THE FREEDOM FACTOR

D I S T I N C T I O N T W O

There is only one way to experience freedom and power in your life…and that is to BE responsible for all of it.

[Previous page.] Welcome to freedom.

In taking the Possibility Process to another level…I am going to teach you the Freedom Factor. There is only one way to experience freedom and power in your life…and that is to BE responsible for all of it. I often hear people say I “take” responsibility for something. That is a start, however it’s not the most powerful way to be responsible. Your opportunity is to reframe you life from blame and victim to responsible and accountable. If you are the responsible agent in your life, then whatever occurs in your life (even the yucky stuff), you generated it and if you don’t like it, you are the one who can have it be different. If you are not responsible, then you have to be a victim to someone or something else. When you feel like a victim, you feel powerless. So even if you don’t quite know how to change something you don’t like, you can absolutely decide how you are going to relate to what occurred. If you are personally responsible (not blaming yourself or feeling guilty!) then you have freedom… you are not caught in the spiral of “poor me.” And you have the power and freedom to begin to have it be different.

APPLICATION

Whenever you feel victimized or like a victim, notice what is the “core” feeling that is being triggered. Then reframe the event to be personally responsible...why did it happen? What is the lesson? This does not mean you have to condone the other person’s behavior.

You are unlimited.