Christ is Risen. So What?

- Not a Better Marriage, a Fantastic Marriage

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Asbury

TIDINGS MARCH 2010

“CHRIST IS RISEN: SO WHAT?” A “Watershed”

is a line of separation. When a snowflake melts on a mountain peak in the Swiss Alps, that drop of water goes either north or south. It eventually comes to either the Mediterranean or the North Sea. These two destinations are hundreds of miles apart, but this watershed determines the final destination.

Him from the dead. They became willing to die for Him so that others might know the Good News,too. The resurrection made all the difference in the world for them!

Watershed moments in the Bible occur when Adam and Eve ate of the forbidden fruit, when Abram left his hometown in Ur and went to the Promised Land, when Moses turned aside to see why the burning bush was not consumed, when Judas betrayed Jesus for 30 pieces of silver, and when Saul traveled to Damascus and was knocked off his horse with a beam of light and a booming voice. But the greatest watershed moment since Genesis 3 is the resurrection of Jesus. When Jesus, who only a couple of days before had been scourged, crucified, pronounced dead, and was buried, was seen alive again – it was THE watershed moment of the world. Dead men don’t come back to life again. Dead men don’t have conversations with the living. But this was no ordinary dead man. This was the Messiah. He came back from the dead.

In the month of April, we will talk about the resurrection. “Christ is Risen: So What?” Paul wrote a lot about it in 1 Corinthians 15. For him, and for the early church, the resurrection made all the difference in the world. It makes all the difference in the world for us, too. I know it does for me when I stand at the graveside with a family. If the person is dead and not resurrected, then all we have are memories and no promise of being reunited. I know it does for me when I pray or read Jesus’ words. If He was merely a good philosopher or a moral example, then I won’t organize my life around Him. Prophets and “messiahs” are a dime a dozen. But if He came back from the dead and is now in heaven and offers that gift to me, then I am going to take very seriously all of His claims upon my life.

On these four Sundays in April, we will look at the difference the resurrection of Jesus Christ makes. The resurrection enables me to profess my faith in Him (April 4th). It gives me a new identity (April 11th). It gives me a new purpose (April 18th). It gives me something to say and to live for (April 25th).

The resurrection changed everything. It validated his promises. It filled his disciples with an extraordinary joy. I hope to see you with us in worship on these days.

These mortified men were hiding in fear that they would Bring a friend! be executed as followers of Jesus, but now stood and boldly proclaimed: sin killed the Messiah - but God raised

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ast month

I wrote about staff who are directly engaged in our ministry programs. That is what most of us think about when we think of our church. There is another aspect of our ministry that is not as visible but is equally important. Without it our ministries could not function. We call this part of our organiza- of our members both in service and community. The most visible component is Connection Corner, locattion “support services.” ed in the main foyer.

As a large church we can support multiple ministries, In addition to the monthly Tidings magazine, we also and we can take on large projects. As with any organization, along with increased size and capacity comes produce a lot of printed material to promote and supthe need for increased background support. Joe Spence port our ministry work. This department is very efmanages this part of the organization with excellence. ficient and effective in the use of resources to support this vital aspect of communications.

We have a great facility in which to operate our ministries. Almost any time of the day there are mul- Following is the list of individuals in charge of each of tiple activities taking place here. Often, our facility is the above areas. largely or fully booked with events. Our facility is over Joe Spence 300,000 square feet and is open 14 hours per day dur- Manager of Support Services

Jeff Polk ing the week. We have a dedicated maintenance team Facilities Manager Virginia Huddleston that works continuously to keep our facilities clean Food Services

Don Hubbs and in good repair. Studies have shown that the quality Security & Hospitality

Don Stephens of the appearance and maintenance of a church build- IT, Special Projects

Ralph Bizzell ing and campus is part of the witness of the church. IT, Hardware Systems Database

Teresa Springer Our team takes this seriously and does a great job.

Member Connections

Joan Kahl

Tera Askey Our facility includes an impressive, commercial qual- Communications ity kitchen. Every month we host multiple ministry Also a background function, the Finance and human events that require food services. This is an important part of our community. We have a great staff that con- resources department is managed by Lisa Hammarstrom our controller. Asbury requires a sizeable staff sistently delivers outstanding service and food. to direct and support our many ministries. With staff Security is always a concern. Unfortunately, this con- comes HR work. And, of course, ministry work retinues to be a growing problem. A security guard is on quires finances. Asbury is blessed with many generduty anytime our doors are open. An important man- ous members. Every week we process hundreds of agement issue is to balance security against openness transactions, each of which requires tracking information. Church accounting is more complex than might and ease of use for our members and guests. be assumed. Our Finance department is managed very Like any other organization, Asbury’s operations tightly and is subject to a full outside audit every year. depend heavily on information technology. There are These brief comments hopefully give you some appreover 100 computers in our network. Our network and hardware are up-to-date and comparable to any ciation for the scope of behind the scenes work that is commercial organization our size. Recently, we have required so that Asbury’s ministries can effectively do increased our investment in the software area, e.g., their work. Asbury has been blessed in many ways. We database and website, with several projects underway. know that our blessings of size and resources brings Later this year we will be rolling out new capabilities with them a commensurate responsibility for ministry that will benefit our members. We have heard Tom results. As we grow, we continue to invest in these speak of the importance of our church database to the supporting functions so that we can successfully enwork of our ministry and particularly to our pastors. gage more members in ever increasing ministry scope.

With 7,700 members, it takes a lot of effort to keep I want you to know that your investments of time everything updated. and money are being managed well, building ministry Asbury’s ministry work is largely accomplished by our programs along with the necessary supporting strucmembers. Each ministry coordinates its own volun- ture to support the growth that lies ahead. Thank you teers. But there is still a central role in the “connecting” for supporting the Kingdom through Asbury.

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NOT A BETTER

MARRIAGE A Fantastic Marriage

By Deborah Calhoun

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uth Graham, wife of the Reverend Billy Graham, was once interviewed by Barbara Walters. During the interview Barbara asked Ruth if she had ever considered divorce. Ruth replied without hesitation, “No, never.” Barbara, true to her nature, pressed on and said,“With your husband travelling so much and away from the home, you mean that you have never once considered divorce?” Ruth simply replied,“Oh, I’ve considered murder several times, but never divorce.”

Of course, Ruth Graham was replying to the reporter’s persistence with humor but my husband, Pat, has seen several instances of marriages gone bad. He’s been a police officer for 23 years and sees the effects bad marriages have on children and on the couple involved.

Some of our best friends have been through divorce and we have watched how the couples will use children as leverage to get what they want from a judge.

Divorce can be cruel and we knew we never wanted to go through that pain or put our children through it.

Ten years ago, my husband was in a Men’s Bible Study group led by Dub Ambrose called the Joshua’s Men Group. They read a book by Dennis Rainey titled “One Home At A Time.” This book explained many of the problems married couples encounter. In the back of the book, Dennis wrote about Family Life’s Weekend to Remember Marriage Conferences. Family Life is a division of Campus Crusade for Christ and their mission is to equip every home to be a Godly home.

My husband was very interested in going to one of those. In fact, there was a conference coming to Tulsa that spring. When he brought the idea of going to a marriage conference to me, I met it with all the enthusiasm of Moses at the burning bush.

I had all the usual excuses like it cost too much, it was too much time out of my (not our) weekend, I didn’t want to sit down that long and listen to someone speak, and why would we need to go at all – everything was fine. We had already been married for 17 years and, although we had the usual bumps in the road for married couples, we were a typical couple.

Thankfully, my husband persisted and signed us up for the conference. He paid for the conference and arranged for the kids to stay with my parents that weekend.

He told me that we wouldn’t let the car go without changing the oil or doing maintenance work on it, it was time to do some “maintenance work” and invest in our marriage. He reasoned that although our marriage was fine, what if it could be better? That made a lot of sense and I couldn’t back out of going now, he had taken care of all my excuses. So, reluctantly, I went.

The Weekend to Remember Conference began Friday evening. When we arrived, there were more than 500 people there. We took our seats and in short order, my attitude went from stubbornness to enjoyment and laughter. The speakers were very funny and they had many stories to share, but most of all, the information they relayed was very valuable to us.They covered subjects like threats to oneness in marriage and God’s purpose for bringing us together; communication skills; how to resolve conflict and fight fair;the distinctive roles of the husband and of the wife; and intimacy and sex.

The conferees receive several breaks so we were able to stretch our legs and work on projects – just the two of us. It was an amazing weekend and Pat and I learned so much. We were able to take what we learned from that conference and turn a typical marriage into a great…no better yet…a fantastic marriage.

Since then, we have been volunteering with Family Life, as well as with Asbury’s Marriage Ministry. Charlene Giles, Asbury’s Director of Marriage Ministry, thought it would be good to provide a weekend marriage conference along with the Dynamic Marriage and Couple to Couple, which ran for several weeks. This provided Asbury members with multiple opportunities to work on their marriage in a time and format more conducive to their lifestyle.

We still have our bumps in the road, but with the information and the tools we learned from the Weekend to Remember conference, those bumps are easier to get through because we’ve been keeping up with the maintenance on our marriage.

No, neither of us have considered murder…lately.

With the tools we gained through the Weekend to Remember, we are growing closer together and closer to God. Page 4

In picture: Pat and Deborah Calhoun

The Weekend to Remember is designed to equip couples with practical, proven principles for strengthening their marriage. During the conference, you will learn how to:

· Receive your mate as a gift · Clarify your role as a husband or wife · Resolve conflict in the relationship · Maintain a vital sexual connection · Express forgiveness to one another · Increase your commitment, creating an even deeper level of intimacy.

APRIL 16-18 To register as part of Asbury’s group

and receive $80 off the couples’ registration rate, go to www.familylife.com/groups/asburytulsa.

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By Marcia Curley

CRAZ

I was meeting her

at my favorite coffee hangout after work. Having never met before, I wasn’t exactly sure who I was looking for. But I knew it was her immediately when she walked in the door as that exuberant smile and glow on her face was a dead giveaway.

Deena Hines is a beautiful lady whose enthusiasm and heart for the Lord is contagious. The moment we met, I was engulfed in her story. It seems like some people just almost shine with God’s love and grace. Some people just exude a sort of light around their face.Well…Deena is one of those people.

However, it hasn’t always been this way for Deena.

Life hasn’t always been kind to her. Her path wasn’t always filled with light. In fact, truth be told, there were some really dark days at one time. There were dark days in some dangerous places. In those days, her life was entrenched in “sex, drugs, and rock-n-roll”.

In those days, she was driven by drugs, using and finding drugs were her number one priority.The pursuit of happiness meant the pursuit of drugs.Even her two small children weren’t enough to distract her from her druginfested lifestyle. Abandoning them with her mom, her life was all about the pursuit of drugs. Where the next “high” would come from was all that mattered to her.

And yet, even in those darkest moments…in those dank and dangerous places…there He was. While she was chasing after drugs…He was chasing after her.

While she was wooing the drug dealers…He was wooing her. While she negotiated and bought drugs…

He was negotiating for her, and bought her with His very own life. At that time in her life, she wasn’t really sure who Jesus was; all she knew was that she had a gaping hole in her heart, and she was trying to fill it up.

So how did things become so derelict? How did it all get off course? Where did she take a wrong turn and get so lost? It’s not like someone says, “Gee, when I grow up, I want to be a drug addict”, so how did this happen?

[“I feel like God has been chasing and wooing me all of my life.”]

Deena’s childhood memories are fond ones filled with pictures of a loving mom and step-dad and her little sister.There are photo albums full of fun stuff like girl scouts, sleepovers with girlfriends, and family time at the lake. Hers was a happy family.

“It was Tooter who taught me how to fish and ride my bike,” she said, using the nickname she affectionately used for her step-dad.“He was the one who taught me to brush my teeth and mind my manners at the table.”

Sadly, life got messy. Things began to unravel and her world started falling apart as her step-dad began to lose his battle with alcohol. When Deena was 11, her parents divorced. It was a sad time as her step-dad, whom she loved dearly, began to fade away from her. Sometimes, life is hard; sometimes life hurts. It’s no one’s fault...it’s just the way life is.

As Deena entered middle school, she went to live with her biological dad, who was now out of prison.

Dad’s house meant few rules and, as Deena put it,“Dad’s fun and no consequences won out to Mom’s rules.”

And so began her self-destructive path—her middle school and high school days were filled with partying and boys, until she finally dropped out of high school.A marriage at 18 years old, two babies by the age of 20, an affair followed by an abortion, and then a divorce.

It was a downward spiral…she was speeding down, down, down into the depths of despair and drugs.

And yet, there He was—following after her like a little puppy. He was barking at her…chasing her on her heels…trying to get her attention. Relentlessly pursuing her, Jesus never gave up. Jesus never quit on her. As Deena looks back she says, “I feel like God has been chasing and wooing me all of my life.”

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AZY Her transformation

[in Love]

has been a process and has taken many years. Recovery is not an event; it’s a journey and the journey will not be complete until she meets Jesus on the other side. The hardest part for Deena has been forgiving herself for the things she has done and the people she has hurt, but God is in the business of restoration and healing. “We all suffer. We all have a purpose. We are all here for one another. We are the Lord’s arms and feet,” said Deena.

In picture: Deena Hines

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Celebrate Recovery, her 12-Step Group, and Walk to Emmaus have been huge factors in her spiritual journey. She is also active in the community Mosaic, and a women’s prison ministry known as Kairos.

Before her life with Jesus, it always felt like something was missing, like she was incomplete. Jesus has filled that gaping “God-hole” in her heart. Praise be to God, her sins were forgiven a long, long time ago.

Jesus nailed them to an old, rugged cross over 2,000 years ago. Today, she is a new creation in Christ. Today, her mind is transformed and she is crazy in love with Jesus!

SO WHAT’S

By Stephanie Hurd

I enjoy historical fiction, especially novels based on characters from scripture because the authors create back-stories for people whose lives intersected with God-inthe-Flesh. These books help me gain a cultural perspective of events while conjecturing why things happened the way they did.

But mostly, these works of fiction help me imagine the folks Jesus knew— as regular people. Real people. People with jobs and homes; friends and families; worries and fears; victories and defeats; people with pets. People like me.

It is easy to read the Bible abstractly and be detached from its characters.

But when I consider the blind man and the woman caught in adultery as real people then Jesus suddenly seems more relevant. I also remember I am someone who is part of God’s story. My tale will never be considered scripture, but it is part of God’s story nonetheless, and I believe it is being recorded in heaven on a scroll of remembrance. (Look up Malachi 3:16-17.

It’s one of my favorites!)

YOUR STORY? 1. Make sure you have one. If you don’t know what your Godstory is, then call Asbury’s office to make an appointment with a pastor. They would love to talk with you. They don’t work on commission or anything like that.They just love talking to people about Jesus. If you have the slightest doubt––call.

2. Put it on paper. It may take several revisions, and you should keep praying throughout the process.Ask the Holy Spirit how He has been at work in your life.Ask Him to help you put it in writing.

3. Consider the length. Keep your story concise and to the point.

Remember how the apostle Paul once “talked on and on” until Eutychus fell asleep, fell out a window and died? Your testimony should be somewhere between five minutes and people falling out a window. (Read the whole account in Acts 20:7-12, it’s a classic.)

4. Check the gory vs. glory ratio. After drafting your testimony, read it aloud. Make sure you have not included too many gory details. Prayer is important here, and discussing it with a close friend can help. For example, it is probably enough to say, “I was mauled by ants as a child,” without saying exactly how it happened.Too much information can sometimes shock the audience to the point of them not hearing anything else you say.

Participating in a Kingdom People group helped me realize the importance of sharing our God-story with others. Giving our testimony is not easy to do, maybe because it is so personal or because we never practice it.

But every one of us has a story of value, one that is worth sharing with others. The apostle Peter says we should always be ready to give the reason for the hope that is in us (1 Peter 3:15).

I want to provide some guidelines to help you tell your own God-story.

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5.Ask yourself,“Who’s the real star here?” It is easy to make yourself the headline act. Reread your testimony and make sure God is getting credit for saving you and turning your life around. For people like me (and we know who we are), this is one of the hardest parts of writing a testimony. Carefully consider who is being glorified.

6. Never assume your conversion is not awesome.

For many years I thought my story was lackluster because I was such a good girl––as if I only needed a little saving.When any of us preface our testimony with the phrase,“My story isn’t too dramatic . . .” I imagine Jesus shaking His head and thinking to Himself: Come on people! Have you seen that Mel Gibson movie, The Passion of Christ? What part of saving your butt was NOT dramatic? Seriously.

Consider your rescue from God’s perspective.

7. Now share it with someone.You could send it in a letter to an aging parent or to a child who is going to college.

You could share it in your community or small group or with a neighbor. If you are feeling gutsy, ask the Holy Spirit to provide an opportunity.

Writing your testimony is an important exercise that will bless you, God, and others. Also, personal testimony is the most simple and powerful tool for witnessing. In fact, having people share their testimonies is God’s brilliantly crazy plan for spreading the gospel. As far as I can tell, it’s His only plan. It worked for the apostles, and it continues to work.

I once attended a debate between a former-Muslim-turned-Christian-pastor and a Muslim cleric.While they spent much time arguing over points of religion, the pastor kept repeating his testimony which was this: Since I was five years old I prayed to Allah three times a day, every day. It was not until I called on the name of Jesus that God answered me.That was his God-story, simple and true, and no one could argue with it. Some people may never read the Bible or go to church, but hearing one person’s God-story might be the thing that suddenly makes Jesus relevant.

So write your testimony. Do it for Him.

Make it a thanksgiving offering to the Lord your God.When the time is right, share it with someone. And when you do, picture this—Jesus leaning forward on His throne, shushing the seraphim and cherubim with a wave of His hand, nodding his head and thinking to Himself: She’s telling our story. I love this story. It’s one of my favorites! Seriously.

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“Our greatest power to change the world is released when we come together in collective action to organize and focus the resources of the whole body of Christ.”

- Richard Stearns, President, World Vision

By Mary Ann Smith

of the stateIt is in the spirit ment above that the Third Lausanne Congress on World Evangeli-

zation will be held in Cape Town, South Africa, October 16-25, 2010. The Congress will bring together 4,000 leaders from more than 200 countries to confront the critical issues of our time – other world faiths, poverty, HIV/AIDS, persecution, effective sharing of the truth of the Gospel, and other important topics.

The Congress began in 1974 at Lausanne, Switzerland, after Billy Graham led a group of pastors and leaders to counteract an action by the World Council of Churches in 1966 declaring a moratorium on missions. The Lausanne Covenant was written at that meeting and has been used to shape many churches since that time. (Copies of this are available in the Asbury Missions Office). A second full Congress was held in 1989 in Manila.

“Today, we’re facing technological, bioethical, terrorism, and environmental issues that weren’t even considered 20 years ago.”

According to the leadership of Lausanne, this is a catalytic event in the life of the world church – a meeting of leaders for purposeful prayer, repentance, strategic dialogue, and decisive action. Listening to the perspective of leaders from around the world will be a key factor in developing the most effective plan of action for the future of the church.

This is the third full Congress to be held and will be attended by 1,000 Africans, 250 Chinese, 150 Indians, 400 Americans and representatives from 200 other countries. Participants were chosen as leaders but also to represent the population of the world church today. Sixty-five percent of the participants will be under 50 years of age and 35 percent will be women.

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The Lausanne Movement reminds us that the world and the church have changed dramatically since Lausanne II in 1989. Church growth in the Majority World (see below for definition) has increased significantly, leading to their influence and importance in missions and evangelization.

Today, we’re facing technological, bioethical, terrorism, and environmental issues that weren’t even considered 20 years ago. In addition, we see increasing hostility toward the Gospel. Core Issues related to these changes to be discussed in Cape Town are: truth, suffering/reconciliation, world faiths, priorities for world evangelization, integrity/unity, and partnership.

It is my distinct privilege and responsibility to be one of the members of the US Delegation for the Congress. There are four ways to be involved in the Congress – prayer, scholarships for those from other countries, volunteering at the Congress, and participating online. If you are interested in learning more or praying for the 200 countries who will be participating, please contact me at 392-1117. You may also go to the websites at www.lausanne.org or www.capetown2010.com for more information. *Majority World is a term used in reference to the largely inaccurate, out-of-date and/or non-descriptive terms developing countries,third world and the“South”.

The term highlights the fact that these countries are in-

“The Congress in Cape Town will allow leaders to address the challenges and opportunities Facing the church and the world in the next generation.”

The Congress in Cape Town will allow leaders to address the challenges and opportunities facing the church and the world in the next generation. As a result of the meeting in Manila in 1989, nearly 350 partnerships were formed between churches and agencies around the world. It is the hope of the organizers of this Congress that many more partnerships will be formed. That would result in bringing many more opportunities for people to hear and respond to the message of Christ.

You, too, can be involved in a unique way by joining the Global Conversation via the internet prior to the meeting. You can also be a part of the meeting in Cape Town virtually through the internet. It will be conducted in eight languages and those will also be available on the internet. In addition, Christianity Today is publishing articles related to the focus issues mentioned earlier.

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deed the majority of humankind. It also brings to sharp attention the anomaly that the Group of 8 countries— whose decisions affect the majority of the world’s peoples—represent a tiny fraction of humankind.

MORE THAN A

CHOIR

By Marty Morris

“Amazing Grace! How sweet the sound” rang out in the gym one Saturday

morning as members of the Chancel Choir sang the half-time devotion for an Upward Basketball game in February. It was “music” Saturday at Upward, which meant choir and orchestra members manned the scoring table, counted fouls, announced the players, sold concessions and sang or played the devotion. Every two hours a new crew came to do their part for our Upward Basketball program. The Chancel Choir has made a commitment to work a Saturday every year. It is always a fun time to watch and help the children and to work alongside each other.

The Chancel Choir is a community that, like the other Asbury communities, takes on service projects in addition to the regular duty of leading worship every Sunday. They meet for a two-hour rehearsal every Wednesday evening and one Sunday morning a month.

Singing together is a real bonding experience for the members because of the time they spend together working as a group to achieve the same goals. Their commitment to the Lord and the choir is evident in all they do. Here are a few examples of how the choir dedicates their time and money and energy and heart to serving, as well as singing.

Amey Mason Memorial Scholarship Each year choir members give a “Sunshine Tax” of $10 to fund a scholarship, which is given to a graduating high school senior who is a member of the choir.

The choir began this practice when one of their young sopranos, Amey Mason, needed financial assistance to go to college. The scholarship was renamed for her when she was murdered during her freshman year at TCC. The Amey Mason Memorial Scholarship has been awarded by the choir every May since then, funding nine students so far.

Salvation Army angel trees Alto Crystal LaGrone volunteered at the Salvation Army during the Christmas season of 2004. Dismayed at how many boy angels were left on the Salvation Army angel trees, she took 75 boy angel tags to the choir to see if anyone would be interested in helping.

They took all 75 and sent her back for 30 more.

The next year the choir made a plan to take 120 boy angel tags. Bicycles, coats, clothes, skateboards, and every toy imaginable came rolling in.

“The choir room smelled like the old OTASCO store because of all the bicycles gathered there,” says soprano Donna Stutzman, lightheartedly.

Choir members do not skimp on their boys. They go beyond what the boys ask for making sure each one has his wish, as well as clothes and outer wear. Dan and Kathy Rimmer even filled stockings for the two boys they chose. It is a joyous time for the choir and the children.

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bars to be assembled into snack sacks, which are taken to the Ronald McDonald House each week.

These snack sacks were the brainchild of Marilyn and Floyd Plummer for people who miss dinner at the RMH or are tired of the hospital food where their child is being treated. The choir has been doing this for the past 12 years, monthly giving and weekly taking--the same spirit of giving, much like what they do each Sunday and Wednesday as choir members.

Project Warmth This past January the choir partnered with Jim Light of LaMode Cleaners to help with Project Warmth.

Hundreds of blankets came in to distribute to those in need. Not only did the choir members clean out their closets to bring gently used blankets, they even found blankets on sale and bought them to give to the project.

For several years the choir also partnered with Children and Family Services to help underprivileged children by taking part in the HUGS program: Hats, Underwear, Gloves, Socks.

The Chancel Choir helped the Salvation Army by giving Christmas Gifts of bicycles, clothes, and more; to 120 boys in need.

Giving to Missions Besides funding mission trips for fellow members, they have sent drums, Boomwhackers and recorders to the children in Estonia. They also sent $1,500 with a choir member who was on a Tanzanian mission trip to buy livestock for the churches there.

Susan G. Komen for the Cure race A Chancel Choir team walks the Susan G. Komen for the Cure race every September. In the past two years, they raised over $3,500 for that cause. If choir members are unable to participate in the race then they enter as a “sleep walker” (they pay the fee and sleep in).

Helping Each Other The choir can be counted on when choir members are in need. When Dawn Liebman’s house burned a few years ago, her choir friends raised money and clothes for Dawn and her family. When members are sick or have surgery, the choir takes meals, or drives them to the doctor.When they have babies, the choir “pounds” the young family with diapers and wipes. When a choir member loses a loved one, the members prepare the funeral luncheon and food for the family. They sing for choir member’s weddings and funerals. They welcome new members with open arms.

The Chancel choir provided Amey Mason Memorial Scholarships to Rhianna Burdick and Jennifer Stephen.

Being generous in so many ways seems to be a way of life for these precious people.

“We feel privileged to have the opportunity to help those in need,” says alto Nancy Frampton.

It’s more than a choir, it’s a family.

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A Chancel Choir team walks the Susan G. Komen for the Cure Race, every year. They have raised over $3,500 for the cause.

Making Friends

In picture: David Kelly

With Jesus

- a Testimony of Salvation

By David Kelly

My name is David Kelly. I was born

in Boston and grew up in a small town called Medfield.

My parents were both Catholics and raised my two sisters, my brother and myself in the Catholic church. I attended church every Sunday and went to Sunday school classes, just like many other people in other churches.

After confirmation, my church offered adult classes for further study and growth in the faith, one of which I signed up for. I was eager to continue learning. When this class was ready to start, I came down with the flu and had to miss the first class. I was upset at that, but I became even more upset when the class leader informed me that I couldn’t join the class and make up the missed work.This was the beginning of my separation from God. For the next 24 years, I would attend church occasionally whether out of a perceived need or to please my mother. During this period, I still did attend Christmas and Easter masses because something in those services always touched me and I enjoyed them, but over time I stopped doing even that.

I came to Tulsa in 1996 when I was transferred here by the company I was working for at that time.

I was not attending any church at all by this point. I had allowed myself to become disillusioned with church, although I still respected my mother’s faith.

One day, one of my co-workers told me about an opportunity to volunteer to set up and work an outdoor festival,which was,if I recall,a St.Patrick’s day celebration.

I thought that would be fun so I signed up.That led to a nearly 10-year involvement with the volunteer groups at Tulsa Riverparks and with Oktoberfest. I had lots of fun with those people and made some very good friends.

My Oktoberfest friends would gather once a month, either at someone’s home or at a bar to celebrate any birthdays that occurred during that month. It was at one of these gatherings in a bar that I began to come back to God. I was talking with my friend Rebecca and mentioned that I had heard the Perceptions broadcasts. She told me that she attended Asbury and invited me to come to a service. I said yes, but didn’t take action on my promise for a while.

The first time I walked through Asbury’s doors was on Palm Sunday in 2000. I followed the crowd, not knowing anyone, and went into the Living Room service. I never knew worshiping could be like that!

People were singing great upbeat songs, clapping and really seeming to enjoy what they were doing.

I attended sporadically over the next year, still resisting God’s pull on my heart. I had met the Turleys and the Browns who were very welcoming. I signed up for a small class led by Roy King, whom I was pleased to learn had lived not far from where I did when I was growing up. He was very supportive and did not look down on my Catholic background.

Another class I took was the Alpha course, which is like Christianity 101 for new believers. That was definitely for me. I met some great people there and slowly became more involved at Asbury, joining the orchestra and getting hooked up with the men’s prayer breakfast. I also became a helper in the Alpha course.

Part of the Alpha course is a weekend retreat referred to as the Holy Spirit weekend. It was on one of these weekends that things came together for me. I honestly don’t recall a specific moment when Jesus “clicked” for me.All I know is that it happened.That’s all I need to know.

Today, I am still learning to trust Him in everything.

That means praying about the big things and the little things. I have found that when I go to Him first and with an open heart, things work out much better than when I try to go it alone. I am letting Jesus become a better friend to me every day. Sometimes I pray to Him, sometimes I just talk to Him. Sometimes I just listen.

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FINDING YOUR IDENTITY after a loss

By Carl D. Novinger

commercials SEEN ANY TV lately regarding “identity theft”? If you have watched any television

knowing the number of hairs on our head.Wow! How incredible is that.

lately, you have seen the reality and threat of that “loss of identity”. Businesses have developed solely to offer you early detection of potential threats against your identity. The message these anti-identity theft businesses give is that you must empower yourself against this fraud with knowledge. The more you know about what risks are out there, the more you can take measures to prevent yourself from becoming a victim.

In the grief process, a person experiences a “loss of identity” because the loved one has been so much a part of his/her life.And as the days and months and perhaps years ahead, he/she grieves many losses: a companion, lover, your source of laughter, your cook, your mechanic, your gardener, and so on.The pain and hurt in loss is deep. It is like a wound that leaves a scar. It will always be with you and remind you of your grief experience.

One day while watching one of these commercials, it struck me in a whole different way than it usually did. I began to think about what was being said and applied their message to those who are going through grief in their life. Grieving the loss may feel similar to an identity theft victim because someone precious has been taken from you and now you have a hard time identifying yourself without that person.You may even feel victimized like the person in the commercial.

Our knowledge of knowing what God tells us about who we are in Christ Jesus will sustain us as we pass through the grief process. Although what was once before can never be now, God promises He will not leave nor forsake us as we move into a new normalcy for our life. Your identity in Christ is fully secure.

Let’s back up to the beginning of one’s life and see what God has said about life even in the womb of the mother: Ps 139:13-16 “For you created my inmost being; you knit me together in my mother’s womb. I praise you because I am fearfully and wonderfully made; your works are wonderful, I know that full well. My frame was not hidden from you when I was made in the secret place. When I was woven together in the depths of the earth, your eyes saw my unformed body. All the days ordained for me were written in your book before one of them came to be.” In Genesis 1:27, “So God created man in his own image, in the image of God he created him; male and female he created them.”

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You are not a victim, as the enemy would want you to be.As we commit ourselves to Him, He will give us a new life. Ps 62:5-6: “Find rest, O my soul, in God alone; my hope comes from him. He alone is my rock and my salvation; He is my fortress, I will not be shaken.”

Asbury Church offers a 12-week (one-and-a-half hour weekly sessions) program offering a discussion on the grief process. The anti-theft businesses’ message is to empower individuals with knowledge of threats to one’s personal identity. GriefShare offers Christcentered knowledge comforting and empowering the mourner to connect to or reconnect to Christ Jesus.

“I am the vine; you are the branches. If a man remains in me and I in him, he will bear much fruit; apart from me you can do nothing.” John 15:5 To those who grieve, you don’t have to be a victim.

Connect to the true Vine; He promises you to bear much fruit in your new days ahead.

Deepening

Roots

By Kara Beair

Over

the years, the children’s

and youth ministries at Asbury have grown dramatically. It has been an exciting and challenging endeavor meeting the needs of so many young people within the church. Taking little ones from toddlerhood to their teenage years, while developing a sense of who they are in Christ, has been a major focus of the church.

As these children have grown and matured into young adults, a noticeable gap in ministry has surfaced. When these individuals leave college and begin their adult lives, they need a place in the church where they can continue to learn, grow, and serve.

As it says in Colossians 2:6-7, “So then, just as you received Christ Jesus as Lord, continue to live in him, rooted and built up in him, strengthened in the faith as you were taught, and overflowing with thankfulness.”

The children at Asbury are receiving Jesus as their Lord and Savior. Now, as they grow into young adults, they need a place to continue worshipping and, most importantly, deepen their roots as they enter this new phase of life. With this in mind, Asbury is developing an exciting new ministry geared toward young adults.

It takes a very special person to take on such an enormous task within the church,but when it comes to God’s work, He always puts the right people in the right place at the right time. In this case, the right man for the job is Jon Odom. Jon and his wife, Emily, are a very special couple, who bring a great deal to this evolving ministry.

Jon Odom and Emily Skaggs met as high school students at Metro Christian Academy and began dating during their teenage years. After high school, Emily went to OSU, where she majored in Spanish, and also studied History and Literature. Jon continued his studies at ORU as a Biblical Studies major with a focus on Spanish as well. After seven years of dating, Jon

and Emily were married in the summer of 2008.

That same fall, they moved to Honduras, where they began working for an organization called Hope for Honduras. The mission of this organization is to bring the people of Honduras to Christ, while helping them affect positive change in their lives. During the 14 months they spent in Honduras, Jon and Emily had the opportunity to share their spiritual gifts with this impoverished nation. Emily assisted in financial and accounting matters, while Jon worked on the technological side of things creating websites, brochures, and other media.

In November 2009, God led Emily and Jon back home to Tulsa. After a brief break, Emily began working for her father as a Financial Planner in January. Jon was called back toAsbury (the current church home of both the Skaggs and Odom families), where he took the new position of Coordinator of the Young Adult Ministry last month.

With Jon’s leadership, the Young Adult Ministry is beginning to take shape. He states it is a ministry geared toward individuals, “21 (just after college) to mid-30s, singles, married, married with kids, and everywhere in-between.” He goes on to explain, “In the big picture, we would love to see young adults connected to each other in meaningful relationships that are centered on Christ. That could take lots of different shapes - adult discipleship communities, Bible studies, small groups, and accountability groups.”

With such an important job ahead of him, Jon is taking his time on the planning end of things. Over the last month,there has been a great deal of research,discussion, and prayer as Jon and the Pastoral Staff at Asbury work to flesh out exactly how this ministry will look. “We’re building a house so to speak,” he says, “So we want to make sure we have a firm foundation.” At the heart of that foundation are the three tenets discussed on the Venue68 Website – Worship, Community, and Justice.

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The

general idea of the young adult ministry is to meet the needs of a group of people, who are a unique community of believers. Realizing that 20- and 30-somethings are “fast moving” and “transient,” the goal of those involved in this planning phase is to find new and innovative ways for young adults to study, serve, and worship the Lord. Along with the support of his wife and the Pastors at Asbury, Jon is drawing up the blueprint for the Young Adult Ministry. In the next phase of development, he hopes to form a team of individuals, who represent the various stages in young adult life.

“I’ll be looking for people in the young adult world that can be used as a resource; people who can help me figure out me what we need, where we should go, and where God is leading us.”

Though it is in the early stages, the Young Adult Ministry is an area of great promise. Jon says the idea is simple.

“The key is to start with Christ and let your roots grow deep. As young adults,we need to put our roots in Christ more than ever because the precedent we set now will be the one we stick by for the rest of our lives,” he said.

If the young adults of Asbury follow Jon’s lead and the precedent he is setting, the ministry is certain to be a great success.

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WHO ARE

YOU?

By Kim Beair, MS, LPC, NCC

“Surely You desire truth in the inner parts;You teach me wisdom in the inmost place “ (Psalm 51:6, NIV).

HOW DO YOU

define y o u rself? How do you project that definition of yourself?

Are you consistent in that definition or are you a walking contradiction? Do you have truth in your “inner parts?” Are you continually monitoring not only your actions but also your attitudes toward that definition?

Now we all understand nobody is perfect – we all fall short in our walks with God, and to be honest, Christians are nothing but contradictions.People often won’t go to church because churches are full of “hypocrites.”

Well, of course they are – churches are full of sinners and hospitals are full of sick people. Perfect and well people would have no need for a church or a hospital.

But one would hope that in our daily lives we attempt to live out our faiths as best we can, watching that we don’t mess up too much in front of God and everybody. But the question here is about presentation. Most of us walk around just trying to live good, Godly lives but don’t go wearing our Jesus pins, our WWJD bracelets, and the “Jesus is my homeboy” tshirts as our “uniforms”.

Consider flight attendants, police officers, firemen and other professions that wear uniforms. While in uniform, they are a walking representation and advertisement for their professions. They hopefully have a solid idea of how to behave both in and out of uniform, but just in case, their respective employers Page 18

have mandatory trainings regarding presentation, ethics, and how to represent themselves. What about the rest of us – those who don’t wear uniforms?

sense of trust in others and in their own judgment.

Of course, they should have seen the nakedness and believed it. But when the Emperor and others buy in to “group think”, major damage can be done. The one

‘LET’S VOW TO WALK THE WALK TODAY. LET’S DRESS THE PART AND CARRY OURSELVES WELL, AND MAKE AN EFFORT TO ACTUALLY TRY TO BE WHO WE SAY WE ARE. When it comes to Christ, our employers and our families, we wear invisible uniforms every day. Take social networking, for example. By just listing “Christian” under the religious belief section and listing our employer under the work section, we are “advertising” something about who we represent. If we choose to post vulgarities or inappropriate content of any kind, we are a reflection on our faith, our employer and our families. Though we aren’t wearing the Jesus pin on our jacket, this is a way we advertise “who we are,” or maybe, who we want to be, or even who we want the world to think we are.

guy out there yelling “hey everybody…get real…he’s NAKED” is the bad guy in the crowd.

There are also bumper stickers and personalized car tags that can advertise our faith or professions. A joke tells of the police officer pulling over a very aggressive, law-breaking driver. When the driver questions the nature of the stop, the officer says “I’m sorry ma’am, based on all your Jesus stickers I thought this car must be stolen.”

Of course, no one really cares when morally challenged people fail because they never claimed to be perfect. The same goes for the humble; most will be forgiving of a person of humility; they aren’t projecting false advertising of who they are. My friend Todd speaks fondly of his mother telling him, “I can’t hear you; your actions are speaking too loudly.”

The concept we are considering here is a bit like the fable “The Emperor’s New Clothes.” It might be acceptable to run around your house naked, but when you go out, you really do need to cover up a bit. It is only appropriate. We call that “social skills.”

Many people have known the person that has to tell everyone “how” they are. Well, if they have to tell everyone, then there is likely a problem in their everyday walk. Let’s vow to walk the walk today. Let’s dress the part and carry ourselves well, and make an effort to actually try to be who we say we are. Let’s receive forgiveness and regroup when we fall short, and hold each other accountable.

The saddest thing about this fable is the naked Emperor telling people his new suit is awesome and MANY BELIEVING HIM! I mean, if he is so convinced his suit is beautiful, he must really be wearing one, right?

The real damage comes when those who were totally convinced of the lie realize there is no suit at all.

They wake to doubt themselves, with a diminished

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If you walk around town talking about your beautiful new suit when everyone can see you’re naked, ultimately people wake up and realize your façade is just that – a lie. Politicians, athletes and evangelists have portrayed themselves as squeaky clean at times to promote their careers – or maybe to fake it till they make it.

Ultimately, however, the lies are exposed when they behave shamefully.

Who are you? I really want to know…

TO READ MORE FROM KIM BEAIR, VISIT:

http://kimspirations-bykimbeair.blogspot.com/

Why Does She Care So? Bernice:

By John C. Westervelt

M

y name is John. My work as a trader had taken me from my home in Caesarea Maritima to Jerusalem, sixty miles southeast. I had spent the week at an inn while buying and selling. On Friday I awoke to the smell of porridge being cooked in the kitchen. The innkeeper there served a hearty breakfast. When I sat down at the table and looked out the doorway, I could see people swarming up the narrow street, all going the same direction. As I began to eat, I asked the innkeeper, “Where is everyone going?”

“Have you not heard? There are to be three crucifixions today.”

I was not sure I had the stomach for such a thing, but with time on my hands I followed the crowd to about a hundred feet from the top of the hill. I stopped, but the noisy crowd pressed in close to yell jeers and shake their fists at the men who were to be crucified.

A young woman who was alone stopped next to me. She appeared to be in her early thirties, just a few years younger than my own daughter. Her eyes were fixed on the center cross. I studied her beautiful face. The lock of hair showing from under her hood was coal black as were her eyes. Her smooth complexion radiated beauty in itself. Her features were delicate. I wished she would smile.

But she didn’t. Her face was set in a grimace that pressed her lips together so tightly that they had lost their color. I was struck by the vise grip of her hand where she held the hood covering her head and part of her face. Her knuckles were white.

As a grandfather I might view a crucifixion once in my lifetime, but why would a young woman put herself through such an ordeal? I sensed a kinship with this one, like my feelings for family. I needed to know more.

“Shalom, my name is John.”

Her eyes moved to meet mine,

“Shalom, I am Bernice.”

There was silence for a while as she looked at the ground, then she looked up. Her eyes welled up with tears, “How can they do this to Him? It is so unfair.”

Her gaze returned to the One being laid on the center cross. Who could He be that she cared so much? Those around her taunted Him, “You saved others. Now save yourself!”

As I glanced back at the center cross, I could see a hammer, held by a soldier, being raised above the hand tied to the wooden beam. For the first time, the crowd turned deathly still. Next there was a ring of metal against metal as the hammer met the nail.

Every muscle of the One laid on the cross quivered in pain. I looked away.

My newfound companion began to cry uncontrollably. Almost instinctively I took her into my arms, as if she were my own daughter. All of her small body shook with her sobs. I wondered if she could breathe. My gentle hold firmed as tears flowed down my cheeks, too. Many minutes passed before her regular breathing returned. With my right arm still holding her, we turned to look up the hill. The cross now stood erect.

“Bernice, who is He?” “He is my brother.”

I caught my breath. My insides drew taut. Her eyes were wet, but she seemed composed.

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“I want to go to the foot of the cross, but my mother, who is there now, instructed me not to come here. I have never disobeyed her before.”

“I have a daughter like you.

Would you like for me to take you to your home?”

“No, Jesus would want me to stay until He dies.”

How could she hold up to such a gruesome sight.

This cruel death would be slow. The least I could do was wait with her.

“Are there brothers and sisters besides you and Jesus?”

“I have four brothers and two sisters, all younger than I. Jesus and I have always been close, not just because we are the oldest, but because we share the same spirit.”

“Did you play together as children?”

“Yes, Jesus would save the wood scraps and carve them into blocks for me. He kept them in a basket under His carpenter’s bench.

He even invented a special game that only He and I played called Jerusalem’s Temple. He would help me lay out the temple buildings and the walls with the blocks. He had learned the dimensions at school.

I wish I could have gone to school at the synagogue with Him, but I am just a girl.

“When my father died, not long after the birth of Simon, I was needed to help with the children, so I never married. As a teenager and, yes, even in my twenties, I would ask with a smile, ‘Jesus, can we play Jerusalem’s Temple?’ With just the two of us in the shop, I would place the blocks while we talked.”

“Do you still play your game?”

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“Not very often. During the last three years, He has been traveling to other towns with His disciples.”

While we were talking, dark clouds had begun to gather. Jagged lightning streaked from the clouds to the earth and was followed by deafening thunder. A cold rain began to spit into my face. Bernice gripped my hand as she moved closer to the cross.

Jesus appeared to be in excruciating pain. He had to push Himself up on the cross just to get enough breath to speak. In the crowd was an older woman to whom He spoke saying,

“Woman, behold your son.”

With more labor to breathe, He said to the man next to the woman,

“Behold your mother.”

Bernice’s breathing was as troubled as Jesus’ when He looked at her and said,

“Someday we shall be together in paradise.”

His body strained one last time for air, then He cried out,

“It is finished!”

At His words, Bernice loosened her grip on my hand.

Her lips, which had been white, were now red. Color returned to her knuckles. As she relaxed her hold on her hood, it fell to her shoulders. A gentle wind blew through her hair adding to her beauty. I then knew that Jesus would keep His promise and that someday they would be together again in paradise.

Based on Mark 6:3; John 19:26-27.

The gospel writers tell us that Jesus had brothers and sisters. The four brothers have names, but not the sisters. In my imagination, I give a name and a face to one of the sisters.

More stories at www.jwestervelt.com

Food Drive SUCCESSFUL! HOPE IS RESTORED!

By Joan Kahl

for the third annual Super SunPLANNING day food drive for Restore Hope started in December. We wanted to hit the

ground running after the holidays, and the team wanted to set a goal of how many pounds of food we wanted to collect and donate to Restore Hope. The accounting major in the group calculated the percentage of growth over the previous year and we committed to strive for 75,000 pounds of food. Another goal was to involve more communities and raise funds in advance to build the food displays at the entrances. These last two goals were realized prior to the start of the food drive.

Then the news of the Haiti earthquake came and we witnessed hunger and poverty in a way most of us have never seen. It was heart wrenching. Asbury’s congregation generously responded to that need.

We began to wonder how the Haiti earthquake might impact our food drive. It was unfortunate timing and we certainly understood there might be some who had already reached their limit of available funds for contributions. Did I saw “we”? It was I who began to wonder what the impact might be. As I write, ‘you of little faith’ keeps running through my head. Albert Kahl, the coordinator and my husband, did not think for one nanosecond there was any possibility of not reaching the goal.

By Super Care Sunday, the mounds of food had grown. We had dozens of volunteers in Super Care Sunday T-shirts, along with boy scouts and student small groups prepared to help.

To those who brought food and dropped it off, thank you! Physically seeing the volume of food growing was exciting.

And those who stopped at one of the tables and gave a contribution, thank you! That was exciting for the volunteers at the tables to witness.

For those of you who dropped food off at the truck Sunday morning, thank you! It was a valuable learning experience for children and teens that were helping.

For those of you who put your check in the offering plate, thank you! Your contributions are what put us over the goal. Using Restore Hope’s equation for converting dollars to pounds, we reached 87,832 pounds!

To all who are a part of Asbury, you are the best.

Your generosity exceeded our expectations. “Enter His gates with thanksgiving and His courts with praise; give thanks to Him and praise His name. For the Lord is good and His love endures forever; His faithfulness continues through all generations.” Psalm 100: 4, 5 Our first planning meeting for 2011 has already taken place. Filled with excitement, we discussed what we might be able to do next year to improve. Sandy Milner from Restore Hope told us recent statistics show one out of five children in Oklahoma goes to bed hungry. And Oklahoma is eighth in the nation for hunger.

We have, and can, continue to have a lasting impact on hunger in the Tulsa area.

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asbury

opportunities GENERAL INFORMATION

ENGAGED COUPLES If you are planning to use an Asbury pastor to officiate and/ or use Asbury’s facilities, be sure to book ASAP to allow ample time for Couple-to-Couple (required premarital sessions). Six months to one year lead time suggested.

THE GAZEBO IS OPEN CDs of Tom’s message of the day are available immediately following the worship service - $3. Prayer Journals BREAKFAST Served from 7:15-9:00 am in the CLC. are also available for $5 each.

Come enjoy fellowship with Asburians along with fresh donuts, bagels, biscuits & gravy, sausage, eggs, RECYCLING fruit, and cereal. $3 for adults & $1 for children 12 Recycle unwanted paper products. Three bins are avail& under. able, located in the south and east parking lots.

SUNDAY MORNING WORSHIP 8:00 am Mason Chapel (Traditional Communion) 9:15 am Sanctuary (Contemporary) 9:15 am CLC (Open House Worship) (Acoustic Worship, Casual Setting) 11:00 am Sanctuary (Traditional) 11:00 am Venue 68 (Modern with sign interpreter) SUNDAY EVENING WORSHIP 6:30 pm Venue 68 (Modern) SUNDAYS FOR CHILDREN AND STUDENTS 6 Weeks - 4 Years 8:00, 9:15, and 11:00 am K-6th Grades 9:15 or 11:00 am 7th, 8th & 9th Grades 9:15 & 11:00 am 10th, 11th & 12th Grades 9:15 am only ADULT DISCIPLESHIP COMMUNITIES Sunday at 8:00, 9:15, & 11:00 am, Carpenter’s Workshop on Wednesdays at 6:00 pm and Shepherd’s Flock on Tuesdays at 6:00pm. NEW, Salt & Light at 11:00 Sunday mornings in room 2820 for singles ages 30s-40s, and A Gathering for couples in their 20s on Sunday evenings at 5 pm in room 2821. If you are a motorcycle enthusiast, try our new Circuit Riders, who meet in front of the statue on the west parking lot each Sunday at 2 p.m. for a ride before fellowship time (weather permitting!)

SURGERY OR HOSPITALIZATION SCHEDULED? Be sure to let Asbury know ahead of time by calling Pam at 392-1199, x253 so your pastors can be in prayer for you. When you enter the hospital, please designate Asbury as your church. The after-hours pastoral emergency line can be reached by calling 492-1771, selecting option 6, and leaving a message for the pastor on call.

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ASBURY FAMILY NEWS is available at the Welcome Centers. It includes births, deaths, marriages, baptisms and military listings.

DOORS OF ASBURY posters are at the Welcome Centers...FREE! Suitable for framing.

NEW ADDITIONS TO THE LIBRARY The Asbury Library is a wonderful resource. Thank you to all who continue to contribute books to our Library.

ACCESS

Hands of Love Sign Choir Sundays, 6:00-7:00 pm, Rm. 2821 Friends in Christ Community Sundays, 11:00 am, Rm. 1507

BIBLE STUDY

ROADMAP Check out the Winter 2010 RoadMap courses in the new brochure and on the Asbury website at www.asburytulsa.org. Accept Pastor Tom’s challenge to get actively involved in digging deeper into God’s Word ~ there is something for everyone!

Consider our Bible study on Philippians, “In Chains for Christ,” taught by Gail Knox on Tuesday evenings 6:30-8 p.m. in room 2821. Cost is only $15. Call 392-1191 to register!

CARE AND SUPPORT VISITS TO ASBURY MEMBERS Asbury has a group of volunteers (Asbury Connection) who regularly visit people who are homebound, in nursing homes or in assisted living facilities. If you are interested in being visited, call Adrena at 392-1144, or contact the coordinator, Abby Sluice at 392-4583 or asluice@asburytulsa.org.

RÉSUMÉ ASSISTANCE AND REVIEW Do you have an effective résumé? An extra set of eyes can make a difference. E-mail your résumé to employ. transitions@yahoo.com.

EATING DISORDER RECOVERY First and third Wednesdays, 12:00-1:30 pm, Room 1621 - For individuals seeking support in the recovery process. Bring sack lunch.

OJT (OVERCOMING JOB TRANSITIONS) Are you on a job hunt? Would you like to bless someone who is? Asbury offers this hands-on workshop helping with resumes, networking, interviewing and other help as well as prayer and support. Send us candidates! Tell us about jobs you know about! Come be a part and lend us your network! Meets the third Tuesday of each month, 6:30 pm - 9:00 pm, Family Room.

Questions? Contact Russ Knight at OJTjobs@gmail. com or call Ruth at 392-1146.

GRANDPARENTS RAISING GRANDCHILDREN First and third Tuesdays, 6:30-8:30 pm, Rm 1506.

JOB SEEKING HINTS FROM PROFESSIONALS Thursday, April 15, 7:00 - 8:30 pm, Room 1508. A panel of professionals from the Human Resources and Placement fields will lead a discussion on resources for job openings, resumes, interviewing, etc. Resume review also available as a follow-up. For information contact employ.transtions@yahoo.com. Childcare available PRAYER CARD SENDING TEAM Usually meets first and third Mondays at 10:00 am in Room 1508 to send cards with God’s encouraging words and our prayers to those who are ill or going through hard times. Cards and care packages are also sent to Asbury-related military personnel. Contact Gwen Mohler at GRMOHLER@aol.com for more information, or call Ruth at 392-1146.

ASPERGER SUPPORT GROUP First Thursday from 7:00-9:00 pm in Rm 1506. For mothers of children with Asperger Syndrome. Childcare available.

ALZHEIMER’S SUPPORT GROUP Third Thursday, from 1:30-3:00 pm in Rm 1621. Christian hope, support and education for friends and family of those with Alzheimer’s or other dementia.

CANCER SUPPORT GROUP Second Sunday of each month, 4:00-6:00 pm, Parlor - Reflections on the 23rd Psalm & sharing for people with cancer and their families.

DIVORCE RECOVERY Tuesdays, 7:00-8:30 pm, Rm 1335 - For those suffering from the early, highly emotional stages of divorce and separation trauma. Childcare available.

DIVORCE REBUILDING Thursdays, 7:00-8:30 pm, Rm 1335 - For those ready to rebuild their lives after separation or divorce.

Childcare available.

MENTAL HEALTH SUPPORT FOR FAMILIES For family members or caregivers of people affected by a mental illness. 4th Thursdays from 1:30 - 3:00 pm in Rm 1507.

MILITARY CONNECTION Please join us in praying for our troops in harm’s way and their families. Periodic care packages and monthly encouragement cards with God’s Word are sent to Asbury-related military personnel. The Prayer Ministry also covers them in prayer. Please send contact information (complete name and address) to Gwen Mohler at grmohler@aol.com or call Ruth at 3921146.

ASBURY BEAR BAGS Asbury Bear Bags with coloring books have comforted young children for many years, but now you may give a Bear Bag with a scripture-based journal included instead! Great for teens and adults. Anyone may deliver an Asbury Bear to someone who is grieving. For more information, contact Beth at beth.bears@yahoo.com.

CHILDREN

Registration forms for all children’s activities are available in the preschool and elementary lobbies.

CORE CHILDCARE HOURS Parents who are involved in RoadMap classes during these core hours will have childcare provided for children 6 weeks - 12 years of age with no reservations needed: Sun Mon & Tue Tue, Wed, & Thur

8:00 am - 12:00 pm 9:00 am - 12:00 pm 6:00 pm - 9:00 pm

WEDNESDAY NIGHT LIVE (Kindergarten – 4thGrade) Wednesdays, January 13th – April 28th- 7:00 pm – 8:00 pm. Beginning in their choir room and pick up in Chapel. Join us on Wednesday nights for worship in the Chapel—Kid Style. We will combine music, high energy, verse memory and a Bible lesson in a setting that encourages kids to learn about worship. Our lessons will tie right into what we are doing on Sunday mornings. Can’t wait to see you there! If you were registered for the fall semester, you will not need to complete a new form. Otherwise, you may pick up a registration Page 24

form in the Children’s Ministry area. For more information MARRIAGE & FAMILY contact the age appropriate staff member: Kindergarten- DYNAMIC MARRIAGE Cathy at 392-1170, 1st & 2nd grade-Amber at 392-1171, Give us 9 weeks…we’ll give you a dynamic marriage! or 3rd – 4th grade-Jennifer at 392-4582.

This is an interactive class that will help you replace old habits with new ones in a unique, safe environment.

5TH & 6TH GRADE BIBLE STUDY Go from good to great, mediocre to magnificent or Wednesdays, January 13th – April 28th- 7:00 pm – hurt to healed. Cost: $130/couple (many materials in8:00 pm, 5.6 Room & Gym, Cost $7 for workbook. cluded, scholarships available) $50 holds your spot. To On Wednesday nights our 5th & 6th graders will be register, contact Jackie or Ron at 251-6665 or asburystudying “Step Out – The Courage to Do What’s dynamicmarriage@windstream.net. Limited to first 12 Right”. Students today need to have the courage to paid couples in each class. Next classes start in June. live in the world as God wants them to live.This study Childcare available. brings students the stories in the Bible that will help them develop that courage. The stories will show the WEEKEND TO REMEMBER students the scope of the Bible, practical application MARRIAGE CONFERENCE of the Bible verses they learn, and how to have the Friday-Sunday, April 16-18, 2010 at Marriott Southern courage to live for Jesus. Your early registration helps Hills. Learn practical skills and Biblical principles to us have the correct number of study books. If you strengthen and reenergize your marriage or prepare have any additional questions, please contact Whitney you for your upcoming marriage. Hosted by FamilyCarruthers at 392-1166 or wcarruthers@asbury- Life, a ministry of Campus Crusade for Christ. To regtulsa.org. ister, call 1-800-FL-Today or go to www.familylife.com/ groups/asburytulsa. Discounted group rate available FOLLOW 3.4 CAMP IN until April 1. For more information, contact Asbury’s Friday, April 16th at 6:30pm to Saturday, April 17th at group coordinators, Pat & Deborah Calhoun at pat.

7:30am, Cost $35. calhoun@cox.net.

There is nothing like fun, food, and exhaustion to bring 100+ 3rd & 4th graders closer together! The ATTENTION ENGAGED COUPLES Camp-In is all that and more! We will make the If you are planning to use an Asbury pastor to officiate rounds at some totally cool and fun places around and/or use Asbury’s facilities, be sure to book ASAP Tulsa, and then return around 2:00am to camp-in for to allow ample time for Couple-to-Couple (required a few hours of shut-eye! The cost for the event in- premarital sessions). Six months to one year lead time cludes a late night snack and a cool t-shirt. The regis- is suggested. tration deadline is Monday, April 5th in order to make sure we have a t-shirt and enough seats for everyone. MILESTONE WEDDING ANNIVERSARIES For more information contact Jennifer Barnes at 392- Email your upcoming Milestone Anniversary 4582 or jbarnes@asburytulsa.org.

(5,10,15,20, etc.) to Carolyn Schutte at brucars2@ cox.net or call Ruth at 392-1146.

DISCIPLESHIP

DISCIPLESHIP COMMUNITIES If you have not yet found an Adult Discipleship Community check out “Get Involved” on our website, www.asburytulsa.org or pick up a brochure at one of our Welcome Centers.

ENDOWMENTS

Leave a legacy that continues to give forever to a ministry you want to support. There are endowments that support many areas of Asbury’s outreach including children, youth, music, missions, and training of pastors as well as a General endowment. You can easily impact a ministry thru your will or a current gift. Contact DwightYoder at 392-1113 or dyoder@asburytulsa.org.

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MEMBERSHIP

ASBURY EXPLORATION Come to a lunch/class to learn more about becoming a member of Asbury. Sunday, April 11, from 12:15-2:00 pm in Community Life Center. Lunch provided and childcare is available for children six weeks through 6th grade. Call 392-1191 to register.

MEN

MEN’S PRAYER BREAKFAST Wednesdays, 6:30-7:30 am in the CLC. Attention men of Asbury. Make plans to join us for a great time of meaningful worship, life-changing prayer and an awesome big breakfast, all for just $3 per person. First-time guests are free.

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MEN’S OPEN BASKETBALL Fridays, 11:30 am – 1:15 pm, Gym. Men! Make plans to join other Asbury guys and their friends each week as we get together for a little “round ball” and lots of fun! Come show us what you’ve got, and we’ll have a great time of exercise and fellowship. Invite your friends, and we’ll see you on the court!

WILD AT HEART MEN’S STUDY Wednesdays, until April 28, 6:00-7:45 p.m., Room 2821.

Helping men rediscover their masculine heart,Wild at Heart, a guide to understanding Christian manhood and Christian men, offers a refreshing break from the chorus of voices urging men to be more responsible, reliable, dutiful … and dead. God designed men to be dangerous. Simply look at the dreams and desires written in every boy’s heart: to be a hero, to be a warrior, to live a life of adventure and risk. Sadly, most men abandon those dreams and desires, aided by a Christianity that feels like nothing more than pressure to be a “nice guy”. It’s no wonder that many men avoid church, and those who go are often passive and bored to death.

Dare to be the man God created you to be! Abandon passivity and actively pursue your God-given dreams.

Walk the road least taken! (Facilitated by Greg Ruley) MATURE MEN’S MINISTRY R.O.M.E.O. LUNCHEON Are you a “Retired Old Man” who wants to “Eat Out?” If so, then these luncheons are for you! Two groups of men are meeting every Thursday or every 2nd & 4th Friday at 11:15 a.m., for good food and great fellowship. Both groups meet at Luby’s Cafeteria (71st and Riverside), and are open to anyone 60 years and up. Choose a day and join us this week! For more information, contact Bud at bdmathes@cox.net (Thursdays), or Jim at rober@cox.net (Fridays.)

MATURE MEN’S LUNCHEON Friday, March 31, 11:45 a.m. – 1:30 p.m., CLC. Join us for a gathering of all Mature Men of Asbury (60 yrs. +) to enjoy a fabulous meal and strengthen friendships!

Pastor Tom will be speaking! RSVP to the main office at 492-1771 by noon on Monday, March 29 so we’re sure there’s plenty to serve everyone!

HOME IMPROVEMENT WORK DAYS Saturday, April 17, meet in the CLC at 8:30-9:30 am for planning. The Home Improvement Ministry serves widows and single moms within the Asbury family.

Our men’s ministry volunteers make themselves available every other month to help folks out with minor home repairs and/or home improvement projects. If you’d like to help, contact Michiel at michiel0930@ sbcglobal.net. If you are in need of help, just pick up a request form at the south welcome desk, or call your request in to Pam Wallace (392-1199, ext. 253), at least ten days before the scheduled work day. A Home Improvement volunteer will contact you, and make final arrangements to get the job(s) done!

MEN’S SPRING GOLF TOURNAMENT Attention men! Spring is here, and you know what that means! It’s time for our annual Asbury Men’s Spring Golf Tourney, and you definitely want to be a part of the fun this year! The tournament will be held on Friday, April 23 at LaFortune Park. The shotgun tee time begins at 8:30 a.m., with lunch to follow. The cost is $55 per person, which includes the driving range, green fee, cart, lunch, awards and prizes!

The format is a four-man scramble, and you may form your own team or be placed on a team. The deadline for paid registrations is Friday, April 16, with a limit of 100 players. Registration forms will be mailed to Asbury homes in late March or you may pick one up at any welcome center and return it, with payment, to the registration slot at the south welcome desk. This year’s organizer is Todd White, (twhite@ubah.com), if you have questions or concerns. Call your family, call your friends … and join us for a great afternoon of fellowship, friends and fun!

CAR CARE WORKDAY Saturday, May 8, 9:00 am – 12:00 noon, Outside Breakaway entrance, northeast side. Car Care Saturday is an every-other-month workday provided for Asbury’s widows and single moms, through our men’s ministry. While the ladies wait in the comfort of the café, volunteers check tires, belts, fluids, filters and batteries. They also vacuum and wash the vehicles, and then update owners on what’s running smoothly and what needs professional attention. This free service gives our men the opportunity to put their faith in to action through loving and serving those in need. If you would like to volunteer to help, contact Mike at mnalley16@ cox.net. If you are in need of these services, just get your vehicle in line by 11:30! No reservations necessary!

ASBURY MEN’S BASKETBALL LEAGUE Mondays and Thursdays, March 29- July 29, 6-9pm in the gym. Asbury Men! If you’re 21 years of age or older, and enjoy a competitive game of round ball, we need you on the court! We’re forming an Asbury league, and it’d be great to have you join us. Contact Kirk Mize, ASAP. (kirk.mize@cox.net) Page 26

MISSIONS

DONATION UPDATE Thank you for your most gracious generosity! Over $34,885 has been collected for Restore Hope Ministries, which amounts to 87,832 pounds of food! And, over $67,328 has been given by Asbury for UMCOR’s relief efforts in Haiti. Medical volunteers, trained VIM team leaders and team members are needed. Volunteers can call the OKVIM office at (405) 530-2029.

UMCOR has established a web site for volunteers to register their interest in serving in Haiti. Please go to http://secure.gbgm-umc.org/HaitiVolunteer.

GLOBAL OUTREACH DINNER We will have a special speaker for our May 4 Global Outreach Dinner. Plan to join us at 6 pm in the Family Room. Cost: $5. Contact Missy Sistrunk, 392-1163, for reservations.

MEALS ON WHEELS VOLUNTEERS NEEDED Southside Meals On Wheels is in need of volunteers for driving and kitchen help. Southside MOW is responsible every day for drivers and kitchen help once or twice a year. The time commitment for drivers is about 1 to 1 1/2 hours on the day one drives. Volunteers can commit to as much or as little as they want: once a month, once a week, or twice a month.

CIRCLE OF CARE DINNER Join us Thursday, April 8 for the Circle of Care Friends The next scheduled kitchen month is October 2010 of Children dinner at 6:30 pm in the CLC. Bishop (located at the “old” Asbury). The time commitment Hayes will be the featured speaker and LeAnne Tay- for kitchen help is about 2 1/2 to 3 hours on the day lor will be the emcee. Purchase tickets from Missy you work. Volunteers will be packing up food to be delivered to the recipients and they must have a food Sistrunk. handler’s permit. In October, four volunteers will be needed on Monday, Wednesday, and Friday all month.

2ND SATURDAY Looking for an easy way to make a difference and Meals On Wheels also offers Food Handlers classes. share Christ’s love in Tulsa! Join us this 2nd Saturday, Barb Taggart is coordinating these volunteer efforts or April 10, at 8:30 a.m. at Venue68 and choose between contact Missy Sistrunk, 392-1163. local mission opportunities. At 8:45 we head to the ministry sites. Teams work from 9:00-11:30 a.m. and ECUADOR VIM TEAM buses return to Venue68 no later than 12:15. Fami- An Asbury VIM adult missions team will be going to lies with children welcomed and encouraged! Contact Casa De Fe in Shell, Ecuador, which is at the edge Betty Higgins at carevets@aol.com for more informaof the rainforest about 95 miles south of the capital, tion.

Quito, from June 5 through 12, 2010. Casa De Fe is an orphanage that cares for children ranging from infants INTERNATIONAL STUDENT to about age 15. Some are special needs children. The MINISTRIES BANQUET The International Student Ministries will host a ban- team will be performing some construction work and quet on Tuesday, April 20 at Asbury. Registration is at will be leading a Mission Bible School for the children, 6:30 pm followed by dinner at 7:00 p.m. Guests will be which will include games, crafts, teaching, singing and treated to a pleasant evening program highlighting the just plain fun.The team will be lead by Tim Carney.You vision and hospitality services of International Com- may contact Tim at tcarney@gablelaw.com, or at 398munity Outreach. This is a Christian ministry whose 3912. You may also contact Santiago Ruiz, Asbury’s purpose is to meet practical and spiritual needs of in- Latin American VIM Ministry Team Leader, at rsantia@ ternational students in the Tulsa area through acts of hotmail.com or at 810-4042. You can also find more service and through sharing the good news of Jesus information about Casa De Fe at www.lacasadefe.org.

Christ. The evening will include special music, a brief video clip and a student testimonial. At the conclusion, MISSIONS/VIM an opportunity will be provided for those wishing to VOLUNTEERS IN MISSION 2010 OPPORTUNITIES Central Asia, Relationship, offer a financial contribution.We encourage you to at- April 22-May 1

Teaching & Light Construction tend and learn more about doing international minisMay Cookson Hills, Oklahoma, try without leaving home! Contact Mary Ann Smith,

Light Construction 392-1117, if you would like to attend.

May 20-31 Central Asia, College Students June 3-14 Estonia, Lighthouse MISSION OPPORTUNITY AT TU June 5-12 Ecuador, MBS & Construction Are you interested in having a mission trip come to Tanzania, East Africa, Medical you? Service opportunities are available at The Uni- June 16-28 Estonia, Camp Gideon,Youth versity of Tulsa with international students.The Wesley June 24-July 5 Camp & Construction Foundation at TU provides an annual furniture drive for students, English Corner to enhance language July 22-August 2 Estonia, Parnu, MBS & Light skills, a Free International Lunch (FIL) every Thursday, Construction and various activities for fellowship with these September 15-27 Tanzania, East Africa, students from around the globe. Contact Karen Dixon Construction at skdixon456@hotmail.com for more information.

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Fall

October 9-16

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Cookson Hills, Oklahoma, Light Construction Monterrey, Mexico, MBS & Construction Monterrey, Mexico, Medical

MASON CHAPEL & VENUE 68 Sundays from 7:00 am - 12:30 pm through the interior doors.

MAIN FACILITY, MASON CHAPEL, & VENUE 68 Monday - Friday 8:00 am - 9:00 pm VIM Leader Training: September 18 - Oklahoma City, Saturday 10:00 am - 3:00 pm October 23 – Oklahoma City.

Sunday 12:30 pm - 9:00 pm Contact Marilene Long at 392-1164 or mlong@asburytulsa.org if you are interested in serving on any of these teams or being part of the VIM Leader Training.

To obtain pass codes, call Debbie in the Adult Ministries office at 392-1177.

MUSIC

CELEBRATE RECOVERY Come join this supportive group of people each Monday night at 6:00 pm. Dinner at 6:00 pm;Worship from 7:00-8:00 pm; Small Groups from 8:00-9:00 pm; Dessert from 9:00-9:30 pm. Hiding any hurts, habits or hangups? God never intended for you to live in bondage.

Chancel Choir Wednesdays, 7:00 pm, Choir Room New Covenant Orchestra Wednesdays, 6:00-7:30 pm, Rm 1510 Children’s Choirs Wednesdays, 6:00-6:50 pm, various rooms Asbury Power & Light Sundays, 8:15-9:15 am, Rm 1510 Celebration Ringers Tuesdays, 4:30-5:30 pm, Rm 2506 Youth Orchestra Wednesdays, 5:30pm, Rm 1506 Perpetual Light Thursdays, 10:30 to Noon, Rm 2506 Saints of Swing Dixieland Band Thursdays, 7-9 pm, Rm 1510 Asbury Singing Ambassadors Tuesdays, 1:30 – 3:00, Choir room

PRAYER

ALTAR PRAYER If you would like someone to pray with you during Holy Communion or immediately following a worship service, please come to the altar rail. A pastor or member of the Altar Prayer Team will be glad to pray with you for your needs – physical, emotional or spiritual - at the altar or in the Prayer Room.

PRAYER ROOM RESERVATIONS The leadership of Asbury’s prayer ministry would like to remind you that the main facility Prayer Room is open not only to individuals desiring to pray in a quiet, meditative atmosphere, but also to prayer groups within communities and ministries. Just give Debbie in the Adult Ministries office a call at 392-1177 to reserve the Prayer Room for your group on a weekly or monthly basis.

RECOVERY

SENIOR ADULTS

VISITS TO ASBURY MEMBERS Asbury has a unique group of volunteers (Asbury Connection) who regularly visit people who are either homebound or in nursing homes. If you are interested in being visited, call Adrena at 392-1144, or contact the coordinator, Abby Sluice at ozyanks2000@yahoo.com SENIOR SIT AND FIT STRETCHING CLASS Mondays, Wednesdays and Fridays from 9:00-9:30 am in the Gym. All senior adults are invited to join us for a time of stretching, coupled with lots of fun and fellowship. No high impact workout here.We take it nice and easy. Come give it a try.

SENIOR WALK IN THE GYM WITH HIM Mondays, Wednesdays and Fridays from 8:30-9:00 am in the gym. All senior adults are invited to join us for power walking, coupled with lots of fun and fellowship.

Come give it a try.

SENIOR GAME TIME Every third Thursday – 1:00 – 4:00 p.m. Attention Asbury Senior Adults! How would you like to get together on a regular basis with a wonderful bunch of folks and play a few rounds of cards, dominoes, or whatever board or card game you chose? You KNOW you’d love it! If you’re a senior adult age 55 and up, come check it out in Room 2820. Bring a friend and stay for as long as you like! This fun group will meet every third Thursday, so mark your calendars!

SENIOR ADULT MEAL & MOVIE Attention all senior adults of Asbury! If you’re 55 years of age or over, our monthly meal and movie day event may be just the “ticket” for you! We get toPRAYER ROOM DAYS & TIMES Our prayer rooms are accessible to you at these times: gether at a different Tulsa restaurant each month, and then head off to see a “first run” movie. The dates and Page 28

times vary according to the movie selected, but those who express an interest will be contacted a few days ahead of time so they can make plans accordingly. For more information or to sign up for the call list, contact Sally Wood, sally-wood@sbcglobal.net.

APRIL TWEENAGERS PROGRAM & LUNCH Everyone aged 55 and up is welcome to join us for our monthly Tweenagers meeting & luncheon, taking place on Thursday, April 22, from 10:30 a.m. to 1:00 p.m., in the CLC. Our program will be presented by Pastor Tom Harrison on “The State of Asbury.” Music will be presented by Darlene Wagner, Chancel Choir Vocalist! You don’t want to miss this program, and don’t forget to invite your friends!

Call the main office at 492-1771 to make your reservations BY NOON, Monday, April 19. If, during that week, you find you need to cancel, please also let us know as we need to give an accurate count to the cooks. Should you choose, you may make a donation for the meal when you check in that morning. Come join us for fun and fellowship!

SINGLES

DIVORCE RECOVERY Tuesdays, 7:00-8:30 pm, Rm 1335 - For those suffering from the early, highly emotional stages of divorce and separation trauma. Childcare available.

789 SMALL GROUPS Small Groups have begun! Being a part of a small group is awesome. It’s a great place to grow your relationship with Jesus, have fun hanging out with guys/girls your own age. A Small Group is made up of same gender and the same grade PLUS two incredible adults that want to hang out with you. 7th and 8th Grade Small Groups all meet in the Student Ministries Area this year. 9th Grade groups are meeting in homes. Yes you can be in a 7th grade small group and not be a part of Confirmation! If you haven’t signed up yet, you can do that on Sunday mornings or just come to the church on Sunday nights, 7th grade 4:30-6:00; 8th Grade 5:006:30; 9th grade times vary depending on the small group. For more information contact Mark or Marsha.

NO 789 SMALL GROUPS ON APRIL 4 FOR EASTER 7TH GRADE CONFIRMATION PARENT MEETING April 11, 4:30 – 6:00pm,Venue 68. If your student is a 7th grader in Confirmation, don’t miss this MANDATORY parent meeting. Don’t forget homework due!

CONFIRMATION SERVICE The Confirmation Service will be April 18 at 6pm.

Students need to meet in the old Breakaway area at 5:40pm.

789 SMALL GROUP PARTIES All 789 Small Groups will have their end of the year parties Sunday, April 25, contact leaders for details.

DIVORCE REBUILDING Thursdays, 7:00-8:30 pm, Rm 1335 - For those ready to rebuild their lives after separation or divorce. 789 – DISCIPLE FORMS DUE Childcare available.

Disciple is an incredible 5 day experience at Camp WOW for all 789 Grade students. June 18-22, regSINGLES POTLUCK FELLOWSHIP istrations due May 2, don’t let your student miss this Sunday,April 25, 12:15 – 1:30 p.m., Parlor. Come, bring awesome opportunity! your children and enjoy a delicious lunch, courtesy of your fellow singles! Just bring a “family-sized” food item, PARENTING SEMINAR: PARENTING STYLES homemade or purchased! Great food, great fellowship, There are four basic styles, which were your parents, new friends … it just doesn’t get much better than that! which are you? And how does it affect your student?

Sunday April 25, 9:15-10:30am or 11-12:15pm RSVP STUDENTS by email mbaker@asburytulsa.org LIFE HURTS GOD HEALS & 789BIBLE STUDY Life is crazy hard and everyone needs a safe place 101112 BREAKAWAY to get real and deal with it! That is exactly what Life Every Wednesday night we come together for a time Hurts God Heals is all about. Every Wednesday night of connection and worship. Our desire is to explore 6-8:15pm in the Venue, 7th-12th grade, welcome any- who God really is and how our lives matter to Him. time contact Marsha for details 392-1157. Or come We get started around 6:30 pm and wrap up around learn about God in 789 Bible Study every Wednesday 8:30ish. Plan on hanging out afterwards for pizza.

6:30-8pm!

101112 GRADE SMALL GROUPS 789GRADE BREAKAWAY Get Connected – Are you looking for a way to get Sunday mornings, 9:15-10:30 am in the Breakaway more connected? Are you looking for a place to grow Area.This isn’t your normal Sunday school. Come join in your walk with Jesus? Then being a part of a small us for worship, fun and games, interactive talk/lesson, group is where you need to be. If you are already in a and sometimes free candy and gift cards. small group, don’t forget to re-sign up for your group.

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the church. Call Todd @ 392-1154 or Amy @ 392-1156 to get more info. Small groups will not meet on April 4.

7TH-12TH GRADE METRO WORSHIP @ VENUE 68 Come join youth from all over the city in a night to just worship Jesus. We meet the first Wednesday night of every month from 7 – 8:30ish.

GRAD CELEBRATION VIDEO PICTURES Please turn in ONE senior picture and ONE baby [picture to Amy in the student ministry office by April 18.

We’d also love to have candid shots of different activities over the years. Be sure your name and address is clearly marked on each picture, we will return them to you.

GRAD CELEBRATION Sunday May 16 meet in the main church foyer at 10:30am wearing your cap and gown, then you’ll head over to both the 11:00 Venue & sanctuary services.

After the 11:00 service, you and your family are invited to lunch in the CLC to celebrate the class of 2010 (RSVP required). You won’t want to miss out on the special grad video, the memories, or the really good food! Please RSVP by April 28 to Amy 392-1156 STATIONS OF THE CROSS Come walk through a hands-on experience of the story of the last hours of Jesus’ life here on earth all the way through His resurrection. Located in Venue 68.

March 31- 6pm-10pm,April 1 – 11am-1pm, 5pm-10pm, April 2 – 11am-1pm, 5pm-10pm.

VOLUNTEER OPPORTUNITIES GET PLUGGED IN! Volunteer opportunities have been updated and can be found at the information desks near the main entrances and Venue68. Updates are also posted on the website. There is a link in the left column on the home page - see http://www.asburytulsa.org.

WOMEN WOMEN OF THE WORD Wednesdays from 10:00-11:00 am in Rm 2319, Rev. Darlene Johnson, teacher.

CRAFTY LADIES FELLOWSHIP Mondays, 9:30 am - 2:00 pm, Rm 2820. Ladies, if you enjoy doing crafts and fellowshipping at the same time, this activity is for you! We gather on Monday mornings to work on our own individual arts and crafts, stop for a delicious pot-luck lunch, and continue on through until 2:00 p.m. We have a wonderful time together, and would love to have you join us! For more information, contact Betty Seetin, and stop by some Monday and check us out!

UMW COOKBOOK SALES The long-awaited cookbooks compiled byAsbury’s United Methodist Women have arrived, and they are AWESOME! Stop by the main office during business hours (Monday-Thursday, 8:00 a.m. – 5:00 p.m./Friday, 8:00 a.m. – noon) and purchase one from our receptionist.

They’re just $20 each, and they’ll make GREAT gifts for Mother’s Day, birthdays, weddings … you name it! AND, a bonus … WONDERFUL pictures portraying ministries & service at Asbury in every section. Don’t wait!

HOME IMPROVEMENT WORK DAYS Saturday, April 17. The Home Improvement Ministry serves widows and single moms within the Asbury family. Our men’s ministry volunteers make themselves available every other month to help folks out with minor home repairs and/or home improvement projects. If you’d like to help, contact Michiel at michiel0930@sbcglobal.net. If you are in need of help, just pick up a request form at the south welcome desk, or call your request in to Pam Wallace (392-1199, ext.

253), at least ten days before the scheduled work day.

A Home Improvement volunteer will contact you, and make final arrangements to get the job(s) done!

CAR CARE WORKDAY Saturday, May 8, 9:00 am – 12:00 noon, Outside Breakaway entrance, northeast side. Car Care Saturday is an every-other-month workday provided for Asbury’s widows and single moms, through our men’s ministry. While the ladies wait in the comfort of the café, volunteers check tires, belts, fluids, filters and batteries. They also vacuum and wash the vehicles, and then update owners on what’s running smoothly and what needs professional attention.

This free service gives our men the opportunity to put their faith in to action through loving and serving those in need. If you would like to volunteer to help, contact Mike at mnalley16@cox.net. If you are in need of these services, just get your vehicle in line by 11:30! No reservations necessary!

UMW COLLEGE SCHOLARSHIP FOR YOUNG WOMEN Applications for the United Methodist Women’s Scholarship are available in the main church office. This $1,500 scholarship is to be given to an Asbury senior high school young woman. To be eligible, the applicant must have a relative who is currently a member of Asbury’s UMW, with the exception of the Priscilla Circle.

She must be an entering freshman at an accredited university for the school year of 2010-2011. The deadline for completed applications is noon on Thursday, April 8. The church office hours of business are Monday through Thursday, 8:00 – 5:00, and Fridays, 8:00 – 12:00.

UMW APRIL SALUTE PROGRAM & LUNCHEON Thursday, April 1, 11:30 am – 1:00 pm, in the CLC. All United Methodist Women are invited to a very special luncheon! This time has been set aside to honor and celebrate the service our most mature and faithful volunteers for their many years of service through the UMW organization. This special program is entitled, “There Is a Season,” and will be presented by Pastor Darlene Johnson.

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A delicious luncheon prepared by our church hostess, WORSHIP Virginia, will also be provided.

8:00 am Communion Service Mason Chapel. Traditional service with music led by The scripture emphasis for this month comes from Hart Morris. Communion is served and Dr. Harrison Proverbs 31:8: “Speak up for those who cannot speak preaches. for themselves, for the rights of all who are destitute.” 9:15 am Contemporary Praise & Worship Sanctuary. Contemporary music led by Mark Bennett COMMON GROUNDS: ENCOURAGEMENT and team, time of prayer and the message will all car& INSPIRATION FOR WOMEN ry a prevailing theme for the morning. Dr. Harrison Thursday, April 1, 6:30 pm in the Family Room & Café. preaches.

Women of all ages are invited to join us for this first Thursday of the month gathering, designed to inspire 9:15 am Open House Worship friendship, fun and faith. April’s program is entitled, “A Community Life Center. A relaxed atmosphere with Women’s Prerogative – Re-setting Our Priorities”, led engaging worship led by Dub Ambrose and team. Dr. Tom Harrison’s message is simulcast with an occasionby one of our favorite Bible teachers, Nancy Baxter. al live sermon from another pastor.

Whether you are new to the church, visiting, or a 11:00 am Traditional Service life-time member, this is a perfect opportunity to join Sanctuary. The Chancel Choir, the New Covenant Orother women in discovering our Common Ground. chestra and various vocal and instrumental ensembles Childcare for children six weeks through sixth grade offer a variety of styles of music led by Hart Morris. is provided. We hope to see you and your friends Dr. Tom Harrison preaches. there!

11:00 am Modern Service Venue 68. Rich blend of ancient and modern worship, WHIRLWIND GAME DAY led by Chris Cleveland and team. Sign interpreters Come one, come all and be a part of our annual Whirl- for the deaf are offered. Dr. Tom Harrison’s message wind Game Day! Hosted by Asbury’s United Meth- is simulcast. odist Women, this awesome, fun-packed fundraiser benefits the Circle of Care Ministries, Child S.H.A.R.E 6:30 pm Modern Service program. If you like to play games, then bring those Venue68. Rich blend of ancient and modern worship, and your friends on up to the church on Friday, April led by the Ben Kilgore and team. Rev. Spencer Smith 16 from 10:00 a.m. – 3:00 p.m. Tickets may be pur- preaches. chased from the church office through Monday, April GOOD FRIDAY SERVICE 12 and even includes a delicious lunch! Don’t miss out Good Friday Service of Darkness, April 2 at 7 PM in on the fun! the Sanctuary. Dr. Tom Harrison, Hart Morris, the Chancel Choir and the New Covenant Orchestra will ANNUAL WOMEN’S RETREAT lead the congregation in a service of remembrance Friday, April 30 & Saturday, May 1 at Camp Egan, near on Good Friday. Hymns, anthems and scripture will Tahlequah, OK. Early Bird by Sunday, April 18, $60- depict the events of that long ago day. Join us for this $70, April 19 & later $70-$80. WARNING: Follow- hour-long service which marks the end of our Lenten ing a few simple actions could result in unexpected season and prepares our hearts for our celebration of strength! Christ’s grace teaches unique ways in which Easter Sunday. Nursery will be provided for children we learn discipline … disciplines that shape the basic four and under. foundation of our faith … disciplines that teach us to stop or eliminate damaging actions and focus on build- EASTER SUNDAY ing strong habits of worship.

8:00 and 11:00 services in the sanctuary with Dr. Tom Harrison, Hart Morris, the Chancel Choir, the New Take the time to interrupt your schedule and join Covenant Orchestra and Perpetual Light. some of Asbury’s gifted ladies as they teach ways to reclaim the basics of everyday living as a Christian 9:15 Sanctuary will be led Rev. Dick Read, Dr. Harrison woman in today’s world. “Back to the Basics” will of- and Mark Bennett with the worship team and featurfer a glimpse into some of the obvious and obscure ing the Chancel Choir. ways we can use spiritual discipline to build healthy 9:15 Open House Worship in the CLC will be led by lives in line with God’s word. Along with an insightful Rev. Dub Ambrose and the worship team. spiritual core, be sure to join us for extended down The Venue will host the 11:00 modern worship time, fun with friends and a few surprises! service led by Rev. Spencer Smith, Rev. Todd Craig, Chris Cleveland and the worship team.

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asbury births & deaths

asbury

anniversaries!

50 Years

births:

Chaney May Peevy, daughter of Russ & Heather Peevy, was born October 22, 2009.

Makayla Grace Johnson, daughter of Will & Katy Johnson, was born February, 1, 2010.

Abigail Grace Peterson, daughter of Todd & Laurajane Peterson, was born February 5, 2010.

Josie Olivia Henderson, daughter of Joe and Laurie Isenberg, was born Chuck & Ginny Scott February 9, 2010.

April 3rd Jaxon Crist Isenberg, son of Bradley & Laurie Isenberg, was born February 10, 2010.

Lily Paige Cambern, daughter of Travis & Erin Cambern, was born February 18, 2010.

deaths:

Clem Lane, died February 2, 2010.

Charles Goloby, husband of Hope, died February 7, 2010.

Roger Petty, father of Esther Petty, died February 15, 2010.

Ellen Tandy, mother of Doris McRight, died February 20, 2010.

Sarah Poster, mother of Carolyn (Bill) Eddy, died February 21, 2010.

Ray & Barbara Boone April 3rd

25 Years

Kent & Diane Taylor March 9 Page 32

asbury

new members

Mary Jane Bittick

Darren & Cheryl Doyle with Hope, Eleanor, and Matthew

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Mike & Gina Brantley with Emily and Olivia

Greg & Penny Johnson with Parker and Nicole

Larry & Kristi Cohea with Austin and Braden Reid

Lew McGowan

Bob Richardson

Brett & Amanda Rutherford

Barbara Walla

James & Maurna Snell with Daven and Corban

Craig & Jessica Wilbourn with Jackson

asbury exploration classes

if you are interested in learning more about who we are, plan to attend one of the Exploration classes designed to tell you more about Asbury and what we believe.

Upcoming 2010 Exploration classes will be held on – April 11, May 2 and June 6, August 8, September 12, October 3, November 7 and December 5.

Please call 392-1191 to reserve your place.

Childcare is available and lunch is provided

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