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by Katie Lucas
May 16 is National Do Something Good for Your Neighbor Day, so I've compiled a list of things to do to brighten your neighbor's day! Don't forget to send us your Being a Good Neighbor photos to be featured in the next issue of Toscana Living.
Offer to Help Out
Be Hospitable
Got a neighbor who doesn't have a ladder and needs a lightbulb changed? Or maybe you see someone struggling to grip the handle on a door after a particularlyfruitful shopping trip? Offering to lend a hand watering plants, changing out smoke alarm batteries, or picking up groceries can be a quick way to take away some of your neighbor's to-do list and put a smile on their face!
This means opening up your home. But because we rarely do that today for safety reasons and because we value our privacy (and for a list of other reasons), you could open up your heart.
Give Them a Gift
Compliment Them
Leave a plant (everyone loves succulents and they never seem to die) at your neighbor’s door, along with a note saying “Happy “National Do Something Good for Your Neighbor Day” and sign it. Chances are, they’ll find a way to say “thank you” or return the favor and that just may be the start of a friendship.
Try something like “Thanks for being such a great neighbor. You’re so quiet, I barely even know you’re there.” It could lend to surface chit-chat, and eventually lead to more conversation. Consider this for the ‘neighbors’ who aren’t right next door, too. Let those you meet and rely on in your daily life know you recognize something about them.
Introduce Yourself
Don't Forget Work Neighbors!
If you don’t yet know your neighbor(s), knock on the door and if they answer, introduce yourself. Tell them you wanted to take the opportunity to let them know you’re glad they’re living next door. PAGE 13
Try letting new neighbors know you are here to help them navigate the community and help answer any questions they may have!
For your "neighbors" you work with, bring in coffee or treats that you know your coworkers enjoy. Tell them how glad you are to have them as good neighbors.