Designed for Community In the first chapter of Genesis, it says five times: “And God saw that it was
Community...God has designed us to be
good.” The first chapter is concluded with the words, “And God saw that it was
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very good.” Then God made man. The terminology used in Genesis is actually:
stories of those who have been blessed by
“Let us make man in our image.” The concept of the Trinity is shown early on in
being in community with others.
the Bible. God makes a Garden for the man, gave Adam water, and a job (it’ s
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only one restriction, “Do not eat of the tree of the knowledge of good and evil.”
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So God made a companion for the man. Then Eve ate them out of house and
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home (sorry, I couldn’t resist an old Bible jokeJ).
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among others in the Bible), but it is simply “not good” to be alone. We all need
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companions to share life with. At Asbury, we call this “Community.”
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interesting that “work” actually takes place before sin). God tells Adam there is That would produce death. The first time God said, “It is NOT good” was in reference to being alone.
Think of this: GOOD, GOOD, GOOD, GOOD, GOOD, VERY GOOD, and one “NOT GOOD.” What is “not good” according to God? To be alone. Not all of us are intended to be married (i.e. Jesus and Paul come to mind,
“Community” is derived from two words: “common” and “unity.” That means it is a group of people who have a similar purpose and theme for life. We believe God calls all of us to “Glorify God – Make Disciples.” That is our
Tidings Staff Sandy Wagner Jan Weinheimer Juli Armour Lisa Tresch Lina Holmes Chris Lo Nikki Boyd
common theme. And the first way we go about that is by helping people feel that they “Belong.” In the New Year of 2008, I will be preaching six sermons on “Community,” and our Bishop will preach a seventh sermon on the topic, too. We want you to find your friends at Asbury who are aligned with a similar purpose in life. We want you to learn more about your faith with your friends here, and to find a way to serve Christ. There is no such thing as a “Single Adult” when you are part of the Body of Christ. Let’s come together for this
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great purpose.
Dr. Tom Harrison, Sr. Pastor
During a recent ice storm, Asbury had the privilege of being designated a Red Cross Shelter. Hundreds of people were served hot meals and found warmth from the cold. But more importantly, they had the love of Christ extended to them. Our church family is blessed to be a blessing and found great joy in serving others.
Boy Scout Benefit Spaghetti Luncheon Sunday, February 17 11:30-2:00 pm Community Life Center
Friday, January 25, 2008 Asbury Sanctuary 6:30-9:00 pm 6:30
Fellowship Coffee, Tea and Cookies
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Program Praise & Worship Teaching by Pastor Darlene Johnson
Bring a friend, co-worker or neighbor...a wonderful time to gather with those we know or would like to know better. No advance registration is necessary, but if you have questions, feel free to call the church at 492-1771.
The Asbury Boy Scout Foundation, sponsored by the Men’s Ministry, would like to invite you to its Third Annual Spaghetti Luncheon Social! Come celebrate Scout Sunday and enjoy a generous serving of spaghetti, bread and salad with your family and friends. Tickets may be purchased Sundays, February 3 and 10 from 7:00 am - 12:30 pm or at the door the day of the event. However, pre-purchasing is appreciated to help with planning. All proceeds will benefit the Boy Scouting programs of Asbury. $4 per person or $16 max per family
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n a second-century defense of Christianity, the church leader and prolific author of the early church, Tertullian, noted that there was something about this community that “attracted pagan notice.” Those who were not followers of Jesus were watching closely, and Tertullian reported on their observations. “Only look…look how they love one another,” the pagans said of the Christians. When I was a teenager, I remember our congregation singing this song together: We are one in the Spirit, we are one in the Lord We are one in the Spirit, we are one in the Lord. And we pray that all unity may one day be restored. And they’ll know we are Christians by our love, by our love. They will know we are Christians by our love. We will work with each other, we will work side by side. We will work with each other, we will work side by side. And we’ll guard each one’s dignity and save each one’s pride. And they’ll know we are Christians by our love, by our love. They will know we are Christians by our love. The tune is very melancholy and the tempo sort of plods along, and I wonder if we congregants looked like we believed the words we were singing. If Tertullian’s observation of what attracted the non-believers to the believers is true, then the song is true also. It certainly makes sense that the world is watching us to see not just
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by Lisa Tresch how we treat those who are unbelievers, but also how we treat each other. This makes the concept of Christian community something that we dare not take lightly. It certainly should make us think
carefully about all the little petty grievances that we can carry around toward one another, and the small things that can creep into a community and divide those who are working side by side. I have to stop and think about all the times that instead of guarding a brother or sister’s dignity, I joined in the gossipy process of tearing them down. Or circumstances when I decided that it was better to work alone because I didn’t want to work in tandem with someone who annoyed me. And yes, I know that despite Tertullian’s glowing assessment, the early church had disputes also, petty grievances, and those in their midst who didn’t work well with others. But Jesus declared that the gates of Hell
couldn’t shake the foundation of the church. Despite all our human errors, a community of believers is still the last best hope for making the world a better place. And the larger community of believers that is the Body of Christ is the last best hope for leading people toward the Light that is Jesus. Wouldn’t it be amazing if the people around us who are not believers looked at us and were stopped in their tracks by the way we love one another? And wouldn’t it be amazing if they were drawn to Jesus because they saw communities of believers who were working in unity with one another – forgiving one another, building one another up, caring for one another? And if this community was truly unified, wouldn’t it be amazing if they were mobilized to turn around and give that same kind of love to a world that was really hurting and confused? And maybe, just maybe this world might be ready to receive it because they were so drawn to the love they had already seen displayed within the community. When I think about the haunting tune of the song I used to sing, I wonder if perhaps those melancholy notes were necessary to draw us into the depths of how serious this business of unity really is, and to remind us that while we gather together…there are those who are watching.
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f all the communities I participate in, I think the most important one is my worship community. This is the place where we, all 450 plus, corporately fulfill the greatest commandment, which is to love the Lord our God with all our hearts and with all our souls and with all our minds (Matthew 22: 37). This is what God most desires of us––more than service, obedience, or faith––He wants our whole selves and our complete love!
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Every Sunday since joining Asbury, my family arrives at the Chapel to sit in the front row. My daughter Sophia immediately settles in with a bag of Skittles and begins doodling on the bulletin. My daughter Olivia takes off her shoes and stands on the pew, hugging my neck and singing. Some people sit in camp chairs on the floor, and others lean against the wall in the back. Over on the left sit the youth. In the middle sections are mostly families, and singles are spread throughout. The younger youth sit on the right, but sometimes they honor God by coming in front of the altar to worship. Today they are running in place as the congregation sings, “I am free to run.” They interlace their fingers and do the wave as we continue to sing, “I am free to dance.” The air is fraught with energy and anticipation of a meaningful worship experience. Many in the congregation stand with eyes closed and hands raised.
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Our leader, Chris, and the band worship too. They aren’t warming up the crowd for the sermon or putting on a concert. They are standing before the Lord in His temple, praising Him and guiding the rest of us along. They keep us focused and purposeful. They are drawing us from the Outer Court to the Inner Sanctuary––the Holy of Holies. In my mind’s eye a cloud rolls down the center aisle engulfing the platform, and then bright white light comes flooding through the stained glass windows as the presence of the Lord God Almighty fills the Chapel and surrounds every believer with His Shekinah glory! All who enter our worship community with the hopeful expectation of meeting God are wrapped in His light, as our spirits become intertwined with His. Blessedly, in this community we also live the second greatest commandment, which is to love our neighbors as ourselves (Matthew 22: 39). Yes, it’s a large group of people,
and we don’t know everyone––but we love everyone. We love each other by choice, not by feeling. We love our pastors and their wives and children, and the youth on the left and the right, and all the families in the middle, the singles, and of course, the band. And when someone has a need––such as prayers for healing or shoes for orphans in Africa––then together we meet those needs. It’s reminiscent of the firstcentury church in which all the believers were one in heart and mind, and “no one claimed that any of his possessions was his own, but they shared everything they had” (Acts 4:32). Our communion of saints is sincere and engaged in our worship of the Lord. We do as we please in the Chapel, and no one seems to mind. But it’s not anarchy; rather it’s grace. As the final refrain from the song hangs in the air––I am free to live for you––I thank God that in this community we are. -Stephanie Hurd
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lpha is a community where questions about Christianity are answered. And believe me, I had a lot of questions. Just ask my small group. Over eight-million people worldwide have attended an Alpha course. It’s an opportunity to explore the meaning of life and explore faith in a relaxed setting. Over ten thought-provoking weeks, small groups are treated to a tasty meal, a video hosted by Christian teacher/author Nicky Gumbel, and discussion—low-key, friendly and fun. It’s like dinner-and-a-movie with an important life lesson. And it’s free! (Did I mention the yummy suppers Virginia cooks for us each week?) There were seven people sitting at my table. Our group leader Sandy said, “I love helping others discover Jesus Christ and grow as His disciple.” She’s been an Alpha leader before. In fact, when her previous class was over the group didn’t want to split up, so she led a Bible study in her home. Even as the years pass, they still remain closely tied to one another. Everyone is welcome at Alpha. Some attend because they want to learn the basics of Christianity. Some are searching for something “out there.” Pat Finch came because she heard talk about Nicky Gumbel and wanted to find out what the course was all about. “Before Alpha, I didn’t understand the Holy Spirit,” explains Pat. “I wanted to be more involved with witnessing to others.” John and Diane Pittman were also at my table. They had just recently joined the Asbury congregation. “We’ve gone through evangelism training,” says Diane. “But Alpha was a good refresher and a good way to get to know other Asbury members. We felt very welcome.” The Alpha series addresses key issues related to faith and answers common questions in a clear way, like: Who is Jesus? Why do we pray? How does God guide us? (I had my hand raised on that question!) “I love the closeness found in small groups,” said our facilitator. “Each person has something unique to contribute, so I often profit from our time together as much as they do.” “I feel more relaxed about sharing Christ with others,” says Diane. “Alpha brought us one step closer to what we were searching for. I find we have more grace for others.” Pat’s favorite thing about going to Alpha class …“besides eating?” she chuckles, was hearing what others had to say. “You sure brought up some interesting questions about spirituality, Sylvia! But that was great, and it gave me a different perspective.” Since taking the course, Pat has been prompted to show others the love of God. She volunteers each week in Sunday school with the youngest members of Asbury. As for me, many of my uncertainties about how faith works are resolved. And I have a few more dear friends at Asbury. Sandy is the reason you’re reading this article. I love getting a hug from Pat in the church hallway. And I always get a friendly wave from John and Diane at the Wednesday night suppers. There we go eating again! But what I learned most from Alpha, is that God has me wrapped safely in his loving arms and accepts me just the way I am. No questions asked. -Sylvia LaRose
What is it? An opportunity to explore the meaning of life. Got questions? Get answers! Alpha is a safe place with a non-threatening atmosphere where people really care for you. It’s a place where no question is seen as too simple or too hostile. It’s a place where you can get solid, meaningful answers. Listen, learn, discuss and discover. Alpha meets every Tuesday evening 6:30pm-8:45pm in the Community Life Center from January 15-March 25 (no class March 18). Alpha Preview Luau Dinner Party January 8. Come check it out! Alpha Sprouts is for kids ages 4-12.
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Make new friends but keep the old…one is silver and the other gold. -Girl Scout song
tanding in line, clarinet cases in hand, the two high school seniors were virtual strangers. The all-district band event in Kansas had drawn them from their respective hometowns of Bucklin and Protection. Casual conversation revealed that they both were planning to attend Ft. Hays Kansas State College to study nursing and would be living in the same dorm. “Do you want to be roommates,” one asked...and thus began a relationship that has lasted over 50 years. Jan (Fletcher ) Schwier and Shirley (Peterson) Wood, both raised in farming families, shared the usual college experiences and more importantly, they shared a common faith. As their friendship grew, they became prayer warriors for one another, forging a bond that saw them through many of life’s transitions. In spite of frequent moves, the two friends never lost track of each other and were pleased to find that their husbands really liked each other, too. The four have enjoyed spending time together and in recent years Shirley and Wilbur have traveled several times from their hometown of Trousdale to join Jan and Sig on their annual trip to Branson with Asbury’s Seekers Discipleship Community. Little did Shirley and Wilbur know that God would use their new friends in Seekers in such a dramatic way. Last summer Jan asked the Seekers to pray for Shirley and Wilbur’s church. A violent tornado
descended on Trousdale May 5, 2007, extensively damaging the church and several nearby homes. Although the church wasn’t completely destroyed, it sustained heavy enough damage to be deemed too costly to repair. As Jan concluded her request, an anonymous donor challenged the class to match a contribution of $5,000. And they did. Jan and Sig worshiped with the Kansas congregation and had the privilege of presenting them with a check for $10,000 made possible because of a “forever friendship” orchestrated by God so many years ago. Jan said, “Being part of a community helps one to feel connected to the body of Christ. You are privileged to help others as a group – both with finances and prayer. You are surrounded by such a loving support system at all times. It is not hard to become a part of such a group. With the Seekers you attend three times and you are a member of the class!”
”Shirley is good to keep us posted on their progress,” Jan continued. “They had a ground-breaking ceremony a few weeks ago. The building is moving right along and the best part is they are building debtfree. When the church is finished I am sure there will be some Seekers who will want to visit their church service some Sunday!” There is no doubt that God had a plan for Jan and Shirley when He brought them together over 50 years ago. Community can consist of two accountability partners united by grace or a group of 100 believers of various ages and stages of life. One thing is consistent, though. When the Lord is invited to be part of the equation, there’s no limit to what a community can accomplish. - Jan Weinheimer
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Members of the Joy Community on a regular “Tuesday Night Out.” The group meets and eats regularly and have eaten at 70 different restaurants.
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arents of young children often wish they had some time alone. Parents in the Joy Community wish their time alone was replaced with the laughter of their children and grandchildren. For you see, these parents raised their children, helped them get an education, and watched them pack up to move away. About one-third of their children live in Texas, one-third are spread across the rest of the country, and one-third reside in the Tulsa area. When JOY was selected as the name of this community over a generation ago, the class stated that “J” was for Jesus, “O” was for others, and “Y” was for yourself. The emphasis was to be in that order. After Bill Mason retired as Senior Pastor in 1993, he accepted a request to teach the Joy Community at 9:30 a.m. Not long afterwards, the class
was asked to move to 8:15 a.m. to give their classroom to another class with greater needs. Later, Bill was asked to teach another class at 9:30. Since moving to the Mingo location, the Joy Community has met at 8:00 a.m. with Bill Mason as the teacher. Bill Mason serves as an example of “J” for Jesus for the Joy class. Bill is up at four in the morning to talk to Jesus, to read his Bible and devotions, and to pray. If anyone ever needed Bill’s prayers, his or her name was added to Bill’s prayer journal. Once in the journal, a name never goes away, so Bill still prays for each person every morning. The “O” is for others. Each class member, as Jesus requested, reaches out to others. The community as a whole supports Restore Hope Ministries, Meals on Wheels, Little Light House, Teen Challenge, and Heartlight Ministries.
The “Y” is for yourself. With families away, those in the Joy Community depend on family-like nurturing at eight o’clock on Sunday mornings. Kerry Freeman, sensing that the seven day wait was long, began “Tuesday Night Out.” Kerry and Sue check out a restaurant in advance then invite the Joy Community to eat out with them at five o’clock on Tuesday. To date, “Tuesday Night Out” has visited 50 restaurants. I recently asked Bill Mason what “Tuesday Night Out” meant to him. He said, “I get to be with people I enjoy and incidentally get a meal.” Jesus set the example by building a fire and cooking fish and bread for His disciples beside the Sea of Galilee. As the cold, tired fishermen approached the shore after fishing all night, Jesus called out, “Come and have breakfast!” John 21:12. -John C. Westervelt
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or many of us, college is our first experience living in community with anyone other than our immediate family. It’s a time of eager anticipation for the independence and freedom from the constraints of home. When our daughter Katie and Leslie was in her senior year of high school, after much thoughtful consideration, she made two huge decisions. First, to attend the University of Oklahoma, even though her brother was a student at rival Oklahoma State, and second, to opt for a “potluck” roommate. You see, if she truly had her way, she would have gone to college in some other faraway, more adventurous location. But because she had cystic fibrosis, a serious, chronic lung disease, we insisted that she stay close to home. While she had several friends from her high school she could have roomed with, in her mind, having a potluck roommate would open doors to new experiences. I began to pray in earnest for God to intervene in this situation, first to change her mind. I thought it would be better for her to room with someone she already knew, who was aware that Leslie coughed a lot and had numerous daily treatments involving noisy machines, smelly medicines, bottles and needles. But Leslie was insistent, so I began praying for someone who would “put up with all the baggage she was bringing.” It was Moving In Day at OU, and we were in the elevator of Couch dormitory. Leslie, barely 5 ft., looked 9
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up at the 5’10” girl next to her who’d just mentioned that she was from Denton, Texas, and said, “Are you Katie?” She replied, “Are you Leslie?” And thus began a friendship like no other, forged by adversity and bonded
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by love and laughter, inside jokes and unspoken understanding, mutual respect and admiration. Katie and Leslie spent many nights, and too many days, when they should have been in class, in “The Cave” as they affectionately referred to their dorm room. They commiserated about school, their families, social lives, or lack thereof, and their plans for the future. As only God could have orchestrated it, Katie’s mom Melissa remarried the summer before the girls’ freshman year, moved from Dallas to Tulsa, and bought a house ten minutes from our own. In fact, Katie and Leslie each had brothers now attending the same school. I was so overwhelmed by God’s goodness when Melissa told me how grateful she was that Leslie was Katie’s roommate. In fact, she shared that Katie had struggled those first few
months and “had it not been for Leslie, Katie would have dropped out.” God had not only answered my prayers, but Melissa’s as well, as He put together not just roommates, but soulmates. Sophomore year, Katie and Leslie moved into an apartment and added another roommate Charli, as well as a dog, Joey. They all learned to get along, accepting one another’s idiosyncracies and habits, always with honesty and a sense of humor. For senior year, they expanded to add two more roommates, Rachel and Randi. They found a house and set out to fix it up. Stripping wallpaper, painting, going to garage sales for furniture was all so exciting, but a lot of work. I saw them work through stress and conflict, always with love, respect and a lot of laughter. But Leslie was not going to be spending senior year in the house with her roommates. On July 29, 2007, the Lord took her home, after a combination of infections came on quickly and ravaged her already fragile lungs. During the four days she was in ICU, so many of our friends rallied their support in incredible ways, but the most poignant was how Leslie’s friends kept a vigil, talking and praying, hoping for a miracle. Leslie had many friends, but what was extraordinary was the depth of love she had for so many. She chose to live in a way that was open to love freely, giving of herself to others. I know that just one small part of Leslie’s legacy is what she taught her roommates and friends about living life together, in respect, acceptance and love. -Juli Armour
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f you ever see a brightly colored vest with a hand outstretched to greet you on Sunday morning in the Student Ministries area, it’s probably a girl from my small group. These vests are our own creations and we routinely use them to make students and adults alike feel welcomed. This idea of “welcoming vests” stemmed from my small group’s desire for every student to feel like they were entering a place where they could feel comfortable and loved. This hits close to home for me because, much like the people we shake hands with and wave to in the mornings, I was welcomed into my wonderful small group last year after my old small group stopped meeting on Sunday evenings. My new small group had already been meeting for two years, so I felt out of place. But soon, I began to feel more comfortable and more assured that I had found a place where I could be myself and wind down after a hard week. The feeling of welcoming didn’t end in the confines of our small group or the room that we met in. Toward the end of our freshman year, we decided that we wanted to make everyone in our youth group feel like they belonged. So we decided that we were going to become the unofficial Student Ministries welcoming committee, complete with vests and bright smiles. The vests didn’t come into play for a while, but we continued to welcome people and make
new friends as often as possible in the youth group. Then, our sophomore year rolled around. We officially gained a new girl to our small group and we continued to talk about ways we could improve the welcoming style of Student Ministries. One Sunday evening, we went over to our small group leader’s house and found a lot of materials and ten brightly colored vests for us to decorate. So, for two hours we
scrambled around Fufi (Ruth) Brower’s kitchen, gluing and painting and ironing stuff onto our vests. The next Sunday morning, we showed up to church with our vests and began our quest to be hospitable. Through this fun welcoming, we met a girl who had never been to Breakaway before and that same night, she came over and watched a movie with us. She’s now a part of our small group and enjoys coming to hang out on Sunday nights and during the week. My small group is an amazing group of girls who just love each other and love to learn together. We’ve bonded over our common desire to see people feel as comfortable and as close to God as we feel at church and with each other. As a community, we keep each other accountable and laughing all the time. I thank God for this group that I was put into because they have such an influence in my life. So if you ever see a girl with a brightly colored vest walking around the Student Ministries area, feel free to talk to them because I know that they would make you feel welcomed and loved and part of the community. -Erin Tresch
Left to right: Megan Mantle, Rachael Reinking, Hillary O’Dell, Frances Brower, Danielle Terrier, Ruth Brower, Cindy Hill and Erin Tresch. Asbury Tidings 10
It was late on a summer Saturday afternoon when Sandy Wagner and I wandered into the Student Ministry area, ready to set up a few photos for an upcoming Tidings. We had arranged to meet some folks in what we thought would be a quiet, unoccupied area. Imagine our surprise when we entered the room to find men, women and teens hovered over mounds of fabric and batting on makeshift cutting tables — their animated conversation mingling with the the sound of whirring sewing machines and hissing steam irons. These were people on a mission. Members and friends of LinC — the Discipleship Community formerly known as Homebuilders — had accepted the challenge from classmate, Gary Worley. As a volunteer counselor for New Day Camp Too, he was well aware of the need for a warm, comforting blanket and pillow. The camp is an Oklahoma Conference United Methodist camp for children with at least one parent who is incarcerated. Over the years members of the class had contributed “Quillows,” constructed per instructions provided by Gary, but last summer they decided it would be more fun to make them together. They produced 49 of them that sunny Saturday afternoon. -Jan Weinheimer Shown, clockwise from top left: Sarah Baumunk and Kelsy Lawson; Gary Worley; Ruth Brower; Gary Hill; Wanda Ullom and Connie Briggs
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he community of believers
and gifts and community is a safe place
visited Asbury for a Christmas Eve
is a beautiful thing. When
to utilize those gifts,” says Judy. “It’s a
Candlelight service. When the service
functioning as God
place for sharing and growth.”
began, it became evident that the
designed it, it is a place where people
Growing up as a hearing child
interpreter had not yet arrived and Judy
not only have their needs met but
with deaf parents, Judy sees how God
agreed to help. “Signing is my first
where God can use them to help meet
has used her life experience and gifts
language and a gift from God. I never
the needs of others.
to minister to the deaf community. “I
turn down the opportunity to serve Him.”
For Judy Ingram, a nationally
understand the deaf world because I
Judy came to know Christ as a
certified sign language interpreter for
came from the that world even though
child while at a deaf church camp she
Tulsa Public Schools, “community is the
I’m hearing. God uses that knowledge
attended with her family every summer.
place where you get down to the
today to create positive experiences
Though there were challenges growing
business of learning about God and who
for everyone.”
up as a hearing child of deaf parents,
you are in Christ. Everybody has talents
Judy and husband Merlin first
the difficulties were overshadowed by
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the love and faith her family shared.
have confidence in knowing that God’s
Judy recalls how dependent her
message is coming through. Yes, I’m
parent’s were on their children to
a qualified interpreter, but Jesus
communicate for them to the outside
qualified me first.”
world. There was no email, text messaging, and videophones – technology that deaf utilize today. At age 11, Judy remembers helping her mom fill out an application, and then interpreting an interview and job training at Bama Pies, a job her mom
“Yes, I’m a qualified interpreter, but Jesus qualified me first.”
retired from 21 years later.
In addition to serving in Asbury’s deaf Community, Judy and Merlin were drawn to Asbury because of Celebrate Recovery. It has become a place where they can build relationships and invest in their own spiritual growth. “Through CR, I’ve been able to get over some deep hurts that I hadn’t dealt
Judy currently serves on the
with so I guess you could say that CR
interpreting team for Asbury’s 11:00
is our community,” says Judy.
a.m. service and teaches for the Deaf
Judy is right. Community is a
Perceptions Community. She realizes
thriving deaf communities are those
place for sharing and growing. When
the need to build trust and genuine
that provide opportunities for spiritual
we share ourselves, we grow in our
relationships within the community.
growth, not just interpreted services.
love for each other and for Christ. No
“Only two percent of deaf in America
“It’s more important to have a
life experience is insignificant. Regard-
and less than five percent of deaf in
church interpreter who can convey love
less of the challenges you’ve faced,
Tulsa attend church anywhere. Any-
rather than just words alone,” explains
there is a place where you can be
thing that Asbury can do to provide
Judy. “Having highly skilled interpreters
used by God and loved by others.
accessibility to this unique group
is essential for communication, but it’s
That’s the beauty of this community of
makes it special,” comments Judy.
even better when the Holy Spirit works
believers, this Body of Christ that God
She sees that the churches with
through that person. Then the deaf
has designed. -Nikki Boyd
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OW what a community. Women of the Word (WOW) is a weekly women’s Bible study. Pastor Darlene Johnson has been leading the group for seven years. When she first came to Asbury the group had 17 members but the Wednesday morning sessions now draw up to 90 participants. The class has grown by word of mouth. Each month they enjoy a luncheon together after class to spend more time in fellowship.
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Visitors often include women who are looking for a church. Members bring neighbors, friends and family. There are five mother-daughter sets and several sisters. One of the motherdaughter groups is Jayne Mason and Peggie Nash. Peggie says, “I enjoy getting together with a group of women from different age groups and backgrounds and studying the word of God. With the many women in our group you get different viewpoints to consider.” The class follows the weekly Bible Reading Plan set for the year. Studies, while connected to the Sunday sermon, allow further exploration and special insight into the Word. This community is a Mutual Inspiration Society. Members praise Darlene’s deep commitment to teaching and her unique motivating style. “I attend WOW to receive an uplifting message as well as to see and experience the excitement Darlene has for the Lord. It makes my week,” according to Nevin Loerke. Darlene has a simple answer when asked how she is able to quickly recall the perfect verse to illustrate the
answer to any question, “The Holy Spirit”. She recognizes that her work is God’s doing, and she is pleased to be a willing vessel. “He always brings the appropriate reference to my remembrance” she says. She encourages the class to nurture an open and ongoing relationship with the Holy Spirit and to listen for the voice of God. Helping women build a solid foundation based on Christ is her mission. Darlene knows that with that foundation whatever comes can be handled. “Today’s society is a lot more hectic. Women have different types of challenges,” she says. “Being a godly wife and mother, many times being in the work place or serving the community is a lot to handle. Still women are trying to find their peace. It is about learning to be relaxed in God and keeping it simple. I try to find where people are weakest and help them put it together. “ Judy Walton says, “Each week I am more prepared to live the life Jesus wants me to live because of Darlene’s message and thought-provoking questions. She truly changes lives
and attitudes!” Though she always had a strong faith, Darlene says she has spent much of her life in process trying to fulfill what God wanted of her. She worked 25 years in the business community before she felt called to the United Methodist Church and full time ministry. She continues in her studies at the School of Theology at Southern Methodist University. She has led women’s groups in prison ministries and has counseled domestic violence victims. She said she never thought she would be called to teach or preach. Joining the staff at Asbury brought a major change in her life and ministry. She admits upon learning of the appointment she asked God, “Why me?” The answer was because He loved her and He chose her. She says that ever since then she has tried to “Walk it out in gratitude.” Darlene says the class inspires her by giving her the encouragement to teach. “However,” she adds, “the inspiration comes from the Word itself. It is alive and active and helps us grow.” -Liz Reece
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Annie with friends at New Life Ranch.
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or the past two summers, I’ve been involved in a leadership development program at New Life Ranch, a Christian camp near Colcord, Oklahoma. The purpose of this program is to turn campers into counselors and leaders. This past summer I participated in the second level of the program called LIT, or Leader in Training. The first week of LIT was mainly spent cultivating friendships with my fellow LITs, rising juniors and seniors in high school from Arkansas, Oklahoma, Texas and North Carolina. We went on a two day backpacking and camping trip which was a growing experience for all of us. We had to learn to work together to navigate to our campsite, start a fire, and cook our meals. Through this trip we were able to quickly come together and form bonds of friendships. There were disagreements on the trip, but we were able to resolve them. The backpacking trip resulted in transforming awkward acquaintances into easy friendships. I have been
involved in other camps and programs in which fast-friendships are supposed to occur. I’ve realized that it’s much easier to become quick friends with other Christians. My beliefs are the basis of who I am. When I know that I share the same faith in the Lord as another person, it’s easier for me to open up to that person. I knew that the other LITs giving two weeks of their summer also wanted to live theirs lives to glorify God. The second week of leadership training, each of us “adopted” a cabin, serving as “junior counselors.” We competed in camp games with our cabin, went to chapel and talk-back times, as well as participated in other activities and spent free time with our campers. During this week, I wasn’t able to spend as much time with my fellow LITs. We still had Bible study everyday together and the girls continued to sleep in the same cabin. I enjoyed being able to share my experiences with teenagers my age that were also dealing with being counselors to young kids for the first time.
One of the most challenging parts of having a cabin was that I had to give my testimony. Every Tuesday night at NLR, the counselors give their testimonies to their cabin. As LITs, we were also expected to share our testiomony, which would be a first for me. I wrote it over the weekend in between the two weeks and I shared it first with two of my fellow LIT friends. It was comforting to have them tell me what they thought of my testimony and to know that we were all going through the experience together. My love for my group of LITs was founded in Christ and the mutual desire to grow in our relationship with Him and impact the lives of our campers. Now as we’re all back to school and our normal lives, we stay in touch through Facebook, hanging out and a recent leadership retreat at the ranch. Even though the sixteen of us won’t be able to relive those lifechanging two weeks at NLR, our friendships remain strong. -Annie Paige
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like to think that I can do things “on my own.” I like to think that I don’t need help from others. Ironically, those who know me well—know this isn’t true. In fact, if the truth be told, I believe that we are all looking for a sense of community and fellowship in our lives. I think all of us are searching for true friendship and intimacy. But for me, reaching out and making friends is sometimes a little difficult. I don’t know why I’m like that—I just am. Maybe I have a hard time trusting people. Maybe I’ve been hurt and betrayed in the past. Or maybe it’s just my introverted personality. I don’t know… Anyway, for a couple of years, Sylvia Williams had been looking for a small group of women with whom she could meet on a regular basis, but nothing ever came to fruition. She patiently waited for someone to ask her to join a group, but no one did. Then one Sunday (as Sylvia so eloquently puts it) the Lord gave her a “V-8 moment”. Yes, the light bulb lit up brightly as she realized she didn’t need to wait for someone to ask her. She realized that she only needed one
or two friends to get together and they could form their own small group. And so, that’s exactly what she did—she took a risk and the payoff has been great. I’m so glad that I was one of those friends she reached out and touched. I’m so glad to be a part of this group of Christian women. In addition to myself and Sylvia, there are Melodee Papke and Kathy Loyd. Our small group has been meeting now for about six months. We don’t have an “official” name, but we meet every Friday at lunchtime in the little café at Barnes and Noble. We share our victories and struggles of the past week. We pray for one another. We laugh together. Sometimes we do our Bible study, and sometimes we just visit and fellowship together. “I love the great fellowship. I love sharing with a group that I trust and knowing that they care about me,” says Kathy. The common threads that bind us together are the love and grace of Jesus Christ. We have all discovered that in making a conscious and deliberate decision to move closer to other Christian women, we have also moved
closer to God. Perhaps it’s just a natural side-effect—as we draw into closer relationship with other believers, we draw closer to God. As we leave the safety of our group and go out into the world, we are pulled in every direction. We are constantly bombarded with doubts and fears from the enemy. Melodee points out, “A small group provides support in times of need, and it reinforces our personal values.” In addition to strength and encouragement, there is a sense of accountability in a safe environment. As Sylvia puts it, “The best thing about being in a small group is being surrounded by caring friends that will both celebrate your joys and share your concerns in Christian love.” And so, I have come to the realization that I can’t do it “on my own.” In fact, why in the world would I want to do this alone? Not only do I need to be surrounded by fellow believers, I want to be surrounded by other believers! I need their support and encouragement. I need their prayers and protection. I need their laughter and their smiles. I’m so thankful that God has brought me into fellowship with these sisters in Christ. “We ought always to thank God for you, brothers (and sisters), and rightly so, because your faith is growing more and more, and the love every one of you has for each other is increasing.” 1 Thessalonians 1:3 -Marcia Curley
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teach a Bible study that began six years ago— affectionately known as the Bedroom Bible Study. The genesis for the study began during the spring 2002 offering of Alpha. (Now, don’t jump to wrong conclusions, there’s a reason we got that name.) In Alpha we were together for ten weeks. When the study was completed, they cried and didn’t want to part. I agreed to watch the “Holy Spirit” tapes with them; then they still wanted to continue so I agreed to take them
through the book of John. Well, after that we studied the Pentateuch, Galatians, Ephesians . . . you get the picture. We acquired the name like this— after an introduction from our scripture study I would divide them into groups of two or three and disburse them to read, summarize, write down any questions and see how the portion of scripture related to their lives. I live in a condo so there was limited space. One group stayed in the living room, another in my office and the third group would go to my bedroom. One night as I walked down the hall, I looked in my
bedroom and there were the three girls—Jeanine, Chrisee and Christie— propped up in my bed reading. I couldn’t resist, I got my camera and snapped that amusing moment. Then I called the whole group and got them in the bedroom for a photo op. Since that day about six years ago we dubbed ourselves the Bedroom Bible Study, or BBS for short. During these six years we have not only studied scripture, but had potluck dinners, had Bible Trivia nights (Christie had the fastest fingers when it came to looking up scriptures!), and once in a while we would watch a particularly good Christian video complete with popcorn. We have stayed together and supported one another through deaths of friends and family members, surgeries, illnesses and other significant events. We were always there for one another. That’s community: walking through all of life’s experiences and supporting one another. At a recent get-together I asked, “What was it about our group that caused us to bond so much and stay together for all these years?
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The Bedroom Bible study group today: front rowChristie Finton, Chrisee Irvine, Sandy Wagner, Kurt Claxton, back row-Janice Leach, Jeanine Gray and Dawn Snyder.
Here’s some of their answers: “In Alpha there was just a warm feeling. We laughed and weren’t judged [in our group], I thought, ‘Wow, this isn’t too bad.’ We could pretty much say anything and ask questions about the Bible without being afraid,” said Christie. “Eventually, the dreaded ‘Is sex outside of marriage okay?’ question came up. I remember Sandy calmly saying, ‘Well, let’s see what Scripture says about that.’ I never felt judged or chastised, only led to the truth,” said one member of the group. Chrisee’s story the first night in small group was so outrageous and totally unexpected that it set the tone for the entire ten weeks of Alpha. Jeanine explained, “Chrisee was so honest. We had so much fun and weren’t always serious, but we were still were learning. We were a thirsty bunch.” I thought I’d check their progress when I asked, “Before coming to Alpha,
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where were you in your faith walk?” Her experience in Alpha was the first time Janice ever really studied the Bible. Kurt had been “turned off” from Christianity by an overzealous cousin. He now enjoys being a Christian and it has impacted all of his life, including his work. For Chrisee, a single mother of two, it finally translated from a dry faith to a personal relationship with Jesus Christ. “I had always gone to church and had a Christian background, but it really didn’t affect my life much. Now I realize that Jesus can be my husband and He really does provide.” Jeanine just wanted to go to heaven rather than hell. She considered herself a Christian, but it wasn’t a personal, real relationship. “I was in church; I knew He was God’s Son and died on the cross, but I never quite got that He died for my sins.” “In my family we had to go to
church, so I was familiar with the Bible,” said Christie. “I remember thinking, ‘I think I’m a Christian.’ Of course, it didn’t change anything I did. I thought I was a Christian by my good works. I also was unsure of my salvation if I really messed up.” Dawn had an initial Christian experience, but when 9-11 happened, it greatly impacted her and she realized she needed to be sure about her salvation. “I was wandering in the desert for 18 years,” she explained. “It was at the Alpha retreat that all that changed. I now had an incredible hunger to learn more.” I’ve had the privilege of watching these incredible young people (42-51) grow in their faith and their understanding of the Bible. Most of all, I’ve had the joy of being in community with them. I sincerely hope we’re together at least six more years. -Sandy Wagner
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he Happy Christian Community is composed of “common, ordinary, runof-the-mill, extraordinary people.” Take our teacher for example. John Miller has taught the class for 29 years and is still going strong. John isn’t known to be a quitter. Years ago he taught “Sunday school” at Methodist Manor with a group of others. He taught long after the others dropped out and only “quit” when all the little old men and women in his class died! John and Donna’s son, Grant Miller, grew up at Asbury, and we claim him as our youngest class member. He has served in missions in Tanzania since May 2000 so he is in his eighth year there. The Happy Christians are very involved in the ministry in Tanzania because of this. Several have been
there on mission trips for water wells, medical and construction projects. Other class members have also been on mission trips to Estonia, Mexico, as well as Central and South America. Even though we are the largest community with approximately 160 members, we’re more about quality than quantity. We currently have ten small-group Bible studies within the class with 75-80 people participating. Our goal is that all who are able will be in a small group study. Not only does it keep us in the Word of God personally, it gives us a chance to be closely involved with each other in prayer. One reason we’re called “Happy” is that we have so much fun. Our active social program includes parties, movie nights and dinners-for-eight groups which help us get better
acquainted with each other. We are a mixture of marrieds and singles with ages ranging from the 50s to the 80s, but don’t think that age slows us down. An extraordinary feature of our class is our involvement in practically every ministry of Asbury, but also participation in helping activities outside the church – feeding the hungry, prison ministry, tutoring, knitting warm garments for babies and children, nursing home visitation and so much more. Maybe the most exceptionally striking quality of the class is its care for one another. Besides unwaveringly faithful prayer support, which is there for the asking, is the hands-on support during times of need. One thing we know. God answers prayer! Often He uses us as His hands and feet.
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We have a list of children and grandchildren who have strayed from their spiritual roots. We call it our Prodigal List and we pray for them as a group almost every Sunday. We believe God is working in their lives to bring them back into fellowship, and, indeed, we have had many testimonies of this very thing happening. The Happy Christians are glad God intended Christians to work together for His kingdom. We’re old enough to see He really knows what is effective in helping us grow in Christ and bring others into His family. Before His death, Jesus prayed to the Father for us that we would be united and look out for the interests of others in His family. It’s good to be together. -Marty McBroom
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Bottom left photo: Martin Brown, Giles Greer, Ed Himes, Leonard Stubbs. Second photo: “After Taxes” Jim Yeager, Don Kent, Bill Carr, Joe Oglesbee and Ray Hartman. Third photo: “Ladies Luncheon” Nancy Hartman, Barbara Ribstock, Ginny Scott. Fourth photo: “Walking Laps” Jim Blazer and Dewey Sherbon. Top: The veterans that are members of Happy Christians.
WINTER 2008 ROADMAP CLASSES Welcome to RoadMap - your guide along the journey of Christian growth and education. We are pleased to offer a variety of biblically-based classes for all ages. Register for RoadMap classes by calling the Registration Hotline at 3921191. To insure that you will have materials by the first class session, call at least 2 weeks prior to class start date. After that, registrations will be accepted up to the start of the class, but no guarantees will be made concerning your materials. Childcare will be provided unless otherwise noted. There will be a special registration sign-up and book purchase opportunity on Sunday, January 6 before and after church, and between services in the Main Foyer. This will be a chance for you to meet the instructors, ask questions, purchase and pick up your book(s).
BIBLICAL STUDIES
Beth Moore Bible Studies
Transformers – Jesus & Our Hebrew Roots 16 sessions Tuesdays, January 8 – April 29 (will not meet on March 18) 10:00 – 11:00 a.m. Parlor (Room 1900) Teacher: Rev. Gloria Phillips Cost: $15 for individuals, $25 per couple A continuation of the in-depth study of the Old Testament and the ways that Jesus was foreshadowed in symbols, types and prophecy. Join this group of men and women as we study the Hebrew roots of Christian beliefs and practices with the original meaning of our English-translated words from the Hebrew. No cost for those who already have materials.
Stepping Up: A Journey Through the Psalms of Ascent* 7 Sessions Tuesdays, January 8 – February 19 9:15 – 11:00 a.m. Room 1504 Teacher: Cindy Read Cost: $13 This detailed study of Psalms 120–134 engages participants in unique opportunities for personal reflection and worship while exploring the background of each psalm and psalmist, the majority of which were written by David. Just as a song or poem can express feelings of fear, doubt, hope, and joy, these 15 psalms model how participants can voice their own petitions and praises to our God, who is always available and ready to hear us. *This group will continue through April with a Wayne Barber study after completion.
“Because of Jesus” by Connie Witter – Part II 12 sessions Tuesdays, January 8 – April 1 (will not meet March 18) 9:30 – 11:30 a.m. Room 1502 Teacher: Tammy Houghton Cost: $18 The woman of Proverbs 31 is not someone you aspire to become through your own actions, she’s a promise of God that you can experience by looking to Jesus and trusting Him to do the work in you. The truth found in this exciting, liberating, personal study of Proverbs 31 will set you free from condemnation, pride, worry, fear, doubt, discouragement, depression, hopelessness, and every sin that so easily besets you and keeps you from experiencing God’s plan for your life. This is a continuation of the study begun in the Fall, but newcomers are welcome!
CHILDCARE Available During Core Hours Beginning January 7 Children may be dropped off 15 minutes before parent’s Roadmap class begins. Mondays & Tuesdays 9:00 a.m. – noon Tuesdays, Wednesdays, and Thursdays 6:00 – 9:00 p.m. No childcare on these dates: January 21 (MLK), February 18 (Presidents Day), and March 17 - 21
The Patriarchs - Encountering the God of Abraham, Isaac, & Jacob 11 Sessions Tuesdays, January 8 – March 25 (will not meet March 18) 6:30 – 8:30 p.m. Room 2820 Teacher: Dee Dee Geddie Cost: $15 Full of twists and turns, ruin and redemption, revelation and mystery, this study of Genesis 12–50 keeps participants captivated by the God who stars in it! Plunge into the heart of Genesis, to God’s remarkable pursuit of relationship and to the unfolding of His earthly plan. Explore concepts such as blessing, covenant, and promise, and see a perfect and holy God endure in His relationship to man, whether man is at his best or at his weakest.
Precept Upon Precept Bible Studies Jesus The One and Only 11 sessions Tuesdays, January 8 – March 25 (will not meet March 18) 9:30 – 11:30 a.m. Room 2818 Teacher: Dana Harrison Cost: $15 Come along on a life-changing journey which will lead you through the hills of Galilee with the Teacher, across the lake with the Master, and finally, on the road toward the cross with the Savior. Get to know Jesus intimately...as though you had walked with Him during His days of earthly ministry. Using the Book of Luke, the other Gospels, additional Scripture, and video sessions taped on location in Jerusalem and throughout Israel, Beth Moore brings participants to new insights and understanding of the life of Christ.
The Revelation Part IV – Interpreting Revelation in the Light of Biblical Prophecy 15 sessions Tuesdays, January 8 – April 22 (will not meet March 18) 9:30 – 11:30 a.m. Room 2500 Teacher: Nancy Baxter Cost: $25 This finishes the 4-part Precepts study of Revelation by examining its relationship to all the other prophecies of end times in the Bible, especially those of the Old Testament. Ephesians – The Church: Rooted in Love, Walking in Power 11 sessions Tuesdays, January 8 – March 25 (will not meet March 18) ASBURY TIDINGS
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9:30 – 11:30 a.m. Room 2820 Teacher: Nancy Staab Cost: $20 Before Paul even hints at how believers should live, he lays a rock-solid foundation of who and what we are in Christ: chosen in Christ before the foundation of the world, targeted by grace, sons of God united in a single family, inheritors, holy, redeemed, forgiven, raised from the dead and seated with Jesus Christ in the heavenlies! If you think you’re just a cog in a machine, if you don’t know your true identity, then this study is for you!
DOCTRINE AND THEOLOGY Soul Feast: An Invitation to the Christian Spiritual Life 9 sessions Tuesdays, January 15* - March 11 6:30-8:00 p.m. Room 1508 Teacher: Rev. Cindy Mayes Cost: $15 Come explore the riches of Christian spirituality by taking an introductory look at some of the spiritual disciplines that can enhance and renew our faith life. Topics such as prayer, spiritual reading, worship, fasting, selfexamination, and hospitality will be explored, with discussions following, as well as instruction in developing and nurturing those practices. *Note the later start date
EVANGELISM AND MISSIONS Introduction to the Latin American Missions, Culture, and Language 12 sessions Thursdays, January 10 – April 10 (will not meet on February 14 or March 20) 6:30-8:30 p.m. Room 1504 Instructor: Esther Gene Morrison Cost: $40 A continuation of the fall semester course, students will learn Latin culture and the Spanish language as a part of being on a Volunteers In Missions (VIM) Team to Latin America. Participants will learn about the cultures of Mexico and Ecuador, as well as basic phrases and sentences in Spanish. This will be used to build relationships and facilitate ministry with children and adults at our mission locations. (New students will need to contact Esther Gene prior to the beginning of class.) Alpha (for adults) and Alpha Sprouts (for kids pre-school through 6th grade) 10 Sessions Tuesdays, January 15 – March 25 (will not meet March 18) 6:30 – 8:45 p.m. 23
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Adults in Community Life Center Children in room 2901 No cost for course Explore the Christian faith in a relaxed, nonthreatening setting at weekly sessions, with an optional overnight retreat (for adults) on February 22-23. Explore such questions as, Who is Jesus? Why did Jesus die? Who is the Holy Spirit? How can I overcome Evil? Families can share in the experience together, since adult and children’s courses run concurrently. Children will have fun while seeking the answers to these questions as they attend Alpha Sprouts. Preview dinner and Luau party, January 8 at 6:30 pm in the CLC. RSVP for meal by calling 392-1191.
CHRISTIAN LIVING Financial Peace University 13 weeks Wednesdays, January 23 – April 23 (will not meet on March 19) in Room 2818 Facilitator: Rick Boothe OR Sundays, January 20 – April 27 (will not meet on January 27 or March 23) Meets in the CLC Facilitator: Curtis Ralston 6:00 – 8:00 p.m. Cost: $91 for kit, one kit needed per couple This program is not a quick fix for financial worries. It is a 13-week program which requires real commitment. By teaching you money management basics, FPU can give you hope and provide a solid plan to walk you from the financial bondage of debt into true Financial Peace. Attend one of 4 free orientations from 6-7 p.m. for an overview of FPU course material, and to decide if you are ready to change your family tree: Sunday night January 6 or 13 in CLC, Wednesday nights January 9 or 16 in room 2818. CARE, MARRIAGE & FAMILY Teaching Minds, Training Hearts First 2 Wednesdays of each month, January 9- May 14 (will not meet Ash Wed., Feb. 6) 6:00 – 7:00 p.m. Room 2930 (Upstairs Children’s Lobby area) Teacher: Susan Palm No cost For Christian parents and teachers an important goal is to teach children about Jesus and His Word and train young hearts to love, obey and honor Him. Join us for this casual, interactive class and learn practical, applicable ways to communicate God’s Word to children in a creative, natural way. Learn techniques to capture and hold children’s attention, set limits, effectively, tell Bible stories, create questions,
learn transitions and songs. Principles encouraging Godly attributes will be presented. Meets the first two Wednesdays monthly. GriefShare 13 sessions Thursdays, January 10 – April 3 1:00 – 2:30 p.m. Room 2500 Facilitators: Joanne Stadler & Carl Novinger No cost No childcare GriefShare is a special weekly video series and support group for people who are grieving the death of someone close to them. It’s a safe place to be around people who understand what you are feeling. At GriefShare, you’ll learn valuable information about recovering from your grief and renewing your hope for the future. Dynamic Marriage 8 sessions Tuesdays, February 5 – April 8 (will not meet March 18) 6:30-9:00 p.m. Room 1507 Facilitators: Ron & Jackie Carter Cost: $130 per couple (many materials included, scholarships available) Give us 8 weeks, we’ll give you a dynamic marriage! This is an interactive class that will help you replace old habits with new ones in a unique, safe environment. Go from good to great, from mediocre to magnificent, or from hurt to healed. Limited to first 12 paid couples. To register, call Jackie Carter at 251-6665 prior to first class. 8 Dates/Double Dates: Dinner on the Town 8 sessions 2 nd Tuesdays, February 12 – September 9 6:15-7:00 p.m. Room 1502 Facilitators: Various Celebrate your marriage with conversation over dinner alone, or with a couple who has a marriage that has lasted through the years. Monthly menu: gather to hear a variety of conversation topics led by various speakers (30 minutes), then have dinner out. NEW TOPICS! Register by January 6 and indicate “Date” or “Double Date.” Double Dates will be matched on January 8, 7-8:30 p.m. in Room 1502.
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general information
Asbury Family News is available at the Welcome Centers. It includes hospital lists,
Breakfast Served from 7:15-9:00 am. in the CLC. Come
births, deaths, marriages, baptisms and military listings.
enjoy fellowship with Asburians along with fresh donuts, bagels, biscuits & gravy,
Doors of Asbury posters are at the Welcome Centers...FREE! Suitable for framing.
sausage, eggs, fruit, and cereal. $2 for adults & $1 for children 12 & under.
New Additions to the Library The Asbury Library is a wonderful resource.
Sunday Morning Worship 8:00 am Mason Chapel
Thank you to all who continue to contribute books to our Library.
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These studies may continue beyond the semester parameters and may be joined at any time. Mothers’ Fellowship Mondays 9:30-11:30 a.m. January 7-May 19 (except January 21, February 18, and March 17) Parlor (1900) Teacher: Esther Gene Morrison A Bible study for mothers of young children, usually centered around the study of a book selection or two. This semester will begin with a study of Max Lucado’s Experiencing the Heart of Jesus. Believers Bible Study Wednesdays 7:00-9:00 p.m Year-round, with a slight break during the summer Room: 1508 Teacher: Don Herrold Continuous Bible study, currently doing a 12week study of the “Kingdom of God”
Recycling Recycle unwanted paper products. Three bins are available, located in the south and east parking lots.
9:15 am
(Traditional Communion) Sanctuary
9:15 am
(Contemporary) Open House Worship (CLC)
access
11:00 am
(Acoustic Worship, Casual Setting) Sanctuary
Hands of Love Sign Choir Sundays, 6:00-7:00 pm, Rm. 2821
11:00 am
(Traditional with sign interpreter) Mason Chapel
Friends in Christ Discipleship Community Sundays, 11:00 am, Rm. 1507
(Modern) Thursday Night Worship 6:45 - 8:00 pm Simply Worship (CLC) (Casual, Praise and Worship)
bible study
Sundays for Children and Students 6 Weeks - 4 Years 8:00, 9:15, and 11:00 am
RoadMap (See Pages 22-23) All courses being offered in the Winter/Spring
Women of the Word Wednesdays 10:00 – 11:00 a.m. Ongoing, year-round Room 2319 Teacher: Pastor Darlene Johnson No childcare Open Bible study focusing on the practical application of the Scripture sermon series.
K-6th Grades 7th, 8th & 9th Grades
9:15 or 11:00 am 9:15 & 11:00 am
2008 RoadMap session are now listed on the Asbury website at www.asburytulsa.org. On
10th, 11th & 12th Grades 9:15 am only Adult Discipleship Communities
Sunday morning, January 6, there will be signup sheets at the tables in the Main Foyer for
8:00, 9:15, & 11:00 am and Wednesdays, 6:30 pm Family Night Dinners
each of the classes offered. Books needed for the courses will also be available for
Wednesdays, beginning January 9, 5:00-6:00 pm in the CLC. Cost: $5-adults, $3-children
purchase at the sign-up tables, so bring your check book. Volunteers will be at the tables
Breathe ~ a Women’s Group meeting mid-week to study, pray & just spend time building godly friendships! Wednesdays, *6:00-8:00 p.m. January 8 – April 30 (will not meet March 19) (*This will actually end up about 6:10-7:45, due to dropping off and picking up kids in childcare and children’s activities) Room 2821 Teacher: Jessica Dyer This semester we will follow a video-discussion format with little to no homework. In 10-14 minutes, this progressive series of short films connects real truth with real life and then the real discussion will follow. Some of the topics include, -Does God Believe In Us? –Why do we do the things we do? –We all get angry about things from time to time.–Maybe God has blessed us so we can bless others. This is an opportunity to really get to know women on a deeper level as together we seek God’s best for our lives! Each week will be a new adventure, so join us anytime.
ages 2-12, $20 maximum per family. Surgery or Hospitalization Scheduled?
before, between, and after worship services, beginning at 8:45 am and ending shortly after
Be sure to let Asbury know ahead of time by calling Ruth at 392-1146 so your pastors can
noon to assist with sign-up and book purchases. Brochures with complete course
be in prayer for you. When you enter the hospital, please designate Asbury as your church.
descriptions are at all the Welcome desks and in the community classrooms. The Winter/
The after-hours pastoral emergency line can be reached by calling 492-1771, selecting option 2,
Spring 2008 session begins the week of January 7.
and leaving a message for the pastor on call. Engaged Couples If you are planning to use an Asbury p astor to officiate and/or use Asbury’s facilities, be sure to book ASAP to allow ample time for Couple-toCouple (required pre-marital sessions). Six
care and support GriefShare Thursdays, January 10 - April 3 (13 sessions)
months to one year lead time suggested. The Gazebo is Open
from 1:00-2:30 pm in Rm 2500. This special weekly video series and support group is for
CDs of Tom’s message of the day are available immediately following the worship service - $3.
people who are grieving the death of someone close to them. It’s a safe place to be around
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people who understand what you are feeling. At GriefShare, you’ll learn valuable information
Divorce Recovery Tuesdays, 7:00-8:30 pm, Rm 2319 - For those
about recovering from your grief and renewing your hope for the future.
suffering from the early, highly emotional stages of divorce and separation trauma.
classes during these core hours will have childcare provided for children 6 weeks - 12
Effective Interviewing Are you seeking new employment or
Childcare available. Divorce Rebuilding
years of age with no reservations needed: Sun 8:00 am - 12:00 pm
investigating options? Asbury’s Employment Transitions Team will provide you the latest job
Thursdays, 7:00-8:30 pm, Rm 2319 - For those ready to rebuild their lives after separation or
search tips and techniques on Thursday, January 24 at 7:00 pm in the Parlor. This is
divorce. Childcare available. Eating Disorder Recovery
your chance to learn about interview strategies and handling the toughest interview
For individuals seeking support in the recovery process. Wednesdays at 12 Noon in Room
questions. Put your preparation to practice right away on Thursday, January 31 in Room 2821
1621. Bring sack lunch. Contact Marcy McMurry at marcymcmurry@sbcglobal.net.
Enrollment for the 2008-2009 Week Day Preschool begins Monday, January 28 at 8:30
by signing up for a free one-on-one Mock Interview session with a trained professional.
Employment Transitions Need a second set of eyes to review your
am. Please contact Joanne or Susan in the at 392-1128 or 392-1126 for more information.
These interviews will be conducted in 30 minute timeslots from 1:00-3:00 p.m. and 7:00-
resume? Free male and female one-on-one support available thorugh Asbury’s Employment
Midweek Madness Wednesdays, 7:00-8:00 pm beginning again
9:00 p.m. You will need to sign up for a time slot. To sign up for an interview time, please email
Transitions at employ.transitions@yahoo.com Grandparents Raising Grandchildren
January 9 in the Children’s Ministry Area for kindergartners - 4th graders. On Wednesday
employ.transitions@yahoo.com. Assistance with resumes and other assistance also
First and third Tuesdays, 6:30-8:30 pm, Rm 1506. Mental Health: Support for Families
nights, Faith Zone will be the place to be as children learn to apply biblical truths to their
available. American Red Cross Blood Drive
(formerly Family-to-Family) For family members or caregivers of people
lives. Our goal each week will be to reinforce the lesson that was presented on Sunday
Wednesday, February 20, 5:00-7:30 pm in the Main Entry. Call 1-800-GIVELIFE to schedule
affected by a mental illness. 4th Thursdays from 1:30 - 3:00 pm in the Parlor. Next
with hands-on activities that they can apply to their lives. We will create an environment that
your appointment. Prayer Card Sending Team
meeting is January 24. Call Ruth at 392-1146. Military Connection
will be both educational and entertaining. Kids will have the opportunity to build relationships
Usually meets 1st & 3rd Mondays at 10:30 am in Room 1621 to send cards with God’s
To demonstrate the love of Christ, periodic care packages and monthly encouragement
and go deeper into hiding God’s Word in their hearts. Can’t wait to see you there! Pick up
encouraging words and our prayers to those who are ill or going through hard times. Cards
cards with God’s Word are sent to Asburyrelated military personnel. The Prayer Ministry
your registration form and sign up early so that we may be wise stewards and plan
and care packages are also sent to Asburyrelated military personnel. Contact Gwen
also covers them in prayer. Please send contact information (complete name and
accordingly. Contact Kim Renkema at 392-1159 for more information.
Mohler at GRMOHLER@aol.com for more information, or call 392-1146.
address) to Gwen Mohler at grmohler@aol.com or call 392-1146.
5.6 Bible Study Wednesday nights from 7:00-8:00 pm
Asperger Support Group First Thursday from 7:00-9:00 pm in Rm 1621.
Prison Fellowship Support First Tuesday of each month, 7:00-8:30 pm.
beginning January 9. On Wednesday nights our 5th and 6th graders will get to experience
For mothers of children with Asperger Syndrome. Childcare available.
For family and friends of people who are incarcerated. Meets offsite. Call Ruth at 392-
Bible study. They will meet together each week to work on a study called “Journey - The
Alzheimer’s Support Group Third Thursday, from 1:30-3:00 pm in Rm 1621.
1146 for location. Asbury Bear Bags
Claim to Life.” This study will cover topics like worship, prayer, forgiving, serving, courage
Christian hope, support and education for friends and family of those with Alzheimer ’s or
Asbury Bear Bags with coloring books have comforted young children for many years, but
and many others. This is a good introductory study for our 5th and 6th graders. You may
other dementia. Bipolar/Depression Support Group
now you may give a Bear Bag with a scripture-based journal included instead! Great
pick up a registration form in the Elementary or Preschool area; your early registration helps
Second and fourth Thursdays, 7:00-8:30 pm, Rm 1621 - For persons living with bipolar
for teens and adults. Anyone may deliver an Asbury Bear to someone who is grieving. For
us have the correct number of study books. Our 6th graders will promote to youth for
disorder or depression. Cancer Support Group
more information, contact Beth at 392-1116.
Wednesday nights beginning March 26th and our 5th graders will begin a new study. If you
Second Sunday of each month, 4:00-6:00 pm, Parlor - For those living with cancer and their family and friends.
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Core Childcare Hours Parents who are involved in RoadMap
Mon & Tue 9:00 am - 12:00 pm Tue, Wed, & Thur 6:00 pm - 9:00 pm (Childcare will be closed the week between Christmas and New Year’s.) Asbury Week Day Preschool Enrollment for 2008-2009 School Year
have any additional questions, contact Jami Moss at 392-1166 or Kim Renkema at 392-
Registration forms for all children’s
1159. Teaching Minds...Training Hearts
activities are available in the preschool and elementary lobbies.
Ever wish you knew how to talk to your children about God in a more natural and
comfortable way? Ever want to learn some fun and creative ways to enhance a Bible
help you replace old habits with new ones in a unique, safe environment. Go from good to great,
story? Ever want to be able to hold the attention of a circle of preschoolers during
mediocre to magnificent, or hurt to healed. Cost: $130 per couple. (Scholarships are available).
January 2 January 9
Bible story time? Then join us for this interactive, casual, fun class. This is for anyone who
To register, contact Jackie Carter at rcarjac@valornet.com prior to the first class, or
January 16 Todd Johnson January 23 Bill Johnson
has an opportunity to teach children about God’s love - whether in their home or on
call 392-1146. Limited to first 12 paid couples. Attention Engaged Couples
January 30 Mark Springer Home Improvement Ministry
Sunday morning. Usually the first two Wednesdays of the month, beginning in 2008,
If you are planning to use an Asbury pastor to officiate and/or use Asbury’s facilities, be sure
Saturday, February 16. The Men’s Ministry offers home improvement for widows,
but in January will only meet the second Wednesday, the 9th, Children’ s Ministry Office
to book ASAP to allow ample time for Coupleto-Couple (required premarital sessions). Six
widowers and single moms within the Asbury family. Volunteers make themselves available
Lobby. No cost. No obligation. You’ll be glad you came! Sponsored by Asbury Children’s Ministry.
months to one year lead time is suggested. Milestone Wedding Anniversaries
every other month to help folks out with minor home repairs and/or home improvement
Murdock Villa A mission opportunity for our 5th & 6th grade
Email your March or April Milestone Ann iversary (5,10,15,20, etc.) to Carolyn
proejcts. Just pick up a request form at the South Welcome Desk, or call your request to
students. Usually the second Sunday of the month from 12:30 - 3:00 pm. Cost is $5 for
Schutte at brucetschutte@valornet.com or call 392-1146.
Pam Wallace at 392-1199, ext. 253 at least ten days before the scheduled work day. A Home
CiCi’s Pizza. We’ll eat then visit Murdock Villa where we will play Bingo and do crafts with
breakfast, all for just $3 per person. First-time guests are free. Pec Clark Don Herrold
Improvement volunteer will contact you, and make arrangements to get the job(s) done.
special needs adults. It is an amazing time to witness in our local community. Limited to 10
membership
Boy Scout Spaghetti Luncheon Benefit Sunday, February 17 from 11:00 - 2:00 pm in
kids each month. For further information contact Jami at 392-1166.
Asbury Exploration Come to a lunch/class to learn more about
the CLC. Cost is $5 per person or $20 maximum per family. Asbury Boy Scouts
Children’s Choirs Wednesdays, 6:00-6:50 pm, Various Rooms
becoming a member of Asbury. Sunday, January 6 from 12:15-2:00 pm in CLC. Lunch provided and
Troop 10, sponsored by the Men’s Ministry, would like to invite you to its Third Annual
childcare is available for children six weeks through 6th grade. Call 392-1191 to register.
Spaghetti Luncheon Social. Come celebrate Scout Sunday and enjoy a generous serving of spaghetti, bread and salad with your family and friends. Tickets may be purchased
discipleship Discipleship Communities If you have not yet found an Adult Discipleship
men
Sunday, February 3 and Sunday, February 10 from 8:00 am - 12:30 pm or the day of the
Community (similar to Sunday school) check out the insert in this month’s Tidings. There’s a
REAL Men (no genius required) (see page 2 for details)
event at the door. However, pre-purchasing is appreciated to help with planning. All
place for you!
marriage & family
Men’s Fraternity: The Quest for Authentic Manhood
proceeds will benefit the Boy Scouting programs of Asbury.
Wednesdays, January 9 - April 30 from 6:00 8:00 pm in the Mason Chapel and CLC. Cost: $10. Fulfilling men’s need for a compelling vision of Biblical masculinity, this teaches men
missions/outreach
Second Tuesdays, February 12 through September 9 from 6:15 - 7:00 pm, Rm 1502.
how to live lives of authentic manhood as modeled by Jesus Christ and directed by the
Perspectives to Begin January 7 Perspectives on the World Christian
Celebrate your marriage with conversation over dinner alone, or with a couple who has a
Word of God. More than just a rally or Bible study, it is designed to help men come together,
Movement is a 15-week course where you’ll learn about God’s nature, purpose, and ways
marriage that has lasted through the years. Monthly menu: gather to hear a variety of
strengthening each other through weekly session of biblical teaching and small group
in the world. You’ll be enabled to let Him grip your heart with the things close to His… and
conversation topics led by various speakers (30 minutes) then have dinner out. NEW
interaction. These time-tested resources have equipped men all over the world to pursue
become a vital part of them. This course is designed to equip and mobilize Christians to
TOPICS! Register by January 6 at 392-1191 and indicated “Date” or “Double Date.” Double
noble manhood as a lifelong priority. Facilitators are Rev. Dub Ambrose, Greg Ruley and Glen
contribute their own unique abilities in their own strategic place of service to advance the
Dates will be matched on January 8, 7:00-8:30 pm, Rm 1502.
Fisher. Call 392-1191 to register.
Kingdom whether locally, nationally, or internationally. Students and churches benefit
Dynamic Marriage Tuesdays, February 5 - April 8 (no class on
Men’s Prayer Breakfast Wednesdays, 6:30-7:30 am in the CLC.
as God brings an increased vision. Classes start January 7th with options at Fellowship
March 18) from 6:30 - 9:00 pm in Rm 1507. Give us eight weeks...we’ll give you a dynamic
Attention men of Asbury. Make plans to join us for a great time of meaningful worship, life-
Bible Church (91st St. west of Sheridan) on Monday nights or at First Christian Church in
marriage! This is an interactive class that will
changing prayer and an awesome big
Owasso (on 86th Street North just east of
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169) on Wednesday nights. Scholarships for a portion of the class fees will be offered by
April 23–27 Rio Bravo, Mexico Men’s Construction, $550
Asbury. For more information, go to www.tulsaperspectives.org or you can call
Spring Cookson Hills, Oklahoma Light Construction, $50
Mary Ann at 392-1117. You will be blessed by participation in this class.
Late April/Early May Tanzania, East Africa Work Team, $2500
If you would like someone to pray with you during Holy Communion or immediately
Friends of Estonia Friends of Estonia will have their annual
June 11-23 Quito Ecuador Construction & MBS, $1800
following a worship service, please come to the altar rail. A pastor or member of the Altar
meeting in Emmanuel United Methodist Church, Memphis, January 18-19, 2008. Dr. Maxie
June 12-23 Estonia Lighthouse MBS & Construction $2500
Prayer Team will be glad to pray with you for your needs – physical, emotional or spiritual -
Dunham will be the special speaker. If interested, contact Mary Ann Smith at 392-1117.
June 18-30 Tanzania, East Africa Medical, $2700
at the altar or in the Prayer Room. Prayer Room Reservations
Friends of Juan Wesley Seminary Friends of Juan Wesley Seminary will be
June 19-30 Estonia Camp Gideon, Programs & Const., $2500
The leadership of Asbury’s prayer ministry would like to remind you that the main facility
meeting at Asbury February 1-2. This is an initial meeting to inform and establish an
August 1-10 Estonia, Parnu MBS & Light Construction, $2500
Prayer Room is open not only to individuals desiring to pray in a quiet, meditative
advocacy group for this Methodist seminary located in Monterrey, Mexico. If interested,
Sept/October Azerbaijan Construction & Teaching, $2400
atmosphere, but also to prayer groups within communities and ministries. Just give Debbie in
please contact Mary Ann Smith at 392-1117. Eyeglass Donations
October 11-18 Monterrey, Mexico MBS & Construction, $950
the Adult Ministries office a call at 392-1177 to reserve the Prayer Room for your group on a
Are you wondering what to do with those old eyeglasses? Donate them to missions!
Fall Cookson Hills, Oklahoma Light Construction, $50
weekly or monthly basis. Prayer Room Days & Times
You may drop your glasses off in the Global Outreach office.
November 5-9 Monterrey, Mexico Medical, $900
Our prayer rooms are accessible to you at these times:
Campbell’s Soup Label Changes Save Campbell’s soup labels for missions.
November 12-16 Rio Bravo, Mexico Men’s Construction, $600
Mason Chapel (during construction) Sundays from 7:00 am - 12:30 pm through
Please note that a different part of the label is now required. Please cut the UPC symbol and
VIM Leader Training February 23, Oklahoma City
the interior door. Main Facility
the Labels for Education symbol together. Turn these in for missions! Questions: Contact
September 13, Enid October 25, Ada
Missy Sistrunk at 392-1163. Mission Matters
All costs are approximate. For more information about these exciting mission opportunities,
A monthly newsletter is available with recent news of mission happenings. If you would like
contact Marilene at 392-1164 or long@asburytulsa.org
to receive the newsletter, please contact Missy Sistrunk at 392-1163 or Msistrunk@asburytulsa.org. Preference is for the email version, but hard copies can be mailed if needed.
music Chancel Choir
Global Outreach Prayer Ministry News and prayer requests from our missionaries and ministries are sent each week to our prayer ministry list. If you would
Wednesdays, 6:00-7:30 pm, Rm 1510 Asbury Singing Ambassadors
like to join and become a prayer intercessor for those serving around the world, contact
Tuesdays, 1:00 pm, Choir Room Celebration Ringers
Missy at 392-1163.
Tuesdays, 4:30-5:30 pm, Rm 2506 Asbury Ringers
Volunteers-In-Mission Opportunities
Wednesdays, 6:00-6:50 pm, Rm 2506 Perpetual Light Thursdays, 10:00 am-noon, Rm 2506 Asbury Power & Light
March 29 – April 7: Azerbaijan Construction & Teaching, $2400
Sundays, 8:15-9:15 am, Rm 1510 Saints of Swing Dixieland Band
March 29 – April 5 Monterrey, Mexico, Construction & MBS, $950
Thursdays, 2:00-3:00 pm, Rm 1510 Children’s Choirs Wednesdays, 6:00-6:50 pm, Various Rooms
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Altar Prayer
Monday - Friday Saturday
7:00 am - 9:00 pm 10:00 am - 3:00 pm
Sunday
12:30 pm - 9:00 pm
recovery Wednesdays, 7:00 pm, Choir Room New Covenant Orchestra
missions/vim
prayer
Celebrate Recovery Come join this supportive group of people each Monday night at 6:00 pm. Dinner at 6:00 pm; Worship from 7:00-8:00 pm; Small Groups from 8:00-9:00 pm; Dessert from 9:00-9:30 pm. Hiding any hurts, habits or hangups? God never intended for you to live in bondage.
senior adults Asbury Singing Ambassadors Choir Tuesdays from 1:00-2:30 pm in the Choir Room upstairs . Come enjoy fun and fellowship with other senior adults (60+). This awesome choir is made up of over 160 senior adults who sing on occasion during Sunday morning worship services and on special occasions and holidays, as well as out in our community. No experience necessary...just show up and sing!
‘Tweenagers Program and Luncheon Everyone aged 55 and up is welcome to join us for our monthly Tweenagers meeting & luncheon, taking place on Thursday, January 24, from 10:30 a.m. to 1:00 p.m. in the CLC. Call Doni at 492-1771 to make your reservations BY NOON, Monday, January 21. If, during that week, you find you need to cancel, please let Doni know as we need to give an accurate count to the cooks. Should you choose, you can make a donation for the meal when you check in that morning. Come join us for fun and fellowship! AARP Safe Driving Course Fridays, January 25, February 22, March 28, April 25 or May 23 from 9:00 am - 5:00 pm in Rom 2820. Cost: $10. Class size is limited to 35. First come- first served. The AARP Driver Safety Program is the nation’s first and largest refresher course for drivers age 50 and older that has helped millions of drivers remain safe on today’s roads. It is designed to help you: 1. Tune up your driving skills and update your knowledge of the rules of the road. 2. Learn about normal age-related physical changes, and how to adjust your driving to allow for these changes. 3. Reduce your traffic violations, crashes and chances for injuries. 4. Drive more safely. 5. Get an insurance discount. Auto insurance companies in most states provide a multi-year discount to AARP gradulates. To sign up, call Asbury’s Registration Hotline at
singles Singles Annual Chili Cook-Off Hey single adult families...Join us on Saturday, January 19 for our Fourth Annual Chili Cookoff. There will again be judging in three categories: Hottest, Specialty Chili, and BestTasting. If you’d like to cook up a batch for any of these contests, sign up at Sunday’s “Meet and Greet” table in the main foyer, or give Gretchen Valentine a call! Cooks and all children ages 12 and under eat FREE! You provide the chili, and we’ll provide all the trimmings’! The event is a favorite in our singles ministry, so don’t miss the fun. Singles Ministry Potluck Luncheon Sunday, January 27 from 12:00 - 2:00 pm in the Parlor. Come, bring your children and enjoy a delicious lunch, courtesy of your fellow singles. Just bring a “family-sized” food item, homemade or purchased. Great food, great fellowship, new friends. It just doesn’t get much better than that. Singles Meet and Greet Sundays from 8:40-9:10 am or 10:20-10:50 am in the CLC. All singles are invited. Divorce Recovery Tuesdays, 7:00-8:30 pm, Rm 2319 - For those suffering from the early, highly emotional stages of divorce and separation trauma. Childcare available. Divorce Rebuilding Thursdays, 7:00-8:30 pm, Rm 2319 - For those ready to rebuild their lives after separation or divorce. Childcare available.
392-1191. At least 12 participants are required for the class to take place, so tell your friends and neighbors and sign up today. Senior Sit and Fit Stretching Class Mondays, Wednesdays and Fridays from 9:00-9:30 am in the Gym. All senior adults are invited to join us for a time of stretching, coupled with lots of fun and fellowship. No high impact workout here. We take it nice and easy. Come give it a try. Senior Walk in the Gym with Him Class Mondays, Wednesdays and Fridays from 8:30-9:00 am in the gym. All senior adults are invited to join us for power walking, coupled with lots of fun and fellowship. Come give it a try.
Word of God and learning what it means to live a Christian lifestyle. Small groups meet on Sunday nights. If youare not plugged into one, you need to be. Call or come by on Sunday and get plugged in. 7th-9th Grades meet every Sunday night through April 27. Contact Marsha at 392-1157 or mbaker@asburytulsa.org. 10th- 12th Grade meets Sunday nights. Time and places vary. Contact Todd at 392-1154 or Amy at 392-1156 to get plugged in. 7th - 12th Life Hurts, God Heals Wednesdays through April 30, 6:00-8:00 pm in Rm 1502 from 6:00-8:00 pm. Face it, life hurts, but the truth will set us free! This spring, we will be doing another semester of the 13-week small group experience called Life Hurts, God Heals, created specifically for teenagers who have experienced some type of pain in their lives - divorce, bad breakups, friends, sexuality issues, disappointment, rejection, abuse, alcohol, etc. Groups start January 9 and end April 30 and will meet Wednesday nights (except March 19). Come any time or come by the Student Ministry area if you have questions. We will start with pizza, so come hungry! Parents, if this is something that grabs at your heart to help lead, we need you. Please call Marsha at 392-1157. Common Ground Sunday, January 27. Attention all 7th - 12th graders! We are going to have an all-grade worship night from 6:00-7:30 pm in the Chapel instead of small groups. You won’t want to miss this evening. Small Group leaders welcome.
students Student-Led Prayer Service Every second Tuesday from 7:00-8:00 pm. Everyone is welcome. 7th - 12th Metro Worship Wednesday, January 9. Come join student s from all over the city in a night to just worship Jesus. We meet the first Wednesday night of every month from 7:00-8:30ish. If you need a ride, meet at the church by 6:30 pm; we will be back by 9:00 pm. Or you can just meet us over at Believers Church, 47th and Memorial. Questions? Call Todd at 392-1154. 7th - 12th Grade Small Groups Hey, did you know that we have great small groups for 7th - 12th grade students? A small group is a group of 10 students and two
Dealing with Today’s Teens Parents!! Dealing with Today’s Teens is a seminar to help parents prepare for and survive the difficult teenage years, with Mark and Jan Gregston from Heartlight Ministries. It will be in place of Worth the Wait Weekend (which will be held next year). Dates and times include: Saturday, January 12 from 10:00 am - 1:00 pm and Sunday, January 13 from 12:30 - 3:00 pm (lunch included). The purpose is to give direction and understanding to dealing with students who are caught in a world of life and struggle. Practical in presentation, effective in experience and proven in effectiveness, this seminar gives parents a sense of hope, practical advice on raising teens and alternatives to help change situations with a struggling student. Do it for your student...get registered.
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Spring Break Missions Money Deadlines January 27 - Houston: $75; Red Bird: $125;
Service rehearsal is April 27 from 5:00-6:00 pm and Confirmation Service, May 4 at 6:00 pm.
Home Improvement Work Days Saturday, February 16. The Men’s
Mexico: $125; and Guatemala: $200. February 17 - Houston: $100; Red Bird: $100;
Register in the Student Area by February 24. 7th, 8th, & 9th Grade Breakaway
Ministry offers home improvement for widows, widowers and single moms
Mexico: $225; and Guatemala: $250. ALL CHECKS MADE TO ASBURY.
Sunday mornings, 9:15-10:30 am in the Breakaway Area. This isn’t your normal Sunday
within the Asbury family. Volunteers make themselves available every other
7th Grade Confirmation Parent Meeting Attention 7th grade parents. If your student is
school. Come join us for worship, fun and games, interactive talk/lesson, and sometimes
month to help folks out with minor home repairs and/or home improvement
going through 7th Grade Confirmation, you must attend the MANDATORY p arent meeting January 6
free candy and gift cards. 7th, 8th & 9th Grade Bible Study
proejcts. Just pick up a request form at the South Welcome Desk, or call your
from 5:30-7:00 pm in the Chapel. There is no homework due at this meeting.
Wednesdays, January 2 through April 30 from 6:30-8:00 pm. in the Student Ministries Area. Want
request to Pam Wallace at 392-1199, ext. 253 at least ten days before the
Houston and Red Bird Spring Break Missions Leaders Meeting
to learn more about the heart of God? Then don’t miss Wednesday Night Bible Study!
scheduled work day. A Home Im provement volunteer will contact you,
January 20 from 12:30-1:30 pm. If you are a leader on the Houston or Red Bird SBM trips,
Called to Ministry - 10th, 11th, 12th Is God speaking to you, leading you...okay,
and make arrangements to get the job(s) done.
please attend this training. Meet in the Student Area after church. (You will be fed!)
maybe CALLING you into a future vocational ministry? You may not know what that looks like;
Women of the Word Wednesdays from 10:00-11:00 am in Rm
7th, 8th, & 9th Grade Video Scavenger Hunt February 1 from 6:00-9:30 pm we are breaking into
you just know that God is stirring something in you. Join us every month on the SECOND
2319. Rev. Darlene Johnson, teacher. Phone Buddies
teams for a digital photo scavenger hunt around Tulsa. Show up at 6:00 pm dressed for the weather and get
SUNDAY from 12:30-2:00 pm in the Student Ministry Area for lunch and to talk about what this
Ladies, would like like a “cheer me up” with your morning coffee? We have
ready to have some fun. Cost is $2 for ice cream plus bring men’s or women’s socks to donate to a local
means for you. This is for 10th, 11th and 12th graders. RSVP to Amy at 392-115 the Thursday
dedicated, caring women who would love to meet that need in your life by
homeless shelter. 7th, 8th, & 9th Superbowl Grade Small
before.oin any time. 10th, 11th & 12th Breakaway
being your very own “phone buddy.” Call Shirley Martin and she’ll connect you with
Group Parties Sunday, February 3. This year Small Groups will
Join us every Wednesday (except March 19) from 6:30-8:30ish pm in the Student Ministry Cafe for a
a loving volunteer. Crafty Ladies Fellowship
have their own Super Bowl parties OFFSITE. So talk with your group and find a fun place to watch
time of connection, worship, and God. We will also have nights of just random fun. Don’t miss the food
Mondays, 9:30 am - 2:00 pm, Rm 2820. If you enjoy doing crafts and
the game and hang out. Houston and Red Bird Training and
and hang-out time afterwards.
fellowshipping at the same time, this activity is for you! We gather to work on
Parent Meeting If you are going to Houston or Redbird, you must attend this training and your parent/s must attend their meeting:
women UMW January Luncheon
our own individual arts and crafts, stop for a delicious pot-luck lunch, and continue on through until 2:00 pm. We w ould love to have you join us! For more
Houston: February 24, Team Training from 2:006:30 pm and MANDATORY Parent Meeting from
Thursday, January 3, 11:30 am - 1:00 pm. Attention ladies! The program planned for
5:30-6:30 pm in Rm 1504. Red Bird: February 24, Team Training from
January’s UMW Luncheon will be a presentation about the Exodus House ministry, with special
12:30-6:30 pm (bring $3 for lunch) and MANDATORY Parent Meeting from 5:30-6:30 pm in
guest speaker, Chandra Getz. Our focus scripture for the month comes from I Peter 4:10-
worship
Rm 1502. Don’t miss it. 8th - 12th Spring Confirmation
11: “Each one should use whatever gift he has received to serve others, faithfully administering
Sunday Mornings 8:00 am Mason Chapel
Wanna know if Jesus is real and what it means to follow Him? For all 8th-12th Grade students who
God’s grace in its various forms. If anyone speaks, he should do it as one speaking the very
9:15 am
have not ever completed confirmation or joined the church. Students will be confirmed during a
words of God. If anyone serves, he should do it with the strength God provides, so that in all
special service for all 2007-2008 confirmands on May 4th at 6:00 pm. Since there are only four
things God may be praised through Jesus Christ. To Him be the glory and the power forever and
meetings, students MUST attend all four, the rehearsal and the ceremony in order to be
ever. Amen.” A delicious luncheon by Virginia will be prepared for just $6 per person. Bring a friend.
confirmed. February 26 is Spring Confirmation Kickoff from 4:00-5:30 pm. Parents included.
“You Are Worthy” Women’ s Outreach Friday, January 25 from 6:30-9:00 pm in the
11:00 am Mason Chapel (Modern) Thursday Nights
Mandatory meetings: March 11, April 1, April 15 from 4:00-5:00 pm. Mandatory Confirmation
Sanctuary. Join us for an evening of fellowship, praise and worship, and awesome teaching with
6:45 - 8:00 pm Simply Worship (CLC) (Casual, Praise and
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information, contact Beverly Clarke and stop by some Monday to check us out!
9:15 am
11:00 am
(Traditional Communion) Sanctuary (Contemporary) Open House Worship (CLC) (Acoustic Worship, Casual Setting) Sanctuary (Traditional with sign interpreter)
Worship)
welcome to asbury...
Jason and Ginny Martin and Ty Shirley Crane
Nancy Fightmaster
Kelly Hoffman
Lindsay Jackson
Dusty and Jennifer Parker, Allysa, Allyson and Jayden
Amanda Meyer
Angie Bowker
Kim Martin
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If you are interested in learning more about who we are, plan to attend one of the Exploration classes designed to tell you more about Asbury and what we believe. We will spend our time looking at Asbury’ s “Mission – Vision- Objectives.” Most of the time will be spent in talking about our eight objectives. Another part of the member-ship process is to spend time in a
Joe and Terri Cleveland
pastoral visit. We want you to know at least one of our pastors so that when life’s difficulties arise, you will have a pastor who can help you through it. Perfection is not required of Asbury members, but we do want to grow and get better. As John Wesley, the founder of
Brian and Amy Diener, Bryson and Luke
Methodism said, “If your heart is as my heart, lend me your hand.” Choose from one of the upcoming Sunday membership classes: January 6, 2008 February 3, 2008 March 2, 2008 April 6, 2008 May 4, 2008 June 1, 2008 August 3, 2008 September 7, 2008 October 5, 2008 November 2, 2008 December 7, 2008 Classes are from 12:15 – 2:00 pm
Call 392-1191 to make your reservation. Childcare is available and lunch is included.
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Dan and Susan McCarty
New Member Photographers: Allen Robison and Diana Fields
We rejoice to recognize you as members of Christ’s holy church, and bid you welcome to Asbury United Methodist Church. With you we renew our vows to uphold it by our prayers, our presence, our gifts, our service and our witness.
Student Ministry/Worship Quantity
Unit Price
Cost
900
$40
$36,000
10
$500
$5,000
Kitchen Ice Machine
1
$2,000
$2,000
Refrigerators
2
$2,000
$4,000
Range
2
$1,000
$2,000
Dishwasher
1
$1,000
$1,000
Microwave
1
$200
$200
30
$1,500
$45,000
1
$1,500
$1,500
First Floor Large Group Room Chairs 200
$35
$7,000
$500
$2,500
Second Floor Regular Classrooms Classroom Chairs 400 $35
$14,000
Worship Auditorium Chairs
The Mission Continues... Three years ago the Asbury family accepted the challenge to expand its facility to accommodate the evergrowing number of children and students. The following “wish list” has been generated as a way to help complete the project. Should you decide to contribute, please contact Tera at 392-1123, or email wishlist@asburytulsa.org. Children’s Expansion Quantity First Floor Offices Desks w/ Hutch Chairs File Cabinets Book Cases
Unit Price
Cost Purchased
4 $1,500 4 $100 4 $250 2 $200
$6,000 $400 $1,000 $400
First Floor Regular Classrooms Classroom Chairs 225 $35 Classroom Tables 36 $235
$7,875 $8,460
Plastic Wall Hangers Soft Seating
$540 $3,000
Resource Room Refrigerator Table & Chairs Microwave
9 $60 3 $1,000
1 1 1
$800 $800 $125
$35 $235 $40 $50
$7,700 $8,460 $2,400 $400
Plastic Wall Hangers Storage Units
$60 $250
$360 $1,000
Second Floor Offices Desk Only Chairs File Cabinets Book Cases Total Children’s Wish List
6 4
2 2 2 2
$800 $100 $250 $200
Both Floors Soft Seating / Furniture
x
2
First Floor Offices Reception Desk
Table & Chairs
$800 $800 $125
Second Floor Classrooms Classroom Chairs 220 Classroom Tables 36 Larger Chairs 60 Rectangular tables 8
Café Area Tables & Chairs
Classroom Tables
x x x x x x
$1,600 $200 $500 $400 $54,420
5
24
$50
$1,200
Storage Units
8
$250
$2,000
A/V Equipment
4
$4,000
$16,000
Second Floor Assembly Classroom Chairs 250
$35
$8,750
Rectangular tables
8
$50
$400
Exterior Signs (North and East)
2 $20,000
$40,000
Office / Classroom
5
$1,500
Total Student Ministry Wish List
Total Wish List Expenses Money donated but not designated
Purchased
x
1
$7,500 $196,050
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in celebration of marriage 55 Years Bob & Gladys Murphy January 24, 1953
50 Years Russ and Norma Jones January 25, 2958 5 Years Bob & Gwen Morgan December 7 J.T. & Crystal Turner January 25
50 Years Wally and Sue Maurer January 18, 1958
60 Years Philip & Jean Essley
December 28, 1947
Congratulations to those who are celebrating Milestone Anniversaries (5, 10, 15, 20, etc.) Report your Milestone Anniversary to Carolyn Schutte at brucetschutte@valornet.com or call 392-1146.
we rejoice...
we remember...
with those who have experienced the joy of a new baby in their family:
and celebrate the lives of:
Abigail Grace Newman daughter of Scott and Anne Newman December 3, 2007 Raquel Fallen Raley daughter of Brian and Victoria Raley sister of Sloan and William December 8, 2007
in appreciation...
We want to express our gratefulness to Asbury and all its facets: Wordfinders, Prayer Card Ministry, Care Ministry, Stephen Ministry, Cancer Support Group, Women of the Word, Ambassador Choir, Tom and all the ministers and Bill Mason who has stood with us through much and many, many others for all the prayers and support all through Don’s long journey and his ultimate passing to be with our Lord. God’s blessing on you all,
Pat Zwayer and family
The Amazing Asbury Widows wish to thank everybody who helped make the Very Jazzy Asbury Affair a success. Special thanks to Bill Metzger’s Dixieland Band, Mike Bennett and Bill Shores for their ensemble, Donna Wilson for caroling and the line dancers. And of course, thank you to Virginia and her crew for the wonderful luncheon. A big thanks to all the committee members who helped plan, decorate and clean up. Dee Coy
Kathleen Cyrus March 20, 2007 Kaye White wife of Jerry White November 14, 2007 Keeling Adams son of Jennifer Adams brother of Reid Adams and Nicole McCants November 17, 2007 Maggie Neely November 29, 2007 Bruce Johnson II November 30, 2007 Dr. Dean Hidy husband of Bea father of Cindy Hidy December 1, 2007