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have never met anyone who said they want to be like Judas Iscariot, Scrooge or “The Grinch.” Stephen Covey’s “Scarcity Mentality”
presents a very unattractive trait. Being in a relationship with a “penny-pinching,” “tight-wad,” stingy, miserly, or money-grabbing person douses joy. Rude, uncomplimentary people who constantly grab, push and shove to get their way drain batteries. On the other hand, there’s hardly anything more inspiring than being with generous people. They inspire and lift up. We will be talking about generous hearts at Asbury this month. We will see some great examples of this at the 11 am sanctuary service on February 8, as we honor couples who have kept their vows to each other for 50+ years. One of the best things about being a pastor is seeing the regular displays of generosity! These acts of kindness are seldom public, but they deeply impress me. Some are generous with their money. Asbury’s impressive mission budget is an example of this! Some are generous with their volunteer work. I could go on and on about this. If people saw some of what I see (and I see only a tiny fraction), there would be a sense of awe for the sacrifices people make around here. They do not do it for recognition but because their hearts have been changed by the love of Jesus Christ. The Bible is our guide. It speaks about developing a loving heart. At some point we have to ask ourselves the fundamental question: “Am I going to live according to Biblical truth or am I going to do as I please?” The Bible teaches us that when we love we begin the process of generosity. The woman who poured the
costly perfume on Jesus’ feet illustrates this (contrasted with Judas’ attitude in John 12:1-7). Jesus said: “The thief comes to steal, kill and destroy.” That’s the Scrooge and Grinch “Scarcity model.” The devil’s terrain is conquest and destruction. It is a curse. Jesus said, “But I have come that you might have life—and have it more abundantly.” (John 10:10) These two positions are poles apart and headed in different directions. Jesus’ model stems from gratitude and kindness. It results in great blessing. Paul wrote to Timothy about “The love of money” (not “money” per se, but the “love of it”) is the root of evil (1 Timothy 6:10). He concludes that passage with: Command those who are rich in this present world not to be arrogant nor to put their hope in wealth, which is so uncertain, but to put their hope in God, who richly provides us with everything for our enjoyment. Command them to do good, to be rich in good deeds, and to be generous and willing to share. In this way they will lay up treasure for themselves as a firm foundation for the coming age, so that they may take hold of the life that is truly life. (6:17-19) We learn to grow and develop generous hearts. When this happens, we become attractive people, and life is full of far greater joy. This is my prayer for you! See you Sunday,
Dr. Tom Harrison
CONTENTS
Managing Editor Tara Lynn Thompson
4 The Right Fear, Right Now
18 7 Secrets to Relationships
6 Living Beyond Fear
20 Do Not Be Anxious
8 Collecting with a Cause
21 Opportunities
10 A Bucket of Seeds
30 New Members
12 Mr. Fix-It
32 50+ Anniversaries
14 Kids Come First
34 Family Room
16 What God Has Joined Asbury Tidings is a monthly publication designed to tell stories of lives being transformed by the power of Jesus Christ. You may read back issues by visiting www.asburytulsa.org
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Guest Contributors Kim Beair • Nikki Boyd Christy Capps • Marcia Curley • Rod Giles Stephanie Hurd • Pastor Jim Lenderman Beth McCalman • John Westervelt Thank you to Daniel Kleefeld for being this month’s model and to BrokenArrowTuxedo.com for the clothing. We greatly appreciate the help.
5th Anniversary
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NO FEAR!
The Right Fear, Right Now beth mccalman
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ear hunts us. It seeks us out, finds us in our home, in the
dark, on the street, in a parking lot, performing everyday chores, living our lives. It never stops, never tires, never offers mercy. And it will never go away until we face it, look it in the eye, and exert authority over it in the name of Jesus Christ. We see things in our community that scare us everyday. However, what should be most frightening are the children and adults in our community who do not know God’s love. Those individuals are across town, down the street, next door, and right before you. Having fear is something we must and are called to overcome in order to do our most important and entrusted task—reach out to all people. Even though most of our fear is about safety or failure, the fear we need to have is the fear of God. We must have the awe, reverence and respect of God to take us beyond our comfort zones and toward risks. Bryant L. Myers teaches us that to be true to our identity as Christians, we must be in Christ and be doing mission, loving God and our neighbor. The Holy Spirit empowers us for missions, leads us into mission and is responsible for the results of mission. Meeting people’s immediate needs, whether they
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be financial, physical, relational, or emotional, can lead to spiritual nurture. If we meet a pressing need, we have a way of making the gospel tangible. Jesus healed and fed the people then gave them spiritual healing and feeding. He washed his disciples’ feet and told them to follow his example of humble service. We are to be the hands and feet of Christ. We are to serve and let his light shine through us. Matthew 22:37-39 commands us to “‘Love the Lord your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your mind’. This is the first and greatest commandment. And the second is like it: ‘Love your neighbor as yourself.’” We are to love not only in word or speech but in truth and action (1John 3:18). As we stoop to wash another’s feet, either by serving a meal or reading to a child or teaching a skill, we imitate Christ. God does not hold us accountable to meet every need that crosses our path but to be faithful to the mission he has entrusted to us. The outcome, then, belongs to God. The results are always glorifying to God as long as we put him in the lead. “Jesus insisted that he did not come to be served, but to serve” (Mark 10:45). Both in life and death, he acted that way. He spent vast amounts of time tenderly ministering to the physical needs of hurting
For I am the Lord, your God, who takes hold of your right hand and says to you, Do not fear; I will help you. - Isaiah 41:13 people. He went out of his way to bring love and
children, paper goods and craft supplies for Project
dignity to socially marginalized groups like lepers,
Transformation.
tax collectors, bleeding women, blind beggars and even a guilty adulteress” (Ronald J. Sider). How can we do any less? We start with where people are because this is where God started with us to transform us into what
• Listen to children read at Project Transformation (summer only). • Organize your community for a Saturday work project and/or activity for residents at the United Methodist Children’s Home or Boy’s Ranch.
he wanted us to become. Jesus always met people
• Become involved with Child SHARE, the United
where they lived, accepted them as he found them,
Methodist program for recruitment and support of
and never left them the same. This is our challenge
foster and adoptive families.
in identifying with the people we serve and among whom we live. Mother Teresa said that the most rampant disease is the feeling of being unwanted, uncared for, deserted by everybody. We can change that. If you are interested, there are many local mission opportunities available and in need of help: • Collect Kleenex, anti-bacterial hand cleaner, stickers and small reward items for teachers at Whitman Elementary. • Tutor a child from Youth at Heart (during school
• Collect gently used clothing, canned goods, noperishable foods, and school supplies for Restore Hope Ministries. • Help provide meals for Habitat workers, Project Transformation interns, Redemption Church, Clarehouse, Hospitality House of Tulsa. • Doctors and nurses are needed at Good Samaritan Mobile Medical Clinic and volunteers are needed for intake and to serve as prayer partners. • Volunteer at Restore Hope Ministries in the reception area or in the children’s room.
year here at Asbury). • Be a reading partner at Whitman Elementary (during school year).
For more opportunities or information, contact Beth @ 392-1116.
• Collect books suitable for elementary school ASBURY TIDINGS
NO FEAR!
Living Beyond Fear Pastor jim lenderman
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conomic uncertainty. Rising unemployment.
in the blank with the “what if” that preoccupies your
Credit crisis. Economic slowdown. Govern-
mind these days.) The “what ifs” of life produce fear,
ment bailouts. Ballooning national debt.
especially when the uncertainties involve money.
Stock market decline. Dwindling retirement sav-
No one is immune to the “what ifs” of life. We all
ings. Volatile oil prices. Plummeting house values.
have them. However, as followers of Jesus Christ,
Worldwide recession. That’s what you read when
we don’t have to live in fear in uncertain times. We
you glance at the headlines for 2009. What’s being
have hope. And we have faith that no matter what
predicted for this year? Negative trend lines and lots
happens around us, God is with us in the midst of
of uncertainty.
life. Let me offer a few things you can do to live be-
A steady diet of those dire headlines produces a very predictable response in many people. Fear. It’s one thing to know what’s happening in the world out there. But what happens when the headlines begin to happen to me?
yond fear in today’s economy. What you can do in these uncertain times:
1. Trade fear for faith. In his book, Fields of Gold, Andy Stanley writes, “Fear and faith live parallel lives. Uncertainty is an
For one thing, the “what ifs” take over. We begin
essential ingredient for both. Without the element
to wonder…What if I lose my job. What if I can’t get
of the unknown, there could be no faith. It’s in that
the loan I need? What if my stock portfolio is worth
moment of faith that we learn to rely less on what is
half of what it was worth only a year ago? What if
seen and more on what is unseen. Faith bridges the
my retirement savings loses 40 percent? What if I
gap. But it’s also in that moment that we are most
get sick and can’t afford the unexpected expenses?
vulnerable to fear.”
What if I need to sell my house but it’s worth less
Times like these give us a wonderful opportunity
than I paid for it? What if _____________? (You can fill
to trade in the fear we experience for a deeper faith
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in God. This often takes a serious act of our will. We would do well to remember what Jesus said in Matthew 6:30-34, “And if God cares so wonderfully for flowers that are here today and gone tomorrow, won’t he more surely care for you? You have
problems is one of the biggest sources of individual frustration and marital strife. Getting your financial house in order may involve many things including: • Spend less than you make. This simple financial principle is critical.
so little faith! So don’t worry about having enough
• Understand where your money goes on a daily,
food or drink or clothing. Why be like the pagans
weekly, and monthly basis. Most people are sur-
who are so deeply concerned about these things?
prised how much they spend on nothing.
Your heavenly Father already knows all your needs, and he will give you all you need from day to day if
• Know your debt load—how much, to whom, payments, future payoff dates.
you live for him and make the Kingdom of God your
• Give faithfully—“pay God first.”
primary concern. So don’t worry about tomorrow,
• Save religiously—“pay yourself second.”
for tomorrow will bring its own worries.” (NLT)
• Pay down your debt. Develop a plan and follow it so the burden of debt will be overcome in time.
2. Remember God owns it all. One reason why these unpredictable times pro-
• Join with others and learn how to manage your money God’s way.
duce fear is because we have become confused about who is responsible for what. In Psalm 24:1 we
I encourage you to join Pastor Tom for worship in
read, “The earth is the Lord’s, and all it contains.”
February as he shares a special sermon series that
Remember that God owns it all. That includes our
will focus on this important area of life and faith.
homes, our income, and our savings. Everything.
And consider becoming a part of Financial Peace
They are God’s possession, not ours.
University or one of our new Crown Biblical Financial Study groups that will begin following Pastor
3. Know your responsibility.
Tom’s sermon series. We can live beyond fear no
Since God owns it all, it is God’s responsibility to
matter what happens in the economy because God
provide for our needs. That’s what we see in Philip-
is faithful. We don’t have to live as those with no
pians 4:19. “And my God will supply all your needs
hope.
according to His riches in glory in Christ Jesus.” Our responsibility is to be faithful with what God has given us. We are simply the stewards or managers of what God entrusts to us. “Moreover it is required of stewards that they be found trustworthy” (1 Corinthians 4:2). This includes being faithful managers of what we spend on ourselves, as well as what we return to God through our giving. We want to be found faithful.
4. Take some specific, practical steps. Most financial advisors recommend that in tough financial times it’s vital that we get our personal
As followers of Jesus Christ, we don’t have to live in fear in uncertain times. We have hope. And we have faith that no matter what happens around us, God is with us in the midst of life.
financial house in order since stress over money ASBURY TIDINGS
A BUCKET OF SEED
Nancy Maddin: Collecting with a Cause nikki boyd
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friend gave Nancy Maddin a pillow that reads, “I’m not a pack rat, I’m a collector.”
and daily life. For someone who’s greatest need is
Ask Nancy and she’ll admit she has a weak-
these things are luxuries.
ness for certain things. She loves to collect things
With the local “Community Club Awards” pro-
like children’s books, old linens, glassware and an-
gram, Nancy sees an opportunity to help support
tiques.
Operation Hope. This campaign helps non-profit
She loves “objects that have significance,” like the
and charitable organizations earn cash by collecting
little 100-year-old vase that was a gift from a beloved
sales slips, receipts, and labels through purchases
family member. An item doesn’t have to be worth a
made at Tulsa businesses.
lot of money to be of value. It’s special because it was given to Nancy by someone who cared.
“It’s free money!” said Nancy. It’s free funds that can help change a life.
But Nancy doesn’t just gather things for the sake
Nancy and a small group of volunteers invest
of clutter. To her, items as simple as a toothbrush or
their time in collecting, cutting, dividing and orga-
a clean blanket can become treasures when given
nizing all the receipts that come in.
by hands extended in love. And for years she’s been turning her love for collecting into an expression of God’s care for others in need. One of many ministries she is involved with is Operation Hope. It equips those reentering the world after incarceration by providing things like job training, clothing, and accountability. Nancy frequents
getting food on the table or bus fare to get to work,
“It’s not a big money project,” said Giles Gere, President of Operation Hope’s Board of Directors. The collections come in little by little. The job is time consuming but adds up to helping someone stay clothed and warm. “The CCA program is a big deal to Nancy,” said Giles.
garage sales and thrift stores to find sweatshirts, bed
Saving receipts is a simple thing, but it’s a collec-
linens and other personal items for these individu-
tive effort and takes the involvement of many to see
als who want to transition back into the workplace
results.
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“She
spreads
awareness
of
An Asbury mem-
the
ber since 1972, Nan-
and
cy loves the sense
Asbury’s
of belonging that
communities to get
comes from know-
involved. I’m touched
ing Jesus and being
by Nancy’s attitude
a part of His church.
that everyone needs
And her “collecting
a second chance,”
with a cause” is just
he said.
another way to con-
opportunity inspires
Another
ministry
nect with others.
close to Nancy’s heart
Nancy sees every
is Happy Hands, an
discarded item as
education center that
a possibility to help
works with families
someone.
of
children,
through
six
infant
“I love the chal-
years,
lenge of transform-
who are deaf, hard
ing
of hearing, or diag-
into something of
nosed with commu-
value,”
nicative
It’s
disorders.
‘throwaways’
the
she
said.
ultimate
They help develop
“one man’s trash is
speech and language
another man’s trea-
skills in a Christian
sure.”
environment and pre-
Nancy wants to
pare kids for future
get the word out that
academic
success.
Photo: Christy Capps
this is something
Whether it’s a handful of receipts or clothing purchased at a thrift store, they can all be “objects of significance” when given as an expression of God’s love. It’s a simple way to make a big difference. Nancy helps collect UPC codes, box tops, and soup
anybody can do. Whether it’s a handful of receipts
labels to redeem for cash directly given to their op-
or clothing purchased at a thrift store, they can all be
erations.
“objects of significance” when given as an expres-
Nancy also helps collect eyeglasses for local and overseas mission trips and toothbrushes for local
sion of God’s love. It’s a simple way to make a big difference.
ministries in the Ukraine. She recycles newspapers
To find out more about how you can get involved
and magazines to benefit local schools (three collec-
in this “collecting with a cause” and help support
tion bins are located on Asbury’s campus). And, she
on-going ministries like Operation Hope and Happy
helps lead “yarn drives” that supply yarn used to
Hands, contact Asbury’s Outreach office.
make items for preemies. ASBURY TIDINGS
A BUCKET OF SEED
A Bucket of Seeds marcia curley
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resh fruits and vegetables: bright, vibrant colors; rich in vitamins and minerals; loaded with healthy chemicals called “antioxidants”; full of fiber.
rural impoverished community that relies on the
Fresh fruits and vegetables: a small, dry seed;
meets the needs of low-income families in Chero-
rays of golden sunshine; fresh and cleansing rain; a
kee, Adair, and Sequoyah counties—the three poor-
bed of nourishing soil.
est counties in Oklahoma. The center is located 20
Fresh fruits and vegetables: the miracle of a seed metamorphosing into life…gifts from our Creator. For some people, obtaining fresh fruits and veg-
Cookson Hills Center for support. The Cookson Hills Center is a mission outreach of the United Methodist Church and is a ministry that
miles southeast of Tahlequah near Lake Tenkiller. By nature of the location, the primary target group is Native Americans and is predominately Cherokee.
etables is as simple as running to the grocery store
The Bucket of Seed Project began at Asbury
or a local produce stand and buying whatever is de-
about six years ago and is spearheaded by Jan
sired. For some, including fruits and vegetables in
Stephenson and Joanne Stadler. Together, with the
their diet is so basic that they can’t imagine a meal
Cookson Hills Center, the project provides seeds to
without them.
almost 120 families in this impoverished rural com-
Sadly, for others, buying fresh produce is not an
munity. In a community where one in three children
option. In fact, it’s out of the question. What about
and one in three seniors live below the poverty line,
those people who have no transportation? What
the seeds are distributed to families each March.
about the single-parent who lives in substandard
The families then plant, tend, and grow their own
housing and has no viable childcare options? What
gardens of fresh fruits and vegetables. In addition
about the working poor who drive 20 miles a day
to the harvest, the families gain a sense of pride and
(one way) to a minimum-wage job? What about the
accomplishment.
senior citizen who has no pension plan and lives
The process begins in early January with the
on less than $2,000 a year? For many of the people
recruiting of volunteers (over 30 are needed) and
who live in one of the three poorest counties in
collection of donations to purchase the seeds. Last
Oklahoma, buying fruits and vegetables is neither
year, over 18 varieties of fruit and vegetable seeds
automatic nor is it a daily occurrence. Often times,
were purchased ranging from bell peppers and
it’s simply out of the question for the people of this
cabbage to tomatoes and watermelons. Seeds are
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purchased from Conrad Farms in Bixby; the folks at
neighbors, so we share the fruit of God’s goodness
Conrad provide technical advice on which varieties
and love with one another.
will grow best in the area. In February, the seeds are sorted and bagged
Jesus often used stories that involved seeds: the parable of the sower and the parable of the mustard seed are two famous parables found in Matthew 13. In the parables, the seed represents the Word of God. As the seed grows and matures, the love of God is spread. As the seed falls on fertile ground, the crop produced is 30 times, 60 times, and even 100 times more than what was sown. “Because of the resources that God has put in our path—we, in return, give to others and help care for our neighbors,” said Joanne.
for each family and then are distributed in March. “This is a great opportunity to serve others, and it’s a great chance for us senior Asburians to serve,” said Joanne Stadler, a key organizer. The project doesn’t require physical strength or a lot of standing. “We usually bring food and turn it into a time of fellowship as we work,” said Joanne. Several of Asbury’s small-group communities participate each year in this project.
Together, with the Cookson Hills Center, the Bucket of Seed Project provides seeds to almost 120 families in Cherokee, Adair and Sequoyah counties—the three poorest counties in Oklahoma. At the very heart of the Bucket of Seed Project is
We are reminded by the Apostle Paul in 2 Corinthi-
a vision to share God’s love and kindness. Yes, fresh
ans 9:6, “Remember this: Whoever sows sparingly
fruits and vegetables are the tangible outcome, but
will also reap sparingly, and whoever sows gener-
this is an outreach of God’s love. The intangible out-
ously will also reap generously.” Knowing this—let
come is the fruit of the spirit: love, peace, joy, good-
us sow a bucket of seeds with our neighbors, and let
ness, kindness, gentleness, patience, self-control
us pray for an abundant harvest of God’s love and
and faithfulness. As we share and give seeds to our
grace. ASBURY TIDINGS 11
THIS IS FUN!
Mr. Fix-It stephanie hurd
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arl Stutzman is known as Mr. Fix-It. The evidence of his craftsmanship and the work of his skilled hands are all over Asbury
(working as both a Technical and Maintenance Team Associate), in Tulsa where he is a site supervisor with Habitat for Humanity, and as far away as Tanzania where he participates in short-term missions. Growing up on a farm, Earl learned to weld, plumb, and wire. His dad was carpenter and together with his four brothers they built barns and made additions to the family home.
“When you grow up on a farm, you learn to do a lot of things for yourself,” Earl said. His dad greatly influenced Earl’s faith and exposed him to short term missions. “I was this close to being a preacher’s kid,” Earl squinted one eye and measured off an inch with his thumb and forefinger. “Growing up in a Mennonite church, they selected a preacher by picking three or four guys from the congregation who were good Christians and knew their Bibles. They would put slips of paper into books and have each man choose a book. The book with the short slip determined who the new preacher was. One year my dad was chosen to be in the preacherpool but he didn’t get the short slip. They were basically casting lots,” he said with a laugh. About the age of ten, with a curious mind and an early interest in electronics, Earl disassembled his dad’s tube radio to see how it worked. “I even took apart the tube,” Earl said, “and after that it didn’t work any more!” The following Christmas, Earl’s father gave him a crystal radio kit– –and sealed his destiny. He went on to study electronics in college
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and spent 26 years in the industry before coming to
seminary is pinned to the bulletin board in his office,
work at Asbury where his knowledge and abilities
bearing witness (in Spanish) to their appreciation
have earned him a glowing reputation among the
for his efforts.
staff.
Earl’s favorite Bible verse reflects his heart for
At Pastor Tom Harrison’s request, Earl pioneered
missions: “And this gospel of the kingdom will be
the use of video screens in the service and then
preached in the whole world as a testimony to all
the simulcast technology, which enables Asbury to
nations, and then the end will come” (Matthew
offer the Open House and Venue68 services. He in-
24:14).
troduced Hart Morris to the computer software that
Although he was already missions-minded, tak-
helps him write original hand-bell music. Recently,
ing the Perspectives course two years ago changed
Debbie Wallis wanted to learn to play the hammer-
his life.
dulcimer and Earl knew a teacher. “Only Earl would know something like that!” Debbie exclaimed. What Earl likes about his job is every day is different. His responsibilities include everything from
“That course gave me a whole different view of the Bible and how God is striving to bring all people back to Himself,” Earl said and then added with a laugh, “I think everyone should take the Perspectives class.”
installing and maintaining sound systems and video
The first line of Rick Warren’s book, The Purpose
equipment or building entire rooms, to assembling
Driven Life, reads, “It’s not about you.” This is Earl’s
furniture and fixing things. He also enjoys a host
life-theme. He commented, “Because of Christ, I am
of creative endeavors. Recently he constructed the
able to make a difference in other people’s lives––
manger for the nativity set in the sanctuary.
Christ has given me compassion
“See, I have chosen Bezalel son of Uri, the son of Hur of the tribe of Judah, and I have filled him with the Spirit of God, with skill, ability and knowledge in all kinds of crafts—to make artistic designs for work in gold, silver and bronze, to cut and set stones, to work in wood and to engage in all kinds of craftsmanship.” Exodus 31 According to Hart, Earl can build or fix practically
to help others.”
anything, and if he can’t explain something then he
Hart confirmed it.
knows where to go for the answer.
“Earl will do anything for you that he’s able to
“He’s Asbury’s MacGyver,” Hart said.
do, and as soon as you need it; he’s one of the most
Earl has participated in 20 to 30 VIM trips, and
giving people I’ve ever met,” Hart said.
continues to go once or twice a year.
With a willing heart and a generous spirit, Earl
“I don’t mind having a challenging environment
uses his gifts and talents, his God-given skill, ability,
or strange bathroom conditions. It makes me ap-
and knowledge to engage in all kinds of craftsman-
preciate what we have here in the U.S. a lot more,”
ship for the glory of the Lord and the building of
he said. Then he added with a grin, “In fact, I think
Christ’s body, both figuratively and literally. Like a
everyone should take mission trips.”
farmer, Earl is spreading God’s seeds of love and
Earl is a “regular” missionary to Monterrey,
compassion over this fertile mission field called
Mexico where teams have been updating the Juan
earth. And like Bezalel, he’s been well equipped for
Wesley Seminary and completely renovating the
the work at hand.
building a week at a time. A certificate from the ASBURY TIDINGS 13
THIS IS FUN!
Kids Come First story and photos by christy capps
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ne of Pastor Tom’s favorite sayings is: [At Asbury] “Kids come first.” What a joy it is to see them come!
On any given Sunday just under a thousand kids, ages six-weeks to 12 years, enter the doors of Asbury’s Children’s Ministry also known as the “Faith Zone.” The minute a child steps into their classroom they are welcomed by volunteers who strive to put kids first because they understand the eternal importance of their service to children. The Faith Zone has dedicated volunteers who serve on Sunday mornings, on Wednesday nights, at Vacation Bible School, at Upward Basketball, and on special events. They are enthusiastic. They love kids. They are committed to the vision of helping children learn to love and follow Jesus. But why do they do it? Kids can be loud, messy, and unpredictable. Why do they bother? Why do they sacrifice their time and effort? They do it because they know that helping kids learn more about Jesus is one of the most rewarding acts of service in the church. Here are some of the most typical responses to that question: • “It’s fun! The kids are great.” - Sue Hightower • “These kids are the future of Asbury. I remember 14 ASBURY TIDINGS
the volunteers who helped me when I was growing up. I want to give back.” - Angie Anderson • “That’s how I was raised. My dad took off during VBS.” - Mike Mayes • “This is my calling. The Lord has put me here. I get a boost from being with the kids every Sunday.” - Bill Sparkman • “What we do now will affect the future of Asbury.” - Miguel Martinez • “It makes me a better parent. I have a high stress job, and when I come here it allows me to have fun.” - Lance Hightower The volunteers and Children’s Ministry staff at Asbury believe that God passionately loves children. They know that children are the church of today. When kids are connected with adults who love God and love them, they develop trusting and authentic relationships with God. When the kids come to the Faith Zone, they meet with adults at Asbury who know them by name, enjoy being with them and think they are special. By simply being with kids (getting to know them and building relationships with them)—Faith Zone volunteers are positively affecting their spiritual formation. Children grow in their relationship with God
are excellent. Faith Zone intentionally develops the lessons for the children to coincide with Pastor Tom’s sermon series topics so that parents can engage their children in spiritual discussions at home. Parents who volunteer benefit because they know firsthand what their child was taught at church. This also profits the volunteers by keeping them connected to the church while serving the children. By putting kids first, the Faith Zone volunteers have the unique opportunity to build a legacy. Asbury has incredible facilities and great environments for programs that will get kids to come in the doors of the Faith Zone; but it’s the volunteers who develop personal relationships with the kids that are producing a life change and keep them coming back each week. These are the seeds that God can cultivate and grow into the deep roots that will sustain future generations of Christ-followers.
when they have the opportunity to connect with people from all generations, inside and outside their own families. These loving adults introduce Asbury’s children to the importance of community. Parents who volunteer in the Faith Zone have found that it is a community for them, as well as for their children. They build relationships with other families at Asbury. They laugh together, learn alongside their kids and have a great time because the Children’s Ministry programs
“Serving and loving one child may even impact the future of the nation and shape generations yet unborn.” Dr. H.B. London Jr., For Kids’ Sake ASBURY TIDINGS 15
WHO IS THE OWNER?
What God Has Joined rod giles
“Cast your bread upon the waters…” is the beginning of the New International Bible’s version of Ecclesiastes 11:1. The Message version says it this way, “Be generous: Invest in acts of charity. Charity yields high returns. Don’t hoard your goods; spread them around. Be a blessing to others.” This is a lesson the Mariners Community at Asbury has taken to heart. And one of their favorite “charities” is Asbury’s Marriage Ministry.
T
he Mariners Community started in the very early days of Asbury Church. They used to
their faith, but they continue to sail in all kinds of
meet in the church kitchen at our original
Two years ago the Mariners decided to begin sup-
church site. They were part of a group of newly-mar-
porting a new marriage ministry at Asbury called
ried couples at the time. You know, young adults just
Dynamic Marriage. It was a suggestion from two
starting out in life, where two eventually became
of their members, Ron and Jackie Carter. Ron and
three and four or more.
Jackie had just completed a class led by me and my
weather, for they are truly Sailors for Christ.
As the group became too large for the kitchen, the
wife Charlene Giles and came back raving about it.
group split, and the Mariners were born. They called
Ron and Jackie had been married 48 years, well sea-
themselves “sailors for Christ,” or The Mariners.
soned Mariners in their own right. But, the impact
They had dynamic teachers and experienced many lessons of life along the way. As all mariners learn over time, the seas are not always calm, and the winds do not always blow your way.
they experienced in their marriage caused them to become missionaries for the new ministry. Ron and Jackie approached the Mariners Community about an idea, and it seemed to resonate
Today, the Mariners are older well seasoned sail-
with the group. Maybe it was the early beginnings
ors with Pastor Emeritus Bill Mason at the helm.
of the class, maybe it was life’s lessons along the
They may have been battered about by the storms
way, maybe it was what some of them experienced
of life a bit and know a lot about setting the sails of
with their own grown children who struggled in marriages influenced by a changing culture. Or
16 ASBURY TIDINGS
maybe it was part of all these influences. But the
can attend Dynamic Marriage. Marriages will be
community said, “Yes, we want to support this ef-
strengthened, families will be saved, and models of
fort to strengthen marriages at Asbury.”
Godly husbands and wives will be given on to the
And so it began.
next generation.
For the last two years the Carters have hosted a
Since 2007, five classes of Dynamic Marriage
dinner at their home for the community. (“Feed them,
have been taught. Goals for 2009 call for another
they will come!”) It created a social opportunity for
six to be made available. The word is getting out, in
one, but also an opportunity for the members to do-
part because of the Mariners’ faithfulness.
nate to the Dynamic Marriage ministry. Money raised
Like sea farers long ago, The Mariners Commu-
at the social gathering has gone into a special ac-
nity has learned that casting bread upon the waters
count that provides scholarships for couples to at-
now will reap a reward later in time when the tide
tend.
returns their offering ten fold over. What an exam-
As the Carters first explained to their community, Dynamic Marriage is a national program with
ple the Mariners have become to another of God’s truths.
hundreds of churches participating and thousands
Any couples who have an interest can contact
of couples who have benefited from it. It is a nine
Ron and Jackie, since they have become volunteer
week intensive course that does have a tuition cost
coordinators for the ministry. Call them at the Dy-
of $130 to pay for books and CDs that are part of the
namic Marriage Hot Line (yes, their home phone) at
curriculum.
251-6665. Anyone can have a dynamic marriage and
That is where the money raised by the Mariners
make an impact on their own lives and the lives of
goes—to help couples who want to attend but the cost
their families. Think of it as, “Casting bread upon
would prevent them. Now more and more couples
the waters…” ASBURY TIDINGS 17
WHO IS THE OWNER?
7 Secrets to Relationship Happiness kim beair, ms, lpc, ncc
M
any Americans today wonder why they 2. Fuel Up! continue to go around the same “stress Fill your cup by doing something just for you— mountains” they have circled for years. ALONE. Jesus did this, so it must have been im-
Controlling the stressors of life while maintaining
portant. Alone time can be as simple as taking 10
quality, loving relationships can be accomplished
minutes to browse the magazine aisle before you
with a healthy plan of attack designed for the situa-
shop, keep a devotional with you to study while you
tions and people involved.
wait, or listen to a favorite CD or book on tape in
Remember, old habits die hard, and the brain
the car. Send the kids to run errands with family or
would rather keep you stressed because it knows
friends to gain alone time at home. Remember, you
change is more difficult than maintaining the status
cannot give anyone else a drink if your cup is empty.
quo. In reality, however, long-term positive habits
Prayer time is essential, and remember to both talk
will be well worth the effort. Let’s look at a variety of
and listen to God daily.
situations that you can begin to work on today for tomorrow’s success.
3. Great Dates. If you are married, the best thing you can do for
1. Order Your Life.
your family is to have a regular date night with your
Clear your mind by making a “To Do List.” Re-
spouse. Protect this time by NOT talking about fam-
gardless of your flawless memory, the list subcon-
ily issues or KIDS! Talk about personal or current
sciously allows your brain to relax so you can be
events, or beef up on trivia your spouse might find
fully present for healthy activities with loved ones.
interesting. To save money, go for a picnic or bargain
Helpful Hint: If you cannot complete your “to do
sporting event and look for discounts in the paper
list” each day with plenty of time left over for family
or online for your favorite activities. At restaurants,
and fun, your life is likely out of balance.
choose an appetizer/drink or dessert/coffee combo to slash the bill. Attend a charity event that is free or provides a tax write off for your ticket price.
18 ASBURY TIDINGS
achieved with reasonable and healthy boundary
4. Kids Count. …the quality of time you give them. Each child in
setting. Every person in the family needs to have
the family needs a few uninterrupted moments from
their personal down time, family time, and outside
each parent in the home on a daily basis. Start with
contacts to maintain balance. If you or a loved one
10 uninterrupted, non-conflicted minutes per child
cannot say no to intrusions, attend a free boundar-
and see what a difference it makes.
ies workshop, or head to the local bookstore for a
Assign each Sunday of the month to a different
Townsend or Cloud boundary book.
Stewardship within the family should be your first priority after your relationship with God and will be best accomplished by having fun while giving to each other.
family member by making it their “honorary day.” The honoree selects food and a few leisure activi-
7. Celebrate Parenting Differences.
ties, while other family members agree to partici-
Differences help make a balanced and healthy
pate fully and positively. Have each person make a
home, bringing diversity and spice to a family.
list of 30 activities to start, and edit it to the afford-
Moms and dads (married or divorced) who are uni-
able ones.
fied on rules and consequences for children rarely have problems, even if they exhibit different parent-
5. Money Matters.
ing styles. Simple ways to maintain this would be
…and is a major cause of family stress. Money
for both parents to attend one of the free parent-
is not the monster; it is the attitude and handling
ing workshops in the area. Something as simple as
of it that brings stress and negativity. If there is a
regularly watching Super Nanny or Nanny 911 can
problem that your family unit has been unable to
also promote understanding of boundaries within
master, take a step to contact a therapist or repu-
families. Parental unity promotes happy, healthy re-
table credit counselor to assist; then ENFORCE the
lationships with the children and extends to outside
plan you make. Unresolved money issues become
parties who also interact with your family.
weapons between spouses. Many professionals will
Stewardship within the family should be your first
see you briefly and allow you do the work at home.
priority after your relationship with God and will be
Hiring a professional can save and multiply money,
best accomplished by having fun while giving to
while restoring positive feelings quicker than you
each other. Most pastors have excellent rapport with
might imagine.
family wellness professionals, so use them to help define and manage expectations and boundaries
6. Balance Friends and Family. These issues plague even the healthiest of families. Whether it is in-laws, friends, or intrusive
of everyone in the family. Don’t hesitate to contact someone on your pastoral team today if you would like assistance in this area.
acquaintances of your children, balance can be ASBURY TIDINGS 19
Do Not Be Anxious john westervelt
A
s a youth while reading “do not be anxious” in the ending verses of the sixth chapter of Matthew, I thought, “Who is ever anxious?”
layoffs began. Engineering jobs were scarce in Tulsa. A friend at the utility company said I would have to take a 30
Little did I know that familiarity with those verses
percent pay cut to work for them. I imagined having
would be life-saving 30 years later.
to move back into a house in our old neighborhood.
After seven years with Century Electronics in Tul-
Anxiety hung on my heart like a millstone.
sa, I went to work as a design engineer at Rockwell
I began my defense against the pain in the chest
in Tulsa at the beginning of the Apollo moon land-
by talking to Jesus about His words, “Do not be anx-
ing program in 1962. Those were exciting times as
ious.”
we designed ground support equipment for space
I would add, “But it is so hard.”
systems that never previously existed.
This was not a one-day rendezvous but rather
Seven years after the Apollo Program began,
went on to varying degrees for five years. I worked
Nelda, Paul, Mary Kim, and I joined friends at their
on proposals seeking new work. I avoided a layoff,
house to watch the lunar landing. What we saw is
though I did not receive a raise for five years.
best stated on a NASA webpage. “On July 20, 1969,
During my last year at Rockwell, the company
the human race accomplished its single greatest
won a contract to build the B1 Bomber. I brought
technological achievement of all time when a hu-
back a few engineers and draftsmen. Then President
man first set foot on another celestial body.”
Carter cancelled the B1 program. Unbeknownst to
As I watched the Lunar Module land on the moon,
me, President Carter did me a favor.
I had a feeling of awe and satisfaction. At the same
I took a layoff from Rockwell at age 49 and found
time, I had a feeling of concern about what the future
fulfilling engineering work at Amoco Research Labo-
held in store for me with the completion of Apollo
ratories in Tulsa. I retired at age 67 and then worked
design.
half-time as a consultant for five more years.
By now I had 80 engineers and draftsmen working
I never stop talking to Jesus about His admonition
for me. To avoid layoffs, I found work for my people
not to be anxious. Knowing my demeanor, Satan
on Minuteman Missile guidance reliability analysis.
keeps trying to send anxiety my way. As a rebuttal, I
This work was being done by Rockwell’s Autonetics
fill my mind with a picture of a winsome Jesus smil-
division in California. When this work was finished,
ing and saying, “Do not be anxious, John.”
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asbury
opportunities general information Breakfast
please designate Asbury as your church. The after-hours pastoral emergency line can be reached by calling 492-1771, selecting option 2, and leaving a message for the pastor on call.
Served from 7:15-9 am in the
Engaged Couples
CLC. Come enjoy fellowship with
If you are planning to use an
Asburians along with fresh donuts,
Asbury pastor to officiate and/or
bagels, biscuits & gravy, sausage,
use Asbury’s facilities, be sure to
eggs, fruit, and cereal. $2 for adults
book ASAP to allow ample time
& $1 for children 12 & under.
for Couple-to-Couple (required
Sunday Morning Worship 8 am, Mason Chapel
premarital sessions). Six months to one year lead time suggested.
(Traditional Communion)
The Gazebo is Open
9:15 am, Sanctuary
CDs of Tom’s “Message of the Day”
(Contemporary)
are available immediately following
9:15 am, CLC (Open House Wor-
the worship service for $3. Prayer
ship) (Acoustic Worship, Casual
Journals are also available for $5
Setting)
each.
11 am, Sanctuary (Traditional w/ sign interpreter)
Recycling
11 am, Venue 68 (Modern)
Recycle unwanted paper products.
Sundays for Children & Students 6 Weeks-4 Yrs: 8:00, 9:15 & 11 am K-6th Grades: 9:15 or 11 am 7th-9th Grades: 9:15 & 11 am 10th-12th Grades: 9:15 am only Adult Discipleship Communities
Three bins are available, located in the south and east parking lots. Asbury Family News is available at the Welcome Centers. It includes hospital lists, births, deaths, marriages, baptisms and military listings.
8:00, 9:15, & 11 am and Wednesdays, 6 pm and Shepherd’s Flock
Doors of Asbury posters are at the
on Tuesdays at 6 pm. NEW!
Welcome Centers…FREE! Suitable
“Footprints” on Sundays at 11 am
for framing.
for Single Ladies ages 30-55 (See Discipleship). Surgery or Hospitalization Scheduled? Be sure to let Asbury know ahead of time by calling Ruth at 392-1146 so your pastors can be in prayer for
New Additions to the Library The Asbury Library is a wonderful resource. Thank you to all who continue to contribute books to our Library.
access Hands of Love Sign Choir Sundays, 6-7 pm, Rm. 2821 Friends in Christ Community Sundays, 11 am, Rm. 1507
bible study RoadMap All courses being offered in the Winter 2009 RoadMap session are listed on the Asbury website at www.asburytulsa.org and in the Winter brochure.
care and support American Red Cross Blood Drive Wednesday, February 4, 5-7 pm in the Gym. Call 1-800-GIVELIFE to schedule your appointment. Visits to Asbury Members Asbury has a unique group of volunteers (Asbury Connection) who regularly visit people who are either homebound or in nursing homes. If you are interested in being visited, call Ruth at 392-1146, or contact the coordinator, Abby Sluice at ozyanks2000@yahoo.com Prayer Card Sending Team Usually meets first and third Mondays at 10 am in Rm. 1621 to send cards with God’s encouraging words and our prayers to those who are ill or going through hard times. Cards and care packages are also sent to Asbury-related military personnel. Contact Gwen Mohler at grmohler@aol.com for more information, or call 392-1146.
you. When you enter the hospital, ASBURY TIDINGS 21
Asperger Support Group
Military Connection
Murdock Villa
First Thursday from 7-9 pm in Rm.
Please join us in praying for our
A mission opportunity for our 5th
1506. For mothers of children with
troops in harm’s way and their
& 6th grade students. Usually the
Asperger Syndrome. Childcare
families. Periodic care packages and
second Sunday of the month from
available.
monthly encouragement cards with
12:30-3:30 pm. Cost is $5 for CiCi’s
God’s Word are sent to Asbury-re-
Pizza. We’ll eat, then visit Murdock
Alzheimer’s Support Group
lated military personnel. The Prayer
Villa where we will play Bingo and
Third Thursday, from 1:30-3 pm in
Ministry also covers them in prayer.
do crafts with special needs adults.
Rm. 1621. Christian hope, support
Please send contact information
It is an amazing time to witness in
and education for friends and
(complete name and address) to
our local community. Limited to 10
family of those with Alzheimer’s or
Gwen Mohler at grmohler@aol.com
kids each month. For further infor-
other dementia.
or call 392-1146.
mation contact Jami at 392-1166.
Cancer Support Group
Asbury Bear Bags
Wednesday Night Live
Second Sunday of each month,
Asbury Bear Bags with coloring
Wednesdays 7 pm – 8 pm, January
4-6 pm, Parlor. For those living with
books have comforted young
7-April 29 (no WNL 2/25 for Ash
cancer and their family and friends.
children for many years, but now
Wed), 4 year olds – 4th grade,
you may give a Bear Bag with a
beginning in their choir room
Divorce Recovery
scripture-based journal included
and pick up in Chapel. Join us on
Tuesdays, 7-8:30 pm, Rm. 1335.
instead! Great for teens and adults.
Wednesday nights for worship
For those suffering from the early,
Anyone may deliver an Asbury Bear
in the Chapel—Kid Style. We will
highly emotional stages of divorce
to someone who is grieving. For
combine music, high energy, verse
and separation trauma. Childcare
more information, contact Beth at
memory and a Bible lesson in a set-
available.
392-1116.
ting that encourages kids to learn about worship. Our lessons will
Divorce Rebuilding
children
Thursdays, 7-8:30 pm, Rm. 1335.
Registration forms for all children’s
Sunday mornings. Can’t wait to see
For those ready to rebuild their
activities are available in the
you there! For more information
lives after separation or divorce.
preschool and elementary lobbies.
contact Amber Cox at 392-1171,
Childcare available.
acox@asburytulsa.org. Core Childcare Hours
Eating Disorder Recovery
Parents who are involved in
First and third Wednesdays, 12-1:30
RoadMap classes during these core
pm. For individuals seeking support
hours will have childcare provided
in the recovery process. Bring sack
for children 6 weeks-12 yrs. of age
lunch.
with no reservations needed: Sun: 8 am-12 pm
Grandparents Raising Grandchildren First and third Tuesdays, 6:30-8:30 pm, Rm 1506.
tie right into what we are doing on
Mon & Tue: 9 am-12 pm Tue, Wed, & Thur: 6-9 pm (No Childcare on Feb 25 due to Ash Wednesday)
5th & 6th Grade Bible Study & Crew Leader Service Wednesdays, January 7–April 29 (no class 2/25 for Ash Wed), 7–8 pm, 5.6 Room, cost $8 for workbook. On Wednesday nights our 5th & 6th graders will be studying “From the Heart for Youth.” If they’ve ever wondered what their role is in God’s church, they won’t have to be confused anymore. Our
Mental Health Support for Families
5th & 6th graders will learn how to
For family members or caregivers of
serve from the heart and discover
people affected by a mental illness.
the awesome and unique way God
4th Thursdays, 1:30-3 pm, Parlor.
created them. They will spend most
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of the 14 weeks in study, but will
or a current gift. Contact Dwight
TOPICS/SPEAKERS! Call 392-1191
actually take what they are learning
Yoder at dyoder@asburytulsa.org
to register.
and serve during the Wednesday
or 392-1113.
Night Live service with our younger
Attention Engaged Couples
kids a time or two. If you have any
marriage & family
additional questions, please contact
Dynamic Marriage
Asbury pastor to officiate and/or
Jami Moss at 392-1166 or jmoss@
Thursdays beginning February 19,
use Asbury’s facilities, be sure to
asburytulsa.org.
6:30-9 pm, room 2201. This is a 9-
book ASAP to allow ample time
week interactive class that will help
for Couple-to-Couple (required
you replace old habits with new
premarital sessions). Six months to
Discipleship Communities
ones in a unique, safe environment.
one year lead time is suggested.
If you have not yet found an Adult
Go from good to great, mediocre to
Discipleship Community check out
magnificent or hurt to healed. $130/
Milestone Wedding Anniversaries
“Get Involved” on our website,
couple (scholarships available). $50
Email your upcoming Milestone
www.asburytulsa.org or pick up a
holds your spot. Childcare avail-
Anniversary (5,10,15,20, etc.) to
brochure at one of our Welcome
able. To register, contact Jackie or
Carolyn Schutte at brucetschutte@
Centers.
Ron at asburydynamicmarriage@
valornet.com or call Ruth at 392-
windstream.net prior to first class.
1146.
discipleship
employment
Limited to first 12 paid couples.
PT Nursery Staff Positions Available Part-time position will work 1015 hours weekly in the Asbury
Weekend to Remember Marriage Conference
Nursery. The schedule will include
FamilyLife Ministries at Marriott
Sunday morning from 8:30 am-
Southern Hills. Learn practical skills
12:30 pm with a few remaining
and biblical principles to strengthen
hours during the childcare weekday
and re-energize your marriage or
and weeknight core hours. Suc-
prepare you for your upcoming
cessful applicant should have a
marriage. To register, call 1-800-FL-
love for children, willingness to
Today or go to weekendtoremem-
portray Christian beliefs and values
ber.com. Group rate of $89/person
to children and families. Resumés
available until March 10 using
should be sent to Vicki Ihrig, Asbury
group name “asburytulsa.” For
UMC, 6767 S. Mingo Rd., Tulsa, OK,
more information, contact Asbury’s
74133 or call her at 918-392-1160.
group coordinators, Charles and
March 20-22, 2009, hosted by
Cheryl Welch, at 254-1343.
endowments Leave a legacy that continues
8 Dates With Your Mate
to give forever to a ministry you
2nd Tuesdays, February 10-Sep-
want to support. There are endow-
tember 8, 6:15-7 pm, RM 1502.
ments that support many areas
Celebrate your marriage with
of Asbury’s outreach including
conversation over dinner alone, or
children, youth, music, missions,
with another couple in the group.
and training of pastors as well as a
Gather to hear a variety of topics
General endowment. You can easily
led by various speakers (30 min-
impact a ministry thru your will
utes), then have dinner out. NEW
If you are planning to use an
membership Asbury Exploration Come to a lunch/class to learn more about becoming a member of Asbury. Sunday, February 1, from 12:15-2 pm in CLC. Lunch provided and childcare is available for children six weeks through 6th grade. Call 392-1191 to register.
men Men’s Prayer Breakfast Wednesdays, 6:30-7:30 am in the CLC. Attention men of Asbury. Make plans to join us for a great time of meaningful worship, lifechanging prayer and an awesome big breakfast, all for just $3 per person. First-time guests are free. February 4
Bill Johnson
February 11 Mark Springer February 18 Dub Ambrose February 25 Pec Clark
ASBURY TIDINGS 23
Men’s Fraternity: The Quest for Authentic Manhood
Asbury Boy Scout Spaghetti Luncheon
running smoothly and what needs
Tuesdays, January 6–March 10,
Sunday, February 15, 2009, 11:30
service gives our men the oppor-
6:15-7:30 am, Rm. 2820, $10 fee.
am – 2 pm. The Asbury Boy Scout,
tunity to put their faith in to action
Fulfilling men’s need for a compel-
sponsored by the men’s ministry,
through loving and serving those in
ling vision of Biblical masculinity,
would like to invite you to its 4th
need. To volunteer, contact Debbie
this series teaches men how to
Annual Spaghetti Luncheon Social!
in the Adult Ministries Office, 392-
live lives of authentic manhood
Come celebrate Scout Sunday with
1177 or dwallis@asburytulsa.org
as modeled by Jesus Christ and
the scouts, and enjoy a generous
directed by the Word of God. More
serving of spaghetti, bread and
Men’s Open Basketball
than just a rally or Bible study,
salad with your family and friends.
Fridays, 11:30 am – 1:15 pm, Gym.
it is designed to help men come
The cost is just $5 per person,
Men! Make plans to join other
together, strengthening each other
or $20 maximum per immediate
Asbury guys and their friends each
through weekly sessions of Biblical
family. Tickets may be purchased
week as we get together for a little
teaching and small group interac-
Sunday, February 1 & Sunday,
“round ball” and lots of fun! Come
tion. These time-tested resources
February 8, from 8 am - 12:30
show us what you’ve got, and we’ll
have equipped men all over the
pm, or the day of the event at the
have a great time of exercise and
world to pursue noble manhood as
door. However, pre-purchasing is
fellowship. Invite your friends, and
a life-long priority. Topics include
appreciated to help with planning!
we’ll see you on the court!
“Seasons of a Man’s Life,” “Defin-
All proceeds will benefit the Boy
ing Manhood,” and “Raising Sons
Scouting programs of Asbury.
and Daughters.” Facilitated by Brent Colgan. All men ages 18 & up
Home Improvement Workday
are encouraged to participate.
Saturday, February 21. The Home Improvement Ministry serves wid-
Men’s Fraternity: The Great Adventure Wednesdays, January 7–March 25, 68 pm, Rm. 2821, $10 fee. A follow-up course to “The Quest for Manhood,” this 20-week study explores a man’s world beyond the every day. It will help you find your “unique fit” in life—one that is realistic, thrilling and deeply satisfying. Through this series you will develop a personal mission that fits the “real” you, discover the best practices of successful men, and find out how to surround yourself with teammates to help achieve those goals. You’ll also learn to deal with unfinished business and how to leave a legacy of which you can be proud. Facilitated by Greg Ruley. All men ages 18 & up are encouraged to participate. 24 ASBURY TIDINGS
ows and single moms within the Asbury family. Our men’s ministry volunteers make themselves available every other month to help folks out with minor home repairs and/or home improvement projects. To volunteer, contact Debbie in the Adult Ministries Office, 392-1177 or dwallis@asburytulsa.org Car Care Workday Saturday, March 21. Car Care Saturday is an every-other-month workday provided for Asbury’s widows and single moms, through our men’s ministry. While the ladies wait in the comfort of the café, volunteers check tires, belts, fluids, filters and batteries. They also vacuum and wash the vehicles, and then update owners on what’s
professional attention. This free
missions/outreach Eyeglass Donations Are you wondering what to do with those old eyeglasses? Donate them to missions! You may drop your glasses off in the Global Outreach office. Mission Matters A monthly newsletter is available with recent news of mission happenings. Preference is for the email version, but hard copies can be mailed if needed. If you would like to receive the newsletter, please contact Missy Sistrunk at 392-1163 or msistrunk@asburytulsa.org Global Outreach Prayer Ministry News and prayer requests from our missionaries and ministries are sent each week to our prayer ministry list. If you would like to join and become a prayer intercessor for those serving around the world, contact Missy Sistrunk at 392-1163.
Super Care Sunday
• August 26 - September 8:
Saints of Swing Dixieland Band
Asbury will hold a food drive to
Tanzania, East Africa, Construction
Thursdays, 2-3 pm, Rm 1510
benefit Restore Hope Ministries
• Late October: Azerbaijan, Con-
on Sunday, February 1, from 8 am
struction & Teaching
Asbury Singing Ambassadors
– 3pm. Everyone is encouraged to
• October 23-25: Cookson Hills, OK,
Tuesdays, 2:30 – 4 pm, Choir room
donate food products. The most
Light Construction
needed items are canned vegeta-
• October 24-31: Monterrey, Mexico,
prayer
bles, canned soup, peanut butter,
MBS & Construction
Altar Prayer
canned meat, canned fish, canned
• November 4-8: Monterrey, Mexico,
If you would like someone to pray
fruit, and pasta products. Also, are
Medical
with you during Holy Communion
you a “hands on” servant of Christ?
• November 11-15: Rio Bravo,
or immediately following a worship
We need volunteers on this day to
Mexico, Men’s Construction
service, please come to the altar
assist out members unloading food
• VIM Team Leader Training: Febru-
rail. A pastor or member of the Al-
from cars, packing loose cans in
ary 21 in Oklahoma City; September
tar Prayer Team will be glad to pray
boxes, loading boxes on the truck,
19 in Bixby; October 24 in Clinton.
with you for your needs—physical,
and assisting members who go to
For more about these exciting mis-
emotional or spiritual—at the altar
Sam’s to purchase food. There will
sion opportunities, contact Marilene
or in the Prayer Room.
be various shifts to choose from.
Long at mlong@asburytulsa.org or
Please call or email Joan Kahl 392-
392-1164.
1176 or jkahl@asburytulsa.org
missions/vim
music
Prayer Room Reservations The leadership of Asbury’s prayer ministry would like to remind you
Chancel Choir
that the main facility Prayer Room
Volunteers-In-Mission Opportunities
Wednesdays, 7 pm, Choir Room
is open not only to individuals
• March 28 - April 4: Monterrey,
New Covenant Orchestra
tive atmosphere, but also to prayer
Mexico, MBS & Construction
Wednesdays, 6-7:30 pm, Rm. 1510
groups within communities and
desiring to pray in a quiet, medita-
• Spring: South Texas, Men &
ministries. Just give Debbie in the
Women, Hurricane Ike Recovery
Children’s Choirs
Adult Ministries office a call at 392-
• April 17-19: Cookson Hills, OK,
Wednesdays, 6 pm, various
1177 to reserve the Prayer Room for
Light Construction • April 22-26: South Texas, Men’s
Asbury Power & Light
Hurricane Ike Recovery
Sundays, 8:15-9:15 am, Rm. 1510
• April 24-May 4: Azerbaijan, Construction & Teaching • May 30-June 6: Ecuador, MBS & Construction • June 12-22: Estonia, Lighthouse • June 18-30: Tanzania, East Africa,
Celebration Ringers Tuesdays, 4:30-5:30 pm, Rm. 2506
your group on a weekly or monthly basis. Prayer Room Days & Times Our prayer rooms are accessible to you at these times:
Youth Orchestra
Mason Chapel & Venue 68: Sun-
Wednesdays, 5:30 pm
days, 7 am-12:30 pm through the interior door.
Medical
Asbury Ringers
Main Facility, Mason Chapel &
• June 25-July 6: Estonia, Camp
Wednesdays, 6-6:50 pm, Rm. 2506
Venue 68: Mon.-Fri., 8 am-9 pm;
Gideon, Youth Camp & Construc-
Saturday, 10 am-3 pm;
tion
Perpetual Light
Sunday, 12:30 pm-9 pm.
• July 26-August 2: Honduras, MBS
Thursdays, 10:30 am-12:30 pm, Rm.
To obtain pass codes, call Debbie in
& Construction
2506
the Adult Ministries office, 392-1177.
• August: Estonia, Parnu, MBS & Light Construction ASBURY TIDINGS 25
Prayer Service for Those in Need of Salvation Wednesday, March 4, 6-6:30 pm, Mason Chapel. Are there people in your life who need the salvation of Jesus? Then make it a point to attend this service, focusing our prayers for those without Christ in their lives. “For God so loved the world that He gave His only begotten Son, that whosoever believeth in Him should not perish, but have everlasting life.” John 3:16.
recovery Celebrate Recovery Come join this supportive group of people each Monday night at 6 pm. Dinner at 6 pm; Worship from 7-8 pm; Small Groups from 8-9 pm; Dessert from 9-9:30 pm. Hiding any hurts, habits or hang-ups? God never intended for you to live in bondage.
senior adults
over 100 senior adults who sing on occasion during Sunday morning worship services and during for special occasions and holidays, as well as out in our community. No experience necessary…just show up and sing! February Tweenagers Program & Luncheon Thursday, February 26, 10:30 am – 1 pm, CLC. Everyone aged 55 and up is welcome to join us for our
Visits to Asbury Members
monthly Tweenagers meeting &
Asbury has a unique group of vol-
luncheon. Rev. Mary Whitaker with
unteers (Asbury Connection) who
the Cookson Hills Mission Center
This is a prayer opportunity you
regularly visit people who are either
will be our guest speaker for the
won’t want to miss! Commit to
homebound or in nursing homes. If
morning, and special music will
an hour of prayer in the Venue
you are interested in being visited,
be presented by the Tulsa Tones
68 Prayer Room, on behalf of our
call Ruth at 392-1146, or contact
Barbershop Quartet. You don’t
Youth on Mission, March 14-21.
the coordinator, Abby Sluice at
want to miss this, and remember to
Sign up for a time slot on Sunday,
ozyanks2000@yahoo.com
invite a friend. Call the main office
Youth on Mission 24/7 Prayer Vigil Sign-Up
at 492-1771 to make your reserva-
February 22 or Sunday, March 1, in the CLC Gallery. Or, you may
Senior Sit and Fit Stretching Class
tions BY NOON, Monday, February
sign up in the foyer of Venue 68
Mondays, Wednesdays & Fridays
23. If, during that week, you find
on Sunday, March 8. Be a part of a
from 9-9:30 am in the Gym. All
you need to cancel, please also
prayer effort to support our youth
senior adults are invited to join us
let us know as we need to give an
and sponsors as they serve in mis-
for a time of stretching, coupled
accurate count to the cooks. Should
sion fields on U.S. soil and beyond.
with lots of fun and fellowship. No
you choose, you may make a dona-
“Then you will call upon me and
high impact workout here. We take
tion for the meal when you check in
come pray to me, and I will listen to
it nice and easy. Come give it a try.
that morning. Come join us for fun and fellowship!
you.” Jeremiah 29:12. Senior Walk in the Gym with Him Prayer Service for Healing & Wholeness
Mondays, Wednesdays & Fridays
AARP Driver Safety Program
from 8:30-9 am in the gym. All
Friday, February 20 & Friday, March
Wednesday, March 25, 6-6:30 pm,
senior adults are invited to join us
27, 9 am – 5 pm, Rm. 2820. Cost
Mason Chapel. “Is any one of
for power walking, coupled with
is $12 for AARP members-$14 for
you in trouble? He should pray. Is
lots of fun and fellowship. Come
non-members. The AARP Driver
anyone of you sick? He should call
give it a try.
Safety Program is the nation’s first
the elders of the church to pray
and largest refresher course for
over him and anoint him with oil
Asbury Singing Ambassadors
drivers age 50 and older that has
in the name of the Lord. And the
Come enjoy fun and fellowship
helped millions of drivers remain
prayer offered in faith will make the
with other senior adults (60+), on
safe on today’s roads. It is designed
sick person well; The Lord will raise
Tuesday afternoons from 1-2:30
to help you:
him up. If he has sinned, he will be
pm in the Sanctuary Choir Room.
1. Tune up your driving skills and
forgiven.” James 5:13-15.
This awesome choir is made up of
update your knowledge of the rules
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of the road.
and enjoy a delicious lunch, cour-
fun! 7th grade meets from 4:30-6
2. Learn about normal age-related
tesy of your fellow singles! Just
pm and 8th grade meets 6:15-8 pm
physical changes, and how to
bring a “family-sized” food item,
in the Venue68. 9th Graders are
adjust your driving to allow for
homemade or purchased! Great
offsite! (It’s never too late to sign
these changes.
food, great fellowship, new friends
up, just come by Student Ministries
3. Reduce your traffic violations,
…it just doesn’t get much better
Area!)
crashes, and chances for injuries.
than that! 7th, 8th & 9th Super Bowl Parties
4. Drive more safely. 5. Get an insurance discount. Auto
Singles Café Celibataire
789 Small Groups will have Su-
insurance companies in most states
Sunday, March 29, 12–2pm, CLC.
perbowl parties offsite February
provide a multiyear discount to
Asbury single adults—you are in-
1, contact small group leaders for
AARP graduates! To sign up, call Asbury’s Registration Hotline at 392-1191. At least 12 participants are required for the class to take place, so tell your friends and neighbors, and sign up by the Wednesday before classes today!
vited to join us for Café Celibataire! You will enjoy a relaxed, bistro-like atmosphere, where you can sit and chat with your friends as you dine on a delicious, catered luncheon. The food is always fabulous, and
details. 7th, 8th & 9th SBM Final Payments Due If your student is going on a SBM trip be sure and get your final payment in by February 15!
the cost is just $5.00 per person, for those 11 years of age and up. Children 10 & under eat FREE from
Houston SB Missions Training & Parent Meeting
Singles Meet and Greet
a special children’s menu! This is
All 7th graders going to Houston
Sunday mornings from 10:20-10:50
an event you do not want to miss!
for Spring Break don’t miss this
ties or worship services are invited
students
February 22, 2:30-6:30 pm. Parents
to join together for a short time of
7th, 8th & 9th Grade Breakaway
fellowship. Look for us in the café!
Sunday mornings, 9:15-10:30 am
Hope to see you there!
in the Breakaway Area. This isn’t
singles am. All singles out from communi-
your normal Sunday school. Come Divorce Rebuilding
join us for worship, fun and games,
Thursdays, 7-8:30 pm, Rm. 1335.
interactive talk/lesson, and some-
For those ready to rebuild their
times free candy and gift cards.
lives after separation or divorce. Childcare available.
7th, 8th & 9th Bible Study Wednesday night Bible Study is
Divorce Recovery
the place to be from 6:30-8 pm on
Tuesdays, 7-8:30 pm, Rm. 1335.
Wednesday nights beginning Sept
For those suffering from the early,
10. Come to the Venue and hang
highly emotional stages of divorce
out, have fun and study what God’s
and separation trauma. Childcare
words has for us.
available. 7th, 8th & 9th Small Groups Singles Potluck Fellowship
Don’t miss our on being a part of a
Sunday, February 22, 12-2 pm,
small group! It’s a place to grow in
Parlor. Come, bring your children
your relationship with Jesus, have
MANDATORY training, Sunday you have a MANDATORY meeting from 5:30-6:30 pm. Red Bird SB Missions Training & Parent Meeting All 8th graders going to Red Bird for Spring Break don’t miss this MANDATORY training, Sunday February 22, 12:30-6:30 pm. Parents you have a MANDATORY meeting from 5:30-6:30 pm. 7th Grade Confirmation Parent Meeting February, 8, 4:30-6:15 pm, Venue 68. If you are a parent of a 7th Grad Confirmation Student don’t miss this MANDATORY meeting. PLEASE NOTE DATE CHANGE!!! Don’t forget your homework!
some accountability, and just have ASBURY TIDINGS 27
8th Grade Parent Meeting
Missions Training for students and
Sunday, February 8, 6:15-8 pm. If
leaders going to Mexico. Bring $3
your student is going through the
each day for meals.
8th grade Sexual Purity Curriculum for you! Come learn your role in
Mexico SB Missions Parent Meeting
fighting this battle along side your
February 22, 3 pm, Venue 68. MAN-
student. Meet in the Venue.
DATORY Spring Break Missions
in small groups this meeting is
Parent Meeting. Medical Paperwork Called to Ministry, 10th, 11th, 12th
is due at this meeting.
Is God speaking to you, leading you...okay, maybe CALLING you
Guatemala SB Missions Training
into a future vocational ministry?
Saturday, February 21, 2-8 pm;
You may not know what that looks
Sunday, February 22, 12:30-4 pm.
like; you just know that God is
MANDATORY Spring Break Mis-
stirring something in you. Join
sions Training for students and
us every month on the SECOND
leaders going to Guatemala. Bring
SUNDAY from 12:30-2 pm in the
$3 each day for meals.
Student Ministry Area for lunch and to talk about what this means for you. This is for 10th, 11th and 12th graders. 10th, 11th & 12th Breakaway Every Wednesday night we come together for a time of connection and worship. Our desire is to explore who God really is and how our lives matter to Him. We get started around 6:30 pm and wrap up around 8:30ish. Plan on hanging out afterwards for pizza. 9th graders you will begin attending Breakaway on March 25! 10th, 11th & 12th Small Groups Small groups meet Sunday nights. Times & places vary. Contact Todd 392-1154 or Amy 392-1156 to get plugged in. Small groups will not meet February 22. Mexico SB Missions Training Saturday, February 21, 9:30 am -2 pm; Sunday, February 22, 12:30-4 pm. MANDATORY Spring Break 28 ASBURY TIDINGS
Guatemala SB Missions Parent Meeting February 21, 2 pm, Venue 68. MANDATORY Spring Break Missions Parent Meeting. Medical Paperwork is due at this meeting. Life Hurts, God Heals Starts January 14. Life Hurts God Heals is a Bible Study for teens all about sharing hurts and learning together the powerful message of the redemptive purpose of pain. It is two hours a week when hurting teens can sit together and bravely work through their struggles. All teens 7th -12th grade are invited. Every Wednesday night 6-8 pm, meet in the upstairs green room of the Venue. Metro Worship All 7th-12th graders come join youth from all over the city in a night to just worship Jesus. We meet the first Wednesday night of every month from 7-8:30ish at Venue68.
women UMW Scholarship Program Applications for the United Methodist Women’s Scholarship will be available beginning Thursday, February 5, in the main church office. This $1,200 scholarship is to be given to an Asbury senior high school young woman. To be eligible, the applicant must have a relative who is currently a member of Asbury’s UMW, with the exception of the Priscilla Circle. She must be an entering freshman at an accredited university for the school year of 2008-2009. The deadline for completed applications is noon on Friday, April 10. The church office hours of business are Monday through Thursday, 8 am – 5 pm, and Fridays, 8 am – 12 pm. Women of the Word Wednesdays from 10-11 am in Rm. 2319, Rev. Darlene Johnson, teacher. Crafty Ladies Fellowship Mondays, 9:30 am - 2 pm, Rm 2820. Ladies, if you enjoy doing crafts and fellowshipping at the same time, this activity is for you! We gather on Monday mornings to work on our own individual arts and crafts, stop for a delicious pot-luck lunch, and continue on through until 2 pm. We have a wonderful time together, and would love to have you join us! For more information, contact Beverly Clarke, and stop by some Monday and check us out!
UMW February Luncheon & Program
running smoothly and what needs
attendees to remind us of what our
professional attention. This free
Lord has done for us. This meaning-
Thursday, February 5, 11:30 am – 1
service gives our men the oppor-
ful service, led by all our pastors,
pm in the CLC. Attention ladies! The
tunity to put their faith in to action
is for the entire congregation from
program for February’s luncheon
through loving and serving those
4 years to adults. We hope you will
will be a presentation by Debbie
in need. No reservations required;
join us.
McCullough from the Tulsa Hope
just get your vehicle in line by
Academy. A delicious luncheon
11:30.
prepared by our church hostess, Virginia, will also be provided for just $6 per person. Bring a friend, and be a part of the blessing! Our scripture emphasis for the month is from Jeremiah 29:11; “For I know the plans I have for you,” declares
worship • 8 am, Communion Service: Mason Chapel. Traditional service. Communion is served and Dr. Harrison preaches.
the Lord, “plans to prosper you and
• 9:15 am, Contemporary Praise &
not to harm you, plans to give you
Worship: Sanctuary. Music, time
hope and a future.”
of prayer and the message will all
Women’s Spiritual Empowerment Workshop Thursday, March 5, 7–9pm, Rm. 2818. Mark your calendars for an inspiring and educational night with our own Pastor to Women, Darlene Johnson, and Jackie Cleary, LPC, LMFT. Last year’s program addressed “Roadblocks to
carry a prevailing theme for the morning. Dr. Harrison preaches. • 9:15 am, Open House Worship: Community Life Center. A relaxed atmosphere with engaging worship. Dr. Tom Harrison’s message is simulcast with an occasional live sermon from another pastor.
Empowerment.” This year we will
• 11 am, Traditional Service:
tackle “Growing in the Spirit.” We’ll
Sanctuary. The Chancel Choir,
explore how this leads to personal
the New Covenant Orchestra and
and spiritual empowerment. Watch
various vocal and instrumental en-
for more information in the upcom-
sembles offer a variety of styles of
ing weeks!
music. Dr. Tom Harrison preaches.
Car Care Workday
• 11 am, Modern Service: Venue 68.
Saturday, March 21. Car Care
Rich blend of ancient and modern
Saturday is an every-other-month
worship, led by the worship band.
workday provided for Asbury’s
Dr. Tom Harrison’s message is
widows and single moms, through
simulcast.
our men’s ministry. While the ladies wait in the comfort of the
• Ash Wednesday Service
café, volunteers check tires, belts,
Ash Wednesday Service, February
fluids, filters and batteries. They
25, 6 pm, in the Sanctuary, begins
also vacuum and wash the vehicles,
our Lenten Season with the disposi-
and then update owners on what’s
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asbury
new members
James Adams
Bill Carragher
Don & Debbie Hamilton
Bruce & Kristen Lamont, Kyleigh & Kole
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Harold & Donna Aldridge
Danica Bruce, Ava Bray
Norma Duncan
Dana Darden, James, Kristen & Katie
David & Shannon Hooper, Brennan
Marko & Gerta Kutt, Miriam & Andreas
Mike & Monique Mantle, Madalyn, Mason & Megan
Monte & Dianne Myrick
welcome to asbury
we’re glad you’re here
Janet Paulson
John & Angel O’Dell, Hillary, Jordan & Garrett
Amanda Savala, Raimee, Reanne & Riley
Rachel Wallen, Celecity
Jim Peppler
David & Angela Shaffer, Lauren
Matt & Mary Wenger, David, Colin & Rachel
Jay & Merry Porter
Nancy Thompson
Rick & Kelly Wilkerson, Vann, Marley & India
If you are interested in learning more about who we are, plan to attend one of the Exploration classes designed to tell you more about Asbury and what we believe. Choose from one of the upcoming Sunday membership classes: February 1 • March 1 • April 5 • May 3 Classes are from 12:15 - 2 pm. Call 392-1191 to reserve your place. Childcare is available and lunch is provided. ASBURY TIDINGS 31
in celebration of marriage 50+ years (as of February 8, 2009) 50 years John & Judy Marquis 1/24/59 Gary & Dorothy VanFossen 1/1/59 Gene & Barbara Graves 12/28/58 Glen & Barbara Barnes 12/24/58 Joe & Zagnona Cox 12/22/58 Ken & Helen McCauley 11/27/58 Robert & Joy Long 9/20/58 Vic & Liz Schock 8/31/58 Charles & Sue Archambo 8/30/58 Charlie & Janet Johnston 8/25/58 Bob & Mary Ann Charles 7/12/58 Bill & Jayne Mason 7/9/58 LaVerne & Jean Reed 6/21/58 Bob & Dorothy Beck 6/14/58 Don & Cleo Collins 6/3/58 Larry & Judy Lairmore 5/29/58 Bruce & Carolyn Nixon 3/29/58
51 years Russ & Norma Jones 1/25/58 Wally & Sue Maurer 1/18/58 Rex & Dovie Edgar 1/12/58 Dale & Pat Davidson 12/22/57 Bill & Martha Harrisberger 11/23/57 Al & Ruth Sowards 11/23/57 John & Beverly Story 11/16/57 Rick & Vi Bowers 8/18/57 Chuck & Phyllis Bailey 8/3/57 Dan & Margaret Slagle 7/20/57 Cal & Doris Brusewitz 6/25/57 Brown & Rebecca Joyner 6/23/57 Carl & Joanne Weatherford 6/15/57 Joe & Beth Limes 5/30/57 Bill & Monette Miller 5/11/57 Bill & Rosalie Veatch 4/20/57 Harley & Jackie Hinson 4/18/57 Don & Pat Chandler 3/22/57 Glenn & Syd Chowins 3/9/57
52 years Arlyn & Shirley Daering 1/26/57 Paul & Linda Hancock 1/19/57 Ed & Jan Hines 1/19/57 Tom & Lou Costello 12/29/56 32 ASBURY TIDINGS
John & Jo Keil 12/8/56 Russ & Florrie Washburn 11/30/56 John & Barbara Cluts 9/30/56 James & DeWanda Humphries 9/29/56 Milton & Patricia VanDerwiele 9/1/56 David & Patty Thomas 8/31/56 Jim & Maxine Dempster 8/17/56 Carl & Novella Willis 8/16/56 Frank & Darlene Peterson 7/25/56 Reynard & Betty Spence 7/8/56 Marold & Patty Lohrenz 6/17/56 Leonard & Mary Stubbs 6/10/56 Ronald & Phyllis Allison 6/8/56 Stanley & Shirley Dean 6/3/56 Jim & Nancy Harrison 6/2/56 Rollo & Elizabeth Brasuell 5/26/56 Wayne & Sammie Kendall 5/25/56 Don & Barbara Thornton 5/21/56 Clifton & Lamyrle Cox 5/18/56 Paul & Sherry Vanscoyoc 5/18/56 Larry & Mary Metz 5/12/56 Darryl & Doris McRight 4/25/56 Larry & Jeri Myerley 2/26/56
53 years Edwin & Rita Lenfestey 2/19/56 Gary & Jackie Parker 2/4/56 Bill & Dottie McKie 1/7/56 Joe & Pat Henderson 11/26/55 Dean & Carol Carlile 11/6/55 Bill & Glenda Horry 10/15/55 George & Maxine Clinton 10/4/55 Bob & Beverlyn Summers 8/14/55 Bill & Naomi Culver 8/12/55 Harold & Eleanor Shirk 6/4/55 Mel & Mary Pearson 6/1/55 John & Shirley Ann Smith 5/31/55 Jack & Phyllis Givens 5/22/55 Bob & Helen Frymire 5/21/55 Don & Ruth Bauer 2/27/55
54 years Jim & Norma Morrison 2/12/55 Fred & Nancy Gardner 1/15/55 Paul & Shirley Hockett 1/14/55
Charlie & Elaine Hack 12/19/54 Ron & Sue Shook 11/25/54 Howard & Joanne Ledbetter 11/17/54 Ralph & Marion Daugherty 9/24/54 Merle & Marylou Howell 9/4/54 Vance & Mary Sharpe 9/4/54 Bill & Phyllis Taylor 8/22/54 Ben & Joy Weddington 6/17/54 Roger & Joyce Clark 5/8/54 Vernon & Maralee Jones 4/3/54 Jerry & Johnna Himes 2/27/54
55 years Ken & Carmen Finch 12/27/53 Floyd & Vida Bruntzel 12/13/53 Cleo & Frankie Warren 11/26/53 Van & Nola Dickson 11/21/53 Ross & Ina Vrooman 9/26/53 Robert & Mary Lynn Milam 9/6/53 Dwayne & Awilda Godsey 9/5/53 Ron & Pat Thomson 8/18/53 Dick & Nevin Loerke 8/9/53 Al & Lu Seiter 6/28/53 Frank & Betty Schemm 6/18/53 Walt & Marion Neary 6/10/53 Jim & Charlene Yeager 6/7/53 Glenn & Norma Hogg 6/6/53 Vic & Roberta Hairston 6/1/53 John & Beverly Baker 5/31/53 Bill & Shirley Curry 5/30/53 Don & Betty Kent 5/30/53 Gordon & Lois Vetal 5/2/53 Gary & Celeste Zarley 3/28/53
56 years
59 years
62 years
Bob & Gladys Murphy 1/24/53 Paul & Deloris Messick 12/20/52 Dean & Regina Daniel 11/8/52 Bill & M.A. Kohl 10/25/52 Lee & Oneta Roles 9/19/52 A.J. & Corrine Cobble 9/14/52 Dean & Marilynn Smith 8/17/52 Monroe & Janiece Reece 8/2/52 Dick & Gwen Mohler 8/1/52 Bill & June Carr 6/30/52 Fred & Joanne Setser 6/28/52 Wayne & Betty Crockett 5/31/52
John & Helen Schwenker 2/10/50 Ernest & Mollie Achterberg 12/30/49 Wallace & Barbara Westervelt 12/18/49 Jim & LaRue Coover 12/10/49 Otis & Nell Osborn 11/12/49 Harry & Lois Robbins 9/4/49 Gene & Betty Hobson 8/21/49 Warren & Roberta Roberts 8/21/49 Joe & Mary Pottorf 7/31/49 Tom & Lillie Hardcastle 7/2/49 Allan & Marian Tonding 6/26/49
Edison & Audrey Jeffus 2/2/47 Paul & Marion Kerschner 12/28/46 Laneer & Jean Ham 9/28/46 Steve & Jo Moore 9/13/46 Charles & Mary Johns 8/8/46 Barney & Kay Welch 7/3/46 Lester & Betty Kelsey 5/3/46
57 years
Tom & Evelyn Porter 2/18/49 Jack & Rosemary Wiles 2/5/49 Frank & Bonnie Nuding 12/19/48 Dick & Joan Link 10/31/48 Don & Ellie Todd 10/2/48 Bill & Janene Jones 10/1/48 John & Merle Schwendimann 9/10/48 Tom & Elizabeth Diehl 8/21/48 Howard & Vera McCloud 6/15/48 Delbert & Nell Pool 5/20/48
Bill & Donna Ritchie 2/9/52 John & Edna Middleton 11/22/51 Don & Terry Davis 11/3/51 Les & Evelyn Nienhuis 11/3/51 Jack & Pat Compton 9/29/51 Bill & Mary Kirwin 9/22/51 Bob & Wanda Stotts 8/31/51 John & Anna Taylor 6/23/51 Jim & Bettye Craig 6/21/51 Richard & Darlene Baker 6/10/51 Bob & Donna Keener 5/4/51
58 years Ray & Betty Gordy 2/17/51 Jim & Betty Jane Bailey 2/3/51 Jerry & Imogene Headley 2/2/51 A.B. & Gwen Steen 12/23/50 Dale & Patricia Gregston 12/9/50 David & Janet Wehrenberg 11/25/50 Richard & Geri Dixon 11/22/50 Lou & Loraine Edmonson 6/16/50 Clyde & Mary Johnson 6/11/50 Alden & Sarah Miller 6/4/50 Ray & Ada Miller 6/4/50
60 years
61 years Phil & Jean Essley 12/28/47 Jim & Fran Allen 12/20/47 Bill & Frances Rowland 10/10/47 Murrel & Helen Cowherd 8/14/47 Rudy & Alice Jane Gorishek 6/29/47 Chuck & Maddy Crowell 6/21/47 Jack & Doris Bruin 6/7/47 Paul & Donna Wicker 4/6/47
63 years Ted & Virginia Wellendorf 1/10/46 John & Joanna Neely 1/6/46 Bob & Marguerite Keasler 8/18/45 Sid & Maxine Lee 6/23/45 Charles & Jean Hall 4/11/45 Bill & Shirley Parkinson 2/25/45
64 years Herbert & Betty Maresh 6/29/44
65 years Gene & Joy Bortmes 2/5/44 Al & Ruth Meyer 1/28/44 Neil & Dolores Willits 1/6/44 Charles & Shirley Nelson 11/20/43 Bill & Betty Manley 9/10/43 Vic & Betty Goodknight 6/26/43
66 years Gene & Irene Bond 8/15/42
67 years Herman & Nellie Kloehr 1/17/42 Dale & Lois Nowlin 12/21/41
69 years Frank & Bernice Sober 1/6/40
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asbury
family room in celebration of marriage 60 years
Jack & Rosemary Wiles February 5, 1949
Tom & Evelyn Porter February 18, 1949
55 years
50 years
Jerry & Johnna Himes February 27, 1954
Bob & Jimmie Dozier February 20, 1959
thank you We would like to acknowledge all of those who have been a blessing to the Asbury Library. Thanks to many who have given books. Since our Library is small we keep some and share with others in the community. We feel this is one way we can reach out to others. Great books are given to the Library in loving memory or in honor of great people. Those giving their time and effort to deliver books are: Otis Osborn, Jerry Greer, Jerry Oxley, Harry Kincaid, Perry Mitchell, Debbie Wallis and
we celebrate
Jo VanDewiell. Library volunteers who spend time working and keeping books, cd’s and tapes are: Edna Willmann, Winnie King, Lena Greer, Jerry Oxley, Naomi Mitchell, Otis Osborn and Phyllis Younts. So great to reach out to not only the elderly, but our young people and children. Let’s keep praying that the Lord is at work in Asbury Church with great sermons, great music and great books. Lena Greer, Librarian
• Harper Grace Walton, daughter of Aaron & Emily Walton, born December 9, 2008 • David Ryan Shepherd, son of Ryan and Amy Shepherd, born December 10, 2008
• Marley Jo Sanderson, daughter of Jason & Amanda Sanderson, born December 17, 2008
we remember
• Patsy Millburn, died December 8, 2008 • Dick Glick, father of Damon Glick, died December 18, 2008 • Viva Rogers, died December 25, 2008 • Nadine Jackson, died January 1, 2009
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Glorify God‌ Make Disciples