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Toledo’s Award-Winning Parent Newspaper Volume 25 • Issue 9 September 2016

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How are local schools preparing our children for potential tragedies — by Christine A. Holliday

Mini Motions keeps the groove 25 years of business, without missing a beat — by Athena Cocoves

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On the cover Gavin, 6, Avery, 2, and Beckett, 8 months, Toledo

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Preventing lead poisoning City council passes new ordinance

By Christine A. Holliday

Every month, Toledo Area Parent polls parents to measure reader input regarding parenting methods.

This month, we want to know:

Conquering college with Down Syndrome

A busy year ahead for Bethany Wissler

By Emily Remaklus

Do you think it’s a good idea for K-12 schools to implement the ALICE Training program?

1. Yes.

2. No.

Getting a Head Start

High school options for college credit

By Tianna Anderson

Making Memories in the Car Line Quality time before school starts

By Meagan Ruffing

We asked:

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Where to go and what to do when the bell rings

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By Sue Lovett From the moment you first hold this baby until he (or she) graduates high school, there is a bond so great that it is hard to believe. The main reason is that the Libran does not like to be alone.

They are said to be physically the most beautiful sign of the zodiac— that’s the girls— and the boys are the most handsome.

They have charming smiles and often have dimples. They hate to be alone and, if forced to stay in their rooms for any reason, they will invent imaginary playmates.

They are extremely bright and excel in school, especially when they can read the stories they have written themselves.

They really like to eat sweets— more than most children. No meal is complete for the Libran if dessert is not served.

They do keep their room clean because they don’t like messes.

They get along well with siblings and can act as referees in case of arguments. They look into the future more than the other signs of the zodiac.

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Few can argue against promoting a healthy lifestyle, especially since physical activity and exercise increase quality of life and reduce healthcare costs while improving academic success and self-esteem. So it’s no wonder that Governor John Kasich and The National Foundation for Governors’ Fitness Councils are striving to build a nation of the fittest, healthiest kids in the world. To shine a light and reward schools for promoting fitness, The Foundation has selected three Ohio schools, awarding them with a Don’t Quit!

Fitness Center. Toledo’s own Glendale-Feilbach Elementary School, recognized as one of the state’s most outstanding schools in activity and wellness, will receive its own fitness center in the fall. GlendaleFeilbach Elementary School, 2317 Cass Rd. Natgovfit.org —AS

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The Importance of Parenting

The Parent Institute of Lourdes University wants to increase awareness of the importance of parents in our society during Parents’ Week, Sepmber 18-24.

Through its “Thank a Parent” campaign, the Parent Institute and Retired Lucas County Judge Andy Devine will extend their gratitude to all parents to encourage their work in supporting and caring for their children.

Retired Judge Andy Devine, who helped found the Parent Institute, explains, “Our mission...is to ultimately change [the way our] culture...understands and appreciates the role of parents. I was born in 1921, and I grew up in the 20s and 30s. Back in those days...the community supported the parents, and the parents took care of the kids.”

To learn more about Parent Institute of Lourdes, or purchase their book for $12.95, go to lourdes.edu —EM

Talking man to man

What does it mean to be a man? Young boys are often taught confusing messages about masculinity— being macho doesn’t always mean being responsible. Help boys ages 8 to 12 strike a balance during Man Talk at the Toledo Lucas County Public Library.

Designed by guys for guys, the boys will meet with mentors to read, discuss, create and hone life skills while having fun once a month.

5pm Wednesday, September 21. Main Library, 325 N. Michigan St., 419-259-5200. toledolibrary.org Free

History for homeschoolers

Positively Portable Preschool Early childhood special educator and Toledoan Denice Rokicki is combining play and learning into one with her specialized children’s program. Geared towards kids age 0 to 5, the program features songs and movement that center around a love of children’s books.

Kids play, socialize, and move in the program, designed to get kids involved and entertained while incorporating new concepts for parents to use at home. Rokicki, who hosts the storytime program at Black Kite Coffee and Pies every Saturday morning, is also available for private parties. See online for pop-up storytimes at other locations.

9:30 am. Saturday mornings, Black Kite Coffee and Pies, 2499 Collingwood Blvd. 419-720-5820. facebook.com/positivelyportablepreschool/ Free —KN

STEM in the Park Children of all ages will take part in a variety of activities geared towards science, math, technology and engineering at the 7th Annual STEM in the Park. Featuring interactive displays and challenging activities to keep children of all ages engaged and active, STEM in the Park has everything from giant bubbles to edible DNA. The day of fun and experimentation with your favorite school subjects will also include Super-Sized Demos from the Toledo Zoo and the Imagination Station, a Science of Sports zone to test out your physical fitness, and Roots to STEM for ages Preschool to Grade 2. Get hands on with some science experiments or challenge your tech knowledge with over 100 activities to choose from.

10am-2pm, Saturday, September 24.

Perry Field House at Bowling Green State University, 801 N. Mercer Rd., Bowling Green. 419-372-2531. bgsu.edu/nwo/programs/stem-in-the-park.html Free —KN

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After an extensive summer vacation, sometimes it’s hard to get into the learning groove. If your child is homeschooled, the new school routine may be overwhelming or even boring.

Instead of watching your children fall asleep in their textbooks, give them the opportunity to witness history firsthand.

From September 6-10, during Sauder Village’s homeschool appreciation days, benefit from discounted admission to the Historic Village, special coupons and additional discounts. Give your children a learning experience that gets them out of the house while engaging their curious minds.

10am-3:30pm Tuesday-Friday, September 6-9, and 10am-5pm Saturday, September 10. $7/ages 3 and up. Sauder Village, 22611 Ohio 3, Archbold. 800-590-9755.

Saudervillage.org—AS

PERSPECTIVES ON PARENTING

Grow With Montessori

Turning new pages

Want to curl up with a good book? Find something a little different at Gathering Volumes, a newly-opened independent bookstore in Perrysburg. The community-based store carefully chooses titles for the shelves, working to find indie bestsellers. Gathering Volumes prides itself with being a homey, comfortable gathering place, inviting for families and friends. To explore and spend time turning new pages and discovering stories visit the Perrysburg shop to check out their expansive selection of kids and young adult books from independent authors. Gathering Volumes, 196 E. S. Boundary, Perrysburg. 567-3366188. Gatheringvolumes.com

Teeing off for success

The First Tee of Lake Erie, ProMedica, and the Inverness Club are coming together to help the youth in our community by creating a new youth development center, on Hill Avenue near the Toledo Metroparks, to offer a variety of educational programs to influence young people’s lives within our community. The center will explore life and growth through golf, as well as the sport’s opportunities to build teamwork and leadership. For more information on the center and associated partners, visit thefirstteelakeerie.org, promedica.org, or invernessclub.com

A sweet addition

With flavors like Confetti, Buckeye, and S’Mores, you think of ice cream, and those varieties are actually offered by Rachel Michael’s Gourmet Popcorn. The Toledo sweetery knows how to satisfy a sweet tooth— making candy coated popcorn in flavors like black cherry, strawberry banana, caramel apple, and more. But now the shop has added Toft’s Ice Cream into the mix. Yum! Rachel Michael’s Gourmet Popcorn, 5307 Monroe St., 419-318-0800.

Rachelmichaelspopcorn.com —AC

Store openings at Novi’s Twelve Oaks

Two children’s stores with a cult-like following opened in Michigan in August. Hanna Andersson, the famous purveyor of striped long johns and other high quality, bright clothes for children opened near Nordstrom in Twelve Oaks Mall in Novi. Hanna offers clothes for babies through preteens as well as a women’s and home collection. The first American Girl store also opened at Twelve Oaks as a temporary pop-up shop, through early 2017. Check out their new doll, from the BeForever series, called Melody Ellison. The doll is a nine year old girl growing up in Detroit in the 1960s and is meant to teach young girls about the Civil Rights Movement.

Fusion fun

Forget the traditional burger and fries the next time you’re looking to grab a bite to eat.

Check out Fusion Pitas, a new restaurant that’s bringing flavorful food to the neighborhood.

Fusion Pitas serves a variety of healthy and tasty wraps filled with Mediterranean, American, and Asian influenced ingredients and flavors.

Still craving the milk shake so often served with a burger? Opt for their Bubble Tea, a sweet, milky drink that comes in a variety of flavors and served in a cup full of tapioca pearls— perfect for kids who like to play with their food. Fusion Pitas, 4038 Talmadge Rd., 419-725-7800. facebook.com/FusionPitas. —KF

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How do you nurture a three-yearold to become his or her best self?

Lovingly, tenderly, slowly, just like in nature. The secret is to offer young children opportunities for their natural curiosity to blossom, allow them to explore, challenge themselves, and gain confidence and independence. I love to watch little ones hop from rock to rock around the perimeter of their outdoor classroom at West Side Montessori, measuring each step as they go. Some move slowly, cautiously, wobbly. Some race fearlessly. When children are allowed to run freely outdoors, climb, jump, roll, they develop strength, balance, and agility. Their whole bodies are engaged and their natural growth is stimulated.

Each child’s development unfolds sequentially according to an internally preprogrammed timetable. We offer very young children increasingly more complex vocabulary to spark interest and connect them to the natural world. Our teachers encourage their natural tendency to collect rocks, pinecones, sticks, shells, leaves, anything and everything they see.

Many of their outdoor treasures can be transported indoors and used for more focused small motor activities that require precision. A three-year old I know loves to line up the discarded cicada shells he collects and counts them before putting them carefully back in a bowl. Sorting leaves by shape, categorizing wild flowers, picking wild blackberries and preparing snack, grading seashells from smallest to largest, there are endless opportunities to connect to the outdoors.

Montessori teachers observe the interests of each child and prepare a learning environment that is constantly evolving to meet the developmental needs of the children they serve. They know the transformation from baby to adult human being takes a full 24 years from birth to maturity.

Montessori University

Parent Education Evening Join us September 29 to hear our Montessori- certified teachers present on topics ranging from parenting, curriculum, Montessori principles and the outdoor classroom. Presentations for parents of toddlers through middle school levels begin at 6:30 p.m.

Montessori University is an opportunity to learn more about West Side Montessori through the eyes of children and teachers.

For more information, contact Anne Spenny at 419-866-1931

Perrysburg Campus 13587 Roachton Rd. Perrysburg, OH 43551

Toledo Campus

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Captain Andy’s Magic Eye Patch A Story for Sensory Sensitive Children

By Emily Remaklus

Gateway School Nationally Accredited Preschool & Kindergarten since 1940

Early childhood should be a time of fun, warmth, security, exploration, and discovery.

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After realizing her daughter was scared of automatic flushing toilets, Toledo mom Angie Gall created patches to block the motion detector.

Automatic-flush toilets wouldn’t seem to be one of the scary parts of our world, but for many children, the sudden loud noise can be extremely startling, perhaps even keeping them from using the bathroom.

To soothe the experience for sensory sensitive children, two Toledo friends teamed up to create something helpful. Rebecca Booth, owner of Marketing Works... Imagine That, LLC and author Angie Gall, brought together their awardwinning creative talents to make a magic eye patch and a children’s book.

‘Restroom Yoga’

Angie Gall, author of the book Captain Andy’s Magic Eye Patch, explained that her daughter was frightened when using automatic flushing toilets: “She does not like loud noises, so if she saw a toilet without a handle, she knew it was going to flush by itself and wouldn’t use the bathroom… I was tired of doing ‘restroom yoga,’ trying to cover the eye [toilet sensor] with one hand, help my preschooler, while keeping my purse and bags off the restroom floor.”

In an effort to help others with a similar challenge, Gall and her friend Rebecca Booth, illustrator of the book, developed eye patches to cover the toilet sensor. “We kind of went backwards in the whole process… I really wished there was something to cover that eye, so we developed the patch and then began with the book,” explained Gall.

“Patch…pirate…made sense,” added Booth.

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tomatic toilets, he envisions it to be the red eye of a water monster.

With the use of his eye patches, he can use the bathroom without fear.

Andy even shares an eye patch with a new friend.

The book and products are geared towards autistic children, or children with sensory sensitivities. However, the book has also been of interest to all children and even adults who simply don’t like automatic flushing toilets.

The process of writing the book and developing the product was quick. “We started in February or March, so it was about three or four months from concept to book,” stated Gall. “It was a really fun project. We’re used to corporate work, so this was a big change.”

Empowerment for Children

The book comes with 15 eye patches, which are meant to be a tool to help children gain a sense of independence. Rather than having to rely on their parents to come in the bathroom and block the sensor, children can simply peel off the back of the eye patch and stick it to the sensor like a sticker. “We want to help empower anybody,” explained Booth. Eye patch refills can be reordered online.

To continue helping children gain a sense of independence, Booth and Gall are already working on their next Captain Andy product, a visual calendar.

“Kids are visual learners, so we’re looking to do a visual calendar with magnets.

It’ll be so easy for them to see their daily schedule,” Booth said.

Captain Andy’s Magic Eye Patch can be purchased online, along with the eye patches and refills, at etsy.com/shop/2girlscanpublishing.

For more information about Captain Andy, please visit the Facebook page at Captain Andy’s Magic Eye Patch.

The easy sticker helps sensory sensitive kids overcome their fears independently.

Art, Creativity, and Family Rachel Richardson puts art all around us

By Erin Marsh

Rachel Richardson, director and CEO of Art Corner Toledo, lives and breathes art. Since 2010, she has coordinated more than 20 mural projects, bringing beautiful art to Toledo’s public places. In addition to her work life, her homelife is similarly guided by the arts.

In 2009, she met now-husband Yusuf Lateef, artist and co-founder of Radiant City Arts, an arts education group.

Since they both create and work in the art world, it’s no surprise that they first connected through art. Richardson explains their chance encounter, “We met at Bozarts... Bozarts will forever go down in our personal history as where we first met.” Since then, Rachel and Yusuf married and have one little girl together, Naima, 11 months old.

Advocating change

While Rachel has always been involved with the arts— she is a talented singer and writer— but art was not always her profession. Her previous work with Independent Advocates (IA), a social change organization that “provides

comprehensive court advocacy to survivors of domestic violence, community education to young people about healthy relationships, and training to professionals about the dynamics of domestic violence,” led her to a career in the arts.

“I realized how often artists and advocates came together for a cause, and I wanted to create something very visual that called attention to that. The collateral effect would be to promote nonprofit organizations around Toledo. Many [of the murals organized by ACT] are connected to local humanitarian or nonprofit organizations,” Rachel explains.

The “Toledo Loves Love” Mural (at Adams and 13th) is connected to Equality Toledo and was created to promote marriage equality. Back in 2012, when the mural was designed, same-sex marriage had not yet been legalized in Ohio.

Rachel’s personal favorite is the mural at the corner of Adams and 11th, across from the downtown library: a white background with a black line drawing of a woman. Judy Dilloway, the original artist, a close friend of the family, passed

Rachel enjoying time with her husband, Yusuf, and their daughter, Naima. away in 2006, and Maura Amato adapted her design to create the mural. “The entire family got involved; it was a very sentimental affair,” Rachel recalls.

A creative home

Rachel and Yusuf strive to expose Naima to the world of art. “We take Naima with us everywhere; she has been incorporated into our lifestyle. When Yusuf has a performance or a show, she goes. If I have meetings [for ACT], I can usually bring her with me. That’s one of the nice things about Toledo; I know most of the people I work with, and they are very supportive, so they don’t think it’s a drag to bring her along.”

Since the couple lives close to the Toledo Art Museum, they frequently visit, and Rachel extols the kid-friendly activities there. “[The Art Museum Family Center] provides opportunities to paint, draw and make collages. The museum does baby tours every few months…. There are just so many opportunities there.” Rachel also takes Naima to Positively Portable Preschool, led by teacher Denice Rokicki, for early exposure to reading, songs, and movement.

“When she is older, we will give her every opportunity to create art. I will encourage her to play music, and Yusuf will teach her how to draw,” Rachel adds.

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ALICE

Training

by Christine A. Holliday

Mention “Alice” in American classrooms before 2000, and you’d have heard discussions about the little girl in Wonderland. But the anxieties and fears that the ‘Alice’ of 2016 responds to aren’t imaginary, evil Queens. Instead, they’re loaded guns and active shooters.

Following the spike in school shootings since the 1999 Columbine incident, both teachers and parents have grown to face a new kind of threat. In response to fears of an active school shooter scenario, ALICE Training was developed.

to do something so that our students aren’t ‘sitting ducks,’” explained Sergeant Clarence Whalen of the Sylvania Township Police. “We train them on a regular basis and do drills, almost like fire drills. Sometimes, those drills include a simulated attack, with the sound of a gun and the ‘bad guy’ trying to get into classrooms.

Teachers are required to review ALICE materials every year and acknowledge that they have done so. It turns out that 20 percent of Sylvania teachers have trained to be ALICE instructors.”

Go ask ALICE

Gaining traction

‘ALICE’— Alert, Lockdown, Inform, Counter and Evacuate— is a series of steps taught to potential victims in active shooter scenarios so they can ‘participate in their own survival’. The program has been introduced to schools to prepare teachers, students and administrators to deal with an armed intruder.

The training was developed in the home of a Texas police officer Greg Crane and his wife Lisa, a high school principal. After Columbine, the Cranes wondered if current school programs, that stressed hiding, were sufficient.

Crane emphasizes escaping danger, arguing that hiding in the dark is not always the best or only alternative. Instead, ALICE empowers teachers to assess a situation and to make the best decision based on the information available.

ALICE locally

In Sylvania Township, ALICE Training has been implemented.

“We have to change the thinking of educators and students from believing that hiding in their classrooms with the lights off is the way to respond. We teach them

Does ALICE Training send us down a rabbit hole of anxieties?

Does this type of training create an unnecessary fear in kids?

“At first, my instinct was to shield my own kids completely and convince them monsters don’t exist…. But the reality is it’s really happening. Tragedies are made worse because people don’t really know how to respond at all. How can we make them safer?” - Joel Brownfield, RN, senior clinical manager at Horizon Behavioral Solutions and a certified ALICE trainer The ‘countering’ step sounds a lot like fighting— is this safe?

“Countering is not fighting. It is trying to distract him by creating noise and movement so that he is not able to shoot accurately.” - Sergeant Clarence Whalen of the Sylvania Township Police 10

This program is becoming more popular, as teachers in most local school districts have attended ALICE in-service meetings. Yet it is not without controversy.

Some school safety organizations worry that the training is too complicated to be given only once, and they express concern that expecting frightened children to throw things at a shooter is inappropriate. Still others worry that throwing things at an agitated shooter will only incite him to shoot more.

Lieutenant Joe Heffernan, Public Information Officer of the Toledo Police, has heard these objections and understands them. “We’ve been teaching children about personal safety for a long time. We talk to them about not talking to strangers and encourage them to fight if somebody tries to get them into a car. So this is another way to make sure they know they don’t have to be victims,” he explains. “We keep things simple and we make sure their teachers know what to do without causing the children to panic. We have presented ALICE to parents, too, so they know what their children are learning.”

ALICE principles have been presented to students and employees in local schools, businesses, nursing

ALICE Training in our Area What school districts have it, and when did they get it?

2011- Oregon School District 2012 - Rossford Public Schools, Sylvania Public Schools, Notre Dame Academy 2013- Toledo Public Schools, Perrysburg Schools, Ottawa Hills Local School District, Maumee City School District, St. Ursula Academy 2015 - Washington Local Schools homes, assisted living facilities, hospitals, movie theaters, and shopping malls. Heffernan notes that TPD representatives will go wherever they are invited to present the ALICE program. He sums up the program’s value with the observation: “Everyone has a right to stay alive. ALICE can give a fighting chance.”

For more information about ALICE, call Lt. Heffernan at 419-245-3217, or Sergeant Whalen in Sylvania Township at 419-882-2055. General information about ALICE is available at atalicetraining.com Parents of very young children might want to examine the book “I’m Not Scared…I’m Prepared,” written by children’s author Julia Cook in collaboration with the ALICE Training Institute.

Named the Amazon #1 Best Selling Book in School Counseling Crisis Management for Teachers and Parents, the picture book teaches elementary age children what to do if a “dangerous someone” is in their school.

Do conversations about school shooters cause anxiety for both parents and students?

To calm the concerns of skeptical parents, the Sylvania school district hosted forums and parent training.

“We are teaching children to be more prepared for the world we live in today… We believe ALICE is worth it because students can use these skills in any situation.”

- Adam Fineske, executive director of teaching and learning for Sylvania school district.

Is ALICE Training taught in age appropriate ways?

“Communication with students, in an age appropriate way, can help alleviate some of the anxiety. Open communication from teachers, trainers and parents can help kids process and understand ALICE training.” Joel Brownfield

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How do kids feel after going through training? Is it upsetting?

“Both of my children have been through this training… with my oldest (son, age 11) a few more times than my daughter (age 6). Our school system does an excellent job of spinning it for different age groups. It has empowered them and driven the conversation at home after each drill.” Kim Barboza, parent with children in the Maumee City School District.

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Just because the school bell rings doesn’t mean learning stops. Sometimes, after school is when creativity thrives. Want to find the perfect after-school activity to keep your kid engaged and active? Toledo offers plenty of places to keep young minds and bodies busy.

YMCA of Greater Toledo ymcatoledo.org

With more than 10 locations, the YMCA of Greater Toledo is an easily accessible after-school destination. As the nation’s leading nonprofit, the organization is dedicated to strengthening the community while encouraging youth development and supporting a healthy lifestyle. With everything from swim lessons and health classes to family programs and child care, there is something for all ages— whether for an afterschool hangout or for a family field trip. Visit website for a full list of locations.

Sky Zone Trampoline Park 1600 Albon Rd., Holland 419-491-1194 skyzone.com/toledo

Looking for new way for your kids to burn off some energy after school? Check out Sky Zone, the world’s first indoor trampoline park. Sky Zone offers multiple trampoline playing courts and a variety of programs to encourage healthy fun. Kids of all ages are welcome and jumpers will be separated by age/size.

Reservations are recommended, as jump times do sell out.

Summer hours: Noon-8pm Sunday-Thursday, Noon-11pm Friday, 10am-11pm Saturday.

Prices: $10/30-minute jump, $13/60-minute jump, $18/90-minute jump, $20/2-hour jump. *SkySocks ($2/pair) are required footwear, which can be washed and reused if in good condition. Waivers signed by the parent or guardian are required for all jumpers under 18.

Rosenbloom’s Farms 2738 Shetland Rd. 419-346-1363 Rosenbloomsfarm.weebly.com

Truly “a quaint farm close to home,” Rosenbloom’s Farms is the perfect place to escape the hustle and bustle of everyday technology, allowing children to connect with nature. The farm offers family-friendly activities and is home to horses, llamas, donkeys, barn cats, snakes, goats and bunnies— all eager for a little snuggle time with friendly kids. Providing a full farm experience for all ages, tours and events at Rosenbloom’s Farm are handicapped accessible and accommodating to those with disabilities.

Toledo Volleyball Club 2901 Key St. #2, Maumee 419-794-4656 toledovolleyballclub.com

Spend some time courtside learning new skills and having fun with the Toledo Volleyball Club’s (TVC) popular “in-house” leagues. Youth, Junior High and High School league teams all get to train with TVC coaches, benefit from practices and play in competitive games, including all-day events, without traveling to outof-town tournaments. Players can also opt for private lessons, small group training, and more. To learn more about the TVC’s expansive offerings, see online.

Toledo Lucas County Public Library 325 N. Michigan St. 419-259-5200 toledolibrary.org

Find homework help, play with 3-D printers, practice with a GoPro camera, and explore the huge collection of books, magazines, DVDs, CDs and more after school at the library. The homework help center offers language resources, learning-based games and puzzles, scholarly articles and more, offering the perfect place for students to get the grade. For kids who want a break from studies after school, the library’s frequent special programs provide plenty of opportunities for fun.

Phlox: An Online After-School Program for Grades 9-12 From Thinking Habitats 419-419-5115

Thinkinghabitats.com After-school programs are an important way to prepare for college, but not all high school students can commit to a set schedule.

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Students can dance their way into a fun, healthy afterschool activity at the Toledo Ballet. With a large variety of classes, including ballet, tap, jazz, musical theater, voice, acting, contemporary fusion, adult classes, pre-school dance enrichment and creative movement, and more, the Toledo Ballet has a little something for everyone. Learn more during the Fall Open House 10am-1pm, Saturday, September 10. Auditions for The Nutcracker will be held on Thursday, September 17, with a $15 audition fee. For more information, see online.

St. Ursula Academy 4025 Indian Rd., Ottawa Hills 419-531-1693 Toledosua.org Special Needs Friendly Fun & Unique Birthday Party Packages Activities are tailored to meet the special needs of all children

Halloween Happening on the Farm October 23rd 2:00-4:00PM

Crafts, pumpkins, snack and more. Call for info!

Interactive tours for any groups.

Call for details (419) 346-1363

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School might be out at 3pm, but the day is just starting for most St. Ursula Academy students.

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Imagination Station

2437 Tremainsville Rd. 419-473-0999 Minimotionsdance.com

Stretch, dance and leap into action after school at Mini Motions Dance Center, where kids have learned a variety of moves for 25 years. Ages 2 and up can boost their dance and motor skills, learning tap, jazz, hip hop, modern, lyrical, ballet, and more with skilled instructors in a fun, relaxed environment. This year, Mini Motions was named #1 Dance Studio, the #1 Mom Owned Business, and the #2 Gymnastics Center by our readers in our Family Favorites.

Toledo Zoo & Aquarium 2 Hippo Way 419-385-4040 Toledozoo.org

For kids with more energy than animals, the Toledo Zoo is a perfect after school destination. Even the most energetic students will be outmatched by the 5300 animals representing 750 species at the Toledo’s award-winning zoo. New this year, kids can feed giraffes, climb on the aerial adventure course, explore the Aquarium and learn all about the animal kingdom.

1 Discovery Way 419-244-2674 Imaginationstationtoledo.org

Kids can expand their minds and enjoy hands-on, educational activities at this award-winning science museum Tuesday through Sunday. Adventurous kids love the high wire bicycle tightrope, the BOYO human yo-yo, the virtual roller coaster, and other thrill-seeking attractions. With rotating exhibits, programs, workshops and special events, the Imagination Station offers enough to keep young minds curious.

Notre Dame Academy 3535 W. Sylvania Ave. 419-475-9359 Nda.org

Athletics, arts, theater, over 30 clubs, volunteering opportunities and other extracurriculars keep Notre Dame Academy students busy before and after school. Whether girls are interested in art, participating in the Social Justice Alliance Club, acting in the fall musical, or learning a foreign language in one of the six language and culture clubs, this school offers plenty of ways to expand your horizons.

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ADVITORIAL

Eat Colorfully

Add some color to your child’s plate!

By Barbara Okuley

Everyone should taste the rainbow– of fruits and vegetables, that is! Add some color to your child’s plate for Childhood Obesity Prevention Month.

Fruits and vegetables should make up one-half of a child’s plate and be a variety of colors. The more colorful, the better fruits and vegetables are for you. Each color does something specific for your body and provides vital nutrients. Red, blue, and purple fruits and vegetables help keep your heart healthy, reduce risk of cancer, and improve cognition and memory. Orange and yellow produce enhance the immune system, help heal wounds, and keep your eyes, skin, bones and teeth healthy. Green produce keeps your eyes healthy and protects against certain cancers. White fruits and vegetables help lower blood pressure and cholesterol.

Encourage your child to try a new fruit or vegetable today. Eating healthy can be fun. You just need a little color! For more information, visit kohlskidsinaction.org.

Kohl’s commitment to Mercy Children’s Hospital is made possible through Kohl’s Cares cause merchandise program. Through this initiative, Kohl’s sells $5 books and plush toys, and 100 percent of net profit benefits children’s health and education programs nationwide, including hospital partnerships like this one. Kohl’s has raised nearly $300 million through this merchandise program. For more information, visit Kohls.com/Cares.

Mercy is a member of Mercy Health (formerly Catholic Health Partners), the largest health system in Ohio and one of the largest nonprofit systems in the country.

Locally, Mercy is based in Toledo, and serves 20-counties in Northwest Ohio and Southeast Michigan.

Mercy provides comprehensive primary and critical care services to residents as well as a robust physician group, Mercy Medical Partners, Life Flight critical air transport services and Mercy College of Ohio. Please visit mercyweb.org for additional information and connect with Mercy on Facebook and Twitter @mercynwohio.

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Enjoy a relaxing, stress-free day on the river together. River Lures Kayaking takes care of everything, life jacket, paddle, and get this–if you bring your bicycle, staff members will transport it down to you after your kayak trip. They pick up the kayaks and then you and your love can pedal back up the beautiful towpath toward Grand Rapids and meet back at the store.

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DATE NIGHT More than dinner and a movie— because you deserve it

By Kat Tomasewski

I met some mom friends recently for coffee and I asked them about ‘date night’.

Based on their facial expressions, I could tell that I had touched on a sensitive topic.

Each started sharing their date night woes: “We can never find a sitter on a Saturday night.”

“There are no good movies out right now.”

“I can’t stay up that late.”

“It is just way too expensive.”

And, of course, “There is nothing fun to do in this town.”

I totally channeled my inner Cher and let out an intense “As if !” (Yes, I was a huge “Clueless” fan back in the day.) There is SO much to do in Toledo for a date night or even a date day - getting together with your significant other doesn’t have to be at night. It doesn’t have to be on a Saturday. And it doesn’t have to cost a lot. Let’s start thinking outside the dinner-and-a-movie date night box, trying things outside our comfort zones. Trying new things together not only helps to add a thrill to the date but can also rekindle that spark!

To encourage out-of-the-box thinking, here is a list of places to go and things to do for your next date.

Heat things up at Gathered Glassblowing Studio What better way to enjoy your date in the Glass City than by making your own awesome creations out of glass? Sign up for a public workshop today, no experience is necessary. Step-by-step instructions are provided and you get to take home an awesome glass masterpiece!

Also, on the 3rd Thursday of every month, the studio has Hot Glass, Cold Beer, and Cool Music Night, in conjunction with the 3rd Thursday Art Loop.

Kayaking: $10+. At the Farnsworth Metropark, 8505 S. River Rd., Waterville. 4​ 19-832-0989. riverlureskayaking.com Play detective on a Murder Mystery Dinner Train This is a one-of-a-kind date night that is sure to be a memorable experience! Who did it? Enjoy fine dining while participating in a humorous table-side murder mystery, on a train! (Rated PG-13 of course) $69+. 301 E. Adrian St., Blissfield, MI. 1-888- 467-2451. murdermysterytrain.com

$40+. 23 N. Huron St., 419-262-5501, gatheredglass.com Find Cupid’s Arrow at AJ Archery Channel your inner Merida (from “Brave”) at AJ Archery Range. Learn safety & range rules, basic shooting instruction, and target shooting from Coach AJ Berning-Matell, a certified USA Archery Level 3-NTS coach.

Date night sessions are two hours and cost $30 per couple. Call to set up your date night today! $30. 425 Jefferson Ave., 2nd floor.

419-474-1103. ajarchery.com Rev your engines at Sportway Who says the kids get to have all the fun?

Brace yourself for a date night jammed pack full of fun! Start your engines with the go-karts, take three adrenaline-inducing laps around the course, then let your competitive side out a bit as you challenge your date to a round of miniature golf. Finally, end the date practicing your swings in the batting cage. $20. 5950 Angola Rd., 419-867-1006. sportwayinc.com

Spread your wings at the Wheeler Butterfly House Talk about romantic: you and your love can observe more than 1,000 butterflies fluttering around to classical music. The experience that might lower your cortisol levels and re-ignite that spark. Feel free to pack a picnic to enjoy on the grounds. $9. 11455 Obee Rd., Whitehouse.

419-877-2733. wheelerfarms.com Discover new flavors with Cooking Classes at Dégagé Jazz Café Calling all foodies! Chef Mike Lambert, native Toledoan, shares his farm-to-table passion with monthly cooking classes, seasonal menu, locally grown-and-sourced produce, meats, and dairy. $55+. 301 River Rd., Maumee. 419-794-8205. historiccommercialbuilding.com/ content/cooking-classes Spend a romantic night away at Belamere Suites

Enjoy kayaking, biking, and more at Toledo Metroparks This is the perfect outdoor date on a dime! Get outside together and enjoy all the beauty around you at one of Toledo’s amazing Metroparks. There is a nice variety of things to do when you visit including, paddle boating ($5 at Pearson Park), fishing, hiking, biking, stand-up paddle boards, kayaking (Farnsworth Park $10$25). And don’t forget to pack a romantic picnic.

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Get a babysitter, bribe a friend, beg Grandma and Grandpa…. do whatever you need to do to enjoy a night away at this boutique hotel. Tripadvisor ranked Belamere Suites as one of the 10th Most Romantic Hotels in the United States, and we’re inclined to agree— jacuzzi suites, pools, wine baskets, luxurious accommodations, and plenty of rose petals make this stylish get-a-way the perfect place to relax.

Prices range. 12200 Williams Rd., Perrysburg, 419-874-2233. belameresuites.com

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Fighting for Fatherhood

Joshua McDowell on being an ‘Accidental Dad’

By Kimberly Feldkamp

Joshua McDowell, a local Toledo father, recently wrote the book Accidental Dad to openly talk about the struggles of being a single father, especially those battling the courts for custody. Joshua fought for six years to get custody of his son and said he wanted to provide hope and encouragement to other dads out there.

We recently caught up with Josh about being a single dad and how he’s doing things his way.

that I wish my father would have done with me as a kid, like throwing the ball around, going on trips together, riding go carts and fishing.

What has surprised you the most since you became a dad and regained custody of your son?

I think what surprised me the most is having full custody in today’s age because only 4% of dads in America have custody.

Do you have any advice you’d share with other single dads out there?

My advice for the dad’s out there is to never take away your love for your child.

Even if you’re fighting with their mother.

Never take away your love because your child has done nothing wrong.

What do you enjoy most about being a father?

On the day my son was born, I held him in my arms and promised him a better life than what I had. I enjoy each day God gives me to spend with my son. I love doing the things with him

What’s the hardest thing about being a single dad?

For me, the hardest thing about being a father is trying to balance my time with him. I’m not perfect. I have to work to pay the bills. My son sometimes has a hard time understanding that.

Where can folks get a copy of your book, Accidental Dad? My book is available online in 140 countries worldwide and available to read at the Toledo Public Library.

After six years of court battles, Joshua McDowell finally gained custody of his son, Alex. Since then, McDowell has spoken out about the struggles many single fathers face.

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Sharing One’s Grief Lessens The Sorrow Good Grief of NW Ohio offers peer support after loss

By Karen L. Zickes

Sometimes, you just want to hear someone say, “I get it. I’m right there with you.”

Longing for that understanding and comfort is real in many situations, but especially when you are dealing with the loss of a loved one. Since 2013, Good Grief of NW Ohio has helped bridge the isolation that many may feel after suffering the loss of a significant loved one by providing peer support.

Monthly open houses provide a peek into Good Grief of NW Ohio

According to Ms. Mockensturm, the idea is to provide the children and young adults with a safe place for them to be. However, when children have already gone through so much, stepping out of their comfort zone can seem scary. Good Grief offers monthly open houses that provide families an opportunity to see what it is all about in a non-threatening atmosphere.

One Wednesday a month anyone may stop in to talk with volunteers, hear more about the program, and expose the kids to the various activities available to them such as art projects and other activities. The next two open houses are scheduled for Wednesday September 14, 2016 from 4p.m.-5p.m. and on October 12, 2016 from 12p.m.-1p.m. Arrangements can be made for other times as well.

Volunteer/donor opportunities

Making the journey on their own

Operating solely on donations and corporate contributions, Good Grief of NW Ohio concentrates on providing peer support for children ages five through 24 years old; and also their caregivers. According to Managing Director Dorothy Mockensturm they do not offer counseling or therapy; rather groups are formed by age and give children a chance to be with others who are sharing in similar feelings and experiences. The idea is to create a space to help the children make the journey on their own; in their own time, in their own way, according to Ms. Mockensturm.

There is much comfort in knowing you are not alone.

The programs run every other Tuesday. “Our services are always free of charge,” said Ms. Mockensturm. A typical evening begins with a community dinner at 6p.m., followed by peer group sessions for either an activity or simply a time to share with one another. The evening wraps up about 8p.m.

Good Grief guides children through activities, like this art project, to help them process their pain and sorrow.

Much of Good Grief of NW Ohio operates with the help of volunteers. Support group facilitators need to be at least 20 years old, and program assistants must be at least 16 years old and enjoy working with children; as they are there to help facilitate crafts, play time, etc. In order for the services to remain free of charge for those families who have already been through so much, donations are always needed; be it monetary donations, providing a Tuesday evening meal, or even gift cards to help them provide the Tuesday meals, crafts, and much more.

Help support this organization during the Wings of Hope Fundraiser. 6-7:30pm, Wednesday, September 21. $75. Carranor Hunt Club, 502 E. 2nd St., Perrysburg.

Good Grief of NW Ohio, 7015 Spring Meadows Dr. W., 419-360-4939. goodgriefnwo.org.

Karen Zickes is the mom of three active children and freelance writer who resides in Holland, OH. She can be reached in c/o editor@toledoparent.com .

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Mini Motions dances into its 25th year

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Sue Hays keeps her students on their toes

By Athena Cocoves

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fter a twelve year break from the dance floor, Toledoan Sue Hays had enough— she was ready to get back on her toes.

“I was anxious to get my kids into dance lessons,” says Hays. “I was immediately missing those dancing days, so I started teaching lessons as the same studio where I had once danced. It wasn’t long before I opened my own business in the basement of my home with 25 students.”

That was in 1991. Since then, Hays has danced up a storm, bringing her business’s modest beginnings up the stairs, out of the basement and into a building, where she opened Mini Motions Dance Center with 150 students.

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Great moves

Mini Motions recently made a big move to a larger building. Earlier this year, Hays became the owner of Tremainsville Hall, not far from their former location.

In the new locale, Mini Motions still offers the same large variety of classes to choose from, including hip hop, modern, ballet, cheer, and gymnastics, tap, to keep children on their toes. Mini Motions also offers classes for play groups, weddings, Girl Scout troops, and cheer groups. To keep dancers on pointe, gymnastics and technique classes are also available for beginners to those advanced in their craft.

A Toledo Area Parent Family Favorite, Mini Motions won #1 Dance Studio, the #1 Mom owned business, and the #2 Gymnastics Center in 2016.

A leap of faith

Since opening the doors to Mini Motions 25 years ago, Hays has helped students of all ages strut their stuff. Hays brings her lifelong love of dance to each class— she’s been a dancer all her life. She started dancing at age 4, and kept on her feet through high school.

“I wanted to become a Solid Gold Dancer. You have to be my age to know who they are,” says Hays, laughing. “I also always wanted to be a dance teacher and possibly have my own studio.”

Now she does.

Mini Motions Dance Studio, 2437 Tremainsville Rd. 419-473-0999. minimotionsdance.com

25 years later, the Hays family still stays in rhythm: (L-R) daughter Devon, son Brad, Sue Hays, and daughter Melissa.

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Anything But Bleak Bleak House Coffee 612 Adams St. Toledo 43604 419-740-1125 Mon-Fri: 7:30am-4pm Sat: 9am-2pm Sun: Closed facebook.com/BleakHouseCoffee

As summer comes to a close, my kids and I hold wonderful memories of another summer in the city and the new places we were able to experience. One of our recent adventures in the city was a trip downtown with friends to check out Bleak House Coffee on Adams Street. I assure you the customers, employees, and atmosphere were anything BUT bleak!

Coffee with pizazz

Walking into a small, locally owned business, you can’t help but immediately love the character that it exudes. And in the case of Bleak House, the wonderful aromas that greeted us when we opened the door were more than inviting. GOOD MORNING! According to manager Eileen Iannone, Bleak House is owned by local attorney Scott Ciolek. The original location was in the historic Spitzer Building until the building was closed in 2012. Now, Bleak House calls a storefront on Adams Street home, an ideal location in the middle of the downtown hustle and bustle.

Admittedly, I still don’t venture downtown as often as I would like but apparently many other people do because for a Saturday morning, the streets were hopping and so was Bleak House. The atmosphere is quite eclectic and though the space at first seemed rather small, there was more seating available than I first realized; including a cozy corner that included plush chairs where a couple people enjoyed their coffee with a book or the morning paper.

I am more of a “foo foo” coffee drinker, but my friend whom I consider a coffee connoisseur loved her simple Cup of Joe. Bleak House uses coffee from Wood Burl

Downtown coffee shop puts pep in your step By: Karen L. Zickes

in Dayton and Intelligentsia Coffee in Chicago. My daughter and I each enjoyed a latte and wow, they were served with an artful design on top. How’d they do that?

They had special training in Chicago; that’s how. I almost didn’t want to take a sip, but the smell of the caramel, cinnamon, and vanilla was too much to resist.

An array of local food offerings

We were initially drawn in on a Saturday after hearing that that was the only day they made specialty waffles. Waffles? You need not tell this crew twice. They prepare artisan waffles that you can’t find just anywhere and their ingredients are not run of the mill. That being said, they don’t come cheap. The waffle of the day will set you back $10. I’m a mom on a budget so I did cringe a bit, but the delicious ham and cheese waffle WAS most enjoyable.

According to Ms. Iannone, customers can find the Saturday waffle of the day posted in advance on Facebook. Past favorites have been banana nut bread and the layered tiramisu. YUM. Since the waffles are a special Saturday treat they are only available until they run out of batter. On that busy Saturday, that was about 10:30a.m. Not everyone at our table was able to enjoy the waffle of the day. They did, however, order a simple waffle with tasty handmade syrup on the side.

Bleak House carries countless products from local merchants. Their full lunch menu, as well as other breakfast items, is served with bread from All Crumbs Artisan Bakery in downtown Toledo. You and your little ones won’t be able to resist the tasty treats from Holey Toledough Doughnuts. What a terrific name! Rachel’s Handmade Ice Cream is sold almost exclusively at Bleak House. Aside from making great sandwiches and salads, Ms. Iannone said they also offer soups in the winter.

Our group kept it simple with just waffles that morning, and fresh juice was an option for my boys while the rest of us savored some fine coffee. However, after perusing their lunchtime offerings, I will need to stop back for lunch and another finely decorated latte that reminds you, “Relax. You’re here.”

Karen Zickes is a mom of three active children and freelance writer who resides in Holland, OH. She can be reached in c/o editor@toledoparent.com .

Bottom Line: Bleak House Coffee offers that “home grown” character that can sometimes be hard to find in today’s day and age. They use as many local ingredients as possible and carry many fine items from other local businesses. Though they do not have a changing station or high chairs for the little ones, your older children would certainly enjoy stopping by for a meal or a snack. If the lunch offerings don’t suit their fancy they will, at the very least, enjoy one of the many sweet treats.

The Short Course Kid-friendly: Better suited for older children To avoid wait: Anytime

Noise level: Moderate to loud depending on how busy they are Bathroom amenities: No changing station High chairs? No

Got milk? Yes, from Hartzler’s Milk in Wooster, Ohio

Kids’ menu? No, but a selection of baked good would please the little ones for a snack Food allergy concerns? Always be sure to notify them prior to ordering so food can be prepared safely without cross contamination.

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{September 2016} All calendar events are subject to change, cancellation and limited size. Calling ahead for confirmation is recommended.

1 THURSDAY Partners in fun-owls - Youngsters are invited to get crafty and create beautiful art projects. For ages 3-4 with an adult.

Registration required. 10-11am. $5.

The 577 Foundation, 577 E. Front St., Perrysburg. 419-872-0305.

577foundation.org

2 FRIDAY Drawing on Nature - Spend some time in the Window on Wildlife and learn the basics of sketching and recording what you see. Basic supplies will be provided.

Registration required. 11am-noon. $3.

Secor Preserve, 10001 W. Central Ave., Berkey. 419-907-9700. metroparkstoledo.com Learning University - Children and their caregivers are invited to learn through stories, music, and free play while exploring numbers, colors, and shapes. Every other Friday. 10-11am. Sylvania Branch Library, 6749 Monroe St., Sylvania.

419-882-2089. toledolibrary.org Free Free Movie Friday - Families will enjoy a screening of The Jungle Book.

Concessions will be available for purchase. 7pm. Toledo Calvary, 1360 Conant St., Maumee.

419-893-2171. toledocalvary.org Free Park After Dark: New Moon Walk Discover that just because the sun has set, it doesn’t mean that everyone has gone to sleep. Feel free to bring a flashlight or headlamp and dress for the weather.

Registration required. 8:15-9:15pm. $3.

Oak Openings Preserve, 4139 Girdham Rd., Swanton.

419-407-9700. metroparkstoledo.com

3 SATURDAY Book Reading and Signing with Children’s Author Meaghan Fisher The award-winning children’s author will read and sign her newest book. 2-3pm.

National Museum of the Great Lakes, 1701 Front St. 419-214-5000 ext. 206. inlandseas.org Free Early Stages - Teachers will incorporate song, movement, and puppetry to guide young performers into improved theoretical understandings and practices. There is no established registration or fee for this class, but donations are appreciated. For ages 3-4. 10-10:30am. Children’s Theatre Workshop, 2417 Collingwood Blvd.

419-244-5061. ctwtoledo.org Homesteading: Let there be Light Enjoy the Johlin Black Swamp Cabin and see how much home life has changed in the last 149 years. Participants will have the opportunity to dip candles for the long winter nights to come. 11am-3pm.

Pearson Metropark, 761 Lallendorf Rd., Oregon. 419-407-9700. metroparkstoledo.com Free

Looksee Walks - Join a naturalistled walk highlighting the natural features of Toledo’s beautiful metroparks.

10-11:30am. Secor Preserve, 10001 W. Central Ave., Berkey.

419-280-9236. metroparkstoledo.com Free Outdoor Giant Games - Playing giant-sized outdoor games, such as Twister® and checkers, board and card games in the galleries and scavenger hunts in the Museum’s Welles Sculpture Garden. 11am-2pm. Toledo Museum of Art, 2445 Monroe St. 419-255-8000. toledomuseum.org Free

Space is cool Saturdays through September / Ritter Planetarium

Hop in the spaceship and take off on a wild adventure with The Zula Patrol: Under the Weather. During the journey through outer space, youngsters will learn all about the weather on other planets as they experience a hurricane on Jupiter and a dust storm on Mars. In a cool comic style, The Zula Patrol will fight the evil forces of the universe with song, dance and 3D animation.

Saturdays through September. 1pm. $7/ adults, $5/children, seniors and UT community members, free/ages 3 and under. Ritter Planetarium, 2855 W. Bancroft St. 419-5302650. utoledo.edu/nsm/rpbo —MLR

6 TUESDAY Creative Kids: Fall Adventures Young artists will explore a variety of different art mediums while creating unique projects and encouraging creative interpretation. For ages 4-6. This is a sixweek session. Registration required. 2:152:45pm. $75. Create Perrysburg, 422 Louisiana Ave, Perrysburg.

419-873-6240 createperrysburg.com Family Time Tour - Enjoy a museum tour with the family and spend quality time together learning about Toledo’s artistic treasures. 11:30am-12:30pm. Toledo Museum of Art, 2445 Monroe St. 419-255-8000. toledomuseum.org. Free

7 WEDNESDAY Scooby Doo, where are you?

Celebrate Scooby-Doo’s 47th birthday with games, crafts and a Scooby Dooby Doo-licious treat. 4-5pm. Mott Branch Library, 1085 Dorr St. 419-259-5230. toledolibrary.org Free

8 THURSDAY Kids’ Art Night - Youngsters will have fun making crafty art projects, playing games and enjoying snacks. 5-7pm. Collingwood Arts Center, 2413 Collingwood Blvd.

419-244-2787. collingwoodartscenter.org Free

9 FRIDAY Natural Music - Join ECO Discovery and make your own simple, ancient-style instrument out of sticks and recycled materials. A snack will be provided. For preschoolers. For Sylvania residents only.

10am. Olander Park Gorman Nature Education Center, 6930 W. Sylvania Ave., Sylvania. 419-882-8313. olanderpark.com Free

10 SATURDAY Adult/Child Workshop: Autumn Fairy Houses - Have fun creating a fairy house out of natural materials that will have all the local fairies scrambling to move in. All supplies will be provided.

For ages 6-12 with an adult. Registration required. 10:30-11:45am. $45.

Create Perrysburg, 422 Louisiana Ave., Perrysburg. 419-873-6240. createperrysburg.com

Sunshine Walk, Run & Roll - Join Sunshine for a special fundraising event which raised more than $438,000 over the past 18 years to support its programs.

SUnchine creates life-enriching relationships among people with developmental disabilities and the family and friends that support them. Registration required. 7amnoon. $10/12 and under, $20/adults.

Monclova Road Elementary School, 8035 Monclova Rd. 419-865-0251. walk.sunshine.org 8th Annual September Fest - Families will enjoy games, crafts, inflatables, an antique tractor display, food vendors, petting zoo, music and more. Noon-5pm.

Elizabeth Scott Community Campus, 2720 Albon Rd., Maumee.

419-865-3002. elizabethscott.org Free

11 SUNDAY Children’s Corner - Metro Detroit resident and children’s author Lisa Rose will entertain and delight children with a reading of her book. Lunch will be provided. 11:30am-1pm. Basement of Temple Shomer Emunim, 6453 W. Sylvania Ave., Sylvania. 419-885-3341. templese.com Free

12 MONDAY Art Journaling - Students will learn the tools and inspiration to journal and let them explore different mediums, techniques, and themes. For ages 7-12.

Registration required. 4-5pm. $75.

Create Perrysburg, 422 Louisiana Ave., Perrysburg. 419-873-6240. createperrysburg.com

14 WEDNESDAY Friends for Foster Kids Fundraiser - Founder of Heart 2 Heart Resources, author Virginia Ulch and the Adopt America Network have partnered to offer a measure of comfort by supplying each child entering foster care in NW Ohio with a copy of the book Love, Bandit and a cuddly plush racoon. This fundraiser will feature a book signing.

5:30-7pm. For every $10, donors receive a $10 gift certificate to use toward any purchase of Ms. Ulch’s books. UT Barnes and Noble, 1430 Secor Rd. gofundme.com/fostercarefriends

Hispanic Heritage Dance Celebration - Participate in traditional Mexican dancing, bingo and salsa taste testing in celebration of Hispanic Heritage Month. 4-5pm. Kent Branch Library, 3101 Collingwood Blvd. 419-259-5340. toledolibrary.org Free Make U Mobile Art Lab: 2D Printmaking - Children are invited to explore the art of Printmaking. Tools and instruction are supplied, all that is needed is creativity and imagination. For ages 6-9. Register online. 4-5pm. Mott Branch Library, 1085 Dorr St. 419-259-5230. toledolibrary.org Free

15 THURSDAY Young STEAM Club - Experience a program unlike the others as the library staff emphasizes STEAM: science, technology, engineering, art, and math. Enjoy an hour of fun projects for the curious-minded. For grades 1-5. Registration required.

4-5pm. Sylvania Branch Library, 6749 Monroe St., Sylvania.

419-882-2089. toledolibrary.org Free Toledo Ballet: Auditions for the 76th Annual Nutcracker - The Toledo Ballet will hold open auditions for Toledo’s original production of The Nutcracker.

Dancers enrolled in other community dance programs are welcome to audition, but due to limited roles, preference may be given to those enrolled in Toledo Ballet School. Call-back auditions are held on September 17. Visit website for ages, times and skill levels. Performance dates: December 16-18, 2016. $15 audition fee. Toledo Ballet Studios, 5327 Monroe St. 419-471-0049. toledoballet.org

16 FRIDAY Chalk Walk - Young artists are invited to show off their talent while competing to win prizes. Compete solo or in teams of two and vote for your favorite chalk drawing. 3:30-5pm. For ages 11-15.

Way Public Library, 101 E Indiana Ave., Perrysburg. 419-874-3135. waylibrary.info Free

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17 SATURDAY PetSmart Party - Stop by and meet some of the Humane Society’s adorable adoptable animals. Noon-3pm. PetSmart, 27161 Crossroads Pkwy., Rossford. toledohumane.org Free

19 MONDAY Let’s Code - Have you ever wanted to create a video game, program a robot, or make a website? Children are invited to learn the basics of coding. For grades 3 and up. Registration required. 4-5pm.

Oregon Branch Library, 3340 Dustin Rd., Oregon. 419-259-5250. toledolibrary.org Free

20 TUESDAY Ghost Talk with Harold from the Toledo Ghost Hunter Society Tweens and teens are invited to learn about the tools used to find spirits, the different types of hauntings and how to safely investigate the paranormal. 4-5pm.

Locke Branch Library, 703 Miami St. 419-259-5310. toledolibrary.org Free

4014 Elmhurst Rd (419) 754-1057 littlesproutsacademy.com

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How to talk to kids after suicide Suicide is the ninth leading cause of death in the U.S. for all ages, and is the second leading cause of death among 1524 year olds. Talking about suicide can be challenging and difficult; however, when a loved one dies it is important to talk about the loss honestly and directly.

When a child loses someone they love to suicide they may have many different feelings or a feeling of being numb. Regardless of the feelings they are experiencing, providing reassurance that what they are feeling is okay. Be supportive.

Allow them to express all of their emotions – even negative ones like anger should be expressed in an appropriate, safe way.

It is important to be honest and be prepared to answer questions. Lying, minimizing, or avoiding the facts will not help the situation and will impact having open lines of communication with your child. So be honest, share the facts you are comfortable sharing, and be there if the child needs to talk, for support, and

get additional help if needed. Be honest about mental health and mental health issues. Start the conversation early and provide accurate information. Focus on one clear (age appropriate) message that you want the child to take away from the conversation.

Be prepared to revisit this topic throughout the coming days, weeks, months, and possibly years, as everyone grieves differently. Children may ask repetitive questions, seem unfazed by the loss, be in denial, or may experience regressed behavior such as thumb sucking or separation anxiety. Check in with the child periodically to see how they are doing, if they have any questions, or to get them professional help or support.

Having clear, honest, and open communication and providing reassurance can allow adults and children to begin to cope with the loss of a loved one. If you or a loved one needs additional support, call Harbor Behavioral Health for assistance.

25 SUNDAY Tea and Crafts - Ladies will enjoy a tea and learn a new craft on the historic battle grounds of Fort Meigs. 2-4pm.

Included with admission: $8/adults, $7/seniors, $4/students, free/ages 5 and younger. Fort Meigs, 29100 W. River Rd., Perrysburg.

419-874-4121. fortmeigs.org

29 THURSDAY Partners in Fun: Leaves - Children will have fun creating beautiful decorations for the upcoming fall season. For preschoolers with an adult. Registration required. 10-11am. $5. The 577 Foundation, 577 E. Front St., Perrysburg.

419-872-0305. 577foundation.org

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24 SATURDAY Cabin Fever Demonstration Day Watch and learn historic activities and traditions at the Log Cabin. Be sure to dress appropriately for the weather.

1-4pm. Wood County Historical Center & Museum, 13660 County Home Rd., Bowling Green 419-352-0967. woodcountyhistory.org Free

Wednesdays

Enrichment Day - Visit the zoo for a day full of enrichment encounters and watch your favorite animals enjoy learning in their exhibits. 10am-5pm (last admission at 4pm). $19/adults, $16/ ages 2-11 & 60+, free/2 and under. The Toledo Zoo, 2 Hippo Way. 419-385-4040. toledozoo.org

Park Playdate, Meet fellow moms while allowing the kids to play during this weekly Mothers’ Center of Greater Toledo sessions. 10-11:30am. White Park, 8499 Douglas Rd., Lambertville. motherscenter.net Free

STEM in the Park - Enjoy a familyfriendly day of hands-on fun, featuring engaging activities, take-home materials, a free lunch, and interactive displays of science, technology, engineering, and mathematics. 10am-2pm. Bowling Green State University, 1001 E Wooster St., Bowling Green. 419-372-2738. bgsu.edu Free

Story Time with Denise, Listen to an entertaining story followed by craft time. 3-4pm. Gathering Volumes, 196 E. South Boundary, Perrysburg.

567-336-6188 gatheringvolumes.com

Thursdays

Saturdays Family Movie Night, Bring a chair or blanket and enjoy a weekly movie under the stars in beautiful historic Perrysburg. Movies start at 8pm with cartoons shown 15 minutes before the movie starts. Visit website for movie titles. Saturdays through September.

8pm. Corner of Louisiana and 5th St., Perrysburg. visitperrysburg.com Free

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We’re looking for a committed graphic artist with a distinct graphic style and a impeccable command of design elements. (i.e. your taste in font usage is killer, you’re a wizard at sizing and placing art elements, you have an educated eye for design, etc.) You’re in your element leading a team and possess the ability to constructively critique others’ work. If you’re a talented art director type, hungry to set the design direction of each of our six publications, we would love to sit down and talk.

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