Toledo Parent January 2016

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Top Docs & Wellness Champions

Local medical experts give us their Golden Rules for health

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Head of the Class

Toledo’s top educators talk about their goals, visions and motivations

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Journey to Healing How a family is moving on from heartbreak

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Toledo’s Award-Winning Parent Newspaper Volume 25 • Issue 1 January 2016

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Local TOP DOCS remind us to follow the rules to good health!

Toledo’s top educators talk about their goals, visions and motivations

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On the cover Declan Cox 1 week, Toledo

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Medical decisions are not always exact

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It can be tough out there for children trying to fit in and find their voice among peers. Check out these tips on how to guide them to be confident and find the right people to call friends.

Let’s face it, technology isn’t going anywhere. We just have to learn to cope. Eleven peaceful apps that may calm you instead of adding to tech frenzy!

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KIDS HOROSCOPE Jan. 20 Feb. 18

By Sue Lovett

Lucky are the parents who bring an Aquarian into this world. They have their eyes wide open and literally sparkle as they see every new person, young or old. They are thrilled with toys, whether large or small, and often want to keep them all without “cleaning out” the toy box. One fascinating thing about these little Aquarians is that they sometimes have “selective hearing” so you must be sure you have their attention before talking to them. They get along well with the other children in the family, whether older or younger. They even enjoy the friends of their parents.

When they are in pre-school or regular school they get acquainted easily and remember the names of the other children.

At an age where there are class “officers” they often are elected easily because of their popularity.

They do not have any prejudice and see everyone as being equal.

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Christal and Chelsea are sisters who want to be adopted together. Sweet and loving, Christal is creative, smart and introspective. Chelsea, who is outgoing and cheerful, enjoys being helpful and likes to give and receive lots of hugs! Both girls enjoy being active and enjoy good health.

Consistency and routines will help the girls continue to develop confidence in themselves and trust in those around them.

Nehemiah is a sweet baby boy who needs a family that will help him achieve his potential.

He works with his physical therapist twice a month and is thriving with his current foster family. Nehemiah is soothed by listening to Latin instrumental music. He and his foster mother do water therapy which is helping him become much stronger.

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FIND LIKE AND FOL LOW US

compiled by Christine A. Holliday

Foreign Languages for Young Children in the Toledo Area Research has repeatedly shown that learning a foreign language at a young age has numerous benefits, with many classes being offered in the Toledo area.

Kasumi Yamazaki, a visiting assistant professor of Japanese at the University of Toledo encourages parents to enroll their children in schools that offer foreign language(s). “For a global perspective, it can provide a foundation for intercultural competence that is needed in the 21st century,” she says. “For a learning perspective, young children have an advantage of acquiring native-like fluency of a target language if you start early.” Check out some of the local programs that offer foreign languages.

Alliance Française de Toledo

Music Lingua

Einstein Montessori School

Temple Congregation Shomer Emunim

French lessons are offered aftoledo.com

Arabic and Spanish are offered myeinsteinmontessori.com Japanese School of Toledo

Japanese-accredited curriculum for heritage learners toledohoshuku.com Little Sprouts Academy

Spanish is offered littlesproutsacademy.com

Maumee Valley Country Day School

French, German and Spanish programs for kids musiclingua.com

Temple Tots program offers Hebrew for the little ones templese.com/lifelong-learning/ temple-tots Toledo Chinese School

Basic Chinese is taught beginning at age three. chinesecenteroftoledo.org/programs West Side Montessori School

Spanish is offered starting from pre-kindergarten mvcds.org/page

Spanish and French are offered at age three. montessoritoledo.org

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Queen of Apostles School Partners with The Andersons The students at Queen of Apostles School have a lot to be grateful for this season, much of it due to their yearround relationship with The Andersons, a partner of the school, helping teachers and students (and their families).

“We are like a lot of other companies that work with a school,” explained Julie Payeff, Andersons’ Community Commitment Manager. “We work with Sister Joselyn, the principal, to see if we can do anything for the students or the teachers. We have a committee that meets with people at the school, and we do our best to help meet their needs.”

Recognition and Assistance A quarterly breakfast is held to recognize the students who have shown good marks in effort and attendance. An allday picnic and fun day at the Andersons compound near school’s end recognizes students with high marks for four quarters. Kindergarten and third-grade students learn about the Nutcracker, hosting guest speakers to talk about dance and storytelling, and attend the show. Younger students benefit from Andersons vol-

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unteers who come to tutor in reading and math once a week, enjoy a visit from the Toledo Opera on Wheels and the presentation of a play by the Windy City players. Each summer, school officials pick 25 students to camp out with their families on Kelly’s Island. Fifth or sixth grade students receive financial support to attend Camp Storer in the spring. Sister Joselyn Weeman notes, “We are so thankful for all the things they do. We think of how much energy it takes to organize all these activities, and feel very lucky to work with such wonderful people.”

Encouraging Teaming Up Computer carts and SMART boards have been provided for the school and school uniforms and school supplies are made available for all students. Volunteers from The Andersons spent a Day of Caring at the school in late August, painting indoors and doing yard work outside. Payeff encourages other companies to team up with a school. “We have as much fun as the kids do,” she said, “and it’s rewarding to know we are helping to enrich the lives of the children and their families.”

Bringing More than Food Students at St. Ursula Academy and St. John’s Jesuit High School are bringing food and friendship to needy Toledoans. For the past three years, students have met every Monday afternoon to fix lunch sandwiches or hot meals and desserts, then prayed together before going out to two South Toledo locations and one East Toledo location to distribute meals.

St. Ursula program director Mark Dubielak explains. “We are offering so much more than food. The life situations of those we serve, from broken families to persons living without work or with addictions are sobering reminders of the great need.” He continues, “After all meals have been distributed, students return to school and pray for those they have befriended that day. It is those friendships that touch the students the most.”

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As our body’s largest organ, the skin performs many important roles in keeping us healthy. It protects us from the sun, enables our sense of touch, and keeps our temperature regulated. Acting as a barrier, it prevents pathogens from entering our body, and eliminates toxins via sweat. Dr. Welch tells us how to protect our skin and keep it healthy.

“Ideally, parents would instill healthy skin habits in their children in the same manner they instill dental hygiene habits. Taking care of your skin from an early age helps prevent future problems, ranging in severity from wrinkles and discoloration to skin cancer.

Children and adolescents can easily be taught the skin health principles of cleansing and protecting. Of course keeping hands clean is especially important to reduce the spreading of germs, and I recommend using a mild, gentle cleanser on the face. Follow this with the one product everyone needs: sunscreen. Contrary to popular belief, sunscreen needs to be worn all year round. Get them in the habit of applying sunscreen in the morning and reapplying throughout the day. I like to use a mineral powder sunscreen brush to touch up throughout the day. I can quickly and easily brush it over my children’s faces, and then apply some to myself. Bonus for moms: it doesn’t mess up your makeup!

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Golden Rules of

Health

by Heidi Borst

Staying on top of children’s health can seem daunting at times. Parents want to be sure they are ensuring a healthy future. At what age should a child have their first dental visit? How early should they be evaluated by an orthodontist? Is visual screening at the pediatrician’s office sufficient to diagnose vision issues? Toledo Area Parent consulted top local medical experts to find out these answers and more! Read on as they share their golden rules for staying healthy and happy.

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Jennifer L. Zoll, DDS Dentist

Dr. Erin Knierim 3036 W. Sylvania Ave. Toledo, OH 43613 www.drzoll.com

It’s no secret that candy is bad for kids’ teeth, but the American Dental Association cautions that almost all foods contain some type of decay-causing sugar. Dr. Knierim shares her tips for cultivating excellent dental health at an early age- a healthy diet paired with a daily cleaning routine.

“A healthy diet is so important to keeping your teeth healthy. Choose snacks like fresh fruit, vegetables, nuts and cheese. Limit candy and sugary treats to special occasions and rinse or drink water afterwards. You should avoid sticky foods such as fruit roll ups and other gummies. Choose the real thing even if canned or frozen, but be sure it’s “no sugar added.” Limit juice to 4-6 ounces per day, if you choose to serve it at all, and keep it with meals, using only 100 percent juice. Choose water to drink in between meals. Avoid pop, sports drinks and energy drinks, even those that are diet contain acid which is harmful to your teeth. Parents should begin dental hygiene as soon as the first tooth erupts and brush for their children at least until age 8, floss daily as soon as the teeth next to each other begin to touch. Brush with toothpaste that contains fluoride. Use a pea size amount of toothpaste for kids that can expectorate (usually starting around 3) and for kids who are younger use a smear that’s the size of a grain of rice.”

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Early intervention when the teeth and jaw are still developing is becoming commonplace in orthodontic care. Addressing issues when your child’s first adult teeth come in can make problems much easier to correct and even avoid. Dr. Haerian keys us in on some early risk factors to look for.

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“Most people think orthodontics is a subject that doesn’t need to be addressed until around age 12, when all primary teeth have fallen out. In reality, a short visit to an orthodontist at an early age can have a long term impact on ideal jaw and teeth development. Behaviors such as thumb/finger sucking or tongue thrusting can affect the position of the teeth or the palate.

Studies have also shown that dropping the jaw down and forward while sleeping to aid in breathing can negatively influence the growth of the lower jaw and might indicate a compromised airway. Tackling these issues while the jaw is still undergoing development can lessen or possibly even negate the need for full orthodontic treatment in the future. The American Association of Orthodontics recommends age 7 as a good time for a checkup because a small change in behavior early on can result in a big improvement in the long run.�

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The American Optometric Association recommends that children have their first comprehensive eye and vision assessment before age 3, and warns that the vision test at the pediatrician’s office fails to identify up to 60 percent of children with vision problems. Dr. Baldwin-Mickey stresses the importance of developmental and perceptual testing by an optometrist.

“The most important thing for parents to know is that a vision test at the pediatrician’s office is not a comprehensive eye exam! This is a visual acuity screening, designed to identify myopic (near-sighted) kids or kids with a significant difference between the two eyes. It does not identify children who are hyperopic (far-sighted). That test gives parents a false sense of security that their children’s vision is okay. It does not check ocular health or any of the binocular skills necessary for reading and learning. Also in this techno age, young children are using handheld devices like cell phones and tablets more frequently. It is important for everyone to remember the 20-20-20 rule. Every 20 minutes on a computer, tablet or cell phone, look at an object 20 feet away (or out a window) for 20 seconds. This will help prevent eyestrain, fatigue and possibly near-sightedness due to constant accommodation. If a child is struggling in school, it may be a vision problem even if they test 20/20. It is possible that deficits in binocular skills like tracking and convergence may be causing problems. Visual perceptual deficits like poor visual memory or visual figure-ground can be the problem.

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According to the American Association of Orthodontics, almost half of today’s orthodontic care is provided to adults. The reason is not purely cosmetic; improperly aligned teeth can lead to gum disease and gastrointestinal issues. Dr. Bunkers tells parents why it’s not too late for orthodontic treatment.

Dr. Jeffrey A. Bunkers Orthodontist J Bunkers Orthodontics 880 Commerce Dr. Perrysburg, OH 43551 419-874-1719 3448 Navarre Ave., Suite 200 Oregon, OH 43616 419-693-4466 1221 Ridgewood Dr. Bowling Green, 43402 419-353-3885 www.bracesbydrbunkers.com

“Think braces are just for kids?

Think again. Adults get braces too.

More than one million U.S. adults are having orthodontic treatment. Most are able to achieve excellent results; I’ve treated adults ages 70 and older who wanted to improve their smiles.

It’s never too late and it’s not all about looks. If your children have perfectly straight teeth, you may think they’ll skate through childhood without braces. But sometimes orthodontics is necessary even for people with seemingly perfect smiles. Orthodontics is not just about aesthetics. If teeth don’t fit together correctly, that can affect the long-term health of your bone and gums. Follow through when your orthodontist gives you instructions on how to care for your teeth; it’s important to follow them exactly. We know right away if you’re not brushing like you should, and we can certainly tell if you are drinking sugary drinks.”

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Dr. Jennifer Harrington Child/Adolescent Psychiatrist Children’s Safe Harbor location in the Jobst Tower at Toledo Hospital 2109 Hughes Dr. #640 Toledo, OH 43606 419-291-8892 www.harbor.org/childrens-safe-harbor.html

Mental health and physical health are both equally essential and intertwined. When we treat an individual, the outcome is better when we address the needs of both the mind and body. People cannot be separated into their various parts and pieces. They are a complete package of wonderfully unique faults and strengths. People should always be cared for with that in mind.

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For parents, it often seems there aren’t enough hours in the day to take care of your children’s needs, let alone your own. However, it’s crucial to find time to take care of your own health and well-being. Dr. Jackson shares his golden rules for staying healthy, whether you are a parent, or are planning to become one down the road.

“Stick to a healthy diet- balance is the most important thing. If you choose not to eat meat, be sure you get enough protein in other forms. If possible, limit processed foods and use more natural ingredients. Every new diet that comes along is not necessarily the best thing. Exercise is good for the body and mind. Almost any activity is better than no activity. Be sure to get enough sleep. It’s hard when there are young children in the house, but both you and they will be better for it.

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Tooth decay is the leading chronic childhood illness. Left untreated it can lead to numerous health consequences for your child. Dr. Hires stresses that providing a healthy diet low in sugar and establishing a solid dental routine are critical in prevention.

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Dr. Jon Frankel

Dentist Dr. Jon Frankel DDS General & Cosmetic Dentistry 5012 Talmadge Rd. Toledo, OH 43623 419.474.9611 www.jonfrankeldentistry.com Our children’s overall health is directly related to the health of their teeth and gums. Studies show that poor oral health is a risk factor for heart disease. Encouraging a positive relationship with your child’s dentist from a young age is imperative to success. We know that brushing is important, but it’s not always easy to get our kids excited about it. Dr. Frankel gives his advice for making it fun.

“One of the greatest gifts a parent can give their child is dental health.

Children who look forward to dental visits are likely to enjoy a lifetime of dental health. A healthy mouth promotes a healthy body. Regularly scheduled dental visits at least twice a year keep your child motivated to brush and floss. A great dental visit can be a life changer for kids. Learning the basics of dental home care and taking care of small issues before they become big problems is a surefire combo for years of dental health. Familiarize your child about the dentist with DVDs and books. Don’t let your past become your child’s future. Keep comments about dental visits positive. If a family member or friend shares a story about an unpleasant experience, let your child know that is unusual, and that you look forward to the dentist. Tell them how nice your dentist and hygienist are and how great cleaned teeth feel. Make dental home care fun. Give your child an electric toothbrush they like. Play their favorite song for a full two minutes while they brush. At least once a day make sure you brush their teeth. You and your dentist together can give your child the gift of a life-time: a healthy, beautiful smile.”

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4560 Glendale Avenue, Toledo, Ohio 43614 (419) 385-2301 www.trinityvikings.org

Trinity Lutheran Church and School @TrinityToledo

Sighted Guide Ohio recently sponsored an egg hunt for visually challenged children As a young mother 20 years ago, Adrianne Kolasinski lacked access to the resources and services she needed to help her son, who was born with Septo Optic Dysplasia, a disorder that caused him to be 100 percent blind. Help came in the form of a kind stranger who introduced Kolasinski to early intervention options and other resources for the visually impaired and blind, sparking a desire within her to pay it forward. “I understood a long time ago that you cannot save the world, but I know you can make a difference,” Kolasinski said.

After sending her son to the Ohio State School for the Blind in Columbus twice a week for six years, Kolasinski decided to mainstream him in the local school system, but realized there was still a need for more resources. She began to network with people, became an advocate, and even joined a few boards to promote knowledge and awareness about the needs and challenges faced by the visually impaired and blind.

What started out as a plan to create an educational program for school-aged kids

became the inception of Sighted Guide of Ohio (SGO), a quarterly magazine dedicated to the visually impaired.

First published in 2014, Sighted Guide is distributed in Toledo, Cleveland, Columbus, Akron, and Cincinnati.

SGO aspires to help people and create awareness at the same time. It offers information on resources, services, the latest technology information, and news for the visually impaired community.

Each edition of SGO includes a section called “Our Stories,” providing anyone who is visually impaired or blind a forum to share their story with others.

“They are success stories to show that the visually impaired or blind community can accomplish anything, just like you and me,” Kolasinski said.

SGO offers advocacy to children and families by linking them with the services and resources needed by their child. The magazine aims to help remove the gaps in rural communities, to share information and to bring people closer together.

Visit sightedguideohio.org for more information.

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MOVING FORWARD >>>>>>>>

Journey to Healing Learning life’s hardest lessons

by Karen L. Zickes

When my husband Jim lost his courageous battle with Pancreatic Cancer just over two years ago, our three children were in second, fifth, and eighth grades.

Like everyone’s journey through life, ours too remains unique. Unmarked roads, bumpy terrain and detours persist along the journey, along with times of coasting.

Neither the highs nor the lows can last forever.

The healing process continues, and the lessons about love and life are constant.

Following Jim’s inspirational example, we have chosen, both individually and collectively as a family, to make our situation shape us to be better not bitter.

Don’t rush the process and do what is best for YOU and your family One of the most important things I’ve learned along the way is that you can’t rush the process of healing or that of finding your new normal. If you don’t allow yourself to feel the despair, anger, or sadness that comes in waves while grieving the loss of a loved one, you risk being blindsided later down the road. It’s OK to be angry. It’s OK to feel any way you do at any given time because you need to “go through it” to GET through it.

The emotions that creep in causing great discomfort need to be acknowledged.

Admittedly, finding the new normal for my family has taken longer than I had first anticipated. But by allowing the process to unfold as it needs to and all in due time, I get up and most days can look in the mirror and say with confidence, “We got this.” I said most days. There are many days I struggle with any number of things or need to seek advice in areas that are not my forte. But what has made a difference for me is to become increasingly comfortable with the idea that it is OK to do what I think is best for me or for my family and not to worry what others may think or feel about my decisions. After all, this isn’t their journey.

As with anything, what works for one may not work for another.

I absolutely love the quote, “Don’t judge my actions without understanding my reasons.” Good advice for everyone to remember regarding those around us.

After all, do any of us truly understand another’s situation? I once viewed doing what is best for me as selfish at times, but with all aspects of life, there is a time and place for everything. In this particular situation, if the healing process and journey to figure out our new normal is working for me and my children, my children are thriving and so am I, then that trumps all things at the moment.

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Karen stands strong with her three children, Morgan, Gregory and Nathan Moving forward with baby steps and the occasional leap We continue to move forward together while keeping Jim’s memory alive. Though his time with us was brief, Jim taught our children so many things that will stay with them forever. Our faith continues to grow and we are open to the Godwinks that remind us he isn’t very far away. Recognizing our countless blessings reminds each of us that we will be OK.

I rejoice in the days that move like clockwork, and regroup on the days when being a single parent weighs heavy on my shoulders. Looking to the future is important, and I realistically plan ahead, but I’ve become more accustomed to just taking one week at a time. I am mindful to take care of ME if I am to continue taking care of our three brave and amazing children.

The journey has taught me that sheer will and determination can alter any outcome; if not forever, then at least for a little bit. Whether it’s a baby step forward, sideways, or the occasional leap, I celebrate the fact it wasn’t backwards.

We know we are blessed to be here living this life together wrapped in the love and support of those around us and Jim forever in our hearts.

There is much left to be discovered and disappointments to move beyond.

But there are successes and victories that await celebrations as well. And through it all I remember the words of Pope Francis, “Have the courage to be truly happy.”

“Don’t look back. You’re not going that way.”

Karen Zickes is the mom of three amazing children and a freelance writer who resides in Holland, OH.

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A Parent’s Emergency Room Decision

Medical decisions are not always exact

by Matthew Reger

A warm Friday night held the promise of our usual family fun night activities until a single incident turned those expectations into a decision about visiting the emergency room and a test of our parental instincts.

We had finished dinner and the kids ran outside to play on our swing set, waiting for our evening activities to start.

We usually watch a movie, picked by the kids, eat popcorn and just spend some time together.

As Heidi and I discussed our day we heard a scream. We ignored it as a normal scream, not worthy of parental attention. Then the scream turned to a different pitch and, like a tornado siren that yells out late at night, it grabbed our complete and immediate attention. I rushed out to the back yard.

increased Elizabeth’s anxiety - concerning her that medical care might cause more pain.

We had our own concerns too. Were we overreacting? How much will our co-pay be? What if it’s broken and we don’t go to the hospital? I have to admit that this decision is easier for us since we have health insurance, but still filled with doubt. That’s not to say that doubt doesn’t fill almost every decision as a parent, just reasonable conclusions that are supported by instinct.

Cost of peace of mind Two and half hours later we were out of the ER and headed back home for a much later movie night. Her diagnosis was “Whopperjaw.” In other words, mom and dad could have kept her home and the result would have been no different.

To go, or not to go Our daughter, Elizabeth, was screaming while holding her jaw as she lay just below one of the swings. We took her inside and for thirty minutes the protests of pain persisted. It raised my concern but I thought we should hold off on a visit to the emergency room. Usually my wife agrees with this approach but because Elizabeth was so vociferously complaining she thought medical attention was warranted.

A few weeks later, an outrageous bill came from the hospital. Shortly after that came a report from the insurance company that they would not pay until I filled out a form explaining how the injury occurred, who was involved, where it happened, and whether the police were involved.

My answer: “She fell off of a swing in our back yard.” The next report we received was that the insurance company was paying a much reduced amount to the hospital and we had a $150 co-pay.

I called my friend, the EMT, but there was no answer. That left us to our own devices. We continued to ask our daughter about the fall, but heard nothing unusual.

In the end that was the out of pocket expense for peace of mind. It’s a lot of money for any budget. But for the peace of mind that it brought us as parents and Elizabeth I guess it was worth it.

A little more waiting and we decided it was best to go to the ER. Although it calmed our nerves somewhat it only

Once again, no right or wrong answer, just a reliance on instinct.

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¡OLE`!

Burritos and beyond... WAY beyond

by Karen L. Zickes

Cocina De Carlos

Fresh Mexican Cuisine & Cantina 205 Farnsworth Rd. Waterville 27072 Carronade Dr., Perrysburg 419-878-0261 Sun-Thur: 11a.m.-9p.m.

Fri-Sat: 11a.m.-10p.m. www.cocinadecarlos.com ¡Ole`! AKA-Bravo! I have some extremely shocking news for a few of my friends. I will no longer tag along begrudgingly for Mexican food on our GNO. I would now LOVE to go out for Mexican cuisine with y’all. Wow. Did I just say that? There’s just one catch.

Well, maybe two. I’ll go only if it’s to Cocina de Carlos, and my kids might want to tag along as well.

Expect the unexpected It’s not that the kids and I dislike Mexican fare, it’s more the fact that most places in the area serve what I refer to as pseudo-Mexican. In other words, lackluster and it tastes the same under all the cheese. Until now.

Carlos Mendez is from Jalisco, Mexico. He came to the United States many years ago, and brought with him his love of authentic Mexican food. I was unaware of his Perrysburg location and this past summer he opened a second location in Waterville occupying the historic Smedlap Smithy.

I questioned how that building could be transformed to a Mexican cantina?

Will that unique feel be gone? And how will this food taste different from the other restaurants around town? Oh, ye of little faith.

Mendez left much on the interior and exterior of the building untouched. The framed historic pictures remain on the walls, and yes, the tree in the center of the dining room and the winding slide remain. Adding a bit of Mexican flair, they kept the color scheme mostly neutral to blend with the open ceiling and brick walls.

My children and I found the interior aesthetically pleasing. We were sold on the atmosphere, but what about the food? That was the best surprise.

So far beyond the burrito you’ll wonder where you are Please excuse my unbridled enthusiasm about our new find, but it was truly so unexpected and I was so glad to have found a Mexican cantina that the kids and I ALL got so excited about. We discussed the best way to describe the food other than authentic.

To say gourmet didn’t really seem to fit, yet the menu items were several notches above what we were used to. And the service? It was most attentive, but not overbearing. The general manager Cesar Garcia made the rounds to many tables throughout the evening. He was very helpful with deciding what we might want to try on the menu. You will find many entrees titled “Top 20” and others “Family Favorites.”

My Pineapple Don Charly was one of the specialties and was served in half of a grilled pineapple. Filled with pineapple, onions, mushrooms, cheese, and chicken it was a delectable balance of tangy and spicy. It was served with refried beans and rice and though it also had flour tortillas, I preferred delving in with just my fork.

The Short Course Kid-friendly: Yes

To avoid wait: Anytime Noise level: Loud

The Margarita Chicken is another family fave and consisted of grilled chicken with lime, smoked bacon, roasted corn, black beans and queso blanco. The street taco was scrumptious as well.

For children accustomed to more basic Mexican food, they offer five Mexican choices on the kids’ menu such as tacos, burritos and also chicken nuggets. The drink, a side, and an ice cream cup are included for just $5. Not to make my older two feel left out, our waitress graciously offered them ice cream cups as well.

Fresh and from scratch… always The menu asks for patience if your order takes a tad longer, as everything is made fresh when you order and I’m sure that includes the margaritas. I wasn’t in the mood for one and I passed judgement that if they were in those big glasses they were probably mostly sweet and sour mix. Oh, again, ye of little faith. Upon hearing of my disappointment for not trying one, Garcia made me a sample so I would know for my next visit. I assure you they are wonderful.

Bathroom amenities: Very clean but no changing station High chairs? Yes Got milk? Yes

Kids’ menu? Yes

Anything healthy for kids? Yes, for tikes under 10

Food allergy concerns? Very accommodating to those with allergies.

Gluten free and vegan items available as well.

Bottom Line: If you and your kids have grown weary of the typical Mexican food you find around town, Cocina de Carlos must be your next stop. The food is fresh and unique, the staff is attentive, and the kids are most welcome. The noise level can be a bit loud, but then you won’t have to worry when your little one squeals with delight going down the indoor slide.

Karen Zickes is a mom of three active children and freelance writer who resides in Holland, OH. She can be reached in c/o editor@toledoparent.com.

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{ January 2016 } All calendar events are subject to change, cancellation and limited size. Calling ahead for confirmation is recommended.

1 FRIDAY Family Center Activities: Ribbon Recital - Activities at the Family Center are designed for children 10 years of age and younger accompanied by an adult.

The Family Center is sponsored in part by The Andersons. 3:30pm. Toledo Museum of Art, 2445 Monroe St. 419-255-8000. toledomuseum.org Free Sibling Class - Session for young children to help them get used to the idea of a new baby in the family. Includes a film, a tour of the maternity unit (and they love to see the babies!), refreshments, and making a present for the new baby. For ages 3-10.

6pm. $10. Mercy St. Vincent Medical Center, 2213 Cherry St. 419-251-2856. mercyweb.org

2 SATURDAY Model Train Clinic - As the holiday season nears its end, your cherished model train deserves a little special attention. The Hayes Presidential Center can help ensure that your train is in tip-top shape for next year and beyond. 1-4pm. $2. Rutherford B. Hayes Presidential Center, Spiegel Grove, Fremont. 419-332-2081. rbhayes.org Snowflake Workshop - Learn the art of Scherenschnitte (paper cutting) with snowflake expert, Mary Gaynier. Make beautiful creations to decorate your home all winter. 12pm. $9/ages 3-12, $10/ seniors, $11/ages 13-63/ Imagination Station, 1 Discovery Way. 419-244-2674. imaginationstation.org Community Open Skate - Celebrate the season and skate where the pros skate.

The Open Skate sessions will feature holiday music, movies and fun activities for the whole family. Hourly skate sessions: 12:15-5:15pm. $18, $5/with Winterfest game ticket. Also on Saturday, January 2.

Huntington Center, 500 Jefferson Ave. 419-725-9255. toledowalleye.com Toledo Walleye Home Game SupportyourToledoWalleyeastheytakeontheFortWayne Komets.7:15pm.Visitwebsiteforticketinformation.Huntington Center,500JeffersonAve.419-255-3300.huntingtoncentertoledo.com

8 SATURDAY Drawing Fun with Mr. Picasso - Local artist Roy Wilson, as Mr. Picasso, will help youth develop drawing and compositional skills with his step-by-step method. Explore nature and cartooning themes. Please bring a #2 pencil, eraser and 12x18 drawing pad. For grades 2-7. Registration required.

Fridays through March 11. 3:55-5pm. $50. 577 Foundation, 577 E. Front St., Perrysburg. 419-872-0305. 577foundation.org

9 SATURDAY Mickey Matinee: Mickey and Minnie A magical celebration of Disney’s Mickey and Minnie! There will be games, crafts and snacks in honor of these famous mice.

Followed by a showing of classic Mickey

and Minnie films at 1:30pm. 1-3pm.

Way Public Library, 101 E. Indiana Ave., Perrysburg. 419-874-3135. waylibrary.info Free The Case of the Disappearing Planet - Join Skye Watcher and discover what happened to the ex-planet Pluto as she tracks down clues that stretch back hundreds of years! Audiences will have great fun with this unique program that looks into the changing status of planets in our Solar System. Saturdays through January 30. 1pm. $7/adults, $5/children, seniors, UT community members, free/ages 3 and under. Ritter Planetarium, 2801 W. Bancroft. 419-530-4037. utoledo.edu

Get your lassos ready Friday, 1.8 & Saturday, 1.9 Huntington Center Dare-devils holding on for dear life. Wild animals going berserk. Crowd going crazy with enjoyment.

No, we’re not talking about a gladiator battle; this is Professional Bull Riders.

On back-to-back nights, catch the most daring athletes in the modern world on the back of a bull just to see who can hold on for 8 seconds. Judges will decide the winner based on the rider’s ability and how the bull behaves. You don’t want to miss this one, cowboy! 7:30pm Friday, January 8 & Saturday, January 9. $10+. Huntington Center, 500 Jefferson Ave. 419-255-3300. huntingtoncentertoledo.com —ACG

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10 SUNDAY Donut Dash - Loop course on roads/ bike path around the Levis Commons Complex. Course is accurately measured and guaranteed to be slippery, wet, and nasty if it snows or rains. 9am. $5. Second Sole of Toledo, 4190 Levis Commons Blvd., Perrysburg. 419-931-8484.

Metroparks Mutt: New Year, New Habits - Bring the family and spend some quality time with your four-legged friends for a leisurely stroll to kick-off the New Year. Learn tips for starting your year off on the right foot for both your family and your doggie friend. Dogs must have shots, get along with other dogs and be on a standard six foot lead. Program will cancelled if raining. Reservations required. 1-2:30pm. $5. Oak Openings, 4139 Girdham Rd., Swanton. 419-407-9700. metroparkstoledo.com

11 MONDAY

Find the perfect education or recreation for your child at the Preschool Open House and Activity Fair. Taking place earlier in the year than most education fairs, this event allows parents the opportunity to see the variety of local businesses in all areas of childcare, from after-school activities to an assortment of learning groups and family-friendly organizations. Featuring representatives from around the area, including Sylvania, Toledo, Maumee and Perrysburg, there will be something to fit all needs, ages and activity levels. Sponsored

by Toledo Area Parent and the Mothers’ Center of Greater Toledo. 2-5pm Sunday, January 10. McCord Road Christian Church, 4765 N. McCord Rd., Sylvania.

419-320-6953. motherscenter.net Free

have fun creating unique paintings and inflatable play during this two hour art and activity event. Kids should come dressed comfortably to play on the inflatables and paint. Aprons and supplies will be provided. Registration required. 6-8pm. $25. Hero’s Toledo, 9851 Meridian Ct., Rossford. 419-873-9400. herostoledo.com

15 FRIDAY

Musical Jamboree - Preschoolers will have fun making music, dancing, playing games, singing, listening to stories and using toy musical instruments to make our own music. Take home a shaker to decorate and CD of songs. For ages 2-4 with an adult. Mondays through February 29. Registration required. 10-10:45am. $58. 577 Foundation, 577 E. Front St., Perrysburg. 419-872-0305.

577foundation.org

13 WEDNESDAY Story Time In The Manor House Eachmonth,exploreanewtopicaboutsomethingorsomeone thatmakesWildwoodPreservehome.Afterthestory,youandyour littleonewillgetachancetocreateacraftandexplorethepark tolookforourstorytimefriends.Ages3-5.Reservationneeded.

10:30-11:30am.$3.WildwoodManorHouse,5100W.Central Ave. 419-407-9844. metroparkstoledo.com

14 THURSDAY Afterschool Adventure: Hibernation Fascination - Ever feel tired when it is cold outside? Can you imagine sleeping all winter long? Discover how our furry friends function in the cold.

Reservations required. 4-5:30pm. $5.

Wildwood Preserve, 5100 W. Central Ave. 419-407-9844. metroparkstoledo.com Bounce-n-Paint Class - Children will

Sunday, 1.10 / McCord Road Christian Church

Winterfest Youth Hockey Tournament - Teams are guaranteed to play a minimum of four games. The field is limited to 36 Squirt, Pee Wee and Bantam teams. Celebrate the Youth Hockey tournament participants all night long while recognizing teams during an on-ice parade and during several team experience opportunities. Each participating team will receive 25 tickets to the Friday Walleye game. Registration required. $1,250/team.

Through January 18. Huntington Center, 406 Washington St. 419-725-WALL. toledowalleye.com

16 SATURDAY CSI: Animal Tracking - Not all animals hibernate all winter long and neither should you. Learn to identify tracks in the snow and make your own animal track to take home and be the first to arrive on the scene to discover which of our critters have been to the ark. Dress warm for an adventure.

Reservations needed. 1:30-3:30pm. $8.

Swan Creek Metropark, 4659 Airport Hwy. 419-407-9758. metroparkstoledo.com Break It, Make It With Home Depot Kids will have fun building and constructing as Home Depot leads a hands-on workshop project. For ages 10+. 2-3pm. Wood

County Library, 251 N. Main St., Bowling Green. 419-352-5104. wcdpl.org

17 SUNDAY I Spy, Mansion Style - Catch mansion fever by searching for objects hidden in plain sight in the Manor House. With over 32,000 square feet of house to scour, this task is harder than it may seem. Spend an hour, or the afternoon, seeing the house through a new lens. 1-4pm. Wildwood Manor House, 5100 W. Central Ave. 419-407- 9844. metroparkstoledo.com Free Sunday Family Film Club: Jumanji When two kids find and play a magical board game, they release a man trapped for decades in it and a host of dangers that can only be stopped by finishing the game.

2pm. Toledo Museum of Art Little Theater, 2445 Monroe St. 419-255-8000. toledomuseum.org Free

22 FRIDAY Teen Movie Bingo - What is movie bingo? It’s just like regular bingo, but without the numbers. Instead, just watch and listen for scenes and quotes in the movie, then mark them off on your bingo card as they play on the screen. Participants will be watching Minions. For ages 11-15.

3:30-5:15pm. Way Public Library, 101 E. Indiana Ave., Perrysburg. 419-874-3135. waylibrary.info Free

23 SATURDAY Got Snow? Let’s Go! (All Ages) - This winter, Metroparks naturalists will pack up their snowshoes and travel around the park

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Continuing Traditions Saturday, 1.23 / The Valentine Theatre “In a great green room, tucked away in bed, is a little bunny…” Familiar with these sweet, nighttime words? Maybe your parents read you the story when you were a child, or you read it to you littleone now. The classic, magical story of Goodnight Moon will take the stage, during Goodnight Moon and the Runaway Bunny. This stageplay version has been adapted from Margaret Wise Brown’s 60-year-old classic story. Bedtime rituals and familiar stories will be told through animal puppets, scenic effects and evocative music during a one-hour performance — perfect for wiggly children to sit through. This magical performance is one-time only, and sure to last in your youngins’ heads far past bedtime. $10-$14. 2pm Saturday, January 23. The Valentine Theatre, 410 Adams St. 419-242-ARTS. valentinetheare.com —AC

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After Holiday Blues It’s the most wonderful time of the yearWinter break! Kids are out of school for two weeks spending time with families, sleeping in and staying out late…and then reality hits.

Winter break is OVER and the reality of a day to day fixed schedule sets in. Fun times and late nights have been changed to early mornings, homework overloads, tests, and STRESS! But kids are resilient, they will get used to all this stress, right?

Unfortunately, this may not be the case. There are many daily stressors that may be weighing your child down. For instance, added to each school day’s normal stressors of homework and tests come other stressors such as: friends, extracurricular activities, and after school jobs.

It is imperative that your child learn to handle these stressors in a healthy way.

Finally, in addition to modeling healthy ways of dealing with stress, you can encourage your child to talk to a helpful adult whenever they are feeling stressed out.

Opening up about stress before it gets out of hand is a good way for your child to understand they can come to you to talk about anything that may be bothering them.

It is also important to discuss those helpful adults at school, including their teacher(s) and school counselor.

We may not be able to eliminate stress from our lives, but we can eliminate the unhealthy effects of stress just by taking time to develop those healthy stress relieving habits at an early age!

Here is a list of healthy ways to handle stress:

▪ Exercising or playing a sport ▪ Reading ▪ Taking a short T.V. break ▪ Listening to music ▪ Taking a bath or shower ▪ DANCE IT OUT! ▪ Getting a good night’s sleep ▪ Limiting T.V., phone, tablet, etc. screen time (these are time wasters!)

▪ Making a to do list or using a daily planner ▪ Anything safe and healthy that makes you HAPPY!

district. Weather permitting. No experience is required, snowshoes are provided.

Registration required. 7-8:30pm. $9. Metz Visitor Center courtyard at Wildwood Preserve Metropark, 5100 W. Central Ave. 419-407-9700. metroparkstoledo.com Anatomy of a Snowflake - Discover the crystalline beauty of the frozen works of art falling from the sky. Registration required. 10am-noon. W.W. Knight Nature Preserve, 29530 White Rd., Perrysburg.

419-661-1697. woodcountyparkdistrict.org Free Storytime - The children’s book, The Wonderful Things You Will Be, expresses all the loving things that parents think of when they look at their children. With beautiful and sometimes humorous illustrations, this is a book grown-ups will love reading over and over to kids. 11am.

Barnes and Noble Fallen Timbers, 3100 Main St. #1400, Maumee. 419-878-0652. barnesandnoble.com Free Bird’s The Word - Discover the fascinating lives of birds while observing them in the Window on Wildlife and making a winter birdfeeder. For ages 5-7 and their families. Reservations required. 1-3pm. $4/$5. Oak Openings Preserve, 4139 Girdham Rd., Swanton. 419-407-9700. metroparkstoledo.com

24 SUNDAY Super Why! - PBS Kids’ Super Why! Teaches kids the fun and excitement of reading, and loves a visit to the symphony.

Your kids will enjoy this high energy and interactive fusion of music and words.

3pm. $25. The Valentine Theatre, 410 N. Superior St. 419-241-1272. toledosymphony.com

30 SATURDAY

Ashley Rodebaugh, M.A., LCS Prevention Education Specialist

Farm Play: Fireside Paper Dolls BeforetherewereactionfiguresandBarbieDolls,childrencreated imaginativefunwithpaperdolls.Warmupbythefireplaceasyou learnsomecenturiesold-historyofthesepapertoysbeforecrafting yourownfigurestotakehome.1-3pm.CarterHistoricFarm, 18331CarterRd.,BowlingGreen.419-3531897. woodcountyparkdistrict.org

419.475.4449 | www.harbor.org

Ongoing Events

Mythbusters: The Explosive Exhibition, Discover the madness behind the method! Based on the real-life operations room of the MythBusters iconic set, this exhibition is filled with gadgets, props, video and blueprints used by the hosts to explore myths on the show. Through January 10. 10am-5pm Tuesday-Saturday, noon-5pm Sunday, closed/Monday.

Included with admission, $9/ages 3-12, $10/seniors, $11/ages 13-63.

Imagination Station, 1 Discovery Way. 419-244-2674. imaginationstation.org The Great Art Escape, The Toledo Museum of Art comes alive during its annual winter celebration The Great Art Escape. Bring Family and friends to experience the free art activities and performances that are inspired by the exhibitions Degas and the Dance and The Rise of Sneaker Culture. 2pm. January 1-3. Toledo Museum of Art, 2445 Monroe St. 419-255-8000. toledomuseum.org Free Selfies; Invitational Student Show Grades K-12, The focus of the exhibit is original 2D & 3D art pieces inspired by the theme of “Selfie”, left open to interpretation by the students. Students from NW Ohio and SE Michigan will be featured.

On display from January 11–February 26. 8:30am-4:30pm Monday-Friday.

Reception to be held at 3-4:30pm on Sunday, January 31. Maumee Valley Country Day School Wolfe Gallery, 1715 S. Reynolds Rd. 419-381-1313x114. mvcds.org Thursdays Mothers’ Center of Greater Toledo, Mothers meet for fun, food and friendship with the Mothers’ Center of Greater Toledo. Reliable and safe childcare provided. 9:45-11:15am. McCord Road Christian Church, 4765 N. McCord Rd., Sylvania. The group is not affiliated with the church. motherscenter.net Saturdays Storytime at Books-A-Million, Children will enjoy a reading of new and classic stories. 2pm. Books-A-Million Levis Commons, 2105 Levis Commons Blvd., Perrysburg. 419-873-0727. shopleviscommons.com Free

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Free Classifieds: Individuals may receive one free 20-word ad per month (products offered in ads must sell for under $100). Each additional word 40 cents, payment must accompany ad. Free ads run 1 month and are reserved for private-parties use, noncommercial concerns and free services.

Line Classifieds: Only $20 per month for 20 words or less. Each additional word is 40 cents each and any artwork will be $5 extra.

Display Classifieds: Display classifieds with a box may be purchased for $25 per column inch. Photos are accepted with ads for an additional $5 per photo.

Neighbors League Club of Toledo at our website. www.newneighborstoledo.com.

Deadlines: Ad copy must be received by the 15th of the month prior to publication.

Payment: Payment must be received before an ad can

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