Slang Dictionary

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Learning basic slang and phrases can be helpful in figuring out what the heck your date is trying to tell you! The following is a short list of slang words you might hear or come across.

Bareback [adj./n./v.]: sex without condoms

BDSM [n.]: a compound acronym for B/D = bondage/discipline; D/s = Dominance/submission; SM = sadism/masochism. BDSM involves consensual erotic practices. Blow job [n.]: oral sex on a penis. Synonyms: cunnilingus (usually refers to performing oral on a vulva.) Booty call [n.]: can be a text or phone call asking for sex. Typically booty calls are very casual and happen late at night. (Note that “butt dial” while having very similar meaning words, is very different from a booty call. A “butt dial” is accidentally calling someone from your pocket or bag. It is not sexual.) Bottom [n./v.]: someone who prefers to receive penetration; usually referring to anal. Catfish [v./n.]: the act of pretending to be someone else or having different characteristics to get someone to date them, send them money, and/or other goods and services that they can benefit from.

Creep/Creepy [adj./n.]:

unpleasantly strange person.

DMs [v.]: Direct Message;

to send someone a direct message or personal message on social media (like facebook and instagram); often for romantic

purposes.

Do you party?/PnP

(Party and play): a way of asking if you do drugs, and typically excludes marijuana, and references harder drugs like crystal meth, MDMA, cocaine etc.

DTF: short form for “Down To Fuck”; asking if you would like to have sex with them.

Femme [adj.]: a word that can reference anyone who is feminine. It can be used as an inclusive word for trans, cis women, and some non-binary people. Some people like to use femme instead of “woman” or “girl” or “female” because it can be more inclusive of trans wom

en and non-binary people who are often discriminated against. Words like femme are helpful especially as a person can be feminine regardless of their genitals. We honour and respect that identifying as female does not depend on someone’s genitals.

Fetish [n.]: a form of sexual desire that can involve specific activities, body parts, objects, behaviours, fabrics, and appearances. It can be consensual or non-consensual.

Front-Hole [n.]: a widely accepted alternative word to vagina; it is used by some members of the trans community. It will be used throughout this resource!

FTM or F2M [adj.]: short for female to male. This term is used by a trans person who is transitioning from female to male. Fuck buddy [n.]: a person with whom someone regularly has sex with, without the expectation of a romantic relationship. A casual relationship.

Synonyms: friends with benefits (fwb), no strings attached.

Gaslight(ing) [v./n.]: a form of abuse; makes the victim question their sanity, intentionally makes someone doubt their memories or perception of reality; a form of persistent manipulation.

E.g. telling blatant lies, denying they ever said/did something even though you have proof, their actions do not match their words, tells you/others that you are crazy, etc.

Get laid:

having sex.

Ghost [v.]: sudden stop in communications with someone; not gender specific; not age specific.

Girl-Dick [n.]: a word for genitalia for a trans woman who has not gone through

bottom surgery.

Hook Up:

refers to any form of sexual intimacy such as kissing and sex.