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Toledo’s Award-Winning Parent Newspaper

Volume 24 • Issue 6 June 2012

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30 healthy moms 5 community snapshots

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Knowing the difference will 8 new kids on the block

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Fair weather

Kids and families came out in crowds to plan their summer at TAP’s 2012 Summer Camp Fair at Westfield Franklin Park on Saturday, April 28. Everybody enjoyed the fun and goodies — including TAP’s stylish red noses!

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Berry good

Make room for the birds, and maybe buy a unique work of art, as the Toledo Farmers’ Market presents “Birdhouses For Schoolhouses,” a fun and festive fundraiser for Milan, Ohio’s Veggie U. Veggie U is a non-profit organization at the Culinary Vegetable Institute which runs a classroom program teaching fourth graders about the magic and majesty of vegetables. Young students learn where their food comes from and how to grow their own, in a valuable antidote to our fast-food culture. “Birdhouses For Schoolhouses” was the brainchild of Toledo’s Ralph Behrendt, of Flying Rhino Coffee. This third annual event gives local artists, business and community leaders a chance to decorate their own unique birdhouse to be offered at a silent auction on Saturday, June 9 at the Farmers’ Market.

Molly Thompson, Veggie U’s Director of Development, is thrilled. “It’s a great fit,” she says. “It’s part of what the Farmers’ Market is about, and it’s a great way to expand our program beyond the classroom.” The finished birdhouses will be featured on the Farmers’ Market website and Facebook in advance of the auction, so check them out and pick out your favorite! You can help point the way to a healthier and greener future, and maybe give some feathered friends a nice home. Saturday, June 9, 9am-12pm. 525 Market St. 419-255-6765. www.toledofarmersmarket.com. —MD

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Space to grow

The start of June means the start of picking your own fresh strawberries!

Johnston Farms in Swanton provides individuals with the experience of going out and picking their own strawberries.

This fun activity is a great way to get the family together, while also supporting local fruit growers. The farm’s been open since 1954, with the goal to provide “homegrown fruit in a simple, down to earth way.” Kids can also have fun at the farm’s petting zoo, which features goats, donkeys, and more. And come July, people should be able to also pick their own blueberries and black raspberries. For U-Pick hours, call 419-826-1453.

Johnston Fruit Farms, 2790 Airport Hwy., Swanton.

Open Monday – Saturday, 9am-5pm. www.johnstonfruitfarms.com. —AR

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A veterinary student teaches a young girl how to milk a cow at the OVMA Veterinary Education Center.

An artistic harvest In a real way, our state (and our country) was built on the strength of its farms — but city kids might not always be aware of where their food comes from. As the Ohio State Fair approaches, the state’s Department of Agriculture presents the 2012 “Agriculture is Cool!” Creative Expressions contest. The competition gives school children from kindergarten through grade 12 the opportunity to create their own unique work of art expressing the importance of agriculture to them and to the world.

Entries can be in the form of video, photography, drawing or painting, and will be judged by an all-star panel made up of both civil servants and artistic professionals in all media. Kids should submit their work by Monday, July 9.

Winners in each of four age divisions will be announced on July 20, and will each receive two tickets to the State Fair, including a special performance by country music up-and-comers The Band Perry.

For full contest rules and entry forms, see www.ohioagriculture.gov/agiscool, or call 614-752-9817. —MD

Still need a summer camp guide? Check ours out!

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Watch amazing things happen as kids encounter God like never before—all against the backdrop of some of the world's most marvelous natural wonn ders. As kids explore Psalm 147:5, they’ll recognize God’s power over all things, trust that God is always in control, accept God’s gift of forgiveness, celebrate that Jesus is alive, and rely on God’s power.

In this one-week adventure, they will learn through bible stories, crafts, motivating music and games. Dinner provided Monday through Thursday. Contact the church to reserve a spot for your child or grandchild – Pre-Kindergarten through 5th Grade welcome!

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An affordable choice

Keeping an ever-growing child clothed is a never-ending battle. Resale shops can help — and Toledo parents have a new option, as LilyPads Affordable Children’s Resale opened its doors off of South Detroit Avenue in May, near UT Medical College. The shop is the creation of partners Maryanne Coletti and Adam Roberts, both recent University of Toledo graduates, and sells gently-used brand-name clothing and toys. Roberts gives Coletti credit for the idea. “She grew up a little poor,” Roberts says, “so she wanted everybody to be able to have good clothing at a nice price. We’re not looking to make a million dollars.”

Roberts plans to oversee the business with his UT-acquired business acumen, while Coletti runs the day-to-day operations. They're buying gently-used childrens’ items right now. So if you’re looking for some parenting bargains, or if you have some outgrown toys and clothing from your little ones, pick up some cash or store credit by hopping on over to LilyPads. 2402 Aberdeen Ave. 419-720-8755. —MD

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Structuring the summer

Tips for a stress-free vacation By Alia Orra • Find educational activities where both you and your child can participate. “Find something to do, let’s say three days a week, to get you out of the house - something educational or social,” Stanton says. “Sometimes we forget the importance of the social piece with kids.” The Toledo Zoo is free every Monday with entry before noon for Lucas County residents, and the Toledo Public Library offers many programs.

• Include your kids in everyday chores at home. “It’s the perfect opportunity to get them involved in everyday tasks like cooking, cleaning and outdoor yard work,” Stanton says.

“That teaches them to follow directions, teamwork and basic life skills.”

Tools such as a picture schedule help kids stay on track with their daily tasks and activities Summer break — for parents, the word “break” may be inaccurate. The loss of structure and routine that accompanies those school-free months can be a challenge for any parent, but the time off can create a unique set of problems for those who have children with special needs.

“I think because of the lack of structure, sometimes there are more acting out behaviors at home,” said Sharalee Stanton, an intervention specialist at Toledo charter school Bennett Venture Academy who has spent 11 years teaching in special education. “Parents struggle to deal with behaviors at home that might not be typical for their child. You’re adjusting to a whole new routine in the summer,” Stanton says.

While it’s easy to become overwhelmed, Stanton says there are activities and routines that can help parents and their children enjoy the coming vacation.

Here, she offers her tips for making summer a stress-free growing experience for you and your child.

• Create a special summer routine. “You need to have some kind of bed time in the summer,” Stanton says.

It can be different from the normal school routine, but “choose a new time and just stick with it as much you can in the summer.” Fluctuations in sleep times, “especially for kids with special needs,” throws off their routine, and that can make it stressful on both you and your children.

time, has to read something every day to earn video game time.”

• Take advantage of the opportunity to get outside. “Keep your kids active in the summertime,” Stanton says.

Getting outside and being physically active can be helpful to some children. “If a child has a sensory processing disorder, that could help regulate their system,” Stanton says. “Depending on the child, That can be therapeutic. And it’s going to help them sleep better.”

• Don’t stop learning. “Don’t ever take a complete break from academics.

That will avoid summer educational loss with kids,” Stanton says. “There’s a happy medium — it’s fine to ask a teacher, ‘What are some skills we can work on in the summer?’” Buy flash cards or borrow books to read from the library. “I think the most important thing to do over the summer is to read with your kids,” Stanton said.

• Get in back-to-school mode early. “Start the school routine early — at least two weeks prior to school starting,” Stanton says. “Get back into your school bedtime routine. And talking to your child, especially a special needs child,

Sharalee Stanton is an intervention specialist at Toledo charter school Bennett Venture Academy about school starting is very helpful.”

If starting at a new school, ask to take a tour of the building ahead of time and, if possible, meet the teachers. By preparing them with what to expect, they can make the transition more smoothly.

• Find a camp, whether it’s special needs or not. “There are a lot of day camps in Toledo,” Stanton says. Some are pricier than others, so you should research what camp would fit your family best. “Special needs kids don’t have to go to a special needs camp ---- many camps will accommodate a special needs child,” Stanton says. “It’s good for them to go to a camp with programming for everyone because then they have interaction with their ‘typical’ peers.”

• Stay consistent with medications.

Don’t disrupt your child’s medication schedule. “If you have a child with special needs who takes medication during the year, they should still take it during the summer,” Stanton says. “They need that regulation.”

• Implement the classroom behavior chart at home, too. If your child uses a behavior chart at school to track their progress and reward their successes, the same system may benefit them at home. “You can modify it for your child, or even ask the teacher if she or he has an extra copy so you can implement it at home over the summer.” Try to find something your kids enjoy doing, and use it as a reward. “My child, in the summer-

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THE LINES TWEEN advice for parents with children 10-16

Building compassion

Give tweens a tech time-out to help others this summer

By Alia Orra

Summer vacation often commences with a binge on all the time-killers that were forbidden during the school year --- Facebook, texting, and TV. It can be a self-centered time, and parents may be at a loss as to how to direct their child’s attention outwardly. Volunteering is one way parents can instill a giving attitude and provide education about community needs.

“The number one reason I believe young adults should get involved by volunteering is to better understand the community,” said Bryan Wynn, volunteer coordinator at United Way of Greater Toledo. “Another thing about volunteering at a young age is that it’s a very humbling experience. A lot of kids are kind of wrapped up in themselves, so to regroup and help those who are less fortunate is a very humbling experience.”

Wynn says even though some volunteering tasks may feel mundane to tweens, their impact on the community at large is still significant. “They’re not just throwing some bags here and sorting some clothes there,” he says, “What they’re doing is really helping and providing benefit to other individuals who are less fortunate.” Parents and tweens can talk to volunteer coordinators at

organizations like United Way to help find opportunities that best fit their interests. Some volunteering your child may be able to do on his or her own, while other placements require parents to participate alongside. Here’s a list of opportunities to get families started on their search for a good cause.

United Way Ambassador Project Volunteers can read to pre-school children at the Catholic Club, 1601 Jefferson Ave., on some Tuesdays in June and July, or pack senior food boxes at Toledo Seagate Food Bank, 526 High St. on Sat., July 7 or Sat., Aug. 4. from 9 am to noon. Visit www.unitedwaytoledo. org for details or call Holly Ball, volunteer coordinator, at 419-254-4708.

Toledo Area Humane Society Animal-lovers may find their passion helping four-legged friends in need.

The Toledo Area Humane Society relies heavily on volunteers, and welcomes junior volunteers between the ages of 10 and 16. Volunteers are asked to sign up for at least 10 hours per month for six months, and need to complete an online application with an adult who plans to volunteer with them. There is a three-hour orientation for those who

are accepted. Contact Mary Moser, director of volunteers, at 419-891-1561 or visit www.toledoareahumanesociety.org.

The Toledo Library The library’s Volunteen program offers training for tweens as young as 12 who want to offer their help. Mandatory training sessions give young adults confidence before they begin their duties, and are available until June 13. Potential volunteens can select the branch where they’d like to help out. Visit www.toledolibrary.org to complete a registration form and gather more information.

The Toledo Zoo For future zoologists and kids passionate about conservation the ZOOTeen program is a chance to give back in an educational environment. They can gain public-speaking skills and leadership qualities by serving as guides for zoo visitors. The program is offered year-round to kids ages 13 to 17. There is a one-time fee of $40 upon acceptance (scholarships are available to help with the cost). While

they’re no longer accepting applications for the summer 2012 program, young adults can apply to qualify for programs during other seasons. E-mail volunteer@ toledozoo.org for more information.

Hospitals Hospitals often run special programs catering to younger volunteers.Visit the Mercy Health Partners’ website at www. mercyweb.org or Promedica at www. promedica.org to match your family with the right opportunity at one of the network hospitals.

Create your own cause Another option is to go out into your neighborhood and find ways to help.

Assisting elderly neighbors in cutting their lawns or washing their cars or organizing a group of friends to do a playground cleanup are just some of many available ways to pitch in.

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Burger place

Burger Bar 419 4400 Heatherdowns Blvd.

419-724-5844 www.burgerbar419.com Runner up: Bar 145

Ice cream shop

Handel's Homemade Ice Cream 5908 W. Sylvania Ave. 419-882-1118 www.handelsicecream.com Runner up: Mr. Freeze

Place where kids eat free Fricker's For Locations visit www.frickers.com Runner up: Ralphie's Sports Eatery

Let the favorites begin! The ballots are in and counted! Toledoans have spoken! Thanks to all our readers for telling us what they love most about the Toledo area. From local experts to exciting locations, it’s no wonder we love to call Toledo home!

LET'S EAT Family restaurant Chowders N'Moor 7723 Airport Highway, Holland 419-491-0098 www.chowdersnmoor.com Runner up: BW3

Healthy fast food

Magic Wok For locations visit www.magicwok.com Runner up Aladdin's Eatery

Fun place for dinner

Red Robin For locations visit www.redrobin.com Runner up: bd's Mongolian Grill

Pizza joint

The Original Gino's Pizza 3981 Monroe St. 419-472-3567 www.originalginos. com Runner up: J & G Pizza Palace Zachary Sonny and Eli Stanley Leininger, of Swanton,14 months old.

Kid-friendly grocery store Kroger For locations visit www.kroger.com Runner up: Meijer

Natural food store

Health Foods by Claudia 3904 Secor Rd. 419-474-2400 www.healthfoodsbyclaudia.com Runner up: Bassett's Health Foods

TOPS IN TOLEDO Local co. to work for if you have kids ProMedica Runner up: Owens Corning

Neighborhood to raise kids in Sylvania Runner up: Maumee

Kids' photographer

Grand Lubell Photography 5101 Harroun Rd. 419-882-1984 www.grandlubell.com Runner up: Kurt Nielsen Photography

Program

Kindermusik 3307 N. Holland Sylvania Rd. 419-842-8331 www.missbarbs.yourvirtuoso.com Runner up: Toledo Zoo 12

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Family restaurant

Julie Moor, Faith Moor, Journey Moor, Liz Heckerman and Jacob Heckerman enjoy some comforting classics

Chowders 'N Moor

7723 Airport Highway, Holland 419-491-0098 www.chowdersnmoor.com Hearty sandwiches (like the corned beef and coleslaw Gilligan) and homemade soups (like the famous white chicken chili) are some of the menu items that've made Chowders 'N Moor a restaurant staple for Toledo families with an appetite. Owners Tina and Tom Kuron have two locations (on Airport Highway and on 312 S. Street in Waterville), and the children's menu features classics like fish sticks or mac and cheese that will have parents asking for a bite (for $4.99). The Waterville spot opens at 7 am to serve breakfast, while the Holland location opens at 11 am for lunch and dinner.

Summer day camp

JCC YMCA For locations and camp listings visit www.ymcatoledo.org Runner up: West Side Montessori

Teacher

Ms. Carol Nofziger Kindergarten teacher Gesu School 2045 Parkside Blvd.

419-536-5634www.gesutoledo.com Runner up: Mrs. Kris Mugge, Miss Barnett

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Music class

Kindermusik

3307 N Holland Sylvania Rd 419-842-8331 www.missbarbs.yourvirtuoso.com Music classes at Kindermusik are not only a fun jam session for parents and their tots, they're a chance to develop creativity, self-esteem and listening skills (among other things). The joy of banging on a tambourine (or other instrument) is available to parents and their kids, from babies up to age 7, and a coupon for a free preview of one of the classes is on their website for those interested in trying out a session with their future composer or rock star.

continued from pg 12 Tutoring/learning center Sylvan Learning Center 7131 Spring Meadows Dr., Holland 419-867-1331 www.sylvanlearning.com Runner up: Kumon Learning Center

Family-friendly car dealership Yark Automotive 6019 W. Central Ave. (866) 390-8894 www.yarkauto.com Runner up: Kistler Ford

Bank

Huntington Bank For locations visit www.huntington.com Runner up: Fifth Third Bank

Dr. Rick Cherry 6600 Sylvania Ave., Sylvania 419-517-7106 www.drcherryandassociates.com Runner up: Pinnacle Eye Group

Veterinarian

Sylvania Vet 4801 N Holland Sylvania Ave., Sylvania 419-885-4421 www.sylvaniavet.com Runner up: Country Squire Animal Hospital

Family lawyer Lonnie Lutz 4334 W. Central Ave. 419-578-9211 www.lutzattorneys.com

Runner up: Bonnie Rankin

Special needs

Place to worship

United Way 424 Jackson St. 419-248-2424 www.unitedwaytoledo.org Runner up: Sunshine Inc.

Cedar Creek 2600 W. Sylvania Ave. 419-661-8661 www.cedarcreek.tv Runner up: Sylvania United Methodist

Dentist/orthodontist

Preschool

Dr. Simon Haerian & Ludwig 6711 Monroe St., Sylvania 419-318-1756 www.perfectbraces.com Runner up: Dr. Jennifer Zoll

West Side Montessori 2105 N. McCord Rd. 419-866-1931 www.montessoritoledo.org Runner up: Maumee Valley Country Day School

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5633 N. Main • downtown Sylvania • 419.885.1140 medical spa • hair • day spa • nails

Thank you for voting • Best Place to Pamper Mom • Best Kids Haircut.

(Runner up)

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Kid's photographer

Grand Lubell Photography

5101 Harroun Rd. 419-882-1984 www.grandlubell.com Grand Lubell Photography is responsible for some awe-inspiring images --the proof is in their websites flashing gallery of Toledoans captured against glam-looking scenery (like downtown rooftops). Seniors and babies are made picture-perfect, too, and the studio is housed in a beautiful yellow home (complete with a white picket fence), befitting of their guarantee that "taking pics shouldn't be a chore." Price guides are available on their website for those who want to capture their kids' carefree moments digitally.

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Children's Discovery Center 3839 Talmadge Rd. 419-474-8303 www.childrensdiscoverycenters.com Runner up: Little Sprouts Academy

Drop-in childcare Kidz Watch 6819 W. Central Ave. 419-843-2997 www.kidzwatch.net Runner up: YMCA

Place to give birth Toledo Hospital 2142 N. Cove Blvd.

419-291-4000 www.promedica.org Runner up: Flower Hospital

Family-friendly restroom Westfield Franklin Park Mall 5001 Monroe St. 419-473-3317 www.westfield.com/us Runner up: Babies R Us

Kids haircut

Beauty Bar 2919 W. Central Ave. 419-537-5400 www.beauty-bar.com Runner up: Reve Salon and Spa

LET'S PLAY Dance class

Pediatric practice

PediatriCare Association 3400 Meijer Dr. 419-841-6202 Runner up: Toledo Peds

Doctor

Dr. Brenda Hartley 3922 Woodley Rd. 419-291-2121 Runner up: Amy Glass

Dance Expressions 7343 International Dr., Holland 419-867-7827 www.dance-expressions-studio.com Runner up: Toledo Ballet

Art class

Toledo Art Museum 2445 Monroe St. 419-255-8000 www.toledomuseum.org Runner up: For the Love of Art

Best mid-wife

Jackie Stephenson Maumee Bay Obstetrics 2702 Navarre Ave. Suite 305, Oregon 419-691-8000 www.maumeebayobgyn.com Runner up: Donna J. Augustine, CNM

Place to change a diaper Westfield Franklin Park Mall 5001 Monroe St. 419-473-3317 www.westfield.com Runner up: Babies R Us

Place to nurse a baby

Westfield Franklin Park Mall 5001 Monroe St. 419-473-3317 www.westfield.com Runner up: Home 16

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Neleh and Nadiya Bush, 2, of Toledo.

Art Class and Activity that’s Free

Toledo Museum of Art

2445 Monroe St. 419-255-8000 www.toledomuseum.org The Toledo Art Museum is well known for its world-class collection, but did you know it’s a fun, educational place for kids to spend their summer? And affordable — TMA remains committed to free admission for the public. Parents can provide their kids with a unique experience, including summer of color art camps for ages 3-5, with parent. Plus, grades 6-8 can learn about colorful beading, while grades 9-12 can enjoy teen blacksmithing, bracelets with patina, glassblowing, colored resin jewelry and more. The daytime fun is endless at the Toledo Museum of Art! Classes and camps range from $40 and up.

Music class

Live theatre for kids

Activity that's free

Park or playground

Kindermusik 3307 N. Holland Sylvania Rd. 419-842-8331 www.missbarbs.yourvirtuoso.com Runner up: Jean Holden

Toledo Art Museum 2445 Monroe St. 419-255-8000 www.toledomuseum.org Runner up: Metroparks of Toledo

Family-friendly fair or festival

The Valentine Theater 410 Adams St. 419-242-2787 www.valentinetheatre.com Runner up: Children's Theater Workshop

Wildwood Preserve Metropark 5100 W. Central Ave. 419-535-3050 www.metroparkstoledo.com Runner up: Olander Park

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Botanical Garden 5403 Elmer Dr. 419-536-5566 www.toledogarden.org Runner up: Regina Coeli Festival

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Toledo Main Library 325 N. Michigan St. 419-259-5200 www.toledolibrary.org Runner up: Holland Library

Rainy-day activity

Imagination Station 1 Discovery Way 419-244-2674 www.imaginationstationtoledo.org Runner up: Sylvania Playland

Sunny-day activity

Toledo Zoo 2700 Broadway St. 419-385-5721 www.toledozoo.org Runner up: Wildwood Preserve Metropark

Gymnastics

Sunrise Gymnastics 3640 N. Holland Sylvania Rd.

419-841-2902 www.sunrisegymnastics.com Watching your children take a tumble during their first gymnastics class provides a laugh; watching them master a cartwheel develops a source of pride. Sunrise Gymnastics offers training for future gymnasts in a relaxed or competitive setting, with Olympic regulation equipment.

From the toddlers just learning to the teens doing awe-inspiring moves, it's a joy to watch and a chance for kids to enjoy the sport or partake in tae kwon do and dance classes instead.

Swim lessons

YMCA 2110 Tremainsville Rd. (419) 475-3496 www.ymcatoledo.org Runner up: Plummer Pool

Place to swim

JCC/YMCA 6465 Sylvania Ave., Sylvania 419-885-4485 www.ymcatoledo.org Runner up:Kalahari Resort

Indoor waterpark Kalahari 7000 Kalahari Dr., Sandusky 419-433-7200 www.kalahariresorts.com Runner up: Splash Bay

Vacation on a budget

Cedar Point One Cedar Point Dr., Sandusky 419-627-2350 www.cedarpoint.com Runner up: Maumee Bay State Park

Family-friendly health club YMCA 2110 Tremainsville Rd. 419-475-3496 www.ymcatoledo.org Runner up: Wildwood Athletic Club

Indoor sports facility

Tam-O-Shanter 7060 Sylvania Ave., Sylvania 419-885-1167 www.playsylvania.com Runner up: Gold Medal Gymnastics

Gymnastics

Sunrise Gymnastics 3640 N. Holland Sylvania Rd. 419-841-2902 www.sunrisegymnastics.com Runner up: YMCA

Bowling alley

Timbers Bowling 1246 Conant St., Maumee 419-893-7631 www.timbersbowling.com Runner up: Southwyck Lanes

BIRTHDAY BASHES Entertainer

Magician Andrew Martin 2933 Drummond Rd. 419-472-4333 www.andrewmartinmagic.com Runner up: Count Wacula

Weston (2), Ethan (5) and Grace (4) Albright from LaSalle, MI

Place for a birthday party

Hero's 9851 Meridian Ct., Rossford 419-873-9400 www.herostoledo.com Runner up: Chuck E. Cheese

Place to buy a cake

Eston's Bakery 6600 W. Sylvania Ave., Sylvania 419-885-9442 www.estonsbakery.com Runner up: Wixey Bakery

Inflatable bounce house rental

Hero's 9851 Meridian Ct., Rossford 419-873-9400 www.herostoledo.com Runner up: Inflatable Rentals

SHOP 'TIL YOU DROP Kids clothing store Kids Klothesline 111 Louisiana Ave., Perrysburg 419-874-5437 www.kidsklothesline.com Runner up: Sweet Cheeks

Place to buy kids' shoes Stride Rite 5333 Monroe St 419-843-6050 www.striderite.com Runner up: Scoots

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Kids clothing store

Kids Klothesline

111 Louisiana Ave., Perrysburg 419-874-5437 www.kidsklothesline.com This destination for kids’ clothing in Downtown Perrysburg offers stylish outfits for fashion darlings still using a pacifier to preteens who want to have an edge on their chain-store-shopping classmates, with brands like Biscotti, Baby Lulu, and Giggle Moon. They can also outfit christenings and first communions, making it a one-stop-shop for casual or dressier occasions.

continued from pg 18 Consignment for kids Once Upon A Child 7565 Sylvania Ave., Sylvania 419-841-7500 www.onceuponachildtoledo.com Runner up: Twice-But-Nice

Place to buy maternity clothes

Clothes Mentor 194 E. S. Boundary St., Perrysburg 419-872-0022 www.clothes-mentor.com Runner up: Gap

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Mom-friendly play date spot

Swan Creek Preserve Metropark 4659 Airport Highway 419-407-9700 www.metroparkstoledo.com Runner up: Wildwood Preserve Metropark

Place for single parents to meet

Church Runner up: School open house

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Mancy's 5453 Monroe St. 419-882-9229 www.mancys.com Runner up: Rosie's Italian

Place for mom to be pampered

Reve Salon and Spa 5633 Main St., Sylvania 419-885-1140 www.revesalonandspa.com

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Parent Blog

www.soulemama.com/the_creative_family Runner up: mommyfriend.com

Romantic getaway

Belamere Suites 12200 Williams Rd., Perrysburg 419-874-2233 www.belameresuites.com Runner up: Mansion View Inn

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It's June, and it's time to celebrate fatherhood. Being a father can be overwhelming, humbling, inspiring and joyful. We asked Toledo dads, from first-timers to veterans, to share the lessons they've learned.

...enjoy each stage of your child’s life because time goes by so quickly.

— Thomas E. Puffenberger II

Paul Castillo certified personal trainer with his children Troy, 2 and Hazyl, 6 months.

"Almost three years ago, I became the father of a handsome baby boy. Five months ago I became the father of a beautiful baby girl. Throughout my journey, I have learned that any decision I make, simple or difficult, will never again affect JUST me. My family is my number one, since the day I became a father."

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self–employed piano technician and photographer with his son Aiden Joseph, 12 months.

"In the beginning, the father has it rough. There’s no sex, no sleep — you feel helpless, because all the baby wants is that breast. But once that baby smiles at you, starts crawling and saying “da-da”, you can’t wait to make your kid laugh over and over again! Being a father is one of the best experiences life can offer."

attorney with his daughter Addison, 2.

“My experience as a father has far exceeded any of my expectations. Prior to our daughters arrival (she is now two-years-old), my sister (who has three children of her own) told me that words cannot describe the love that you feel for your child. In theory, this made every bit of sense to me, but it wasn’t until our daughter’s birth that it really hit home. She was right — there are absolutely no words to describe this love. My best advice would be to enjoy each stage of your child’s life (infant, toddler, etc.) because the experience is different in each stage, and time goes by so quick. I was recently blessed with a niece and, although it is hard to believe our daughter was that tiny, it brings backs great feelings and memories of when our daughter was born. Although there will always be many trials and tribulations, every moment is worth the joy and feelings that fatherhood brings.

On a less serious note, there is never a dull moment with our twoyear-old daughter. Just the other day I asked her if she wanted to be an accountant like mommy or an attorney like daddy. She looked at me with a serious face (well, as serious as a two-year-old can be) and said, ‘No Daddy. I want to be a pony.’”

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Kent Ramge marketing professional with his children Ashley, 8, and Eliana, 5.

"Fatherhood has taught me to slow down and enjoy as much time as possible with my children. They grow up so fast, and if you don’t make the time to do things with them throughout every stage of their life, before you know it you have missed your opportunity. Obviously cherish the major milestones in their lives, such as their first words, their first steps, etc. But don’t forget the little things, too. Personally, for me, those are the memories and experiences that being a dad are all about."

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— Chad Keller

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corporate trainer with his sons Ben, 9 and Will, 5.

"I’m not by any means an expert in the field of fatherhood, which is kind of the beauty of it all … you’re constantly learning. Here is some fatherly advice that I can offer based on my experience — slow down and learn to appreciate simplicity as you watch them grow and understand things in their most basic form. Despite any faults you think you have, this little human will unconditionally love and look up to you. It makes you a better person, just because of the desire to pass something good and hopeful into their hands. And most importantly … love their mother!"

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Brian Gardner Firefighter Emilie,10, Brynn, 8 and Braden, 5.

“I have learned that being a father is much more than a title. To truly be a father you have to earn it. You are trying to mold your children to be better than you are, and to do this, a father needs to work on it every day. You need to educate them in all areas of life so that they have the opportunity to become successful, well-rounded adults.

You have to be caring and attentive to their needs yet firm if their actions require discipline. When your children wake up and are eager to take on the days activities, involve you in it, at the end of the day want to cuddle up with you on the couch, as you are bursting with pride and love for your children, you are on the right track.”

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... i get my butt kicked from the moment they wake up to the moment they go to sleep...

Hadi Awada operations director with his children Nasser, 6, Aliya, 5, and Nadia, 1.

Jeremiah Williamson Priest at St. Andrew's Episcopal Church with his son Oscar, 7 months

"Here are few of the things seven-and-a-half months of fatherhood have taught me: During the first ten weeks of my son Oscar's life, a lot of people (actually, they were all moms) promised me that I would miss the newborn weeks; assured me nothing is better. They were wrong. The first ten weeks were the most difficult of my life. It has only gotten better.

Second: stick with what works. I hum 'Silent Night' to help my son fall asleep during nap time. It made more sense when we started this practice in December. But I have tried other soothing songs — they don't work. So, if it is July and you hear the calming sounds of 'Silent Night' wafting through a restaurant, I am not crazy, it is just nap time.

And finally, my wife and I both have perfectionist tendencies. And so, of course, more than anything, we want to be perfect parents. And so we read some books, talked to friends and received plenty of unsolicited advice. Turns out, there are a lot of opinions about babies out there. Many of the ideas are conflicting; some of them are totally crazy. I have learned that in my relationship with my baby, perfection mean much less to him than my love and attention."

Adams Street Publishing Sales Manager, with his children, Aubrey, 4 and Adelle, 2.

"The first thing I learned about fatherhood is you’re never, ever ready for it. Everyone told me how difficult, exhausting and expensive it would be. And I said back to everyone “Yeah, I know, thanks for the advice." But, I had absolutely no clue what-so-ever. With a two- and four-year-old, I get my butt kicked from the moment they wake up to the moment they go to sleep and sometimes from midnight to 2 am.

I also didn’t realize how much love I could have for my two kids --- that I could love anyone the way I love them. It wasn’t all at once, the-second-they-were-born, like in the movies — it never is. Each day I watch them grow, learn, laugh and play and there is this overwhelming sense of pride and joy that develops. It’s like an LED light — how it becomes brighter by the second till it is almost too much.

Through all the dirty diapers, snot bubbles, and “Why Daddy?” questions you become a father and you know you would do anything for your children. My advice for new fathers is this: save up; buy diapers every time you go to the store; support them no matter what; and always remember to take a deep breath. It takes a lot of planning and patience, but it is worth it."

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— Aubrey Hornsby

"Over the past six years of being a father, I've learned that it isn't about doing things right with your kids, it's about doing the right thing."

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healthy moms

Mindless Eating vs. Mindful Eating

Knowing the difference will keep you healthy (and trim)

By Michelle Rowe

“If it’s there you will eat it!” This statement is true for many of us and its not improving the obesity epidemic we are facing today. Here are a few tips to help when it comes to the tempting food commercials and delicious cues that bombard us everyday.

Stress. When you are stressed, you are more likely to overeat and reach for unhealthy junk foods. Self control is difficult and seconds are automatic. Beware of stress and plan to combat it with extra exercise and healthy snacks Food pushers. These individuals don’t help you with healthy eating or healthy habits. They will tempt you, tease you and break you! Be confident in your plan and keep in mind your long term goals.

Food Cues. When it comes to your five senses, high fat food can hijack them all with virtually no effort. Cues to eat are everywhere and avoiding them is nearly impossible.

Make a list before you go shopping.

Don’t go shopping hungry, and review the menu for a restaurant choice online before you decide to go out to eat.

Distraction. Hunger sometimes has little to do with why we eat. Social events,

celebrations and boredom can encourage eating in many cases. Try taking a walk, doing a crossword puzzle, reading or chewing a stick of sugar free gum instead

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of digging into the bowl of peanuts in front of you!

Skill power. In today’s challenging food environment will power is over-rated. You must choose the skills that help you make healthy choices. Start by never skipping breakfast, stock your pantry with healthy food choices and utilize a food journal or fitness app.

Understanding the foods and circumstances that trigger mindless eating, planning ahead when shopping and cooking healthy meals for your family will support a healthy and happy family.

A more mindful approach to eating will instill good habits and a healthy future for everyone in your brood.

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Man Up!

Alpha males come to the rescue, in the real (and figurative) jungle

By Mary Helen Darah In a new Disney movie, a young chimp is orphaned and faces certain peril if not adopted by one of the females of the clan. Unfortunately, the other chimp moms have their hands --- not to mention feet --- full dealing with youngsters of their own preventing them from mothering little Oscar. Scientists filming the chimps are totally taken aback when they witness something absolutely astonishing. The alpha male, and grand patriarch of the group, Freddy, steps up to the plate and cares for the little guy in his time of need.

I have witnessed the “stepping up to the plate” part as well as the reactions of those who see a dad doing something out of the stereotypical gender role. I feel as if I have lived the real life version of Dr. Seuss’s “on a train, in a plane, in a boat, with a goat” as I have single-handedly taken my three little monkeys across the U.S., Canada and overseas. Don’t get me wrong, I was offered kindness as I juggled strollers, diaper bags, the coveted “busy bag” of activities, and enough snacks to feed a small village through the jungle known as Atlanta’s Hartsfield-Jackson International Airport. Yet I could see a veneer of empathy, the look that said,

“Well toots, welcome to motherhood.”

In comparison, when baby Helena flew home with her father, he was assisted with his carry-on, and provided with a pillow, a blanket and a beverage while the flight attendants took turns holding our little miss.

I have witnessed numerous responses from those in our jungles who are surprised when the alpha “Freddies” of the world “man up”. I come from a long line of alpha males. My former football, cross-country, military, Big Ten FREAK of a dad’s first response to a young man coming into our house was to slap him on the back with a resounding “Do you play ball?” My grandpa was a surgeon, a Marine medic in the jungles of Okinawa, who raised beef cattle as a hobby. My mom’s dad, who we called “Pops,” was an avid fisherman who loved the outdoors. I guess you could stereotypically call them “real men” but just like Oscar, I was scooped up by their love and experienced moments of tenderness that would baffle anyone peering into our pack.

Real men watch sing-alongs

Just like Freddy’s meticulous grooming of Oscar, I can envision Pop’s pains-

taking attempts at trying to put a bow in my daughter’s hair, buckle her “shiny shoes” before a big outing and dropping everything to watch the “Sharon, Lois and Bram Sing-Along Show." I can recall my Dad donning a native headdress for our YMCA “Indian Princess” meeting.

It would seem logical that, as the older alpha progressed in years, he would get to sit back and chomp on some nuts and berries. No, he once again rose to the occasion and faced a whole new generation of princesses, bead-stringing and feathers with his granddaughters.

There is a special place in my heart reserved for my Uncle Tom. He has loved me when I was the least lovable. Even through my cancer journey he somehow managed to make a plump (thanks to steroids) bald woman with drainage tubes feel beautiful. He took me out for our annual birthday outing during my beautychallenged time, where we traditionally gab, grub and where the “manly man” helps me forage through boutiques, looking for the perfect outfit. Not accustomed to the additional apparatuses and my new size, I found myself stuck in a frock. He swung into action and untangled me from my medically-necessitated constraints,

and got me out of the wilderness of embarrassment and despair and back to the safety of his love and respect.

Papa Nick was an alpha in our jungle that many approached with apprehension, but I knew that even though he liked to “thump his chest” and protect his territory, there was a heart of a “Freddy” under that tough exterior. I was alone dealing with a frightened, sick child in the ER when, to my surprise, I looked over to see him standing next to me. Papa Nick was battling the invisible foe of Alzheimer’s and he made his presence known much to the chagrin of the healthcare workers.

Tucked under his arm was a little fuzzy bear for his girl. Papa has left us but that little bear still sits at the foot of Maria’s bed.

Maybe we have all been conditioned to thinking that being a real man requires superhuman strength and brute force.

I don’t believe so. I constantly see dads “man up.” Their little ones who cling to them for guidance are blessed because it truly is a jungle out there.

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The greatest of ease

Acrobatic family is at home in the world

By Matt Desmond

The Pestov children, Valeria and Vladimir, have grown up in the Cirque universe Showbiz is a fulltime job. The acrobats in Cirque du Soleil, the legendary Montreal-based "contemporary circus" troupe, are fantastically well-trained and professional — they've been wowing audiences worldwide since the 1980's with their highflying artistry rooted in street theater. And sometimes that streetlevel experience comes in handy, as Natalia Pestova can attest.

The Russian-born acrobat, who will appear with Cirque's Quidam show at Huntington Center, June 6th through 10th, has found herself showing her skills at unlikely times during her travels. "Sometimes when we cross a border," she remembers, "they [customs officials] want us to do some tricks." Laughing, she admits that her husband, Alexander Pestov, is more likely to oblige these requests than she is.

The circus is a family affair for Pestov and Pestova. Alexander came to the business first, in 1995, but Natalia, who was trained as a gymnast, traveled with him.

"I was just a 'housewife,'" she says. But her strength and physical skill couldn't be kept secret from the Cirque coaches and directors. By 1999, she'd been invited to join the troupe, and now alongside Alexander in Quidam, the couple performs a piece called "Hand to Hand." Pestova can't quite put the essence of the act into English — "it's better to see it," she says — but like all Cirque productions, it's an impressive mix of spectacle and narrative.

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A whole world

Family got Pestova into the circus, and became a big part of the experience, as she and Pestov have raised two children during their time with the group.

The elder, Vladimir, spent a big part of his childhood as a member of Cirque's extended family. "It's like a world inside the world," Pestova says. "You have kitchens, schools, everything." It's a cosmopolitan world — Vladimir learned Russian, French and English as a child — and he got a taste of the circus life that's stuck with him to this day. Now 18, Vladimir is back in Russia attending college, but he still harbors some show business dreams. "He's still juggling," Pestova says, with a mix of amusement and pride. "He wants to continue with the circus. Maybe before long, he will."

Not every family could handle such a vivid, literally high-flying existence. For most of us, the day-to-day grind of work, laundry and school is circus enough. But for Pestov and Pestova, it's a world they've loved together and thrived in. When trying to describe the "Hand to Hand" act in the simplest terms, Pestova maybe inadvertently stumbled across a fine description of family — "I lift my husband," she says, haltingly. "And he lifts me."

Cirque Du Soleil's Quidam is at the Huntington Center from June 6-10. For tickets, call 1-800-745-3000, or visit www.huntingtoncentertoledo.com. $37-97.

Kids’ Concoctions Are Kid-Approved Culinary adventure for all at Big Buddha’s

By Karen L. Zickes

Big Buddha’s Cast Iron Grill

6725 W. Central Ave. (at McCord Rd.) 419-725-9048 Sun. - Thur. 11am-10pm Fri. - Sat. 11am-11pm We’ve all been there. Polite children who gladly ate everything put in front of them become picky eaters who no longer like “mamma’s cookin.’” When venturing out to eat, at times my children refuse to step out of their “chicken nugget comfort zone.” But during a recent dinner out with my family, I became a true believer of the claim that children are more likely to eat food they helped prepare.

THE SHORT COURSE

Kid-friendly Yes To avoid wait Anytime Noise level Moderate Bathroom amenities Very

clean, no changing tables High chairs Yes Got milk Yes Kids’ menu Yes, and kids eat free on Mondays with each paid adult. Magician Andrew Martin is also there 6-8 pm.

Keeping it simple

Before opening Big Buddha’s Cast Iron Grill in January, Toledoan Anthony Varwig and his business partners knew they wanted to keep things simple.

Though the menu is simple, the possibilities are endless. “The beauty of this concept is that it can be as healthy as you want it to be,” said Mr. Varwig. You purchase a lunch bowl and unlimited salad bar for $7.99, or a dinner bowl and unlimited salad bar for $12.99 ($5.99 for kids). What goes in that bowl is solely up to you.

If you are unfamiliar with Mongolian barbeque, it is basically stirfried food, with the ingredients selected by the diner. The array of fresh ingredients at Big Buddha is almost overwhelming at first. A staff member is nearby to answer any questions and to offer ideas or suggestions if you just can’t decide for yourself. They are adamant at Big Buddha’s that you start at the vegetables, work your way through the various meats, and end with the shellfish to avoid any cross contamination. Varwig said he regularly gets comments on the cleanliness and full food offerings at Big Buddha’s. “You have to be consistent, consistent, consistent with the food and the service,” said Varwig.

When you have filled your bowl with all your favorites, hand it over to a swordwielding cook to finish the process. You can choose to have your stir-fry served over pasta, white rice, brown rice, or in a tortilla. The food is placed on top of a giant, round, metal flat-top grill, and it’s quickly done cooking. They have a process in place for grilling for those with food allergies, and you may also choose to forgo making your own selections, choosing a predetermined combination of ingredients prepared for you. “We adapt every day to what customers want and need,” said Varwig, pointing out that flexibility and adaptability is an advantage of being locally owned.

different. I’m pondering a seafood stirfry for next time.

Kids eat free on Monday

Endless possibilities

The open design of the restaurant made it easy to keep an eye on my youngest as he happily colored at the table while we prepared our bowls. The waitress even stopped by to give him Goldfish crackers while he waited.

Rarely getting hot dogs at home, my youngest was ecstatic to have the mini hot dogs from the kids’ menu. My older two were excited to try their culinary skills in making up their very own bowls.

They enjoyed watching their bowls transform into masterpieces of their own design atop the 600 degree iron grill. When I initially glanced at my son’s bowl of red skin potatoes, shredded carrots, and pepperoni served without sauce over white rice, I was sure he would never eat it, let alone finish it. And that was when I had my “ah-ha moment.” As I watched in disbelief, my son who designed his own dinner bowl ate every morsel. Children will indeed clean their plate when they had a hand in preparing the food served on it!

If you like to experiment, the options are endless. My husband and I can’t wait to return and try something completely

Kids’ meals for those 10 and under include applesauce and a drink for $5.99. If your young one isn’t a fan of stir fry, they also offer peanut butter and jelly sandwiches, chicken nuggets, mac-n-cheese, and mini hot dogs.

Big Buddha’s offers a variety of specials and entertainment during the week as well. My family stopped by on a Monday evening when one kid eats free off the children’s menu with each adult dinner bowl purchase. Our favorite magician, Andrew Martin, was also there from 6 to 8 pm, performing intriguing tableside magic and making delightful balloon creations. He left us shaking our heads and wondering “How’d he do that?” Monday night hasn’t been this fun in a long time.

Bottom Line: Big Buddha’s offers stir-fry like you’ve never had it before.

Your kids will enjoy concocting their very own meal and so will you! Standard kid faves are still available for the less adventurous among us. Stop by on Mondays when kids eat free and Andrew Martin the magician is on hand to entertain.

Karen Zickes is a mom of three active children and freelance writer who resides in Holland, OH. She can be reached in c/o editor@toledoparent.com.

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the parade, enjoy food, carnival rides for the children, musical entertainment, tractor pulls, cruise-in car show, a beer tent, wine tasting, and carnival games for those that are a kid-at-heart. The day closes with a fireworks display. June 1-2, 9am-11pm.

Downtown Genoa. 419-855-7791.

Farm Fest: The Science of Moo

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June 9- July 1 Did you know baby pigs gain up to two pounds in a single day? Kids will learn about this and many other farm facts when Imagination Station brings the farm life to Downtown Toledo! Farm Fest, a three week event, will allow kids and parents alike to experience a “down on the farm” feel without having to leave the city. There will be animal displays, including pigs, bunnies, goats, chickens, and even tilapia, a little known contributor to farming. Kids will have the opportunity to become little farmhands, hopping on tractors and racing through mazes of hay or digging through corn to find little treasures.

There will also be many hands-on activities from a compost/soil investigation to working on a vertical garden. Kids will even be able to learn to make butter, milk a cow, and test vegetables and fruits for starch content. This educational event is a fun, interactive way to teach kids about the importance of agriculture in daily life. Admission to Imagination Station is $9.50 ages 13+, $7.50 ages 12 and younger, $8.50 for seniors 65+, and free for children 2 and younger. Imagination Station, Adams St. & Summit St. 419-244-2674. www.imaginationstationtoledo.org—AR

1 FRIDAY OLPH Festival - Kick it with your family and jump start the summer at the OLPH Festival — three days of crafts, skill games, miniature golf and tons of other fun activities. The game tent features plenty of 25 cent games to keep the kids busy for hours without draining your pockets, while adults can catch some live music,

play poker, enter raffles and much more.

Friday-Sunday, June 1- 3. $5 donation for each child. Our Lady of Perpetual Help, 2255 Central Grove, Anthony Wayne Trail and Sherwood Ave. 419-382-5511. www.OLPHfestival.org Genoa Homecoming Parade - This year’s event will kick off with a parade going through downtown. In addition to

Scott High School Hub Community Celebration - The community celebration will feature inflatables, games, food, music and fun! There will also be tours of the newly renovated facility. Free and open to the public. 12pm-4pm. Free. Scott High School, 2400 Collingwood Blvd.

419-671-4000.

1st Birthday Celebration for Lucas the Elephant! - Come celebrate the first birthday of one of the Zoo’s newest young residents, Lucas the elephant calf! Free with admission. The Toledo Zoo, 2700 Broadway Ave. www.toledozoo.org Old West End Festival - Celebrate the 41st Old West End Festival by participating in house tours and enjoying children’s activities, food, vendors, yard sales, and more! Experience the excitement of the King Wamba Parade on June 2 at 10am.

There will be appearances at the parade by members of Cirque du Soleil, Scott High School Marching Band, the Glass City Rollers, stilt walkers, circus, fire performances, and more! All day Saturday & Sunday. Old West End. www.toledooldwestend.com Stop the Violence Community Festival - The focus of this community event is to bring awareness and education to the attendees on ways they can minimize violence within the city of Toledo. Attendees can enjoy food, live music and entertainment. Activities include a moonwalk, climbing wall, children’s games, arts & crafts, face painting, and

community agency informational tables.

City officials will come out and talk to youth about ways they can help solve & minimize violence before the summer begins. 12-10pm. Free. Bethel Apostolic Temple,1664 W. Bancroft.

419-283-2469.

4 MONDAY S’Mores and More - Everyone loves S’mores! Break away from the everyday s’more made from graham crackers, chocolate, and marshmallows and try to guess the names of these crazy combinations to win a sweet surprise. No registration required. Grades 6-12.12pm-8:30pm.

Free. Maumee Branch Library, 501 River Rd., Maumee. 419.259.5360. www.toledolibrary.org

6 WEDNESDAY Cirque Du Soleil: Quidam - Unlike any other Cirque du Soleil show, Quidam does not take spectators to an imaginary realm of fanciful, larger-than life characters. Rather, it is an examination of our own world – inhabited by real people with real-life concerns. Wednesday-Friday, 7:30pm; Saturday, 3:30pm & 7:30pm; Sunday, 1pm & 5pm. $34.75-$102.10.

Huntington Center, 500 Jefferson Ave. 1-800-745-3000. www.huntingtoncentertoledo.com

7 THURSDAY Whitehouse Cherry Festival - This fun filled family event features over 15 large amusement rides, great tasting chicken BBQ, fresh cherry pies, 5K race, car show, parade, a beer & wine garden with a grand finale on Saturday night with fireworks. Thursday, 5-11pm;Friday, 12-11:30pm;Saturday, 10am-11pm. $12-415. Downtown Whitehouse. 419-8772747. www.whitehouseohiochamber.com

74th Annual Strawberry Festival Wednesday-Sunday, June 13- 17 The community of Holland presents the 74th Annual Strawberry Festival. People of all ages can enjoy this five day event complete with music, nightly bingo, 50/50 raffles, car show and dessert contest. There will also be a Rollie Run, a 3 mile run to benefit the Rollie Denker III Children’s Education Fund, along with a 2 mile parade with over 75 entries. On Saturday, attendees can watch the Strawberry Little Miss and Strawberry Jr. Miss pageants and see who gets crowned Queen and King. Of course, there will be plenty of strawberries all festival long! Wednesday & Thursday, 4pm-11pm; Friday, 4pm-12am; Saturday, 12pm-12am; Sunday, 12pm-10pm. Wed.-Fri., $15/Sat. & Sun. $18.

Parking $3. 7807 Angola Road, Holland. www.hollandstrawberryfestival.org—AR

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9 SATURDAY MetroBarks - Celebrate the 9th annual canine festival with entertainment, food, rescue/adoption groups and vendor booths. Bring your dog! There will be “tail waggin’ fun” for all ages. No registration required. 8am-4pm. Free. Secor Metropark, 10000 W. Central Ave., Berkey. 419-407-9727 www.metroparkstoledo.com Walk for Wildlife - Come out for the 4th annual “Walk for Wildlife: Get Closer” for a free, family-friendly event.

Participants will walk a one-mile course, stopping along the way for ongoing programs and activities at education stations.

Spend a fun-filled day together making a difference! 9am registration;10am walk.

Blue Creek Conservation Area, 7790 Schadel Rd., Whitehouse. 419-407-9700. www.metroparkstoledo.com PNC and the Library Fun Fairs Provide your children with the opportunity to learn about the importance of early childhood education through fun activities. Children will participate in a “What I Want To Be When I Grow Up” photo station, touch screen kiosk activities, craft area, and a giveaway table. All participants will receive a free financial education kit with Sesame Street DVD. Registration recommended. 10:30am12:30pm. Free. Sanger Branch Library, 3030 W. Central. 419-259-5200. www.toledolibrary.org Canoes and Campfires - All the wonders of nature will surround you as you paddle a Metroparks canoe around the scenic pond. Take time to refuel with hotdogs roasted over a campfire, chips, dessert and water. Bring a picnic blanket and dress for a fantastic time outdoors.

Registration required. 4pm-6pm. $25 nonmembers. Oak Openings Preserve, 5598 Berkeley Southern Rd., Whitehouse.

419-407-9723. www.metroparkstoledo.com

TUESDAYs & THURSDAYS Family Center Fun, Kids up to age 10 participate in themed art activities in the Museum’s Family Center.

Tuesdays & Thursdays, 10am-3pm. Free. Toledo Museum of Art, 2445 Monroe St. 419-255-8000. www.toledomuseum.org THURSDAYS Mothers’ Center of Greater Toledo, Meet other moms and let the kids play at park playdates this summer. 10-11:30am. Free.

Locations vary, visit website. www.motherscenter.net

Mother Goose Storytime, A storytime program for 12–23 month old children. The program involves active participation and interaction between the child, the caregiver and a member of the Library staff.

9:30am and 10:30am.

Stranleigh and Me: Botanical Brush Strokes - Come to the Stranleigh Manor to discover what it was like to live in a mansion and do a little plant study while applying botanical brush strokes. Ages 7-10. 10am-11:30am. $4 members/$5 non-members. Wildwood Preserve Metropark, 5100 W.. Central Ave. 419-407-9804. www.metroparkstoledo.com

11 MONDAY Ice Cream Social - The music from Ragtime Rick will keep your feet a tappin’ as you feast on ice cream, delicious cakes and brownies. Each item is 50 cents. In case of rain, meet at the Ward Pavilion. 6pm-8pm. Wildwood Preserve Metropark, 5100 W. Central Ave. 419-407-9700. www.metroparkstoledo.com

12 TUESDAY Dairy Days - Understand the role dairy plays in everyone’s lives today and in the lives of the early pioneers. Demonstrations planned for the week-long celebration include making buttermilk biscuits, butter churning and cheese making. Guests can help make butter, ice-cream and biscuits.

June 12-17, 10am-5pm. Sauder Village, 2661 St. Rt. 2, Archbold. 800-590-9755. www.saudervillage.org

14 THURSDAY Tot Trot - Enjoy healthy outside activity with a special nature theme each week, designed especially for young children ages 3 to 6 and their adult companions.

Dress for outdoors. Register children only. 2pm-3pm. $3. Wildwood Preserve Metropark, 5100 W. Central Ave. 419407-9700. www.metroparkstoledo.com

Free. The Way Public Library, 101 E. Indiana Ave., Perrysburg. 419-8743135. www.waylibrary.info FRIDAYS Friday’s Creativity Corner, Storytime for ages 3-6.

11am. Free.Barnes & Noble, 4940 Monroe St. 419-472-6164. www.bn.com

Babytime, Have fun with stories, rhymes and music and discover ways to develop early literacy skills in your young child.

Join us for a book program designed just for the littlest learners. Go online for each Library’s age range and registration details.

Registration required.

10am. Waterville Branch Library, 800 Michigan Ave., Waterville.

419-878-3055. www.toledolibrary.org

Toledo Zoo Pet Adoption Event Wednesday, June 27 The Toledo Zoo and the Toledo Area Humane Society are teaming up to help dogs, cats, and kittens alike find loving, new homes. The adoption event will be held at the Toledo Zoo’s Anthony Wayne Trail entrance, and families will have the opportunity to not only bring home a new member but also to participate in an educational experience. To add to the fun of the event, families can visit Nature’s Neighborhood, the Zoo’s 100% explorable, new children’s zoo. Staff members will be available to teach you how to care for family pets and learn about domesticated animals. Plus, cats and dogs are welcome in the Home Sweet Home area to help discover which pet is best for you. Admission to Nature’s Neighborhood is free with admission to the Zoo. 11am-5pm. The Toledo Zoo, 2700 Broadway Ave. 419-385-5721. www.toledozoo.org—AR

16 SATURDAY BCSN Fit 1-Mile Walk - The Second Annual BCSN Fit One Mile Walk, led by Muddy the Mud Hen, will kick off at the Ward Pavilion! Walkers will travel to the Wildwood Manor House for more festivities and refreshments. Anyone 15 and under is admitted free. Registration for those 16 and over is $10 with a special family rate of $30 for 4 or more. 9am12pm. Wildwood Metropark, 5100 W. Central Ave. 419-407-9727. www.metroparkstoledo.com

2nd Annual Fatherhood Walk The event will include free food, free fun with giant inflatables, and free inspirational music provided by SQ’AIR. Guest Speaker James McDonald, President of Ohio Practitioners Network for Fathers and Families, will also be in attendance.

Registration recommended.10am-2pm.

Free. Central Catholic High School, 2550 Cherry St. 419-377-1488. www.restorefathers.org

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SUNDAYS Free Family Time Tour, Children and their adult partners tour works of art related to the Family Center’s weekly art project, then roll up their sleeves back at the Center for hands-on creating. 2pm & 2:30pm. Toledo Museum of Art Family Center, 2445 Monroe St. 419-255-8000. www.toledomuseum.org

Homework Helper, For all those students who need a little extra help to improve grades and be successful in school, this program is provided through the generous support of the Library Legacy Foundation. See online for additional branch locations. 3:30-5:30pm.

Toledo Lucas County Main Library, 325 North Michigan St. 419-259-5207. www.toledolibrary.org

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17 SUNDAY Father’s Day Celebration and BBQ From Boomer the orangutan to Simon the saddle-billed stork, The Toledo Zoo is full of great dads. Celebrate Father’s Day at the Zoo with free admission for dads when they visit with their children. There will be special activities, and an opportunity to enjoy a special BBQ lunch. 10am5pm. The Toledo Zoo, 2700 Broadway Ave. 419-385-5721. www.toledozoo.org Dads Ride Free - Show your dad who loves him most this Father’s Day by treating him to a cruise on “The Volunteer,” a replica 1870s canal boat. Boat trips last one hour. The historic Isaac Ludwig Mill and General Store will be open free of charge. 12pm-4pm. $5 members/$6 nonmembers. Providence Metropark, 13827 US Rt 24, Grand Rapids. 419-407-9700. www.metroparkstoledo.com

22 FRIDAY Pyrate Fest Weekend - Costumed characters, chantey son sing-a-longs, black powder demonstrations and general skullduggery are all part of the fun of this event! In addition there will be costume contests for adults and children, kid’s programs, cardboard boat races, and a pirate marketplace with pirate wares for the kids! Fireworks on Saturday. 8amDark. DeRivera Park, Put-in-Bay. 419-2852832. www.visitputinbay.com

24 SUNDAY Sensory Friendly Movies - These movies are intended to provide an accepting environment for individuals with challenges who may find it difficult to attend a movie at a traditional theater. The volume is lowered, lights will remain on softly, and attendants are encouraged to move around during the movie! Movies selected about a week before showing and are all G or PG. Contact Pam Auger at 419380-5126 for further movie selection information. 10am. $4.50 and includes small pop and popcorn. Maumee Indoor Theater, 601 Conant St, Maumee. 419380-5126.

27 WEDNESDAY Nighttime Adventures in Starlight Forest - A magical box, a secret message and an assortment of clever night creatures add mystery and fun to this original puppet show with Joyce Davis and puppets. No registration required.

1:30pm-2:30pm. Free. Mott Branch Library, 1085 Dorr St. 419-259-5207. www.toledolibrary.org

29 FRIDAY Noon Tunes on the Lawn - Grab a lawn chair and walk to the Gazebo at the end of the Manor House Oval. Bring a lunch, find a piece of shade and listen to the sounds of a guest musician. Don’t be too surprised to see a deer or two peering through the trees enjoying the music as well. 12pm-1pm. Free. Wildwood Metropark, 5100 W. Central Ave. 419407-9700. www.metroparkstoledo.com

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marketplace

ENTERTAINMENT

ADVERTISING IN MARKETPLACE Free Classifieds: Individuals may receive one free 20-word ad per month (products offered in ads must sell for under $100). Each additional word 40 cents, payment must accompany ad. Free ads run 1 month and are reserved for private-parties use, noncommercial concerns and free services.

FREE Ads MUST be typed or neatly printed and MAILED, EMAILED, or ENTERED ONLINE at toledoparent.com or DROPPED OFF to Toledo Area Parent Classifieds by the15th of the month prior to publication.

Line Classifieds: Only $10 per month for 20

words or less. Each additional word is 40 cents each and any artwork will be $5 extra.

Display Classifieds: Display classifieds with

a box may be purchased for $25 per column inch. Photos are accepted with ads for an additional $5 per photo.

Deadlines: Ad copy must be received by the 15th of the month prior to publication.

Payment: Payment must be received before an ad can be placed. We accept checks, cash, money orders and credit cards (Visa/Mastercard).

Funshine Daycare enrolling kids 6wks14yrs. 7 days a week 6 am-12 am State Licensed. Airport Hwy/ Bryne area. JFS Voucher Accepted 419-380-8202

Freelance writers needed. Send resume to: editor@toledocitypaper.com Drop-In Childcare

Adams Street Publishing Company is looking for bright, articulate and creative display advertising sales executives.

Full and part time positions available. We publish the area's largest circulation free papers -Toledo City Paper, Toledo Parent, Ann Arbor Family and Ann Arbor Current. You will be working with a base of current and prospective clients within a geographic territory. Your job will be to sell print and online advertising to an eclectic and exciting group of clients, business owners and advertising decision makers through relationship building and on-going account management.

We offer a fast paced, fun environment with great earning potential for highly motivated individuals. Commission and benefits available. If you are self-motivated and want to work in a great non-corporate environment where creativity and commitment abound, email your resume to Aubrey Hornsby ahornsby@adamsstreetpublishing.com

or fax to:

419-244-9871

Earn $28,000

Flexible Full Time Care

Kidz Watch now hiring Preschool/Toddler teachers for both locations. Send resume to info@ kidzwatch.net or apply in person.

Birthdays • Banquets ets Schools • Scouts • More!

419-472-4333

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Mail or drop off:

Toledo Area Parent Classifieds, 1120 Adams St., Toledo, Ohio 43604 Phone: 419-244-9859 E-Mail: classifieds@toledoparent.com REFUNDS: Sorry, NO REFUNDS given.

MISPRINTS: Credit toward future ads.

HELP WANTED

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announcements

congrat’s or sale. Call 419-699-3398To the Toledo Area Parent Sales team for hitting your goal, Sharon, Sandra and Emily, you all Rock!!! — Aubrey-

DRIVERS NEEDED to deliver Findlay Area Family in Findlay & surrounding areas. Once a month, great pay. Send resume to:

distribution @toledocitypaper.com INTERNS NEEDED Fun job. Great experience. Being on Toledo’s cutting edge. If you like taking pictures, presenting ideas, going to events for free and working in a team environment but don’t want to deal with the corporate ladder, ask us about an internship with the Toledo City Paper. College credit can be provided. We are looking for part time and full time interns. Apply at sales@ toledocitypaper.com

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SALES COORDINATOR Adams Street Publishing Co., publishers of the Toledo City Paper and Toledo Area Parent,. is looking for a detail-oriented, articulate and organized Sales Coordinator. Your job will be to establish a partnership with each member of the Sales Team to maximize selling time, ensure accurate orders, achieve high levels of customer satisfaction and ultimately be a strong contributor to the achievement of department and company sales volume goals.

If you are self motivated and want to work in a great non-corporate environment where creativity and commitment abound, email your resume to Aubrey Hornsby: ahornsby@adamsstreetpublishing.com GRAPHIC DESIGNER WANTED: Part-time position available for an energetic Graphic Designer who enjoys ad & publication design in a fast-paced environment where chips and guac are often available on the art table. Needs to have strong knowledge of InDesign, Illustrator and Photoshop. Please submit resume and electronic portfolio to: Kristi Polus at kristi@adamsstreetpublishing.com (if electronic portfolio is unavailable, please mail resume with contact info to: Adams Street Publishing, ATTN: Kristi Polus, 1120 Adams Street, Toledo, OH 43604).

Education

Tutoring K-8, Specializing in reading, math & study skills. Will meet each student at Public Library at your convenience. Call 419-360-2558

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