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The year Christmas was cancelled

community snapshots what’s briefly happening

new kids on the block

The holiday lesson: fatherly patience — by Matthew Reger

24 mother mayhem

If these couch cushions could talk

exceptional families tween the lines

Reflecting on the secrets of ‘home disheveled home’ — by Mary Helen Darah

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Brooklynn Reinbolt, 4 years old and Adalynn Reinbolt, 6 months, from Sylvania Want your child to be our next cover kid? Send your photos to production@ adamsstreetpublishing.com wth your child’s name, age and hometown.

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What was your most memorable Christmas morning?

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"I got a microscope one year. I was home schooled, so it was cool to be nerdy."

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"My dad had gotten an elaborate chicken done in Lite-Brite pegs that said 'To the best chick ever." Part of the thrill was I knew it wasn't Santa that got it for me, but I had to pretend it was. I was way too old for it, and I think that's why it was so poignant to me.

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"I put a lot of thought into gifts, even though they're not expensive. So the best thing about Christmas is watching people's reaction to what I gave them."

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SAGITTARIUS KIDS Born November 22 to December 20

By Sue Lovett

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Sagittarian kids are always happy if they are given space to do their own thing. They are very curious and the most creative sign of the zodiac. They have super imaginations and are content to build, cut, paste and make some of their own cards and paper necklaces. They are fascinated to hear about foreign countries and may try to dig a hole to China in the back yard.

They love animals, especially horses. They seem to take on every challenge, which can be difficult for parents to understand.

Parents should remember that the Sagittarius child resents strict time limits. Try to give them a 15-minute warning when meals will be served and before clean up and bed time. Often the Sagittarian child will spin a globe to find places around the world. Learning a second language (even sign language) is fun as long as they do not have to sit still for any length of time.

They are extremely bright-eyed, friendly and creative. Encourage them to make their own Christmas cards and gifts.

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Turkey day fun Tykes around the area celebrated first steps and first holidays!

Hayden, 1 1/2 years old, Tole do

Gabrielle Lynn Ruiz, 1 year old, Toledo Bailey Stoebe, age 3, from Toledo/Sylvania

Anna Stirn, 9 months, Metamora

That’s a wrap

Isabella Victoria Mugler, 16 months, Toledo

Waterville Primary students celebrated raising $12,000 by duct taping school staff!

Principal Dr. Chad Warnimont, physical education teacher Mr. David Knapp, and 2nd grade teacher Mrs. Teresa Ernsthausen

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what’s Life thoughts from a legendary gridiron titan Wouldn’t everybody like to get some inspiration from a living legend?

If, like a lot of Midwesterners, you happen to be a Steelers fan, then you’ll be even more excited, as the immortal Terry Bradshaw, NFL great, broadcaster and (yes) actor, comes to Toledo Christian School’s annual benefit on Wednesday, December 5. Bradshaw won the hearts of football fans in the 1970s with multiple Super Bowl victories, and has gone on to a long and successful career behind the microphone and in front of the camera.

(He’s even been the voice behind some gospel and country hits!) He’s also a highly successful speaker, and TCS’s audience will get a unique opportunity to hear his advice for success.

Bradshaw, a devout Christian, also speaks of his spiritual journey, so prepare to be inspired.

Doors at 6:15pm, dinner at 7. $50. SeaGate Center, 401 Jefferson Ave. 419-389-8700 for reservations. www.toledochristian.com.

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An artsy start to the weekend

The Toledo Museum of Art’s Family Center is giving kids and their parents a new reason to say “T.G.I.F.” with an alternative that is fun, educational and accessible for the whole family. The last Friday of every month, the Family Center hosts a local artist who speaks to families with children 10 and under about their process and inspiration.

Started back in September, the Family Center’s creative curators have devised a way to connect each month’s exhibition with an interactive learning experience. This month, kids not only get to admire TMA’s very own Mary Gaynier’s paper-cut portraits — a fun spin on paper snowflakes — but they get to create some of their own. “The idea is to break down an artwork into elements and principles of design so that together, families can appreciate not just the art that

hangs in museums, but art that is being created all around them, everyday,” says Center manager Regina Jankowski. Best of all, it’s a nice way to introduce families to local artists and increase their awareness of the vibrant arts community in the Glass City. Free. Friday, December 28. 6-7pm. For more information, contact Regina Jankowski, 419-255-8000, ext. 7411 or visit www.toledomuseum.org. —CC

Visions of glass danced through her head Sugarplums, super-soakers and baby dolls are what many children dream of this time of year. But not seven-year-old Madison Saint John.

The budding artist finds time in her busy school schedule — soccer on the weekends and spelling practice on weekdays — to create fun, quirky glass pieces she sells through her growing business, Madison’s Creations in Glass. While other children decorate their sidewalks with chalk or finger-paint while their mothers cook dinner, young Madison has watched — and learned from — her father, glass artist KC Saint John, while he works his magic in the studio.

Once he recognized her talent, KC let Madison take over the glassblowing while he works on his personal campaign backing local artists, called Support Your Glass, not lemonade: Madison Saint John sells her wares Local Talent. The young artiste has created glass objects like T-Town Frogs to commemorate Toledo’s frog history, ladybugs, hearts and even a collection of life-like butterflies. You can find Madison’s Creations in Glass at art fairs across the state, in local boutiques, on the internet or even in her own front yard.

With the holiday’s fast approaching, this young Labino makes sure her glasswork is affordably priced — most pieces range from $10 to $20.

419-481-0102. www.facebook.com/#!/MadisonsCreations. —CC

Guest artists will be featured on the following Fridays at T MA’s Center: Dec. 28: Mary Gaynier, paper cut portraits Jan. 25: Tim Gaewsky, multi media artist Feb. 22: Liz Spencer, ceramics and clay March 29: Jeremy Pellington, unique creations April 26: Michelle Duni, illustrating stories

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Monogrammed ornaments. Finger-painted Christmas trees. You’ve done it all for grandma, grandpa, mom, dad, and your significant other, but now you’re fresh out of ideas and in need of something that is just as unique as they are — or as you are. Why not go a little ‘old school’ by commissioning an artistic rendering of someone you love? Bryan DeKay, artist and teacher at Toledo’s Bennett Venture Academy, paints portraits of friends, families or children for that special, personalized gift.

He uses photos of his subjects (anything from the family dog to grandparents) to paint modern, frame-worthy images that are fun to hang on the walls. His knack for turning the ordinary into the extraordinary transfers over to his subjects as well: thanks to DeKay’s paintbrush, you’ll look like rockstars. DeKay charges $30 an hour; portraits typically take two to three hours. For more information, visit muzukasii.deviantart.com or email 71.bdekay@heritageacademies.com —CC

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Earth-friendly chic

Customers call her “The Diva of Secondhand,” and describe her new store, The Green Boutique, as “thriftique.” Raechel Kolling calls herself a store owner who wants to give Toledoans “another way to be green and shop local, without overspending” on fashion, accessories, and home décor. After 15 years working in an office environment, Kolling decided to follow her dream of owning a chic boutique-type shop. She uses her lifelong interest in arts and crafts and a big imagination to make jewelry from broken, discarded, junked or vintage pieces and to restore and/ or repaint used or discarded furniture, mirrors and home décor pieces. She offers gentlyused clothes, purses, and shoes, and fashions second-hand threads, glue, and paint into unique pieces that appeal to people who believe in recycling and its ability to improve the economy and the environment. “I want to change the way shoppers view second-hand shopping with the look and feel of a high-end shop without the high-end prices,” Kolling says. “I offer unique pieces not found in department stores. Most shoppers who come in do not know I’m a thrift store until they see my prices or I explain what I’m about.”

The Green Boutique is located at the Marketplace West Shoppes, 3606 Sylvania Ave. (at Monroe St.) Store hours are weekdays 11am-7pm, and weekends 10am-4pm. 419-206-9458. www.thegreenboutique.org. —CH

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Eco-friendly autism education

When Barb Sabin’s son Patrick approached graduation, she looked at the occasion not with celebratory happiness but with the feeling many parents of adults with special needs experience: anxiety.

Patrick’s adulthood meant a new set of challenges.

“I saw that there weren’t very many appropriate options for him and other kids with autism,” says Sabin, a special education teacher and intervention specialist. “Sitting at home on the couch wasn’t going to be an option for him, because I believe all of these kids can work. The key is to have a program designed around them that’s built on their strengths and not their weaknesses.”

Sabin got inspired and this year started Green Options for Autism of Lucas County, a school for students ages 5 through 22 and an adult services program. Job training is focused on environmental work in a greenhouse or other eco-friendly program, and will teach social and communication skills so that students can thrive in mainstream work environments.

There are also goals to incorporate a residential, independent living facility in the future. “I think it gives them purpose, it gives them something to look forward to,” Sabin says. “It’s not about the paycheck — they just want to be thought of as an equal member of society, as they are.”

For more information on enrollment or opportunities to get involved, contact Sabin at 419-250-0401 or email goindependence@yahoo.com. Green Options for Autism of Lucas County is located at 1660 Amesbury. Visit facebook.com/bsabin58 or www.goautismlucas.com. —AO

Sibling support

Often the focus of exceptional families can be on the child dealing with a disability. But how do parents support the special needs child’s siblings, who are often lost in the shuffle? Local mom and Lucas County Parent Mentor Wendy Smenner experienced those challenges with her own children, Wesley and Conor, firsthand. She was inspired to bring support group Sibshops to the area. Sibshops aims to provide a safe space for siblings of children with disabilities to talk, connect and have fun with other kids who understand their circumstances. Children can gather for fun games and hands-on cooking activities, and take a break from their regular routines under the guidance of professionals who “understand the impact a child’s special needs can have on brothers and sisters.” Sibshops is open to children from 8 to 14 and meets one Saturday a month from 10am-1pm at the Alternate Learning Center, 3939 Wrenwood Rd. Future meetings are January 5, February 9 and March 2.

For more information or to register (space is limited), contact Wendy at 419-471-0384 or email wsmenner@esclakeeriewest.org. —AO

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THE LINES TWEEN advice for parents with children 10-16

The leaping ladies: Charlotte Thurston and Samantha Jacobs

The two Claras

Meeting the Toledo Ballet's young stars

By Mary Helen Darah

Recently I had the pleasure of speaking with two highly talented young women that are thrilled to be dancing the coveted role of Clara in Toledo Ballet’s 2012 Nutcracker. These credible young women are geared up and ready to hit the stage. Samantha Jacobs, a freshman at Notre Dame Academy and Charlotte Thurston, a freshman attending Ottawa Hills High School, are honored to carry the lead role in a ballet that has been part of Toledo’s history for 72 years.

The only leaping I do is over the pile of laundry in my teen’s room, and my todo list is still a work in process. These young dancers (and honor students) gracefully soar through a schedule of company dance and performance rehearsals, and weekly technique classes. Samantha is also on NDA’s dive and dance team and Charlotte is a cheerleader for Ottawa Hills. “You learn to manage your time well,” explains Samantha. "If we get a half hour break, we do homework.” The dedicated ladies believe the hours of rigorous training are worth their efforts as they strive to perfect their mind, body and spirit. What a far cry from my “downtime” that consists of raiding the pantry and finding the remote.

Samantha and Charlotte believe that it is every young dancer’s dream to play Clara. “We love being role models for the younger girls. They see us and know that one day it could be them,” Samantha says. “It’s great that we get to share our love of dance and have the role of Clara together,” states Charlotte. Samantha and Charlotte, who have been dancing together for the past five years, know their dancing and their friendship will continue to grow in the future. I know they will dance into your hearts as they did mine.

The 72nd annual Nutcracker will be held at the Stranahan Theater on Saturday, December 15 at 2pm and 7pm and on Sunday, December 16 at 2pm. Tickets range from $21 to $51 and are available by calling 419-381-8851 or by visiting ToledoBallet.net.

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Through Sunday, December 16 Obee Road, Whitehouse 419-877-2733 / whitehousetreefarm.com Walk around acres of trees to select the perfect one for your family Christmas — if you’re feeling tough, you may even choose to saw the tree down yourself. Wagon rides through the farmland are also available. Open through Sunday, December 16; Thursdays & Fridays 3pm until dark, Saturdays & Sundays 10am until dark.

Saturday, December 1 St. Luke's Lutheran Church / Corner of Jackman and Sterns Rd., Temperance 734-847-0922 Artisans will be selling hand-crafted Americana items like natural evergreen decorations, garden deco, candles, ornaments, Santas and snowmen. This year the group will also sponsor the “Primitive Pineapple Shoppe” offering antiques for sale. Lunch available for purchase. $1 donation requested. 9am-3pm.

Christmas Tree Farm

Rick & Carl’s Christmas Trees

Through December 20354 N. Dixie Highway, Bowling Green 419-409-0252 bowlinggreenchristmastrees.com Explore a Christmas-time forest of thousands of trees, from Scotch Pine to Douglas Fir. A saw and sled will be provided for those who want to cut down their own tree, and fresh cut trees are also available for purchase.

Sugar cookies, wreathes, and garlands are available too! Weekdays noon-dark, Saturday 10am-dark, Sunday 11am-dark.

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Through Sunday, December 30 Northwest Ohio Railroad Preservation, Inc. 11600 County Rd. 99, Findlay 419-423-2995 / www.nworrp.org Bring your whole family for an exhilarating quarter-scale steam train ride as the steam engine chugs its way around the track through a magical winter wonderland of sparkling holiday lights and festive decorations. Every weekend through December 30: Fridays, 6-9pm; Saturdays, 5-9pm; Sundays, 5-8pm. $1 children (12 & under) and $2 adults (price includes one train ride ticket).

Horse-drawn carriage rides

Through Saturday, December 29 The Town Center at Levis Commons 3201 Levis Commons Blvd., Perrysburg 419-931-8888 www.shopleviscommons.com For a truly magical holiday experience, hop on a horse-drawn carriage ride. Pick-up is located on Chappel Dr. near Schakolad Chocolate Factory. 5-8pm on Saturdays. $5/ person, $10/family.

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the East entrance to Wildwood Preserve. Drop by the Farmhouse to decorate your own cookie or holiday stocking.

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Christmas Craft Show

Kids Holiday Craft Week

Old Frenchtown Christmas

Holiday Festivities at the Farmhouse: Card Making and Ornament Decorating

Saturday, December 1 River Raisin National Battlefield Park 1403 E. Elm Ave., Monroe 734-243-7136 www.riverraisinbattlefield.org Celebrate the holidays the old French Way! Learn about French Christmas traditions such as the yule log, crèche, wooden shoes, cooking and more. There will also be children’s Christmas crafts, storytelling and refreshments. 11am-3pm.

7th Annual Make-A-Wish Holiday Craft Show Saturday, December 1 2901 Key St., Maumee 419-893-4589 / www.co.lucas.oh.us Browse a selection of handmade items from area crafters, and enjoy raffles, an auction, refreshments and lunch. Free admission and parking. All proceeds benefit the Make-A-Wish foundation. 10-4pm.

Holiday Cafe & Craft Show

Sunday, December 2 to Sunday, December 9 Wildwood Preserve Metropark 5100 W. Central Ave. 419-407-9701 www.metroparkstoledo.com Finish your holiday visit to the Manor House with a short walk to the Holiday Cafe and Craft Show in Metroparks Hall. Warm-up with hot chocolate, coffee, hot dogs, cookies and fresh popcorn.

Special handmade gifts are for sale from local craftsmen. Free. 10am-8pm.

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Tuesday, December 4 to Saturday, December 8 Point Place Branch Library 2727 117th St. / 419-259-5390 www.toledolibrary.org Drop in any day of the week to make a special holiday craft to take home. Crafts will change throughout the week, so participants can come more than once! 12-8:45pm.

Wednesday, December 5 Wildwood Preserve Metropark Farmhouse 5100 W. Central Ave. / 419-407-9727 www.metroparkstoledo.com With supplies and assistance from Pat Catan's Craft's 2000, spread cheer by creating your own holiday card and ornament. Drop in anytime to join the ongoing Farmhouse festivities.

Farmhouse is at the park's East entrance. $1 supply fee per card or ornament. 10am-8pm.

.Imagination . . l e ar niStation ng Frostology

Through Sunday, January 6 1 Discovery Way (Summit & Adams St.) 419-244-2674 www.imaginationstationtoledo.org Make ornaments for your tree by creating a chromatography snowflake with a coffee filter, markers, and H2O, or grow snow using a super absorber and water. Or try liquid nitrogen ice cream to get you into the holiday spirit! Costs vary; visit website for more info.

The Mystery of the Christmas Star

Saturday, December 1 to Saturday, December 15 Lourdes University's Appold Planetarium 6832 Convent Blvd., Sylvania 419-517-8897 / www.lourdes.edu Journey back 2000 years to Bethlehem and discover a scientific explanation for the star the wise men followed to find the baby Jesus.

The Appold Planetarium’s newest holiday show The Mystery of the Christmas Star investigates possible dates for the birth of Christ and looks at recorded sightings of significant astronomical events during this timeframe. Shows at the Appold Planetarium are limited to 50 and often sell out. $5 adults/$4 children under 12. 7:30pm on Saturdays.

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.International . . f ood Tea & Gingerbread Party

Saturday, December 1 Hilton Garden Inn 6165 Levis Commons Blvd., Perrysburg 419-931-8888 / www.shopleviscommons.com Children will love decorating a gingerbread house that is theirs to keep during this fundraiser for ISOH/Impact. Fill up your belly and your tea cup at the buffet which will be stocked full of teas, soups and desserts. Tickets required. $20.

11:30am-1:30pm.

12th Annual Vistula Victorian Christmas Tea & Open House

Friday, December 7 to Sunday, December 9 The Matthew Brown House 1107 N. Superior St. / 419-389-3452 www.historicvistulafoundation.org Enjoy the beautiful decorations and treat the family to a historical holiday, with delicious treat and teas served on fine china and linens. Friday at 11:30am, 1:30pm or 3:30pm. Saturday at 11am, 1pm, or 3pm. Sunday at 12:30pm, 2:30pm, and 4:30pm. $25 donation per person; early reservations suggested.

Toledo Club Parade of Trees and Buffet Dinner

Wednesday, December 11 & Thursday, December 12; Tuesday, December 18 to Thursday, December 20 /235 14th St. 419-243-2200 / toledoclub.org The Toledo Club will be open to the public to enjoy a festive holiday buffet in the historical main dining room, and to view over 40 decorated trees throughout the club. Call for reservations; space is limited: $35/person all inclusive. Dinner at 5:30 or 7:30pm.

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419-381-8851 www.stranahantheater.com The Toledo Ballet will be accompanied by the Toledo Symphony Orchestra to present the timeless holiday classic of a young girl and her magical nutcracker doll. Saturday at 2pm & 7pm; Sunday at 2pm. Cost $21-$51.

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The Toledo Rep Theatre: A Christmas Carol

Wednesday, December 12 to Friday, December 14 2500 Wilford Dr. 419-841-8077 www.westgatechapel.org The Bethlehem Experience at Westgate Chapel is an interactive dramatization of the Christmas story. Free. 6-9pm. 12-4pm Saturday, 10am-noon Sunday with service at 11am.

Saturday, December 15 and Sunday, December 16 Collingwood Presbyterian Church 2108 Collingwood Blvd.

419-243-3275 / www.collingwoodpc.net Experience the sights and sounds of ancient life in Bethlehem, with interactive fun, live animals, a nativity scene, musical performances, bake sale and tours of the historic church. Free.

December 12 1035 River Rd., Maumee 419-893-9602 / www.wolcotthouse.com Come sip tea and enjoy holiday food favorites at the Wolcott House, a historical landmark.

Call for reservations (required). $10 per person.

.Shred . .givin g for a Toy

Saturday, December 1 Burger King 4870 Monroe St. 419-213-3254 www.co.lucas.oh.us/LCCS Donate a new, unwrapped toy at Allshred Services’ “Shred for a Toy” event at the Burger King across from Westfield Franklin Park Mall.

Free shredding for up to five bags or boxes of documents with your gift donation, which is part of Lucas County Children Services’ ‘Give The Best Gift Ever’ drive. Donations can be made to collection boxes in parking lots at Burger King, Car Stereo One and Family Video stores, as well. 1-3pm.

Religious Education Holiday Celebration

Friday, November 30 to Sunday, December 2 The Valentine Theatre 410 Adams St. 419-242-2787 / www.toledorep.org The Rep’s rendition of the family classic “A Christmas Carol” will bring to life Scrooge, Tiny Tim, and the ghosts of Christmas past, present, and future. Friday and Saturday at 8pm; Sunday at 2:30pm. $27.

Masterworks Chorale: The Annual Christmas Concert

Saturday, December 1 to Sunday, December 2 Epworth United Methodist Church 4855 W. Central Ave. 419-242-0800 www.masterworkschorale.us/christmas.php Masterworks Chorale presents a concert of Nine Lessons and Carols celebrating the magnificent Christmas story in song, poetry, and Scripture.

Performances Saturday at 8pm and Sunday at 4pm. Tickets are $25 for reserved seats and $20 for general admission.

Uh-Oh, Here Comes Christmas

Sunday, December 23 First Unitarian Church of Toledo 3205 Glendale Ave. 419-381-6999 / www.uutoledo.org Kids in grades K through 8 can start their winter break with some educational fun. First Unitarian Church of Toledo aims to provide a loving, open-minded religious community for families. 11am.

Friday, November 30 through Sunday, December 2 Lourdes University Ebeid Student Center 6832 Convent Blvd., Sylvania 419-517-8881 / www.lourdes.edu Fans of Robert Fulgham’s best-selling book All I Really Need to Know I Learned in Kindergarten will enjoy the Lourdes University Drama Society’s fifth annual production of Uh-Oh, Here Comes Christmas, a series of dramatic vignettes based on Fulgham’s short stories that take a funny, warm-hearted and poignant look at the struggle to find the holiday spirit. Friday and Saturday, 7pm; Sunday, 2pm. $8 general admission/$5 seniors.

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The Nutcracker Preview at the Library

Saturday, December 1 to Sunday, December 2 Peristyle Theater 2445 Monroe St. 419-246-8000 / www.toledosymphony.com From the delicate melodies of its opening arias to the magnificent power of the “Great Amen” and “Hallelujah” choruses, Messiah perfectly demonstrates Handel’s mastery of epic works for chorus, orchestra and soloists. Toledo Symphony, The Toledo Choral Society, and BGSU University Choral Society will collaborate for this

Saturday, December 1 Main Library, 325 North Michigan St. 419-259-5200 / www.toledolibrary.org Dance into the Toledo Lucas County Public Library for the third annual spotlight on The Nutcracker.

Dancers from The Toledo Ballet will perform an excerpt from this holiday favorite. Enjoy crafts and refreshments, and one lucky winner will win 2 tickets to The Toledo Ballet's performance of The Nutcracker! 11am-noon.

1. Espn, 5, Parris, 10, and Reign Hurt, Maumee 2. Olivia Messer, 1, Holland 3. Connor Messer, 2 1/2, Holland 4. Gavin Wendt, 2, Holland 5. Birr twins 6. Brooklyn Harrison 7. Christopher Hoyt, 6, Holland 8. Landon Knestrick, 2 1/2 months, Toledo.

9. Sophia Steinman 10. Ayva Marie Ellis, age 3, Perrysburg

Lourdes University Christmas Concert

Sunday, December 2 Lourdes University Franciscan Center Theatre 6832 Convent Blvd., Sylvania.

419-824-3772 / www.lourdes.edu "Love and Joy Come to You" will feature choral settings by Tschesnokoff, Southall, Myers, Courtney Biscay, and the Gloria in Excelsis from the Unaccompanied Mass by Louis F. Davis, former director of choirs at Sylvania High School (née Sylvania Northview), and father of Chip Davis of Mannheim Steamroller fame. The Maumee Community Band will perform seasonal favorites including German, French, and English carol arrangements, selections from The Polar Express, and Leroy Anderson's Sleigh Ride. Free. 7:15pm.

Sweet Harmony Holiday Performance

Monday, December 3 Sylvania Branch Library 6749 Monroe St., Sylvania.

419-882-2089 www.toledolibrary.org Get ready for the holidays as Sweet Harmony, a women's a cappella ensemble, entertains the crowd with seasonal songs. Refreshments will be provided. Free and open to all ages.

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... thrills & tHoliday o ursLantern Tours at Sauder Village

Friday, November 30; Saturday, December 1; Friday, December 7; Saturday, December 8 22611 St. Rt. 2, Archbold 800-590-9755 / www.saudervillage.org The flicker of a candle will light the way as a costumed guide invites small groups on a journey to meet historical characters in various locations.

Guests will experience the holiday customs and celebrations of the 1900s. Pre-registration/ payment is required. Tours last approximately 90 minutes and are repeated every half hour from 4-8:30pm. Non-member adults $12, children 3 & up $7.

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Snow Globe Live

Through Friday, December 28 The Town Center at Levis Commons 3201 Levis Commons Blvd., Perrysburg.

419-931-8888 / www.shopleviscommons.com Step inside a giant snow globe perfect for creating holiday memories. Bring your camera and your inner child to play in this totally unique winter escape!

5-9pm.

Winter Wonderland 3D Christmas Walk-Thru 1. Collin Wendt, 5, Holland.

2. Madison, 13, Blake, 10, and Chase Jozsa, 4, Ottawa Hills 3. Allyson and Katelyn Meyers, 6, Toledo 4. Dawson Jerger, 9 months, Perrysburg

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Miracle on 35th Street

Weekends through Sunday, December 9 The Croswell Opera House and Fine Arts Association 129 E. Maumee St., Adrian, Michigan 517-264-SHOW / croswell.org Filled with humor, spectacle (the opening scene takes place the famous Macy’s Thanksgiving Day Parade) and such beloved songs as “It’s Beginning To Look A Lot Like Christmas,” this joyous, heart-warming musical based on the movie is the perfect holiday treat! November 30 and December 1 and 7 at 7:30pm; December 2 at 2:30pm; Saturday, December 8 at 2:30pm & 7:30pm; Sunday, December 9 at 2:30pm. Adults $28, seniors/students $25, children $15.

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Through Monday, December 31 Ghostly Manor Thrill Center 3319 Milan Rd., Sandusky 419-626-4467 / www.ghostlymanor.com Your family’s every Christmas dream comes to life at Ghostly Manor Thrill Center’s magical 3D Christmas Winter Wonderland Walk-Thru. Grab your free pair of magical glasses for an adventure to meet Santa and his elves. That’s not all — every evening throughout December enjoy a free light show from 6pm-midnight.

Simply drive up and tune your car radio to 99.7FM. through December 31. $7 adults, $5 kids, free for children under 5. Sundays-Thursdays, 12-8pm; Fridays & Saturdays, 12-10pm.

Tours de Noel 2012

Saturday, December 1 & Sunday, December 2 The Old West End Common’s Park Tree & Gazebo Lighting (Corners of Robinwood and Bancroft) 419-244-4921 www.womenoftheoldwestendinc.com Enjoy home tours, a parade, cookie walk, and much more at the Old West End’s Tours de Noel. The opening ceremonies begin on Saturday, December 1 with the Santa Parade and the Tree Lighting in the Common’s Park at Robinwood and Bancroft. Saturday festivities begin at 3:30pm (lighting at 4:30), and Sunday historic Old West End home tours are from 12-7pm. Prices (donations): $15 per person/day, $5 for a single home tour, $12 per person/day for pre-sale, $10 for seniors (55 & older), children 13 & under are free with an adult.

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Children’s Wonderland

Saturday, December 1 to Friday, December 28 Sylvania Tam-O-Shanter / 7060 Sylvania Ave. 419-885-1167 x332 www.childrenswonderland.org Children’s Wonderland is a classic Toledo tradition with a plethora of lights, life-size decorations, a ride-on train and plenty of other ways to celebrate the holidays. Buy some toys, satisfy your sweet tooth, or take some silly pictures to make this trip memorable.

Santa’s Workshop will be held Dec. 8 and 15 from 8:30am to 10:30am (admission $8) and will include a strolling Santa (who will be available for pictures, so bring your camera!), a continental breakfast for the kids, a train ride, and elf workstations. Open daily 11am to 7pm. Adults $5, children $2, seniors $2, and children 2 & under free.

Holidays in the Manor House

Sunday, December 2 to Sunday, December 9 Wildwood Preserve Metropark 5100 W. Central Ave. / 419-407-9726 www.MetroparksToledo.com Holidays in the Manor House is a 37-year-old Toledo tradition. Volunteers decorate more than 35 areas of the Manor House, and it is then open to the public for free tours over an eightday period. Open daily from 10am to 8pm.

Fort Meigs Holiday Open House

Sunday, December 9 Fort Meigs State Memorial (Visitor Center) 29100 W. River Rd., Perrysburg 419-874-4121 www.fortmeigs.org Celebrate the holidays as if you were part of the War of 1812. Soldiers and civilians dressed in period clothing will be on hand to provide demonstrations and answer questions about the war and camp life. Enjoy holiday music, hot cider and cookies, and hands-on activities. Sunday from 1-4pm. $1/person.

.Toledo . . f e sZoo t i vLights ities Before Christmas

Through Monday, December 31 The Toledo Zoo 2 Hippo Way (off the Anthony Wayne Trail) 419.385.4040 / www.toledozoo.org Thousands of lights illuminate the walkways and the animals, creating a unique experience for zoo-goers. In addition to the lights, every Thursday (from December 6 to 27) the zoo will hold ice carving demonstrations from 11am to 2pm.

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Zoo-goers may then experience the lights from 3pm to 9pm. Children under 2 free, children under 12 $11, adults $14, seniors $11 ($2 off for Lucas County residents).

Stanleigh & Me: Holiday Fun for the Young Saturday, December 1 Wildwood Preserve Metropark 5100 W. Central Ave. 419-407-9700 www.metroparkstoledo.com Before it was Wildwood Preserve, The Stranahan Estate came alive for the holidays and the grandchildren did not get left out of the fun.

Visit the Farmhouse at Wildwood to enjoy a celebration inspired by festivities the Stranahan grandkids enjoyed. Register online; $5/$4 metroparks members. 1-2:30pm.

Botanical Garden Heralding the Holidays

Friday, December 7 to Sunday, December 9 Toledo Botanical Garden 5403 Elmer Dr. 419-536-5566 / www.toledogarden.org Start your holiday shopping with a unique selection of arts and crafts: pottery, glass, fine art, photography and jewelry, all handmade by local artists. Besides shopping, families may participate in kids’ activities, meet with Santa, and listen to live entertainment. On Friday night only, there will be horse-drawn wagon rides. Friday, December 7, 5-9pm; Saturday, December 8, 10-5pm; Sunday, December 9, 12pm-5pm. Free.

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Saturday, December 1 5717 Main St., Sylvania 419-882-4865 www.cityofsylvania.com Enjoy carriage rides, hot chocolate and cookies, along with a Santa visit, from 4:307pm.

Northview High School

Levis Commons

Saturday, December 1 to Sunday, December 23 3201 Levis Commons Blvd., Perrysburg www.shopleviscommons.com December 1 to 16: Fridays 4-8pm; Saturdays 3-7pm; Sundays 1-5pm. December 17 to 23: daily from 3-7pm. If Santa is out when you come to visit, you can still drop off your Christmas wish list. All letters that include a return address will receive a personal response from Santa! Santa’s favorite letters will even be published in The Perrysburg Messenger Journal.

Westfield Franklin Park Mall

Saturday, December 1 to Monday, December 24 5001 Monroe St. / 419.473.3317 www.westfield.com/franklinpark/holiday December 1 to 23: Mondays through Saturdays from 10am-9pm; Sundays 11am-6pm.

December 24: 10am-4pm.

Bass Pro Shop

Now through Monday, December 24 10000 Bass Pro Blvd., Rossford 419-891-3900 /www.basspro.com Kids can enjoy arts and crafts and games in Santa's workshop. Through Sunday, December 9: Monday through Friday 3-8pm, Saturday 10am-8pm, Sunday noon-5pm. Monday, December 9 to Monday, December 24: Monday through Saturday, 10am-8pm, Sunday 10am5pm.

Shops at Fallen Timbers

Now through Monday, December 24 3100 Main St., Maumee 419-878-6255 www.theshopsatfallentimbers.com Through Sunday, December 9: Monday through Thursday, 3-7pm; Friday and Saturday, 12-8pm with a break from 3:45-4:45pm; Sunday 12-5pm. Monday December 10 to Sunday December 23: Monday through Saturday, 128pm with a break from 3:34-4:45pm; Sunday 12-5pm. Monday, December 24, 9am-5pm with a break from 1-1:45pm.

Imagination Station

Monday, December 10 & Tuesday, December 11 1 Discovery Way, downtown Toledo 419-244-2674 www.imaginationstationtoledo.org Visit Santa inside a giant gingerbread castle — bring letters that need to be delivered to the North Pole, and be sure to bring your camera!

12-4pm. Request a free timed ticket at the box office.

Saturday, December 1 5403 Silica Dr., Sylvania 419-824-8570 www.cityofsylvania.com A bake sale, crafts, games, raffle and photo op with Santa. $5 adults, $3 children 10 and under for all-you-can eat breakfast and entry.

8-11am.

Pet Supplies Plus

Saturday, December 1 & Sunday, December 2 849 W. Alexis Rd. or 6923 W. Central Ave. 419-266-5607 / www.humaneohio.org Have a professional photographer snap a holiday photo of your pets and family with Santa Claus.

You can even have holiday cards made out of the photos.

Old West End

Saturday, December 1 Common's Park, at Robinwood and Bancroft toledooldwestend.com As part of Tours De Noel, Santa will welcome children and their families starting at 3:30pm; tree lighting is at 4:30pm.

Manor House at Wildwood Preserve Metropark

Saturday, December 1 5100 W. Central Ave. 419-407-9701 www.metroparkstoledo.com Enjoy a photo op with Santa. Space is limited, reservations required. $8. 9:30-10am.

Toledo Botanical Gardens

Friday, December 7 to Sunday, December 9 5403 Elmer Dr. 419-536-5566 www.toledogarden.org On Friday enjoy free horse-drawn wagon rides; the whole weekend includes fun kids activities, food, and of course, Santa sightings. Friday 5-9pm; Saturday 10am-5pm; Sunday 12-5pm.

Bowling Green

Saturday, December 8 & Saturday, December 15 Wood County District Public Library 251 N. Main St., Bowling Green 419-352-5104 www.downtownbgohio.org Meet Santa and Mrs. Claus! On Saturday at 10:30 am enjoy a storytime with Santa, and on Sunday at 2:30pm enjoy songs and creative play with Mrs. Claus! Free. (No parking meter charges in downtown BG for the month of December — make a day of it with the kids!)

Zia’s

Saturday, December 15 20 Main St. / 888-710-3020 www.noh.easterseals.com Enjoy a lunch break with Santa while raising money for people with disabilities. $7.50 children 12 and under; $12.50 adult; children 2 and under are free. 11am-12:30pm.

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modern family

Christmas

Some families like to keep it classic.

Others forge their own holiday path — breaking the traditions of yore and creating new memories of the season.

From a celebration of gift-giving (an atheist family) to parents who must take a rain check (a pair of doctors), TAP explores today’s families and their varied pursuits of holiday happiness.

Christmas in swimsuits Megan Lutz and her husband, Raul Bosio, haven’t been able to celebrate Christmas on December 25th since they’ve been together. The reason: they are both doctors — Megan is finishing her final year of an obstetrics and gynecology residency and Raul is a surgeon — and one or both of them has been on call for both Christmas Eve and Christmas Day for the last eight years.

They have a daughter, who is only three and a half years old, and a newborn, so once the kids are old enough to notice their family celebrates Christmas a little differently, Megan says, “We will have to be more careful in the way we [observe] Christmas.”

On top of celebrating on a different day, the Bosio family also has some unique Argentinian traditions to add to their American Christmas. In Argentina, everyone opens presents on Christmas Eve at midnight after church.

The Bosio family hasn’t picked up that tradition yet because of their work schedules, but Megan says once they’re “old and gray” and can dictate their on-call schedules, they will undoubtedly adopt that tradition.

When the Bosios can guarantee that “no one is sleep-deprived or on-call,” they hope to celebrate Christmas in Argentina, where Megan says “everyone watches fireworks in their bathing suits on Christmas day.” According to Megan, everything else is the same — the festive lights, the “American Christmas tree,” the exchange of presents — except it’s summertime in Argentina.

As Megan bluntly puts it: “They’re tan; we’re not. They’re in swimsuits; we’re not.”

While Megan says it has been an “adjustment” to celebrate Christmas on a different day each year, she says at least they have a day when they can all be together as a family to celebrate the meaning of Christmas. They just need to make sure to follow their own Christmas tradition: their cocker spaniel must open his stocking first to distract him from getting into the rest of the Christmas presents!

By Erin Marsh Photos by Dennis Oblander

Envelopes full of money Most teenagers unanimously agree on the best part of Christmas: presents! Jessica Wong, a Chinese-American teenager, has a different view: “The best part is definitely the food. I really like eating home-cooked Chinese food. It’s basically meat and rice with sides of vegetables that don’t have English names.” She’s right; when she started rattling off vegetables in Chinese, the only word I recognized was “bok choy,” and I still had to ask her to spell it.

While Buddhist by tradition, the Wong family blends celebratory Chinese traditions with their favorite parts of Christmas. Pian and Wai Wong spent most of their lives in Taishan, China, but all three of their girls — Jessica 15, Casey, 14, and Sara, 8 — were born and raised here in Toledo.

The Wong family retains their Chinese culture by sticking to traditional cuisine and handing out red envelopes filled with money to the children (a Chinese tradition for celebrations), but they have also added typical Christmas festivities. For example, each Christmas the Wong family buys and decorates a Christmas tree, the men watch Christmas television specials (on the Chinese channels), and the kids play videogames and watch TV. They place their Christmas presents under the tree on Christmas Eve, and the family opens them on Christmas day. However, according to Jessica, the kids don’t receive nearly as many presents as the “typical” American child. She said each child receives just a few items, and the main event of the day is the exchange of red envelopes.

Jessica says that acquiring all of that money is “like having another birthday on Christmas.” Who wouldn’t want that?

Parents and docs Megan Lutz & Raul Bosio are so busy they often have to reschedule the holiday!

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Mom Salma Afrose, daughter Farzeen and son Quazi, and dad Quazi Hussain like to travel the world

Amy & Todd Kurtz, with daughter Izabella, celebrate Christmas minus the holy spirit

Flying through the holidays

The Douglas fir fan club

Quazi Hussain and Salma Afroze celebrate the holidays with flair: they travel the world with their children Quazi, 16, and Farzeen, 8, during the kids’ two-week winter vacation from school. While Quazi junior and Farzeen were both born in America, Salma and her husband were raised in Bangladesh, so they frequently return to their home country for the holidays. However, this year they are traveling to Alabama, where Quazi junior was born, and then taking a detour to Florida for a trip to Disneyworld, which is what Farzeen really wants to see. They have also visited England, New York City, and Washington D.C., among other places.

The Hussain family is Muslim, but, according to Salma, they still enjoy celebrating the “fun parts of Christmas,” such as telling the kids about Santa Claus, decorating the Christmas tree, building snowmen, hanging stockings, and stringing up festive lights (including lighted penguins). When they return from their holiday vacations, the first thing Farzeen does is run to the tree “to see if Santa left her any presents.”

Salma says that her favorite part of the Christmas season is “seeing everyone so happy. Everyone waits for this holiday to come, and everyone talks about what they are doing for the holidays. Everyone is just so festive, so happy ... and so giving.”

One of Islam’s biggest holiday is Eid-Ul-Fitr, which marks the end of Ramadan.

Muslims spend 30 days fasting from sunrise to sunset in order to empathize with the poor and hungry, to understand the cost of sacrifice, and to truly enjoy the comforts of food and drink upon the setting of the sun. When Ramadan ends, Muslims celebrate by giving gifts, donating new clothes to the poor, and feasting with family and friends.

Ask Todd Kurtz if he’s willing to be interviewed about atheist families and he simply responds, “Atheist parents? I’m in.” Todd and his wife Amy still celebrate Christmas with their daughter, Izabella, 7, because, in his opinion, “Christmas is more about Santa Claus than Jesus Christ,” and he’s “a big fan of the Douglas fir.” All jesting aside, he insisted that Christmas, to him, is about family, and his favorite part of the holiday is being able to give his daughter presents that make her “light up on Christmas morning.”

Todd and Amy were both born and raised in the Toledo area with somewhat traditional religious backgrounds. They even married in a Lutheran church, but they did so mostly out of respect for their families and because “it was a really cool church.” Todd said he enjoys the architectural aspects of many churches, and visits them on occasion, but he says, “I’ll take the tour, but I’m not buying the book.”

Todd and Amy celebrate the commercial aspects of Christmas, such as the twinkling lights, the decorated tree, and jolly Old Saint Nick, but they do not celebrate the birth of Christ. They do, however, allow Izabella to attend church with her grandmother because they don’t want to “jam anything down her throat.” Todd says that once she’s old enough to ask about religion, he will tell her what he believes, but until then he wants her to be exposed to religion in the same nonthreatening way that he was. Todd quips, “I’m down with the 10 commandments; I just don’t believe they were chiseled in stone. And I don’t believe in that hippie in the sky wearing Birkenstocks. But I do reserve the right to be wrong.”

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It might get loud

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There’s nothing greater you can do for a child (or a grown-up!) than bringing the joy of music into their life. And if you want them to rock, the flute just isn’t doing it — you need to head to Drum Depot for the finest local expertise on the most exciting instrument there is. They’ll outfit your aspiring Ringo with the right kit at the right price, and help you get the lessons you’ll need to get the beat going, and you’ll end up with more than just a mighty racket.

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Top-of-the-line, kid style Treat the parent or infant on your list to some first-class kiddie swag, from the area’s premier baby boutique. Lullaby Lane has top-notch strollers and travel systems, tubs and towels, adorable apparel and — of course — toys! Pick up some soon-to-be-beloved plush friends or an endlessly entertaining play gym. Make sure the littlest people you know have the nursery that’s the envy of the neighborhood.

Lullaby Lane The Shops at Fallen Timbers 3100 Main St., Ste. 1350, Maumee 419-878-0127 www.lullaby-lane.com

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Keep the gifts going The sweetest Season Everybody hopes to get some candy in their stocking. Make yours stand out, with the kinds of sweet treasures you remember from days gone by. Bit O’ Honey, Brach’s, Mellocreme — the store is filled with names that will evoke memories of childhood. Chew over the endless array of options, and pick a few that say what you want to your special somebodies. And despite what the store’s sign says, it’s not just retro — there’s plenty of gourmet chocolate and candy from all over the world.

Boyd’s Retro Candy 954 Philips Ave. 419-720-7387 www.boydsretrocandy.com

What if you could get all the toys a child could want without breaking the bank or enlarging your footprint on the earth?

Once Upon a Child has plenty of gentlyused goodies on hand year-round, from books to blocks to kitchen sets. You can pick up a few movies that the kids will love — even a bike! Children don’t care if their holiday treasures have had another owner, and you’ll be happy knowing that your gift-giving had a minimal effect on the environment.

Once Upon a Child 7565 Sylvania Ave. 419-841-7500 www.onceuponachild.com

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Pressing on the bear’s “heart” will play the recording, and let your hear the sound of memories that will last a lifetime.

MY LITTLE ME 312 W. Dussel Dr., Maumee 419-794-7393 www.mylittleme.net

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Elizabeth and Noah survived a holiday daddy tantrum

The year Christmas was cancelled

Learning patience in the hurry of the holiday

By Matthew Reger

It was the perfect tree-finding day — stereotypical flakes of snow floating in the air. A sturdy dad (me) ready to lead his two charges into the forest of holiday cheer, with my wife by my side, inspired by my Christmas-time leadership. We would find the most epic Christmas tree, and the four of us would decorate it in perfect harmony; my children and wife would let me know how swell I was as we decorated our conquest and sipped on hot cocoa. I created a Norman Rockwell print in my mind as we headed out to the tree farm, ready to perform this annual ritual.

Unfortunately, no one in my family had the same vision.

At the farm, I parked next to a small forest of Christmas trees. We took the kids out of the car and headed to pick a tree. Elizabeth and Noah, my four and two-year old children, weren’t as enthused — they wanted to be carried. To keep everyone happy my wife Heidi and I each picked up a child. As I closed in on the perfect tree I set Elizabeth down.

She grudgingly agreed to walk as I assessed the potential family fir. But the time available to select the right tree, like the timer on a detonating device, was quickly slipping away. Noah was fussy, Heidi was tired from carrying him, and Elizabeth was complaining that it was cold. In a rush I picked a tree, placed my hand on it and turned to Heidi.

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this as quickly as possible.”

“Do you want to look at another?”

“This one is fine!” she said, with Noah squirming and crying and Elizabeth whining in harmony. I lost it — I was the time bomb, ready to explode with holiday angst.

“Fine! Let’s go! Christmas is cancelled!” I picked Elizabeth up like a football and walked to the car.

We left the tree farm and I drove away, not taking my eyes off the road or speaking to anyone, particularly my wife, who, with just a look would convey to me how wrong I was. A few miles down the road I gave in, looked at her and told her my disappointment. I wanted things to go a certain way and it didn’t happen.

She was understanding and told me that I had to be patient with the kids and understand their timing is not always the same as mine.

She also pointed out how ridiculous I was. “You can’t cancel Christmas.”

I decided to go back and redeem myself. We were going to find the perfect tree. With renewed purpose, I looked to the back seat to tell the kids the good news. They had fallen asleep. It was a picture that Norman Rockwell would have been proud to paint.

Matt Reger is the sleep-deprived father of two.

To send Reger a comment or question, email editor@toledoparent.com, subject line “Diary of a Dad.”

healthy moms Score big with a game plan What does a game plan have to do with your family’s health?

Studies have shown that families that make healthy lifestyle choices together stay healthy together. Here are my top five healthy moves that will help your family score big!

• Eat dinner together every night! No matter how busy your family is, make a pact to sit down and take 30 minutes to enjoy.

• Breakfast is a must! Cereal, granola bar, apple? Make sure you rev up your engine with a healthy breakfast every morning.

• Bedtime routine for kids and adults. A good night’s sleep keeps you healthy and energized.

• Eat healthy snacks and don’t skip meals! Keep a variety of healthy snacks (like fruits, vegetables, pretzels and nuts) in the house where they are easy to find. Take a timeout for a healthy snack when you’re feeling hungry.

• Play and exercise together! Take a walk, shoot hoops, even dance your way to improved health. Keep your body moving even if it’s only for 10 to 15 minutes — it all adds up.

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—Always Healthy Mom Michelle Rowe, RN Mercy Co

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If these couch cushions could talk

Olivia measures her brother and Mother Mayhem’s godson Cam on the “See How We Grow” wall

Reflecting on the secrets of ‘home disheveled home’

By Mary Helen Darah

I had the pleasure of going to a Toledo Ballet performance called “If These Walls Could Dance,” where figures inspired by a mural in the Valentine Theater came to life and told their story. While the rest of the audience was enjoying the beauty of the moment, all I could think of was that I was thankful our “walls,” and for that matter our carpeting, furniture and assorted other inanimate objects at my home were keeping their mouths shut!

Hiding more than loose change

A couch that is now located in the girl’s “playroom” once resided in my childhood home. Thank God it’s not able to share the time that my college boyfriend and I would have scored a perfect 10 in a “couch high jump” when my Mom wandered into the family room unexpectedly. It didn’t rat us out after we leapt up and pretended to be looking for a missing contact lens.

The carpeting in my house could write a tell-all novel. The family room flooring survived a geriatric Great Gram, a guinea pig who liked to go AWOL, three dogs including an alpha male with territory insecurities, and far too many teens (and the mess that comes with them) to count. The carpeting in my daughter’s room would keep any CSI agent busy for months. A crime lab would shake their heads as remnants of hair dye, nail polish, and an unspeakable substance from my ADULT child (yes, I know, major oxymoron but it applies) who found out that Big Macs and champagne are not a great combo.

There is a crack in the tile from letting the girls stand on the tub ledge as I held them and proclaimed, “Rep-

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resenting the United States she now will attempt a super jump.” I would then repeat it in my best French accent, have her wave to the crowd, lift her high and place her gently down into the bubble filled tub.

Wear, tear and lots of love

Don’t get me wrong, I do keep a clean house. However, we have chipped paint from furniture being moved in and out of college dorms and “upgrading” to a different room when a sister moves out. There is a great divide resulting from the question, “What time is it when multiple teens sit on a kitchen countertop?” (Answer: Time to get a new one!) We also have the names and heights of our children permanently written inside one of the doorways. Yes, I could paint over it, but it’s a constant reminder of how quickly they grow up. Although the Corgi, with two inch legs and “height issues” (according to a pet psychic we ran into at the park), has remained constant.

This time of year, we moms cling to our sanity and self-esteem as images of perfect holiday homes in glossy magazines appear in our mailboxes. Looking around my humble abode, it would be easy to focus on the imperfections. Supporting my young women through life means fixing the cracks and replacing the old carpeting will just have to wait. I will have to add some ambiance by busting out the twinkle lights, the angel with the bro-

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ken wing and the plastic mistletoe (that better know the meaning of a “Vegas moment”) and our other “stuff” that thankfully only speaks to my heart. I know that Gram’s bent reindeer cookie cutter that turns out cookies that look more like large poodles, and some of my Pop’s ornaments that defy explanation, should find their way to the nearest hefty bag. I’m just not ready to let them go. They are reminders of the now missing generation that added to the history of this much “loved in” and “lived in” house. I guess our home mimics its occupants. We are at times “in repair,” but highly loved.

Kate Fineske, on-the-go mom and blogger, with her children Nicholas, Elizabeth, and Andrew

The representative

Kate Fineske’s on the go, for the sake of moms everywhere

By Brittany Adams

As the title of her blog “On the Go Momma” suggests, Sylvania mom Kate Fineske is a very busy woman. Kate thought she could get back into the work force easily after her three kids were out of diapers. It's still a challenge, she says, “As the kids get older, I get so much busier, especially between the hours of 3 pm and 9 pm. When they get home from school ... it's crazy!”

Somewhere between her kids' extracurriculars, she found the energy to apply to be a representative of Ohio at Parenting Magazine's 2012 Mom Congress in Education and Learning with a 300-word essay (Fineske regularly blogs for the National Association of Mother’s Centers and for her own site, onthegomomma.net). “I'm all about doing things that I feel passionate about,” she says. That essay took her all the way to Washington D.C. early this summer to meet other influential moms from across the country.

Established in 2009, Parenting Magazine's annual conference brings together women who are passionate about improving education. The magazine selects one woman from each state based on her involvement in her community.

Kate was thrilled to be chosen as Ohio's delegate. This year's 3-day conference at Georgetown University featured prominent speakers from the parenting and education communities, including Mark Shriver, Senior Vice President of Save the Children, and Arne Duncan, current U.S. Secretary of Education. Kate admits some nervousness at having to fly states away from her children, but she's thankful that she went. “It was really a unique, interesting experience,” she says.

As Kate puts it, motherhood often “refocuses you for a while.” After college she worked as a graphic designer, but she's found new focus in education advocacy, an issue close to her family. “My husband is an educator,” she says, referring to Adam Fineske, the executive director of curriculum and instruction at Sylvania Schools. The list of family involvement goes on: “My mom is an educator, my mother-in-law is an educator, my sister, my brother, all have been involved in education. And I teach!” For the past ten years Kate has taught graphic design classes at Owens Community College. Spurred by having young children, Kate is also heavily involved in her school district's parent organizations for both primary and secondary students. She volunteers with Highland Elementary's Parent Organization, serves on the advisory committee for Sylvania Schools' Visual Communication and Design Program, and works as the President of Sylvania Schools' Parent School Council.

In addition to learning about education advocacy at Mom Congress, Kate was affected on personal level. “It was very empowering for me as a mother and as a woman,” she says. The sense of community and strength she got from meeting other influential women from around the country impacted her deeply. Kate is dedicated to putting this sense of empowerment to work in our community. The tools and support offered at the event have given her renewed confidence in keeping up the busy schedule. “I'm not good at sitting still,” she says, and it doesn't look like she'll need to any time soon.

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Sushi makes a splash

Asian cuisine will have you hooked By Karen L. Zickes

Spicy Tuna Sushi Bar & Grill

7130 Airport Hwy., Holland 419-720-9333 Monday & Tuesday: 11:30am-10pm Wednesday: 11:30am-11pm Thursday: 11:30am-10pm Friday: 11:30am-11pm (sushi) & 1:30am (kitchen) Saturday: Noon-11pm (sushi) & 1:30am (kitchen) Sunday: Noon-9pm www.spicytunasushi.com Newsflash! Despite popular belief, the word ‘sushi’ does not mean raw fish. It actually refers to Japanese rice, usually vinegar-ed. The rice is then commonly served together with vegetables, eggs, meat, and raw or cooked seafood. Some might even say sushi is the Japanese sandwich. Even if you can’t stomach the idea of eating raw fish, there may still be a sushi lover inside of you waiting to be unleashed! Or, as they say at Spicy Tuna, you may “get hooked.”

The next generation

Li and Sara Yu, husband and wife, opened Spicy Tuna Sushi Bar & Grill in late 2010. They opened in the same location at Holloway and Airport where

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Mr. Yu’s parents once owned Fu-Yi Chinese Restaurant.

Li and Sara built a beautiful sushi bar and added a game room with murals, video games and a pool table. They decorated the space in minimalist, contemporary fashion that doesn’t resemble the former Fu Yi. “We wanted to make it a fun place to go with friends and family,” said Ms. Yu. Mr. Yu also decided to offer the original Fu-Yi menu. Patrons now have the best of both worlds; hip sushi in a fun atmosphere, as well as traditional Chinese cuisine.

Sushi’s raw but it doesn’t bite!

Your pint size entourage will surely grimace if you suggest raw fish. Knowing this, their kids menu offers chicken nuggets and fries or chicken tenders and fries for $5, including drink and a snack such as gummies. Mac and cheese is also on the menu for $5.25. Have older kids who are feeling more adventurous?

They offer sweet and sour chicken as well as pineapple chicken.

Sunday is family day so kids eat free with the purchase of an entrée or any two sushi rolls. It’s also a quiet day at Spicy Tuna, so it’s a perfect time to take the lit-

tle ones out if you want to avoid the crowds and noise of livelier evenings.

Don’t hesitate to give sushi a try. “I’ve actually seen kids eat raw sushi here. They eat with chop sticks, too,” said Ms. Yu. She recommends sushi newbies try the cooked rolls first. The Yum Yum and Tickle Me Elmo are very good. We tried the Yum Yum — shrimp tempura and cucumber topped with kani, spicy mayo and eel sauce. We loved the Snow White raw roll. It too had shrimp tempura, but was topped with super white tuna.

Let your server know your likes and dislikes and he or she will be happy to point you in the right direction. (I was excited two of my children tried the Yum Yum roll.)

My husband and I also split the Mushroom Chicken for $10.95, which was delicious. According to Ms. Yu, that is among the favorites, as well as the Mongolian dishes and General Tzu’s Chicken. My daughter enjoyed Shrimp Lo Mein for $11.95. (She offered a typical teenage assessment — “it had too many vegetables.”)

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Bottom line: Spicy Tuna Sushi Bar & Grill offers great sushi as well as Chinese and American cuisine. The non-traditional atmosphere is fun and kids eat free on Sundays.

THE SHORT COURSE

Kid-friendly Yes To avoid wait Anytime Noise level Moderate Bathroom amenities No changing station High chairs Yes Got milk Yes, as well as Coke products,

root beer, cranberry juice, and pineapple juice (no refills on juice) Kids’ menu Yes, and kids eat free on Sunday with purchase of an entrée or two sushi rolls

December2012 All calendar events are subject to change, cancellation, and limited size. Calling ahead for confirmation is recommended.

1 SATURDAY “For Me, For You, For Later” Storytime - Bring your preschooler to this three week class about saving, sharing and spending. Class includes stories, puppets, crafts and a play store to teach concepts like saving and making choices.

Each child will receive a free financial education kit with a Sesame Street DVD, a set of bank jars and a children’s book about money. Saturdays, December 1-15.

2pm. Main Library , 325 North Michigan St. 419-259-5200. www.toledolibrary.org Toledo Walleye Vs. Cincinnati Cyclones - This Walleye game will feature the Hanson Brothers from the movie “Slap Shot”! This will be their second appearance in Toledo. Fans will have an opportunity to meet Jeff, Steve and Dave for photos and autographs. They will be available on the main concourse during the game. Also, bring a new Teddy Bear to the Saturday, December 1st game and throw it on the ice after the Walleye score their first goal! All bears will be gathered and donated to Lucas County Children’s Services and distributed to local children.

7pm. Ticket prices vary. Huntington Center, 500 Jefferson Ave. 419-2553300. www.huntingtoncentertoledo.com

Snowflake Workshops - Taught by Artist, Mary Gaynier, create your own Scherenschnitte (paper cutting) snowflakes and take them home to decorate for the holidays. Friday, 11am–4pm & Saturday, 1–4pm. Imagination Station, Adams & Summit St. 419-244-2674. www.imaginationstationtoledo.org

3 MONDAY Theater Vision Presents: Frindle In this quirky tale about imaginative thought and the power of words, 5th grader Nick Allen’s creativity takes an unusual turn.

Influenced by a language arts teacher who is a fanatic about the dictionary, Nick learns about words and where they come from and he hatches his greatest plan—to invent a new word. From now on, a pen is no longer a pen; it’s a “Frindle” Soon “Frindle” takes root and spreads uncontrollably beyond Nick’s school and town. Shows at 10am & 12:15pm. $7.50. Franciscan Center, 6832 Convent Blvd, Sylvania.

419-824-3986.

4 TUESDAY Marshmallow Madness - Get ready for some ooey-gooey fun! Come for s’more d’oeurves, marshmallow catapulting, and other jet-puffed activities. 6:307:30pm. West Toledo Branch Library, 1320 Sylvania Ave. 419-259-5290. www.toledolibrary.org Cont. on pg 28

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Disney on Ice: 100 Years of Magic

Thursday, December 20 Monday, December 24 The pioneers of imagination at Disney are celebrating 100 years of magic with their latest ice spectacular! More than 60 of Disney’s unforgettable characters come to life to inspire and entertain. Everyone from Mickey Mouse to the Disney princesses will make an appearance on the ice, and exciting moments from loveable films (such as The Lion King, Finding Nemo, The Incredibles, and Toy Story) will keep the entire family captivated. Thursday & Friday, 7pm; Saturday & Sunday, 1pm & 5pm; Monday, 1pm. $18.50-$57.75. Huntington Center, 500 Jefferson Ave. 419-255-3300. www.huntingtoncentertoledo.com

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Blue Man Group - This blue-clad trio will thrill Toledo with its high-octane theatrical experience. Escape the ordinary and surround yourself in an explosion of comedy, music, and technology. This unique experience is a form of entertainment like nothing else; guaranteed to be an outing you will never forget! Tuesday-Friday, 8pm; Saturday, 2pm & 8pm; Sunday, 2pm & 7pm. $33-$68. Stranahan Theater, 4645 Heatherdowns. 419-3818851. www.stranahantheater.org

5 WEDNESDAY Toddler Trails - This outdoor, multisensory nature play and exploration program runs the first Wednesday of each month. Parent must accompany their child at the program. Register toddlers ages 18 months to 3 years only. 10am. Wildwood Preserve Metropark, 5100 W. Central Ave. 419-407-9700. www.metroparkstoledo.com Toledo Christian Benefit Banquet Toledo Christian is excited to announce Terry Bradshaw as the Keynote Speaker at this year’s annual benefit banquet.

Terry is the only NFL player with a star on the Hollywood Walk of Fame. Bradshaw continues to defy an easy pigeonhole. Not only is he a Four-time Pittsburgh Steelers Super Bowl champion quarterback, twotime Super Bowl MVP, Pro Football Hall of Fame inductee, and multi-Emmy awardwinning broadcaster for Fox NFL Sunday.

6:15pm. $50. Seagate Convention Centre, 401 Jefferson. 419-389-8700

6 THURSDAY Ice Carving Demonstrations - These special demonstrations begin will take place in the Main Plaza each Thursday evening in December. Don’t miss this amazing attraction as part of your Lights Before Christmas experience! 7pm. Toledo Zoo, 2700 Broadway. 419-385-4040. www.toledozoo.org

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7 FRIDAY Ride with Mark Twain - Enjoy an evening train departure from Clinton to Tecumseh for the Holiday Parade.

Mark Twain will be riding with the passengers as he recreates his 1868 visit to Tecumseh! The train will return afterwards.

Dress for the outside weather! 5:30pm. $15 adult & seniors / $9 children.

Southern Michigan Railroad Society, Inc., 320 S. Division St., Clinton, MI. 517-456-7677. www.southernmichiganrailroad.com

8 SATURDAY The Poisoned Apple - The Children’s Theatre Workshop presents its production of The Poisoned Apple. When Queen Drunella invites world leaders to a Peace Conference, her intent is to beguile them with her beauty. Only Snow White’s beauty stands in her way... and so begins the truth behind the famous tale by the Brothers Grimm. Snow White is not only beautiful inside and out, she’s bright, intelligent, charming and self-assured. Add to the mix a prince who has switched places with his squire, an opinionated cat, a Magic Mirror who speaks only the truth, a palace tour guide, a fashion conscious Queen and of course... the seven dwarves! Saturday & Sunday, 2pm & 5pm. Collingwood Arts Center, 2417 Collingwood Blvd. $5 students & seniors / $7 adults. 419-244-5061. www.ctwtoledo.org

11 TUESDAY Wee Workshop: Wonderful White Tails - It’s always a treat to see a deer.

Kids love learning about these large animals. Wee Workshop is a hands-on nature experience designed to cultivate your child’s love for the outdoors and includes a craft, story time and a nature walk.

Register child only. Parent must accompany their 3 to 5 year old child at program.

10am. Wildwood Preserve Metropark, 5100 W. Central Ave. 419-407-9700. www.metroparkstoledo.com

12 WEDNESDAY Toledo Walleye Vs. Wheeling Nailers - Toledo’s own take on foes from Pennsylvania. 7pm. Ticket prices vary.

Huntington Center, 500 Jefferson Ave. 419-255-3300. www.huntingtoncentertoledo.com

14 FRIDAY Buy Local Sale - Are you a locavore?

West Side Montessori Middle School students are. Come to the second annual Buy Local Sale and support our local businesses! Vendors from all over Sylvania, Toledo, and Maumee will be selling their merchandise, and it’s up to you to make this sale a success! 4-8pm. $2. West Side Montessori, 7115 W. Bancroft. 419-8661931. www.montessoritoledo.org

15 SATURDAY Glass City Rollers Derby Bout - In their 2012-2013 Season Home Opener, come see the Glass City Rollers skate against the Ann Arbor Derby Dimes from Ann Arbor, Michigan! But that’s not all... watch the Glass City Killer Bs take on River Rat Roller Derby from Taylor, Michigan! This is a double-header you do not want to miss! 6pm. $11 / Kids 10 and under free. SeaGate Convention Centre, 401 Jefferson Ave. www.glasscityrollers.com Toledo Walleye Vs. Evansville Icemen - Meet St. Nick himself! Santa will be on hand from 6-8pm to take photos on the Main Concourse. There will be a professional photographer on hand and the Toledo Walleye will provide a FREE digital photo for all fans that meet Santa! 7pm. Ticket prices vary. Huntington Center, 500 Jefferson Ave. 419-2553300. www.huntingtoncentertoledo.com

MONDAY-Saturday Kindermusik Preview Class, Explore fun,

musical adventures with your child. For children ages newborn through seven years. Miss Barb’s Music Studio, 3307 N.Holland-Sylvania Rd. 419-8428331. www.MissBarbs.Kindermusik.net

MONDAYs REFRESH Moms Group, Come enjoy a

light breakfast and be refreshed by connecting with other moms 2nd & 4th Monday each month. Open to all moms with children birth-elementary school.

Childcare provided. Hope Community Church, 5650 Starr Extension, Oregon.

Sweet Sharings, Bring your little ones for an

hour of fun activities that will build memories together. 10am. Sweet Cheeks Pure Baby Boutique, 5577 Monroe St., Sylvania. 419-517-0506. www.puresweetcheeksbaby.com

TUESDAYs Nursing Mothers Group, These meetings are held the 1st and 3rd Tuesday of every month (except major holidays). Nursing moms and new babies are invited to attend informal discussion about breastfeeding issues. 12:30–2pm. Toledo Hospital, 2142 North Cove Blvd. 419-291-5666. www.promedica.org

TUESDAYs & THURSDAYS

Family Center Fun, Kids up to age 10 participate in themed art activities in the Museum’s Family Center. Tuesdays & Thursdays, 10am-3pm. Free.

Toledo Museum of Art, 2445 Monroe St. 419-2558000. www.toledomuseum.org

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16 SUNDAY Toledo Walleye Vs. Florida Everblades - Meet St. Nick himself!

Santa will be on hand from 4-6pm to take photos on the Main Concourse. There will be a professional photographer on hand and the Toledo Walleye will provide a FREE digital photo for all fans that meet Santa! 5pm. Ticket prices vary. Huntington Center, 500 Jefferson Ave. 419-2553300. www.huntingtoncentertoledo.com

20 THURSDAY Hooray for Homeschoolers: Christmas at the Oak Grove Schoolhouse - Go back in time to see how Christmas was celebrated in small rural communities at a one room schoolhouse. Sing Christmas carols and make decorations to take home for the family tree. 10am. Wildwood Preserve Metropark, 5100 W. Central Ave. 419407-9700. www.metroparkstoledo.com

Visit with Elmo and Abby Cadabby Elmo’s fairy-in-training friend from Sesame Street, Abby Cadabby, will be joining Elmo for 3 days of preschool fun.

December 28-30. Imagination Station, Adams & Summit St. 419-244-2674. www.imaginationstationtoledo.org Toledo Walleye Vs. Cincinnati Cyclones - Join the Toledo Walleye for the first Hockey & Hops Beer Tasting Event of the season! Sample beers, enjoy an all-you-can-eat buffet, and cheer the Walleye on to victory during this fun filled

event! 7pm. Ticket prices vary. Huntington Center, 500 Jefferson Ave. 419-2553300. www.huntingtoncentertoledo.com

29 SATURDAY Toledo Walleye Vs. Kalamazoo Wings - The Walleye invites the fans to wear your favorite (ugly) holiday sweater to the game!! Fans with the best sweaters will be featured on the video boards, during on-ice contests and could win prizes!

7pm. Ticket prices vary. Huntington Center, 500 Jefferson Ave. 419-2553300. www.huntingtoncentertoledo.com

27 THURSDAY The Original Harlem Globetrotters For the first time ever, during the Globetrotters’ 2013 “You Write the Rules” World Tour, your family’s smiles will begin before you even get to the show. Fans will decide the rules for the game that could affect the final outcome. This could be anything from playing with two basketballs at once, to getting double the points for each basket made. Go online with your kids to vote for which ground-breaking rule you want to see implemented in the game. 2pm & 7pm. $19-$111.75.

Huntington Center, 500 Jefferson Ave. 419-255-3300. www.harlemglobetrotters.com

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THURSDAYS Mother Goose Storytime, A storytime

program for 12–23 month old children. The program involves active participation and interaction between the child, the caregiver and a member of the Library staff. 9:30am and 10:30am. Free.

The Way Public Library, 101 E. Indiana Ave., Perrysburg. 419-874-3135. www.waylibrary.info

Mothers’ Center of Greater Toledo,

Mothers meet for fun, food and friendship. Reliable and safe childcare provided. 9:45-11:15am.

McCord Road Christian Church, 4765 N. McCord Rd., Sylvania. The group is not affiliated with the church. www.motherscenter.net

FRIDAYS Babytime, Have fun with stories, rhymes and music and discover ways to develop early literacy skills in your young child. Join us for a book program designed just for the littlest learners. Go online for each Library’s age range and registration details. Registration required. 10am. Waterville Branch Library, 800 Michigan Ave., Waterville.

419-878-3055. www.toledolibrary.org

SUNDAYS

Free Family Time Tour, Children and

their adult partners tour works of art related to the Family Center’s weekly art project, then roll up their sleeves back at the Center for hands-on creating.

2pm & 2:30pm. Toledo Museum of Art Family Center, 2445 Monroe St. 419-255-8000. www.toledomuseum.org

WednESDAYs mom2mom, The Toledo area’s newest moms’

group meets the 2nd & 4th Wednesdays every month. 9:15-11:15am. Christ the Word Church, 5432 West Central Ave. www.mom2momtoledo.com

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ENTERTAINMENT

ADVERTISING IN MARKETPLACE Free Classifieds: Individuals may receive one free 20-word ad per month (products offered in ads must sell for under $100). Each additional word 40 cents, payment must accompany ad. Free ads run 1 month and are reserved for private-parties use, noncommercial concerns and free servicesLine Classifieds: Only $10 per month for 20 words or less. Each additional word is 40 cents each and any artwork will be $5 extra.

Display Classifieds: Display classifieds with a box may be purchased for $25 per column inch. Photos are accepted with ads for an additional $5 per photo.

Education

Tutoring K-8, Specializing in reading, math & study skills. Will meet each student at Public Library at your convenience. Call 419-360-2558 Early Childhood Education and Child Care Gail’s House. Central and Collingwood area 419-252-6544

Deadlines: Ad copy must be received

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MISPRINTS: Credit toward future ads.

gluten free support group for children and their families. Meets first Wednesday of every month at 6:30pm at First United Methodist Church in Sylvania.

Contact Cheri or Holly at youandmeglutenfree@hotmail.com The St. Clement Rosary-Altar Society will hold its annual St. Clement Christmas Craft Show on Saturday December 1st, 9:30 a.m. to 4:30 p.m. in St. Clement Hall, 2990 Tremainsville. Free Parking and Free admission! 419-472-2111

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Christmas at the Mansion “A Toast to Ole St. Nick” Gorden Hall - Dexter. Open House Dec. 1 & 2 12-6pm $5 Adults/$1 Children. Festive holiday rooms, Santa visits, Gift Shoppe, Hot Chocolate & Cookies. Sponsored by Dexter Area Historical Society & Museam 734-426-4961

ANNOUNCEMENTS

NEW! Toledo area mom’s group mom2mom. 2nd & 4th Wednesdays 9:15 - 11:15am at Christ the Word Church near Secor Metropark. www.mom2momtoledo.com

Christmas at the Mansion: A Christmas Tea Saturday Dec. 8, 1:00 and 4:00 seatings $20 adults/$5 children. Reservations: 734-424-0369 or 734-395-5772

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Garage Sale. Saturday and Sunday 10 to 6 held at the former Crosswoods Church at Hill and Reynolds.

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College credit can be provided. We are looking for part time and full time interns. Apply at sales@toledocitypaper.com Freelance writers Needed. Send resume to editor@toledocitypaper.com

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