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Correction

In our October issue of Toledo Area Parent, our Cover Kid, Hayden Parseghian, was not identified. Hayden is 3, and from Perrysburg.

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How successful was your first attempt at cooking Thanksgiving dinner?

Shannon Reiter, sales coordinator

I started cooking Thanksgiving dinner at age five, when all Leary girls are sent to Gramma's house to help. No one has died of food poisoning, so I guess I did well? This is a photo of me with the current cooking crew.

(The men do clean-up!)

Amanda Goldberg, social media specialist

Aubrey Hornsby, sales manager

My only contribution so far has been putting Oreos and chocolate in a cup. That was my dessert contribution for the meal.

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The first time I cooked Thanksgiving dinner I was visiting a friend of mine in France. I had to smuggle six boxes of StoveTop Stuffing in my suitcase because it is really expensive there. We invited all of our new French friends and other students studying abroad for our American dinner in Paris.

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SCORPIO KIDS Born October 23 to November 22

By Sue Lovett The first word out of your Scorpio child is “whozat” (who is that). They will pick up every rock to see what is under it. They take their toys apart to see how they are made. They are curious about the human body. Scorpios love magic and surprises. They are fascinated by learning and are excellent students. Mathematics can be their favorite subject.

Give them microscopes and magnifying glasses and they are occupied for hours.

As the weather gets cooler they enjoy picking up leaves so they can see all of the different sizes and shapes. In November they may have difficulty concentrating, so parents need to be patient with them. A surprise birthday party delights the Scorpio child. The key word to keep them happy is “surprise.” They may be a little obstinate when an eclipse enters their sign on the 13th of November.

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Then, now, and again Our readers continue to send us feedback on former cover kids and how they've grown! Your kid could be on the cover, too! Send your best photos to production@adamsstreetpublishing.com.

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Now Your then and now cover photos 2004 brought back great memories. In 2004, my daughter and her family moved back to Toledo. I had sent a photo of my grandson Ben Gravelle to Toledo Area Parent in his Halloween costume without telling anyone. My daughter was shopping at Once Upon A Child when she spotted the October issue with Ben on the cover. Needless to say, there was a lot of commotion and excitement over that great surprise. Ben is now a 9-yearold fourth grader at Sylvan Elementary and he still is our "cover boy!"

—Darlene Stokes Via Email

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The adorable bumble bee on our October cover was three-year-old Hayden Parseghian. Mom Erin sent us a picture of Hayden having a cover girl moment in both 2010 and 2012. Super cute!

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Congratulations to Hayley (9) & Jocelynne St.John (7) from Northwood Ohio!

Their sisterly love won them the title of Toledo's Cutest Kids during our Facebook photo contest.

We got so many cute kid submissions!

Check out some more!

Right: Jocelyn Hill (3), below: Kendall W. (9), and bottom right: Adam (5), Zayd (2) Darwich

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True buckeyes

Dawson Jerger, 18 months, of Perrysburg

Mini-football fans were out in full force in their red and gray gear!

Patch days Tiny Toledoans searched for the best pumpkins for their doorsteps.

Bryson Kreeger, 15 months, at Riverbend park Ava Marie and Grace Elizabeth Birr, 5 months, of Sylvania

Lukas Pacer, 5, of Toledo

Olivia Messer, 3, of Hollan

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Smiles for miles Kids enjoyed the hallmarks of fall — colorful leaves and stacks of hay.

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Beyond “please” and “thank you”

In a fast-paced world, with Facebook increasingly taking the place of faceto-face interaction, the idea of "good manners" seems a little quaint. Mention "etiquette" to your kids and you might get a raised eyebrow — if you're lucky.

But does it have to be that way? Rita Taylor-Teplitsky of Gentle Image Consulting doesn't think so. She's bringing her series of etiquette seminars for kids age 8 to 12 to Stone Oak Country Club this November, just in time to get kids "socially savvy for the holidays." The first session on Saturday, November 3, looks at "Surviving the First Introduction," showing kids that it's fun to meet new people if you have the right skills to make a good impression. The second class, on Saturday, November 10, covers "Dining and Restaurant Etiquette," unlocking some of those mysteries of place settings (which one is the salad fork?) and demonstrating how to conduct oneself like a lady or gentleman. Finally, on Saturday, November 17, learn the "Art of Party Manners," which will let would-be social butterflies learn how to be poised and comfortable in social settings, even if they don't know anyone. 9am-noon. $45 per class/$115 three classes. Stone Oak Country Club.

100 Stone Oak Blvd., Holland. 602-909-6563. www.gentle-image.com.

Going swimmingly

A Toledo woman has won recognition on the national stage for her good work — and she's in position to receive a lot more. Wanda Butts of the Josh Project has been recognized by CNN as a Top Ten CNN Hero of the Year, and will be eligible to win the year's top honor and the $250,000 prize that comes with it. The Josh Project is dedicated to teaching urban youth the valuable and life saving skill of swimming, and is dedicated to Vote here! the memory of Butts' son, John-Joshua, who died by drowning in 2006. The project provides low-cost swimming lessons and water-safety training to anyone with a desire to learn. Online voting for the Hero of the Year began on September 20, and continues through Wednesday, November 28. If chosen for the quarter-of-a-million dollar grant, Butts plans to build an Aquatic Center in the heart of Toledo, where at-risk children can swim every day. It's a legacy that Josh, and Toledo, can be proud of, and every vote counts. Check out cnnheroes.com to see their segment on Butts and the Josh Project, and to cast your vote. www.joshproject.org.

Science from the Street

Kids can learn about what makes them tick and what keeps them healthy — with the help of some familiar friends, as Imagination Station welcomes Sesame Street Presents: The Body, a special new exhibition featuring the characters of the beloved PBS program. Young visitors can explore three different education zones, each with its own focus. "Your Outsides" gives a tour of the parts of the body, with puzzles, sign language games, shadow puppets, and a little help from Bert and Ernie. "Your Insides" gives a kid-friendly look at what's going on in there, as Oscar, the Count and friends explain digestion and the internal organs in ways young folks can understand. And in "Staying Healthy," kids can learn how to keep things running smoothly, in simple ways like keeping clean (with the help of Ernie and his Rubber Duckie!) and getting plenty of exercise. That last one won't be a problem, with "Rosita's Locomotion," which gives little muscles a workout while kids learn how they function by pumping, rowing and running. Whether you're raising a young surgeon, fitness enthusiast or just a Sesame Street fan, you won't want to miss it. Through January 27, 2013. "Big Kids" admission (13 and older) is $9.50, kids 3 to 12 $7.50, and kids 2 and under free. One Discovery Way. 419244-2674. www.imaginationstationtoledo.org.

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Helping families in troubled times

"When you see a little kid run to his dad or mom because he sees them for the first time in months ... you're done," says Margaret Wuwert. "You're hooked."

She's talking about her work as executive director of the Children's Rights Council, which oversees supervised parent-child visits for adults in the court system. Parents facing criminal charges or abuse allegations, whether true or not, can sometimes be kept from their children for long periods while their case works itself out. CRC makes court-approved supervised visitation possible, bringing parents and children together three times a week at Hope United Methodist Church on Sylvania Avenue. But they need your help. For the first time in CRC's 13 years in Toledo, Wuwert is having difficulty getting enough volunteers to supervise the visits. No special training is required, and the time commitment can be as little as one evening a month. The only real qualification, according to Wuwert? "You just have to love kids." For information, contact Wuwert at CRC, 419-473-8955. www.crckids.org.

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Mother Mayhem’s night out

By Mary Helen Darah

Jen Shubeta-Harris went from teacher to owner at Daryl Jarvis Dance Studio

New dancing shoes

If anyone should feel like dancing, it’s Jen Shubeta-Harris. The owner of Daryl Jervis Dance Studio, who took over the venerable Toledo Institution in May of this year, is realizing a lifelong ambition. “I’ve been with the studio for 32 years,” Shubeta-Harris says. “I’ve taught here for 18. I grew up here, and it was always a dream of mine to own it.” And when previous owner Brenda Paulsen was ready to move on, she jumped at the chance. Shubeta-Harris is thrilled to carry on the legacy of Paulsen and of Daryl Jervis herself, introducing yet another generation to the joy of dance. The studio continues to offer classes in tap, jazz, lyrical, hip hop and ballet dance, for children as young as two and half (and for their parents, too), and their High Voltage Dance Company placed first overall last spring in the Dance Makers Inc. national competition in Chicago.

They’re currently taking registration for new would-be dancers at their 10,000 square foot state-of-the-art facility. 7575 Sylvan Towne Dr., Sylvania. 419-8439000. daryljervisdance.com.—MD

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“You can truly unwind and have the whole place to yourself,” says Kevin Charles, artistic director of three salon locations. I can’t remember having complete privacy in the bathroom with three kids and an aging Corgi, let alone an entire salon. Any mother would jump at the chance to stop playing “taxi driver,” Mother Mayhem succumbs to the power of “life coach” and “domestic engineer” the curling iron at Kevin Charles Salon by relaxing at Charles’ newest spot, on Main Street in downtown Sylvania (next to J&G Pizza Palace), which officially opens Thursday, November 8. The new venue will focus on exclusive private parties and ‘girls’ nights out’ gatherings. “We are partnering with Treo Restaurant to offer ‘Girl’s Night Out Packages.’ Packages can be customized to suit each group’s needs. We pair full salon services with a full dining experience or simple services with drinks and dessert afterwards,” Charles said. Haircuts and colors, Keratin treatments, Klix Brand hair extensions, make-up to manicures and gel nails; so many options! I brought a group of mothers to test drive the new facility (all in the name of journalism, of course) for a night of food, fun and, as one mother put it, “mild debauchery.” A few hours of pampering later we’re big believers that sometimes the best therapy for surviving the high octane profession called motherhood is to be the one on the receiving end of care, even if that means leaving the house and paying someone to do it!

For additional information contact Kevin Charles Salon at 419-882-3400 or visit kevincharlesproductions.com or find Kevin Charles Sylvania on Facebook.

THE LINES TWEEN advice for parents with children 10-16

Trading places

Chinese students are getting a taste of Western education (and exposing their high school counterparts to Eastern culture) in a new exchange program taking place at three area high schools. The 20 students worked with companies like The Cambridge Institute of International Education to facilitate their attendance at St. Francis De Sales, Central Catholic, and Cardinal Stritch as Chinese students are getting a taste part of a program that offers them a of American high school life chance to spend a year or more experiencing American high school life. Host families agree to provide meals, shelter, transportation and family life experiences for the students for the 10 months of the school year (August to May).

One of those families is the Blochowski family — Mike, a teacher at St. Francis, and wife Kris, a teacher at Whitmer High School. “We are learning a lot about his culture,” Kris says of exchange student Jianhua “Hugh” Huang. “He lives in a high rise building with his mom and dad, his grandma, grandpa, and little sister, who is in the second grade. They are in a more crowded city and [at home] he walks everywhere, so our lifestyle is new to him.”

All three schools have added programs to help their students adjust, from Chinese-speaking teachers to ‘lunch buddy’ programs. “This is a win-win situation for everybody,” said St. Francis Director of Admissions Rick Michalak. “We have something great to offer the students, and they will certainly have plenty to share with us about their country and their culture. This program is what education is all about.” —CH

Making a change

An evening of elegance aims to make a difference for at-risk youth, as Toledo’s Young Men and Women For Change hosts a black-tie benefit on Saturday, November 17. The non-profit was founded in 2006 by Shawn Mahone to provide a safe and structured environment for kids to examine their choices and maybe pick a new and better path. The group holds a monthly Dose of Reality bootcamp-style overnight seminar Honoring Michael for kids from four to 18 years old at Our Lady Ant hony Gbor’s life of Perpetual Help in South Toledo. Mahone, a former drill instructor with the Kentucky Department of Corrections, leads at-risk youth through an intense program with a “scared straight” philosophy. (The push-ups Kids and adults alike can explore their aren’t optional!) But his charges are also made options for a career in the arts, as PRIZM to realize that people care about them, and Creative Community presents a their lives are important. The benefit at the Careers in Creativity day on Saturday, Holiday Inn French Quarter is held in memory November 10 at Perrysburg High School. of Michael Anthony Gbor, a young veteran PRIZM has invited speakers from a number of YMWFC’s program who took his own life of fields to inspire listeners, including a March 27th. “We really want to get a message fashion buyer from New York City, a BCSN out to the community that kids need help,” staffer who'll discuss videography and says assistant director Terri Brown. “There are broadcasting, an art therapist, a studio artso many children going down the wrong path ist and a panel of creative writers. Particiand not making the right choices.” The night of pants will get tips from the pros on how to food and music will raise money for a scholarbuild the life and career they're looking for. ship fund which will send an OLPH student to It's free and open to the public, from high St. John’s Jesuit, as well as expand YMWFC’s school students to lifelong learners. 1-5pm. outreach. Interested donors should contact Ms. 13385 Roachton Rd., Perrysburg.

Brown. $50. 7pm. 10630 Fremont Pike, Perrys419-472-8730. www.myprizm.com. burg. 419-340-3393. www.youngmenandwom—MD enforchange.com. —MD

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Every little one is unique in their own way — some face more challenges than others. In our first-ever issue dedicated to families with special needs, we take a peek inside the homes of four Toledo families and learn their struggles and triumphs.

Stories as told to Kevin Moore Photos by Chrissy Deiger

Kaylee Halko

George Estes

Kaiden Rogers

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Barrett Martin, 5

Love hugs; Barrett and Karin Martin High hopes in the face of autism

have a girlfriend? What does this mean for their self-esteem? What are realistic expectations and what can we do to intervene or change this, to get him to the best that he can be? Every child is different and every child's potential is different, and the best thing you can do is accept them for who they are.

What's most different for me is day-today life. Most people can get something done while their child is awake. I can't.

He can't be left unattended for more than three minutes before something happens.

He's a daredevil. He tried to get on his roller skates and roll down the stairs!

You become so accustomed to your life, that when you go hang around your friends' kids who are developing typically, you see the things that they get to do with their children that you don't.

My son's very affectionate; he's superfunny and he's got the sweetest heart, but you don't have that same back-andforth dynamic. You get that tinge of jealousy. It's selfish, but it's reality.

Our whole world becomes engulfed and enclosed, and sometimes it seems like all you do is eat, sleep and breathe special needs stuff. You really don't want to look at your son and think first and foremost "my kid is special needs." No, this is your baby. This is the love of your life. The love of your life just happens to have these extra challenges."

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We met Barrett 20 minutes after he was born, which was arranged through our adoption plan. His mother had drugabuse issues during her pregnancy, and we knew that something might be off. He was really itty-bitty, and by the time he was four or five months old we started noticing things. We thought he had acid-reflux because he didn't want to lay down, but it was really what I refer to as a 'comfort-snob' — he had to have thicker blankets and three mattresses.

We tried different things to get him to sleep and relax, and he didn't really enjoy being held as a baby. He was like a little Houdini, breaking all the child-safety features; he'd pull out the electrical outlet covers when he was seven months old. By the time he was eight months I started noticing he seemed delayed in some areas, like speech or pointing, and when he was a year old he used a couple of words but he wasn't really speaking. By the time he was 18 months old, as parents, we agreed he should be assessed by professionals, who deemed him special needs.

You have super-high hopes for your children, and hearing them referred to as special needs is kind of like getting kicked in the stomach. You have so many questions — are they going to have friends?

Are they ever going to have a job? Are they going to be able to get married, or

This is the love of your life. The love of your life just happens to have these extra challenges.

— Karin Martin, Barrett's mom

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Kaiden always points out the most amazing yet simple things. He appreciates the whole world around him.

Kaiden Rogers, 6,

Assuming the worst with Down Syndrome, but finding joy

"We found out that Kaiden likely had Down syndrome shortly after his birth.

It was big shock. You automatically assume the worst. At the hospital, they gave us a packet of what to expect and we discovered the Down Syndrome Association of Greater Toledo. We kept researching online and got connected through DSAGT, and the more I learned and the more I found out from other parents in the same situation the more comfortable I became. Learning that others are dealing, and have dealt, with the same issues was very helpful.

I learned that Kaiden would be able to do anything any other kid could do, it just might take him a little longer. That proved largely true. He was three before he could walk, but he did learn to walk. Eventually he learns whatever he's trying to learn and he's just like any other six year-old: he's completed preschool, he colors, he draws, he has tons of friends from school in our neighborhood. Other kids love playing with him. They come over and they're all about helping and engaging with him.

When Kaiden was one, I became a secretary for DSAGT and now I'm serving my third year as its president. This experience has completely changed my life for the better. As a family, we never would have made the friends that we have without the association.

I get to learn from Kaiden everyday. The biggest thing he's taught me and my husband is how much we take for granted. He loves everyone just for who they are.

He always points out the most amazing yet simple things. He appreciates the whole world around him. He's the joy of my life."

— Sherri Rogers, Kaiden's mom

True buckeyes: Sherri, Kaiden and Justin Rogers

Kaylee Halko, 9

All in the family: T.J., Tim, Kaylee, Marla, Brendan, andJacob Halko

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We've been really fortunate in that Kaylee has been able to live a normal life ... she does everything: dance, karate, softball.

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Progeria can’t stop an inspiring little girl

"We first realized there was something wrong with Kaylee when she turned six months old and was still nine pounds and six ounces. We eventually took Kaylee to a genetics doctor at the University of Michigan. I remember he came into his office and gave us a photo. It was of another little girl who looked almost exactly the same as Kaylee. That's when he told us she had Progeria.

Progeria is a very rare genetic disorder in which the body ages eight to ten times faster than normal. Children with the condition have almost identical features with an average height of 36 inches. Only 22 people in the country have Progeria, with only two in the state. Interestingly, we both live in Northwest Ohio.

We just finished our first drug trial to reduce Progeria's artery damage, and the results were encouraging. We're now participating in our second trial to slow the disease down. Our family organized our seventh annual 5K run/2-mile walk on October 13 to raise money for the Progeria Research Foundation. We raised more than $50,000!

We've been really fortunate that Kaylee has been able to live a normal life. She does everything you'd expect of a nine year-old: dance, karate, softball, and she thinks like an average third grader. I tell people you gotta meet her and see what a little spitfire she is. I can remember when her little brother finished his first haircut, she jumped up in the chair and whipped off her hat. 'My turn!' she said. She's bald, you know, so it was hilarious. She just has a great sense of humor. Her good attitude is such an inspiration."

—Marla Halko, Kaylee's mom

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George Estes, 13 With diabetes, pain, but pride in community

"We didn't know George had a special need until he was four years old.

We were visiting family in Cincinnati for Christmas and noticed he looked ill. We visited my family doctor from when I was a kid, and he decided we needed to take him to the Cincinnati Children's Hospital. George was diagnosed with Type I Diabetes.

We spent four long days in the hospital learning how to check his blood sugar and give him insulin shots. We practiced on oranges and had to demonstrate proficiency before we could take him home. I can remember that was a scary time. I kept thinking, 'How am I going to handle this?' and 'How am I going to get George to understand what was happening?'

We've tried to keep George's life as typical as possible, but his condition can still be disruptive. He no longer takes shots but rather has an insulin pump which functions like an IV, and that needs to be monitored. He also needs to prick his finger four times a day. That can be difficult, especially at school. We were excited when we discovered Diabetes Youth Services in Toledo, which put us in touch with similar families and helped George realize he wasn't alone. Over the years, he's attended activities and youth camps and I started volunteering, eventually becoming a board member.

DYS even gave a presentation at George's school, which demystified his condition for his classmates.

I'm always amazed with George's attitude. He never says 'Woe is me.'

Diabetes is a painful disease with the constant pricking and the pump, but he never complains. Maybe it's because he's just used to it after so long, but he soldiers on and busies himself being a normal kid."

— Margot Estes, George's mom

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I'm always amazed with George's attitude... he just soldiers on and busies himself being a normal kid.

A Helping Special Advertising Section

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Area providers help navigate the special needs experience, from finances to treatment Down Syndrome Association of Greater Toledo

PO Box 298, Sylvania 419-536-4321 information@dsagt.org www.dsagt.org A support group that promotes inclusion, advocacy, awareness, education and parental support to anyone that has a loved one with Down syndrome.

Sensory Learning Center

3454 Oak Alley Court Suite 209 419-578-0057 www.sensorylearning-toledo.com A 30-day program using light, sound and motion to create new neuro pathways in the brain. Open to people of any age dealing with sensory issues.

Spina Bifida Association of Northwest Ohio

302 Conant St., Suite C, Maumee 419-794-0561 www.sbanwo.org sba@sbanwo.org Since 1975, the Chapter provides education, information, and financial assistance to children and adults with Spina Bifida and works to promote its prevention.

for child care providers, employers and policy makers. We are committed to promoting and supporting quality child care. We serve eight counties in northwest Ohio including Lucas, Wood, Ottawa, Fulton, Paulding, Henry, Defiance and Williams.

Great Lakes Collaborative for Autism

2040 W. Central Ave. 419-291-7031 www.greatlakesautism.org The GLCA enhances the lives of Northwest Ohio families touched by autism by building awareness, offering service provider support through private fundraising and grant opportunities, and fostering community partnerships.

Green Options for Autism of Lucas County

1660 Amesbury Rd. 419-250-0401 www.goautismlucas.com GOAL provides a day/vocational program for young adults with autism and other developmental disabilities to develop job skills, an entrepreneurial spirit, and self determined job opportunities.

RVR Wealth Advisors, LLC

Harbor Behavioral

YWCA Child Care Resource & Referral

Sunshine Inc.

7135 Sylvania Ave. Suite 2B, Sylvania Phone: 419-824-8200, ext. 100 Fax: 419-824-4222 rvrwealthadvisors.com Help clients reach their financial goals by establishing strategies to accumulate, conserve, and distribute wealth, therefore creating financial peace of mind.

1018 Jefferson Ave. 419-255-5519 1-800-632-3052 www.ywca.org A program to help parents find affordable, quality child care. In addition, YWCA CCR&R serves as a resource

6629 W. Central Ave. 419-475-4449 www.harbor.org Offers services such as family medicine, adult day care services for individuals with developmental disabilities, and vocational programs for individuals with barriers to employment.

7223 Maumee Western Rd., Maumee 419-865-0251 www.sunshineincnwo.com Sunshine is a non-profit organization that provides services to people with developmental disabilities in Toledo and across northwest Ohio.

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Mary Immaculate School

3835 Secor Rd. 419-474-1688 MI-Info@MIToledo.org www.maryimmaculatetoledo.org Mary Immaculate School is a unique school for learners who struggle in the traditional school classroom and for those who have specialized learning needs. We offer these students an opportunity for academic success in a Catholic faith-based learning environment.

Lucas County Board of MRDD

1154 Larc Ln. 419-380-5136 www.co.lucas.oh.us The Lucas County Board of Developmental Disabilities embraces the philosophy of self-determination, an approach for planning individualized services and supports. We will support eligible individuals and their families in developing a vision for their future based on individual strengths, interests and choices.

Mercy Autism Services

3521 Briarfield Blvd., Maumee 419-794-7259 Mercy_Autism@mhsnr.org.

Mercy Autism Services emphasizes evidence-based autism intervention. We are the only program in the Northwest Ohio region that utilizes applied behavior analysis, occupational therapy, speech therapy, as well as the P.L.A.Y. Project as core concepts of the program.

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Miss Barb’s Music Studio

3307 N. Holland-Sylvania Rd. (419) 842 - 8331 missbarbs.yourvirtuoso.com Kindermusik is an early childhood music and movement program that is guided by a proven methodology combining music and childhood development research. From birth to age seven, your children can experience the magic of music with encouragement and guidance to stretch their boundaries without the pressure to perform.

NAMI of Greater Toledo

2753 West Central Ave. 419-243-1119 www.namitoledo.org NAMI, The National Alliance on Mental Illness, is a grassroots, family-oriented support, education and advocacy organization. Our goal is to improve the lives of children, adolescents and adults who have mental illness by supporting their families.

Sensational Kids Daycare & Learning Center

6060 Merger Dr., Holland Phone: 419-724-5434 Fax: 419-724-5435 info@sensationalkidsdaycare.com www.sensationalkidsdaycare.com/ Sensational Kids offers a quality educational learning center that looks at each child as an individual. We also offer therapy programs from our physical,

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occupational, and speech therapists, who also help to develop our programs in our rooms so that the children are working on their current goals.

Summit Academy

1853 South Ave. 419-385-5730 www.summitacademies.com Summit Academy Schools are specifically designed for students with ADHD, Asperger’s syndrome and related disorders. Our model uses the “whole child” approach to identify the child’s academic, developmental and emotional levels. The therapeuticbased, safe and nurturing learning environment addresses all facets of the child’s development.

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Sunset Retirement Communities

4040 Indian Rd. www.sunset-communities.org Sunset Retirement Communities is a not-for-profit, long-term care community. We are committed to providing quality care and services throughout the continuum of independent living, assisted living, memory support, nursing care and Ashanti hospice and palliative care.

Wood Lane Therapy Pool

1921 East Gypsy Lane Rd., Bowling Green 419-352-5115 www.woodlane.us/therapyPool.php Participate in community activities that will help educate and foster understanding and acceptance of persons with developmental disabilities.

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A posy with a purpose

The grand life of an 89-year-old mentor

By Mary Helen Darah

It seems as if my meeting Rose Ann, a.k.a. Posy, was somehow always in the cards. I am a believer in the notion that people come into your life for a “reason,” a “season” or a “lifetime,” and even though I met Posy just before her 89th birthday, I knew she was a “lifer.”

Posy is the dressing on a cold winter’s day; layers upon layers upon layers. She is a woman of philanthropy in staggering proportions. She has helped in acquiring treasures for the Toledo Museum of Art, purchased original book illustrations to delight children and grace the walls of the main branch of the Toledo Lucas County Public Library, founded the Blair Museum of Lithophanes (I would still be clueless as to what the heck a lithophane is if not for Posy), and delighted many a development director from her beloved University of Toledo to the opera with her generosity. This founder of Gateway Preschool (who still bumps into her former “kids” wherever we go) has opened her heart and her checkbook to those in need without blinking an eye. Yet this same woman spends HOURS deciding which of two blouses to purchase for herself at Steinmart, fights with me over the lifespan of items in her fridge and occasionally splurges on Irish butter even though it’s nearly four bucks a pound.

Just when I thought I had her figured out, I was on the receiving end of a firm “Dearie what WERE you thinking?” upon my return from purchasing the smallest vodka bottle for Posy and her companions.

It blows my mind that a near-90-yearold downloads photos off her computer when my own mother’s tech savvy is limited to playing spider solitaire on her new laptop. Posy is “with it,” hip by any standard and loves to shock me with her keen wit. Once after venting about a gentleman I briefly dated invading my private text messages she said with a wink, “This is why I don’t put my lovers’ contact info in my cell phone.” Posy is also spontaneously adventurous. She quickly learned that if you express a desire to see your great-grandchildren me, a fellow cancer 26

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survivor, a “bucket trip” will surely follow. We loaded up my Ford DGE (it was an EDGE until my youngest backed into the mailbox and lost the “E”), with chocolate, water bottles, “The Hunger Games” book on tape, massive amounts of Advil and my 14-year-old exchange student from China and hit the road to our nation’s capital. Let me tell you, massive bonding occurs after spending hours in a closed vehicle, breaking only to visit turnpike restrooms.

Posy comes to mind when I think of the poem Nadine Stair wrote when she was 85. “If I had my life to live over, I would take more chances, I would take more trips. I would climb more mountains, swim more rivers and watch more sunsets.” Our Posy does not need a “do over” life. She has lived life to the fullest with an “attitude of gratitude.” She has traveled to parts of the globe that I don’t know how to pronounce or find without a Google assist. There is a world map in her office where she and her beloved late husband Bob put thumb tacks (a.k.a. push pins *pronounced puuuush piins, to my Southern brother) to mark all the places they ventured. While helping her tidy up her desk (a daunting task when you are dealing with a sentimental freak of nature) we discovered photos of her on an ostrich, camel, elephant, gondola, and dune buggy. The woman was willing to ride anything (okay, that didn’t come out right, but you get the picture). Last year Posy, a two time cancer survivor, received the news that the disease had returned. She decided to brave surgery despite the concerns of many. She knew it would be a tough recovery but told me, “I’m not ready for it to end. I’ve had a grand time! I have much more living to do.” That she does, and when she finally leaves this world for her next big adventure, I’m sure my “Posy with a Purpose” will be waiting on the other side, cocktail in hand, hoping I have the courage to use up every blessing, every talent and every opportunity I have had at my disposal before joining her.

healthy moms Ask the doc

This month, allergy specialist Dr. Christopher Perry of Toledo Clinic ENT/Sinus Center of Excellence, answers reader questions on everything from peanut allergies to sinus problems. cleans out the pollen and mucus in your nose, helping you breathe more freely and preventing nose bleeds too, especially in the winter.

Q: Why are food allergies so prevalent in children these days?

They seemed so uncommon before and now being allergic to peanuts or gluten is the new norm!

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Doctors believe that the increasing incidence of inhalant (airborne) and food allergies is due to the “hygiene” theory. In the US, our living environment has become too clean. Kids don’t play out side in the dirt as much, preferring to stay inside and play video games. We use anti-bacterial soap and disinfectants. We eat processed food. All of this reduces our exposure to naturally occurring bacteria, fungus and viruses that we once used to face, which would stimulate a child’s immune system to learn, adapt and grow stronger. If our immune systems are not properly stimulated, then it becomes more difficult for our bodies to differentiate between natural yet safe things like peanuts or ragweed from dangerous bacteria, viruses or fungus. Our bodies can become confused and mount an immune response to the wrong thing, a hyperactive response which we call allergies.

Q: I hear so much about neti pots. What are they, and who should use them? Do they actually work?

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Neti pots are basically a way to flush out your nose using a small teapot filled with salt water. I definitely recommend giving the inside of your nose a rinse, especially if you are prone to allergy or sinus problems. Use distilled, purified or boiled water mixed with salt. Let the boiled water cool to room temperature (believe me, I’ve seen it all). The salt water moisturizes and

Q: My nose runs often — especially when I’m laughing a lot or eating spicy foods. It’s not stuffy at all, but it is embarrassing! I’m considering taking an antihistamine, even though I don’t think it’s happening because of any allergy, per se. Is this safe?

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A runny nose after eating spicy foods is perfectly normal. Taking an antihistamine before you go to your favorite Indian or Thai restaurant probably won’t help. Just make sure to bring a box of Kleenex and enjoy the curry.

Q: When I eat certain fruits, my mouth tingles. Am I developing an allergy?

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Tingling in your mouth while eating certain fruit could be a sign of food allergy, if it is associated with swelling of your tongue, lips or throat. If so, my best advice would be to pick a different healthy snack.

Q: Is there a way I can prevent my child from developing allergies? I’m pregnant with my first child, and I am wondering what I can do to prevent a future problem from developing.

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Simply, let kids be kids. Don’t be a “helicopter” parent that walks around with hand sanitizer spray and a bottle of Lysol. Let little Johnny get dirty. According to the ‘hygiene theory,’ Americans are too clean. Kids need to be exposed to the outside environment in order to build up a healthy immune system. I’m not saying “never wash your kids’ hands,” but let them play outside, roll around in the grass, pet the cat, and then take a bath.

Toledo Clinic ENT / Sinus Center of Excellence is at 5800 Park Center Ct., Ste. C. 419-574-9100. www.toledorhinoplasty.com.

Ask The Doc features different area experts answering your most pressing health questions. To submit a question, or suggest a field you’d like covered (dermatology, etc.), message us at Facebook.com/ToledoAreaParent.

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Born entrepreneur

Julie MacKinnon finds her business niche with kids

By Brittany Adams

Girl power — Julie MacKinnon and her daughter Maggie at KidzWatch daycare Business owner and entrepreneur Julie Anne MacKinnon was enterprising even as a kid. She remembers one childhood business: she and her brother would gather golf balls that landed in their family's yard, clean them, and sell them back to golfers at the nearby course. “We were always trying to make money,” she says.

A hard worker throughout college, she took up many odd jobs — some of them very odd, like pulling a rickshaw in downtown Toronto! That same enterprising nature lead her to start locally-based daycare company Kidz Watch.

To feel more at-home, the Canadianborn businesswoman explains that the original Kidz Watch location on Central Avenue was chosen “because Tim Hortons [a Canadian coffee-shop staple] was out front.” Ten years ago, Julie started the business with a modest loan from her mother. The business has bloomed in the past decade — Julie's independence and drive has turned a small loan into a million-dollar company. “We really bootstrapped it,” she says. Two Kidz Watch locations are now up and running in the Northwest Ohio area with a franchise in Cincinnati. The business is innovative in the daycare industry because it has “drop in” availability for parents in a last-minute squeeze, as well as traditional preschool options. The business also includes DropInChildCare.com, an online consulting wing through which Julie has helped start daycare centers around the country. She sees daycare as an industry

which has gone through an evolution in recent years and has room for innovative businesswomen like herself.

Julie's passion for helping people, especially kids, is at the heart of her business. She has always been interested in early childhood education, as she worked at camps, taught, and served on school boards. Even with her busy schedule as a business owner and consultant, Julie makes sure to keep connected to her daycare center. “Even though I'm not in the center every day, the kids all know who I am — they all come running up and give me big hugs,” she says.

Although rooted in Sylvania, the MacKinnons are constantly on the move.

“We are not normal,” Julie jokes. Her husband is a travelling hockey scout and is back and forth from the Detroit airport. Her son is a hockey player, and her daughter is a figure skater. Her kids have taken a cue from their mom. “They've been asking me for a job!” she says.

Julie admits that being a mother and an entrepreneur can be challenging, but she wouldn't have it any other way. “I don't think that I could ever work for anybody,” she says. She has advice for other businesswomen who are just starting out: “Be persistent and do what you believe. A lot of places, especially now with the way the economy is, say 'no' and won't give you loans. You have to look to alternative sources. Don't give up on it at all, because there are different ways to get things done.”

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THE SHORT COURSE Kid-friendly: Yes To avoid wait: Breakfast/lunch are especially busy on Saturday

Pie for breakfast?

Schmucker’s still serves it up like grandma did

By Karen L. Zickes

Schmucker’s Restaurant 2103 N. Reynolds Rd. 419-535-9116 Open Mon-Sat: 5am-11pm Closed Sundays www.schmuckersrestaurant.com

Shame on me, I did it again! Eventually I will stop judging restaurants by their exterior. I should know by now that any restaurant appearing to be family owned with a steady stream of cars filling the parking lot probably has some darn good food! Obviously many people already know what I’m just figuring out.

Third generation still makes it like grandma

I have driven past the tiny yellow brick building with the flashing neon sign on Reynolds Rd. more times than I can count. There are cars in the parking lot no matter what time of day. It finally took a friend, new in town, to tell me I should really try it sometime. Too bad I missed out on the food, friendly staff, and experience for so long.

Every inch of the restaurant is utilized with customers perched on the stools at the lunch counter watching everything being prepared right in front of them. Little has changed in this quaint diner that was built in 1948. The same wooden phone booth stands in the corner. The pay phone is actually 30

the restaurant phone and the shiny metal stools have been there since Schmucker’s opened. Current owner, Doug Schmucker, is the grandson of Harvey and Nola Schmucker, who built the restaurant. He took over when his father passed away. “I started punching the clock when I was 12 years old,” Doug says.

“I have worked hard at keeping everything the way grandma and grandpa made things,” Doug says. Most of the entrees are still grandma’s recipes. He’s certain they have remained in business since 1948 because of his grandfather’s belief that if you offer people good food at a reasonable price and they don’t leave hungry, they’ll be back. Doug believes in treating everyone with the utmost respect. “I love people,” he said. Schmucker’s has one employee who has been part of the “fam-

ily” since 1976. Others have been there since the ‘80s. Employee loyalty like that is a rarity these days.

Breakfast, lunch, dinner, or PIE?

It was standing room only when we arrived. As I panned the diner, I saw people of all ages. I overheard several conversations that indicated most of the people there were regulars. My kids didn’t mind we weren’t in some fancy place, rather, I think they thought the step back in time was kind of cool; especially the wooden phone booth and old time cash register.

It’s the little things, I guess.

My husband and I enjoyed breakfast, and my sons devoured burgers and hand cut fries from the kids’ menu. The breakfasts for kids 10 and under are $2.19 plus

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Noise level: Moderate Bathroom amenities: Changing station in women’s room, though they’re happy to let father’s in to use it!

High chairs? Yes Got milk? Plain and chocolate varieties available, as well as lemonade, raspberry lemonade, orange juice, apple juice, and soda.

Kids’ menu? Yes

drink. The lunch and dinner kids’ menu includes drink and a homemade cookie and prices range from $3.19 to $4.49. If your older kids no longer prefer hot dogs, PB and J, and the like, the home-style dinners are available in child portions for $1.50 less than regular menu prices.

After seeing, tasting, and hearing more about their homemade pies, I may never bake my own again! Most certainly I sampled some pie after my breakfast of eggs and corned beef hash. How could I not? They offer about 20 fresh pies daily as well as pies-of-the-week. If you can think of a flavor, they probably make it.

My favorite that day was the chocolate peanut butter pie, while my husband preferred the peach crumb variety.

Home-cooked favorite comfort foods fill the menu. Meatloaf and mashed potatoes, fried chicken, slow-cooked roast beef and gravy over bread and mashed potatoes, and the ever popular chicken and gravy over homemade biscuits, are just a few of their offerings. The homemade chili is a staple, and there is always a soup-of-the-day along with other daily specials. If comfort food isn’t your thing, maybe the seafood specialties or even a Porterhouse steak might be what you’re looking for. And don’t forget, breakfast is available anytime.

Many entrees are available in lunch and dinner portions and prices, as well as ‘full course’ which includes dessert.

When I can enjoy homemade meals at such great prices, I think I’ll save myself the time and trouble and take the family back for dinner!

Bottom Line: The exterior of Schmucker’s might not be overly inviting, but you’ll feel like part of the family the minute you step in and grab a seat. Taking the crew out for a good meal doesn’t have to come in a box or break the bank. At Schmucker’s food is good, the portions are generous, and the prices are great.

Karen Zickes is a mom of three active children and freelance writer who resides in Holland. She can be reached in c/o editor@toledoparent.com.

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November 2012 All calendar events are subject to change, cancellation, and limited size.

Calling ahead for confirmation is recommended.

1 THURSDAY

Sesame Street Presents: The Body Grab the kids and run, jump and play your way through this interactive exhibition all about the human body. Have fun learning about everything from fingers and toes to your ishy squishy insides.

Through January 27, 2013. Imagination Station, 1 Discovery Way. 419-2442674. www.imaginationstationtoledo.org Legally Blonde: The Musical - The Toledo School for the Arts presents their production of Legally Blonde: The Musical.

Sorority star Elle Woods doesn’t take “no” for an answer. So when her boyfriend dumps her for someone “serious,” Elle puts down the credit card, hits the books, and sets out to go where no Delta Nu has gone before—Harvard Law. 7pm. $14 adult / $8 student. Owens Comm. Coll.

Ctr. for Fine & Performing Arts, 30335 Oregon Rd., Perrysburg. 419-246-8732. www.ts4arts.org Annual Book Sale - The Art Reference Library at the TMA will be selling reasonably priced new and used art books, posters, magazines, cookbooks, exhibition and auction catalogues, and colorful book covers. The library is located in the University of Toledo Center for the Visual Arts. All proceeds support library purchases and programs. Go online for hours.

November 1-3. Free. Toledo Museum of Art, 2445 Monroe St. 419-255-8000. www.toledomuseum.org

2 FRIDAY Tea at Stranleigh: Harvest of Hat Tea - Wear your best hat and enjoy a special harvest-themed tea party at Toledo’s most unique historic home.

Seatings include tea, two sandwiches, two desserts and musical entertainment in the beautiful setting of Stranleigh Manor.

Reservations welcome but not required.

12pm. Wildwood Preserve Metropark, 5100 W. Central Ave. 419-407-9700. www.metroparkstoledo.com

3 SATURDAY Etiquette Class: Surviving the First Introduction - Have your children learn to be socially savvy this holiday season.

Each program is interactive and teaches courtesy and respect through role-playing exercises. Snacks, certificate of completion, and also a workbook is given to each student. In this class learn how fun it is to meet new people. It’s not hard or scary once you know the rules, the magic words, and the secret handshake. 9am12pm. $45 per class / $115 all three.

Stone Oak Country Club, 100 Stone Oak Blvd., Holland. 602-909-6563. www.Gentle-Image.com

International Gaming Day - Parents, teens, children come out and enjoy a variety of board games, like chess, and more.

A little competition between friends will be great fun! Hot dogs and refreshments for this day of family, food, and fun are supplied. 11:30am-5-pm. Sanger Branch Library, 3030 West Central Ave. 419-259-5370. www.toledolibrary.org

6 TUESDAY Wilson Lake and the Rock Bass Fish and turtles splash and groove in the water while squirrels, raccoons and toads begin to boogie! Listen as the music rumbles across the waves and into the woods that surround the lake. Adventure Rock for all ages! 4-5pm. Birmingham Branch Library, 203 Paine Ave. 419-259-5210. www.toledolibrary.org

7 WEDNESDAY Toddler Trails - This outdoor, multi-sensory nature play and exploration program runs the first Wednesday of each month.

Parent must accompany their child at the program. For children ages 18 months to 3 years. Register toddlers only. 10am.

Wildwood Preserve Metropark, 5100 W. Central Ave. 419-407-9700. www.metroparkstoledo.com

8 THURSDAY Calling All Boy Scouts: Geology Rocks rock! Today scouts explore the properties of rocks, minerals and many of earth’s resources in this first-time offered merit badge. This is a drop-off program that runs rain or shine, so dress for the weather. Registration required. 4:30pm.

Farnsworth Metropark, 8505 S. River Rd. (US 24), Waterville. 419-407-9700. www.metroparkstoledo.com The Brothers Grimm Spectaculathon - Two narrators attempt to recreate all 209 of the fairy tales of the Brothers Grimm in a wild, fast-paced extravaganza, which, of course, they attempt to combine into one gigantic fable. A TSA Junior Division Production

by Don Zolidis. 7-8:30pm. $6 adult / $4 students & seniors. Toledo School for the Arts: Attic Theater, 333 14th St. 419-246-8732. www.ts4arts.org Super Hero Training - The time has come for mother and son to unite as one super duo to participate in a superhero training session. Each duo will participate in multiple training stations that will prepare them for vanquishing the villain and restoring justice! Kids must be in grades K-4 and a mom who is young at heart. A hero outside of these specifications cannot attend this event. Register in advance online. 6:30-8:30pm. $25 Per Duo. Red Willow Event Center, 5805 Woodville Rd., Northwood. 419-340-6070. www.mycomplevents.com

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Whitmer Career & Technology Center College & Career Exploration Night - Parents and students grades 7-10 are invited to attend and visit the career training programs offered at Whitmer Career & Technology Center. There will be demonstrations by students, displays, opportunities to discuss course offerings with teachers, learn about career opportunities from area business, industry, and labor and speak with colleges about education beyond high school. 6-7:30pm. Free. Whitmer Career & Technology Center, 5719 Clegg Dr. 419-473-8335. www.wls4kids.org

9 FRIDAY Bunnicula - This spine-tingling new musical based on James and Deborah Howe’s best-selling Bunnicula books, stars a floppy-eared bunny with mysterious habits. The mystifying orphaned rabbit that the Monroe family brings home has sharp fangs instead of buck teeth and he sleeps all day and prowls around his cage all night. Suddenly all the vegetables in the house are drained of their color and they turn a ghostly white. Shows at 10am & 12:15pm. Franciscan Center, 6832 Convent Blvd., Sylvania. 419-824-3952. www.lourdes.edu Preschool Pioneers: Food for Thought - Learn how settlers harvested and preserved food for the long winter.

Children hear a story and try their hand at the art of food preservation. Please dress children appropriately. Come to the little cabin in the big swamp and experience what life was like 145 years ago.

Register child only. Parent must accompany child during program. 10am. Pearson Metropark, Lallendorf Rd. near the corner of Navarre Ave (SR), Oregon. 419-4079700. www.metroparkstoledo.com

Maternity Sale - Do you have Maternity Clothing you need to clear out or are you pregnant and looking for some ‘new-to-you’ clothing? Sweet Cheeks will host their first ever Maternity Sale! You can register to sell your maternity clothing (registration fee will be given back to you in a gift certificate at the shop). 6-8pm.

Sweet Cheeks Pure Baby Boutique, 5577 Monroe St., Sylvania. 419-517-0506. www.puresweetcheeksbaby.com The Great Gatsby Play - The Springfield High School Blue Devil Drama Club is pleased to announce the third installment of their Dramatic Literature Series, The Great Gatsby.

The breathtaking glamour and decadent excess of the Jazz Age come to the stage in F. Scott Fitzgerald’s classic novel. November 9-11, 7:30pm. $8 adults/ $6 students. Springfield High School Auditorium, 1470 S. McCord Rd., Holland.

10 SATURDAY Etiquette Class: Dining and Restaurant Etiquette - In this class your children will learn how to crack the mystery of place settings, small talk and how to dine like a gentleman and lady, when it’s a special occasion, and you’re nervous. 9am-12pm. $45 per class / $115 all three. Stone Oak Country Club, 100 Stone Oak Blvd., Holland. 602-9096563. www.Gentle-Image.com Little People LIVE Musical Show The Little People friends have big plans for celebrating the holidays this year, including a brand-new live musical show filled with singing, dancing, and plenty of surprises. No matter what holiday you celebrate, you’ll have a great time with Eddie, Sonya Lee and Michael as they share the joys of friendship and discover the true meaning of holiday spirit. The shows are

12th Annual Tellabration!

Friday, November 9 The Frogtown Storytelling Guild celebrates it’s 12th year as apart of this international day of storytelling known as Tellabration! The event is a spoken-word concert that is sure to enchant any audience. This year’s featured storyteller is Jeff Doyle from Ann Arbor, MI. Doyle is a member of Ann Arbor’s Storyteller’s Guild and is known for humorous tales that end with a twist and are often spooky! Many Frogtown storytellers will join him for an evening full of the region’s best folktales, legends and personal narratives. Help keep the oral tradition alive and pass on some of the creative yarns to the next generation of storytellers. 7-9pm. $10 adults / Free, high school and college students with a student ID. Maumee Indoor Theater, 601 Conant St., Maumee. 419-350-1454. www.sites.google.com/site/frogtownstorytellers—JG free with Zoo admission! November 10 & 11, 1pm & 3pm. Toledo Zoo, 2700 Broadway. 419-385-4040. www.toledozoo.org Children’s Choir of Northwest Ohio Join The Children’s Choir of Northwest Ohio as they sing you some stories! The Jubilate Choir and Bel Canto Choir are made up of children in grades 3-up from throughout Northwest Ohio who love to make beautiful music together. Come listen and fulfill the mission of “freeing the musician within!” 11am-12pm. Main Library, 325 North Michigan St. 419-259-5200. www.toledolibrary.org

12 MONDAY Family Curiosity Club: Sylvania Historical Village - Explore Sylvania Historical Village with the Sylvania Branch Library and The Olander Park System. TOPS Naturalist Sandy Gratop and Children’s Librarian Heidi Yeager make reading and the outdoors

come alive in this historic village setting.

Registration required. 6-7:30pm. Sylvania Branch Library, 6749 Monroe St., Sylvania. 419-882-2089. www.toledolibrary.org

13 TUESDAY Choreography Showcase - TSA senior dancers choreograph a show that spotlights the excellent creative and performing skills of advanced dancers.

7-8pm. $6 adult / $4 students & seniors.

Toledo School for the Arts: Attic Theater, 333 14th St. 419-246-8732. www.ts4arts.org Little Scientists Week - This week is dedicated to the littlest scientists, kindergarten age and younger! Bring your group to visit Sesame Street Presents: The Body and stay for a series of activities focused on health and wellness. General Admission. Imagination Station, 1 Discovery Way. 419-244-2674. www.imaginationstationtoledo.org

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15 THURSDAY Hooray for Homeschoolers: Birds Need to Feed - Food becomes scarce when temperatures drop and snow covers the ground. Homeschoolers bundle up to discover what winter birds eat. After the winter walk, participants learn to make a birdfeeder. Registration required. 10am.

Farnsworth Metropark, 8505 S. River Rd. (US 24), Waterville. 419-407-9700. www.metroparkstoledo.com

16 FRIDAY Diabetes Youth Services to Host Seventh Annual Sweet Success Gala - The gala event will feature dinner, a cash bar and silent and live auctions for such items as sports memorabilia, vacation rentals, and food, wine and jewelry packages. Register online and learn more by visiting the website. Proceeds from the Sweet Success Gala will support DYS camp and school education programs.

6pm. $100. Hilton Garden Inn, 6165 Levis Commons Blvd., Perrysburg.

419-887-8739. www.dys4kids.org The Lights Before Christmas Featuring over one millions lights, including nearly two-hundred images of animals, and an eighty-five foot spruce with more than 32,000 lights, Ice Carving Demos, model trains, and visits with Santa, the Zoo’s holiday transformation returns in full force for 2012. Go online for special holiday hours. November 16-December 31.

Toledo Zoo, 2700 Broadway.

419-385-4040. www.toledozoo.org

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Celebrate Native American Heritage Month - November is Native American Heritage Month. Eco-Discovery will present an educational program about Native Americans and the food they shared during the first Thanksgiving celebration. For children grades K-6. 2-3pm.

Main Library, 325 North Michigan St. 419-259-5200. www.toledolibrary.org

Library Family Feud - It’s Kids vs.

Parents in the DVD version of the popular, classic game show. Come find out who’s really smarter and knows all the answers.

Refreshments will be provided. Registration is required. Registration required. 6:308pm. Heatherdowns Branch Library, 3265 Glanzman. 419-259-5270. www.toledolibrary.org

Shut Up About Your Perfect Kid Join authors Gina Gallagher and Patricia Konjoian in raising awareness about parenting children with special challenges. The sisters will speak from their heart and their book “Shut Up About Your Perfect Kid, A Survival Guide For Ordinary Parents of Special Children.” To reserve tickets, please call or visit website.

Space is limited. 2-5pm. $10. Funny Bone Comedy Club, 6140 Levis Commons Blvd., Perrysburg. 419-726-5100. www.adoptamericanetwork.org

Wee Workshop: Talking Turkeys Just in time for Thanksgiving, Metroparks are talking turkeys at Wildwood Preserve.

Wee Workshop is a hands-on nature experience designed to cultivate your child’s love for the outdoors. Register child only. Parent must accompany their 3 to 5 year old child at program. 10am.

Wildwood Preserve Metropark, 5100 W. Central Ave. 419-407-9700. www.metroparkstoledo.com

Sweaters, Soups, Sweets and Santa - Project Dignity distributes clothes, socks and underwear to families in need in the Toledo area. There will be sweaters on sale for $2, assorted soups, baked goods and Christmas decorations. 10am2pm. Pilgrim Church, 1375 W. Sylvania Ave. 419-478-6012.

Mighty Sleighty Magic Lessons Impress your friends and family by performing amazing feats of magic! Local magician, Andrew Martin, will teach this free class to youth in grades 3-12.

You’ll learn hands-on magic that can be done right away, using common household items. Registration required. 2-3pm.

Reynolds Corners Branch Library, 4833 Dorr St. 419-259-5320. www.toledolibrary.org

Etiquette Class: The Art of Party Manners - In this class your children will learn how to feel comfortable and savvy when attending parties. Whether it’s a family party, friend’s party, or “I Don’t Know Any One Here” party. 9am-12pm. $45 per class / $115 all three. Stone Oak Country Club, 100 Stone Oak Blvd., Holland. 602-909-6563. www.Gentle-Image.com

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24 SATURDAY Ballet Theatre of Toledo: The Nutcracker - The Tchaikovsky classic and beloved ballet of the twentieth century was originally adapted from E.T.A Hoffman’s story ‘The Nutcracker and the Mouse King,’ The Nutcracker has become a favorite among audiences the world over. Saturday, 7pm; Sunday 2pm. $18$38. The Valentine Theatre, 410 Adams St. 419-242-3490. www.valentinetheatre.com

Sensory Friendly Movie - These special showings are intended to provide an accepting environment for individuals with challenges who may find it difficult to attend a movie at a traditional theater. The lights will remain on softly and the volume will be lowered. All movies will be rated PG or G and are appropriate for all ages.

10am. $4.50 includes small pop and popcorn. Maumee Indoor Theater, 601 Conant St., Maumee. 419-380-5126. www.lucasdd.org

29 THURSDAY Kindermusik Imagine That! - Pretend play activities are integrated with music, storytelling, movement and literature to capture your child’s potential to learn and to encourage cognitive and literacy skills, creativity and individuality. Registration required. 10-10:45am. Waterville Branch Library, 800 Michigan Ave., Waterville.

419-878-3055. www.toledolibrary.org

30 FRIDAY ACGT Holiday Gallery Loop - The final bus loop of the year from the Arts Commission of Greater Toledo is moving a bit closer to the holidays this year.

The event is usually held in October, but this year the more than 20 participating galleries in the Uptown and Warehouse Districts are giving you the chance to do your holiday shopping. 6-9pm. Downtown Toledo.www.acgt.org The Toledo Repertoire Theatre: A Christmas Carol - Come join The Rep for a Toledo, Christmas-time tradition, with their annual presentation of A Christmas Carol. Made possible by a grant from Theater League, this special live-theater experience is sure to help complete your holiday experience. Friday, 8pm; Saturday, 8pm; Sunday, 2:30pm & 8pm. $27. The Valentine Theatre, 410 Adams St. 419-242-3490. www.valentinetheatre.com

Visit www.toledoparent.com for more events and to add your own!

MONDAY-Saturday Kindermusik Preview Class, Explore fun, musical

adventures with your child. For children ages newborn through seven years. Miss Barb’s Music Studio, 3307 N.Holland-Sylvania Rd. 419-842-8331. www.MissBarbs.

Kindermusik.net

MONDAYs REFRESH Moms Group,

Come enjoy a light breakfast and be refreshed by connecting with other moms 2nd & 4th Monday each month. Open to all moms with children birth-elementary school. Childcare provided. Hope Community Church, 5650 Starr Extension, Oregon.

Sweet Sharings, Bring

your little ones for an hour of fun activities that will build memories together. 10am. Sweet Cheeks Pure Baby Boutique, 5577 Monroe St., Sylvania. 419-517-0506. www.puresweetcheeksbaby.com

TUESDAYs Nursing Mothers Group,

These meetings are held the 1st and 3rd Tuesday of every month (except major holidays). Nursing moms and new babies are invited to attend informal discussion about

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breastfeeding issues. 12:30–2pm.

Toledo Hospital, 2142 North Cove Blvd. 419-291-5666. www.promedica.org

TUESDAYs &

THURSDAYS Family Center Fun, Kids up

to age 10 participate in themed art activities in the Museum’s Family Center. Tuesdays & Thursdays, 10am-3pm. Free. Toledo Museum of Art, 2445 Monroe St. 419-2558000. www.toledomuseum.org

WednESDAYs mom2mom, The Toledo area’s

newest moms’ group meets the 2nd & 4th Wednesdays every month.

9:15-11:15am. Christ the Word Church, 5432 West Central Ave. www.mom2momtoledo.com

THURSDAYS Mother Goose Storytime, A storytime program for 12–23 month old children. The program involves active participation and interaction between the child, the caregiver and a member of the Library staff. 9:30am and 10:30am. Free. The Way Public Library, 101 E. Indiana Ave., Perrysburg. 419-874-3135. www.waylibrary.info

Mothers’ Center of Greater Toledo, Mothers

meet for fun, food and friendship.

Reliable and safe childcare provided. 9:45-11:15am. McCord Road Christian Church, 4765 N. McCord Rd., Sylvania. The group is not affiliated with the church. www.motherscenter.net

FRIDAYS Babytime, Have fun with stories, rhymes and music and discover ways to develop early literacy skills in your young child. Join us for a book program designed just for the littlest learners. Go online for each Library’s age range and registration details. Registration required.

10am. Waterville Branch Library, 800 Michigan Ave., Waterville.

419-878-3055. www.toledolibrary.org

SUNDAYS

Free Family Time Tour,

Children and their adult partners tour works of art related to the Family Center’s weekly art project, then roll up their sleeves back at the Center for hands-on creating. 2pm & 2:30pm. Toledo Museum of Art Family Center, 2445 Monroe St. 419-255-8000. www.toledomuseum.org

marketplace

ENTERTAINMENT

ADVERTISING IN MARKETPLACE Free Classifieds: Individuals may receive one free 20-word ad per month (products offered in ads must sell for under $100). Each additional word 40 cents, payment must accompany ad. Free ads run 1 month and are reserved for private-parties use, noncommercial concerns and free servicesLine Classifieds: Only $10 per month for 20 words or less. Each additional word is 40 cents each and any artwork will be $5 extra.

Display Classifieds: Display classifieds with a box may be purchased for $25 per column inch. Photos are accepted with ads for an additional $5 per photo.

by the 15th of the month prior to publication.

Payment: Payment must be received before an ad can be placed. We accept checks, cash, money orders and credit cards (Visa/Mastercard).

Phone: 419-244-9859 E-Mail: classifieds@toledoparent.com REFUNDS: Sorry, NO REFUNDS given.

MISPRINTS: Credit toward future ads.

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Education

Tutoring K-8, Specializing in reading, math & study skills. Will meet each student at Public Library at your convenience. Call 419-360-2558 Teachers Aide Year round school for students with Autism.

Monday through Friday, 7:45 am – 3:30 pm. $8 per hour. 35 hours per week.

Benefits available. Must have high school diploma and able to pass a background.

Send resume to the Autism Model School.

3020 Tremainsville Rd. Toledo, Oh 43613 Attn: Matt. Please no phone calls or walk-ins. EOE.

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Deadlines: Ad copy must be received

Birthdays • Banquets Schools • Scouts • More!

419-472-4333

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Shorties Tuesdays 6-8 PM Pizza Papalis Wednesdays 6-8 PM

dance class for hearing impaired school age children. Sunday, 4pm 419-3091610. Classes start Sept. 16

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children’s art classes at the Toledo Artists’ Club at the Toledo Botanical Gardens.

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QUALIFIED HOME HEALTH AIDES NEEDED! Family Service of NW Ohio, 701 Jefferson Suite 301, Toledo, OH 43604.

Inquiries call 419-720-0014

Freelance writers needed. Send resume to: editor@toledocitypaper.com

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Staff writers needed Do you know what a lead, nutgraph, and kicker are? If so, read on.

Toledo Area Parent is always looking for enterprising, dedicated reporters. We pay for good work: writing that is easy to read, succinct and wellresearched. If you struggle with basic grammar, spelling or deadlines, please don’t apply. Email a cover letter, resume and clips to editor@toledoparent.com with the subject line “TAP Writer.”

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NEW! Toledo area mom’s group mom2mom. 2nd & 4th Wednesdays 9:15 - 11:15am at Christ the Word Church near Secor Metropark. www. mom2momtoledo.com

INTERNS NEEDED Fun job. Great experience. Being on Toledo’s cutting edge. If you like taking pictures, presenting ideas, going to events for free and working in a team environment but don’t want to deal with the corporate ladder, ask us about an internship with the Toledo City Paper. College credit can be provided. We are looking for part time and full time interns. Apply at sales@toledocitypaper.com

gluten free support group for children and their families. Meets first Wednesday of every month at 6:30pm at First United Methodist Church in Sylvania.

Contact Cheri or Holly at youandmeglutenfree@hotmail.com

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