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The Marriage Course The aim of The Marriage Course is to help couples grow closer and build a healthy relationship that will last a lifetime. Over seven sessions, the couples learn practical tools to help them invest time in their marriage, heal ways they’ve hurt each other, discover how their partner feels loved, and much, much more. Talk Topics: Session 1 – Building Strong Foundations Session 2 – The Art of Communication Session 3 – Resolving Conflict Session 4 – The Power of Forgiveness Session 5 – The Impact of Family – Past & Present Session 6 – Good Sex Session 7 – Love in Action The DVDs also include a session for The Marriage Course Party—a chance for potential guests to find out more about the course—and an extra session mainly for couples in the military, called Coping with Times of Separation.
The Marriage Preparation Course The aim of The Marriage Preparation Course is to give engaged couples the practical tools they need to build a strong and lasting marriage. Over five sessions, the couples learn how to invest in their relationship, develop shared goals and values, and keep love growing throughout a marriage. Talk Topics: Session 1 – Communication Session 2 – Commitment Session 3 – Resolving Conflict Session 4 – Keeping Love Alive Session 5 – Shared Goals and Values FOCCUS Questionnaire The course can effectively be combined with the use of a questionnaire designed for engaged couples like FOCCUS. Each couple completes the research-based questionnaire before the course and then meets up with a married support couple to go through the results. The questionnaire helps couples recognize issues they need to discuss prior to getting married.
How the sessions run Each session takes about two-and-a-half hours to run including the meal, the talk, and time for couples to complete exercises and discuss relevant issues, while being served tea and coffee.
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just a course—it’s an experience. Whether run in a home or a larger venue, the idea is to make the experience as welcoming as possible. Good music and subtle lighting help to create the right atmosphere.
DVD clips – The talks are interspersed with filmed clips of couples talking about their experiences of marriage and street interviews from around the world.
Discussion times – Sessions include
allows couples to relax and chat with each other before the talk starts.
breaks to give each couple time to discuss the topic that has been presented. Every guest is given a manual with exercises and questions for these discussion times.
Practical talks – Nicky and Sila share
No group work – There is NO group
Romantic meal – Serving a meal
from their own experiences of over thirty years of marriage, demonstrating how important the practical tools have been to their own relationship. They talk about the difference their Christian faith has made to their marriage but in a way that is not offputting for those who are not churchgoers or do not have a Christian faith. The course can be run using DVDs of Nicky and Sila’s talks, or you can present the talks live, using the transcripts provided on the Leaders’ Toolkit (for The Marriage Course) or separate CDRom (for The Marriage Preparation Course).
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work and no one is expected to share anything with anyone other than their partner. The tables are spaced far enough apart and background music is played so couples can’t be overheard.
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Thousands of couples around the world have done the courses. As a result, many relationships have been strengthened and, in some cases, marriages saved. Courses continue to grow because couples tell their friends how it helped them!
do I Attend The Marriage Course yourselves. Visit themarriagecourseusa.org to find your nearest course. If there isn’t one near you, do the course in a home with two or three other couples using the DVDs. ttend The Marriage Conference and/or watch the “Leaders’ Training” on the Leaders’ A Toolkit DVD for the relevant course (visit alpha.org for details). Marriage Preparation Course Leaders only: Watch the training on The Marriage Preparation Course Leaders’ Toolkit DVD for how to use the FOCCUS questionnaire and register with FOCCUS if you plan to use the questionnaire as part of the course. ake sure you have the support of your church leaders and congregation. Build a team of volunteers to M help you. If the course is large you may need people to help with setting up, cooking, serving, and clearing. Marriage Preparation Course Leaders only: If using the FOCCUS questionnaire, recruit support couples and train them using The Marriage Preparation Course Leaders’ Toolkit. F ind a suitable venue. This may be a home if your course is small, or you may need a larger venue—perhaps a church, a community hall, a hotel, a café after hours—anywhere that you can serve a meal and create a great atmosphere. Purchase the necessary products at alpharesources.org F ind a counselor in your area to whom you can refer couples if they need additional help. ecide what to charge your guests based on the cost D of the food, manuals, and venue. S et a date and advertise your course—the Leaders’ Toolkit for each course contains a section on ideas for promoting the course. egister your course online at themarriagecourseusa.org. R This will allow us to put you in touch with couples looking for a course in your area. ontact your local Marriage Course Advisors. These are couples C with experience of running the course who help other leaders with advice and support. Their details are on the website.
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