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KIDS HOROSCOPE July 23-Aug. 22

Awesome Apps for Kids

By Kimmie Rose

Your little Leo loves to be the center of attention among friends. Playful and full of enthusiasm, this month your little lion will be feeling the need to make everyone happy, which is the perfect time to teach them that doing kind things for others can make them feel good inside, versus doing good deeds for attention. Show your little Leo how their kindness helps others while assuring them that they are natural leaders.

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My Daughter’s Messy Room Drove me Crazy, Now I Miss It

For your own family, place names of everyone in a box and have each member of the family pick a name out of the box to be their secret helpers. Let your little lion feel the joy of doing kind deeds secretly while receiving back that kindness, which will encourage them to feel the strength that comes in teamwork! This will connect to your child’s natural leadership ability and teach compassionate understanding for how everyone can play a significant role in making the world a better place.

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Get those school supply lists ready, mom and dad! Ohio’s tax free weekend is almost here. Starting on Friday, August 2 through Sunday, August 4, you won’t have to pay Ohio sales tax on the following: • Clothing that is $75 per item or less • School supplies priced at $20 per item or less • School instructional material priced at $20 per item or less.

The Campaign for Migrant Worker Justice is excited to welcome applicants for its upcoming Youth Employment Readiness and Empowerment Program – The FLOC Homies Union. The Homies program blends classroom teaching, subsidized ($10 hourly) field internships, and community organizing. The Homies are a member of Toledo’s Black/Brown Unity Coalition, fighting for improved relationships with the police, educating community members about lead paint, leading the #BoycottVUSE campaign, and initiating the effort to install LED lights throughout the City of Toledo. Session 1 begins in mid-October (contingent on funding from Lucas County Jobs and Family services) and will start accepting applications in the middle of August. The Homies are funded through a partnership with the Farm Labor Organizing Committee, Lucas County Jobs and Family Services and Northwest Ohio Community Shares. For questions or to apply, contact Program Director Ted Marok at 419-243-3456. FLOC Homies Youth Employment Readiness & Empowerment Program, 1221 Broadway St, Toledo.

Playground Gets Colorful

A summer project helped make the Lucas County Children Services outdoor Family Visits Playground area brighter, more inviting and much more colorful. Art students from Bowling Green State University, Toledo artist Yusuf Lateef and Lorenzo Flores, art director for the Sofia Quintero Art and Cultural Center, worked together to create a series of murals along the formerly blank concrete walls surrounding the playground. The art project took about a week to complete. These murals are the first step in a comprehensive playground renovation project to replace the 25-year-old playground equipment and to create an all-inclusive, accessible playground with a bonded rubber surface. Lucas County Children’s Services protects children at-risk for abuse and neglect by working with families, service providers and the community to coordinate community-based services resulting in safe, stable and permanent families for children. Lucas County Children Services, 705 Adams Street, Toledo. 419-213-3200

Cedar Point Ranks #1

Cedar Point fans love the amusement park. And it seems the rest of the country does, too. The park has once again been named “Best Amusement Park” in USA Today’s 10 Best Readers’ Choice Awards. The world-record-breaking Steel Vengeance hyper-hybrid roller coaster also won “The Best Roller Coaster” award. And the historic Hotel Breakers, Cedar Point’s beachside resort, also captured the top spot in the “Best Amusement Park Hotel” category. “We’ve made it our mission to be the top destination for family fun, and these awards help validate our team’s efforts,” said Jason McClure, vice president and general manager of Cedar Point. “We’ve been a summertime tradition for almost 150 years, and we won’t ever rest on our promise to deliver an exceptional experience for our guests.” 6

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NOR THWEST OHIO CLASSICAL ACADEMY New charter school opening this fall

A new, tuition-free classical charter school is opening this fall in Toledo. Northwest Ohio Classical Academy will open classes for students in K-8 this month. Starting next year, the school will add a grade each school year until it is a K-12 school. At Northwest Ohio Classical Academy, students will experience a rigorous curriculum in liberal arts and sciences, which will include classic works of literature, fine arts and history. Students will learn to ask important questions to better understand themselves and their world, as well as learning the importance of acting ethically and responsibly. Northwest Ohio Classical Academy is affiliated with Hillsdale College and is a member of the Barney Charter School Initiative. Learn more at nocacademy.org.

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We Survived the First Year of Jr/Sr High School ...and you will too By Cheryl Maguire

Last year as my twins finished sixth grade, my anxiety bubbled to the surface. All summer long, I worried about their impending transition to the junior/ senior high school for seventh through twelfth graders. As August approached, my fears grew more intense as I thought of all the unanswered “what if” questions that rattled through my mind. How would they handle riding the bus with twelfth graders? How would they navigate the stress of a rotating schedule and a grueling course load with six different teachers? And more importantly, how would they remember their locker combination when they can’t remember how to close the refrigerator door? I’m able to make light of the situation now because when last school year ended I realized they had one of the best years yet. And I know it was not worth worrying about all last summer. If I could go back in time here’s what I would tell myself: Navigating a New School My Fear: That they would get lost trying to find their classes and end up hiding in the bathroom. I envisioned them texting me from the stall, “Help, I have no idea where I am right now.”

Reality: They loved being at a new school with different teachers for each subject. If they got lost they did what any normal person does—they asked for directions (no texting necessary). Eating Lunch My Fear: They would have no one to eat lunch with and end up eating in the bathroom (again hiding in the bathroom—I need to stop watching all the teen movies and TV shows that portray this as a reality). Reality: Both of them actually made more new friends this past school year than any other school year because they were able to choose tables (in the past they had assigned seats) and their friends introduced them to new people. Locker Combination My Fear: They would not remember their locker combination causing them to be unprepared or late for class. Reality: They did not even try to remember their locker combination and brought all their books to all their classes. By the end of the year, they had better lat muscles than a bodybuilder. Morning Routine My Fear: They would miss the bus and be late for school since the bus arrived at 6:40 am, which is rather early for my night owls.

Reality: They did miss the bus (only once) but I drove them and they ended being there before the bus arrived. I should also add that all year I barked like a drill sergeant, “Get your shoes on, eat your breakfast, it’s getting late.” The last week of school I decided not to say a word and they were on time and my voice wasn’t hoarse by 7 am. They even set their own alarm and made their own breakfast, two fewer things I had to do. Riding the Bus with 12th Graders My Fear: The twelfth graders would harass and bully my sweet little twin thirteen-year-olds like that older brother in Diary of a Wimpy Kid. Reality: Most twelfth graders drove to school and if they were on the bus they were too busy watching YouTube videos to even notice a seventh grader. Waiting at the Bus Stop My Fear: They would be kidnapped or hit by a car. Reality: I walked with them to the bus stop until the end of school, not because of fear but because I liked spending those extra ten minutes with them. They actually use complete sentences in the morning. Their sleepy disposition must suppress the teen part of the brain that utters only one-word responses to all questions.

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More Challenging School Work My Fear: They would not be able to handle all the homework and schoolwork and end up repeating seventh grade. I definitely don’t remember 7thgrade math formulas, science or social studies so I would need to hire expensive tutors and pay for summer school. Reality: One of the best things about the new school is the teachers stayed after school every day for extra help. Both of my kids took advantage of this perk and for each semester they earned either honor roll or high honor roll recognition. Now I’m worried about them going off to college one day without me—sigh. As the year came to a close I thought, “We survived.” And so will you. If your teens are starting a new school, don’t stress about it as I did. Instead, know they will be fine. Teens are much more resilient than we give them credit for. Now if only I could figure out how to get them to remember to close the refrigerator door.

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Making a Difference in the Life of a Child The need for foster families grows By Emily Remaklus

Every child deserves to grow up in a home where they are cared for and loved. Unfortunately, not every child has that opportunity. As Ohio struggles with a growing opioid epidemic, more and more children are affected. Last year 15,858 children in Ohio were in foster care, and 913 aged out of foster care, meaning they reached adulthood without being adopted.

Finding a forever home One organization determined to help children find a loving family is Ohio MENTOR Foster Care. This organization serves families in Lucas, Wood, Erie and Ottawa Counties. Ohio MENTOR actually focuses on therapeutic foster care, which means that many of the children served by this organization have emotional and behavioral challenges due to trauma experienced in their lives, which includes abuse, neglect, or witnessing violence. Foster parents for Ohio MENTOR are trained to help care for these children while also focusing on healing through nurturing family relationships. Miranda Cherry, an Ohio MENTOR foster care recruiter for the Toledo area, has a personal connection with therapeutic foster care. “I was in foster care for five

years before being adopted by a therapeutic foster family,” Cherry said. “If it wasn’t for my family’s decision to take my brothers and me into their home we wouldn’t be where we are today. I can honestly say they changed my life and allowed me to reach my fullest potential by showing me unconditional love and support. Two people were able to make a difference in the lives of three children by allowing them to become part of a loving family.” Supporting those who support the children Ohio MENTOR not only serves the children but also fully supports the mentors. Cherry explained, “we call [foster parents] Mentors because of the relationships and bonds they create with the individuals they welcome into their home.” Children are matched with Mentors from their own community, or neighboring community, that can support and help them through the problems that led to their placement in foster care. However, as any parent or guardian can understand, Mentors need support as well. Fortunately, Ohio MENTOR provides many resources for them starting with the licensing process. Once a Mentor receives their license, Ohio MENTOR meets with the family to discuss child placements that would fit well with the family’s needs, interests and family structure. Once a child is placed in a home, Mentors continue to receive support such as in-home therapy, crisis intervention, 24-hour emergency on-call services, and ongoing skill enhancement classes.

The ultimate goal of the organization, and the participating Mentors, is to help children reach their permanency goal. Ultimately it is the hope that a child in foster care will be reunited with their biological family; however, if that is not possible, then Ohio MENTOR works to help the child find a forever family through adoption. If a child reaches young adulthood while in foster care, the organization will help prepare them for independent living.

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Foster families Some individuals who are interested in fostering a child worry that they might not be the right fit, but Cherry explained that foster parents come from all walks of life. These individuals might have been foster parents before, may be empty-nesters with room to spare or they could be individuals who want to expand their family or simply give back to the community. “Families of all structures are needed - married, single, divorced, widowed, same-sex- if you have room in your heart and home, you can make a difference for a child.” If you are interested in becoming a Therapeutic Foster Parent with Ohio MENTOR, contact Miranda Cherry at 419-516-2244 or Miranda.Cherry@thementornetwork.com. To learn more about Ohio MENTOR’s services, visit OhioMENTORfostercare.com.

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GUIDE Summer is winding down (already!) and as much as you may be dreading it, it’s time to start preparing for a new school year. Whether you have a child making a major transition (hello kindergarten!), starting at a new school or you’re just hoping to make it a great year ahead, this guide will help prepare you and your family to make the grade.

5 tips for a good year By Emily Remaklus

New backpacks full of school supplies are ready to go, the first day of school outfit is picked out, and open house is just around the corner. It’s great to start off the year strong, but how can you help ensure that your child is successful throughout the entire school year? As a teacher myself, I’m hoping these five pieces of advice will help lead your family to a great year!

Keep your child’s teacher informed. It’s amazing how quickly a child’s behavior can change due to circumstances happening outside of school. Keeping your child’s teacher informed on changes at home — divorce, death in the family, birth of a new sibling — can help the teacher better understand how to help your child. If the teacher knows that there is a change in the student’s life, then we can be more understanding and forgiving if the student struggles more in school during that time. Teachers are also great listeners, and we can help the child through the transition.

Get to know the teacher. Teaching is a group effort, and teachers love to know that you’re onboard. Most schools have open houses at the beginning of the year where parents are able to bring their children to meet the teacher(s) and see their classroom. This is a great way for kids to get comfortable in the new space, and for you to introduce yourself. If you can’t make open house, don’t worry! Many teachers send home contact information during the first week. Send an email or give the teacher a call during the first weeks of school to introduce yourself. Be sure to include some information about your child too. What are their interests? Where have they struggled academically in the past? This not only begins a dialogue and good relationship between you and the teacher, but it also allows the teacher to have some insight into your child’s individual needs.

Communicate. Communication is key to building a relationship. Many teachers now are using apps to stay in contact. I use an app called REMIND which sends text message reminders to parents and students about projects, tests, and papers. These apps are a great way for parents to know what’s going on, but if you have individual concerns about your child its best to send an email or make a call. I find emailing to be the best form of communication because I’m teaching throughout the day and it can be difficult to take parents’ calls. Teachers love when parents are invested in their child’s education, but do keep in mind that, depending on their grade level, a teacher may teach 25-125 students, so try to ask your child first about that missing homework assignment or bad grade on a test before

contacting the teacher right away. Also, take advantage of conferences. If you can’t make the designated conference times, see if you can schedule one that would work for you.

Volunteer. For younger grades, parent volunteers are essential and a huge help. Taking 25 students on a field trip or hosting a holiday classroom party can be difficult for one teacher, so your help as a volunteer can make a huge difference. Older grades don’t need parent volunteers quite as often, but as kids grow up they get more involved in clubs and organizations that require fundraising. Allowing and encouraging your child to participate in those fundraising events takes a

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lot of stress off the teacher adviser for that organization. Plus it’s a great way for your child to learn new skills.

Loosen the reins. As your child gets older, start to let them advocate for themselves. As important as communication is between you and your child’s teacher, it is equally as important, if not more important, for your child to communicate their concerns to their teacher. When you notice a problem with a grade, or you want to know how your child can pick their grades up, have your child ask the teacher first. This helps them gain more independence and it shows that their education is also their responsibility. Teaching is a team effort, not just between a parent and teacher, but also between the student and teacher.

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Why your child should attend a rated child care program By Erin Holleran

Sixty percent of child care programs in the Toledo area are currently Step Up to Quality star rated. Why is it so important to select a rated program for your child? Programs that are star rated show higher quality classroom practices compared to programs that are not star rated. There is also a strong correlation between children scoring higher on Ohio’s Kindergarten Readiness Assessment and attendance at a 3, 4, or 5 star rated program. In addition, Children who receive a high quality early childhood education have better math, language and social skills, require less special education, progress further in school, have fewer interactions with the justice system and have higher earnings as adults. Give your child the best possible foundation by selecting a Step Up to Quality rated program!

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Preparing for an IEP Meeting Getting ready By Jamie Lober

Every child grows and develops at his own pace. “You need to have an idea of developmental milestones and if he has met them or not,” said Sarah Hall of Oregon Counseling Center. When you talk to your pediatrician and identify any delays, it is important to relay that information to the school so you can ensure your child is able to succeed. Fortunately there is a plan available to make sure he does exactly that. Individual education plans, commonly referred to as IEPs, can include a variety of options for different students. When you know what questions to ask, what to bring and do before the meeting and understand how to construct, follow up and check up on the IEP, your child will have an easier time navigating through the educational process.

A binder is one of the best tools you can have. “You might want to include tabs like evaluations/assessments, teacher conferences, communication with school, work samples, ongoing assessments and resources/information on your child’s disability,” said Tammy Alexander, certified dyslexia therapist at Alexander/Armus Reading Specialists. Ask what is required of you before the meeting. “They send you a packet with the information you need but you need to bring a birth certificate, social security number and utility bills proving where you live,” said Hall. You can expect with little ones that they may possibly be observed playing, while older kids may get feedback from teachers or others involved in their care/education.

Know what you’re dealing with

If you know about your child’s disability and do some searching or join organizations with missions related to that disability, you can find out what accommodations or programs may be best suited for him. “For example if your child has dyslexia you want the intervention specialist who works with

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him to be using structured literacy reading programs to remediate his deficits such as Orton-Gillingham or Wilson Reading System rather than embedded phonics or whole language programs,” said Alexander.

Jot down your questions, concerns and observations.

Be mindful not to forget anything and do not be afraid to ask the school for a draft IEP before the meeting so you can read it over in advance and know what to expect. One of the best things you can do is to encourage your child to mix with those who are developing based on targeted benchmarks. “Preschools are set up with children without challenges and children with challenges mixed together so the kids can see what the school is looking for when it comes to appropriate behaviors modeled for them,” said Hall.

Advocate

Remember that you know your child better than anyone. Communicate his strengths, struggles and needs. To be effective you have to be familiar with your child’s learning disability. The more you read up on it, the better

job you can do. Accommodations can be anything from speech or occupational therapy to having more time or a separate place to take a test that is quieter.

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Be aware that you may be asked to sign a draft of the IEP at the end of the meeting. “It is important to understand the accommodations and services that your child is getting before you sign and give your consent,” said Alexander. Do not feel pressured to sign at the meeting. You have a right to take the draft home and review it. “If you do not understand what is being said, ask for an explanation. You can always ask to schedule another IEP meeting if you have further questions or concerns that you would like to discuss before signing,” said Alexander.

Do not feel bad if your child requires an IEP

“Just because he has an IEP does not mean he will always have it. But an IEP will get him the services he needs so he can be kept in the less restrictive environment,” said Hall. The idea is that the plan is tailored to your child’s needs. Continued on P. 14

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Help your kindergartener score a smoother transition into school by Christa Melnyk Hines

For many parents, kindergarten signals an important transition from the all-consuming baby and toddler years. Suddenly, your “baby” is expected to make more choices on her own, stay focused over a longer period of time, learn new skills and navigate a social circle with less oversight from you. Plan ahead to pave the road to a happier kindergarten transition for all.

Visit the school. Before school begins, attend school orientations and meet the teacher to help your child grow familiar with his new learning environment. Calm kindergarten jitters. Build excitement and

optimism for school. Shop together for a new backpack or lunchbox, school supplies and new clothes. “Even if parents are feeling nervous, they should do their best not to portray that to their child,” says Kathy Weller, a kindergarten teacher. “Be very upbeat about the upcoming new experience.”

Recognize friendly faces. Before school starts,

arrange play dates with future classmates. A few familiar faces on the first day may help calm those nervous butterflies.

Read together. Reading to your child teaches valuable listening skills and creates an opportunity to help your child prepare for the kindergarten experience. Check out books like The Night Before Kindergarten by Natasha Wing and Kindergarten Rocks by Katie Davis.

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knowing his colors, the ABCs and how to count to ten will give your child a head start, work on other skills like teaching him to tie his shoes and knowing his full name, phone number and birthday.

Plan transportation.

Avoid transportation snafus by sticking to a plan and keeping your child (and the teacher) informed. If your child will ride the bus and is nervous, listen and reassure her. Drive the route ahead of time. Also, seek out a “bus buddy” for your child; that buddy can be a responsible older neighbor child or another bus-riding classmate. On the first day of school, arrive early at the bus stop. Introduce yourself and your child to the driver. Assure your child that you (or whoever you’ve designated), will be waiting for her when the bus returns after school.

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your new kindergartener gets plenty of rest and eats healthy meals, which will help him better manage the stress of the transition and stay focused during school. Wake up a little earlier to avoid a rushed first day.

of Mary Washington, who specializes in child development and parenting practices. “The parent should convey that they are on the same team as the teacher (even if they have different ideas about how to assist their child).”

Manage adversity. Every child is bound to have a rough day. Encourage her to resolve her own problems and take responsibility for her actions. “Ask your child for her input and perspective, genuinely listen, acknowledge and empathize, and then shift the focus towards reaching solutions as a family and in unison with your teachers and school,” says parent coach Tom Limbert, author of Dad’s Playbook: Wisdom for Fathers from the Greatest Coaches of All Time. “Focus on giving your child the tools, morals and lessons she will need when not in your presence, which now will be more and more often.”

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Celebrate your child’s first day of school with a special outing after school like a frozen yogurt, dinner out or a playdate at her favorite park. Who knows? You may find that initial celebration turns into an annual first-dayof-school tradition for your family.

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Sometimes the typical teaching of reading, writing and arithmetic isn’t for everyone. Some students learn better by getting out of the traditional classroom and learning through experience. Toledo Public Schools understands that. Did you know they offer four different schools with specific focus for students in the district? Read on to learn more about each one and how your student can become involved. Toledo Technology Academy is for incoming seventh, eighth and ninth graders interested in learning how things work. With a Career Tech- focused curriculum in Engineering and Science Technologies, students can earn college credits, industry credentials and employment through internships and apprenticeships. Toledo Technology Academy has business partnerships with more than 50 local companies so there are plenty of opportunities available. Graduates often go on to college to become engineers or have careers as machinists, electricians, machine operators, robotics technicians and more. Aerospace & Natural Science Academy of Toledo opens this fall to incoming ninth and tenth graders. This new academy, located at Toledo Express Airport, also has a Career Tech-focused curriculum in growing industries such as aviation and aeronautics; animal science and management; urban agriculture and agribusiness; environmental sustainability and wildlife management. This academy gives students the opportunity for project-based, cross-curricular learning in a high-tech environment while earning college credit. If your student wants to run a business one day, check out the Jones Leadership Academy of Business. This school focuses on a businessthemed curriculum that includes marketing, finance and supply chain management. With small class sizes, separate wings for girls and boys and athletic and extracurricular activities, this school is a great fit for students who have big dreams in the business Serving infants through school world. Admission is open to incomage, Little Village Preschool ing seventh, eighth and ninth grade provides a challenging, yet students. The school offers college prep developmentally appropriate classes for students in seventh through learning experience for all twelfth grade.

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SuperFood Snacks

Picking foods that fuel the mind and body By Laurie Wurth-Pressel

Some foods are packed with so many vitamins, minerals and antioxidants that nutrition experts have dubbed them “Super Foods.” Be sure to include these powerful and delicious snacks in your child’s lunchbox this school year.

Blueberries. They rank highest among all fruits for antioxidant activity. Try mixing them in yogurt if your child doesn’t like eating them plain. Yogurt. This dairy product offers an excellent source of protein and calcium, as well as good bacteria for gut health. Some yogurt brands marketed toward kids contain a lot of sugar, however, so choose wisely. Hard-boiled eggs. Purchase omega-3 eggs that contain higher amounts of fatty acids proven to benefit skin, allergies and brain function.

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Watermelon. This juicy fruit will help your child stay hydrated and it’s loaded with vitamins A and C. Avocado. This heart-healthy food contains monounsaturated fats and more than a dozen vitamins and minerals. Make a guacamole dip and serve with chips. Carrots. Packed with carotene, carrots are excellent for eye health, reducing inflammation and boosting immunity. Serve with a side of ranch dip or shred into salads. Oranges/tangerines. Rich in vitamin C, orange slices are a perfect choice during cold/flu season.

Corn. This vegetable contains thiamin, which is essential for energy production. Try sprinkling sweet corn on a salad. Bananas. A rich source of potassium, bananas can help build strong bones. Your child may love them dipped in a low-fat chocolate sauce and then frozen for the lunch box. Purple grapes. This tasty snack may be the reason why the French enjoy excellent health. Look for deep purple grapes which contain more flavonoid— a powerful antioxidant.

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How Mindfulness Helps Kids Manage Stress Ways you can put this into practice by Christa Melnyk Hines

When kids are stressed, they ruminate about past problems and worry about future what-ifs. These negative thought patterns rob their ability to focus on the present. Because stress feeds anxiety, impulsive behavior and lack of focus, more schools are adopting simple mindfulness techniques that parents can also foster. Why are kids stressed? Academic pressures, overstuffed schedules, unstable home life, economic hardship, social media and peer issues can all affect a student's physical and mental health.

Landy was first introduced to the practice by Lauren Wessinger, a longtime mindfulness mentor and yoga practitioner, who facilitates an eight-week school-based mindfulness program geared toward K-5 grade students.

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n Withdrawal from social groups or activities they’ve historically enjoyed

According to the Center on the Developing Child at Harvard University, prolonged stress not only harms healthy development, it interferes with learning, behavior and health throughout life. Michelle Landy, a third grade teacher, says student stress is especially prevalent during mandatory state testing. "State tests are scary for many of the kids," Landy says. "Their anxiety hinders their ability to remember what they've learned." She recalls one panicked student who insisted she didn't remember learning any of the material that was on the test. "The concepts had been previously taught to her that week -and she aced them," Landy says. After Landy led her students through a calming, school-approved mindful breathing exercise, the third grader "ended up remembering what she knew and got the entire next set of questions correct!"

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Begin with you. When you feel calm, your children will likely respond in kind. As part of her daily practice, Wessinger takes three deep breaths before she picks up her children, ages 8 and 12, from school. "I'm more of a receptive, calm container. They don't consciously know why, but their nervous system is like, 'okay, everything is cool. I'm safe right now.' It's like a nervous system to nervous system language," she explains.

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Does it work? To learn more about the effects of the practice on students, researchers at the University of California, Davis, partnered with Mindful Schools, a non-profit organization that teaches educators, parents and mental health professionals how to integrate mindfulness into everyday learning at K-12 schools around the globe. Among students who participated in a mindfulness program, the researchers found significant improvement in paying attention and class participation.

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What is mindfulness, anyway? "Mindfulness is not a control mechanism or behavioral modification. It can be a calming technique, but not always. It's more of helping a child become actively aware of how they are feeling and using some of their tools to manage those feelings," Wessinger says. Mindfulness gives children--and adults--simple strategies to intentionally and without judgement notice what they're feeling in the moment, observe their surroundings and self-regulate their behavior.

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Mindful listening. Through intentional listening, kids learn to become more aware of their surroundings. Begin with three long and deep breaths. Suggest they close their eyes. Ring a bell or chime and have them listen for the sound until they can no longer hear it. "When the noise goes away, they raise their right hand and then they take three deep breaths and then put their hand down," Wessinger says. Mindful seeing. In this exercise, kids stare at a point on the ground for about a minute. If they lose focus, encourage them to return back to the point on the ground. "I tell them you have super strong eye strength now. What is an animal that has great vision? They always say a bird," Wessinger says. She then has them use their eagle eyes to look around the room, noticing things they've never noticed before. Practice heart awareness. In this visualization exercise, your child imagines reaching out to help a lonely friend. Ask questions like, "how does that feel in your body when you are helping your friend?" Then, walk them through a visualization of them not helping their friend (but not doing anything cruel either.) Perhaps instead of acknowledging their friend, they ignore them. Again, ask your child how that feels in their body and in their heart. Walking mindfulness. Wessinger also takes her students on walking heartfelt meditations in which the kids walk silently around the school and send out kind thoughts toward anyone they see. "In our heads, we think 'may you be happy, may you be peaceful, may you be free,'" Wessinger says. "They love it. This is the piece that felt inspiring to me. It helps them understand 'when I do this action, I feel this way. Don't I want to feel the good way as often as possible?'"

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1. At what age should children first get their eyes checked? The American Optometric Association recommends that children have their first eye examination between the ages of 6 and 12 months. This ensures that we can detect potentially sight threatening conditions, such as lazy eye or amblyopia, as soon as possible. As the area’s only optometrist with a 2-year advanced practice fellowship in pediatrics and binocular vision, and a volunteer for the InfantSee® program through the American Optometric Association, I help provide these comprehensive eye examinations at NO COST to the patient. It does not matter if you have insurance or not- you don’t pay anything for that visit. 2. How often should children get eye exams? Prevention and early intervention are key. Nearly 80% of what we learn is through the visual system. For young and school age children it is best to

have a comprehensive dilated eye examination every year from an eye doctor that truly understands vision in children. Also, don’t skip the eye drops. Eye drops are not fun, but they are critical to properly assessing a child’s vision. This helps to find any problems that can affect reading and learning as soon as possible. We can then help treat these issues immediately and help prevent major issues down the road. 3. Are there signs parents should watch for that could indicate a child is having trouble seeing? There are so many signs to look for. Rubbing the eyes, squinting, eye turns, losing place when reading, re-reading lines, covering or closing an eye when reading or doing schoolwork are some of the more common signs that there is a problem. Symptoms of a vision problem can even mimic symptoms of ADD or ADHD. If a parent notices any of these signs or symptoms they need to contact an eye doctor with advanced training in these areas for help.

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4. What advice would you give to a child that has just learned they need to wear glasses? Glasses can be a lot of fun! Even Superman and Supergirl wore glasses! Not only will they help you see better, they can also help show off your personality! Have fun with the colors and ask about customizations! I usually recommend parents to pick out three or four frames that they like and let their child pick from those. When a child is happy with their glasses, they are much more likely to wear them.

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We’ve got just a few more weeks of summer left and hopefully, you and your family are making the most of it with long days spent poolside and warm nights outdoors watching the stars or fireflies. Some of my favorite stories are set in summer time, probably because summer is the perfect time for adventures. On days when it’s too hot to do much outdoors there are always good books to read or a relaxing trip to the library (hello A/C!) to enjoy. Here are some favorite books to celebrate the dog days of summer.

How Do You Wokka-Wokka? by Elizabeth Bluemle This story will have you tapping your toes to the beat! Join a group of friends as they walk through the city on a warm summer day singing and dancing to “wokka wokka” beat. The fun sounds and rhythms will carry you along to a dancing beat and may even inspire you to have your own dance party!

Hot City by Barbara Joose Mimi and her brother Joe are trying to have fun but it’s so hot the pavement is sizzlin’. They decide to get snow cones and go for a walk, which eventually leads them to the magical (and deliciously cool) public library. What stories will they find and what imaginary play will it inspire? Let this book inspire your family to venture out on a hot summer day to explore.

Mermaids on Parade by Hope Greenberg Every year on the summer solstice magical creatures like mermaids, neptunes and jellyfish pour into the streets for a parade to celebrate the opening of the Coney Island beach and the start of summer vacation. One little girl works very hard to make her costume just right so she can win a trophy. The magical costumes and music, paired with the book’s colorful illustrations make this a great way to celebrate the fun of summer. Encourage your little readers to make homemade costumes and enjoy their own family parade. Or let it inspire your little ones to try something new like learning to float! - before summer comes to a close.

Blackout by John Rocco In this story, we follow one family as they experience a neighborhood blackout in the middle of the summer. At first, they are a little frightened and frustrated that their evening has been interrupted, but slowly people in the neighborhood come out of their houses and soon everyone is enjoying the summer evening in unexpected ways.

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Sara Wegryn: Juggling work with caregiving

The choices

Sara Wegryn, licensed professional clinical counselor (LPCC) and mother to Lyla (6) and Kaydence (4), is expecting her third baby girl this fall and juggles various schedules to spend as much time with her kiddos as possible. She explains, “I’ve done the full-time work and mom gig, plus teaching dance, when Lyla was a baby and it was insane. I never got to see her. I feel like now I have a decent balance of work and play...I’m pretty happy.”

Return to work or stay home? By Erin Marsh

Becoming a parent requires monumental decisions. After the metamorphic choice to have a child, a cascade of additional questions follow: how will you become a parent? What will you name your bundle of joy? What stroller, carseat, crib, pack and play (and a million other things) should you buy? The next life-changing determination, will both parents return to work? If so, what childcare option will you access? Or will one parent stay home? Will one parent work part-time or from home in order to juggle work plus child-rearing? It’s no surprise that many young couples are opting out of becoming parents. Having a child transforms your entire life. As Jay Weik of Toledo Mindfulness Institute says, “When you’re single, you are the sole artist of your life; you hold the paintbrush. When you meet someone to invite into your life, you willingly share the paintbrush, allowing that person to add his/her own strokes. When you have a baby, that baby pukes all over your canvas!” he finishes, laughing. These three local mamas discuss their decisions about work and child-rearing. Each one has found a situation that works best for them and their families.

Sara works two full days a week as a counselor at NW Ohio Psychological Services, during which her youngest attends daycare, and the other three days of the week, her 4-year-old is with her the entire day. Sara also works two nights a week, meeting with clients after work hours, and she teaches tap, jazz, and pre-primary ballet one night a week and on the weekend. Her husband works full-time with a rotating shift — which makes life even more interesting. “The things we do for our kiddos!” she laughs. But Sara says it’s all worth it to be able to be home and spend as much time with her little ones as possible, to do activities like ballet in the middle of the day so their “evenings aren’t jam-packed with sporting events.” She adds, laughing, “Plus, during the days I’m home with Kaydence (4), I can be in my PJs until we have something scheduled!”

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The nights Sara works are difficult as she only sees her first grader, Lyla, for a couple hours, and her daughter still struggles with her mom leaving. Sara confides, “The back and forth is a killer,” she adds, “but it’s better than not seeing her at all!”

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Continued from page 27 Rebecca Shope, partner at Shumaker, Loop & Kendrick, LLP, with an undergraduate degree from Heidelberg University and a law degree from The University of Toledo College of Law, specializes in employment, litigation and family law and is mother to Liam (8) and Eva (4). Rebecca tracks her professional trajectory, reminiscing, “I started at Shumaker in 2008 at a time when I didn’t have children...I had my eldest, Liam, in August of 2010. I am fortunate to work for a company that valued family and allowed me flexibility as I was returning from maternity leave. The fact that my law firm was so understanding made the transition much easier.” “It’s extremely important for companies to understand the struggles that both women and men face when attempting to balance family and work,” Rebecca continues. “Smart companies, like Shumaker, will understand that part of retaining good employees is helping them through this transition period. I believe this is why we are seeing more and more companies implement policies on paid parental leave and flex time.”

her family: “I am able to maintain an identity that is separate...from my title of mother. When I’m at home, I’m able to set work aside--for the most part-and cherish the time I have with my children.” Yet Rebecca struggled with her choice to return to work, measuring herself against her “amazing stay-at-home mom friends.” She confesses, “The hardest part was overcoming the initial guilt. I knew that I needed to be in the workforce to feel personally fulfilled, but I found myself constantly comparing myself to other moms.” “But why was I allowing my perception of how others might feel about me in the workforce to define me as a parent?” continues Rebecca. “Interestingly enough, I learned my perception was significantly flawed; I found that all mothers share common feelings of guilt, insecurity, and daily chaos at some point in their motherhood journey. The best thing we can all do is to surround ourselves with fantastic spouses and supportive mothers and stop the self-criticism.”

Rebecca explains that working full-time with a flexible company is the ideal situation for her and

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“Parenting is hard work No matter who is doing it, and no matter how you do it.” Mara Luna Delos Reyes, is a full-time caregiver to her four children — Lorenzo (9), Diego (7), Estella (5) and Eva (3) — and has an undergraduate degree from the University of Michigan and a graduate degree from Kent State University. She opted to stay home with her children because she grew up in a household where both parents worked full-time, and she wanted something different for her family. Mara clarifies, “ My parents could rarely--if ever--attend daytime events at my school, volunteer in my class, or chaperone my field trips. The time I spent with my parents was limited.” “As a full-time caregiver, I help my kids get ready for school, pack their lunches, pick them up from school, and take them to activities,” Mara says. “Our schedule is crazy most days, but I value the time we spend together. I coach my son’s first grade soccer team, I volunteer as a Cub Scout Leader, and I take my girls to ballet and music classes. I like getting to know my kids as individuals and getting to know their friends, teachers, coaches, and teams.” Mara adds that after her first baby, Lorenzo, was born, she knew that, with her husband starting a medical residency, they would potentially need to move. As well, “financially, it

didn’t make sense to continue working, spending time away from my baby, and using most of my paycheck for childcare.”

Reflecting on her chaotic days with four children, Mara says, “Some days are crazier than others. It’s often difficult for me to keep up with home responsibilities — like cooking, cleaning, laundry — [and] my house is never clean!”

“Some days I feel like a single parent,” continues Mara. “Other days I feel like I have it all together and I can even go out with my ‘mom friends.’ Then one child has a tantrum, two children won’t stop bothering each other, another child tells me just before going to bed that he has an assignment he forgot and it’s due tomorrow, and then I get a text from my husband that he’ll be home late and it’s too late to get a babysitter.” Mara sums up parenting with a truth that all parents can agree on: “Parenting is HARD WORK! No matter who is doing it, and no matter how you do it.”

“Some days I feel like a sin gle parent, Other days I feel like I have it all together”

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digital age 5 Anti-Bullying Apps Every Family Should Have Download these before the school year starts By Tanni Haas, Ph.D.

Bullying happens more often than most parents realize: one in three kids has either bullied someone or been bullied themselves. Here are 5 anti-bullying apps that you and your kids ought to download. They’re some of the best ones available, and they’re all free.

1. KnowBullying

Available at: Apple Appstore; Google Play The most important first step in any anti-bullying effort is to talk to your kids about what bullying is and how to prevent it. KnowBullying, developed by the U.S. Department of Health and Human Services, is an award-winning app that explains the warning signs of bullying, offers advice on how to talk to your kids about bullying, and includes important strategies for preventing bullying for kids in different age groups (3-6, 7-12, and older.)

2. ReThink Stop Cyberbullying

Available at: Apple Appstore; Google Play Despite parents’ best efforts, kids often don’t realize when they’re about to bully someone. This is especially true with online messages. One way to ensure that potentially hurtful messages aren’t sent is to download Rethink – Stop Cyberbullying. Developed by a 13-year old girl who wanted to help fight cyberbullying, this app issues alerts such as “Would you like to re-word this? Remember, you are what you type!” when it detects hurtful language. This approach has been shown to stop kids from sending hurtful messages in the first place.

3. Take a Stand Together

Available at: Apple Appstore; Google Play When bullying does happen, how should kids respond? Take a Stand Together offers lots of helpful advice for dealing

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with different types of bullying. The app has interactive scenarios that make kids think about what they’d do if they were being bullied or witnessed others being bullied.

4. Bully Button

Available at: Apple Appstore; Google Play Sometimes, it’s not possible for kids to deal with bullying on their own. They might need to tell their parents about it and ask for help. A great bullying-alert app is Bully Button. This app lets kids surreptitiously record the bullying and quickly and effectively alert their parents. It shows kids’ exact locations and makes it easy for parents to offer advice on what to do in real-time.

5. Speak Up! For Someone

Available at: Apple Appstore; Google Play An essential lesson you can teach your kids is that bullying can happen to anyone and, if they witness it, they need to speak up rather than stay quiet. Speak Up! For Someone is just the right app for that. It lets kids record bullying that they witness and report it anonymously and securely to school officials.

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THE ADAMS STREET CAFE 608 Adams St. Toledo 43604 419-214-1819 Mon-Thur: 10a.m.-7p.m. Fri: 10a.m.-9p.m. Facebook.com/pg/theadamsstcafe

No Ordinary Cafe

Small eatery is another reason to head downtown By Karen L. Zickes

Once upon a time there was a “young” lady in Toledo who promised never to make assumptions about restaurants ahead of time. That same “young” lady did just that... AGAIN. But she has seen the light and has again renewed her promise to never make rash judgments about restaurants she knows nothing about. Come follow her journey to downtown T-Town to see what she learned. Come on downtown I’ve heard the name “Adam’s Street Cafe” over the last few years from a number of folks. I imagined a little breakfast/lunch place that served light lunch fare like fancy single serving quiche and maybe pastries in a diner type setting. I was just making things up in my mind. Though my family meanders downtown now and again, we’ve made it a point to always take a couple “summer in the city” afternoons and discover something new in downtown T-Town, and we selected Adams Street Cafe as one of our stops. Just as we were about to head out, I thought I should look up the address online. And there it was, their unique sign with a big pig and delicious information about how they also have an in-house smoker. To me it sounded fabulous, but looking at my vegetarian daughter, I helplessly offered, “They might have a salad for you, honey. I’m sorry.” We made our way downtown and found The Adams Street Cafe down the street from a couple other popular spots and a block away from The Valentine Theater. It appeared to be a great location. Owner and chef John Kerstetter, formerly the head chef of Stella’s in 32

Perrysburg, saw a great opportunity and opened the Cafe in October 2016. Since then, it has grown from serving lunch, to now include breakfast and dinner along with special family style meals on Friday nights. Make note, the Cafe is closed Saturday and Sunday. Satisfying for vegetarians and carnivores We loved the atmosphere, which can be described as country chic, eclectic, and welcoming. The artwork adorning the walls, for sale by local artists, is provided through the Toledo Arts Commission. Every table has a different print tablecloth and our food was served on mismatched vintage china; like you might find at your grandma’s house or in your parents’ attic. And oh, the food! You are in for a treat when you stop by. The Cafe smokes meats in house. The main menu has several options — sandwiches, burgers, entrees, salads and appetizers, turkey, short ribs, pastrami, beef — you get the idea. But also, to our surprise, the menu lists several mouth watering options for vegetarians. Vegan options pepper the menu as well. And yes, bring the kids because they will be

happy to know there are kid friendly options like sliders and chicken tenders served with a drink and fries for only $6. One of everything, please On the afternoon we stopped in we enjoyed caramelized onion and spinach dip and brisket chili for starters. My youngest made a wonderful choice of a turkey, bacon, gouda sandwich with fries while my daughter enjoyed her mouthwatering, hearty vegetable hash with a chipotle almond crema. I dove into the smoked beef and beer cheese on brioche served with fries. I had to take a little home for later. It was so hard to decide what to order because they also offer about 4-5 specials each week. And again, meatless options are included in the specials too. Every Friday they serve a delectable family style dinner. paired nicely with beers from local breweries. Kerstetter said many of the ingredients he uses are from Ohio, including meat, produce, etc. You can find the specials of the week and Friday night menu listed on their Facebook page (facebook.com/theadamsstcafe).

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The Short Course

Kid-friendly: Yes. To avoid wait: Anytime. Noise level: Moderate. Bathroom amenities: A changing table is available. High chairs: Yes. Kids’ menu? Yes. Allergies: Let your server know of any allergies as they have special prep for some foods depending on the allergy.

Bottom Line:

The Adams Street Cafe is a local eatery where they smoke their meats inhouse and everything is made fresh. There are several options on the menu including vegetarian choices as well as weekly specials. It’s a casual, comfortable atmosphere and very family friendly. With so many delicious menu options, you’ll be making plans to return before you even finish your meal.

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Seussical the Musical

August 2 and 3, 1pm & 7pm. Collingwood Arts Center, 2413 Collingwood Blvd.

All calendar events are subject to change, cancellation and limited size. Calling ahead for confirmation is recommended.

Disney’s Aladin Jr. - This musical performance presented by the Young Repertoire Theatre follows young Aladin, Jasmine, the Genie and Jafar. $13.75 - $16.75. Showtimes 7pm, Thursday - Saturday. 2:30pm, Sunday. Toledo Repertoire Theatre, 16 10th St. 419-243-9277. toledorep.com g

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1 THURSDAY

Wood County Fair - The annual county fair continues through Tuesday, August 6 and features all the family favorites like animal showcases, baking contests, craft displays, rides, rodeo shows and carnival food. $7 entry. Event prices vary. 8am-8pm through 8.6. Fairgrounds, 13800 W. Poe Rd., Bowling Green. 419-352-0441. woodcounty-fair.com

2 FRIDAY

Red Bird Art Walk - Take a stroll down Main Street with the family. Browse indoor and outdoor artists booths, food trucks, performances and more during the First Friday Art Walk. 5-8pm. Maple & Main St., Sylvania. 419-517-0118. sylvaniaarts.org Free Art Crawl at TMA - Visit the galleries with your young child and return to the Family Center for art projects perfect for ages up to 18 months. $7-$10. 6-7pm. Toledo Museum of Art, 2445 Monroe St. 419-255-8000. toledomuseum.org First Free Fridays - Take a selfguided tour of the grounds that once housed countless ‘poor farm’ inmates. The Pestilence House tells the grim tale of the limited care given to victims of TB, while the exhibition “For Comfort & Convenience” completes the picture of early mental health care and all its failings. 10am-4pm. Wood County Historical Center, 13660 County Home Rd., Bowling Green. 419-352-0967. woodcountyhistory.org Free

3 SATURDAY SummerSlam - The WWE professional wrestlers will be get wild in the ring on their SummerSlam Heatwave Tour. $20+. 7-10:30pm. 500 Jefferson Ave. 419-255-3300. huntingtoncentertoledo.com 26th Library Village Garage Sale Bring cash to this neighborhood-wide garage sale event. 9am-5pm. Library Village, Sylvania Ave., Lewis Ave., Eleanor Ave. and Jackman Rd. facebook.com/libraryvillagetoledo Free Incredibles 2 - Head out to Promenade Park for a family movie night. Kids can meet with popular characters Marvel and Disney and food trucks will be on site. 5:30-9pm. Promenade Park, 250 Water St. 419-690-7900. promedica.org Free

Have fun, I say With Seussical the Musical A really great play! Take a break this summer and enjoy as Children’s Theatre Workshop brings the beloved works of Dr. Seuss alive on stage with Seussical the Musical Friday, August 2, and Saturday, August 3. Tickets are $10 for students K-12 and $12 for adults. Tickets can be purchased online at ctwtoledo.org/tickets. The August 2 performance at 1pm has $3 tickets available for all area daycares and summer programs. Contact CTW at office@ctwtoledo.org to arrange for your group!

Music Under the Stars - Visit the Historic Toledo Zoo Amphitheatre for an evening with the Cakewalkin’ Jass Band. Concessions will be available. 7:30pm. Toledo Zoo, 2 Hippo Way. 419-385-5721. toledozoo.org Free

5 MONDAY Summer Movie Club House - Visit the Cinemark Theatres at Levis Commons for a $1 showing of Hotel Transylvania 3. $1. Cinemark, 3201 Levis Commons Blvd., Perrysburg. 419-931-8888. facebook.com/leviscommons Mon 5

6 TUESDAY

Music & Movement Class This drop-in class focuses on early music education, socializing and movement. Ages 18 months - 4 years with an adult are welcome. $10. 9:30am. Also on Tuesday August 13. Maumee Valley Country Day School, 1715 S. Reynolds Rd. 419-381-1313. mvcds.org

7 WEDNESDAY Sunset Serenades Concert Bring the family for a day of swimming at Olander Park. When the beach closes, live music will fill the air from 6-9pm. Olander Park, 6930 Sylvania Ave., Sylvania. 419-882-8313. olanderpark.com Free

8 THURSDAY Movie Nights in the Park Ralph Breaks the Internet will be shown outdoors on the lawn. DJ Mpress kicks things off. Bring the family, a blanket and refreshments. 7-10:30pm. Ottawa Park, 2532 Upton Ave. 419-245-3388. toledo.oh.gov Free

9 FRIDAY Maumee Summer Fair Over 150 artists’ booths from around the Great Lakes Region will line downtown Maumee streets. Find live music in the beer garden with the Taste of Maumee food vendors on site. Friday, 5pm-midnight. Saturday, 9am-midnight. Downtown Maumee. maumeesummerfair.com Free Apple Day - Young children will enjoy a story, crafting and snacks with instructor Marilyn Machosky. Register at Olander Park, 6930 Sylvania Ave., Sylvania. 419-882-8313. olanderpark.com Free Toledo Jeep Fest - From off-roading to automotive history to an all-Jeep parade, celebrate all things Jeep during this familyfriendly weekend. Times vary. Seagate Convention Center, 401 Jefferson Ave. 419-255-3300. toledojeepfest.com Free

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Flag City Balloon Fest

Friday, August 9 - Sunday, August 11. Emory Adams Park, 1861 S. Blanchard St., Findlay This month Flag City Balloon Fest celebrates its 20th year! Get in on the fun at Findlay’s largest family-fun festival. Balloons launch at 6:30pm, but the fun begins before the balloons take to the sky. Let the kids loose at the Kids’ Fair to bounce on the inflatables and play carnival games before checking out the Jungle Island Petting Zoo. If you’re feeling brave, take a helicopter or hot air balloon ride and enjoy great views of Northwest Ohio! The festival goes all weekend. Admission is free, prices vary per activity. 7am-10pm, Friday. 6am-10pm, Saturday. 7am-5pm. Sunday. You can check the complete schedule of events online at flagcityballonfest.com.

Movie Night at the Glass Bowl: Monsters Inc.

Friday, August 16, 6:30-9:30 pm The Glass Bowl, University of Toledo, 1745 Stadium Drive Spend one of the final Friday nights of summer enjoying a free outdoor movie at the Glass Bowl Stadium. The University of Toledo hosts a free showing of Monster’s, Inc. Gates open at 6:30pm with the movie scheduled to begin around 8pm. Concessions will be open, but families are welcome to bring their own food and drink into the stadium. You can also meet and greet with members of the football, volleyball and soccer teams as well as participate in a variety of other activities.

BugFEST!

Saturday, August 24, 10am-2pm. Secor MetroPark 10001 Central Ave, Berkey, OH

Bugs, bugs, bugs! What kid doesn’t love bugs?! Mark your calendar now for BugFEST! at Secor Metropark on Saturday, August 24. This fest celebrates all bugs and your family is sure to enjoy this festival of the creepy, crawly creatures. Toledo Metroparks will be joined by other community partners to entertain, educate and amaze you with all things bugs. You can also catch the unforgettable Dr. Insecta Show at 10am or 12:30pm. Food trucks will also be on site. BugFEST is free!

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11 SUNDAY

Homecoming Kelleys Island Celebrate summer on the Island with a Saturday parade and plenty of family fun outdoors. 5-9pm, Friday. 11am-4pm, Saturday. Ball Field, 121 Addison St., 616-485-9102. Kelleys Island. kellysislandchamber.com Free

10 SATURDAY Peach Celebration - The Orchards will offer you-pick specials on all Red Haven Peaches. The kitchen will be have fresh baked pies, donuts and jams along with a variety of summer fruit. 9am-7pm. Erie Orchards, 1235 Erie Rd., Erie, MI. 734-848-4518. erieorchards.com Free

8th Barrio Latino Art Festival Celebrate arts and culture at the festival. Come out for the live music, dancing, food and kid’s play area. Everyone is welcome. 1-11pm. 1411 Broadway St. 567-702-0040. facebook.com/ barriolatinoartfestival Free Back to School Giveaway - Students will recieve a free bookbag and school supplies a the fair. There will be face painting, bounce houses and more. 2-5pm. Rodgers High, 222 Mctigue Dr. 419-671-1000. facebook.com/ finerfuturefoundation Free

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Music Under the Stars - Visit the Historic Toledo Zoo Amphitheatre for an evening with the Perrysburg Community Orchestra. Concessions will be available. 7:30pm. Toledo Zoo, 2 Hippo Way. 419-385-5721. toledozoo.org Free Pet Portrait - Create a portrait using pastels and pastel paper. Bring a favorite photo of Fido to class for reference. Ages 10+. $40. 1-4pm. Art Supply Depo, 29 S. Saint Clair St. 419-720-6462. artsupplydepo.com The Festival of India - Enjoy this cultural experience, offering Indian food, music, dancing and shopping. 11am-8pm. Centennial Terrace, 5773 Centennial Rd., Sylvania. 419-843-4440. Hindutempleoftoledo.org Free

13 TUESDAY Critters Everywhere - Kids in grades K - 5 will work together to find animal tracks and signs of life in the park. Register. 11am. Olander Park, 6930 Sylvania Ave., Sylvania. 419-882-8313. olanderpark.com Free

15 THURSDAY A Traditional Country Fair

$5 Thursdays - Admission for the whole family is only $5 after 5pm on the third Thursday of the month. 5-8pm. Imagination Station, 1 Discovery Way. 419-244-2674. imaginationstation.org

16 FRIDAY 36th NWO Rib-Off & Music Fest Enjoy live music while national and local food vendors compete for the coveted prize of Best Ribs! Bands include Night Ranger and Justin Moore. Free admission during these hours: Noon-2pm, Friday. 8-10pm, Saturday. Noon-4pm, Sunday. Evening concerts are ticketed and begin at 8pm. Lucas County Fairgrounds, 1406 Key St., Maumee. 419-893-2127. nworiboff.com

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17 SATURDAY Geode Resin Class - Students will create a sparkling treasure using resin, paint, glitter, and more. Open to ages 14+ (or 10-13 years with an adult). $65. 10-12pm. Art Supply Depo, 29 S. St. Clair St. 419-720-6462. artsupplydepo.com 15th Levis Commons Art Fair Over 130 artists, represented by the organization The Guild, will show their work on the Levis Commons campus amongst shops, bars and restaurants. 10am-7pm, Saturday. 11am-5pm, Sunday. Levis Commons, 3201 Levis Commons Blvd., Perrysburg. 419-931-8888. theguild.org Free 18th Barefoot on the Beach A true feast for foodies— over 100 top Toledo restaurants will set up on the beach to serve delightful bites. Live music and fireworks are the icing on the cake. Proceeds benefit the Boys & Girls Clubs of Greater Toledo. $125. 6-11pm. Maumee Bay St. Park, 1400 St. Park Rd, Oregon. 419-241-4258. barefootonthebeach.org

18 SUNDAY 45th Birmingham Festival This annual Hungarian festival highlights foods from the region, a beer garden, live music and dancing in the heart of the Birmingham neighborhood. Noon-9pm. St. Stephen’s Church, 1880 Genesee St., 419-691-1673. birminghamethnicfestival.org Free Family Pottery - Ages 7-17 years with an adult with create hand-built ceramics using a variety of techniques and clay-based dyes. $40. 10-12pm. 577 Foundation, 577 E. Front St., Perrysburg. 419-874-4174. 577foundation.org

22 THURSDAY German-American Fest Celebrate German-American traditions at this favored three day festival. Shuttles leave from 14 Toledo locations. $8 shuttle ticket, passes $8-$20. 6pm-1am, Friday. 2pm-1am, Saturday. Noon-11pm, Sunday. Oak Shade Grove, 3624 Seaman Rd., Oregon. 419-961-4116. gemanamericanfestival.net

24 SATURDAY Summer Concert in the Arboretum Pack a cooler and a comfy chair for a free concert outdoors at the Old West End Arboretum. The Amelia Airharts perform a mix of contemporary hits and originals. 6-8:30pm. Reynolds-Jackson Arboretum, Delaware St. at Robinwood Ave. facebook.com/toledooldwestend Free Rossford Riverfest - Locals gather at Veteran’s Memorial Park for an afternoon of live music, food vendors, carnival games and a children’s tent. August 25. $1. 4-11pm. Veteran’s Memorial Park, 300 Hannum Ave. 419-666-2905. rossfordba.com Ridin’ Late in County 48 This community bike ride will take families on a slow-paced ride through Sylvania. The first 300 riders will receive free bike lights. Helmets and lights required. For safety, a police escort will accompany the bike ride. $20. 8:30pm. Downtown Sylvania. 419-882-0800. facebook.com/ridinlate TMA Car Show - Explore classic and unique automobiles on the Museum grounds. Live music and kids activities add to the experience. Noon-3pm. Toledo Museum of Art, 2445 Monroe St. 419-255-8000. toledomuseum.org Free

27 TUESDAY Hand Lettering Workshop Ages 16+ will learn hand lettering. From cursive to calligraphy, this class will have students working on their penmanship in a fun way. $35. 5-7pm. Art Supply Depo, 29 S. St. Clair St. 419-720-6462. artsupplydepo.com

28 WEDNESDAY Family Pottery - Kids 4- 6 years with an adult will create multiple hand-built ceramics and decorate with colorful clay slip dyes and clear glaze. $30. 1-2:30pm. 577 Foundation, 577 E. Front St., Perrysburg. 419-874-4174. 577foundation.org

30 FRIDAY Family Center Visiting Artist Bring your child to TMA for a special art project led by artist Shelby Sweinhagen. 6-7pm. Toledo Museum of Art, 2455 Monroe St. 419-255-8000. toledomuseum.org Free

Wednesdays Tuesdays - Sundays

Life is a Highway: American Car Culture The Museum’s newest exhibition brings together over 100 works that identify with everyday life and the automobile. The Canaday Gallery is filled with memorabilia, photos, large scale paintings, multimedia video and more. Through September 15. The exhibition is a ticketed event, but the TMA offers free admission on Thursdays from 6-9pm. $7-$10. Museum hours vary. Toledo Museum of Art, 2455 Monroe St. 419-255-8000. toledomuseum.org

Mondays - Thursdays

Connecting Kids to Meals The Toledo Library will be serving lunch to kids at no cost throughout the summer months. Lunch is provided from noon1pm at Birmingham, Kent, Locke, Mott and Washington Libraries and 1-2pm at Heatherdowns, Holland, Lagrange, Oregon, Point Place, South, Toledo Heights and West Toledo Libraries. 419-250-5200. toledolibrary.org Free

Mondays

Free Admission Mondays The Toledo Zoo & Aquarium has an admission special on Mondays. Free admission is valid for all Lucas County residents (bring ID) from 10am-noon. Parking rates apply. (Non-residents tickets are $16-$19 and free for kids under 2.) Zoo hours are 10am-4pm. Toledo Zoo, 2 Hippo Way. 419-385-5721. toledozoo.org

Tuesdays

Waterville Food Trucks Eat outside with the family. Choose from the many food trucks that will be set up in the park. 5-7:30pm. Conrad Park, 798 Michigan Ave., Waterville. toledofoodtrucks.com Story time at Gathering Volumes This ongoing storytime is hosted every Tuesday. 10-10:30am. Gathering Volumes, 196 E. South Boundary, Perrysburg. 567-336-6188. gatheringvolumes.com Free

Westgate Farmers Market Toledo is home to amazing Farmers Markets. The Westgate Market features produce and artisan baked goods, plants and more for sale. Cash is a must. 3-7pm. Westgate Farmers Market, 3301 Secor Rd. 419-255-6765. toledofarmersmarket.com Free Brown Bag Concerts Every Wednesday local musicians perform during the noon lunch hour at the Maumee Branch Library on the lawn. Noon-1pm. Maumee Library, 501 River Rd., Maumee. 419-259-5360. toledolibrary.org Free Toddler Trails Dress for a short hike through Wildwood with your youngster. Registration required. $2 per child. 10-11am. Wildwood Preserve, 5100 Central Ave. 419-407-9700. metroparkstoledo.com

Thursdays

Tiny Tots Thursdays Sing and play games while making a craft. Themes change weekly. Reservations requested. Toddlers 2 & up. 10:30-11:30am. Learning Express Toys of Maumee, 3100 Main St., Maumee. 419-878-2446. learningexpress.com Free Stroller Rolls Spend an hour outdoors on a guided nature walk that is 100% stroller-friendly. This weekly group meets at the Mallard Lake Area. 10:30am. Oak Openings, 4139 Girdham Rd., Swanton. 419-407-9700. metroparkstoledo.com Free

Little Picassos Club Ages 6-11 will create works of art using mixed media elements like paint and markers. $7. 10-11am. Toledo Artists Club, 5403 Elmer Dr. 419-531-4079. artvillage419.org Family Movie at Locke Saturdays at the Locke Library, a fun family movie will be shown indoors. Films vary every week. 2-4pm. Locke Library, 703 Miami St. 419-259-5200. toledolibrary.org Free

marketplace LINE CLASSIFIEDS: Only $20 per month for 20 words or less. Each additional word is 40 cents each and any artwork will be $5 extra.

PAYMENT: Payment must be received before an ad can be placed. We accept checks, cash, money orders and credit cards (Visa/ Mastercard).

DISPLAY CLASSIFIEDS: Display classifieds with a box may be purchased for $25 per column inch. Photos are accepted with ads for an additional $5 per photo. DEADLINES: Ad copy must be received by the 15th of the month prior to publication.

PHONE: 419-244-9859 E-MAIL: classifieds@adamsstreetpublishing.com REFUNDS: Sorry, NO REFUNDS given. MISPRINTS: Credit toward future ads.

Call Carolyn 419.244.9859 to sell your stuff today

Saturdays

Sippy Cup Storytime Reading Barefoot with Lindsey hosts a weekly Saturday story hour. Children wilplay, sing songs and listen to a story while the adults enjoy a hot beverage of their choice. Please support the shop. 9:3010:30am. SIP Coffee, 3160 Markway Rd. 419-407-5038. facebook.com/ barefootlindsey Free Storytime at Plate One Meet other families with young children at this weekly storytime hour. Parking is free at any meter. 11:30am. Plate One, 420 Madison Ave. 419-385-2121. facebook.com/plateone Free

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