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Toledo’s Award-Winning Parent Newspaper Volume 27 • Issue 5 May 2019

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Must-see playgrounds and parks

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local moms share and celebrate their journey to motherhood

food fight: 28 Black Forest Café

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Book Nook: The World is Waking Up

By Lindsey Melden Spring has sprung!

Fun books to share with your family in this new season.

This month, we’re giving one lucky reader gifts she really wants this Mother’s Day. This prize package includes a Clevermade Wine Cooler, Marika workout wear, an Isabella Grace handcrafted necklace, Wowe Lifestyle organic produce bags and more!

Visit toledoparent.com to enter for your chance to win.

Summer Learning Loss is Real: 9 Fun Ways to Prevent It

By Kimberly Blaker Keep your kids learning and engaged when they aren’t in class.

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By Kimmie Rose Your lovable little Taurus is emotionally sensitive and caring for the environment. Taurus rules the five senses, so when they are hungry, tired, or ready to play, they will let you know.

This month, your little Taurus will be looking for extra nurturing as feelings of insecurity arise. Give them a little extra TLC so they can lift that veil of confusion that’s hanging over their head. Keep a soft blanket around so they can sit and fall into a cozy nap. Make sure you give them a safe place, maybe a blanket over a table where they can have a tent to hide in, or ask them if you can cuddle with them. Let them know you need their nice, warm, lovable, presence to calm you! If you are cold your little Taurus always produces warm energy from their body so it’s a winwin both ways. This month, snuggle time and quiet time will benefit your little bull!

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Remember when playing sports to wear proper protective gear & shoes, Dr. Shawn Brohl 419-866-6325

Open for the Season

Healthy Food, Good Cause

The Butterfly House at Wheeler Farms in Whitehouse is now open for the season (May-August). Containing more than 1,000 butterflies with many different species from North and South Americas and Asia, the facility was built with the idea of developing beautiful gardens in a controlled environment to exhibit butterflies to the general public.

Visitors will also learn about the life cycle of the butterfly and how to promote a healthy environment for them. It’s a great way for kids to get hands-on learning throughout the summer months.

The Butterfly House is open Monday-Saturday from 10am-4pm and Sunday from noon-4pm. Tickets are $8 for kids ages 4-11, $10 for ages 12+ and $9 for seniors.

Making the bed

Sleep in Heavenly Peace (SHP), a Northwest Ohio-based volunteerdriven organization has a simple mission— give beds to kids who do not have them. Currently, over 900 kids are waiting for a bed from SHP. Last month, Christine Senack (The Girl in the Glass City) hosted a Bed Build for SHP, and more than 50 volunteers came together to build 30 beds for local children.

For more information on SHP, or to get involved, call 419-482-8144 or visit SHPbeds.org.

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Flowers for a good cause

Need some pretty blooms this spring? Shop the Ability Center Flower Sale for hanging baskets, patio pots, and flats to contribute to a good cause. Proceeds from this flower sale benefit the Ability Center’s Life Skills Program, which hosts interactive classes and programs for disabled individuals ages 13-26. Life Skills classes include everything from problem solving and critical thinking to cooking/nutrition, self-advocacy, financial management and more.

Flower sale, Friday, May 10, from 11am-6pm and Sunday, May 11, from 9am-2pm. Ability Center, 5605 Monroe St., Sylvania.

Off of 475, Exit 8 6823 Spring Valley Dr. Holland, Ohio 43528 419-866-6325

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A great way to eat healthy and support a good cause — join Bittersweet Farm’s Community Supported Agriculture (CSA) Program. As a member, you can support Bittersweet’s mission of serving adults with autism.

Bittersweet individuals that work in the CSA program learn and develop agricultural skills each week, such as preparing the soil in raised beds, planting seeds, transplanting vegetables, watering, weeding, harvesting a wide variety of crops and packing produce in CSA boxes.

Bittersweet offers two sizes for the CSA: a Standard Share, $300 per season (spring, summer, fall) and a Petite Share, $200 per season. Spring produce includes mixed greens, kale, cabbage, herbs, root vegetables, and spring garlic. Summer produce includes broccoli, cucumbers, peppers, eggplant, onions, tomatoes, potatoes, squash, zucchini, celery, and kale.

Visit bittersweetfarms.org/csa to sign up.

TPD Will Serve Up Ice Cream this Summer

The Toledo Police Department will be adding a new vehicle to its fleet - an ice cream truck. Chief George Kral said officers will be handing out free ice cream as a way to build better relationships with Toledo citizens and increase community engagement. The charitable foundations of the Toledo Mud Hens and Toledo Walleye donated $22,000 for the truck, which should be on the streets at the end of May.

New Swim School Opens this Month Foster Care Agency Opens New Office

Ohio MENTOR Therapeutic Foster Care of Toledo has a new office at 5444 Airport Highway, Suite 3. Ohio MENTOR is part of the MENTOR Network, a national network of local health and human services providers offering an array of quality, communitybased services to adults and children with intellectual and developmental disabilities, brain and spinal cord injuries and other catastrophic injuries and illnesses. Additionally, this service caters to youth with emotional, behavioral and medically complex challenges.

Ohio MENTOR is currently looking for foster parents to fill a state-wide, increased need for qualified foster parents. Mentor Foster Parents have access to 24/7 on-call support, ongoing development opportunities, trainings and more.

Visit ohiomentorfostercare.com for more information.

This month, just in time for summer swimming, a new swim school opens its doors in Northwest Ohio. SafeSplash + SwimLabs Swim School, a 6,000 square foot facility, offers swim classes for all ages and abilities.

Students learn swimming through a curriculum built around the principles of safety, fun, and progressive skill development. Instruction teaches four basic swimming strokes, along with competition-style techniques.

Private, semi-private, and group instruction is available, along with adult classes, lessons for individuals with special needs and advanced training for triathletes and other elite swimmers.

The programs are offered year-round to students as young as 6-months-old.

Chris Peters, the former head coach of the University of Toledo’s women’s swim team, and his wife are opening the school in the Spring Meadows shopping center in Holland.

Call 419-370-2801 or visit safesplash.com for more information.

Fun at Funagin’s

Get ready, get set, go check out the new attractions now open at Funagin’s, a 50,000 square foot indoor family fun center in Sylvania.

Recently, Funagin’s completed major renovations to open a new roller rink, complete with state-of-the-art sound and lighting systems.

It’s the largest of its kind within Northwest Ohio. After skating, explore Skymaze, a 35,000 cubic foot climbing maze playground. Bounce, swing, slide, and climb your way through a variety of obstacles in one of the largest indoor playgrounds found in the Midwest. Funagin’s also has two outdoor paintball courses and an indoor laser tag facility. With so much to do under one roof, the whole family can have fun together. See their Facebook page for discounts and specials.

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2323 W Bancroft St, Toledo 419-531-1618 sfstoledo.org

Spring has arrived, which means summer isn’t far behind.

What will your kids do once school is out?

HORSE SHOW at the end

• Discounts for Multiple Kids or Sessions • 10am - 2pm • 4 Day Camps include Pizza Party on the last day.

419-779-0862 6635 Whiteford Rd. Ottawa Lake, MI Applications at: flyingchangehorsefarm.com

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Ages: For students entering Cost: $25-$75 Register: sfsknights.org/camps

Now is the time to plan for an active, engaging summer.

We’ve rounded up a variety of camps­— from sleep-away options to sports camps to fun on the stage— to provide something your child is sure to enjoy.

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The details: Camp dates: June 10-July 20 Camp times: Varies depending

grades 4 through 9

SUMMER RIDING CAMP

JUNE 10-12: $155 • JUNE 17-20: $215 JULY 1-2: $105 • JUNE 29-AUG. 1: $215 AUG. 5-8: $215 DAILY CAMP ACTIVITIES

St. Francis de Sales is gearing up for another great summer of camps. Each year, coaches and faculty members build upon previous years’ instruction to enhance campers’ experience. This year’s camps include Graphic Design Camp, Baseball Camp, Cyber Camp, Music Camp, Football Camp, Robo Camp, and much more! SFS camps allow students to explore their interests while encouraging them to “be who you are and be that well.” You can find more details online.

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’ Children s Discovery Center

Several Locations childrensdiscoverycenters.com

Hosted by the Children’s Discovery Center, Camp Discovery is a program designed to help children learn and grow during the summer months. This year, campers will have the opportunity to explore games from a unique perspective using the STEM educational approach. They’ll explore the design of video games and create their own coding, test the structural integrity of Jenga and learn comprehensive drawing and painting techniques used in game creation. At the end of the summer, children will have the opportunity to create and showcase their own game concept during the Arts and Games Festival.

The details: Camp dates: June 3-August 16 Camp times: Full day camps, with

care provided from 6:30am-6pm

Ages: Kindergarten graduates

through 4th grade

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childrensdiscoverycenters.com Other: Campers attend weekly field trips. Children’s Discovery Centers also have their own private recreation campus with a pool. Sibling discounts are available.

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The Toledo Zoo 2 Hippo Way, Toledo 419-385-5721 toledozoo.org

If your kids love animals, they’ll love the camps the Toledo Zoo offers this summer. There are 20 different topics covered over nine weeks of camp.

Summer Safari Camp is a great way for children to explore the Zoo while learning about nature, animals and conservation. Once the Promedica Museum of Natural History opens, the Zoo will also conduct special camps that explore venom, prehistoric animals, and the animals of Ohio.

The details: Camp dates: June 3-June 28;

July 8-August 9 Camp times: M-F 9am-noon or 9am-3pm Ages: Half-day camps for ages 4-5; full day camps for ages 6 to 15 Cost: Half Day: $135 members; $160 non-members and Full Day: $185-$300 members; $235-$350 non-members Register: toledozoo.org/camps Other: Bring a lunch and good walking shoes, and dress for the weather.

The Zoo provides two camp shirts, a daily snack, and a water bottle.

Wood County Park District

18729 Mercer Road, Bowling Green 419-353-1897 wcparks.org

Make the most of summer with nature, heritage and adventure at Wood County Park District. The park district is offering a variety of nature and farm camps to keep your children engaged in the great outdoors. Nature camps are filled with nature, active adventure, outdoor skills and more. Farm camp gives campers the experience of life on a 1930s farm.

The details: Camp dates: June 10-July 26 Camp times: 9am-noon and 1-4pm Ages: 5-15 Nature Camps: Trail Tikes, ages

5-6; Explorers, ages 7-8; Discoverers, ages 9-10; Adventurers, ages 11-12; and Voyagers, ages 13-15 Farm Camps: ages 7-8, ages 9-10, and ages 11-12 Cost: $60 Register: wcparks.org Other: Wear clothes for adventuring!

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Maumee Valley

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Country Day School

Police Athletic League Community Services Station 2145 N. Cove Blvd, Toledo 419-936-3444 toledopal.com

The Toledo Lucas County Police Athletic League (Toledo PAL) offers a variety of sports skills camps all summer long. Participants can choose from golf, soccer, basketball or baseball camps. There is also a one-week Crime Scene Investigation camp which will focus on hands-on activities with actual Toledo Police Department crime scene investigators. These camps are free for children entering third grade through age 18. Hurry— registration is already open!

The details: Camp dates: Camps run one week in

length, from June 10-August 16

Camp times: Camps are half-day:

9am-noon or 12:30pm-3:30pm

Ages: Entering 3rd grade to age 18 Cost: Free! There are no residency or

income restrictions.

Register: toledopal.com Other: Choose only one camp per child, either morning or afternoon session.

1715 S. Reynolds Rd, Toledo 419-381-1313 mvcds.org

School may be out for summer, but the learning doesn’t stop at Maumee Valley Country Day School. With a full, fun schedule of camps and classes offered for students in grades 1-12, you may have trouble deciding which ones to attend! From sports camps to STEM options, to musical classes and cooking camps, and everything in between, summer activities are varied, engaging and seemingly endless! Plus, care is available before camp from 7:30-9am and after camp from 3:30-5:30pm.

The details: Camp dates: Weeks of June 17 &

24; July 8, 15 & 22 Camp times: Half day: 9am-noon or 12:30-3:30pm; Full day: 9am-3:30pm Ages: Grades 1-12, depending on the camp Cost: Fees range from $139-$299 Register: mvcds.org or 419-381-1313 ext. 175 Other: Be sure to review the complete list online.

SafeSplash + SwimLabs Swim School

1510 Spring Meadows Dr. #D-100, Holland 419-370-2801 safesplash.com/ locations/holland

Specializing in providing swim lessons for children (and adults!) of all ages and abilities, SafeSplash + SwimLabs Swim School Holland helps all students attain their swimming goals.

The curriculum is structured around safety, fun, progressive skills, the four basic swimming strokes and competitive techniques.

The details: Camp times: Mon: 4-7pm; T, W,

Th: 9:30-11am, 4-7pm; Sat: 9am-noon

Ages: 6-months+ Cost: Varies Register: safesplash.com/locations/

holland

Other: See online for special Grand

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Imagination Station

1 Discovery Way, Toledo 419-244-2674 imaginationstationtoledo.org

No need to worry about the summer slump thanks to camps at Imagination Station, which offers STEM camps for kids ages 6-13 with four themes per age category. Whether you participate in Pirate-ology, Young MacGyver or Cardboard Creators (just to name a few— find the whole list online), your child will have fun while learning loads of cool stuff!

The details: Camp dates: Camps run weekly,

beginning June 3, at BGSU and the University of Findlay. Beginning June 10, camp locations change to Imagination Station.

Camp times: Full day with extended day from 8:30am-5:30pm.

Ages: Micro Molecules Camp, ages 6-8; MacroMolecules Camp, ages 9-13 Cost: $175/week for members; $200/ week for non-members Register: imaginationstationtoledo. org/workshops-camps/summer-camp Other: Campers need to bring a packed lunch. Don’t forget your SPF!

Flying Change Farms 6635 Whiteford Road, Ottawa Lake, MI 734-854-6405 flyingchangehorsefarm.com

Your child can learn the basics of horsemanship in a safe and fun environment The details: Camp dates: Weeks of June 10, 17;

July 1, 29 and August 6 Camp times: 10am-2pm Ages: 5 years and older Cost: $105-$215 Register:

flyingchangehorsefarm.com Other: Discounts available for multiple kids or multiple sessions.

Wear jeans and bring your boots!

Hunter’s Run

9241 Secor Road, Temperance, MI 734-856-2402 huntersrunmhja.com

Spend time outside enjoying 61 acres at Hunter’s Run Summer Camp. Kids will enjoy the safe, fun environment while receiving top quality equine training.

Camp includes a daily riding lesson, horse care, crafts and games. On the final day of each session, campers can showcase what they’ve learned through an exhibition intended for friends and family.

The details: Camp dates: June 12-August 15 Camp times: 9:30am-2pm daily, with

two, three and four-day camps available Ages: 4-12 Cost: $105-$215 Register: huntersrunmhja.com Other: Discounts offered for returning campers or families with multiple enrollments. Extended care is also available.

Heather Downs Country Club

3910 Heatherdowns Blvd, Toledo 419-385-0248 heatherdowns.com

Heather Downs Country Club is offering a Junior Golf Academy and Junior Golf Camp to teach children and teens ages 18 and under everything they need to know about the game of golf. The Golf Academy teaches about clubs, short game, chipping and putting, as well as rules of golf and course etiquette. The Junior Golf Camp teaches kids the necessary skills to play the game.

The details: Camp dates: April 27-May 5;

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West Side Montessori

YMCA of Greater Toledo

The fun and learning doesn’t stop during the summer at West Side Montessori. Here, the school partners with organizations and small businesses for a unique presentation, hands-on demonstration or a full-blown event that provides a one-of-a-kind experience.

With half-day and full-day options available for ages 13-months to 10years, there really is something for everyone. This summer’s camp theme is “Create Your Own Adventure.”

With numerous locations throughout the area, the YMCA is a perfect pick for summer camps. This year’s schedule boasts a wide variety of sports and specialty camps, as well as day and overnight camps.

7115 W. Bancroft St, Toledo 419-866-1931 montessoritoledo.org

The details: Camp dates: June 5-August 3 Camp times: Half-day and full

day options Ages: 13-months to 10 years Cost: Varies depending on the week.

Register: montessoritoledo.org Other: Bring a bagged lunch.

Various locations 419-729-8135 ymcatoledo.org

The details: Camp dates: Varies depending on

camp and Y location.

Camp times: Half day, full day and overnight options available. Times vary depending on the camp.

Ages: Camps open to kids ages 3-18 Cost: Varies by branch and by camp.

Register: ymcatoledo.org or your local Y. For overnight summer camps, visit ymcastorercamps.org or call (517) 536-8607.

Other: Some camps require a swimsuit, others a bagged lunch.

Special instructions for each camp can be found online.

+ With the combination of SafeSplash and SwimLabs, we take our families from “learn to swim” to “swim to win!”

SAFESPLASH

is the learn-to-swim (swim lessons) portion of our swim school.

Group lessons for SafeSplash are $20 per class with one lesson per week.

SWIMLABS

is the other half of our swim school which we focus on helping competitive swimmers, triathletes and masters swimmers swim faster. We do that through video analysis to provide instant visual feedback.

Pricing for Swimlabs varies so give us a call!

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OPEN IN MAY! 1510 SPRING MEADOWS DRIVE, #D-100, HOLLAND, OH 43528 419.370.2801

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Sylvania STEM Center Forte Music School 3208 W Sylvania Ave 419-4540-0070 fortemusic419.com

With more free-time available, summer is a great time to learn to play an instrument. At Forte Music School, lessons are available for all instruments and all ages. Your child can start playing during the summer and then continue lessons throughout the school year...and maybe for life!

The details: Class dates: Lessons and open en-

rollment are available year-round.

Class times: 30-minute lessons are

standard and can increase in time Ages: 4-years and older Cost: $90/month Register: ForteMusic419.com or 419-540-0070

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3315 Centennial Rd, Sylvania stemcenter@sylvaniastem.org sylvaniastem.org

Sylvania STEM Center is offering a variety of camps to ignite wonder and spark interest in Science, Technology, Engineering and Math. With camps like Exploratory STEM, LEGO WeDo Robotics, Building Your Own 3D Printer and Underwater ROV Exploration, it’s sure to be a summer of learning and adventure!

The details: Camp dates: June 3-August 2 Camp times: Varies—camps range

between 2-3 hours Ages: Entering grades 1-12 Cost: $125-$325, depending on the camp Register: sylvaniastem.org

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For their 18th year, Rosenbloom’s Farm will offer a fun and safe learning environment that allows campers to discover rural life. Participants will get the full “farm experience” by caring for animals, participating in crafts and games, and spending time in the garden. All of the farm’s animals (horses, llamas, goats, donkeys, bunnies, snake and more) are friendly and love interacting with children. Camp groups are relatively small, so be sure to register early. Camps run the week of June 24 and July 22 and 29.

If “movement” is your child’s middle name, consider signing them up for summer camp at Mini Motions Dance Center. Your young dancer will learn dance and tumbling, offered at a variety of levels. There is no registration fee for the summer programs and Mini Motions provides ballet and tap shoes when applicable.

2738 Shetland, Toledo 419-841-3320 rosenbloomsfarm.weebly.com

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2535 N Bolander Rd, Genoa 419-461-1298 countrylanetreefarm.com

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JUNIOR GOLF CAMPS FREE Junior Clinic Saturday June 1st

Summer Junior Golf Camps June 3rd- 6th, June 17th-20th July 8th -11th, July 29th-Aug 1st The HDCC Junior Golf Camp is held four weeks during the summer, Monday-Thursday.

Summer Junior Golf Academy Sat. June 8th - Sat. June 29th Sat. July 13th - Sat. Aug 3rd

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Looking for a hands-on camp experience where your child can experience life on the farm? Country Lane Tree Farm offers a Horse/Pony Camp or Farmer Camp. Kids will assist in dayto-day animal care (for goats, pigs, llamas, cows), learn about nature, butterflies and insects and even help plant the pumpkin crop. There’s also plenty of time for activities like hay climbs, water balloon play, crafts, scavenger hunts and more.

The details: Camp dates: June 5-August 2 Camp times: two, three and five-day

camps available.

All camps are from 9:30am-1pm Ages: Recommended for ages 5-12 Cost: $70-$250, depending on the camp Register: countrylanetreefarm.com Other: The Farmer Camp is new this year. Tuition includes a camp t-shirt and pizza party on the last day of camp. Find all the details online.

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The details: Class dates: July 8-25 Class times: Morning and evening

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Ages: 2-12 Cost: $65, ages 2-3; $75-$80 a ges 4-12 Register: 419-473-0999 Other: Find the full class s chedule online.

Camp Invention

Multiple locations throughout the Toledo Area 800-968-4332 invent.org/camp

Camp Invention®, a program of the National Inventors Hall of Fame®, is where children build 21st-century skills and transform their wild imaginations into epic creations. Campers in grades K-6 will question, brainstorm, collaborate and invent! Local educators will lead the innovative, hands-on STEM activities that build collaboration and creative problem-solving skills. Visit www. invent.org/camp or call 800-968-4332 to register. Use promo code PLAY15LISTING to save $15 (expires 5/10).

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Summer Comic Book Camp

Sylvania Area

Art Supply Depo, 29 South Saint Clair Street 419-720-6462 artsupplydepo.com

No matter their artistic ability, your child can create their own illustrative masterpiece this summer. This camp will explore the many methods used to create a comic book. Students will be guided in a 4-week exploratory process where they will learn the different aspects of writing, drawing, and producing a comic book.

The details: Camp dates: June 11-14; July

23-26

Camp times: 11am-1pm Ages: 10-18 Cost: $65 Register: artsupplydepo.com/

toledo-workshops/comic-book-classfor-kids-teens Other: Students will need to bring art supplies, including a sketch book, mechanical pencil and eraser and colored markers. You can find the complete list online.

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5440 Marshall Road, Sylvania 419-882-8415 sa-fs.org

Your kids can spend their summer days having fun outdoors, learning new things and meeting new friends at Sylvania Area Family Services Summer Day Camp. Each one of the nine weeks of camp includes themed weeks: Inventors Workshop, Lego Week, Fun and Fitness week, Backyard Science Week, Camp Miakonda Week, Water and Wheels Week, Heroes Week, Outdoor Adventure Week and Camp Rewind Week.

The details: Camp dates: June 10 - August 9 Camp times: 8:30am - 3:30pm Ages: Entering grades 1-6.

Cost: $75 registration fee, $50

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Y a d h T Bir ide gu Out-of-the-Box Birthday IdeaS

By Erin Marsh

2019

Make birthday parties easy-peasy by taking the party elsewhere! Check out these three outof-the box and affordable ideas for birthday celebrations. Do yourself a favor, avoid the setup and cleanup that comes with hosting your own party!

Aerial Yoga at Yogaja Yoga

3145 W. Central Ave., Toledo. contact@yogajayoga.com YogajaYoga.com. @YogajaYoga

Aerial students looking at life upside down at Yogaja Yoga

Make it a birthday party to remember by soaring at Yogaja Yoga in their aerial yoga hammocks!

Your private aerial yoga instructor can tailor the class to the needs and desires of the party, keeping things simple and fun for younger kids or teaching older children how to hang upside down. Gena Collier, Yogaja yoga and aerial instructor, shares, “Aerial is just fun— it feels like flying. It’s yoga with a cool prop, and with the help of the aerial silks, everyone can do an inversion!”

Parties can be scheduled for any weekday afternoon, weekend afternoon or evening. One hour of studio time with your own personal private instructor costs $150. For younger ages, a shorter class is often suggested, with remaining time to open presents or eat cake. Special music requests can also be included.

Gena adds, “I encourage my parties to contact me ahead of time to plan the perfect experience— how intense of a class, what kind of music would you want, what moves do you want to practice, will there be food, presents, etcetera.”

Private parties cost $150 for up to 15 participants and $10 per person, for each additional attendee. Aerial yoga can accommodate up to 14 total participants for older kids and up to 7 younger children accompanied by a parent (who can also participate).

For children who prefer to keep their yoga firmly rooted on the ground, regular yoga parties can fit up to 30 people at a time, including time for yoga games, yoga poses, breathing exercises, and, of course, final relaxation/meditation.

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Birthday guide:

party resources for parents WHERE to get THE CAKE

Cake Arts Supply

Michael’s Cafe & Bakery

2858 W Sylvania Ave, Toledo

101 Main St #7, Toledo

419-472-4959

419-698-2988

Cake in a Cup

7 Little Cupcakes

3144 Markway Rd, Toledo

1021 Sandusky St, Perrysburg

419-720-1104

419-252-0858

6801 Central Ave, Toledo 419-491-1104

Eston’s Bakery

Wixey Bakery 2017 Glendale Ave, Toledo 419-382-6684

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Kylie Jaffe celebrating with her animal friends at Indian Creek Zoo

Indian Creek Zoo 2744 Consear Road, Lambertville, MI. 734.224.0390. indiancreekzoo@aol.com.

Indiancreekzoo.com. @indiancreekzoo

Explore the world of animals up close with a birthday party at Indian Creek Zoo, just over the line in Michigan!

Invite 20 of your friends to experience camel rides and feeding the animals at the petting zoo, enjoy a private party area for birthday celebrations, and receive a gift for the birthday boy or girl.

Rachel Jaffe gushes, “We love Indian Creek Zoo! They gave us an up-close and personal, interactive experience with the animals [that] we haven’t had anywhere else.

[My daughter] got to feed a little monkey and play with baby goats that were just born that morning!”

Mother and teacher Catherine Sadowski echoes the sentiment: “Cooper (my son) had a birthday party there— we love Indian Creek Zoo— [and it] was such an amazing, upclose experience. It feels like you are walking through someone’s backyard! Every time we go, there is a new animal to see.”

For those who want to keep their festivities indoors, pay $250 ($225 for members) for up to 20 people, paying $10 for each additional person. The outdoor pavilion is slightly less at $200 ($175 for members) for 20 people and $10 for each additional person. Birthday party-goers can bring any food, drink (non-alcoholic), cake, ice cream and decorations that they choose.

Party times are weekends from 10:30AM to 1PM or from 2PM to 4:30PM. Choose to add on “animal encounters” for $50 to experience a few of Indian Creek’s “furry, feathered and scaly friends” up-close.

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Clara J’s Tea Room

healthy kids

219 West Wayne Street, Maumee. 419.897.0219. www.clarajsat219.com @ClaraJsTeaRoom

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Host a themed tea party for your child this year! From princess themes to Harry Potter, Clara J’s Tea Room offers something for all the little ones, ages 4 to 11.

Parents can select one of three party packages, ranging in cost from $115 to $175, and each package

children carefully or they may start nibbling on a

automatically includes two sandwich choices (selec-

sugar cube instead of dropping one into their tea!

tions include turkey and cheese, ham and cheese,

We went for “Princess Tea” one Friday afternoon,

traditional cucumber, peanut butter and jam, or

and the tables were set meticulously, with embroi-

cream cheese and jam), various kid-friendly sides,

dered linen and fine China, and the tall windows

such as pink lemonade or raspberry iced tea, and

provided the room with natural light. The owner

teacup cupcakes presented on a birthday pedestal

popped in to check on us, making sure we were

with candles.

happy with our meals and giving our girls free party

The “Vanilla” package ($115) includes all of the above plus an array of dress-up clothes. The “Strawberry” package ($145) adds on the option for children

hats for their tea party. It was a wonderful lunch spent with my 3-year-old and her friend.

Clara J’s is available for princess tea parties for

to decorate their own teacup hat to wear and take

smaller groups— or even parent/child— and for

home. The elite “Chocolate” package ($175) includes

birthday parties. Party packages include up to eight

everything listed plus a favor bag for each child.

children accompanied by two adults, and teas are

Clara J’s foods are impressive. You would never

available from 11am to 12:30pm, Tuesday through

imagine that a cream cheese and jam sandwich or

Saturday. Adult meals, taxes and gratuity are not

‘ants on a log’ could ever look so fancy and taste so

included in party package prices. Once attendence

delicious. The crustless sandwiches and sides arrive

meets capacity, the cost per additional child is

on a tiered, silver tray, complete with sprinkles. The

prorated.

tea arrived in a tiny, child-sized kettle. But watch your

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party resources

PLACES to PARTY Toledo Zoo

Funagin’s Family Fun Center 5340 Centennial Rd, Sylvania

2 Hippo Way, Toledo

419-517-1750

419-385-4040

FIND the PERFECT GIFT

Toledo Turner Gymnastics 26280 Glenwood Rd, Perrysburg 419-873-0511

Learning Express Toys

Rosenbloom’s Farm

5577 Monroe St., Sylvania 419-885-3959

2738 Shetland, Toledo

3100 Main Street, Maumee

419-841-3320

419-878-2446

Forest View Lanes

Kids Klothesline

2345 W Dean Rd, Temperance, MI

111 Louisiana Ave, Perrysburg

734-847-4915

419-874-5437

HobbyTown

Get Air Trampoline Park

5825 Monroe St., Sylvania

5055 Jackman Rd

419-517-4655

419-216-9216

Bowinkles

Toledo Metroparks

5627 Main St., Sylvania

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Country Lane Tree Farm

SPEND YOUR BIRTHDAY WITH US

Party Pack #1 $175.00

Take a Farm Animal Tour (apporx. 2 hours)

Includes feeding our real cow, holding baby chicks, ducks, and bunnies, a barrel train ride, a straw maze, and a pony ride.

Party Pack #2 $225.00

Includes everything from Pack #1 plus 2 large pizzas, beverages, chips and plates.

You bring the cake and the kids!

Each package price good for10 children and 11 adults!

Additional adults $5.00 • Additional children $10.00

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Teaching Kids Conversational Skills

By Kate Ingersoll

For many children it’s easy to strike up conversation or join a dialogue already in progress. Yet in today’s media-centered world, many kids, tweens, and teens are lacking in social skills. They can post pictures and communicate online, but real-time conversations often baffle them.

Deb Marinik, an Education Specialist with ProMedica, explains there are many reasons for this common challenge in today’s society. “The teenage years are angst-ridden and egocentric times, so it’s hard to effectively communicate because they’re primarily thinking about their own issues. This might adversely affect listening skills, which would definitely make them ineffective communicators.”

Start the conversation early “Encouraging positive communication skills should start very young,” advises Ms. Marinik. “Talk to your child, ask questions, and be interested in what they have to say.” She encourages parents to let go of judgment or unsolicited suggestions. “Together, they are a recipe for getting kids to clam up.”

Fundamental communication skills don’t come easily to some children, so parents can utilize TV shows and real-time events to demonstrate proper language usage and how to stay on topic. Parents can also model examples of how to start or end a conversation with basic phrases that are easy to remember.

Consistent, positive interaction is key. “Kids who are raised in a sharing and respectful environment will naturally be better at expressing their thoughts,” says Ms. Marinik. “Practicing good communication is something that needs to happen every day.”

Hang up the phone Now more than ever, cell phone addiction has become pandemic.

Parents and their kids both struggle with putting down their phones, so it’s no wonder conversation skills get lost in the shuffle. So how can adults find the balance between creating family togetherness and utilizing technology in a healthy way?

As a single mom of a 17-year-old, she says the best way to deal with cell

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Take baby steps by encouraging eye contact and selling “hello.”

Role-play introductions and answers to basic questions such as “How are you?”

Teach your child to ask simple, open-ended questions starting with “how” or “what.”

Remind your child that conversations are a twoway street, so in addition to speaking, it’s important to listen to the other person.

Model cell phone etiquette when talking with your child and encourage conversation that does not center on social media or the Internet.

Visit www.smilethebook.com/ smile-succeed-for-teens for more information about how to help your teen put down their phone and have successful conversations.

phone issues is to not provide one for her child in the first place. “I’m the mom and I’m the boss,” she smiles.

Because her son is not distracted by texting, tweeting, or posting, he has developed conversational skills that rival any adult. In turn, she models conscious listening and encourages her son to do the same.

For kids who already have a cell phone, it’s important for parents to teach them how to set clear boundaries. Having regularly scheduled times when the entire family goes “tech free” can be a great way to minimize distractions and encourage conversation.

Don’t give up The easiest way to practice communication skills is to do something fun together as a family. Everyone needs time away from their screens, especially tweens and teens, and even though it can be challenging to encourage conversation, parents should not give up.

“It’s important to remember that the tween and teen years are a confusing time,” says Ms. Marinik. “Never stop trying, no matter how frustrating it is to get monosyllabic responses. No one stays a teen forever, and kids need to feel unconditionally loved, even when they’re being difficult.”

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Let’s ! y a l P A roundup of must-see playgrounds and parks

By Emily Remaklus

Kenley, 8, Perrysburg

Winter is finally over and everyone is ready to soak in the sunshine and fresh air. For some free, and fun, activities, check out these great local playgrounds and parks to keep kids entertained.

And parents, don’t be surprised if you feel like playing along, too.

Farnsworth Park

8505 S River Rd., Waterville 419-779-6052 metroparkstoledo.com/ explore-your-parks/farnsworth Farnsworth Park’s playground is definitely unique and a ton of fun. This playground is relatively new, having opened in 2014. It was designed by artists who created play equipment mixed with natural-looking pieces of art that are built for play. For instance, kids enter the playground through a replica of a tree, and encounter animal statues throughout. This playground is not only fun, but artistically beautiful.

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Imagination Kingdom Playground

700 E. Oak St., Wauseon facebook.com/pages/ Imagination-Kingdom/238251962968579 Located in Reighard Park, Imagination Kingdom Playground is handicapped accessible, making it available to all children. Kids just need to bring their imagination here!

Designed like a castle, each child becomes a prince or princess as they walk through the entrance. Children can become a conductor on a train or even an outlaw in the Wild West as they explore the various settings and scenes in the playground. Also, this playground is made entirely of plastic and is completely fenced in, so no need to worry about splinters or anyone running off.

Fort Imagination Playground E. Boundary St. and SR 795, Perrysburg 815-622-6200 ci.perrysburg.oh.us

Tucked in beautiful Woodlands Park, Fort Imagination Playground is a bastion of fun. This huge community built playground is a great time for kids of all ages, with monkey bars, swings and a variety of different slides, including the ever popular tall twirly slides. For younger kids there is a smaller playground perfect for people their size. When, and if, the kids tire of the playground you can take a stroll through the flower gardens, visit the open field and fly a kite, or check out the 18 hole disc golf course.

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Strawberry Acres

950 S. McCord Rd., Holland 419-865-7104 hollandohio.com/strawberry-acres-park Strawberry Acres Park offers not one, but two playgrounds for your children’s enjoyment. One playground is specifically designed for toddlers, so you don’t have to worry about your littlest ones on the super tall slides. But for the older kids, the tall spinny slide is a sure hit! Other highlights of the park include the walking path, picnic areas with grills, and pickleball courts.

Oak Openings Metropark

4139 Girdham Rd., Swanton 419-360-9179 metroparkstoledo.com/features-and-rentals/ oak-openings-playground Oak Openings Metropark not only has awesome hiking and biking trails, but it also has a recently refurbished playground, located at Mallard Lake, which features some natural and unique aspects of Oak Openings. Kids can enjoy a twostory plastic oak tree that gives them an awesome view of the park and access to the big spinny tunnel slide. Also unique to this playground is a play hill with a tunnel and slides, an arch swing set, and a zipline. Right next to the playground is the Buehner Center, an indoor hands-on educational nature facility that kids can visit to learn more about nature in their own backyard.

Wildwood Metropark

5100 Central Ave., Toledo 419-270-7500 metroparkstoledo.com/ explore-your-parks/ wildwood Wildwood Metropark is a great place to spend a day. A huge hit, nature’s creatures are incorporated throughout to imbue a forest and field theme. Kids will love the merry-go-round and the multi-user disk swing which allows multiple kids to swing at once. The playground also includes four slides, rope bridges, monkeybars, and swings for all ages. Right next to the playground are two picnic shelters, perfect for a lunch break. A large field near the playground is great for kicking a ball around or playing baseball with friends.

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A Mother’s Love Three local mothers’ non-traditional entry to motherhood

By Erin Marsh

No matter how we become mothers, we can all agree on two things: one, motherhood is hard, and two, every mother’s love for her children is special.

Three Toledo-area mamas discuss their journey to motherhood. One is hoping to add her foster child to their forever family, another added a young boy to her family after their biological children were grown, and another had motherhood thrust upon her at a young age (and wouldn’t have it any other way).

The Northrup family with adopted son Yvan (middle)

Amy Northrup: From biological parent with grown children to mom of a toddler by adoption

Melissa, her two daughters, and their foster son (dad is taking the photo)

Melissa:

From biological parent to foster parent

Melissa and her husband have two beautiful, biological children together, Ryleigh (9) and Sydney (7), but Melissa explains she always had a “burden on her heart to foster,” and as her children grew older, that “tug did not go away.” She approached her husband about fostering children, and to her surprise, he replied that “he felt like it was something they were supposed to do.”

After the time-intensive screening process, Melissa and family received “the call” within a few weeks: a newborn baby girl, who stayed with them for only 6 weeks before the baby’s biological grandmother gained custody rights.

In January of 2018, Melissa explains, “We got the call for the little guy we have now, and we absolutely love him like our own son. That’s been a cool thing with being both a biological mother and a foster mother: the love we instantly felt for this little boy was no different than our feelings for our biological daughters.”

After more than a year together, Melissa would love if the 18-month old baby boy (whose name we cannot release) can join their “forever family,” but she clarifies, “With foster care, there is no guarantee that fostering will turn into adoption….It’s an emotional roller coaster. We would adopt him in a heartbeat if that’s what was best and needed for him, [but] the main goal [of the foster care system] is reunification with the biological family.”

“I don’t know any way to shut off my heart from loving them with that full mother’s love,” admits Melissa. “You hear and see things--as far as the biological family goes--and it’s hard not to sometimes question, ‘How can reunification be best for the child?’”

For those considering fostering, Melissa urges, “If you have that tug on your heart, fostering has been so worth it. There’s a lot of heartache that goes along with being a mom to a foster baby, but the joy surpasses that. Even if our little guy isn’t with us forever, we can’t imagine him not being a part of our family forever...even if he’s not with me every day. As the saying goes, ‘everything worth doing has risk to it.’”

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Amy Northrup thought her days of watching young children were over.

After all, her three biological children are grown: Abigail is 30, Tripper 28, and Victoria 26, However, life had different plans for the Northrup family. As part of their church’s mission work, they accepted a young boy from Africa into their home in order to help him with medical needs. Yvan, who was just a toddler at the time, was born with clubbed feet and needed multiple surgeries/casts to correct his feet and allow him to walk.

Amy reminisces, “He was with us for about 9 months, and then he went back to Africa, [which] was heartbreaking. We were under the impression that he was going to have a life over there, and we knew that he was never ours... we just hoped he would remember us.”

However, Yvan returned to a single mother who “couldn’t raise him.” She adds, “Yvan got malaria, and his mother wasn’t getting the medicine for his malaria [because] she had spent all the money and used all the provisions we had sent them.”

Long story, short, Amy says, “The mom asked us to raise him.” Originally the plan was for another family in their church to adopt Yvan, but that family had foster children and received the opportunity to adopt siblings, and “they thought adding another child would be too much.”

Amy recalls, “We found that out and sat on it for about a month. Then our house burnt down. It was like God slapping us in the face, saying ‘If you have to do this, you can do this.’ We figured if we could handle our house burning down, then we could handle raising another child. He had been through enough in his short little life and we didn’t want to add more trauma to his already difficult childhood.”

The Northrups adopted Yvan when he was 3--he’s now 6--and starting over again has had it’s challenges. Amy admits, “Knowing what I have ahead of me is hard because it’s easy now. ‘Little kids, little problems. Big kids, big problems.’”

“All my friends, they sleep in, they do what they want to do. Now I’m back at ground zero--I’m looking for a babysitter, and I haven’t paid a babysitter in so many years! Even the rules at school are different, and Yvan goes to the same school my kids went to. But God gives you something for a reason. You kind of have to take an easier attitude...it is what it is. And Yvan is a labor of love... he’s a gift.”

Alaa Mahmoud:

From aunt to mother

Alaa, who is only 20 and an education major at the University of Toledo, admits that after taking on many of the parental duties for her 6-year-old nephew, Ibrahim, she hesitates about wanting kids of her own. She laughs, “Honestly, to tell you the truth, after getting a feel for what you need to do and how you need to do it, I don’t want to do it all over again! Someday maybe I would, but I’m definitely not in any rush.”

Alaa’s brother, Yousef, and his ex-wife divorced shortly after Ibrahim was born. Ibrahim’s mother moved to Minnesota, leaving Yousef with all of the parental responsibilities. Yousef and Ibrahim moved back in with his parents (Ibrahim’s grandparents) and, Alaa explains, “Out of necessity, I became Abe’s mom. I didn’t sign up for this, but I wouldn’t change it.” “[Abe’s biological mom] gets him for holidays, but she only comes and gets him when it’s convenient for her, so she only sees Abe about two weeks out of the year,” confesses Alaa. “Yousef works a lot, from about 4PM to 2AM, but on his days off, he spends all of his time with Abe, and he helps as much as he can when he’s home…but he doesn’t have time to be with Abe 24/7, like any other father trying to make money for his family.”

Alaa and her mom, Ibrahim’s grandma, share traditional mother duties, but Alaa explains, “My parents are getting older, and it’s hard for [my mom] to get up in the morning. She did that for years with six kids! She doesn’t need to do that with another kid.”

“So instead of sleeping in, I get up and do it,” Alaa continues. “I get Abe up in the morning, shower him, get him ready for school and on the bus or sometimes drive him. I put him to bed at night. I do all the school stuff, I went to his last conference because my mom was on vacation. I’m the one that keeps in touch with Abe’s teacher. My mom has five boys of her own and helps my dad with work, so she can’t do it all.”

Assuming the role of mother has forced Alaa to mature faster than many of her peers, and despite Ibrahim and Alaa. realizing that motherhood is “a lot of hard work,” she says, “It’s all worth it in the end....watching him succeed and do well, seeing when he’s being good and bad, and watching him grow. I like looking back.”

“It’s different when you have your own kids, but it doesn’t matter if it’s your own kid or your family member or a child through adoption, it’s all the same amount of work...and it all requires so much patience,” reflects Alaa. “In the end though, you have someone you helped raise. You see all of your hard work in that one person.”

FAILURE IS AN OPTION! It sounds counter-intuitive to suggest that parents should allow their children to fail, but hear me out.

Parents often want to protect their children from “the mistakes I made.” This is especially true of children past the pre-school age.

Of course, parents have absolute responsibility to keep their children physically safe, but robbing them of the opportunity to work through disappointment and perceived failure deprives them of the opportunity to build resilience and confidence, of their ability to handle life.

Protecting children from the consequences of their behavior sends several messages. First, “you need me to handle this for you.” Next, “you do not need to take responsibility for your actions.” And, ultimately,” I’m willing to sacrifice your selfesteem so you aren’t hurt.”

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Campaigning with Kids

Moving Toledo forward… don’t forget strollers and snacks

By Sam Melden

Sometime last year when I brought up the idea of running for local office again to my children I wasn’t quite sure what they might say. Would they respond like I was asking them to go feed the cat, or like I was taking them to the movies? The truth is, we had a lot of fun on the campaign trail in 2017. The parades were fun (they liked the t-shirts and stickers), and we even made going door-to-door a fun activity. But running for office is a lot of work. So, one day I asked “do you think we should try again to run for City Council?”

My oldest chimed in first “Of course!

You were so close last time!” Then, not surprisingly, the younger two followed their big sister’s lead. It made me happy to hear their joyful, encouraging and excited responses.

Running for office Now, as we get closer to getting the 2019 campaign off the ground my wife and I are reminded of the challenges of running for office with small children.

Often people talk about the undertaking of campaign life as an all-encompassing endeavor that is mentally and emotionally taxing. That is true concerning campaigns and, as all of us in households with kids also know, it is also a great description of parenting life. Parenting takes all of our energy. Every day brings new challenges and obstacles and most must be dealt with immediately. The truth is, raising kids, and running for office can be very similar at times. While it may seem that these two commitments don’t quite fit together, I want to share a few good moments we discovered while raising small children and running for local office.

Parenting and campaigning together First, whether it is running for office, starting a business, or going back to school to pursue another degree while raising a family, I believe it is important to bring the kids with us along the way.

The activities we engage in as a family

have a formational effect, not only with each of us individually, but also for the entire family unit. Including our children in what we do as parents matters.

Including them allows us to spend more time with them and they learn, first hand, things that are important to their parents.

When we bring the kids along, we introduce them to the issues we are trying to solve, allowing them to meet the very communities we are seeking to serve. This continues to involve them in the work of repairing the world, and serving our community, where we work and live.

More specific to campaign life, when I bring my children along on the campaign trail, and include them in the problems we are trying to solve, we also provide a picture of what political activity looks like. When I meet someone on their front porch who isn’t interested in voting for me, but we can still have a meaningful exchange about what our community needs and how to move

“Who’s a good swimmer?” I find myself asking that question every day to even my littlest swimmers. As an Infant Swimming Resource (ISR) Certified Instructor, I teach one-to-one lessons to children as young as 6 months through 6 years to become Aquatic Problem Solvers. Since becoming certified in 2017, I have taught over 300 children using the ISR method. Using sensory-motor learning techniques, the ISR method is the safest and most comprehensive self-rescue™ swim lessons available.

Toledo forward, we help dilute all too common current perceptions of political interactions that our kids are surrounded by. Community isn’t predicated upon agreement. Our neighborhoods aren’t beautiful places to live because everyone agrees. And, when I knock on doors with my kids in tow, I’m often showing them that very thing.

So, this year, as I head out on the political path again, I’m bringing my kids along, including them in this service to the community, and hoping to show them what our democracy has to offer.

Someday, and through whatever challenges my daughters decide to take on, I hope they’ll bring me along too.

Editor’s Note: The author ran unsuccessfully for Toledo City Council in 2017, finishing eighth with the top six vote getters elected to Council.

He is currently campaigning for the Toledo City Council District 5 seat in the forthcoming 2019 election.

What is an Aquatic Problem Solver? This is a child that has the skills to problem-solve should they find themselves alone in the water. ISR lessons give children the confidence and competence to use their self-rescue™ skills to navigate the water in any situation.

May is Water Safety Awareness month. Did you know that according to the CDC, drowning is the number one cause of accidental death for children 4 and under? Even more astounding, 86% of children who drown are fully clothed. This means those children and their parents had no intention of swimming that day. ISR’s mission, that “not one more child drowns” is something that I work diligently year-round to make a reality throughout Northwest Ohio. ISR lessons add another layer of protection of water safety awareness.

LAYERS OF PROTECTION INCLUDE: • Constant Eyes On your child • Pool Fencing around any open body of water including pools, ponds, ditches • Alarms on doors and gates to signal if a child breeches the area • High Quality Swim Lessons Let’s break these down. Constant Eyes on a child seems like a no-brainer, but it only takes seconds for a child to find the water alone. Cell phones, digital media and other children consistently take our attention away. Anyone that has had a toddler knows just how quickly they can get themselves into a situation they are unprepared for. Though laws once required 6foot walls, Pool fencing is unfortunately no longer regulated. Many backyard neighborhood pools have easily scaled fencing or none.

Children love to climb and are so curious. Alarms on doors and gates leading to water alert parents and care-givers that a child has escaped. The fastest toddler is always the one you have just told to STOP! Finally, what exactly are high quality swim lessons? Parents Preventing Childhood Drowning states that high quality swim lessons should include an emphasis on respect for the water and one-to-one lessons by CPR certified and academically trained instructors. ISR instructors undergo rigorous hands-on training and recertifications.

Young children should know how to self-rescue by independently rolling back to a float to breathe. Older children should be able to swim-float-swim to reach safety.

I often ask parents, “If your child fell into the water what would they do?”

Most parents hesitate and respond, “I’m not sure.” If a parent isn’t sure what their child would do, then the swim lessons are NOT High Quality!

ISR parents are the best testimony for other parents to better understand the impact these lessons can have. Bill N. states, “Our 1-year old twins had a wonderful ISR experience with Miss Kym! She was very caring and focused on the twin’s individual tendencies, idiosyncrasies, and personalities to best teach them the skills necessary to survive an aquatic accident. She individually tailored their lessons to their cognitive and physical learning abilities.”

KYM CRAGEL IS A CERTIFIED ISR INSTRUCTOR, HOLDS A DEGREE IN EDUCATION AND A MASTER’S IN SPORT PSYCHOLOGY.

Please visit her website www.SwimwithKymISR.com to learn more about ISR self-rescue™ lessons or email her at k.cragel@infantswim.com

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BLACK FOREST CAFÉ

Oak Shade Grove 3624 Seaman Rd. Oregon 43616 419-593-0092 Mon-Fri: 11am-9pm blackforestcafe.net

Herzlich willkommen!

Welcome….enjoy a little taste of Germany

The Short Course

By Karen L. Zickes

Through the years I’ve denoted several restaurants as “hidden gems” when referring to great little establishments many people may not even know exist.

The kids and I recently discovered another little “hidden gem.” And when I say “hidden”, well, I mean that literally.

Over the river and through the woods A couple years back when searching on the internet I remember seeing something about the Black Forest Café in Oregon. As I had never heard of the Cafe previously, I was intrigued by the photos and committed to “ stop in one day.” It took us awhile, but we finally got there.

You may be familiar with the German/American Festival, established only, say, 41 or 42 years ago! The largest ethnic festival in Northwest Ohio, it is held at Oak Shade Grove on Seaman Rd. in Oregon. And the beautiful park, filled with lots and lots of trees, is actually private property. But Monday through Friday way in the back of that parkland you will find a quaint German restaurant, nestled in the woods, that opened to the public seven years ago.

Old World atmosphere Restaurants serving Italian and Mexican fare are plentiful around town. Not the case with German food. Thoughts of potato pancakes and spaetzle danced in 28

my head as we made our way over the river to the Cafe that resembles an Old World chalet. Step inside and cross the globe. The large wooden light fixtures, stone fireplace, grand cuckoo clock, and countless collectibles from Germany will no doubt make you excited for what comes next……authentic German fare!

One of the things I loved most about our visit was our great dinner conversation discussing Germany and other European countries, including their different cultures and customs. I even briefly allowed a phone out at the table (making an exception to our family rule) so we could look at the map and see exactly where all the countries were located.

According to the manager of the “front of the house”, Sue Bigelow, the restaurant is run by seven societies. These local organizations might be dedicated to preserving and promoting German song, promoting German and Bavarian culture in Toledo, or even preserving the culture and music of Switzerland.

Authentic German favorites As you would expect, the menu is comprised of countless German options, joined by some great stand-by favorites like Ruebens, BLTs, veggie burgers, patty melts, and more.

The kids and I started with a couple soft pretzels served with a Bavarian cheese spread. We also gobbled up the

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Kid-friendly: Yes. To avoid wait: Friday nights are the busiest.

Noise level: Moderate.

Bathroom amenities: No changing station.

High Chairs: Yes. Got milk? Yes. Kids’ menu? Yes. Allergy info: No peanut oil is used.

Make server aware of all allergies at time of ordering. potato pancakes served with sour cream and applesauce. They were reminiscent of the ones my dad used to make.

According to Sue Bigelow, the Jägerschnitzel is very popular -- a thinly pounded pork cutlet, freshly breaded and fried crisp then covered with Jäger gravy consisting of mushrooms, bacon, onions, and red wine. I opted for the Hübnerschnitzel a similar dish, but made with chicken and served with a different style gravy or lemon wedges.

Of course, I had German potato salad and delicious spaetzle for my sides. The Cafe boasts three different kinds of wurst (sausages). And as you might expect, the

Bottom Line:

Black Forest Café has quite the selection of beer.

My youngest literally annihilated a HUGE Black Forest Burger. It was a third of a pound burger topped with two slices of smoked bacon, lettuce, tomato, fried egg, and Weisswurst served on a huge pretzel bun. Delish. The Perch sandwich and BLT were enjoyed at the table as well. But if you crave chicken paprikash, it’s only served the third Friday of the month. If your little ones eat much less than my growing boys, they offer a basic kids’ menu for those 12 and under for only $4.50.

Hidden off the road amidst a “forest”, you will find the Black Forest Café, with a taste of the Old World charm and authentic German fare. It’s one of the only places around town where you can enjoy a large selection of German food and your family will love the atmosphere. For the less adventurous you are safe with a kids’ menu that will please even the picky eaters. Take note it is only open Monday-Friday.

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All calendar events are subject to change, cancellation and limited size. Calling ahead for confirmation is recommended.

1 WEDNESDAY Opening Day at the Butterfly House - Visit Wheeler Farms and the Butterfly House, a climate controlled facility designed to attract thousands of native and migrating butterflies. $8-$10. Under 3 is free! 10am-4pm. Wheeler Farms, 11500 Obee Rd., Whitehouse.

419-877-2733. wheelerfarms.com Homeschool Workshops Kids ages 7-12 will learn about science and how lights and electricity work!

Reservations. 10:30am-noon. $12-$17 (plus admission.) Imagination Station, 1 Discovery Way. 419-244-2674. imaginationstationtoledo.org

Register for Youth Tennis Club The Toledo Parks and Rec. Department invites youth ages K-9th grade to enroll in a summer tennis club which runs Tuesdays June 4- 25. Last day to enroll is May 17. $20. 5:30-6:30pm (K-5) and 6:30-7:30pm (Grades 6-9). Harry Kessler Park, 2460 Ottawa River Rd. 317-941-3509. midwestteamtennis.com Westgate Farmers Market The outdoor market begins on May 1st and continues through the month of October. Take advantage of the beautiful weather at this outdoor market, where you’ll find fresh local produce and other products from regional vendors. 3-7pm.

Westgate Farmers Market, 3301 Secor Rd. 419-255-6765. toledofarmersmarket.com

2 THURSDAY Disability Support Group - Meet with other families to share stories and available resources. Meets every first Thursday.

6-7pm. Advent Lutheran, 6735 Sylvania Ave., Sylvania.

419-882-3701. ccsohio.org Free St. Francis Musical - The spring musical “42nd Street” a musical review of the hits of Broadway. $12-$15. 7:30pm. Also Friday and Saturday, 5/3 and 5/4. 3pm.

Sunday, 5/5. St. Francis de Sales, 2323 W. Bancroft St. 419+531-1618. sfstoledo.org Little Scientist Workshop “States of Matter” invites young children ages 3-5 into the world of science.

What is matter and how does it look and feel? $5-$7. 11:30am-12:15pm.

Imagination Station, 1 Discovery Way. 419-244-2674. imaginationstationtoledo.org Wine & Design Night - Stop by Majestic Oak for a chance to decorate a garden planter. Jeffers Greenhouse will be on hand with plants and herbs for purchase. Prices vary. 6:30-8:30pm. Majestic Oak Winery, 13554 Mohler Rd., Grand Rapids.

419-875-6474. majesticoakwinery.com

3 FRIDAY Free Admission Friday - Visit the Historical Museum for free! The exhibit “For Comfort & Convenience” highlights the history of Ohio’s poor farms. Explore the grounds at your leisure. 10am-4pm.

Wood County Historical Museum, 13660 County Home Rd., Bowling Green. 419-352-0967. woodcountyhistory.org Free Apollo 11 - Visit the Appold Planetarium for a multimedia look at the Apollo 11 space mission in commemoration of the 50th anniversary. $4-$5. 7:30pm.

Additional showtimes Fridays and Saturdays in May. Lourdes University, 6832 Convent Blvd., Sylvania.

419-517-8597. lourdes.edu/planetarium

Magic of May - This program for kids 3-5 years will have fun celebrating May Day outdoors, singing, dancing and exploring. 10am. Olander Park, 6930 Sylvania Ave., Sylvania.

419-882-8313. olanderpark.org Free 10 Minute Plays - Around 200 entries were submitted for the Tree City Film contest while just under 30 plays were selected. The audience will be treated to three performances consisting of nine original one-act plays, written by community members. $12. 7:30pm.

Friday, 5/ 3 - Sunday, 5/5. Church 3TwentyOne, 5845 Centennial Rd., Sylvania. 419-517-0118. sylvaniaarts.org

Grand Opening of the Toledo Zoo Museum of Natural History

Friday, May 31, 10:30am-5pm Toledo Zoo, 2 Hippo Way Bring the family to the Zoo for the grand unveiling of the newest attraction. Explore the realistic nature and animal exhibits from the Black Swamp Region and beyond!

Opening ceremony begins at 10:30am in front of the museum.

Admission to the Toledo Zoo varies.

419-385-5721. toledozoo.org

Touch A Truck

Saturday, May 11, 10am-2pm Epworth United Methodist Church, 4855 W Central Ave. This is the free event all kids will love!

Epworth United Methodist Church is hosting a Touch A Truck event on Saturday, May 11, from 10am-2pm.

The parking lot will be filled with vehicles of all shapes and sizes that kids can climb a board. Kids will have fun honking horns and pretending to drive all kinds of cars and trucks.

Sensory friendly times are from 11-11:30am and 12:30-1pm. Free

Wild Kratts LIVE 2.0 Activate Creature Power!

Friday, May 10, 6:30-8pm Stranahan Theater, 4645 Heatherdowns Blvd, Toledo

If you have a Wild Kratts fan in your house, don’t miss out when Kratt brothers Martin and Chris come to town live. Wild Kratts LIVE 2.0 Activate Creature Power takes over the Stranahan Theater on Friday, May 10. Martin and Chris will be live on stage to share amazing ‘Wow, facts’, activate creature powers and face a comic villain. Join them to help bring the animals of the creature world to safety once again. Tickets are on sale and range from $30-$100.

4 SATURDAY Family Movie Day - Spend the afternoon watching The Force Awakens on the big screen with the family. 2-4pm.

Maumee Library, 501 River Rd., Maumee. 419-259-5360. toledolibrary.org Free American Girl Tea - Kids will have a blast enjoying snacks with their American Girl Dolls. $10 adults, $15 children.

1-3pm. Perrysburg First Church, 200 W. 2nd St., Perrysburg.

419-874-1911. facebook.com/ perrysburgfirstchurch

Healthy Kids Day - Bring the family for an afternoon of physical challenges, STEM games, and healthy snacks.

2-4pm. Sylvania JCC/YMCA, 6465 Sylvania Ave., Sylvania. 419-885-4485. ymcatoledo.com Free Pride Mini-Con - Mark your calendars for Pride Mini-Con, a day of workshops and lectures aimed to inform and empower members of the LGBTQ+ community hosted by Pride Toledo. Family friendly! Noon-6pm. Collingwood Arts Center, 2413 Collingwood Blvd.

419-244-2787. toledopride.org Free Kids in the Kitchen - Younger kids and an adult will craft homemade mac n cheese, chicken nuggets and monster cookies together. Yummy! $50 per couple, $25 per additional child.

11am-1pm. Foodology, 2059 W. Laskey. foodologytoledo@gmail.com. foodologytoledo.com

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Plant Exchange - Stop by the southend greenhouse for a plant exchange and gardening meetup. Three plants will be given out per visitor. Bring something to swap and you may be able to choose more plants. Get connected to the organic community. 9-11am. Ohlman’s Market, 3901 Hill Ave. 419-354-9050. facebook.com/wcplantexchange Free

5 SUNDAY

8 WEDNESDAY Bowling Green Farmers’ Market The market will move outdoors to its summer location on Main Street. Shop local produce, baked goods, crafts and more. Visit the market every Wednesday from 4-7pm. Farmers’ Market, 201 S. Main St., Bowling Green.

419-354-4332. bgfarmersmarket.org Free

9 THURSDAY

Mom to Mom Sale - Shop gently used baby and kids items from strollers to books. Food trucks will be on site. American Legion #468, 5580 Centennial Rd., Sylvania. 419-882-9080. facebook.com/sylvaniapost468 Free Cinco de Mayo Fun Run - Sign up to run the 5k or family friendly 1 mile fun walk. $10-$25. 9am-noon. Adelante, 520 Broadway St. 419-244-8440. adelantetoledo.org

6 MONDAY Star Wars Day - Costumes are welcome at this everything Star Wars event. Kids will enjoy snacks and games inspired by the Star Wars universe.

6-7:30pm. King Road Library, 3900 King Rd., Sylvania.

419-259-5380. toledolibrary.org Free

Busy Birds - This Eco Discovery class for kids 3-5 years will listen to a story about birds and go for a walk, searching for signs of spring. 10am. Olander Park, 6930 Sylvania Ave., Sylvania.

419-882-8313. olanderpark.org Free

Easter Lecture with Father Bacik Father Jim Bacik will discuss the Virgin Mary, the Apostles and other inspirational stories from the Bible in his lecture “Developing an Easter Spirituality with Guidance from Mary of Magdala.” $10 in advance. $15.

5:30-7pm. Sylvania Franciscan Village, 6832 Convent Blvd., Sylvania.

419-824-3533. sylvaniafranciscanvillage.org

10 FRIDAY Petals for a Purpose - The Ability Center will host a two day flower sale to benefit the Life Skills Program offered at the Center. Hanging baskets, potted plants and seedlings will be offered. Prices vary. 11am6pm. And 9am-2pm, Saturday May 11. The Ability Center, 5605 Monroe St., Sylvania.

419-855-5733. abilitycenter.org Mom’s House Benefit - Join Mom’s House for an evening of appetizers, raffles, auctions and a cash bar, all presented in the Doc Suess theme, “Oh, the Places You’ll Go.” $75. 6pm. The Pinnacle, 1772 Indian Wood Circle, Maumee. 419-241-5554. momshousetoledo.org/events

11 SATURDAY 41st MVCDS Auction - The event A Portrait of Us will feature a live auction, dinner party and a chance to win a trip to the Florida Keys, all to benefit programing at the school. $100. 6pm.

Maumee Valley Country Day School, 1715 S. Reynolds Rd. 419-381-1313. mvcds.org Super Hero Carnival - Bring the kids to the carnival, costumes welcomed!

Horseback rides, a petting zoo and more are planned for the afternoon.

Noon-2pm. Christ Presbyterian, 4225 W. Sylvania Ave. 419- 475-8629. facebook.com/cpctoledo Free Maker’s Mart - The bi-annual festival floods the streets with shoppers, artisan crafters and food trucks. Browse the 300+ artist booths inside and out at Handmade. $1. 10am-7pm. Handmade Toledo, 1717 Adams St. 419-214-1717. handmadetoledo.com

Schedel Community Festival Visit the arboretum and gardens at Schedel during Community Day Festival.

Food and craft vendors will be on site.

Live music, hay rides and kids activities are free all day. Bring a non-perishable food item for donation. 10am-2pm.

Schedel Gardens, 19255 W. Portage River South Rd., Elmore. 419-862-3182. schedel-gardens.com Free Spring Into Summer Fest Come one, come all to a fun summer festival featuring carnival games, food trucks, games and more. Noon-4pm. Joe Brown Park, 150 W. Oakland St. 419-245-3388. toledo.oh.gov Free

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May Flowers - The class will take a walk and learn about nature while planting seeds and enjoying a snack together. For ages 3-5 years. Olander Park, 6930 Sylvania Ave., Sylvania.

419-882-8313.olanderpark.org Free Mini Explorers Club - Kids 3-5 years will learn and play together. Admission varies.

2-3:30pm. Imagination Station, 1 Discovery Way. 419-244-2674. imaginationstationtoledo.org

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Art Loop Toledo - May’s Art Loop theme “Craft and Culinary” will highlight local food purveyors along with the usual street performances and musical acts.

Venues vary. Shuttles are $1.25 and offer unlimited stops. 5:30-9pm.

Downtown Toledo. theartscommission.org/artloop Free

18 SATURDAY Hensville Inflatable Theme Park Get downtown for a ballgame and bouncy house fun. Admission is free with a game day ticket to the Mudhens. 3:30-6pm.

Hensville, 406 Washington St. 419-725-4367. hensvilletoledo.com

19 SUNDAY Blue Ribbon Plant Sale Stop by Secor for a plant sale featuring plants and wildflowers native to the Black Swamp Region. Take home some seedlings and get gardening with the family. Prices vary. 10am-2pm. Secor Metropark, 10001 Central Ave., Berkey.

419-407-9700. metroparkstoledo.com

26 SUNDAY Kids’ Kilometers Run - The Toledo Roadrunners will host a kids only run at Fossil Park. Races vary from .5 kilometer dash for 5 and under, 1 kilometer run for ages 6-8 years, and a 2 kilometer run for ages 9-12 years. Register by 5/17. $5-$10.

Fossil Park, 5675 Centennial Rd., Sylvania.

419-882-8313. facebook.com/toledorrrc

30 THURSDAY Creepy Crawlers - Bring the youngsters on a guided hike in search for all things creepy! The group will move at a slow pace, uncovering logs and rocks and peering into the tall grasses. Register. 6-7pm.

Westwinds Metropark, 9918 Geisser Rd., Holland. 419-407-9700. metroparkstoledo.com Free Free

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Visiting Artist at Family Center Artist and educator Burggraf-Murphy will visit the TMA Family Center and will show kids how to create colorful artwork. Kids will be able to create their own artwork using inspiration from the class. 6-7pm. Toledo Museum of Art, 2445 Monroe St. 419-255-8000. toledomuseum.org Free

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Mother’s Day Events 4 SATURDAY Mother’s Day at Fangboner Farms - Activities at the farm will include an arts and crafts planting project, customizable mindfulness baskets composed from herbs and teas grown at the farm and open farmers’ market at children’s activities. Prices vary.

10-11:30am. Fangboner Farms, 1179 S. Crissey Rd., Holland.

567- 703-6191. fangbonerfarms.com

5 SUNDAY Mother’s Day Make & Take Gifts from Kids - Kids can choose to make a paper corsage or a painted potted succulent for the holiday! $10. 1-4pm.

Our Studio with Olive M’Lou, 3142 Markway Pl. 734-751-2698. ourstudiowitholivemlou.wordpress.com

12 SUNDAY Mother’s Day Brunch & Free Admission - Moms get free admission to the Toledo Zoo if accompanied by one or more children. In addition, a Mother’s Day Brunch will be served at the Malawi Center. Choose from 9am and 11:30am.

Members $35-$40. Non-members $40$45. Reservations for the brunch are for 9am and 11:30am. Admission to the Toledo Zoo varies. 10am-5pm.

2 Hippo Way. 419-385-5721.

marketplace LINE CLASSIFIEDS: Only $20 per month for 20 words or less. Each additional word is 40 cents each and any artwork will be $5 extra.

DISPLAY CLASSIFIEDS: Display classifieds with a box may be purchased for $25 per column inch. Photos are accepted with ads for an additional $5 per photo.

DEADLINES: Ad copy must be received by the 15th of the month prior to publication.

PAYMENT: Payment must be received before an ad can be placed. We accept checks, cash, money orders and credit cards (Visa/Mastercard).

PHONE: 419-244-9859 E-MAIL: classifieds@adamsstreetpublishing.com REFUNDS: Sorry, NO REFUNDS given.

MISPRINTS: Credit toward future ads.

Mother’s Day - Bring the family to Imagination Station on Mother’s Day and moms get in free! Visit the new exhibits and have a blast learning about science as a family. $11-$13.

Noon- 5pm. Imagination Station, 1 Discovery Way. 419-244-2674. imaginationstationtoledo.org

11 SATURDAY Mother’s Day Market - The market will feature artisan foods and crafts, perfect for the Moms in your life. 10am-4pm.

Monroe Street United Methodist, 3613 Monroe St. 419-473-1167. monroestumc.com Free

Tuesdays Mondays Free Admission Mondays The Toledo Zoo & Aquarium has an admission special on Mondays for Lucas County residents. Bring your identification to gain free admission. 10am-noon.

Parking rates apply. (Non-residents tickets are $16-$19 and free for kids under 2.)

Zoo hours are 10am-4pm. Toledo Zoo, 2 Hippo Way. 419-385-5721. toledozoo.org Parenting Class Get tips and advice on parenting young children at this twelve week course. Learn about child development and get connected to resources. $12. 1-3pm. East Toledo Family Center, 1020 Varland Ave. 419-691-1429. etfc.org After School Program While the Main Library is closed, the Ebeid Institute, located above the Market on the Green, will serve as an off-site location of the Children’s Library programming. Stop by every Monday (excluding holidays) for core reading and learning after school programing. 3-5pm.

Market on the Green, 1806 Madison Ave., 419-259-5200. toledolibrary.org

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STEM Mondays Ages eight and under will learn about math and science through hands-on activities and puzzles. 4-5pm.

Wood County Library, 251 N. Main St., Bowling Green. 419-352-5104. wcpl.org Free

Family Center Open The Family Center of the Toledo Museum of Art is open to kids and their guardians to create crafts, read story books and play games in the community play room.

Parking rates apply. Open Tuesdays & Thursdays, 10am-3pm. Fridays, 3:308pm. Saturdays & Sundays, Noon-5pm.

Toledo Museum of Art, 2445 Monroe St. 419-255-800. toledomuseum.org Free Gathering Volumes Storytime This ongoing storytime is hosted every Tuesday. 10-10:30am. Gathering Volumes, 196 E. South Boundary, Perrysburg. 567-336-6188. gatheringvolumes.com Free Evening Preschool Storytime The story hour geared towards kids 3-6 years incorporates stories with songs and games. 7-8pm. Wood County Main Library, 251 N. Main St., Bowling Green. 419-352-5104. wcdpl.org Free

Wednesdays Toddler Trails Dress for a short hike through Wildwood with your youngster. Registration required. $2 per child. 10-11am.

Wildwood Preserve, 5100 Central Ave. 419-407-9700. metroparkstoledo.com

Music Vine Concert Series Every Friday, musicians from the community will give a free concert for members of Bittersweet Farms. Open to the public. 11am-12:30pm. Grand Rapids Town Hall, Front St. & Beaver St., Grand Rapids. 419-875-6986. bittersweetfarms.org Free Think Tank Workshops Saturdays in April kids will use their thinking and building skills to create a seasonal craft. Think Tank workshops are $6-$8 and do not include admission to the Museum. 2-5pm. Imagination Station, 1 Discovery Way. 419-244-2674. imaginationstationtoledo.org

Saturdays Storytime at Plate One Meet other families with young children at this weekly storytime hour at this downtown coffeeshop. 11:30am. Plate One, 420 Madison Ave. 419-385-2121. facebook.com/plateone Free Sippy Cup Storytime Reading Barefoot with Lindsey hosts a weekly Saturday story hour. Children will play, sing songs and listen to a story while the adults enjoy a hot beverage of their choice. 9:30-10:30am. SIP Coffee, 3160 Markway 419-407-5038. facebook.com/barefootlindsey Free

Fridays Little Picassos Club Ages 6-11 will create works of art using mixed media elements like paint and markers. $7. 10-11am. Toledo Artists Club, 5403 Elmer Dr. 419-531-4079. artvillage419.org

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