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Cancer, however, doesn’t strike just adults. This month, I had the pleasure of helping a little girl’s dream of having a “princess party” come true. Abby, who is 5 years old, has been diagnosed with rhabdomyosarcoma, which is a muscle cancer. Her tumor is a skull base tumor, which is now growing into her brain. When Anita Carver, at Temple Memorial Rehabilitation Center, called and was telling me about Abby’s desire to have a princess party, I couldn’t resist helping. As a board member Now, I have to watch what I eat and drink each day. Water, of of Temple, I have seen and heard of the many miracles that course, is my staple. I have a bottle at my desk at all times. In happen there on a daily basis. Why not make one more dream the past two years, I lost over 25 pounds. I’m still not down to come true? You can see the photos from Abby’s party in this my high school “fighting” weight, but I am happy with where I month’s issue. For Abby’s mom, the photos will be a memory am! I fight constantly with 5 pounds, but that’s to be expected she will cherish. and I know when I can eat and when I need to stop. I make much healthier food choices now than I ever have in my life, I can tell you that helping with that party was one of the and it shows! most fulfilling things I have ever been a part of. Seeing the excitement in her little face when she walked in the door and Health is something we tend to not worry about much when knowing that she had fun was enough to keep me smiling we are young. However, we should be watching what we do for days. Consider doing something for someone else. The because that all carries over into our adult lives. This month, pleasure you give will return to you ten-fold. Remember, there we have highlighted people who are “champions” of either are many, many people who are hurting – whether from bad helping others or overcoming. Sean Womack and Cindy health, emotional distress, financial problems, or any number Porter are physicians who have made it their life’s work to help of issues. They need your prayers, your comfort, your hand to others. From babies to adults, they both care about the people hold, your ear to listen, and your heart to understand. they help and treat. Sometimes that becomes very difficult. I cannot imagine some of the things they see and hear. But May God bless you and yours… even in the most difficult times, they care for their patients and their families. Being a physician doesn’t take away your heart – it just enlarges it. It is wonderful to know there are caring physicians available when you need them. The breast cancer survivors we have 8

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“On my honor… I will do my best” LIFE is a journey, and the map for its travel is peppered with predictable, as well as unpredictable, routes. Dr. J. Sean Womack, M.D., has experienced the assurance of predictability and excitement of unpredictability during his 15 years as a practicing Urologist. Many of his experiences, however, have been apart from his successful medical practice and more dependent on choices and coincidences. Predictable and unpredictable routes, choices and coincidences have made his journey exciting, fulfilling and risky. Regardless of the challenge, he has always attempted to “do his best”. Joseph Sean Womack was reared in Waco, TX, and graduated with the B.S. in Biology from Texas A & M University, College Station. His post-graduate choice was the University of Texas Southwestern Medical School at Dallas for four years, then a residency in urology. In 1998, after six years residency training, he was prepared to begin his medical practice as a Urologist. “A urologist is a physician who has specialized knowledge and skill regarding problems of the male and female urinary tract and the male reproductive organs. Because of the variety of clinical problems encountered, knowledge of internal medicine, pediatrics, gynecology, and other specialties is required of the urologist. Urology is classified as a surgical subspeciality….” After graduation and careful exploration of seven or eight different practices, Dr. Womack and Mary Beth, his wife of almost 20 years, chose to join Collom and Carney Clinic in Texarkana. Dr. Womack was impressed with Collom and Carney’s organization. He had just what he wanted: an office-based practice as well as surgical responsibilities. His medical training focuses on urological health; therefore, he addresses problems and practices general urology. Problems may include some lifestyle issues, like smoking, which contributes

to kidney and bladder cancers, or diminished fluid intake that can be a contributing factor in the development of painful kidney stones. Some general practices of urologic health to help reduce the risk of kidney stones include, according to Dr. Womack: engage in good fluid intake (water or lemonade), make healthy dietary choices, and avoid excessive dairy products, chocolate, green leafy vegetables, and nuts. In addition to a desirable practice, Dr. Womack and his talented family liked the location and lifestyle of Texarkana. In short, he had the opportunity to tailor his practice while cultivating his family’s various interests. These choices for challenge— that “edge” that makes their lives interesting—existed for Sean and Mary Beth from the beginning of their marriage. “When we married at St. Rita’s Catholic Church in Dallas,” Sean explains, “we wanted to do something special, so we got tickets inside the cathedral where Pope John Paul II would lead Christmas Midnight Mass in 1996. This trip was very special to us as newlyweds and still provides us fond memories.” The Womacks have continued to welcome change in their lives, just as they have embraced Texarkana as their home. Mary Beth teaches seventh grade science in the Pleasant Grove Independent School District. She has continued to cultivate her substantial culinary skills with her focus on Southwestern and vegetarian cuisines. She also enjoys bicycling and recruits the family for bicycling vacations. Son, Daniel, age 15, participates in the Boy Scouts and plays his dad’s alto-sax in the PGHS Band, while daughter, Ellen, dances, is interested in cheerleading, and performs in the SHOWSTOPPERS Drill Team at PGHS. To his delight, Dr. Womack occasionally is able to remove his white coat and join some of his medical colleagues and friends in Jawbone, the band in which he plays both guitar and saxophone and occasionally sings different parts and some three part harmony. “I always have songs going through my head,” Sean says. “In surgery, classic rock is usually my favorite.” October 2013

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This five member band juggles medical schedules weekly to rehearse dance music from a variety of genres. Even when the band is not rehearsing, Sean may be found playing his guitar guided by 80s rock bands. Jawbone has played for TRAHC and entertains for private and charitable events throughout the Texarkana area. (Interested in a booking? Contact the band at www.jawbonelive.com or on Facebook.) Music is an integral component of this doctor’s well being. The Womack Family also enjoys being together. “My time with my family is the most important time in my life,” Dr. Womack acknowledges. “It seems like we always have something to do.” All of the family enjoys tent camping, especially along Arkansas’ White and Buffalo Rivers where the men of the family take advantage of the fly fishing opportunities. Dad admits that Daniel thinks he wants to be a professional fisherman. His choice may have been influenced by Scout trips the two have taken to Canada and Key West where they fished and snorkeled in some really impressive habitat. Daniel has also studied marine biology at Texas A&M Galveston’s sea camp. “Daniel is fascinated by water,” his dad observes. To the family’s delight, Mary Beth and Ellen have also mastered campfire cooking. In fact, Ellen has acquired so many of her mother’s culinary skills that this teen-ager is quite at home in any kitchen. “When Mary Beth is out of town,” her proud dad brags, “Ellen can cook for the whole family. She can do all of it.” Daniel was born in Denver, CO, and adopted as an infant. Dr. Womack smiles as he explains that Daniel is now slightly taller than he, but therein lies the only observable difference between the two. Over the years, the father and son have not only traveled together but also cultivated many of the same interests.

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Boy Scout years, rank of Eagle Dr. Womack deserving pleasure explains Daniel, earned rank of Scout.

According to the National Eagle Scout Association, only about 5 percent of all Boy Scouts become Eagle Scouts (that’s about 2 million since 1912). Two Eagle Scouts in the same family is an accomplishment for the entire family! Another lasting influence of scouting is the enduring nature of the goals enumerated in the “Boy Scout Oath or Promise:” On my honor, I will do my best To do my duty to God and my country and to obey the Scout Law; To help other people at all times; 18

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To keep myself physically strong, mentally awake and morally straight. • Duty to God and country • Duty to other people, and • Duty to self. The Boy Scout Promise is a prescription for living a life, and —no scout—regardless of rank, is likely to forget that promise. With a life guided by his Boy Scout promise and training, as well as his medical expertise, the choices made by Dr. Womack in several unusual coincidences are not surprising. “Coincidences”? Some 6,170,000 Google results would suggest some clarification of “coincidences” would be useful. The two predominant definitions appear to be: (1) “A remarkable occurrence of events or circumstances without apparent causal connection,” or (2) “A sequence of events that, although accidental, seems to have been planned or arranged.” The choice is yours. Dr. Womack admits that during his 10 years in Dallas, he was never involved in any “coincidence” that required his medical knowledge; however, since his arrival in the Texarkana area? Three times—three times! Over a period of several years, he has been the right person at the right place at the right time with the right knowledge to save the lives of three people—coincidence? His first experience occurred as he was enjoying a rare evening out. As Dr. Womack was leaving the restaurant, a large, middle-aged man also leaving the restaurant just crumbled. He appeared to be experiencing breathing difficulties as he lay on the ground. Although Dr. Womack was much smaller than the victim, he rushed to his side, righted him and began to deliver vigorous compressions to his chest— CPR. Others who were nearby were looking on, and one of them—a much larger man than Dr. Womack— stepped in and took over the administration of compressions while

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Dr. Womack called 911. Had the doctor not been on the side of the “rights” i.e. “right” time, place, knowledge and possessed the courage to act quickly—the victim would have died. As it happened, the man received the aid he needed until the ambulance arrived. “I heard he was just fine,” Dr. Womack reports. “You have to be prepared because you never know what’s going to happen,” the Doctor advises. In this case, being prepared meant knowing how to administer CPR. With the new CPR techniques, the person who is delivering the CPR is in no danger of contracting anything via mouth to mouth resuscitation, and anyone, regardless of size, can be successful in delivering the aid. Think about it…have you ever pulled into a service slot to fill your car with gas? What do you think you would do if an elderly man in the slot next to you suddenly fell out of his car and onto the pavement? When Dr. Womack found himself in this situation, he abandoned filling his car and rushed to the aid of the prone customer. Immediately, Dr. Womack started administering CPR. Another customer nearby witnessed the event. He called 911. Since he happened to be an ICU nurse from Little Rock, he assisted in administering the CPR compressions until the arrival of the ambulance. Another life saved because of the doctor’s “duty to other people,” quick thinking and CPR.

“’We want to emphasize chest compression as the most important part of CPR by starting with those first,’ says Dr. Michael Sayre, a professor of emergency medicine at Ohio State University and co-author of the new guidelines…’

“The AHA’s committee reviewed several studies that indicated the outcomes for victims treated with hands-only CPR did as well as those who received both compressions and mouth-to-mouth resuscitation.” According to Sayre only about one-third of those who suffer cardiac arrest receive aid because of the reluctance of bystanders to jump in. Many believe CPR is too complex or even if they know CPR “they don’t feel they are able to do it well enough.” Using the new method—immediate delivery of chest compressions—bystanders might be more willing to jump in AND the heart needs to beat continuously. By starting with compressions immediately, the intake of oxygen is likely to be no more than 20 seconds, and the body has enough oxygen to maintain itself between its last breath before the attack and the first compression. Therefore, the CPR order is now: • Recognize breath.

As Dr. Womack shares his stories, the emphasis of his telling them is obviously on the necessity of knowing CPR—a knowledge he is convinced everyone should have and be willing to administer. “The one thing everyone must remember,” Dr. Womack emphasizes, “is the importance of delivering strong compressions. I know, especially on the elderly, people are afraid of delivering strong compressions. Sometimes you can feel their ribs breaking, but that’s OK. Their ribs will heal. The important thing is keeping blood and oxygen flowing to the brain.”

• Call 911 • Begin forceful compressions—mid to lower sternum —100/minute • Maintain compressions until the ambulance arrives Both Dr. Womack and AHA emphasize the necessity for forceful compressions delivered at a rapid pace. Neither the size of the victim nor the size of the CPR administrator should interfere with the delivery of the CPR.

The third coincidence in which Dr. Womack was involved occurred in the middle of the day as he was getting ready to leave for Dallas and a National Scout Meeting. His original intent had been to take a new shortcut to get home, but for some reason he changed his mind. He was driving down his usual route when he saw a body in the middle of the street and a man just standing there.

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Without hesitation the doctor pulled his car to the roadside and ran to give assistance. He yelled for the bystander to call 911 while the doctor immediately began CPR on the woman. Meanwhile, another health care provider came along, and the two sustained the vigorous compressions needed to save her life until the ambulance arrived. A third life saved by CPR; once again Dr. Sean Womack was the right person at the right place at the right time—with the right knowledge and the willingness to act. Shortly before his last resuscitation, Dr. Womack had been helping scouts earn their medical badges and had just been through a review of the CPR procedure with Daniel who had completed his lifeguard certification. “The Boy Scouts teach CPR and help everyone stay up on it.” With no hesitation, Dr. Womack emphasizes that the reason he was able to lend a helping hand was his knowledge of CPR. “You have to be able to focus on the job at hand,” he explains. “You cannot panic yourself. You have to deliver the compressions at the right speed and deep enough to actually move blood.” He leans across his desk to emphasize, “The new methods make CPR easier to do under duress.” “Now the American Heart Association (AHA) is officially changing the order of CPR, (the first change since its introduction in 1960)…. 20

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The AHA concludes: “The new CPR advice also applies to EMT’s, doctors, nurses, lifeguards and other professional emergency personnel, as well, to reinforce AHA’s belief in the importance of chest compressions. But the advice should be particularly reassuring and empowering for lay people who may feel more confident in helping those who need it....’So people should feel really good that they are helping out,’ says Sayre.” Just ask Dr. Sean Womack, he knows about feeling good because of what CPR can do, i.e., save lives. “It is very important that CPR be done correctly, so I encourage everyone to take a CPR class!” Clearly the journey of this family’s LIFE is a varied, meaningful and exciting one. Dr. Womack’s life revolves around his family and helping others, and his dedication to his community affects the positive environment that is Texarkana. He and his Family provide excellent examples of dealing with challenges, making tough choices and accepting changes. They understand self-discipline, how to set goals and work hard—all ideals of the Boy Scouts of America. No doubts here. The actions of the Womack Family declare their promise to the routes they choose and encounter: “On my honor, I will do my best…” They are living their promise every day!

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“UNIFIED & UNAFRAID…”

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…according to philosopher Jean Vanier—are perfect descriptions of children. Unified because their lives show “everything” about them consistently; unafraid, they “live” completely without fear. Like the children she attends, Dr. Cindy Porter is Unified and Unafraid. Perhaps this is why the children this much-loved pediatrician cares for never want to outgrow her “doctoring.” Cindy has been independent all her life. By five years of age, this Mount Pleasant native had established herself as bright, full of energy and curiosity. She made choices, (excelled at the piano and outdoor play)-had favorites (things that moved and her maternal grandmother)--and was totally unafraid to be herself. She was five years old when Cindy told her family that when she grew up, she was going to help children, especially the children at St. Jude’s Hospital. “I guess I selected St. Jude’s,” she admits, “because my mom and dad contributed to St. Jude’s for years.” She was five years old when she fell on a broken Dr. Pepper bottle and cut her knee to the bone. Totally unafraid but curious, Cindy promised the doctor she would not cry if he would let her watch while he scraped the shards of glass from her bone. “I thought it was the coolest thing ever that he deadened my knee,” Cindy remembers. The doctor let her watch; she did not cry. To those who knew her, Cindy Porter’s declarations and requests were not surprising. Her grandfather’s knife attracted her attention at age 9. The only problem was she had not realized the sharpness of the large blade she rubbed across her right arm. Cindy actually did not know what she had done until her hand filled with blood from the slice. Then she asked her grandmother for duct tape and taped the incision closed with butterfly-like duct tape bandages. She did not go to the doctor. Cindy liked to stay “on the go”—maybe an early sign of her enthusiasm for travel? At age 5, she had her own small motorcycle; age 8, she wrecked her own go-cart; she was on the back of a bigger motorcycle by her tenth birthday. This girl was going places. Travel remains, for her, a priority. Her early years of school were years of discovery for both Cindy and her parents. It was apparent that Cindy seemed to have an inexhaustible supply of energy (although they did not learn until Cindy’s adulthood that her consistent “busyness” had a name—ADHD (attention-deficit/hyperactivity disorder). Another discovery during these early years was her handedness—she is left handed. [Mayo Clinic research has concluded left handers are more prone to ADHD because their brain has no dominant side. They also tend to be better at divergent thinking, so they generate lots more ideas and explore many more possible solutions than right-handers.] Another characteristic of left handers is a competitive October 2013

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nature. True to her “handedness,” Cindy, all her life, has relished challenges—wherever she has found them. In Mount Pleasant High School, Cindy was a leader in drama and Spanish competitions and an excellent student, and she won the trophies and ribbons to prove it. “When I was a junior in high school, I was third in my class,“ Cindy remembers. “My dad told me if I graduated first or second in my class he would buy me the car of my choice. If I ranked third or below, he would buy me the car of his choice. I wanted that 280Z. I graduated Salutatorian of my 1981 class. ”I think it’s a parent’s role to encourage their children and my parents were good at encouraging.” Following her high school graduation, Cindy’s 280Z transported her to Baylor University where she found the challenges she relished. She earned a B.A. Degree with a triple major: premedicine, biology and Spanish. After her 1985 college graduation, her dad became ill, so Cindy returned to Mt. Pleasant and taught school to assist her family. When her dad improved, Cindy was off again—this time to Houston to work at Baylor College of Medicine. Becoming a doctor was her goal, and she knew she would be paying her own way. At Baylor she was a research analyst for Dr. Bert O’Malley, Chairman of the Department of Cell Biology, Nobel and National Academy of Science nominee. Dr. O’Malley’s bio-medical research was the first to link estrogen and progesterone in breast cancer. “Every Monday we vaccinated 200 chickens, and every Friday we put on our parkas and went into a 40 degree room to kill the chickens and extract their ovaries. I couldn’t eat chicken forever.” By 1989, Cindy had enough money to begin the University of Texas Medical School in Houston, but only enough for a start. During her entire four years of study, she worked other jobs: • Bartender: “I loved bartending. Night only hours; I loved to talk to people. I never have needed much sleep, maybe 4 to 5 hours a night, so this was a perfect job for me;” • Teaching: during my fourth year of med school, I taught first year anatomy; •

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Throughout her schooling, Cindy’s maternal grandmother, “the best cheerleader I ever had in my life,” kept her going with her precious cards and notes, always with a $20 bill tucked carefully inside. “She was the rock in our family,” Cindy remembers. “Amazing Lady!” “We would sit and talk. ‘Where have you been? What have you done?’ She wanted to be a teacher, but she married and never finished school. She told me, ‘Don’t let a man stop you from doing what you want to do.’ In her last days, I was the only one she always recognized, ‘There comes my Pretty Girl,’ (her special nickname) she would always say.” These were challenging times for Cindy who graduated in 1993 but refused to walk across the stage unless her grandmother could be there. “She made it and cried at my graduation.” 1993-1996: Time now for Cindy’s residency. She chose the University of Tennessee Medical School in Memphis with hospital 26

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affiliations including: LeBonheur Children’s Hospital, the Regional Medical Center of Memphis. (“This is the hospital where Elvis Presley died, and the hospital in several Grisham movies.”)—AND St. Jude’s Children’s Research Hospital. Cindy pauses briefly. “My grandmother reminded me about my five year old declaration. She told me it was God‘s telling me my destiny. She was always with me. “My grandmother died when she was 92. When I was in Memphis, we were talking about travel, which I enjoy, and she told me she had never been anywhere but Texas, Arkansas and Oklahoma. She had never seen the Mississippi River. I put her in my car, and we drove to Tennessee. She saw the River and Elvis Presley’s house, and we had a wonderful time. She was an Amazing Lady.” And a stalwart Cindy favorite. During her three year residency, Cindy had a variety of rotations. At LeBonheur, she met Dr. Keith English from Maud, TX. Keith was “the smartest man I’ve ever known—your marginal genius.” With him, Cindy studied infectious diseases. Other medical school rotations actually sent her all over the world. Her Public Health Rotation, for example, was in Santiago, Chile, for eight weeks. “Socialized medicine amazed me. Those who had money or worked for the government got top of the line care; no money, no care. I needed a chest x-ray for a baby and was told it would be three months. Then I had a three week old baby with a ruptured eardrum. I thought the baby needed a septic workup and to be admitted. “‘We don’t do that here,’ was the response. I almost got us (the two other students from my medical school) kicked out of the country for that one.” Nearer than South America was a medical rotation for Dr. Porter on an Indian Reservation near Shiprock, NM, (near the Four Corners area) just south of Durango, CO. She spent a month there with her brother Mike. Because she had dark hair and eyes and a slight olive complexion (she has some Cherokee/ Comanche blood lines), the medicine men shared with her their bag of tricks. Unfortunately, their bags contained no cure for the alcoholism plaguing the Native Americans nor the diabetes. Many were missing arms and legs. The older men often were called “speed bumps” because of their drunkenness. Saddest of all for Cindy were the children, who remained fearful of the strangers in their midst. The children would never talk to them. By the time Dr. Porter was ready to choose a base for her practice, she was well equipped with many different types of knowledge, but most importantly—she was eager to open her heart and hands to the children who needed her. Cindy decided to stay near home, in 1996, when she chose to become a part of Southern Clinic in Texarkana, Arkansas. Her history followed her. Once a pulmonary specialist from Little Rock called her, “I hear you’re pretty anal about your patients.” She could do nothing but agree. “If a kid has something wrong, we pediatricians will jump through hoops. I’m not waiting 72 hours before I get an MRI or peer review for my patient.”

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She is anal; she worries about her hospitalized patients: “Sometimes I want to take ‘em home. I call the hospital all hours of the night checking on ‘em.” Now a part of Collom & Carney’s pediatric team, Dr. Porter faces full days with 35+ slots on her appointment schedule. During the summer, she may see no more than 20-25 children each day while during winter, an overloaded 55+ may exhaust the doctor. She laughs, “I work people in. If a child says, ‘I want to see Dr. Porter,’ then he either has a sucker in mind or something’s wrong.” The different stages of development through which children grow keep her days filled with surprises. She may move from a child with trauma to a mother with a vexing 14 year old. The child cannot, according to his mother, do sports because of his mouth—“He won’t keep it shut.” “Let me tell you what,” Dr. Porter speaks directly to him, “there is no reason you can’t do what you want to do,” and she proceeds to share RG III’s story. “You can do whatever you want to do. If you have a goal, Go Get It. I came from a small town, but now I’m a doctor.”

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Babies are always welcomed, but an 18 month old “is often hard to examine. I love the toddlers. They are so much fun. Teenagers are trying for parents and for me.” However, it’s not unusual for Dr. Porter to share her phone number with a teen-ager who may need someone to talk to. Her patients are even responsible for her addiction to Candy Crush electronic games. On one occasion while attending the Dallas Margarita Ball, the largest black-tie charity in the world raising thousands for at-risk children, Dr. Porter received a picture on her smart phone.

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“That’s a picture this lady sent me of her child’s poop. ‘Is this normal?’ the anxious parent wonders.’” Dr. Porter just laughs. The surprises and puzzles are always there. Her practice goes with her everywhere. The happy times are many, but there are those heart-wrenching moments as well,

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The bond between a mother and daughter is undeniable.

There are so many moments shared: Jean Ham and daughter, Courtney Sewell dress up, dolls, first dances, dating advice, Jean Ham grew up on a farm in Garland City, Arkansas. She moving into the dorms at college, picking married Eddie Ham, and they became the proud parents of Courtney Sewell, Wayne Ham, Meredith Ham, and Allyson Petty. They also out a wedding dress, and being there for the have six grandchildren. Jean recently retired from Texarkana ISD working as a school counselor at Texas Middle School. birth of a child. Through the years, mothers after In the fall of 2002, she was diagnosed with breast cancer after a and daughters learn from each other, routine mammogram. Her twin sister had also just been diagnosed. especially when they face trials and uncertain “We were all in a state of surprise and shock,” Jean said. times together. Years after Jean Ham was “My husband and children were anxious to see what our next step be. I had a very strong support system that included my diagnosed with breast cancer, her daughter, would husband, children and friends along with a belief that God was in Courtney Sewell was diagnosed. The same control of the entire experience.” was also true with Charlotte McCauley and Jean’s daughter, Courtney, was 26 and pregnant with her her daughter, Britnie Drake, and Anita Magby first child when her mother found out the news. Courtney and her husband, Shelby, have been married for fourteen years. She worked and her daughter, Renee Bassett. According as an LVN before deciding to stay with her children: Lily, 10; to The American Cancer Society, even though home Abby, 6; and Will, 3. breast cancer is still considered the second “Strangely enough, even leading cause of cancer death for women, as a grown woman, I always there are more than 2.8 million breast cancer thought my mother was invincible,” Courtney said. “I never once survivors in the United States. thought that she wouldn’t recover and be in complete remission.”

These mother/daughter teams faced the odds together and came away with a greater appreciation of life and each other.

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Allyson,” Jean said. “We routinely have girls weekends together. Not a day goes by that we don’t all speak to each other, and their love has been a strong force in my life.”

children in pain, I have come to realize there is such beauty in her very soul and being that I probably would not have witnessed had she not been fighting for her life and the lives of her sweet family.”

Jean had a mastectomy and reconstruction. Now, it has been over 10 years and Jean is considered “cured.” However, earlier this year Courtney had a sharp pain in her left breast and discovered a large lump. She immediately scheduled an appointment for a mammogram and ultrasound. After tests were completed, it was diagnosed as cancer.

Right now, Courtney’s prognosis is good, and though she is still in treatment, she considers herself cancer free. “My faith is the only way I stayed positive,” Courtney said. “I had a magnificent support system consisting of my family and friends. I would tell any woman that early detection is paramount. Know your body. Do not ignore warning signs. Keep up with your mammograms and general health. For all those facing cancer, remember that you can manage this diagnosis. Embrace it so that you can become more mature and well-developed in your life.”

“Because of my mother’s experience, I knew that I could survive this too,” Courtney said. “Her complete and total commitment to me and my family is extraordinary. I have tremendous respect for her constant devotion to us and unwavering faith.”

This year, Courtney’s sisters, Meredith and Allyson, will be running in in Jean and Courtney’s honor at Susan G. Komen Race for the Cure.

After the surgeon gave her the facts about her diagnosis, Courtney and Shelby sat down and made a decision about what to do next.

“I have three daughters, and Courtney has two,” Jean said. “We continue to be aware of this disease. Our prayer is that a cure will be found and that no other loved ones will be diagnosed.”

“There was no shortage of advice and opinions in those early days,” Courtney said, “but we needed the facts so that we could make the best decision for our family.”

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my children and grandchildren,” Charlotte said. In January of 2006, Charlotte felt a lump on a Friday night with some slight pain. She was just getting over a surgery, and fortunately, she had a doctor’s appointment on the following Monday. Her father’s sister had breast cancer, and since her diagnosis, Charlotte has had a cousin diagnosed as well. “God had given me three of the most precious gifts...my children. It was up to me to be there for them,” Charlotte said. “I knew I had to do everything I possibly could to fight and fight every day. And that’s what I did. I still wake up every morning and thank God for a new day! With faith and the power of prayer you can get through it. It’s not easy or what you had planned, but with God’s grace, you can do it!” Charlotte had a double mastectomy and reconstruction. She also had six chemo treatments: one every three weeks. “I was given lots of advice, but the one thing that stuck with me and meant so much was what a friend told me after I told her that I was scared,” Charlotte said. “I got the sweetest note in the mail from her a day or two later saying that there was no way she could know how I felt, but that she did know that fear was the same for everyone. She shared a Bible verse that was life changing to me: ‘For God has not given me the spirit of fear, but of power and love and a sound mind’ (2 Timothy 1:7). I realized that even though I didn’t like the unknown, I didn’t have to fear it.” Charlotte has been cancer free for seven years and has been living her dream of loving and caring for her children and grandsons. However, her daughter, Britnie Drake was diagnosed with breast cancer in April of this year. “Those are words no mother ever wants to hear,” Charlotte said. “Through my entire journey I constantly thanked God that it was me and not one of my children. When I first heard the news, I was shocked with disbelief. Protecting her had been my job, and now I had to step aside and trust her medical team and her decisions.” Britnie works as a dental hygienist in North Little Rock, Arkansas. She lives in Bryant, Arkansas, with her husband of six years, Garrett, and their two sons: Dax, 3, and Gannon, 9 months. She found a lump during a self-exam and immediately made an appointment with her doctor. “Every woman should check themselves routinely,” Britnie said. “Early detection can save your life; it saved mine and mom’s! On the day I got my lumpectomy/biopsy results, I was leaving work, and I just felt numb. I didn’t seek much advice at first because I didn’t want to talk about it; I didn’t want anyone to know besides my family. I had always been so healthy and happy that I didn’t want anyone to see me as weak or sick, ALT Magazine October 2013 38

but my mom kept telling me the more people knew about it, the more people could pray for me. I finally realized she was right, as always, and that I needed as many prayers as I could get! Her advice made me realize that I didn’t have to do this alone and that God, friends, family and even strangers were on my side!” Because of two small children at home, Britnie decided that she would pursue a double mastectomy and reconstruction. She wanted to be as aggressive as possible to ensure the cancer wouldn’t come back. “I worried about not being able to look at myself in the mirror after my surgery and about not being able to hold my 4-month-old baby,” Britnie said. “I worried about how I would look without hair and how my kids and husband would feel about it. I worried about how the chemo would affect me and if I would be able to continue working and taking care of my boys. I think all of these things are pretty normal to think about before going through something like this. However, I have awesome surgeons that made it easier for me to look in the mirror; I have awesome friends and family that helped me hold my baby, and my bald head hasn’t scared anyone off yet! Dax wasn’t too sure about it at first, but he’s used to it now and tells me that he thinks I’m pretty every day! I am half way through treatments and I cannot wait to ring that bell after my last one!” Since Charlotte was diagnosed in 2006, family and friends have always put together a Race for the Cure team in her honor, but this year, the team will be for Britnie. “I am so excited to be a part of Race for the Cure as a survivor,” Britnie said. “People tell me all the time that they forget I have cancer, and honestly, sometimes I do too! I have so many people praying for me, and I know that God has helped me through this. Now that I’m a mom, I understand exactly how my mom faced it. We have always had a close, strong family, but I think now we understand each other better, and we know more than ever that we can’t take things for granted.”

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surgeon who assured me that he had seen lots of lumps, and that I had nothing to worry about. After I insisted, he agreed to do a more in depth mammogram and found cancer in both breasts.” Anita had a double mastectomy and chemo therapy treatments which left her hospitalized each month. Her daughter, Renee, felt helpless and scared because the chemo therapy made Anita so sick. “At the time, I did not know if she would live through the chemo as she was hospitalized during every treatment except the first one,” Renee said. “I wanted to live each day to the fullest with her, so I made a memory jar for us to talk about. I wrote about 200 sentences about memories that our family made together, and while sitting together, I would pull a memory out of the jar and talk with her about them.” “My wonderful family gathered around me,” Anita said. “They fed me, dried between my toes, took notes at doctor’s offices; I never felt so loved and my heart was full. I wasn’t scared because I knew that if I died, I’d go to heaven, and if I lived, I would appreciate life more.” Anita’s freezer was full with food that people brought over, and she was overwhelmed by a showing of support from her church. “My church prayed for me to be healed, and I was,” Anita said. “Looking back over the last sixteen years, I know they’ve been the best years of my life. My faith in God was tested and it proved to be strong. I do still feel a survivor’s guilt when I hear of a young person with cancer who dies without really having a full life. I don’t understand, but God does.” A couple of years after Anita’s diagnosis, one of her sisters was diagnosed with breast cancer, and then last year, her daughter, Renee was also diagnosed. “When you nearly lose someone you love, you appreciate them more,” Renee said. “I was there when mom had breast cancer, and she was there for me when I had breast cancer. Cancer brought us closer together as a family.” Renee lives in Texarkana with her husband, Russell Bassett, and their two children, Jason and John. She has sold Pampered Chef for 15 years and also works as a full-time accountant for a large assisted living facility. Renee’s cancer was discovered during an annual mammogram. Because of early detection, she was able to have a double mastectomy and not have to go through a chemo treatment.

“I went to the Bible for strength,” Renee said. “The day after I was diagnosed, I found Job 14:7 that said, ‘There is hope even of a tree that is cut, that it will spring forth with new branches and live again.’ I knew that God was letting me know that even though I would be ‘cut’ with this mastectomy, I would live again. That verse has been my rock through all of this.” Now Renee has a cancer free prognosis and is looking forward to participating in Race for the Cure with her mother. She has also supported American Cancer Society with fundraisers for the last fifteen years through Pampered Chef’s Help Whip Cancer program. Renee has encouraged many to write “in memory of” or “in honor of” on her pink apron used for these Pampered Chef fundraisers. The apron is filled with names of those who’ve been touched by breast cancer.

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“My mother’s name is in the middle, in big letters on my apron. I am thankful to God that we both survived,” Renee said. “I do want to let others know that early detection is key. Having breast cancer is not a death sentence. We walk down paths during difficult times to use our experiences later to help others, to be living proof that there is life after cancer and to appreciate every day as gift from God. Sometimes our difficulties are lessons of compassion we can have for others in pain.”

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Just How Risky Is Your Portfolio? If you’re like most people, you probably evaluate your portfolio in terms of its return. However, return isn’t the only factor you should consider; also important is the amount of risk you take in pursuing those returns. The term “risk” is often understood to mean the risk of loss. However, a portfolio is generally a means to an end, such as paying for retirement or a child’s college tuition. In that context, “risk” also means the risk of not meeting your financial needs.

Risk-adjusted return Let’s say that Don’s portfolio earns an average of 7% a year for 10 years. However, his annual returns have been very uneven; one year his return might be 11%, another year it might be down 10%. Meanwhile, Betty’s portfolio also has averaged a 7% annual return in the same time, but her returns have been more even; she hasn’t had spectacular years, but she has avoided any negative annual returns. You might think both would end up with the same amount of money after 10 years, but that’s not necessarily the case. It depends in part on the timing and size of the declines in Don’s portfolio. A big loss in the first year or two means he’ll spend valuable time recovering rather than being able to make the most of compounding; that can affect future growth. That’s why it’s important to consider an investment’s risk-adjusted return.

Volatility measures One of the most common measures of volatility is standard deviation, which gauges the degree of an investment’s up-and-down moves over a period of time. It shows how much the investment’s returns have deviated from time to time from its own average. The higher the standard deviation of an investment or portfolio, the bumpier the road to those returns has been. Another way to assess a portfolio’s volatility is to determine its beta. This compares a portfolio’s ups and downs to those of a benchmark index, such as the S&P 500, and indicates how sensitive the portfolio might be to overall market movements. An investment or portfolio with a beta of 1 would have exactly as much market risk as its benchmark. The higher the beta, the more volatile the portfolio. (However, remember that investments also have unique risks that are not related to market behavior. Those risks can create volatility patterns that are different from the underlying benchmark.)

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desired financial goal. A computer modeling technique known as Monte Carlo simulation generates multiple scenarios for how a portfolio might perform based on the past returns of the asset classes included in it. Though past performance is no guarantee of future results, such a projection can estimate how close your plan might come to reaching a target amount. Let’s look at a hypothetical example. Bob wants to retire in 15 years. A Monte Carlo simulation might suggest that, given his current level of saving and his portfolio’s asset allocation, Bob has a 90% chance of achieving his retirement target. If he chose to save more, he might increase his odds of success to 95%. Or Bob might decide that he’s comfortable with an 85% chance of success if that also means his portfolio might be less volatile. (Be aware that a Monte Carlo simulation is a projection, not a guarantee.)

Are you getting paid enough to take risk? Another approach to thinking about portfolio risk involves the reward side of the risk-reward tradeoff. You can compare a portfolio’s return to that of a relatively risk-free investment, such as the inflationadjusted return on a short-term U.S. Treasury bill. Modern portfolio theory is based on the assumption that you should receive greater compensation for taking more risk (though there’s no guarantee it will work out that way, of course). A stock should offer a potentially higher return than a Treasury bond; the difference between the two returns is the equity’s risk premium. While understanding risk premium doesn’t necessarily minimize risk, it can help you evaluate whether the return you’re getting is worth the risk you’re taking. *LPL Financial does not provide tax or legal advice. The information contained in this report should be used for informational purposes only. The appropriate professionals should be consulted on all legal and accounting matters prior to or in conjunction with implementation of the plan. Securities offered though LPL Financial. Member FINRA/SIPC.

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The CHRISTUS St. Michael Health System Nurse Advisory Council sponsored the Sixth Annual Toy Bradshaw Benefit Golf Tournament on Friday, Sept. 13, 2013, at Texarkana Golf Ranch. Proceeds from the tournament will benefit the Toy Bradshaw Scholarship Fund at Texas A&M University-Texarkana and Domestic Violence Prevention of Texarkana. There were 17 teams who participated in this year’s tournament. The first place winners were the ICU Team with a score of 54. Each member of the winning team received a $50 gift card to Pop’s Place. Conner Ribble won the longest drive on hole #1 and closest proximity to the pin on hole #15. The prize for the longest drive was a $100 gift card to Jason’s Deli and the prize for the closest proximity to the pin is a Michelob Ultra Golf Bag sponsored by Eagle Distributing.

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Twenty five years ago, Mike Huckabee had a vision for Texarkana. As Pastor of Beech Street First Baptist Church, he envisioned a television station that would take the word of God into homes across the city, building a connected community and a network for Christian, family programming. In 1988 his vision became a reality when KBSC first went on the air. The name has since changed to KLFI, but their purpose and commitment to the community has continually gotten stronger. “Through the years, KLFI has shared life with Texarkana,” President of Beech Street Communications and Lead Pastor, Craig Jenkins says. “We have always been about community and a message of hope.” Now, with exciting changes on the horizon for KLFI, Mike Huckabee will return to Texarkana on October 24 to speak at the Next Generation banquet held at Texarkana, Arkansas Convention Center. “We wouldn’t still be operating without community support,” Burns Barr, Executive Director for KLFI says. “This special banquet is to celebrate the last 25 years but also to renew the vision and set the foundation for the next generation.” Throughout the last quarter of a century, KLFI has been living up to their slogan, “Sharing Life With Texarkana” offering familyfriendly programming, local sports and church services across the community on channel 10 (cable) or channel 35 (antennae). “We emphasize the positive side of life as well as the special qualities of Texarkana,” Barr says. “We want to make a difference and change lives. We have been blessed by the people working with us and our viewers.” Right after the TV station became a reality, Barr volunteered to help. Other than his 8 years of volunteering for KLFI he had no other experience working in television or advertising, but he was willing to do what he could. Eventually Barr was asked if he could step up and run the station. His response was, “I don’t know, but God can do it through me,” Barr says. “God has met all of our needs and if we are faithful, He will continue to be faithful to us.” KLFI operates with a paid staff of anywhere from 1 to 3 people. All other help comes from volunteers in the community. “It’s difficult to do as much as we want to do, and we couldn’t do it without volunteers,” Barr says. “They have been so important throughout the years, and they are people from all walks of life. They 52

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came into this ministry much like I did.” Several times throughout each week, KLFI broadcasts local church services at First Baptist Church Texarkana, Northern Hills Baptist Church, Highland Park Baptist Church, Heritage Baptist Church and Beech Street.

“Many people think we are just associated with Beech Street,” Barr says. “Our church family here is so supportive, and we wouldn’t be here without them. But we are all about sharing how wonderful life can be with a relationship with God, and that isn’t limited to just one church.”

Much of the stations funding comes from production work, grants and sponsorship through 601 Productions, a for-profit broadcasting and production studio. “Most people are still unaware that we are operated separately from the church. We are a non-profit organization and gifts to KLFI are tax-deductible,” Barr says. “From the very beginning we have had the support from the cable company, the mayors of Texarkana, the Texarkana Chamber of Commerce and many businesses and individuals in our community.” “It’s a rarity that a small, local station like us has made it this far,” Jenkins says. “The consistency of KLFI has been one of our greatest accomplishments. We wouldn’t be here without the commitment of so many in the community, and we are glad that we have been able to spread a message of hope for the last 25 years. KLFI also broadcasts football from all four area high schools and a variety of other sporting events. They have tapes dating back to the beginning of several professional careers. “We’ve enjoyed being able to broadcast these events, and we are grateful that the schools allow us to do that,” Barr says. “One time we had a mother request that we catch a shot of her son playing the tuba in the band because she couldn’t be at the game. But because of the taping, she was able to watch the game with her mother who was also unable to attend. I had told the crew, ‘Make sure you get footage of the tuba section,’ because I didn’t know which one he was. Later on, she told us that we had no idea what being able to watch her son on TV with her mother had meant to her.” This really brought to mind how many lives are touched by our efforts. “We’ve always been a megaphone for local events and activities since our start,” Jenkins says. “We have highlighted and broadcast numerous events from our local school districts,

government activities of both local cities, and non-profit causes and fundraisers just to name a few. Rarely does a large-scale community event happen in Texarkana that has not been announced or detailed on one of our local community programs.” Another local program is Heart to Heart, a talk-show with community members hosted and produced by Salli Brown, pastor’s assistant and KLFI director’s secretary. She started off as Mike Huckabee’s assistant and spent a lot of time scheduling visitors for the show until she was discovered as the perfect host.

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“We would never be here without the support of the community, and we want to say thank-you to everyone who has made that possible for the past 25 years,” Barr says. “We love being a part of what makes Texarkana a great place to work, play and raise a family.” For sponsorships or ticket information, call 870-774-3500.

New technology will make KLFI programming available not just to the community but to people around the world. “Moving this direction is what we need to do,” Barr says. “We originally wanted to spread a message of hope into people’s kitchens and living rooms, and streaming is the equivalent of that today. Men and women serving our country around the world can tune in and see their local church services. We want to grow, and we desire to continue to be a relevant part of our Texarkana community.” Tickets are on sale now at the KLFI office or Beech Street First Baptist Church. The goal is to raise enough to purchase needed equipment and make the necessary upgrades to continue “Sharing Life” with not only Texarkana, but the world. October 2013

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Dear Kendra Dear Kendra, I recently went to work for a wonderful company. There is just one problem, the woman I share a cubicle space with does not do her job and I am forced to do my work plus pick up her slack. She spends most of her work time playing on the computer or shopping online. I love this company and could see myself being here for many years to come but I cannot continue to do my job plus hers! What should I do? If I “tell on her” I’m afraid it will make my work environment hostile. Please help.

One more option for you is to divide the workload and assign the things to her that need to be done. I have never had an issue telling people what to do; it’s a blessing and a curse! Ha! I hope one of these solutions will help. Whatever you decide, keep up the good work! Love and Light, Kendra

Cubicle Woes Dear Kendra,

Dear CW, Isn’t that just the worst? I have had jobs in the past where the slackers slacked but still got paid and I did my work plus theirs with no appreciation shown monetarily or otherwise. It blows. I can see how you would be afraid to “blow the whistle” on her non-working ways for fear of how uncomfortable it would be if she found out it was you. Is it possible to NOT do her work and let the chips fall as they may? Maybe it would be worth “getting in trouble” so that management can see how much she is slacking. If that is the route you take, make sure you document every piece of work that you do so she won’t be able to “steal” your work and claim it as her own. If that is too risky, maybe you could take her out to lunch and have an open and honest conversation with her. If you choose your words wisely that could be your best option. I would suggest asking her questions about how long she has been with the company; let her tell her story of employment. Ask her what her opinions are about the workload and the company in general. If you take the time to delve into who she is (as an employee), you might find that she is a bitter employee who feels taken advantage by the company but you might also find that she is just a lazy bones that will continue to let you do her work as long as you do it. Spend time listening to her and you might get a lot of answers that will help you figure out the best way to handle this. 56

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I came home early last week to find my wife in bed with our neighbor. As you can imagine, I was pretty upset. Forget that, I was MAD. Here is the problem, I love her. I don’t want a divorce. My life seemed perfect and I am so mad at her for ruining our perfect life. What do I do? I don’t want to leave, but I am beyond hurt by her cheating. Don’t love my neighbor Dear Don’t love, I am so sorry for your pain. To be betrayed in that way by the one you pledged your life to can be one of the deepest cuts imaginable. Airhug and airhug again. I am going to hit you with a little bit of tough love, I hope that’s ok. You said your life seemed perfect and you are mad at her for ruining it. Here’s the thing, it must have only been perfect FOR YOU. Obviously, something was missing for your wife for her to step out on you. I am NOT making excuses for her; if she was unhappy she definitely should have taken a different route to let you know. But she didn’t so let’s deal with what we have. Can you forgive her for your indiscretion? Yes? Then I suggest some serious work on both of your parts to ensure it never happens again. I highly suggest a book called “The Five Love Languages” by Dr. Gary Chapman. It will help you both discover how you give

and receive love. Sometimes we think we are doing everything we can to show our spouse how much we love them when in reality we aren’t loving them the way they need to be loved, we are loving them the way WE need to be loved. We give love the way we want to receive it. For example, maybe you feel loved whenever your wife speaks words of affirmation to you. In return, you speak words of affirmation to her (i. e. I love you so much, you are so beautiful) but words of affirmation are just words to her. She feels loved when you help her with the children, or help her clean the house. Can you see the difference? We are all individuals and give and receive love in our own way (which is usually opposite from our spouse!) If you will make the effort to love your wife the way she needs to be loved, you might find a true “perfect” life and marriage.

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If you are having a hard time forgiving her, I would suggest counseling. Try going to someone that doesn’t know either of you so the advice will be completely impartial. I commend you for loving your wife and wanting to make your marriage work. One last piece of advice, make sure that her cheating wasn’t her way of trying to get out of your marriage. I don’t want you to waste your time and effort on someone that no longer deserves your time and effort.

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One of the most romantic places that I have ever been is the beautiful canal city of Venice. The problem with this is: I have never been there with my wife. We have visited Tuscany and Sicily together but, we have never been to Venice as a couple. Why is this strange? Because I have traveled to Venice at least 3 times a year and my corporate offices were based just outside the city. So, I have been there around 30 to 35 times and every time I landed at Veniceâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s Marco Polo International Airport I felt an air of excitement and the wish that someday I would return as a sightseer.

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I wish that I could dedicate this article to the pure romance and ambiance of Venice. However, the Veneto is one of the most prolific grape growing regions in the world and that’s our focus for this version. Veneto is one of twenty independent regions that grow grapes and the largest producer of DOC wine in Italy. The DOC (Denominazione Origine Controllata) is the governing body that administers the production laws and maintains the integrity of the wine from each region. Obviously, Venice is the capitol of the Veneto and the hub for some of Italy’s most famous wines. During the 60’s and 70’s the Veronese wines were a big hit in America. The most popular wine from the region would have been Soave, Bardolino and Valpolicella. Today however, Pinot Grigio is the king of all wines and the Veneto offers the best growing conditions in Italy. While there are millions of gallons of Pinot Grigio produced trough out Italy, the Veneto region has the most productive and popular wine it the country. Most of the vineyards are owned by small farmers and they sell their grapes to the larger co-operatives called “Cantine Sociale.” The big Cantinas produce the wine, bottle it and sell it. Many Cantine Sociale are owned by the growers and they make all of the winery decisions with the cooperation of a management team. This system has been in place for a couple of hundred years and offers the consumer a great quality wine at an affordable price.

While Pinot Grigio has the largest production in the Veneto, the wine that is getting the most attention (especially in America) is Prosecco, which is primarily a sparkling wine from the Valdobbiadene area. Produced from the Prosecco grape variety, this sparkling wine has an amazing rich nose of fresh cut flowers, a mouthful of crisp, clean wine and a wonderful fresh finish. In fact, one of my most memorable experiences with Prosecco happened in a little Trattoria in the town of Orderzo. We ordered a bottle of the Prosecco that we represented and, much to my horror, the lady who was serving the wine proceeded to decant our sparkling wine. Well, I opted to say nothing because I saw her decanting others. To my amazement, it was an awesome accompaniment to our entire meal. I’ve never had a better wine with baked Sea Bass. The wine was as perfect as an aperitivo and with a light apple dessert. “When in Rome, do as the Romans do.” It makes perfect sense to me. To this day I tell my customers about the decanting of the Sparkling wine. Just another experience in the Veneto... And, I’m just scratching the surface. The three major areas of the Veneto offer consumers an array of wines that range from the deep, full bodied red, like Amarone, to the soft wines of Verona. The food, the history, the romance and the smells of the region offer the visitor a valuable lesson in how to enjoy life. So, you should seriously consider a trip to the magnificent Venice… It’s Fuggetaboudit!

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Culinary Rock Star! From Top Chef, Hell’s Kitchen and Master Chef the public is led to believe that the culinary world is glamorous and celebrity filled, which could not be further from the truth. While the art of cooking is very rewarding, it is also intense and tedious. Only a few have the gumption to succeed and give it their all. Chef James King happens to be one of those chosen few. Chef James King isn’t just a superb culinary expert, but he is a culinary rock star! Chef has cooked in every region of the United States, for some of the most affluent people, yet he still credits his greatest accomplishment to the art of teaching and mentoring. Chef King got his start in the industry in 1986 and hasn’t slowed down yet! Corporate Executive Chef Julio Camberos and International Gold Medalist Chef Richard Biliyak trained Chef King in classical U.S. style. He was taught to “look at the whole picture” of the hospitality industry from sales, management, and customer service. All parts of the presentation have to be well oiled for everything to go off without a hitch. When all of these things are in order, “ The guests will have a wonderfully presented and properly cooked meal for their enjoyment.” Chef King has taken what he has learned and translated it to his teaching style. “It doesn’t do any good to keep knowledge all to ourselves. Reach one, teach one.” This is a philosophy that he understands and lives by on a day-to-day basis. He is certainly a seasoned hospitality expert who has served as a Catering Chef and Executive Chef for Sparians, New Castle Hotels & Resorts, Double Tree Hotel and most recently the Hilton Garden Inn & Texarkana Convention Center. These are just a few of Chef King’s accomplishments, but that just goes to show you how much of a culinary talent he truly is. Seared Ahi Tuna

I had the pleasure of tasting some of his crab cakes first hand, and they left me wanting more! “The menu was designed for anyone. Everyone is able to dine here.” says Chef King. If the first item off of the Hilton Garden Inn & Texarkana Convention Center was that delightful then the entire menu must be superb, and all of this coming from a seafood fanatic. When asked what his favorite foods to prepare are, he stated, “I am in in for the hospitality industry for guest satisfaction.” However, the chef’s favorite foods to eat are grilled diver scallops and anything with chocolate!” One can never go wrong with chocolate. Chef King has been married to his lovely wife for 24 years. They have been apart for seven weeks during this new venture, but the chef says that this is nothing compared to 18 months that they had to go without each other. And when you have a love as strong as theirs, the time apart does not seem as bad. And don’t be fooled, If you think that Chef King does the majority of the cooking at home, you would be wrong. His wife does just as much cooking as he does, and is extremely talented at the art of food in her own right. Together, the couple have a total of 24 exotic/ tropic birds ranging from Cockatoos, African Greys, and Macaws. One can’t even fathom owning that many exotic birds, but that just goes to show the type of extraordinary man that Chef King is. October 2013

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The Hilton Garden Inn & Texarkana Convention Center Restaurant is currently open to the public. The menu covers various types of food choices from Molasses Baked Ham to Grilled Petite Filet Mignon and Peppercorn Seasoned Merlot Demi-Glace paired with three Grilled Lemon Thyme Shrimp. That alone should have customers lining up around the corner! Basically, there is something for everyone to enjoy. Even those who need that gluten-free, lactose-free, nut–free entrée! So if you don’t see what you need to fit your special requirements, all you have to do is call the kitchen up and tell them your needs. If it is not already offered, they can cater to your needs. Where else in the area where you can conveniently call up the Chef to make a preference based on your needs? The Hilton Garden Inn & Texarkana Convention Center is looking into adding live music, opening a Starbucks inside, foodie happy hours and offering mini cooking sessions for the public. In the Hilton Garden Inn restaurant, there is an open concept with Wi-Fi, inside or outside seating, and a daily and weekly speaclity menu. Visit for yourself and see what the hype is about. “For anyone who is interested in getting in the industry, I recommend that you really get to know it first. It is not as glamorous as you see on television, and I spend at least two hours a day just reading up on the latest techniques.” As we all know, with any industry it is important that you stay current so that you don’t get left behind. Reading litature about the hospitality industry and searching the Internet is one of the best things that you can do to stay current in your chosen field. Checking the USDA constantly to see if there are new regulations or new approvals is done on a daily basis to make sure that all food is prepared appropriately by the chef’s team. “Most importantly make sure that you are learning under good people, and always stay highly eager and motivated and you will go far.” If you do not take a trip to The Texarkana Convention Center and Hilton Garden Inn for happy hour or dinner in the near future, you are cheating yourself! Chef King is truly a culinary talent, and the community is glad to have him here.

Grilled Ribeye Steak with Wild Mushroom Merlot Demi-Glace 337 Cabernet Sauvignon

Career Summary: • Executive Chef, Hilton Garden Inn &Texarkana Convention Center • Executive Chef, Concord Hospitality Enterprises • Executive Chef, Holiday Inn Albany • Executive Chef Consultant New Castle Hotels & Resorts • Executive Chef, Sparians • Chef, The Lodge at Glendorn Relais & Chateaux • Catering Chef, Gourmet Caterers • Executive Chef, Springfield Country Club • Executive Chef and Consultant, Asters Prime Steak and Seafood restaurant • Executive Chef, Marriott Hotel and Conference Center • Room Service Chef, Fairmont Hotels & Resorts • Chef/Manager, The Massachusetts State Police Academy • Executive Chef, The Beechwood Hotel • Executive Chef, Double Tree by Hilton • Senior Consultant/Executive Chef, prime Consulting and Kitchen Management Consultants

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Marini & Martinis

WHERE

Beauty and Wellness Center

WHEN

9/10/13

What? You walk around the house naked?

1. Kirk Keller and David Whitten 2. Sherrie Davison, Sue Ellen Taylor and Susan Whitten 3. Ashley Alexander, Susan and David Whitten, Monique Porter 4. Debbie Brower and Janet Mosier 5. Susan and David Whitten, Debbie Brower 6. Lauren Carmony, Connie Thomason, Ashley Alexander and Connie Walker 7. Linda Bunch and Kim Burks 8. Linda Thrapp and Pat Ballard 9. Jessica Gandy and Libby Trichel 10. Kaitlyn Keller, Heather Keller and Gina Thomason 11. Yolanda Thomas and Michele Lewis 12. Monique Porter 13. Leslie Looney Williams 14. Darla Clements 15. Kendal Dockery and David Whitten 16. Michele Lewis and David Whitten 17. Heather Keller and David Whitten 18. Yolanda Thomas and David Whitten 19. Libby Trichel and David Whitten 20. Janet Mosier and David Whitten

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EVENT Opportunities, INC

Invitational Putting Tournament WHERE

Texarkana Country Club

WHEN

9/9/13

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1. Invitational Putting Tournament 2. Steve McMillen and Art Romero 3. Ben Floyd, Sonja Hubbard and Derick Giles 4. William Morris and Alan Brown 5. Allen Clement taking a turn at putting 6. Darla and Allen Clement, and Mich and Brooke Thomas 7. Bryan Aumiller and George Henry 8. Betty Smith and Leann Rogers 9. Jillian McCullough, Lee Ann McCullough, and Rusty and Sherilyn Cotten 10. Steve McMillen and Jason Rounds 11. Tony Smith and Darla Clement 12. Houey Clement and Char Crane 13. Sonja and Bob Hubbard, Michelle Shores, and Caroline Curry 14. Lisa and Kenneth Sewell 15. Joe Nichols setting for the put 16. Trish Reed, Putting Tournament Winner: Alan Brown, and Robert Irwin: President at Guaranty Bond Bank

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2. Lucyndia Starks 3. Noble Horton and Louise Davis 4. Drew Merriman

WHERE Texarkana Country Club WHEN

1. Carol Roden, Misty Roden and Liz Rowton

5. Vice Regent Dorothy Morgan, Mary Smith, Shirley Ware and Maxine Crow

9/7/13

6. Nancy Tennison 7. Maxine Crow Receiving Award from Regent Rebecca Epps 8. Rachel Lockard, Vice Regent Dorothy Morgan and Bob Haworth

9. Becky Pendergraft and Melissa Crow 10. Maxine Crow and Patricia Mitchell 11. Shirley Ware, Macey Crow and Bettye Megason 12. Sarah Fricks, Tommie Crow, Macey Crow and

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Cereal Drive Kick Off

WHERE

Fairfield Inn & Suites

WHEN

9/17/13

1. Barbara Walker and Camille Parker 2. Jammie Campbell, Caige Cochran, Mark Cochran 3. Camille Parker, George and Nancy Coker, Kim Davis 4. Debbie Brower and Charlie McMurphy 5. Barbara Walker and Jammie Campbell 6. Barbara Walker and Janelle Williamson 7. Fairfield Staff -- Author Berkins, Jammie Campbell, Lesylie Smith, Barbara Walker, Erin Bennett, Whittney Hunter, Joe Babitzki

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The Vintage 15 is a 15-piece swing big band who puts a fresh, new twist on the classic jazz standards of Frank Sinatra, Michael Bublé, Ella Fitzgerald, and many more. We can also provide ceremony music, smooth jazz combos for dinner or cocktail hour, DJ services, on-stage lighting, and MC services.

www.vintage15.com thevintage15@gmail.com If you weren’t at the Phantom Ball last year, you missed a great performance!

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EVENT

Princess Abby Party

Temple Memorial Rehabilitation Center WHERE

WHEN

9/13/13

Princess Abby was treated to a wonderful “Princess Party” by the staff at Temple Memorial Rehabilitation Center! Abby, who is 5 years old, has been diagnosed with rhabdomyosarcoma, which is a muscle cancer. Her tumor is a skull base tumor which is now growing into her brain. She is a wonderful, happy child who deserved her “Princess Day!” She was crowned as an official Miss America Princess by the Miss Texarkana Organization’s Teen Texarkanas, Ashley Marx and Alex Miller, receiving an official Princess Crown and Sash! We would also like to thank all who donated items to make this party such a special success:

ALT Magazine -- Charlie Weems McMurphy, Jaclyn Gooding, Miranda Johnson and Debbie Brower. Burlap and Lace Event Stylings - Melissa Massey Big Jake’s BBQ Julie’s Deli Jimmy John’s Sandwiches Pop Pop Shoppe - gourmet popcorn Taste and See Super One Foods (Princess Cake) Kendal Dockery Photography Micah’s Jewelers Sticks and Stones On The Boulevard Flower Concepts by Cher Peas and Carrots Lowe’s (Princess Coloring Books) Wally’s Party Supplies Stacy James Mayo -- aka The Little Mermaid Susannah Morriss Linnett Ashley Taylor Cooper Laura Buzbee Edwards Donna and Mike Berry, Miss Texarkana Twin Rivers Organization Amy Steed Suzie Tyler Miss Teen Texarkanas Ashley Marx and Alex Miller And especially the staff at Temple Memorial who care so much about their patients!

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EVENT Women for A&M-Texarkana

Brunch and Cookbook Signing w/ Jon Bonnell

WHERE Eagle Hall WHEN

8/24/13

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1. Diane Green and Frankie Milligan 2. Erin Gloster, Taylor Pickle, Sumer Johnson and Morgan Norfleet 3. Melissa Estes and Lekia Jones 4. Jeraldine Scott, Pat Wagy and Laura Spencer 5. Betty Hlavinka, Janie Matteson and Laura LaCroix 6. Author and Chef Jon Bonnell 7. Judy Morgan and Dee Reece 8. Rachael Schwarts, Liz Friday, Vicki Huckabee and LeAnn Wright 9. Venitia Kennedy and Lindley Southard 10. Erica Cain, Cindy Porter and Jill Whittington 11. Diane Green and Texarkana, TX Mayor Bob Bruggeman 12. Chef Nefer Gonzalez 13. Whitney Fuqua, Sally Patton and Joan Carter 14. Debra Clark, Gert Leaks, Chef Nefer Gonzalez, Eliane Willis, Barbara Boyd and Thuy Doan 15. Joan Carter 16. School Ambassadors: Garret Wilson, Tayloy Gulley, Elizabeth Vargas, Erin Gloster, Lindley Southard, Venitia Kennedy, Morgan Norfleet, Taylor Pickle and Sumer Johnson 17. Taylor Pickle 18. Judy Morgan 19. Chef Jon Bonnell 20. Dr. Emily Cutrer, President of Texas A&M of Texarkana

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Texarkana Teens Achieve Ambassador Scout Girl Scout Troop 2259 of Texarkana, USA --The highest level of Girl Scouting, Ambassador Scout, has been achieved by three Texarkana teenagers: Maria Harrison, Brenda Heminger, and Mikayla Shelton. The girls have each been a Girl Scout for twelve years. They saved their cookie money for the last three years and worked fund raisers in order to take their senior trip on a Caribbean cruise and complete their Gold Award projects. The Gold Award is the highest level of achievement in Girl Scouts and is the equivalent of the Eagle Scout award in Boy Scouts. Less than 1% of girls registered in Girl Scouts achieve the Ambassador level. Â Â

HealthSouth Technology Event

1. Judith Ramos, Kelsi Heinrich and Greg Burt

EVENT

2. Chad Jennings, Leigh McCall and Kristy Sharp 3. Jeri Brocker, Audra Ellis and Jamie Attaway 4 Hardik Acharya and Melanie Burt

WHERE

HealthSouth Rehab

5. Todd Wallace, Ruth Jeffreys and Laura Knight

WHEN

9/12/13

7. Sha Quinn, Laura Jenkins, Jerry McKinzie MD, Kim

6. Kristy Sharp, Jim Spain and Tonya Greene McMahen, Jeannie Carter, Sam McKamie and Jeff Wright

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WHERE C2C Construction Services LLC WHEN

8/20/13

Stuff the Bus Sponsored by Altrusa EVENT

WHERE Texarkana Resources for the Disabled WHEN

8/13/13

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1. Barbara Yates, Jenn Freeman and Emile Freeman 2. Sponsors James and Debbie Herrington, Susan and Dennis Landreaux, Diane and Curt Green 3. Leitha Herring, Curt Green and Jan Price 4. Claudia Snow, Sue Beck and Dorothy Langdon 5. Gordon Allen, Pete Snow, Larry Bunn and Robin Beck 6. George and Jan Lavender 7. Tyler Arnold and Kathi Couch 8. George and Julia Carpenter

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EVENT New Millennium Building

Systems Annual Employee Picnic

WHERE Texarkana, TX Convention Center WHEN

8/24/13

1. Debbie Brower and Sharon North 2. Amy Powell and Brandy Brooks 3. Stacy Harding and Patricia Ortiz 4. Brady Broom, Homer Zartman and Ken Jones 5. Stephen Meeks, Trisha Berkshire, Jay Berkshire and Dennis Siers 6. Gerald, Melinda and Koby Venable 7. Michael, Ningwi, Dylan and Nicholas Winarta 8. Gerardo and Juana Jimenez 9. Brian and Cindy Morehead 10. Chuck Mullins, Greg Mullins and Scott Phillips 11. Bubba Thompson, Homer Zartman and Cliff Hull 12. Melinda Venable and Becky Claytor

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Duck Race

WHERE

Holiday Springs Water Park

WHEN

8/24/13

Over 8,300 yellow ducks were adopted for the 24th Annual Great Texarkana Duck Race. The event raised approximately $30,000 which benefits the W. Temple Webber Cancer Treatment Center. First place winner, Langdon Davis Law Firm, took home the 2013 Hyundai Elantra from Orr Hyundai of Texarkana; second place winner, Stacey Breedlove, won a $1,000 Gift Card to Super 1 Foods; Tyann Ryan won the third place prize, $1,000 Gift Certificate for Laundry & Dry Cleaning from Holiday Cleaners; fourth place went to Latange Watson, a 43” Slim Plasma TV from Lafferty’s Home Center; fifth place, Trollbeads Bracelet from Alexander’s Jewelers, was won by David Godwin. Many thanks to the Duck Adoptees, Associates, and volunteers who helped make the 24th Annual Great Texarkana Duck Race a fun and successful event! 1. Racing Ducks 2. Trish and Tim Reed, Kelly Rose 3. Susan Landreaux, Chris Karam, and Cristy Lummus 4. Jim Pomeroy, CHRISTUS St. Michael Duck, and Father Lawrence Chellaian 5. Duck Race Winners: Langdon Davis Law Firm, Tyann Ryan, CHRISTUS St. Michael Duck, Latange Watson, Stacy Breedlove, David Godwin, and Susan Landreaux 6. CHRISTUS St. Michael Duck

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The Texarkana Humane Society is a non-profit volunteer organization dedicated to re-homing orphaned animals, promoting the human-animal bond, preventing animal cruelty, educating children and adults about responsible pet ownership and preventing pet overpopulation. In order to reduce the number of unwanted animals and the euthanization of them at the shelter people need to spay/neuter their pets. The Texarkana Humane Society has a program to help individuals do this and urge everyone to get involved and tell your neighbor, family, and friends to be responsible and do their part in putting a stop to this problem here in our city. Have them contact us regarding our program. Call 903 8386334 and we will be glad to help you.

The Texarkana Humane Society is always needing volunteers as well as foster homes. If you would like to get involved and lend a helping hand they would love to talk with you. They are also needing the following items to help with the care of all the babies that come into foster: Puppy and kitten chow, formula for the babies, animal baby bottles, as well as monetary or debit card donations. We have a big need for individuals who have the time to bottle feed some of these babies. It is so sad when we cannot take any in because we are full and would welcome a few more bottle moms. It is a great expereince as well as very rewarding taking care of these little ones. If you can help with donations or feeding call Sherrie at 903 838-6334. Volunteers who agree to provide a foster home for our strays are provided with medical care for the animals. The Humane Society pays for all immunizations and spays or neuters the animal.

Texarkana Humane Society

Our goal is to place these animals in permanent homes with responsible, loving pet owners. All of our services are provided through private donations from our community. Donations are accepted and needed! Our animal friends appreciate you and your donations are tax deductible! (The Humane Society is all volunteers and all money goes towards the animals.) Weâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;ve got a full house! Please come visit us! You might find the addition your family has been looking for! Do you have an animal that needs a new home? Please donâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;t neglect it! Call us and let us help you find a foster home. We will list your animal on our Facebook page at no charge. Let us help! For more information, contact Sherrie Thompson, President, at 903.838.6334, or go to www. texarkanahumanesociety.com. Weâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;re also on Facebook!

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1. Baby is a precious little girl that is a little over a year old. She weighs 8 pounds, is spayed, current on shots and housebroken. She is use to being around other cats and dogs. She is an inside cat. For more info please call Sherrie at 903-838-6334. 2. Trudy is a pretty little shepherd mix that is around 7 months old. She is spayed, current on shots, heartworm negative and weighs 26 pounds. This little girl loves to play and is full of energy. She is doing good on her training. A fenced yard is required. For more info call Amber at 903949-9389. 3. Snowball is a little terrier mix that is around 7 months old. She is spayed, current on shots, heartworm negative and is on preventative. She has also been microchipped. This little lady weigh around 23 pounds, is good with other dogs and is housetrained. For more info call Amber at 903949-9389. 4. Sissy is a little Pom mix around a year old. She weighs

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14 pounds, spayed, fully vetted, heartworm negative and microchipped. She is housetrained, gets along well with other dogs but is still a little shy. A fenced yard is required. For more info call Sherrie at 903-838-6334. 5. Orey is a handsome 10 month old Lab/retriever mix weighing 43 pounds. We rescued from him from our local shelter and he is truly a great pup. He is neutered, current on shots, heartworm negative and microchipped. He is working on his housetraining, gets along with other dogs and would be a great addition to any family. A fenced yard is required. For more info call Jerry at 870-773-3740. 6. Look at our newcomer, this is little Lenny. He is a 3 year old Shih Tzu mix, weighing around 15 pounds. This handsome little fella is fully vetted, he is neutered, current on shots, heartworm negative and has been microchipped. Lenny is doing great on housetraining, walking on a leash and loves to play with other dogs and gets along well with cats. For more info call Sherrie, 903 838-6334. A fenced

yard is required. 7. Izzy is an 11 pound Boston terrier mix that was rescued from our local shelter. She is spayed, heartworm negative, microchipped and current on all her shots. She is 2 years old. This sweet girl would be a great addition to any family. Fenced yard required. For more info call Amber at 903949-9389. 8. Luna is a blue chihuaha mix weighing in at 8.3 pounds. This precious little girl is full of love and has lots of energy. She is housetrained, current on shots, gets along great with other dogs and would be a great addition to any family. For more info call Christine at 903-278-6575. 9. Zoe is a 35 pound heeler mix that is full of love. She has been spayed, current on shots, heartworm negative and is microchipped. She is being worked with on her crate training, walking on leash, gets along with other dogs and is eager to please. A fenced yard is required. For more info call Amber at 903-949-9389.

1. Benji is a male Terrier mix. He’s one of the sweetest pups at the pound. You will constantly say, “Good boy!” with him... 2. Bruce is a male Terrier mix. He’s not even a year old, yet, and ready for a family to love him. 3. Buddy is a male Pugle (Pug/Beagle mix.) He loves to play fetch, cuddle and has a wonderful

“This month we’re featuring some very sweet babies that desperately need a good home. They have all been here far too long and are all VERY sweet. Please help!!!” -Miss Bertha Animal Care & Adoption Center Who else can help? Artex Animal Welfare, Inc. (mostly horses) 903.824.1990 Little Paws Rescue 903-280-3083 Poodle Patch & Friends poodlepatch@yahoo.com Passion for Pooches (mostly small dogs) 903.832.8632 Texarkana Animal League 877.525.4825 Texarkana Reptile and Amphibian Rescue 903.809.3761

temperment around people and other dogs. 4. Coco is a female Chocolate Labrador Retriever. She’s ready for a companion and someone to work with her! 5. Galileo is a male Pit mix. He loves adventures, to explore and would love to be someone’s sidekick! 6. Jeff is a male Wirehaired Terrier. He’s a happy

The mission of the Animal Care & Adoption Center of Texarkana, Arkansas is to be a technologically advanced, self sustaining, human and animal friendly facility that specializes in personal customer service from a team of knowledgeable, caring individuals who endeavor to achieve rapid placement of all adoptable animals. We are always in need of caring, capable volunteers to assist in with duties at the center, adoption events, fund-raising activities and more. Your tax-deductible donation will help care for and assist in the adoption of loving animals to good homes!

The Animal Care & Adoption Center of Texarkana, Arkansas is located at 203 Harrison, Texarkana, AR, 71854. For more information, call Connie Slater at 870.773.6388, or visit www.animalcareadoptioncenter.org. We’re also on Facebook! We’re open Monday-Saturday from 10:00 - 5:00. Please note, all dogs adopted from this shelter MUST be spayed or neutered. Spays cost $89-$104, neuters are $76-$92 depending on the weight of the dog.

How can you help the THS? The Texarkana Humane Society is always in need of dry food for puppies, dogs, cats and kittens, scoopable cat litter and litter boxes, collars, leashes, toys, beds, heartworm and flea medications, gift cards and monetary donations. These donations are all tax deductible, as the Texarkana Humane Society is a 501c3 organization. If your are interested in donating, helping with events, fostering or working fundraisers call Sherrie at (903) 838-6334.

dog who will be very loyal, brave and attentive. 7. Hercules is a male Pit Bull mix. He about a year and a half old, so he’s full grown, loves to play with tennis balls, people and run. He’s a lovable little guy!

8. Jibbit is a male Picanese mix. He’s bubbly and high energy, loves people, dogs and new places. 9. Rambo is a male Chihuahua. He is a small dog with a big, guard dog heart. He’ll be loving by your side. 10. Safire is a female Terrier mix. She’s a happy, but cautious dog. She’s ready for love! 11. Roscoe is a male German Shepherd. He’s well behaved, calm and relaxed. 12. Smog is a male Pit Bull. He loves to be excercised, so he’s a great walker, friendly and easger to please. 13. Sofia is a female Pit mix. She’s medium energy, striking, with blue, Husky eyes, and good with other dogs. 14. Spanky is a male Terrier mix. He’s a gentleman, very well behaved and sweet. 15. Taco is a male Chihuahua. He has a gentle spirit, not high energy, and would love a chance to be loved!

Guess what, Scarlett got adopted! The Smith family had been looking at her for some time. Shawn and his son, Jude, came out to meet with her at our PetSmart adoption event. Scarlett and Jude had a really good time together playing ball and he loved this little girl. Not to mention they all three have something in common, did you notice the haircolor??? Thanks to the Smi th family! We know you will gets lots of love from our sweet Scarlett. Cour tesy of the Texarkana Hum ane Society

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Renaissance Fair at the Four States FairEntertainment Center.

Oct 5

Motown Revue at Texarkana Country Club from 7:00PM to 10:00PM. This event will take you back in time as you listen and dance to the sounds of Motown played by Windstorm. Mark your calendars and make plans to attend. For more information, 870-773-3889.

Oct 5

The American Cancer Society’s Stateline Stampede Cattle Barons Ball, 7:00PM at Bandana Ranch. Live entertainment, including headliner EMERSON DRIVE! Gourmet cowboy cuisine by Eddie Deen & Co. Catering. Silent auction, bid board, live auction, games and prizes, open bar, Western dress. Wear your boots and jeans! Please help us in our fight to find a cure for cancer!! For more information, 903-277-1602.

Oct 5-6

The 2013 Home and Garden Show at the Holiday Inn Hotel and Texarkana Convention Center. For more information, 903-223-0422.

Oct 8

22nd Annual Taste of Texarkana at the Four States Fairgrounds from 5:00-8:00PM features 40 local restaurants, beer vendors, and wineries along with cooking demonstrations. Tickets are available at Bryce’s Cafeteria, Vincent’s Fine Wines, Dot’s Ace Hardware, Julie’s Deli, Flour Child Fine Foods, all TEXAR locations, and Harvest Texarkana. All proceeds benefit the Harvest Texarkana Regional Food Bank. For more information, 870-774-1398.

Oct 12

“Jeans & Bling” features Live Music, Dancing, a Couple’s Dance Competition, a Live Auction, Huge Raffle Prizes, Drinks and Heavy Hors d’oeuvres from the area’s Best Restaurants. Tickets are $50 each and all proceeds benefit Hospice of Texarkana’s “Building on the Vision” capital campaign. Fun event is hosted at the Ramage Farms Barn venue. Attire: Jeans and your favorite bling encouraged. 7:00PM. For more information, 903-794-4263.

Oct 18-19

Komen race for the Cure- Pasta Party at 7:00PM. For more information, 903-792-7191.

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Chamber Explorations Texarkana USA presents Discover Ireland. For more information, 903-792-7191.

Oct 26

Keep Texarkana Beautiful & City Beautiful Make A Difference Day. This is a Community wide event (both Texarkana, TX & Texarkana, AR) to make efforts to find a project and make Texarkana USA a cleaner city. 9:00AM to 1:00PM. For more information, 903-277-5780.

Oct 26

2013 Greater Texarkana Branch (NAACP) Freedom Fund Awards Banquet at the Texarkana Convention Center. 2013 Annual Freedom Fund Awards Banquet. Keynote Speaker is Myrlie Evers-Williams. Banquet Theme: We Shall Not Be Moved. Social Hour starts at 6:00PM. For more information, 903832-6964.

Oct 31

Halloween Nov 1-10

Tex*Rep presents 12 Angry Jurors at Texarkana College, Stilwell Theatre. Frday/ Saturday at 7:30. Sunday at 2:00.

Nov 2

CASA for Children is holding Texarkana’s very first color run on Trinity Baptist Church’s cross country track - the CASA Colorful 5K. Registration will begin at 7:30AM and the run kicks off at 8:00. Runners will enjoy powder stations of different colored, washable, non-toxic powder on their cross country run. Participants are encouraged to wear all white clothing or costumes so during the run they can be “poofed” with a rainbow of color. The race will begin under a huge cloud of color as each runner explodes their own color packet. Families will have the opportunity to walk a colorful mile and enjoy a fun children’s area with lots of activities. There will also be concessions available for purchase. Online registration available at www.casatexarkana.org or contact Stephanie Fussell for more information or registration at stephaniefussell@casatexarkana.org.

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48 Briarwood Circle

Perfect home in Pleasant Grove, this home has so much quality and craftsmanship, along with well planned space. 4 bedrooms and 3 full baths. Super Area, close to golf ranch, schools and TAMUT. Priced to sell & move-in ready!

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This Redlick gem offers all the beauty of living in the country with all the perks, and you will love the European influence in the kitchen. Well planned storage throughout, this home is super energy efficient, and the laundry is so user friendly this is Pinterest Heaven! Bathrooms galore, and a detached garage, in addition to the 2 Car attached. Too many unique features to list.

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EMBRACING TECHNOLOGY 1. LiteGait® System: Partial weight-bearing gait therapy device that allows a therapist the ability to move patients from a seated position to proper upright posture to walk. 2. Dynavision D2 Training System®: Used for both motor and cognitive functional impairments by increasing upper extremity range of motion and coordination, muscular and physical endurance and improved motor planning. 3. SaeboFlex®: Promotes increased function in shoulder, elbow, wrist and hand through dynamic splinting combined with creative exercises. 4. Hand Mentor®: The first Active Repetitive Motion™ device designed to improve stroke rehabilitation by encouraging self-initiated motion in the write and fingers, and assisting movement only when necessary. 5. Bioness H200®: Non-invasive device uses electrical stimulation to reeducate muscles and reduce spasticity, helping patients improve hand function and voluntary movement.

With the most sophisticated treatments and technology from HealthSouth Hospitals, patients can regain function, balance, strength, focus, proper gait, and so much more. For maximum results and restored hope for a higher quality of life, choose HealthSouth Rehabilitation Hospital of Texarkana.