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There is a depth in the Quran which truly surpasses understanding.
After more than 1400 years since the revelation of Quran we see the world developing so differently from what should be expected.
For example just the simple revelation of the significance of shura. of mutual consultation, in human affairs we find being implemented by societies which proclaim either to be Christian or holding to no religion at all. Agnostics and atheists have come to the implementation of shura after hundreds of years of conflict and division.
Great Islamic scholars have insisted upon its importance across the ages, down to the writings of Said Nursi in the 20th century, to little avail amongst the Muslims. Yet even the heartlands of imperialism, Britain, France and the USA have to some degree, sought to implement it.
The Islamicity Foundation, incorporated in 2018 but working since 2010, is finding something of the same phenomenon.
Taking quantifiable principles of Islam in five fields, Economics, Law & Governance, Human & Political Rights, and International Relations, the researchers checked how well countries were implementing them in the real world.
The results were shocking and remain shocking.
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• New Zealand was at number 1 overall ranking in 2019 and was still number 1 in 2021. It is followed by Denmark, Ireland, Iceland and Sweden.
• Australia is ranked in 2021 at 11, dropping from 10 in 2019.
• The highest overall ranking Muslim majority country in 2019 was UAE at 44, improved to 43 by 2021.
• Malaysia at 45 improved to 39 by 2021.
• Qatar at 111 in 2014 had improved markedly, to 50 by 2022.
• India, home to many millions of Muslims under the BJP, in 2019 ranked 88 but was worse by 2021 at 98.
In the index “Economy” includes many major social justice factors such as equal access to education and health care, economic opportunity and provision of aid to meet basic human need.
•The top ten ranking countries ranked were high on this as well, excluding expensive Iceland. Australia at an overall ranking of 11 ranked 14 on this factor, a bit better than Canada on 19.
• UAE came in at 17 but Malaysia was at 35. Indonesia was at 54 and rich Saudi Arabia ranked at 51.
• Iran was at 134, worse than Afghanistan at 132.
• The median ranking for Muslim majority countries was 96, better than the overall rating.
Islamicity Foundation states: “Our mission is to stimulate peaceful reform in Muslim countries by encouraging effective institutions.”
It continues: “We address this disconnect between the teachings of the Qur’an and the practice of Islam in the Muslim World. Our approach is to establish a benchmark (a collection of rules), based on the Qur’an and the life of the Prophet Mohammad, which Muslims can use to assess the governance and policies of their countries to establish effective institutions.” http:// islamicity-index.org/wp/
What has happened to the world in which secular even self-proclaimed non-religious states reflect more Islamic benchmarks than the Muslim majority states?
Indeed much of the advance towards the Islamic benchmarks has occurred since theocratic control of the developed states was cast off.
“But what is happening? How are so-called disbelievers, even agnostics and atheists – who presumably do not read the Qur’an – complying with principles embodied in it? “
An anonymous article sets the hypothesis
“People in secular countries are not following the Qur’an as we know it, but the guidance that is inspired in them by God (91:710). They submit to the intellect, conscience, and permanent values, and in a community, make collective decisions through a consensus of like-minded submitters. “ [18 April 2022 Signs Magazine]
This internal moral compass guides them towards the benchmarks consistent with that internal guide.
“This reality has been described in the Quran as ‘clear revelations in the hearts of those who have been given knowledge.’(29:49).
According to Wahiduddin Khan in his Introduction to the Translation of the Qur’an: “This means that the Divine Reality, explained by the Quran on a conscious plane, pre-exists in man at the level of the subconscious. The message of the Quran is not,
therefore, something which is alien to man. It is in fact a verbal expression of that same Divine Reality which is in consonance with man’s own nature and with which he is already familiar.”
“The Quran, for man, is in essence already known to him, rather than an entirely unknown entity. In reality, the Quran is the unfolding of the human mind.”
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The anonymous author of the article argues: “The results of the Islamicity study are a clear sign of using the internal guidance embedded in all of us. This, as the results show, matters – more than belief – in creating a society and nation in-line with Islamic principles. It’s the basis for our interaction with others in our immediate communities, our nation, and the whole world, whereas belief is the basis of our personal and private relationship with God. [18 April 2022 Signs Magazine]
O believers! Whoever among you abandons their faith, Allah will replace them with others who love Him and are loved by Him [Quran 5:54]
The author is a prominent Australian Muslim scholar and activist.
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Israel supporters have been out in force condemning the depiction of IDF troops as cold-blooded murderers. However, in defence of the film, it’s based on a real life inspired account, and tells the story of 14 year old Palestinian ‘Farha’. Farha lives with her father who is the mayor of the small village where they live. She sits on a swing with her best friend Fareeda talking about their dreams, Farha wants to go to school and get an education. She hopes that her father will give her permission, and in the background, there is tension between Israeli and Arab militia. Eventually, Farha’s father grants her permission, and she is ecstatic of the news, she
shares this with Fareeda but then explosions can be heard and within minutes the village is thrown into chaos, as everyone tries to flee. Farha refuses to go and decides to stay with her father, however, her father is preparing to fight and so he locks her in the pantry and tells her this is the safest place for her and that he will be back.
The rest of the film is about Farha’s ‘incarceration’ in this small room, where she can see what is happening outside through a small window and a crack in the door.
The film starts well, the cinematic quality is very high, as we establish characters, Farha played by Karam Taher, is endearing, she is strong and defiant, and full of hope. In some ways she symbolises the
Palestinian struggle. Her father is stoic, he is traditional but also loves his daughter and wants the best for her future. Fareeda is a sweet and loyal friend and her dreams are also about to be shattered. There is anticipation in the air in the opening few scenes, since the viewer knows that an outbreak of fighting is imminent.
However, about ten minutes into the film, I have to be brutally honest, I felt the casting of secondary actors was poor and direction was mediocre. Especially with the IDF soldiers, this inadvertently weakened the impact of the key scenes which all the controversy is about.
Farha comes across as a student film, and I suspect the budget was very low. However, this does not take
anything away from what she witnessed.
In saying that, Taher does a fairly good job as Farha, as she withstands days of isolation and frustration in her tiny makeshift prison cell. In a way, she represents the closed and locked up voice of the Palestinians whose claims of the Nakbah of 1948 have been dismissed for the past 74 years. And that Israel’s creation was built on terror and injustice.
The film has sparked criticism from Israeli supporters, which was predictable. I think it is always healthy for films to initiate robust public discourse and for the Palestinian Question to be back on the agenda, whether it will make a difference to the fight, is yet another matter, we need to
keep the conversation going and pushing the Palestinian narrative to ensure that the Palestinian cause is not forgotten.
The Nakbah of 1948 was a turning point in world politics, it was one of several great post world war two tragedies that has left a lasting legacy on generations. It is an event in which natural justice has been denied to a very proud and strong people, who have an history that dates back two millennia. While the film was not extraordinary or a masterpiece, it certainly, is the first time that a film has raised the massacres of the Nakbah into the mainstream arena, thanks to Netflix. I’d like to see more films like this and hope that the truth is always allowed to be told.
As a starting point, it is essential to mention here that our character is a product of our habits that can produce our effectiveness or ineffectiveness. In the words of Aristotle, “we are what we repeatedly do. Excellence, then, is not an act, but a habit.”
Accordingly, why don’t we aim to achieve excellence and change our bad habits to good habits to achieve effectiveness in our life and work?
Changing a habit can be an extremely painful task. To overcome this challenge, this change must be motivated by a strong commitment that should be linked to your high purpose. Then, the willingness to prioritise what you think you want to achieve now for what you know you want later. Afterward, once you start executing the activities that are closely tied to your purpose, your effectiveness will increase considerably.
As you enter the gates of change, choose for yourself new habits, be
As a leader, you may become overwhelmed in your top leadership position. To succeed, you need to learn to navigate the external factors that are hindering your leadership position and the internal factors that lie within yourself. You will become happier and healthier if you have more control over both your personal and professional life.
patient and have faith in yourself as it will take time to get used to it. But I assure you that you will see prompt results.
The first habit you need is to connect your character to ethical values that help you cultivate integrity, justice, courage, humility, fidelity, justice, and patience and ultimately you build your ethical personality. If there isn’t goodness behind what you do, the challenges of life and human relationship failure will replace short and long-term successes.
A second habit is to think win-win.
According to Covey, this paradigm requires three traits:
The first trait requires integrity which can be the core of your personality and the values that you follow. To achieve this, you need
This is not possible unless you start changing your current leadership paradigm. This change can be related to your character and therefore there is a process to follow so you can achieve success. It is a huge challenge though and involves several steps.
to keep meaningful promises to yourself and to others, and always do what you say you are going to do. This trait is easy to attain after you start practising the first habit by connecting your character to ethical values.
The second trait is maturity which represents the balance between courage and consideration: you have to have empathy to accept the success of others, the goodwill to work for a win for others, and enough courage to make a win for yourself.
The third trait is abundance mentality: this trait is essential for everyone to practice as it will save a lot of conflicts and help individuals tolerate each other. It requires a selfless feeling and a belief that there is plenty out there for everyone. Unfortunately, many people do not think this way, they think that to succeed themselves,
others must fail. The abundance mentality according to Covey recognises that possibilities for growth and success are potentially limitless and sees in others the opportunity to complement their own strengths.
Win/win is a powerful leadership tool that good leaders use.
Often, we cannot adopt a new habit until we are convinced that is better than the one we hold and let go of the old one. As we sincerely seek to understand and start integrating these two habits into our lives, we need to think differently, to shift our paradigm to a new level of thinking.
Once we have embraced this new level of thinking, we can start leading by principles not by practices. This requires first a change in our paradigm and adoption of a new mindset, and the payoff is more productive work, expertise, and shared responsibility.
Amnesty International, we were fortunate to be able to invite two survivors of these prison camps to come to Australia to tell their own harrowing stories.
Omar Bekali and Kalbinur Sidik, have made it their own mission to tell the world about what is going on in Western China, as first hand eye-witnesses, describing the horrible human rights abuses being committed by the Xi Jinping regime.
We have all heard about the Draconian concentration camps detaining Uyghur Muslims in East Turkestan (which is occupied by China).
Mr Bekali spent 8 months in the prison camp, subjected to excruciating torture techniques.
would amount to torture and/or other forms of illtreatment.”
Ms Sidik, who was initially employed to teach Mandarin in the camps, was forced to be sterilised, she spoke about mass sterilisations taking place, women were being forced to take medications that were making young women ill. Also many women are forced to abort their pregnancies and those who defy the authorities are made to pay exorbitant fines for having more than two children.
East Turkestan is China’s largest region, covering one-sixth of its total territory, with a population of 25.85 million. It is rich in resources such as coal, gas, oil, lithium, zinc and lead, as well as being a major source of agricultural production, such as of cotton. It is on the famed Silk Road.
The Uyghurs are a Turkic people adhering to Islam. They have been practising Islam for centuries, tracing their religious influence to the Karahanid Empire, which ruled Central Asia from the 9th to the 13th century.
Under the guise of reeducation 1 million Uighurs have been rounded up and placed indefinitely into these prisons, many being arbitrarily tortured and subjected to human rights abuses.
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He said, “I was placed in a metal chair called the Tiger Chair. My arms were bound and then they stuck needles into my fingernails. They tried to get me to confess to terrorism charges but I never confessed. Then they stuck a metal pin in my penis and in my toe nails.”
The two survivors spoke outside State Library of Victoria at a protest rally, were also joined by World Uyghur Congress spokesperson, Zumretay Artekin. There were roughly 100 people in support
According to official Chinese records, there are 12 million Uyghurs, representing almost half the population in East Turkestan aka Xinjiang. A recent report published in Xinhua news agency stated that the population increased from 5.5 million to 12 million in the last 40 years.
In 1953 Chinese census data showed that 97 percent of the 1.5 million people in the city of Kashgar were Uyghurs, while 99 percent of the 700,000 people in Hotan were Uyghurs.
In China, it has been officially referred to as the Xinjiang Uyghur Autonomous Region (XUAR) since 1955. Xinjiang is a Chinese word meaning “New Frontier”. The actual name is East Turkestan. Other ethnic groups including Han Chinese, Kazakhs (pictured), Kyrgyz, Mongols, Tajiks, Uzbeks and Tatars also live in the area.
Approx. 1 million men and women have been placed into these “camps”. What occurs is systematic torture; beatings, sleep deprivation, water torture and needles in fingernails and electrocution. The inmates are indoctrinated into Chinese culture and ideology and either they or their families are threatened with abuse if they do not comply. Currently, every city and town in ‘Xinjiang’ is excessively monitored with CCTV facial recognition cameras, there are check points on every entry road in and out of suburbs and mosques and schools have been closed.
and called upon the Australian government to take action and condemn China’s human rights abuses. Ms Artekin called the Chinese policy as genocide.
Thousands of unaccompanied minors have been placed in special orphanages which are designed to brainwash the children into loving China and hating their own culture and religion.
Ratnam MP Leader of the Victorian GreensThe 2022 UN report on XUAR has found that, “Two-thirds of the twenty-six former detainees interviewed, reported having been subjected to treatment that
Rally organizer Kuranda Seyit, said, “We call what is happening in Western China to the Uyghurs a genocide because their objective is to exterminate the Uyghur people. Although, when we hear the word ‘genocide’ we often think of massacres and gas chambers. However, the Uyghur Genocide, unlike genocides of the past, takes a more sinister shape; The Chinese government has embarked on a campaign to reduce birth rates through forced sterilization and use of IUDs, forced abortions, and fines in the thousands of dollars for having more than 2 children. The birth rate in East Turkestan has dropped 60% in the past three years. This form of genocide is much more insidious than direct mass killings.”
Amnesty International’s research has found examples of forced labour in Xinjiang, as has research from UN Special Rapporteur and others. As the government reviews the Modern Slavery Act, it is imperative that they strengthen it to ban imports made with forced labor, including imports from Xinjiang.
You can help by doing three things:
1- Post as much on social media as possible to raise awareness of these atrocities.
2- Boycott Chinese goods made by forced Uyghur labour.
3- Write to your local Federal MP and urge them to push for an independent investigation into crimes against humanity in Xinjiang.
The following website are useful.
https://uyghurnextgen.org/ http://www.etaa.org.au/ https://www.hrw.org/ https://www.amnesty.org.au/
Victorians are being urged to never leave kids in hot cars and to follow simple steps to stay safe from the heat this summer, as new data reveals there has been 113 callouts to locked cars in November.
Ahead of this summer’s first run of extreme heat, Minister for Ambulance Services Gabrielle Williams today launched the Survive the Heat and Never Leave Kids in Cars campaigns.
Last summer, Ambulance Victoria paramedics were called to 410 reports of people locked in cars across the state and children below the age of 13 made up 92.5 per cent of cases.
A child’s body temperature rises three to five times faster than an adult, and the temperature inside a parked car can be 20 to 30 degrees hotter than it is outside. That’s why parents should always take their kids and pets with them whenever they get out of their car – just as they do with their valuables.
Parents should also be aware that leaving the windows down has little effect on the inside temperature, with tests showing that when windows are left open 10 centimetres, the inside temperature will only reduce by five degrees.
Extreme heat kills more Victorians than any other natural disaster with heatwaves particularly dangerous when coupled with high overnight temperatures as they can
interfere with our body’s natural ability to cool down and cause heat illness.
Heat illness can include heat cramps and heat exhaustion – which, if left untreated, can lead to heatstroke. Heatstroke is fatal in up to 80 per cent of cases, but it is preventable.
There are simple steps we can all take to reduce the chance of heat illness like staying hydrated, spending time in cool, air-conditioned buildings, planning ahead and keeping up to date with weather forecasts and checking in on those most at risk in the heat like older people or young children.
Call triple zero (000) if you or someone you know is showing signs of heat exhaustion or heatstroke. You can also speak to NURSE-ON-CALL (1300 606 024) or your doctor for general medical advice during extreme heat.
For more tips on surviving the heat, visit: betterhealth.vic.gov.au/campaigns/ survive-heat.
For more information on the Never Leave Kids in Cars, visit: betterhealth.vic.gov. au/campaigns/never-leave-kids-in-cars.
“All Victorians can stay safe this summer by following simple steps to beat the heat – drink plenty of water, stay somewhere cool, and plan ahead.”
“It’s simple: never leave your kids alone in a car – the consequences can be deadly.”Minister for Ambulance Services Gabrielle Williams Said.
We’ve reached the end of 2022! December has been a time of reflection, connection, celebration and planning, for both the VMC and the community.
This month, we farewelled the Hon. Ros Spence MP, Minister for Multicultural Affairs. I’d like to express my heartfelt appreciation to the Minister for her commitment to multicultural and multifaith communities in Victoria. Her leadership was especially appreciated during the most difficult times of this pandemic, when our state’s multicultural communities were disproportionately impacted.
We also welcomed a new Minister for Multicultural Affairs, The Hon. Colin Brooks. We were pleased to meet with Minister Brooks this month at the VMC end of year event at the Islamic Museum of Australia. The Minister thanked the VMC for our work this year, and expressed his desire for ongoing collaboration. We look forward to these opportunities in 2023.
In addition to Minister Brooks, the VMC passed on our congratulations to all new Ministerial appointments following the state election in November, including the Minister for Mental Health, Minister for Employment and the returning Premier. We plan
to engage with all Ministers on the VMC’s key strategies, as multicultural communities must be considered by the whole of Government across services, policy and communication.
I’d like to take this opportunity to thank a group of community leaders who have tirelessly advocated for multicultural communities this year - the eight Regional Advisory Councils, Multifaith Advisory Group and Multicultural Youth Network. On behalf of the VMC, I thank you for your relentless efforts, commitment and passion for inclusion.
This year saw a return to many inperson community events, workshops, forums and meetings with the easing of COVID-19 restrictions across the
state, country and world. I am sure you would agree that being able to connect in person is something we will never take for granted again. To connect in person not only creates sense of community and belonging, but helps us to build understanding, respect and intercultural relations. This leads to deeper partnerships across our very diverse communities, and are vital networks during times of crisis.
It was inspiring to see the community emerge stronger from tragedies such as the pandemic, bushfires and recent floods this year. Much of this resilience can be attributed to community groups and leaders working together to advocate, support and rebuild. While we continue our recovery from
the COVID-19 pandemic, I remind everyone that it is not over yet. The end of the year sees many cultural, religious and workplace celebrations, along with travel and gatherings of loved ones. We must ensure we continue to protect our community by being COVIDsafe during this time and I encourage everyone to stay up to date with the latest advice.
On that note, I wish everyone a safe and joyful festive season, and a happy and healthy start to 2023.
Clr Khal Asfour MayorThank you, Viv Nguyen The VMC’s End of Year reflection event held at the Islamic Museum of Australia and attended by new Minister for Multicultural Affairs, the Hon. Colin Brooks
There’s nothing inherently bad about setting a New Year’s resolution. Things can get problematic when you’re doing it from a place of pressure or obligation -- when you feel like you have to set a New Year’s resolution to hop on the bandwagon like everyone else.
It’s probably more useful to look at what’s going on in our lives -- and especially given everything that has been asked of us and all of the adaptation we’ve been doing since 2020.
If you decide that making some type of change is a good idea, then I suggest evaluating how big the change is and if that kind of change is actually reasonable and realistic right now. What we don’t want to do is set a really large sweeping kind of goal and resolution and not meet it and feel more stressed and discouraged.
A lot of people rarely stick to New Year’s resolutions, even in a normal year. Because We sometimes think it’s going to help us get more done,
As each year comes and goes, we have been somewhat trained to make resolutions that will motivate us to make the year ahead better than the last. The problem is that we tend to make the same resolutions year after year. We reach the end of the year and one, we can’t recall what our New Year’s resolutions were, or two, we realize we forgot about them by February and that you didn’t even come close to achieving them.
After three years of a pandemic, many of us are burnt out and exhausted. Trying to improve ourselves in the new year feels daunting -- so why not just skip making a resolution?
After a difficult year, the last thing we need to do is put more pressure on ourselves or set a goal that might NOT be realistic.
be more productive, or make this change we want to make. I think it really tends to just increase our stress and make things worse.
Besides, it’s because they are unrealistic and too broad. Research by Johns Hopkins University neuroscientists shows our brains get a surge of dopamine just by seeing things associated with past rewards. In other words, your brain is wired to pay more attention to things that have given you pleasure in the past hoping to get that same pleasure again. That’s why you might find it hard to stop thinking about pizza while trying to eat steamed veggies.
If you’re itching to make some type of change or adopt a “fresh start” mentality in the New Year, I suggest starting small, incremental terms instead of big changes.
What might be more productive is to be more aware of what we’re
doing and how it impacts us on an ongoing basis so that we can be making adjustments in our lives to move toward what we really care about.
Consider why this small adjustment will make your life better. Do you know that making this change could help you feel better or happier on a daily basis? Or are you doing it because you think you “should” do it?
Also, instead of focusing on bad habits or fixing what’s wrong in your life, Let us focus on mindfulness and awareness instead, and release some self-criticism. One way you can do this is by incorporating a mindfulness routine or ritual into your life. It doesn’t have to be elaborate or complicated.
Try remodeling your resolutions and your perspective on how simple it will be to achieve achievement.
For example, if you normally set a huge resolution to “lose weight” you could try something like “have the healthiest body possible”, This might require quitting eating junk food. You could think about how much junk food you eat daily, and instead of quitting it cold turkey, try
limiting it to once a day.
Instead of “exercise X times a week” you could try something like “live a more active lifestyle,” because we all know that things come up and you can’t always make it to the gym, but there are plenty of things you can do at home to be more active. Walking, or even drinking more water has been proven to make people more active.
Finally: New Year’s resolutions don’t typically come from a positive mental place. Focusing on what you feel may be “wrong” with your life can be detrimental – especially if you don’t fulfill those resolutions.
When most people don’t make good on those resolutions, how healthy is it to continue making them? In a way, you are setting yourself up for failure. Why let your self-esteem take the hit? It could even bring on anxiety and depression… and you certainly don’t need that.
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Eligible residential homes and businesses in parts of Belfield, Strathfield South, Chullora and Greenacre can now place an order to upgrade their NBN connection to Fibre to the Premises (FTTP).
These upgrades will be available on demand where a customer in an eligible premises seeks a higher speed service through their Retail Service Provider.
This will allow residents and businesses to take advantage of the faster speeds which are increasingly important in a digital society and economy.
To further expand the benefits of fibre connections, the Albanese Government’s 2022-23 Budget has invested $2.4 billion to enable an additional 1.5 million premises to transition from Fibre to the Node
(FTTN) to Fibre to the Premises (FTTP) by 2025 – over 660,000 of which will be in regional areas.
As a result of the Albanese Government’s investment to enable the NBN’s full potential:
• Close to 90 per cent of the NBN fixed-line footprint will have access to plans based on wholesale speeds of 500Mbps to close to gigabit speeds.
• Around 80 per cent of all regional and remote premises will have access to plans based on wholesale speeds of 100 Mbps or more by late 2025. This was estimated at 33 per cent in March 2022.
• 93 per cent of all Australian homes and businesses will have access to plans based on wholesale speeds of 100 Mbps or more.
For more information on upgrade eligibility, visit www.nbn.com.au/ fibreupgrade.
“The NBN is a key investment in the nation’s future. Since 2009, the network has kept Australians connected, supported tele-health and remote education, and boosted economic productivity by expanding access to new customers for small businesses.
“The Albanese Government is committed to ensuring that Australians get the full benefit of the NBN’s potential by enabling as many NBN lines to access full fibre connections as possible. Our $2.4 billion investment in the Federal Budget will help ensure the NBN reaches its full potential.
“Eligible local residents and
businesses in Watson will now be able to take advantage of higher speed services as a result of this announcement. Expanding fibre access will ensure Australians are at the forefront of digital connectivity and will help bridge the digital divide”.the Minister for Communications, the Hon Michelle Rowland MP said.
“Investing in expanded NBN fibre access is a gamechanger, that’s why the Albanese Government is committed to it.
“This is a great opportunity for eligible local families and businesses to enjoy the benefits of a faster, more reliable fibre connection.”the Member for Watson, the Hon Tony Burke MP said.
At the November election, I had the honour of standing as the Liberal Party’s candidate for Broadmeadows.
Alhamdulillah we recorded a very positive result but three months of campaigning and two weeks of voting did open my eyes to some concerning trends within our Muslim community.
Political participation must never be limited to just casting a ballot rather citizens must endeavour to constantly engage with the political landscape to remain
informed about the parties and candidates vying for their votes, the key issues and throughout all of this, actively holding to account their representatives. For some of us this may even extend to putting our hand up and actually running. However, scrolling through the list of candidates it was hard to come by the names of fellow Victorian Muslims in winnable seats from any major party. I would like to add a quick note here though, this should not in any way take away from the efforts of the dozens of Victorian Muslims who ran in safe seats, as minor party candidates or as
independents.
Nevertheless, the fact stands that we remain underrepresented on Spring St. The Lower House now only has a single Muslim MP remaining with the reelection of the Member for St Albans, Natalie Suleyman, after the retirement of the long-time Member for Lara, John Eren. It is easy to shift the blame onto the major parties but as Muslims we also need to become more active in the political parties that appeal to us.
Let’s return back to the act of actually casting a ballot. Throughout two weeks of voting the number
of times I heard unfortunate comments like “my vote won’t make a difference” or “nothing will change” easily reached the hundreds, uncovering another worrying trend of disenchantment from Victorian Muslims. It is not only my observations pointing to this, just looking at the data from electorates with high Muslim populations we see recurring patterns of lower turnout and higher rates of informal votes. Take my electorate of Broadmeadows which recorded its lowest ever turnout rate at only 80.5% as well as its highest ever rate of informal votes at 10.8%.
At 4.2% of the population, and rapidly growing, Muslims are an integral part of the wider Victorian community but to truly have a say in the way our state is governed more of us need to take that step, working to become both active and politically engaged citizens. If you’re up for the challenge, running for parliament is something, no matter how intimidating it may seem, I would absolutely recommend, particularly to my fellow younger Muslim brothers and sisters.
Newly elected Liberal MP, Evan Mulholland, vows to fight for and amplify the voices of multicultural communities as he is also from a migrant family background.
In his first speech at the Victorian Parliament, Evan Mulholland describes how his family came to Australia from Italy with nothing but a suitcase.
He goes on to say that his parents were able to settle in the northern suburbs and now he is representing the multicultural Victorian community in the Parliament.
The north of Melbourne and the Victorian state owe a lot to the contribution of migrant families.
Evan Mulholland hopes to amplify the voice of migrant families as a tribute to his grandparents.
Photography by Janusz Molinski and Nico Keenan.
The Leader of the Victorian division of the Liberal party, John Pesutto, plans on supporting the multicultural communities of Victoria as it will help to create a more tolerant society.
Victoria is the centre of multiculturalism. It is home to residents from more than 200 countries, who speak 260 languages and follow 135 different faiths.
Leader of the opposition, John Pesutto, mentions his multicultural heritage. He explains how his parents came to Victoria from Southern Italy and taught him the values and principles that guide him today.
The Liberal party also elected Trung Luu as the first VietnameseAustralian Liberal Member of Parliament. He will be the Shadow Parliamentary Secretary for Multicultural Affairs.
Multicultural communities have contributed a lot to the Victorian state.
Australian and US researchers found there’s a strong likelihood in stroke patients with persistent pain to mistakenly believe their stroke-affected hand is either bigger or smaller than it really is. The findings are published in a landmark paper in Brain Sciences.
Researchers, including international pain expert Professor Lorimer Moseley AO from the University of South Australia, surveyed 523 stroke survivors, finding that those living with chronic pain were almost three times as likely as pain free survivors to experience altered body perception.
The results suggest that rehabilitation to address distorted body perception in stroke survivors may improve outcomes, given that stroke is a leading cause of disability worldwide and accurate perception of hand size is critical to holding or manipulating objects.
“There are two striking findings in our study,” Professor Moseley says.
“First, that three out of five stroke sufferers are living with chronic pain, which is up to 300 per cent higher than in the general population.
“Second, that those with pain are also more likely to perceive major changes in
how their body feels to them. This is a potential double whammy, making daily activities more difficult and affecting quality of life,” Prof Moseley says.
Both stroke and persistent pain (lasting longer than three months) are associated with impaired cognition, more fatigue, anxiety and depression, and distortions in body perception might amplify these conditions, he says.
Distorted body perception has been reported in a range of conditions – after amputation, severe chronic pain and eating disorders – but has not previously been linked to pain after stroke.
“The next step is to identify whether body perception disturbance is contributing to pain in these patients. If it is, we need to devise treatments to address this.”
A HANDY LESSON ABOUT PAIN AND THE BRAIN IN STROKE SURVIVORS Peter Khalil MP Federal Labor Member for Wills T: (03) 9350 5777 www.peterkhalil.com.au peter.khalil.mp@aph.gov.au Facebook & Instagram @PeterKhalilMP Twitter.com/PeterKhalilMP Happy New Year
Distorted body perception was twice as likely when post-stroke pain was in the hand, which is consistent with other chronic pain populations such as knee osteoarthritis, where up to 30 per cent of people believe their knee is swollen when it isn’t.
“These remarkable findings show us that we are perhaps more complex creatures than we previously thought,” Prof Moseley says.
Some of the foods and drinks which are mentioned in the Quran and are recommended for consumption are:
Milk, honey, dates, figs, olive oil, pomegranates, grapes, meat, poultry, fish, whole grain breads and cereals and many other fruits and vegetables.
The Holy Qur’an is a complete book and contains important instructions which enable a healthy and safe life.
This shows that Allah is the Perfect Designer. He doesn’t create things without purpose, and every food He has made halal for us has benefits.
Nowadays, in medical science we learn that all the different food and drink mentioned in the Quran and
Sunnah have great benefits for the human body.
• Milk is a complete food. It provides calcium. It’s not only rich in high-quality protein but also an excellent source of vitamins and minerals, such as calcium, vitamin B12, and riboflavin.
• Honey is an excellent source of fructose and vitamin K. Honey is also used as an anti-inflammatory, antioxidant and antibacterial agent.
• Figs have no stones and are easy to digest, and help in bowel movement. Figs are a good source of both calcium and potassium.
• Olive Oil is an excellent source of polyunsaturated acid. It contains modest amounts of vitamins E and K. Olive oil is also loaded with powerful antioxidants. These antioxidants are biologically active and may reduce
your risk of chronic diseases.
• Dates contain several vitamins and minerals, in addition to fibre and antioxidants and they are a great source of energy.
• Whole grain breads and cereals provide carbohydrates, thiamine, niacin, and iron. They can reduce the risk of developing diseases such as coronary heart disease, cancer, diabetes and diverticular disease.
• Fruits and vegetables supply vitamin A and C. A diet rich in vegetables and fruits can lower blood pressure, reduce the risk of heart disease and stroke, prevent some types of cancer, lower risk of eye and digestive problems, and have a positive effect upon blood sugar, which can help keep appetite in check.
• Meat and poultry contain protein, which is important for growth and
development, and other nutrients your body needs, such as iodine, iron, zinc and vitamin B12.
Eating halal and healthy foods is our religious duty. The Islamic dietary recommendations are cherished by Muslims all around the world including Muslims living in Australia. Consuming food and drink recommended in Islam will give us a healthy and complete diet that is high in vitamins, vegetables and fruits, as well as getting enough nutrients from foods such as meat, milk, cereals and beans. It enhances the strength of the human immune system and brings vitality and freshness to the skin as well.
Mohamed Hage was awarded the Medal of the Order of Australia (OAM) for services to Australian-Arab business, trade and investment relations.
The son of Lebanese migrants who migrated from Lebanon, Mohamed took the helm as President and National Chairman of the Australian Arab Chamber of Commerce and Industry.
Mohamed background includes delivering and leading the economic and investment research into capital allocations and investment markets.
Through his insights
Mohamed was able to focus on international trends that are crucial drivers of economic growth and development to both Australia and the GCC region. He has been influential in assisting
the Australian and GCC’s private and public sectors in generating new economic activities while continuing to foster trade and investment between Australia and the Middle Eastern region. Furthermore, he has excelled in fostering trade flows and bilateral ties in many sectors that include education, health, aviation, agriculture and food, infrastructure and finance.
The majority of Australia’s goods trade with the Middle East is with the GCC, accounting for roughly $11.8 billion in two-way goods trade in 2021 led by the UAE.
“The Middle East is a growing market for services and investment, with strong opportunities in infrastructure, education and professional services in particular in countries
that include UAE, Saudi Arabia, Qatar and Egypt,”Mr Hage says “Saudi Arabia’s economy has recovered strongly from the impact of the coronavirus pandemic with robust levels of non-oil economic activity anticipating to continue to grow with strong opportunities in a variety of sectors for Australian companies.”
“Economic activity in the Northern African region in countries such as Morocco and Egypt also continue to expand with robust activities in renewables, tourism, infrastructure and professional services”
Mohamed completed a Bachelor of Commerce from the University of Wollongong and progressed in obtaining post graduate qualifications in Business.
Two big weekends for Human Appeal Australia (HAA) nationwide. The charity organisation has celebrated its 30th Anniversary Celebration and hosted its 15th Year 12 Muslim Achievement Awards in five cities across Australia.
The 30th anniversary celebration presented the 30 years’ history of improving the lives of so many disadvantaged people around the world. The events included an engaging program
raising awareness about HAA’s mission featuring prominent speakers and international guests.
Imam Mufti Menk, the much-loved nasheed artist Mesut Kurtis - and comedian Preacher Moss participated in the celebratory occasion.
In conjunction with the 30th anniversary HAA hosted its 15th Year 12 Muslim Achievement Awards acknowledging the outstanding achievements of HSC students who received an ATAR of 90% and above, recognising their hard work and dedication.
Each student was awarded with a certificate of appreciation and valuable gift. Simultaneously on a national level in Sydney, Melbourne, Adelaide, Brisbane and Perth.
The events were successful in highlighting the achievements of Human Appeal’s 30 years as a charity organisation, and for celebrating the Year 12 Muslim Achievement for the 15th year. An incredible 396 students were awarded nationwide.
Every year during the blessed month of Ramadan we strive to support local schools organising their Iftar Dinners hosting students and parents, teachers and community leaders, Muslims and Non-Muslims to break bread, share a meal
and unite as a school community. A great demonstration of our multicultural Australia.
It is amazing to see so many students, teachers, staff and supportive parents from all backgrounds together in the spirit of sharing food and stories.
Members of Federal parliament, NSW parliament, mayors, councillors and community leaders gathered with students and their families shared meals over warm conversations.
On Monday 4th of April, Australian International Academy in Kellyville hosted their Iftar dinner. What an amazing event. Brother Omar AlJamal highlighted the significance of charity during Ramadan.150 students enjoyed delicious food while being part of a very engaging program led by teacher Walid Ahmed Quran and Islamic Studies Coordinator.
Meanwhile Punchbowl Public School held their iftar dinner on the 6th April, a great night jam-packed
with VIP’s, students and parents, they all enjoyed the iftar dinner in an amazing atmosphere. Sr. Raghda Assoum represented Human Appeal and described Ramadan Projects this year.
On the 6th April Unity Grammar held another successful Multifaith Iftar with schools from across Sydney representing diverse faith and cultures. Federal member Anne Stanley MP, Liverpool Councillor Mazhar Hadid, community leaders,
teachers and students enjoyed the night sponsored by Human Appeal Australia to support stronger coherence and communities.
On the 7th April Human Appeal Australia supported the newly introduced Ramadan dinner initiative at Macquarie Field High School A Jam packed hall with parents, teachers and students enjoyed the food and raised money to sponsor an orphan with Human Appeal.
Meanwhile on the same day Birrong Boys High School held their iftar dinner at the Himalayan Emporium in Bankstown. CCBC Mayor Khal Asfour congratulated the school’s community on the arrival of the blessed month, while Human Appeal’s Volunteers Coordinator Raghda Assoum highlighted the most important projects Human Appeal is initiating this Ramadan. Principal Mr Darren Stevens and School’s CLO Ms Souhair Afiouny welcomed the guests into the dinner. wonderful turnout and delicious food for a good cause.
On the 28th April Burwood Girls High School carried out its Annual Ramadan Iftar Dinner with over 200 guests including Mr Jihad Dib, MP and a number of VIP guests, students and their parents. After such a difficult 2 years due to Corona’s restrictions, the long awaited gathering at Burwood Girls High School were such a success.
Meanwhile on 29th April at Lurnea High School was such a special event. The Annual Iftar Dinner
had record numbers of guests again, with well over 300 participants including The Mayor for Liverpool Ned Mannoun, Clr. and member for Werriwa Ms Anne Stanley, MP. Students, parents and staff came together, from all cultural backgrounds, to celebrate Ramadan and develop a shared understanding with their Muslim colleagues, brothers and sisters. Br Abdul Fattah Abu Mahmoud HAA’s Digital Transformation Manager addressed the audience with a speech highlighting the 30 years long history HAA spent serving those in need.
On the same day
Arakana College held its iftar Dinner with the participation of the newly appointed Principal Osman Karolia. The food was very delicious, the deserts were such a treat and the joy was apparent on the happy faces of students and guests. All praised this great initiative from Human Appeal to support the community and share the pleasure of feeding the fasting in Ramadan.
On Sunday 4th of December 2022, almost 100 cyclists joined by Clr. Bilal El-Hayek, peddled from Canterbury Hospital to Brighton or Cronulla and back to Canterbury Hospital for a community gathering including gourmet sausage sizzle organised by Lighthouse Community Services and Jannah Express. The
day also included information stalls, amazing family activities like henna and face painting and toy giveaways.
Also showing their support on the day were Canterbury MP Sophie Cotsis, Mayor Khal Asfour, Councillors Bilal El-Hayek, Rachelle Harika and Khodr Saleh, Human Appeal Director Bashar Al-Jamal, Head of Community Care Amin El-Bureeny, Sydney Muslim
Cyclists
Mr Al-Jamal presented a cheque of $75,000 to Mr Morris to help the hospital to refurbish the Birthing Unit and to enhance the services provided to the local community.
Human Appel Australia would like to thank all involved and reaching out to our community to donate generously to help us to support the hospital. The raised funds will help Canterbury Hospital operate at its best and will not only affect expectant mothers and their babies, but future generations to come.
The 2022 Eastern Australia floods were recorded as one of the nation’s worst flood disasters that occurred in South East Queensland and parts of coastal New South Wales. The heavy rains forced thousands to flee their homes, creating a mass disaster for small towns in the Northern Rivers region of New South Wales. Lives were lost and thousands of people were displaced living in temporary accommodation and tents.
HAA in partnership with the Good360, Resilient Lismore and Mullumbimby & District Neighbourhood Centre (MDNC) delivered and distributed aid to the
local community in Lismore and Mullumbimby.
On Friday 29 of July 2022 as part of the relief response, the Human Appeal teams in NSW and QLD including Director Bashar Al-Jamal, Director of Projects Issam Chaouk and Head of Community Care Amin El-Bureeny, HAA QLD Manager Imam Akram Buksh along with Jihad Dib, MP Member for Lakemba, Shadow Minister for Emergency Services, Energy and Climate Change and Clr Bilal El-Hayek (City of Canterbury Bankstown) delivered donations to Resilient Lismore in Lismore then distributed relief items including white goods, care packs and essentials vouchers to the flood
affected families at Mullumbimby.
The community open day event was held at the Ex-Servicemen Mullumbimby Club helping those in need whilst bringing our communities together and fostering resilience. The event was attended by a wide variety of people including those affected by flood, local service providers and the general public.
Human Appeal with the help of our generous community has been able to present the $5000 donation cheque to Resilient Lismore and to distribute white goods and essentials distributed to the flood affected families through the Mullumbimby & District Neighbourhood Centre.
‘It’s so inspiring to see the parts of
the wider community support each other in times of need. Even though they’ve never met and I am so proud of their efforts. The mantra for both charity groups (Human Appeal and Good360) On the road to goodness” and “Circle of goodness” was in full evidence today.…always remember, there’s lots of good in the world and when humanity stands with one another, it’s an example of the best of us ‘- said Jihad Dib, MP
This great initiative will assist Resilient Lismore to pursue their relief efforts in Lismore and have assisted around 30 families affected by the floods in Mullumbimby.
Divine Legacy is a unique occasion established to promote diversity, create an environment of unity through helping those in need, and provide a better understanding of the Holy Scriptures especially among younger generations of Australian Muslims.
The conference is a biennial project that will mostly focus on the Holy Quran; the Muslims’ miraculous book that continues to inspire hearts and minds across the globe since 1440 years ago.
This year’s conference highlighted the topic: Women in Quran, with carefully selected issues
that concern the daily lives of women and their families in the modern world.
The event included a fundraising segment designed to help alleviate the hardship of many disadvantaged women and children and their communities across the world.
This year has been significant for many reasons. For the Minaret College community, 2022 marked a significant milestone of 30 years serving the needs of the Muslim community in the South-Eastern suburbs of Melbourne. Throughout the year, the College shared memories of the past with its community. The celebrations continued with a twoday 30 Year Community Celebration Event towards the end of the school year.
On the first day, students from all campuses attended an exclusive student-only event at Springvale Campuses. Rides and food stalls provided students and school staff with a fun-filled way to wind down after a productive school year.
Minaret College then opened its doors to the community and numerous special guests including board members, past and present leaders, students from the original class of 22 students, College duxes from previous years, longserving staff members and Federal Minister Julian Hill. Two significant installations were also revealed – a
plaque inaugurating the naming of the Multipurpose Hall to Mohamed Hassan Hall and a 30-year timeline which now greets visitors at the Administration foyer at the Springvale Campus.
Reflecting on the year of celebration, Executive Principal Mr Mohammed Taksim said, “Despite our growth over 30 years, the purpose of Minaret College remains unchanged. Our vision is to nurture generations of Muslims who are strong in their faith and Islamic identity. Throughout the years we’ve made many changes and improvements, but we remain steadfast in our vision
and purpose”.
The year wrapped up with the College community celebrating some impressive VCE results. The Dux of the College, Mougadam Mougadam achieved a significant ATAR of 96.75.
“One in four of our VCE graduates were placed in the top 20% of the state”, Mr Taksim said.
“Over the coming two months we will await news of tertiary offers for our graduates. It’s always pleasing to see students pursuing their passions. We’re proud of each one of them, and know their families are too”.
Minaret College opened in 1992 and was inspired by the vision of the Founding Director, Mr Mohamad Hassan (OAM). The College now supports over 2500 students from Kindergarten to Year 12 across three campuses – Springvale, Officer and Doveton. For enquiries, the College can be contacted via email at admin@minaret.vic.edu.au or further information is available on their website at http://www. minaret.vic.edu.au/
• In the past year, we’ve achieved several notable milestones. One of the biggest highlights was the listing of the first two Islamic ETFs on the ASX, ISLM and HJZP. This was a major milestone for the Islamic finance industry in Australia and we were proud to be at the forefront of this development.
• We also built and launched the Out of Interest Podcast, a platform for exploring Islamic finance and its role in the
We hosted a successful ETF launch event to celebrate the listing of ISLM and HJZP on the ASX. The event was well-attended and provided a great opportunity for industry professionals and investors to learn more about Islamic finance and the ETFs.
We’re committed to giving back to the community and have been involved in several community projects in the past year. One of the projects we’re most proud of is our partnership with the Afghan Women’s Team, where we’ve been able to hire three talented individuals and support their professional development. We also participated in an RMIT event to promote diversity and inclusion in the finance industry.
modern world. The podcast has gained a loyal following and we’re excited to continue bringing interesting and informative content to our listeners.
• In addition, we’ve had four funds certified by the Responsible Investment Association Australasia (RIAA), demonstrating our commitment to ethical and sustainable investing. We’ve also joined the top 10% of funds globally by achieving 5 crowns on FEfundinfo, a leading provider of independent fund research.
We’ve had a number of achievements recognized in the past year.
• We were a finalist for the Mortgage and Finance Association of Australia (MFAA) awards under Diversity and Inclusion, and our CEO, Hakan Ozyon, was a finalist for Independent Financial Advisers (IFA) Dealer Group Executive of the Year.
• We were also honoured to be named Muslim business of the year for 2022 at the AMAA awards and to have our CEO recognized as a finalist for Muslim man of the year 2022.
Bismillah MashaAllah TabarakAllah! By the blessings of Allah Al-Taqwa College Australia has achieved one of the best years ever in terms of results! We are extremely proud of all our Year 12 students. 2022 has been one of the best years ever for our College, with all of our 75 Year 12 students achieving a VCE or VCAL certificate.
Of our 68 VCE students:
• Nine students achieving an ATAR score over 90,
• The highest being an outstanding 98.25.
• A further six students achieving an ATAR score over 80.
• Half of our VCE group achieving an ATAR score of 70
or higher.
The top 3 ATAR high achievers have been awarded the following cash prizes:
• Sinan Ummu - $10,000
• Manhal M. Hassen$7,000
• Hibah Shah - $5,000
In shaa Allah next year’s highest score achiever will be rewarded $15,000. This is a truly remarkable result for our students, and for our College, and is a cause for real celebration.
It was achieved in spite of the extraordinary challenges of the Covid pandemic, including
lockdowns, remote learning, and the great stresses experienced by everyone in our school community. It is a tribute to the commitment and resilience of our students, and the support of their families.
It is also a tribute to the hard work and dedication to their students our teachers, support staff, secretaries and leaders, who supported and encouraged our students to achieve their very best. I thank our staff for all that they have done.
Congratulations to our top achievers and all our students that worked extremely hard to fulfil their dreams and aspirations. The Al-Taqwa College community is truly proud of you, and wish you the very best in all you do in the future.
This year Sirius College is proud to announce the outstanding achievements of its students in the 2022 VCE exams.
4 Sirius College students achieved an ATAR above 99, with the school dux, Hamdan Yousuf, achieving an ATAR of 99.65. Tasnim Thamer and Rayyanuddin Muneer both received ATARs of 99.25, and Faraz Nairooz achieved an ATAR of 99.00. The students placed themselves among the top high achievers of the state.
In addition, • 10 Sirius College students achieved an ATAR above 95, • and 28 students received an ATAR above 90.
• Overall, 65 Sirius College students achieved an ATAR above 80, meaning that every 1 in 3 students received an ATAR above this threshold.
Sirius has a history of students achieving perfect study scores in subjects like Physics, Chemistry, Business Management, English, Further Maths, Mathematical Methods, Computing, and Turkish, and 2022 is no exception.
Two students achieved perfect study scores in Further Mathematics. Eesa Hussain and Taha Aftab both achieved a perfect study score in this subject, and Hamdan Yousuf achieved a perfect study score in English, although his parents speak English as a second language.
For many years, Sirius College students have demonstrated a pattern of achieving 99+ ATAR. Hamdan Yousuf, Tasnim Thamer,
Rayyanuddin Muneer and Faraz Nairooz sustained Sirius College’s 99+ ATAR achievement with ATARs of 99.65, 99.25 and 99.00 in 2022 VCE..
The students’ achievements were also reflected in their study scores. 83 students achieved a study score above 40 in at least one of their subjects.
ICOM is proud to have it’s own Primary School Arabic Books series authored by our ICOM’s Primary School Arabic Coordinator, the talented, Ms Asma Herzalla.
There are multiple books in the “Sanabel Arabic Language Series” with each book catering for a specific level tailored to the needs and abilities of our ICOM students.
The Sanabil Series encourages self learning, focuses on visual stimulation and is built around themes, with each theme comprising of multiple lessons.
Furthermore, the series incorporates Islamic and Quranic concepts throughout the lessons which has improved the students’ Islamic knowledge and confidence in reading the Quran.
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Other notable guest speakers were Hon Tim Pallas, Victorian Treasurer,
Thursday the 1st of December was a wonderful night for 17 students of Maarefa School who successfully completed the mandatory requirements of level 6 Language-2 (Arabic) as prescribed in the Victorian Curriculum.
It was a wonderful occasion for these students, to stand and share the joy of their graduation with families and friends, speaking in Arabic about their journey of learning the Arabic language and its culture.
Henaidy Helou Co-ordinating Principal Maarefa SchoolDaarul Arqam so aptly named after the first house of Allah, is a swiftly growing organisation based in Melbourne, Victoria. Founded by Mufti Zeeyad Ravat a few years ago, it has emerged as an influential entity amongst parents and youth alike, based on Islamic principles of Kidmat (selflessness), Ukhuwah (brotherhood), Ihsan (acting with fear of Allah as though He sees you) and Kamal (devoting yourself to excellence).
Parenting is such an important issue for many Muslims who are struggling with the challenges of earning an income, raising children and keeping them safe from the negative elements of society. We all want to protect our children from sinful behaviour and we like to think that we teach them ahlaq and adhab throughout their lives. However, as much as you do the right things, there are many things we do not do well.
As a parent I was not handed a textbook on parenting when I had my first child, nor did I really get any training or advice. As parents we learn the hard way and we don’t have time to think when it happens, we just kick into auto drive and most likely emulate to some degree what we saw from our own parents as children growing up. By and large this is correct however, it is fundamentally critical that as Muslim parents we understand the prophetic approach to parenting, putting together a balance between Islamic principles and modern day parenting styles.
South East Melbourne was fortunate to have this special event dedicated to parenting. On Sunday 27th November in the ‘state-ofthe-art’ venue of Bunjil Place in
Fountaingate, we presented five exceptional speakers who covered the spiritual, psychological, social and practical aspects of parenting.
We were blessed to have two amazing religious scholars from Brisbane, Mufti Ikraam Buksh and Sheikh Akram Buksh. Sheikh Akram spoke about the prophetic traditions and approaches to parenting and used the example of Surah Luqman. Luqman was an Ethiopian slave who worked as a carpenter. The majority of scholars are of the view that he was a wise man and not a prophet and a righteous servant of Allah whom He blessed with wisdom and told him to be thankful.
Essentially there are three important takeaways from Surah Luqman, the first being the importance of dua (prayer) and how we should not under-estimate its power. Secondly, we need to lead by example as parents, it’s no good if you expect your child to pray if you yourself miss your prayers, or if you frequently lie then it will be likely your children will lie often. Thirdly, build your patience and perseverance.
Mufti Ikraam spoke about true love and devotion to Allah swt, to be a good parent and son or daughter. To have Allah at the centre of your
life is crucial for a wholesome and meaningful relationship with your environment, and this has profound effects on your impressionable children.
Kathryn Jones, from Back to the Fitrah Academy focused on young children and their addiction to devices and social media. This is probably the single most challenging issue for parents in the 21st century. It is not an easy one for parents, who are trying to balance modern technology use with parental controls and guidance. For many youth, they find ways around parental monitoring and even when parents ban devices from their children.
As parents we have to understand the science behind addiction. With technology its important to take charge, don’t expect your children to be able to do it themselves, so educate them and reduce the availability and provide alternatives. Jones says, don’t use digital devices as a baby-sitting tool and have a plan before you introduce technology to your children.
Qasim Latifi, a psychologist explored the effects of identity and criticism on parenting. Understanding that your child has different levels of identity is significant in
understanding your child; children form their own contextual identity, through their place in the world and particularly through their family. They also form an identity outside of the family, and they have their own religious and ethnic identity.
Children modify these roles in different situations, ultimately because they fear rejection and want acceptance. Latifi also covered the importance of positive criticism which was essential for growth.
Criticism has various effects, such as creating a fear of rejection, it promotes development and creates a critical mindset. Every child has a need for acceptance, to be loved and accepted without judgment and as parents we need to be less critical.
Mufti Zeeyad Ravat spoke about toxic relationships and the key being communication, connecting, respecting and being empathic with your child. The event included opening recitation from 11 year old hafez, Muzakkir Syed, youth performances from Nurali Seyit (13), Reza Shaikh (11) and a panel discussion and Q&A.
)ميكحلا( كاذ ارطخلاو فوخلا كاذ لزلز )نايفس( اصرتنم نيدلا زعب زع )يهانوأ( ةرك دخـب تماه ةرك تبءآست هلزاغت تحار اهلقع )شيايز( ةترتسم مصخلا كابش ترقتسا ىتح ابرخ تيوخإ اي ،انل لاق )ييرصن( ارأز ذإ دسلأاك انبرد )كياركر( تفزع مافيك لاجو لاص )لافوب( ارحد مهمصخ ،ينيقيزاملاا دسأ ةيـهـلت وأ اوهل )لايدنولما( بسحي نم ةرك وزغ ،حتفلا نأ صرعلا
Have you ever heard of a car running on empty? Of course not. It’s impossible for a vehicle to go any further after the last drop of petrol is gone. Human beings are no different. There is no such thing as a superman or bionic woman. Everyone has limits, and once those limits have been depleted, no matter how strong a person is, he or she cannot go on.
Start with self-compassion.
gone, your family can’t fill the void you left with anyone else.
I’m writing in light of recent research at Ohio State University* which found 66% of working parents with live-in children up to 18-years-old suffering from burnout. I suspect working parents in the 30- to 40-year-old age bracket are particularly vulnerable to burnout as this is the period when a person starts climbing the ladder of success at work while raising a family. Plus, there might be elderly, ailing parents to care for, which adds to the daily demands. Feeling tired all the time, losing interest in things that used to excite you, difficulty to focusthese are a few of the symptoms of burnout. So, what can you do?
Being kind to yourself, which might not come naturally to some of us. If you’ve been conditioned to think that kindness and compassion are what you do to others, think again. If you fail to look after yourself, you may hit a point where you simply cannot function, just like the car running on empty. You cannot give when you have nothing to give. Not only you, your loved ones will suffer. So, begone with that inner voice which keeps telling you to keep burning the candle at both ends. Silence it.
Take a sabbatical.
Allow yourself time to heal, spiritually, emotionally and physically. If it isn’t possible to take a long leave, do what it takes to reduce your workload. If you worry about what’s going to happen when you’re not around, believe me, nobody is indispensable. Even if you disappear right now, the Earth won’t stop spinning. People at work will find someone to replace you sooner than you think. The only ones who will not be able to replace you are your family members. When you’re
Consider options.
Your health is your wealth. Aim for balance. Working, raising a family, caring for elders - these are all huge responsibilities, all of them marathons. You don’t complete them within a day or two. If you find it hard to sort it out in your head, consult a trusted person. Not that he or she can offer you a solution, but talking with someone can help clarify your thoughts, help you uncover blind spots, and see possibilities of what might or might not work in the short, mid and long term.
It must be said that the current lifestyle has contributed in no small way to burnout among working parents. Unlike yesteryears, many young parents now lead nuclear lives with no domestic help and no support from the extended family. No matter how exhausted you are, you still need to be in charge of home and kids once you’re back home. The advent of smartphones, making you accessible day and night is both a blessing and a blight. Bosses, family and friends expect you
to be reachable any time, any day. Besides, there’s also temptation to scroll media sites so you’re up-todate with what’s happening, or else you would be at a loss when colleagues talk about current issues. If you’re the type who constantly pushes yourself to see how far you can go, you’re unable to call it a day unless the 100 tasks you’re supposed to do have all been marked “Done”, you’re more susceptible to burnout. Take a good look at how you’ve been leading your life. If necessary, push the reset button. Now.
[*Reference: Kate Gawlik & Bernadette Mazurek Melnyk. (2022). Pandemic Parenting: Examining the Epidemic of Working Parental Burnout and Strategies to Help. The Ohio State University.]
Jamilah Samian is the author of Cool Mum Super Dad, Cool Boys Super Sons, The Kindness Miracle, Parenting Generation Y & Z, Leadership in Parenting, and 77 Power Parent Tips.
Some scholars got together, one day, and went to test Imam Shafi, in the presence of Khalifah Harun Rashid. They asked him first to explain the following scenario; a man slaughtered a sheep in his house. He then left for a short trip. When he returned home, he told his family to eat the meat of the sheep as it is now forbidden on him. His family replied that it is, now, also forbidden on them.
In response, Imam Shafi said, that man was a polytheist (Mushrik) when he slaughtered the sheep. And when he left for his journey, he became Muslim. Hence the meat was not permissible for him anymore. And when his family knew about his Islam, they, also, became Muslim, and hence the meat became, also, prohibited on them.
Another example they gave was this; a man was praying and when he said salaam on his right side, his wife became divorced from him. And when he said salaam on his left side, his prayer became invalid and when he looked unto the sky, he became a thousand dirham-in debt.
In response, Imam Shafi explained that the one who was praying, when he said salaam to the right side, he saw the man that was married to his current wife, previously and was thought to have died. Since he was still alive, she was still married to him and hence her current marriage with the one praying was not valid. And when he looked to the left side, he saw some impurity on his clothes and hence his prayer was not acceptable. Finally, when he looked unto the sky, he saw the crescent, and realized that he had to pay someone back a thousand dirhams at the beginning of the month.
After Imam Shafi gave perfect explanations for each situation, he, now, requested the Khalifa to allow him to test those scholars. So, he gave them this case; a man died, leaving 600 dirhams, in inheritance, how come his sister received 1 dirham only (out of the 600). The scholars could not explain this and were baffled. Imam Shafi explained; this man had 2 daughters, a mother, a wife, 12 brothers and one sister. Two thirds (400) were given to his daughters, one sixth (100) was given to his mother, one eighth (75) was given to his wife, and the remaining (25) were distributed among the 12 bothers and one sister, with each brother receiving (2) dirhams and the sister receiving (1) dirham.
The Khalifah was so impressed, he gave Imam Shafi 2000 dirhams, which Imam Shafi gave away to the servants of the Khalifah.
1.The Book of Arshif Muntada Al-Fasih (in Arabic Language).
“Mum, when do you get paid again? I need to pay for camp.” I hesitate to answer. My next pay day is in 3 days, but with the rent and accumulating bills, most of my pay is already gone. Especially in current times, it’s hard to face tomorrow.
The cost of living is steadily rising in Australia and around the world. Australia has seen innumerable crises – bushfires, COVID-19, droughts, and floods – which have impacted on our overall quality of life and financial stability. To make matters worse, the continual rising prices of basic expenses like petrol and groceries has put a strain on every household in Australia. According to the Australian Bureau of Statistics, the quarterly and annual increases are the largest since the introduction of the GST more than 20 years ago. While this inflation has had an adverse effect on all families, it has been debilitating for others; hitting low-income households the hardest, since they must spend a larger portion of their budget on the most basic of necessities. People whose household’s income lies below the relevant poverty line are unlikely to reach a generally acceptable minimum standard of living unless they have access to other resources such as substantial savings. They are likely to miss out on essentials that most people take for granted such as decent and secure housing. Moreover, people are at greater risk of
mental illnesses. There is an increase in reports indicating low life satisfaction and a reduction in wellbeing, including increased feelings of anxiety and depression. Given the heavier burden to earn sufficiently to feed our families, it is not surprising that we are feeling more stressed and overwhelmed. Having the responsibility of being the head of the family has never been so taxing, as it gets harder and harder to make ends meet and keep the family happy. These demands put a strain on married couples, often causing marital discord and pushing relationships to breaking point. For single-parent households, this burden is carried alone, exacerbated by the guilt and helplessness resulting from being unable to purchase toys or new clothes for their children, or spending on items relating to self-care.
This is a problem affecting all of us. A problem that we don’t need to face individually. Financial struggle shouldn’t be a source of shame or embarrassment. Emotional and mental strain doesn’t need to be carried alone. National Zakat Foundation has the resources and personnel, ready to assist families in need, during these difficult times. They have programs tailored to alleviate different issues and to cater for families and individuals with different needs. All you have to do is let them know. Together, we can face tomorrow. National Zakat Foundation 1300663729 or www.nzf.org.au