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By Kimmie Rose Your Gemini child has an amazing way of communicating with others and is a natural peace maker with peers. Their ease in talking to people is a gift! This month your little Gemini will have soaring levels of energy and, when energy soars with a Gemini, it filters through their talkative nature. It’s going to be a month where there will rarely be a quiet moment, but their minds will be recording everything they experience. This is a good time to get out the ABC song book. They will memorize it quickly and recite it to you until there is something else to learn! Singing, rhyming and the use of music are great ways to teach your Gemini child as this month their ability to absorb everything will be at an all-time high.

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New test helps detect preeclampsia earlier

About one in 20 women develop preeclampsia during pregnancy, which can be life-threatening to both mom and baby. It’s difficult to diagnose though, because symptoms often mimic those of a normal pregnancy, such as swelling and headaches. Managing preeclampsia early is critical to keeping mom and baby safe. In a new study, researchers at The Ohio State University Wexner Medical Center found a simple urine test could easily and accurately diagnoses the condition in just minutes. The test uses a special red dye that reacts to unique proteins in the urine of pregnant women with preeclampsia. “Without the certainty of this test, providers tend to be overcautious because this is definitely a condition that we can’t allow to go untreated,” said Dr. Kara Rood, lead author of the study and maternal-fetal medicine physician at the Wexner Center. “This test helps us to quickly provide care to women with preeclampsia, while avoiding unnecessary admissions or even early deliveries. The quicker we can identify women with the condition, the better chance they have of carrying their babies to full term and having a healthy delivery.”

Planet Fitness free for teens this summer

Local Girl Scout Troop Gives Back to the Community Next time your family is playing at Wildwood Preserve Metropark be on the lookout for Ohio’s first sunscreen dispenser. The Epworth Community Girl Scout Troop 12168 decided to sponsor a sunscreen dispenser at the popular park as their 2019 community project, partnering with Anders Dermatology and Wildwood Metroparks. Dedicated in May, which is Melanoma Awareness Month, the troop hopes this project will educate the community on the importance of sunscreen and staying safe in the sun as well as inspiring others to sponsor similar dispensers at other parks throughout the area. Troop 12168 has 23 girls, ranging in grades K-12. The focus of the troop is to give back to the community while empowering the girls to become emerging leaders.

This summer Plant Fitness, one of the largest and fastest-growing operators of fitness centers in the country is opening its doors to teens for free. High school teens ages 15-18 are invited to work out for free until September 1 as part of the nationwide Teen Summer Challenge initiative. Free fitness classes for teenagers are available Monday through Friday with certified fitness trainers. Teens must sign up in person (if under 18 a parent needs to go along for the sign up, too) and they must work out at the location where they sign up. For details, visit PlanetFitness.com/ TeenSummerChallenge

Antibiotics Rx more at telemedicine visit

Technology can certainly make life easier for parents and with more insurance companies covering telemedicine visits, sick kids can conveniently see a doctor through smartphones and other devices. But in a new study, researchers discovered the trend of telemedicine may fuel antibiotic overprescribing. Focusing on visits for acute respiratory tract infections like ear infections, sinusitis and viral colds, researchers found that children received antibiotic prescriptions 52% during telemedicine visits, compared with 42% following urgent care visits and 31% after primary care visits. The differences were mostly due to prescribing antibiotics when children were diagnosed with a viral infection. Antibiotics don’t help with viral infections, and when prescribed too often can contribute to the increasing rate of antibiotic-resistant diseases. The American Academy of Pediatrics discourages direct-to-consumer telemedicine visits outside a child’s medical home for acute illnesses because of limited physical exam capabilities, limited access to medical records, and the lack of ongoing clinician-patient relationships – all of which are especially important with children too young to accurately describe their symptoms.

Free National Parks access for people with disabilities

If you, or your child, has a permanent disability that limits one or more major life activities, you may be eligible to receive the Access Pass granting you free admission to more than 2,000 recreation sites including National Parks, National Wildlife Refuges, and National Forests. The pass extends to all those in the vehicle with the passholder. At many sites the Access Pass also provides the pass holder with other discounts for activities such as camping and guided tours. The disability requirements are defined broadly as a permanent physical, mental, or sensory impairment that limits one or more major life activities such as walking, seeing, caring for oneself and learning. For full information and to learn about the application process visit store.usgs.gov/access-pass. 6

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Local Schools Welcome New Leaders

There’s a new Head of School at Cardinal Stritch Catholic High School & Academy. Effective June 3, William J. Berry takes on the presidency role, becoming the 11th leader since the doors were opened at Cardinal Stritch in 1961. Mr. Berry is a strong Catholic, an active parishioner at St. Joes in Sylvania, and has been the CEO of large companies. He has a proven record of being an agent of change in his past roles, helping the organizations he worked with to be sustainable and successful. Cardinal Stritch High School & Academy, 3225 Pickle Road, Oregon, 419-693-0465

Maumee Valley Country Day School

also welcomes a new leader. Starting July 1, Dr. Molly Macek will be the new Head of Upper School. Dr. Macek comes to Maumee Valley from Notre Dame Preparatory School in Towson, MD, where she has spent the past fourteen years as a science teacher, department chair and the Director of the Upper Level STEAM Program. Regarded as a passionate and highly collaborative instructional leader, Dr. Macek possesses a diverse array of independent school teaching and administrative experience. Dr. Macek is looking forward to taking on this new role. “I am thrilled to be joining the Maumee Valley community! From the moment I stepped foot on campus, I felt inspired by the community’s commitment to providing its students with an exceptional learning environment,” she said. Maumee Valley Country Day School, 3225 S Reynolds Road, Toledo, 419-381-1313

Earth To Oven Bakery & Cafe has reopened,

after briefly closing for renovations, with a now-expanded menu, which includes vegan and vegetarian items. A coffee bar featuring Flying Rhino coffees, a bread case, refrigerated pastry display cases, outdoor seating among other updates, have been added. A delivery service still in the works. 5758 Main St., in Sylvania’s Haymarket Square. 419-824-0683. Earthtoovencafe.com

Tutors and Beyond

A new business has just opened its doors in Temperance, Michigan to help students avoid the summer learning slump and to offer a little extra help when school is in session. Tutors and Beyond offers one-on-one and small group tutoring for basic K-12 curriculums, homework help and special tutoring tailored to the needs of any learner. Tutoring and Beyond also offers summer day camps, math learning camps, and ELA learning workshops. Tutoring sessions will be available for a semester or for the full year, beginning in September. Learn more at tutorsandbeyond.com Tutors and Beyond, 9030 Secor Road, Temperance, MI, 734-731-5149.

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Where Did All The Teen Workers Go? Why my son won’t get a summer job By Katy M. Clark

When I tell you my teen won’t get a job this summer, I know what you’re going to say. He’s lazy. Or I spoil him. Teens today are so entitled, you likely think. But the truth of why my teen won’t get a job this summer is much more complicated. I can tell you my son, soon to turn 15, is eager to work. He wants to earn money towards buying a car or save up for a better phone. I certainly don’t want him to spend the next few months sleeping in until noon only to rise and play Fortnite or other video games all day. But for a myriad of reasons my teen won’t get a part-time job this summer. Much like the majority of teens today. As of 2011, the Bureau of Labor Statistics reported that 34.1 percent of 16- to 19-year-olds had a summer job, way down from the peak of 57.9 percent in 1979. Where did all the teen workers go? And why exactly won’t my son get a summer job? Legal restrictions First, his age is an issue. As an almost 15-year-old he is limited in the number of hours he can work, a protective measure of the Fair Labor Standards Act as well as the youth labor laws in our state. Some states allow kids as young as 14 to get a job, but they cannot work past 7 pm on a school night, 9 pm during the summer. However, teens ages 16 and up have much more flexibility with the hours they can work. So when my son asked if the grocery store, superstore, and fast food restaurants in town were hiring, they were — but only teens ages 16 and up.

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Transportation logistics There is also the issue of transportation. My son is too young to drive. So if he found a part-time job at a restaurant or store, it would need to be close enough, and safe enough, that he could walk, bike, or ride his scooter there. His dad and I work in the next town and can’t drive him. The team But the biggest impediment to getting a summer job might be his participation in high school sports. Indeed, high school sports have become year-round commitments. This is true for my son’s chosen sport, ice hockey. This summer there are team strength and conditioning workouts in the gym three days a week, games on Monday nights in a summer league in a neighboring town, and at least one on-ice practice on another night of the week. In all, there are five different team activities at various times across three days of the week. No wonder that, together with his age and limited transportation, my son will not be hired by any employer this summer. But lest you think he’ll alternate between playing ice hockey and Fortnite the next few months, he has joined forces with a neighborhood pal to offer lawn care. This will allow him to work around his hockey schedule and also solves the age and transportation issues. So if you are looking for a couple strong, cheap teens to mow your grass or prune your trees, give them a call. If you’re in walking distance, of course. And maybe he’ll attain that traditional summer job next year, when he’s 16.

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Toledo Sensory Room Making play fun for everyone By Emily Remaklus

The sound of kids running, laughing and playing is often music to a parent’s ear. A simple joy of childhood, playtime creates educational opportunities as children interact with their environment and other people. However, for children with disabilities or sensory impairments, playtime is not quite as simple. Children with sensory disorders, such as autism, may face hyper-sensitivities or hypo-sensitivities — over-responsiveness and under-responsiveness to sensory stimulants. Certain lights, sounds, or textures can cause the child to become uncomfortable and that can make playing difficult. A safe space for play The Toledo Sensory Room is a safe space for all children, but specifically those with sensory impairments, to en-

gage in play. Nicole Danz, the volunteer coordinator for The Toledo Sensory Room, said, “We are providing a multisensory environment where sensory stimulation can be monitored and the kids can actively or passively interact with this environment, ultimately getting the chance to play in a way that meets his/her individualized needs.” Equipped for fun The room opened in 2012 when The University of Toledo and ProMedica, working together, received a grant to help provide the funds for the room’s equipment. They then collaborated with Special Kids Therapy, which hosts its own sensory room in Findlay, to determine what equipment would be most beneficial for The Toledo Sensory Room. The facility is an open space located in the ProMedica Finnegan Family Autism

Center. Children can interact with toys like the ball pit, a small climbing wall, bubble machines, and a chair that vibrates and pulses to the beat of music. There are also various texture toys and a sensory wall with varying textures, toys that make different sounds, and toys that move. “Some kids enjoy lights, some enjoy sounds, some enjoy the touch and feel of different textures. So we have all that in one room,” said Danz. During the warmer months, an outdoor enclosed playground space is open to the children as well.

Details about visiting Run by volunteers from the University of Toledo Occupational Therapy Doctorate program, the volunteers help to guide the children with their interactions in the room and facilitate play. Parents and guardians are asked to stay to interact with their children and the environment as well. The ProMedica Finnegan Family Autism Center, 2040 W. Central Avenue. Open three times a month; two Tuesdays from 5-7pm and one Saturday from 10am-12pm. Specific days are posted on The Toledo Sensory Room’s Facebook, facebook.com/toledosensoryroom. Admission into the room is free. For questions, contact ndanz@rockets.utoledo.edu.

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Depending on your familial and monetary situations, there are a plethora of resources to help you in the first few months. A family member may be able to stay with you to take some of the night shifts, and there are even “sleep nannies” you can hire to share the nighttime responsibilities. If you plan to nurse exclusively the first few months, this limits your options, but that’s yet another thing to consider. Breastfeeding is admirable and beneficial for the baby, but not all mothers are capable of producing enough — or any — breast milk, and if it’s a fight between your sanity and breastfeeding, then don’t allow societal pressure to guilt you into thinking you are “less than” because you choose to supplement, pump, or use formula exclusively. Being a new mom is hard enough without the added pressure of society’s expectations.

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The word “doula” is a Greek word meaning “woman’s servant.” A doula is essentially a labor support companion. They are professionally trained in childbirth to provide emotional, physical, and educational support to pregnant women throughout their journey. They are NOT medically trained; their purpose is to provide a positive, memorable, and empowering birthing experience, but they do not help with the physical birthing process.

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A midwife is a trained health professional, sometimes — but not always — a nurse, who helps healthy women during labor, delivery, and after the birth of their babies. Midwives can deliver babies at home, in birthing centers, or in a hospital. Sara Linkey, CNM, MSN, RN at Henry County Hospital, explains, “Certified Nurse-Midwives (CNMs) partner with women to provide evidence-based women’s health care. Midwives provide gynecology services, pregnancy and postpartum care, and are qualified and trained in delivery. The Midwifery relationship can start in the teen years and continue all the way through menopause. Midwives are passionate about education, health promotion, and assisting women to make the best choices about their health. Midwifery is women caring for women!” For those who are considering a midwife, it’s important to recognize that midwives can have different levels of training:

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"The Apgar system helps us know if a baby is adapting to this huge transition from in-utero to life on the outside," says ob/gyn Erin McNulty, MD. . A normal Apgar score ranges between 7 and 10. A score of 4 to 6 may mean that the baby requires oxygen and additional monitoring. Scores 3 and below demand emergency medical intervention. Soon after delivery, babies receive Erythromycin eye ointment to prevent rare, but serious eye infections that can be passed from mom to baby during delivery. Newborns also receive Vitamin K, a vitamin that helps with blood clotting. Because they don't produce enough of the vitamin on their own just yet, lack of the supplement puts infants at risk for anemia, excessive jaundice, or damage to internal organs, including the brain. Meanwhile, if you've had a vaginal delivery, your ob/gyn team will oversee the delivery of the placenta and repair any tears to the perineum. Many hospitals also try to ensure mom and baby get skin-to-skin bonding time in the immediately post delivery, even if only for a few minutes in the operating room following a c-section.

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If you require a c-section, you'll spend the first hour postpartum in the operating room where the OB team will suture the uterus and the abdominal skin before transferring you to the recovery room. Your baby will be most alert during the hour following delivery. You may be pleasantly surprised at how your newborn turns toward your voice and instinctively reaches to nurse. "If you place a baby skin-to-skin on mom's belly or chest, even right after delivery, the baby can usually get itself up to the breast to nurse," says Lisa Cavin-Wainscott, APRN, clinical nurse specialist. The first feeding will stimulate breast milk production and help the uterus contract, which can prevent excessive bleeding. Don't expect you or your baby to get the hang of breastfeeding right away. "Be patient. It takes timepotentially four to six weeks-for mom and baby to get comfortable," CavinWainscott says. Your breast milk won't come in for another 48 to 72 hours, but don't worry. The colostrum that your breasts produce is usually enough for your newborn. After the first feeding, you and your baby will be tired and ready to sleep. Newborns typically sleep anywhere from 16 to 20 hours per day and may be need to be woken up for a feeding. "Many new moms are surprised at just how often a newborn needs to eat," Dr. McNulty says. "Their stomachs are the size of a pea so they are full quickly, but need to eat quickly too." Baby will also pass her first stool called meconium, which will be sticky and dark green or black in color.

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These days, most hospitals keep babies with their mothers rather than moving them to a nursery. The time together promotes mother-baby bonding, relaxation and healing. You'll begin to learn your baby's cries and recognize feeding cues like hand sucking. While some hospitals will bathe the baby soon after delivery, others wait until four to 12 hours after birth. "The baby has a special coating on their skin that actually acts as a moisturizer so we don't want to give the bath too soon," says Dawn Cox, MSN, RNC-OB. A bath immediately postpartum can also stress a newborn because they get cold easily, Cox adds. You may also notice your baby sneezing, but that doesn't mean she's sick. "Baby may be 'spitty' for several hours after birth as they get rid of blood and other fluids that may have been swallowed during the delivery process," Cavin-Wainscott says. You may experience physical pain from the delivery and mixed emotions. "During the first day following delivery, the hormones your body made during pregnancy start to come crashing down and mood swings and changes are the norm," Dr. McNulty says.

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Your pediatrician or family care physician will conduct a complete physical assessment of your newborn, including blood type, bilirubin level, screening for rare genetic disorders, and a hearing screen. Labor and delivery nurses, lactation consultants and other healthcare providers, will continue to provide you with support. A financial counselor, social worker and WIC nutrition consultant may also visit to provide resources that you might need before heading home. Of course, friends and family will be anxious to drop in too. "I hear many new parents who wish they had slowed down and enjoyed more bonding time with their baby, rather than allowing family members and friends to visit right away," Dr. McNulty says. If you'd prefer to wait to see visitors, ask them to visit after the first 24 hours or ask your nurses to advocate for you. "We are glad to step in and support the patient however we can. We just need to know ahead of time what you would like," Cox says. Guests should refrain from visiting if they are sick since babies don't have welldeveloped immune systems and are more susceptible to infection. Be aware that different hospitals have different security measures in place to ensure the privacy and safety of their patients. If possible, advise your friends ahead of time of your hospital's visitor policies. CONTINUED ON P. 14

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First-time moms ooh and aah over everything: stuffed animals, cute onesies, diaper pails, baby socks, receiving blankets, and yes, even wipe warmers. It takes a certain amount of creativity to find the perfect gift for second- (or third or fourth) time moms who already have all of the essentials. If you think a mom with multiple kids has everything she needs, try giving her one of these thoughtful gifts that she is sure to appreciate. Diapers and wipes. While these necessities might seem boring, a mom who has more than one child appreciates not having to go to the store in those early postpartum weeks. If she has more than one in diapers, her wallet will appreciate the break, too. When friends threw a diaper shower for Dodi Hance, mother of six, she didn’t have to buy diapers and wipes for nine months afterwards. “It was so nice to go to my diaper closet and be able to pull out whatever size I needed,” she says. Meals. Any mom with a newborn deserves a break from planning and preparing a well-balanced meal. Give the whole family a gift by bringing a warm meal. Before deciding on chicken casserole or the fixings for tacos, make sure they don’t have any food allergies, then package their meal in disposable containers so they don’t have to worry about returning them. Tools for two. If your mom friend now has more than one child, she needs some new gadgets to keep up with her crew. Sara Keeth, a mother of two, says, “I never used a sling with my first child, but with my second, it was suddenly necessary since I needed my hands free to help out my older kid.” Similarly, a double stroller can come in handy when Mom takes multiple kids on outings to the zoo or the mall.

Anything personalized or homemade. When a baby’s closet is full of hand-me-downs, your friend will cherish gifts that were made specifically for her little one. Knit or crochet a blanket just for him or embroider the baby’s name on a burp cloth. Have her name engraved on a Christmas ornament. A personalized gift can become a keepsake for the family. Playdates for her older kids. When you have multiple kids, it’s hard to find that one-on-one bonding time with a newborn that moms crave. Melissa Bates, a mom of three, didn’t realize how much she would appreciate concentrated time with her second baby until another friend offered to take her older daughter for the day. “Being able to spend uninterrupted time with just my baby for us to get to know each other was a blessing. Not only that, but I could actually sleep when he slept like everyone says you should do.” Even if it’s just for a couple of hours, offer to pick up your friend’s older children to take them to a park or back to your house to play. Your sleep-deprived mom friend will be able to enjoy the break guilt-free knowing that her older child is having fun with friends.

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Gifts for the older siblings. Becoming a big brother or sister can be a hard transition, especially when baby is getting all the presents. Win Mom’s heart by buying something small for her older child, whether it’s a book, a dollar store toy, or a new stuffed animal. Bring a “busy box” full of things like coloring books, crayons, and stickers to give the child something to do while Mommy feeds the baby or changes a diaper. Housecleaning. Want to make a friend for life? Pool your money with a large group of friends to buy a month or two of professional housecleaning. That way Mom can focus on her children in the first few postpartum weeks instead of looking around the house feeling guilty about all that needs to be done. If she’s a close friend, you might consider grabbing some cleaning supplies and doing some light housework yourself.

Self-care gifts for Mommy. Give your friend a little something just for her. Think about lotion, a Starbucks gift card, a book for nighttime feedings, or a coupon for free babysitting so she and her husband can go out on a date. Becca Ross, a mom of three, received a gift certificate for a much-needed massage when she had her second baby. “Besides helping my aching back from nursing and carrying a baby and a toddler all day, the short alone time for me to relax and re-energize was helpful to everyone in my family,” she says. The next time you’re scratching your head trying to decide what to get for your second-time mom friend, consider one of these practical gifts. Whether she’s breathing in the smell of a freshlycleaned house, wrapping her baby in his own crocheted blanket, or watching her older child play with a new toy, she will know how much you care. CONTINUED ON P. 17

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Hospital Bag Checklist A handy list to help you pack

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What new mom needsSupporting the transition By Erin Marsh

Becoming parents can be a trying transition for all involved, and when you add physical/hormonal changes plus sleep deprivation, life can get crazy. One way to help navigate these challenging times is to discuss household duties and designate responsibilities during pregnancy. If you save this conversation for post-baby, when emotions are running high due to sleep deprivation and/or hormonal changes, the results may not be quite as rational...or calm. If mama plans to breastfeed exclusively, that means she will do all of the nighttime feedings, and even if a partner wakes to change diapers before/after feedings, mama will get significantly less sleep. House chores If the non-nursing parent could take care of household duties--cleaning, cooking, doing laundry--then mama could at least nap when baby naps. That grandmotherly wisdom--”nap when baby naps”--makes sense in theory, but if household duties are still looming, those often take precedence over sleep. Help sleep-deprived mama keep her sanity by taking care of everything else so she can focus solely on baby... and a bit of shut-eye here and there. Another supportive way to care for mama is to help with social and emotional duties. Find out what works best for both of you (are visitors helpful or do they bring more stress?), and then run interference with family and friends. Some new parents thrive on visitors; others see guests as another burden with added stress. A pillar of support The biggest thing you can do for mama is to provide unconditional support. Even if her requests are irrational and her emotions irregular, be her pillar. Some mamas bear motherhood with grace and ease, but most of us are sloppy, crazy messes thanks to hormones and sleep deprivation. Give us time--we’ll return to our prepregnancy state eventually...once we finally catch up on sleep and our hormones even out.

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Prepping for your hospital stay and unsure of what to bring? Here are the must-haves:

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stretchy and comfortable Clothes for baby Baby blanket from home with the smells of your house/pets Pacifiers Carseat Chargers for electronics Entertainment: iPad, magazines, books, crossword puzzles, movies A pillow and/or blanket from home Slippers or grippy socks Loose-fitting nightgown (with nursing access if you plan to breastfeed) Nursing tank or bra if breastfeeding Chapstick (dry hospital air!) Lots of loose-fitting underwear that can fit large pads and a postpartum belly Face wash cloths and/or dry shampoo to make cleansing a little easier Cardigan or robe if you run cold or plan to wear nursing tanks Snacks for you and visitors Nipple cream Nursing pillow or boppy, whether you plan to nurse or not Bottles if you plan to formula-feed

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Welcoming a new baby can be one of the most happy and tumultuous times for a family. Everyone is excited to meet the new member of the family and the countdown to delivery can be filled with anticipation and preparation. The transition can also bring an assortment of negative feelings for siblings and expecting parents alike. Joy mixed with fear, excitement mixed with anxiety, and

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Mama’s Belly by Kate Hosford This beautifully illustrated and tenderly told story gives us a glimpse into a sweet family of 3 as they prepare to welcome a new baby. Mama is changing, the family rhythm is changing, the house is changing. Big sister watches Mama’s belly grow and she has many questions about the new baby and what life will bring. She wonders what she will look like, she wonders how they will play, but the most important of all: “When my sister comes, will you have enough love for both of us?” I wish I had had this story to read to my oldest girls when their younger sister arrived, to remind them that our family’s love is as wide as the sky.

love tempted by jealousy once the baby arrives. For kids, these big emotions can be hard to navigate, and for parents who are sleep-deprived the emotional work can feel daunting. Thankfully, with a little time, gentle hugs and good books your family can navigate this transition and welcome your new bundle with love and joy.

Motherbridge of Love poem & story by anonymous author Illustrated by Josee Masse This poem was written anonymously by an adoptive mother to the charity The Mother’s Bridge of Love, which works to develop a connection between adopted children from China, their adoptive parents and their Chinese culture. This sweet story shows how families are formed differently and how adoption can bring people together in beautiful ways. It honors both the birth mother and adoptive mother’s love and how each hold an irreplaceable place in a child’s life. It is a beautiful tribute to motherhood in its many forms. A Baby Sister for Frances by Russell Hoban The Frances series is a favorite around our house. Hoban captures the simplicity of an ordinary day of childhood; a day for Frances which means play and imagination and silly songs. In A Baby Sister for Frances, little Frances is feeling sad that she can’t enjoy her usual play because it’s too rough or too loud for the new baby. She decides she’d be better off alone and pretends to run away. Hoban sweetly portrays every new sibling’s fear: that her parents prefer the baby to her, and also depicts the patient love that parents hold for each of their children.

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foundation for positive entry into the next day.

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4. Engaging the imagination. Bedtime stories are one of the best ways to stimulate a child’s imagination. Research reveals that reading a story is completely different than watching a TV show or movie. Listening to a story requires more active participation as children use their mind to visualize what is happening and to think about what choices they would make if they were the character. These new ideas inspire kids to imagine new realities and identities for themselves. Favorite stories start to positively shape their own life story.

A Powerful Family Ritual The bedtime story is so important By Mike Morrison

There is simply nothing more powerful than the bedtime story – especially in this age of continuous screen time. The bedtime story is the perfect ending to the day. So let’s rethink and reclaim this special decompression time for both parent and child. It is not just something we are doing for our kids – the benefits accrue to us as well; We don’t read to, we read with. Here are five reasons why the bedtime story is the most powerful family ritual: 1. End of day closure. The bedtime story can symbolically represent a closure point in our continuous, always-on, se endless days. Even our kids, as they enter grade school, are starting to feel pressures of a 24/7 world. Together we can start to wind down, letting go of the anxieties that can fill a day. For our kids,

bathing, teeth brushing and a change into pajamas starts the slow-down process. For us parents, it is also important that we fully shift our attention and presence to this special time – treating it as uninterrupted and sacred. That means we need to leave our devices outside the room. 2. Feeling safe and secure. There is probably no safer or more secure feeling than to be snuggled by a parent – listening to their comforting voice. Bonding is magnified as a special story transports us to a world of possibility. Also, stress levels start to lower for both parent and child as a softer energy starts to surround us. Repeating this loving ritual night after night promotes an unconditional love

that protects our little ones from the inevitable feelings of vulnerability that define the human experience. 3. Healthy sleeping/better dreaming. Sleep specialists reveal how bedtime stories can help both child and parent get a good night sleep. It makes total sense. The loving voice tones of the parent can also create strong associations with sleep – slowing the brain down – and helping the child to let go of the day. As our young ones enter deeper sleep after storytelling, the brain continues to “play with” this new information -- imprinting the feelings, images and story patterns that have been heard. In other words, the powerful subconscious continues to do its magic as the child sleeps, setting the

5. Connecting and empathizing. Just as stories help our kids create their sense of self, they also help them to empathize with others. Our young ones can find comfort in relating to a character in a story who is going through a similar challenge – whether it is a best friend moving away or the loss of a pet. Not surprisingly, stories can help our kids find the courage to deal with things that seemed too far out of their experience. For children in uncertain circumstances (like divorce or loss of a family member), a bedtime story can help them to start shaping a new reality. Still, the most precious forms of connection that bedtime stories facilitate is that between parent and child – one of the most powerful predictors of success and happiness in life for our kids.

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PENNY PINCHING FAMILY FUN ON A BUDGET

By Kimberly Feldkamp

Spend a day down on the Farm Kids of all ages will enjoy spending time at Rosenbloom’s Farm, a “quaint farm close to home.” Soak up the sun, stroll through the pasture, stop to smell the seasonal flowers in the garden, get up close with horses, llamas and donkeys, and even get creative in the craft room— all without venturing too far. Rosenbloom’s also offers a variety of summer camps for kids.

Warmer weather guarantees a more active season. Everyone wants to be outside, on the go and having fun. While raising a family is quite and it may be hard to find extra room in the budget for summer fun, there are plenty of things to do in and around Toledo without breaking the bank. Here are some ideas for family activities high on fun but low on cost.

Adventure Awaits! You’ll find plenty to do at one of the many parks in the Wood County Park District this summer. Hit the pond for free paddle experience (with certified instructors) from 4-7:30pm on Mondays this summer at W.W. Knight Nature Preserve. Take the plunge and rappel down a cliff at Sawyer Quarry Nature Preserve. From archery to fishing, family geocaching adventures, and hands-on learning programs offered at various parks, you’re sure to find something for everyone. 419-353-1897. wcparks.org

Free Family Movie Nights Back again this is ProMedica’s Free Family Movie Nights, a summer-long outdoor movie series presented by Paramount Advantage. The events kicks off on Saturday, June 15 with Mary Poppins Returns. There will also be additional entertainment including interactive water features, face painting, food trucks and more. Seating is first come, first serve, so grab your blankets and get there early. Entertainment starts at 6pm and the movie begins at 7:30pm. For list of upcoming movies, see online.

Science in the Summer Your family may love Imagination Station, but it might be hard to spend a full day exploring this awesome downtown Toledo museum.Plan to visit on on the third Thursday of the month (during the Art Loop) to enjoy extended hours (the science center will stay open until 8pm) reduced admission prices ($5 per person). 1 Discovery Way, Toledo. 419-244-2674. imagainationstationtoledo.org

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2738 Shetland, Toledo. 419-841-3320 Explore a Cave Caves are cool - literally! About an hour drive from Toledo is Seneca Caverns in Bellevue. One of Ohio’s largest underground caverns, the attraction features natural stone steps and the Ole’ Mist’ry River, a crystal-clear underground stream. Tours depart every 30 minutes. Strollers and backpack carriers are not permitted, so this activity is better suited for older children. ($18 adults 13-61; $9 children 5-12; children under 5 are free). 15248 E Township Rd 178, Bellevue. 419-483-6711. senecacavernsohio.com

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You’ve got the basics of food, clothing and shelter covered for your family, but what about financial security? Do you have an emergency fund set up? How much should you be saving for college? Is it necessary for kids to still know how to write a check? Here a local expert answers some of your money questions.

2. Are there different college funds that pertain to Ohio / Michigan and/or are there college funds that can be used at any college in any state?

Most states in the U.S. do have a specific state sponsored plan. The significance with the state sponsored plans is that you have to use the state’s plan that you live in to receive an annual state income tax credit. For example, in Michigan you can receive up to $10,000 a year state tax deduction per beneficiary per year. In Ohio, the state income tax deduction is $4,000 per year per beneficiary. The state specific plans have no effect on what state you can use the funds for school. You will be eligible to use the fund any state in the country.

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1. How much money should I put away each month to fund college education?

3. What amount of money should we have set aside for an emergency fund?

I don’t think you can put a specific dollar amount on it. On average, tuition costs rise 8% annually, so it’s important to try and keep pace with it. However, that’s not always realistic for many people. I always tell clients that something is better than nothing; $25 a month will be worth it 18 years from now.

4. If you had to choose just one, would you put money in a 401k or a savings account first?

If I had to choose one, I would choose a savings account. It is important to make sure you have a cash reserve on hand in case of an emergency, before worrying about retirement.

5. At what age should you be talking to kids about the value of $1?

It is important that kids understand the value of a dollar, but I’m not sure you can place an exact age on when to teach them. Kids are a lot smarter than they are given credit for and catch on to things at a very young age. I think when teaching any important lesson, it’s best to start young, and explain it in a way that they will understand.

6. Any tips for getting kids to save at a young age?

One rule I recently heard that I like a lot is to have your child put 50% of their birthday, Christmas, etc. money into a savings account, and keep the other 50% for their own personal use. That way, the process is ingrained in them early.

7. So much banking is digital anymore (think PayPal, Venmo and more). Is it important to make sure kids still know how to write checks and count change?

While technology is seemingly taking over banking (among other things), it’s still important to make sure kids know how to write checks and count change. Anything could happen that could result in technology not being right at our fingertips, yet we would still need to pay our bills.

This may vary from person to person. Our general thought is, if you have two income earners in your home, you should have three months’ worth of expenses as a cash reserve. If you have one income earner, you should have six months’ worth of expenses as a cash reserve.

With the right financial advisor, life can be brilliant. Gregory W. Wagoner, CFP®, MBA, CLTC® Financial Advisor CERTIFIED FINANCIAL PLANNER™ Practitioner Wagoner, Wagoner & Associates A private wealth advisory practice of Ameriprise Financial Services, Inc. 5954 Renaissance Place, Suite D | Toledo, OH 43623 | Phone: 419.842.8488 gregory.w.wagoner@ampf.com | ameripriseadvisors.com/gregory.w.wagoner

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DaugHters Local dads dish on fatherhood and the special bond between dads & daughters By Brad Augustyniak

Ah Fathers Day! The one time of year us dads get recognized for the endless piggyback rides, human cannonball pool throws, tea parties, makeshift backyard sports fields and everything else we love to do with our kids. And no, we don’t really need to be recognized for any of it but if you are going to give us a day to get some ties, and (if we are lucky) homemade presents and cards from our kids, well, then, we’ll take it. As a dad with a 12 year-old girl and two younger boys, I’ll admit the boy stuff is usually pretty easy because it’s everything I enjoyed as a kid. But with my daughter it’s a little different because the dynamic changes, particularly as she gets older. The previously mentioned activities turn into trips to the mall, conversations about her friends, neighborhood walks with the dog and my handyman services in modifying her room…several times over. In celebration of Fathers Day, I interviewed a few local dads to get their thoughts on the holiday and raising their daughters. .

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John is a 21 year law enforcement veteran who is currently a District Commander for the Ohio State Highway Patrol. He has twin 15 year old daughters - Kelli and Molly Altman. What do you love most about being a dad?

The answer to this question has changed over the years. It is always great to know that your daughters need your help to solve problems no matter what age they are. Now that my daughters are 15 years old it’s great that they still come to me with problems, let me give them advice and involve me in their lives.

What’s your favorite thing about having a daughter?

Getting to see them grow up and become confident, caring and successful young women. It is an awesome thing to know that something I have said or done has molded them into the person they are and who they will become. 22

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What’s something you hope she learns from you?

I hope that when my daughters reflect back on their time as children they realize I showed them the importance of hard work in everything they do! I hope that I’ve modeled, exemplified and showed them by never quitting and working hard they can accomplish anything!

What advice do you have for her as she grows?

I remind both my girls life goes by fast and to enjoy the moment. I remind them they are only 15 one time and to not waste time worrying about what other people think. Along those same lines, I remind them life is way too short to spend time with people who do not respect you and lastly, never let someone else defineyour happiness.

How do you manage a work/family balance?

Balancing work and family is a constant struggle for anyone who cares about what they do and the family they love. Although it is important that I show my daughters you can be committed to your family, health/ physical fitness, and your chosen profession.

What’s your ideal way to spend Father’s Day?

Probably not realistic but would love to wake up at a beach house with my family. I would enjoy an early morning workout before everyone got up. Finally, spend the day at the beach with my family.

What do you really want for Father’s Day?

I would like a day with my family without running from place to place. Life gets so busy and the schedule can be draining. A day just being together that ends with a big salad and a juicy steak would be great!

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Justin Motsch

Justin is a stay at home father to three children – his two daughters are split between middle school and pre-school. What do you love most about being a dad?

The best part has always been the uncertainty of how they react and grow as life goes on.

What’s your favorite thing about having a daughter?

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Chris Russen

I was terrified when I found out I was having a daughter, because I knew nothing of little girls, coming from a family of all boys. What I didn’t know at the time, was that it was a blessing, allowing me to discover this entire other side of life of which I had zero exposure.

What’s something you hope she learns from you?

Of all the lessons I hope they learn from me, it’s the importance of liking yourself; being able to look in the mirror and appreciate both strengths and flaws, discovering self-worth.

What advice do you have for her as she grows?

Chris is an Annuity Wholesaler with two daughters ages 12 and 6 - Bella and Cora.

I believe the best advice for them is their mother’s advice: learn how to be your own person; not to be totally reliant upon anyone, but to cultivate their own identity and purpose in life.

What do you love most about being a dad?

How do you manage a work/family balance?

Watching them grow and develop into young ladies is pretty cool!

What’s your favorite thing about having a daughter? Having three nephews, this brings out my softer side.

What’s something you hope she learns from you?

I hope they learn how a husband/dad should treat their wife/ daughter, and how to deal with the challenges and hurdles that life throws at you. I also hope they see how my wife and I interact with each other, and remember how important a healthy marriage is.

As a stay-at-home father, my family life encompasses so much of my own time, but I’m always shocked when people feel guilty for making time for themselves that does not include their children. We lead by example, and we cannot teach our children how to be happy and well adjusted if we spend all our time on our children.

What’s your ideal way to spend Father’s Day?

My ideal Father’s Day would be spent with family, whether going out to a zoo or ball game, or staying home.

What do you really want for Father’s Day?

The best Father’s day gifts are gag gifts that embody the spirit of “dad jokes”!

What advice do you have for her as she grows? Follow their dreams, nothing is out of reach, and her mom and I will always have your back.

How do you manage a work/family balance?

Working in Ann Arbor, when I’m home I try to focus on them, and not bring work home. I also try to take days off to make memories and be part of school, etc… and be present as much as possible.

What’s your ideal way to spend Father’s Day? Relaxing at home with my girls (wife included), and often my extended family.

What do you really want for Father’s Day? Get a round of golf in and more family time!

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A fun way to practice skills in the summer by Christa Melnyk Hines

level. Some teachers start kids blogging as early as second and third grades. Educators use carefully moderated and secure sites like KidBlog.org.

sity of Wisconsin-Parkside. “You aren’t just turning this [writing assignment] into your teacher, you are turning this in as a global writer, a global thinker.” Get to know blogging. If you aren’t sure how blogging works, open an account and play around with the platform. Learn how privacy settings work and familiarize yourself with the terms and conditions associated with the platform. Explore blogs your child likes.

Blog options. For the under 12 crowd, Kidzworld offers a safe, moderated platform for kids to blog with parental consent. Your child could also blog through a free platform like Blogger or Wordpress, however both platforms require that users are 13 and over. In this case, you might want to create a family blog where you make the blog private and invite family and friends to follow. Tumblr, Twitter and Instagram are

When is a good age to start blogging? Whether a child is ready for blogging, or any other type of social media, really depends on your child and her maturity

especially popular among teens. These are “short-form multi-media” blogging sites. Members post photos, video and short posts. These sites are not suggested for kids younger than 13. Safety considerations. Naturally, your child’s safety will be top of mind. Create a digital contract with your child to clarify your rules, expectations and consequences. Talk about the types of information she should never share like: • Full name • Year of birth • The name and location of her school (including in photos) • Home address If she includes a photo of herself, make sure it doesn’t leave a digital footprint that reveals your location. (Turn off geotagging by going into your privacy settings on your the phone and turn off the location services under your camera app.) Review her posts before they go live to make sure she isn’t inadvertently sharing information that could put her personal safety or identity at risk. Discourage your child from using the blog like a private journal by asking questions like: “Am I okay with Grandma or my teacher seeing this?” “Would I be embarrassed if my friends at school read this?”

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STUBBORN BROTHER PIZZA BAR 3115 W. Bancroft Toledo, OH 43528 419-720-1818 Sun-Wed: 11a.m.-midnight Thur-Sat: 11a.m.-1a.m. stubbornbrother.com

Stubborn… And Proud Of It!

This Mancy family is serious about pizza By Karen L. Zickes

I am very ‘Toledo proud,’ as are my children. We love the 419. I lived away for about 10 years and didn’t think I would be raising my brood in Toledo, but I’m glad life worked out this way. I am a very proud graduate of the University of Toledo, and my oldest just finished her first year at UT. When I heard that the Mancy family had opened a pizza place near campus I was beyond excited. It was time for the Pizza Posse to go field trippin’! Toledo roots, Toledo proud Even if you weren’t raised in Toledo, all locals become aware of the Mancy family and their variety of wonderful restaurants. Born and raised here, the Mancy brothers and cousins have invested in Toledo over and over. John Mancy, who runs Mancy Bluewater Grille, and his wife Gabrielle, watched the old Schorlings grocery store near campus sit vacant for years, before they finally decided to open up another restaurant. And what could be more perfect for the neighborhood near a college campus than a pizza bar? I love the interior of Stubborn Brother Pizza Bar (SBPB). The kitchen is open with a rectangular bar in the middle of the room, with tables and booths surrounding it. The booth seats wrap around, adding extra seating which is a bonus for small groups. It has a some28

what industrial flare with open rafters, bar stools that are bolted to the floor, garage doors facing Bancroft, and exposed brick walls. My favorite part is the HUGE lit ‘TOLEDO’ sign gracing the long wall. Stubborn about EVERYTHING Being stubborn doesn’t always have to have a negative connotation. In the case of SBPB, their stubbornness is what makes them stand apart. They are stubborn about the ingredients they use and stubborn about providing the best service possible. ‘Stubbornly fresh, stubbornly clean, stubbornly honest’ is their motto. According to Gabrielle Mancy, who was raised in NJ, she and her husband John started working on their dough recipe five years ago. They wanted to bring the NJ/NY kind of pizza to Toledo; even if that meant special water filters to replicate the NY water. Slice houses are everywhere in NJ and NY. Since they are not commonplace here, I had Gabrielle educate me. Basically, they are pizza places you walk into and just get it by the slice. Well, you can do that at SBPB! Mrs. Mancy said they have worked with a mill in Fostoria to grind the flour used in the crust from wheat berries with no additives. They ferment the dough for four days. It is fresh and not hard on the body. They do, however, offer gluten free pizza for those with allergies and you are even given your own pizza cutter/roller

so there is no chance of cross contamination. According to Gabrielle Mancy, “We get as much (of our ingredients) as we can locally.” Pizza, subs, and salads oh my! The pizzas are either 18” round thin crust, or rectangular with quite a bit more dough, so it depends what you are craving. The Pizza Posse tried a couple of each and I think our favorites may have been the thin crust. Or, well, maybe the thick crust? We may just need to go back again. Certainly you can tell Stubborn Brother’s dough was different….in a good way. My personal favorite is the Giavanna’s White. It has the SB pizza cheese, ricotta, roasted mushrooms, roasted garlic, EVOO (extra virgin olive oil), and fresh basil. Oh, it was so good. They have a variety of appetizers, salads, and subs as well. “The Chicago Beef sub is the best seller,” according to Gabrielle. The Pizza Posse also enjoyed the twice baked garlic rolls with marinara and garlic Romano oven baked wings. However, save room for dessert. The vanilla soft serve with EVOO and salt is something you really need to try. Of course they have a top of the line soft serve machine as well, because they are stubborn about their ice cream, too.

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The Short Course

Kid-friendly: Yes. To avoid wait: Anytime. Noise level: Moderate to loud. Bathroom amenities: No changing station. High Chairs: Yes. Got milk? Yes— white and chocolate. Kids’ menu? No— but you can buy pizza by the slice. Allergy info: Gluten free pizza available, alert server to any allergies when ordering.

Bottom Line:

Being stubborn is a good thing when it comes to Stubborn Brother Pizza because they only want the best of everything for their customers. The family friendly, college friendly, and neighborhood friendly pizza bar will be a hit with everyone in your group, whether they’re young, or young at heart.

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1 SATURDAY Heritage Farm Fest - Visit the Historic Farmstead in Wood County for an afternoon of hayrides, treats and 1930s-era party games. Take a tour of the house, farm and animals with the family. 3-7pm. Carter Farm, 18331 Carter Rd., Bowling Green. 419-353-1897. wcparks.org Free 8th Maple & Main Festival The annual art and music festival held in downtown Sylvania showcases countless fine art vendors setting up shop on the streets, food trucks, in-store specials at downtown shops and live music. 11am-7:3pm 6/1 & 10am-4pm, 6/2. Downtown Sylvania, Maple & Main Streets. sylvaniaarts.org Lucas the Elephant Birthday at the Zoo - The Zoo’s cutest elephant is turning 8 years old! Watch the birthday boy enjoy special treats and games. Free with admission. 10:30am-1:30pm. Toledo Zoo, 2 Hippo Way. 419-385-5721. toledozoo.org Summer School Courses The summer course work is available to students to earn or recover credits during the summer months. Courses include English 1-4, Pre-Calc, World Geography and American Studies. Summer school will be held at Bowsher, Start and Waite High Schools. Registration required. $50-$150. Contact 419-671-0431. tps.org Family Gardening Make & Take Spend some time at the Toledo Grows urban farm and educational center, located off Cherry Street near St. Vincent’s. Kids will plant seeds in a miniature garden to take home. Kids $5-$6. Adults $10-$12. Toledo Grows, 900 Oneida St. 419- 720-8714. toledogrows.org 4th Toledo Police Falko Memorial 5k - The event memorializes police dog Falko with a 5k race. Funds support canine training and equipment for the force. Dogs are welcome at the event. $25-$35. 8-10am. Ottawa Park, 2201 Kenwood Blvd. 419- 720-2485. facebook.com/toledo-police-department Field of Dreams Baseball Camp Kids will experience a two hour baseball camp, three Mud Hens players and VIP treatment at the ballpark. The camp is open to any child 5-18 with special needs. $25. Noon-2pm. Hensville, 406 Washington St. 419-725-4367. mudhens.com

2 SUNDAY 10th Wildlife Festival - Visit the gardens for a day of animal educational programs, live animals, face painting and live music. Programs throughout the day. 1-4pm. Toledo Botanical, 5403 Elmer Dr. 419- 936-2986. metroparkstoledo.com Free

3 MONDAY Auditions from Teen Musical Teens can audition for the Children’s Theatre Workshop production of the Little Mermaid. Rehearsals through June with performances in July. 1-5pm. Children’s Theatre Workshop, 2417 Collingwood Blvd. 419-244-5061. ctwtoledo.org Art Explorers Camp - The camp will guide kids through art work and creating. On the last day, families will be invited to the student’s Art Exhibit. $135. Membership required. 9am-noon. 6/3-6/6. Wolf Creek YMCA, 2100 S. Holland Sylvania Rd., Maumee. 419- 866-9622. ymcatoledo.org

4 TUESDAY Nature Detectives - Explore Way Down Underground and the earth under our feet during this hour long educational program at the Buehner Center. Open to toddlers with an adult. Register. $3. Oak Openings, 5230 Wilkins Rd., Whitehouse. 419-875-6349. metroparkstoledo.com

6 THURSDAY Discoverer’s Nature Camp The day camp invites kids 9-10 years outside for sports and outdoor education. The camp runs 6/10-6/14. Campers must be registered by 6/6. $60. 419-661-1697. W.W. Knight Preserve, 29520 White Rd., Perrysburg. 419-353-1897. wcparks.org

Toledo Zoo - Lucas’s 8th Bday Celebration Saturday, June 1, 10:30am -1:30pm The Toledo Zoo — 2 Hippo Way, Toledo

You’re invited to the ultimate birthday bash for Lucas, the fast-growing African elephant at the Toledo Zoo. The party starts at 10:30am at his Tembo Trail home when the birthday boy will get his presents: fun and colorful enrichment items hand-crafted by ZOOTeens and animal care staff. At 1:30pm, Lucas will take the first bite of a tasty birthday treat custom-made by the Zoo’s catering department and featuring many of his favorite fruits and vegetables. The celebration is free with regular Zoo admission and sponsored by Cooper Tires.

(Y)our Night at TMA - This night is all about teens! Visitors can expect activities and refreshments in the galleries, all geared towards the cool crowd. 6:30-8:30pm. Toledo Museum, 2445 Monroe St. 419-255-8000. toledomuseum.org Free

Sand & Sky Family Funtastic Event Friday, June 21, 12-8pm The Town Center at Levis Commons 3201 Levis Commons Blvd, Perrysburg

A little bit of sand, a little bit of sky and a whole lot of fun! The annual Summer event is back at Levis Commons on Friday, June 21 and Saturday, June 22. Enjoy a huge community sandbox stocked with castle making toys, musical performances all day long, street performers, water tables, vendor activity booths and Power Wheel rides. The whole family will love the spectacular kite festival with stunt kites, kite ballet, kite candy drops and your chance to fly with the pros!

Summer in the City - This outdoor event will feature water sports, live music, train rides and more. It’s fun for the whole family. 5-8pm. Downtown Perrysburg, Louisiana & Second St. 419-872-6246. downtownperrysburg.org Free

Art Crawl - Toddlers with an adult will visit the upstairs galleries then return to the Family Center for finger painting and arts & crafts. Expect to get messy! 6-7pm. Toledo Museum, 2445 Monroe St. 419-255-8000. toledomuseum.org Free

37th Whitehouse Cherry Fest The annual festival celebrates the return of summer and the beloved summer fruit, the cherry. Activities include the Cherry Pie Eating Contest, Saturday Cherry Parade, carnival rides and countless food vendors. Full schedule online. June 6-8 Whitehouse Village Park, 6751 Providence St., Whitehouse. 419-877-2747. awchamber.com Free Family Pottery - Ages 4-6 with an adult will create a simple project using clay. Work together to hand-build a project. Registration required. $15. 9:30-11am. 577 Foundation, 577 E. Front St., Perrysburg. 419-874-4174. 577foundation.org Blessed Sacrament Festival - The festival will have carnival rides, games and polka music. Unlimited ride wristbands available. Funds benefit the Catholic Parish. Hours vary. Thursday 6/6 Sunday, 6/9. Blessed Sacrament, 4245 Bellevue Rd. blessedsacramentfestival.com

7 FRIDAY Princess Tea Party - Party like a princess pre-game at the Mudhens. Kids will enjoy a tea party, a gift and princess photos. $30. 5:30-6:30pm. Hensville, 406 Washington St. 419-725-4367. toledomudhens.com

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8 SATURDAY Power of Yesteryear Tractor Show The two day festival will feature free admission to the Museum, blacksmithing and farm demos, tractor displays and kiddie pedal pulls. Experience the technology of the 18th Century. 10-5pm. 10am-3pm, Sunday 6/9. Wood County History Museum, 13660 County Home Rd., Bowling Green. 419-352-0967. woodcountyhistory.org 34th Bark in the Park - This 5k/1 Mile Run helps to keep the Toledo Humane Society up and running. There will be doggie obstacle courses and a fun run. Register in advance. 9am-noon. Fallen Timbers Mall, 3100 Main St., Maumee. 419-740-7080. toledoareahumanesociety.org

9 SUNDAY Outdoor Ice Cream Social Make a visit to Wildwood for ice cream treats by Handels and live music by Ragtime Rick. Most treats are offered at only .50 cents! All ages welcome to the dance and social. 6-8pm. Wildwood, 5100 W. Central Ave. 419-535-3050. metroparkstoledo.com

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Voyagers Camp - Enroll you 13-15 year old in a week-long nature camp. The day camp will focus on outdoor skills and recreation and runs 6/12-6/14. Register by 6/10. $60. 419-661-1697. W.W. Knight Preserve, 29520 White Rd., Perrysburg. 419-353-1897. wcparks.org Half Pints Storytime - The 90 minute storytime is open to kids 3-6 years. Enjoy movement and games. $3-$3.50. 10:30-noon. Sylvania Historical Village, 5717 Main St., Sylvania. 419-517-5533. sylvaniahistoricalvillage.org Arts Summer Camp - Campers will learn about arts from a global perspective, learn international folk songs, short plays and more. $185. 8:30am-11:30am And $230. 8:30am-3pm. Monday, 6/10 - 6/14. West Side Montessori, 7115 Bancroft St., Sylvania. 419-866-1931. montessoritoledo.org

11 TUESDAY Family Pottery Classes - Enroll yourself and child ages 7-17 into a pottery class at 577. The two hour class will create a personalized pottery vessel or decoration that will be glazed and fired for you to pick up. $20. 10am-noon. Also, 6/21. 577 Foundation, 577 E. Front St., Perrysburg. 419-874-4174. 577foundation.org

Gardening for Teens - Learn the art of guerilla gardening by making plantable seed packets to seed-bomb anywhere there’s dirt. 4-5pm. Sylvania Library, 6749 Monroe St., Sylvania. 419-259-5200. toledolibrary.org Free

12 WEDNESDAY Sunset Serenade Family Concerts Olander Park will host the 21st Summer Sunset Concert Series on the park grounds. Bring a blanket and some bug spray and kick back with easy listening music. Food trucks will be on site. 6-9pm. 6/12, 6/26, 7/10. 7/24, 8/7, 8/21. Olander Park, olanderpark.com Free

Fathers’ Day at the Zoo - Dads get admitted to the Zoo for free! Bring the kids for a fun day of exploration, discovery. Special BBQ menu available for additional charge. Admission varies. 10am-4pm. Toledo Zoo, 2 Hippo Way. 419-385-5721. toledozoo.org

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Sunshine Studios Summer Camp Kids will get to create whimsical art projects during the five week camp. All abilities welAdventurers Summer Camp come. $65. 1-2pm. 6/17-6/21. Sunshine The camp, open to kids 11-12 years will Studios, 305 Conant St., Maumee. explore nature and outdoor recreation activ- 419-891-8877. sunshinestudio.org ities such as canoeing and archery. Today marks the end of registration for the day Water Everywhere Camp - West Side camp which runs 6/17-6/21. $60. Montessori will host an ecology summer 419-661-1697. W.W. Knight Preserve, camp, partnering with the Lucas County 29520 White Rd., Perrysburg. Soil and Water Conservation District. 419-353-1897. wcparks.org Campers will learn about our watersheds, animals and their environment. $185. Trail Tikes Summer Camp 8:30am-11:30am And $230. 8:30amDon’t forget to register kids ages 5-6 in 3pm. Monday 6/17 - 6/21. West Side the Wood County Parks summer camp. Montessori, 7115 Bancroft St., Sylvania. The camp runs 6/17-6/21 and will focus 419-866-1931. montessoritoledo.org on outdoor education and nature play. Register by 6/13. $60. 419-661-1697. W.W. Knight Preserve, 29520 White Rd., Perrysburg. 419-353-1897. wcparks.org Explorers Farm Camp - This day camp, open to ages 7-8, invites kids outdoors and onto the farm. Campers will learn about 1930s homesteading and farming through 5th Polish Picnic - Celebrate Polish games and activities. Scholarships American heritage and culture at the picnic. available. Registration ends 6/20. The weekend will be filled with live music, Camp runs 6/24-6/28. Carter Farm, traditional dancing and, of course, Polish 18331 Carter Rd., Bowling Green. food. Kids 16 & under are free. Seniors 419-353-1897. wcparks.org Free $6. Adults $8. 5-11pm. And 2-11pm, Saturday 6/15. Oak Shade Grove, 3524 Seaman St., Oregon. 419-691-5684. tapspolkas.com Sand & Sky Days - Bring the family to Levis Commons for two days of games and outdoor activities include kite racing, Power Wheel rides, live music and a giant sandTMA Classic Car Shows: Cars & box. Prices vary. Noon-8pm. Coffee - Check out the classic car show 6/21 - 6/22. Levis Commons, hosted outdoors, on the Museum grounds. 3201 Levis Commons Blvd., Perrysburg. Fall in love with classic American convert419-931-8888. shopleviscommons.com ibles and retro foreign autos. Stop into the museum’s exhibition “Life is a Highway: Art and American Car Culture.” R&B pop/rock Nerdy Derby - Supplies will be provided for kids to create a fast racing car that will band The Essentials will perform. compete on a 40 foot track. Students will Noon-3pm. Toledo Museum of Art, construct a car using basic engineering 2445 Monroe St. 419-255-8000. skills. Admission varies. 10am-5pm. toledomuseum.org Free 6/21-6/23. Imagination Station, 1 Discovery Way. 419-244-2674. Munster on the Maumee Historic reenactors take to the field to recre- imaginationstationtoledo.org ate the Battle of Fort Meigs during the 1812 American War. 9:30am-5pm. Saturday & Sunday, 6/15 - 6/16. GroveFest - Visit the Hayes Museum and Fort Meigs, 29100 W. River Rd., grounds for GroveFest 2019! Naturalists Perrysburg. 419-874-4121. and conservation organizations will feature fortmeigs.org/munster Free activities and live animal demonstrations. There will be plenty of arts & crafts and Kids in the Kitchen - Kids 8 & under games, along with food available for a with an adult will learn to make culinary favorites such as chicken nuggets and mac donation. 10am-2pm. R.B. Hayes Museum, Spiegel Grove, Fremont. 419-332-2081. n cheese. $50. Noon-2pm. Foodology, rbhayes.org Free 2059 W. Laskey Rd. foodologytoledo@ gmail.com foodologytoledo.com Sustainable Farm Tour and Workshop Series - Visit the Sofia Quintero Garden program for a community How the Other Half Lives Traveling conversation, “Addressing Family Hunger.” Learn about the Center’s Broadway Urban Exhibition - The National Endowment for the Humanities traveling exhibit features Garden Greenspace and the work being done at the Cultural Center. 1-3pm. photographs from America’s Gilded Age taken by photographer Jacob A. Riis during Sofia Quintero, 1225 Broadway St. the turn of the last century. On view through 419-241-1655. oeffa.org Free 8/11. Admission $3-$7. Open 10am-4pm, Mondays-Fridays. 1-4pm, Saturdays & Sundays. Wood County History Museum, 13660 County Home Rd., Bowling Green. 419-352-0967. woodcountyhistory.org

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Mom to Mom Sale - Shop new or gently used kids and baby items and more. 11:30am-4:30pm. Deep Roots Market, 4645 Heatherdowns Blvd. 734-244-6036. facebook.com/ deep-roots-market Free

23 SUNDAY First Day of Summer Prints Children are welcomed to create a summer-themed painting and collage. The arts & craft project will be offered at the Family Center throughout the week through 6/29. Toledo Museum of Art, 2445 Monroe St. 419-255-8000. toledomuseum.org Free Cops & Rodders Car Show - Visit the Toledo Police Museum for an olde tyme car show. There will be tours of the museum, coffee and donuts and live music by Crusin’ Zeake. 9am-2pm. Ottawa Park, 2201 Kenwood Blvd. 419- 720-2485. toledopolicemuseum.com Free

24 MONDAY Preschooler Art Camp - Open to eight kids ages 3-5 years, the four day camp will have the campers creating artwork while learning and having fun. $75. 9:30-10am. 6/24-6/27. Create Studio, 422 Louisiana Ave., Perrysburg. 419-873-6240. createperrysburg.com

26 WEDNESDAY Bat Batty Educational Program Many misunderstood animals, like bats, get a bad name from their portrayal in scary movies. Bats actually play an important role in the food chain. Take a walk with a Naturalist Guide to listen for bat calls and how to build a bat box in your backyard. 8:30-9:30pm. Pearson Metropark, 761S. Lallendorf Rd., Oregon. 419-360-9178. metroparkstoledo.com Free Verandah Concerts: Grand Royale Ukuleles - The family concert series features live music and an ice cream social on the lawn of the Hayes Estate. Bring a chair or blanket. 6:30-8pm. R.B. Hayes Museum, Spiegel Grove, Fremont. 419-332-2081. rbhayes.org Free

27 THURSDAY Storyteller Lyn Ford - Lyn tells family friendly spooky tales and original stories based on storytelling traditions. 7-8pm. Holland Library, 1032 McCord Rd., Holland. 419-259-5200. toledolibrary.org Free

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Mondays Free Admission for Lucas County Residents The Toledo Zoo & Aquarium has an admission special on Mondays. Bring your identification to gain free admission for all Lucas County residents from 10am-noon. Parking rates apply. (Non-residents tickets are $16-$19 and free for kids under 2.) Zoo hours are 10am-4pm. Toledo Zoo, 2 Hippo Way. 419-385-5721. toledozoo.org

Tuesdays Family Storytime at Walbridge The weekly story hour combines games, finger play, movement and role play with a read-aloud story. 11-11:45am. Walbridge Library, 108 N. Main St., Walbridge. 419-666-9900. wcdpl.org Free Waterville Food Trucks Eat outside with the family. Choose from the many food trucks that will be set up in the park. 5-7:30pm. Conrad Park, 798 Michigan Ave., Waterville. toledofoodtrucks.com

Wednesdays Westgate Farmers Market Toledo is home to a few amazing Farmers Markets. The Westgate Market features produce and artisan baked goods, plants and more for sale. Cash is a must. 3-7pm. Westgate Farmers Market, 3301 Secor Rd. 419-255-6765. toledofarmersmarket.com Free

29 SATURDAY 2nd Annual Lavender Festival Last year, over this festival drew around 1,000 people out to The Schooner Family, an organic farm in Weston committed to natural land management and connecting local people to healthy food through a CSA program and community workshops. Lavender Festival features an outdoor labyrinth, a model replica of the Great Serpent Mound, craft and art vendors, food trucks and live music. 10am-4pm. Schooner Farms, 14890 Otsego Pike, Weston. 419-261-0908. schoonerberries.com Free

Lego Movie 2 Night - Bring the family for an outdoor movie shown at Sylvania Northview. Children’s activities begin at 7pm. There will be food trucks and snacks and free train rides. Movie starts at sundown. 7-10pm. Northview High, 5403 Silica Dr., Sylvania. 419-824-8570. sylvaniachamber.org Free

Rock the River Powerboat Championship - The Maumee heats up with powerboat races, topping speeds of 120mph. Visitors will get a good view from Middlegrounds, International Park and Promenade Park. 3-7pm. Promenade Park, 100 Madison Ave. 419-245-3357. ngk1.com Free

Girl Scout Experience - The Mud Hens are throwing a party for the Girl Scouts. There will be a pre game parade and post game fireworks. Join the fun! $14 tickets, $9 activities, $5 picnic snacks. 7-10pm. Hensville, 406 Washington St. 419-725-9292. hensvilletoledo.com

1000 Lights Water Lantern Festival The festival features 1000 illuminated floating lanterns that will be released in the Maumee Bay pond at sunset. Kids 9 & under are free. Ages 10-13 $13. Adults $30-$33. 6-10pm. Maumee Bay State Park, 1400 St. Park Rd., Oregon. 419-836-7758. 1000lights.com

Toddler Trails Dress for a short hike through Wildwood with your youngster. Registration required. $2 per child. 10-11am. Wildwood Preserve, 5100 Central Ave. 419-407-9700. metroparkstoledo.com

Thursdays Stroller Rolls Spend an hour outdoors on a guided, stroller-friendly nature walk. This weekly group meets at the Mallard Lake Area. 10:30am. Oak Openings, 4139 Girdham Rd., Swanton. 419-360-9179. metroparkstoledo.com Tiny Tots Thursdays Sing, play games and make a craft. Themes change weekly. Reservations requested. Ages 2 and up. 10:30-11:30am. Learning Express Toys of Maumee, 3100 Main St., Maumee. 419-878-2446. learningexpress.com Free

Animation Afternoons June’s movies include the Disney classics, Beauty and the Beast, and The Little Mermaid. 10am-noon. King Library, 3900 King Rd., Sylvania. 419-259-5200. toledolibrary.org Free Think Tank Workshops Saturdays in June kids will use their thinking and building skills to create a seasonal craft. Think Tank workshops are $6-$8 and do not include admission to the Museum. 2-5pm. Imagination Station, 1 Discovery Way. 419-244-2674. imaginationstationtoledo.org Storytime at Plate One Meet other families with young children at this weekly storytime hour at this downtown coffeeshop. Parking is free at any meter. 11:30am. Plate One, 420 Madison Ave. 419-385-2121. facebook.com/plateone Free

Fridays Music Vine Concert Series Every Friday, musicians from the community will give a free concert at the historic town hall. The series is made possible by Bittersweet Farms, tailored towards their residents and is open to the public. 11am-12:30pm. Grand Rapids Town Hall, Front St. & Beaver St., Grand Rapids. 419-875-6986. bittersweetfarms.org Free

Saturdays Sippy Cup Storytime Reading Barefoot with Lindsey hosts a weekly Saturday story hour. Children will play, sing songs and listen to a story while the adults enjoy a hot beverage of their choice. Please support the shop. 9:3010:30am. SIP Coffee, 3160 Markway Rd. 419-407-5038. facebook.com/ barefootlindsey Free

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LINE CLASSIFIEDS: Only $20 per month for 20 words or less. Each additional word is 40 cents each and any artwork will be $5 extra. DISPLAY CLASSIFIEDS: Display classifieds with a box may be purchased for $25 per column inch. Photos are accepted with ads for an additional $5 per photo. DEADLINES: Ad copy must be received by the 15th of the month prior to publication.

Little Picassos Club Ages 6-11 will create works of art using mixed media elements like paint and markers. $7. 10-11am. Toledo Artists Club, 5403 Elmer Dr. 419-531-4079. artvillage419.org Community Days Saturdays through July 6, the Heritage Village will be open. Walk through wood carving demonstrations, hands on activities and special guest artists and historians. Open 1-4pm. Sylvania Heritage Village, 5717 Main St., Sylvania. 419-517-5533. sylvaniahistoricalvillage.org Free

PAYMENT: Payment must be received before an ad can be placed. We accept checks, cash, money orders and credit cards (Visa/Mastercard). PHONE: 419-244-9859 E-MAIL: classifieds@adamsstreetpublishing.com REFUNDS: Sorry, NO REFUNDS given. MISPRINTS: Credit toward future ads.

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