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Tidings Staff Sandy Wagner Jan Weinheimer Juli Armour Lisa Tresch Lina Holmes Chris Lo This month’s Tidings features a few of the services available to Asbury friends and family. They are but a sampling of the assistance the church has to offer. Asbury Tidings is a monthly publication designed to tell stories of lives transformed by the power of Jesus Christ. You may read back issues by visiting www.asburytulsa.org
At Your Service I stopped at Sam’s and bought flowers for Dana. The guy checking receipts at the door saw me carrying my only purchase and deadpanned, “Are you buying those to get you out of trouble or to keep you out of trouble?” After assuring him it was the latter and not the former, I thought, “Why AM I doing this?” The 15 minutes it took was worth the “Ah!” from Dana. But honestly, I realized that I have a need to give, and to go out of my way to show my appreciation for her. I realized that by my actions, I demonstrated it. And it was as good for me to do so Pastor Tom Harrison as it was for her to receive. Three times James 2:18-26 says, “Faith without works (deeds) is dead.” That is why United Methodist Churches vigorously engage in serving. Because we believe, we act. Asbury helps build homes for “Habitat for Humanity.” We visit prisoners. We see patients in hospitals. We help people who have experienced natural disasters. We pay for water wells in Africa. We send medical mission teams to remote places. They pull teeth, deliver babies, hand out glasses and medicine. We support college students. We open our doors to dozens of support groups. We help military families, put on car clinics for widows and the elderly, and visit shut-ins and people in nursing homes. People use our facility for weddings, funerals, and other meetings. We serve meals for the homeless. We conduct blood drives and literacy programs. We have pre-marital counseling and we help people with marital problems. We take students to summer camp and on mission trips. We have a Vacation Bible School event and invite people from our community. We help kids learn to play basketball and cheerlead. We support Scouting. We invest thousands of dollars in contributions to other agencies who help people. The list goes on and on. These are but a few of the many things we do. We support hundreds of ministry outreaches in Tulsa, Oklahoma, the USA and around the world. We are far from perfect, but we genuinely try to help people lead better lives. We do it because Jesus gave us the example: “Jesus called them together and said, ‘…whoever wants to become great among you must be your servant, and whoever wants to be first must be your slave- just as the Son of Man did not come to be served, but to serve…”’”(Matthew 20:27-28). We do this best in community – people working together from the common bonds of friendship and faith. Consider this to be your invitation. Join us in doing something far greater than we could ever do by ourselves.
Cover: Joe Taggart is served by Jeremy Battenfield at the “5 and Diner.”
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Serving others demonstrates the heart of Jesus. He was not one to merely say, “Do as I say!” Jesus invited us to follow His example and “Do as I do!” Humility and kindness are essential aspects of being a follower of Jesus.
Washing someone’s dirty feet may not sound like a very important thing to do, but it provided a great example of Jesus, as leader, setting the tone for what His disciples should do.
On August 5 we will begin a 14-week study from the book of John and will learn more about the Almighty Love of Christ and how we can apply His teachings in our lives today.
Construction Update With all the rain we received in the month of June, we joked that maybe we should be building an Ark rather than a building. The earthwork in the children’s area was moving along quite nicely and then the rain came. The dirt has to have a few days of continuous sun to dry enough to proceed, so the schedule has been affected. Flintco is working hard to redirect the contractors’ efforts to make up for these weather delays. The good news is the rain has had little or no affect on the work being done at the ice rink. All the demolition has been completed and everyone is very
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pleased with the results. The building is in good shape and so far, there have been no surprises. With a remodel, you never know what you might find. The footings for the steel have been dug and steel erection is next. The building is huge and it is easy to see the potential for this new area. Work on the parking and southeast entrance has affected normal traffic patterns but everyone’s patience and planning is greatly appreciated. This work will continue for several months but will be worth all the effort. The South entrance is receiving a new portico which will also affect access to the building from that location. You can stay informed of any changes by checking the website. The covered walkway to the Chapel has begun as well. We could have used that in June! Every effort will be
made to not limit access back and forth to the Chapel and main building. Thanks again for your prayers and patience throughout the project. Note: The Prayer Room in Mason Chapel will not be accessible except on Sunday mornings during the construction of the walkway. We hope that you will t ake advanage of the Prayer Room in the main building (by South Entrance.)
Fall 2007 RoadMap Classes
There will be a special registration sign-up and book purchase opportunity on Sunday, August 26 before and after church, and between services in the Main Foyer. This will be a chance for you to meet the instructors, ask questions, purchase and pick up your book(s) for the course. You may also register by calling the Registration Hotline at 392-1191. To insure that you will have materials by the first class session, call at least 2 weeks prior to class start date. After that, registrations will be accepted up to the start of the class, but no guarantees will be made concerning your materials. Childcare will be provided unless otherwise noted. Children may be dropped off 15 minutes before RoadMap class begins.
Biblical Studies Transformers – Jesus and Our Hebrew Roots 11 sessions Tuesdays, Sept. 4 – Nov. 13 10:00 – 11:00 am Parlor (Room 1900) Teacher: Rev. Gloria Phillips Cost: $15 for individuals, $25 per couple A continuation of the in-depth study of the Old Testament and the ways that Jesus was foreshadowed in symbols, types, and prophecy. Join this group of men and women as we study the Hebrew roots of Christian beliefs and practices with the original meaning of our English-translated words from the Hebrew. “Because of Jesus” by Connie Witter 12 sessions Tuesdays, Sept. 4 – Nov. 20 9:30 – 11:30 a.m. Room 2821 Teacher: Tammy Houghton Cost: $18 The woman of Proverbs 31 is not someone you aspire to become through your own actions, she’s a promise of God that you can experience by looking to Jesus and trusting Him to do the work in you. The truth found in this exciting, liberating, personal study of Proverbs 31 will set you free from condemnation, pride, worry, fear, doubt, discouragement, depression, hopelessness, and every sin that so easily besets you and keeps you from experiencing God’s plan for your life. Waiting on the Second Coming! (Part 1) 12 sessions Tuesdays, Sept. 4 – Nov. 20 6:30 – 8:00 pm Room 2820 Teacher: Gail Knox Cost: $15
An inductive Bible study by Word Among Us Ministries ~The Church is God’s instrument for taking the Gospel to the World so that as many people as possible will know Him before Jesus comes again. In 1st and 2nd Thessalonians, Paul instructs the Church on how to live as we await the return of our Lord. This study will include exploration of what the Bible says about end times. 1-2 hours of outside work each week. Workbook provided. Overview of the Book of Revelation 9 sessions Wednesdays Sept.12 – Nov. 14 (Will not meet October 31) 3:30 – 5:00 pm Room 2820 Instructor: Rev. Dave Thomas Cost: $5 No childcare provided We will be looking at the various interpretations of this “book of mystery,” and exploring what it has to say to us today. Giving It All to God in Prayer 4 sessions Wednesdays, Sept. 12 – Oct. 3 7:00-8:30 p.m. Room 2319 Instructor: Gail Knox Cost: $10 A short study from Word Among Us Ministries ~ Prayer is God’s gift to believers for the purpose of enjoying fellowship with Him. Far too many Christians fail to use the gift to its fullest potential, limiting themselves to merely asking for “things.” In this 4-week course, you will learn what God has to say about prayer, and what a valuable tool it is for helping us walk the Christian walk. No homework. Bible required.
Beth Moore Bible Studies The Beloved Disciple: Life & Ministry of John 10 Sessions Tuesdays, Sept. 11– Nov. 13 9:15 – 11:15 am Room 1504 Teacher: Cindy Read Cost: $15 Explore the life of the one the New Testament calls the “beloved disciple,” the apostle John, through the personal study of this extraordinary biblical figure. John had the God-given gift of seeing a larger picture, and his love relationship with Christ profoundly influenced everything he did and wrote. This in-depth 10-session interactive study by Beth Moore, filmed in Greece and Turkey, helps women develop ears to hear and eyes to see what Christ desires to reveal to each of His children. Believing God 10 sessions Tuesdays, Sept. 11 – Nov. 13 9:30 – 11:30 a.m. Room 2818 Teacher: Dana Harrison Cost: $15 Join best-selling author and popular women’s conference leader Beth Moore as she explores what it means to know and truly believe God—as described in Isaiah
43:10. Drawing from the “Heroes of the Faith” in Hebrews 11, this study examines the lives of Abraham, Moses and others who believed God. Through their examples, Beth encourages women to deepen their own trust in God and receive a fresh word from Him. Join us in this powerful Bible study for a more active, living faith—one that begins with...believing God. A Woman’s Heart: God’s Dwelling Place 11 Sessions Tuesdays, Sept. 11 – Nov. 20 6:30 – 8:30 pm Room 2500 Teacher: Dee Dee Geddie Cost: $18 Join the Israelites as they come out of the wilderness where God instructs them to build a tabernacle so He can dwell among them. Taken primarily from the Book of Exodus, this study will take participants from the outer court into the holy of holies as they examine their own walk with God. Reflecting all God has taught her in the past decade, Beth Moore has updated her first Lifeway study with a stunning new video and updated member book.
Precept Upon Precept Bible Studies The Revelation Part III -What is the Sign of His Coming and of the End of the Age? 12 sessions Tuesdays, Sept. 4 – Nov. 20 9:30 – 11:30 am Room 2500 Teacher: Nancy Baxter Cost: $20 Explore the relationship of The Book of Revelation to the Gospels, their prophecies, and what they teach about the last days. Everyone is welcome to this very timely and important study. Kings & Prophets “The Good, the Bad, and the Ugly” 7 sessions Tuesdays, Sept. 11 – Oct. 23 9:30 – 11:30 am Room 2820 Teacher: Nancy Staab Cost: $17 2 Kings 21-25, 2 Chronicles 33-36, Zephaniah In this last course of our Kings and Prophets Series, you’ll see worsening religious and political conditions in Judah. The final chapters of 2 Kings and 2 Chronicles introduce us to the last kings of Judah - one of the best since King David (“the Good”), the other the worst Judah ever had (“the Bad”). When God brings the Babylonians in to judge Judah and Jerusalem for their sins, everything gets really “Ugly.” Learn how God can keep you when you experience “the Good, the Bad and the Ugly” in your life.
Doctrine and Theology New ~ Contemporary Christian Authors 9 sessions Wednesdays, Sept. 5 – Nov. 14 (will not meet Oct. 17 and Oct. 31) 6:00 – 8:00 p.m. Room 2820 Asbury Tidings 2
Facilitators: Rev. Tom Harrison on “Philip Yancey – Prayer: Does It Make Any Difference?” Larry Stockard on “C. S. Lewis—His Life, His Wife, and Who the Devil is ‘Screwtape’”? Eve Abrams Self on “Henri Nouwen— Priestly Professor Who Opened His Heart for the World to Know God Better” Cost: $28 Come join us for a new and exciting Asbury RoadMap experience as we take a close look at three well-known contemporary Christian authors. Each author review will take place over a three-week period, for a total of nine weeks, which will include lively class discussion! How Methodists Practice Christianity 10 sessions Wednesdays, Sept. 5 – Nov. 14 (will not meet Oct. 17 and Oct. 31) 7:00 – 8:30 p.m. Room 2314 Facilitator: Rev. Charles Ryser Cost: $10 Ever wonder who the guy on the horse in front of the church is? If you have questions about sin, salvation, the Holy Spirit, the kingdom of God, and other basics of Christian faith, and how United Methodists’ beliefs fit within the Christian tradition, this class is for you! Christian Believer – Knowing God with Heart and Mind 10 sessions Tuesdays Sept. 11 – Nov. 13 3:30 – 5:00 pm Room 2818 Teacher: Rev. Darlene Johnson Cost: $36 for new registrants, No cost for those continuing from winter session This course combines the study of Scripture and Christian belief, making the connection between Scriptures and the doctrines of the church. Its focus is those teachings the church has agreed are essential to the Christian faith and which have been taught through the centuries. Understanding the faith requires knowing what the faith teaches. Some who began in the winter session will be continuing, but new registrants are welcome to join us!
Leadership Leadership and Integrity 9 sessions Tuesdays, Sept. 11 – Nov. 13 (will not meet October 23) 6:30 - 8:30 pm Teacher: Phil Baxter Room 1508 Cost: $13 The church of Jesus Christ is in a desperate need of leaders today. This course, designed to be taken with other present and potential leaders, will help you to see more clearly how God has gifted you and is developing you and training you in the life-long process of leadership development. Explore the biblical perspec3
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tive of leadership, including the Leadership-Integrity link, the imperative of a leader’s identity in Christ, and the art of leading by example. Study and internalize the four major aspects of leadership: character, vision, relationship and skills.
Evangelism and Missions Just Walk Across the Room 4 sessions Wednesdays, Sept. 19 – Oct. 10 6:00-8:00 p.m. Room 1506 Instructor: Frank Gentry Cost: $15 A natural and empowering approach modeled after Jesus himself, this dynamic four-week experience will equip and inspire you to follow His lead by taking a simple walk across the room to extend care, compassion, and inclusiveness to people who might need a touch of God’s love today. Armchair Traveler – Asbury Style 5 sessions Thursdays Sept. 6– October 4 7:00 – 9:00 pm Room 2818 Presentations by various Volunteers In Missions No cost “Travel” toAzerbaijan, Tanzania, Ecuador, Mexico, and Estonia through videos, music, personal experiences, pictures, and local snacks. These focus areas forAsbury offer very interesting stories and opportunities for mission. Hear from our church members who lead the ministries and participate in the mission there. One country or region will be featured each week, with an additional session of God’s vision for our world taught by Bryan Padgett, a missionary with TheTravelingTeam. Introduction to the Latin American Missions, Culture, and Language 12 sessions Thursdays, Sept. 6 – Dec. 6 (will not meet on Oct. 18 or Nov. 22) 6:30-8:30 p.m. Room 1504 Instructor: Diana Spence Cost: $40 This is an introduction to the Latin culture and language as a precursor to joining a Latin American mission team. Participants will learn about the culture of our mission fields, our present missions, and the countries in which they are located. Lessons will also include how to form basic phrases and sentences, which can be used in building relationships at the Mission Bible School with the children and at the mission. Alpha (for adults) and Alpha Sprouts (for kids pre-school through 6th grade) 10 Sessions Tuesdays Sept. 18 – Nov. 20 6:30 – 8:45 pm Adults in Community Life Center (CLC) Children in room 2901 No cost for course
Explore the Christian faith in a relaxed, non-threatening setting at weekly sessions, with an optional overnight retreat (for adults) on Oct. 26-27. Explore such questions as Who is Jesus? Why did Jesus die? Who is the Holy Spirit? How can I overcome Evil? Families can share in the experience together, since adult and children’s courses run concurrently. Children will have fun while seeking the answers to these questions as they attend Alpha Sprouts. Preview dinner and Luau party, Sept. 11 at 6:30 pm in the CLC. Meal RSVP at 392-1191.
Christian Living Men’s Fraternity- The Quest for Authentic Manhood 9 Sessions (will continue into Winter/Spring session) Wednesdays, Sept. 5 – Nov. 14 (will not meet Oct. 17 or 31) 6:00-8:00 p.m.* *Begins 6:15 in Mason Chapel, continues in CLC at 7:00 Facilitators: Rev. Dub Ambrose, Greg Ruley, and Glen Fisher Cost: $10 Fulfilling men’s need for a compelling vision of Biblical masculinity, this teaches men how to live lives of authentic manhood as modeled by Jesus Christ and directed by the Word of God. More than just a rally or Bible study, it is designed to help men come together, strengthening each other through weekly sessions of biblical teaching and small-group interaction. These timetested resources have equipped men all over the world to pursue noble manhood as a lifelong priority. Financial Peace University 13 weeks Wednesdays Aug. 22 – Nov. 14 6:00 – 8:00 pm Room 2818 Facilitator: Rick Boothe (no childcare Oct. 17, will not meet on Oct.31) Cost: $91 for kit, one kit needed per couple This program is not a quick fix for financial worries. It is a 13-week program which requires real commitment. By teaching you money management basics, FPU can give you hope and provide a solid plan to walk you from the financial bondage of debt into true Financial Peace. Attend one of 2 free Wednesday night orientations on Aug. 8 or 15 from 6-7 pm in Room 2818 for an overview of FPU course material, and to decide if you are ready to change your family tree. Border Crossings: Christian Trespasses on Popular Culture 6 sessions Wednesdays Sept. 12- Oct. 24 (no child care October 17) 6:00 – 7:30 p.m. Room 1504 Instructor: Todd Craig Cost: $5 This hands-on class will explore the relationships between Christ, culture, Christianity and the church. Discussions will include the Christian’s role in shaping
and responding to culture. Time will be spent exploring the spiritual themes in some of the latest blockbuster films, TV shows, and music. (i.e. the Spiderman trilogy, Lost, etc.) Course will be beneficial for finding common ground for spiritual conversations with nonbelievers, and for parents who wish to have spiritual conversations with their students. Learning About Your Spiritual Gifts 1 session – Your choice: Sunday, Sept. 16, 2:00-4:30 p.m. (no childcare provided) Sunday, Oct. 14, 2:00-4:30 p.m. (no childcare provided) Wednesday, Sept.12, 6:00-8:30 p.m. Wednesday, Nov. 7, 6:00-8:30 p.m. Room 1506 Teacher: Dee Gibbs No cost Pastor Tom Harrison has urged us to learn what our gifts are and to USE them to “glorify God and make disciples.” Have you been wondering what on earth you are here for? Come explore God’s design for Spiritual Gifts and how you uniquely fit into the body of Christ! (There is no one like you!) Prerequisite: Take online Spiritual Gifts inventory found on the Asbury website if you have not done so previously.Bring your completed copy of the Spiritual Gifts Inventory printout to class for discussion and deeper understanding.
Care and Marriage & Family Dealing with the Loss of a Child 1 Session Sunday, Oct. 7 3:00-5:00 p.m. Parlor Facilitators: Dr. Mel and Pat Whittington No childcare provided No cost - No registration required What do you do when life happens? “Faith for tough times” sounds good until tough times arrive. Dr. Mel and Pat Whittington were required to put faith to the test when their 17-year-old daughter died in a car accident. Was God’s grace sufficient for them? Rephrase: Is God’s grace sufficient? Meet Mel and Pat. Hear from God. The Fear Factor 10 sessions Thursdays, Sept. 6 - Nov. 15 (no class Oct 18) 7:00-8:30 p.m. Room 2504 Cost: $15 Facilitator: Adrena Mahu Ever have distress over fear or anxiety? Whether you are young or not so young, fear can immobilize. Join us as we seek God’s ways to overcome even the fear of one another! Materials used will be The Fear Factor by Wayne and Joshua Mack. Come learn the only true antidote to fear. Preparing for the Holidays ~ Grief Workshop 1 session Saturday, Nov. 10 10:00 am - 12:00 pm Room 2500
Facilitator: Jane Hedrick No childcare provided No cost - No registration required Experiencing grief can be especially painful during the holidays. Let’s spend some time together. We’ll have materials for you to take home and share ideas about the best way to spend the holidays during those particularly challenging times of life following a loss.
Falling in love is easy! Staying in love is easy, too, if you learn “love skills” to stop behaviors that kill relationships. Whether you are engaged, newlyweds, chasing after young children, chauffeuring middle school kids, or empty nesters, this one’s for you! C-PREP materials, trained facilitators, plus host couple, Chris and Leslie Spicer. Bring friends!
Ongoing Studies Pathways through Grief 10 sessions Tuesdays, Sept. 11 - Nov. 13 7:00 – 8:30 p.m. Room 2818 Facilitators: Jane Hedrick & Claudia Kleeman No cost The Pathways through Grief audio series uses Doug Manning’s book, “Don’t Take My Grief Away!” Once people who have experienced loss find themselves in a small, safe setting with others on a similar journey, they begin to find hope and healing with the help of new relationships. Speaking the Truth in Love 8 sessions Thursdays, Sept. 13 - Nov. 8 (no class October 18) 7:00 – 8:30 p.m. Room 1506 Facilitators: Joanne Stadler & Betty Reymer Cost: $15 Have you ever felt that you must refuse a request, but were concerned that it might be interpreted as rejection by the person? “Speaking the Truth in Love” invites you to experience the freedom and joy of Christian assertiveness. You will discover how a scriptural understanding of assertive living builds healthy relationships and how to handle anger, criticism, and other tough relational issues. Jesus lived assertively. Jesus’ disciples (that’s all of us!) need to live assertively, too. Successful Stepfamily Weekend 1 weekend plus 4 follow-up meetings Oct. 5 – 7 6 p.m Friday – 12:00 p.m. Sunday Neosho River Ranch (55 minute drive near Wagoner, OK) $50/couple for lodging, food and materials Weekend leader: Gaye Call Childcare for follow-up meetings only Couples will enjoy a bed-and-breakfast atmosphere and learn new tools to help them grow as a couple and family. Combining families can lead to strained marriages. You are not alone! Weekend leader, Gaye Call, has 20 years in ministry. She and Bill have been married 18 years and have successfully blended their stepfamily. Limited to first 10 paid couples. Asbury members or visitors only. Four follow-up meetings, Thursdays, 7-8:30 pm, with Mark & Eve Self. Want to Build a Better Marriage? 6 sessions Thursdays, Sept. 27 - Nov. 8 (no class Oct 18) 6:30 – 8:30 p.m. Room 2820 Cost: $10 per couple
Mothers’ Fellowship Mondays 9:30 – 11:30 am Parlor (1900) Teacher: Esther Gene Morrison Believers Bible Study Wednesdays, Sept. 13 – Dec. 13 7:00-9:00 pm Room: 1502 Teacher: Don Herrold Women of the Word Wednesdays 10:00 – 11:00 am Room 2319 Teacher: Darlene Johnson No childcare provided BREATHE ~ a Women’s Group Wednesdays *6:00-8:00 pm Room 2821 (will not meet Oct. 17 and Oct. 31) *This will meet from about 6:10-7:45, due to dropping off and picking up kids in childcare and children’s activities.
Wednesday Night Happenings (NOTE: All of these listed below will NOT occur on 10/17 due to fall break and 10/31 – join us for our Fall Festival) Dinner in the CLC 5:00 p.m. – 6:00 p.m. (Sept. 5 – Nov. 14) Children’s Choirs for 3 year olds – 6th grade 6:00 p.m. – 7:00 p.m. (Sept. 5 – Dec. 5) Children’s Programming for K – 5th grade 7:00 p.m. – 8:00 p.m. (Sept. 5 – Nov. 14) Preparing for Adolescence for 6th grade 7:00 p.m. – 8:00 p.m. (Sept. 5 – Nov. 14) Childcare for Children with Parents in RoadMap Children under 3 6:00 – 9:00 p.m. Children under Kindergarten 7:00 – 9:00 p.m. Children 6 wks - 6th grade 8:00 – 9:00 p.m.
Asbury Family Dinners Wednesdays Sept. 5 – Nov. 14 (except Oct. 17 & 31) Community Life Center (CLC) 5:00 – 6:00 p.m. Cost: Adults $5.00 / Children (2-12) $3.00 Maximum $20 per family
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Notes from the Journey By Lisa Tresch
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have a confession to make: There have been a few times in my life when I thought I could make it without church. In the seasons when my life was whirling by in a blur of busyness, I blamed the church for having way too many programs and activities. My own propensity to be unable to utter the word “no” caused me to feel like I was drowning in a calendar that was far too scheduled. And much of that full calendar was church activities. Through no one’s fault but my own, I had overscheduled and then blamed the church for causing me to be involved in too much busywork. It was during these times that I seriously questioned the purpose of it all. It seemed that so many of us were waving at each other from our little individual hamster wheels, sweating, panting, hurrying. What for? In the midst of one of my busy seasons, I began to write for the Tidings. They gave me space each month and I filled it up with whatever I wanted to write and called it “Notes from the Journey.” It was, and is, a gracious gift because for me – here is another confession writing is great therapy. There was a catch, though. Along with writing this column, they wanted me to interview people and write stories about transformed lives. I agreed, but wasn’t too thrilled. After all, I was busy. One Sunday morning, after I had been writing for the Tidings for several months, I was doing an interview with a couple in the children’s area. There was noise all around us, and I was leaning in with my tape recorder so I could catch what the woman was saying. Tears began to fall down her cheeks, and she told me how Asbury’ s Financial Peace University had turned their lives around. I leaned in closer and asked if I had heard right. They both nodded. Yes, I had heard right. On a telephone interview several months earlier I had spoken with a woman who talked about Upward Basketball in a way that made it sound almost…spiritual. She couldn’t get the words out fast enough to tell me what a transforming experience it was for her daughter, and for her. “Those people really, truly cared about us. She’s so happy when she’s there because she’s built up and encouraged.” That sounded sort of scriptural. I left the Sunday morning interview remembering the phone interview several months earlier, and another conversation with a woman who attended Mother’s Fellowship – a Bible study for young mothers – who informed me that those Monday morning sessions had brought her back to Christ after many years of being away. I thought about my full calendar, and how many times I had grumbled about all the busywork churches could produce. As I remembered my proclamations about how I could probably do just fine without it, thank you very much, I saw myself in the woman whose tears rolled down her cheeks on that Sunday morning because her marriage had been saved. I heard myself in the voice of the mother whose daughter had a place to “belong.” I was reminded that life change happens in amazing ways within the walls of a church, and those of us who are so busy within those walls are the instruments that God uses to bring it about. In the faces of those whose schedules can get a little crowded, I see joy, passion and purpose. And I recall the words of a busy, tireless apostle who wanted the fledgling churches with whom he worked to see what life-changing places they can be. We always thank God for all of you, mentioning you in our prayers. We continually remember before our God and Father your work produced by faith, your labor, prompted by love, and your endurance inspired by hope in our Lord Jesus Christ. (1 Thess. 1:2-3)
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y family and I began attending Asbury over three years ago. We had left a large church because after a few personal experiences, we felt the church was too big to be in touch with its members. We began attending the 11 o’clock service in the Chapel. We loved the music and the messages from Tom every Sunday, but we did little to get involved. I think that I was afraid that if we got involved, we would have the same experience we had at our last church. Our daughters began to become more involved, as did my husband. I remained skeptical that a church as large as Asbury could really be sincere in connecting to its members. My father is a police officer and I remember him telling me about a death notification that he had to make. He sat with a mother to tell her that her child would not be coming home. As she began to cry, my father asked her if she would like him to call a police chaplain to come pray with her. She assured my father that her family belonged to a church and that she would call her church and request a pastor to come to the home. My dad sat there as the woman called her church and told them about the death of her child and requested a pastor. The church told her that despite having eight ministers, they did not have anyone available but could send someone the following week. I know that the church was not Asbury, but
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deep down I wondered if the same thing could happen at Asbury. Last summer, my husband and I found out that we were expecting a child. We went for our first ultra-sound only to find out that there was no heartbeat. We were devastated! We happened to have a handyman at the house the next day who recognized that I was upset. He politely inquired. As I shared our news with him, he shared with me a similar experience that he and his wife had. He asked me if I had called the church to notify them because he was sure they would want to know. He was an ordained minister himself and tried to encourage me to call. I told him that our church was large and that I was sure there were many more people suffering more greatly than myself. I kept remembering the story of the woman who lost a child and the church that didn’t have time to send a pastor. I didn’t call. Fast forward to May 2007, I found out that I had uterine tumors that needed to be surgically removed and would require three days in the hospital and six to eight weeks of recovery. Once again, I had made up my mind that what I was dealing with was too minor to burden the church. I was entering the hospital on a Tuesday morning and the Sunday
before, as we sat in the Chapel, my 12 year old dropped a prayer request in the offering. I saw her drop it in, but had little faith that anything would come of it. Tuesday morning, as I was being wheeled into surgery, a pastor from Asbury came to visit with my family and pray with them. Wednesday, as I lay in the hospital bed, yet another Asbury pastor came to visit. I couldn’t believe that for three years I lacked faith in my own church. I realized that my daughter had much greater faith in Asbury and its staff than I did. I am so thankful that I now know that Asbury is where we belong. I am grateful for all of the coordination that it takes the staff at Asbury to accomplish what it does and truly connect with its members. Prayer is a powerful healer. I would encourage anyone in need of hospital visitation or prayer to have faith in Asbury and to reach out so that your needs can be heard. Yes, Asbury is large, but because of its size, it has the ability to offer SO much. -Meighen Graham
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stay out. It’s called Financial Peace University. The 13-week program helps people dump their debt, get control of their money and learn new behaviors about spending that are founded on commitment and accountability. It gives power and hope to everyone— from the financially distressed to the financially secure. Asbury members Kevin and Amber Cox enrolled in FPU about two years ago. “We needed to get our
finances in order,” explains Amber. “We were tired of living paycheck to paycheck. The money was there, we just needed more discipline.” So here’s how it works: A textbook, simple worksheets, and an easy step-by-step method give FPU students a road map to personal control, financial security and lifetime peace. The life-changing guide shows you how to make smart buying decisions, build your emergency fund Asbury Tidings 8
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University and get out of debt for good. In fact, the book claims the average family can pay off $5,300 in debt and save $2,700 in the first 91 days after beginning FPU. In 18 to 24 months people can be completely out of debt, except for the mortgage. “We learned the ‘envelope cash system,’” says Amber. “In a nutshell, it saved our lives. We use it every day. Now we know it’s not a ‘sale’ if we can’t afford it.” 9
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FPU is a class taught on video by Dave Ramsey—a personal money management expert, popular national radio personality and bestselling author. Ramsey knows first hand what financial peace means. Earlier in life, he established a multi-million dollar real estate business, lost it all, then slowly re-built his finances using the basic steps he describes in his weekly lessons. He now devotes himself to helping ordinary people understand the forces behind their finances, and how to set them right—emotionally and spiritually. “Dave was great, hilarious and kept our attention,” says Amber. “He spoke to us as equals.” A bonus the Coxes didn’t expect from FPU was peace in their relationship. “Kevin and I always had a hard time communicating about how the money was spent,” confesses Amber. During the course, Dave Ramsey describes the significant differences in the way men and women view money, and he offers solutions in “tying a knot” in your money as well as your marriage. “We were shocked that the class helped our marriage as much as our finances. We’ll never go back to the
way we were,” Amber continues. “Financial Peace is a legacy we want to leave our children. I truly think it’s God’s answer for the world of family finances.” So if you’ve been thinking how smart it would be to get out of debt and get ahead—August just may be the right time to take control of your finances and enroll in the University. Peace will prevail as you realize— you’re doing it! -Sylvia LaRose
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A great place to find good Christian books, tapes and dvds Cindy and Michael Beeren often watch videos and read books checked out from the church library. The Beerens have three children, Shawn, 7, and one-year old twins, Isabelle and Olivia. Members have donated well over 400 books, videos, dvds and cassette tapes.
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weren’t completely sure what a successful marriage should look like. Fortunately for them, Asbury has a ministry called Couple-toCouple which matches every engaged couple married at Asbury with a Support Couple, agreeing to meet for at least four hours prior to the wedding. Glenn and Delonna were matched with Daryl and Sheila Slater, a trained mentor couple who had been married for four years. The first step was to complete a Relationship Profile, answering a series of questions which identified areas of strength and growth in their relationship. Daryl and Sheila used the Profile results to hone in on the specific ways to help Glenn and Delonna. By asking open-ended questions, they encouraged them to talk to each other about topics such as Conflict Resolution, Roles and Responsibilities, Communication, Finances and Parenting. Because the Slaters have experienced the blending of two families with grown children, they knew the right questions that would help Glenn and Delonna discuss possible future scenarios, such as grown children deciding to come back home, only to find that home is very
different. Glenn and Delonna found that “the past can affect your future, but Couple-to-Couple helped us to communicate and be prepared.” The experience was a positive one for the Slaters, as they have found that “helping others always helps us to see our marriage in a new light and reminds us of all the good things.” They especially enjoyed working with Glenn and Delonna because “they were so eager to learn, willing to be open and go deeper to tackle the difficult issues.” While Support Couples are trained to be effective listeners and facilitators, they are not professional counselors and referrals are made whenever appropriate. Delonna says she would highly recommend the Couple-to-Couple ministry, especially to younger couples as she shares, “Having another couple and your pastor looking at things from the outside helped us identify areas we weren’t even aware of. We enjoyed the experience and appreciate Sheila and Daryl taking time out of their busy lives to help us. We were so happy that they came to our wedding.” Yes, marriage is a tough job, but it’s also worth every bit of effort and preparation. Just ask Glenn and Delonna Albertson. -Juli Armour
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awn Snyder loves Alpha. Why? Attending the Alpha course and the retreat provided the atmosphere for a significant change in her spiritual walk. I know because I was there, and she’s been spreading the Word ever since. Matter of fact, she was so zealous in her praise for the course that she quickly enlisted her friends in the next course. I had the privilege of leading that next group—Dawn, Christy, Kurt, Chrisse, Lisa, Debby and Jeanine. What a group! They were as zany as any I have ever encountered, but we fell in love with one another from the first night. They were pretty mixed regarding their spiritual background as well, and while there were times we laughed hysterically, there were also many, many times of spiritual confusion. Alpha seemed to provide the perfect opportunity for self examination and growth. The Alpha course began in England, founded by Nicky Gumble, former English barrister turned Anglican priest. Nicky has a winsome, entertaining personality and he is refreshingly believable as he presents the basic questions like: Who is Jesus? Why did Jesus die? Why and how should I read the Bible? Why and how do I pray? What about the Holy Spirit? How can I overcome evil? Does God heal today? What about the church? and Why and how should I tell others? Big questions. Questions that don’t have easy, pat answers. But the course provides an
atmosphere for low-key dialogue, inviting honest inquiry into these searching questions. I found this so true of my group. They really wanted answers. Their background was varied, several with little or no Christian foundation or background, and another had been turned off to Christianity by an overzealous, legalistic relative. Our discussions were exhilarating and helpful and we all grew in our faith. Alpha’s structure is simple: a meal together, video with Nicky presenting the night’s question, then small group discussion. While the leaders are there to guide the discussions (not give the answers), they do try to lead the group to scripture where they can discover the truths for themselves. Jeanine Gray came to Alpha on the recommendation of a friend. “I wanted to learn more (about Christianity) and she made it sound fun and interesting.” Jeanine’s experience was all she had hoped and more. “The experience was immeasurable! It gave me a thirst for more and more. I couldn’t get enough of Jesus and His teachings! It gave me a passion for Christ that I never had before. I had my ‘ah ha’ moment in Alpha!” This remarkable group of young people not only grew in their friendship, but shared their experiences with others through helping with future
Alpha courses. When the final night arrived in this 10-week course, there were tears and an unwillingness to call it quits. I agreed to lead them in a short Bible study . . . well, that’s been about six years ago (adding a few others to the group along the way). Those young adults are a vital part of my extended family. While we no longer meet every week, our dedication to one another remains and we do spend time together on a regular basis. For some, Alpha provided an opportunity for entry into the Christian faith; for others, a chance to review their belief structure and gain clarification of the tenants of the faith. Would Jeanine Gray recommend Alpha to others? “Are you kidding? In a heartbeat!” -Sandy Wagner
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Jared Stockard, Jeanine Gray and Kurt Claxton demonstrate the Bridge illustration during Alpha. Inset: Dawn Snyder
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Referral Counselors Stephenie Craig Stephenie earned her bachelor’s degree of Social Work from Texas Christian University in 2000, her master’s of Social Work from the University Oklahoma in 2003. She was licensed in Clinical Social Work in 2006. She has seven years experience at Family and Children Services and is currently an Intake Therapist in Family Counseling. She has experience in assessment, treatment planning, and ongoing therapy with children, adults and families. She has facilitated classes at Asbury such as Search for Significance and Making Peace with Your Past.
Diane Taylor Diane earned her bachelor’s degree in Education and her master’s degree in Education Counseling. She taught English for 22 years and has served as high school counselor for seven years. She retired in 1997 after 29 years in education. She is presently teaching Introduction to Psychology at Tulsa Community College West. She has facilitated several small groups at Asbury including Making Peace with Your Past, Search for Significance, and Who’s Pushing Your Buttons. She is a Stephen Minister, a member of Care Council and the Believing leader for Christian Explorers Community.
What is Parish Nursing?
Will it cost me to receive this service?
Parish Nursing is the promoting of health and wellness with a spiritual aspect by combining faith with the knowledge and skills of a registered nurse. A Parish Nurse understands that good health includes the well being of body, soul and spirit. She does not provide hands-on care.
No, the Parish Nurse is an employee of Asbury United Methodist Church. There are no fees for this service.
The Parish Nurse has many roles, including: Health educator Liaison between the congregation and the health care community Confidential professional who facilitates optimal mental, physical and spiritual health Supervisor of coordinators for Asbury Connection, Hospital Visitation, Respite Care, and the Blood Ministry Consultant for individuals who need assistance with health and prevention information on such things as medications, aging issues, care of the dying and health management.
How can I reach the Parish Nurse? The Parish Nurse can be reached at Asbury United Methodist Church. You may visit her in the office is on the second floor of the administrative office. You may call 392-1144 to find the Parish Nurse’s office hours, to make an appointment or just to talk about your problem/concern. In case of emergency call 911. Clockwise: Stephenie Craig and Diane Taylor, Care & Professional Referrals; Adrena Mahu, Parish Nurse.
Can I receive Parish Nurse assistance? Asbury’s Parish Nurse is available for members, the surrounding community and people of all ages.
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Group, through their friend Hal Johnston. Already long-time Asbury members, they were immediately struck by the warm welcome and helpful support the group provided. Bob remembers being at a low point as he shared, “Cancer gets the attention of all aspects of your life, mentally, physically, emotionally and spiritually.” Carole was impressed with the attitude of the group, which helped them feel that “they would get through this together.” Having a place of support, not just for Bob as the cancer patient, but also for Carole as the caregiver was very meaningful. Bob remembers their good friend Joe Cox sharing, “When someone gets cancer, the whole family has cancer.” The group helped Bob and Carole by giving them an opportunity to share what they were going through, to pray and be prayed for, and to know that others cared for them as expressed through regular phone calls and notes. It was also encouraging to meet
cancer survivors and to hear their stories. As time passed, Bob went from being the one being encouraged, to being an encourager of others. He has been called on to make hospital visits to cancer patients, to share his testimony and has continued to attend the group meetings, forming and building friendships that will last an eternity. He knows what it is to “rejoice with those who rejoice and mourn with those who mourn.” (Romans 12:15) After his initial diagnosis, Bob was cancer-free for ten years, but colon cancer was found a year ago. These days, Bob is experiencing a greater degree of acceptance and trust, not so much fretting and anxietyridden as he had in earlier days. He’s been given the gift of a time of preparation, continuing to grow in his relationship with Christ and serving Him through his many volunteer activities, always including the Cancer Support Group. -Juli Armour
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our Asbury pastors normally get a good laugh (on the inside) whenever someone new asks: Do you only work on Sundays or do you work during the week, too? Or even better, What do you do all week? Don’t you get bored? Many times we wish we could invite those persons to hang-out with us for a week and see what we do. Boredom is rarely found in our work’s vocabulary. While our Sundays are, indeed, consumed with preaching, leading worship, teaching classes and casually catching up with fellow-Asburians, believe it or not, our weekdays are normally even busier than Sundays. During any given week we spend a good amount of time in visitation and pastoral care: in-office, home, or care center visits, as well as lunch or coffee-shop conversations. You likely already know that Asbury pastors are in Tulsa’s several hospitals every weekday. Almost every week, several of us officiate at weddings, funerals and other pastoral-care type worship services. Previous to those services, the presiding pastor has already spent many hours with those involved. Something that might surprise you is how much time we spend visiting with folks on the telephone and email, two incredibly beneficial tools of communication. Email exchange has become a very popular communication tool in more recent years and is often used in more-casual pastoral counsel situations. In order for us to be prepared for teaching, preaching and worship, we spend a good amount of time investing
in study. Plus, the need for pastors to remain current in social, cultural, theological and ecclesial (church) trends requires further research and study. Even more, we study and strategize in applying those principles toward effective ministry at Asbury and in the United Methodist Church. Which reminds me further that all of our pastors are involved in denomi-
national leadership as well. With Asbury being a United Methodist Church at the leading edge, your pastors are committed to serving on that edge. You might be interested in asking any of your pastors how they are leading in the Oklahoma United Methodist Church. So, how, you ask, are your pastors available to be at your service? Asbury Tidings 18
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ASBURY PASTORS (left to right): Rev. Charlie Ryser Pastor of Pastoral Care Rev. Dub Ambrose Pastor to Men Rev. David Thomas Pastor to Senior Adults Rev. Darlene Johnson Pastor to Women Rev. William C. Mason Pastor Emeritus Dr. Tom Harrison Senior Pastor Rev. Cindy Mayes Pastor of Prayer & Belonging Rev. Dick Read Pastor of Discipleship Rev. Sonny Plischke Pastor of Visitation Rev. Todd Craig Pastor of College & Young Adults
The predictable response might be, We’re at your service with whatever you need! But, let’s be more specific. Certainly this is not exhaustive, but here’s some times you might want to call on us: -baptisms, weddings, funerals; life milestones; -marriage, family and relationship concerns; 19
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-biblical, theological or doctrinal questions or discussion; -when your Discipleship Community is look for some teaching; -when you need pastoral care and counsel; -when you need help finding professional Christian counseling; -when you know you’r e going into the hospital;
-when you need a “good ear,” someone to talk to; -when you want to talk about things God is doing in your life; -when you are looking for pastoral support in your service of ministry; -when you want prayer agreement and support; or, when you just want to hang out with some pretty cool people! Something you can be sure of is that your pastors LOVE to serve – on behalf of all of us, we your pastors, are at your service. -Dick Read
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Addictions/Codependency (Celebrate Recovery) Address/Phone/Email Changes Alzheimer’s Baptism Bipolar/Depression Cancer Support Car Care Care Ministry Celebrate Recovery Children’s Activities College Activities Communities Couple-to-Couple Death of Family Member Divorce Elderly Residential Options Employment Needs Engagement/Premarital Counseling Financial Counseling (Members) Grandparents Raising Grandchildren Grief Groups Homebound Home Improvement Hospitalization Notification Hospice Human Resources Library Marriage Counseling Membership at Asbury Men’s Activities MS Support (PACE) Music Opportunities Prayer Preschool/Mother’s Day Out Prison Fellowship Support Prison Ministry Respite Care RoadMap Classes Senior Activities (Tweenagers) Service Projects For Groups/Families Singles Ministry Spiritual Gifts Stephen Ministry Support Student Ministries Upward Programs Volunteers in Mission Volunteers Women’s Activities Weddings Young Adult Activities Youth Activities – Junior High Youth Activities – High School
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I used to believe . . . that life was not worth living I used to believe . . . that everyone was a two-headed monster I used to believe . . . that the only purpose to life was to kill or be killed I used to believe . . . that no one could be trusted I used to believe . . . that God was referred to as male and therefore wanted nothing to do with that I used to believe . . . that joy or happiness or calmness were non-existent I used to believe . . . that if I killed myself no one would notice I used to believe . . . that no one could ever love me I used to believe . . . that waking in the morning meant just one more day to trudge through I used to believe . . . that you would leave Now, because of you, prayers from those I don’t even know and the grace of The Father . . . I believe . . . that life is a wonderful gift from the most High God I believe . . . that each person deserves a chance I believe . . . that some can be trusted I believe . . . that God is my Father. He is my Maker. He knows my heart and calls me His own I believe . . . that it is possible to experience joy, happiness or calmness in the deepest tragedy I believe . . . that if I killed myself your heart would break I believe . . . that I am very lovable I believe . . . waking in the morning is another day to experience the joy of my Father I believe . . . that you will stay and should we somehow separate that we will spend eternity together Asbury Tidings 20
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The Stephen Ministry program at Asbury matches specially trained Asbury members with people going through a tough time. Our responsibilities include being a confidential listener, a prayer partner, and a caring friend for as long as our care receiver needs us to be there for them. As a Stephen Minister, I received a new assignment several months ago. First, I made an appointment to meet with my care receiver. As I arrived at our designated meeting place, I said a short prayer asking God to give me the words that my new friend needed to hear and to make her feel comfortable during our first meeting. This was the beginning of our Stephen Ministry relationship. I met a wonderful woman who was struggling 21
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with a specific family issue and was looking for someone to talk to outside of her family and circle of friends. I found that she really already knew the answers to her questions, but was looking for confirmation regarding her decisions. We spent the next several weeks talking and praying together and sharing a few tears and a lot of laughter. I also learned that my care receiver is a strong believer in prayer. God gives us many different ways to receive His blessings and the strongest line of communication with Him is through prayer. My care receiver communicates with God on a regular basis and is receptive to His responses. She had been praying about her situation before we met and believed she knew how it would be resolved. However, she was led to request a Stephen Minister as a means of receiving confirmation of God’s
Stephen Ministers Dan Thorning and Nancy Holmboe meet with their respective care receivers.
answer to her prayers. Through her obedience to God, she showed me the importance of using all of the resources available to us to seek God’s help. Our formal Stephen Ministry relationship has ended, but we are still friends. My new friend was given a solution to her problem and she also received some additional benefits in her life that God chose to give to her because of her faithfulness. As a Stephen Minister, I’m just a listener. However, I often find that I get as much as I give in a Stephen Ministry relationship. With each care receiver, I grow some and it’s a wonderful thing to see God working in people’s lives. There is something special about knowing that God has put me in a place at a certain time to help a certain person. To God be the Glory! -Anonymous
SUNDAY BREAKFAST Served from 7:00-9:15 a.m. in the CLC Come, enjoy fellowship with Asburians along with fresh donuts, bagels, biscuits and gravy, sausage, eggs, fruit and cereal. Cost: $2 for adults and $1 for children 12 and under.
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both had a desire to serve the Lord, but it wasn’t until the late 1960s that they experienced a spiritual breakthrough. Realizing the power of the Holy Spirit, they began to live the Christian life with purpose. They both say that because of Jesus, they “will never be the same!” Other than enjoying some great home-cooked food, the Johnston’s, being relatively new to Asbury, say the Sunday morning breakfast is a wonderful place to build relationships. “We rarely eat with the same people twice or with anyone we already know, but each week, we find the conversation stimulating and enjoyable. We like to meet people of
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all ages, so the conversation is always different.” Then in later weeks when they see a familiar face, it helps build that genuine sense of “at home” within the walls of Asbury. The Johnston’s realize it’s the time, planning, and effort of those who prepare the meal every week that provides this special ministry that is offered to everyone. “We appreciate the people who serve behind the scenes of the weekly breakfast,” says Janet. “It took awhile for us to realize that a breakfast was being served to anyone who would like to come to it on Sunday mornings. The service, food, and price are exceptional, and what a wonderful opportunity it is to meet others and to feel a part of the church.” For those who haven’t been blessed by it, Charlie and Janet say, “Come! Taste and see that the Lord is good!” -Nikki Boyd
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really don’t know what woke me up that morning. Having lived in Oklahoma, for over 40 years, I have grown accustomed to the storms and tornados that periodically make their way through our city. While I am diligent in keeping an eye on these storms they rarely wake me. Not so that morning, something just didn’t feel right. I quickly made my way to the back door to take a look at the sky. The sight took my breath away! The 100-foot elm tree, which had stood in the neighbor’s backyard for over 60 years, was gone. I immediately ran to the front door, swung it open, only to be met by the missing tree. It had fallen so close to my house that I couldn’t get the glass door open to go out and survey the damage! I didn’t know what to do. Being a single person, I have always prided myself on being able to take care of things on my own. To ask for help was not an option. This time things were different; I didn’t have the
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equipment or knowledge to deal with the situation. So…I took a leap of faith, called Adult Ministries Team Leader Debbie Wallis to ask if she knew of anyone with the Home Improvement Ministry that could come and help. Within a short time, several men led by Joe Wade, arrived and began the difficult work of removing the enormous tree. These men, voluntarily took time off work to come and help a person they had never met all because of their passion to serve others on behalf of Jesus. They worked through rain, lightning, heat and darkness to get the tree out of my yard. By nightfall, it was gone and I could, once again, get out of my front door. Yes, I was fortunate—my house suffered no major damage, however, the real blessing came in experiencing the love and support of the family of God and the realization that we are much stronger together than we are alone. Thank you, Home Improvement, for your servant hearts and willing spirits! -Gretchen Valentine
GRETCHEN VALENTINE wasn’t sure what to do when she saw her storm-ravaged yard, however, she was rescued by the graciousness of the Home Improvement Ministry.
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houting…running…general uproar…is there an emergency? A riot? Nope, it’s Upward Basketball, and all the noise is a good thing. Asbury hosts an Upward league, in partnership with other churches periodically, involving hundreds of kids in a season that extends from December to March. But what makes Upward so special? Kenny Lenfestey coaches his 8year old son, Carson, and they say the difference between Upward and the school leagues is night and day. Having experienced both, Carson
definitely wants to stay in the Upward program. He says there’s no cheating or ganging up on people. Kenny adds that the Upward program is wonderfully organized and motivating not only for the players, but for the coaches and officials as well. And here’s the cool thing: they’re not just playing basketball! Each team has a time for devotions and learning scripture verses in addition to their practicing and game time. They learn about the sport, and also about God, building character and being Christ-like. Every child gets a star after each game, which the coach presents to them individually as they progress in their skills and in their character growth. Kenny and Carson’s involvement has brought Ed and Rita Lenfestey, Kenny’s parents, to the games, too. They’re wildly enthusiastic about Upward. Ed helps coach from the sidelines and Rita is their most energetic cheerleader. Now, are you doing the math with me? Carson has brought three adults into involvement at Asbury…multiply that by 500 kids! And that’s another great thing about Upward--it gets people into church who may never have been before. The kids look forward to coming to church, and then want to join in on other things like
Sunday school and VBS. After becoming involved in Upward, even parents who think Asbury is too big realize that the bigness of Asbury only really applies to the building. They experience the small feeling, the spirit of community that is Upward and are drawn into other groups through that connection. So, kids have a great time while increasing their skill level in the sport and building confidence. Adults can volunteer in tons of different areas and spend time with their own (or someone else’s) kids in a fun atmosphere. And at the end of the season, the awards ceremony is a blast, with scholarship drawings, door prizes and awards for every participant based on an outstanding character trait, not how many points they scored. Ed and Rita love that the whole program is so uplifting, and would like to see Asbury add other sports (cheerleading has already been added). Kenny loves that winning isn’t the end-all purpose of the team, and that the coaches get one-on-one time with the kids and that the officials are involved in educating the kids. Ask Carson what his favorite part of Upward is and he’ll tell you it’s when they call out his name and he runs through the curtains, past the billowing smoke, into the spotlight with the crowd cheering for him. Wow! Where can I sign up? -Sheryl Tomlinson
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asbury opportunities bible study general information Breakfast Served from 7:00-9:15 am in the CLC. Come enjoy fellowship with Asburians along with fresh donuts, bagels, biscuits & gravy, sausage, eggs, fruit, and cereal. $2 for adults & $1 for children 12 & under Sunday Morning Worship 8:00 am Mason Chapel (Traditional Communion) 9:15 am Sanctuary (Contemporary Communion) 11:00 am Sanctuary (Traditional with sign interpreter) 11:00 am Mason Chapel (Modern/Rock) Sundays for Children and Students 6 Weeks - 4 Years 8:00, 9:15, and 11:00 am K-6th Grades 9:15 or 11:00 am 7th, 8th & 9th Grades 9:15 & 11:00 am 10th, 11th & 12th Grades 9:15 am only Adult Discipleship Communities 8:00, 9:15, & 11:00 am and Wednesdays, 6:30 pm Surgery or Hospitalization Scheduled? Be sure to let Asbury know ahead of time by calling Ruth at 392-1146 so your pastors can be in prayer for you. When you enter the hospital, please designate Asbury as your church. The after-hours pastoral emergency line can be reached by calling 492-1771, selecting option 2, and leaving a message for the pastor on call. Engaged Couples If you are planning to use an Asbury pastor to officiate and/or use Asbury’s facilities, be sure to book ASAP to allow ample time for Couple-toCouple. Six months to one year suggested. The Gazebo is Open ...each Sunday morning between services. Perceptions as well as selections in Pastor Tom’s Book Club available. Asbury Wear is also for sale. Recycling Recycle unwanted paper products. Three bins are available, located in the south and east parking lots. Asbury Family News is available at the Welcome Centers. It includes hospital lists, births, deaths, marriages, baptisms and military listings. Doors of Asbury posters are at the Welcome Centers...FREE! Suitable for framing. New Additions to the Library The Asbury Library is a wonderful resource. Thank you to all who continue to contribute books to our Library.
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Brochures with details about Fall ‘07 RoadMap courses being offered will be available at each o f th e We lc om e Ce nters o r on lin e at www.asburytulsa.org or see pages 2-4.
care and support American Red Cross Blood Drive Sunday, August 19 from 8:00 am - 1:00 pm in the CLC. Call 831-1151 to schedule your appointment. Resume and Interviewing Workshop Thursday,August 23 from 7:00 - 8:30 pm in the Parlor. An effective resume is essential to make a pos itive first impre ssion for p ursu in g employment. Understanding the interview process is the next step. Presented by a professional form the placement field. No cost and no registration required. The Fear Factor See RoadMap - Pages 2-4 for details. Pathways Through Grief See RoadMap - Pages 2-4 for details. Speaking the Truth in Love See RoadMap - Pages 2-4 for details. Dealing with the Loss of a Child See RoadMap - Pages 2-4 for details. Prayer Card Sending Team Usually meets 1st and 3rd Mondays at 10:45 am in Rm 1621 to send cards with God’s encouraging words and our prayers to those who are ill or going through hard times. Cards and care packages are also sent to Asbury-related military p erso n ne l. Co nta ct Gwe n Mo h le r a t grmohler@aol.com for more information. Asperger Support Group: First Thursday from 7:00-9:00 pm in Rm 1621. For mothers of children with Asperger Syndrome. Alzheimer’s Support Group Third Thursday, from 1:30-3:00 pm in up stairs Administration Conference Room. Christian hope, support and education for friends and family of those with Alzheimer’s or other dementia. Cancer Support Group Second Sunday of each month, 4:00-6:00 pm, Parlor - For those living with cancer and their family and friends. Bipolar/Depression Support Group Second and fourth Thursdays, 7:00-8:30 pm, Rm 1621 - For persons living with bipolar disorder or depression. Divorce Recovery Tuesdays, 7:00-8:30 pm, Rm 2319 - For those suffering from the early, highly emotional stages of divorce and separation trauma. Divorce Rebuilding Thursdays, 7:00-8:30 pm - For those ready to rebuild their lives after separation or divorce. Employment Transitions Need a second set of eyes to review your resume? Free male and female one-on-one support available throughAsbury’s Employment
Transitio ns. C ontact B arb ara Wrig ht at blwright1@yahoo.com Grandparents Raising Grandchildren First and third Tuesdays, 6:30-8:30 pm, Rm 1506. Family to Family For family members or caregivers of people affected by a mental illness. 4th Tuesdays from 1:30 - 3:00 pm in the Parlor. Call Ruth at 3921146. Military Connection To demonstrate the love of Christ, periodic care packages and monthly encouragement cards with God’s Word are sent to Asbury-related military personnel. The Prayer Ministry also covers them in prayer. Please send contact information (complete name and address) to Gwen Mohler at grmohler@aol.com. Prison Fellowship Support First Tuesday of each month, 7:00-8:30 pm. For fam ily an d frien ds o f pe op le wh o a re incarcerated. Meets offsite. Call Ruth at 3921146 for location. Asbury Bear Bags Asbury Bear Bags with coloring books have comforted young children for many years, but now you may give a Bear Bag with a scripturebased journal included instead! Great for teens and adults. Anyone may deliver an Asbury Bear to so me on e who is g rie ving . Fo r mo re information, contact Beth at 392-1116.
children Re gis tration forms fo r a ll ch ildre n’s activities are available in the preschool and elementary lobbies. Summer Core Hours Parents who are involved in RoadMap classes during these core hours will have childcare provided with no reservations needed: Sun 8:00 am - 12:00 pm Mon & Tue 9:00 am - 12:00 pm Tue, Wed, Thur 6:00 pm - 9:00 pm (Childcare will be closed for Martin Luther King, Jr., President’s Day, Christmas Gift Week, October 17-19 for Fall Break; October 31 evening for Fall Festival and November 21-23 for Thanksgiving.) Big Splash Family Day Friday, August 3 from 10:00 am - 2:00 pm. (registration from 10:00 - 11:00 am only). Come enjoy this event with other Asbury families. Cost: $10.00, includes lunch. Kindergarten Blessing Service Sunday, August 12 , 4:00 pm in the Sanctuary. Children who are just entering kindergarten and their families and friends are invited to come be a part of this service of affirmation and blessing. This service will be followed by a celebration reception and commemorative activities in the CLC. Volunteer Appreciation Swim Party Saturday, August 25 from 4:00-8:00 pm at Camp Loughridge. Calling all Children’s Ministry Volunteers. Bring your family and enjoy an evening at
the pool. Interested in helping in Children’s Ministry? We have a place for you. Call Lyla Brown at 392-1158. Preparing for Adolescence Wednesdays, September 5 - November 14 from 7:00-8:00 pm. It’s better to prepare than repair. This course is designed especially for our sixth graders. We wil discuss the topics of inferiority, conformity, puberty, romantic love, and identity from a biblical perspective. Our reference book is Preparing forAdolescence by Dr. James Dobson. Call Heidi at 392-1168 for more information. Parental permission is required. Midweek Madness Wednesdays, September 5- November 14 from 7:00-8:00 pm in the Children’s Elementary Area for KIndergarten - 5th graders. On Wednesday nights, Faith Zone will be the place to be as children learn to apply biblical truths to their lives. Our goal each week will be to reinforce the lesson that was presented on Sunday with handson activities that they can apply to their lives. We will create an environment that will be both educational and entertaining. Kids will have the opportunity to build relationships and go deeper into hiding God’s Word in their hearts. Can’t wait to see you there. Pick up your registration form and sign up early so we may be wise stewards and plan accordingly. For more information conta ct K im R en ke ma a t 39 2-115 9 o r krenkema@asburytulsa.org Rock 5.6 Girls and Boys All Nite Bash From 8:00 pm Friday, September 7 to 6:00 am Saturday September 8. You won’t want to miss this event planned just for you and your friends! Our focus is for you to have fun, hang out with friends, and maybe enjoy a few challenging games that promote teamwork. The $40 fee covers a late snack, breakfast, awesome t-shirt, and all activity expenses. The deadline to register is Wednesday,August 29. For more information, call Heidi at 392-1168. Pick up your registration form and sign up early so we may be wise stewards and plan accordingly. Third Grade Bible Presentation Sunday, September 16 in all worship services. On this very special and significant Sunday, all children entering the third grade will receive their very own copy of the Word of God. This annual event is a great stepping stone of immense significance. The presentation will take place during all worship services. The third graders and their parents will come forward and line the altar rail for the Bible presentations. You are invited to attend a reception in their honor after the service. More information will be sent to third grade families as the date draws nearer. Call Kim Renkema at 392-1159 for more information. Bible Explorers Sundays, September 16, 23, and 30 from 6:308:00 pm. Hey, third graders and parents...want to spend some time in the Word together? Well,
this is the place. We’ll discuss how your new third grade Bible is written, discover how it is organized and see how to use it. There is a $2 donation per person on September 16 and includes dinner. We will meet in the H2O Room from 6:30-8:00 pm and childcare is provided for infants through 6th grade for siblings. To help us plan, please register early. You may come whether or not you recived a Bible on September 16th. We’d love to have you. For more information, contact Heidi Sanchez at 392-1168. Murdock Villa Usually the second Sunday of the month from 12:30 - 3:00 pm. Cost is $5 for CiCi’s Pizza. We’ll eat then visit Murdock Villa where we will play Bingo and do crafts with special needs adults. It is an amazing time to witness in our local community. Limited to 10 kids each month.
discipleship Financial Peace University See RoadMap - Pages 2-4 for details. Discipleship Communities If you have not yet found an Adult Discipleship Community (similar to Sunday School) why not visit one of our Welcome Centers and see what’s available for someone just like you! Brochures are available in the Welcome Centers, or you may check them out at www.asburytulsa.org (Get Connected).
evangelism Alpha See RoadMap - Pages 2-4 for details. Alpha Sprouts See RoadMap - Pages 2-4 for details.
marriage & family Want to Build a Better Marriage? See RoadMap, pages 2-4 for details. Milestone Wedding Anniversaries Email your October or November Milestone An nive rs ary (5, 1 0, 1 5, 2 0, e tc.) to patticooper@cox.net or call 392-1146.
membership Asbury Exploration Come to a lunch/class to learn more about becoming a member of Asbury. Sunday, August 5 from 12:152:15 pm. Call 392-1191 to register. Childcare available for six weeks through 12 years.
men Men’s Fraternity: The Quest for Authentic Manhood Wednesdays, September 5 - November 14 in Mason Chapel and CLC, 6:00-8:00 pm. Cost: $10. Fulfilling men’s needs for a compelling vision of biblical masculinity, this teaches men how to live lives of authentic manhood as modeled by Jesus Christ and directed by the Word of God. More than just a rally or Bible study, it is designed to
help men come together, strengthening each other through weekly sessions of biblical teaching and small group interaction. These timetested resources have equipped men all over the world to pursue noble manhood as a lifelong priority. Facilitators will be Rev. Dub Ambrose, Greg Ruley and Glen Fisher. Men’s Prayer Breakfast Wednesdays, 6:30-7:30 am in the CLC. Breakfast, meaningful worship and life-changing prayer! Cost: $3/person. Speakers: August 1 Mark Springer August 8 Dub Ambrose August 15 Pec Clark August 22 Don Herrold August 29 Todd Johnson Home Improvement Workday Saturday, August 18. Workers meet in the CLC at 8:00 am. The Home Improvement Ministry serves widows and single moms within the Asbury family. Our Men’s Ministry volunteers make themselves available every other month to help folks out with minor home repairs and/ or home improvement projects. Contact the Adult Ministries office to offer your services. Car Care Saturday September 15 from 9:00 am - noon outside the Student Ministry Breakaway entrance, north side. This service is provided for Asbury’s widows and single moms by our Men’s Ministry every other month of the year. While the ladies wait in the comfort of our Student Ministry Cafe, volunteers check tires, belts, fluids, filters and batteries. They also vacuum and wash the vehicles and update the owners on what’s running smoothly and what needs professional attention. This free service gives our men the opportunity to put their faith in action through loving and serving those in need. Annual Men’s Fall Golf Tournament Friday, October 19 at Forest Ridge. Mark your calendars now. Details to follow.
missions/outreach Armchair Traveler...Asbury Style ...is coming again! Sessions st art Thursday, September 6th at 7:00 pm. Come and “travel” to Azerbaijan, Ecuador , Mexico, Estonia, and Tanzania through the eyes of our mission leaders and short-term missionaries. One country or region will be the focus of each week. Call the Global Outreach office for further information, 392-1117. Eyeglass Donations Are you wondering what to do with those old eyeglasses? Donate them to missions! You may drop yours off in the Global Outreach office. Campbell’s Soup Label Changes Save Campbell’s soup labels for missions. Please note that a different part of the label is now required. Please cut the UPC symbol and ASBURY TIDINGS
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the Labels for Education symbol together. Turn these in for missions! Questions: Contact Missy Sistrunk at 392-1163. Mission Matters A monthly newsletter is available with recent news of mission happenings. If you would like to receive the newsletter, please contact Missy Sistrunk at 392-1163 or msistrunk@asburytulsa.org. Preference is for the email version, but hard copies can be mailed if needed. Global Outreach Prayer Ministry N e w s a n d p ra ye r r e q u e s ts f ro m o u r missionaries and ministries are sent each week to our prayer ministry list. If you would like to join and become a prayer intercessor for those serving around the world, contact Missy at 392-1163. Global Outreach Ministry Teams These teams specialize in certain areas and all are open to anyone having an interest in those areas. They are as follows: Caspian Ministry (work in Azerbaijan), Latin America Ministry (work in Mexico, Costa Rica, and Gua temala), Colleg e Missions Ministry, Communications, Estonia Ministry; Kami Tanzania Ministry, International Student Ministry, Missionary Care, and Prayer. If you need further information call the Global Outreach Office, 392-1117. Young Lives (formerly Mentor Moms) First and second Tuesdays of the month, 7:009:00 pm in the Parlor. This is a support group for teenage moms, sponsored by Young Life.
missions/vim Remaining 2007 Opportunities August 9 – 20 / Estonia, Parnu -FULL (please pray for the team) VBS & Light Construction, $2,400 Fall / Cookson Hills, Oklahoma Light Construction, $50 September 19 – October 1 / Azerbaijan Construction & Teaching, $2,200 October 13 – 20 / Monterrey, Mexico Construction & Mission Bible School, $950 November 7 – 11 / Rio Bravo, Mexico Men’s Construction, $500 November 7 – 11/Monterrey, Mexico Medical, $950 VIM Leader Training: McAlester - August 25; Tulsa - November 10. All costs approximate. For further details about Volunteers-In-Mission opportunities, co nt a c t M a rile ne L on g , 3 9 2 -11 64 or mlong@asburytulsa.org
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Asbury Singing Ambassadors Tuesdays, 1:00 pm, Choir Room Celebration Ringers Tuesdays, 4:30-5:30 pm, Rm 2506 New Creation Ringers Wednesdays, 4:45 pm, Rm 2504 Carillon Quartet Mondays, 6:30-7:30 pm, Rm 2506 Asbury Ringers Wednesdays, 6:00-6:50 pm, Rm 2506 Perpetual Light Thursdays, 10:00 am-noon, Rm 2506 Resonance Bell Ensemble Tuesdays, 6:00-7:00 pm, Rm 2506 Asbury Power & Light Sundays, 8:15-9:15 am, Rm 1510 Saints of Swing Dixieland Band Thursdays, 2:00-3:00 pm, Rm 1510
prayer Altar Prayer If you would like someone to pray with you during Holy Communion or right after the service, please come to the altar rail at the front of the Sanctuary. A pastor or member of the Altar Prayer Team will be glad to pray with you for your needs – physical, emotional or spiritual - at the altar or in the Prayer Room. Mason Chapel Prayer Room Accessible Monday through Friday from 8:00 am - 9:00 pm, Saturday from 10:00 am - 3:00 pm, and Sunday from 7:00 am - 9:00 pm. You can enter the room from the outside entrance of the southeast side of the Chapel, with the exception of Sunday from 7:00 am - 12:30 pm. The Prayer Room can be accessed from inside the Chapel during those hours.
recovery Celebrate Recovery Hiding any hurts, habits or hangups? God never intended for you to live in bondage. Come join this supportive group of people each Monday night at 6:00 pm. Dinner at 6:00 pm; Worship from 7:00-8:00 pm; Small Groups from 8:00-9:00 pm; Dessert from 9:00-9:30 pm. Childcare available. Celebrate Recovery Childcare Volunteers needed. Time commitment is one Monday evening per month from 6:45 pm to 9:10 pm. Please call 392-1103 if you can help.
senior adults Senior Sit and Fit Mondays, Wednesdays and Fridays from 9:00-9:30 am in the Gym. Come join a time of stretching with fun and fellowship. Walk in the Gym with Him Mondays, Wednesdays and Fridays from 8:309:00 am in the Gym. Come join a time of power walking with fun and fellowship.
singles Singles Ministry Bowling Night Saturday, August 18. Join us for a fun-filled night, starting with dinner at Red Robin (91st and Riverside) at 6:00 pm. We will then travel to 8711 S. Lewis for bowling at Riverlanes. Children are welcome to attend, and the ministry will pay for those 12 and under to bowl. Sign up at the Meet and Greet table in the CLC or call Tricia Hoeffer by Sunday, August 12 so lanes can be reserved. Singles Potluck Luncheon Sunday, August 26 from 12:00-2:00 pm in the Parlor. Come bring your children and enjoy a delicious lunch, courtesy of your fellow singles. Just bring a “family-sized” food item, homemade or purchased! Great food, great fellowship and new friends...it just doesn’t get much better than that. Singles Meet and Greet Sundays from 8:40-9:10 am or 10:20-10:50 am in the CLC.All singles are invited. Divorce Recovery Tuesdays, 7:00-8:30 pm, Rm 2319 - For those suffering from the early, highly emotional stages of divorce and separation trauma. Divorce Rebuilding Thursdays, 7:00-8:30 pm, Rm 2319 - For those ready to rebuild their lives after separation or divorce.
students Dallas Trip for 7th through 12th Grades The Dallas trip is back!! We will leave around lunch time on August 6, hit a Rangers game and then spend all day on August 7 at Six Flags or Hurricane Harbor (your choice) retruning home around 11:00 pm. Registration is due July 31. Cost: $50. Small Group Leader Training August 19, 5-8:30 pm in the Student Ministry Area. ATTENTIONALL SMALL GROUPLEADERS: This is more than a meeting. It is an equipping of our Small Group leaders to use their God effectiveness to its greatest potential and change the lives of students. It’s a critical MANDATORYSmall Group Leader DUTY that you be there. There will be food, seminars, worship and much more. Mudfest Mud, mud and more mud is what will be in store for you when you come to MUDFEST on August 26 from 5:00-8:00 pm. We will eat at 5:00-5:30 and then hit the mud pit. Firetrucks will arrive just before 8:00 pm to spray us down. Be sure to wear old clothes (not white) because they will get ruined. Ultimate Frisbee Every Sunday throughout the summer, 3:00 pm at LaFortune Park. 10th, 11th & 12th Breakaway Wednesdays, 6:30-9:00 pm - Breakaway Area. Join us every Wedne sday for a time of connection, worship, learning about God, and
some nights of just random fun. Don’t miss the food and hangout time afterwards. 7th, 8th, & 9th Grade Breakaway Sunday mornings, 9:15-10:30 am in the Breakaway Area. This isn’t your normal Sunday School. Come join us for worship, fun and games, interactive talk/ lesson, and sometimes free candy and gift cards. 7th, 8th & 9th Grade Sunday AM Prayer 9:00 am - 9:15 am in the BAM Room. God hears our prayers. Start Sundays off right by praying with the 7, 8, 9 band, Mark and Marsha for the Sunday services, friends, family, the Asbury congregation, Tulsa, the U.S., and the nations. No sign-up necessary. Leaders and parents, we would love to have you there, too.
women Final UMW Summer Luncheon Thursday, August 2 from 11:30 am - 1:00 pm in the CLC. Attention all ladies! Join us for our final Covered Dish Summer Salad Luncheon. Bring your favorite salad and a friend and get ready for a fun, relaxing time with your Asbury family. Home Improvement Ministry Workday Saturday, August 8. Workers meet at 8:00 am. The Home Improvement Ministry serves Asbury widows and single moms. Our Men’s Ministry volunteers make themselves available every other month to help folks out with minor home repairs and/or home improvement projects. Just pick up a request form at any W elcome Center or call Pam at 392-1199, ext. 253 at least 10 days before the scheduled workday. A Home Improvement volunteer will contact you before the workday and make arrangements. UMW September Luncheon Thursday, September 6 from 11:30 am - 1:00 pm in the CLC.Attention ladies. The special guest speak for September’s UMW luncheon will be Cindy Mayes our new Pastor of Prayer and Belonging. This will be a wonderful opportunity for you to get to know Cindy better and bear witness to her heart for ministry at Asbury. A delicious luncheon will be provided at no cost to you. However, there will be donation baskets set out if you would like to contribute toward the cost. Bring a friend and a part of the blessing. Car Care Saturday September 15 from 9:00 am - noon outside the Student Ministry Breakaway entrance, north side. This service is provided for Asbury’s widows and single moms by our Men’s Ministry every other month. While the ladies wait in the comfort of our Student Ministry Cafe, volunteers check tires, belts, fluids, filters and batteries. They also vacuum and wash the vehicles and update the owners on what’s running smoothly and what needs professional attention. This free service gives our men the opportunity to put their faith in action through loving and serving those in need. No reservations required. Just get your vehicle in line by 11:30 a.m. Value of a Woman Conference Mark your calendar for Saturday, October 27. Watch for details. Women of the Word Wednesday from 10:00-11:00 am in Rm 1502. Rev. Darlene Johnson, teacher. Phone Buddies Ladies, do you want a “cheer me up” with your morning coffee? We have ladies that can fill that need by being your own “phone buddy!” Call 392-1142. Arts and Crafts Mondays, 9:30 am - 2:00 pm, Rm 2821. Women who enjoy crafts are invited to come any Monday morning...come and go any time. Bring a sandwich for yourself or a lunch to share.
worship Online Worship Did you know that you can watch the 9:15 and 11:00 a.m. Sunday services online as they are occurring? Go to www.asburytulsa.org then click on “Watch Sermons” (by Tom’s picture). If you cannot attend worship, you can log on and share the experience. Or if there is a sermon that you wish someone else had been able to hear, send them to our website where several weeks of sermons are archived.
Serving Through Community World War II veterans are dying at the rate of 30,000 a month. In mid-June 2007, one of these was Charles Goss. Charles, a fighter pilot, was shot down over Germany. Walking at night and hiding by day for several weeks, he finally reached American troops. Charles’ community determined how they could honor his sacrifices. They expressed their appreciation for his service to our country by taking a dish of food to Asbury for the family dinner after his memorial service. When Jesus was on earth, He could have multiplied the food of one dish to feed 35. For this need, Jesus chose Charles’ community to multiply the food. The email below shows that, just like in Jesus’ time, His servers were all women. “Dear Class, Thank you for your great response for food for the lunch for the Goss Family. There will be approximately 35 to 40 people to serve. I will prepare ham(s) and the four ladies signed up for salads, four ladies signed up for vegetables, two ladies signed up for potato dishes; five ladies signed up for desserts, another has signed up to bring bread, while seven others signed up to bring anything! Please call or email me with a preference for what we need to round out the meal. We could use two or three more potato dishes, one more salad, one more vegetable, and one more person to bring bread. Please make your dish to serve 6 - 8 people. The service for Charlie is at 11:00 on Thursday morning in the Mason Chapel. Serving tables will be set up in the Foyer just outside the Parlor in the main building, so bring your dish there no later than 10:45 a.m. so we can get them in a warming oven or the refrigerator. The service will be approximately an hour and the family will be receiving people afterwards, so we must keep the food warm/cold until th ey are ready to eat. If anyone has a question, please call or email me tonight or tomorrow morning. I thank all of you for being so willing to help. In Christ’s Love, Sue Richards”
The women of Charles’ community offered their condolences to his family through their gifts of food. By baking and cooking, they honored the sacrifices Charles made for them many years ago. - John C. Westervelt
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WORSHIP Communion Preparation Duties: Prepare the elements and place on serving tables Dates/Time: Sundays - 8:40 am to 9:00 am Frequency: Each Sunday for one calendar month Location: Sacristy and sanctuary Number of positions: 2 per month Contact: Carolyn Yoder cyoder@drd.com or Joan Kahl at 392-1176
Communion Stewards Duties: Serve communion during the 9:15 service Dates/Time: sign in 9:00 am Frequency: Each Sunday for one calendar month Location: Sacristy and Sanctuary Number of positions: 12 Contact: Carolyn Yoder cyoder@drd.com or Joan Kahl 392-1176
CELEBRATE RECOVERY Childcare Duties: Watch over and interact with children of various ages while their parents attend CR lessons and small group sessions. Background clearance required. Dates/Time: Monday evenings from 6:50 to 9:10 pm Frequency: One Monday a month Location: Children’s Ministry area by the South door Number of positions: (6) Contact: Charlotte Jones persnickety@swbell.net
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results of a relationship inventory. Couples of all ages and remarried couples are needed. Training. Twenty hours of training required. Training starts Tuesday, September 25, 6:30 to 8:45 pm and ends November 13 (no meeting October 2). PLUS one training session on Saturday, September 29, 9 am to 3 pm. Childcare provided for Tuesday night training classes. Two-five hours per week of homework. Frequency: One hour/week with engaged couple, plus monthly 1½ hour supervision meetings (4th Tuesday evenings, except June, July, August & December). Number of positions: 10 couples Contact: Charlene Giles, 392-1145
DISCIPLESHIPPLESHIP Resource Room Librarian Duties: Maintaining the room that houses our resources for small group curriculum and RoadMap classes. We are currently getting it arranged, catalogued and computerized. Once it is up and running, we will need a couple of volunteers to check in and check out materials on the computer, as well as help people find what they are looking for. Dates/Time: Tues, Wed., or Thursday – your choice of time Frequency: 1 -2 mornings or afternoons a week Location: Work will be in downstairs Resource Room, behind front office. (See Diane King in upstairs office suite) Number of positions: 2-4 Contact: Diane King at 392-1122 or dking@asburytulsa.org
New - Community Connections Duties: Help guests and members select and locate a community to attend. Dates/Time: Sunday morning – 8:45-9:30 or 10:30-11:15 a.m. Frequency: Goal is one Sunday a month Location: Welcome Desks Number of positions: 24 each time period Contact: Diane King at 392-1122 or dking@asburytulsa.org
For a comprehensive list of volunteer opportunities, go to www.asburytulsa.org/getinvolved
CHILDREN’S Elementary Small Group Leader Duties: Reinforce the lesson taught by staff through interaction and discussion with the children. Dates/Time: Sunday mornings either 9:00 to 10:40 or 10:40 to 12:00 Frequency: Every other month on an even/ odd rotation Location: Elementary Sunday School Rooms – Second floor Number of positions: 20 Contact: Amy Russell 392-1175
7, 8, 9 STUDENT MINISTRIES 9:15am Volunteer Duties: Hang out and monitor 7th, 8th, and 9th graders during Breakaway. Dates/Time: Sunday mornings 9:15 am Frequency: month on, month off, or when available Location: BAM room in Student Area Number of positions: 6 a week Contact: Marsha Baker 392-1157
HOSPITALITY Usher - 9:15 Sanctuary Duties: Greet, hand out bulletins, direct visitors/members to seats, serve and/or direct communion. Dates/Time: 9:15 Sanctuary Service, Frequency: three (3) months a year, volunteer’s choice Location: Main Sanctuary Number of positions: several Contact: Steve Everley at steve.everley@fmcti.com or David Fadler at dfadler@olp.net or Joan Kahl 392-1176
Usher - 11:00 Sanctuary Duties: Greet, hand out bulletins, direct visitors/members to seats, serve and or/ direct communion . Dates/Time: 11:00 Sanctuary Service Frequency: 3 months a year, volunteer ’s choice Location: Main Sanctuary Number of positions: 10 Contact : Carl Richards at carlrichards@cox.net or Joan Kahl 392-1176
Welcome to Asbury... Greg Brandon Eric and Margaret Baker, Robert and Kyle Southard and Jonathon Baker Larry Bowles & Melvina Clinton
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Larry and Lois Christianson
David and Julie Crismon, Garrett and Gavin
Diane Coughlin
John and Deborah Croisant Chad and Karyl Stonecypher, Sadie and Gunner Bill Dorn
Scott and Meighen Graham Bart and Cathy Boatright, Davis and Bryant.
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Join the Family Jordan Stone
Asbury Exploration is a time to meet the Asbury
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pastors and several of the senior staff. It is a time of food, fellowship, and presentations. A brief history of Methodism is presented, along with the Bridge (Steps to Peace with God), as well as a short history of Asbury United Methodist Church and a review of where we are headed. Much of what Asbury has to offer and what is expected of
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members is discussed, and the process of how to join Asbury. Written information on all the above topics is provided to each family. Please call for reservations at 392-1191
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Another part of the membership process is to spend time in a pastoral visit. We want you to know at least one of our pastors so that when life’s difficulties arise, you will have a pastor who can help you through it.
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Perfection is not required of Asbury members, but we do want to grow and get better. As John Wesley, the founder of Methodism said, “If your heart is as my heart, lend me your hand.”
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Choose from one of the upcoming membership classes: Sunday, August 5
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Sunday, September 9 Sunday, October 7 Sunday, November 4 Sunday, December 2 Classes are from
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12:15 – 2:30 p.m. Call 392-1191 to make
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New Member Photographers: Allen H. Robison and Diana Fields
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your reservation. Childcare is available and lunch is included.
we rejoice... Caroline Rose Draper
in appreciation... There are no words which can adequately express the thankfulness the family of Larry Lane has for the many, many get-well cards, the offers of help, food brought to the home, and then the expressions of love and caring at the time of his death. Thank you for the cards of encouragement that arrive every day, gifts in his memory to Asbury, and offers of assistance doing just anything that needs to be done. The outpouring of love has touched our lives in such abundance, the overwhelming gratitude for the honoring of Larry’s life - we are indeed blessed beyond measure. Larry had a deep love for Asbury and was truly saddened when he was unable to attend because of the illness from the cancer. He loved the Lord. He immersed himself in sacred music and uplifting messages which continued to strengthen us both, and allowed us to be reassuring to our families. We truly love our Asbury family and thank you for all you have meant to us and your ministry to the Lane family. Blessings to you all, Shirley and family Dear Tom and Brothers and Sisters in Christ, Greetings in the Name of our Lord Jesus! Thanks so much for the kindness and generosity you have shown all of us at First Church in Oklahoma City. We were privileged to remember you all in prayer last Sunday morning as we dedicated the 400 beautiful pew Bibles that you so generously gave to us. We were “on the same page - literally” as we read several scriptures aloud together. It was a great blessing for our family especially, to know this gift came from our good friends at Asbury Church. We thank God for each of you and your great love for Him and us! Blessings to you as we continue to serve Christ and advance His kingdom here on Earth. Thanks again for your generous gift! Yours in Christ’s Love Mark McAdow, Senior Pastor First UMC, Oklahoma City
June 13, 2007 James Logan Graham June 15, 2007 Ariana Grace Reeves June 19, 2007 Lauren Annette Isaacs
June 21, 2007 Kellen Beilue Rhoton
July 7, 2007 Isaac James Bergin
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we remember... Paula Galusha June 12, 2007 Joe Bondurant June 14, 2007 Charles Goss June 16, 2007
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Thank You to the 284 adult and 158 teens who spent the last week of June helping us create an incredible VBS. Because of them, 887 kids were loved, taught, fed and cared for, with 28 making first-time professions of faith. We had a wonderful week and couldn’t have done it without all your help. Children’s Programming Staff
Gary Snider
June 18, 2007 Terry Smith June 24, 2007 Stephen Schmaltz June 26, 2007 Tom White husband of Sallie June 27, 2007 ASBURY TIDINGS
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in celebration of marriage
Murrel & Helen Cowherd August 14, 1947 60 Years
40 Years Kent & Jeanette Young July 6 Gene & Irene Bond August 15, 1942 65 Years
Bob & Dotti Westerberg July 22 Bill & Johanna Graham August 5 30 Years Tom & Dana Harrison July 30
Monroe & Jan Reece August 2, 1952 55 Years
20 Years Mark & Lenice Bailey August 14 15 Years David & Stephanie Hurd July 4 Mitch & Lori McKinnon August 1 Amy and Scott Wells August 8
Dick & Gwen Mohler August 1, 1952 55 Years
10 Years Joe and Jessica Cunningham July 19
Dean & Marilyn Smith August 17, 1952 55 Years
Mike & Millie Rhoads July 31 Jimmie & Laura Deibert August 2
Chuck & Phyllis Bailey August 3, 1957 50 Years
Lance & Danielle Holmes August 9 Rolland & Violet Bowers August 18, 1957 50 Years
Congratulations to those who are celebrating Milestone Anniversaries (5, 10, 15, 20, etc.) Report your Milestone Anniversary to patticooper@cox.net or call 392-1146.