The Quill of Alpha Xi Delta - Summer 2010 by Alpha Xi Delta Fraternity

Summer 2010 Recommend a Young Woman for Membership Sisters Converge on Capitol Hill Chapter, Association Directories Foundation Giving: Your Dollars at Work

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An Affair to Remember How to create memorable reunions, chapter celebrations and girlfriend getaways

President’s Letter There’s No Place Like “Home”

Sisters,

Every Sister matters. YOU matter to Alpha Xi Delta. Our Sisterhood would not be the same without you. Because of this, we are deeply committed to ensuring each Sister feels an enduring connection to our Sisterhood, whatever form that connection may take. For most of us, the special ties that bind us to one another stem from the genuine, lifelong friendships we gain as Alpha Xi Deltas. And there are few events that foster and celebrate these connections quite like an Alpha Xi Delta reunion. A legendary Disney Imagineer once told me that, in storytelling, there is really only one storyline: The Journey Home. As someone who gets misty at airports watching people I’ve never met reunite, this rings true to me. There’s no mix of emotions quite like those of people who care about one another and express them when reuniting after events separate them. I find it powerful and beautiful to behold. I often hear Alpha Xi Delta described as our “home away from home” while we’re at college, so it makes sense that our journeys home to Alpha Xi Delta are so satisfying. And they can take many forms. They can be highly attended weekend-long events or small-group afternoon getaways. At this time of year, those of us on the coasts think “beach.” Really, any excuse to get together is a good one.

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Starbucks and/or spa visits are my personal favorites! More often than not, we also eat while reuniting. And isn’t that the perfect combination? Our bodies are nourished with perhaps some picnic fare or a plated chicken meal (what’s for dessert?) while our souls are nourished by conversation, memories and laughter, all with women who enjoy Alpha Xi’s shared values and vision. Wash it down with a toast and a favorite Alpha Xi Delta song and you’ve got the perfect recipe for lasting connections. Your National Council members attended several milestone reunions this year, and these were undoubtedly some of our greatest highlights. I just received my invitation to join our Pi chapter Sisters at Ohio University in May 2011 for the chapter’s centennial celebration. I’m looking forward to it already. Please let us know if you’ve got a milestone reunion coming up, as we would love to share your special event with you. Even if we don’t know you personally yet, we’re happy to rely on that uncanny ability we Alpha Xis have to fall right in with one another and feel “at home.” We know we’ll meet a whole new set of Sisters and friends with whom to reunite in future years. I wish you all a restful, rejuvenating summer with some good time spent reuniting with those you love. Loyally,

Deanna Detchemendy National President

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The Quill of Alpha Xi Delta is published three times per year in spring, summer and fall/winter by Alpha Xi Delta Fraternity®. POSTMASTER: Send address changes to The Quill of Alpha Xi Delta 8702 Founders Road Indianapolis, IN 46268 Volume 107/Issue 2 ©2010 Alpha Xi Delta Fraternity; all rights reserved. Alpha Xi Delta Fraternity 8702 Founders Rd. Indianapolis, IN 46268 317.872.3500 www.alphaxidelta.org fhq@alphaxidelta.org Submission Deadlines Spring issue: December 1 Summer issue: April 1 Fall/Winter issue: August 15 Submission Procedures Text and photographs may be emailed to rgoodman@alphaxidelta.org or mailed to the Fraternity Headquarters address listed above. Photographs submitted become the property of the Fraternity. Electronic photos must be taken using the highest settings available on a camera that’s at least 3.2 megapixels. Address/Name Changes Visit www.alphaxidelta.org or mail changes to 8702 Founders Rd, Indianapolis, IN 46268. National Executive Director Elysia Balster Gallivan, South Dakota ’93 Editor Ruth Goodman, Northern Iowa ’80 National Council 2009-11 National President Deanna Wollam Detchemendy, Cal State Northridge ’83 National Vice Presidents Evonne Carawan, North Carolina State ’83 Sandra Ellen Edwards, Kentucky ’75 Jennifer Emerick Kuntz, Northern Iowa ’92 Wendy Kurtz, Indiana ’90 Susan Eicher Mamber, Kent State ’77 Danica Vanasse Olson, Marquette ’90 The Mission of The Quill of Alpha Xi Delta: To inform, inspire and challenge. To sustain and nurture membership loyalty and interest. To recognize individual, group and Fraternity accomplishments. To provide a forum for the exchange of information and opinion. To be the permanent record of the Fraternity.

Contents 6 An Affair to Remember Learn how to plan a gathering that Sisters will remember for years to come.

16 Our Chapter Houses Become our Homes

Sisters and other members of the Greek community hit the Hill in support of the College Housing Infrastructure Act.

17 Teaming Up for Brendan Alumna Laura Lyerly Milliken helps raise funds and awareness for Autism Speaks.

34 Chapter Directory Recommend a young woman for membership by sending a Potential Member Proﬁle to one of our chapters.

36 Alumnae Association Directory Join an alumnae association to meet and socialize with women in your area.

39 Long Live the Queen! Alicia Cochran Spencer reigns as queen of her Mardi Gras Ball.

Also In This Issue 18 Autism Speaks News 24 Member News 30 Realize Your Potential 31 Alpha Xi Delta Authors 33 New Now Next 38 Potential Member Profile 40 Sister to Sister 42 Foundation News 44 Chapter Eternal 46 From the Archives 47 Living Our Symphony

On the Cover Usha Ellur Hecht, Indiana ’90, Jody Lee Meredith, Indiana ’96, Nicole Ackerman, Indiana ’96, Sara Des Jean Konopka, Purdue ’01, and Maura Kenny, Indiana ’96, gathered at the Wood Wind Golf Club near Indianapolis to catch up and create an affair to remember. Learn more about planning unforgettable events, starting on page 6. www.alphaxidelta.org

Letters

We Can Make a Difference I just received the spring 2010 issue of The Quill and want to compliment the Editor and staff, as well as the Fraternity, for the focus on Autism Speaks and ways to care for others. It shows that we can make a difference. Congratulations. Nancy George Duncan Penn State ’49 Movie Focuses on Autism, Advocacy I loved the autism story in the spring Quill. I hope all have seen the movie Temple Grandin. Barbara Trader Faires East Carolina ’62 Editor’s Note: Temple Grandin is an HBO film released earlier this year starring actress Claire Danes in the role of Temple Grandin. Ms. Grandin, a person with high-functioning autism, is a doctor of animal science and professor at Colorado State University who made a life out of caring for animals and developing humane methods of taking care of livestock destined for the slaughterhouse. She is also widely noted for her work in autism advocacy and is the inventor of the “hug machine” designed to calm hypersensitive people. Learn more and see a trailer of the film at www.hbo.com/movies/templegrandin/index.html. Providing Support and Care I am so thrilled Sisters are speaking out for autism! My son, Alec, was diagnosed in 2004. We have been walking the autism journey for a long time, and he is doing great. I wrote a book about autism last year, Autism’s Hidden Blessings: Discovering God’s Promises for Autistic Children and Their Families, and speak to mothers of children with autism about the role of faith in coping with autism. I am so proud of Alpha Xi Delta for choosing to give hope to the thousands and thousands of families dealing with autism. These families need support and care, and I am so glad to hear you are reaching out to the autism community. You are making a difference. Thank you. Kelly Smith Langston Ohio State ’84 4

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Houseboy Hero I was glad to see all the Beta Mu Sisters and myself at Bowling Green State in living color on page 24 of the spring 2010 Quill and to be reminded of the fun we had at our university reunion. Getting together with these ladies was the highlight of the weekend. As Beta Mu’s houseboy, I received lots of help from the six Sisters on the kitchen crew (all showed up for the reunion) and the two cooks from town. Contrary to what some believed, I did not have to tuck the girls in at night. Ma Webb had strict rules, and I could not date any of the Sisters, which was not easy since Alpha Xi Delta was the best sorority on campus. What memories! Never again did I have a job quite like this one. Archie Dean Beta Mu Chapter Houseboy 1957-59 Bowling Green State University

Write to Us! Letters from Sisters and friends of Alpha Xi Delta are always welcome. Please send submissions to rgoodman@alphaxidelta.org or to Editor, Alpha Xi Delta Fraternity, 8702 Founders Rd., Indianapolis, IN 46268. The Editor reserves the right to select letters for publication and to edit for style and length.

Photographer Captures our Essence I received my copy of the spring 2010 Quill and want to thank you for sending it and for your kind note referencing the cover photo work I provided of Allie Phillips to augment your superb articles on Sisters who work with animals. As I read your magazine, it was amazing to learn about a few of the many noble pursuits of Alpha Xi Delta Sisters. I especially enjoyed reading about women who take the respectful treatment of animals and children seriously. Having photographed Allie for a previous project, I already knew this much about her. It was great learning that this trait is shared among many in your Fraternity. Our world is much too cruel a place, and in spite of the fact that most people behave reasonably well most of the time, your peers’ efforts on behalf of the defenseless do make a huge difference, although it is sad that much remains undone. May their kind works forever add to the beauty and civility of a just life – one in which all can hope, love and live in harmony. With humble new awareness, Mike Carpenter www.MichaelCarpenter Photography.com

Kindness Toward Cats Thanks for the great set of stories on Sisters who work with animals. I’d like to share a project I’m involved with that benefits animals at the University of Nebraska-Lincoln, the campus that’s home to Alpha Xi Delta’s Rho Chapter. In November 2008 we started Husker Cats, an all-volunteer organization of faculty, staff and students who help the feral cat community on campus. The university allows us to operate, and we’ve set up feeding stations around campus. More importantly, an active trap/neuter-spay/release (TNR) program has helped manage the skyrocketing number of cats and kittens on campus. Since our inception, about 60 cats have been checked by a vet, vaccinated for rabies and distemper, then neutered or spayed. True ferals are released back to campus after a short recuperation; the few kittens we could still socialize, or cats that were tame but had been abandoned or were strays, have been adopted. They all appear to be healthier, and the interactions between people and cats are fewer and less traumatic. It costs between $75 and $100 to TNR each cat, and concerned friends of cats have donated each dollar. The best evidence of our success is that our local Capital Humane Society gave us its highest Friend of Animals honor just six months after we organized. While TNR and feeding are still our primary concerns, we now focus on educating our community about the importance of neutering or spaying animals and are sharing the message that abandoning an unwanted pet on campus or in the country is a bad idea. A core group of eight comprise Husker Cats’ steering committee; a college friend who is a member of Gamma Phi Beta sorority is our president. We like to think that Greek bonds transcend affiliations, especially when cats are involved. For more information, please visit us on Facebook or at huskercats.org. Kim Hachiya Nebraska Lincoln ’74 Remembering a Dear Friend It was with great interest that I read the spring issue of The Quill, namely “Creature Comforts.” I thought all the articles were quite interesting, especially the one close to home at Auburn University: “Going to the Dogs.” I’ve had many pets over the years, but the one dearest to my heart was what I called my puppy prayer-walking partner and later, my photography partner, Scooter. My church had a program called Prayer, Care and Share. Scooter and I began to walk and pray for our neighbors every day, and we checked on the elderly lady next door to see if she was OK. I lost my Scooter just before my birthday last October. It was devastating, for he was with me 24-7. Scooter and I had a fantastic journey together, and I will always remember him fondly. Margaret Wilson Batley Alabama ’54 P.S. I recently acquired a new puppy. Ours will be some kind of ministry. We haven’t decided what yet! www.alphaxidelta.org

How to throw a successful event that will keep Sisters talking for years (and in a good way!).

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Oh, my gosh. I can’t remember when I had so much fun.

ords like these are music to the ears of any Sister who’s ever planned a chapter anniversary celebration, pledge class reunion or even just a girlfriend getaway. And the reason they’re so sweet is because . . . let’s face it. Planning and hosting a successful get-together is a lot of work. Within our ranks is a Sister who absolutely adores planning, attending to details and using her natural organizational abilities to create unforgettable, stress-free events: Amy White VanMeter, West Georgia ’92. Amy owns Amy VanMeter Events, a professional wedding planning and coordination firm in Northern Virginia. In this issue of The Quill, Amy shares her insights and expertise with Editor Ruth Goodman on how to create an affair to remember.

Left: Get-togethers can be as simple as cards and conversation in the afternoon or as extravagant as banquets and bonding at night. What matters most is that you get together.

The flowers, the food, the decorations. Everything was superb.

Ruth Goodman: What venues can you recommend as alternatives to the traditional hotel ballroom?

Amy VanMeter: Venues that have natural beauty reduce the amount of decorating needed, which saves money. Art centers, vineyards and equestrian facilities are attractive options, because they usually have beautiful sculptures and grounds. Historic buildings are also an option because of the wonderful woodwork and architecture.

Photo montages projected onto a screen are popular, since everyone loves to look at pictures from “back when.” Be sure to ask people to email their pictures ahead of time so you can create the montage. Also, incorporating philanthropy into the event definitely says Alpha Xi Delta. An item can be donated and raffled, with the proceeds benefitting Autism Speaks.

RG: How can Sisters create an event that says “Alpha Xi Delta”?

RG: What interesting foods can you

AVM: Gobo lighting (a partial screen

AVM: Instead of standard desserts or

used in front of a spotlight to project a shape) can be used to shine the Fraternity’s logo or Greek letters on a wall or the floor. Photo booths add a fun aspect as well. Guests hop into the booth, then the booth prints the photos for the guests and also keeps a copy of the photos, which can be put in a memory book for the chapter.

a traditional cut-and-serve cake, have a dessert buffet. Other fun options are make-your-own sundaes, candy buffets, assorted cupcakes or various pies.

suggest?

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RG: What favors might you recommend

RG: What cautionary advice do you

RG: Can you suggest any money-saving

as a “thank you for coming” gift to Sisters?

have for Sisters planning events?

ideas?

AVM: Make sure you’re dealing with

AVM: There are many blogs and

vendors who are professionals and whose business is their full-time job. Many people have lost jobs during the last couple of years and have started businesses. That’s great, as long as they have the expertise and education to back it up. Sometimes, however, people jump into the industry and price themselves really low. People think they’re getting a great deal, but they may not be. You also must have a straightforward, easy-to-understand contract that states the terms agreed upon and the product or service being provided. And remember: Double-check the date and time on the contract. Additionally, always check the vendors’ references. They’re always going to give you the names of clients who are happy with their service, so to get unbiased feedback, ask what other vendors they’ve worked with, then call a couple of them to check the vendor’s reputation. And check to see if the vendor is a member of any professional organizations. But that alone shouldn’t be the reason to choose a vendor, because people can pay a fee and get a certificate saying they’re a professional this or an accredited that without any training or education. So ask about professional organizations, then Google the organization to see what its membership requirements are. There should be standards, ethics and continuing education that go along with those memberships.

websites that offer tutorials, inspiration boards and videos, so you can do some things yourself, like flower arrangements, for example. There are a couple of sites Sisters can turn to for inspiration: www.projectwedding.com and www. weddingbee.com. The tips provided are really nice and can be used for events other than weddings. Another way to save money is to use an iPod hooked up to a sound system if you don’t need an emcee and simply want background music for mingling. And while I certainly understand the need to save money, I do not recommend having a family member or friend do the photography – unless, of course, they’re a professional who does event photography. You can’t redo the event, and photography is a big part of the day.

AVM: Offer guests something they will use, such as luggage tags, cookie cutters, charms for wine glasses or metal bookmarks. All of these items can be engraved for a personalized touch. Consumable items, such as creatively decorated cookies or chocolates, are nice as well. “Green” gifts are popular, such as coasters made from bamboo or cork, as are seed packets, which can be attached to menus or place cards. Sisters can take the seeds home, plant them, then remember the event as the flower or herb grows.

When she’s not planning events for other people, professional wedding planner and event coordinator Amy White VanMeter is working on a girlfriend get-together for her and several of her West Georgia chapter Sisters. You can meet Amy and her friends in Atlanta, July 6-10, 2011, at National Convention. See you there!

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RG: What are the most important things for Sisters to know so their affair will be one to remember? AVM: There are a few essential planning elements that should be included when organizing any event. Always create a timeline, a planning checklist with due dates, a realistic budget and a guest list. These things will help you remain organized, stay sane and keep you on track. Connect with Amy at www.amyvanmeterevents.com, subscribe to her blog at www.amyvanmeterevents.com/weddingblog/rss.xml or follow her on Twitter— username: weddingwiz.

Gamma Phi Chapter: 50 and Fabulous

s we learned from professional wedding planner and event coordinator Amy White VanMeter, creating an affair to remember requires thoughtful planning and attention to detail. Gamma Phi alumnae and collegians from East Carolina University in Greenville, North Carolina, stepped up to the challenge and hosted a 50th anniversary celebration that received rave reviews. Gamma Phi was founded on February 6, 1960. Much to Sisters’ delight, the anniversary celebration was held exactly 50 years later on Saturday, February 6, 2010. Collegians hosted the opening brunch at the chapter house for the 160 alumnae who traveled back to campus. Afterward, Sisters boarded an ECU bus and toured campus and the surrounding area. An ECU student ambassador led the tour, which included frequent stops so Sisters could hop off the bus and take photos at favorite landmarks.

A beautiful ice carving was one of the extra touches offered at Gamma Phi Chapter’s 50th anniversary celebration. In attendance were 160 Sisters, including Margaret Phoenix Agee, Robin Pulzone Cunningham, reunion co-chair Katie Kennedy Schafer and Gamma Phi alumnae liaison Maryellen Cain.

That evening, a celebratory dinner, program and dance was held at the Hilton Greenville Hotel. As guests mingled in the ballroom before dinner, each Sister reaffirmed her lifetime commitment to our Sisterhood and received a pink rose during the Rededication Ceremony in an adjoining room.

The after-dinner program was a mix of lighthearted awards (The Sister who Came the Farthest, the Sister who Changed the Least) and a through-theyears slideshow. Afterward, Sisters of all ages danced together, strengthened their bond and truly experienced what it means to be part of a vibrant, national organization.

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How to Receive Rave Reviews: Reunion Tips from Gamma Phi Chapter Spread the Word Word of mouth, Facebook, emails and a calendar post on the National website helped spread the word about the reunion. A list of email addresses for all living Gamma Phi initiates was obtained from Fraternity Headquarters.

guest list, numerous email invitations bounced back. With more lead time, these Sisters could have found current addresses and sent invitations to Sisters who would have had a great time at the reunion.

Take Away: The planning committee

To Do: Sisters, does Fraternity Head-

began its work nine months in advance of the reunion. Hindsight being 20/20, committee members recommend at least 12 months to plan an event of this magnitude. And concerning the

quarters have your current contact information? Updates can be made on the Fraternity’s homepage or by calling 317.872.3500. Encourage other Sisters to do the same.

Build on History Most of Gamma Phi’s photo albums and composites were destroyed in the aftermath of Hurricane Floyd in 1999. To help rebuild history, alumnae were asked to have copies made of their composites, event photos and news clippings and donate them to the chapter.

Take Away: Display historical items on a table at the chapter house and banquet. Ask alumnae to write the year, event and names of Sisters in the photos on a decorative card provided by the planning committee. Place the card next to the photo to add context.

To Do: Alumnae, do you have scrapbooks, songbooks, photos, event favors or other chapter memorabilia? If so, consider donating them so your chapter can continue to build its archives.

Enhance, Don’t Overwhelm The chapter hired a DJ so Sisters could dance and listen to music after dinner. Since catching up and reminiscing is an integral part of any reunion, Sisters asked the DJ to play music at a level conducive to dancing and talking.

Take Away: The DJ is working for you, so ask for what you want. For Gamma Phi, that meant playing a mix of music from the 1960s to present day to appeal to all decades represented at the reunion. To Do: Are there songs that hold Finding garden-fresh, reasonably priced pink roses in February was tricky. Reunion planners chose silk roses instead, and each Sister received one during the Rededication Ceremony.

special memories for your pledge class or chapter? If so, tell the planning committee so the DJ can have those songs on hand.

Other Helpful Hints Let your university’s alumni association know you’re holding a reunion. You may be able to locate lost Sisters via their database, receive discount tickets to campus events, use campus transportation or take advantage of a fantastic meeting space. Collegians, if you’re hosting events at the chapter house, make sure the house is spotless. Alumnae need reassurance that they’ve left the chapter and the house itself in good hands.

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If Sisters are celebrating membership milestones, recognize them during an Order of the Rose, Pearl or Diamond ceremony. Honor them with recognition jewelry, which can be found online in the Xi Boutique. For more tips on how to create an affair to remember, contact Gamma Phi reunion co-chair Katie Kennedy Schafer at schafer.katie@comcast.net.

From So-So to Let’s Go!

or the past 10 years, alumnae in Florida have gotten together for out-ofthe ordinary events that Sisters look forward to all year. These savvy Sisters know that interesting locations and lots of unscheduled time for spurof-the-moment fun make for affairs to remember. Here’s how you can create one of your own.

In April 2010, Sisters from seven alumnae associations met at a Central Florida retreat center for an overnight get-together.

Take Away: Be considerate of Sisters Think Outside the (Hotel) Box Sisters stayed at an Episcopal conference center called the Canterbury Retreat Center, just outside Orlando. Room and board charges were combined into one price, which was more economical than most area hotels and restaurants.

on fixed incomes and those with tight budgets. Don’t sacrifice safety, comfort and cleanliness, but if you can swap a generic hotel for an out-of-the-ordinary retreat center or cute B&B, go for it!

To Do: If you’re getting inspired to plan a get-together, consider inns, lodges, ranches, cabins and other nontraditional settings. Contact the convention and visitors bureau in your destination city/area for help in locating a great venue.

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KISS: Keep it Simple, Sister “Lots of time for chatting and sharing ideas” topped the planning committee’s list of must-haves. The reunion was intentionally left unstructured, except for one meeting. And it was a fun one: learning about Autism Speaks, coming up with creative ways to support Alpha Xi Delta’s philanthropic partner and brainstorming how to increase alumnae association membership numbers.

Take Away: Determine your agenda early and share it with Sisters in your initial invitation. Alumnae who want to kick back, catch up and sleep late will be disappointed with a structured agenda and little free time.

To Do: Check the weather and reunion agenda so you bring proper clothing. If you’re hangin’ out on the beach, you can definitely keep your Quill attire in the closet. Explore the Attic At past National Conventions, the Fraternity had a shopping area called Alphie’s Attic, filled with crafts, food, artwork and other items made by Sisters. This tradition was alive and well at the Central Florida reunion. Sisters purchased crafts, jams, T-shirts, note cards and other items made by individual Sisters or alumnae association members. Proceeds were returned to the artists. The women enjoyed creating and shopping so much that the Attic will make a return appearance at the next reunion.

Take Away: Sisters love to shop and share, so consider having Alphie’s Attic at your reunion. Proceeds can be returned to individual Sisters, associations or donated to Autism Speaks. To Do: Are you the favorite mom on the block because your chocolate chip cookies are so-o-o good? Are your knitted baby booties the ones new parents reach for time and again? Learn a new skill, strengthen a long-standing one and fill that Attic! Hit the Road Sisters were just a few miles from the University of Central Florida, home to our Theta Sigma Chapter, so several road-tripped it to campus to meet collegiate Sisters and tour the chapter house.

Take Away: If you’re near a college or university with an Alpha Xi Delta chapter, contact the chapter President (see pages 34-35) to see if your group can stop by for a visit. Additionally, contact the area convention and visitors bureau and ask for brochures on local attractions that appeal to a variety of interests and ages, such as museums, water parks, historic sites, shopping malls and theaters.

100 Years 95 Years 90 Years 65 Years 55 Years 40 Years

45 Years

40 Years 25 Years 20 Years

To Do: If you’ve been to the area where the reunion is being held and have a favorite ice cream shop, spa or java joint, tell the planning committee. Insider information is always the best kind!

15 Years

Pi, Ohio Psi, Ohio State Alpha Eta, Purdue Beta Pi, Indiana Gamma Theta, East Tennessee State Gamma Omega, Henderson State; Delta Alpha, Wisconsin LaCrosse Epsilon Gamma, Western Carolina; Epsilon Zeta, Eastern Washington; Epsilon Theta, West Liberty State Zeta Eta, West Chester Zeta Upsilon, Alma Theta Zeta, Embry-Riddle (AZ); Theta Eta, Western Michigan; Theta Theta, Brooklyn; Theta Iota, Florida Atlantic Theta Upsilon, Youngstown State

Other Helpful Hints When planning a get-together, watch out for holidays. The Florida reunion was the weekend before Christian Holy Week, which prevented some Sisters from attending. After your initial invitation, send a save-the-date postcard or email nine months prior to the event. Follow up with a reminder postcard/email two months prior to the reservation deadline. Complete the invitation process with a postcard or email two weeks prior to the event that includes a map and directions to the venue. 12

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Instead of traditional meat-based meals, consider buffet meals, which offer something for everyone’s tastes. Lay the groundwork for the next reunion. Central Florida Sisters plan to get together in 2012, hopefully in Jacksonville. For more information or to be part of the event, contact Nancy Slater Larkin, Stetson ’55, at 407.831.7108 or nslaxid@ yahoo.com.

Girls Just Wanna Have Fun!

etting together with Sisters doesn’t have to mean hundreds of people and sit-down dinners. Casual getaways and events can be just as fun.

n December 1994, four Beta Omega Sisters from Memphis State University met at a Memphis-area alumnae Christmas party and decided to start a bridge foursome. They began playing in January 1995 and have met every month for the past 15 years. Not only do “The Four Sistahs,” as they call themselves, love to play cards. They also love to travel and have been on 10 trips together, including their most recent to Fargo, North Dakota, for the wedding of Grant Vanderford, son of Shannon Crawford Vanderford, second from left. The other Sistahs are, from left, Nancy Shannon McPherson, Ellen Peek

Fabulous Foursome Riker and Mickey Ackermann English. After the wedding, the foursome took a two-day trip to Bloomington, Minnesota, where they landed bargains at the Mall

of America. And where are they off to next? “We’d still like to take on New York City,” says Shannon. “After all, girls just wanna have fun!”

Carolina ’75, “but there hasn’t been a year in the last 21 that some of us haven’t gotten together. We’ve been through deaths, sickness, disappointments, divorces, weddings, pregnancies,

children, grandchildren and have shared extreme happiness. We have a bond that has solidified through the years and friendships that are going on 35 years.”

35 Years of Friendship hen the third weekend of September rolls around, 13 Gamma Phi Sisters from East Carolina University can be found laughing, reminiscing, and singing and dancing to beach music at — where else — the beach! The self-proclaimed Beach Girls represent six pledge classes from 1975 to 1978 and have tons of fun at a different beach each year. “Not all of us make it every year,” says Katie Kennedy Schaefer, East

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A Warm Welcome

he smiles and banner that welcomed alumnae back to campus set the perfect tone for Omega Chapter’s alumnae barbecue on March 20, 2010. Nearly 50 Sisters and their families returned to the chapter house at Stetson University in DeLand, Florida, proving that modestly sized, well-planned events can be just as meaningful as larger celebrations. Invitations were sent via U.S. Mail and email, and the event was advertised on the chapter’s Facebook page. Sisters enjoyed lunch, shared stories about their days in the chapter, toured the chapter house, swapped photos and sang Alpha

Xi Delta songs. To learn more about the 2011 barbecue on Saturday, March 26, contact chapter President Kate Martin,

kmartin@stetson.edu, or Alumnae Relations Chair Ann-Kirby Burchett, aburchet@stetson.edu.

Here’s What To Do Next

fter reading these great stories about fun and friendship, are you ready

to plan your own girlfriend getaway? You know where a great place to meet would be? At next year’s National Convention in Atlanta, Georgia. Convention is July 6-10, so you could go a few days early for Independence Day fireworks, mani-pedis, sightseeing and lots of Southern cookin’. You have almost a year to get everybody together, which is more than enough time. We’ll see you and your Sisters in Atlanta!

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o D o t s g n i Th r e m m u S s i h T Register your Alpha Xi Delta legacy in the Rose Petals program and introduce her to our Fraternity.*

Send a dozen pink roses to a special Sister, just because.

Call Sisters to kick back, catch up and laugh until your sides hurt.

Become a fan of Alpha Xi Delta at Facebook.com/alphaxideltafraternity.

Clear your schedule and make plans to attend National Convention in Atlanta, July 6-10, 2011.*

Buy a new white dress and shoes during summer sidewalk sales so youâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;re ready for recruitment and ceremonies.

Sparkle and shine during recruitment with a new jeweled Quill. Order yours at www.alphaxidelta.org/QuillBadges. (Yes, Sisters can own more than one Quill.)*

Be the Heart of Alpha Xi Delta and pay your $20 annual alumnae dues.*

Participate in a Walk Now for Autism Speaks event to help find a cure for this all-too-common disorder.

Apply for a Foundation scholarship to lighten

your financial load. Alumna and undergraduate scholarships range from $400 to $2,000.* *Learn more about these opportunities at www.alphaxidelta.org.

Our Chapter Houses Become our Homes Sisters travel to Capitol Hill in support of safe, affordable student housing. By Ruth Goodman, Northern Iowa ’80 Editor of The Quill Erin Schandelmeier, Illinois ’09, took time away from classes, friends and her chapter to travel to Washington, D.C., in April to fight for a cause she believes in: safe, modern, affordable housing for all college students. “For many of us, our chapter house is a central point for meetings, meals and events. Our houses become our homes.” Keeping these homes in good repair and as safe, affordable housing options is the impetus behind the Collegiate Housing and Infrastructure Act (CHIA), a bill that would allow private donors to make tax-deductible donations to nonprofit student housing entities. Under the current tax code, colleges and universities can receive tax-deductible donations to build, improve and maintain student housing; nonprofit student housing entities, including sororities and fraternities, cannot. Because of that discrepancy, more than $1 billion in projects are on backlog in nonprofit housing maintained and man- More than 250 Greek student and alumni leaders traveled to Washington, aged by national sororities and fraternities. D.C., to share the message of safe, modern, affordable housing with conWhat would the passing of CHIA mean to Alpha Xi gressional leaders. From left: Director of Development Kendra Lewis, Erin Delta and other Greek organizations? Equitable treatment, Schandelmeier, National Panhellenic Conference Vice Chair Jane Sutton, Lauren Mushrush and Tobi Richards. particularly in older and historical buildings owned by sororities and fraternities on campuses across the country work that goes into changing them,” said Tobi Richards, San Jose that are in dire need of updated sprinkler systems, smoke detecState ’10, who also traveled to Washington, D.C. tors and alarm systems. Other distinct local advantages include Undergraduate Sisters Tobi, Erin and Lauren Mushrush, New the following: Hampshire ’07, were paired with alumnae and held up to 10 Making college and university housing more affordable meetings with members of Congress to talk about CHIA, gain cowith minimal cost to taxpayers. sponsors and support, and try to get the bill passed during this Encouraging a new class of charitable contributions to session of congress. accommodate diverse housing options for students. “No matter how large or small our campuses, this bill is cru Creating local jobs and generating revenue in college cial for providing safe, affordable housing across the nation,” said communities for much-needed capital improvements. Erin. “That’s why it’s so important for us to work together.” Controlling college costs for students and their families. The Capitol Hill visits were coordinated by the Capital Fra Ensuring safer student housing with the addition of ternal Caucus, which represents the North-American Interframodern fire sprinklers, smoke detectors and alarm systernity Conference, the National Panhellenic Conference and the tems. National Pan-Hellenic Council organizations in Washington, D.C. “This experience gave me a better understanding and a greatFor more information on CHIA and the Capital Fraternal Caucus, er appreciation of how the laws of our country are made and the visit www.fraternalcaucus.org.

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Teaming Up for Brendan By Anneliese Hallsten, Stetson ’06, Philanthropy and Community Outreach Manager The morning Alpha Xi Delta’s partnership with Autism Speaks was officially announced, Laura Lyerly Milliken, Elon ’93, called her husband, Joe, and enthusiastically shared, “It’s really happening!” April 2, 2009, was a life-changing day for the Millikens— especially for their son, Brendan, who had recently been diagnosed with autism. Laura immediately contacted her local Autism Speaks office in North Carolina and asked how she could help. “I was already aware of Autism Speaks and had participated in Walk Now for Autism Speaks events,” says Laura, “but this announcement was a calling for me. I would have eventually made my way to volunteering with Autism Speaks; Alpha Xi Delta just help speed up the process.” Laura jumped into the Autism Speaks pool with both feet. Within one year, her passion for raising funds and awareness for autism took her from being a stay-at-home mom and volunteer team captain for the Carolinas Walk Now for Autism Speaks event to being the walk’s sponsorship chair to being the walk’s event co-chair. Today, Laura is the executive director of the North Carolina Chapter of Autism Speaks, a paid position that involves volunteer management, community presentations, assisting with fundraising, coordinating sponsorships, and overseeing all Autism Speaks services and programs in North and South Carolina. As executive director, Laura truly believes that Alpha Xi Delta is making a difference by raising awareness, funds and spreading the word about Autism Speaks. In addition, Laura’s chapter Sisters and Sisters across the country are supporting her walk team, Brendan’s Buddies, by donating money, signing up to volunteer at the walk and joining the walk team. “It’s great knowing Sisters are volunteering and raising money for Autism Speaks. I feel completely reconnected to our wonderful Fraternity,” says Laura, who was voted “Most Likely to Wear Her Quill at Age 50” as an undergrad. “Because

Brendan Milliken

of our relationship with Autism Speaks, it’s easier for me to talk about autism and Brendan’s diagnosis with Sisters whom I may not have otherwise shared this information. It’s easier to talk about this very personal and still sometimes painful disorder knowing Sisters have a greater understanding of autism because of our partnership.” Laura is a true example of the impact one Sister can have within the Autism Speaks community. She encourages all Sisters to get involved, whether it’s registering for a walk team, volunteering at a local Autism Speaks office, raising awareness on campus or in the workplace, or planning a fundraiser. “Every dollar counts. More children will be diagnosed with autism this year than with AIDS, diabetes and cancer combined; however, autism receives less than 5 percent of the research funding of many less-prevalent childhood diseases,” Laura says. “It’s the goal of Autism Speaks to increase funding for biomedical research and change the future of all those affected with this disorder.” Learn how you can help support Alpha Xi Delta’s partnership with Autism Speaks by contacting Annie Hallsten, Philanthropy and Community Outreach Manager, at ahallsten@ alphaxidelta.org.

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Alpha Xi Delta and Autism Speaks Looking for more ways to raise funds and awareness? Check out what these Sisters did.

Many chapters held their inaugural AmaXIng Challenge event during spring semester. Sisters could choose from the following events: Puzzlepalooza, a puzzleassembling contest: Xi Marks the Spot, a campus treasure hunt; Football FrenXI, a flag football tournament; Karaoke for a Cure, a singing competition; and Step It

Purdue | Sixteen teams competed in Alpha Eta’s AmaXIng Challenge: Xi Marks the Spot, which raised more than $1,100. Teams of five solved clues, raced to locations, and performed physical and mental challenges to obtain puzzle pieces.—Amanda Pannell, apannell@purdue.edu

Up, a 3K or 5K walk/run. Raising funds and awareness for autism. That’s what it’s all about!

SUNY Albany | Sisters were pleased with the success of their first ever AmaXIng Challenge: Karaoke for a Cure. —Ilyssa Soberman, is429862@albany.edu

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Sonoma State | Corrine Sallee, Marie Zorn, Amanda Burke, Ellie Laird, Paige Smallhoover, Jessica Longa and their Theta Beta Sisters hosted AmaXIng Challenge: Karaoke for a Cure, complete with a decorated karaoke lounge, mocktails and a raffle. The chapter also held a Charity Denim fundraiser, Xi Man competition and collected donations from Sisters. Total funds raised: $6,000.—Natalie Forrer, forrer@sonoma.edu

North Carolina Wilmington | Zeta Chi Sister Meghan Jenks welcomed 12 soloists and largegroup acts to the chapter’s AmaXIng Challenge: Karaoke for a Cure, which raised $1,500.—Lindsey Billings, lbb3924@uncw.edu Beta, Iowa Wesleyan College Nearly $350 was raised during Beta’s AmaXIng

Wisconsin Oshkosh | Taylor Nieland and Samantha Springer got AmaXIng Challenge: Step It Up participants off to a great start during the chapter’s on-campus walk/run. The event raised more than $1,600.—Samantha Treutel, treuts51@uwosh.edu

Worcester Polytechnic | The chapter raised $175 during its Puzzle Piece Challenge as fellow students guessed how many puzzle pieces were in a jar. Making pancakes at WPI fraternity houses garnered another $615, and $540 was raised during AmaXIng Challenge: Puzzlepalooza. On World Autism Awareness Day, Sisters shined a blue light on the chapter house and delivered puzzle-shaped cookies to the Greek community.—Stephanie Post, stephaniepost@wpi.edu

Challenge: Step It Up 3K walk/run. The event’s 75 participants included youth groups, nursing students, faculty, family and friends.—Madison Stalder, madison.stalder@iwc.edu

Theta Omega, New Mexico State University Fifteen teams participated in Theta Omega’s AmaXIng Challenge: Xi Marks the Spot, which raised more than $1,000.—Lauren Prue, lprue584@ nmsu.edu www.alphaxidelta.org

April 2, 2010 April 2 was World Autism Awareness Day, and the entire month of April was Autism Awareness Month. Here’s what some of our Sisters did to observe the day and month.

Fraternity Outreach | Philanthropy and Community Outreach Manager Annie Nebraska Omaha | A community-wide Easter egg hunt attracted 200 children, who also received cookies with autism facts attached to them. The free egg hunt garnered $160 in donations.—Ashley Slovak, aslovak@unomaha.edu

Hallsten, National Executive Director Elysia Gallivan and National Philanthropy Director Carrie Kashawlic visited New York City on World Autism Awareness Day. The trio attended a United Nations reception at which the UN declared 20102020 the Decade of Autism, joined Autism Speaks’ founders Bob and Suzanne Wright at the New York Stock Exchange as Autism Speaks supporters rang the opening bell, and appeared on the Today show with Sisters from Rider University.

West Chester | Zeta Eta Chapter held bake sales and water ice sales, chalked sidewalks with autism facts, and participated in Light It Up Blue by putting blue lights on the chapter house.—Jessica McEntee, JM652238@wcupa.edu 20

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Embry-Riddle (AZ) | Dom Narducci of Theta Xi Fraternity was crowned the chapter’s 2010 Xi Man. The event raised nearly $1,000 for Autism Speaks through contestant and audience donations.—Lauren Nash, nash3af@my.erau.edu

Kansas State | On Autism Awareness Day,

Central Florida | More than $9,000 was raised during the chapter’s annual Xi Man competition. Guests at the post-event reception included the local Autism Speaks field staff representative and members of the Orlando Walk Now for Autism planning committee, Orlando Alumnae Association and Greek community.

Madeline Pyle and her Alpha Kappa Sisters wore blue, handed out puzzle piece pins, collected donations, chalked campus sidewalks and dressed the trees with blue ribbons. They also filled Easter eggs with facts about autism and placed them around campus.—Rachel Ryan, rryan12@ksu.edu

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Gainsville Alumnae Association | Alumnae and their

Central and Southern New Jersey Alumnae Association |

children participated in the Jacksonville Walk Now for Autism Speaks event. Back row: Amy Hauser Scott, Stefanie Jones Nelson, Carrie Kashawlic, and friends Hallie and Luke Zagrocki. Front row: Bailey and Aubrey Nelson.—Stefanie Nelson, ucfstef@hotmail.com

Parents of Sisters at Monmouth and Rider universities purchased exam baskets, which were delivered to collegians by Heather Roberts Lerch, Melissa Dreher, Jenn O’Donell Breisacher and other alumnae. The $330 raised was matched by the association, for a $660 donation to Autism Speaks.—Jenn Breisacher, csalphaxinj@hotmail.com

And in Other Autism Speaks News . . . ALABAMA

IOWA

Epsilon Pi, Jacksonville State University

Delta Chi, University of Northern Iowa

Sisters hung banners on campus, painted puzzle pieces and

Sisters raised autism awareness by wearing blue, volunteering at

autism facts on their cars, chalked the campus, sold puzzle pieces

Exceptional Persons, Inc., displaying the Alpha Xi Delta/Autism

and ran an ad on the campus scrolling marquee to increase autism

Speaks banner on the chapter house and handing out Autism

awareness.—Anne Cook, jsu7920n@jsu.edu

Speaks puzzle piece tattoos.—Elizabeth Cerveny, lizcerveny@ gmail.com

FLORIDA Omega, Stetson University

MISSOURI

The chapter held its annual Xi Man competition, fashion show and first ever hot dog cookout during Philanthropy Week and

Gamma Nu, Southeast Missouri State University/Epsilon Xi, University of Missouri St. Louis

raised more than $3,400 for Autism Speaks. During Xi Man,

The chapters jointly accepted the Gold Level Award for raising

the contestants talked to the audience about Autism Speaks

money and making a difference for Autism Speaks. Gamma Nu

and shared facts about autism spectrum disorders. Sisters also

Sisters hosted an autism walk in their local community and an

partnered with Stetson’s baseball team to raise awareness by

AmaXIng Challenge: Football FrenXI tournament. Epsilon Xi Sisters

handing out Autism Speaks information at the field, painting

participated in the St. Louis Now for Autism Speaks event and held

puzzle pieces on children’s faces and holding a 50/50 raffle during

a barbecue and pizza party to raise awareness and funds. Together,

the game.—Kathryn Martin, kmartin@stetson.edu

the chapters raised more than $8,000 for Autism Speaks.

Theta Omicron, Embry-Riddle Aeronautical University

A-Bear Workshop and raised $200. They also built 112 bears that

More than $4,000 was raised during the chapter’s annual Xi Man

were given to children at the Cape Girardeau Autism Center,

competition. Sisters handed out literature about Autism Speaks

Ranken Jordan Pediatric Hospital in St. Louis and the Crohn’s

during the event and also showed the Alpha Xi Delta/Autism

& Colitis Foundation of America in St. Louis.—Samantha Baker,

Speaks philanthropy video.—Lauren Gulley, gulleyl@my.erau.edu

sjbaker2s@semo.edu

Later in the year, Sisters from both chapters gathered at Build-

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NEW YORK Theta Kappa, SUNY Albany Sisters came up with a fun and tasty way to promote our philanthropic partner: Scoops For a Cure. While selling ice cream on campus, Sisters raised awareness and more than $1,000 for Autism Speaks.—Jacqueline DeVito, jacqueline. devito@gmail.com

NORTH CAROLINA Gamma Phi, East Carolina University Sisters raised money and awareness for Autism Speaks by teaming up with the men of Phi Gamma Delta Fraternity to hold a Jail ‘n’ Bail outside the student center. Many students volunteered to be “arrested” and had a blast

North Carolina Asheville | Sisters shared information about autism and Alpha Xi Delta’s partnership during UNCA’s Change the World Day on March 31.—Heather Driver, hrdriver@unca.edu

socializing, snacking and dancing with Sisters while they waited for friends to post bail. Professors also got into the spirit by pledging money and their time at the event. All told, $1,500 was raised and a new tradition in fundraising

was

created.—Sarah

Francis,

sef0701@ecu.edu Epsilon Gamma, Western Carolina University For just $5, guests could eat as much as they wanted during Epsilon Gamma’s pancake fundraiser, which raised $350.—Samantha Major, samajor1@catamount.wcu.edu

TEXAS Beta Alpha, University of Texas at Austin

Marietta | The chapter held its annual Dunk A Fuzzie fundraiser and raised more than $200 for Autism Speaks.

Sisters baked puzzle-shaped cookies, wrote autism facts on the cookies and gave them to members of the Greek community to increase autism awareness. The chapter also hosted Taco Xi, an all-you-can-eat breakfast taco benefit, and raised $1,000.—Ashley Zalta, ashleyzalta08@comcast.net

WASHINGTON Epsilon Zeta, Eastern Washington University Sisters participated in the Responding to Autism Fun Run in Kennewick in April. The run was held in conjunction with the grand opening of the Responding to Autism Center that supports families with children diagnosed with autism spectrum disorders in southeast Washington.— Shelby Krebs, shelby@beefnw.com

Albion | Student organizations at Albion show their colors by painting the rock in the center of campus. In April, Phi Chapter got its turn.—Rebecca McMurray, rmm11@albion.edu www.alphaxidelta.org

Member News

New Hampshire | Tau Chapter normally meets indoors for bonding activities during semiannual retreats. This year Sisters banded together and climbed Mount Major in northern New Hampshire, where they learned the greatest sense of accomplishment often comes from the greatest challenges.—Joanie Stolos, jly65@unh.edu ALABAMA

wellness meeting in January, which included healthy snacks and

Zeta Xi, Auburn University

a yoga session. Alumnae are heading up the food and beverage

On January 19, Zeta Xi proudly celebrated its 30th anniversary

committee at the October 2 Walk Now for Autism Speaks

on campus. Alumnae packed the chapter’s new home in the

event in Little Rock. To join the fun, contact Melanie Grawl at

Auburn Village, where they admired the beautiful chapter

melaniegrawl@yahoo.com.—Melanie Grawl

room, rummaged through scrapbooks, laughed at their composite pictures and shared their pride about the chapter’s

CALIFORNIA

accomplishments. The Rededication Ceremony and a banquet

Theta Beta, Sonoma State University

were held at the Robert Trent Jones Marriott, hosted by the

The university held its first Greek Week this spring to unite the

Zeta Xi collegians. The 20 colony members in attendance

Greek community for a common cause. Each organization held

received bear plaques and honorary Big Sisters.—Jaclyn Wilson,

a recycling drive and Penny Wars competition and participated

jaw0027@auburn.edu

in a chapter event each day. On Monday, each chapter created a carnival booth, complete with games and prizes. On Tuesday, the

ARKANSAS

drunk driving through simulations and contests. The remaining

Little Rock Alumnae Association

days were filled with unifying activities such as relay races,

After building (and sampling) gingerbread houses the group

activism and community service.

made during the holidays, alumnae followed that event with a

Greek community helped raise awareness for the prevention of

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Earlier in the semester, Sisters participated in a Panhellenic

Sisterhood Mixer with Alpha Gamma Delta sorority, a mock speed dating event with Phi Delta Theta Fraternity, an ’80s mixer with Alpha Psi Fraternity and bowling with Tau Kappa Epsilon Fraternity.—Natalie Forrer, forrer@sonoma.edu

COLORADO Denver Alumnae Association After watching media coverage about the devastating earthquake in Haiti, Betty Fideler Dale, South Dakota ’51, knew she had to do something to help the frightened children she saw. Betty reached out to

Southern Maine Alumnae Association | Crusher the Lobster joined

Barbara Johnston Hoover, Ohio ’52, who emailed

Sisters during a Maine Red Claws basketball game. Front row: Kristin Lewis, Donna Boudreau, Melissa Hansen, Megghan Richard. Back row: Christina Smith, Natalie Tougas, Sarah Shaw, Amy Swanson.—Sarah Farwell, sarahfarwell13@yahoo.com

fellow association members. From there, Sisters and friends brought clothing, bedding, teddy bears, and personal and medical items to Betty’s home for donation to Christian World Outreach warehouse. Within two weeks, the items were on a ship bound for Haiti. Thank you to all of the Sisters, families and friends who donated.—Barb Stover, barbstover@ comcast.net

FLORIDA Brandon/Riverview Alumnae Association This newly formed group of Sisters is off to a fast start! Recent events have included a dinner meeting/ social at California Pizza Kitchen, a dessert party, a Founders’ Day celebration with Theta Sigma Sisters at UCF and the Orlando Alumnae Association, and volunteering at an area Walk Now for Autism Speaks event. To learn more about the association, visit their Facebook page or contact Elizabeth Knieriem at

Wingate | Brittany Cochran, Jennifer Nelson, Megan Somers, Melissa Mitchel and the rest of their Iota Zeta Sisters took home first place honors in Wingate’s annual air band/lip sync competition for their performance of “Alpha Xi in Wonderland.”—Rebecca Bloemer, rrbloemer@wingate.edu

alphaxideltabrandon@gmail.com.—Bethany Rogers

IOWA Delta Chi, University of Northern Iowa During Greek Week 2010, the chapter won the Greek Week banner competition, was crowned Greek Olympics champions and won half of all the awards presented to sororities at the awards banquet. Those awards included Outstanding Scholarship, Outstanding Campus Involvement and Outstanding New Member/Member Education. Senior Crista Righi was also named Greek Woman of the Year.—Katie

Cornell | In January, Alpha Beta Sisters held recruitment at their beautiful

Hood, hoodk@uni.edu

new chapter house for the first time.—Moira Ceconi, mec248@cornell.edu

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MISSOURI Epsilon Xi, University of Missouri St. Louis Sisters hosted a Thanksgiving dinner for the youngsters at St. Vincent’s Home for Children down the street from campus. The women prepared and served food and visited with the children.—Michelle Case, mnchvb@ umsl.edu

NEBRASKA Lincoln Alumnae Association Alumnae supported Rho Chapter at the University of Nebraska-Lincoln by participating in recruitment and initiation activities, as well as events where the children of alumnae celebrate Halloween and Christmas activities with Rho collegians. Alumnae are already gearing up for Rho Chapter’s centennial celebration in 2012. Alumnae walked in Lincoln’s Walk Now for Autism Speaks event and later raised more than $300 for the organization during a “make-it bake it” silent auction. Alice Frampton Dittman, Nebraska Lincoln ’49, 1986 Alpha Xi Delta

Christian Brothers | In addition to their work on behalf of Autism Speaks, Lauren Douglass, Kathleen Branscum, Kara Jones and their Theta Pi Sisters continue their tradition of donating bears to the Memphis Child Advocacy Center. Every child who receives counseling/ legal assistance can choose a friend from the Bear Wall.—Jayme McKeever, jmckeeve@cbu.edu

Woman of Distinction, was inducted in the Ak-Sar-Ben Court of Honor in October. Ak-Sar-Ben, a charitable organization in Omaha, confers the award to individuals who have excelled in areas such as agriculture, business and industry, community service, and sports, among others. Alice, the first female bank president in Lincoln, has a long record of service to business and philanthropy in Lincoln and Nebraska. Her daughter, Dawn Dittman Coronado, Nebraska Lincoln ’78, is also a Sister.—Kim Hachiya, kim.hachiya@gmail.com

NEW JERSEY Central and Southern New Jersey Alumnae Association Alumnae celebrated Founders’ Day with Epsilon Lambda Sisters at Rider University. A festive luncheon was followed by the Founders’ Day Ceremony. A nice time was had by all.—Jenn Breisacher, csalphaxinj@hotmail.com

NORTH CAROLINA Zeta Tau, University of North Carolina at Asheville For the third year in a row, Zeta Tau was named Most Spirited in the university’s homecoming parade. This victory was topped off with Sister Tayler Harris being crowned homecoming queen. Three of four candidates on the ballot were Zeta Tau Sisters. In March, Sisters helped the Asheville Junior League assemble goodie bags and set up for the League’s annual Spring Market. Sisters also participated in the League’s 5K race, assisted with the Easter egg hunt and

Southern California | Order of the Rose member Carol Carey Murray and Foundation Chair Julie Lambert celebrated Founders’ Day with their Southern Californiaarea Sisters.—Julie Lambert, osujulie@gmail.com

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Easter photos, and helped serve food at the Bunny Brunch. Eight Sisters were initiated into Rho Lambda Panhellenic Honor Society, one Sister was named to the Chancellors List and five were named to the fall 2009 Deans List.—Heather Driver, hrdriver@unca.edu

Lyon | More than 30 children hunted for 1,000 Easter eggs that were hidden across campus during Zeta Iota’s sixth annual egg hunt. Three “golden” eggs were filled with prizes donated by local businesses.—Kelsey Lack, kelsey.lack@lyon.edu

Houston Alumnae Association | Alumnae attended the North West Harris County Alumnae Panhellenic Scholarship fundraiser and heard Ginny Carroll, Western Kentucky ’82, front left, speak on “The Gift of Sorority.” Houston alumnae in attendance were (front row) Valerie Hoover, Diane Ditta Thornton, (back row) Michele Tallarico Moehrman, Amber Dickson Dowell, Kathleen Walton, Monica Schafer and Susan Linn. —Mary Slater, slatermm@hotmail.com

Southeast Missouri State | During fall semester, Gamma Nu Sisters were recognized for their outstanding scholarship. Ten Sisters have a 4.0 GPA, and the chapter’s overall GPA is 3.177.— Christine Paige, crpaige2s@semo.edu

East Tennessee State | Gamma Theta Sisters enjoyed an ETSU basketball game. Go Bucs!—Tiffany Miller, tipper.miller@gmail.com

Pikes Peak and Denver Alumnae Associations | Alumnae Brooklyn College/New York City Alumnae Association | Sisters celebrated Founders’ Day with a ceremony, meal and presentation by Autism Speaks’ regional executive director who let Sisters know how they can get involved with the organization.— Jami Stigliano Andosca, nycalphaxidelta@gmail.com

celebrated Founders’ Day with a luncheon at the Mosaic Restaurant in Palmer Lake. Receiving the Order of the Rose for 50 years of membership were Pikes Peak alumnae Dareleen Epler Schaffer, Theresa Hirtzel Dowling and Jeanette DeSadier Bruce.— Gini Simonton, gini.jim@comcast.net

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Las Vegas Alumnae Association | In March, Sisters gathered at a local park for a family picnic. It was the first time many Sisters had met each other’s significant other and children. The picnic was so successful that the event will be held again next year.—Ame Williams, amewilliams@msn.com

OHIO

PENNSYLVANIA

Psi, Ohio State University

Beta Lambda, Pennsylvania State University

Two Sisters were elected to Panhellenic Council leadership positions:

Katherine Patton was named Penn State’s Sorority Woman of the

Amanda Chin is the vice president of Greek and community

Year for 2009 at the Greek Hyperchos Awards in April. Katherine

outreach and Kristen Darnell is historian. Sisters and the men

was Beta Lambda President in 2008 and the Panhellenic

of Alpha Tau Omega Fraternity had fun during Buckeyeathon, a

Council vice president for standards in 2009.—Katherine Patton,

14-hour dance marathon that raises money for a local children’s

kcp5015@gmail.com

hospital.—Bridget Cunningham, Cunningham.427@osu.edu Zeta Eta, West Chester University/Philadelphia Alumni Association Beta Mu, Bowling Green State University

Nearly 60 collegians and alumnae celebrated Founders’ Day

Academic achievement has been the chapter’s main focus, and

together at the university’s alumni house. Sisters enjoyed a

Sisters created a game to keep their GPAs high. While taking part

luncheon and held a memorial service for Sisters who entered

in Xi Land, a takeoff on the game Candy Land, Sisters got points

Chapter Eternal.—Melanie Holwood, mholwood@yahoo.com

for high test scores and other classroom achievements.—Lexi Gardner, alexisg@bgsu.edu Beta Xi, Marietta College Sisters partnered with Lambda Chi Alpha Fraternity and introduced the Last Lecture Series, which gives professors the chance to impart to the community what they believe is the most important lesson they have to teach. Sisters also launched Beta Xi Beat, the chapter’s alumnae newsletter that keeps graduates “close to home” with stories about chapter events and current members.— Lyndsay Offenberger, llo001@marietta.edu

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TEXAS Iota Eta, University of Texas at El Paso The chapter won the Best Community Service/Philanthropy of the Year award at the university’s Greek awards banquet. Individual Sisters were also honored: Davi Kallman was named Greek Scholar of the Year, Myriam Setra was named New Member of the Year and Jessica Tellez was honored as President of the Year.—Myriam Setra, mnsetra@miners.utep.edu

Long Island/C.W. Post | The chapter won the following

Texas | During Beta Alpha’s Chapter Retreat Weekend, Sisters had fun bowling and playing glow-in-the-dark putt-putt golf and arcade games. Playing laser tag that weekend were (front) Abeer Kanafani, Hannah Mason, Jennifer Joor, (back) Jordan Kirby, Ali Baumhoer, Meryl Goodwin and Kayla Fairchild.

awards during the 2010 Greek Week awards banquet: Advisor of The Year (Bonnie James, Lycoming ’05), Greek Person of The Year (chapter President Eileen Lorito), Most Improved Chapter, Academic Excellence (cumulative GPA of 3.0 or higher) and Best Greek Collaboration Program with Hermandad de Sigma Iota Alpha, Inc. The chapter was also crowned Greek Week champion for the second year in a row.—Jamie Goldenberg, Jamie.Goldenberg@my.liu.edu

WEST VIRGINIA Gamma Beta, Marshall University Sisters Jessica Jacobs and Sarah Skaff were nominated as Miss Marshall (homecoming queen) candidates, and Sister Miranda Rosiek was named queen. The chapter was paired with Alpha Tau Omega Fraternity to construct a homecoming parade float to reflect the theme “Traditions We Treasure.” The float, which featured a replica of the inside of the Joan C. Edwards Stadium, the Shewey Building and a large victory bell, captured second place. Later in the fall, alumnae returned to the chapter house for Gamma Beta’s annual Chili Fest.—Ashley Anselene, anselene@marshall.edu

WISCONSIN Beta Psi, Carroll College Sisters hosted a dessert get-together for their families. Everyone had a blast socializing and enjoying homemade treats.—Rose Rementer, rremente@carrollu.edu Epsilon Alpha, University of Wisconsin Eau Claire The chapter was recognized for having the highest GPA of all the Greek organizations on campus for the fourth straight semester. The chapter’s fall 2009 overall GPA was 3.32 (higher than the allwomen’s average), and several Sisters received a 4.0.—Jennesa Davidson, davidsjc@uwec.edu www.alphaxidelta.org

Bonnie Clark Jefferis, Ph.D., Defiance ’79, coordinator of the speech and mass communication disciplines at the Clearwater campus of St Petersburg College in Florida, was recognized by her peers for her professional excellence and mentorship. Communications instructor Tony Ballard, pictured with Bonnie, says, “She is a mentor, a motivator, a listening ear and a ‘fire under the derriere’ when you need something to get you moving. I was once asked if Dr. Jefferis had helped me with my career. My reply, while meant as a joke, actually had more than a grain of truth in it. I said, ‘Without Bonnie Jefferis, I’m not sure I’d have a career.’” This is Bonnie’s 23rd year at the college. Connect with Bonnie at bonniejefferis@verizon.net. Alison Hammett Cummings, Oregon State ’03, is the executive director of Operation Student Safety on the Move (OSSOM, pronounced “awesome”), a youth leadership program that promotes safe and healthy communities. Throughout its 25-year history, OSSOM has touched hundreds of thousands of lives through youth-designed programs, presentations and activities, which are delivered by youth volunteers. These peer-to-peer sessions promote safe, healthy and legal behaviors. Currently, OSSOM is a two-state organization (Washington and Oregon); Alison’s goal is to grow it into a national organization by 2020. Connect with Alison at alisonsoffice@gmail.com. Learn more about OSSOM at www.ossom.org.

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Christy Arndt Greeley, Michigan ’87, is the president and executive director of the Cystinosis Research Network, an allvolunteer, nonprofit organization that supports and advocates for research, provides family assistance, and educates the public and medical community about cystinosis. This rare disease primarily affects children who, without specific treatment, develop end-stage kidney failure around age 9. Christy is passionate about her work because her son, Jack, has the disease. Connect with Christy at greeleycd.com. Learn more about her work at www.cystinosis.org. Elizabeth “Betty” Southard Stokes, Kentucky ’69, was honored by Leadership Louisville as a Louisville Connector for her success in getting things done through her distinctive leadership style. Betty is the founder/owner of The One Room Schoolhouse in Louisville, where she writes and publishes books for children, helps families with genealogical research and prepares historical presentations. Connect with Betty at bstokes1@insightbb.com.

Jeannie (Dusky) Johnson Reider, Ohio Wesleyan ’51, has been bringing her intensive World of Shakespeare residencies to fifth and sixth graders throughout Franklin County, Ohio, for 40 years. Armed with teaching tools that include costumes, props, scrapbooks, banners and backdrops, Dusky immerses students in the literature and history of the Elizabethan age. Dusky is a former elementary school teacher and makes her home in Columbus, Ohio.

The Pen is Mightier Than the Sword Check out the latest books from Sister authors. Emily at the Zoo By Monica Stauber Holtz, Wisconsin Eau Claire ’72 Emily at the Zoo tells a rhyming story about a little girl’s visit to Irvine Park Zoo in Chippewa Falls, Wisconsin. Geared toward children ages 2 through 8, Monica’s book features color photos of animals and animal facts. Monica is the owner of Holtz Creative Enterprises, a book publishing business in Eau Claire, Wisconsin. Connect with her at holtzenterprizes@sbcglobal.net.

Understanding and Conquering Fibromyalgia By Jennifer Gibson Schnellmann, Ph.D., Lyon ’90 Understanding and Conquering Fibromyalgia is written for the layperson and includes everything known in peer-reviewed scientific literature about fibromyalgia, its treatments and causes. The book also includes Jennifer’s personal story about her 20-plus year battle with fibromyalgia. Jennifer is the director of the Office of Scientific Editing and Publications and assistant professor at the Medical University of South Carolina in Charleston. Connect with her at schnellj@musc.edu.

Through the Eyes of a Dove: A Book for Bereaved Parents By Suzanne Gene Courtney, Eastern Michigan ’64 Through the Eyes of a Dove is an inspirational book about the author’s loss of her son and the painful, poignant road to repair. Suzanne wrote her book with the hope of helping other grief-stricken parents come to a place of understanding and peace. Suzanne is an elementary school teacher and lives with her family in Monroe, Michigan. Connect with her at csuzieco@comcast.net.

Folded Notes By Tyra Phipps, Ph.D., Frostburg State ’69 Folded Notes is a semi-autobiographical book by former tennis pro Tyra Phipps, who was diagnosed with multiple sclerosis at the peak of her career after a sudden collapse on the court. Tyra is a professor in the department of mass communication at Frostburg State University in Maryland. Connect with her at tphipps@frostburg.edu.

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Alpha Xi Delta Brings Home the Hardware At the 2010 Fraternity Communications Association (FCA) awards banquet in New Orleans, Alpha Xi Delta took home two awards: third place in the Total Communications Package for our “Listening Together” campaign announcing our partnership with Autism Speaks, and third place in the Fred F. Yoder Award category for overall excellence for the spring, summer and fall/winter 2009 issues of The Quill. FCA is composed of communications professionals from Greek-letter organizations who exchange ideas, experiences and information to enhance fraternal communications. This is the third consecutive year Alpha Xi Delta has been recognized at the association’s annual conference. Learn more about the organization and award winners at http://fraternitycommunications.org/home. www.alphaxidelta.org

Chapter Directory Use this handy directory to send a recruitment recommendation form (see page 38) to any of the chapters on this list. ALABAMA

Epsilon Pi/Jacksonville State 700 Pelham Rd N JSU Box 3044 Jacksonville, AL 36265 Chelsie Brock

Zeta Xi/Auburn Alpha Xi Delta Box 8 The Village 201 Wire Rd Auburn, AL 36849 Erin McCready

Theta Phi/Alabama Birmingham

Delta Xi/Georgia State

Sigma/Iowa

California State University Stanislaus One University Way Mariposa, CA 95338 Cassandra Cuadros

Alpha Xi Delta Suite 438 University Center Georgia State 66 Courtland St Atlanta, GA 30303 Elizabeth Zervakos

114 East Fairchild Iowa City, IA 52245 Molly Miller

Iota Omicron/San Jose State

Zeta Omega/West Georgia

5314 Lenora Ave San Jose, CA 95214 Tobi Richards

CONNECTICUT

Epsilon Nu/Hartford

1400 University Blvd Hill Center - Box 26 Birmingham, AL 35294 Allison Wade

ATTN: Alpha Xi Delta 200 Bloomfield Ave West Hartford, CT 06117 Audrey Webber

ARIZONA

DELAWARE

c/o Student Activities 3700 Willow Creek Rd Prescott, AZ 86301 Sarah Zayic

175 W Main St Newark, DE 19711 Michelle Cortese

Theta Zeta/Embry-Riddle

ARKANSAS

Gamma Omega/ Henderson State Alpha Xi Delta HSU Box 6487 Arkadelphia, AR 71999 Kasey Merchelle Moore

Zeta Iota/Lyon Alpha Xi Delta 2300 Highland Box 277 Batesville, AR 72501 Madeline Boyd

CALIFORNIA

Gamma Epsilon/Cal State Fresno 5327 N Millbrook Ave Fresno, CA 93710 Mallory Lutz

Delta Rho/Cal State Northridge 17720 Halsted St Northridge, CA 91325 Kelsey Partipilo

Theta Beta/Sonoma State 6585 Commerce Blvd Ste 296 Rohnert Park, CA 94928 Riley Pennington

Theta Rho/Cal State San Marcos PO Box 2643 San Marcos, CA 92079 Kelsey Dale McCarthy

Iota Beta/Cal State Stanislaus

Theta Gamma/Delaware

FLORIDA

Omega/Stetson

Alpha Xi Delta University of West Georgia Box #10052 Carrollton, GA 30118 Jessica Morrow

Iota Theta/Southern Polytechnic State Alpha Xi Delta 1100 South Marietta Pkwy Marietta, GA 30060 Jennifer Henry

IDAHO

Epsilon Psi/Boise State c/o BSU Student Activities 1910 University Dr Boise, ID 83725 Mikayla Dorsey

Iota Kappa/Idaho State

421 N Woodland Blvd Unit #8231 DeLand, FL 32720 Kathryn Martin

Alpha Xi Delta Idaho State Campus Box 8170 Pocatello, ID 83209 Samantha Spencer

Theta Iota/Florida Atlantic

ILLINOIS

Alpha Xi Delta PO Box 27-3723 Boca Raton, FL 33427 Erica Gennaro

Theta Xi/Florida International Alpha Xi Delta 1421 SW 107th Avenue #305 Miami, FL 33156 Sandra Perez

Theta Omicron/EmbryRiddle c/o Student Activities 600 S Clyde Morris Blvd Daytona Beach, FL 32601 Lauren Gulley

Theta Sigma/Central Florida 4101 Greek Park Dr Orlando, FL 32816 Nicole Valdes

GEORGIA

Gamma Eta/Georgia Tech 847 Techwood Dr Atlanta, GA 30313 Lindsey Morgan

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Kappa/Illinois 1004 S Second St Champaign, IL 61820 Jona Kristo

Beta Epsilon/Monmouth 318 N 9th St Box #845 Monmouth, IL 61462 Kristen Wyse

INDIANA

Alpha Eta/Purdue Alpha Xi Delta 519 University St West Lafayette, IN 47906 Ashley Oâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;Connell

Beta Pi/Indiana 1818 N Jordan Ave Indiana University Bloomington, IN 47406 Jennie Grimner

IOWA

Beta/Iowa Wesleyan Alpha Xi Delta 601 N Main Suite Box 10 Mt. Pleasant, IA 52641 Carlee Jensen

Delta Chi/Northern Iowa 2410 College St Cedar Falls, IA 50613 Katie Angwin

KANSAS

Alpha Kappa/Kansas State 601 Fairchild Terrace Manhattan, KS 66502 Allie Ryan

LOUISIANA

Delta Epsilon/New Orleans c/o Judy Parker, Chapter Advisor 49 Amelie Ave Kenner, LA 70065 Terrin Guidry

MAINE

Epsilon Rho/Southern Maine

Delta Delta/Northern Michigan Box 96, University Center Northern Michigan University Marquette, MI 49855 Lexi Wagner

Delta Sigma/Ferris State 805 Campus Dr Rankin Center Box 23 Big Rapids, MI 49307 Cassandra Harriman

Zeta Upsilon/Alma 815 West Superior St Alma, MI 48801 Courtney Martin

Theta Eta/Western Michigan 1702 Fraternity Village Dr Kalamazoo, MI 49006 Sarah Hepner

MISSOURI

Gamma Nu/Southeast Missouri State Alpha Xi Delta 1000 Towers Circle; Group J Cape Girardeau, MO 63701 Aryn Anderson

134 Woodbury Campus Center University of Southern Maine Portland, ME 04104 Cameron Egers

Epsilon Xi/Missouri St. Louis

MARYLAND

NEBRASKA

Theta Delta/Towson

8142 Natural Bridge Rd St. Louis, MO 63121 Erin Jenkins

Rho/Nebraska Lincoln

8000 York Rd Box #4127 Towson, MD 21252 Kelly Burroughs

1619 R Street Lincoln, NE 68508 Christina Heimerdinger

MASSACHUSETTS

Alpha Xi Delta - PO Box #19 6001 Dodge St Omaha, NE 68182 Brittney Smith

Iota Xi/Worcester Polytechnic

Alpha Xi Delta 13 Hackfeld Rd Worcester, MA 01609 Stephanie Munion

MICHIGAN Phi/Albion

Albion - CPO 4680 Kellogg Center Albion, MI 49224 Hanah Papp

Gamma Zeta/Eastern Michigan Alpha Xi Delta 619 Emmet St Ypsilanti, MI 48197 Mary Cebula

Gamma Delta/Nebraska Omaha

NEVADA

Iota Epsilon/Nevada Las Vegas Alpha Xi Delta 4505 S Maryland Pkwy #2008 Las Vegas, NV 89119 Jade Soresman

NEW HAMPSHIRE Tau/New Hampshire 3 Strafford Ave Durham, NH 45056 Lauren Mushrush

Theta Psi/Dartmouth Alpha Xi Delta Dartmouth HB 5205 Hanover, NH 03755 Katrina Nice

NEW JERSEY

Zeta Tau/North Carolina Asheville

Theta Upsilon/ Youngstown State

Epsilon Eta/South Dakota State

PO Box 55897 Trenton, NJ 08638 Kristine Ruhnke

Alpha Xi Delta One University Heights CPO 1200 Asheville, NC 28804 Ashton Hale

1 University Plaza Youngstown State University Youngstown, OH 44555 Tanya Kissel

1203 Eighth St Brookings, SD 57006 Molly Eichenberger

Theta Chi/Toledo 2999 W Bancroft Unit G-2 Toledo, OH 43606 Chloe Gattshall

TENNESSEE

Iota/West Virginia

Zeta Chi/North Carolina Wilmington

Alpha Xi Delta ETSU PO Box 70276 Johnson City, TN 37614 Caitlin Burns

Beta Sigma/West Virginia Wesleyan

Epsilon Lambda/Rider

Iota Nu/Monmouth 431 Cedar Ave Student Box 49 West Long Branch, NJ 07764 Ann Marie Bond

NEW MEXICO

Theta Omega/New Mexico State PO Box 3028 Alpha Xi Delta-NMSU Las Cruces, NM 88003 Staci Delfin

NEW YORK Eta/Syracuse

125 Euclid Ave Syracuse, NY 13210 Caroline Godden

Alpha Beta/Cornell 115 The Knoll Ithaca, NY 14850 Emma Carlsson

Delta Zeta/Long Island/ C.W. Post 720 Northern Blvd Hillwood Commons Greenvale, NY 11548 Eileen Lorito

Delta Lambda/ Rochester Institute of Technology Alpha Xi Delta 6200 Kimball Dr Rochester, NY 14623 Tika Marie Siburt

Zeta Phi/Binghamton

Alpha Xi Delta UNCW Student Union 209 601 South Rd Wilmington, NC 28407 Brittney Bruce

Theta Nu/Elon Campus Box 7006 Elon, NC 27244 Amy Denison McLead 211 East Wilson St Campus Box 1654 Wingate, NC 28174 Megan Wood

Iota Iota/Greensboro Student Activities Dept 815 W Market St Greensboro, NC 27401 Kelly Nevling

OHIO

Gamma/Mount Union 143 W Simpson Alliance, OH 44601 Kelly Emery

Pi/Ohio 16 South College St Athens, OH 45701 Evon Nguyen

Psi/Ohio State 76 East 15th Ave Columbus, OH 43201 Meggin Demski

Beta Mu/Bowling Green State 220 Thurstin Ave Bowling Green, OH 43403 Sarah Gruss

Theta Theta/Brooklyn

Beta Xi/Marietta

2985 Ave X Apt 2B Brooklyn, NY 11235 Sibel Kurun

322 Fifth St Marietta, OH 45750 Danica Cunningham

Theta Kappa/SUNY Albany

Beta Tau/Kent State

NORTH CAROLINA Gamma Phi/East Carolina

508 East 11th St Greenville, NC 27858 Lindsay Curtis

Epsilon Gamma/ Western Carolina Alpha Xi Delta PO Box 878 Cullowhee, NC 28723 Maria DiMartino

Iota Delta/Central Oklahoma 1000 N Chowning Ave Edmond, OK 73034 Nevine Tabbara

Iota Zeta/Wingate

163 Chapin St Binghamton, NY 13905 Amanda Sedlack

SUNY Albany-130 CC Box 1400 Washington Ave Albany, NY 12222 Ilyssa Soberman

OKLAHOMA

571 S Lincoln St Kent, OH 44240 Sarah Franciosa

Gamma Tau/Ohio Northern 402 West College Ave Unit 1060 Ada, OH 45810 Kelly Rae Fields

Delta Pi/Defiance c/o Jennifer Stark 701 N Clinton Defiance, OH 43512 Christina-Marie Drake

Zeta Theta/Wright State Alpha Xi Delta Office of Student Activities 3640 Colonel Glenn Hwy Dayton, OH 45435 Sarah Labs

PENNSYLVANIA

Gamma Theta/East Tennessee State

Theta Pi/Christian Brothers 650 East Pkwy South Box # T-4 Memphis, TN 38104 Rachel Haag

WEST VIRGINIA Delta/Bethany

PO Box 539 Bethany, WV 26032 April Oâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;Brien 618 Spruce St Morgantown, WV 26505 Callista McNair

MSC #184; WVWC 59 College Ave Buckhannon, WV 26201 Ryann Moore

Gamma Beta/Marshall 1645 5th Ave Huntington, WV 25703 Jill Collins

Beta Lambda/Penn State

TEXAS

Epsilon Theta/West Liberty State

Alpha Xi Delta 13 Wolf Hall University Park, PA 16802 Karen Crouch

2508 Rio Grande Austin, TX 78705 Allison Pirpich

Box 5A Main Hall West Liberty State College West Liberty, WV 26074 Lindsay Vermeulen

Gamma Sigma/Theil Alpha Xi Delta 75 College Ave Greenville, PA 16125 Angela Blackburn

Delta Kappa/Slippery Rock Slippery Rock University B-105 University Union Slippery Rock, PA 16057 Toni Michelle Copertino

Delta Nu/Indiana U of Pennsylvania Alpha Xi Delta 201 Pratt Dr, 104 Pratt Hall - IUP Indiana, PA 15701 Aereyelle DuBois

Zeta Eta/West Chester 230 Sykes Student Union Building West Chester University West Chester, PA 19383 Alisha Williams

Beta Alpha/Texas

Delta Psi/Texas State San Marcos 103 Mosscliff Circle San Marcos, TX 78666 Katie McNeff

Zeta Lambda/Texas Wesleyan 1201 Wesleyan St Ft Worth, TX 76105 Edna Garza

Theta Lambda/ Southwestern 1001 E University Blvd SU Box 7472 Georgetown, TX 78626 Justine Forrest

Iota Eta/Texas El Paso Alpha Xi Delta 500 W University PMB 194 El Paso, TX 79968 Jessica Tellez

VIRGINIA

Theta Alpha/Millersville

Delta Mu/Old Dominion

Alpha Xi Delta - Millersville University c/o SMC Box #8 Millersville, PA 17551 Emily Vernacchio

1600 W 49th St Norfolk, VA 23508 Nicolle Featherstone

Iota Alpha/George Mason

Iota Mu/Lycoming

Alpha Xi Delta-GMU 4400 University Dr Fairfax, VA 22030 Jessica Leone

700 College Place Campus Box 211 Williamsport, PA 17701 Nina Cline

SOUTH CAROLINA

Epsilon Iota/Newberry Newberry College Box 286 2100 College St Newberry, SC 29108 Courtney Crigger

SOUTH DAKOTA

Epsilon/South Dakota

WASHINGTON

Nu/U of Washington 1616 NE 50th St Seattle, WA 98105 Margeaux Fox

Epsilon Zeta/Eastern Washington 324 2nd St Cheney, WA 99004 Kristine Caton

WISCONSIN

Beta Psi/Carroll 100 N East Ave Waukesha, WI 53186 Jacqueline Sholar

Delta Alpha/Wisconsin LaCrosse 1725 State St 212 Cartwright Center Box #216 La Crosse, WI 54601 Michelle Rudig

Delta Tau/Wisconsin Oshkosh Alpha Xi Delta 550 Algoma Blvd Oshkosh, WI 54901 Michelle Mason

Epsilon Alpha/ Wisconsin Eau Claire Alpha Xi Delta 1004 South Farwell Eau Claire, WI 54701 Kelcie Wittman

Theta Epsilon/ Marquette 854 N 17th St Milwaukee, WI 53233 Annamarie Andrews

Theta Tau/Marian 750 East Division St Box #492 Fond du Lac, WI 54935 Amber Messner

Iota Lambda/St. Norbert Alpha Xi Delta Campus Center SORR St. Norbert College 100 Grant St De Pere, WI 54115 Brittany Taylor

214 North Plum Vermillion, SD 57069 Stephanie Dahl

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Alumnae Association Directory

oin Sisters for fun and friendship at an alumnae association meeting in your area. If there isn’t an association near you, you can start one with as few as five interested alumnae in good standing. Learn more at www.alphaxidelta.org.

ALABAMA

Montgomery*

Erin Kochiyama 1755 Lark Lane Sunnyvale, CA 94087 408.255.8238 ekochiyama@gmail.com

Huntsville/Madison Co.

Stanislaus

Auburn-Opelika* Birmingham*

Nancy Yarbough Harris 919 Tascosa Dr Huntsville, AL 35802 harris4au@knology.net

Mobile

Alicia Spencer aliciaspencer@att.net

ARIZONA Phoenix* Tucson

Mary Harvey 1529 N Louis Ave Tucson, AZ 85712 520.326.9850 vmsmh@cox.net

ARKANSAS Little Rock

Melanie Grawl 11607 Birchwood Dr Little Rock, AR 72211 501.622.9207 melaniegrawl@yahoo.com

Taya Matthews 3620 Sagewood Lane Modesto, CA 95356 axidalums@gmail.com jerscinderella@gmail.com

Steinbeck

Janet Beals 116 11th St Pacific Grove, CA 93950 831.375.8491 savilleB@aol.com

COLORADO Denver

Paula Holdren 9355 South Holland Way Littleton, CO 80127 303.933.9330 pkholdren@gmail.com

Pikes Peak

Jo Goodlove Weilbrenner 1125 Tari Dr Colorado Springs, CO 80921 weilbrennerj@msn.com

CONNECTICUT

CALIFORNIA

Hartford*

Fresno*

Southern CT/West Chester County, NY*

Long Beach* Sacramento* San Fernando Valley* Diablo Valley

Joan Marable 166 Valley Hill Dr Moraga, CA 94556 925.376.7103 marable@earthlink.net

Los Angeles

Jamie Watkins 1616 N Fuller Ave #130 Los Angeles, CA 90046 president@alphaxidelta.org

North San Diego Co.

Deborah Norton 4624 Arrowhead Ct Oceanside, CA 92056 760.805.9655 debnor34@aol.com sdalphaxidelta@yahoo.com

Orange County

Jacque Avakian 6626 E Wardlow Rd Long Beach, CA 90808 562.354.6136 jacque.avakian@kmob.com

Santa Clara

Gainesville

Stefanie Nelson 375 SE Sylvan Way Keystone Heights, FL 32656 352.672.1126 ucfstef@hotmail.com

Jacksonville

Janel Sharp 4149 Crownwood Dr Jacksonville, FL 32216 nellirn@comcast.net

Orlando

Amy Jo Holobyn 1415 Oak Tree Ct Apopka, FL 32712 ajholobyn@yahoo.com

Palm Beach

T.J. Parker 3235 NW 29 Ave Boca Raton, FL 33434 TJPV8@aol.com

Tallahassee

Judy Levy 2112 Deerfield Dr Tallahassee, FL 32308 850.877.5442 judithlevy@earthlink.net

Tampa

Vicky Kijanski 107 S Matanzas Ave Tampa, FL 33609 813.349.4778

GEORGIA Atlanta North Metro

DELAWARE

Linda Willson 9750 Hunt Club Way Johns Creek, GA 30022 678.297.7782 willson4linda@comcast.net

Wilmington*

Atlanta South Metro

FLORIDA Deland*

Sandy Shackelford 130 Middling Lane Fayetteville, GA 30214 770.460.9120 shac32@bellsouth.net

Miami* Naples*

IDAHO

Pinellas County*

Treasure Valley

Sarasota* Brandon/Riverview

Bethany Rogers alphaxideltabrandon@gmail.com

Brevard County

Helen Carroll 847 Hawksbill Is Dr Satellite Beach, FL 32937 321.773.7691 helar1532@aol.com

Ft. Myers

Anne Marie “Ammi” Meadows 4361 Lazio Way #902 Fort Myers, FL 33901 239.206.0789 ammi24@gmail.com

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Sarah Shinn 1800 Potter Dr Boise, ID 83706 sarahmariele@gmail.com

ILLINOIS Rockford* Salt Creek* Springfield* Bloomington-Normal

Sandy Holcomb 10 Redstone Court Bloomington, IL 61704 309.663.8190 sandyonline@hotmail.com

Chicago City

Sara Pardys 4278 N Haxel Apt 1005 Chicago, IL 60613 sap5387@gmail.com alphaxidelta.chicagocity@ gmail.com

Chicago North Shore

Carol Henrikson 1818 N Dale Ave Arlington Heights, IL 60004 847.398.0425 rnchenrikson@wideopenwest. com

Chicago Northwest Suburbs

Deb Keyes 4281 N Cottonwood Tr Hoffman Estates, IL 60192 847.991.3205 axiddeb@gmail.com

Chicago West Towns Shari Arends 2582 Capitol Ave Aurora, IL 60503 sja816&@earthlink.net

INDIANA Indianapolis*

IOWA Central* Cedar Rapids

Theresa Dvorak 1319 A Ave NW Cedar Rapids, IA 52405 319.350.5339 tdvorak@divinvest.com

Iowa City

Dana Hartman 1421 Kodiak Court Coralville, IA 52241 iowacity.alphaxi@gmail.com dana_hartman@uiowa.edu

Mt. Pleasant

Jean Reschly 2505 Marsh Ave Mt. Pleasant, IA 52641 319.385.4823 djresch@hotmail.com

LOUISANA New Orleans

Tracey Cannon 2116 Vineyard Lane Harvey, LA 70058 504.347.5953 tcannon@cox.net

MAINE Southern

Kristin Lewis 37 Malilly Rd Portland, ME 04103 mainealphaxialums@gmail.com

MARYLAND Chesapeake

Janet White 6720 Briarcliff Dr Clinton, MD 20735 301.856.4213 janetgwhite@comcast.net

Maryland Metro

Lauri Via 5313 Tangle Wood Court Ellicott City, MD 21043 410.719.7991 laurivia@verizon.net

MASSACHUSETTS Greater Boston* Greater Worcester

Stefani Magnino Holmes 2 Brittany Rd South Hadley, MA 01075 stefalphaxidelta@comcast.net

MICHIGAN Detroit* Ann Arbor

Marian West 2222 Fuller Ct #1013A Ann Arbor, MI 48105 734.663.5907 mswest59@hotmail.com

Oakland County

Jacki Mudrich 16798 Country Club Dr Macomb Township, MI 48042 586.992.8106 j_mudrick@yahoo.com

Saginaw

Amy Kraenzlein 800 E Meadowbrook Dr Midland, MI 48642 989.832.4926 spack1@charter.net

Western Wayne County Suellyn Sekulich 343 Fort Dearborn St Dearborn, MI 48124 313.565.7193

MINNESOTA Minneapolis/St. Paul Jennifer Umberger 5180 157th St North Hugo, MN 55038 jennifer.umberger@ cassidyturley.com mspaa.axid@gmail.com

MISSOURI Greater Kansas City Missouri/Kansas

Kellie Sullivan 10838 Bradshaw Overland Park, KS 66210 axidgkcaa@gmail.com

Marshall

Cara Newham 29372 D Hwy Norborne, MO 64668 clyon8@hotmail.com

Southeast

kris@nienhaus.com

St. Louis

Aline Neumann 12548 Starspur Lane St. Louis, MO 63146 abonstarspur@juno.com

NEBRASKA Lincoln

NORTH CAROLINA

OKLAHOMA

TEXAS

VIRGINIA

Charlotte Area*

Oklahoma City*

Arlington*

Northern*

Triangle (Raleigh)

Tulsa

Austin*

Tidewater

Brandy Bolick 9004 Brook Garden Ct - 306 Raleigh, NC 27615 brandy@builderproducts.com

Western

Jolene Haymans McGill 85 Eagle View Lane Marshall, NC 28753 jolene.mcgill@noaa.gov

OHIO

Tara Jo Brown 7225 Cuming St Lincoln, NE 68507 402.310.9369 tschwartzkopf@neb.rr.com

Alliance*

Omaha

Laura King 266 E Caston Rd Akron, OH 44319 330.899.9583

Colleen Richardson 118 South 51 Ave Omaha, NE 68132 402.553.1641 crichardson@westside66.org

NEVADA Las Vegas

Nicole Westlind 5444 Royal Vista Lane Las Vegas, NV 89149 Nikki.westfield@yahoo.com

NEW JERSEY Central & Southern* Northern

Virginia Messing 37 Birch St West Orange, NJ 07052 973.736.2090 svdrickm@gmail.com

Bowling Green* Columbus* Akron

Cincinnati

Jennifer Newsome 211 Sutton Ave Unit C Cincinnati, OH 45230 513.827.9281 jln8791@hotmail.com

Cleveland

Michelle Murray PMB #320 Mentor, OH 44060 mburichin@yahoo.com

Cuyahoga West Shore

Deanne Reeve 1491 S Yorkshire Dr Broadview Heights, OH 44147 deanne0817@sbcglobal.net

Dayton

NEW MEXICO

Jan Austin 5276 Newell Circle Kettering, OH 45440 937.428.7459 janaustin@woh.rr.com

Albuquerque

Newark-Granville

Mink Price 170 Big Sky Ave SW Los Lunas, NM 87031 minkprice@yahoo.com

Donna Hill trsh13@windstream.net

Springfield

Jill Tenzythoff 2849 E 34th St Tulsa, OK 74105 jilt@pennwell.com

Bay Area HoustonGalveston

OREGON

Jennie Hampton 3607 Acorn Wood Way Houston, TX 77059 hampton.jennie@gmail.com

Portland

Brazos Valley

Bonnie Blish 1639 NE 61st Ave Hillsboro, OR 97124 503.718.7840 dcatalyst@comcast.net

Judy Bochner 5111 Bellerive Bend Dr. College Station, TX 77845 979.690.7944 jbbochner@suddenlink.net

PENNSYLVANIA

Lisa Lanier 17850 Sunmeadow Dr #3201 Dallas, TX 75252 469.828.0499 dallasazdalum@hotmail.com lisa.lanier@sbcglobal.net

Pittsburgh* Philadelphia

Diana Rizzo 707 General Scott Rd King of Prussia, PA 19406 dar707@aol.com

Dallas

Greater San Antonio

RHODE ISLAND

Jennifer Thompson 2511 Trinity Court San Antonio, TX 78261 jtathompson@hotmail.com

Greater Rhode Island

Houston

Bernie LeBeau 7 Oak Manor Dr Barrington, RI 02806 latta11@yahoo.com

SOUTH CAROLINA Newberry-Palmetto Rose* South Carolina*

TENNESSEE Knoxville* Nashville*

Monica Schafer 1310 Prince St Houston, TX 77008 schafer.monica@gmail.com axidhouston@yahoo.com

Paula Fuss 4256 Greenleaf Dr Chesapeake, VA 23321 757.337.8209 paulacouncil@hotmail.com

WASHINGTON Greater Seattle

Donna Schneider 14549 30th Ave NE Seattle, WA 98155 alpha.xi.delta@hotmail.com

WISCONSIN Greater Milwaukee Melissa Schinker Reed 2838 S 9th St Milwaukee, WI 53215 melaxid@hotmail.com

Madison

Elizabeth Polousky W3585 Wildwood Dr Lake Geneva, WI 53147 262.348.9510 opolousky@wi.rr.com

UTAH Salt Lake City

Delia Bayna 1819 Silverwood Dr Farmington, UT 84025 801.447.4270 slcalphaxidelta@hotmail.com imdelia@hotmail.com

Memphis

Anne Hotze 375 N Graham Apt 15 Memphis, TN 38117 901.488.2770 annehotze@yahoo.com

Buffalo*

Amanda Shaw Timmons 660 W Sparrow Rd Springfield, OH 45502 937.328.3256 ashawonu01@yahoo.com

*Some Sisters chose to keep their contact information private. Please contact Gina Carfi in the Member Services Department at Fraternity Headquarters to learn more about this association.

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NEW YORK Daniella Palermo 107 Winthrop Ave Apt 15 Albany, NY 12203 daniellapalermo@gmail.com

Patricia Hoag 6009 Hawthorne Dr Sylvania, OH 43560 pepmitpatti@bex.net

New York City

Warren

Jami Stigliano 230 W 55th Street #17B Astoria, NY 10019 646.234.0847 nycalphaxidelta@gmail.com jamistig@hotmail.com

Susan King 951 Thistle Pl SE Warren, OH 44484 330.856.3335 king951@neo.rr.com

Rochester

Rebecca Sumner 6147 Glenwood Ave Youngstown, OH 44512 330.758.0662 sumnerrlm@yahoo.com

Virginia Vorhis 43 Jordan Rd Pittsford, NY 14534 585.385.1231 vvorhis@juno.com

Youngstown

Alumnae in the following cities and areas are in the process of forming and chartering a new alumnae association. To learn more about these interest groups, please contact Gina Carfi at 317.872.3500 or gcarfi@alphaxidelta.org. Chico, CA

Pensacola, FL

Fox Valley, IL

Reno, NV

Greater Reading Area, PA

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Lehigh Valley, PA Lower Hudson Valley, NY Midland/Odessa, TX

Waco, TX Washington, D.C., Metro Area

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Potential Member Profile Please use this form to recommend a young woman for membership in Alpha Xi Delta. Profiles can be sent to the chapter addresses on pages 34 and 35. Feel free to attach additional information and letters of recommendation to this form.

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Alumna Profile

Long Live the Queen! By Angela Cain Adams, Indiana ’92

Alicia Cochran Spencer, Auburn ’83, reigned as the queen of her Mardi Gras organization’s annual ball in Mobile, Alabama, in January 2010. Alicia was honored for five years of leadership within the society and served as president from March 2009 to March 2010. Alicia’s custom-designed gown was made of bridal satin and chiffon with hand-beaded rhinestones and Swarovski crystals. Its 15-foot train was designed from black glitter velvet trimmed with silver cording and hologram silver sequins. In addition to paying homage to Auburn University, Alicia honored Alpha Xi Delta by having our Greek letters spelled out in sparkling Swarovski crystals on the bottom corner of her train. During the ball, Alicia was presented with a dozen pink roses. “Alpha Xi Delta helped make me who I am today, and I

wanted to recognize that by wearing our Greek letters,” says Alicia. “Our Sisterhood taught me how to get along with others and work as a team. The leadership skills I have now, I learned in college.” An only child from Saraland, Alabama, Alicia was lonely during her freshman year at Auburn. She decided to join Alpha Xi Delta as a sophomore after having met some Sisters the previous summer. At that time, the Fraternity was brand new on campus, and Alicia became a member of its fourth new member class. She admired the older women for their hard work and dedication to the chapter. “It’s challenging to start a new sorority on a campus so steeped in tradition. It was hard for them! But they were high achievers, real go-getters. These women made me strive to better myself.” Zeta Xi Sisters at Auburn recently celebrated a major milestone: the chapter’s 30th anniversary. Alicia was unable to attend the chapter’s celebration because it conflicted with rehearsals for the Mardi Gras Ball. Although she was heartbroken, wearing Alpha Xi Delta’s letters on her gown helped Alicia feel a little closer to an organization she holds dear. “I have so many great memories, including the time the whole chapter gathered to watch Luke and Laura get married on General Hospital. That was so much fun!” she laughs. “I never had a sister before, and suddenly I had 200 girls to study with and spend time with. Alpha Xi Delta showed me what means to be a sister.” Alicia feels strongly about the importance of developing strong friendships and makes a point to hand down that value to her daughter. For the past five years Alicia has served as her daughter’s Girl Scout leader and notes that the girls in the troop have their own type of sisterhood. “Besides, I love to be a part of organizations that encourage women and girls to reach their potential.” To that end, Alicia recently put her leadership skills to use by chartering an Alpha Xi Delta alumnae association in Mobile. “It’s fun getting together with these alumnae, trading stories and meeting new Sisters,” says Alicia. “Alpha Xi Delta is a Sisterhood that lasts forever.” Connect with Alicia at aliciaspencer@att.net. www.alphaxidelta.org

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Desert Bloom Rachel Barnehama skipped the traditional spring break sites, worked in the desert and came back a changed woman. By Rachel Barnehama, SUNY Albany ’06

extensive time in the desert. This trip was a chance for me to be a part of JNF’s Blueprint Negev Campaign – an initiative designed to increase the area’s population and improve living conditions in the desert.

When choosing what sorority I would join, Alpha Xi Delta was a no-brainer. I looked for a sorority that prides itself on social justice, community service and other values I feel strongly about. As a Sister, I take personal gratiﬁcation in knowing I’m part of an organization that promotes and instills community responsibility, nurtures unity and cooperation and, most of all, inspires women to realize their potential. As spring rolled around, my Sisters and I had our annual “where should we go for spring break?” conversation. There were so many choices: Miami, the Bahamas, the Dominican Republic, all-inclusive island getaways. While my friends went to the islands, I traveled to the Negev Desert in Israel as part of an alternative break trip with the Jewish National Fund (JNF) for students in Greek life. (This was my third trip of this kind, as I have also traveled to Nicaragua twice with the American Jewish World Service.) As I boarded the airplane with 35 fraternity and sorority members from across America, I never could Sisters often meet in unexpected places! While in Israel as part of the Jewish National have imagined the effect this experience would Fund trip for students in Greek life, Rachel Barnehama, left, met Sister Samantha Simon, have on me. Florida Atlantic ’09.

Passions Converge Throughout my college career I spent countless hours raising awareness about Israel’s culture and ﬁghting hard to defend Israel’s right to exist. And since I was 12, I’ve spent every Sunday, along with many hours on my college campus, dedicating myself to tikkun olam, which means “repairing the world.” I was ecstatic to have the opportunity to combine both of my passions during my trip to Israel. I had been to Israel many times with my family, with Birthright Israel and as a participant in March of the Living, where I spent a week in Poland and a week in Israel learning about the history of the Holocaust. However, I had never spent

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Israel’s Negev Desert covers 60 percent of its landmass, yet less than 8 percent of the Israeli population lives in this barren, rocky, austere yet beautiful terrain. My fellow students and I learned it was the dream of late Israeli prime minister David Ben-Gurion to “make the desert bloom.” Through hands-on work, I explored and now better understand the issues facing the desert. I learned from environmental experts, met Ethiopian immigrants and learned about the care Israel takes of its severely disabled. But the most fulﬁlling part was giving back to the land the same way the settlers did. Working the land, planting ﬂowers, picking fruits and vegetables, and putting

my hard work and sweat into developing the land made me feel like it was my own. It is with each return I realize that coming home becomes more difﬁcult than embarking on these journeys.

Why I Do What I Do After spending a week working on multiple JNF projects, I contemplated how I would take back all I had experienced. My friends and family had become bored with my worldly community service experiences, and it was a struggle to get a word in among the stories of who was dating whom, what happened on Grey’s Anatomy and all the other college gossip. My peer travelers reminded me that it’s OK for me to get back into my daily routine. It seems that individuals who travel, more so young people who volunteer abroad, have an understanding of why we choose to do service work abroad. Not only is this idea strange to some people, but it seems to be unfamiliar to individuals who have not yet traveled abroad – especially those who have not been to Israel. I came back excited from my trip and couldn’t wait to share every detail while they were fresh in my mind. I wasn’t surprised, however, when friends and family only wanted the black-and-white details, especially when my stories were not as “colorful” as others’ stories of fun times in the Bahamas and Acapulco. Regardless of their reaction or how complicated the details of my experience, traveling to Israel on an alternative break trip will always remain my experience. And as I continue to travel, I will always make it memorable, because no one can take away the lessons that make you wiser to our world. There’s a song called Send it On by the Disney Channel Stars that states: If we take the chances To change circumstances Imagine all we can do… With one little action The chain reaction will never stop Make it strong Shine a light and send it on There’s power in all of the choices we make So I’m starting now there’s not a moment to wait If you take these words and mine to heart, I hope they lead you to make a difference and ﬁght for causes you believe in.

During their alternative spring break trip, Rachel Barnehama, right, and Sister Samantha Simon planted flowers, worked the land, and picked fruits and vegetables in Israel’s Negev Desert.

Rachel joined Alpha Xi Delta at SUNY Albany and transferred to Queens College for her junior and senior years. She graduated in December 2009 and works as the program director for the Queens College Hillel. Rachel plans to study long-term sustainability or international development in graduate school, then build her career with a nonprofit that works with underdeveloped countries. Connect with Rachel at rbarnehama@gmail.com.

Do you have a message you’d like to share, “Sister to Sister”? Send your story and photos to the Editor for future consideration.

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Inspiring Leadership, Knowledge and the Future Alpha Xi Delta inspires Sisters to realize their potential at school, at work, in their communities and at home. Here’s how your gifts to the Foundation help Sisters be all they can be.

Inspiring Leadership “Alpha Xi Delta is more than just three Greek letters on a sweatshirt,” says Joelle Fundaro, Western Michigan ’06. “It is a way of life, a source of constant warmth and a Sisterhood in which you never have to face a challenge alone. Your Sisters are there to support you in present and future endeavors.” Joelle is the recipient of the 2009 Frances Trewyn Keuchenmeister Scholarship. This $1,500 scholarship is awarded to the collegiate Alpha Xi Delta who, as a junior, is most outstanding in service to her chapter, campus and community. Joelle is a special education major and has served her chapter as New Member Orientation Chair and her campus Panhellenic Council as vice president of education. She was also named WMU’s 2010 Greek Woman of the Year. “Alpha Xi Deltas are not just leaders in their chapters, but leaders in their communities,” says Joelle. “They are doctors, mentors, CEOs, scientists, entrepreneurs and, most of all, women who inspire others.” We’re proud to count Joelle among these amazing women.

Inspiring Knowledge “Alpha Xi Delta has afforded me strong friendships and great experiences that have strengthened my educational experience,” says Kristen Vila, Georgia Tech ’05. “While balancing my studies and extracurricular activities, I’m making the most of my college experience.” Kristen has served her chapter as Membership Vice President and as treasurer of her Panhellenic Council. She’s also a member of the Executive Round Table, a forum for students, faculty and industry executives who pose solutions for community issues. Because of the financial assistance she received from the Foundation as a Phillips Scholar, Kristen can complete her degree in industrial and systems engineering and help find solutions to those community issues. Watch out, world. Here comes Kristen!

Inspiring the Future “Having volunteered with Alpha Xi Delta on several levels since the 1960s, I’ve had an opportunity to watch the Fraternity grow and improve to meet the needs of the time. It has also kept me in touch with the youth of the Fraternity,” says Bev Case Rorer, Pennsylvania ’49, Alpha Xi Delta’s Philanthropy Director - Northeast and 1993 Alpha Xi Delta Woman of Distinction. Through the years, Bev has given to the Foundation when she was able. She has also named the Foundation in her will, a decision, she says, that “seemed like a natural progression in that process and one that was easy to do.” Looking back, Bev says, “When we were collegians, we were beneficiaries of those who had gone before us. It’s only right that we pay it forward to those who follow us. It sets a good example for them to follow and could multiply into the future.” 42

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Honor Gifts

The Foundation recognizes Honor Gifts given from January 1, 2010, through April 30, 2010. The 2008-2010 National Alumnae Team by Julie Wilson Dillon, Illinois

Deborah & James Gerlitz, parents of Anna Gerlitz by Anna Gerlitz, Northern Iowa

Olivia Plumlee, Southeast Missouri State, January 2010 FVP of the Month by Omega Financial, Inc.

Barbara Rayburn Allen, Nebraska Lincoln by Emily Wray Stander, Nebraska Lincoln

John Gerlitz by Anna Gerlitz, Northern Iowa

Lenn Steed Reed, Georgia State by Nealy Patty Wheat, West Georgia

Jacqueline Greene, Southern Maine, April 2010 FVP of the Month by Omega Financial, Inc.

Rho Chapter advisory board, Nebraska Lincoln by Emily Wray Stander, Nebraska Lincoln

Alpha Mu initiates of 1960, Ohio Wesleyan, for their Order of the Rose by Virginia Drick Messing, Ohio Wesleyan Alpha Xi Delta staff by Jackie Lyerly, Alpha Deuteron Janet Swanson Loper Barris, Syracuse by Jean Koza Leider, Iowa Leslie Greathouse Beatty, Nebraska Lincoln, for 25 years of membership by Caryl Craven Greathouse, Nebraska Lincoln Melanie Maloney Berney, Tennessee by Lindsay Berney Sharpe, Tennessee Beta Psis of Epsilon Lambda Chapter, Rider by Jamie Lynne Aitkens, Rider Celebrating 117 years of sisterhood! by Shelby Marie Krebs, New Mexico State Delta Rho Chapter, Cal State Northridge by San Fernando Valley, CA Alumnae Association

Iota Iota Chapter, Greensboro by Krista Dorothy Connelly, Greensboro Iota Omicron’s installation, San Jose State by Shelby Marie Krebs, New Mexico State Jean Koza Leider, Iowa Donna Moxley Isaacs, Frostburg State by Janet Gleason White, Frostburg State Jennifer Bellas Lee, Old Dominion by Nealy Patty Wheat, West Georgia Catherine Kaufman Matthews, Cornell by Virginia Drick Messing, Ohio Wesleyan Northern New Jersey Alumnae Association Kimberly Kelly Mayfield, Bethany by Bethany Ann Lewis, Bethany

Jennifer Knowles Elliott, Sonoma State, for her marriage to Jonathan Elliott by Julie Lambert, Oregon State

Virginia Drick Messing, Ohio Wesleyan, for her Order of the Rose by Aaron Messing, husband of Virginia Drick Messing

Gamma Phi’s 50th anniversary, East Carolina by Margaret Payne Greene, Stetson

Alissa Lee Moss, Bethany by Veronica Susan Jae, Bethany

Gamma Xi Chapter, Valdosta State by Sue Hilton Kenneally, Valdosta State 44 44

Regina Willis Hawkins, Jacksonville State by Michelle Supplee Reda, Rider

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Kendra Murray, Iowa Wesleyan, February 2010 FVP of the Month by Omega Financial, Inc.

Arlene Schwob Roberts, Drake by Amy Holobyn, Indiana South Bend Hayley Robinson, San Jose State by Anneliese Taylor Hallsten, Stetson Mary Ruth Hadley Snyder, Purdue, for her Order of the Pearl by Julie Lambert, Oregon State Nancy Sakino Spears, Penn State by Rose Vachon Kunkel Roarty, Ohio Barbara Detrick Swedlow, Oregon by Julia Detrick Adams, Oregon Sarah Synovec, Nebraska Lincoln by Emily Wray Stander, Nebraska Lincoln Lauren Tarantino, San Jose State by Anneliese Taylor Hallsten, Stetson Meredith Taylor, Syracuse, March 2010 FVP of the Month by Omega Financial, Inc. Marian Sayward West, Michigan by Janet Hutchins, Michigan Lynnette Woodlief Winkler, Auburn by Nancy Bowman Harris, Auburn Molly Zerener, Nebraska Lincoln by Emily Wray Stander, Nebraska Lincoln Zeta Lambda’s 35th anniversary, Texas Wesleyan by Leslie Storey, Texas Wesleyan

Memorial Gifts

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Katharyn Faries Herndon, Western Kentucky Sarah Spitzer Herndon, Alpha Deuteron Indianapolis Alumnae Panhellenic Indianapolis, IN Alumnae Association Charles W. Jones III, Friend of Alpha Xi Delta Robert A. Koch, Friend of Alpha Xi Delta Mary Alice McCauley Kranz, Purdue Lois Congram Myerholtz, Purdue Margaret Eichel Potts, Wittenberg Jerre & Mary Stead, Friends of Alpha Xi Delta Doris Kenninger Stump, Purdue Betty French Unkel, Ohio State Barbara May Wood, Indiana Florence Steuteville Fitzgibbon, Nebraska Lincoln by Florence Parker Cole, Pennsylvania

Kathryn Edwards Benner, Old Dominion by Janice Harlow, Old Dominion

Steve Goodwin, husband of Ellen Gibson Goodwin, West Virginia by Julie Lambert, Oregon State Mary Ruth Hadley Snyder, Purdue

Margaret â&#x20AC;&#x153;Pegâ&#x20AC;? Bergman, Northwestern by Virginia Hall Edahl, Northwestern

Elizabeth Korn Grossman, Hunter by Margaret Eichel Potts, Wittenberg

Donna Goar Boe, Texas State San Marcos by William Boe, husband of Donna Goar Boe

Betty Rader Hoskins, Wittenberg by Martha Tuttle Horner, Wittenberg

Joyce Tanner Clime, California Berkeley by Betty Robinson Busby, California Berkeley

Brenda Hugg, Eastern Michigan by Briana Lynn Clark, Eastern Michigan

Christina Marie Eppel, Texas State San Marcos by Alpha Xi Delta Fraternity Martha Small Greenlaw, Texas

Dorothy Padgett Ingells, Purdue by Theresa Busby Stripling, Purdue

Ruth Ann Davidson Farkas, Purdue by Jennifer Herndon Brackett, Indiana Helen Geyer Czenkusch, Indiana Ann Martin Durkos, Purdue Margaret Haymaker Ervin, Indiana Olive Gabriel Faries, Western Kentucky Paige Faries, Western Kentucky Marjorie Hienton Frantzreb, Purdue Lori Bleich Gallogly, Drake B. Jeanne Fraser Guntz, Purdue

Virginia Vogt Johnson, Lombard/Knox by Kenneth Johnson, husband of Virginia Vogt Johnson Lorene Ann Graver Kelley, Nebraska Lincoln by Allene Cushing Knibloe, Cornell Orlando, FL Alumnae Association Jean Lawrence Kuehl, California Berkeley by Gloria Avila Schwabenton, California Berkeley

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Daniel â&#x20AC;&#x153;Nickâ&#x20AC;? Marin, husband of Barbara Cameron Marin, Cal State Northridge by Delta Rho Building Corporation

Lorna Heffron Shaw, San Diego State by Evelyn Schweigen MacCarthy, San Diego State Audrey Criswell Schiefer, San Diego State

Colleen Martin, Oklahoma State by Bambi Hora, Central Oklahoma

Mabel Adams Slover, Iowa by Margaret Payne Greene, Stetson

Leland F. Miller, husband of Barbara Stallcup Miller, Oregon by Blanche Gustavson Crook, Oregon Ellen Wachtel Turner, Oregon

Phyllis Ritter Stahr, Maryland by Dolores Hambright Maletzky, Maryland

Zelma Patchin, Oklahoma by Margaret Shrontz Tenzythoff, Oklahoma State Sarah R. Phillips, Cal State San Marcos by Martha Small Greenlaw, Texas Ginny Bolas Philp, Arizona Janice Platt, Northern Colorado by Becky Johnson Carlson, Northern Colorado Roberta Kaufman Hannigan, Northern Colorado

Susan Fraser Teter, West Virginia by Maggie Louise Chestney, West Virginia Janet Kendall Tower, Purdue by Barbara Tower Williams, Purdue Suzanne Tucker Vineyard, UCLA by Rita Jensen Michener, UCLA

Maurice W. Pomfrey, husband of Joan Pomfrey, Syracuse by Jean Koza Leider, Iowa

Beverley Van Stone Weckerle, Michigan by Allene Cushing Knibloe, Cornell

Earle Quinn, husband of Sherylene Rabus Quinn, Iowa by Santa Clara Valley, CA Alumnae Association

Betty Robertson Wert, Wittenberg by Margaret Eichel Potts, Wittenberg

Joan Blackwelder Ryan, Kansas State by Martha Adams Toburen, Kansas State

U.S. Army Captain Daniel P. Whitten, son-in-law of Anne Porterfield Oliver, Georgia by Jean Koza Leider, Iowa

Janet Vlantis Sauer, Purdue by B. Jeanne Fraser Guntz, Purdue Ruthmarie Kappelt Schobert, Ohio by Allene Cushing Knibloe, Cornell

Veronica Templeton, mother of Jessica Templeton, Iowa by Kiyoko Farrington Czech, Iowa Julie Wilson Dillon, Illinois

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30, 2010, Fraternity Headquarters received word of the following Sisters’ entrance into Chapter Eternal. To notify us of a Sister’s death, please send an obituary notice, memorial service pamphlet or other written confirmation to Fraternity Headquarters. To make a memorial gift, visit www.alphaxidelta.org or call 317.872.3500.

Beta Chapter Iowa Wesleyan College Jane Willows Arnold ’59 Gwen Smith Carlson ’35 Anna Elsing ’60 Marilyn Wilken Lahey ’48 Iris Hart Meinhard ’35 Lavonne Nusbaum Miller ’34 Doris Anderson Peterson ’37 Mary Ewart Scarff ’32 Betty Buckley Scott ’60 Roma Becker Shriner ’32 Leah Littrell Smith ’59 Gamma Chapter Mount Union College Jacqueline Eoff Bard ’52 Delta Chapter Bethany College Jean Forman Wright ’47 Epsilon Chapter University of South Dakota Kathleen Nearman Balster ’66 Virginia Leyse Ziegler ’44 Zeta Chapter Wittenberg University Ruth Stough Hessenflow ’34 Louann France Lockwood ’39 Theta Chapter University of WisconsinMadison Carolyn Studt Johnson ’48 Iota Chapter West Virginia University Louise Bergdoll Fox ’39

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Lambda Chapter Tufts University Barbara Landry Hughes ’38 Mu Chapter University of Minnesota Barbara Hamilton Swanson ’46 Nu Chapter University of Washington Phyllis Munroe Nash ’45 Xi Chapter University of Kentucky Martha Allen Jackson ’42 Dorothy Atwood Dold Walsh ’42 Omicron Chapter University of California, Berkeley Joan Marjorie Finch Blanchard ’39 Gretchen Tallman ’51 Pi Chapter Ohio University Rosemary Hartman Chaffins ’50 Jeanne Woollard Chynoweth ’38 Frances Howard Exline ’42 Helen Roderick Rapp ’33 Rho Chapter University of NebraskaLincoln Wilma Lallman Baumrucker ’30 Ruth Pierce Bowen ’35 Jean MacAllister Bradley ’40 Jeannette Sherwood Donkin ’46 Mildred Ruth Drew ’31 Florence Steuteville Fitzgibbon ’36 Betty Cherny Godwin ’35 Gladys Grosbach Hoff ’44 Lorene Graver Kelley ’52 Joann Mickelson Olsen ’50 Vanita Mattise Rottmann ’35 Loraine Lallman Truell ’30 Psi Chapter Ohio State University Evelyn Thompson Ross ’43 Alpha Epsilon Chapter University of Michigan Pamela Jo Davis ’71 Doris Weyl Dobbins ’45 Mary Jane Meckstroth Ritter ’54 Beverley Van Stone Weckerle ’46 Alpha Zeta Chapter University of Oklahoma Lynn Downey Eagin ’31

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Alpha Eta Chapter Purdue University Carolyn Lemon Harms ’37 Evelyn Shell Magner ’40 Janet Vlantis Sauer ’55 Alpha Kappa Chapter Kansas State University Juanita Walker Barnes ’28 Frances Blackwelder Ryan ’47 Marjorie Cooper Wann ’35 Alpha Xi Chapter University of California at Los Angeles Agnes Barnett Smith Brannon ’36 Shirley Day Lundine ’50 Suzanne Tucker Vineyard ’54 Alpha Omicron Chapter Hunter College Ivy St. Leger Leonard ’36 Elizabeth Cleveland Raynor ’32 Edna Kaprelian Trent ’34 Alpha Chi Chapter Randolph-Macon College Virginia Duncan Edwards ’28 Alpha Omega Chapter Florida State University Mildred Ada Boss ’35 Beta Alpha Chapter University of Texas Cora Steinmann Bianchi ’37 Mary Wynne Sigel ’34 Beta Gamma Chapter Centenary College Betty Thomas Gallien ’44 Beta Zeta Chapter Lake Forest College Marge Mints Weiss ’39 Beta Eta Chapter University of Maryland Ella Parks Bessette ’44 Phyllis Ritter Stahr ’49 Beta Theta Chapter Michigan State University Harriett Graham Hauser ’59 Beta Mu Chapter Bowling Green State University Sabina Slichiinski Schwab ’46

Beta Nu Chapter Culver-Stockton College Mae McHatton Hootman ’43 Beta Xi Chapter Marietta College Donna Mann Kent ’56 Beta Sigma Chapter West Virginia Wesleyan College Sarah Rudesill Chamberlain ’51 Barbara Fish Gatland ’49 Beta Tau Chapter Kent State University Lisa Bradford McBride ’91 Beta Upsilon Chapter University of Rhode Island Claire Bentley ’75 Gamma Alpha Chapter San Diego State University Lorna Heffron Shaw ’49 Gamma Zeta Chapter Eastern Michigan University Cathy Brady Weston ’56 Gamma Nu Chapter Southeast Missouri State University Susan Wochner Bober ’71 Gamma Tau Chapter Ohio Northern University Maxine Fleming Plaugher ’61 Gamma Upsilon Chapter University of Georgia Rebecca Pearce Stewart ’64 Delta Psi Chapter Texas State University-San Marcos Donna Goar Boe ’70 Epsilon Xi Chapter University of Missouri-St. Louis Sandra Utlaut ’74 Zeta Omicron Chapter University of Florida Diane Stiegel ’42 Theta Rho California State UniversitySan Marcos Sarah Phillips ’98

Moms. Young Professionals. Empty Nesters. Recent Graduates. Our volunteers come in many different forms! “Alpha Xi Delta is not just the years you are in college. It is a lifetime of love, laughter, tears, drama, joys, experiences, but most of all, true sisterhood.” - Jill Foster Bortel A little about Jill: Retired elementary school teacher, library volunteer and Curves enthusiast

Why does Jill share her time and talent? “I strongly believe in our National Fraternity, our vision, our mission - Inspiring Women to Realize Their Potential - our Ritual and our beliefs.”

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rd io n Boa t ra De f i a o p r o r a n d Crea s u re r o s i v d A T C h a pt e r Se cret a ry / “I can truly say that my sorority has helped me become the person I am today. I cannot imagine my life without Alpha Xi Delta.” - Becky Soderholm A little about Becky: Hotel sales manager, knows all about eloping in Vegas and shares her home with Rocky the Rat Terrier

Why does Becky share her time and talent? “I volunteer to give back to the organization that has changed my life in so many ways, and I want to help other women have similar life-changing experiences!”

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Living Our Symphony That Without Bitterness or Defeat We May Encounter Misfortune By Audrey Panichakoon Crone, Frostburg State ’89

The Symphony of Alpha Xi Delta These things do we earnestly desire: A clear vision of life, that with gracious and kindly hearts we may share both joy and sorrow and bring into living reality the sisterhood of women. An appreciation of real merit and worth, steadfastness of soul, that without bitterness or defeat we may encounter misfortune and with humility meet success. These things, O Lord, help us to instill within our hearts, that we may grow in courage and graciousness and peace.

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I met Lisa Bradford McBride, Kent State ’91, in 2005 when I moved to Columbus, Ohio, and attended an alumnae association event. She made me feel at ease by introducing me to everyone. After that we quickly became friends. Meeting Lisa was like reuniting with an old college friend, but better, because she was a Sister. Lisa had volunteered for Alpha Xi Delta for 15 years and espoused the ideals of the Fraternity. She served as association Lisa McBride entered Chapter Eternal in January president and vice president and 2010, leaving behind husband Rick and daughter assisted with numerous philan- Jessica. thropy events and programs. She was also one of four Sisters within the Columbus Alumnae Association who was the glue of the group, along with Shannon Stickney Burt, Tennessee ’97, Katie Laux, Wright State ’95, and Lisa Murray-Johnson, Michigan State ’91. These ladies have kept the chapter going for many years, not because of their duties, but because of the friendship among them. All of us looked forward to our monthly alumnae association dinners, which often took place at Columbus restaurants. Getting together and catching up on what was going on in our daily lives was a joy. We ate and we laughed. Those were happy days. It was a shock when Lisa told us in 2009 that she had lung cancer. She had beaten breast cancer three years prior, so if anyone had the courage to face cancer a second time, it was Lisa. She was fearless, and we prayed she’d beat this cancer too. Unfortunately, treatments were only successful for the short term. Lisa was laid to rest January 31, 2010, at age 39, leaving behind her husband, Rick, their 6-year-old daughter, Jessica, her parents and many friends. Lisa was a dedicated Alpha Xi Delta, and she was also a dedicated career woman. In 2004, Lisa’s employer, Wendy’s International, Inc., honored her with the “Dave’s MBA” award, the highest honor bestowed by the company at the corporate level. And within her community, Lisa assisted with the Columbus Junior League’s Adopt a Backpack for Children program that provides 12,500 supply kits to underprivileged children, the Kids in the Kitchen program to improve children’s nutrition and lifestyle behaviors, and the Columbus Career Closet that donates professional clothing to women returning to the workforce. When I think of Lisa’s legacy, I don’t think of her battle with cancer. Instead, I think of her giving back to others through a life of real merit and worth. www.alphaxidelta.org

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