Asbury Tidings - Guatemala or Bust

Asbury

TIDINGS june 2011

a l a m e Guat t s u B r o

DO YOU WANT TO BE WELL?

- JESUS WANTS TO KNOW

ZIP-A-DEE-DOO-DAH

- A HILARIOUS ADVENTURE PAST FEAR

WHY ARE WE AFRAID? MARRIAGE MINISTRY JUNKIES

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Asbury

TIDINGS June 2011

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all have questions in life. In fact, asking good questions is an indication of high intelligence. Earlier this year we looked at five places where various people in the Bible asked Jesus questions. In the month of June (and once in July), we reverse this. We will be looking at five questions Jesus asked people. They are:

competition, etc.). Jesus thought the greatest person was the one who served.And since He was the teacher and Lord, His followers are under His mandate to do the same.

June 5 “Do you want to be Well?” (Healing) John 5:1-6 Obviously, some of us DON’T REALLY want to be well - we find more comfort in our discomfort than in finding resolution. Jesus implied to the man with a life-long infirmity that he had to be willing to make a change in his life.Sometimes we’d prefer the same old routine rather than risk breaking out of it to find new life. People who are caught in addictive behavior fit this narrative.“Do you really want to be well?”

June 26 “Why are you so Afraid?”

(Faith vs. Worry/Fear) Matthew 8:23-29 There are many things to be afraid of in life. In fact, sometimes fear is a normal reaction to a stressful situation. Yet, Jesus was able to transcend fear. He somehow saw a bigger picture. Faith is not believing in things you know aren’t true; but is validated by the life, death,and resurrection of Jesus Christ. Shifting from fear, worry, and anxiety to faith is a most beneficial transition.

July 3 “Is it Right to pay taxes?”

(Patriotism) Matthew 22:15-22 On the Fourth of July weekend, what should the response of people of faith be to the claims of the government? Was Jesus (or the Early Church) June 12 “Who do You say that I am?” advocating revolution? Many Jewish groups (i.e. “the (Jesus’ identity) Matthew 16:13-15 Zealots” for one) were willing to die in their attempts Who is Jesus? That’s a question Jesus asked His disciples, to eliminate the hated Romans from Israel. How which is very important for us to answer, too. It’s been said should Christians living in America today respond to about Jesus: “Either he was a liar, a legend, a lunatic, or the our government? truth.” Who is Jesus Christ? What were the thoughts of the disciples then and what are the thoughts of people today?

We’ll spend five weeks talking about these questions raised by Jesus. I think it should be most interesting!

June 19“Who is Greater?” (Service) Luke 22:27-28 As was shown when Jesus washed the feet of His disciples, See you Sunday, when we know who we are we can stoop to minister to others. When we are unclear as to our own identity, then we resort to other tactics (bragging, insulting, materialism, Dr. Tom Harrison, Sr. Pastor

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What’s Happening No Other Name Do You Want to Be Well?

Grandpa John What is an Emotionally Healthy Church?

Marriage Ministry Junkies

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Guatemala or Bust 18. Zip-id-de-do-da 20.

Why Are We Afraid?

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Brick By Brick 24. Opportunities

Asbury Tidings is a monthly publication designed to tell stories of lives being transformed by the power of Jesus Christ. You may read back issues by visiting www.asburytulsa.org Page 2

Managing Editor Tara Lynn Thompson tara@taralynnthompson.com Graphic Designer Jonathan Van Risseghem vanriss.com Photographer Don Kreutzweiser donsimages.com Guest Editor Christy Phillippe

Guest Contributors Marilyn Ford, Adrena Mahu, John C. Westervelt, Brad Tuggle, Kevin and Sharon Hedgecock, Thomas Briggs, Marty Morris, Stephanie Hurd, Rod Giles

by Dwight Yoder, Executive Director

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month we introduced a series of articles on the governance leadership of our church.

I talked about the governance structure of the United Methodist Church for levels outside of the local church. Mike Chaffin, our district superintendent, was featured in the first article. Over the next several months there will be articles covering those individuals who hold key governance leadership positions within Asbury. To provide context for those articles, I will explain how Asbury is governed.

A common assumption is that Tom Harrison, our senior pastor, makes all of the important decisions.

That is not the case. It is not the model under which local UM churches are to operate. It is also not the way that Tom leads. He believes that there is wisdom in counsel. He also knows that for a church to be strong there must be capable lay leadership. Tom invests significant time and energy in the recruitment, development, and support of Asbury’s leaders.

Yes, Tom sets the overall vision and direction for the church. Even in that, however, he seeks input. Regarding the operation of the church and the execution of ministries, he relies heavily on guidance and approval of the governing committees together with senior staff members and the pastoral team. The members of the committees are non-staff members of Asbury. That results in three groups influencing how Asbury operates: Tom and the pastoral team, laity as represented in the committees, and management Asbury is a large church with many ministries and activities. About 1,500 volunteers serve over the course of a year. This requires a significant staff and budget. We also have a complex environment. For all of this to be effective, the operations of the church must be managed well. Decisions must be carefully considered. The leaders and groups discussed below play an important role in all of this, working with Tom, me, and the senior team.

The leaders in five key positions will be featured in the upcoming articles. This month, Russ McBroom, chair of our board of trustees, is interviewed. The trustees are responsible for everything associated with our facilities and transportation. This includes maintenance, expansion, policies, insurance, and liability. Joe Spence, our operations manager, works closely with Russ and the trustees.

Tim Carney is the chair of our administrative council, usually called the ad council. This group can be viewed as our board of directors. They have ultimate approval on all major decisions, e.g., our annual budget.

The ad council is the group that officially represents Asbury to the Oklahoma Conference. (You may have seen announcements when the ad council is going to be convened as Asbury’s “charge conference” when it needs to provide a vote used outside of Asbury.) Tom meets regularly with the ad council.

Janet Day chairs our Staff Parish Relations Committee (SPRC). This group represents a connection between the congregation and the staff. They work closely with me on personnel issues, policies, and staff compensation, including benefits. Asbury has a large staff along with a large and very engaged membership. Mix in the unique characteristics of a church and there will occasionally be complicated issues to work through. I personally appreciate the contribution of this committee.

Bob Craine chairs our finance committee. This group is concerned with everything related to the finances of the church. One of our highest priorities as an organization is our handling of everything associated with finances. The committee works closely with me and Dean Hatch, our CFO, to ensure accountability and processes that meet the highest standards. Annually, the committee authorizes a thorough, independent audit of our entire financial operations.

There is another leadership position that does not chair a committee. It is the position of lay leader. Currently this is Bill and Claudia Abernathy. The lay leaders serve as an independent representative of the congregation to Tom, as well as being a sounding board and source of counsel. They meet with him on a monthly basis. Also, they attend many of the meetings of the committees noted above. Thus, they have a comprehensive view of Asbury.

I’m sure that you will enjoy learning more about these key leaders, both personally and their perspectives on our church. My hope is that you will also have an increased confidence in how Asbury is governed.

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by Marilyn Ford

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n early memory takes me back to an intermediate swimming class in the basement pool of the old YWCA building in downtown Tulsa. Bobbing up and down next to a classmate, I asked her name.

“You can just call me ‘Hey, you!’” she said. Even after I insisted several times that I’d really like to know her name, she refused to disclose it. So for the rest of our session she had no name but “Hey, you!” and I began to understand that having a name was important.

After all, how would anyone’s father react to being called “Hey, you!” instead of Daddy or Dad or Papa?

just the right one. Heaven forbid that one be chosen that is out of fashion or has a hidden meaning that could label a child with a negative characteristic. There is even concern over how the first, middle, and last names will sound together.

Most parents take great pleasure in selecting just the right name for their offspring, sometimes spending hours scouring books of baby names trying to select

Nor is God just God. So much can be learned about the One who first loved us and whom we glorify by looking at His names. Here are just a few:

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Names can be very significant to heritage as one might have noticed at the recent wedding of Prince William and Miss Catherine Middleton. It wasn’t just “I,William..” but “I, William Arthur Philip Louis. . .” And then there is the surname that British royals don’t use. MountbattenWindsor. So you see, he isn’t just Prince William.

Elohim

- This name refers to God’s power and might. There is NOTHING that is too great that He cannot do it.

Jehovah-Jirah

- The Lord will provide. Whether it’s manna in the desert, resources to pay one’s bills, or strength to deal with the loss of a loved one, God provides ALL we need.

His storehouses are overflowing, and He lavishes His blessings on us every day.

Adonai

- Lord. This is a reference to God’s Lordship. There is nothing over which He is not sovereign. He invites us to give ourselves as His servants and to recognize His right to command us as Lord of our lives.

Jehovah-Rapha

- The Lord our Healer. The Great Physician is intimately aware of the hurts of our hearts, spirits, and bodies. He doesn’t just treat the wounds but He heals them.

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Jehovah-Nissi

- The Lord our Banner. He goes before us in victory. God is never surprised. He knows what’s going to happen before we do. He has a plan. It’s up to us to trust Him.

Jehovah-Shalom

- The Lord is Peace. Philippians 4:6–7 tells us:“Do not be anxious about anything, but in everything, by prayer and petition, with thanksgiving, present your requests to God. And the peace of God, which transcends all understanding, will guard your hearts and your minds in Christ Jesus.”

El-Shaddai

- God Almighty or the God of Mountains. Too often we limit God. We wring our hands thinking circumstances can’t be changed.

But He is capable of miracles every day. He is the One who put mountains in their place, and He can move them.

El-Olam

- The everlasting God. He is unchangeable. And hear this—He is inexhaustible! God doesn’t slow down. He doesn’t sleep. He will ALWAYS be there for us.

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Jehovah-Rohi

- The Lord my Shepherd. Who hasn’t been lost at one time or another? Out of darkness and confusion God provides guidance along a safe path. He will search for us when we stray and bring us back to the fold.

El-Roi

- The Strong One who sees. Nothing is out of God’s sight. One reference also says this name means “One who opens our eyes.” He gives sight to those who cannot see no matter what kind of blindness inflicts us.

Jehovah - Sabbaoth

- The Lord of Hosts. He is the commander of the angelic hosts and the armies of God.

Jehovah - Hoseenu

- The Lord our Maker. HE MADE US! How incredible it is to ponder God putting together the human body. With all of its trillions of cells of too many kinds to count, it is amazing to see how they all work together.

The list of the names of God is quite extensive, revealing His strength and power, His love and care. Knowing His names and using them in worship helps us recognize the awesome God we serve and seek to glorify. By daily exploring and studying the Bible—God’s Word—we learn that He is also our Abba (Father), the Bread of Life, Creator, and Deliverer. The God known in the Old Testament as the Holy One of Israel is the same today. Get to know Him. Soli Deo Gloria “To God alone be the glory”

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DO YOU WANT TO BE WELL

by Adrena Mahu

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he man had been coming to the pool for 38 years. Every year, for nearly four decades, the invalid man in John 5:6 had been lying next to the pool unable to get in.

He needed help. He needed someone to get him in that water when it began to stir.

When he approached Jesus with his plight, Jesus asked one question, “Do you want to be healed?” And he replied, “When I am trying to get in, someone else goes down ahead of me.”

I’ve always found it interesting this was the question Jesus asked. Did the man really want to be healed? Jesus wanted to know.

Several years ago my mother-in-law was sent to me for rehabilitation. I was the nurse in the family. And since she had lost both of her legs due to uncontrolled diabetes, the result had left her almost a vegetable. She could do nothing for herself. She was depressed, uninterested in bettering her quality of life. Did she really want to be healed?

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When she came to me, with even the smallest things such a struggle for her, I really wasn’t at all sure if she wanted to live. After six months of rehab in our home, however, she left a whole person.

She was using her prosthetics, feeding herself, giving herself insulin, bathing herself, and even fixing her own breakfast. She wasn’t only getting well; she was rediscovering her life. She was proud of herself again and she went on to live a number of years after that.

So what made the difference in her outlook?

My mother-in-law, perhaps like the invalid, needed help to become well. Although Jesus did not touch her directly, as He did the man at the pool, through others He brought her back to wholeness.

While on earth, Jesus healed many from all sorts of diseases.

Were there others who didn’t want to be healed? We all have probably met someone who didn’t act as if they wanted to be healed. Many of these refuse to do what would bring healing.

It is as if they have an additional illness—a desire to stay sick.

Do they pray for healing or refuse prayer?

Maybe they have given up on God. For their loved ones, it is perplexing. This, perhaps, is why Jesus asked the question.

What happens to us when we become ill in body, soul, and/or spirit? Should we be asking ourselves, “Do I want to be healed?” Or do we fear that if we asked for healing, Jesus

would not answer our prayer? Do we just want direct healing (which is wonderful when it happens) and if not then no healing at all?

Only we can truly answer the question.

Often we may ask for healing but it does not come right away. Do we persevere just as the woman with the “issue of blood for twelve years”? (Mark 5:25). Or do we give up and just give in to the illness?

I think Jesus asked that question because He really wants us to look inside. He wants to see if we want what He has to offer, in any way He offers it, and in the time He chooses to offer it.

For the man at the pool, Jesus healed the man, I believe, out of compassion. What if the man at the pool had said, “No”?

Would Jesus have walked on?

Even as I write this, I myself am struggling with a certain situation and am asking God for healing.When I was asked to write this article, I had to honestly search my heart to see if I wanted to be healed.

Yes, I found I do.

God has shown me so much through this struggle. My view of life and people has literally changed. I’m more empathetic now, more compassionate, even less judgmental than in years previous. Even though I don’t want this struggle, I am persevering in prayer. I hope I don’t have to wait 12 years. But I do want to be healed.

So where does this leave us?

Have we searched our hearts to see if we truly want to be healed?

Are we open to what God might be teaching us through our struggle for health—body, soul, and spirit?

Do we need to persevere and wait for God’s timing?

Do we believe that God is in the healing business today?

And ultimately, do we believe our illnesses will all be healed in heaven?

This last question, however, needs to be accompanied by another even more important one… Do I want to receive the saving grace of Jesus Christ?

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I WAS ONCE A PREACHER

by John C. Westervelt n May of 1950, I graduated from Oklahoma University with a degree in electrical engineering.With four years of Naval ROTC, I was commissioned as an ensign in the U.S. Navy immediately following my graduation exercises. In early June, I left on a Santa Fe train to report to a naval electronic school at Treasure Island below the Bay Bridge between San Francisco and Oakland. Classes had barely begun when the Korean War broke out.

It didn’t matter that Chaplain Riley was a Catholic priest. His big Irish smile won me over, and we became fast friends.

With school complete three months later, I reported aboard the USS Henry W. Tucker DDR 875, a destroyer, in San Diego. I was a 22-year-old ensign with a dozen young electronic technicians reporting to me.

Together, we kept the ship’s radios and radars working.

On the three Sundays, when the chaplain was on one of the other destroyers, the sailors missed not having a church service. So Paul and I decided we could conduct a service, even though we had no formal training.

My ship arrived in Tokyo Bay just before Christmas 1950. After antisubmarine training off the coast of Japan, we joined the Fast Carrier Task Force 77 in the waters bordering Korea. The navy pilots were flying missions to support our troops, who were being driven back across North Korea by an avalanche of Chinese soldiers.

Paul David Olson graduated from the Naval Academy in May of 1951. In June, with the Tucker in port in Japan, he reported for duty and was assigned as my roommate.

We were to become lifelong friends. One of the things we shared was our belief in the Lord Jesus Christ.

Four destroyers made up a division. Our division, with several other destroyer divisions, escorted the aircraft carriers. A chaplain was assigned to each destroyer division. Once a month the chaplain would ride a bucket seat across a rope strung between ships to hold church services on our ship.

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Paul Olson and I and about 25 sailors were regular attendees at church held in the mess hall. One sailor played a small pump organ during the singing of hymns before the chaplain preached his sermon.

With the approval of the chaplain and the ship’s captain, we began. With no district superintendent monitoring our theology, I would preach one Sunday and Paul would preach the next. The sermons I preached were the lessons I had learned in Methodist Youth Fellowship at Wesley church in Oklahoma City under the tutelage of Grace Garten, youth director, and Nuell Crain, pastor. The sailors, who were younger than I, didn’t mind my preaching, for they were grateful to have a church service to attend.

So let me direct your attention to the title of my story.Well, maybe I wasn’t a real preacher, but now you understand.

Other stories at www.jwestervelt.com

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WHAT IS AN

“EMOTIONALLY HEALTHY CHURCH”?

by Brad Tuggle Managing Director of Ministries

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ach month, as the Asbury staff gathers for our regular meeting, many of us set aside an hour or so for “Book Club.” Tom selects a book on church life, leadership, or another relevant topic and we spend a few months reading and discussing it one chapter at a time.

For the last few months we’ve been reading Peter Scazzero’s book The Emotionally Healthy Church. It’s hard not to agree that one of the most important places to stay emotionally healthy is the Church—but what exactly does that mean? How can we move toward emotional health as a church body?

In our reading, we’ve discovered at least five things that are critical:

1. You can’t care for other people unless you care for yourself.

People of strong faith are usually some of the most giving folks, but the strong tendency is to neglect our own well-being in favor of others. Unfortunately, this is not the definition of selflessness. As someone has said, “Self-care is not selfish—it is good stewardship of the only gift I have.”

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window of only three years, He of all people would have felt a sense of urgency to sprint from sermon to sermon, healing to healing. But here was His self-care regimen: While it was still night, way before dawn, he got up and went out to a secluded spot and prayed (Mark 1:35).

After sending them off, he climbed a mountain to pray (Mark 6:46).

But Jesus often withdrew to the wilderness for prayer (Luke 5:16).

One day soon afterward Jesus went to a mountain to pray, and he prayed to God all night (Luke 6:12).

Jesus “left the crowds to pray alone” (Luke 9:18).

Emotionally healthy churches don’t try to minister from a dry well.

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Boundaries are our friends.

The Church has often been characterized as a hospital: a place for hurting people who have been wounded by others, by our own sin, and by our common enemy. In John’s Gospel, Jesus talks of the coming Holy Spirit as a “paraclete,” or one who comes alongside. As Jesus’ literal body on earth, we are charged to do the same.

But how do we do this without creating codependency?

Some ministry is triage; the application of immediate aid to staunch the bleeding and get someone stabilized. But ministry also involves equipping others with the spiritual

tools necessary to build wisdom and discernment, and so prevent a relapse into trauma.An emotionally healthy church prayerfully discerns the kind of aid required in any given situation and applies it lovingly and generously, with mature boundaries.

This can only happen if…

3. We practice root-cause analysis.

Emotionally healthy churches take care not to treat the symptoms of a problem, but its source. If a particularly pesky weed is flourishing on your front lawn, the solution is not to set the lawnmower to a lower setting so the problem is less obvious. It is to get on our knees and address the root cause of the issue (pun intended).

Once again, our model is Jesus. In His encounter with the woman at the well, Jesus knew that she had been patch-working her emotional and self-esteem issues with a series of different husbands and/or boyfriends.

He helped her see she was drinking sand, not “living water.” When the Pharisees wanted to argue with Jesus over the fine points of keeping the law, Jesus correctly diagnosed their problem as one of a heart unsubmitted to God, not of keeping your nose clean.

Emotionally healthy churches always look past the surface. And to do this well, emotionally healthy churches also…

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Avoid conflict-avoidance.

Paul desperately wanted the church at Corinth to get along: for them to stop suing each other, to stop using their spiritual gifts to create a pecking order, and above all, to love each other. But he also knew he needed to confront a particular man’s immoral behavior not just for his sake, but for the sake of the health of the whole church (who was watching).

He instructs us to “speak the truth in love”—to tell people not just what they want to hear, but what they need to hear, and to do it with overwhelming grace and patience.

And finally…

5. Emotionally healthy churches lead as servants.

The book we’ve been reading discusses a “Theology of Weakness”—a philosophy that leadership is not about always being the strong one, but allowing God’s strength to be our platform through our weakness.

If a church is indeed a hospital, then we must first admit that it is we who are in need of a doctor. Then, as Paul will say in his second letter to the Corinthian church, “we can comfort those in any trouble with the comfort we ourselves have received from God” (2 Corinthians 1:4).

Our prayer is that Asbury reflects these traits of an emotionally healthy church, to honor Christ as we minister in His name.

It’s often very hard for a church to address issues head-on, from doctrinal disagreements to personality differences. We just want everyone to get along. But we cannot sweep problems under the rug; we can’t just “decide not to decide.”

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Marriage Ministry Junkies

By Kevin and Sharon Hedgecock

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e’re addicted. It started before we were married. My husband, Kevin, and I got hooked…on the Asbury marriage ministry.

We can’t help helping our marriage and our home. And it all started before we even said “I do.”

While engaged,Kevin and I attended Couple2Couple, a premarital ministry course. It’s required for people marrying at Asbury. More than that, however, it was simply amazing. We did personality profiles, discussed marital topics (many we hadn’t even thought about), and saw an incredible example of a healthy marriage through our mentor couple.

That was our first taste of the marriage ministry.

We learned about each other. We grew together. And we wanted more.

After we were married, Kevin and I decided to attend a marriage weekend retreat (C-PREP and Intimate Life Weekend), as well as take communication courses.We wanted our marriage to start off on the right foot.

Through the courses, I learned about Kevin and he learned about me.

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What’s so wonderful about Asbury is that it offers help for all phases of your life. When our daughter, Jacquelyn, came along, we took our passion for marriage courses and directed it toward parenting classes, like the Kevin Lehman video series Making Children Mind, without Losing Yours and Value-Packed Parenting. We also enjoyed the video series Shepherding a Child’s Heart, which taught us a valuable lesson with the picture of a circle that deals with discipline. We use it every day.

The circle teaches Jacquelyn that God requires parents to teach their children about His expectations for us to live with His commandments.That’s life inside the circle. When a child falls “outside of the circle” by disobeying, parents must return the child back inside the circle by correction.

When Jacquelyn was very young, we drew this on paper. Now we can simply talk about it. The picture has been a wonderful parenting tool.

As life has changed, the courses at Asbury have been there to guide us and help strengthen our Christian home. When job transitions came, we attended financial courses at Asbury, like Financial Peace University and Crown Ministry. Although we’re not experts, we learned how to budget, how to prioritize,

how to learn the difference between a “need” and a “want,” how to reduce our debt, tithe, and save for emergencies.

for our daughter while we are in the classes. If childcare had not been available, I don’t know if we would have attended as many courses. This is a blessed ministry!

Through it all, we are still focused on keeping our marriage strong and our home Christ-centered for Jacquelyn as she matures. That meant when a comical speaker came to Venue68 to teach on men and women, we were there. We learned how our needs are different, how to recognize them, how to meet them, and, in turn, how to strengthen our marriage.

In Venue68 we also attended the playing of the movie “Fireproof” showing how commitment, selflessness, and communication are a must in a marriage.

We also want to thank Virginia for feeding us a wonderful dinner each Wednesday night. We meet there from our various locations that day (work, home, school) and have a great time fellowshipping with fellow Asburians. You can’t beat the convenience and/or the price.

Our most recent courses include Dynamic Marriage, Extreme Marriage, and God Blessed Marriage. The first and last will push you to discuss in-depth, heartwrenching topics necessary for all couples to discuss.

These courses caused Kevin and me to do intense soul-searching and honestly share with each other our answers.

They were tough. And we loved them! We recommend them for all marriages.

As AUMC members, we are blessed to have such strong adult educational offerings, along with childcare

Kevin and I also enjoy ministering together at Asbury.

I have been active in the global outreach ministries for some time, participating in medical missions.

Kevin went to Mexico with me one fall, and he always supports me when I am in Tanzania. We were asked to teach dancing to the seniors one year, which we graciously did. And what fun! We’ve received a great blessing from the classes.

Through the marriage, parenting, and financial courses at Asbury, we’ve been able to continually grow and feed our marriage. It helps us address any weaknesses or any problems before they can cause foundational damage. It’s partially due to these classes that we have such a strong marriage and can serve our church as a couple.

Now…I wonder what course is next?

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Guatemala or Bust - Following the words of Jesus and Mother Teresa to “just come,” two brothers enter the mission field.

by Thomas Briggs

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you’d have told me a year ago I’d be living in Guatemala for half a summer, I would have laughed. But today, it’s completely true. And the journey from there to here has been incredible.

In January 2010, I learned I hadn’t been accepted as a leader on the high school Spring Break mission trip to Mexico. Since I was thirteen years old, I’ve been going on this Asbury Spring Break mission trips. So to hear I wasn’t going was disheartening.

Eventually, I passed it off and moved on. God didn’t want me to be a missionary. Fine. That was more than okay with me.Then. But it wouldn’t be long before God got a good grip on me and changed me forever.

For my entire life I’ve denied being a “lukewarm” Christian. That, however, was exactly what I was. I was the kind that God said He would spit out of his mouth.

Yep. That was me. And I showed no signs of changing as I lived out a normal college life.

In March 2010, I ran into a lifelong friend, David Read.

I hadn’t seen him in at least a year. His first words to me were, “Hey! Do you want to come to Central Asia with me this summer?”

I responded with, “Central Asia?”

To make a long story short, God moved in some incredible ways to put me on a plane and on a trip that would change my life for good.

While in Central Asia, I had the privilege of living with and observing the lives of some of the strongest Christian men and women, all members of my team.

Until then, “Christian” was someone I did not want to be. But there was something different about these Christians. They were actually examples of Christ living through His sons and daughters. They had something special. A peace. A joy. A…I don’t know. It was simply something I couldn’t describe.

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After we returned, the seeds planted during that trip started to grow and have refused to stop. I had finally seen the difference between people who walk the narrow road and those who choose the broad one.

Those on the narrow road reach beyond their cultural Christian lifestyle and start pursuing a relationship with Christ. And I was finally one of them.

To this day, I know for a fact that I am saved by grace and will spend an eternity with my Father in heaven. My life goal has now been altered. Now I desire to take as many people as I can with me.

That’s where Guatemala comes in.

In January 2011, I didn’t make the cut for the Spring Break missions trip again. When I shared my disappointment with my dad, he gave me the idea of pursuing an internship with Nathan Hardeman. So I did. I e-mailed Nathan and gave it a shot. I shared my testimony and my desire to explore the mission field.

Nathan Hardeman and his wife, Claudia, are determined to fix the problems of death and violence of Guatemala City at its source.The boys of the city are heavily involved in gang life, drugs, and much more.Their vision is to provide a home, an education, and a future for these boys so they can reverse the status quo.Their hope is to someday raise mighty men of God who will impact the city in a way never before seen. Although they are still years away, with much fund-raising left to do, they are well on their way to achieving their goals.

What my brother and I will be doing in Guatemala this summer is hosting, for a week at a time, groups similar to Asbury’s high school mission trip. Since Nathan cannot be in three places at once, my brother Scott and I will be able to help oversee the construction work and make sure everything is done on schedule.

After much prayer and parental advice, I committed to six weeks.

One of my role models, Shane Claiborne, gave me some of the best advice in his book, The Irresistible Revolution, when contemplating this kind of commitment.

When he talked to Mother Teresa about coming to serve in Calcutta for a summer, the only advice she gave him was “just come.”

Those words are so simple, yet so profound. How could he “just come” without having everything planned out? She responded to all his doubts with Jesus’ message from the Sermon on the Mount: “God takes care of the birds and the lilies and He will take care of you, too.”

So just come.

If Shane Claiborne could do it in India, why couldn’t I do it in Guatemala? I was ready.

I’m not sure of the details. I’m still not even sure about all the things we will be doing once we get there.

But the important thing is we’re going. Although we still have a big financial need for the trip, I know God will get us there somehow.

My Oklahoma State University friends ask me why I’m giving up my summer to be in Guatemala. It seems crazy, I know. I’m still not even sure what God has planned for me there. All I know is that God has been faithful to me in the past and He will continue to be faithful to me in the future.

So I’m just going.

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Why are we afraid?

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o you remember the first time you felt fear? I do.

Actually, I cannot remember not being afraid of something—from creepy crawlies to shadows in the night to monsters under my bed to losing my parents.

Throughout the Bible we read scripture urging us not to fear. “Jesus takes our fears seriously. The one statement He made more than any other was this; don’t be afraid” (p. 11).

You name it, I was afraid of it.

I worried and many times was paralyzed by my fear.

Marty Morris

Max gets right to the point: “Fear corrodes our confidence in God’s goodness…and turns us into control freaks” (p. 9) Have you ever watched your child or grandchild trying to accomplish a new task? “I can do it all by myself!” are words that ring out at our home.

Sometimes they work diligently to accomplish the new task but find they are not quite up to it and ask for help. Other times they try unsuccessfully and rage at not being able to do it, forgetting that I am there available to help.

I finally outgrew some of those fears, but others still remain. As a Christian I know that I should not be afraid, God is my Father and He is in control of everything. But, just like my grandchildren who want me to go upstairs with them, I want the tangible presence of my heavenly Father to protect me when I have to go upstairs in the darkness of life.

Sometimes I look at others and think they seem completely unbothered by fear of any kind. I compare myself to “super Christians” or spiritual mentors and think I come up short. Yet I wonder if everyone doesn’t entertain some sort of life fear.

We fear failure; we fear success. We fear disappointing people and God.We fear we won’t have enough.We fear that God might not be real or that He doesn’t fit into the box we have set up for Him. We fear death; we fear life…and the list goes on.

Many times I watch my grandchildren and think I am just like them with God. He is available to calm my fears, to help, to walk with me, and yet I rage at the situation or run for cover forgetting that He is in control and available to take me on His lap and comfort me just as I do my grandchildren.

Recently, my husband, Hart, and I taught a Bible study featuring one of Max Lucado’s more recent books, Fearless: Imagine Your Life without Fear. It was a great book to study and teach—it practically taught itself. Max’s way of writing is entertaining and at the same time profound.The book seemed to resonate with all who attended the study. Each week, as we met to discuss a chapter, there was no room for silence; literally everyone would leap into the conversation about life fears and how they dealt with them.

What we found over and over as we studied this great book were scriptures that answered every fear we encounter. “So don’t be afraid.You are worth much more than many sparrows” (Matthew 10:31).

On the last day of the study, I asked everyone to come prepared to tell what chapter was most helpful or challenged them or spoke to them. Hart and I were both amazed at the openness and honesty of our members, at their insights and willingness to share their biggest fears.

“Questions can make hermits out of us, driving us into hiding. Yet the cave has no answers. Christ distributes courage through community; He dissipates doubts through fellowship. He never deposits all knowledge in one person but distributes pieces of the puzzle to many.

When you interlock your understanding with mine, and we share our discoveries…when we mix mingle, confess, and pray, Christ speaks” (p. 144). When we turn our ears toward heaven, toward our Maker, we fear less. “Courage does not panic; it prays. Courage does not bemoan; it believes. Courage does not languish; it listens to the voice of God calling ‘Fear not!’ through the hospital corridors, graveyards and war zones” (p. 178).

Two of our members were recently widowed. They both expressed that they had just lived through their greatest fear—losing their husbands. Susan was especially touched by the chapter entitled “There’s a Dragon in My Closet: Fear of Worst-Case Scenarios.” In that chapter, Max recounts an experience he had as a young boy sitting on his dad’s lap and “driving” the car. He was fearless in that position. “Prayer is the practice of sitting calmly in God’s lap and placing our hands on His steering wheel” (p. 84). Susan said that since her husband’s death that is exactly where she has been—in God’s lap letting Him “handle the speed, hard curves and safe arrival” (p. 84).

How do we live a fear-free life? It helps to share with others the victories over fear that God gives us. It builds our faith as we come together and share those experiences…both for the one sharing and those listening.

“Don’t be afraid”, he said. “Take courage. I am here” (Matthew 14:27).

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Zip-a-DeeDoo-Dah I

get anxious about a lot of stuff. I’m accustomed to it. I expect it. But recently I was gripped with fear, and it hit me in the most unexpected way.

In March, I attended Asbury’s Family Camp with my ten-yearold daughter, Olivia, and her friend, Lanie. The camp offered a high ropes course experience the Stephanie Hurd second day, which the girls eagerly anticipated.

That morning it was 50 degrees and raining. During “ground school” they grew cold, frustrated, and emotional. Reluctantly, I asked, “Do you want me to go with you?” Yes, of course they did. I was not crazy about the idea, but I flew through a high ropes course in high school so I figured I could manage.

We climbed the steps.

Easy.

We climbed the rope ladder.

No problem.

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Then came the log crossing, which was 20 to 25 feet off the ground. This is where the girls began to realize they did not need me.They scampered across.

This is also where I began to realize what a difference having a fully developed frontal lobe makes. What I understand at 42 that I did not grasp at 17 is this: Someday I am going to die. And when I do, it will probably hurt.

So I began to inch my way across the death log.The girls were at the next junction calling to me, “Put one foot in front of the other. It’s faster that way.” I could hear the guy in charge instructing the people behind me, “You need to keep moving; it’s too crowded on that platform.” And several voices responding, “We’re waiting to cross the log.”

When I finally made it to the landing, all the people who were waiting began to scamper over the death log. Olivia and Lanie proceeded to jet across the next traverse, which was made of swinging planks. Several kids and a few adults passed me on the platform and also jetted across the swinging-planks-of-insanity.

By the time I navigated those stupid planks, the girls were queued for the zip line on the tower another 20 to 25 feet over my head.

I got into line and began the slow ascent up the ladder. Eventually, I was sitting on top of the tower safely strapped into one of two zip lines. Olivia and

Lanie had already zipped, and restarted the course. I could see them pretending to “fall off” the death log— laughing and swinging on their harnesses. A cluster of observers stood below with cameras pointing skyward. My heart began to race. My breathing became rapid and shallow. The worker-guy counted, “One, two, three, go!” The girl next to me slid off the tower and zipped away with an excited yelp.

I froze.

The worker-guy looked at me with compassion and a slight hint of “come on, lady, there are like 20 people waiting to zip.”

The only thing worse than being paralyzed with fear on a 50-foot tower is being paralyzed with fear in front of a bunch of adolescents and their parents on a 50-foot tower.

Then all the people standing in line below me started calling out, “You can do it! You can do it!” I think someone even quoted Scripture. You know the one—about Him who gives you strength. How about a Xanax? Can He give me one of those? My thought bubble shouted, “Shut up!”

I did not really think I was going to die, but I was terrified to leave the safety of the platform. My bottom adhered to it like powder coating. I knew I did not have to zip, but if I chose the ladder route— the fear would solidify in my mind.

So I sat there gasping. Isaiah, the worker-guy, was talking to me in a gentle tone. I squeezed my eyes shut and prayed for courage (and for air). Then a scene from Lord of the Rings

drifted into my mind: Sam and Frodo standing on the edge of the enemy camp at the base of Mount Doom with 10,000 Orcs between them and their goal.

Frodo falters—overcome with exhaustion and fear.

Dear Sam says, “We have to go in there, Mr. Frodo.

There’s nothing for it. Come on. Let’s just make it down this hill for starters.”

I would like to say I was inspired to take a leap of faith, or even a step of faith but that didn’t happen. I scooted to the edge of the tower and then I scooted off the edge. I took a scoot of faith, and that was enough to get the job done.

Sometimes I need help inching my way through.

Sometimes I need help getting started so that gravity and momentum can take over. Sometimes I need a Scripture, but sometimes I need a profound movie scene. Jesus always knows.

I love the exchange between Him and the father of the demon-possessed child when the guy says, “Have mercy on us and help us, if You can.” Jesus responds, “What do you mean, ‘If I can’? Anything is possible if a person believes.” The man immediately replies, “I do believe but help me overcome my unbelief!” (Mark 9:22–25 emphasis added).

That’s me, too. In the paradox of belief and unbelief that I live in, I take little scoots of faith, and I manage to get through the events and circumstances that frighten me or make me anxious, no matter how far off the ground they are. When I’m afraid—I pray to Jesus and scoot forward. Every time I do, I move a little bit closer to belief and “any thing is possible.”

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Brick by

- Trustee Russ McBroom helps Asbury's facilitie

by Rod Giles

"So, whose idea was it to buy the ice skating rink and create Venue 68?" recently put this question to Russ McBroom, the chairman of the Board of Trustees at Asbury UMC. Russ is working on his 11th year as chairman, and is an example of how God calls men and women who have unique skills to be used for Kingdom work.

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Broadly speaking, the trustees are responsible for the property owned and operated by Asbury UMC, which is no small task. Russ is retired now, having worked as an engineer in industry. He also served as president and vice president of various major companies in Oklahoma and Texas. It seems that nearly every bit of his private professional life has contributed to the success of Asbury in its growth in ministry.

Russ answered my question. It was Julie Reynolds and Teil Blackshare who had started the ball rolling.

The immediate need was to accommodate the growth of the modern worship service now held at Venue 68 at 11 AM on Sundays. The church had recently moved to the new location at 6767 South Mingo. The Mason Chapel was the site of the modern service and was already overflowing its new facility. It was clear that a unique ministry had been birthed but was being stifled because of lack of space to grow.

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Since the purchase of the old ice skating rink, now known as Venue 68, the role in the overall ministry of the church has expanded to include the entire youth and young adult’s ministries.

Our conversation then turned to the recent rains in Tulsa. I asked about the roof and remarked that the design to accommodate proper drainage must have been a real engineering marvel. Russ agreed. And then he mentioned that eventually the roof would have to be replaced.

The trustees determined that a portion of budgetary surpluses, when available, would be set aside each year to build up a fund to pay for that replacement.The price tag will be over $2,000,000. But we will have the money in the bank. How cool is that?!

I then asked Russ what has been the most challenging task for the trustees during his time on the Board. He quickly answered, “The move to this building.” I readily agreed, having been a witness to all that went on during that time.

People new to Asbury might not be aware that our present location was not the first choice when it was

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es keep up with its spiritual growth.

time to move from 58th and Sheridan. But through a series of disappointments and real miracles, God directed us here. When I see the church’s steeple as I drive along Highway 169, I can get a glimpse of God’s purpose for putting us here.

My last question for Russ was about what was coming next for Asbury. His answer was, “Global Gardens.” Just north of the main church, across the street, Asbury has been quietly buying up the properties house by house as they become available. One of the houses will be used as the headquarters for the Global Gardens outreach project. This will be a joint effort between Asbury and students from the neighboring Union Middle School. What an opportunity for outreach, to both the community and to the students of our nearest neighbor, the Union School District.

Much of what Russ McBroom and the Board of Trustees deals with is pretty mundane, like the remodel of the Brides Room, the Chapel Sidewalk repair, an elevator for the children’s department, and sheet rock repair in the west gallery. But every item on the trustees meeting agenda each month affects the overall ministry of Asbury Church and Kingdom building.

I asked Russ what ministries he felt closest to as a member of Asbury UMC. “Water wells,” was his reply.

With his engineering background, he was the perfect choice to travel to Tanzania to see if this would be an ongoing project for Asbury to commit. Since that first trip to Africa, Asbury has made drilling water wells in Tanzania a major world outreach project.

Russ, on behalf of the congregation of Asbury United Methodist Church, I thank you for your service, your commitment, and your vision for Asbury and its ministries. You heeded God’s call on your life, and are making a very real difference for the Kingdom of God with your unique skills and experience.

Russ McBroom

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asbury

opportunities GENERAL INFORMATION

BREAKFAST Served from 7:15-9:00 am in the CLC. Come enjoy fellowship with Asburians along with fresh donuts, bagels, biscuits & gravy, sausage, eggs, fruit, and cereal. $3 for adults & $1 for children 12 & under.

SUNDAY MORNING WORSHIP 8:00 am Mason Chapel (Traditional Communion) 9:15 am Sanctuary (Contemporary) 9:15 am CLC (Open House Worship) (Acoustic Worship, Casual Setting) 11:00 am Sanctuary (Traditional) 11:00 am Venue 68 (Modern with sign interpreter) SUNDAY EVENING WORSHIP 6:00 pm Venue 68 (Modern) SUNDAYS FOR CHILDREN AND STUDENTS 6 Weeks - 4 Years 8:00,9:15,and 11:00 am K-6th Grades 9:15 or 11:00 am 7th, 8th & 9th Grades 9:15 & 11:00 am 10th, 11th & 12th Grades

9:15 am only ADULT DISCIPLESHIP COMMUNITIES Adult Bible study, belonging, and serving together Sunday at 8:00, 9:15, & 11:00 am, and options during the week – Tuesdays at 6:00 pm, Wednesdays at 6 and 7:30 pm.

SURGERY OR HOSPITALIZATION SCHEDULED? Be sure to let Asbury know ahead of time by calling Joan at 918.392.1176 so your pastors can be in prayer for you. When you enter the hospital, please designate Asbury as your church. The after-hours pastoral emergency line can be reached by calling 918.492.1771, selecting option 6, and leaving a message for the pastor on call.

ENGAGED COUPLES If you are planning to use an Asbury pastor to officiate and/or use Asbury’s facilities, be sure to book ASAP to allow ample time for Couple-to-Couple (required premarital sessions).

THE GAZEBO IS OPEN CDs of Tom’s message of the day are available immediately following the worship service - $3.

Prayer Journals are also available for $5 each. UMW Cookbooks available for $20. Additional volunteers needed.

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RECYCLING Recycle unwanted paper products. Three bins are available, located in the south and east parking lots.

DOORS OF ASBURY POSTERS are at the Welcome Centers...FREE! Suitable for framing.

NEW ADDITIONS TO THE LIBRARY The Asbury Library is a wonderful resource. Thank you to all who continue to contribute books to our Library.

TOASTMASTERS Toastmasters is a learn-by-doing workshop in which participants hone their speaking and leadership skills in a friendly atmosphere. Members learn communication skills by performing a series of 10 self-paced speaking assignments designed to instill a basic foundation in public speaking. Members also learn leadership skills by taking on various meeting roles. Every Monday that the church is open, 11:45 am – 12:45 pm, Room 2820

ACCESS

HANDS OF LOVE SIGN CHOIR Sundays, 6:00-7:00 pm, Rm. 2821 FRIENDS IN CHRIST COMMUNITY Sundays, 11:00 am, Rm. 1507

BIBLE STUDY

Check out the new SUMMER 2011 RoadMap brochure!

Use the slower pace of summer to get involved in Bible study. Accept Pastor Tom’s challenge to get actively involved in digging deeper into God’s Word ~ there is something for everyone! RoadMap registration can be done via the Registration Hotline 918.392.1191. Child care is provided unless otherwise noted.

COME ANYTIME STUDIES These studies may continue beyond the semester parameters and may be joined at any time.

BELIEVERS BIBLE STUDY Wednesdays 6:00-7:30 p.m.

Year-round, with a slight break during August, Room: 1508, Instructor: Don Herrold Study of the epistles of I, II, and III John WOMEN OF THE WORD Wednesdays 10 – 11 a.m. ongoing, year-round in room 2319. No childcare. Join Darlene Johnson, Asbury’s Pastor to Women, lead in open Bible study focusing on the practical application of the Scripture sermon series.

CARE AND SUPPORT

STEPHEN MINISTRY COMMISSIONING Sunday, June 5. Join us in welcoming and praying for those being commissioned as Asbury Stephen Ministers: Donna Bergeson, Ja-lene Clark, Packy Cowan, Bea Hidy, Melissa Martin, Jim Milburn, David Newport, Jeannette Oravec, Faila Rice, Scott Richardson, Amanda Sanderson, Michele Shivery, Tiffany Smith, Candice Weed and Ed Williams.

GRIEFSHARE Tuesdays, through – July 26, 6:30 – 8:00 pm, Room 2314. GriefShare is a special weekly video series and support group for people who are grieving the death of someone close to them. It’s a safe place to be around people who understand what you are feeling. At GriefShare, you’ll learn valuable information about recovering from your grief and renewing your hope for the future. Group sessions are offered three times per year. You may begin attending this group at any time...each video session is “self-contained.” $13 for workbook. Call Ruth at 918.392.1146 for more information.

S.M.I.L.E. (SINGLE MOTHERS IN THE LORD’S EMBRACE) Third Thursdays, 6:00-8:45 pm, Parlor. Join us for a DVD series and book entitled “21 Principles of a Healthy Single Mom.” You will learn to apply specific, workable guidelines so you can flourish spiritually in the midst of overwhelming circumstances. Each principle/video session is self-contained and you may begin attending at any time. $12 for book. Free childcare. RSVP to Kellie at asburysmile@ymail.com.

HEALING HATS MINISTRY An Asbury ministry created to provide hats to cancer patients who have lost their hair. Home spun with knots of love, woven together with help from above!

Simply knit, crochet or sew a hat of your choice and drop it in the collection box located next to the Gazebo. Find more information in the literature rack attached to the collection box. Contact Sue at 918.455.2816 or HealingHatsMin@aol.com for more information.

VISITS TO ASBURY MEMBERS Asbury has a group of volunteers (Asbury Connection) who regularly visit people who are homebound, in nursing homes or in assisted living facilities. If you are interested in being visited or doing visits, call Adrena at 918.392.1144, or contact the coordinator, Linda Pat Colgan at 918.366.3287 or jsclpc@yahoo.com.

PRAYER CARD SENDING TEAM Usually meets first and third Mondays at 10 am in Room 1508 to send cards with God’s encouraging words and our prayers to those who are ill or going through hard times. Cards and care packages are also sent to Asbury-related military personnel. Contact Gwen Mohler at 918.258.5479 or GRMOHLER@ aol.com for more information.

call Jo VanDeWiele at 918.459.0888 with complete name and address or send to Gwen at grmohler@aol.com.

ALZHEIMER’S SUPPORT GROUP Third Thursday, from 1:30-3:00 pm in Rm 1621. Christian hope, support and education for friends and family of those with Alzheimer’s or other dementia. Contact Mary Margaret Grisaffe at mgrisaffe@earthlink.net.

SURVIVORS! Second Sunday of each month, 4:00-5:30 pm, Parlor - Reaching out to one another with God’s eternal perspective through the storms of life. For those living with life-changing physical illness. Friends and family too.

Contact Rod at 918.740.4393.

DIVORCE RECOVERY Tuesdays, 7:00-8:30 pm, Rm 1335 - For those suffering from the early, highly emotional stages of divorce and separation trauma. Childcare available.

DIVORCE REBUILDING Thursdays, 7:00-8:30 pm, Rm 1335 - For those ready to rebuild their lives after separation or divorce. Childcare available. divorce-rebuilding@cox.net MENTAL HEALTH SUPPORT FOR FAMILIES For family members or caregivers of people affected by a mental illness. 4th Thursdays from 1:30 - 3:00 pm in Rm 1507.

ASBURY BEAR BAGS Asbury Bear Bags with coloring books have comforted young children for many years, but now you may give a Bear Bag with a scripture-based journal included instead! Great for teens and adults. Anyone may deliver an Asbury Bear to someone who is grieving. For more information, contact Sue at suemorey@yahoo.com.

CHILDREN

Registration forms for all children’s activities are available in the preschool and elementary lobbies.

CORE CHILDCARE HOURS Parents who are involved in RoadMap classes during these core hours will have childcare provided for children 6 weeks - 12 years of age with no reservations needed: Sun 8:00 am - 12:00 pm Mon & Tue 9:00 am - 12:00 pm Tue, Wed, & Thur 6:00 pm - 9:00 pm

MILITARY CONNECTION Please join us in praying for our troops in harm’s way and their families. Periodic care packages and monthly encouragement cards with God’s Word are sent to Asbury-related military personnel. The Prayer Ministry also covers them in prayer. Please Page 25

SUNDAY MORNING VOLUNTEERS Children’s Ministry is actively pursuing classroom, security and hospitality volunteers. We have two rotations: Alpha (1st and 2nd Sunday) and Omega (3rd and 4th Sunday) at both the 9:15 and 11:00 class times. Please contact Marcia Culver at 918.392.4585 or mculver@asburytulsa.org for more information and to volunteer.

CELEBRATION STATION Mondays, 7:00 – 9:00, Faith Zone. Celebration Station is a 52-week complementary children’s program to Celebrate Recovery. So while adults explore topics that bring healing and wholeness, kids discover the same truths in age-appropriate ways through worship, crafts, games and activities! Contact Eryn Wallis 918.392.4588 for details.

SPECIALVOLUNTEERS FOR SPECIAL KIDS! Do you have a heart to help children with Special Needs? If so, the Children’s Ministry needs you to volunteer. Contact Dotti Westerberg at dottiwesterberg@hotmail.com or 918.381.0874 for more information.

VBS For children 1st through 5th grades (fall 2011) June 13th – 16th, 9:00 am – 12:30 pm Cost: $10.00 per child. Our 1st -5th graders will begin their day with worship and then rotate through the areas of VBS. The cost includes a VBS shirt. Please register online at www.asburytulsa.org for this awesome time. To make your registration complete, make sure you return the signed form with the fee and pick up your shirt. For additional information, call Jennifer, 918392-4582 or jbarnes@asburytulsa.org.

VBS CROSSROADS 6th graders (fall 2011) Monday-Wednesday, June 13th - 15th - 8:45 am to 12:45 pm Thursday, June 16th – 8:45 am to 4:00 pm. Cost is $30.00 for the entire week 6th graders will take the next step in VBS and meet in Venue 68 the same week for Crossroads. Each day they will work as a team and share VBS with each other and end with worship. On Thursday they will have a longer day while they practice their missionary skills in the Tulsa community along with celebrating the end to the week of hard work. Please register online at www.asburytulsa.org. To complete your registration, make sure you return the signed form to Asbury with the fee and pick up your T-shirt. For additional information, call Shanon at (918)392-1170 or sbrown@asburytulsa.org.

T-SHIRT PICK UP DAYS After you’ve completed your paperwork and turned in your money,you may pick up yourT-shirts on Sunday mornings in the 2nd floor Children’s Lobby area on May 15, May 29, and June 5. Please remember that shirts not picked up by May29th are not guaranteed in size.

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VBS VOLUNTEER TRAINING Thursday, June 9th, 6:00 – 7:30 pm (childcare available on Thursday only) or Saturday, June 11th, 8:30 - 10:00 am.

If you are interested in volunteering with VBS, you may call Jennifer Barnes at (918) 392-4582 to find a place that works for you. There is VBS for kindergarten age and younger if you volunteer on site all week. You may register them at www.asburytulsa.org. Volunteers must attend one of the mandatory training sessions to ensure a successful week teaching our kids about Christ while keeping them safe.

VBS PRAYER VIGIL Monday, June 13 – Thursday, June 16, 8:00am – 1:30pm, Venue 68 Prayer Room. Make a difference in the lives of children. Commit to one hour of prayer, on-site, while our children attend Vacation Bible School. It is vital that we pray for our children during VBS, considering many children make first time decisions for Christ while attending. Sign up on-line at www.asburytulsa.org, by accessing the Prayer Ministry page via quick links from the home page. “The little children were brought to Jesus for Him to place His hands on them and pray for them.” Jesus said, “Let the little children come to me, and do not hinder them, for the kingdom of heaven belongs to such as these.” Matthew 19:13-14 ROLLER SKATING DAY Wednesday, July 6-11, Broken Arrow Roller Sports, 551 West Oakland Place (Elm & the BA). 1st – 6th grade (or younger if accompanied by an adult), 10am – 12pm.

Why not get rollin’ with Asbury! Meet your friends or bring some along to get out of the heat and skate the day away! Asbury has the whole place to ourselves!

Admission is $7 per person and includes your skates, a drink, and an ice cream treat! For more information call Jennifer at (918) 392-4582 or jbarnes@asburytulsa.org.

TODDLER N’ ME Tuesday, July 12th, 10:00 to 11:30am, Children’s 2nd Floor Gathering Area, 2 & 3 year olds. Toddler n’ Me is a special time for a parent and/or grandparent and their two and three-year olds to enjoy activities designed for everyone to have lots of fun just being together!

Nursery will be provided for younger (over 6 weeks) and older (up to 6th grade) siblings. Cost - $3/child to help cover supplies and Adults are Free. Please register in advance to help with planning for supplies. For more information call Stephanie L at (918) 392-1171 or slong@asburytulsa.org.

MEGA MOVIE MORNING Wednesday, July 13, 2011, 10am to Noon, Children’s 2nd Floor Gathering Area 4 year olds – 6th graders. Take one..... and Action….. Why not join us in your pajamas for a morning of movies. We will offer 3 movie choices and have a concession stand open for your favorite snacks. 4 year olds to 6th graders plan on bringing a few dollars to buy some yummy snacks and a pillow to sit back and enjoy some great flicks with friends. For more information call Shanon Brown at (918) 392-1170 or sbrown@asburytulsa.org

SUPER KIDS DAY Wednesday, July 20, 2011, 10am – Noon, Asbury Gymnasium, 4 year olds – 6th graders $5 per person.

Two, four, six, eight . . . who do we appreciate . . . our KIDS! This will be a super time to celebrate our kids with a day just for them. Why not drop off in gym for open gym, crafts, blow up obstacle course and concessions for sale. Bring a little extra money for snacks. Adult volunteers needed. For more information contact Kim Broadhurst at 3921165 or kbroadhurst@asburytulsa.org MURDOCK VILLA Sunday, July 24, 12:30 – 3pm. Our 4th through 6th graders have the opportunity to serve at an assisted living housing project – Murdock Villa. The cost includes a pizza lunch. Sign up is required since space is limited to the 1st 10 students. If you have any additional questions, please contact Shelley Hughes at 392-1172 or shughes@asburytulsa.org.

FREE FAMILY BINGO NIGHT Wednesday, July 27, 6pm – 8pm, Asbury CLC. Why not play some Bingo! Come enjoy this free family night out and play bingo with your kids! We’ll have prizes for our Bingo winners. Bring some friends or grandparents along with you. Concessions including hot dogs and nachos will be for sale. No registration necessary. For more information call Jennifer Barnes at 392-4582 or jbarnes@asburytulsa.org.

DISCIPLESHIP

DISCIPLESHIP COMMUNITIES If you have not yet found an Adult Discipleship Community check out “Get Involved” on our website, www.asburytulsa.org or pick up a brochure at one of our Welcome Centers. Looking for a small group? Email JOdom@asburytulsa.org for more information.

ENDOWMENTS

Leave a legacy that continues to give forever to a ministry you want to support. There are endowments that support many areas of Asbury’s outreach including children, youth, music, missions, and training of pastors as well as a General endowment. You can easily impact a ministry thru your will or a current gift. Contact Dwight Yoder at 918.392.1113 or dyoder@asburytulsa.org.

HOSPITALITY

It’s the art of welcoming and treasuring people.

It is extending the grace and welcome of God to all people. While we all should be extending this welcome and grace, there are specific positions within Asbury where we need volunteers willing to commit to serving once or twice a month.

These positions include shuttle drivers, Gazebo cashiers, Connection Corner consultants, greeters and ushers. To volunteer, Call Joan at 918.392.1176

MARRIAGE & FAMILY

10 GREAT DATES WITH YOUR MATE 2nd Thursdays through November 10, 6:15 – 7:00 pm, Room 1502. Gather to hear a variety of topics led by various speakers (30 minutes), and then have dinner out.

New Topics/Speakers! Call 918.392.1191 to register and reserve childcare.

DYNAMIC MARRIAGE Give us 9 weeks…we’ll give you a dynamic marriage!

This is an interactive class that will help you replace old habits with new ones in a unique, safe environment.

Go from good to great, mediocre to magnificent or hurt to healed. Cost: $130/couple (many materials included, scholarships available) $50 holds your spot.

To register, contact Jackie or Ron at 918.251.6665 or asburydynamicmarriage@windstream.net. Limited to first 12 paid couples. Childcare available. Next classes on Wednesdays, July 6 – August 31, Room 2201.

ATTENTION ENGAGED COUPLES If you are planning to use an Asbury pastor to officiate and/or use Asbury’s facilities, be sure to book ASAP to allow ample time for Couple-to-Couple (required premarital sessions).

MILESTONE WEDDING ANNIVERSARIES Email your upcoming Milestone Anniversary (5, 10, 15, 20, etc.) to Carolyn Schutte at brucars2@cox.net or call her at 918.451.1559.

MEMBERSHIP

ASBURY EXPLORATION Come to a lunch/class to learn more about becoming a member of Asbury. Sunday, June 5, from 12:15-2:00 pm in Community Life Center. Lunch provided and childcare is available for children six weeks through 6th grade. Call 918.392.1191 to register.

MEN

MEN’S PRAYER BREAKFAST Wednesdays, 6:30-7:30 am in the CLC. Attention men of Asbury. Make plans to join us for a great time of meaningful worship, life-changing prayer and an awesome big breakfast, all for just $3 per person. First-time guests are free.

MEN’S OPEN BASKETBALL Fridays,11:30 am – 1:15 pm,Gym. Men! Make plans to join other Asbury guys and their friends each week for a little basketball and lots of fun! Come show us what you’ve got, and we’ll have a great time of exercise and fellowship.

Invite your friends, and we’ll see you on the court!

MATURE MEN’S MINISTRY R.O.M.E.O. LUNCHEON Are you a “Retired Old Man” who wants to “Eat Out?” If so, then these luncheons are for you! A really awesome bunch of guys are meeting every 2nd & 4th Friday at 11:15 am, for good food and great fellowship. They take place at Village Inn (71st and Memorial), and are open to anyone 60 years and up. For more information, contact Bud at bdmathes@cox.net or Jim at rober@cox.net Page 27

HOME IMPROVEMENT WORK DAYS Saturday, June 18, meet in the Family Room Lobby at 8:30 am for planning. The Home Improvement Ministry serves widows and single moms within the Asbury family. Our Men’s Ministry volunteers make themselves available every other month to help with minor home repairs and/or home improvement projects. If you’d like to help, contact Michiel at 918-640-4382 or michiel0930@sbcglobal.net. If you are in need of help, just pick up a request form at the south welcome desk and return form at least ten days before the scheduled work day. A Home Improvement volunteer will contact you, and make final arrangements to get the job(s) done!

CAR CARE WORKDAY Saturday, July 9, 9:00 am – 12:00 noon, outside Family Center entrance, northeast side. Car Care Saturday is an every-other-month workday provided for Asbury’s widows and single moms, through our Men’s Ministry. While the ladies wait in the comfort of the café, volunteers check tires, belts, fluids, filters and batteries. They also vacuum and wash the vehicles, and then update owners on what’s running smoothly and what needs professional attention.

This free service gives our men the opportunity to put their faith in to action through loving and serving those in need. If you would like to volunteer to help, contact Mike at mnalley16@cox.net. If you are in need of these services, just get your vehicle in line by 11:30! No reservations necessary!

MISSIONS

2ND SATURDAY You can make a difference and share Christ’s love in Tulsa! Join us this 2nd Saturday, June 11, at 8:30 am at Venue68 and choose between local mission opportunities. At 8:45 we head to the ministry sites.

Teams work from 9:00-11:30 am and buses return to Venue68 no later than 12:15. Families with children welcomed and encouraged! Contact Betty Higgins at carevets@aol.com for more information.

OJT (OVERCOMING JOB TRANSITIONS) Reaching out to job seekers. It doesn’t work if you don’t help us spread the word! Job seekers can get help with Resumes, LinkedIn and Networking. We meet on the 3rd Tuesday from 6:30pm - 9:00pm in the Family room. Contact Russ Knight OJTJobs@ gmail.com.

PROJECT TRANSFORMATION June 27-30, 9am – noon at Wesley UMC. Project Transformation is a summer literacy camp for underserved elementary age children in Oklahoma.

This project allows volunteers to help children with their reading, and other skills. It is sponsored by the United Methodist Church. This year, Asbury is partnering with Wesley UMC in Tulsa, which is the site church. Won’t you give a few hours of your week to listen to and encourage one of these precious children as they read? Anyone is welcomed to volunteer. Please contact Joanne Stadler at 918622-3614 for more information. Transportation from Asbury is provided.

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MISSIONS/VIM

VOLUNTEERS IN MISSION 2011 OPPORTUNITIES

June 2-13...........................................................Estonia, Lighthouse $2,700 June 4-12........................................Ecuador, MBS & Construction $1,700 June 15-27........................................Tanzania, East Africa, Medical $2,800 June 23-July 4....................Estonia, Camp Gideon, Youth Camp $2,700 July 21-August 1................................................Estonia, Parnu, MBS & Light Construction $2,700 September.............................Tanzania, East Africa, Construction $2,800 September 30-October 2.................Cookson Hills, Oklahoma, Light Construction $60 Early October.......................................Central Asia, Relationship, Teaching & Light Construction $2,200 October*....................Monterrey, Mexico, MBS & Construction $950 November*.......................................Monterrey, Mexico, Medical $900 * Tentative

VIM TEAM LEADER TRAINING September 17, or November 5 (All training dates are in Oklahoma City.)

For more information about these exciting mission opportunities, contact Marilene Long at 918.392.1164 or mlong@asburytulsa.org.

We also plan domestic teams in response to needs due to natural disasters.

MUSIC

SUMMER SONG Friday, June 10. SummerSong 2011 presents Eyewitness News: Live from Jericho at 7pm in the sanctuary. Come and see 60 3rd -6th grade students sing, dance, ring handbells and act the story of Jericho and God’s faithfulness to His people.

AMERICANA: A MUSICAL CELEBRATION OF OUR COUNTRY Sunday, June 29, at 6 PM in the sanctuary. The New Covenant Orchestra, the Chancel Choir, Perpetual Light, One Voice, Asbury Power & Light Co and the City of Tulsa Pipes and drums will present a concert of music from our American heritage and by American composers. Featured will be the music of Aaron Copland, Leroy Anderson, Mack Wilberg, the Andrews Sisters, Irving Berlin as well as our soul-stirring national songs and hymn tunes.You will not want to miss this event!

CHANCEL CHOIR Wednesdays, 7:00 – 9:00 pm, Choir room NEW COVENANT ORCHESTRA Wednesdays, 6:00-7:30 pm, Orchestra room PERPETUAL LIGHT Thursdays, 10:30 -12 noon, Handbell room ASBURY POWER & LIGHT CO. Sundays, 8 to 9:15 am, Orchestra room

PRAYER

VBS PRAYER VIGIL Monday, June 13 – Thursday, June 16, 8:00am – 1:30pm, Venue 68 Prayer Room. Make a difference in the lives of children. Commit to one hour of prayer, on-site, while our children attend Vacation Bible School. It is vital that we pray for our children during VBS, considering many children make first time decisions for Christ while attending. Sign up on-line at www.asburytulsa.org, by accessing the Prayer Ministry page via quick links from the home page. “The little children were brought to Jesus for Him to place His hands on them and pray for them.” Jesus said, “Let the little children come to me, and do not hinder them, for the kingdom of heaven belongs to such as these.” Matthew 19:13-14

ALTAR PRAYER If you would like someone to pray with you during Holy Communion or immediately following a worship service, please come to the altar rail. A pastor or member of the Altar Prayer Team will be glad to pray with you for your needs – physical, emotional or spiritual - at the altar or in the Prayer Room.

PRAYER ROOM RESERVATIONS The leadership of Asbury’s prayer ministry would like to remind you that the main facility Prayer Room is open not only to individuals desiring to pray in a quiet, meditative atmosphere, but also to prayer groups within communities and ministries. Just give Pam in the Adult Ministries office a call at 918.392. 4589 to reserve the Prayer Room for your group on a weekly or monthly basis.

PRAYER ROOM DAYS & TIMES Our prayer rooms are accessible to you at these times: Mason Chapel & Venue 68 Sundays from 7:00 am - 12:30 pm through the interior doors.

Main Facility, Mason Chapel, & Venue 68 Monday - Friday Saturday Sunday

8:00 am - 9:00 pm 10:00 am - 3:00 pm 12:30 pm - 9:00 pm

RECOVERY

CELEBRATE RECOVERY Come join this supportive group of people each Monday night at 6:00 pm. Dinner at 6:00 pm; Worship from 7:00-8:00 pm; Small Groups from 8:00-9:00 pm; Dessert from 9:00-9:30 pm. Hiding any hurts, habits or hang-ups?

God never intended for you to live in bondage.

SENIOR ADULTS

PROJECT TRANSFORMATION June 27-30, 9am – noon, Wesley UMC. Project Transformation is a summer literacy camp for underserved elementary age children in Oklahoma. This project allows volunteers to help children with their reading, and other skills. It is sponsored by the United Methodist Church. This year, Asbury is partnering with Wesley UMC in Tulsa, which is the site church.

Won’t you give a few hours of your week to listen to and encourage one of these precious children as they read? Anyone is welcomed to volunteer. Please contact Joanne Stadler at 918-622-3614 for more information.

Transportation from Asbury is provided.

SENIOR ADULT DAY TRIP TO TAHLEQUAH Saturday, July 30, gather at 9:30 am. Join Asbury’s Senior Adults as we travel to Tahlequah to listen to the “River City Players” present the classic hits of the 50s and 60s!

Lunch will be at the Miller farm in Chouteau. Deadline is July 25, or until the bus seats are filled. Flyers are available at the south welcome desk. Cost is $37, which includes admission, lunch and bus.

VISITS TO ASBURY MEMBERS Asbury has a unique group of volunteers (Asbury Connection) who regularly visit people who are either homebound or in nursing homes. If you are interested in being visited, call Adrena at 918.392.1144, or contact the coordinator, Linda Pat Colgan at 918.366.3287 or jsclpc@yahoo.com.

SENIOR WALK IN THE GYM WITH HIM Mondays, Wednesdays and Fridays from 8:30-9:00 am in the gym. All senior adults are invited to join us for power walking, coupled with lots of fun and fellowship.

Come give it a try.

SENIOR SIT AND FIT STRETCHING CLASS Mondays, Wednesdays and Fridays from 9:00-9:30 am in the Gym.All senior adults are invited to join us for a time of stretching, coupled with lots of fun and fellowship.

No high impact workout here. We take it nice and easy.

Come give it a try.

ADULT GAME DAY Every 3rd Thursday – 1:30 – 4:00 pm. Attention all Adults! How would you like to get together on a regular basis with a wonderful bunch of fun adults and play cards, dominoes, or whatever board or card game you choose? Come check it out on the third Thursday of each month (excluding June) in Room 2821. Bring a friend and stay for as long as you like!

To obtain pass codes, call Pam in the Adult Ministries office at 918.392.4589.

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SENIOR ADULT MEAL & MOVIE Attention all senior adults of Asbury! If you’re 55 years of age or over, our monthly meal and movie day event may be just the “ticket” for you! We get together at a different Tulsa restaurant each month, and then head off to see a “first run” movie. The dates and times vary according to the movie selected, but those who express an interest will be contacted a few days ahead of time so they can make plans accordingly. For more information or to sign up for the call list, contact Sally Wood, sally-wood@ sbcglobal.net.

SINGLES

DIVORCE RECOVERY Tuesdays, 7:00-8:30 pm, Rm 1335 - For those suffering from the early, highly emotional stages of divorce and separation trauma. Childcare available.

Contact Malia Miller at malia.miller@sbcglobal.net.

DIVORCE REBUILDING Thursdays, 7:00-8:30 pm, Rm 1335 - For those ready to rebuild their lives after separation or divorce. Childcare available. Contact Jim at divorcerebuilding@cox.net.

COMMUNITIES Sundays at 9:15 – New Beginnings Class Sundays at 11:00 – Ambassadors for Christ, Footprints (ladies only), Purpose Driven Fellowship, Salt & Light

STUDENTS

PARENTING SEMINAR: FAIR FIGHTING June 26 - Every family has their fights, but knowing how to fight fair makes all the difference. Come learn how to resolve conflict fairly. Sunday morning in the upstairs blue room in the Venue at 9:15am or 11am, all welcome!!

PARENTING SEMINAR: MONEY July 24 – Everyone has heard, “The love of money is the root of all evil”. This class will teach you how to work with your teen to use money the way God intended. Sunday morning in the upstairs blue room in the Venue at 9:15am or 11am, all welcome!!

789 GRADE BREAKAWAY Sunday mornings, 9:15-10:30 am in the Breakaway Area. This isn’t your normal Sunday school. Come join us for worship, fun and games, interactive talk/ lesson, and sometimes free candy and gift cards.

789 UNUSUAL SUMMER This summer we are going live a summer that causes a better tomorrow. The challenge is all about 15. 15 minutes a day in your Bible. 15 donations. 15 hours of service. 15 random acts of kindness.

789 POOL PARTY- JUNE 19 Everyone is invited for a night to swim and eat!

Guys bring something salty to share and girls bring something sweet to share. 6:00-8:00 location TBA INCREDIBLE PIZZA- JULY 24 Don’t miss this fun night of pizza and games!

6-8:30pm Meet and pick up at Incredible Pizza.

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789 FLOAT TRIP- JULY 27 July 27 we are going to float the Illinois! Watch for registrations they will be due July 24! We will meet at Asbury at 8am and return around 4pm. Cost is $25; plus bring your own sack lunch!!

7TH – 12TH SERVE THURSDAY It’s missions here in our own neighborhood all summer long. Be Jesus to the poor, lonely, and lost at places like the Day Center for the Homeless,Tulsa Food Bank, John 3:16, and Kids Camp. So come prepared (wearing closed toed shoes) every Thursday in June and July starting June 9 from 8:15am-12:30pm.

7TH – 12TH VACATION BIBLE SCHOOL TEEN LEADER June 13-16. Teen volunteers who are entering 7th grade through 19 years old are needed for VBS! If you are interested in helping you can register online. Then print out the form, sign it, have a parent sign it and put it in the drop box in Venue 68, due by June 5. Training on Sunday June 12 from 5-6pm (in the Venue upstairs) is mandatory; you will be able to pick up your t-shirt then.

Teen thank-you Pizza Party June 15 from 12:45-1:45pm upstairs in the Venue.

10TH- 12TH BREAKAWAY High School 10 11 12 Breakaway will look a little different this summer. We will still get together every WEDNESDAY: sometimes at the Venue for worship and pizza, & other times will be out of the building! Check the calendar for events, times, and places.

SUNDAY MORNING Join us every Sunday morning at 9:15am for a healthy dose of God’s Word!

10 11 12 TUESDAY BIBLE STUDY Longing to go deeper into God’s Word? Come join us Tuesday afternoons thru June and July for bible study.

Meets at Venue 68 2:30-4pm (Except June 7 & July 19) 10 11 12 BREAKAWAY POOL PARTY June 15. Location: TBD; Time: TBD DAYSPRING REGISTRATIONS DUE June 19. Don’t be late – space is limited!

10 11 12 BREAKAWAY FLOAT TRIP July 6, 8:30am to 4pm. All high school kids come float the Illinois River with us. Cost: $20 and bring a sack lunch. Turn in registration to Amy by June 29 DAYSPRING CAMP AT SKY RANCH July 18-22, For those who have completed 9th-12th Grades. It’s 5 days that will challenge your heart, renew your passions, and kick things into high gear. It’s about relationships, some serious fun, and amazing worship.

You know those moments when you get bored in your walk with God and you wonder if there’s something more. There is! Come see for yourself! Camp cost is $255. Registrations are due June 19.

STARTING IN SEPTEMBER… 10, 11, 12 SMALL GROUPS If you want to get connected, build relationships and grow more in your relationship with Jesus, then you need to get plugged into a Small Group.They meet on Sunday nights from 6:00-7:30 p.m. in different homes.

Call Todd or Amy for info!

FALL RETREATOCTOBER 21-22 (FALL BREAK!) Watch for details!

JUNE 1 – 10 11 12 Breakaway – worship & pizza @ Venue 68 7-9pm 5 – VBS Teen helper registration due 8 – 10 11 12 Breakaway – worship & pizza @ Venue 68 7-9pm 9 – Serve Thursday 12 – VBS Teen Training 5-6pm 14 – 10 11 12 Bible Study 2:30-4pm 15 – 10 11 12 Breakaway – Pool Party 5pm-9pm 13-16 - VBS 19 – Dayspring registration due 21 – 10 11 12 Bible Study 2:30-4pm 22 – 10 11 12 Breakaway – worship & pizza @ Venue 68 7-9pm 23 – Serve Thursday 28 – 10 11 12 Bible Study 2:30-4pm 29 – 10 11 12 Breakaway – Fun Night @ Venue 68 7-9pm 30 – Serve Thursday 10TH- 12TH GRADE SMALL GROUPS Get Connected – Are you looking for a way to get more connected? Are you looking for a place to grow in your walk with Jesus? Then being a part of a small group is where you need to be. If you are already in a small group, don’t forget to re-sign up for your group.

Our small groups meet every Sunday night, times vary.

Some of the groups meet in homes and others meet at the church. Call Todd @ 918.392.1154 or Amy @ 918.392.1156 to get more info.

7TH-12TH GRADE METRO WORSHIP @ VENUE 68 Come join youth from all over the city in a night to just worship Jesus. We meet the first Wednesday night of every month from 7 – 8:30ish.

COLLEGE COMMUNITY GROUP Sunday evenings from 7:30 – 9 in Venue 68. If you are a College aged student we would love to have you come join us. We eat a homemade meal together, then open up God’s word. If you have questions

please contact Todd Peterson @ (918) 392-1154 or tpeterson@asburytulsa.org

VOLUNTEER OPPORTUNITIES

GET PLUGGED IN! Volunteer opportunities have been updated and can be found at the information desks near the main entrances and Venue68. Updates are also posted on the website.

WOMEN

WOMEN OF THE WORD Wednesdays from 10:00-11:00 am in Rm 2319, Rev. Darlene Johnson, teacher.

CRAFTY LADIES FELLOWSHIP Mondays, 9:30 am - 1:00 pm, Rm 2820. Ladies, if you enjoy doing crafts and fellowshipping at the same time, this activity is for you! We gather on Monday mornings to work on our own individual arts and crafts, stop for a delicious pot-luck lunch, and continue on through until 1:00 pm. We have a wonderful time together, and would love to have you join us! For more information, contact Betty Seetin, and stop by some Monday and check us out!

UMW JUNE LUNCHEON Thursday, June 2, 11:30 am – 1:00 pm, CLC. Attention Ladies! The program for the June luncheon will be presented by Angela Mitchell.

Domestic Violence Intervention Services, Inc. (DVIS)/Call Rape, a Tulsa Area United Way agency, is the only non-profit agency in Tulsa, Oklahoma, and the surrounding communities to provide comprehensive intervention and prevention services to men, women and children affected by domestic and sexual violence. The mission of DVIS/Call Rape is to rebuild lives affected by domestic violence and sexual assault though advocacy, shelter, counseling and education. Our scripture emphasis this month comes from Ephesians 5:29-33. No reservations necessary. $7 for lunch.

SPIRITUAL COMFORT ZONE - NEW DATE!!

Friday, June 2, 6-8pm, Family Room. What do you do when you are in an uncomfortable social setting…? Do you hide, run or clam up? What if you could become comfortable around others merely because you are in the presence of God? Would that change your motivation? Join a group of Asbury women for an evening of laughter, down-to-earth casual chat and spiritual peace.No reservations are required.

ANNUAL UMW GARAGE SALE Come one, come all to the United Methodist Women’s Annual Garage Sale, benefiting mission efforts in our community and beyond! This colossal event takes place on Friday, July 15, from 8:00 a.m. to 4:00 p.m., and Saturday, July 16, from 8:00 a.m. - noon in the Community Life Center, and draws hundreds of contributors and bargain hunters alike! You’ll find toys, gently-used clothing, books, DVDS’s, jewelry, small appliances, furniture and so much more! Those wishing to donate items may bring them to the CLC on Thursday, July 14, from 9:00 a.m. to 5:00 p.m.

(No underclothing, socks, shoes or computers, please, and all clothes must be on hangers.) Don’t miss this great opportunity to get good quality items at rock-bottom prices! See you at the sale!

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HOME IMPROVEMENT WORK DAYS Saturday, June 18. The Home Improvement Ministry serves widows and single moms within the Asbury family.

Our Men’s Ministry volunteers make themselves available every other month to help with minor home repairs and/or home improvement projects. If you are in need of help, just pick up a request form at the south welcome desk and return form at least ten days before the scheduled work day.

A Home Improvement volunteer will contact you, and make final arrangements to get the job(s) done!

CAR CARE WORK DAY Saturday, July 9, 9:00 am – 12:00 noon, outside Family Center entrance, northeast side. Car Care Saturday is an every-other-month workday provided for Asbury’s widows and single moms, through our Men’s Ministry. While the ladies wait in the comfort of the café, volunteers check tires, belts, fluids, filters and batteries. They also vacuum and wash the vehicles, and then update owners on what’s running smoothly and what needs professional attention. This free service gives our men the opportunity to put their faith in to action through loving and serving those in need. If you would like to volunteer to help, contact Mike at mnalley16@cox.net. If you are in need of these services, just get your vehicle in line by 11:30!

No reservations necessary!

WORSHIP

8:00 AM COMMUNION SERVICE Mason Chapel. Traditional service with music led by Hart Morris. Communion is served and Dr. Harrison preaches.

9:15 AM CONTEMPORARY PRAISE & WORSHIP Sanctuary. Contemporary music led by Mark Bennett and team, time of prayer and the message will all carry a prevailing theme for the morning. Dr. Harrison preaches.

9:15 AM OPEN HOUSE WORSHIP Community Life Center. A relaxed atmosphere with engaging worship led by Dub Ambrose and team.

Dr. Tom Harrison’s message is simulcast with an occasional live sermon from another pastor.

11:00 AM TRADITIONAL SERVICE Sanctuary. The Chancel Choir, the New Covenant Orchestra and various vocal and instrumental ensembles offer a variety of styles of music led by Hart Morris. Dr. Tom Harrison preaches.

11:00 AM MODERN SERVICE Venue 68. Rich blend of ancient and modern worship, led by Chris Cleveland and team. Sign interpreters for the deaf are offered. Dr. Tom Harrison’s message is simulcast.

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6:00 PM MODERN SERVICE Venue68. Rich blend of ancient and modern worship, led by the Ben Kilgore and team. Rev. Spencer Smith preaches.

MARRIAGES, BIRTHS AND DEATHS MARRIAGES: • Renee D. Lamoreaux – married 3-26-2011 • Kristina M. Kerwin & Turner G. Land – married 3-26-2011.

BIRTHS: • Kensey Grace Coleman – was born 2/28/2011, daughter of Frank & Jana Coleman.

• Sophia Elizabeth Fowler – was born 4/1/2011, daughter of James & Holly Fowler.

• Evelyn Elizabeth ‘Evie’ Beckman – born 4/21/2011, daughter of William ‘Bill’ & Suzanne Beckman.

DEATHS: • Charles ‘Charlie’ Hack - died 3-29-2011, husband of Elaine.

• Helen Draughon-Baker - died 4-5-2011, mother of Scott Draughon • Robert H. Johnson – died 4-6-2011, father of Darcy Bevill, Margaret Elaine Johnson and Elizabeth Perry Johnson. Brother of Bert (Dru) Johnson, Uncle of Jared, Zachary, Rachel Johnson.

• W. Ralph Patterson – died 4-7-2011, husband of Patricia Patterson.

• Linda Alexander – died 4-9-2011

ASBURY MILESTONE ANNIVERSARIES 60 YEARS • Richard & Darlene Baker • John & Anna Taylor

06/10/51 06/23/51

55 YEARS • Bob & Nadine Mong • Stanley & Shirley Dean • Ronald & Phyllis Allison • Leonard & Mary Stubbs • Marold & Patty Lohrenz • Jim & Nancy Harrison

06/09/56 06/03/56 06/08/56 06/10/56 06/17/56 06/02/56

50 YEARS • Sig & Jan Schwier • Mike & Louise Borden

06/04/61 06/08/61

40 YEARS • Rod & Charlene Giles

06/05/71

30 YEARS • Richard & Meredith Richards • Dee & Barbie Paige

05/16/81 06/13/81

20 YEARS • Ed &Yuka Daughters

06/14/91

Richard & Darlene Baker

John & Anna Taylor

Bob & Nadine Mong

Leonard & Mary Stubbs

Marold & Patty Lohrenz

Stanley & Shirley Dean

Ron & Phyllis Allison

Jim & Nancy Harrison

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new members Mark & Michelle Bradshaw with David, Jacob and Tommy

Amanda Brown

Jenniffe Callaway with Cruz

Larry Dotson

David Fitter

Mike & Missy Lenhart with Raymond, David and Avery

Bob & Nadine Mong

Jerry & Collen Sharp

George & Lila Siler

Dean Smiles

Jennifer Stepson with Peyton & Ryan

Vicki Thompson with Mason Moore

Candace Weed

asbury exploration classes

if you are interested in learning more about who we are, plan to attend one of the Exploration classesdesigned to tell you more about Asbury and what we believe.

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