ADRAnews-1112
24/10/12
5:10 PM
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Summer 2012
Melissa never expected to find herself alone in a foreign country.
Melissa, a mother and a wife, risked it all to come to Australia. Her and her husband packed up their lives in South Africa, desperate to start a new life away from the violence of the Johannesburg streets.
26,000 people will die on Christmas day from poverty related causes.
I know this will divide the masses, but I love Christmas. I’m not ashamed of it. My heart flutters when I see Christmas decorations adorning shopping centres, no matter how early in the year. My favourite part? Almost too hard to choose – it’s a draw between Christmas dinner, carols and spending time together with my family celebrating our Saviour’s birth. What’s your favourite? Perhaps it’s receiving gifts or seeing the surprise on the face of someone you love as they open a gift they weren’t expecting. Whatever part of Christmas you love, I can tell you now, someone here in Australia or around the world hasn’t, and isn’t experiencing the joy of it. It’s an uncomfortable thought, but while we stuff our faces with food on Christmas day 26,000 people will die from poverty related causes. That’s 26,000 families who will lose a loved one on the day we are meant to be celebrating together. At the very same time we are surrounded by friends and family, it’s sobering to think that more than 450,000 Australians will spend Christmas alone. Or try digesting the new statistic which shows that one in eight Australians live below the poverty line, and more than 550,000 of these are children. Suddenly, Christmas doesn’t seem like such a celebratory time. Melissa’s* story, which was recently shared by an ADRA Australia project staff member, confirmed this thought.
But what Melissa couldn’t plan for was waking up one morning to find her husband gone. He had deserted her to move back to South Africa and be with his mistress. More than the shame of losing her husband, more than the embarrassment of being a foreigner, the pain Melissa felt most was not being able to provide for her daughters. In the wake of her husband’s treachery, Melissa was left with the uncertainty of not knowing how she would survive financially and emotionally. With no family, no support network, and not qualifying for government assistance, Melissa was truly alone. The bills began to mount, and frustration, anger and desperation rose within. Discouraged after another rejection from Centrelink, Melissa walked the street in despair. By chance she saw a sign that read ‘ADRA’ out of the corner of her eye.
ADVENTIST DEVELOPMENT AND RELIEF AGENCY AUSTRALIA
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Celebrating Together
Arriving in Australia, Melissa and her husband were excited - they purchased their own home, filled it with furniture and made plans for where their daughters would go to school.