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Chief Marketing Officer

Wendy Theus Barker

Gamma Alpha–University of Georgia

Quarterly Editor/Content Manager

Maddy Fritz

Theta Upsilon–Georgetown College

Alumnae Engagement Manager

Tara Prather

Theta Kappa–University of Virginia

Alumnae Development Manager

Maria Nowicki

Beta Delta–Indiana University Bloomington

Events and Engagement Manager

Louisa Lee

Upsilon–University of Oklahoma

Digital Content Specialist

Katie Sellards –Delta Delta Delta

CONTRIBUTING WRITERS

Beth Hartnett Jager

Delta Tau – Chapman University

THE MISSION

The Alpha Gamma Delta Quarterl y magazine endeavors to serve as a forum of communication to inspire, educate and challenge members on Fraternity and women’s issues. To rekindle, sustain and excite member loyalty and interest through celebrating and validating sisterhood and recognizing and acknowledging individual and chapter/club accomplishments. To serve as a permanent record and archive, documenting the Fraternity.

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International President's Viewpoint

hriving — this word seems to be permeating social media as well as other things I read or hear lately. I don’t know if it is a direct result of the pandemic, but for whatever reason, a renewed sense of wanting to thrive, not just survive, appears to have gripped many people. I know it has for me.

Two years ago, I took advantage of the opportunity to retire after 30 years of being an educator. Since retiring, it has been fun to devote more time to the things I want to do versus what I have to do. It’s fair to say that I’ve been focusing on things that contribute to a sense of thriving. In addition to volunteering for Alpha Gam, I’ve found joy in spending time with friends and family, taking long walks, reading and serving as an election worker for my county. My husband and I also began prioritizing travel — my only request of him in these travels was to visit Alpha Gam chapters. He readily agreed, and I’m enjoying visiting Alpha Gam chapters in different parts of the United States, and learning more about members' Alpha Gam experience. I’m nowhere near visiting all the chapters. Still, I hope to reach over half of our active collegiate chapters by next summer, when my time serving as International President concludes.

At the start of the pandemic, I worried chapters' membership numbers would suffer, but more importantly, if the quality of the Alpha Gam experience would suffer. These visits have shown me that while COVID-19 has impacted all of our chapters in different ways, it did not take away our connection to the Purpose or one another.

In fact, I’m finding our collegiate sisters are finding great ways to thrive in their Alpha Gam experience. I know this not just from my visits or updates about our chapters, but also from the Dyad Strategies survey data, which we ask our collegiate members to complete every year. For the second year in a row, our sisters have indicated that they value their Alpha Gam membership experience and

ranked elements of their experience higher than other National Panhellenic Conference peers — indicating our focus on providing direct support to collegiate chapters and officers during the pandemic is contributing to our organization's ability to thrive.

Thriving is not limited to our collegiate sisters. The Foundation recently concluded the fifth annual Day of Giving and reached a record level of contributions! What a way to show when we work together we can make a difference! If you haven’t given to the Foundation recently, I hope you’ll consider making a gift. In addition to supporting our philanthropic cause of Fighting Hunger, the Foundation also has other initiatives that specifically help our members thrive, through leadership development, scholarship support and financial need. Each gift makes a difference in our collective and individual ability to thrive.

It’s no accident, then, that one of the themes of this issue of the Quarterly is thriving. Alpha Gamma Delta, at its heart, is an organization that exists to provide support to one another, to help one another thrive. When our members thrive, so does our organization.

I remain thankful for each of you for helping Alpha Gamma Delta thrive.

Loyally in epsilon pi,

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22 16 02 04 05 06 08 10 INTERIORS WITH PURPOSE Growing a business in sorority house interior decorating, learn more with Liz. LIVIN' LA PURA VIDA A worldwide journey of friendship — take a trip with the editor to Costa Rica. MIXED TRIO TRAVELS Meet Nicole, single mom of twins, disability travel blogger and worldschooling enthusiast. 16 22 26 28 30 34
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spot a squirrel

Top Left to Right: 1. Alyse Rynor, Beta Omicron–Illinois State University, spotted this squirrel gravy boat while visiting her daughter in Tulsa, Oklahoma, and purchased to use on her Thanksgiving dinner table.

2. Angela Manzella, Gamma Upsilon–University of Montevallo, spotted Mardi Gras squirrels on Dauphin Street in Mobile, Alabama. 3. This Squirrel helped with the Central Florida Alumnae Club's chili cook-off fundraiser for Fighting Hunger, and they also collected food donations for Second Harvest Food Bank.

4. Lisa Coshey Burner, Theta Lambda–University of West Florida, submitted a photo of her daughter's military patch. 5. Celebrating Thanksgiving with squirrel salt and pepper shakers are Jessica Davis, Xi–Illinois Wesleyan University , and Beta Eta–Southern Illinois University at Carbondale alumane Sarah Mitchell Merideth and Denise Adams Brown.  SPOT A SQUIRREL: Submit your photos online at: ® alphagammadelta.org/quarterly-mag.

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CHAPTER & YEAR OF INITIATION

Delta Eta—San Diego State University 2014

FAVORITE PART OF SERVING ON VST

Working with alumnae as a collegian directly inspired me to become more involved as an officer during my collegiate years and eventually go on to serve as a Leadership Consultant and VST Member. I feel called to continue that cycle as an alumna myself.

CURRENTLY READING

"The Many Daughters of Afong Moy" by Jamie Ford. As a biracial, Asian American and daughter of an adoptee, it is difficult to feel connected to where I came from. This is a great read for Asian Americans and all those with a complicated origin story.

CURRENTLY LISTENING TO

Morgan Wallen’s new album, "One Thing At A Time." There are 36 songs, so there’s a lot to take in! Hopefully I’ll know most of them by the time I see him in concert over the summer.

LATEST BINGE WATCH

"Full Swing" on Netflix. I work as an event coordinator within the golf industry and love a good documentary. It was the best of both worlds for me!

DREAM JOB

I’d love to continue my career in events in the sports marketing space working on the Olympic Games.

WHAT ARE YOU DOING ON YOUR DAY OFF?

I love hot yoga, golf and am also a wedding coordinator!

FAVORITE INDULGENCE

I will NEVER say no to dessert!

WHAT NEW SKILL HAVE YOU ALWAYS WANTED TO LEARN? Ballroom dancing. I grew up as a competitive dancer and now that I am older, would love to learn a new style of dance to continue my passion for the sport.

BADGE STYLE

During my time on staff, I received Heritage Badge from a Delta Eta sister initiated in the 1950’s. It is a Crown Pearl Badge that I am absolutely honored to wear!

FAVORITE SOCIAL MEDIA ACCOUNTS

I am a self-professed crazy dog mom. My Instagram explore page is made up of 85% cute dog content at any given time. A couple of my favorite accounts are @thedogist and @good.boy.ollie.

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Pink is the new red!

Designs you will love, now with pink, just in time for spring and summer!

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New Member Love!

Over 3,300 new members were initiated into Alpha Gam in 2022! Our bid day Instagram posts received the highest engagement rates!

$248,754

THE AMOUNT OF FUNDS RAISED DURING THE FOUNDATION'S 2023 DAY OF GIVING!

$1,000

The Foundation's new Jewel Society giving levels were updated last year to meet the increased needs of our sisters and communities. Become a ® Jewel Society member today starting at the $1,000 giving level!

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media mix

news affecting our members and the greater fraternity/sorority community

Amanda Dukes wins regional Emmy

 Amanda Dukes, Gamma Sigma–Troy University, and her colleagues at WESH 2 News in Orlando were awarded a regional Emmy in the Continuing Coverage category for coverage of the death of 14-year-old Tyre Sampson on an amusement park ride in March 2022. A Florida Senate committee recently approved Senate Bill 902, known as the Tyre Sampson Safety Act. ® Troy Today.

Helen Pitts receives Distinguished Alumni Award

 Helen Pitts, Epsilon

Nu– University of Central Oklahoma, received the Distinguished Alumni Award, presented by UCO's Alumni Association. Helen is the head of customer advocacy for a global cybersecurity technology company and serves on the UCO Strategic Communications Advisory Board. ® UCO.edu.

Izzy Boyd recognized at University of Alabama's Premier Awards

 Izzy Boyd, Psi–University of Alabama, was recognized as one of UA's Premier Awards honor students — the highest honors given at the Capstone. Izzy was awarded The Algernon Sydney Sullivan Award, which recognizes excellence of character and service to humanity. It honors one man and one woman of the graduating class and one non-student who have been helpful and associated with the University. ® UA.edu.

Jenna Moser joins the University of Washington's Athletics executive staff

 Jenna Moser, Iota–University of Washington, joins the UW women's basketball team as the Executive Assistant to the Head Coach. Jenna graduated in 2019 after playing five seasons on the UW women’s basketball team, helping the Huskies reach the Final Four in 2016 and the Sweet Sixteen in 2017.

Kayla Bailey Joins South Carolina's chapter of IABC board of directors

 Kayla Bailey, Theta Omega–University of South Carolina, has joined the South Carolina chapter of the International Association of Business Communicators board of directors as the Vice President of Professional Development. ® SC.IABC.com.

Keara Elizabeth Regan crowned Virginia Cherry Blossom Princess

 The Society of Virginia named Keara Regan, Gamma Lambda–Longwood University, of Rockingham, Virginia, to be The 2023 Virginia Cherry Blossom Princess to represent the Commonwealth of Virginia during the National Cherry Blossom Festival in Washington, DC.

Two Troy University students honored with Lamar P. Higgins Leadership Award

 Two seniors, Ava Carnazza and Lauren Buehler, Gamma Sigma–Troy University, were both awarded Lamar P. Higgins Leadership Awards for their commitment to service to others and demonstrated leadership during their time at the University.

Kentucky Governor Andy Beshear Signs Lofton's Law — increasing hazing penalties

 Governor Andy Beshear signed Senate Bill 9, also known as Lofton’s Law, which was passed by lawmakers in response to the October 2021 fraternity hazing incident of 18-year-old freshman Thomas "Lofton" Hazelwood. This law increases penalties for all hazing incidents resulting in physical harm or death to a Class D felony. Reckless participation in hazing that does not cause physical harm will be increased to a Class A misdemeanor. Kentucky statute defines hazing as any action which endangers the physical or mental health of a minor or student for the purpose of recruitment or initiation into a club or organization. Under Lofton's Law, students would not be able to use their efforts to gain consent from hazing participants as a defense in court. ® LEX18.com.

Michigan Tech Alpha Gams place first in Winter Carnival's Snow Sculpture Co-Ed Division

 Alpha Gams of the Zeta Epsilon–Michigan Technological University Chapter and members of Sigma Tau Gamma won first place in the monthlong co-ed division of the 2023 Winter Carnival snow sculpture contest, with their Candyland themed entry. ® Winter Carnival 2023.

Troy University Alpha Gams donate $10,000 to Troy Miracle League

 Alpha Gams of the Gamma Sigma–Troy University Chapter donated $10,000 to the Troy Miracle League which will go

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towards resurfacing the Troy Miracle League Field that is 11 years old. The field has a special rubberized safety-surface that provides children and adults of all ages with special needs or disabilities opportunities for extra curricular activities. ®The Messenger.

Alpha Gams Partner with Wayne State University Campus to Win the Gift of Life Michigan Campus Challenge

 Wayne State -won the Gift of Life Michigan Campus Challenge for 12 consecutive years. This year, 133 organ donation registrations were added as a result of the challenge. The challenge is led by Alpha Gamma Delta, with the help of other student organizations. Rebecca Butler, the former member of Alpha Gamma Delta, lost her life in 2011 to pulmonary hypertension while on the transplant list. The competition is heavily supported by her parents, Beverly and Tim Butler, and the sorority fights for first place each year to honor Rebecca. ® Detroit Free Press.

Ally Daskalopoulos launches true crime podcast

 Ally Daskalopoulos, Xi–Illinois Wesleyan University, created and co-produced a true crime podcast called "Carol's Last Christmas." The podcast is about a member of Delta Zeta sorority from Illinois State University who was murdered on the front lawn of her sorority house. The case remains the oldest unsolved case in the state of Illinois. Ally and her team have investigated, written and reported on this case for over two years. The podcast can be found on Spotify, Apple and other streaming platforms. ® Carol's Last Christmas.

Hannah Austin launches self-help book on Amazon

anti-burnout expert Hannah Austin, Phi–

Lisa Weldon's "Twenty Pieces" awarded Silver Nautilus Book Award

 Twenty Pieces: A Walk through Love, Loss & Reinvention, by Lisa Stapleton Weldon, Gamma Delta– Auburn University, was named a silver winner in the 2022 Nautilus Book Awards. Lisa has been featured on numerous podcasts, radio interviews, including an interview with Cindy Crawford on Oprah’s network, Harpo Productions and Huffington Post. Electronic and printed versions of the book are available on Amazon. ® Twenty Pieces: A Walk through Love, Loss & Reinvention.

Michaela Kelley Canterbury publishes book "Sister Siren"

 Lawyer and writer, Michaela Kelley Canterbury, Alpha Omega–Duquesne University, published her book, "Sister Siren: A Non Fiction About Addiction." Her book guides readers on how to love an addict and supplies tools to neutralize feelings of fear, resentment, and anger to step into the courageous love that is necessary to love an addict. Electronic and printed versions of the book are available on Amazon. ® Sister Siren: A Non Fiction About Addiction.

PUBLISHED WORKS

Mini audio drama series released on Spotify

 Told through the lens of Jade, a Chinese Singaporean navigating her quarterlife crisis, this five episode mini audio drama series is dedicated to those who carve their own paths amidst cultural and societal pressure. Presented by Deanna Halls, Delta Kappa–University of Alberta, created by Victoria Chen and Daniel Wong. ® Jade: The Quarterlife Crisis.

University, Heart is full of personal insights. This book guides readers to identify burnout, and how to chart a course toward a new life beyond burnout. Electronic and printed versions of the book are available on Amazon. You can also access Hannah's ® She Burns podcast on Spotify.

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Here's your opportunity to connect with alumnae and explore themes important to modern women. Each year, the book club reads, learns and joins together with sisters—locally and virtually. Join the Facebook Group at bit.ly/AGD-Book-Club BOOK CLUB Alpha Gam JOIN TODAY! Here's your opportunity to connect with alumnae and explore themes important to modern women. Each year, the book club reads, learns and joins together with sisters virtually. Join the Facebook Group ® bit.ly/AGD-Book-Club

fraternity updates

Leadership Consultant Program

The 2022-23 Leadership Consultant Team wrapped up their travels for the year, completing 190 visits to 101 collegiate chapters! The team of seven traveled to 33 states and two provinces for 76 Growth Visits and 114 Member Experience Visits. Thank you to the 2022-23 LCs for their service to Fraternity and the impact they made on our collegiate chapters this year! Look forward to the 2023-24 LC announcement by following @AlphaGamLCs on Instagram in the next issue of the Quarterly ® alphagammadelta.org/leadership-consultant

Fraternity Housing Corporation Seeking Candidates for Board of Directors

The FHC is seeking qualified candidates for an open position on its Board of Directors, for a two-year term that begins on August 1, 2023. The FHC Board of Directors casts the vision, sets the standards and monitors the performance of the corporation, professionally led by our Chief Executive Officer.

To facilitate effective decision-making and strategic planning, the board seeks members with a wide variety of backgrounds and experience, which may include corporate finance, banking, law, strategic planning, real estate, construction, property management, entrepreneurship, non-profit management, higher education or broad Fraternity experience. Prior experience on a corporate or non-profit board may also be helpful.

Applications close May 15, 2023. Applicants can learn more and apply here ® tinyurl.com/bdhnnh7z.

Oral History Project

The Fraternity is wrapping up collecting alumnae stories through the Publishing Concepts (PCI) partnership in an effort to produce the Alpha Gamma Delta Oral History Project. Over 8,200 stories have already been submitted, and according to user survey feedback, 96.7% of members would recommend their sisters call in to participate. Stories are being transcribed and stored for posterity both at a national and local chapter level. PCI will complete collecting stories May 19. If you received a postcard or an email with a telephone number, you may call the number to speak with a dedicated representative for the Oral History Project to submit your story. The next phase of the project will be book binding; books will be ready by the end of the calendar year. We thank those that shared their memories and contributed to preserving the rich history of Alpha Gamma Delta for generations to come. Participation is optional and members can choose to update contact information online ® alphagammadelta.org/info-update.

Alumnae Feedback Survey Results

We would like to thank all those who participated in the Alumnae Survey Results. The online survey received approximately 600 survey responses. Responses are being collected and will be used to evaluate current programs and determine new alumnae opportunities. We look forward to publishing more details about survey findings in the next issue of the Quarterly

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Empower 2023-24 Applications Now Open

In fall 2022, the Fraternity launched Empower, it’s premier leadership program. Following a selective application process, 126 exceptional leaders representing 65 collegiate chapters were selected to participate in Empower’s first cohort. Through a cohort-style model, participants were engaged in monthly meetings facilitated by accomplished alumnae. During these connections, participants deepened their knowledge on leadership practices to utilize in their campus community.

Empower culminated with Empower Institute located at Woodland Camp in Temple, Georgia in late April. Participants and alumnae facilitators gathered in-person to develop a capstone project and celebrate their success over the past year. Generously funded by the Alpha Gamma Delta Foundation, the Fraternity is proud to announce that applications for Empower 2023-24 are now open. Apply at: ® alphagammadelta. org/empower.

Foundation Fighting Hunger Grant Recipient List Announced

Thanks to our donors, the Alpha Gamma Delta Foundation annually supports organizations dedicated to fighting hunger in our communities. Through the support of Alpha Gamma Delta’s sisters, alumnae chapters and clubs, collegiate chapters, families and friends, this year we are able to provide grants to 28 unique fighting hunger programs and projects in 20 states, totaling $250,000. View the list of the following organizations that were selected as Fighting Hunger Grant recipients at this link: ® tinyurl.com/3v53tftk.

ON THE COVER: Holly Brand

Psi–University of Alabama | Singer | Musician

® Season 23 Top 20 finalist on NBC's The Voice Miss Mississippi 2021

Nickname: Holls

Favorite Band: Little Big Town

Go-to-karaoke song: "good 4 u"

Coffee or Tea: Iced caramel latte

On this Week's Playlist: Rihanna and Paramore

Hometown: Meridian, Mississippi

Favorite Show: How I Met Your Mother

Favorite Podcast: Two Hot Takes

Team : Alabama Crimson Tide Football

Favorite Animal: Dixie, Holly's Boston Terrier

Motivational Quote: Jeremiah 29:11, "For I know the plans I have for you, says the Lord."

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Look for our interview with Holly in the upcoming issue of the Quarterly magazine!

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PURPOSE

GROWING A BUSINESS IN SORORITY HOUSE INTERIOR DECORATING

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hat is it about sorority houses that feels like home when walking through the door? It’s a combination of a welcoming sisterhood and, arguably, one of the more essential aspects, the visual appeal. Owner and President of PDR Interiors, Liz Toombs, Epsilon— University of Kentucky, has forged a path in the interior decorating industry by focusing on a niche clientele, sorority housing. While PDR Interiors offers a full range of services for residential and business spaces, the vast

majority of clients are Greek housing affiliated. With a portfolio of projects spanning 90 campuses in 25 states, Liz mainly attributes the success of the firm to building relationships over the years, starting first with her mentors at the University of Kentucky.

“I went to UK with an interest in interior design, but I had a really great advisor who talked with me about my options. The design program is very architecturally focused, and that’s just not my forte. I’m more of a tactile

person, and I’m more about the connections with clients and people.” Liz found her fit in the textiles program and later became a Certified Interior Decorator. Having worked in sales with a countertop manufacturer, contractors, homeowners, and a design firm, Liz found herself at a crossroads in 2009 after the recession hit. “I knew the business I was working for was going to close, so I was faced with a choice of whether I work for someone else — which I thought was my only choice — or do I go out on my own?”

I KNEW THE BUSINESS I WAS WORKING FOR WAS GOING TO CLOSE, SO I WAS FACED WITH A CHOICE OF WHETHER I WORK FOR SOMEONE ELSE WHICH I THOUGHT WAS MY ONLY CHOICE — OR DO I GO OUT ON MY OWN?"
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After discussing it with her husband, she decided to give it a shot. “I was 25 and just started pounding the pavement, trying to get the word out there. Then a year or two after that is when I did my first Greek house. It was a men’s facility at UK.”

Liz now has the pleasure of doing repeat houses and even multiple houses on the same campus. While she works with individual chapters’ needs at the local level, she enjoys the longevity of relationships built at the national level, “It’s great to get to work with the housing offices at headquarters. We start to understand what their goals are for the chapter facilities everywhere, and then we’re able to foster that relationship, and they know that they can call us and say, Hey, can you go to this campus?

Every chapter wants to put its best foot forward during, you guessed it, recruitment season. How does Liz’s small team manage the needs of multiple organizations across the nation? “Summer is just crazy,” Liz laughed. While most projects only require two trips, her

team is usually gone for about eight weeks in the summer, visiting two campuses per week. “Travel is a big part of what we do. We typically do what we call a scoping trip. We go out and gather all the information we need on-site, and then we come back to the office and do all of our work. And then we go back again at the end of a project.” The busy summers for PDR Interiors are a direct result of different organizations’ decorating needs and fall recruitment timelines.

Surprisingly, covid-19 changed the pace for PDR Interiors in that clients became more understanding and flexible with their project timelines, despite the ongoing industry challenges of supply chain disruptions and increased timelines on new construction projects. “They understand that there are bigger things going on in the world, and we can make do and get a little more creative for how we address a house while we’re waiting on the new items to come.” Clients that approach Liz in March or April are comfortable waiting in line, even if it means the housing upgrades get pushed back to Winter Break instead of Summer Break.

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Fortunately, Liz found her career path early on in her life; and from her commitment to mentoring others, she has provided unique internship opportunities to UK students. When reflecting on why she started mentoring, she empathized with those college students struggling to find the road to their passions, “Mentoring is really important to me. I felt like when I was in college, I didn’t make enough time to test out and shadow or intern in the field that I thought I wanted to be in.” Liz leans on her university connections to partner with students for summer internship opportunities, “I know some of the professors there, but usually the students

working with me will help me recruit and find someone new to take over the next summer.” Interns often have the opportunity to be promoted to Project Assistant, where they can stay on during school and receive course credit. It’s a great way for aspiring decorators and designers to show they moved up in the rankings early on. Liz welcomes internship applications from other colleges and programs, but proximity to Lexington, where she lives and operates her business, greatly impacts the hands-on nature of the role. “We’ve had some folks apply from out of state, but ultimately, we know that the best way they can get the most out of it is to be

here physically, so they’re welcome to apply if they can relocate for the summer.”

Liz and her staff are working on offering more installation opportunities for interns; the company is growing in its virtual offerings as well. Liz now manages several online resources for those looking to redecorate a residential or business space on a budget. Last year she launched ® Sorority Chat, a podcast about Greek housing, decorating and beyond. Additionally, she has constructed an online course, ® Interior Decorating 101: Sorority Edition, a resource geared toward local housing boards.

Left: A grand piano and trophy-filled glass display cases in Gamma Phi Beta's Card Room at O klahoma State University Right: The Alpha Omicron Pi house at B owling Green State University
I THINK OF THE LEADERSHIP QUALITIES AND OPPORTUNITIES, VOLUNTEER HOURS AND PHILANTHROPY, THE UNDERSTANDING OF GIVING BACK TO THE COMMUNITY THAT IS PLANTED IN OUR HEARTS, AND THE SUPPORT OF YOUR SISTERS; THAT’S WHY WE EXIST ON THESE CAMPUSES."
Left: A lpha Chi Omega's chapter house at the University of Southern Mississippi
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This course is ideal for those with a great team that can handle picking everything out and overseeing contractors but might need some assistance getting started and managing the project. “I’m always looking for new ways to continue growing our clients and income without making huge jumps in the number of people working for us. We just realized that not everyone can or wants to hire us, but a little guidance could be helpful.” When organizations aren’t sure what they want, they benefit from the virtual course and often realize that they actually want the complete client experience with Liz and her team.

Word of mouth and making connections continue to contribute to the growth of PDR Interiors and its reputation. Recently, Liz was featured in an article in the Wall Street Journal about designers specializing in transforming sorority homes into luxurious and functional living spaces. She explains how she stumbled upon a happenstance meeting with the writer, “I was headed to a conference, just a little bit over a year ago, and ended up seated on the plane next to this freelance writer. We were both going to the same conference, and I was the first person she had ever met that did this type of focus and interior design.” The writer pitched the story to the ® Wall Street Journal, and PDR Interiors became a significant focus of the article. While Liz and her company have been mentioned in other notable media outlets, this was one of the first pieces that generated many client inquiries: “It’s just been wonderful. I’ve been so thankful for how that worked out.”

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Left: Grand staircase at the A lpha Chi Omega house at the University of Kentucky.

Reflecting on her Alpha Gam experience, Liz laughs about one of the memories from her chapter house, “I was watching the first iteration of Trading Spaces and watching one of the designers do a sorority house, and I was like, ‘Oh my gosh, whatever. That’s not real; nobody does that!’ So, it’s very comical to see where I am now. For me, it feels like everything has just completely culminated now.” From her sorority days living in the house as a collegiate member to now being involved in the first generations of facilitators with Alpha Gam’s Empower program, Liz appreciates the role that Alpha Gam has played in her life. “I think of the leadership qualities and opportunities, volunteer hours and philanthropy, the understanding of giving back to the community that is planted in our hearts, and the support of your sisters; that’s why we exist on these campuses.”

The FHC enlisted Liz's team with the Theta Omega Chapter's transition from a full live-in facility to a downtown historical loft-type space. Stay tuned for project details in the Fall issue of the Quarterly Liz is an Alpha Gam Empower facilitator and resides in Lexington, Kentucky, with her husband and two dogs.

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Top, left to right: 1.) Pi Beta Phi house, University of Georgia 2.) Gamma Phi Beta house, University of Kentucky 3.) A lpha Delta Pi house, Louisiana State University 4.) Alpha Phi house, University of Kentucky 5.) A lpha Chi Omega at S tephen F. Austin State University.
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Mixed Trio Travels

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Left: Nicole's twins, Ross and Phoebe explore Muizenburg Beach near Cape Town, South Africa, 2021. Top Right: C ontinuity of Life sculpture in Malecón de Mazatlán Mexico, 2019.

Travels

Meet Nicole, single mom of twins, disability travel blogger and worldschooling enthusiast.

If the secret to a happier lifestyle was to reduce all your belongings to one suitcase, would you do it? Nicole Ratliff, Alpha Omicron–West Virginia Wesleyan College, grew up in a military family traveling and country-hopping at a young age. In 2018, after moving out of her three-bedroom home and selling most of her belongings, Nicole and her twin children, Ross and Phoebe (affectionately named after her two favorite sitcom characters), packed one suitcase and one backpack each and set out on a new journey living abroad and worldschooling.

Originally from the United States, Nicole and her family have lived in six foreign countries — Mexico, Colombia, Scotland, South Africa, Portugal and France. Nicole and her children all have different disabilities. However, the decision to move abroad with her children

came after a near-death experience from a work-related injury. “At that moment, I realized with my disability, this job put too much stress on my body. I quit my job with the U.S. Department of Agriculture and started to travel full-time with my children.”

With her son having autism and her daughter having ODD and ADD, traditional classrooms were a struggle. With worldschooling, Nicole has seen her children thrive and come out of their shells. Nicole noticed the improvements when they lived in Colombia; she said, “My son didn’t like people touching him, didn’t like talking to people, didn’t like loud noises. And then, here is this little boy, just walking around places with our nanny. Even though they didn’t speak the same language, there he was, thriving, laughing and playing with her. He was not that type of person before.”

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“What helped me when my son was first diagnosed with autism was having a community around me."

Worldschooling involves an experiential curriculum based on interacting with the world around you. Nicole’s kids have completed worldschooling curriculum online as well, “There’s so much out there besides just reading what's in a book. I think we have to expand our minds on what education could be. It’s more than just a brick-and-mortar school.”

Now, her children are learning to speak French. Only two classes out of the 10 they attend are in English. Exposing her children to new environments and watching them adapt makes her proud. Having a support system has been essential throughout her experience.

“ What helped me when my son was first diagnosed with autism was having a community around me — whether it be hospital support groups or talking with other parents sitting in the waiting room while their child was getting services. I’ve met many wonderful parents who were going through the same thing. It’s great reading their stories now when they’re at the same stage I was — having screaming kids because they didn’t know how to help them. Now it’s really cool to see their children thriving.”

Nicole grew up with the mindset to always remain positive and to put her best foot forward. She has passed those teachings on to her children, and now they travel like pros in the airport. According to her experience, not only do funds for traveling go further abroad than they did in the United States, but Nicole has also found that healthcare is much more affordable.

“I have spina bifida, so I walk with a cane, and I’m paralyzed in my left leg. I deal with chronic nerve pain and chronic anemia. I have all these disabilities, and I can still get out and travel.” While she admits it’s natural to worry about medication and doctor’s appointments, she encourages medical resources are available abroad. Everyone interested in traveling or worldschooling should do their own research. “Even if you or if your child or significant other have a disability, don’t let that be a hindrance from you traveling. There are so many Facebook groups and community support out there for people with disabilities to travel.”

For the last four years, Nicole has been in three different academic programs. In fact, when Nicole was accepted to study at the University of St. Andrews in Scotland, her family even appeared on an episode of “House Hunters International” in 2020. Since then, she has completed two master’s degrees and was working on obtaining her Ph.D. when she decided it was time to give her brain a rest.

“I left the Ph.D. because it was too much overload. I was always on the go. Now it’s time to breathe and relax and find me again, find who I am outside of academia.”

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Zoologico Guadalajara, Jalisco, México, 2018. Above: Phoebe captains a boat in Lisbon, Portugal, 2020. Parque Botero, Colombia, 2019.

Nicole focuses on prioritizing her mental and physical health, whether it’s befriending an English-speaking acquaintance while immersed in the local culture or attending a Wine and Wonder talk with like-minded philosophy friends.

While she had never planned on switching to a vegan lifestyle, Nicole adapted when her son stopped eating meat before his diagnosis. The vegan diet helped her son get back into occupational and speech therapy, and Nicole also discovered that she experienced less sickness on a vegan diet. When her son successfully started eating meat again, Nicole returned to eating meat, and the symptoms returned. She then discovered she had an allergy to meat, “I had something that was preventing me from digesting meat properly when I ate. I haven’t eaten it since 2011, and I’ve felt so much better for it.” Whether it’s adapting to a new language, a new dietary restriction, or rediscovering yourself, Nicole agrees that it’s okay to not be perfect. It’s okay to be a beginner at something; the important part is to attempt to get out of your comfort zone and learn from your mistakes.

When asked what conversations are important to keep revisiting when it comes to acknowledging people and students with disabilities, Nicole reminds us that treating others with kindness goes a long way, "A s a society, we tend to get superficial without getting to know the person or the individual.

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There's so much out there besides just reading what's in a book."
Left: HGTV's House Hunters International film crew, St. Andrews, Scotland, 2020. Below: Pueblito Paisa in Medellin, Colombia, 2020.

I’ve been fortunate to have people in my life who can look beyond my disabilities, who look beyond my kids’ disabilities and see them as people and as individuals. Yes, I have a disability, but it doesn’t define me.”

A s for what’s coming next, Nicole isn’t ready to settle permanently just quite yet. She is looking forward to doing more traveling with her kids this year. The goal is to visit Spain and other nearby European counties within close driving proximity. As for her twins, their adventurous spirits have no limits. Ross wants to go to the United Kingdom one day to go to university, and Phoebe is really into art right now and wants to study art in Japan.

“Maybe they’ll go to college here, or maybe they won’t. Either way, I’m excited for how they’ve matured during all of this and how they’ve grown as individuals.”

“As a society, we tend to get superficial without getting to know the person or the individual.Yes, I have a disability, but it doesn’t define me.”

Online Resources for Homeschool and Worldschooling Families

RECOMMENDED BY

NICOLE:

Prodigy.com: Free math and English games.

Spellingcity.com: Free spelling and vocabulary games.

Tynker.com: Coding for kids and teens (free trial available).

Powerhomeschool.org: An online homeschooling platform based in the United States.

Nightzookeeper.com: Creative writing (free trial available).

OTHER RESOURCES:

Dinolingo.com: Free language learning tool for kids (made by Duolingo)

Outschool.com: Classes that use creative methods in a variety of subjects.

Storiesofplay.com: Learning tools for unstructured play and creative confidence.

Teachstarter.com: Curated teaching resources for K-6 teachers (free and paid subscriptions available).

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Pictured: Nicole Ratliff, during the filiming of "Succeeding in Scotland," HGTV's House Hunters International, 2020.

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ura vida," which translates to "pure life" or "simple life," is a phrase I recently learned while traveling abroad. It is more than just a slogan; it's a way of life. Since joining Alpha Gamma Delta's staff, I've committed to living my best pure-and-simple life by cherishing friendships. I would go any distance for my friends to show how much I care, knowing they would do the same. Occasionally, I get a chance to go the distance, literally! My unique traveling sisterhood story starts in 2017 when I ventured outside the United States to reunite with college friends.

Australia, 2017: It had been about three years since graduating from college and living on my own. I lived hours away from most of my college ties. Still, I was planning a trip with two friends I often kept in touch with, Stephanie Barker, a close friend I went through sorority recruitment with, and Kelsey Burton, Theta Upsilon–Georgetown College, a sorority sister whom I initiated with. We squealed with excitement as we purchased our flights on the phone together; it was official, Stephanie and I were flying around the world to meet Kelsey in Australia. This would be my first trip out of the country, and little did I know, it was a trip that would spark a series of trips around the world.After the jetlag of flying in 17 hours of darkness wore off, we spent time in Sydney, doing all the touristy things. We walked Darling Harbour, saw the Sydney Opera House and took a ferry

to Manly Beach. On a whim, we booked a flight to the Great Barrier Reef. Our hostel was just outside Cairns, a charming, yacht-filled marina town. Excited to scuba dive in one of the wellknown seven natural wonders of the world, we took the free shuttle to town that night to attend a social event with a sister hostel. Over pizza and drinks, we met Jess Topping, a backpacking Brit traveling solo and, from here on out, also known as our new best friend. We danced to 90's music in an empty club and chased strange-looking leggy birds on our walk home. T he next day, we invited Jess to stay with us in Sydney for the remainder of her trip. Our time in Australia was short, but our friendship remained strong. Through social media and texting apps, we all stayed in contact.

United States, 2019: Two years after our Australian excursion, we all agreed it was time to get the gang back together, and Jess made her first trip to the United States. With

Stephanie, Kelsey and I being from Kentucky, we showed Jess how to enjoy the bluegrass state properly. We attended a Derby party at Hotel Covington, and made some bets on thoroughbred horses during at the Kentucky Oakes in Louisville. Later that week, we spent some laid-back time in western Kentucky in my hometown of Henderson. Jess and I also made a quick trip to Florida with some hometown friends. We spent a few days at the beaches near Orlando and got exclusive tickets to Harry Potter World after hours at Universal Studios.

Our British-American-Australian 2019 friendship tour came to an end. It wasn’t until a couple of years later that we discovered how badly we all would need to get together again for another trip. We never anticipated that countries would shut down their borders for what we all know now as COVID-19. T he global pandemic was a four-year traveling dry spell for our group. Australia had some of the

world's strictest travel and quarantine laws, and Kelsey couldn't leave the country for years. Every one of us experienced shifts in our day-to-day jobs. My goal of purchasing a house grew competitive as the nation saw skyrocketing trends across the housing market. In four years, some of us experienced the heartache of failed relationships, and some shared the grief of losing loved ones. A lot happened during those years. Though the four of us lived in three different countries, we were still there for each other and eager to celebrate our friendship again with another trip. This time our traveling sisterhood packed our bags to a country that none of us had been to before, Costa Rica!

Costa Rica, 2023: Jess, Stephanie, Kelsey and I arrived within 24 hours of each other in San José, Costa Rica. We had planned a 10-day road trip through some of the most amazing places I have ever seen. We fell in love with our San José hostel, appropriately

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Above: Maddy and Stephanie, San José, Costa Rica, 2023. Left: Jacó viewpoint, Costa Rica, 2023. Left, below: Maddy, Stephanie, Jess and Kelsey, Blue Mountains, Australia, 2017.

called Lost in San José — it was a tiny paradise hidden away in the chaos of the city. We stayed here on our first and last nights and felt like family by the time we left.

Our travel itinerary started with a treacherous backroad trip (treacherous, meaning the emergency zip-strip ties I packed came in handy by the time we returned our rental car) to see the Catarata de Toro of the Blue Waterfalls. The pothole-ridden gravel road finally landed us at the Rustic Cabins of La Fortuna, near the Arenal Volcano. Our cabin host described the jungle ants as friendly, and they only occasionally visited to escape the rain. We had no choice but to presume that the bat that intruded on our sleeping quarters was also a frequent guest — very rustic cabins, indeed!

In La Fortuna, we swam and swung with the locals at the El Salto Rope Swing on the Rio Fortuna. Thanks to the advice of a local tour guide we met, we found a popular hot spring, Tabacon Hot Springs. The springs resembled a fast-flowing creek, shallow and narrow enough to sit in almost without drifting away. The water temperature was perfect, naturally heated by the underground magma of the nearby Arenal Volcano. We concluded our time in La Fortuna at the Mistico Arenal Hanging Bridges and Sloth’s Territory. We didn’t know how we could top these amazing experiences until we experienced the otherworldly phenomenon of bioluminescence.

Bahia Rica Fishing and Kayak Lodge in Paquera hosted our night kayak tour around the inlets of the gulf where the bioluminescent algae lived. Bioluminescence is a natural occurrence — just like fireflies. Any movement

in the water stimulated the glowing of the algae. It was as if we were paddling through a galaxy of microscopic stars suspended below us. We splashed around like children, throwing sparkling water on each other with our oars, bumping kayaks left and right, completely in awe and unable to focus on navigating. Any photo or video paled in comparison to the magic in the water, so we have no other way to relive the experience except in our memories. Still, this guided tour ranks as one of my favorite experiences I have ever had.

The 4 a.m. ferry across the gulf was the wake-up call back to reality. We were excited about our final destination to the surf town of Jacó Beach. We made ourselves at home at the Encanto del Mar hostel. Around every corner were colorfully painted wildlife murals. The hostel itself was nestled a few miles down the hill from the graffiti ruins of El Miro. We walked to the beach, the corner store and nearby restaurants. We shared delicious food and drinks from the soda shops, befriended a local surf instructor and narrowly escaped a run-in with a large pufferfish at the coral covered sands of the Mirador de Playa Blanca. We didn’t want to leave this beautiful country, but our trip was nearing the end.

While this was our third trip together, this was the first time I shed uncontrollable tears at the airport. Knowing what we share is truly special, I hugged my friends a little tighter before saying goodbye. Thinking back to all that had happened in each of our lives in four years, I felt sad for all the time we had missed, but there were also happy tears for how far we had all come. For 10 days, pura vida had been our hello and goodbye for everyone we met; it was how we expressed our pure joy for living our best lives. It's easy to live "la pura vida" while on vacation, but finding pura vida every day takes energy, acceptance, patience and gratitude.

The older I get, the more thankful I am to be able to cherish these memories. I am lucky to maintain so many valuable friendships. We will never be able to replicate the relationships that we hold the closest, the cherished few, whether it’s childhood friends, sorority sisters or the best friend you met on vacation.

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Stay the night inside the former Coca Cola administration building, now known as Bottleworks

With exposed brick, terrazzo-tiled floors, white terra cotta structure, brass art deco-patterned doors, colorful ceramic tiles, and luxury amenities, this hotel is the perfect combination of historic architecture and modern luxury. Or spend your nights in the JW Marriott right in the heart of downtown, with easy access to Indy’s best attractions.

Coffee options include Hubbard and Cravens, Pulse Coffee and Coat

Check Coffee. For brunch, consider Milktooth, whose chef once graced the cover of Food & Wine magazine, Café Patachou and their waffle grilled cheese, broken yolk sandwiches or cinnamon toast. Traders

Point Creamery has a farm to table menu with the freshest ingredients.

Is Indianapolis — the hometown of International Headquarters — on your travel bucket list? Staff from IHQ and Visit Indy highlight travel recommendations for a sisters' weekend getaway itinerary.

For lunch, check out Canal Bistro, the Pastrami Sandwich from Shapiro’s Deli or Ripple Bagel & Deli for some delicious midday meals. Big Lug Canteen is a short drive from IHQ, and our staff raves about the spicy garlic cauliflower, burgers and rotating specials. They also have live music in the evenings. The Garage Food Hall near downtown is also open for lunch and dinner crowds, and features a diverse collection of casual international eateries and bars in a contemporary, industrial space.

Some popular plates to try for dinner include empanadas and chicken tinga tacos from the Livery, the Garage Burger from Bub's Burgers, Pepperoni Breadsticks from Kilroy's Bar and Grill. Other favorites include Bluebeard's trendy renovated 1924 warehouse, New Orleans style cajun at Yats, Half Liter BBQ, Iaria's Italian Restaurant, Rathskeller's Bavarian-style decor and German food, or if you're looking to splurge, steak from St. Elmo's Steakhouse

Punch Bowl Social and Pins Mechanical combine your favorite games with great food and drinks. Must see spots are Brick House Dueling Pianos in Broad Ripple and the cozy Parlor Public House (coffee by day, cocktails by night).

Mallow Run Winery has award-winning wines and concerts on the lawn. Pair wine with charcuterie at Wine and Rind in Carmel. Breweries like Sun King, St. Joseph’s (microbrewery in a historic church) and Upland are staples for locals and visitors. For fans of bubble tea (and fusion taquerias) visit La Chinita

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Most have heard of the Indy 500, but here are some insta-worthy spots to check out: the interactive Selfie WRLD, White River State Park in the heart of downtown, the Canal Walk (and canal tours with Old World Gondoliers), Fowling Warehouse (football meets bowling), make glass flowers at Flower Boys, Newfields Art Museum, shopping at Keystone Mall or Circle Center Mall in the heart of the city, and look for live events at Indiana Repertory Theater, Ruoff Music Center and Monument Circle. Don't forget to check all the districts of Indy, such as the Mass Ave. district, and other travel tips at ® VisitIndy.com

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Connecting Family Roots, Cultivating Friendships

In mid-March, Persian communities around the world gathered to commemorate Nowruz, a two-week jubilee in recognition of the Persian New Year. This year’s Nowruz was especially meaningful for Kate Meinert, Delta Tau–Chapman University, who honored the occasion with her mother and grandmother as part of the institution’s Iranian Culture Club.

same opportunity,” Kate said. “I want to make sure others have the chance to share their story and feel understood.”

and to join the Iranian Culture Club when encouraged by one of her Alpha Gam sisters.

Kate currently serves as both Delta Tau Chapter President and the Iranian Culture Club’s Vice President of Events. Through these roles supporting university women and promoting cultural understanding among Chapman’s student body, Kate is exploring her own cultural identity as an Iranian woman.

“Being a part of the Iranian Culture Club has helped me to learn more about myself, and also made me more open and committed to making sure everyone else has the

The Iranian Culture Club was first formed as an unofficial student organization during the 2020-21 academic year, when Kate was a freshman. At the time, Chapman University — like many other institutes of higher education across the country — were forced into fully remote learning environments by the global health pandemic. The Iranian Culture Club provided Kate with a means to cultivate friendships while connecting with her roots. Kate sought to become more fully immersed in her Iranian heritage since the passing of her grandfather four years ago. This journey of self-discovery is what led her to pursue a dual major in history and religious studies

“Being a part of the club, learning about the people, the food, has made me feel closer to him,” she said. Kate’s grandfather immigrated to the United States from Iran in 1979, when Kate’s mother was 10 years old. Both experienced overt racism and discrimination as they tried to navigate life in a new country. Among many challenges, Kate’s grandfather was forced to change his name in order to get a job. Kate’s commitment to fostering cultural acceptance are born from their struggles.

“I am thankful that in my day-to-day life I haven’t experienced the hardships that

my family faced in coming to America. I am also thankful that I have been able to experience the Persian culture and just how open and genuine the Iranian people are,” Kate said. “Through this club, I am trying to do my part to spread that awareness and stop the stigma associated with the Middle East and with Iran in particular.”

Kate sees her role as president of the Delta Tau Chapter as a platform to model cultural acceptance and champion equity and inclusion. The love and support Kate has felt from her Delta Tau sisters moves her toward this important work.

“In middle school and high school, I had a hard time making friends. During recruitment, all the Alpha Gam

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“I want to make sure others have the chance to share their story and feel understood.”

women I spoke to were so genuine; I didn’t feel I needed to be a different version of myself. I could be totally authentic.”

As President, Kate wants to continue to make Alpha Gam a safe place where all feel like they belong. She does this by inviting her sisters to take part in events like the Nowruz celebration and by providing opportunity for open dialogue and for learning about members’ cultures and identities at chapter meetings and sisterhood events. In a recent, powerful display of support, the Delta Tau chapter rallied behind calls to action to support the #WomanLifeFreedom

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movement, following the death of Mahsa Amini that thrust the inequality in Iran — particularly inequality for women — into the public eye.

In the year ahead, Kate plans to use her leadership roles to keep up that momentum.

“It’s been powerful to see the community [the local Iranian and Chapman community] rally together,” Kate said.

“While talk about the revolution in Iran may be dying down in the United States, it’s still very much a part of what’s going in in Iran. It’s important to me to keep that conversation going.”

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Above, left to right: Kate's grandmother, Linda Mansouri, Kate Meinert and Kate's mother, Laura Meinert, celebrating the Persian New Year.

Being Inclusive on Social Media Inspires a Career in Greek Life

Ever since she was in high school, Erin Huebner, Gamma Eta–High Point University, always knew two things: she wanted to be involved in Greek life, and she wanted to attend a college with a robust communication program. As Erin introduces herself, she adjusts the red and gold ring on her right hand, “I wear my Chapter President ring on my right, middle finger," she says. "My sister was getting hers and she wanted to size it for her right middle finger as well.” Erin recounts the number of sorority Chapter Presidents in her family. She is one of six that have held the title, her mother, two grandmothers, and great-grandmother held the title, and her sister is currently serving as Chapter President in the same chapter that Erin initiated in.

Rewind to the year 2020, Erin is the Chapter President at High Point University, and she is holding together chapter morale as her sisters venture through virtual recruitment for the first time ever. “My personal goal was ensuring that every sister had the same opportunity to fall in love with Alpha Gamma Delta, just like I did.” While Erin was the President during the onset of COVID-19, it provided an opportunity to talk to sisters about how to make them feel supported. I realized the impact that social media could have on our chapter. It seems silly, but it can mean the world to sisters to be posted on the chapter account. The purpose is to showcase all of the chapter — not just certain sisters. This lit a fire inside me to work

“My personal goal was to ensure that every sister had the same opportunity to fall in love with Alpha Gamma Delta just like I did.”
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Pictured: Erin Huebner, and her biological sister (below) at their chapter house at High Point University.

with the rest of my Executive Council to be more inclusive of our entire chapter.”

Erin worked with the Vice President–Marketing to create a social media content calendar to ensuring every sister would be featured on the account. The goal of representing sisters and being more intentional about marketing Alpha Gam's values on the account was widely accepted by chapter members, and continues to be carried out. Having now completed her master's in communication, the value she placed on communicating and listening to her sisters created an impact that continues to inspire her.

“The sisters that were appreciative of the little things throughout my presidency, I will never forget. I remember one sister saying, ‘I have never

felt as good about this organization as I do now. Thank you for not just saying that you're going to listen, but for really listening to people.’ And it was conversations like that that inspired me.”

Erin held onto that same vision of inclusion and love for her chapter, and it influenced her in the next stage of her life. After receiving two communication job offers after graduation, she was faced with a split decision. Either move to Boston and settle for a job near friends and close to home or move to Lexington, Kentucky, where she knew no one, to follow her passion for working in Greek life. According to Erin, the decision was simple. Now, she incorporates inclusion in her daily roles and responsibilities as the Coordinator of Communications for the Phi Gamma Delta organi-

zation. Erin’s closest friends from her chapter were supportive of the move. Never in a million years did her sisters think that she would end up in Kentucky, but working for a Greek organization is the most fitting role for Erin.

“I learned the power of joy that inclusion on social media can create; now it translates into my job every day.” Erin oversees the Phi Gamma Delta’s social media account and manages to feature a different chapter in every collegiate post over eight months. “I track every post to ensure that I represent every chapter we have.” Ensuring everyone has a seat at the table makes a difference in more ways than one. The organization’s social media engagement has increased by 15% in the past month.

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San Marcos, Texas San Marcos, Texas San Marcos, Texas Porch Swingin' in

In fall 2022, the FHC opened the newly renovated Kappa Epsilon Chapter house in San Marcos, Texas. This beautiful, two-story home has double porches, sleeps eight members and provides the sisters of Kappa Epsilon a space to gather and grow their sisterhood.

This home was built in 1905 and was entered onto the National Register of Historic Places in 1983. The home features stunning, wrap around porches on both stories with seating for members to enjoy the fresh air and Texas heat!

The living room features deep, comfortable couches where members can study, host guests or spend time with one another. Pops of Alpha Gam red brighten this boho-chic southwest-themed living space.

This study space promotes individual or group studying so members can further their education through their live-in experience.

The dining room is the ideal place for live-in members or visiting members to share a meal or study together. The Kappa Epsilon house has a shared kitchen members can use to prepare meals.

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Remembering Cherished Friendships

Former International President, Connie Yates Brown, Enters Chapter Grand

Former International President Connie Yates Brown, Epsilon Kappa–Pittsburg State University, brought energy and love for Alpha Gamma Delta everywhere she went. A 1966 initiate, loyal volunteer and advocate for Alpha Gamma Delta, Connie served on the Recruitment Committee for several years before her election as International Vice President-Membership (1997-2001). She was installed as International President at the Centennial Celebration Convention and served from 2004-06.

“Connie loved Alpha Gam with every ounce of her being,” said Lee Woodham Langub, Alpha Gamma Delta International President. “She always did what she thought was right for the Fraternity. I treasure the time I was able to spend with her.”

Connie was engaged in the Tulsa Alumnae Club, Tulsa Area Alumnae Panhellenic and served as the House Director for the Alpha Gamma Delta Upsilon-University of Oklahoma home in Norman. At the time of her passing, Connie was serving as the House Director for Kappa Delta at the University of Tulsa.

Former International Council Member, Frances Sells Ryan, Enters Chapter Grand

Frances Sells Ryan, Lambda–Northwestern University, a 1940 initiate, was a devoted member of our organization and held an extensive service record volunteering for many years. She served on International Council as Grand Treasurer and National Panhellenic Council Delegate from 1967-70. While serving as an International Officer, she earned her Master’s in Counseling and Guidance from Purdue University in 1970. Frances worked as a counselor before earning her Doctor of Jurisprudence, served as an attorney and judge for over 15 years and also served as an ordained deacon in the Episcopal Church

Former International Council Member, Patsy Smith Davis, Enters Chapter Grand

Patsy Smith Davis, Epsilon Delta–University of Texas, at Austin, a 1959 initiate, had a long and impressive service record to our organization. As an undergraduate, Patsy served as Chapter President. She continued to volunteer for many years as an alumna. She served on International Council as Grand Treasurer 1972-79, and as a Foundation Trustee from 1982-94. Patsy also served on the Capital Campaign Steering Committee during the Foundation’s Capital Campaign from 1999-2004. Patsy served as a member of the Foundation A-Team Committee from 1995-2004 by making calls to thank donors for their contributions to the Foundation.

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Alpha Gamma Delta will deeply miss and always appreciate those who have dedicated service to the Fraternity. 1947-2022 | EPSILON KAPPA Pittsburg State University 1937-2022 | EPSILON DELTA University of Texas, at Austin 1922-2022 | LAMBDA Northwestern University

The Fraternity extends sincere condolences to family and friends of these members. This list includes notices received between September 1, 2022 - February 28, 2023, in order of initiation date.

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Syracuse University

Nancy Laws Weagraff 1949

Norma Armstrong Hommel 1950

Jean Ridgway 1951

Joan Flagler Poladian 1951

Virginia Gelish Drew 1960

BETA

University of Wisconsin-Madison

Carol Chapman Rudd 1944

Lois Mielke Plekenpol 1946

Joyce Ann Grull Kyak 1958

DELTA

University of Minnesota

Elizabeth Exner Cady-Jones 1949

Jean Lehrmann Smith 1965

Mary Ann Cope 2015

EPSILON

University of Kentucky

Betty Haynes Barnard 1944

Harvey Jennings Crowe 1957

ZETA

Ohio University

Mary Athearn Matson 1951

Eugenia Gerak Plattenburg 1951

Bonnie Sunkle Bartlett 1961

ETA

DePauw University

Miriam White Jacobs 1943

Elizabeth Edson Chapleski 1954

IOTA

University of Washington

Dorothy Muffett 1971

KAPPA

Allegheny College

Hope Rowan Seibert 1946

Phyllis Moat Sharp 1949

Marlene E Brown Matson 1961

Marilyn Lenz Leach 1961

LAMBDA

Northwestern University

Margaret Wright Whitcher 1938

Frances Sells Ryan 1940

Rosemary Depaul Marimon 1950

Shirley Vankerkhove Metz 1951

Elizabeth Lamb Clark 1951

MU

Brenau University

Jeanette Belcher Law 1952

XI

Illinois Wesleyan University

Beverly Brison Griswold 1948

Carol Ann Sheppert Fort 1956

RHO

Iowa State University

Yvonne Slade Tidd 1953

Donna Poulson Rasmussen 1967

UPSILON

University of Oklahoma

Peggy Hollis Tanzer 1948

Sherma Samples Dean 1955

Gayleen Faudree Andrews 1956

Mariellen Jones Trumble 1961

Gretchen Grover Harris 1966

Sidney Earnest Ford 1969

CHI

Michigan State University

Linda Fritz Barrett 1949

Nancy Organ Carver 1952

PSI

University of Alabama

Lynne Sullivan Stokes 1958

OMEGA

University of Akron

Ruth Heimann Frye 1940

Dorothy Stampfli Aylward 1948

Beverly Jones Holt 1952

Leah Bann Mazzaferro 1952

ALPHA ALPHA

University at Buffalo–SUNY

Claire-Loraine Leising Schlum 1953

Beverly Kirsits Gibbs 1968

ALPHA BETA

University of Michigan

Eleanor Maliche 1941

Nancy Eichenlaub Zrull 1950

Nancy Hodges Barthlow 1950

Wilma Martin Auch 1951

Doris Denessen Hires 1956

ALPHA GAMMA

University of Cincinnati

Margaret Tuttle Schumacher 1950

Shirley Brookshire Tarter 1954

ALPHA DELTA

Ohio Wesleyan University

Rosemary Kramling Chenue 1954

Laura Jube Weber 1954

Christine Kegley 1956

Mabel Kinney Stehler 1957

ALPHA EPSILON

Westminster College

Lois Hendrickson Erb 1949

Joan Loufman Davies 1950

ALPHA ETA

Dalhousie University

Yvonne Cougle Wilson 1946

ALPHA THETA

Hunter College

Sandra Gelpi 1961

ALPHA IOTA

Baldwin Wallace College

Elaine Brooker Bright 1948

ALPHA KAPPA

Bowling Green State University

Wilda Berndt Clifton 1945

Joan Dennison Bell 1952

Nancy Hochstettler Copeland 1963

ALPHA LAMBDA

The Ohio State University

Margaret Clapper Baker 1947

Elizabeth Schmidt Eikenberry 1952

Joan Dreher Smith 1952

ALPHA XI

University of Maryland

Nancy Potter Delaski 1949

Fay Kinnamon Tresslar 1952

Mary McAndrews Shipp 1953

ALPHA OMICRON

West Virginia Wesleyan College

Carol Stalnaker Crow 1948

Frances Cooper Wiseman 1956

ALPHA PHI

Marietta College

Dianne Vanness Hart 1967

ALPHA CHI

Thiel College

Joyce Eileen Watkins Terrill 1965

BETA ALPHA

Nebraska Wesleyan University

Beth Bryant Tucker 1943

Arlayne Kyes Bonness 1948

Virginia Garlow Keating 1949

Mary Wagoner Fisher 1983

BETA BETA

North Dakota State University

Dolores Ulmer Sorenson 1947

BETA DELTA

Indiana University Bloomington

Martha Root Schoeff 1951

Marcia Coppes Markin 1954

Phyllis Magenheimer Secrest 1955

Beverly Chase Gullion 1965

BETA EPSILON

Carroll University

Judith Johnson Moran 1956

BETA ETA

Southern Illinois University

Sharon Clancy Bertane 1970

BETA XI

Purdue University

Dale Wold Lundy 1968

Janice Kinder Zapapas 1974

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Honoring Kristi Cormack

In November 2022, Alpha Gamma Delta, Epsilon Nu Chapter and the Fraternity Housing Corporation lost a beloved and celebrated House Director and chapter sister, Kristi Cormack, Epsilon Nu–University of Central Oklahoma, 2008. Kristi served as the Epsilon Nu House Director since the chapter joined the FHC in 2017. A testament to her chapter’s appreciation and adoration, Kristi was honored with the Emily Helen Butterfield Outstanding House Director award for two consecutive bienniums, 2018-20 and 2020-22.

When nominating Kristi for this award, Chapter Advisor Sara Bissell Walk, Epsilon Nu, shared, “Kristi is not only an exceptional House Mom, but an outstanding human as well. Kristi was diagnosed with cancer in 2020. While this was an extremely tough time for her, along with the pandemic, she never let us down — not one time.”

Epsilon Nu Chapter sisters adored Kristi, and we have included some of their sentiments:

Kristi loved fiercely, listened without judgment and led our chapter with grace. She created a space of acceptance, laughter and connection. Kristi was our home away from home. In every conversation, she poured into us and led with wisdom, advice and encouragement. Kristi always strived to live boldly and never failed. 425 N. Jackson will never be the same, but her legacy reached far beyond the walls of our home.

Memorializing Abby Savoie

Abigail (Abby) Burton Savoie, Nu Delta–Georgia College and State University member, of Peachtree City, Georgia was a graduate of McIntosh High School and a sophomore at Georgia College & State University where she studied public health.

Abby was passionate, kind-hearted, and fun-loving with hopes for great adventures ahead. She dreamed of traveling and making a difference in the world. Her concern for others’ happiness made her not just the brightest light in the room, but the biggest heart as well. Abby’s compassion, inner radiance, and ability to capture hearts of those around her will remain with us forever. She had a soaring spirit that will never end.

“Abby was a sister that brought a joy to the chapter that can never be forgotten. She had passion for togetherness and light that lingers in our hearts. We will miss her deeply, but are so thankful for the time we were given with her,” Katie Cook, Chapter President.

Chapters and friends wishing to offer condolences to the Nu Delta Chapter can make a donation in Abby’s name to the scholarship that Alpha Gamma Delta has put together in her memory. Donations can be sent to International Headquarters.

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1989-2022 | EPSILON NU University of Central Oklahoma –Epsilon Nu Chapter Statement Top to bottom: Kristi Cormack, Epsilon Nu House Director since 2017. Chapter Advisor Sara Walk (left) with Kristi on Sara's wedding day in 2022. Kristi surrounded by Epsilon Nu Chapter at their 2021 Holiday Event. 2003-2022 | NU DELTA Georgia College and State University

The Fraternity extends sincere condolences to family and friends of these members. This list includes notices received between September 1, 2022 - February 28, 2023, in order of initiation date.

Chapter Grand

GAMMA ALPHA

University of Georgia

Betty Carroll Murdock 1946

Dorothy Farrior Hipps 1953

Mary Eleanor Wood Smith 1966

Dian Hentz 1987

Kristen Moore Stowers 2001

GAMMA BETA

Florida State University

Evangeline Griffin Holt 1951

Ruby Barker Redman 1954

Ann Bullock Duffack 1954

Barbara Thackston King 1957

Carolyn Griffin Coleman 1957

Winnie Douglas Hargis 1958

Carrie Walker Hollman 1997

GAMMA DELTA

Auburn University

Mary Cottle Mizelle 1947

Gloria Cobb Johnson 1952

Ruth Wise Kirkland 1953

Margaret Spicer Dodson 1956

Alice Vaughn Smith 1959

Cynthia Addison Wood 1973

GAMMA EPSILON

University of North Carolina at Chapel Hill

Jean Aldridge Juchatz 1956

Phyllis Wall Purdy 1958

Patty Nash Wheeler 1964

GAMMA THETA

Florida Southern College

Susan Downing McHenry 1966

GAMMA MU

James Madison University

Jean Kitchen Hardison 1959

GAMMA NU

University of Tennessee

Valorie Susan Isbill Haydel 1982

GAMMA XI

Murray State University

Lusanne Lilly McKenzie 1966

GAMMA UPSILON

University of Montevallo

Debra Ann Graham Rice 1979

GAMMA PSI

University of North Alabama

Bonnie Ruf 1998

DELTA ALPHA

University of Southern California

Marilyn Woods Dewald 1950

DELTA BETA

Washington State University

Maxine Gibson Monell 1944

Anna Marie Black Figenshow 1948

DELTA GAMMA

Montana State University

Eleanor Vanatta McKamey 1941

Janice Lovely French 1969

DELTA DELTA

University of Oregon

Patricia Rice Johnson 1950

DELTA EPSILON

University of California-Los Angeles

Mariana Holt Barnard 1948

Donna Sullivan Harms 1950

Rennie Sparkman Blair 1952

DELTA ZETA

University of British Columbia

Laurine Lundell White 1949

DELTA IOTA

California State University-Chico

Lacey Goddard Brown 1994

DELTA XI

Arizona State University

Mary Cook Kauffman 1987

EPSILON ALPHA

University of Missouri

Joyce True Parker 1944

Jean Looschen Osterloh 1945

EPSILON BETA

University of Kansas

Mary House 1972

Kathleen Blake Nixon 1983

EPSILON GAMMA

University of Denver

Allegra Winn 2007

EPSILON DELTA

University of Texas at Austin

Helen Swanson Kininmonth 1941

Ann Patrick Jordan 1953

Patsy Smith Davis 1955

EPSILON EPSILON

William Jewell College

Carolyn Crouch Huber 1950

Nancy Brown Welsh 1963

EPSILON ZETA

Arkansas State University

Patsy Wood Neal 1951

Patsy J Morris Moody 1964

EPSILON ETA

Texas Christian University

Micki Tatman Young 1959

Penelope Hurley Markos 1960

Cleo Wyant Lightfoot 1966

EPSILON KAPPA

Pittsburg State University

Connie Yates Brown 1966

EPSILON MU

Fort Hays State University

Barbara Brungardt Phillips 1968

EPSILON NU

University of Central Oklahoma

Kristi Cormack 2008

EPSILON RHO

Texas A&M University

Jane Carmichael Bickham 1975

KAPPA BETA

Missouri Western State University

Chevy Ingebritson 2013

NU DELTA

Georgia College and State University

Abigail Savoie 2021

Member Directory Update

Members can access the new Member Directory through myAlphaGam and find sisters around the world. Watch the tutorial on myAlphaGam to best use the directory and understand its functionality.

If you have not re-registered your myAlphaGam account and created a new password since January 2022, please follow the directions to access your account at this link, ® adobe.ly/3e8IABq, or using the QR code below.

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Looking Ahead

For many young women, making financial plans for when you pass away seems daunting, complex and too far away to worry about now. That’s not always the case.

Samantha Avanzino Hahn, Delta Omicron-University of Nevada Las Vegas, is one of many young alumnae looking ahead and making meaningful plans for the future. For Samantha, joining the Foundation’s Corinthian Society was an easy decision.

“So much was given to me [by Alpha Gam], so it only feels right to pay it forward so another member can have a life-changing experience,” Samantha said.

The Corinthian Society allowed Samantha to say “yes, but not yet” to making a gift to the Foundation. It was a simple and smart way for her to make the greatest impact possible.

“If you feel confident in what the Foundation is doing and want to help but know that you’re not able to give as much as you want to right now, the Corinthian Society is a perfect way to answer that call,” Samantha said.

She believes that making financial plans for the future doesn’t have to be scary and suggests doing research and taking it one step at a time. According to Samantha, starting small with one thing to improve your financial future is better than doing everything at once and feeling overwhelmed.

“Alpha Gam will always be near and dear to my heart,” Samantha said. “I want to pass on a legacy of giving in hopes that the next person that gets a grant will do the same when they’re in a place to do so.”

Five Easy Ways

Name the Foundation as a beneficiary of your:

1. IRA

2. 401(k)

3. Life insurance policy.

4. Donor Advised Fund

5. Will

Learn more about planned giving at ® alphagammadeltafoundation. org/planned-giving.
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S amantha and her husband on their honeymoon.
Alpha Gamma Delta Fraternity 8710 N. Meridian St. Indianapolis, IN 46260 alphagammadelta.org Pay your $40 Alumnae Dues by using the QR code or by visiting this link: ® bit.ly/2OuZk8j. Alumnae Dues support collegiate and alumnae programming, extension, Volunteer Service Team, alumnae group support and more! Email à alumnae@alphagammadelta.org for details. -Susie Thrams, Beta Kappa–University of Iowa "I give because Alpha Gam has shaped my daily life and made me a better woman." Digital Issue

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