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Be Your Best

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Learn at Home

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Fall Getaways Adventures and day trips

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Medical Advice

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The first three quarters of 2020 have been difficult.

As we near the last quarter of the calendar, we are still battling coronavirus, looking for ways to ensure a fair and just future for everyone, and trying to put peace into our lives.

Most of us are still spending much of our time at home, to avoid exposure to the virus. Weary and lonely, many are looking to break this trend.

We have written about ways to educate yourself from crafts to finance and ideas for short fall travel trips.

To further help combat coronavirus fatigue, in this issue, we introduce two new MLiving columns: Classic Movies and Recipes, to be fun and supplemented weekly in our Thursday Newsletter (go to our website and sign up if you do not already receive our newsletter).

Voting is an activity to help make a fair and just future. We have helpful voting information; If you will vote by mail, pay attention to the cut-off dates.

In voting, as in life, the early bird gets the worm and the “I’ll do it tomorrow” mentality might mean your vote will not be counted.

We all have health concerns and often feel like our doctors don’t listen. In this issue, a guest writer, Rekha Talla, MD, gives tips on how to communicate to gain your doctor’s attention.

In this issue, some probate concerns are addressed by a probate attorney. Also, we have tips for preparing a home for persons with physical disabilities.

There is lots more in this issue, so grab a cup of coffee, and enjoy!

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United Way Selects New Wood County Area Director United Way of Greater Toledo (UWGT) recently announced the promotion of Jamie Brubaker, LSW, formerly a Development Officer with the organization, to the role of Area Director for United Way in Wood County, a satellite office of UWGT in Bowling Green, Ohio.

“Jamie is a trusted and familiar face in several communities across the County,” said Wendy Pestrue, president & CEO of UWGT. “Rural residents are sometimes forgotten in conversations on homelessness, poverty and food-insecurity. Jamie will be a strong advocate for all those seeking critical health and human service resources.”

Brubaker commented, “I have such deep love for this community. It’s where I’ve spent my entire life and where I chose to raise my family.

There are so many wonderful things about Wood County, but there are also many individuals seeking help and support.”

PRICELESS ARTWORK COLLECTION MOVING A collection of valuable porcelain plaques, entrusted to the City of Toledo, has found a new home. In July, Toledo City Council approved the transfer of ownership of the Blair Museum of Lithophanes collection to the Schedel Arboretum and Gardens in Elmore. Featuring over 2,000 lithophanes (translucent porcelain art panes), the collection will be housed in the manor house on the Schedel estate.

Amassed by Toledo native Laurel Gotshall Blair, the collection was donated to the City of Toledo in 1993, on the condition that the City could not sell it. Since 2002, the collection has been displayed at the Toledo Botanical Gardens. The City recently transferred ownership of the building housing the museum to the Metroparks in 2018.

UT’s Dr. Blair Grubb named Top Doc for 20th year running For the 20th year in a row, Dr. Blair P. Grubb of the University of Toledo Medical Center has been recognized as one of “America’s Top Doctors” in a compilation created by Castle Company Medical Ltd. Dr. Grubb, a Distinguished University Professor of Medicine and Pediatrics, specializes in disorders of the nervous system.

Additional accolades Dr. Grubb has earned include the UT President’s Award in 2018 and the Revolutionary Researcher Award from the Dysautonomia Support Network in 2019. Dr. Grubb has been affiliated with the UT Medical Center since 1988.

Walker Funeral Homes & Crematory Acquires The Shank Neighborhood Funeral Homes Keith Walker, president and CEO of Walker Funeral Homes & Crematory, announced that his company has acquired six Shank Neighborhood Funeral Homes locations in Northwest Ohio. Walker now operates eleven funeral homes in Holland, Oregon, Perrysburg, Toledo and Walbridge.

Oakleaf Village has named Shrey Gupta (l) and Alayna Bollinger (r), winners of its annual Northview/Southview scholarship. Shrey will attend the University of Pittsburgh, majoring in Business, and Alayna will attend Bowling Green State University, majoring in Gerontology.

WOOD COUNTY MUSEUM UNVEILS REBRANDING AND NEW LOGO The Wood County Historical Center and Museum has decided to change things a bit, starting with its name. The center will now be known as the Wood County Museum.

The Museum has unveiled a new logo featuring the modified name, featuring a design that employs the original railings that surrounded the vintage building’s porch area.

Established in 1975, the Wood County Museum resides at the site of the former Wood County Infirmary. The building was built in 1869.

ANDERSONS FUND SUPPORTING ORGANIZATION GRANTS AWARDS The Board of Trustees of the Andersons Fund Supporting Organization , a charitable organization under the umbrella of the Greater Toledo Community Foundation, recently awarded grants totaling $207,177 to 13 area nonprofit organizations.

Grants requests and grants are considered annually, awarded only to nonprofit, charitable organizations.

Grant recipients include: Bethany House, Boys & Girls Clubs of Toledo Girl Scouts of Western Ohio. Greater Toledo Community Foundation, Lott Industries, Inc., MemoryLane Care Services, Mosaic Ministries of South Toledo, Perrysburg Heights Community Association, Rescue Mental Health & Addiction Services, Toledo Museum of Art, Toledo Repertoire Theatre, Toledo Zoo and Water for Ishmael.

Sunset Communities teams up with Otterbein SeniorLife Sunset Communities has announced an affiliation with Otterbein SeniorLife, based in Lebanon, Ohio. The two senior care nonprofits provide a wide array of senior services including independent and assisted living, memory-support, skilled nursing and rehabilitative care and hospice. The new affiliation will help Sunset continue to grow and enhance facilities and in-care services. Sunset will continue to retain the current staff, leadership team, local board of directors, but the Sunset Communities will change their name to Otterbein Sunset House and Otterbein Sunset Village. The independent living residences will be called The Woodlands at Otterbein Sunset House and Fieldstone Villas at Otterbein Sunset Village.

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WATER FOR ISHMAEL’S NEW HOME Water for Ishmael celebrated the opening of its new home, to host programs and services for immigrants.

The renovated building incorporates English as a Second Language (ESL) classrooms, a specialized early education wing and job and life skills training areas.

“We invite the Toledo community to help us Embrace the World!” explained Janelle Metzger, Executive Director of Water for Ishmael.

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Profiles

Determination equals success for

Ron Hemelgarn

by Jeff McGinnis

Ron Hemelgarn first began making waves in auto racing in 1977. The operator of Toledo’s Super Fitness centers since 1972, by 1977 he had bought a few health clubs in the Indianapolis area and wanted to get the word out about his fitness businesses.

“I said ‘I am going to sponsor a car in the Indy 500.’ It was a crazy idea. It cost a lot of money— money I really didn’t have. But I wanted to get everybody excited about the company down there (in Indy).”

The power of sponsorship

“I remember being in the pits when a car went by with my name on it,” Hemelgarn recalls. “There were two gentlemen standing behind a chain link fence, and the guy said to his friend, ‘Hey, there goes my car!’ And I turned around and I said to

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the guy, ‘You own that car?’ And he replied, ‘No, I belong to that health club!” People want to be proud of what they do. And that sold me on the power of the sponsorship.”

Hemelgarn built his fitness business with racing as a cornerstone, then began receiving calls from fitness center owners from around the country, asking how they could get involved. In 1984, Hemelgarn officially started his own racing team, with a specific goal in mind, winning the Indianapolis 500.

“I decided, hey, I’m gonna win that race. And as my company grew quite rapidly, we jumped in with both feet. Establishing a racing team was a lot tougher than I ever thought it would be, just trying to assemble people. Racing is truly a team effort, a lot of people making [sure] everything goes right.”

The Checkered Flag

Led by driver Buddy Lazier, Hemelgarn Racing won the Indy 500 in 1996. “It was nothing more than effort equals results,” Hemelgarn said. “Nothing more than being determined, really determined— I’m going to do this. Very calculated. We hsd good partners, as far as sponsors, and those sponsors stepped up to the plate. And the next thing you know, we’re out there doing it.”

Hemelgarn Racing is still competing today, albeit on a smaller scale, running full-time in the USAC Silver Crown Series. Hemelgarn explains that he has to prioritize his time given everything else he has on his plate — seven grandchildren keep him pretty busy. And, of course, there is Super Fitness, approaching over a half-century of service in the Toledo area.

“Across the entire country, there are only a few fitness centers that can say they’ve been in business for that long. I raised my family in this community, I’m very very proud of what we established. My members are the greatest asset of my business, they’ve been with me all these years. We literally have members that have been with me for 48 years.”

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Everyone wants to be healthy. Working to obtain it, though, can be an intimidating challenge. We know the path we must walk to look and be our best, especially as we get older. The trick to getting there is setting and sticking to a routine.

We asked some of the Glass City Area’s premiere health professionals for their best advice on achieving that delicate balance between fitness and happiness, and their own techniques for living their best life.

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What’s your best advice for starting a new health or wellness routine?

Decide on your “why”— your reason for making a change. Start small and set achievable goals. Add more to your routine as you gain confidence and reach those small milestones .Your best advice on aging: First, be kind to yourself and add in at least one self-nurturing behavior daily. This allows you to have more patience with others and yourself. Stay flexible and Be CONSISTENT with stretching your body— arms, legs, neck, back, hips, and feet. It’s vital to age well.

What’s the best thing about your job?

I’ve been blessed to be able to create TWO ideal physical therapy clinics— Alternative Physical Therapy-Toledo and Alternative Physical Therapy- Perrysburg— where patients can be individually treated as my family members and friends would expect to be treated In a caring and relaxed environment.

What do you do when you feel overwhelmed?

I step away from the situation to get nourishment, listen to relaxing music like smooth jazz or lively tropical vibes, or grab my book and read in bed.

A walk in the park also refreshes me when I need a change of pace.

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What’s your best advice for starting a new health or wellness routine?

Talk to your doctor first and make sure you are good to go, and then start slowly!

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Your best advice on aging: Keep moving! To enjoy life, you have to keep the joints and muscles active.

How do you make healthy habits stick?

To be honest, I’m not very good at this one! But they have to be fun and rewarding.

Start slow and turn them into something that changes you for the better. Very few things are easy or have a ”quick fix” to them.

What’s something that you recently added to your routine?

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What’s your best advice for starting a new health or wellness routine?

Find something you love to do and commit! Progress cannot happen without a strong commitment. We accomplish what we commit to.

What can you do to feel better immediately?

Breathe. Simply taking deep breaths is the first step.

What are the three things that you do for yourself every day?

Take my herbs and get my acupuncture! There’s a reason I love this medicine— it works! I also do my gua sha as part of my everyday beauty routine. This all keeps the qi flowing in the body, which is always the beginning of any journey to feeling better!

Describe a self-care trend that you love: Mindfulness and meditation. Practicing these every day helps us to manage our emotions and our perspectives. It helps us to change and adapt while maintaining a healthy balance in ourselves and with nature.

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How do you make healthy habits stick?

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What can you do to feel better immediately?

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Giving/Savings All the Reasons Why This Probate Ploy Isn’t a Good Idea If you decide to transfer any of your assets (ie. real estate, accounts, personal property) to one of your children during your lifetime, after you die, if that child dies before he/she follows your wishes to divide the asset between your children, the asset transferred to the now-deceased child will be transferred to the deceased child’s estate and any other children of yours may end up not receiving a share of that asset.

Dear Probate Attorney: I am a wid-

ow with four adult children. One of my sons is encouraging me to put his name on the title of my home and all of my investments claiming that if I do that, none of my assets will have to go through probate when I die. He said that upon my death he would divide everything equally with his brothers and sisters. The idea of avoiding probate makes sense to me. Do you see any problems with what he is suggesting?

Probate Attorney’s response:

What your son is suggesting might achieve the goal of probate avoidance, but it is not a good idea for a number of reasons.

11. When you make your son a coowner of your home and investment assets, you will in effect have made him a gift of one-half of the value of those assets.

The value of that gift which is in excess of $15,000 is a taxable gift which should be reported to the IRS through the filing of a gift tax return.

22. When your son shares your assets, per your wishes, with his siblings after your death, he is in effect making a gift to each one of them and the value of each gift which is in excess of $15,000 will also be a taxable gift. Again, gift tax returns will need to be filed with the IRS.

33. If after your death your son passes away BEFORE he shares the assets with his siblings, those assets will become part of his estate and your other children may end up getting nothing.

44. If your son predeceases you, then

all of the assets could revert back to your name alone and the assets will need to be probated upon your death.

55. If your son is married and goes through a divorce after you die, but before he divides the assets with your other children, those assets, titled in your son’s name, could end up as assets in his divorce proceeding.

66. If you don’t prepare the deed properly when naming your son as a co-owner of your home, you could inadvertently create a tenancy in common rather than a joint tenancy with rights of survivorship.

In that event, each of you would end up owning an undivided one-half interest in the home and as a result, your one-half interest in the home would need to be probated upon your death.

77. Income tax advantages favor you retaining 100% ownership of your home transferring it to your children at the time of your death through an estate, as opposed to gifting it during your lifetime.

Depending upon what you paid for the home and its fair market value as of the date of your death, the income taxes incurred on the sale of the home could be significant. Those taxes can largely be avoided if you retain ownership of your home through the date of your death and then have the home pass to your children through your estate, as the basis, or cost

of the home, enjoys a stepped up basis to the value at the time of your death instead of the value at the time you purchased it, often many years ago.

88. Once you name your son as a coowner of your investments, he will have the ability to withdraw money and exercise control over those accounts at any time without your knowledge or approval.

99. Because your son will become the legal owner of all of your assets upon your death, legally, he will not be required to share any of those assets with your other children. If he decides not to honor his promise to you to share the assets with his siblings, there is nothing that the siblings can do that will allow them to receive a share of those assets.

Rather than naming a child as a coowner of your assets, a trust can be prepared, as a separate legal entity which you retain control over during your lifetime, and you can then transfer your home and investment assets to that trust. Also, you could keep your investment assets titled in your own name and name the trust as the beneficiary of those investments upon your death. These methods will allow you to retain ownership and maintain control of your assets while you are alive, while avoiding probate costs and expenses at the time of your death. * This column is not to be construed as legal or tax advice and should not be relied upon as such. If legal or tax advice or legal or tax representation is needed, please consult an attorney.Adapted from Jonathan J. David, Esq, Grand Rapids, Michigan.

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LOCAL OPTIONS Many colleges and universities allow individuals 60 and over to take classes, provided space is available. Often these classes are available at a reduced rate or even for free, though adult students may have to pay for books and required equipment. In addition, most area schools feature a variety of programs aimed at the adult student.

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(owens.edu/workforce_cs/ continuing_ed) Right now, Owens’ Continuing Education courses are cancelled due to COVID-19, though they are offering a variety of online courses. Workforce classes in subjects like teaching, time management, foreign language, mindfulness, bookkeeping and more online classes are available.

Learning more about your favorite subjects

by Jeff McGinnis

The desire to learn never goes away, no matter how old you are. Whether learning a new skill or simply finding out more about a new topic, human curiosity endures. Older adults have a plethora of ways to satisfy that urge— both at home and in the classroom.

With a rise in courses, training sessions and online videos aimed at a new generation of students well-past college age, “Lifelong Learning” is continuously growing. A study by the American Psychological Association found that almost three quarters of American adults consider themselves Lifelong Learners.

Here are some local resources, whether you want to learn a little about one subject, or take a full course.

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(lourdes.edu/about-lourdes/outreach/lifelong-learning-program) The Lourdes Lifelong Learning program gives paying members access to monthly lectures as well as discounts on courses and field trips covering a variety of topics.

This past summer’s online classes included discussions of 19th century presidents, a look at composer Kurt Weill and a series of workshops for seniors hoping to plan for the future.

(utoledo.edu/uc/program60) UT’s Program 60 offers lifelong learners a chance to take courses at a reduced price, provided they have lived in Ohio for the past year. Any course being offered at UT can be enrolled in, as long as the student meets the prerequisites and space is available. Program 60 students do not earn college credit through the program.

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(firelands.bgsu.edu/ eldercollege) Located at BGSU Firelands in Huron, the University’s Elder College classes cover an array of subjects in both the classroom and on field trips. Civil War battles, innovations of the 20th Century and the history of the cello are just some of the topics that Elder College attendees have learned about this year.

(olli-umich.org) The Osher program has a myriad of ways for older students to pick up new knowledge. Lecture series have focused on subjects like water quality in Michigan and living transgender. Small, intimate study groups on history, art, current events and more are offered, as well as the informal learning program Evenings with OLLI.

ONLINE Khan Academy

(khanacademy.org) A highly respected resource for students of all ages, Khan Academy offers links to a variety of free online courses on a wide array of subjects. The site, founded in 2008 by educator Sal Kahn as a series of educational videos, maintains the spirit which continues today.

Each course links to YouTube virtual “lessons,” with students then encouraged to answer questions to level up their mastery of the subject. From math to history to economics to computers and more, Khan Academy provides a great resource for anyone looking to bolster their knowledge.

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INDIAN CREEK ZOO

Autumn Adventures

2744 Consear Rd., Lambertville, MI 734-224-0390 indiancreekzoo.com Tickets cost $11-$13 Distance: 20 minutes

For a quick, family-friendly trip with your grandchildren, Indian Creek Zoo in Lambertville checks all the boxes, including the safety of an outdoor outing. You and the kids will love observing the wide array of exotic animals, from South American tayras (also known as “bush dogs”) to alligators and chameleons.

Indian Creek Zoo has exciting, interactive options as well, like their Giraffe Adventures and sloth and lemur encounters. Check out their website to find out about pricing for those addons.

By Erin Holden

Travel ideas for the whole family AFTER A LAZY SUMMER SOAKING IN THE SUN,

gardening and afternoon swims, let’s look forward to the joys of changing seasons. Approaching the time of pumpkin patches and chrysanthemums, cinnamon donuts and cider, changing leaves and crisp air — fall means a trip on the open road to witness the changes across the countryside.

We included a fall trip roundup in this issue, a guide to local travel that will inspire you to hit the road and find new ways to entertain yourself in this festive season. Here is a list of day trips (and a few overnight ones) that might spark your wanderlust, with emphasis on trips that everyone in your family can enjoy.

As a precaution, we’ve checked with all of these locations to make sure there are options for COVID-safe activities. All of them are doing their utmost to keep visitors safe.

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FREDERIK MEIJER GARDENS & SCULPTURE PARK

1000 E. Beltline Ave. NE, Grand Rapids, MI 616-957-1580 meijergardens.org Tickets cost $4-$15 Distance: 2 hours, 40 minutes

Frederik Gardens has over 200 breathtaking sculptures ranging from 19th century to modern works of art, all surrounded by beautiful plant life year-round.

You’ll find the Lena Meijer Tropical Conservatory, which houses over 500 species of plants from across the globe; the Gwen Frostic Woodland Shade Garden; and the Kenneth E. Nelson Carnivorous Plant House.

If you are looking for fall-themed festivities, these Gardens are the place to be this time of year. From September 18 to November 1, Frederik Meijer Gardens hosts “Chrysanthemums and More!” Filled with colorful fall displays and family-friendly activities, this is a perfect road trip with the grandkids.

THE CHILDREN’S MUSEUM OF INDIANAPOLIS 3000 N. Meridian St., Indianapolis, IN 317-334-4000 Childrensmuseum.org Ticket cost ranges from $15-$25 Distance: 3 hours, 28 minutes

If you are feeling adventurous, try a longer trek with your grandchildren. This Children’s Museum is an exciting experience for kids and adults. While the museum staff has, precautiously, removed some interactive items, they’ve been able to maintain safe measures to keep many of the exhibits open. The kiddos can experience “American POP”, with its pop culture displays and activities, as well as “The Power of Children,” a display all about inspirational young people such as Anne Frank, Ryan White, Ruby Bridges, and Malala Yousafzai.

There are also outdoor activities from tennis to pedal car racing! Check out the website to learn about the many experiences this museum has to offer.

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FOR HISTORY BUFFS GILMORE CAR MUSEUM

6865 Hickory Rd., Hickory Corners, MI 269-671-5089 Tickets cost $16 gilmorecarmuseum.org Distance: 2 hours, 20 minutes

The Gilmore Car Museum has over 400 cars on display, representing over a century of innovation. From Model A’s to post-World War II classics, and beyond, you can spend an entire day with this collection. During the fall, enjoy special exhibits like “Women Who Motor,” a revisiting of how women have contributed to the development of the automobile as consumers, engineers and racers.

There are also permanent exhibits that look at different eras of history through the lens of car travel.

They include subjects like the Dust Bowl, the Green Book motorist guide, a history of muscle cars and the evolution of toy cars. The Gilmore Car Museum will appeal to anyone who loves history, even if you aren’t a gearhead!

Safety requirements include masks, social distancing, and limited guest capacity. There are also interactive elements of the museum that may be closed until further notice.

ROSCOE VILLAGE

600 N. Whitewoman St., Coshocton 740-622-7644 roscoevillage.com Tickets cost $5-$8 Distance: 3 hours, 10 minutes

If you are a history lover, you will surely appreciate the horse-drawn canal boat rides at Roscoe Village.

Visitors will feel like they’ve stepped back in time to the 1830s when they step aboard Monticello III, slowly pulled by draft horses as the tour guide tells captivating tales from the past.

Roscoe Village also features a museum, shops, and gardens to visit while you’re there enjoying the fall weather.

The village is encouraging the usage of masks (if medically possible) and social distancing during COVID-19. Additionally, they do provide hand sanitizer stations throughout their facilities, and they are restricting occupancy in some areas.

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ARTS & CULTURE

THE MOHICANS TREEHOUSE GETAWAY

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23164 Vess Rd., Glenmont 440-821-6740 themohicans.net Distance: 2 hours, 30 minutes

4000 Michigan Rd., Indianapolis, IN 317-923-1331 discovernewfields.org Tickets cost $18 Distance: 3 hours, 30 minutes

There are several exhibits on display at Newfields Museum through September and October.

During your visit, you’ll find watercolors by J.M.W. Turner, “Edward Hopper and the American Hotel,” and vignettes

by Anders Ruhwald, among others.

After viewing those beautiful works of art, grab a bite at The Cafe (or a drink at the beer garden). There is also a greenhouse, park and lush gardens to explore.

The Newfields campus has many things to do and see, so you might want to spend more than just one day exploring it. Check out their website to learn about the many cultural attractions.

Though the Hotel Bar is closed until further notice as a COVID safety measure, the beer garden is open at limited capacity. Masks are required in all public spaces at Newfields in compliance with the latest state mandates.

While ideas on this list are perfectly suited for day trips, this little getaway will make for a wonderful overnight or weekend stay. The Mohicans has beautiful cabins, along with eight unique treehouses that steal the show.

The remote location also makes it a place that is safe to go-to for social distancing. Plus, the staff is committed to following CDC guidelines for cleanliness, so rest easy and enjoy your immersion in nature. Whether you choose the one-bed loft in the Little Red Treehouse or book for a group of up to six guests at the White Oak, you’ll be glad you spent a weekend at this charming spot.

OVERNIGHT STAYS GERVASI VINEYARD

1700 55th St. NE, Canton 330-497-1000 gervasivineyard.com Distance: 2 hours, 26 minutes

USA Today has touted Gervasi Vineyard as one of the best wine country hotels in the area, so reserve a room to see what all the buzz is about.

Even if you choose to make this a day trip, the gourmet food and fine wines will make it worth the drive.

Gervasi boasts three restaurants, all with ingredients sourced from local farms, featuring Italian cuisine, a wine bar and a coffee shop that becomes a cocktail spot in the evenings. Gervasi’s live music and entertainment is top-notch. Visit on September 10 to hear Sweet Treats and Tunes with The Rat Pack, a concert that includes a serving of Prosecco and a dessert trio, an event that requires reservations for at least 6 tickets per table, starting at $222.

Why not treat yourself?

The Gervasi staff does require that you bring a mask, as all restaurants on site do require one. Masks do not have to be worn outdoors unless it is impossible to keep a 6-foot distance from other guests.

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Where can I get an application for an absentee ballot? Applications for Lucas County residents can be found at https://co.lucas.oh.us/documentcenter/view/623 A general election, with voting for the office of President of the United States, takes place on Tuesday, NOVEMBER 3, 2020. In a representative democracy, it is important that all citizens exercise their right to vote.

Here are some important links and dates to help you make sure that your vote counts.

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voterlookup.ohiosos.gov/ voterlookup.aspx Deadline for registering is October 5, 2020. One can also register by U.S. Mail after downloading the registration form found at: https://www. ohiosos.gov/globalassets/elections/ forms/vr_form_04-2015.pdf POLLING PLACE:

See the list at: https://www.ohiosos. gov/elections/voters/toolkit/polling-location/ EARLY IN-PERSON VOTING:

In-person early voting begins on October 6 in downtown Toledo at 1301 Monroe St.,Toledo, Ohio 43604, at the “Ohio Means Jobs” building.

The polling station will be open: 8am-5pm, Monday-Friday, October 6-16; 8am-6pm, Monday-Friday, October 19-23; 8am-4pm, Saturdays, October 24 and 31; 1pm-5pm, Sundays, October 25 and November 1; and 8am-2pm, Monday, November 2.

It is suggested that you bring photo identification with you, to avoid any issues.

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Absentee ballots can be returned by mail or dropped off in person at the board of elections office. (Note, Due to Covid there is also a drop box outside the front entrance to 1 Government Center) If mailed, an absentee ballot must be postmarked no later than November 2 and be received no later than ten days after the election.

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7 Ways To Make Your Appointment Pleasant and Productive

Saturday, October 10

By Rekha Talla, MD

Modernize your thinking about seeing the doctor. Adapting to coronavirus, telehealth has become a norm. Your doctor is only a phone call away.

Whether you are avoiding COVID-19 exposure, worried about bad weather or simply want to save time driving to and from an appointment, telehealth may be a viable solution.

1. Insurance companies are cover-

ing telehealth visits more readily, and patients can take advantage of the convenience. Physicians can diagnose and treat many health-related issues during a virtual appointment. This new technology might revolutionize your feelings about seeing the doctor.

2. Consider your primary care physi-

cian as the quarterback of your healthcare team. While you may only spend 5 to 10 minutes in the room with your doctor, a nurse or medical assistant often help complete your summary chart which is vital to effective communication. Your pharmacist is also an extension of the team, answering questions about your medicine and more.

3. Think like an investigative

reporter. Prepare for your “interview” with the doctor before the visit. Write down your questions or concerns. Referencing notes may help break the ice, allowing you to feel less stressed.

4. Communicate clearly about your

medications. Keep a written list or bring in the bottles, but make sure to relay the information. Also, when leaving the appointment, ask the staff to print out a summary of the new and old medications. Electronic medical records make this easy and helpful.

5. Be honest with your doctor. If

you are not taking medicine as prescribed, tell the doctor. Try to be on the same page from the get-go.

6. Don’t be afraid to talk about

money. In today’s world, doctors are very considerate of patients who are on a fixed income, often taking into account the price points of medications. Ask the questions: Does that medication come in a generic? Is that medicine covered by my insurance?

You can also download an app to find the lowest prices and discounts on drugs – prices vary wildly, even between pharmacies. GoodRx collects and compares prices for every FDAapproved prescription drug at more than 70,000 U.S. pharmacies. Also, during this coronavirus pandemic, drug companies have developed assistance plans and other options that office staff can help with.

More than five million Americans over the age of 65 suffer from Alzheimer’s dementia, and estimates are that the number will climb to over 13 million by 2050. You can join the fight against this critical disease by signing up to participate in the Toledo Regional Walk to End Alzheimer’s.

This year’s event will be held on Saturday, October 10 at Promenade Park. Register at alz.org/ nwohio/walk. 9am-noon.

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critical patients find a doctor they feel comfortable with. Follow up with your primary care doctor regularly – if you take one or more medications, you should see your physician once every six months, or for those with chronic conditions, perhaps every three months.

If, despite your best efforts, you still feel uncomfortable opening up to your doctor, you may want to find a new doctor. Seek out recommendations on the Toledo Clinic or other local health care organizations’ websites, and let them know you’re looking for someone who’s easy to talk to and has a good bedside manner.

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A Mexican Treat Tékēla responds to physical distancing

By Kyle Alison Cubbon

Silverware is wrapped and the tables are clean. The menu is accessible via a QR code, but paper menus are provided on request.

A varied menu Tékēla, 5147 Main St., Sylvania, responded to the Governor’s stay at home orders by offering carry out as well as the makings, sans booze, for their well-loved margaritas. Once restaurants were permitted to sell alcoholic drinks to go, Tékēla was positioned to sell ‘Rita’s’ with food ‘to go’ orders.

Tékēla added a large porch with ample seating, properly distanced, (since fewer tables are in use inside due to the state regulations), with some open air and some covered areas. Live music from the restaurant’s interior wafts to the patio with large planters of purple petunia’s adding to the ambiance.

We tried the beef wet burrito; it was nicely balanced, not too cheesy, with plenty of flavor. It came with refried beans and rice. We also ordered the chorizo burger, a large, messy sandwich served with fries. We also sampled the fajitas - chicken and beef mixed. The order was more than two people can comfortably eat. The meats and vegetables were satisfyng, especially when covered with Tékēla’s salsa.

Perhaps, a little, back to normal

The staff hustled and the operation was practiced and efficient. Customers and servers seemed happy to be out

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and feeling, perhaps, just a little, back to normal. The manager, responding to an inquiry on whether Tékēla still hosts its busy happy hour, stated, “Of course, our customers wouldn’t have it any other way!” The popular bar has plexiglass shields every two or three seats, allowing the bar patrons to be safely separated.

Tékēla has live music on Friday, Saturday and Sundays, generally one or two musicians playing fun tunes.

Tékēla’s happy hour is hard to beat - and hard to find a seat. Every day, 3:00 - 5:30 pm all appetizers and drinks are half price.

If you are comfortable going to a restaurant, check out Tékēla. If you aren’t quite ready, we feel safe in saying, they will be here when the virus is controlled to satisfy customers with safety and good Mexican food.

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Home 5 Areas of Your Home to Remodel for Accessibility The Ability Center of Greater Toledo’s tips for success

By Erin Holden If you are doing your best to accommodate a family member with disabilities, you know it can be a bit daunting. What are the most important steps to making your home accessible? The answers will vary widely depending on the specific disability, but there are some common steps that you can count on having to make for someone with mobility issues.

We spoke to Jimmy Russell at The Ability Center of Greater Toledo (ACT) for his top tips on how to outfit your home to make it accessible. Russell is a disability rights advocate for housing and transportation at ACT, and he is also an ICC Certified Accessibility Inspector/Plan Examiner.

1. Flooring can have a huge impact for people with mobility issues. You’ll want to avoid any sort of heavy, shag carpeting not suited for wheelchair users, and you’ll want to think about flooring transitions as well. For example, if you have a floor transition from carpet to linoleum, that could be a potential barrier for someone, as there is often at least a quarter of an inch divider between the two materials. “You want to take away that potential barrier of having someone go onto the carpet and then not be able to get their chair back over onto the hardwood floor,” says Russell. He adds that it would be best to avoid difficult slopes in room transitions too.

2. Kitchen & bathroom sinks can be problematic if they are situated in corners with cabinets underneath. This setup makes it hard for someone in a wheelchair to approach the sink without their knees or foot kickpads getting in the way. “Usually we recommend putting it in the center of the counter area,” says Russell. “That way you know you can either do a parallel approach, or, if you have removable cabinets underneath, you can do the direct approach.”

3. Entryways are the most important aspect of making your home accessible. There should be a zero-step entrance with a 32” door opening. If your home has the kind of foyer entrance that has a restrictive space for navigating a wheelchair, it’s advisable to get rid of that wall if it’s not load-bearing. If your home does have steps leading up to the front door, adding a ramp is the first change you will need to make toward accessibility.

4. Open floor plans are the best route for accessible homes, and you often don’t have to do any major remodeling to accomplish it (though sometimes you will). Something as simple as putting table leaves down when they’re not in use can make all the dif-

Among the most important remodeling ideas to accommodate a family member with disabilities are to avoid heavily carpeted areas, situating the kitchen sink in a central area (top, center right and bottom left), a front door with a wide clearance (center left), installing a zero-step entrance (bottom right) and keeping an open floor plan.

ference. “Even for people who don’t use wheelchairs but who just have balance or stability issues, having that extra space where they’re not having to squeeze by could be much better for them.”

5. First floor essential living spaces like bathrooms and bedrooms should be another priority for those with limited mobility. The bathroom should also be outfitted with a roll-in shower and an accessible sink as mentioned above.

Russell has also found that accessibility doesn’t have to look “institutional,” as some people presume it might.

“Oftentimes people mistake accessible design with looking cold and clinical, but there are plenty of designs out there where you wouldn’t even know it’s an accessible home unless somebody told you. It looks just the same as any other house, and it’s convenient for everybody who lives there, not just for people with disabilities.”

If you want to learn more, call ACT at 419-885-5733, or visit abilitycenter.org.

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HERE COME THE PIEROGIES! The Great Pierogi & Polish Favorites Drive Up continues to rescue area families from the doldrums of boring eating. The latest area stop will take place Sunday, September 13 at Club 16 in Holland. All orders must be placed in advance

by September 8. 10am-8pm. 316 S. King Rd. (248) 809-9644 Visit doyoulovepolishfood.com to place your order.

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A NEW TWIST ON THE HARVEST MARKET DINNER GROWS THIS YEAR

Tables of two will be treated to an exquisite meal at an open-air venue, made from ingredients from Toledo GROWs’ farm. The four-course meals will come with beer and win e. $100 per person. 6pm. Sunday, September 13, Souk Mediterranean, 139 S. Huron St. Thursday, September 24, Toledo Botanical Garden. 419-7208714.

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LOVE FEST ON ADAMS ST. TURNS 5

This year’s Fest will go on in a socially distanced format in front of the famous Love Wall on Adams St.. A $5 donation is suggested. 3pm-midnight. Saturday, September 26. 1209 Adams St. 419-407-6225. Equalitytoledo.org

MUSIC AT THE FOUNTAIN CONTINUES AT LEVIS COMMONS

Shoppers and music lovers are welcome to stop on by and enjoy free performances from area musicians. The September schedule features Ryan Dunlap on 9.2, John Roth on 9.9, Shane Piasecki on 9.16, Frank May and Ben DeLong on 9.23 and Swingmania on 9.30. 11:30am-1:30pm, Wednesdays. 3201 Levis Commons Blvd., Perrysburg.

429-931-8888. shopleviscommons.com Free

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Garrison Ghost Walk

Tour Fort Meigs with your 1812 guide after dark and encounter the spookier side of the fort while listening to tales from the past. Fort Meigs, 29100 W River Rd., Perrysburg.

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SEPTEMBER WEDNESDAY 2 [health]

Talk with a Doc - For those who

are curious about or considering having weight loss surgery, Mercy Health hosts regular surgical weight loss informational sessions. 5:30pm.

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FRIDAY 4 [art]

First Friday Art Walk

Explore the art, music, restaurants, boutiques and more of downtown Sylvania at this monthly event.

5-8pm. Downtown Sylvania.

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THURSDAY 10 [history]

Tea - Reconciling the Civil War

Enjoy a hot cuppa and a lively discussion about the aftermath of the Civil War and how America moved on from the divide that split the nation. $23. 2-4pm. Wood County Museum, 13660 County Home Rd., Bowling Green. 419-352-0967. woodcountyhistory.org

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Yoga in the Vineyard - Enjoy a full

class taught by Sheila Sikora Watson of Bee Free Yoga while surrounded by the beauty of Majestic Oak. $20.

6:30pm. 13554 Mohler Rd., Grand Rapids. 419-875-6474. majesticoakwinery.com

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Fort Meigs Military History Roundtable - Enjoy the latest in

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a series of open discussions about military history, featuring a variety of guest speakers. 7:30pm. Fort Meigs, 29100 W River Rd., Perrysburg.

419-874-4121. fortmeigs.org Free

MONDAY 28

[health] Dr. Murthy Gokula, founder of Stay Home I Will, leads a health program that brings doctors and patients together to walk on the second Saturday of every month. 11am. Wildwood Preserve, 5100 W. Central Ave., 419-270-7500. walkwithadoc. org Free

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German-American Day

West Coast Wine Dinner

Basil Pizza & Wine Bar is hosting a West Coast themed wine dinner.

Reservations are required. 6pm. Basil Pizza & Wine Bar, 3145 Hollister Ln., Perrysburg. 419-873-6218. basilpizzaandwinebar.com

Northwest Ohio Great Pierogi & Polish Favorites Drive Up - Order

a curbside pickup of frozen pierogi and more favorite Polish dishes, made by some of the best Polish restaurants in the area. Deadline for orders is 9.8. 10am-8pm. Club 16, 316 S. King Rd., Holland. 419-8659806. doyoulovepolishfood.com

How Deutsch is your DNA? If you’ve had your DNA tested, come and share your results. 7pm. Wood County Museum, 13660 County Home Rd., Bowling Green. 419352-0967. woodcountyhistory.org Free

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Celebrate the Senses - Attendees

University flute professor Conor Nelson will perform a public recital.

The performance will also be livestreamed. 8pm. Bowen-Thompson Student Union, 1001 E. Wooster St., Bowling Green. 419-372-2531. events.bgsu.edu Free

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Walk with a Doc

Toledo Walk to Defeat ALS

of all ages are invited to interact with psychics, astrologers, mediums, healers and more. Hosted by nationally recognized astrologer Janet Amid. $5. 8:30am-4:30pm. The Pinnacle, 1772 Indian Wood Cir., Maumee. 419-882-5510

Faculty Artist Series: Conor Nelson - Bowling Green State

LEXUS CHAMPIONS FOR CHARITY Enter to Win the Golf trip of a lifetime in Pebble Beach, California

ONLY 200 RAFFLE TICKETS ARE BEING SOLD A $100 ticket gives you the opportunity to win three (3) days at the beautiful Pebble Beach, CA. All accommodations are included, this includes two (2) round-trip first-class tickets provided by Lexus of Toledo, transportation, and hotel arrangements.

Dec. 9-13th 2020 LOCATION:

B Pebble Beach Golf Link B The Links at Spanish Bay B Spyglass Hill Golf Course

TOURNAMENT FORMAT:

B 54-hole event, three days of play, 18 holes perday B Two (2) person better ball, Amateurs only B All players must have verified handicaps and must present handicap cards at tournament registration, 80% of handicap will be used

HOSPITALITY PACKAGE: B Includes transportation between Monterey Peninsula or San Jose International Airports and Pebble Beach Resorts, as well as all transportation among tournament sites B Spouse / guest package available at additional cost B First Class airfare for two (2) B Host hotel for the Lexus Champions for Charity National Championship will be The Inn at Spanish Bay. All arrangements at The Inn must be made through a Lexus Champions for Charity representative

SCAN HERE TO PURCHASE YOUR TICKET!

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Questions? Call: 419-471-4663 or Email: info@rmhctoledo.org

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THURSDAY 15 [music]

41st Annual New Music Festival

The festival hosts guest composer Augusta Read Thomas to discuss her compositions and techniques. 1pm.

Bowen-Thompson Student Union, 1001 E. Wooster St., Bowling Green.

419-372-2531. events.bgsu.edu Free

SATURDAY 17 [misc.]

in Sylvania. 4-10pm. Downtown Sylvania. 419-360-1212. downtownsylvania.org Free ArtisticMemorials.net

FRIDAY 23

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Sanger FOL Book Sale

Come shop for books of all genres and other materials. Proceeds support the Sanger Brach Library and library programs. 12-4pm. Sanger Branch Library, 3030 W. Central Ave., 419-259-5370. toledolibrary.org

Sylvania Nite Lite Farmers Market - Bring your family, shop

• We build monuments exclusively • Monument Design Graduate • Deal direct with the owner, Jeff Pettit Memorialist • • Over 35 years experience • Area’s largest indoor display • Professional

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“Under the Lights” and experience pumpkin spice and everything nice

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Theater

TSO starts season with celebration of Beethoven

The revised schedule for the Toledo Symphony Orchestra’s 2020-2021 season begins with a celebration of one of the most popular composers of all time. The Orchestra will perform Ludvig van Beethoven’s First and Fifth Symphonies in performances on September 12 and 13, with limited seating due to COVID-19 and options for streaming available. TSO will continue its tribute to Beethoven with performances of his Eroica on September 25 & 26. $25-60. 8pm, Saturday 9.12. 3pm, Sunday 9.13.

Toledo Museum of Art Peristyle, 2445 Monroe St. 419-246-8000. toledosymphony.com

Talent winner Terry Fator coming to Funny Bone

Ventriloquist. Celebrity Impersonator. Comedian.

Singer. America’s Got Talent winner. The list of descriptors that accompany Terry Fator is long, and now “Toledo Funny Bone headliner” will be added to it. The multi-talented comic will swing by the club for a three-night engagement beginning September 18. Fator’s appearance will have you rolling with laughter and amazed at his talent. $36. 7:30pm, Friday, September 18. 6pm and 8:30pm, Saturday, September 19. 6pm, Sunday, September 20. 6140 Levis Commons Blvd, Perrysburg. 419-931-3474. toledo.funnybone.com

Toledo Ballet has Rhythm, and more Gershwin classics

George Gershwin contributed many immortal songs to the American musical landscape in his brief but thrilling career. Now, the Toledo Symphony Orchestra and the Toledo Ballet are teaming up to pay tribute to the legend with a concert/performance on October 10. Choreographed

by Lisa Meyer-Lang and Michael Lang, the Ballet will present original dance interpretations of Gershwin classics, including An American in Paris, I’ve Got Rhythm and more. $25-59. 7-9pm. Saturday, October 10. Toledo Museum of Art Peristyle, 2445 Monroe St. 419-246-8000. toledosymphony.com

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The Tip Jar at Maumee Bay Brewing

On Wednesday, Thursday and Friday nights, this joint is jumpin’! There’s plenty of room for social distancing at Maumee Bay Brewing’s warehouse and even a covered area where you can sit outside when the doors are open this summer.

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Marsha Penner and Letha Ferguson.

The Toledo School for the Arts celebrated one of their most popular fundraisers and art exhibits with creative, socially-distanced measures.

Masked guests bought tickets in advance and were given a shift to arrive and enjoy refreshments outside.

Jeff Heibeck and Greg Briones.

Susan and Tom Palmer.

Anita Momenee, Marianne Brainard and Kendra Leck.

Zingerman’s Reuben Tour - Toledo Stop Cindy and Jack Niggemyer.

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The folks from Zingerman’s stopped by The Venues on Toledo’s S. St. Clair St. to deliver their online orders for Reubens and a selection of groceries and treats. The tour was a sell-out and Toledo was the most popular stop.

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Classifieds The Elizabeth Scott Community 2720 Albon Road Maumee, OH 43537 419-865-3002

The Elizabeth Scott Community offers a variety of living units for seniors.

Independent Living units are unfurnished one-bedroom and studio apartment models. Each apartment features walkin closets (one-bedroom); full kitchen with stove, oven, refrigerator, and dishwasher; private washer and dryer (one-bedroom); with daily continental breakfast and dinner included. Amenities include a Resident Activity Center with fitness equipment; heated outdoor pool; daily social programs; utilities including Wi-Fi; and weekly housekeeping. Elizabeth Scott staff will also greet you every morning in your apartment.

The Elizabeth Scott Community also offers two distinct levels of Assisted Living and Skilled Nursing if further care is needed. In September 2015, the Elizabeth Scott Community opened a 12,000 square foot Skilled Rehabilitation facility. The Skilled Rehabilitation facility offers state-of-the-art inpatient and outpatient treatment along with14 private rooms with private baths. For more information, please email Matt Bucher at mbucher@elizabethscott. org or call 419-724-5021.

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NAMI is open and available to support you during these uncertain times.

NAMI FAMILY & FRIENDS VIRTUAL ZOOM SEMINAR

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NAMI Family & Friends is a free seminar that informs people who have loved ones with a mental health condition how to best support them. It’s also an opportunity to meet other people in similar situations and gain community support. The following topics will be discussed: • • • •

Understanding diagnoses, treatment and recovery Effective communication strategies The importance of self-care Crisis preparation strategies

5-HOUR SEMINAR SPLIT BETWEEN 2 SESSIONS Tuesday, Oct. 6th & Thursday, Oct. 8th | 10:00am – 12:30pm Facilitated by: Kristen Zientek and Crystal Heft Registration Required: To RSVP, please contact Program Coordinator, Kristen Zientek, at: kzientek@namitoledo.org

2753 West Central Ave. | Toledo, OH 43606 419-243-1119 or visit us at www.namitoledo.org

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