Asbury Tidings - What We Believe by Asbury Church

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This We Believe

This Month at Asbury

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Asbury University

Notes from the Journey

originally means to build up, be firm, or support, it carries the idea of

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Mission, Vision, Objectives

certainty, trust, and assurance. We build our lives upon what we

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Wesley Covenant

believe, it is therefore important to believe the right thing. As Chris-

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Prayers, Presence, Gifts, Service & Witness

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Communities

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Calendar

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New Members

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Family Room

The Tidings is published monthly to convey the message of transformed lives through Jesus Christ and to inform Asbury family and friends of the many opportunities made available through the ministries of Asbury United Methodist Church.

All photos by Lisa Dunham unless otherwise noted. Cover design: Sandy Wagner On the cover: Pastor Emeritus, Dr. William C. Mason Senior Pastor, Dr. Tom Harrison

In the Old Testament Hebrew word aman is translated believe. It is from this word that the English word amen is derived. The word

tians, God’s word is the source of our belief system; we put our trust in it and confidently say, “I believe, Amen!” - Sola Akala As Christians, we believe in salvation through Jesus Christ. We put our faith and our eternity in the knowledge that He is the Way, the Truth and the Life. (See page 35 for an illustration of a process which is helpful in sharing the Good News with others.) In addition, we’ve chosen to be a part of the body of believers who embrace the Methodist denomination. Those wishing to become a member of the Asbury family are asked to attend an Exploration class where Methodism is explained. In addition, those in attendance have the opportunity to learn more about Asbury United Methodist Church. The class addresses our Mission Statement, our Vision, and our Eight Objectives. Persons joining Asbury make a vow to uphold it by their prayers, presence, gifts, service and witness. This month’s magazine features folks who have demonstrated how they have upheld that vow in various ways. In the past year, we have received 800 new members into the Asbury family. Much of the information in this month’s Tidings will be very familiar to them, as they have recently completed an Exploration class. For the rest of us, a reminder of “What We Believe” is a great way to start a new year. Our prayer for the new year is that each reader will be challenged to examine what he believes and live in a way that others will be able to tell! - Jan Weinheimer

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Asbury University Winter Term 2006 Now is the time to register! Asbury United Methodist Church has the privilege of joining with Oklahoma Wesleyan University to bring college credit to some of the Asbury University courses starting in winter of 2006. Our first semester begins on January 12 and goes through the first week of May. We will have these classes on Thursday evenings from 6:00-9:00 p.m. Classes are open to all. You may choose from Old Testament Survey Class and a New Testament Survey Class. To be qualified to teach, some of our own people will become adjunct professors for the University. Three options are available at this time. 1) Full college credit for a three-hour course 2) Audit the course 3) High school students who want to begin college classes The goals of Adult Studies are: - To offer academic programs jointly with the university’s academic divisions, to people whose family responsibilities, employment situations, or personal preferences do not permit them to obtain a college degree while living on a campus. - To deliver academic programs that require mastery of learning outcomes appropriate to the academic level of the degree sought by the student - To provide adult students with comprehensive, practical and intense curricula in order to enable them to acquire skills in information gathering, processing, analysis, synthesis, and problem solving - To facilitate an understanding and application of Christian principles in personal and professional environments. Oklahoma Wesleyan University is fully accredited by the North Central Association, the International Assembly for Collegiate Business Education, the Commission of Collegiate Nursing Education, and the National Council for Accreditation of Teacher Education.

Biblical Studies Literature of the Old Testament Oklahoma Wesleyan University Course Oklahoma Wesleyan University course offering This study is designed to acquaint the student with the art and principles of studying books as an organized whole and to awaken an appreciation of the great events, personalities, and institutions of Old Testament history. This study of the Word of God is more than history; it includes an emphasis upon the principles and precepts of the Word of God which are relevant to contemporary living. Thursdays, January 12 – May 4 6:00 – 9:00 pm Room: 2818 Teacher: Dr. Tom Harrison Cost: $1575.00 for 3 credit hours Audit: $30.00 Concurrent Enrollment: $210.00

Literature of the New Testament Oklahoma Wesleyan University Course Oklahoma Wesleyan University course offering This is a study of the world into which Christ and the Christian movement came, and a survey of all the books in the New Testament. This course strives to emphasize how the New Testament writings apply to living in today’s world. It is vitally important to understand how the Bible speaks to contemporary life issues and provides a foundation upon which to build character and personality. Thursdays, January 12 – May 4 6:00 – 9:00 pm Room: 2820 Teacher: Pastor Judith Banya Cost: $1575.00 for 3 creditcredit hours Audit: $30.00 Concurrent Enrollment: $210.00

Registration information for Oklahoma Wesleyan University Courses: For students who wish to Audit the course: The student should visit https://community.gospelcom.net/ Brix?pageID=14531 and complete the online application. Auditing students only need to complete the following sections: Personal Information and Spiritual Life. Most Important!!! In the “testimony” comment box in the Spiritual Life section, please write “I’m taking the class at Asbury UMC in Tulsa.” The cost to audit is $30 per course. For Concurrent high-school students: The student should visit https://community.gospelcom.net/Brix?pageID=14531 and complete the entire online application. These students will need to also submit a high school transcript. The cost for these students is $210 ($70 per credit hour). For Full Credit students: The student should visit https://community.gospelcom.net/Brix?pageID=14531 and complete the entire online application. These students will need to also submit a high school transcript. (Or other college transcripts depending upon their age). The cost for these students is $1575 ($525 per credit hour for tuition and fees). 3

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More Asbury University Courses on Pages 4-6

The Autobiography of God A Pastor’s Bible Study 18 sessions Wednesdays, January 11 – May 24 6:00 pm – 8:00 pm Room: 2820 Teacher: Pastor Dick Read Cost:$12.00 The parables of Jesus provide amazing insight into the nature and character of God, as well as into the kingdom of heaven. Following an inductive method of Bible study - Observation, Interpretation and Application - Pastor Read will lead participants using a variety of teaching and learning experiences. Through worship, teaching, media, table discussion, prayer and journaling, you will find the parables of Jesus come to life in new and fresh ways. Jesus, The One and Only Beth Moore Series 11 sessions Tuesdays, January 10– March 14 6:30 pm – 8:30 pm Room 2500 Teacher: Dee Dee Geddie Cost: $17.00 This study, based primarily on the Book of Luke, brings out new insights and application in a careful study of the life of Christ. While exploring Scriptures in this interactive study, you will feel like an eyewitness to events in Jesus’ life. God Searches for a Heart Fully His Precept Upon Precept Study 5 sessions Tuesdays, January 10 – February 7 9:30 – 11:30 am Room: 2820 Teacher: Nancy Staab Cost: $15.00 Neither Solomon, his son Rehoboam, nor his son Abijam followed God fully, nor did Jeroboam in Israel. Their hearts were divided. Would God ever find anyone to serve Him like David? Would He ever find one whose heart was fully His? God says that we’re to love Him with all of our heart. Is that really possible? This course has the answer. Jesus in the Gospels - Singles Bible Study Mondays, January 9 – May 22 7:00 – 9:00 pm Room: 2820 Teacher: Gretchen Valentine Cost: $20.00 (Scholarships available) This study focuses on the portraits of Jesus found in the four Gospels. The word in used in the title signals that this study takes an approach different from the familiar “life and teaching of Jesus” approach of reading stories and accounts of what Jesus said and did in order to draw conclusions about their meaning and about who Jesus was. This looks at the

way each Gospel writer presents the picture of Jesus. Passing the Mantle Precept upon Precept Study 5 sessions Tuesdays, February 14 – March 14 9:30 am – 11:30 am Room: 2820 Teacher: Nancy Staab Cost:$20.00 Could there be a man or woman like Elijah in our time - someone with his mantle who would boldly believe God and proclaim His Word? This study from 2 Kings and 2 Chronicles will help you experience the unchanging power of God in changing times! Spare Your People, Lord Precept Upon Precept Study 4 sessions Tuesdays, March 28 - April 18 9:30 am – 11:30 am Room: 2820 Teacher: Nancy Staab Cost:$15.00 Obadiah and Joel prophesied about the judgment of all the nations in the coming day of the Lord. Edom was singled out by Obadiah because of how they treated Israel. Who would be spared? What would happen to Edom? Or to you? In these last days, as we wait for the Day of the Lord, we should remember that God is gracious and compassionate, slow to anger and abounding in lovingkindness. He calls people to return to Him with their whole heart. Philippians Precept Upon Precept Study 16 sessions Wednesdays, January 4-April 26 6:30 – 8:30 pm Room: 2821 Teacher: Ron Winn Cost: $15.00 How do I live the Christian life joyfully regardless of people or circumstances? What is the purpose of suffering and the Christian perspective on death? Do I have “the mind of Christ”? Discover true, deep-down joy in your life that the world cannot take away! The Patriarchs Beth Moore Series 11 sessions Tuesdays January 10-March 27 9:15 – 11:15 am 5220 South 68th E. Place, 74145 Teacher: Cindy Read Cost: $16.00 Full of twists and turns, ruin and redemption, revelation and mystery, this study of Genesis 12-50 keeps participants captivated by the God who stars in it! Participants will plunge

into the heart of Genesis, to God’s remarkable pursuit of relationships and to the unfolding of His earthly plan: that through one nation— and ultimately, one man—all people on earth will be blessed. Many of the most profound and enduring concepts in the whole counsel of God’s Word are initiated in this marvelous book of beginnings. This study provides the opportunity to see a perfect and holy God endure in His relationship to man, whether man is at his best or at his weakest. Ephesians Wednesdays, January 4-July 26 6:00 – 8:00 pm Room: 1502 Teacher: Don Herrold Cost: Free Learn how to walk in a manner worthy of our Lord. This is a Bible-based study begun in the fall and will be finishing the course. Daniel Precept Upon Precept Study Tuesdays, January 3-February 28 9:30 am – 11:30 am Room: 2500 Teacher: Nancy Baxter This study will continue from the fall study. Does the turmoil in our government, the uprisings abroad, or the spiritual decay of America have anything to do with the book of Daniel? Daniel lived in similar conditions, yet he made an impact on his people because he knew God Most High. Sermon on the Mount Precept Upon Precept Study 10 sessions Tuesdays, March 7 – May 23 9:30 am – 11:30 am Room 2500 Teacher: Nancy Baxter Cost: $15.00 Faith that does not compromise is promised a reward in the world to come, and also a life free from anxiety in this world. Get a deeper understanding of the fruit and security that come with righteousness in the life of a true believer. You’ll never look at the Beatitudes the same way again! Kay’s video set for this revised study includes teachings on-location in Israel. Lord, Only You Can Change Me 9 sessions Mondays, January 9-March 27 9:30 am-11:00am Room:2820 Teacher: Cari Helm Cost: $15.00 Forget self-help. Only Jesus can change your life and shape you into His image! His Sermon on the Mount shows you how. This study will enrich your life in a way that will delight you and be noticed by others! TIDINGS 4

Jonah 10 sessions Tuesdays, January 10 – March 14 6:30 pm – 8:00 pm Room: 2820 Teacher: Gail Knox Cost: $15.00 No outside work involved This study of the book of Jonah gives a look into the life of someone who was reluctant to answer God’s calling on his life. By examining Jonah’s experience, we glimpse into our own weaknesses and discover the strength of God. We determine for ourselves whether the account of Jonah is historical, fact, or parable and how that relates to our lives today. God’s sovereignty, God’s changing His mind, evangelism, anger, obedience—these are just a few of the varied topics that an in-depth study of the book of Jonah lays before us Mother’s Fellowship Mondays, January 9-May 15 9:30 – 11:30 am Room: Parlor Teacher: Esther Gene Morrison Cost: $15.00 This study will be a continuation from the fall to finish the book Freedom For Mothers. You will take a journey in God’s Word to discover the fullness and freedom you can experience as a woman and as a mother. This study of John 15 begins with a look inside your heart and ends at the foot of the cross. You’ll learn to let go and allow God to take complete control as you come to a place of full surrender. You may have never experienced Jesus the way you will during this study. Alpha: Discovering the Facts for Real Life 11 sessions Tuesdays, January 17 – March 28 February 24: Optional Overnight retreat (Cost $25 to cover food and lodging expenses) 6:30 pm – 8:45 pm Room: Community Life Center Cost: Free What on earth am I here for? Is there any point to life? What happens when we die? How do I deal with guilt? Is forgiveness really possible? Discuss and answer these questions and more. There will be a “Preview” dinner on January 10 at 6:30 pm with no commitment, obligation or cost. Watch the Alpha video and decide if this is the place for you. “Transformers” - Our Ancient Foe 10 sessions Tuesdays, January 10 – March 28 10:00 am – 11:00 am Room: Parlor Teacher: Gloria Phillips Cost: $5.00 5

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Taken from Luther’s A Mighty Fortress , this study will equip the saints for the work of the ministry. You will see how Jesus dealt with and was victorious over the enemy and the price He paid so we can be victorious over the enemy. Single Mothers Under God (S.M.U.G.) 2nd & 4th Thursdays of each month Begins January 12 Room 1506 A woman by design to be a healthy single mom. A book and a DVD Series with character qualities necessary for Mothers The Patriarchs Beth Moore series 11 sessions Tuesdays, January 10 –March 28 9:30 – 11:30 am Room: 2821 Teacher: Dana Har rison Cost: $16.00 Full of twists and turns, ruin and redemption, revelation and mystery, this study of Genesis 12-50 keeps participants captivated by the God who stars in it! Participants will plunge into the heart of Genesis, to God’s remarkable pursuit of relationships and to the unfolding of His earthly plan: that through one nation— and ultimately, one man—all people on earth will be blessed. Many of the most profound and enduring concepts in the whole counsel of God’s Word are initiated in this marvelous book of beginnings. This study provides the opportunity to see a perfect and holy God endure in His relationship to man, whether man is at his best or at his weakest.

Marriage & Family Want to Build a Better Marriage? Sponsored by Oklahoma Marriage Initiative & Asbury UMC Thursdays, February 16 – March 23 6 sessions 6:30 pm – 8:30 pm Facilitator: Jeff Rindt Room: Community Life Center Cost: Free No childcare. Offered to the entire Tulsa community by Asbury and the OK Marriage Initiative! Falling in love is easy! Staying in love is easy, too, if you learn “love skills” to stop the four corrosive behaviors that ruin relationships. Open to single people and couples who are dating, engaged or married. These 6 weeks are not about “sharing” or invading your privacy…no Kumbaya! Just twelve hours of cutting edge, faith-friendly techniques that will help you prevent problems or solve them. C-PREP materials used. Come as you are.

Blended Families Tuesdays, January 24 – April 11 6:30 pm – 8:00 pm Room: 1504 Cost: $20.00 Childcare available (Reserve space when registering; please indicate number of children and ages) Did you picture your blended family running smoothly, while your real experience has been difficult? Know you are not alone. Come learn how to build a successful, Christcentered stepfamily. This class will focus on issues such as the couple relationship, parenting and step-parenting tools, building strong family relationships, and understanding typical behaviors of children in stepfamilies. The class offers support through prayer and fellowship with others in similar circumstances. Whether you are already a stepfamily or you are considering marriage, this class is for you. 8 Dates Live! 8 sessions 2nd Tuesday of each month February 14 – September 12 6:15 pm – 7:00 pm Room 2818 Cost: Free Childcare available Dating is a great way to keep your marriage alive! Whether you’ve been married one year or forty, come hear a speaker, then have a fun monthly dinner date alone, while you discuss the subject more. Topics include: Communication, Romance and Commitment, Money, Sex: His Needs/Her Needs, Marriage and Parenting, Love and Respect, Roles of Husbands and Wives, and 5 Love Languages. Speakers will include Rev. Mark and Robin McAdow, Rick Boothe, Rod and Charlene Giles and other well-known Asbury leaders

Christian Living Making Children Mind Without Losing Yours 6 sessions Wednesdays January 11 – February 15 6:00-8:00 pm Room: Parlor, 1900 Teacher: Karen Wuellner Cost: $9.00 Bring out the best in your kids! Come join us for a video series presented by Dr. Kevin Leman, an internationally-known Christian psychologist, best-selling author, speaker, and radio and television personality who has ministered to audiences worldwide. This course is packed full of insights. The weekly topics include daring to be a courageous parent, why kids misbehave, becoming the parent God wants you to be, Nine Ways to

be your Teenager ’s Best Friend, ABC’s of Self-Image, and When to Let the Little Buzzards Tumble. Each session includes class discussions. How To Stay Young Through All the Years of Life 4 sessions Wednesdays, January 4 – January 25 3:30 pm – 5:00 pm Room: 2820 Teacher: Pastor David Thomas Cost: Free A Bible study on how God intends for us to stay young and to continue to grow in our faith through all the years of life. We will be looking at those things that hinder our growth as well as those things that enable us to live the abundant life. Pathways Through Grief Tuesdays, January 10 – March 14 10 sessions 7:00 – 8:30 pm Room: 2821 Facilitator: Elaine Walsh Cost: Free If you have lost someone to death in the last year or so, you are invited to this support group. The facilitators have experienced significant grief themselves. They know that even though grieving people share common feelings and experiences, each person travels through the grief process in a unique way. Each week there will be time to listen to materials written for grieving Christians, followed by a time of sharing. There are no magical word to end your pain, but we pray that we might comfort, support, strengthen, and encourage you on your journey. Financial Peace University 13 sessions Class I: Wednesdays, Feb. 8 – May 10 Room 2818 Class II: Sundays, Feb. 19 – May 21 Parlor 6:00 - 8:00 pm Teacher: Rick Boothe Cost: $91.00 Change your family tree forever! Learn how to beat debt, build wealth and stop the frustrations that come with trying to manage your personal finances. This 13-week program teaches and trains you to make the right money decisions to achieve your financial goals and to manage your resources in a godly manner according to biblical principles. The first class is introductory information so come and see if you like it! Engaged couples are welcome! Need to attend one orientation session on January 25, February 1s t, or February 5 from 6:00-8:00 pm.

Living Alone & Loving It! 6 sessions Thursdays, January 19 – February 23 7:00-8:30 pm Room: Parlor Teacher: Beth Dennis Cost: Free Share practical ideas for living alone with joy. Topics will include: defeating loneliness, discovering you as a single person, tips on home repairs and safety, tips on cooking for one, and discovering God’s plan for your life as a single. Search For Significance 8 sessions Tuesdays, February 7 – April 4 (no class March 21) 6:30 pm – 8:00 pm Room 1621 Facilitators: Lois Trost & Diane Taylor Cost: $13.00 Where are you in your personal search for significance in life? What makes you feel good about yourself? Do any of these symptoms describe you? • Approval Trap — always having to achieve more. • Blame Game—your failures make you unworthy of love and deserving punishment. • Shame Thinking—you cannot change and are hopeless. If any of these characterize you, then this class is for you. The choice is yours. Build your self-worth on your ability to please others – or build it on the forgiveness and unconditional love of Jesus Christ. Signing Class – Beginners 8 sessions Tuesdays January 10 – February 28 7:00 – 8:00 pm Room: 1504 Teacher: Linda Ford Cost: $18.00

This is an 8-week class teaching the fundamentals of American Sign Language (ASL). Students will learn beginning signs, features of ASL grammar, as well as an introduction to Deaf culture. Practice activities will include music and games. Come adults! Come youth! Signing Class - Intermediate 8sessions Tuesdays, January 10 – February 28 7:00 pm - 8:00pm Room 2201 Teacher Karen Harrell Cost: No cost Basic Spanish Class 6 sessions Thursdays, January 5-February 9 6:00-8:00 pm Room: 1508 Teacher: Packy Cowan Cost: $20.00 Have you ever had the desire to be able to communicate with those who speak Spanish ? Possibly here in Tulsa or on a mission’s trip without an interpreter? Here is your opportunity to do so. During this course you will learn the basics of communicating and reading in Spanish. We will cover the alphabet and vowels, as well as how to greet in Spanish, and how to understand the culture.

Asbury Family Dinners Wednesdays January 4 – April 26, No dinner March 22 Community Life Center 5:00 – 6:30 pm Cost: Adults $5.00; Children (2-12) $3.00; Kids under 2 free. Maximum $20.00 per family.

Childcare Available During Core Hours Beginning January 3, 2006 Monday & Tuesday mornings 9-12 am Tuesday, Wednesday and Thursday evenings 6 – 9 pm Sunday 8 a.m. – 12 pm No childcare: January 16, February 20 or March 20 -25 (Spring Break) Classes using nursery will not meet March 20-25 (Spring Break)

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Notes from the Journey

I Believe In . . .

By Lisa Tresch

continue to ask the question, what do which is a dangerous thing to do when hen I was a very I really believe? I don’t believe in the you are trying to hang on to a certain young child, probably monsters under the bed anymore, or belief. What is the purpose of denomifour or five, I believed that God plays favorites, but there are nations? Would Jesus have chosen to that all little girls turned into boys at a many things that I must relegate to belong to a denomination? Does God certain age. No one had told me this, the gray areas of my understanding. and I apparently ignored all evidence to care what denomination I am in? And Suffering, evil, and injustice are hard the contrary (such as the vast number the final, most disturbing question: to explain with a wave of the of grown up girls that hand or pat answers, so I surrounded me, including my am learning to be comfortmother). I also believed that THE APOSTLES’ CREED able in knowing that I just the tooth fairy exchanged don’t know everything. money for teeth, that I believe in God the Father Almighty, Although I came from monsters resided in una denomination that rereachable places under my Maker of heaven and earth, sisted creeds, I have found bed, and that all dogs go to And in Jesus Christ His Only Son, myself drawn to the heaven. I was adamant and Apostles Creed. I like unshakable in these Our Lord, who was conceived by the standing up each week in beliefs…for a while. Eventuchurch and in unison with Holy Spirit, born of the virgin Mary, ally they all withered away, those around me, stating although I still sometimes suffered under Pontius Pilate, was crucified, what I believe. There is ponder the idea that Snowmuch of it I don’t underball, Butch and Phoebe are dead and buried. The third day, he rose stand (the whole concept of romping around together on from the dead. He ascended into heaven the Trinity still confounds streets of gold. me) but I think that’s what I took on a slightly and sitteth at the right hand of God makes faith beautiful. This more sophisticated set of the Father Almighty. From thence He shall short, succinct creed beliefs as a young girl, and reminds me what I believe in when many of those also come to judge the quick and the dead. with all my heart, and withered I exchanged them allows me to let go of the once again. Beliefs have a I believe in the Holy Spirit, the holy things I am not so sure way of defining us and so we catholic church, the communion of saints, about. I have added to this tend to hang on to them with my own additional creed clenched fists. Here’s an the forgiveness of sins, the resurrection of that gives me a way to live example: I used to believe the body , and the life everlasting. Amen. out this belief. “Love the that the denomination I grew Lord your God with all your up in was the only one that passion and prayer and God really smiled upon. He What do I really believe? I resolved the intelligence,” and “Love others as well loved everyone – I believed that – but as you love yourself.” (Matt. 22:37-38, first three questions, which helped me he liked us best. No one in my deThe Message) Jesus says these are let go of the belief that God plays nomination perpetuated this idea, but once again I ignored all evidence to the favorites. God doesn’t like Baptists any the pegs that everything hangs on. And so I am hanging it all on these more than Methodists any more than contrary. I drifted through my adolestruths and letting them guide me as Lutherans, Episcopalians, Pentecoscent and teen years with a profound tals, Seventh-Day Adventists, and keep best I can. It seems to be the best sense of spiritual identity that was way to live. And that’s what I believe. going. This belief paved the way for me largely wrapped up in belonging to my to leave my childhood denomination denomination. and join the Methodist church, where I Then I started asking questions,

GLORIFY GOD M I S S I O N

MAKE DISCIPLES

ur pastor Tom Harrison has given us a very strong and at the same time, achievable mission statement, “Glorify God and Make Disciples.” From my perspective every group in our church family, as they dream and plan for the present as well as longer term perspectives, should ask themselves the question, “How will what we are considering further our efforts to “Glorify God and Make Disciples”? The membership of the church, as programs are presented to the congregation, has every right to expect that the programs recommended will meet the goals of our mission statement. There are many well-meaning and interesting things that we might be involved in at Asbury, but do not further our efforts to fulfill our mission. For years my recommendation was to let other organizations: the YMCA, YWCA, civic organizations and social clubs major in those worthwhile ideas or projects that do not meet our criteria to “Glorify God and Make Disciples.” No one person can participate in the full “menu” of programs offered by Asbury. Each person must make time in his or her life for rest, prayer and meditation, time with family, physical exercise and devotional reading. (All the more reason that we must be responsible, that as the church family looks at areas to serve both inside the church and away from the church, our spiritual gifts will be maximized and we will insure our opportunities to succeed in working to serve God and our fellow man.) In the sermons, communities, small groups, the leadership as well as members

need to hold before our mind that “All scripture is Godbreathed and is useful for teaching rebuking, correcting and training in righteousness, so that the man (and woman) of God may be thoroughly equipped for every good work.” II Timothy 3:16-17. As we search for more ways to glorify God we need to keep in mind: “It was He who gave some to be apostles, some to be prophets, some to be evangelists, and some to be pastors and teachers, to prepare God’s people for works of service, so that the body of Christ may be built up until we all reach unity in the faith and in the knowledge of the Son of God and become mature, attaining to the whole measure of the fullness of Christ.” Ephesians 4:11-13 In Matthew 28:19-20 Jesus admonishes us to: “Therefore, go and make disciples of all nations, baptizing them in the name of the Father and the Son and of the Holy Spirit, and teaching them to obey everything I have commanded you, and surely I am with you always, to the very end of the age.” I have five expectations of Christian people who are seeking to be good disciples of Jesus. * Develop a personal relationship with Jesus Christ and desire to grow in faith. * Attend worship services regularly. * Become a member and regular attendee of an Adult Discipleship Community * Assume one responsibility in the life of the church. * Every member tithes. As we seek to put into practice in our daily living the three scriptures and five principles “Glorifying God and Making Disciples” will become a way of life for us. - Pastor Emeritus Bill Mason

BELIEVE . BELONG V I S I O N

BECOME

sbury’s mission statement “Glorify God – Make Disciples,” is only four words. We can name our “vision statement” in only three words: Belong, Believe, Become” If you were ever the last kid picked to play on a team, you know the horrible feeling of not being wanted. We all want to belong somewhere. A Greek word is used in the New Testament helps us here: “koinonia. ” It means “fellowship.” It means, “To belong.” Christians belong to two people: first and foremost, to Jesus. Secondly, we belong to Jesus’ “Body,” which is the church. I believe that the love and kindness shown to us by God and by other believers brings us into the faith more than by any other thing. Once we know Christ loves us, and He wants us to be in relationship with Him, we learn to “believe” in Jesus. Believing is far more than just agreeing to facts. To believe means to form a bond with another. It is the picture of a person hanging on to a rope as a helicopter pulls them up from the danger zone. The responsibility of the person being saved is simply: “hang on!” Believing is “hanging on” to Jesus in total trust that He will pull us to safety. Our third “b” word, to “become,” deals with growth, maturity, and service. This is where we learn how to become a follower of Jesus. We deepen our faith in Him, and we find ways to live out our faith in the world by developing relationships with others. Becoming mature does not demand perfection, but it does demand effort and action. It is actively engaged, not passively waiting. As James 2:17 says, “faith by itself, if it is not accompanied by action, is dead.” In conclusion, our vision statement means this: We were loved by God into trusting Him so that our lives might be useful in bringing God glory and helping others be His disciples, too. -Senior Pastor Tom Harrison

CONFESSING OBJECTIVE #1

JESUS AS LORD

t’s my privilege to share about Asbury’s objective #1—“Every member confessing Jesus as Lord.” In a real sense, this is the foundation for the other seven objectives. It is the issue of life. Either Jesus Christ is Lord or something or someone far less is in control of your life. There’s no middle ground. It’s been said either “Jesus is Lord of all or He’s not Lord at all.” What does it mean to “confess”? According to the Random House College Dictionary it means “To acknowledge or vow.” When we confess, “Jesus as Lord,” we’re saying to God and others that He is first in our life. It’s important that each of us make this sincere confession because salvation is found in no other name but Jesus. Jesus Himself said, “I am the Way, and The Truth, and The Life. No one comes to the Father except through me.” – John 14:6. In fact, the Early Church’s first confession was these three simple words, “Jesus is Lord.” The Apostle Paul wrote these words to the Christians gathered in Rome, “…If you confess with your mouth, ‘Jesus is Lord’ and believe in your heart that God raised him from the dead, you will be saved.” How can you do that? In Ephesians 2:89, we further read, “For it is by grace you have been saved, through faith and this not of yourselves, it is the gift of God—not by works, so that no one can boast.”

It’s really quite simple. Give your life to Christ in prayer. Simply acknowledge your sin and your need for a Savior. Repent of your past, thank Jesus for dying on the cross for you, and surrender your life to Him. If that’s the desire of your heart, here’s a prayer you could pray even now. The specific words are not important, it’s the sincerity of your heart. Jesus—I admit that I am a sinner. I have lived my life for myself. Thank you for dying on the cross for me. Please forgive me and come into my heart, as I surrender my life to you. I love you and I thank you. In Jesus’ Name, Amen. If you’re prayed that prayer today, please let someone you trust know. Your Asbury pastors would love to share your joy! Have a Happy and Blessed New Year! Yours in Christ’s Love, Senior Associate Pastor Mark McAdow P.S. If you have questions about Christianity, you may want to check out Asbury’s ALPHA course. The next course begins January 10 with an ALPHA Preview dinner in the Community Life Center at Asbury. It’s a 10-week course where you can ask any question, while exploring the meaning of life. We’d love to have you!

LIVING TO LO VE, LOVE, OBJECTIVE #2

SEEK & S AVE THE SA

LOST THROUGH CHRIST

e believe that God calls every member of His body to develop a lifestyle of living to love, seek and save the lost through Christ.

This lifestyle comes after each member has accepted Jesus Christ as his or her Savior and Lord. Through profession of faith—Romans 10:9 “That if you confess with your mouth . . .” Water Baptism—Matthew 3:6 “Confessing their sins, they were baptized . . .” Become a disciple of Christ—Matthew 4:19 “Come follow me Jesus said . . .” Why do we feel that it is our responsibility to fulfill objective #2? Because Jesus himself teaches us to go and make disciples, in simple terms “go be a light in your circle of influence.” Scripture teaches us that as Jesus called His disciples they left what they were doing and followed Him. Not only did they follow Him, but they also begin to tell others about Him. “We have found the Messiah (that is, the Christ).” And he brought him to Jesus. Andrew, Simon Peter’s brother was one of the two who heard what John had said and who had followed Jesus. The first thing Andrew did was to find his brother Simon and tell him, “We have found the Messiah (that is, the Christ) . And he brought him to Jesus. -John 1:40-42

The great commission of Jesus is given to all who would follow Him. Matthew 28:19-20 clearly defines our duty as disciples. “All authority in heaven and on earth has been given to me”. Matthew 28:19-20. “Therefore, go and make disciples of all nations, baptizing them in the name of the Father and of the Son and of the Holy Spirit, and teaching them to obey everything I have commanded you. And surely I am with you always, to the very end of the age.” We at Asbury believe that our responsibility is to reach the lost and bring them to a saving knowledge of Jesus Christ. If we fail to do this then we are failing our Lord’s command to go make disciples. Let us not just introduce them to Christ and walk away, but let us nurture and grow them into disciples so that in return they can go and make others into disciples of Jesus Christ. We encourage every member to develop a lifestyle where there is an intense affection for the lost and with that affection we set in motion a deliberate act to rescue those who do not know the way to Jesus Christ. Remember, there is no cost too high to save one soul. The scripture clearly tells us that “He that wins souls is wise” -Pastor with Women Darlene Johnson

WORSHIPING GOD OBJECTIVE #3

CORPOR ATEL Y CORPORA TELY & PRIV ATEL Y PRIVA TELY

ne day while watching TV I turned to a channel where there was a broadcast of a “command performance.” A ballet was being performed for Queen Elizabeth who was sitting right up front. I watched briefly and then said to myself…“Borrrriiinnnggg!” Then I realized, ”This performance isn’t for me. It’s for the queen, and she doesn’t look bored at all!” What adjectives come to mind when you consider the word “worship?” You might say “exciting, alive, moving, emotional, energetic, heartfelt,” or a number of other vivid descriptions. On the other hand, you might say…“Borrrriiinnnggg!” Guess what...worship is a “command performance,” but it’s NOT for you. It’s for the Creator of the universe, Who is sitting right up front while YOU AND I perform for Him! I have been sharing worship principles for several years now at one of our Sunday morning worship services. (You’ll see some of these below in bold words.) The purpose of these is twofold. First, my hope is that these principles will help all of us grow in our understanding of Christian worship. Secondly, I believe a growing understanding will fuel our personal and corporate experience of interacting with and showing our love to our Heavenly Father. Here are some worship principles that have been guiding us… Why do we worship? I am wired for worship! (Romans 1:15-20) How do we worship? The beginning of worship is surrender. (2 Chronicles 30:7-9) Enter His gates with thanksgiving and His courts with praise. (Psalm 100:4)

Who is the object of faithful Christian worship? Jesus is the heart of worship. (John 20:28) And, Lord, You are my audience of one. (Deuteronomy 6:4,5) So, what is worship? Worship is recognizing and responding to the presence of God. (Exodus 3:1-6) Worship is giving my whole heart to God. (Matthew 22:36-38) Worship is speaking to God face-to-face. (Exodus 33:9-11) Worship is an expression of Whose you are. (Exodus 7:16) Worship is bringing pleasure to God. (Psalm 135:1-4) Worship is lifting Jesus up. (John 12:32) Worship is saying, “I love you, Lord.” (Matthew 22:36-38) What happens when we worship? God inhabits the praises of His people. (Psalm 22:3) Worship opens me to receive God’s joy. (Psalm 92) Where the spirit of the Lord is, there is freedom. (2 Corinthians 3:17) So, how are we being challenged with Objective #3? The Lord wants fearless worshipers. (2 Chronicles 20:21-22) Worship God in spirit and in truth. (John 4:20-24) So, whether you’re worshiping by yourself by singing, praying, dancing, shouting, quoting scripture, being quiet, whatever, or you’re worshiping with others…do it daily and do it with all your heart, soul, mind, and strength! -Pastor with Men Dub Ambrose 12

PAR TICIP ATING ARTICIP TICIPA OBJECTIVE #4

IN A SMALL GROUP

CHRISTIAN COMMUNITY

hey devoted themselves to the apostles’ teaching and to the fellowship, to the breaking of bread and to prayer. Everyone was filled with awe, and many wonders and miraculous signs were done by the apostles. All the believers were together and had everything in common. Selling their possessions and goods, they gave to anyone as he had need. Every day they continued to meet together in the temple courts. They broke bread in their homes and ate together with glad and sincere hearts, praising God and enjoying the favor of all the people. And the Lord added to their number daily those who were being saved. Acts 2:42-47 What is the most important thing in your life? A question that is often asked and often followed with an answer to a more important question: who is most important in your life. Whether you follow Christ or not, it is hard to argue against the fact that we need relationships. I believe we were created to live in community. In light of this it is hard to understand why it is that as our culture is hurled into tomorrow and the next day community and significant relationships are harder and harder to find! That which our hearts and our spirits value and long for most is often what our culture values least. Consequently, we are more alone than we have ever been. There is no longer a front porch on which we all gather, rather we pull into our garages, close the garage door (often while we are still in our cars), enter our homes and find ourselves protected (or trapped) from the rest of the world. Many technologies have promised a deeper connection as they have made communication more convenient and yet, it has been observed that the more 13

connected we become electronically, the more disconnected we become personally! Louise Conant , associate rector of Christ Church in Cambridge, Massachusetts, has stated that in the past “people came together in church on Sunday morning to celebrate the community that they had the rest of the week,” people now “come to church on Sunday morning to find the community that they don’t have the rest of the week.” These are all reasons why the fourth objective at Asbury is that every member will participate in a small group Christian community. There are currently over 35 Discipleship Communities at Asbury. These communities are a place for members to belong (to feel welcomed, to be cared for, and to care for others), a place to believe (to grow in your faith through Biblical teaching), and to become (opportunities to serve the church, our community and the world alongside others). Here are four easy ways to find a community that is a right fit for you: 1. Check out the listing of communities on page 26 and visit. 2. Go online to the Asbury website (http://www.asburytulsa.org/ get-involved/communities/index.html) 3. Ask a friend or another church member which community they belong to and ask them to take you with them. 4. Call us at the church and we will help you out (918) 492-1771 -Pastor with College and Young Adults Todd Craig

DEVELOPING A OBJECTIVE #5

“BIBLICAL WORLD VIEW WORLDVIEW VIEW””

BY LEARNING & APPL YING GOD’S WORD APPLYING

t’s was one of those “I’ll always remember this moment!” moments. I knew that I was having problems seeing the writing board of one of my graduate school professors.The television in the den seemed to be a bit blurry. And nightdriving just wasn’t as clear as it use to be. After a thorough exam, the Tulsa Eye Clinic delivered my first eyeglasses in a mere three days. I’ll remember it forever—it was practically an “ah-ha!” moment. Stepping outside for the first time with my new glasses and seeing distant buildings, trees, clouds, even people, with a fine clarity that I didn’t even recognize I had lost. With those eye glasses, I see the physical world around me with clarity that is not my own. Without them, everything is a blur. Asbury’s fifth ministry objective is: Every member developing a “Biblical worldview” by learning and applying God’s Word. Worldview is a relatively new word–- not really one we were using even 10 or 12 years ago. Today, worldview is understood as the lens through which we see life. Just as the lens of my eyeglasses is made up of precisely curved glass or clear plastic, the lens of one’s worldview is made up on one’s personal background, experiences, values, and beliefs.The reality is that everyone has a worldview and that worldview determines how each one of us sees, lives and experiences life. Now notice that Asbury objective again: Every member developing a “Biblical worldview . . . A biblical worldview approaches and lives life based upon biblical insight and wisdom, reflecting biblical convictions. You see, worldview determines behavior. My personal worldview determines my personal

behavior. So, if I approach life from a non-Christian, a non-biblical worldview, my life will be lived in a non-Christian way, even though I claim Christianity as my religion. But, if my worldview is a biblical worldview, then my behavior will be that which God has shown in His Word, the Bible. The truth is that just as I need my eyeglasses in order to see accurately the physical world around me, I need the spiritual lens of Scripture (the Bible) in order to see life as God’s sees life. You ask, “How does one develop a biblical worldview?” Well, three concise responses come to mind: 1. In order to see life through the lens of the Bible, one must know the God of the Bible. Being in a relationship with God through Jesus Christ results in God Himself taking up residence in your life, your heart and your mind. 2. Invest your time and energy in getting to know the Bible. Simply taking time to read the Bible on a regular basis will open those worldview eyes to God’s perspective. In addition to reading, take time to meditate, study and memorize portions of Scripture. 3. Finally, determine to live your daily life in direct obedience to God’s Word. You will be amazed how biblical principles will impact your relationships, your work, your marriage and family, your neighborliness, your worship, your service . . . in fact, the Bible will speak into virtually every “nook and cranny” of your life. Jesus announced to His followers, “Blessed are your eyes, because they see; and your ears, because they hear.” (Matthew 13:16) Likewise, blessed are contemporary Christians who see and live life through the lens of Scripture, with a biblical worldview. - Pastor of Discipleship Dick Read

BRINGING THE OBJECTIVE #6

TITHE

(ONE TENTH) IN LO VING LOVING OBEDIENCE TO GOD’S GR A CIOUS PRO VISION GRA PROVISION

atty and I have believed in and practiced this objective from the very beginning of our marriage. It has not been out of a sense of duty, but out of a deep sense of gratitude for all that God has done for us. Through the years we have discovered the reality of what Paul meant when he wrote in Philippians 4:19: And my God will fully satisfy every need of yours according to his riches in Glory in Christ Jesus. We are fully aware that He did not promise to satisfy “every want” but He has fully met every need of ours through the years. That is why our tithe is the first check we want to write each week. We do not want to become like the fellow we heard about who joined with his pastor in making a covenant to tithe ten percent of their income each year. They were both young and neither had much money. But things changed. The layman tithed $1,000 the year he earned $10,000, and $10,000 the year he earned $100,000, and $100,000 the year he earned one million dollars. But the year he earned six million dollars he just could not

bring himself to write out that check for $600,000 to the church. He telephoned the pastor, long since having moved to another parish, and asked to see him. Walking into the pastor’s office the man begged to be let out of the covenant, saying, “This tithing business has to stop. It was fine when my tithe was $1,000, but I just cannot afford give away $600,000. You’ve got to do something, Reverend!” The pastor knelt down on the floor and prayed silently for a long time. “Are you praying that God will let me out of the covenant to tithe?” the layman asked. “No,” said the pastor, “I’m praying for God to reduce your income back to the level where $1,000 would be your tithe!” Whatever our income, we are committed to give at least the first ten percent to the Lord! What a joy to share that tithe in the life of Asbury when you see all that God is doing through the ministry of our church in reaching people for Christ and changing lives here and around the world. -Pastor with Senior Adults David Thomas

DEV OTED TO DEVOTED OBJECTIVE #7

PR AYER PRA

“O

ne day Jesus was praying in a certain place. When he finished, one of his disciples said to him, ‘Lord, teach us to pray, just as John taught his disciples.’ He said to them, ‘When you pray, say . . . “ and we are introduced to what we know as the Lord’s Prayer. I remember growing up as a child and my mother would kneel down with me at my bed at night and would say the prayer most of us were taught: “Now I lay me down to sleep . . .” and that would be the first prayer I would begin to pray. As I grew older, prayer became a part of my life and I found that it was like having a conversation with my best friend. Someone once asked me, “Sonny, do you know any short

prayers?” I guess I do, but when I start having a conversation with the Lord I seem to have lots to say, and then I do my best to stop and listen—for prayer is a twoway street. Prayer was very important to Jesus. When He had important decisions to make, He went away to a quiet place and prayed to His Father. With this in mind, when I think about how important it was to Him, I realize how much more important it should be for me. One of the things I have found here at Asbury is that this is a church where prayer is very, very important and is a part of all that happens—the Acts 29 outreach, the program that is in place in which every member is prayed for weekly, prayers during staff meetings, and the list goes on and on. So, what does prayer mean to me? Simply put, it’s my time to spend talking with my very best friend, who knows everything about me, and loves me anyway. -Pastor of Care Sonny Plischke

DISCO VERING & DISCOVERING OBJECTIVE #8

USING SPIRITU AL SPIRITUAL

GIFTS FOR MINISTR Y & MISSION MINISTRY

his objective highlights the need for and encourages every member to be in ministry and mission at Asbury United Methodist Church. It talks about how every believer has a spiritual gift which has been given by God in His grace for us to serve and do ministry. Some scriptures referencing this are Romans 12:6, Ephesians 2:10 and 1 Peter 4:10. All of them speak in one way or the other that God has a plan for each of our lives and that we are made for a mission in this world. We like to encourage all who come here to use their spiritual gifts so that we can be channels for God’s love and grace to others. It is about stepping out in faith to be a blessing to others and being blessed by God when we do that. It is about taking what we have learned about Christian living and applying to our daily

living. It is about using our different gifts yet remaining connected as one to form the powerful body of Christ. It is about knowing how essential it is to participate in Bible studies, classes to improve our knowledge and relationship to God, taking part in worship and being part of a community of believers, and knowing in addition to all of these, that we are also called to action, to serve. It is about finding out what God’s purpose for our life is and making that our passion. It is about allowing God to use us ordinary people to do extraordinary things in this world because we are truly God’s messengers. -Pastor to Missions Judith Banya

THE WESLEY CO VENANT COVENANT

INVIT ATION INVITA

ommit yourselves to Christ as his servants. Give yourselves to him, that you may belong to him. Christ has many services to be done. Some are more easy and honorable, others are more difficult. Some are suitable to our inclinations and interests, others are contrary to both. In some we may please Christ and please ourselves. It is necessary, therefore, that we consider what it means to be a servant of Christ. Let us, therefore, go to Christ, and pray: Let me be your servant, under your command. I will no longer be my own. I will give up myself to your will in all things. Be satisfied that Christ shall give you your place and work. Lord, make me what you will. I put myself fully into your hands: put me to doing, put me to suffering, let me be employed for you, or laid aside for you, let me be full, let me be empty, let me have all things, let me have nothing. I freely and with a willing heart give it all to your pleasure and disposal. Christ will be the Savior of none but his servants. He is the source of all salvation to those who obey. Christ will have no servants except by consent; Christ will not accept anything except full consent to all that he requires. Christ will be all in all, or he will be nothing. Confirm this by a holy covenant. To make this covenant a reality in your life, listen to these admonitions: First, set apart some time, more than once, to be spent alone before the Lord; in seeking earnestly God’s special assistance and gracious

acceptance of you; in carefully thinking through all the conditions of the covenant; in searching your hearts whether you have already freely given your life to Christ. Consider what your sins are. Consider the laws of Christ, how holy, strict, and spiritual they are, and whether you, after having carefully considered them, are willing to choose them all. Be sure you are clear in these matters, see that you do not lie to God. Second, be serious and in a spirit of holy awe and reverence. Third, claim God’s covenant, rely upon God’s promise of giving grace and strength, so you can keep your promise. Trust not your own strength and power. Fourth, resolve to be faithful. You have given to the Lord your hearts, you have opened your mouths to the Lord, and you have dedicated yourself to God. With God’s power, never go back. Finally, be then prepared to renew your covenant with the Lord. Open your heart to the Lord, as we pray.

2005 CO VENANT COVENANT PR AYER PRA I know “It’s Not About Me!” but I also know that I am part of the world that you love. I am grateful for your love. I ask you today to be the Lord of my life. I want to serve you all the days of my life. Because of your great love for all people and your desire for them to know you : In 2005, I covenant to love, seek and save the lost not through my own power but through Christ. I will seek opportunities to share my faith with others. Because you desire us to set our hearts on things above and not on things below: I covenant to worship you, both corporately and privately. I will make worship part of my daily and weekly life. Because you created me for fellowship: I covenant to participate in a small group Christian community. I will find other believers with whom to meet so we can grow spiritually together. Because I need guidance and a direction in life: I covenant to develop a biblical worldview by learning and applying your Word. The Bible will be more a part of my life than ever before.

John Wesley sat for the young potter Enoch Wood when he made this bust early in the 1780s. 18

An interior view of Wesley Chapel in England. The opening service took place in 1778.

Because I have a tendency to sometimes focus on material possessions, rather than on your provisions for me: I covenant to bring the tithe (one-tenth) in loving obedience to your gracious provision. I will grow in my stewardship commitment this year. Because I have a bent to take life on my own terms: I covenant to be devoted to prayer. I will find regular times and places to pray each day and week of this new year. Because I have a need to have a place to be fulfilled in life: I covenant to discover and use my spiritual gifts for ministry and mission. I will find consistent opportunities to contribute to the lives of others with kindness. I know your love for me is not based upon my performance, but is rooted in your love. I am grateful you do not expect me to be perfect, Lord. But I also want to do my very best for you, not from fear or guilt, but motivated by my love for you. Help me to live out my faith more than ever before in this new year.

ohn Wesley, 1703-1791, was the founder of “Methodism.” He was born in Epworth England and was a preacher’s kid. His father, Samuel, was an Anglican (“Church of England” or “Episcopalian”) priest. His mother, Susanna, was also very strong in her faith. John decided to be a priest, as well. He attended Oxford University. While there, he and his brother Charles, later known for his prolific hymn writing, formed an accountability group that met together weekly. They gave account of their spiritual lives and were also very concerned about doing good deeds. The other men at Oxford who were also studying to become priests made fun of them. They gave them a nickname: “Methodist.” In 1735, John and Charles decided to come to America to preach 19

JOHN WESLEY the Gospel to the Native Americans. In the two plus months voyage across the Atlantic, their ship encountered a violent storm. Wesley thought he would die. In the midst of the storm, he heard some German Christians (Moravians) who were singing. Even their children seemed to be at peace. Wesley questioned them, wondering if they understood the difficulty they were in. Their response, Wesley said, “shook me even more than the storm.” They said that they firmly believed that whether they lived or died, they were with the Lord. John, who had all of this extensive spiritual background, didn’t feel such assurance. The storm abated; he arrived safely in Georgia and spent a couple of disastrous years as a missionary in America. Upon returning to England, he found some Moravians and expressed

his desire to have what they had. “It” happened to John on May 24, 1738. As a result, these are the most famous words of Methodism: “I felt my heart strangely warmed. I felt I did trust in Christ alone for salvation; and an assurance was given me that He had taken away my sins, even mine and saved me from the law of sin and death.” John Wesley went on to travel 250,000 miles (on horseback), to preach more than 40,000 sermons and to write over 300 books. While he wasn’t “perfect,” perfection certainly was his goal. His intention was never to start a new church and when he died in 1791, he was still an Anglican priest. How did it become a “Methodist Church?” (Hint….think of what world event had happened in the last 25 years of his life).

WE REJOICE TO RECOGNIZE Y OU AS MEMBERS OF CHRIST ’S HOL Y YOU HOLY CHUR CH AND BID Y OU WELCOME TO ASBUR Y UNITED METHODIST CHURCH YOU ASBURY OU WE RENEW OUR V OWS TO UPHOLD IT B Y OUR CHURCH. YOU VOWS BY CHUR CH. WITH Y VICE, AND OUR WITNESS. PRA SERVICE, PR AYERS, OUR PRESENCE, OUR GIFTS, OUR SER

PR AYERS PRA

CL AUDIA ABERNA THY CLA ABERNATHY

ow I lay me down to sleep… As far back as Claudia Abernathy can remember, she has known to pray. As a child growing up in Alabama, her prayers were simple, believing prayers. She learned that God loves her and tenderly cares for her. Lord, I need… As she grew up, she prayed more for personal needs, hopes and desires. She attended college at Auburn University, married Bill Abernathy and had two boys, Nick and Mark. She learned that God is trustworthy; He hears and provides. Lord, I lift up… Motherhood brought the need to pray for others, especially family and friends. She remembers being awoken with a strong burden for one of her children. She would respondby praying for God’s protection, and oftentimes she would find out later they were indeed in the midst of a struggle. She learned that God wants to involve us in the lives of others through prayer, and to be sensitive to the Holy Spirit who prompts us to pray. Lord, I want to know You… Gradually, prayer became more of a conversation with the Lord, time spent resting in the His presence. She would often visualize herself climbing up

in the lap of her Abba Father, trusting him each step of the way. As she spent time in the Word, her heart became burdened for that which burdens the heart of God, and she began praising Him and interceding for the needs of others. She learned that God’s desire was for a personal relationship. Lord, not my will, but Yours… When Claudia was entering the “Empty Nest” stage, she began praying for a clear direction toward work that would glorify God and make an impact for His kingdom. About that time, Phil Baxter approached her about a need for a Director of Prayer. While surprised, Claudia sensed the Lord’s hand in it because she had noticed that, while there were lots of people praying at Asbury, the prayer ministry needed some organization. As she sought the Lord in prayer, she jotted notes that turned into a 48-page

journal. Her enthusiasm was confirmation and she accepted the position on a volunteer basis. For three years, Claudia has fostered an atmosphere of prayer at Asbury with Isaiah 56:7 as her focus, “My house will be called a house of prayer for all the peoples.” During construction of our new facility, she scheduled weekly prayer walks, prayer vigils, and a 24/7 Bible Reading event which culminated in a memorable walk from Sheridan to Mingo. Since the move, she has continued to build the Prayer Ministry by maintaining Prayer Rooms, mobilizing prayer for the Pastor’s Prayer Shield, Spring Break Missions, Fall Focus, Acts 29 and Pray for All. Claudia recently looked back through the journal she made three years ago, and was amazed to see that God has caused many of her thoughts to become reality, and realized the importance of “pray first, plan later.” Each stage of Claudia’s journey in prayer has been marked by a yielded heart and a willingness to spend time in prayer. As her journey continues, each new season brings opportunities to grow in her relationship with the Lord and to serve Him in new ways. A passion for prayer, perseverance and grace are her legacy, and Asbury has been blessed by Claudia’s faithful ministry. -Juli Armour 20

PRESENCE

BOB WESTERBERG

hink about the things that really make you happy. Maybe it’s a good book, a favorite place to vacation, or hearing the voice of a loved one. With all the good things that fill our lives, there is really only one thing that brings lasting fulfillment and purpose-knowing Christ and discovering your purpose in Him. Knowing you have a distinct purpose swells up a desire to invest your life in passing this joy onto others. You can’t wait for God to use you. You’re ready and available to do whatever He calls you to do to build up his church and extend His love to others. And it’s this kind of pattern of “contagious love for serving” that seems to run through the life of Bob Westerberg. Bob came to know Christ as a teenager while living in Philadelphia. While he was still young in his faith, God placed people in his life that would be instrumental in demonstrating a life of service. Mr. & Mrs. Frank Gery were members of his home church. “They were probably the first couple who showed me how to serve the Lord. They did so with both their wallets and their deeds,” recalls Bob. Years later in 1972, God brought Bob and his wife, Dotti, to Asbury. Early, Bob began to serve as the

Worship Committee Chairman. In those days, it was a one-man job to help see that the services ran smoothly. But as the church grew, additional help had to be recruited. Today, three couples now help with each specific service: George and Dolphine Keenum, Dwight and Carolyn Yoder, Carl and Sue Richards. In addition, Bob helps train and coordinate Asbury’s ushers. “They might be the first person that a visitor to our church sees. It is so important that they show interest in each person coming in the door as they hand out bulletins and make them feel welcome,” Bob said. He also makes sure ushers are prepared to help in a time of emergency by providing crisis training, including how to use defibrillators. On any given Sunday morning, Bob finds himself running “back and forth between areas and buildings” passing on any directives from the staff. But the challenge doesn’t seem to slow him down. According to Hart Morris, Asbury’s Minister of Music, “Coordinating the coordinators can be a difficult job but Bob is always prepared, dependable, and has never dropped the ball. Bob is like the sun--always there.” Bob is also involved in numerous ministries outside the church walls like

Habitat for Humanity, Helping Hooves (therapeutic horse riding program for handicapped children), Little Lighthouse, Bixby Methodist Church Care Ministry and Special Olympics. Bob’s love of giving back to God has gone full circle. Now he sees that same contagious desire to serve passed on to his two daughters. They are actively involved in areas of ministry, one here at Asbury and another daughter in Kansas City and Bob is so grateful to see his children choosing to invest their lives in the lives of others. If you’re looking for a place to serve, Bob feels the first key is to find a way to get involved. A great place to start is by finding a community. “Fellowship with other believers will help you in all areas of your life. Then look for an area of service that has a need and that you’re interested in. You will be blessed much more than you can bless others.” Bob feels that service is an integral part of the life of a Christian. Ephesians 4:10 says, “We are God’s workmanship, created in Christ Jesus to do good works, which God prepared in advance for us to do.” Bob explained, “We all have good works to do to advance God’s kingdom here on earth. I don’t want to stand before God’s throne and have Him ask why I just filled a pew in the church.” -Nikki Boyd

GIFTS

CHUCK STOPHEL

ome gifts come wrapped in pretty paper with bows and ribbons. And some gifts come wrapped in layers of anxious days and dark moments and tears. It is the gifts that are hidden beneath the ugliest wrapping that Chuck Stophel has learned to cherish the most. He received a gift like this ten years ago, when he was only 28 years old. The doctor’s diagnosis was blunt: heart failure. What was supposed to be a simple appointment to receive antibiotics for the stomach flu revealed a strange sound in the beat of his

heart. After testing, the doctors found that Chuck had major heart failure. The only alternative, they said, was a heart transplant. Suddenly Chuck and his wife, Sara, were on a journey they could have never imagined. “We were optimistic people,” Chuck says, “and hearing a diagnosis that left very little hope was scary.” Because of the small number of organs available, the doctors made it clear that Chuck would not go on the transplant list until he was symptomatic. Over the next six months his heart and health deteriorated and he was finally rushed to the cardiac ward at St. Francis where doctors told him he would stay until he got a transplant. The news of a match came while Chuck and Sara were huddled in the hospital room watching the Oklahoma City bombing memorial service. They had been hoping that there would be a match after the tragedy occurred, but there was no news. “That’s the point where I started to get pretty depressed,” Chuck said. “What I didn’t realize is that one floor up was my donor.” The young man had been fatally injured in a vehicle pedestrian accident. He was 25, and an organ donor. The transplant procedure took only

three and a half hours, and by the next day, Chuck was out of the bed and walking. He was home nine days later. Today, ten years after his heart transplant, his health is excellent. “How can you put words on what it’s like to know someone else has given you a heart? I have met his family and stay in contact with them. I think there is a silver lining for them in their tragedy, to see that we have gone on and made a difference for other people.” The gift of a new heart has given Chuck and Sara the desire to give back by using their gifts in a variety of different ministries. Chuck and Sara share their gift of singing during the 9:30 a.m. worship service as part of the praise team. Three years ago, Chuck founded Transplant T.E.A.M.S., a ministry that gives practical support and encouragement to transplants and their families. Recently, through the ministry, they have purchased and furnished an apartment for families of transplants to stay in while they wait for a donor. “I try to live in such a way that I appreciate this gift I’ve been given,” Chuck says. “When you’re in the middle of it, there’s no way to see how God can use it for something wonderful, but He has. I get to be the practical feet and hands of Jesus for other transplants. We pray with them and encourage them. I hope that in me they see hope for themselves. I purposely relive and remember what I have gone through, so that I can help other people get through it.” -Lisa Tresch 22

SER VICE SERVICE

MAR THA LO VELL, JEANETTE MARTHA LOVELL, Mc DONALD, JJANE ANE HAMIL TON & HAMILTON La VERNE GOW ANS GOWANS

erving—a spiritual gift that is defined as blessing others in practical ways. It is a verb that is easily defined, but perhaps a little more difficult to demonstrate. That is, unless you are Martha Lovell, Jane Hamilton, LaVerne Gowans, and Jeanette Young. For them, it is a gift that comes naturally and abundantly. These faithful women serve the members (and non-members) of Asbury who are not involved in a small group or community. Sometimes, they “work” many times per month and sometimes only once a month. They serve 25 people and sometimes several hundred people. Usually, they receive only one or two day’s notice and often cancel their own plans. But they don’t mind—they love what they do and wouldn’t have it any other way. Martha, Jane, LaVerne, and Jeanette are the ladies of the Funeral Meals Ministry. These awesome ladies organize the meal, set-up and serve the meal, and clean up afterwards. But the ministry is so much more than providing a meal. This

ministry provides the family an opportunity to gather and visit with one another without any worries regarding food. As Martha puts it, “It is one less thing they have to worry about.” Recently, Martha experienced the benefits of this wonderful ministry firsthand. Having lost her husband a few months ago, Martha was on the receiving end of this act of hospitality. She experienced just how much this act of service means to families. She has a true understanding of what a blessing this ministry provides. Victoria Williamson, assistant to Pastor Tom, works closely with these ladies in the coordination and communication of the funerals. As Victoria says, “These ladies have been such a blessing in so many ways. When there is a funeral, they are ready and willing to offer a meal for the family— whether it is served here at the church or delivered to the home. They have been doing the “meal ministry” for many years, so they are experts at organizing, preparing and serving these meals. Talk about a servant’s heart— these ladies exemplify it. They truly are the

“Marthas” with servant’s hearts. Thank you, ladies.” Martha is the unofficial leader of this group and in her ten years of serving on the meal ministry, she has seen her “list” of providers grow from 35-40 people to close to 200 people. The “list” is a group of members who respond promptly and faithfully to her phone calls and requests for food. Martha explains, “People are always willing to help.” The Funeral Meals Ministry is so much more than just providing a meal to church members without a small group. The Funeral Meals Ministry is about allowing family members to reminisce about their loved one; it’s about giving friends and family the opportunity to exchange fond memories; and it’s about letting them laugh and visit with long-lost relatives. This is serving—this is blessing others in practical ways. -Marcia Curley

Above: Martha Lovell. Left: Jeanette McDonald, Jane Hamilton and LaVerne Gowans. 23

WITNESS AMY DOBB S DOBBS

No matter what we face, be reassured that we can trust God because He loves us unconditionally and will not abandon us. We can have hope as we place our trust in His faithfulness and ability to work out His purposes in our lives. -Anne Graham Lotz

ope. Trusting God. Trusting God in spite of circumstances and sharing that hope with others. That was Amy Dobbs greatest desire: to be of service to others and share the hope she found in Jesus Christ. This 44-year-old single parent with two teenage daughters—Kayla, 17 and Jamie, 14—maintained an optimistic outlook and ministered to others in her day-by-day existence at Glenpool Nursing Facility until her death on November 25. As an 11-year-old Amy answered God’s call on her life. Then in 1997 she made an adult decision to rededicate her life to Jesus Christ. “This led me to a higher spirituality. I found that I sought the Lord more.” Amy loved God, her daughters, her work as a teacher in Broken Arrow, and her church. Life was looking good. Then in 2003 adversity thundered upon her like an avalanche. “I discovered a tumor in my breast. I wasn’t too concerned because I had benign tumors before, but I scheduled a mammogram. My gynecologist took one look at the results and scheduled a needle biopsy. This was on Friday and

after the weekend I got the call. It was cancer. I felt like I had been shot right out of a cannon.” Later, the scans showed the tumor hadn’t spread, but it did show that 13 of the lymph nodes were affected. Amy began the grueling experience of chemotherapy and radiation. Feeling that they had the disease under control, Amy began to relax. But in February 2003 she received the devastating news that it had instead spread to the liver and the bones. Again, she began chemo. Following this the tests revealed that it hadn’t gotten worse, but it wasn’t significantly better. But by the next fall Amy received more bad news—the cancer had spread to the brain. This rendered her unable to drive and she realized she would have to take a leave of absence from teaching. Finally, her principal spoke with her about retiring and applying for disability. She hated how the steroids “blow you up” and she missed being at home with her daughters, but she wasn’t angry. “I don’t blame God, but the enemy. So, now that it’s necessary for me to be in the nursing center, I concentrate on drawing closer to God

and helping others around me. I pray with the workers and let others know there’s hope in Jesus Christ. “God has provided for everything I need, both big and small. Many from the church have visited me and I was so touched to have visits from Asbury’s pastors. I was also used to being a giver and now all these people were giving to me, however, lately there is this strong joy in really learning about the Lord. He has shown me there is a purpose in all this. I feel very close to Him. The Holy Spirit has given me a great peace in my heart,” said Amy. “I know His way is right regardless of how this turns out. Of course, I’m sad sometimes. I want to be with my daughters so much, but I rest in knowing He’s going to take care of me and of them as well.” Amy seemed to have mastered the secret to trusting God in adverse circumstances, but she went far beyond that as she brought joyous hope to others around her. -Sandy Wagner

When asked if she would rather we use a photo of her taken before her illness and the steroids, Amy said, “No, that’s part of my witness for Christ, too.”

SOME OB SER VATIONS OBSER SERV ’S FRIENDS . . . FROM AMY AMY’S

n Philippians Paul wrote, “I have learned the

secret of being well-fed and of going hungry, of having plenty and of being in need.” The secret the apostle my was a compassionate child of God

Paul learned was to be content in every situation.

as shown by the many missions she led before her

Whether he was hungry, poor or being beaten, Paul

illness. When that was no longer possible, Amy found

could always rejoice in the Lord. Amy, too, had learned

new ways to honor God, with her life, her praise, and her

that secret and always seemed to be content and

prayers. Amy opened her heart to Jesus every day with

always rejoiced in the Lord, whether she was in the

every encounter with people. She rejoiced in His great-

hospital, taking a chemo treatment or in the nursing

ness. It was a blessing to have been a part of Amy’s life

home. She always seemed to be content and rejoice in

and to observe her ministry. Throughout her illness, Amy

the Lord. She truly touched many lives in the way she

continued to praise God and try to help others know the

lived and handled adversity. As a Christian I should

Lord. Amy will be truly missed.

know that I can overcome any problem with Christ. Yet

-Donna Moore

even Paul said that he had to learn the secret. Thank You, Lord, that you gave us Amy to help us learn this important secret. -Clarence Zitterkob

Discipleship Communities As you make your New Year’s

Christian Explorers – A small community of warm and friendly Christians, whose focus is to study the Bible

Intercessory prayer is an important part

and discuss its pertinence to their lives in

of our time together. We are a family of

practical and realistic application, utilizing a

learning and growing Christians who

variety of methods. We also enjoy fellow-

love to welcome new members.

ship, and community outreach projects are

(50+) — RM 2820

resolutions for 2006, why not consider

a high priority. All are welcome!

becoming actively involved in one of

(45 - 60’s) — RM 2502

Asbury’s Discipleship Communities? Members of Discipleship Communites seek to nurture one another in living the life of a disciple as manifested through Asbury’s eight objectives. Communities are designed for warm fellowship, spiritual growth, and

Happy Christians — Love to laugh, and care deeply for one another.

Cornerstone - Friendly and outgo-

Homebuilders — Married couples, generally in their mid- 20’s to 40’s. The class lessons are Bible-based discus-

ing families “being built together to

sions, including topics on marriage,

become a dwelling in which God lives by

sharing their faith, and practical Christian

His spirit” Ephesians 2:18-22. Connect-

living led by a strong teaching. There are

ing with God, connecting with our world,

also small group networks and several

connecting with each other.

social events throughout the year.

(30’s - 40’s) - RM 2502

(20’s – 40’s) — RM 2504

Covenant — A pioneer community of

Jabez — Young adults, single or

serving others. Here you will find a brief

young couples exploring and sharing the

married, who enjoy God and each other!

description of Asbury’s Adult Discipleship

adventure of the Christian life. Through

Classes feature Bible study with lots of

Communities. General age brackets are

the grace of Christ, Covenant provides

discussion and application to real-life

couples and families a way to build strong

situations. Monthly service projects reach

foundations with an emphasis on Biblical

out to the Tulsa community. This is a great

teaching, missions, and prayer.

place to develop new friendships and

(20-30’s) RM 2201

strengthen your walk with God.

listed at the end of each description. We encourage you to “shop around,” then connect with a community that best meets your needs.

Disciples — Bible-based lessons with thought stimulating, interactive

Sunday 8:00 a.m Joy — A class that enjoys Biblebased lessons and thought-provoking

(20’s-

30’s) — RM 2821 Legacy — Young families who

discussion. The ages of the adults in the

desire to build a Legacy through loving

community vary. Periodic serving, praying

relationships with God, family and

and fellowship opportunities enhance

community. W e are very active in volun-

interaction within the community.

teering in the Children’s Ministry at Asbury,

(ages vary) — RM 2500

as well as other areas in the church.

Family Fellowship — Special

Come learn more about this innovative

discussion. Socials are held regularly.

emphasis is on building Godly homes

community.

The love and care of the members are best

and strengthening marriage and family

(30’s and 40’s) — RM 1502

expressed in our motto: J - Jesus first - O -

relationships with an open discussion

Mariners — Both marrieds and

Others second and Y - Yourself last.

format. Beyond Sunday mornings we

singles that enjoy the fellowship of

(60’s & 70’s) — RM 1508

enjoy monthly socials, small group

studying the Gospel. We are devoted to

dinners, men’s and women’s Bible

caring for each other and those less

shared using the inductive study method,

studies, and local mission work.

fortunate.

which is studying scripture to understand,

(late 30’s – 50’s) — RM 1504

(55+) — RM 1508

Sonrisers — Where God’s Word is

interpret, and apply God’s Word. (50’s & 60’s) — RM 2821

9:15 a.m. Chancel Choir Class — An in-depth,

Friendship — The first adult Sunday

Seekers — A large community of

School class organized at Asbury. This

believers seeking God’s will for our lives

class incorporates topical Bible study with

through His Word. We enjoy serving

lively discussion. Regularly scheduled

together and regular fellowship activities.

socials are held quarterly and/or on a

(50’s -60’s) — RM 2319

interactive Bible study with a schedule that

seasonal basis. The highlight of each

Storm Shelter — Focuses on

works around choir events, practices, and

Sunday morning is when the two-year

learning and applying God’s Word in our

performances. The group was originally

olds come in to sing with our community.

daily lives. We strive to use God’s teach-

designed for choir members and their

(65+) — RM 1900

ings as our “storm shelter” in life.

spouses but all are welcome.

(late 20’s – 40’s) — RM 1507

(ages vary) — RM 2706 (Choir Room) COMMUNITIES

Wordfinders — Welcome guests in the name of Jesus. Lives are enriched by earnest community worship, prayer, Bible

in the community and worldwide. (ages vary) — RM 2818 Praise & Worship — Singles and

study, and fellowship. Come join us!

couples interested in discovering God’s

(late 50’s+) — RM 2818

teaching relevant to discipleship, family and community missions. This group is

11:00 a.m. The Ark — Consists of couples

actively involved in Asbury’ s Youth/ monthly socials with local outreach

lives, marriage, and families. The lessons

programs. We welcome new members

are Bible-based, and we strive to support

interested in getting involved and growing

one another in the roles each of us fulfills

in Christ.

throughout the week.

(30’s – 50’s) — RM 1504

Bible 101 — Designed especially

Tapestry — An in-depth study/ discussion-oriented class, focusing on

for people who want to know more about

the relevance of the Bible in our daily lives.

what God has to say in the Bible, but who

Open to individuals and couples, Tapestry

perhaps have not yet had the opportunity

acknowledges the value of each

to get started. No previous experience is

member’s spiritual gifts and strives to

necessary! No questions are too simple

encourage, support, and care for its

to ask! No outside study.

members in their walk with the Lord...a

(All ages and marital status) — RM 2502

tapestry of God’s love reaching out to the

Couples for Christ — Emphasis is on meeting the needs of married couples for fellowship, social support, and

world around us. (ages vary) — RM 1900 The Vineyard — Sharing a common

encouraging the development of relation-

desire to glorify God by becoming and

ships. The lessons are Bible-based and

making disciples. The community is

focus on providing relevant and helpful

comprised of singles and married, many

instruction for family living, blended with

with children. Our emphasis is on a

contemporary Christian music.

deeper relationship with God through

(40’s – 50’s) — RM 1502

Sunday Bible-based studies, mid-week

Faithbuilders — An active group that

and fun social activities.

All enjoy fellowship through socials, small

(30’s – 40’s) — RM 2504

(40’s – 60’s) — RM 2820 Friends in Christ — Bible-based

the previously mentioned communities, several of Asbury’s Discipleship Communities are designed specifically for Singles. They are listed below. Christians in Action (CIA) — A large, well-organized group participating in many diverse fellowship activities and mission outreaches in the community. (ages vary widely) — RM 2319 Singles Class Act (SCA) — A group for any age single adult. If you are looking for an in-depth Bible study and discussion, give this group a try. (ages vary) — RM 2502 New Beginnings Class (NBC) — Single adults in “prime time” caring for one another and energetic in outreach and Bible study. All are invited to join the fellowship and share the journey. (60+) — RM 1506 Purpose Driven Fellowship — A fellowship of singles gathering for Christcentered studies, activities, evangelism, and missions. We are energetic, caring, young professionals providing support to each other in our Christian walk. (30’s and 40’s) — RM 2821

small groups, and a variety of ministries

enjoys Biblical teaching shared by a team. group dinners, and Bible study.

While Single Adults participate in many of

Children’s Ministries, and mixes fun

seeking God’s will and direction for their

(20’s -30’s) — RM 1508

Asbury Singles Ministry 11 a.m.

Women of Faith — A community of women of all ages and all backgrounds: single, married, widowed and divorced.

They devoted themselves to the apostles’ teaching and to fellowship, to the breaking of bread and to prayer. Everyone was

class designed for developmentally

Emphasis is on Bible study and how the

disabled young adults. Focus on disciple-

knowledge of God’s word applies to our

ship, service, and mission.

lives as women, and how that knowledge

(ages vary) — RM 1507

allows us to touch the lives of others.

apostles. All the believers were together

(ages vary) — RM 1621

and had everything in common. Selling

Harvest — Based on Matthew 9:37: “The harvest is plentiful but the laborers are few,” and is dedicated to studying God’s Word and serving others through outreach. (ages vary) — RM 2201 Mosaic — A mixture of ages, length

Wednesday 6:30 p.m. Carpenter’s Workshop — This mid-week community is comprised of both singles and couples and meets in accordance with the Children’s Ministry

development, marital status. Our

Wednesday evening schedule.

heartbeat is in direct hands-on mission

(ages vary) — RM 1504

COMMUNITIES

miraculous signs were done by the

their possessions and goods, they gave to

of church membership, Christian

filled with awe, and many wonders and

anyone as he had need. Every day they continued to meet together with glad and sincere hearts, praising God and enjoying the favor of all the people. And the Lord added to their numbers daily those who were being saved.” Acts 2:42-47

asbury opportunities

access Hands of Love Sign Choir Sundays, 6:00-7:00 pm, Rm 2821

biblical literacy Asbury University Classes are available for all levels of learning. Brochures are available at the Welcome Centers and on the website: www.asburytulsa.org See pages 3-5 for class listings.

care and support

sunday mornings beneath the steeple Breakfast Served from 7:00-9:15 a.m. in the CLC Come enjoy fellowship with Asburians along with fresh donuts, bagels, biscuits & gravy, sausage, eggs, fruit, and cereal. $2 for adults & $1 for children 12 & under Sunday Morning Worship 8:00 am Mason Chapel (Traditional Communion) 9:15 am Sanctuary (Contemporary Communion) 11:00 am Sanctuary (Traditional) Sign interpreter provided 11:00 am Mason Chapel (Contemporary) Children and Students 6 Weeks - 4 Years 8:00, 9:15, and 11:00 am K-6th Grades 9:15 or 11:00 am 7th, 8th & 9th Grades 9:15 & 11:00 am 10th, 11th & 12th Grades 9:15 am only Adult Discipleship Communities 8:00, 9:15, and 11:00 am and Wednesdays, 6:30 pm The Gazebo is Open ...each Sunday morning between services and Wednesday evenings from 5:30 - 7:00 pm. Check out Pastor Tom’s book selections, Perceptions, and a variety of AsburyWear and other Asbury merchandise.

Pathways Through Grief Tuesdays, January 10 through March 14 from 7:00-8:30 pm in Room 2821. If you have lost someone to death in the last year or so, you are invited to this support group. The facilitators have experienced significant grief themselves. They know that even though grieving people share common feelings and experiences, each person travels through the grief process in a unique way. Each week there will be time to listen to materials written for grieving Christians, followed by a time of sharing. There are no magical words to end your pain, but we pray that we might comfort, support, strengthen, and encourage you on your journey. Call 392-1191 to register. Asbury Bear Bags Asbury Bears are not just for little kids anymore! Asbury Bear Bags with coloring books have comforted young children for many years, but now you may give a Bear Bag with a scripture-based journal included instead! Great for teens and adults. Anyone may deliver an Asbury Bear to someone who is grieving. For more information, contact Beth at 392-1116. Effective Networking Thursday, January 26 from 7:00-8:30 pm in Rm 2820. Personal contacting is a major resource in making an employment change. This seminar will focus on personal marketing through networking. A personal referral can be so valuable. Resume assistance will be available. Living Alone and Loving It Thursdays, January 19 - February 23 from 7:00 pm - 8:30 pm in the Parlor. Topics include: defeating loneliness, discovering you as a single person, tips on home repairs and safety, tip s on cooking for one, discovering God’s plan for your life as a single. Facilitator: Beth Dennis. No cost. Call 392-1191 to register. Search for Significance Tuesdays, February 7 thru April 4. (no class March 21) from 6:30-8:00 pm in Rm 1621. Cost: $13. Facilitators: Lois Trost and Diane Taylor. Where are you in your personal search for significance in life? What makes you feel

good about yourself? Build your self-esteem on your ability to please others, or build it on the unconditional love of Jesus Christ - the choice is yours! Call 392-1191 to register. Cancer Support Group Second Sunday of each month, 4:00-6:00 pm, Parlor - For those living with cancer and their family and friends Bipolar/Depression Support Group Second and fourth Tuesdays, 7:00-8:30 pm, Rm 1508 - For persons living with bipolar disorder or depression Divorce Recovery Tuesdays, 7:00-8:30 pm, Rm 2319 - For those suf fering from the early, highly emotional stages of divorce and separation trauma. Divorce Rebuilding Thursdays, 7:00-8:30 pm, Rm 2319 - For those ready to rebuild their lives after separation or divorce. Employment Transitions Need a second set of eyes to review your resume? Free male and female one-on-one support available through Asbury’s Employment Transitions. Contact Barbara Wright at blwright1@yahoo.com. Grandparents Raising Grandchildren First and third Tuesdays, 6:30-8:30 pm, Rm 1508. Family to Family Usually meets the fourth Tuesday of the month, 1:30-3:30 pm, Parlor. For family members or caregivers of people affected by a mental illness. Joint informational dinner meeting with Mental Health Support Group, third Wednesday of each month, 5:30 pm at the Rib Crib, 81st and Yale. Our Journey of Hope Saturday mornings, February 18 and 25, 8:30 am - 12:30 pm in Rm 2820. Look around you. Do you know any family who hasn’t been touched by cancer? the Pastoral Care Department of Cancer Treatment Centers of America (CTCA) will be providing training through its “Our Journey of Hope” program in two 4-hour sesions. Continental breakfast provided. Must register by February 10 by calling Lyn Thomson at 286-5235.

children Registration forms for all children’s activities are available in the preschool and elementary lobbies. Core Hours for Childcare Parents who are involved in activities or classes during these hours will have childcare provided with no reservations needed: Sundays 7:45 am - 12:15 pm Mondays 9:00 am - 12:00 pm Tuesdays 9:00 am - 12:00 pm Tuesdays 6:00 pm - 9:00 pm Wednesdays 6:00 pm - 9:00 pm CALENDAR

Wednesday Night Live Wednesdays, January 4 - April 26 from 7:00 8:00 pm. For 4 year olds through 4th graders. Our action-packed evening will start with high energy games in the main building, followed by worship in the Chapel - kid style. This overall program is designed to help children build character and develop qualities that will help them live productive and fulfilled lives as followers of Jesus Christ. Dismissal is at 8:00 pm from the Chapel. We can’t wait to see your kiddos (and parents if you like!) in worship with us soon! Children’s Ministry Enrichment Training Tuesday, January 17 from 7:00 - 8:30 pm. Childcare for children six weeks through 6th grade. “Modeling Commitment for Kids” is the first in a series of four enrichment courses offered in 2006 by our Children’s Ministry for volunteers, parents and grandparents. The goal is to assist anyone with a heart for kids in gaining a better understanding and knowledge in areas that benefit working (and playing) with His children. We hope to see you all for a little fun, and a lot of learning! Call Heidi, 3921168 or Kim, 392-1159, for more information. Children’s Choirs Wednesdays, January 4 - April 26 from 6:00 6:50 pm. Children’s choirs are for children ages three through sixth grade. Different choirs will be singing in all our Sunday morning services during the spring. Registration forms for NEW choir members will be available in each choir room. Returning choir members do not need to register again. We are so excited to be working with your children again! Spread the word! Children’s Choir is not just singin’. We play musical games, instruments and have lots of fun! Crew Leaders Wednesdays, January 4 - March 15 from 7:008:00 pm. Service and sacrifice are not only evidences of Christian purpose and growth, but also a prerequisite to an increasing relationship with the Lord. Crew Leaders is a Wednesday night program that allows selected fifth and sixth graders the opportunity to serve younger kids in our Wednesday night Kids’ Crew program. These leaders provide guidance for team games, music and story time, and serve as small group leaders during our teaching/follow-up activities. Students interested must apply, be interviewed and accepted into the program. The number of participants is limited, so apply early. Rock U Wednesdays, January 4 - March 15 from 7:008:00 pm. All kids are attracted to fun and games, and attracting kids is what we want to do! However, our ultimate objective is obviously far beyond just having a good time together. We desire to use God’s word and the conviction of the Holy Spirit to imp act fifth and sixth grade kids’ hearts, and to change lives 29

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forever. Our Wednesday night program moves this process beyond the “teaching and discussion” model of early elementary to a more serious small group interactive Bible study program requiring personal responsibility and accountability. It’s good stuff, folks! Don’t let your fifth or sixth grader miss out! Preschool/Mother’s Day Out Registration Monday, January 30 thru Friday, February 3 beginning at 8:00 am in the PS/MDO Office. Registration opens to Asbury members or regular attendees, for children who turn 8 months old by September 1, 2006 through children in kindergarten. Call Joanne at 392-1128 or Susan at 392-1126 for more information.

christian living Equip Your Teens...No Matter What! Financial Peace Junior Series - Dave Ramsey Call Nancy Staab at 392-1124 or email asburyfpu@yahoo.com if you are interested. Spiritual Gift Connection Advisory Sessions are held the second Thursday of each month in Room 2821 from 7:00 pm to 8:30 pm. Bring your completed Spiritual Gifts Inventory for discussion with an advisor. To take the Inventory online, prior to attending, see Asbury’s website. Call the registration hotline at 392-1191 to register for one of the Thursday sessions.

library New Additions The Asbury Library is a wonderful resource. New additions are listed in a black notebook on the Librarian’s desk. Thank you to all who continue to contribute books to our Library.

marriage & family Milestone Wedding Anniversaries Email your March or April Milestone Anniversary (5, 10, 15, 20, etc.) to patticooper@cox.net or call 392-1146. Blended Families Tuesdays, January 24 - April 11 from 6:308:00 pm in Rm 1504. Cost: $20. Call 392-1191 to register. Come learn how to build a successful, Christ-centered stepfamily. Whether you are already a stepfamily or you are considering marriage, this class is for you. 8 Dates Live! Second Tuesday of each month, February 14 - September 12 from 6:15-7:00 pm in Rm 2818. Dating is a great way to keep your marriage alive! Whether you’ve been married one year or forty, come hear a speaker, then have a fun monthly dinner date alone, while you discuss the subject more. Topics includ: Communication, Romance and Commitment, Money, Sex, His Needs/Her Needs, Marriage, Parenting, Love and Respect, Roles of Husband and Wives, and 5 Love Languages. Speakers will be Rev. Mark and Robin McAdow, Rick Boothe, Rod and Charlene Giles and other well-known Asbury leaders. Childcare is available. Want to Build a Better Marriage? Thursdays, February 16 - March 23, from 6:30 - 8:30 pm in the CLC. Offered to the entire Tulsa community by Asbury and the OK Marriage Initiative. Falling in love is easy! Staying in love is easy, too, if you learn “love skills” to stop the four corrosive behaviors that ruin relationships. Open to single people and couples who are dating, engaged or married. These six weeks are not about “sharing” or invading your privacy...no Kumbaya! Just twelve hours of cutting edge, faith-friendly techniques that will help you prevent problems or solve them. C-PREP materials used. Come as you are. No cost. No childcare.

membership Asbury Exploration Come to one of these classes to learn more about becoming a member of Asbury. Upcoming session: Sunday, January 8, from 12:30-2:30 pm. Call 392-1191 to register. Childcare available.

men Band of Brothers Men’s Retreat January 13 and 14 at Camp Egan. Cost: $25. After January 1: $45. Asbury United Methodist Men want YOU to join the Band of Brothers Basic training for soldiers in spiritual warfare. Don’t be a POW to sin. Engage in the battle for your heart. Learn how to avoid spiritual and moral land mines. Avoid being spiritually missing in action! Call 392-1122 to register. Men’s Prayer Breakfast Wednesdays, 6:30-7:30 am in the CLC. Join the Men’s Ministry for a delicious breakfast , meaningful worship and lifechanging prayer! Cost: $3/person January 4 Mark Hoffman, speaker January 11 Bill Johnson, speaker January 18 Mark Springer, speaker Januarya 25 Dub Ambrose, speaker

missions/outreach Perspectives on the World Christian Movement This 15-week course on the Biblical foundations for mission plus history, culture, and strategy for missions, is available for college credit or certificate. Presenters with long-time mission involvement come from all over the US. One class per week is from 6:309:30 pm, from January 11 through May 4. Tuesday night - First Baptist in Inola; Wednesday night - Southern Hills Baptist, 5590 S. Lewis; Thursday night - FUMC, 1115 S. Boulder. For further information contact Mary Ann Smith, 392-1117 or masmith@asburytulsa.org. Global Outreach Prayer Ministry News and prayer requests from our missionaries and ministries are sent each week to our prayer ministry list. If you would like to join and become a prayer intercessor for those serving around the world, contact Missy at 392-1163. 2006 Sports Calendar Youth at Heart is a non-profit, United Way Agency that focuses on the inner-city youth of Tulsa. This year, they are selling 2006 OU and OSU Sports Nostalgic Calendars as a fund raiser. The OU calendar features Billy Sims on the cover and the OSU calendar features Barry Sanders on the cover. $15 each, with $5 going to Youth at Heart. Call 493-7311, ext. 11, if you are interested in buying one. Sisters in Service Meet the last Tuesday night in January at 7:00 pm in Room 1507. All are welcome to join us in supporting women around the world. The book, Daughters of Hope, telling stories of women in the most difficult places is available in the Global Outreach Office, 392-1163. Mentor Moms/Young Lives First and second Tuesdays of the month, 7:009:00 pm in the Parlor. This is a support group for teenage moms, sponsored by Young Life.

missions/vim For further details about Volunteer-in-Mission opportunities, contact Marilene Long, 392-1164 or mlong@asburytulsa.org. The first two for 2006 are: Monterrey, Mexico February 18-25, 2006, Construction and Mission Bible School - approx. $900 Costa Rica March 4-11, 2006, Light Construction and Mission Bible School - approx. $1000

music Asbury Power & Light Co. Concert Sunday, January 29, 2006 at 6:00 pm in the sanctuary. Come enjoy the jazzy hymns and praise and worship arrangements of this talented praise band! Chancel Choir Wednesdays, 7:00-9:00 pm, Choir Room Asbury Singing Ambassadors Tuesdays, 1:00 pm, Choir Room Orchestra/Concert Band Wednesdays, 7:00-9:00 pm, Rm 1510 Celebration Ringers Tuesdays, 4:30-5:30 pm, Rm 2506 Asbury Ringers Wednesdays, 6:00-7:00 pm, Rm 2506 Perpetual Light Thursdays, 10:00 am - noon, Rm 2506 Carillon Quartet Wednesdays, 5:00-6:00 pm, Rm 2506 New Covenant Ringers Wednesdays, 4:45-5:30 pm, Rm 2502 Wesley Ringers Sundays, 4:30-5:30 pm, Rm 2506 Asbury Power & Light Sundays, 8:15-9:15 am, Rm 1510 Brass Quintet Tuesdays, 7:30-9:00 pm, Rm 1510 String Ensemble Wednesdays, 6:00-7:00 pm, Rm 1510 Wednesdays, 8:00-9:00 pm, Rm 1506 Clarinet Choir Wednesdays, 6:00-7:00 pm, Rm 1506 Dixieland Band Thursdays, 2:00-3:00 pm, Rm 1510

prayer Women Praying Together Mondays, 11:30 am - 12:30 pm, Prayer Room. Join other women as they pray together. College Moms in Touch Prayer Time Wednesdays, 11:45 am - 12:45 pm, Rm 1506

Altar Prayer If you would like someone to pray with you af ter the worship service on Sunday, please go to the front of the Sanctuary and people will be there to pray for healing of your body, mind and/or spirit. They are available to pray with you at the altar or in the Prayer Room. Mason Chapel Prayer Room Accessible during core hours. You can enter the room from the outside entrance of the southeast side of the Chapel.

recovery Celebrate Recovery Mondays: Dinner at 6:00 pm Worship: 7:00-8:00 pm Small Groups: 8:00-9:00 pm Dessert: 9:00-9:30 pm Hiding any hurts, habits or hangups? God never intended for you to live in bondage. Come join this supportive group of people each Monday night at 6:00 pm. Childcare available. Celebrate Recovery Childcare Volunteers needed. Time commitment is one Monday evening per month from 6:45 pm to 9:10 pm. Please call 392-1103 if you can help.

recreation Asbury Recreation Center - Hours Mondays 8:00 am - 9:30 am Tuesdays 7:00 pm - 9:00 pm Wednesdays 8:30 am - 9:30 am 7:00 pm - 8:00 pm Fridays 8:30 am - 9:30 am Sundays 7:00 pm - 9:00 pm Single Adults Volleyball Tuesdays, 7:00-9:00 pm, Gym Come join a time of exercise, fun and fellowship. Adult Volleyball Sundays, 7:00-9:00 pm, Gym Come join a time of exercise, fun and fellowship Junior High Basketball Thursdays, 6:00-7:00 pm, Gym Metro Area Basketball League. Players and coaches needed. Contact Janet at 392-1199 X 247 or jteel@asburytulsa.org Senior High Basketball Thursdays, 7:00-9:00 pm, Gym Metro Area Basketball League. Senior Sit and Fit Mondays, Wednesdays and Fridays 9:00-9:30 am, Gym. Come join a time of stretching with fun and fellowship. Walk in the Gym with Him Mondays, Wednesdays and Fridays from 8:30-9:00 am in the gym. Come join a time of power walking with fun and fellowship.

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Lifestyle Weight Change with Christ Wednesdays from 7:00-8:00 pm. This class and Bible study is for men and women interested in setting goals and learning to use exercise and God’s Word to build a healthier way of living. Contact Janet Teel at 392-1199, ext. 247 or jteel@asburytulsa.org or Crista Grimes at cristagrimes@sbcglobal.net

seniors Asbury Singing Ambassadors This senior adult choir rehearses Tuesdays at 1:00 pm in the Choir Room. Rehearsals begin in January for the Spring Concert. How to Stay Young Thru All the Years of Life Dr. David Thomas will lead this study that focuses on those ways we continue to grow in our faith. Classes will be held four Wednesday afternoons, beginning January 4, from 3:30-5:00 pm. ‘Tweenagers Thursday, January 26 at 10:30 am in the CLC. Special program featuring Christmas Carols and the Dixieland Band! If you are between retirement and heaven, come and bring a friend! Call Doni at 492-1771 to make your reservations by noon Monday, January 23.

singles Chili Cook-Off

Saturday, January 21 - 6:00-8:30 p.m. in the CLC. Love a good bowl of chili? Have a great chili recipe? This is the activity for you! For more info on being a part of this event, contact us by email at asmactivities@prodigy.net, stop by the CLC for “Meet & Greet” on Sunday mornings or call 492-1771. Singles Meet and Greet Sundays from 8:40-9:10 am or 10:20-10:50 am in the CLC. All singles are invited. ASM Coffee Cup First and third Sunday of each month from 6:30-8:30 pm i n the Asbury Parlor. ASM Singles Luncheon Sunday, January 29 from noon - 2 pm in CLC Singles Bible Study Mondays, 7:00-9:00 pm, Rm 2820 Divorce Recovery Tuesdays, 7:00-8:30 pm, Rm 2319 - For those suffering from the early, highly emotional stages of divorce and separation trauma. Divorce Rebuilding Thursdays, 7:00-8:30 pm, Rm 2319 - For those ready to rebuild their lives after separation or divorce.

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students 10th, 11th & 12th Breakaway Wednesdays, 6:30-9:00 pm - Breakaway Area Join us every Wednesday (except holidays) for a time of connection, worship, and God, and some nights of just random fun. Don’t miss the food and hang out time afterwards. 7th, 8th, & 9th Grade Bible Study Every Wednesday night except the first one of the month, January 11 thru April 26 from 6:308:00 pm. Come to the Student Cafe, hang out, have fun, and study what God’s Word has for us. Marsha will lead the 7th and 8th grade study, and Mark will lead 9th. It’s going to be awe-inspiring. You won’t want to miss it! Sunday Night Small Groups 7th, 8th from 5:30-7:00 pm at Asbury 9th, 10th, 11th, and 12th from 6:00-7:30 pm in homes. Don’t miss out on being a part of a small group! It’s a place to grow in your relationship with Jesus, have some accountability, and just have fun! Sign up in Student Ministries area. NOTE: There will be no small groups January 1 and January 22. Metro Worship Wednesday, January 4 from 7:00-8:30 pm. for 7th-12th graders. Come join youth from all over the city in a night to just worship Jesus. We meet the first Wednesday night of every month from 7:00-8:30 pm at Believers. If you need a ride, meet at Asbury at 6:30 pm. We’ll be back by 9:00 pm. Mexico and Guatemala Spring Break Missions Training Sunday, January 8 from 12:30-2:30 pm in the Student Ministries area. Bring $3 for lunch. If you are going on one of these trips, don’t miss this MANDATORY training. 7th Grade Confirmation Parent Meeting Sunday, January 8 from 5:30-7:00 pm in the CLC. If your student is participating in 7th grade confirmation, don’t miss this mandatory meeting. Worth the Wait Registrations are due Monday, January 9 at 5:00 p.m. We are hooking up with a bunch of Metro Worship churches to discover how to live a life of purity in an R-rated world. This isn’t a weekend about just saying no to sex. It’s time set aside to encounter God, have some serious fun, and figure out some real-life ways to live in pure freedom. Worth the Wait weekend is January 20-22. Registrations are due January 9 or you will be charged a $15 late fee. Spring Break Mission Trip Payment Due Sunday, January 29. Get your payment in to keep your spot on Spring Break mission trips! Houston: $75; Redbird: $125; Mexico: $150; Guatemala: $200. College Bible Study Each Sunday night from 6:00-7:15 in the Student Ministry Conference Room. Come learn about God with other college students.

College Sunday Night Dinners 7:15-9:00 p.m. in the Student Ministry Cafe. Come eat a great homecooked meal with other college students.

women Wednesday AM Bible Study Wednesdays, 10:00 am, Rm 1502 Mothers’ Fellowship Mondays throughout the school year from 9:30 - 11:30 am in the Parlor. To register, call 3921191. Crafty Ladies December 14, 6:30-9:00 pm, Rm 2820 Women’s Monthly Luncheon Thursday, January 5 from 11:30 am - 1:00 pm, CLC. Program: A House of Prayer with Claudia Abernathy. Scripture: Colossians 4:2. Devotion: Marge Creager. Circle Assignments: Sarah: Setup, food for pantry (curb pickup) Dorcas: Cleanup, food for pantry All others: Covered Dish Women Praying Together Mondays from 11:30 am - 12:30 pm in the Prayer Room. Phone Buddies Ladies, do you want a “cheer me up” with your morning coffee? We have ladies that can fill that need by being your own “phone buddy!” Call 392-1122. Lea or Shirley will return the call and get you set up! Arts and Crafts Mondays, 9:30 am - 2:00 pm, Rm 2820. Women who enjoy crafts are invited to come any Monday morning...come and go any time. Bring lunch to share.

Welcome to Asb ur Asbur uryy...

Mark and Kristin Bremer, Madison, Nathan & Nicholas

Gordon Hard

BrockBarnett and Erika Barnett

Sylvia Larose, Hunger, Rachel & Emily Horney

Jordan Conaway

Mike and Louise Borden

Kristen Buss Richard and Judy Edmonson

Brad and Carol Samuels, Zachary & Cameron

Stephanie Blakey Matt and Lora Graham

Scott and Tammi Mullins, Matthew, Noah & Joshua Jonathan and Kristy Weber, Arianna, Dresden & Leyna Tonia Brown

Barbara and Mike Conner NEW MEMBERS

Sacraments

Larry and Cathy Thompson, Ross & Nicholas

Sandra Webb and Savannah

T. Ann Phillips and Drew

Gil and Jan Hunt

Rick Dietrich and Susan Shaw 33 NEW MEMBERS

Churches observe the sacraments in different ways, but the basic meaning of a sacrament is ... “it’s an outward sign of an inward grace.” A sacrament is a symbol of an inner, spiritual reality. Receiving a sacrament is a way we show that we are followers of Jesus Christ. United Methodists have two sacraments: communion and baptism. Communion reminds us of Jesus and His disciples at the last supper (see John 13; I Corinthians 11:23-34). When we eat and drink the elements, we remember Christ; we repent of our sin; and we receive the grace of Jesus Christ into our lives. Asbury serves communion every Sunday at the 8:00 a.m. Chapel service and the 9:15 a.m. service in the Sanctuary. Communion is also at the 11:00 a.m. service on the first Sunday of the even-numbered months. We have an “open table” (a person doesn’t have to be a member of Asbury or the United Methodist Church to receive communion). It is permissible for children to receive communion, too, though we urge parents to talk with their children about this. Baptism has a two-fold symbol. With children, the primary symbol is that God loves us before we are able to respond. The parents make the vows, as does the church. The baptized child will join the church later and make his/her own commitm ent to Christ at that time. When someone receives baptism as a youth or adult, that person takes the vows for him or herself. Baptism again becomes a sign of God’s love reaching us, only this time, we respond for ourselves. We understand God’s love for us while admitting that we are sinners. Water symbolizes that we are “washed” or “cleansed” from our sin. Once baptized, always baptized! We recognize as valid the baptism of other Christian churches, and thus, if you were baptized before in another Christian church, you will not be “re-baptized” at Asbury. We believe God was active in your life far before you came to Asbury. With the sacraments, it is very important to remember that it is not the amount or type of food that is served, nor is it the volume of water used – the sacrament is an outward sign that tells others that we have trusted in Christ as our Savior. If you have further questions about this, please be sure to speak with a pastor about it. (We love to talk about these matters!)

This I Believe - John C. Westervelt

photo by Christy Capps Rich Capps is a wonderful artist. He enjoys helping others and sharing the gifts God has given him. With an open hearts and a desire to reach out to those in need, Asbury’s children spend time with the residents of Murdock Villa, a low-income apartment complex for Tulsans with mental and physical challenges, on the second Sunday of each month. We join the residents in their community room and we bring games, snacks and crafts. Jamie Mendoza, a faithful Asbury volunteer organizes, prepares and brings the craft. She shows the kids what to do and they jump right in to teach the adults how it’s done! This is a fantastic way for kids to gain a unique perspective that age doesn’t matter when you reach out people in love. It’s also a terrific introduction to missions. When leaving Murdock Villa one Sunday, a child said, “I wish I had more to give.”

Over 850 books, tapes and Christian magazines given by Asbury members have been distributed to local retirement centers. Preparing to make a delivery are Don Kent, Perry Mitchell, Don Hubbs, Jon Greer, and Otis Osborn.

There is one God who created the universe and everything in it in a timeframe of His own choosing. I observe that His creation is not static, but ongoing in the universe and on the earth. Jesus Christ is God’s son, who was born of the Virgin Mary. While on earth, He was fully man and fully God. Being fully man, he had the same feelings that I have, so He understands my joy and my sadness. He died on the cross for my sins and was resurrected from the grave. The Holy Spirit is the Spirit of God residing in me, since the day I confessed my sins and accepted Jesus as my Savior. That acceptance ensures me a place in heaven when I die. I feel comfortable talking to Jesus each day about my needs. Jesus tells me to love all His children, so that means I love you.

Thank You... I’m so pleased to be in the neighborhood of Asbury. We are members of another church but love being so near Asbury. Today I can hear the bells chiming from the church and it\’s so refreshing. I sincerely hope no one complains because it’s always been a dream of mine to live near a church with bells especially near the holidays. Thank you Jesus for Asbury Methodist for all kinds of reasons. God Bless! A very happy neighbor!! We want to express heartfelt thanks to our dear and faithful Asbury family for the beautiful cards, flowers and many friends who attended and shared in Ken’s service of celebration of his life. Thanks also to the Seekers Class for blessing us with the meal our family enjoyed. We have seen God glorified by your gentle touch on our lives. The family of Ken Jackson FAMILY ROOM 34

We Rejoice...

Marriage Milestones

with those who have experienced the joy of a new baby:

“Let marriage be held in honor among all.” Hebrews 13:4

Katelyn Ann Sutherland November 3, 2005 Daughter of Chris and Tara Sutherland and sister of Hailey and Lauren Cade Matthew Simpson November 7, 2005 Son of Mike and Jennifer Simpson, brother of Jacob Isabella Mittapalli Dyer November 11, 2005 Daughter of Jason and Jessice Dyer, and sister of Vin

We Remember... and pray God’s peace for those who have lost loved ones:

Ted and Virginia Wellendorf January 10, 1946 60 Years

Mozelle VanArsdel November 8, 2005 Wife of Travis, mother of Brenda Nail, and grandmother of Brandon, Madalyn, and Jackson Marion Whitney

November 15, 2005

Robert Neeley Husband of Maggie

November 18, 2005

Sue Crummett November 19, 2005 W ife of Larry, mother of Donna Stutzman, and grandmother of Parker Ann Marie (Amy) Dobbs Mother of Kayla and Jamie Jim Semke Husband of Laurita

November 25, 2005

Jason and Donna Rushing January 5, 1991 15 Years

Congratulations to all couples who are celebrating Milestone Anniversaries. Report your Milestone Anniversary to patticooper@cox.net or call 392-1146.

December 2, 2005

Our choice results in separation from God.

The Bridge

John and Joanna Neely January 6, 1946 60 Years

No bridge reaches God...except one.

God has provided the only way... Each person must make a choice...

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Where are you? Here?

or Here?