mother. He’s right. It has been, and is, a priceless present; the gift that keeps on giving. I also have countless other couples that prove that Cupid does have his act together. I observe my eclectic crew of coupled friends and try to figure out how they make it work. Observations of mutual respect, patience and forgiveness come to mind. However, my friend from New York, with thick accent, says it best, “You go into the relationship with both eyes open and shut one eye when necessary, to block out all the stuff that drives you just plain nuts.” Me? Well, I have been flying solo for so long I’d be like one of those old dogs who chases cars but wouldn’t know what to do if they caught one. I also have my so called “baggage” I happily carry with me stuffed with my cherished children, an aging Corgi and bundle of buddies that I will never “check” or place in the overhead compartment. Then there’s the whole Big “C”, breast cancer survivor thing. I wonder if there’s a manual out there on how or when to bring that into a casual dating experience. I guess I will spend this Valentine’s Day like I have before; being thankful for the love that I am surrounded by on a daily basis and secretly hoping that Cupid gets contact lenses and improves his aim.

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Watch me Grow!

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Mad Libs for Moms

Calling all creative minds to fill out our Mad Libs sheet and submit responses for a chance to win giveaways and prizes. Email editor@adamsstreetpublishing.com or mail to our office at 1120 Adams St., Toledo OH 43604. Also see our Facebook page to participate in the fun. May the most ridiculous answers win!

One Winter School Morning One cold winter morning ____________ (an animal) woke me up at _________ (a time in the morning). I was just about to hit my snooze button and I was trying to catch up on my __________ (funny name for sleep). ____________ (child’s name) said “Wake up ________ (nickname for “mom”)! It’s time for school! Let’s get going because my new teacher ____________ (female teacher’s name) is really a _____________ (cartoon character). I can’t wait to throw __________ (type of school supplies) at her. I hear she can’t resist __________ (-ing verb) it with her hands!” I whined and complained for ________ (amount of time), but eventually, I woke and started getting dressed. I wore __________ (color) _________ (pattern) with a very long _______________ (noun) attached to it. My outfit was hip! I knew my kids would love it. They were covered in ___________ (type of food) from the day before. I flipped over the door mat and yelled “_________!” (an exclamation phrase!”) I snatched a _________ (eating utensil) and had breakfast off of the floor! _______________ (number) minutes later, the bus came, and my kids were off to school. At home that day, I watched two really _______________ (adjective) TV shows. Then I had to start cleaning up and getting dinner ready. I made spaghetti, that’s a favorite at our house. When the kids got home, they told my husband and I what _______________ (plural noun) were, and when to use them. At snack and recess, they played tag. At gym, they were ____________ (“ing” verb) the basketballs into ________ (plural nouns). I thought it was a very ____________ (adjective) idea. After homework was completed and everyone cleaned up, it was time to _________ (verb). We needed to get to bed so we could be ready for the next day! Just before I was ready, I shouted, “_______________________ (excited phrase),” to my family! What a day! 24

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Waiting for Something to Happen A dad learns how to deal with expectations By Matthew Reger

As parents we live with expectations. There is expectation while waiting for children to arrive. There is the expectation placed on parents through family, friends and acquaintances in every aspect of parenting from birth to . . . well, I guess everything. Expectation comes from our hope to either replicate our childhood or to never do anything like our parents. Expectation can also be imposed through the myriad of parenting books, magazines and on-line posts. Within the context of some of those expectations – real and imagined– I have tried to find my way. The most recent expectation that vexed me was potty training. I will lay out all the actors in what I will call my own personal docudrama. First is my son, the subject of our story. He recently turned four and for at least six to eight months prior to his birthday we were actively potty training. He, well aware of our intent, had a different agenda. His favorite way to confound us was to disappear to some hidden place in our house or wherever we happened to be when the need arose. He would be playing, having fun and then suddenly he was gone. When we found him he would look up at us and say - in the same voice

as the girl in Poltergeist said “there here” – “I poooooooped!” My response to this was usually something along the lines of “Ugh!” clasping my hands to my head in frustration. I am the next character. I am the person waiting for an elevator to come who pushes the button a hundred times thinking it makes it come faster. I want this done now. I know I need to be patient. We had gone through this with our daughter, but she seemed to be much easier. This was reinforced by many people who told me, “girls are much easier with potty training”. Thank you for the help! We tried Cheerios in the potty; he had no interest. We tried rewards; they had limited success. Stickers were another attempt: that lasted for a while and then he forgot. I tried the lure of peeing with dad at the same time: not much of a motivator. Add to this mix two other characters: my parents. These two people have the best of intents when they ask: “Is Noah potty trained, yet?” or “what is taking so long?” but it sure doesn’t help. And how am I supposed to

challenge them? I don’t think they really remember potty training; in fact I am certain most parents don’t. Like most things that are difficult, that memory is forgotten once the task is accomplished. I have considered some of the methods used in training our puppy. She learned after a short time to wait at the door to go outside. It can’t be much different, right? Our final character is our heroine, my wife. She told me that “these things take time” and “he will get it when he wants to”. Not the best advice for a guy whose parents are abusing him about his failed parenting and who thinks this should come much faster. But because she is dealing with this on a day-to-day basis she knows best. Ultimately her patience has paid off and he is – for the most part – now trained. I have learned, once again, that the greatest expectation in parenting is patience and a willingness to work with your child’s own timetable.

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Love x 4 (+ 1)

Quadruplets more than doubled the size of this Swanton family By Nan Bauer If you ever run into Laura Baldwin, you’ll recognize her as the woman with quadruplets and an adorable 4-year-old girl. Here’s what NOT to say: “I know what that’s like. I have two kids that are 18 months apart.” Laura laughs when she tells that story, but partly because the mom of Madalyn, Reghan, Logan, Ryan, and their big sister Leah has heard it so often. “I kind of bite my tongue, but….well, if your kids are 18 months apart, you don’t know what it’s like! I don’t change a diaper, or even two. I change four. I don’t clean up spit-up, I clean it up four times.” Rewind to about a year ago. After trying for a year to conceive their second child with no luck, Laura, a bank teller at the time, and her husband Bill, an IT specialist, opted for a fertility treatment. Five weeks into the pregnancy, a 2 ½ hour ultrasound revealed quintuplets were on their way. (One baby was lost at 10 weeks.) “I cried. I was shaking the whole time,” said Laura. But, as practical problem solvers, she and Billy quickly began to take steps to make the jump from a family of three to one more than double that size. “Of course, I knew I would have to quit my job. Fortunately, we were already living in a four-bedroom home, so we had enough room.” The family’s excellent support system includes both Laura and Bill’s parents and other family members liv-

ing nearby. “We are SO scheduled,” says Laura. “Billy is amazing; I never go more than 2 days without getting a 6-hour stretch of sleep.” The quads are on a four-hour feeding schedule, and all sleep in the living room for now, each in his or her own crib; eventually, they’ll be two to a room. “They’ve become used to being together since they were in utero, and they like it that way,” says Laura. They also like their big sis, who’s an excellent helper. “Leah will sing to the kids, tell them stories, let me know if one spits up,” says Laura. “There’s a picture of all five of the kids on our Facebook page, and three of the babies are looking right at Leah. They know her and respond to her.” How to tell them apart? “Reghan’s very quiet; she has big brown eyes that are always staring at people, and so does her brother Ryan, who’s also very calm,” says Laura. “Madalyn, on the other hand, is not afraid to use her vocal cords! She lets you know when she wants something. Logan is a chunk! He has some acid reflux issues, so he needs a lot of attention right now.” Thanks to the Internet, the Baldwins have found every type of support, from advice from other multiple-kid families to fundraising. “Diapers are probably our big-

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gest expense. I go through 24-26 a day, and through a box of wipes every day and a half,” says Laura. A December event helped the Baldwins acquire a used van so that all four babies and Leah can comfortably and safely ride in one vehicle. But life with quads continues to be expensive, particularly with the Baldwins down to a single income, so fundraising is an ongoing process. Laura’s advice to other moms: “Stay calm and have patience. I wasn’t sure if I would have the patience to handle 4 babies plus a 4 year old. But once you’re thrown into it, you learn how to deal with it. You honestly almost have tunnel vision and block out all the extra stuff going on. I just concentrate on the babies.” Donations in any amount are welcome and can be made at this website: youcaring.com/other/ help-the-baldwin-quads-/104194

Rise and Shine, Toledo! Flippin’ over flapjacks at the original pancake house By: Karen L. Zickes

The Original Pancake House 3310 W. Central Ave. Toledo 43606 419-578-0342 Mon-Thur: 7a.m.-3p.m. Fri: 7a.m.-8p.m. Sat-Sun: 7a.m.-3p.m. www.ophtoledo.com

“Let’s go out for breakfast!” is always music to my ears. Unfortunately with our hectic schedule it is heard too infrequently. However, on a recent day off from school, the kids and I were anxious to get back to the Original Pancake House; as we had been away far too long.

Strong comeback after 2010 fire

Though I so love The Original Pancake House, which has been a Toledo staple since 1976, I regret to say I had not been in since their devastating fire in the fall of 2010. An electrical fire in the kitchen left the entire restaurant damaged. “After the fire they had to gut the entire restaurant except the brick”, said manager Candie Hayes. For over 10 months owners James and Rebecca Cowan worked to rebuild. To say they have a loyal following of customers would be an understatement. Their loyal following anxiously awaited the re-opening in 2011. I wasn’t sure what to expect upon entering, but when I did, I was so pleased the same feeling of hominess and warmth I had always felt remained. Though it is obviously new, with a brighter and updated interior, much of the brick and old wood was salvaged and used on interior walls. The décor maintained the feel of being in grandma’s kitchen. I strongly dislike the feel of a sterile restaurant with zero personality. I have always felt that atmosphere is half the experience.

Fabulous food and service

The interior may have changed over time, but the service and food they have always been known for remain a constant. On the menu it reads “Our staff is loaded with colorful personalities with hard work ethics ready to spoil you.” The owners refer to everyone as friends and family, not merely customers. The Cowans have two children in the Service, and every day of the week veterans receive 25% off their bill. Manager Ms. Hayes said she’s never worked for nicer people. It is no wonder, then, that they continue to receive so much support from the community during the rebuilding, and currently. The menu also mentions how they love kids and encourage you to bring them. They promise to always take care of the kids. As in the past, they continue to provide crayons and coloring books, and suckers on the way out. My boys were a tad rambunctious that

THE SHORT COURSE Kid-friendly: Yes, they love ‘em! To avoid wait: Before 11a.m. on weekends may be best Noise level: Moderate Bathroom amenities: Changing station High chairs? Yes Got milk? Yes Kids’ menu? Yes, and pancakes are always FREE!

day, but thankfully, our waitress didn’t seem to mind. I, on the other hand, was slowly losing patience and ever so grateful for those coloring books! The kids’ menu is for children 10 and under and offerings begin at $2.25 with drinks extra. If your children are anxious to sink their teeth into awesome buttermilk pancakes, they may do so for FREE every day. Just one adult entrée gets free pancakes for two children! You should know, however, that their buttermilk pancake varieties are made with peanut oil. Granted, they are some fabulous tasting pancakes, but those with allergies need to be aware.

Beyond the basics

Simply put, the menu is HUGE, and with everything made from scratch with only the finest ingredients, you find yourself wishing to try several things. Portions can be rather large so they even suggest ordering half portions, or eating family style. I ordered the regular size German pancake (which is colossal) and took half home for my dinner! There are 12 omelets to choose from, 13 Belgian waffles, 11 egg specialties, 15 pancake varieties and 14 crepes options. The menu continues with wonderful lunch selections. The apple pancake and German pancake are truly forces to be reckoned with, but I especially recommend trying the German pancake. You even make your own “paste” if you will, with fresh squeezed lemon juice, whipped butter, and powdered sugar. It’s a must try. My kids tried it, but preferred their omelets and pancakes instead. One day they’ll appreciate it more I’m sure. There is definitely something for everyone. If you are content with bacon and scrambled eggs, that’s fine, but if you are a foodie and want to expand your horizons, you found the right place! Bottom Line: There is a reason The Original Pancake House has been a Toledo staple since 1976. Their great food and fabulous wait staff have kept Toledoans returning time and time again. Patrons are like friends and family, and they have always gladly welcomed children. Treat your family and yourself to breakfast and remember kids eat FREE pancakes every day. Karen Zickes is a mom of three active children and freelance writer who resides in Holland, OH. She can be reached in c/o editor@toledoparent.com .

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Making Babies: Oh, the Glamour! By Lela Davidson I had my last baby when I was thirty. And when I say last, I mean that’s it. I won’t be one of those women taking prenatal vitamins and Boniva at the same time. I don’t have the energy. I waited until the ripe old age of twenty-eight to have my first child, then followed up with a second only twenty-two months later. I had to work quickly because way back then we were afraid to get pregnant after thirty-five. A lot has changed in the last ten years. Pregnancy over forty is now accepted and, if you believe the celebrity photos, easy. As I inch toward forty, the biological clock still ticks. Instead of, “have-a-babyhave-a-baby,” it now says, “just-one-more-just-one-more.” I fantasize that I’d do everything right this time. I would coordinate perfect outfits, offer only breast milk and homemade organic baby food, and bathe myself every day. I’d even blow out my hair and put on makeup. I indulge this dream for about a minute before I remember the sleepless nights, continuous feeding, and emotional extremes. Between post-partum, PMS, and perimenopause, I can’t imagine what older moms—even celebrities—are going through, but I suspect if you knocked on their doors at nine in the morning, they wouldn’t be red carpet ready. Despite the realities of baby rearing, glitz and ease is exactly what we see in those magazines we sneak read at the grocery checkout. People complain that Hollywood glamorizes young pregnancy by holding up Jamie Lynn Spears and Ashlee Simpson as role models, but I’m more offended by the forty-is-the-new-twenty-two celebrities that are selling us regular women a bill of goods. Gorgeous Naomi Watts gave birth to a second son at age forty. She claims to have lost all her baby weight breastfeeding. I’m sure it had nothing to do with her live-in personal chefs and trainers. Over-forty Australian actress Rachel Griffiths plays an American on Brothers and Sisters. She’s pregnant with her third baby and like our homegrown celebs, she has a penchant for unique names. She already named one son Banjo. Let’s hope age has wised her up. If not, she may end up with a cute little Fiddle or Harmonica. Desperate Housewife Marcia Cross gave birth to twin daughters at age forty-five. Seriously? At least she’ll be able to use her AARP travel discount to take them on their senior trip. Supermodel Stephanie Seymour had another baby at forty. Paparazzi caught her frolicking in the surf. Is it wrong to hate her? There’s not enough Pilates in the world to get me into a bikini post-childbirth—and I started young. Perhaps the wisest is none other than the daughter of the King himself, Lisa Marie Presley. She welcomed twin girls at age forty. She had the foresight to birth two other children sixteen and nineteen years ago, so now she’s got live-in childcare. Now that’s planning ahead. I’d love to see these A-listers before their morning triple tall latte. Show me the beautiful people frantically chasing down a toddler, try ing to get neon poop out of the carpet, and dripping in spit up. Then I’ll be impressed. My advice? If you’re planning to get pregnant over forty, do yourself a favor and cancel your subscription to People magazine. Lela Davidson is the author of Blacklisted from the PTA, and Who Peed on My Yoga Mat? She continues to practice yoga for strength, flexibility, and most of all, humility. Lela’s thoughts on marriage, motherhood, and life-after-40 have appeared in hundreds of magazines, websites, and anthologies.

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1 SATURDAY The Little Mermaid Jr. - A young mermaid, longing to escape the ocean, makes a deal with the sea witch, trading her melodic voice for a pair of legs. Also on February 2, 7, 8 & 9. Times vary, visit website. 7pm. $25, $15, $10, youth (15 & under). Croswell Opera House, 129 E. Maumee St., Adrian. 517-264-SHOW. croswell.org Toddler Art Classes: The Grouchy Ladybug - Toddlers and their parents will travel the journey of a bad-tempered ladybug in Eric Carle’s The Grouchy Ladybug and learn about the benefits of being nice. Registration required. 10am. $12.50. Lullaby Lane Baby Boutique at The Shops at Fallen Timbers, 3100 Main Suite 735, Maumee. 419-878-0127. lullabylane.com Play it Forward Used Toy Drive The Town Center will collect gently-used, still-working toys for children in Northwest Ohio who may not have been as fortunate this holiday season. Donations should be dropped off in front of the movie theater. Noon-6pm. Town Center at Levis Commons, 3201 Levis Commons Blvd., Perrysburg. 419-931-8888. shopleviscommons.com

3 MONDAY Valentine’s Day Fun - Drop in on this LOVEly day and create a valentine to give to your sweetie. 3:30-4:30pm. Locke Branch Library, 703 Miami St. 419-259-5310. toledolibrary.org Free

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4 TUESDAY Deep Down Underground - Join Maureen Schell of ECO Discovery! and take a look underground. Did the groundhog see his shadow? Who else is wintering beneath the cold ground? Enjoy winter animal stories and meet a true hibernator. 10am. Free for Sylvania residents. Olander Park: Gorman Nature Education Center, 6930 Sylvania Ave., Sylvania. 419-882-8313. olanderpark.com Partners in Fun: Zoo - Monkey around and create beautiful art projects. Recommended for 3-4 year olds with an adult. Registration required. 10-11am. $5. 577 Foundation, 577 E. Front St., Perrysburg. 419-872-0305. 577foundation.org

5 WEDNESDAY Be Mine Valentines - Make your loved ones feel extra special by making them valentines. 6:30pm. Free for Sylvania residents. Olander Park: Nederhouser Community Hall, 6930 Sylvania Ave., Sylvania. 419-882-8313. olanderpark.com eBooks from Your Library Featuring a demonstration of the OverDrive Media Console app, this class will guide you through navigating, borrowing, and downloading eMedia to a device or computer. Bring your compatible mobile device or laptop. 7-8:30pm. Oregon Branch, 3340 Dustin Rd., Oregon. 419-259-5250. toledolibrary.org continued on 30

Saturday, February 8 / The Toledo Zoo Join Junie B. Jones as she shares her “personal beeswax” in her first grade journal. Experience as she makes new friends, gets new glasses, participates in the annual kickball tournament, and gets involved in many other first grade plights. There will be funny songs, and first grade mischief based on the Junie B. Jones books. The show is February 8 at 2 and 4 pm. This is an hour-long show coming all the way from New York. Tickets can be purchased in person at the Zoo’s box office located inside Visitors Services. Reserved seating tickets for Toledo Zoo Members are $17, and for non-members, $18. The Toledo Zoo, 2 Hippo Way Toledo, OH 43609. 419-385-5721. toledozoo.org. —AC Photo by Carl Rosegg Illustration by Random House Children’s Books

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Perfect Little Planet Saturday, February 15 & Saturday, February 22 Aliens are invading the Lourdes University’s Appold Planetarium. But there’s no need to worry, they’re just passing through in search of the perfect vacation. Perfect Little Planet will take guests on a journey through the eyes of an alien family as they discover the most desirable vacation spots throughout the Universe. Join them as they fly though the fierce lightning storms on Jupiter, take a stroll on Mars, and swing by the rings of Saturn. Maybe you’ll discover your new favorite spot along with them. 7pm. Adults, $5/Children under 12 and Students, $4. Lourdes University, 6832 Convent Blvd., Sylvania. 419-517-8897. lourdes.edu/planetarium —AC continued from 29 Tie One On - Help UT pursue recognition from the Guinness Book of World Records for the most bow ties tied simultaneously, while helping raise funds for cancer research. Register at utoledo.edu/ tieoneon. The $100 donation includes a bow tie, ticket to the game, the reception and a chance to be a part of history. 7pm. $100. University of Toledo: John F. Savage Arena, 2801 W. Bancroft St. utoledo.edu

6 THURSDAY Sensory Friendly Family Movie Night - Enjoy the movie Turbo (rated PG), one free popcorn and one free drink. 5:45pm. Maumee Indoor Theatre, 601 Conant St., Maumee. 419-887-6233. Free 2014 Greater Toledo Auto Show Drive down and see the wide variety of automobiles on display. There will be hundreds of makes and models, including the latest innovations in transportation design and cool new featured vehicles. Through February 9. Seagate Convention Center, 410 Jefferson Ave. 419-255-3300. toledo-seagate.com

7 FRIDAY 2014 Professional Bull Riders Witness 40 of the world’s top athletes, followed by the men who dare to ride them. The Professional Bull Riders visit Toledo seeking valuable qualifying points for the finals. Also on February 8. 7:30pm. Huntington Center, 500 Jefferson Ave. 419-255-3300. huntingtoncentertoledo.com

8 SATURDAY Scientific Sweetness - In celebration of Valentine’s Day, come and taste for how sweet science can be with activities involving sugar. Through February 14. 10am-5pm. $8-$10. Imagination Station, 1 Discovery Way. 419-244-2674. imaginationstationtoledo.org 30

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eBooks from Your Library Featuring a demonstration of the OverDrive Media Console app, this class will guide you through navigating, borrowing, and downloading eMedia to a device or computer. Bring your compatible mobile device or laptop. 3:30-5pm. Main Library: McMaster Center, 325 Michigan Ave. 419-259-5200. toledolibrary.org Free Junie B. Jones - This is a fast-paced, funny, family friendly musical about new friends, new glasses, sugar cookies, and a kickball tournament. Based on the book by Barbara Park. 4pm. Members, $18/ Non-members, $17. Toledo Zoo Indoor Theatre, 2 Hippo Way. 419-389-6561. toledozoo.org 2014 Bowl for Kids’ Sake - Come to the biggest bowling party of the year, there will be snacks, prizes and you will be helping provide children with mentors through the Big Brothers Big Sisters program. Minimum team pledge, $250. 11am. New Glass Bowl Lanes, 5133 Telegraph Rd. 419-243-4600. bbbsnwo.org

10 MONDAY African Adventure - Come celebrate Black History Month with a creative craft time. 3:30pm. Locke Branch Library, 703 Miami St. 419-259-5310. toledolibrary.org Free

11 TUESDAY Partners in Fun: Valentine - Join in the fun and create a beautiful art project, maybe a Valentine for someone special. For ages 3-4 with an adult. Registration required. 10-11am. $5. 577 Foundation, 577 E. Front St., Perrysburg. 419-8720305. 577foundation.org

12 WEDNESDAY Arts Adventures: Holiday - Explore the holiday through music, story & a craft. This class is recommended for 2-5 year olds with a parent. Registration required. 10-10:45am. $10. 577 Foundation, 577 E. Front St., Perrysburg. 419-872-0305. 577foundation.org

13 THURSDAY Crazy Cool Art Class - Kids will have fun playing in the bounce houses, followed by an hour long painting class. All supplies provided. Also on February 27. 6-8pm. $35. Hero’s, 9851 Meridian Ct., Rossford. 419-873-9400. herostoledo.com eMagazines from your Library This demonstration will show the Library’s eMagazine service, and teach you how to save money, go green, and stay current with your favorite titles. Bring your laptop and/or compatible mobile device. 6:308pm. Main Library: McMaster Center, 325 Michigan Ave. 419-259-5200. toledolibrary.org Free

14 FRIDAY Love & Athletes in the Air - This Valentine’s Day party will be full of dancing, pizza, tumbling, face painting, and a bounce house. Moms and dads are welcome to join in on the fun. Ages 2+. 6-8pm. $10 pre-register/$15 at the door. City of Cheer GEMS Gym, 6022 Centers Dr., Holland. 419-705-8598. gemscheer.com

15 SATURDAY Titanic: The Artifact Exhibition This display will take you on a journey back in time to experience the legend of the “unsinkable” Titanic. The exhibit will feature real artifacts recovered from the ocean floor along with room re-creations and personal stories. Through June 15. 10am-5pm. $15.50-$19.50. Imagination Station, 1 Discovery Way. 419-244-2674. imaginationstationtoledo.org Charlotte’s Web - Enjoy the heartwarming story of the friendship between Wilbur, a pig, and Charlotte the little gray spider. You can also come to a barnyard picnic (at 12:30pm) before the show starts for an additional $15. 2pm. See website for show prices. Valentine Theatre, 400 N. Superior St. 419-242-2787. valentinetheatre.com

17 MONDAY Paper Towel Challenge - Teams will build an 18 inch tower made of newspaper and tape. All supplies will be provided. Towers built from home are also eligible for testing. Ages 18 and younger. Noon-4pm. $8-$10. Imagination Station, 1 Discovery Way. 419-244-2674. imaginationstationtoledo.org

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Flight Butterfly Exhibit - The Toledo Zoo kicks off it’s year-long celebration of flight by opening a butterfly free-flight exhibit. Butterflies flutter by as you and your family explore. Through March 2. 10am. Toledo Zoo, 2 Hippo Way. Free with zoo admission. 419-385-4040. toledozoo.org Free

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A Crafternoon at the Library! - Have fun making crafts and art projects. All supplies will be provided. 3:30-4:30pm. Toledo Public Library Locke Branch, 703 Miami St. 419-259-5310. toledolibrary.org Free

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After School Art Classes Children will learn about famous artists such as Van Gogh and then will create their own masterpieces. 3:30-4:30pm. $30 a month. Monclova Community Center, 8115 Monclova Rd., Monclova. 419-861-1336. monclovacommunitycenter.com

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Positively Portable Preschool - Parents can enjoy delicious coffee while their children play with toys, dance and socialize with peers. Designed for children ages 0-5. Black Kite Coffee, 2499 Collingwood Blvd. (at the corner of Delaware). 9-10:30am. 419-720-5820. facebook.com/BlackKiteCoffee Free

18 MONDAY National Engineering Week - Explore the design process and discover that creativity and imagination are essential skills for an engineer. Through February 23. 10am-5pm. $8-$10. Imagination Station, 1 Discovery Way. 419-244-2674. imaginationstationtoledo.org Feathered Friends - Join Maureen Schell as ECO Discovery! for a look at feathered friends. Find out which birds are here all winter and why, then try out real binoculars and do some birding. Eat like a bird, and meet a real bird for a close-up look. 10am. Free for Sylvania residents. Olander Park: Gorman Nature Education Center, 6930 Sylvania Ave., Sylvania. 419-882-8313. olanderpark.com continued on 32

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continued from pg 31 Partners in Fun: Teddy Bear - Have fun making a teddy bear and take him along on a picnic. Recommended for 3-4 year olds with an adult. Registration required. 10-11am. $5. 577 Foundation, 577 E. Front St., Perrysburg. 419-8720305. 577foundation.org

21 FRIDAY Early Learning Center: You and Your Child - Bring your child along for a visit of the beautiful campus. You will meet teachers and also explore the fantastic learning environment. 9:30am. Maumee Valley Country Day School, 1715 S. Reynolds Rd. 419-381-1313. mvcds.org

22 SATURDAY Kid’s Workshop: Cartooning & Animation - Kids will learning about basic cartooning and animation principles and then putting their skills together to create a story. Recommended for ages 9-15. $20. 2-4pm. Art Supply Depo, 29 S. St. Clair. 419-720-6462. artsupplydepo.com Healthy Child Healthy World Party - Learn about the various toxins and chemicals in our every day life and discuss ways to make the best decisions for your family. Bring spray bottles and jars to fill. 10am. Lullaby Lane Baby Boutique at The Shops at Fallen Timbers, 3100 Main St. Suite 735, Maumee. 419-878-0127. lullabylane.com Free

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Bowl For Kids’ Sake - Have fun bowling, winning prizes and enjoying snacks while supporting Big Brothers Big Sisters of Northwestern Ohio. Minimum team pledge of $250. 11am, 1:30pm & 4pm. Al-Mar Lanes, 1010 N. Main St., Bowling Green. 419-352-4637. Daddy Daughter Dance - Enjoy some great daddy daughter time! Formal Dress is optional. Girls ages 4 and up. $10 a family. 7pm. Vineyard Church, 210 E. South Boundary, Perrysburg. 419-215-0191. 10th Annual Seed Swap - Browse thousands of seeds and swap a variety of seeds with other gardeners. Other activities include informative workshops, gardening advice, children’s activities and more. Noon-3pm. Free. Woodward High School, 701 E. Central Ave. 419-671-6000.

24 MONDAY Explore the Titanic - Do you know what happened on April 15, 1912? Visit the Library for games and crafts based on the legendary liner. 3:30-4:30pm. Locke Branch Library, 703 Miami St. 419-2595310. toledolibrary.org Free

25 TUESDAY Partners in Fun: Dinosaurs - Want to meet some dinosaurs? Have fun creating beautiful art projects. Registration required. 10-11am. $5. 577 Foundation, 577 E. Front St., Perrysburg. 419-8720305. 577foundation.org

26 WEDNESDAY Arts Adventures: Colors - Have fun listening to music, a story and crafting. For 2-5 year olds with an adult. Registration required. 10-10:45am. $10. 577 Foundation, 577 E. Front St., Perrysburg. 419-872-0305. 577foundation.org

Art in the Park - Unwind after a long day and use your brain in a creative way with the whole family. 6:30pm. for Sylvania residents. Olander Park: Nederhouser Community Hall, 6930 Sylvania Ave., Sylvania. 419-882-8313. olanderpark.com Free

27 THURSDAY Spring To Life - Experience the magical wonder as the Nairobi Pavilion is transformed into a grand garden paradise where fairytales come true. Through March 2. The Toledo Zoo: Nairobi Pavilion, 2 Hippo Way. Prices vary, see website. 419-385-5721. toledozoo.org

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