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One big melting pot

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Newcomers' Club welcomes new friendships

Critter girl

Mother Mayhem deals with furry friends

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A mom who loves drama Lori Bott puts kids center stage

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departments 5 kids horoscope — by Sue Lovett

6 community snapshots 7 what’s briefly happening 8 exceptional families 17 calendar — compiled by Chloe Rothschild

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led with you being one that is labe Please forgive my first contact ated reci app rch family have enjoyed and “a concern.” Many in our chu . rdue ove long is years, and our thanks Findlay Area Family over the to ted star had you that ced k, we noti However, a couple issues bac current our in able and erst und is s ure. Thi run a kids’ horoscope as a feat ition. Some inated with this ancient superst fasc are ple peo y Man ure. cult asy. fant it as a harmless bit of take it seriously and some see Jewish wers of Jesus Christ and the follo , ness ous But in all seri and faith our to ical thet anti as y astrolog faith, as well, have long seen ing runn e wer k that our staff realized you world view. So the very wee e com Wel our from t to do and pulled it this feature, we discussed wha this to port sup our lend to our people and Center. We cannot offer this guidance for lly very dangerous bit of mis ntia pote but or min y seemingl our children. us a good y because our decision gives I’m sending this to you toda d inde rem re we’ e, issu ugh this month’s deal of pain. In looking thro mucom our in ilies fam the are offering of what a valuable tool you the good r removing the horoscope for side con se plea you uld Wo . nity share this to e tinu con we, specifically, may of these families and so that resource with our people? ration.

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16 food fight

Critter girl

Asian Grill

Getting upstaged by “fur balls” — by Mary Helen Darah

A taste of Japon and Korea in Findlay — by Rose Roccisano Barto

15 family planet

Humble object tells great story A worn table with lasting memories — by Rose Rocciano Barto

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Maternity

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Youtheater volunteer Lori Bott — by Laurie Wurth-Pressel

Editors note:

It saddens us that you will no longer offer our publication which we create to be a valuable resource for parents in the community. Findlay Area Family regrets that we cannot meet your request by removing the horoscope feature from our publication. While we realize that numerous faiths and beliefs vary on what they deem appropriate, the editorial content of our publication is controlled by the decisions of the publisher.

Although we pride ourselves on printing family appropriate material, it is not possible for our publication to meet the guidelines of everyone.

We leave the decision up to our readers to determine what they choose to enjoy in each issue.

Findlay Area Family

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To the Editor,

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Editors note:

We appreciate your candid and honest feedback.

As you mentioned, we are solely supported by advertising dollars. Our Summer Camp Guide is one of several special advertising sections that we run throughout the year. It is worth noting that Findlay Area Family's April issue pushed more copies than previous years—we saw fewer stacks on stands, and got more positive advertiser response. If a different approach evoked a more vibrant response from our readership, of course we would adopt it. We truly appreciate the direct feedback.

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By Sue Lovett The symbol for Cancer is the crab. They do hold onto whatever they pick up. They use both hands to grasp toys or the person who is holding them. They totally enjoy eating and are not fussy about food. They are delighted when being bathed. They are often known as “Mama’s boy or girl” and are extremely close to their mothers.

They are gentle and good with animals. They also tend to be moody, but the bad moods never last more than a few hours.

They like to help out in the kitchen. They are eager to go shopping, even helping select groceries.

When they are with other children they “take charge” of them and even are a bit bossy. They need a piggy bank to save money and they will empty it occasionally to count it.

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Flirt with the Dirt!

Want permission to play in the dirt? Get your chance at the fourth annual Flirt with Dirt 5K trail walk/run at Riverbend Recreation Area on July 13.

The event, organized by Blanchard Valley Hospital’s Rehab & Sports Medicine Program and the Hancock Park District, is a 3.1 mile USA Track & Field certified course that includes wood chipped and grassy areas.

There are areas of asphalt, but unlike typical 5K races most of the route is unpaved. Past participants have ranged in age from 8 to 93, and come from half a dozen states for the race.

“Eighty percent of it is on the walking and horse trails around Riverbend,” says Chris Webb, Director of Occupational Health and Rehabilitation Services at the hospital.

“That makes it harder. You’ll probably run slower in a trail race than on asphalt because it is uneven and you are turning a lot.”

Registration is $25, with race tees while supplies last. Awards by age group, raffle drawings and refreshments are part of the fun. A portion of the proceeds are donated to the Hancock Christian Clearinghouse and the patient scholarship fund at the Blanchard Valley Health Foundation.

Flirt with Dirt 5K, July 13 at Riverbend Recreation Area, 16618 TR 208. Registration begins at 7:30 a.m. and runners begin at 8:30 a.m. with walkers immediately after.

Registration is $25 on race day or online at www.bvhealthsystem.org.

For more information contact Webb at cwebb@bvhealthsystem.org.

Mazza July 4 Parade

Fly the flag proudly at the third annual Flag City July 4 parade in downtown Findlay.

The parade begins at the Marathon parking lot, continues on Lincoln and Main streets, and ends at the Hancock County War Memorial. Judging for floats and other units starts at 9:30am, with the parade stepping off at 11am. Organizers expect more than 60 parade units, from military vehicles to children, who are encouraged to decorate their bicycles and ride in the parade. Current and veteran military, police officers, firefighters and EMS personnel are invited to lead the patriotic parade.

“Our parade is open to everyone,” said Larry Halters of Mid Ohio Chiropractic & Acupuncture, an organizer and sponsor of the event along with Marathon Petroleum Corp. and other local businesses. “It’s a parade for Findlay, in Findlay.”

There is no fee for participating in the parade, but organizers ask that participants register beforehand.

For more information or to obtain an entry form, call 419-294-7037 or 419-306-9567 or visit Mid Ohio Chiropractic & Acupuncture, 239 S. Main St., Findlay

What do Pete the Cat, I Spy and Mrs. Chicken have in common? Their creators will be part of the 2013 Mazza Summer Conference at the Mazza Museum July 15-19.

The annual conference brings together a dozen award-winning authors and illustrators of children’s books. Attendees will get a sneak peek at their favorite characters and authors will be meeting the public and signing books. The conference, which last year attracted 350 people from 22 states, is geared towards adults, and is available for undergraduate and graduate credit or just for fun.

“Many of those who come are teachers and librarians, but many people come because of their love of children’s literature,” said Benjamin Sapp, museum director.

The conference will also include a writing session for those interested in becoming authors and illustrators of children’s books. Registration is recommended by July 7, but will be accepted up to the day of the conference as long as there is room. Registration ranges from $225 for all five days to $75 for one day. Fees vary for those taking the conference for educational credit. The conference will be held at the Mazza Museum, 300 College St. on the University of Findlay’s campus.

For more information or for registration forms visit www.findlay.edu/offices/ academic/mazzamuseum/Pages/Summer-Conference.aspx or call Benjamin E Sapp, director, Mazza Museum The University of Findlay at 419-434-4560.

Newcomers' Club lays out the welcome mat You don’t have to be new to Findlay to find friends at Newcomers’ Club of Findlay.

Despite its name, the club is for everyone— those new to town, those born here and everyone in between. Lana Frendo, club president, says the group, a ladies’ social club, is reaching out to gain new members.

“Really we are a big melting pot,” said Frendo. “We want to make sure people know we are open to any age group or people who have lived here any number of years. It’s a good way to spend some time and meet new people.”

Club activities include Bunco, coffees, playgroups, book club and nights out. Membership includes new and seasoned moms, professional women and those who are retired. Meetings and welcome coffees are scheduled at various times throughout the year.

For more information, visit www.findlaynewcomers.com or email findlaynewcomers@gmail.com

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Great artists in their own right Kan Du Studio encourages creativity for people of all abilities

By Laurie Wurth-Pressel Stars are born every day at Kan Du Studio in downtown Findlay—artistic, fresh and inspiring stars painted by “differently-abled” artists who express their creativity and confidence with each brush stroke.

Kan Du Studio, affiliated with the Blanchard Valley Center and Blanchard Valley Industries, opened in 2007 and moved to its downtown location at 329 South Main Street two years ago.

Approximately 38 adults with disabilities ranging from autism to cerebral palsy utilize the art studio to produce works of art that are sold to the general public. “It’s their job and they get paid for their work,” says Erika Clark, studio manager.

“They may be artists with disabilities, but they are great artists in their own right.”

Kan Du artists create whatever inspires them, including jewelry, pottery, sketches, garden stakes, oil paintings and more, says Clark. But in the spirit of Flag City U.S.A., the studio’s signature items are stars constructed from aluminum printer plates donated by The Courier newspaper.

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The production crew cleans and primes the plates and the artists work together to decorate and meld them into the star shape. Available in small, medium and large sizes for $30, $35 and $40 respectively, the stars can be customized based on the client’s interests. “We’ve created just about everything—from Ohio State Buckeye to Cleveland Indian stars,” says Clark.

Kan Du Studio is a fun, upbeat place to hang out. Artists create art at their own pace, taking breaks to socialize and dance.

But the best part is the transformative aspect of Kan Du Studio, says Clark. Artists grow in confidence and learn about responsi-

bility and accountability. “I’ve had artists cry when someone purchases their art because they are so excited and proud,” she says.

“They love Findlay and love feeling like they are a part of the community. Kan Du Studio opens up another part of life for them that they never experienced before.”

Kan Du Studio is open Monday through Friday from 9am to 3:30pm. For more information, visit their Facebook page at www.facebook.com/KanDuStudio.

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“Differently-abled” artists express their creativity at Kan Du Studio

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Mat ernity & Baby Guide

Toxic, baby?

Potentially toxic baby products and alternatives you can try

By Nadine Akra

With all the different baby products on the market, how do parents know what the best options are for their children? We interviewed Blanchard Valley Pediatrics physician Dr. Ami Orr to get the scoop on the all-natural baby product debate. “It’s important to have the least amount of toxins in your child’s environment,” Orr says. Here, a break down of what to buy, and what to pitch.

Baby Bottles

Although plastic baby bottles are lightweight, durable and most likely able to survive a temper tantrum after being thrown on the floor, there is concern that these bottles contain harmful materials. Among them is the chemical Bisphenol A (BPA), which has been linked to increased risks of prostate and breast cancers. Before running to the cabinet to throw away all of your plastic bottles, though, know this: research shows that the amount of exposure is too low to be considered an immediate health risk. However, researchers agree that alternative methods like breast-feeding are more beneficial for your baby.

Ask the Expert: “The bad thing about glass bottles is they break. But make sure that if you are purchasing plastic bottles, you are purchasing BPA-free bottles.

Also, I would not recommend microwaving anything because it creates warm spots and can burn you and the baby.”

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Glass bottles with a silicone sleeve

Not That Plastic bottles that require microwaving, which increase the rate of BPA release.

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Wooden and cotton toys are a better alternative to plastic, which include higher levels of dioxin and lead. Brands like Crocodile Creek and Green Toys are making the move toward non-toxic playing materials.

Baby Toys

B u y Th is

Even the toys that babies play with have potential to be harmful if parents are not conscience about toxic materials. Unfortunately, many baby toys have been found containing lead, dyes and glues. Even more unfortunately, babies tend to put everything in their mouths, which increases the exposure to these chemicals. It is nearly impossible to eliminate all hazardous toys from your baby’s playpen, but alternatives like wooden or cotton toys are a good start.

Ask the Expert: “Most importantly, make

Work it out Keeping fit during pregnancy

sure the toy is not a choking hazard. It is unrealistic that your baby will not have plastic toys, but I would suggest avoiding painted things.”

By Nadine Akra

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Many plastic toys that are on the market are potentially hazardous and should be limited,

B uy This

Some parents suggest using a flushable hybrid diaper, containing a disposable liner which is replaced in the cloth diaper. Also, chlorine-free disposable diapers and organic cotton reduce the amount of dioxin and pesticides used in the product.

Diapers The convenience of disposable diapers is unmatched, but unfortunately convenience isn’t the only factor in the diaper debate. Environmental awareness and health risks are topics of concern when parents are choosing diapers. Disposable diapers are irrefutably worse for the environment due to the use of plastic and raw materials.

Other local yoga locations: Harmony Yoga: Body, Mind & Soul, 1100 Suite C, Croy Dr, www.findlayharmonyyoga.com;

Ask the Expert: “Disposable

diapers are great for convenience and your baby will probably experience less diaper rash with disposable diapers. However, cloth is better for the environment. Either way, I always recommend buying name brand when it comes to diapers.”

Exercising during pregnancy has been found to have profound health benefits for both baby and mom. Unlike before, experts are encouraging pregnant women to be active, thanks to research that has proven the advantages of moving more, rather than less.

Most women can continue doing the same exercises they were doing prior to pregnancy. The important thing to remember is to find a happy medium.

Mommies-to-be should not turn into a couch potato for nine months, nor should they be training for the Olympics! Finding something that feels comfortable for your body and baby is the best way to go. Exercises like prenatal yoga build strength, help relieve aches, teach balance, open hips for childbirth, relieve anxiety and build a bond with your baby.

What mommy doesn’t want that? We talked to Melinda Williams, owner of Open Circle Yoga in Findlay, to get the details! Namaste! (Open Circle Yoga, 200 West Lima St, 419-427-9642, www. opencircleyoga.com) “Along with the physical and mental advantages, prenatal yoga builds a sense of community because we have other pregnant women to connect with. It involves a lot of strengthening and stretching, but we do very gentle practices. We also include maternal vibration sounds which are part of a visualization exercise and sort of meditation. As we inhale, draw in all things positive, healthy and nurturing.

And as we exhale, we release tension, stress and worry. It includes the body, mind and heart, making it a very wellbalanced practice.”

Core Fitness Ltd., 628 South Main St, 419-425-0269, www.corefitnesspilates.com.

Disposable diapers which contain high amounts of dye, fragrances and plastic, can have a negative impact on your baby.

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Baby Shampoo

“Tear free” shampoo sounds very enticing. It allows bath time to be a lot less dramatic — or does it? Research shows that the acidity level in these shampoos can be irritating to the skin and scalp and parents should try not to depend on them for harmony in the bathtub. Shampoos often contain harsh detergents, chemical fragrances and sometimes carcinogenic compounds. Ask your pediatrician if the shampoo you use has potentially harmful ingredients.

Ask the Expert: “Unscented baby shampoo. Always.”

B uy This Brands like Burt’s Bees are gentle enough for babies and are conscientious about using harsh chemicals.

Not That Major companies like Johnson & Johnson have admitted the need for more gentle ingredients in their baby products and are moving in the right direction. Check the ingredient list for chemicals like parabens, phthalates and sodium lauryl sulfate, which should be avoided.

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What I’ve learned

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Findlay moms weigh in with advice for new moms

By Nadine Akra

Michelle Hensel, Findlay Mother of Cara, 20, and Lauren, 14

“I am truly blessed to have two wonderful daughters.

As soon as I gave birth, all the pain, fear and insecurity vanished. Each day after that, you will grow to love them even more. I thank the Lord for granting me this privilege of being their mother.”

Dina Alammar, Findlay

Mother of Layelle, 6, Adam (not pictured), 4, Zach (not pictured), 2, and Ryan, 7 months

“With all the information there is available about having kids, it can drive you crazy. The best way to raise your child is by giving them lots of love. Parenting techniques will vary depending on you and your child and that’s okay. You know yourself and your child better than anyone else. Each baby is given to you as a gift to protect and cherish and shape into a member of an ever-growing, changing world.”

Nada Jordan, Findlay

Mother of Michael, 31, and George, 28

“I remember being scared when I had my first baby but always know that, if you rely on God, everything will be okay. That’s what helped me at the time. I prayed that I would be good at this next chapter of my life and I would know how to be a good mom. When I held my boys for the first time, those moments are the biggest joy of my life.

I always gave them my time and love. The most important thing you can do with your kids is love them unconditionally. ”

Mia Otto, Findlay

Mother of Blayze, 1

Emily Braithwaite, Findlay

Mother of Oliver, 1

“I had an easy pregnancy overall, but something I appreciated so much was having my family to go to when I had questions about anything. I come from a big family and both of my older sisters already have children so I was used to being around kids. That is important during an experience like pregnancy. Having someone you trust to answer questions makes a big difference.”

“From the moment I found out I was going to be a mother, I have grown on so many levels. My baby is one year old now and I’m still learning every day. Bringing a life into this world really made me realize the beauty of life and the beauty of a mother carrying her child for nine months. It’s an amazing feeling knowing a little person is relying on you to teach and mold and love them from the moment they are born. I never knew I could have so much pure love for someone and it is the most amazing feeling in the world.”

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Critter girl

Mother Mayhem reflects on the animals in her life (literally)

By Mary Helen Darah

I had the exhilarating experience of being the “Critter Girl” for an animal shelter. I have been an advocate for the humane treatment of all creatures since I was a child.

Of course, my family has had a few mishaps along the way. My grandparents would give their hyperactive dog a sedative to calm him down going across the border into Canada. They neglected to check who was responsible for the task and both ended up giving Spike the meds.

After getting through customs they stopped at the nearest park so he could relieve himself and the poor little guy tried to lift his leg and fell over. It wasn’t until I was 30 that I discovered that my pet rat (I got to keep the class’s experimental rodent for scoring the highest on a science test) did not die of natural causes as I was told.

I overheard my Mom relating how my dachshund got a hold of him and took him under my bed. Apparently, my Dad had to keep from getting sick as he swept up rat bits. I guess I shouldn’t judge, especially after roasting my hermit crabs by keeping the heat lamp on too long.

The next generation had a few issues too. My girls lost their slugs from Zoo camp in the back of our Chrysler minivan. Gee, I wonder if the people who bought that van ever found them. We even had a gold fish jump to its untimely death after seeing one of his buddies get sucked up the filter and the other float sideways on top of the water after my mom thought the tank needed a good spiffing up … with bleach.

Through it all, our pets have been a wonderful part of our lives. Being “Critter” girl seemed like it would be, as my friend from India would say, “a walk in the cake park.” It proved to be more challenging than I expected.

My first assignment was to plan and execute a pet photo session with Santa. Other than a few random “humpings” (I am referring to the dogs of course) everything was going fine until a woman, dressed in Chanel and heels, arrived with her two felines. She placed them on Santa’s lap. “Desiree, Prada, look at Mommy!” she chirped. A wand with a feather somehow materialized from her skin tight outfit. She then proceeded to “flit” around the room in her stilettoes in hopes of getting their attention.

It got ours. The poor cameraman was shaking so severely from trying to contain his laughter he looked like he was having a seizure.

As part of my responsibilities I had to appear on live TV weekly with animals from the shelter. I made the mistake of bringing a cat named “Pretty Pretty Princess” onto the show. To say I am near-sighted would be a gross understatement. Therefore, I did not see the “on-air light” when the weatherman said, “Today we have Pretty Pretty Princess with us,” to which I responded, “Dave, you really shouldn’t call me that in public.”

They say if you don’t want to be upstaged do not work with kids or animals. I have done both on a regular basis.

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other Mayhem. engagement. “What to do with unwanted amorous attention from large mammals” is nowhere to be found in my “Public Speaking for Dummies” manual.

I must say, being “Critter Girl” was very similar to my role as a mom. You get slimed, you have to clean up messes (BTW you don’t know MESS until a Bull Mastiff drools on your annual budget report) and it seems you are in one constant state of feeding hungry mouths.

Occasionally your heart breaks. As with my children, my “critters” keep a constant residence in my heart. Maybe seeing my “fur balls” go off to their newly adopted homes prepared me in some way with having to deal with watching my kids head out of my “shelter” and into the big world. MAYBE.

Humble object shares story A worn table with lasting memories

By Rose Roccisano Barto

Every family has a great story surrounding an otherwise ordinary object.

My sister and I would tease each other that our inheritance was a beatenup white enamel pan that in places was worn down to bare metal. For decades it was used to marinate steaks before grilling, starting with my father and continuing through my brother-in-law. I honestly don’t remember my childhood without that pan. Until, alas, my mother ruined it in the oven after we all moved out. That pan— and the memories of countless family cookouts - kept us smiling through the sometimes painful process of cleaning out the house after my mother died. As we each took simple things that meant a lot—from the 50s kitsch living room lamp to the gigantic breadboard— we joked that we wished we had that metal pan to fight over.

Now, in my own house, there is something that tells the story of us. For some people, it is the door frame they measured their children against while growing up.

In our family, it’s our pine kitchen table.

There is nothing fancy about the table. We bought it 15 years ago when we moved to Findlay. For several years it remained unscratched and pristine and, frankly, unused.

Then our girls came home.

At first it was a little ding here and there. Still in my new mother phase, I put a vinyl tablecloth on it. Eventually, though, I surrendered to the fact that this table was going to be the scene of coloring, crafts, baking and homework. It is the center not only of the kitchen but our home.

Easter egg coloring? There’s a stain for that. Projects involving glue, paper and crayons? Remnants remain. The poor table has also seen its share of pointe shoe pounding, wet laundry and other atrocities that have left it battle scarred but still standing.

One of the funniest pieces of graffiti is inside one of the little drawers. It says “I hate homework— be aware of.” I have my suspicions about which daughter wrote that. It was during a time when she first realized she would always get homework. Some was worthwhile and some was not, but she had to do it anyway. She made a turnaround that year from marginal student to mostly A’s. I don’t have the heart to erase it because it says a lot about her and the person she has become.

I wouldn’t repair any of the minor damage on my table. Its scratches, gouges and marks tell the story of a family that happened when we thought it never would. At this point I don’t even want a new kitchen table. How can I give up what has become not only a member of the family but its storyteller?

I will keep my beaten-up table, with its uneven surface and imperfect finish that took years to create. It’s a lot like our family, actually— imperfect but somehow just right. And maybe someday my girls will look at it and see only the good times that were had around it. Whether it’s a scratched enamel pan or a scratched kitchen table, sometimes the humblest of objects is the one that tells the greatest story. That story, I hope, will be their true inheritance.

An old table becomes member of the family and storyteller

Fun Facts

For the Botts, volunteering is a family affair

Life is a theater

Lori Bott finds inspiration in Youtheatre volunteer work

By Laurie Wurth-Pressel

Who: Lori Bott Kids: Marshall, 11; Landon, 14;

Garret, 16 and Carter, 19

Husband: Allen; the high school

sweethearts have been married for 26 years.

Favorite show: Les Miserable —

“It’s always fantastic no matter how many times you see it.”

Favorite hangout: Her backyard around the fire pit

“Many hands make light work” is Lori Favorite Findlay restaurant: Rancho Bott’s mantra. Raising four active boys ages, Fiesta 11, 14, 16, and 19, she repeats the phrase freFavorite quote: “The most certain quently, teaching her sons to lend a helping way to succeed is always to try hand at home and in the community. just one more time." —Thomas For the past four years, Bott, her husEDISON band, Allen, and their four boys have volunteered with Youtheatre through The Arts Partnership of Findlay/Hancock County.

Their involvement began when Bott’s third son discovered his passion for the performing arts. Although her four boys have diverse interests, they support one another, whether it’s attending soccer tournaments or painting scenery for a show. “Volunteerism is a huge lesson to teach kids,” says Bott. “They learn that helping out is its own reward, even if you don’t directly benefit.”

Bott, a global procurement contract rep at Marathon Petroleum Company, plays a central role at Youtheatre. She serves on the Steering Committee, a volunteer group charged with overseeing all aspects of Youtheatre’s operations, from programming to publicity.

“So many of the typical extracurricular activities are geared toward sports,” says Bott. “Youtheatre is a wonderful outlet for Hancock County kids who don’t necessarily lean that way. It gives them a chance to find their spark, be a part of a team and to express themselves in a unique way.”

Youtheatre serves approximately 325 youth in Hancock County each year with programs that inspire and promote an appreciation for the arts. From workshops, to theatre productions, to a summer performing arts camp, Youtheatre helps young people hone skills in acting, dancing, writing, costume design and more.

Bott volunteers with Youtheatre because she enjoys seeing productions come together and the excitement on the kids’ faces. She has also witnessed her sons, and other kids, blossom through their participation in the performing arts. They gain confidence and learn about teamwork, problem solving and creativity. “These are skills they can take with them no matter where they go in life,” she says. “There are so many talented kids in Hancock County,” she adds.

“Being involved in Youtheatre has been a really rewarding experience for the whole family.”

For more information about Youtheatre, visit www.artspartnership.com/youtheatre.

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THE SHORT COURSE Kid-friendly Yes To avoid the wait Consider calling ahead for takeout Noise level Fine Bathroom amenities No changing tables High chairs Yes Got milk? No, but cranberry and blueberry juices are available as well as lemonade Kid’s menu? No Anything healthy for the kids?

Lots of sushi and salad options Food allergy concerns? As always, ask

A taste of Japan and Korea Asian Grill offers artfully crafted cuisine

Asian Grill

by Rose Roccisano Barto

1813 Tiffin Ave. 419-420-8080 Hours: Monday through Thursday: 11am to 9:30pm Friday and Saturday: 11am to 10pm Closed Sundays Takeout available I grew up in a family that ate foods that were out of the norm. My parents never made me eat the strange things they cooked —you could smell the tripe boiling three houses away— but I’m sure it disappointed them a bit that I wouldn’t even try it.

Now that I am a parent, I understand.

It’s important to encourage your child to try new things, to venture beyond chicken nuggets. In the spirit of “try it, you might like it,” we recently had dinner at Asian Grill, a Japanese and Korean restaurant at 1813 Tiffin Ave. My older daughter has gotten better about trying new things, and my younger daughter has always been willing to try anything.

At the Asian Grill, however, they were temporarily stumped— in a good way— about what to order. We are admittedly

not adventurous eaters. Our gustatory gamut ranges from Italian to Chinese, with a little Mexican cuisine thrown in.

The Asian Grill offers Korean, Japanese and sushi dishes that happily pulled us out of our comfort zones. The options ranged from esoteric items like eel and squid to more familiar offerings that included beef, chicken and pork. It was hard to narrow it down, so we got several entrees to share.

The dinner portion of chicken teriyaki ($12.50) was broiled chicken with teriyaki sauce and vegetables over rice.

The lunch portion salmon teriyaki ($9.95) continued the theme with the sweet garlic-y sauce. The youngest, probably the most adventurous of us all, chose the lunch portion of yakisoba noodles with shrimp ($9.95), a stir-fry dish that included vegetables. I was happy to see several vegetarian options, including tofu and vegetable-based dishes. I finally decided on the dinner portion of vegetarian sushi rolls ($13.50) that included avocado, cucumber, rice and other vegetables.

We were served small side salads with ginger dressing, very yummy and sweet, and miso soup. The three carnivores agreed that the chicken and salmon were very good, as were the noodles. I was just fine that they were too full to sample my sushi rolls, which were tasty and artfully crafted. Word to the wise: The wasabi adds a punch but the horseradish taste is very strong. You have been warned.

No dinner is complete without dessert, and the Asian Grill didn’t disappoint. We tried the tempura ice cream, a lightly battered and fried treat. We added strawberry and mango Mochi ice cream, a Japanese ice cream that is made from a smooth and sweet, pounded sticky rice covering, surrounding an ice cream filling.

Our mission in going to the Asian Grill was to move beyond our

usual and try something new, even if we didn’t know what it was. We left curious about what we didn’t try, and plan to return soon.

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July 2013 1 MONDAY Open Studio - Awakening Minds Art is holding an Open Studio time. During this time individuals may explore their own creativity. 12-2pm. $10. Awakening Minds Art, 515 S. Main St. 419-3023892. www.awakeningmindsart.org Discovery Story: “Fin”tastic Fish Program includes a story, inside activities, and a craft. Recommended for children 3 to 6 years old with an adult companion.

Other aged siblings welcome. 10am; 1pm; 7pm. Free. Oakwoods Nature Preserve, “Doc” Phillips Discovery Center, 1400 Oakwoods Ln. 419-425-7275. www.hancockparks.com

2 TUESDAY Dig Into Reading - Children, kindergarten and under, will enjoy stories, songs and a simple craft. Parents / caregivers must stay with child.10:30-11:30am.

Free. Findlay-Hancock County Public Library, 206 Broadway St. 419-422-1712. www.findlay.lib.oh.us

3 WEDNESDAY Art in Music - Make a musical instrument, learn about it, and learn to play it. Children of all ages and abilities are welcome. Wednesdays, 6-7pm. $10 (First Wednesday of the month is free).

Awakening Minds Art, 515 S. Main St. 419-302-3892. www.awakeningmindsart.org

4th of July Fireworks & Events 7/3 Findlay - Hancock County Fairgrounds Perrysburg/Maumee Star Spangled Banner Celebration & Fireworks - Ft. Meigs Bowling Green - BGSU Intramural Fields

7/4 Toledo Red White and Kaboom - Promenade Park, Festival Park, and International Park Fostoria - Meadowlark Park Fremont - Rodger Young Park Lima - Faurot Park Napoleon - Glenwood Park Tiffin - Hedges-Boyer Park

7/5 Village of Whitehouse Founders Day Celebration Whitehouse Village Hall

7/6 Village of McComb McComb Village Park

Wednesday. July 3

City of Findlay 4th of July Fireworks & Parade

The City of Findlay celebrates Independence Day with a family friendly event that ends with a bang! Gather the kids, pack your lawn chairs and blankets and come out to Hancock County Fairgrounds to honor our nation’s freedom with delicious food, music and fireworks. Two stages will feature the best local rock and gospel acts around and there will be pony rides and other activities for the little ones. The celebration continues the next morning at 11am with the annual July 4th Parade down Main Street to the Hancock County War Memorial. Catch floats, bands, bicycles, military personnel, veterans, police officers, firefighters and EMS personnel and more. Fireworks, 4-11pm. Parade, 11am1pm. Hancock County Fairgrounds, 1017 E. Sandusky St. —JG

4 THURSDAY Fourth of July Holiday - During a special Naturalization Ceremony guests will have the opportunity to celebrate as 46 people become new U.S. citizens on our nation’s birthday—with other activities planned including special music, oldfashioned games and a fun Gettysburg Address activity. Sauder Village, 22611 State Route 2, Archbold. 800-590-9755. www.saudervillage.org

6 SATURDAY Fiddle Contest - Fiddlers from the tristate region gather to compete at Sauder Village. Each contestant will have five minutes to perform a hoedown and a waltz using old time style and techniques.

10am-5pm. $15 adult / $8 student / Free, 5 & under. Sauder Village, 22611 State Route 2, Archbold. 800-590-9755. www.saudervillage.org Cont. on pg 18

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MONDAY-FRIDAY

Mom & Tot Skate, Bring the little ones to the Cube for open ice skating Monday-Friday. 10am-11am. $2 child/$3 adult skates included.

The CUBE, 3430 N. Main St. 419-424-7176. www.findlayohio.com

TUESDAYS & THURSDAYS

Story Time, Hear stories with songs and a simple craft. For all ages. 10:3011:30am. Free. Findlay-Hancock County Public Library, 206 Broadway St. 419422-1712. www.findlaylibrary.org

TUESDAYS

Starflight First Grade Trail Starter, Camp Fire USA connects children and families with caring, trained adults in an intimate group atmosphere through our club programs. first and third Tuesdays.

3:30-4:30pm. $15. 733 Wyandot St. 419-422-5415. www.campfireusa-nwohio.com

WEDNESDAYS

Toddler Art Zone, Includes a story, art project and music. For ages one to four.

11:30am-12:15pm. $5-$10. YMCA, Downtown Branch, 300 E. Lincoln St. 419-422-8249. www.findlayymca.org

THURSDAYS

Jr. Teens in Action, This is for children grades six to eight. Curriculum is based on the Five Trails of Camp Fire USA. The Trail to Knowing Me. The Trail to Family and Community. The Trail to Creativity. The Trail to the Environment.

The Trail to the Future. 5:30–6:30pm.

Camp Fire USA, 305 W. Hardin St. 419-422-5415. www.campfireusa-nwohio.com

FRIDAYS

Baby Story Time, Infants birth-36 months will enjoy simple stories, rhymes, music, puppets, movement for the youngest learners. 9:30am. Free. FindlayHancock County Public Library, 206 Broadway St. 419-422-1712. www.findlaylibrary.org

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8 MONDAY Princess Parade - Become an official princess and join in the fun for the royal events of dancing, crafts, games, stories, etiquette class and a tea party.

Parents are invited to watch the crowning ceremony and watch their daughter perform the dances they have learned from 11-11:30am. For girls 3-6 years old.

Registration required. July 8-11, 9:3011:30am. $30 members / $40 nonmembers. Downtown Findlay YMCA, 300 E Lincoln St. 419-422-4424. www.findlayymca.org

10 WEDNESDAY Herps - Learn more about the reptiles and amphibians found in Ohio with a PowerPoint program. You’ll then have time to participate in activities and crafts and take a closer look at the herps housed at the Discovery Center. 7-8pm.

Free. Oakwoods Nature Preserve,1400 Oakwoods Ln. 419-425-7275. www.hancockparks.com

12 FRIDAY Planetarium Night: Summer Constellations - Come to the park and learn how to identify the summer constellations. Recommended for ages 5 and older. Participants must sit on floor. Must register by Thursday, July 11. 7-8pm.

Free. Oakwood Nature Preserve,1400 Oakwoods Ln. 419-425-7275. www.hancockparks.com The Secret Garden - This Summer’s youtheatre camp features the production of ”The Secret Garden.” After the end of a week-long camp the young campgoers put on a play for the public. 4pm & 6pm. $5 adult / $3 student. First Presbyterian Church, 2330 South Main St. 419-4224624. www.artspartnership.com

19 FRIDAY The 21st Annual Fostoria Glass Heritage Festival - Celebrate the community of Fostoria with games, rides, food & drinks, live music, craft & antique shows, and many more family-friendly activities. Friday, 5-11pm; Saturday, 9:30am-11pm. 213 South Main St., Downtown Fostoria.

Toy Story Movie Series - Come to the library and watch the Toy Story movie series.1:30-3pm. Free. Findlay-Hancock County Public Library, Lindamood Room, 206 Broadway St. 419-422-1712. www.findlay.lib.oh.us

21 SUNDAY Hands-On Nature: Ohio Birds Learn about the birds you can see in your backyard and around Ohio. Enjoy some bird related crafts and activities for the whole family. Come for a nature hike at 2pm to look for birds along the trail.

1-4pm. Free. Oakwoods Nature Preserve, 1400 Oakwoods Ln. 419-425-7275. www.hancockparks.com

22 MONDAY “Digging into the Past” Archeology Camp - Students in 3rd-5th grade will learn about archeological methodology and will be given the chance to create their own pieces of history. Snacks are provided. Be sure to make a reservation.

July 22-26. 10am-12pm. $50 members /$60 non-members. Hancock Historical Museum, 422 W. Sandusky St. 419-4234433. www.hancockhistoricalmuseum.org 18

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All’s “Fair” in the summer!

It’s summer and that means it’s County Fair Season! Plan a fair itinerary and take the family out to experience the fun and tradition that showcases all the great counties that make up Northwest Ohio. Each fair includes all the classic activities such as livestock & 4H competitions, horse shows, rodeos, demolition derbies, live music, midway rides, carnival games and, of course, all the delicious summer fair food!

7/9-14 155th Annual Lucas County Fair - Tuesday-Thursday, 11am-10pm; Friday-

Saturday, 11am-11pm; Sunday, 11am-8pm. $6 / Free, children 5 and under. Lucas County Fairgrounds, 1406 Key St., Maumee.

419-893-2127. www.lucascountyfair.com

7/20-28 171st Annual Seneca County Fair - Go online for hours and activity schedule.

Seneca County Fairgrounds, 100 Hopewell Ave., Tiffin. 419-447-7888. www.senecacountyfair.org

Wee Ones: Marvelous Mud Program includes a story, activities and a craft. Recommended for children 3 years old and under with an adult companion.

Other aged siblings welcome. Suggested items to bring: swim diaper, change of clothes, towel, etc. 10am; 2pm & 7pm. Free. Oakwoods Nature Preserve“Doc” Phillips Discovery Center, 1400 Oakwoods Ln. 419-425-7275. www.hancockparks.com

24 WEDNESDAY Amazing Arthropods! - Kids will be able to find out what the difference is between insects and spiders and where critters like millipedes and rolypoly’s fit in. Exploration will take place in the forest and prairie to find them first hand. Participants are required to be ages 6-8. This is a drop off program.

Emergency medical forms online. Register

by Friday, July 19. 8am-12pm. $2 per child. Oakwoods Nature Preserve, “Doc” Phillips Discovery Center, 1400 Oakwoods Ln. 419-425-7275. www.hancockparks.com

27 SATURDAY North Baltimore Summer Fest - The day begins with a 5K race, a fishing derby and a golf tournament. In between enjoy live music, food, rides, and more fun! The day ends with a spectacular display of fireworks at the North Baltimore Village Park. Check activities for times and ages. Main Street in North Baltimore, 205 N. Main St., North Baltimore. Cost dependent on activity. 419-348-1051. www.nbacc.org

7/29-8/5 140th Annual Wood County Fair -

Entertainment on Saturday, August 3 is the one and only The Beach Boys! Monday-Thursday & Sunday, 8am-11pm; Friday & Saturday, 8am-12am; Monday, August 5, 8am-9pm. $6 / Free, children nine and under. Wood County Fairgrounds, 13800 W. Poe Rd., Bowling Green. 419-352-0441. www.woodcounty-fair.com

29 MONDAY Stargazing - Participants will look for constellations that are prevalent in the late July sky as well as any planets that can be seen. In case of cloudy skies, a short star program will take place in the barn followed by a hike. Participants must be 10 years old and up. No fee, but register by Thursday, July 25. Bring binoculars. 9pm.

Free. Litzenberg Memorial Woods, 6100 U.S. Route 224. 419-425-7275. www.hancockparks.com

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