ARE YOU A SKEPTIC OR A CYNIC?

Keep your guard up without becoming overly distrustful.

WRITER: GREG HANSON

Our society has become more suspicious, and our increased skepticism has changed the way we act and interact with each other.

Some amount of skepticism is wise. Those who are gullible and overly trusting are most likely to become scam victims. Don’t be either. Never give personal information over the phone, even if you know the caller.

And be forewarned that there’s a danger in being skeptical. It can turn into cynicism. Being a little skeptical is good; it can prevent others from taking advantage of you. Being cynical, on the other hand, can rob you of joy. You begin to mistrust everyone. Your attitude becomes pessimistic, leading you to sneer at the very possibility someone could be honest and noble.

So be cautious, yes, but avoid becoming overly suspicious. Even if you have been taken advantage of in the past, understand that not everyone is culpable for that. Set some policies that will lead to safe habits online and on the telephone, and then move on with life.

Allow yourself to trust and to love others.