Honoring the Generations by Asbury Church

COMMEMORATIVE ISSUE

february 2012

motional health. Glorify God and Make Disciples. Are these related? Tom believes they are. In 2011, he discussed a book with our staff titled The Emotionally Healthy Church by Peter Scazzero. The thesis of the book is that discipleship development depends heavily on the emotional health of individual congregants and on the leadership of the church. Scazzero says that church leaders often fail to address what spiritual maturity looks like as it relates to emotional health. Tom speaks in terms of developing the whole person: spirit, mind and body. The author goes on to say that as a result of a church’s neglect of this issue, we can have members who are supposedly “spiritually mature” but are emotionally immature. Many studies in America have revealed that often there is little difference between Christians and the rest of society in terms of family stability, divorce, financial behavior and busyness. The same has been suggested of emotional and relational maturity in general. When we become Christians, it does not erase the past nor heal negative impacts from our past nor automatically transform us into better people. Yes, we’ve all heard the impressive stories of immediate release and healing from the past. But these stories stand out precisely because they are not the normal case. The advantage we have as Christians is that the Holy Spirit is available to help us transform in all ways. However, the normal avenue through which the Spirit acts is other people, particularly within the church. We need to be willing to receive accurate assessments of ourselves and then commit to education, training and practice in order to improve. Being a Christian does not entitle us to shortcuts. Asbury provides a conducive environment and specific means to grow emotionally and relationally. Perhaps most important is our emphasis on community and relationships. Interaction with others is required for development. It has been said that we can’t know ourselves without being known by another. This is one reason why from the beginning the Church has encouraged “belonging,” i.e., living out the faith together. Many opportunities exist at Asbury. We have small groups and adult discipleship communities focused specifically on connecting with others. Another effective way to establish relationships is to serve with others. Asbury offers many places and ways to serve. Asbury believes that the family is a fundamental building block of the Church and of society. Successful marriages are part of that picture. We invest in marriages several ways. Couple-toCouple provides pre-marriage counseling. We have a marriage ministry devoted to strengthening and saving marriages. Our pastors are available for spiritual consultation. Roadmap (Asbury’s adult Christian education) offers applicable courses. For those recovering from a marriage that did not succeed, we offer support groups and other services. For those who are going through tough situations, Asbury has several things to offer. Stephen Ministers are members who have been trained to provide a listening ear and a helping presence for others who need support while they struggle through life’s rough times. Celebrate Recovery has helped many people recover from “hurts, habits and hang-ups.” Various support groups also meet at Asbury. Financial stress has a negative impact on families and on a person’s relationship with others and the church. Financial Peace University is offered through the Roadmap ministry. Many people have been put on a better path financially by participating in this course. Much more could be said. The key point is that Asbury is committed to “Glorify God and Make Disciples.” Tom is passionate about developing mature disciples. That means that a person is capable of helping others become disciples. We believe that to effectively help others develop we must each be continuously improving spiritually, emotionally and mentally. “Spiritual maturity” alone, as often defined, is not sufficient. Asbury will continually strive to be a place where the whole person is developed for advancing the Kingdom. Dwight Yoder

Contents

A Word From Tom Harrison 50th Anniversary Kickoff The Birth of Asbury Charter Members: Johnna and Jerry Himes Charter Member: Mary Frances Carle The Friendship Class Couples, Growing Through the Years “And now, the rest of the story….!” Asbury Fun Facts Asbury’s Faceted Glass Windows Where Are They Now? Charter Member: Willie Sue Wade Memories of Past Anniversaries Recognizing Asbury’s Members Whereabouts Is Wesley? 50 Hour Prayer Vigil Do Life (Better) Together, Part 1 Three Asburians We Are Following Grandpa John Recipes of the Month Opportunities Special Announcements

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We need you! Do you have a story of what God has done in your life? Please contact us and tell us a little bit about what God has done. We will all be encouraged by hearing stories of what God is doing in the lives of those around us. Are you a writer or someone who enjoys writing? The Communications Department is always looking for someone to do an interview and write a story for us for Tidings. Have you noticed that we’ve been making some changes in Tidings? Please give us your feedback— both good and bad. Email kmains@asburytulsa.org or call 918.392.1140. Asbury Tidings is a monthly publications designed to tell stories of lives being transformed by the power of Jesus Christ. You may read back issues by visiting www.asburytulsa.org. Editor: Asbury Communications Department, 918.392.1140, kmains@asburytulsa.org Graphic Design: Tim Jurgensen, tjurgensen@ asburytulsa.org Photographers: Chris Lo (matchadesign.com), Mark Moore (markmoore.photo.net) Guest Contributors: Nikki Boyd, Charlene Giles, Rod Giles, Stephanie Hurd, Sylvia LaRose, Gloria McGee-Denton, Missy Sistrunk, Cheryl Steffen, John C. Westervelt, Carolyn Yoder

A Word From Tom Harrison Fifty years! To some, it seems that time has just flown by! How could Asbury in Tulsa have been in existence that long? To others, 50 years seems like an eternity – how could a church possibly be that old? It’s another reminder: “It’s all about perceptions!” The Book of Romans has some memorable chapters and verses! While the final chapter (16) is rarely quoted in sermons and lessons, he lists in it people he’s heard about or has met. These are many of the “behind the scenes” people who make the church bloom. Bill and Jayne Mason have been the primary shapers of our ethos. They have lived among the people of Asbury for 48 years. His firmly rooted stance is that the Bible is God’s written Word, and that Jesus is the Living Word who brings us the gift of salvation. A true heart of mission, beginning at home but reaching around the world, has remained as a key characteristic. The Masons are recognized for their historical role in the shaping of Asbury. Another person who deserves a huge amount of credit, too, is Johnna Himes. She was Bill’s administrative assistant for 28 of his years. She helped navigate the course for him, and simply cannot be overlooked in our church. She shuns the spotlight, but I had the privilege of serving with her for a year. You’ve no idea how invaluable she was to me in figuring out what to do and how to do it. Phyllis Taylor followed Johnna. She was a huge and calming presence for me. Steady and dependable – like a rock – Phyllis was professional and generous in her time and counsel to me. And both Johnna (Jerry) and Phyllis (Bill) both had husbands who served on our staff and were wise counselors and stewards for Asbury. When Phyllis retired, Victoria Williamson came on to take her place. Like her predecessors, she continues to help me and the whole staff excel. Our staff knows of how much I depend upon her in this role. What Paul was describing in Romans is the way every church operates. He got the spotlight, for good and for martyrdom. But behind every Paul, there are thousands of people who make

ministry effective. Some are on staff; most are members just answering their call to ministry, too. There’s Charlie, volunteering in student ministries; “Grandpa John,” teaching children; Jessica, teaching women in Bible study; Charlene, leading an adult choir; Carl, organizing the ushers; Donna, leading and singing in choirs of all ages; David, playing the trumpet; Renee, cooking for Celebrate Recovery; Novella, answering phones; Lena, attending to the library; Carolyn, leading mission trips; Beverlyn, directing a prayer ministry; Ross, excited about “Global Gardens;” and Bill and Claudia going to hundreds of meetings for church governance. Where do I stop? The list is endless! None of these folks are on the staff. But these are the people who have found a place to BELONG, who have deep BELIEF in Jesus Christ, and who have BECOME involved in service. It’s been my privilege to serve along with so many of these wonderful people. I’m deeply grateful to see this amazing church and to have been part of something historic. I’m very excited and optimistic about seeing what God will do in our years to come. Thanks to all of you for making it happen! To God Be the Glory! Dr. Tom Harrison, Sr. Pastor

Advent Conspiracy Update by Missy Sistrunk Thank you for your generous participation in Advent Conspiracy. You have made a real difference for many people in our mission ministries. Contributions are still being taken. As of this writing, the following has been donated: Local Outreach: $15,945 Global Outreach: $36,170 TOTAL: $52,115

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Asbury is celebrating our 50th anniversary by “Honoring the Generations.” The February issue is a commemorative issue with information on Asbury’s history, pastors, church building and members. Each month we will have a section to celebrate a different ministry for the last 50 years.

Join the Celebration! 50-Hour Prayer Vigil February 3–5 6:00 am on February 3–8:00 am on February 5 Sign-up for one hour time slot at www.asburytulsa.org. Individuals, families or small groups can sign up. “For the Lord is good; His faithfulness continues through all generations.” Psalm 100:5 Mason Chapel Prayer Room All-Church Reception to Honor Past and Present Pastors Saturday, February 4, 2012 6:30 pm–8:00 pm Main Foyer Sunday Morning Worship and Communion Sunday, February 5, 2012 9:00 am and 11:00 am Sanctuary No services in other locations Charter Member and 40+ Member Banquet Sunday, February 5, 2012 1:00 pm Community Life Center (CLC) Where’s Wesley Check out a Francis Wesley doll to take on an adventure. If your adventure is going to a ballgame, grocery store or skiing then take Wesley along. We have a journal you can record the adventure and take pictures of Wesley with you and your family. Dolls can be checked out from the reception desk in the main office. We invite you to log your miles and to write about where you went and what you did in the journal, and online through Asbury’s website or John Wesley’s Facebook page. 2

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compiled by Kay Mains Excerpts from The Heritage of Asbury United Methodist Church. Writers were Dottie Elliott and Novella Willis The year was 1961. President John F. Kennedy was in his first year in office and Tulsa, Oklahoma was called the “Oil Capital of the World.” The city was experiencing tremendous growth with the arrival of many oil companies. In fact, southeast Tulsa was growing at a very first rate, and in what had once been called the “outskirts” of town, new neighborhoods and businesses were popping up in section after section. The Missions Board of the Tulsa District of the Methodist Church was being led to check out the rapid growth in southeast Tulsa in order to perhaps purchase land there to build a church. In another area of Tulsa, a man of God and his wife (who had recently retired after a fruitful ministry that spanned some forty years) were making plans about how they would spend their retirement years. Ninety miles to the southwest of Tulsa in Oklahoma City, a young man who had committed his life to Christ at a Billy Graham crusade seven years previous felt called by the Lord for full-time ministry. He was now in his second year at Perkins School of Theology at Southern Methodist University. God was at work establishing and equipping His church that would be called “Asbury” with His “clergy in waiting.”

The corner of Sheridan and 60th Street was the focus of the Missions Board, and interest and excitement were increasing dramatically that this was the site to build the church. A decision was quickly made to buy the five acres. Rev. J.O. and Wilma Whitworth were just settling into retirement when quite unexpectedly their plans were put on the shelf and their lives took another path. It was a familiar path though, that led the Whitworths back to the pulpit once more. Their challenge was even greater this time around. They had been asked by District Superintendent, Ira Williams, to start a new congregation in southeast Tulsa. The Whitworths had no hesitation in accepting the challenge. The answer was a resounding “yes!” Throughout their ministry, they had always served as one in the Lord’s work, and the new task laid before them would be no exception. Reverend Whitworth was aware when he accepted his new assignment that land had been purchased, but he did not know the specific location. He was eager to see the site, so when the District Superintendent invited him to “take a look,” he enthusiastically

Important Events in Asbury’s History 1961

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Missions Board begins looking for land to establish a new church in southeast Tulsa. Land was purchased at 60th and Sheridan.

First service held in Francis Scott Key Elementary School foyer

Asbury formally organized by receiving nine persons into membership

Membership now numbers 29 charter members

Rev. William C. Mason appointed pastor

Rev. James Holston appointed pastor

Reverend James O. Whitworth asked to begin new congregation.

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accepted. Two sites were viewed without any prior revelation of the one that had been chosen. As the two men parked their car on the summit at 61st Street and Sheridan Ave. and looked around, Reverend Whitworth explained with a joyous proclamation, “This is the place!” The remaining six months in 1961 were busy ones. The Whitworth’s spent their time knocking on doors of the homes in the area. Their mission was to locate families with Methodist backgrounds to encourage and invite them to be part of the new condition. Many lasting friendships were made. Arrangements were made with the Tulsa Public Schools to have Sunday morning services in the foyer of Francis Scott Key Elementary School, a few blocks west of the church property. The name “Asbury” was selected by the Board of Missions, naming the church for the first Bishop in America, Francis Asbury. The first worship service was held Sunday, January 7, 1962. The nucleus of Asbury was twelve families. The group was small but their hearts were full of joy.

Reverend and Mrs. Whitworth remained at Asbury until May, 1963, at which time they retired for a second time. Reverend James Holston was appointed in June, 1963, to serve as a pastor of Asbury. The congregation, now totaled 29 families, was still meeting in Key School. Plans were being made, however, to build the first unit on the property at 60st and Sheridan. William Cameron Mason, age 38, had just graduated from Perkins School of Theology at SMU. He was very excited to accept the Bishop’s appointment to serve as ministry of the very new and young Asbury. Bill picked up where Rev. Holston had left off. On July 27, 1964, a bond sales campaign was launched. Groundbreaking ceremonies were held on December 13, 1964, by Asbury’s 158 members. An educational unit with ten classrooms and a fellowship hall seating 250 for worship, with an attached kitchen was built. The plan included the eventual construction of four buildings.

Asbury was formally organized on February 4, 1962, by receiving nine persons into membership. Asbury continued to receive charter members until the end of July, and the total membership now numbered 29. The only possessions the newly formed church owned were the speaker’s stand Reverend Whitworth used and the folding chairs on which the congregation sat! The school had no air conditioning, so attendance was sparse when the weather was hot. The first major purchases of the new congregation were two large fans. Since there were no facilities for child care, Wilma Whitworth made sure her purse contained provisions for squirming young children—gum, pencils, paper— things to occupy squirming young children. Mrs. Whitworth also filled in sometimes for her husband, delivering sermons and conducting funerals, as well as calling on prospective members.

The congregation had now grown to 266 (with 110 children on the preparatory roll), and they were certain they heard angels singing praises of thanksgiving with them as they gathered on June 27, 1965, for the first service in the new building. At this point, 60th Street was not even paved! Worshipers parked in a

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First service held in new building

Five additional classrooms added

Kitchen, expanded, church parlor added, and Goodwin Hall education wing added

Ground broken for new sanctuary and balcony to seat 800

First worship service in new sanctuary

New church building was dedicated

Fellowship Hall enlarged and five classrooms were added

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small gravel-covered parking lot which was later covered with blacktop in consideration of ladies wearing high-heeled shoes. An astonishing growth for Asbury had begun…to God be the glory! In less than six months, the building and more rooms were needed. There was an additional expansion in 1968. In 1970, with a membership of 1365, Asbury launched a building project called “A Turning Point in Your Life.” The church expanded again. A new educational wing was named “Goodwin Hall” in honor of the James Goodwin family who had been such loyal workers in the growth of Asbury Church. A beautiful handmade cross by Ken Maltby was installed on the wall above the altar in Fellowship Hall. Later, this memorable item was incorporated into the lovely cross which hung in Asbury’s sanctuary. Eventually, this cross was moved to Mason Chapel in the new location at 67th and Mingo.

glass windows were planned for the sanctuary, the Great Chapel, the Chapel, and the Bride’s Room, along with other places. These windows were offered to the congregation as memorial or honorary gifts; the windows sold immediately. When Asbury eventually moved to the 67th and Mingo location, these windows came over and were incorporated in the new chapel. In the 1980s, the building was overflowing with membership of 4400. Plans were made to expand the church facility by pushing out the side walls to provide 400 more seats. Land was also purchased for additional parking. The first services in the enlarged sanctuary were held on March 6, 1983. Plans also included the construction of a Family life Center adjoining the church building. This was later dedicated as Mason Center, honoring Reverend Bill and Jayne Mason. 1993 was the beginning of a new era for Asbury United Methodist Church. The senior pastor who had led Asbury for 29 years, Rev. Bill Mason, officially retired. In April 1993, Dr. Tom Harrison was appointed by Bishop Solomon and delivered his first sermon on June 13 to a packed sanctuary. Blessings abounded on both sides that warm Sunday in June, amid joyful laughter and tears of joy. Tom had revealed his heart, his love and his passion for the Lord. He revealed that he liked to laugh and have a good time. He also revealed, unashamedly, that he is an emotional man, that he wept—even when in the pulpit. Change was on the horizon, but Tom was committed to make no changes during his first year. Later when he talked about change, he always lovingly followed up, after introducing something new, with the phrase “but change is good!” The one thing that has not changed since the establishment of Asbury Church, however, is the mission statement, “Glorify God and Make Disciples.” It will not change; it is a key to Asbury United Methodist Church.

Almost before the church occupied the new space, plans were on the drawing board for a sanctuary, the final part of Asbury’s master plan. Ground was broken in November 1972. Faceted-

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Bill Mason retires. Dr. Tom Harrison appointed

Two large triangular shaped banners on blue felt background attached to rods were installed in the sanctuary soon after Tom arrived. Although the banners were intriguing to the members, the words were life-changing words that ministered to the

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Spring 1997

Dr. Tom Harrison’s first sermon to a packed sanctuary

Discussion about relocating begins

Asbury declared “debt free”

Site selection committee formed to find a new location

Jubilee Sunday to retire all remaining debt

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congregation as Tom delivered his sermons regarding them. Koinonia (Belong), Kerygma (Believe) and Diakonia (Become). On May 8, 1995, Pastor Tom Harrison called for a “Jubilee Sunday” as an offering would be taken to retire all remaining debt on the bonds. On August 21, Tom announced that Asbury was “debt free,” two years before anticipated. Tom wrote: “I can assure you that God is not finished with Asbury yet. We will build again.” So in June of 1995, the Long-Range Planning Committee began meeting again to study the present needs and physical facility of the church. It was eventually determined that the present facility could not be expanded sufficiently, so relocating seemed the best option.

encouraged to bring a sharpie pen or sidewalk chalk to write scriptures, praises and prayers on the concrete slab. Initial plans included a sanctuary, fellowship hall area, chapel, classrooms, and of course parking. As the Lord blessed and gave increase, there would be room for additional buildings and expansions. Tom said “We’re not building this building for us and for our needs—we’re building it for THEM—for the other s who God is calling us to reach.” On May 12, 2003, the skyline of south Tulsa was forever changed when the steeple and cross went up on the new facility.

A site was identified. After extensive negotiation, the transaction fell through. The comment was made “God must have something better in mind for us.” And sure enough, He did. Two Asbury members, Bill and Betty Manley, had purchased a 35 acre parcel at 67th and Mingo in 1967, the same year that Asbury was founded. Over the years, they passed up many opportunities to sell, waiting for the right one. God led them to hold the land, and 37 years later, Asbury was ready to purchase. The Manleys sold the parcel to Asbury for just over half the appraised value. The sale was closed in early 2000; a dedication of the land was held on September 24, 2000. It would be a few years before the new building was completed. In the meantime, the land was just sitting there, waiting. Along came “The Tractor Man,” Mel Pearson. After retiring from his veterinary practice, Mel asked his wife Mary what she thought about buying a tractor to keep the Asbury land mowed for a few years before construction would begin. Mary, who has a servant’s heart as well, approved the expenditure. But first, there were heavy rocks and posts left from an abandoned fence to move before the tractor would safely mow the 35 acres.

In preparation for the first worship service, the congregation was invited to read aloud the entire Bible continuously for 75 hours in the new building. Readers signed up as individuals, families, communities and ministry teams. This began on Wednesday, February 25, 2004. While others were reading through the Bible, the pastors and other congregation members began a prayer walk and ceremonial move on Saturday morning, February 28, at 8:00, to move the Bibles and hymnals from the old Sanctuary to the new one. Upon completion of the walk, the walkers joined in the final reading of the book of Revelation, concluding the reading of the Bible in its entirety.

Groundbreaking was January 13, 2002, at 2:00 pm, followed by a foundation dedication service on January 19. The congregation was

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Land purchased at 67th and Mingo

Land at 67th and Mingo dedicated

Dedication service of land

Dedication service of foundation

Steeple and cross went up on new facility

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Read through the Bible begins in preparation of move to new facility

Prayer walk and ceremonial move to new facility

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Construction began in May 2007 in the children’s area, the ice rink and the chapel walkway. Work on the south portico began in July and the north portico in October. The Children’s Expansion provided an additional 25,000 square feet of additional space, adding seven new classroom and a large group space on the first floor and six new classrooms on the second floor. It also provided additional offices for staff, storage and resource areas. The “Tree House” theme made this an exciting area for the preschool aged kids in our program. This area opened May, 2008.

On February 29, 2004, the people of Asbury worshiped in their new church for the first time.

Venue68 was completed and open for services in May 2008. Almost all of the furnishing in the student area came from IKEA, so the youth were involved in all the assembly of the furniture, giving them ownership in the area. That day, Rev. Spencer Smith said, “The Venue is building off of Asbury’s legacy. It’s because of the generations who came before that we’re able to engage in this new era.”

Funds for the Mason Chapel steeple were received October 2007. The donors who provided the funding to build the Chapel later provided the funding to add a steeple to complete the look. By tying the Chapel to the main facility with the covered walkway and the addition of the steeple, the architectural impact was outstanding. But Asbury continued to grow, and soon the building needed another expansion. When the former Ice Rink nearby became available, a decision was made to purchase the land, and that was completed September 29, 2005. Even before remodeling began, there was a prayer walk on April 26 where scriptures were written on the beams and areas which would eventually be covered by new material. Missions Possible began in 2006 to provide funds for a North East Portico, remodel of the newly purchased Ice Rink, expansion to accommodate the growing children’s ministry, expansion to accommodate adult ministries, and a covered walkway to the chapel. Commitment Sunday was May 21, 2006, and a Celebration Sunday on June 25 of that same year. Over 1200 Asbury families made pledges for the expansion projects.

The expansion of the church buildings has been a visible sign of the numerical growth in membership. But Asbury’s ministers and lay leaders have encouraged the congregation to grow spiritually as well. From the beginning the church has had talented, dedicated members carrying out the various ministry opportunities. But the church is not just a building. It is people. God calls us to lead other people to Belong to the family of God; Believe in the Lord Jesus Christ, and Become servants of Christ. We will be obedient.

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May 2008

Feb. 5, 2012

First worship service in new building

Funds received to add steeple to Mason Chapel

Children’s area opened

Asbury celebrates 50 years of serving God and the community

Purchase of former ice rink completed

Scriptures written on beams of old ice rink in preparation of remodel

Construction begins on children’s area, ice rink and chapel walkway

Construction begins on north portico

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Venue68 open for services

Charter Members: Johnna and Jerry Himes by Rod Giles Johnna and Jerry Himes have been part of the Asbury family since inception. Pastor J.O. Whitworth visited in their home, inviting them to help “start” the new congregation to be called Asbury Church. Johnna and Jerry came and became part of a small group of people who became Charter Members of Asbury United Methodist Church. The Reverend James Whitworth worked for two years to build attendance for the young church that was meeting in Key Elementary School until a church building could go up. There were so few members and families that everyone had to “pitch in” and help – many serving in specific church offices and everyone becoming invaluable. Jerry Himes was the church treasurer from the start and served in that capacity for 32 years. Reverend James Holston served for one year after Whitworth retired. And then, a new graduate pastor was assigned to his first pulpit at Asbury in June, 1964. His name was Bill Mason. Bill was a businessman from Oklahoma City, until he felt called to go into the ministry. Bill and Jane and their young family seemed to fit right in. By 1965 a church building was in place and Johnna and Jerry were there to help move in. Bill soon found that he needed secretarial help, so ten women from the church volunteered to each work one-half day per week. Johnna was one of the ten women. That was the beginning of a wonderful work relationship, both for the congregation and for Bill. Eventually, Johnna did begin receiving a salary, and, per Bill, it reached a respectful amount after several years! Johnna continued as Bill’s assistant for 30 years. Johnna could work any and all machines through the years. She could also repair things that would go wrong. For years she wrote a column in the church paper called “The Church Mouse” which people looked forward to reading. Jerry, who grew up in the Methodist church, remembers watching the church grow and grow. The most challenging issue seemed to be the many building projects that took place. Jerry said it seem that after one phase was completed the very next Sunday attendance had outgrown the new facility. Jerry said it seemed the custodial staff grew faster than any other part of church staff. “So, what was the reason Asbury grew so rapidly?” Johnna felt it might be contributed to two things. First, Bill was a recruiter, maybe a part of his business background. Bill would often put weekly church bulletins in the neighbor mail boxes. That had to

stop after Bill was “reminded” that doing so was a felony. Bill also insisted that the church be made available to the community. As a result, Alcohol Anonymous, SE Rotary Club and the Boy Scouts met at Asbury for years. The parking lot was always full. Some things never change, for good reason! Johnna remembers one annual event was the “Fourth of July Parade.” Kids would decorate bikes with streamers and flags and such and ride from Key Elementary School, Asbury’s first home, to the church located at 59th and Sherridan. Talk about local outreach. Johnna and Jerry’s family was there. Asbury has always had a focus on missions and I asked how that came to be. Johnna said, “Why, Bonnie Tyere and Gladyce Smith were responsible.” They kept making more and more requests for missions money, so Bill just put them in charge. A shrewd managerial move on Bill’s part. They eventually grew the missions giving to 10% of the total church budget, and then some. Gladyce’s daughter-in-law, Mary Ann Smith, began to work at the church as missions coordinator. Since that time, missions has grown to reach world-wide, as well as a local focus. All because early members of Asbury understood the importance and established the precedence. Johnna and Jerry were in the middle of all this. With Jerry’s service as Church Treasurer for so many years, it was a simple move to full time business manager when asked. He served the church for five years. Meanwhile, Johnna continued to assist Bill Mason as secretary and all-around general assistant. In 1993, Bill retired. By 1994, Johnna and Jerry felt it was time they retired as well. They left Asbury’s employment after helping to make the ministerial transition from Bill Mason to Tom Harrison as head pastors. No doubt they made Tom’s first year at Asbury a lot easier.

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Johnna laughs when she thinks about a pastor friend of Tom’s who urged Tom to fire Johnna and get his own new assistant. Tom chose not to take his friend’s advice.

to the new building on Mingo the phrase changed to, “That’s not the way we did it at the old church.” Jerry observed that change can be difficult, but it is constant.

Jerry stated that they wouldn’t trade their experiences at Asbury for the anything. The biggest challenges where with each building project. He remembers one church member who would always say, “That’s not the way they did it at Mother’s church.” After the move

Much of what Asbury is and has become was due to God’s leading our charter members. They are still serving, alongside a host of friends. God bless all our members!

Charter Member: Mary Frances Carle by Sylvia LaRose Ask, and it will be given to you; seek, and you will find; knock, and it will be opened to you. For everyone who asks receives and he who seeks finds, and to him who knocks it will be opened. - matthew 7:7–8 nasb It started with a knock on the door. Asbury founding pastor James Whitworth and his wife, Wilma, had been canvassing the neighborhoods in south Tulsa looking for believers who might be interested in joining a new Methodist church. When Mary Frances Carle opened her front door to the couple, it began a 50 year relationship that brought her closer to her Lord. Mary Frances was born in Moore, Oklahoma, and grew up around the Oklahoma City area. She graduated from the University of Oklahoma and then moved to Bartlesville for her first job at Phillips Petroleum. Eventually, she and her husband relocated to Tulsa. And having been raised in the Methodist church, Mary Frances wanted to continue her connection with God, and she began attending services downtown at Boston Avenue Methodist. “When the pastor and his wife knocked on my door and invited me to come, I said yes,” explains Mary Frances. “This new little church…well, I felt they needed any member they could get!” In the early 1960’s the small collection of new members met Sunday mornings at Key Elementary School. “At first, we met in the hallways,” Mary Frances describes. “And the Sunday school was in all different classrooms. When the church graduated to the gymnasium, I thought that was big step! We could actually arrange the chairs like a regular service instead of being jammed up in the hall.” The little church added more members and ministers…and grew! Soon Pastor Bill Mason was leading an effort to construct an Asbury sanctuary building on Sheridan Road…less than a mile from its humble beginnings in a school hallway. “When our church building went up, Saint Francis Hospital was going up too,” Mary Frances remembers. And just as the hospital has added on many

Mary Frances Carle, right, at Asbury’s 30th anniversary event times over the years, Asbury’s first small building added on again and again to accommodate its growing membership. Eventually Asbury grew so much, it needed a much larger sanctuary and built the present complex on Mingo Road. As a charter member and active supporter of Asbury and its mission to “Glorify God…Make Disciples,” Mary Frances served on the first Commission of Missions and continued to work in missions for several years. She was active in the United Methodist Women organization, serving as Vice President, as well as giving her time and talent on the Asbury Administrative Board and Children’s Council. Her compassion and generosity also extended beyond Asbury walls, as a volunteer for Meals on Wheels and the Alzheimer’s Association. “I think Asbury does a good job trying to reach everyone,” says Mary Frances. “And their new location is so big! I think they are able to do more because of the size.” And what is Mary Frances’ hope for Asbury’s next 50 years? “They are a friendly congregation, and I hope they continue to invite people. Knock on some doors…and open hearts to the Lord.”

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The Friendship Class Asbury’s First Adult Sunday School Class by Diane King

he Friendship class was organized in 1962 and was the first adult Sunday School class at Asbury. As a consequence, the median age of its members is in, but not limited to, the great-grandparent category. Though members are now older in age, the lesson emphasis on scripture is ageless, and numerous mission outreach projects and social activities have strengthened their concern for others. In September of 1965, the class boasted 46 members as well as several visitors. The class grew steadily and by March 1966, the average attendance of the Friendship class was 81. Early teachers were Bob Coulter, Earl Kenslow, Larry Cheeves, Richard Crow and Bob Mercer. Current member Chris Tom tells what it was like in its heyday, “I married into Asbury when I married my husband Bob. He was a member there. The Friendship class was so large, there were no seats available in the room. If Charlie Richardson and his wife hadn’t moved, Bob and I wouldn’t have had a seat!” In May 1967, Ralph Thomas became the teacher of the Friendship class and continued until Bill Brown began teaching in 1970. Bill retired from teaching in 1996 after teaching 55 years, 26 of which were spent with the Friendship Class. The class was taught by Reverend Charles Richardson from 1996 to 1999 and Reverend David Thomas took over from 2000 to 2006. Esther Gene Morrison taught for a few years, and now they rotate among different teachers. One of the special things that happened each Sunday in the Friendship class, as reported in the September 6, 1996 church newspaper, was that the two-year-olds paraded their way through the aisles of Grice Hall’s most mature Sunday School class and received a hug or two and lots of “high fives,” then sang together “Jesus Loves Me.” What a great reminder of God’s abiding love for all his children, young and old! With the move to our new building, the Friendship class was placed in the Parlor, which is the closest adult room to the children’s area. This makes it easy for the two-year-olds to come in each Sunday morning to join them in singing songs together. Always strong supporters of mission projects, Asbury’s first out-of-state mission trip was taken by members of the Friendship class to McCurdy School in New Mexico. Other hands-on mission involvement over the years has included Camp Egan, the Frances Willard Home, Restore Hope, Ft. Gibson Lake cabin, Alaska,

Slovakia, Costa Rica and Guatemala. Other mission support has included Operation Hope, Happy Hands, Youth Missions, Destination Discovery, Thanksgiving baskets, the Boy’s Ranch, Habitat for Humanity, Cookson Hills Indian Mission and financial support for various missionaries from Asbury.

As we celebrate our 50th anniversary as a church, let us honor this group of our elders who have given so much to Asbury. They deserve our respect. The Friendship class has traditionally held a social on a quarterly or seasonal basis. The class care program is designed to oversee those who for any reason are “under the weather.” That is the history of Asbury’s oldest “Sunday School Class,” or discipleship community, as we call them now. How are they faring today in 2012? Friendship membership has dwindled over the years as they have said goodbye to their beloved participants as they go home to be with the Lord. Thirty-seven members remain on the rolls, including associate members Rev. David and Patty Thomas and Esther Gene Morrison. There are only two couples left, as the rest have lost their spouses. Some are still members of Friendship but cannot attend due to ill health. Three charter members of the original class remain: Lovelle Butler, Florence (Rosy) Cunningham, and Ethel Hubbard. The current Friendship community remains active and faithful to the Asbury church

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DO YOU REMEMBER? A church newspaper article dated November 26, 1965, reported that the class voted to underwrite the cost of 150 new Methodist Hymnals at a cost of $3.00 each. According to a March 1966 church newspaper article, on Sunday, March 27, the Friendship class was to be divided into two groups. A study group led by Wint Wilks broke off, and that class later became the J.O.Y. class

family and its mission, giving to others and serving as well as caring for their own members who need care. Chris Tom, Nancy Maddin, and Ethel Hubbard have served in leadership roles to keep things running for Friendship. Nell Parsons recently stepped in to help lead, and Dewey and Oralene Sherbon come in often to help with teaching the Sunday lesson and other needs. Betty Godsey accompanies on the piano for the praise time.

In October 1967, a piano was given to the class by Charles and Melba Soule. Philelle McBrayer was pianist, and the song leader was Charles Parker. In January 1968, the class purchased fifteen Bibles which were presented to the third grade students. That same year, the class also purchased drapes for the Youth area.

This loving group of Asbury’s oldest members have served the Lord faithfully and remain examples to the rest of us of what Paul the Apostle speaks of when he says, “I have fought the good fight, I have finished the course, I have kept the faith.” (2 Tim. 4:7) Current active members still cheerfully meet every Sunday morning at 9:15 in the Parlor, and joyfully sing with the two year-olds, “our pride and joy!” Those few precious moments spent together with the little ones bring immeasurable blessings to both groups. Their message to the rest of Asbury is that they would love for others to join them. They invite individuals, or even another community, to join in with their group as they continue their journey as a community. As with any smaller community with fewer active members to fill leadership roles, it can be a struggle to keep things running smoothly for the group. “We are still as active as possible, we are a loving group, but we need help,” says Ethel Hubbard. “We have the best room right there at the entrance of the church, where it is easy to get to. We would love to share it with another group!” says Chris Tom. “We could offer a safe harbor for a new group who wants to form. We have prime real estate, and we could partner together with each other!” adds Nancy Maddin. As we celebrate our 50th anniversary as a church, let us honor this group of our elders who have given so much to Asbury. They deserve our respect, and desire our helping hands. “You shall rise up before the gray-headed and honor the aged” Leviticus 19:32a “A gray head is a crown of glory; It is found in the way of righteousness” Proverbs 16:31 If you would like to join or discuss ways to help this group, please call Diane King at dking@asburytulsa.org or call 918.392.1122.

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Couples, Growing Through the Years by Charlene Giles

Carl and Joanne Weatherford Married 55 years (June 15, 1957) Members of Asbury for 48 years (joined July 26, 1964) Carl and Joanne Weatherford’s son, Mike, was just four years old when they joined Asbury as a young couple. The church was still meeting at Key Elementary School at the time. In Carl’s words, “All of us need a church family.” Joanne settled in as a second grade Sunday school teacher. It must have been a good fit with her spiritual gifts, as she held that post for twenty five years until health issues made it too hard. Obviously she invested her life into these children, for when I began asking her questions for this article she had a question of her own. “Is Justin your son? I taught him in second grade.” That was thirty years ago. Joanne still keeps in touch with many of her former students, which must bless them greatly. Carl found his niche in the Friendship Sunday School Class. He and Joanne still belong, though there have been recent months when they have been unable to attend. “No one forgot us,” he states. “This year the class has been especially important, as there have been challenging health issues for both of us. We appreciate the TLC shown to us with calls, cards, food and fresh flowers.” You can be sure that, in years past, the Weatherfords have done their share of caring for their friends, too. Mike grew up attending Sunday night youth meetings, where he made several lasting friends. In fact, when Mike is in town he still connects with Pastor Larry Varvel, whom he met at Asbury when they were in seventh grade. When it comes to advice for young couples, the Weatherfords simply suggest, “Find a church home and get connected. You will gain more than you ever can give.”

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Bob and Beverlyn Summers Married 57 years (August 14, 1955) Members of Asbury for 48 years (joined December 20, 1964) Then there are the Summers. Bob and Beverlyn joined Asbury when they were both thirty years old , their son Bo (Robert Jr.) was three and a half, and Blair just three months old. They, too, found a home in the Friendship Class. They remember lots of class parties and get-togethers, especially once the church moved to the new building on Sheridan, and there was a big kitchen with plenty of room for tables and chairs. Son Blair was the first baby baptized in that building. Later they often had parties at Trudie and Bill Brown’s house, as Bill was their teacher for many years. They, like the Weatherfords, commented on the caring relationships in the class, as well as everyone’s desire to grow in the knowledge of God’s Word, help others and help Asbury grow. Other favorite family activities through the years included: Jayne Mason’s annual 4th of July parade, Boy Scouts (Troop 10), Vacation Bible School and children’s activities. The Summers believe that God has blessed Asbury from the beginning with anointed pastors, dedicated staff and talented volunteers. They are especially pleased that through all the years of change Asbury has continued to be a welcoming place to all, where people feel the presence of the Holy Spirit. Bob served on several boards and has done many church jobs, but his most interesting role was as “keeper of the church keys” at his pharmacy across the street from the Sheridan building. He also served as head usher for over fifteen years. Prayer is especially important to Beverlyn, who has volunteered in that ministry area for many years, including serving as leader for the Acts 29 ministry. Their marriage has been enriched through the years as Asbury has provided ways for them to grow individually and together. Specifically, they mention that the church helped them realize the importance of commitment and forgiveness. With the support of caring church friends, their marriage has survived and even thrived through times of illness, death, sadness and joy. Now that they have been married over fifty years, they really enjoy participating in the special February banquet that honors all couples who have reached that fifty year mark. As for advice for young couples and families today, the Summers recommend praying as a family, attending worship together regularly, and seeking ways to serve using the gifts God has given. “Being involved at Asbury will keep you grounded, and you will be better able to handle all of life’s problems as they come.” These two couples and countless other couples through the years have found their way to Asbury. They began to feel they belonged. Their faith in God grew. They served. “Belong. Believe. Become.” Sound familiar? It’s a growth plan that works. Asbury couples and families grow when they belong to a group of like-minded friends who seek to learn God’s Word and support one another through thick and thin. Then all of Asbury grows as families seek to glorify God by serving, using the gifts and talents God has given them. And pleasing God is what really matters as we live our lives together.

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“And now, the rest of the story….!” by Kay Mains

or years, many of us have heard Paul Harvey say “…the rest of the story.” There is always more to the story of a building being constructed than just the construction. It’s always about the people. And the past 50 years of Asbury is no exception.

The same year that Asbury was founded, two future Asbury members, Bill and Betty Manley, purchased a 35 acre parcel at 67th and Mingo. Over the years, they passed up many opportunities to sell, waiting for the right one. God led them to hold the land, and 37 years later, Asbury was ready to relocate to a larger facility to serve even more people within the community. The Manleys sold the parcel to Asbury for just over half the appraised value. The sale was closed in early 2000. On October 25, 2011, we learned that Bill had passed away. He epitomized the American dream, starting from a newspaper delivery boy throwing papers in a car that would only drive in reverse to become the founder and owner of OK Fireworks and ultimately a major Tulsa landowner and developer. Many Tulsans can remember buying fireworks at one of the OK Fireworks stands and even more worked at, stopped at, or bought a Christmas tree at the Christmas tree lot on 41st and Harvard, which he started, owned, and continuously operated for more than 55 years. As his stock of trees grew over the years, Bill used a small army of high school students as seasonal help. That was his favorite part, he said, of the Christmas tree business—giving so many young people their first jobs. “I have people come up to me, shake my hand and say they used to sell trees on the lot, and they’ll be in their 50s or 60s now,” he told the Tulsa World in 2008. “We’ve trained a lot of kids over the years.” Despite the fact that, by the mid-1970s, OK Fireworks had become the country’s largest importer and distributor of fireworks before he sold it in 1995, Manley never quit his Christmas tree sideline business. He stayed in the tree business because “he just loved to do it. He could tell you where he got his trees from, and which were his favorite. That was Bill. He kept doing it because he enjoyed it.” The end of that era came in 2008, the last December he operated the business. Asbury’s loss of Bill Manley was heaven’s gain. Bill has finished the race and has received his prize.

Another part of this story which you might not have heard—an anonymous donor gave Asbury three million dollars for the specific purpose of purchasing land for the new location. We may never know the name of the individual this gift came from, but God knows. The wooden cross which hangs in Mason Chapel Ken Maltby made the large wooden cross placed above the altar in Asbury Fellowship Hall in 1966 so it would make for a more church-like experience. It had some background work done on it to make it appear larger and was then used in the first sanctuary. The same cross was embellished again and is now on the wall behind the altar area in mason Chapel. Bronze Statue Bob and Hilda Bynum made a gift of the bronze statue of Francis Asbury, Circuit Rider, which stands outside in front of the church. First Altar Table The first altar table used at Asbury in 1965 in the Fellowship Hall was designed and made by Jayne Mason. She stacked North American Van Line boxes and covered them with a white tablecloth. With the candlesticks and Bible stand given by Rev. and Mrs. J.O. Whitworth, it looked like an altar table. No one knew what was under the cloth. And another plus—it could be dismantled and moved easily for special programs. Ten Commandments Monument The monument was donated by Barney and Kay Welch in honor of their 60th wedding anniversary. Having this display fulfilled a dream of Rev. Bill Mason, December 2006.

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Asbury Fun Facts permitted but had to be leashed and decorated with ribbons on their collars. No cars were allowed. The Boy Scouts formed a color guard, carrying an American flag and the Christian flag at the head of the procession. Boy Scout Troop No. 10, first organized in July 1965 as a part of the Indians Nations Council, utilized the Asbury facilities. The November 26, 1965, church newspaper published a thank you from Troop No. 10 to the parents and patrons who attended a Pancake Supper held at the church the previous week. $192.00 was raised to purchase camping equipment for the troop. Annual all-church picnics began in 1992, sponsored by the UMM. The picnics, originally held at Haikey Creek Park and later at LaFortune Park, were enjoyed by many Asbury families. The picnics were held on Sundays following the worship service. The UMM provided hamburgers and hot dogs while church families brought covered dish.

By 1967, the parade had grown to an estimated 500 adults and children, not to mention horses, geese, dogs, rabbits and turtles. The Boy Scouts supplied a drummer and a bugler to keep marching rhythm. Costumes included three boys dressed as “The Spirit of ‘76” two boys dressed as Uncle Sam, one girl dressed as Molly Picher, one as the Statue of Liberty and another as Betsy Ross. An enormous striped cat wore the label “Washington’s Cat.” There were children pedaling decorated tricycles, and a toddler who rode in a blue stroller decorated with red and white streams. Several hundred children got the point of why the nation observes Independence Day far better than if they had been fishing or shooting firecrackers. The parade continued annually for several more years, the last one in 1970.

At the picnic, Earl Stutzman was a hit with his ice cream maker built by his dad many years before. It was powered by an antique John Deere engine and made five gallons of delicious ice cream at one time. It was usually necessary to make two or three batches of ice cream for the group. Beginning in 1966, Mrs. Bill Mason organized Asbury’s Fourth of July parade which became an annual event. 200 children were expected that day, staging an old-fashioned Independence Day parade, carrying flags, riding gaily decorated bicycles and tricycles and pulling wagons with red, white and blue streams. The parade began at Francis Scott Key Elementary school and ended at Asbury church where refreshments were served. Dogs were also

When members of the congregation were absent, Pastor Bill Mason would get in his 1964 Volkswagon convertible and leave a bulletin in their mailbox. Everyone knew his car! That had to stop after Bill was “reminded” by Johnna Himes that putting anything in a mailbox was illegal!

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Asbury’s Faceted Glass Windows The beautiful faceted-glass windows were designed and created by Pepe Mendez, a local craftsman. The large window of Jesus was placed over the front entrance to the church at the Sheridan location, and for many years served as an inspiration to all who viewed it from both within and without. Now a part of the Mason Chapel, the “stained glass windows” continue to bless those who view them and serve as a reminder of our wonderful heritage.

Come to Me (Matthew 11:28) donated by Rex L.& Gladys Smith.

Ruth and Naomi (book of Ruth) donated by John W. Westervelt family, Wallace Westervelt family, Lloyd Boatright Jr. family and others in memory of Ruth Westervelt.

Jesus and the Children (Matthew 19:14) donated in honor of Wm. C. and Jayne Mason.

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Jesus on the Mount (Matthew 5:1–7:28) donated by the Weddington family.

Jesus and the Woman at the Well (John 4:7-26) donated by Mr. & Mrs. G.P. Baber in memory of their mothers and fathers.

The Nativity (Matthew 18:25, Luke 2:1-20) donated by Mr. & Mrs. Don Chandler, in honor of their children, Kelly, Bret, Caron and Cory.

Last Supper (Matthew 26:26-30) donated by Barbara & Jack Anthony and family in memory of Sue and Oren Koonce.

Jesusâ&#x20AC;&#x2122; Healing Miracles (Matthew 3) donated by Mr. & Mrs. James Norton in memory of Fred Mitchell.

Prodigal Son (Luke 15:11-32) donated by Mr. and Mrs. Arthur Washburn in honor of their son, David.

Baptism of Jesus (Matthew 3:13-15) donated by Mr. and Mrs. Bill Litchult

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The Resurrection (Matthew 28:6; Luke 24:34) donated by Mr. & Mrs. Donald Monchil in honor of their son, Allen J. Monchil.

Where Are They Now? Dub Ambrose Served as Minister to Men from May 1996–2011 Currently Chaplain at the United Methodist Manor, Tulsa Bill Clark Served as Associate Pastor at Asbury from October 1979–1987 Currently Chief of Staff at Bayside Church in Roseville, CA northeast of Sacramento Todd Craig Has served as Pastor at Asbury since 2001

David Croninger Served as Associate Pastor at Asbury from January 1976–June 1979 Currently Pastor at Cordell, Oklahoma United Methodist Church Joe Harris Served as Associate Pastor at Asbury from 1982–1987 Currently United Methodist Pastor, Director of Communications and Assistant to the Bishop of the Oklahoma Annual Conference H. Tom Harrison Has served as Senior Pastor at Asbury from June 1993

Darlene Johnson Has served as a Pastor at Asbury since 1999

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William Kuert Served as Associate Pastor at Asbury from 1969–1975 Bill and wife Barbara have served as missionaries in Kenya for many years with the Assemblies of God Jim Lenderman Has served as a Pastor at Asbury since 2008

Mark Liston Served as Associate Minister of Discipleship from 1981–1984 Currently United Methodist Pastor, Director of Communications and Assistant to the Bishop of the Oklahoma Annual Conference William C. Mason Served as Senior Pastor at Asbury from June 1964–June 1993 Currently Pastor Emeritus at Asbury Cindy Mayes Served as Pastor to Children from 2007–2009 Currently Pastor at St. Marks United Methodist Church, Tulsa Mark McAdow Served as Minister of Evangelism and New Member Care from 1995–2006 Currently Pastor at First United Methodist Church, Oklahoma City Gloria McGee-Denton Has served as a Pastor at Asbury since 2011

Linda Petty Served in Ministry of Access beginning November 2000–2007 Currently at Faith Cumberland Presbyterian Church, Tulsa

Chris Thompson Served as Minister of Christian Education at Asbury from 1983–1985 Currently Pastor of Village Congregation Church in Tulsa

Sonny Plischke Has served as a Pastor at Asbury since 2007

Doug Walker Served as Youth Director at Asbury from May 1980–1987, then as Associate Pastor in 1993 Currently Residential Architect and Homebuilder, and member of Asbury UMC

Dick Read Served as Assistant Youth Director at Asbury in 1980, transitioning to Pastor in 1988

Bill Wenker Served as Minister of Evangelism from 1988– 1993 Currently retired in The Villages, Florida

Charles Ryser Served as Director of Missions at Asbury at Asbury from 1982–1984 Returned as a Pastor in 2006 Spencer Smith Has served as Pastor at Asbury since 2008

Tiffany Smith Served as Pastor to Children from 2009–2011 Currently Pastor at Grandfield and Randlett, Oklahoma United Methodist Churches Bob Stamps Served as Associate Pastor from 1986–1988 Currently Dean of the Chapel and Visiting Professor of Worship, Asbury Theological Seminary, Wilmore, Kentucky Michael Strange Served as Head of Adult Ministry from November 1, 1987–June 1990 Currently Pastor at Kingfisher, OK United Methodist Church

In Memory

We recognize those who have gone on to their reward Mary Lou Martin Hartung Director of Community Ministries from June 1994–1996 James Holston Senior Pastor from June 1963–June 1964 John Keefe Minister of the Day on Fridays from 1993–1994 Clarence Morrison Minister of Pastoral Care from 1983–1989 Charles Richardson Minister of Pastoral Care from December 1993–1999 J. O. Whitworth Senior Pastor from January 7, 1962–May 1963

David Thomas Has served as a Pastor at Asbury since August 2000

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Charter Member: Willie Sue Wade by Nikki Boyd

hen you drive by the Asbury campus, it’s hard to believe such a large congregation started as a hand-full of couples meeting in a school. It’s difficult to believe, of course, if you’re looking through human eyes. But from an eternal perspective such incredible growth can be easily seen as a result of God’s blessing through the years and the commitment of thousands of believers investing in the life of His Church. Willie Sue Wade remembers the first days of Asbury, when God was just starting His work. A young married couple in their twenties, she and husband, Jim, were invited to a new church meeting at Francis Scott Key School near their neighborhood. It was the relationships that drew them in. She recalls singing hymns as Reverend Whitworth’s wife played the piano. But one of the most vivid memories Willie Sue has is of their new Pastor, Bill Mason, coming to visit their home and pulling up in his red convertible! After being a part of the first five years of Asbury, a job opportunity took the Wade family to Tennessee for 20 years. In 1979, they moved back to Tulsa and eventually to Asbury. In the years following her husband’s death, Willie Sue took a break and didn’t attend church for a while. A friend reached out to her, inviting her to visit Asbury’s Seeker Community. The sweet fellowship and wonderful Bible study ministered to her and met her right at her need. Willie Sue has been an active member of Seekers ever since.

“We are a large church but there is a niche for everyone. You can find your place here.”

Willie Sue came to know Jesus personally as a young teenage girl. She recalls going to a revival service and seeing a reenactment of the crucifixion. It was so vivid that she was drawn to Jesus that very moment. Through the years, her relationship with Christ has brought her peace, no matter the circumstance. During the difficult time of her husband’s passing, Willie Sue says the Lord showed her there was still a lot of life to live and that He was not done with her yet. The growth in Asbury’s size is an obvious change that Willie Sue has seen as the years have passed. But one thing that hasn’t changed for her is the welcoming feeling. “You feel right at home here,” she says. “We are a large church but there is a niche for everyone. You can find your place here.” Getting a firsthand view of Asbury’s life from its beginning, Willie Sue has seen many things. But it isn’t the big events that have made the most lasting impact on her life--it is the relationships. And her prayer for the future is for Asbury is to keep that closeness, to continue to offer a sense of genuine community to all who enter. “You can’t stop growth when it’s good,” Willie Sue says.

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Memories of Past Anniversaries

10th Anniversary 20th Anniversary

25th Anniversary

30th Anniversary

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Recognizing Asbury’s Members Members 45–50 years Jean Atchison Betty Braithwait Abe Brentlinger Mary Fran Carle Art Clayton Bettye Craig Royce Currieo Bill & Shirley Curry Buddy & Julia Dukes

Jane Duncan Virginia Edmundson Bob Greaves Leah Greaves Don Hardcastle Tom & Lillie Hardcastle Carol Herwig Jerry & Johnna Himes Donald & Chris Hoose

Ethel Hubbard Marguerite Keasler Joyce Lyons Bill & Jayne Mason Rudine McNeill Bill Metsker Gladys Murphy Gary & Peggie Nash Jim & Ronda Norton

Norma Papke Mel & Mary Pearson Nona Ryser Jan Snyder Billie Suchsland Bob & Beverlyn Summers Jimmy & Nancy Swindler Bill & Rosalie Veatch Carl & Joanne Weatherford

Ben & Joy Weddington Ben Weddington, II. Betty Wood Imogene Worthley Steve & Phyllis Worthley Don & Barbara Wright

Bill & Janene Jones George Keenum Marcia Kennedy Don & Betty Kent David & Gail Knox Marilyn Knox Bill Leach Winnie Leach Donna Lester Carolyn Lippincott Dick & Nevin Loerke Ruthie Lowrie Cindy Lyons Nancy Maddin John Marshall George Mauerman Howard & Vera McCloud Jeanne McElroy Doris McRight Andy Meador Sue Meador Roger & LeAnn Metcalf Al & Ruth Meyer Monette Miller Scott Mitchell

Jim & Debbie Mizell Evelyn Nelson Dennis Park Bill & Shirley Parkinson Nancy Parks Jennifer Points Joe & Mary Pottorf Ruth Potts George Prothro Jim & Beth Rainey Mary Randolph Monroe & Jan Reece Julie Reynolds Julie Saxton Eleanor Shirk Dan & Margaret Slagle Rex & Mary Ann Smith Reynard & Betty Spence Nancy Staab Joanne Stadler A.B. & Gwen Steen Ken Steen Bob & Wanda Stotts Larry Stotts Donald & Judy Stout

Barbara Strobel Robin Tanner Anne Terrell Becky Terrell Jean Terrell Don & Barbara Thornton David Tulk Nancy VanDyne Dean & Vesta VanTrease Alan Wade Edie Washburn Dale Webb Pat Wellendorf John Westervelt Wally & Barbara Westervelt Herb & Mary Sue Whitney Carl & Novella Willis Phyllis Worthley Joan Wyatt Karen Yadon Kim Zoglmann

Wanda Burns Pat & Deborah Calhoun J.T. Carter Judy Childers Jim & Marilyn Cinocca Barbara Cluts Corrine Cobble Mike & Dale Coulter

Murrel & Helen Cowherd Joe & Zagnona Cox Jim Cozier Sandy Cozier Susan Cozier Donald & Janet Craig Suzy Cremer Jack & Debbie Crissup

Maylee Cunningham Doug Dickson Nola Dickson Tom & Elizabeth Diehl Margaret Douglass Bob & Jimmie Dozier Randy & Fannie Edens Nellene Eldridge

Members 40–44 years Jim & Fran Allen Geneva Andersen Nellie Ardle Hugh Atchison Cathy Atchley Mary Kay Ball Jim & Susie Barrett Brian Beatie Gary & Ruth Beatie Don & Carol Bergman DiAnn Berry Mark Bezinque Laura Bloomfield Claudine Blough Phil Blough, II. David Bruntzel Floyd & Vida Bruntzel Robert Burlingame Kenneth & Beverly Capron Pat Chandler Syd Chowins Granvel & Beverly Coker Jim & LaRue Coover Hughes Coston, Sr. Bobbie Cotten

Larry Creager Marge Creager Robert Creager Mary Ann Dickson Darrell Duke Tom Duke Connie Duvall Chris & Patricia Elliott Dottie Elliott Vi Finger David & Nancy Frampton Kerry Freeman Helen Frymire Jill Glenn Paula Goree Dale & Patricia Gregston A.C. & Arlene Griggs Crista Grimes Elaine Hack Don & Pat Hardin Christy Hoppe Jim Hunt Donna Jackson Charles Johns Bert Johnson

Members 35–39 years John Alexander Tamera Anderson Shari Arnold Richard & Darlene Baker Michael & Marilyn Bartlett Karen Bartley Phil & Nancy Baxter

Steve Beatie Bob & Dorothy Beck Traci Bezinque Doode Blazer Pam Blevins Logan & Joyce Boltz Barbara Bowden Doris Bradley

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David Frampton Beverly Francisco Bob & Jeanne Funk Mildred Garton Peggy George Giles & Barbara Gere Jamey & Carolyn Gill Dwayne & Awilda Godsey Jo Ann Goss LaVerne Gowans Gene & Barbara Graves Carole Greaves Janet Hall Lanny & Suzann Ham Bill & Jane Hamilton Rod & Chris Hatchett David Haug Theta Heard Evelyn Henderson Don & Mary Herrold Pat Heyland Mike & Sally Hill Carlynne Holmes Jayne Ann Holmes Ida Horeth Bernice Hubbard

James & DeWanda Humphries Basil James Frances Jaynes Edison & Audrey Jeffus Gary & Tommie Johnson Betty Jones Jeff & Lisa Jones Vernon & Maralee Jones Walt & Cherry Kempe Kay King Doug Kirkpatrick Jim & Bettye Knight Pat Lambright Nancy Lang Ben Laster Linda Laster Wanda Lemley Ed & Rita Lenfestey Joe & Beth Limes Karen Lueck Kelly Luttenberg Darlene Mann John & Judy Marquis Mike Martin Wally & Sue Maurer

Carolyn McKinney John McMullen Julie Miles Franklin & Kay Miller Jim & Pat Miller John & Donna Miller Liz Mitchell Ruby Nell Mitchell Cindy Morgan Dave Morse Sue Myers Gary Nash Bruce & Carolyn Nixon Van & Janice Nowlin Jeffrey Ogilvie Sandra Oxley Mary Paull Patty Perdue Bettye Perry Martha Probes Chuck & Kathy Purser Margaret Rafferty Michael Rafferty Forest & Liz Reece Carl & Sue Richards Bill & Donna Ritchie

Bill & Jennifer Roark Marty Roberson Deedee Romo-Richey Mark Rosenberger Gary & Suzanne Ruckgaber Helen Schneider Bob Schroeder Greg & Jan Schueller Jim & Ann Schulz Jim Schulz Tracy Schulz Dick Scott Fred & Joanne Setser Red & Phyllis Sheffield Ron & Sue Shook Sherrill Simon Clay Smith John & Shirley Ann Smith Percy & Vesta Smith W.W. Stoever Brad Strobel Jean Tag Ron Tanner John Thetford Mary Thetford

Tommy & Loretta Thompson Joan Ticer Tom & Diane Toburen Ann Tolbert Steve Tulk Jim & Christine VanderLind Milton & Patricia VanDerwiele Steve & Marcia Vandever David & Janet Wehrenberg Cheryl Welch Bob West Bob & Dotti Westerberg Roger & Moe Westfall Mollie Williford Monica Williford Julie Wilson Bill & Phyllis Wylie Jon & Bonnie Wynn Jim Yeager Judy Young

Couples Married 50+ Years as of February 12, 2012 Don & Pat Hardin Charlie & Ann Hearne Howard & Virginia Hensley Sig & Jan Schwier, III Mike & Louise Borden Ron & Sue Baucom Wade & Donna Floyd Don & Mary Herrold Don & Kathy Winder Roger & LaVonne Fleming Don & Barbara Wright Jim & Marilyn Aud Clark & Judy Walton Leon & Natalie Russell Chuck & Ginny Scott Ed & Ann Parker, II Ken & June Scoggins Ray & Barb Boone

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Richard & Linda Polk Jim & Danys Self Randy & Fannie Edens Jim & Christine VanderLind Roger & LeAnn Metcalf Jim & Linda Pat Colgan Perry & Yvonne Partney Jim & Ann Schulz Warren & Lydia Reichert Dean & Vesta VanTrease Burton & Freddie Howard Tom & Pat Hailey Bill & Jane Hamilton Jess & Mary Mitchell David & Shirley Wilkinson Lou & Gloria Lasiter Truman & Linda Rachels Jim & Sue Allison

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Whereabouts Is Wesley? by Stephanie Hurd John Wesley was a traveling man. Biographers estimate he logged more than 250,000 miles in his lifetime—either on foot, by carriage or most commonly on horseback. Wesley was a preacher, evangelist and church organizer who lived in England during the mid to late 1700s. Most notably, Wesley founded Methodism. It is for that cause that he traveled abroad preaching where ever he could. Since his ideologies were considered controversial by some inside the Church of England, he was not always welcome to preach within their walls—so he adopted the “open air” style of preaching which was becoming common among popular evangelists of that day. Along with preaching (an estimated 40,000 sermons), he organized Methodist societies and classes, and commissioned lay people to minister and preach in his absence. Yet, as an Anglican priest, he insisted that Holy Communion be administered only by those the Church had ordained. In all things, Wesley upheld the authority of the Bible; he preached a message of salvation by faith in Christ alone; and maintained the belief that God’s grace is available to all people. We at Asbury are part of the lasting legacy of this busy and productive man’s life. This year, as we celebrate our 50th Anniversary, Pastor Tom thought it would be fun to get Wesley out and about once again. We want to see where in the world John Wesley might go if he were part of our congregation. This is where you come in. We have assembled satchels, each containing a John Wesley doll for photo opportunities and a journal to keep a record of his travels. A group of fourth, fifth and sixth graders from Wednesday night’s Mission Minded class have been screen-printing the bags and custom binding the journals that will travel abroad with you and Wesley. We have 25 kits available at the reception desk in the main office from February 5th until Thanksgiving. You and your friends or family may check out a satchel for one week at a time and take Wesley with you wherever you go—be it a mission trip, vacation, or “stay-cation.” We hope to see pictures of you and the John Wesley doll in locations all over Tulsa, and all over the world. We invite you to log your miles and to write about where you went and what you did in the journal, and online through Asbury’s website or John Wesley’s Facebook page at: http://www.facebook.com/pages/ Wheres-Wesley/163658040410348. Be sure to look for regular updates to Wesley’s adventures in Tidings, on the Asbury website or follow him on Facebook. Happy travels!

We want to see where in the world John Wesley might go if he were part of our congregation. We have 25 kits available at the reception desk in the main office from February 5th until Thanksgiving. Check out a satchel for one week at a time and take Wesley with you wherever you go.

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50 Hour Prayer Vigil Join Us in Prayer a message from Cheryl Steffen, Prayer Ministry Coordinator

elp kick-off Asbury’s 50-year for the on-site “50 Hour Prayer Vigil” in the Mason Chapel Prayer Room. The fifty hours begins February 3rd at 6:00 am and ends February 5th at 8:00 am. Individuals, families, or small groups are invited to sign up for an hour at www.asburytulsa.org.

As we searched the scriptures for support of “50 Reasons to Pray,” I was astounded at the evidence in support of prayer from beginning to end. It is clearly apparent that God desires to connect with us through the format of prayer. Let these scriptures speak to your heart and be renewed in your relationship with God through prayer. You have an open invitation from your Father in heaven to spend time with Him in prayer. What a perfect way to begin Asbury’s next fifty years.

50 Reasons to Pray by Cheryl Steffen, Carolyn Yoder, and Stephanie Hurd

Because Jesus Prayed

Because Jesus Taught us How to Pray

Release God’s Power 12. To James 5:16

Because God Desires Intimate Relationship

Gain Wisdom & Understanding 13. To James 1:5, Psalm 119:169; Proverbs 2:3

Because it is God’s Will

Learn Great & Unsearchable Things 14. To Jeremiah 33:3

Because God is Attentive to our Prayers

Help Us in our Time of Need 15. To Hebrews 4:16, Psalm 18:6

Because God Hears our Prayers

Receive Mercy 16. To Hebrews 4:14

Because God Responds to our Prayers

Because God Accepts our Prayers

Because God Answers our Prayers

Hebrews 5:7; Mark 1:35; Luke 5:16, 6:12; John 17:20, Luke 11:1 Matthew 6:9–13, Luke 11:2–4

Exodus 33:11; Deuteronomy 4:7, Jeremiah 29:12–13 1 Thessalonians 5:16

1 Peter 3:12; Psalm 34:15

Psalm 66:19; Proverbs 15:29; Jeremiah 29:12, Psalm 116:1–2, Psalm 18:6 Psalm 102:17 Psalm 6:9

Psalm 65:2

our Prayers Please God 10. Because Proverbs 15:8; 1 Timothy 2:1–3

Receive the Holy Spirit 11. To Luke 11:13

Have Peace 17. To Philippians 4:6 7 Have Joy 18. To John 16:23–24 Not Fall into Temptation 19. To Luke 22:40, Matthew 6:13 Confess our Sins 20. To 1 John 1:9, Psalm 32:5, 51:2, James 5:16

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Receive Forgiveness 21. To 1 John 1:9, Psalm 32:5

Seek God’s Will 36. To Colossians 1:9–12

Purify Us—For Cleansing & Renewal 22. To 1 John 1:9; Psalm 51:2, 7–10

Live a Godly and Holy Life 37. To 1 Timothy 2:1–2

Receive Healing 23. To Acts 9:40, 28:8; James 5:15–16

Please God 38. To 1 Timothy 2:3

Give Thanks 24. To Psalm 95:2; Ephesians 1:15–16, 5:20, Colossians 1:3

Find God when we Seek Him 39. To Matthew 7:7–8, Jeremiah 29:12–13, Isaiah 55:6

Strengthen our Faith 25. To Matthew 17:20; Luke 17:5–6

Ask for What We Need 40. To Matthew 21:22; Mark 11:24

Relieve Anxiety 26. To 1 Peter 5:7; Philippians 4:6–7

Defeat Satan 41. To Luke 22:31–32

Grow in Spiritual Riches 27. To Ephesians 3:14–21

Deliverance 42. For Psalm 91:15

Know God Better 28. To Ephesians 1:17–19

Strength to Stand—on Any Occasion 43. For Ephesians 6:18; James 5:13–18

Receive Rest 29. To Matthew 11:28–30

Encouragement from God 44. For Psalm 10:17

Receive Blessings 30. To 1 Chronicles 4:10

Courage & Boldness 45. For Acts 4:31

Receive the Desires of our Hearts 31. To Psalm 37:4

the Healing of our Nation 46. For 2 Chronicles 7:14

we are to be Faithful & Devoted to 32. Because Prayer

Unity 47. For John 17:20–23;

Romans 12:12; 1 Corinthians 7:5, Colossians 4:2

33. 2 Corinthians 1:11; Philippians 1:19

Because we Help Others with our Prayers

Our Prayers are Incense to God 49. Because Revelation 5:8

34. 2 Thessalonians 3:1

Because Prayer Spreads God’s Word

35. Job 42:7–9; Ezekiel 22:30

God’s House is to be a House of Prayer 48. Because Matthew 21:13

To Intercede for Others / To Stand in the Gap

Shapes History 50. Prayer Revelation 8:3–5

“For the Lord is good; His faithfulness continues through all generations.” psalm 100:5

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by Gloria McGee-Denton

“Every time I use the word ‘exercise’, I quickly wash my mouth out with chocolate.” Author unknown Kalissa, my 5-year-old daughter, calls it “extra-cise.” Yeah, it’s cute. But sooo true. We talk of health and fitness the same way we talk of prayer, or study, or even attending church at all. It’s always the same: I don’t have time to workout. My son can’t go to youth because of football. I’m too rushed to pray in the morning and too tired to read the Bible at night. Worship doesn’t fit in our family’s schedule. Taking care of ourselves has become the extra thing. Like ordering ketchup on the side. Fries are better with it, but it takes the server so blasted long to bring the ketchup, we go on and eat the fries anyway. We know life is better when we care for our whole selves, but it’s such a hassle to squeeze in these extras that they become spiritual condiments. Because it’s a hassle, we don’t do it. Because we don’t do it, we feel perpetually guilty. Because they illicit such guilt, words like ‘diet,’ ‘Bible study’ and even ‘go to church’ become dirty words we avoid in public, yet our self-talk is ridden with words that perpetuate our sense of failure: “I should…” “I ought to…” “I need to…” “If only…” “Tomorrow…” “Next semester…” My To-Do List often looks like a political ballot with votes for write-ins, because when I do something not on my list, I add it at the bottom and then check it off. Silly, right? But it brings such a sense of accomplishment. Especially when one of the top items hasn’t been checked-off in years. Getting healthy has been a lifelong quest. I grew up with a digestive disease that prevented nutrients from being used by my body, which led to pervasive malnutrition. I’m proof that a size 2— translation: oh so skinny--doesn’t equal healthy. I was weak, sick, in pain, and constantly worried that the wrong food at a church potluck could send me into a downward spiral that might land me in a hospital bed faster than I could say “No, thank you, Mrs. UMW Lady”. My limitations weren’t of the self-inflicted “I don’t do carbs” variety. They were lifesaving tools that helped me navigate high school, college and young adult life with a chronic illness. By the time my illness was gone at age 25, I was so tired of being careful that I took my doctor’s words to heart when he said I could

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now eat anything I wanted. For the first time since elementary school, I did! The truth is my hips don’t lie. They are a testament to a thousand answered prayers. But… There’s always a ‘but’, isn’t there? They are also a reminder that I’ve gambled away my God-given health by not taking care of myself. Saying “I should eat better” and “I’m gonna try to go for a run” wasn’t enough to keep me from rebelling against the dreaded sense of constraint that brought memories of painful times. I was letting my past spoil my present and possibly damage my future. Unfortunately, the same is sometimes true of our relationships with God and the church. In the past, we may have been hurt, disappointed, confused—and being back in a pew for worship, or back on our knees in prayer, can take us someplace we don’t emotionally want to go. Just as sorting through boxes of photos and memorabilia reminds us of loved ones we’ve lost, and cleaning a cramped garage stirs up dust and old fears of scarcity. I know. It’s hard to deal. We prefer the difficult stuff of life stay under the same rug as our dust bunnies or tucked in the back of our spiritual junk drawer, right? To bring it out in the open might make us look weak, or vulnerable, or (gulp) only human! Despite Don Henley’s lyrical insistence that we like this kind of “Dirty Laundry”, I don’t. But even more than that, I don’t like to have the same elusive item sit unchecked atop my To-Do List. As Asbury celebrates our 50th Anniversary, there’s a tremendous sense of gratitude in the air. Asbury has a rich heritage of blessings and challenges and learning and more blessing. I’m inspired by what God has done through the people of Asbury and by your excitement about our future as we “Glorify God and Make Disciples” together.

for a life shared with others. Maybe tackling those mountains of clutter will help you trust God to provide as you have need. Perhaps as you sit in worship, the old voices that once said you were a nogood sinner will fall silent, and you’ll begin to hear the voice of God saying he loves you no matter what, telling you that your past doesn’t have to dictate your future. By the way, for all you too-cool-to-be-cliché people…making a resolution supposedly makes us 10 times more likely to succeed. If you don’t like the idea of a resolution, call it a goal. It’s easier to spell, and if you say it fast and loud, it sounds celebratory! Go ahead, try it. Or as Pastor Tom Harrison suggested in his New Year’s Day sermon, call it a Revolution. It’s a new beginning, a fresh start, a blank page and clean slate. Over the next few months, I’d love it if you would join me in this new adventure of finally taking care ourselves—snatching our spiritual, mental and physical health from the condiment bar and making them a main course. Hebrews 12:12-13 put it this way: “So don’t sit around on your hands! No more dragging your feet!...Help each other out. And run for it!” (Message) Are you willing to make prayer and worship a staple in your diet? Tidy up your life? Mend some fences? Give or help others more? Let me know. We’ll “run for it” together, and we won’t get “tired and give up!” And I’m sure that God will provide all the strength and faith we need to do life (better) together. #runthehumanrace – Twitter Gloria McGee-Denton – Facebook Running The Human Race – blah-blah-blahg (blog)

Hebrews 12:1-3 encourages us, “Since we are surrounded by so many examples of faith, we must get rid of everything that slows us down, especially sin that distracts us. We must run the race that lies ahead of us and never give up. 2We must focus on Jesus, the source and goal of our faith. He saw the joy ahead of him, so he endured death on the cross and ignored the disgrace it brought him. Then he received the highest position in heaven, the one next to the throne of God. 3Think about Jesus, who endured opposition from sinners, so that you don’t become tired and give up.” (God’s Word Translation) Knowing I needed to swap things that slow me down and distract me—like poor health and fitness habits—for things that add value, I made a New Year’s Resolution to be healthy. I know…could I be any more cliché? With much support, I’ve stuck to it. Not only do I want to honor the gift of life God has given me, I want to be the best person, mom, wife, daughter, sister, friend, disciple and pastor I can be in the future. When we’re better, our witness, our work and our worship are better. When we’re better, our church is better. Gratitude is such a powerful motivator as we look to the future. Maybe those old photos and mementos will make you thankful

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Three Asburians We Are Following For One Year Christian: New squad leaders! Teams have changed guys! We are now Cair Paravel named after the castle in C.S. Lewis’s The Chronicles of Narnia where the four sibling kings and queens dwelled. There are so many dork-tastic things that we love about the symbolism in Narnia. If you are unfamiliar with the way that squad’s on the world race work, I shall give you a brief rundown. A squad is a group generally 40 to 70 people that travel together for each 11-month trip. I am a part of A-Squad which has roughly 45 members. All 45 of us travel from country to country together. Once we get to the countries, we split up into our different teams. Teams are usually between 5-7 people and our squad of 45 has 7 teams. Each team has a team leader, which is what I got to be for Team Waldo during the first three months. On each 11-month trip, there are two people who have already completed their own 11-month trip who join the new squad as squad leaders for the first four months. After that time period, they raise up 2-3 new squad leaders and invite them to take over leading the squad when they head home at the end of month four. Our squad leaders have been two amazing people named Phillip and Christy. These two people blow my mind with the way that they seek the Lord and seek to lead people to just the depths of the Father’s heart. They have been and continue to be phenomenal leaders for A-Squad. They speak life, vision, and direction into the entire squad and specifically the team leaders. ...and they’ve invited Rachel and myself into that. It significantly changes the next eight months of my trip in that our main ministry will be A-Squad now, but I am really excited to see what the Lord has to call me into during these months coming up. Our hope for this team is just that God would use it to push us each further into the Heart of the Father than we could go alone. Please continue praying for each of us.

Rachel: Serving the One True God Happy New Year! I hope that each of you had a wonderful Christmas celebrating the birth of our Savior and are enjoying the start of 2012. Spending the holidays in South Asia felt weird without family and close friends nearby but ended up being a really good holiday. I went to Sri Lanka with a group of friends for Christmas, and it was incredible! It was really nice to get away from India for a little bit and enjoy some quiet and relaxation. This was a great time to just fellowship with other believers, debrief

our experiences in India thus far, and laugh a lot. This was a much needed break, and God was so faithful in giving me this break at just the right time. I returned to India refreshed and rejuvenated. Please pray that rejuvenation lasts for a long period of time, it seems to never last long enough. I have now been in India for 3 1/2 months! How bizarre is that? Sometimes it feels like I have been here for years, and other times it feels like time has flown. I am also blown away by the amount that God has taught me in these few short months. God has been teaching me my desperate need for Him. I know I have written about this before, but this is still regularly on my heart to share. Isaiah 45:5-6 says “I am the Lord your God and there is no other, apart from Me, there is no God. I will strengthen you, though you have not acknowledged me, so that from the rising of the sun to the place of its setting, men may know there is none beside me. I am the Lord and there is no other.” I love that. Living in a culture with so many gods and seeing so many broken people who spend hours upon hours each day visiting different temples to pay respect to each idol is heartbreaking. We are so blessed to serve and love the one true God that is full of grace. My heart breaks daily for my Hindu friends that visit the temple out of fear of being reincarnated into anything less than a man. I can’t imagine living that kind of life. I know this is a random tangent, and I’m really hoping it makes sense. Basically, I’m so desperate for our God, because I’m so weak without him. His grace is sufficient and his love empowering. I pray that each of us may pursue Him in a way that we only find contentment and satisfaction in Him. Thank you so much for being alongside me for this journey. I am humbled to be serving here in India. I love you all!

Kayla: Christmas mania The Christmas mania began in October. From lights to huge trees to life-sized Santa’s, you name it - Venezuelan’s have it! While wearing a blinking Santa hat, I taught students words like “stocking” and “ornament”. After going over some standard English Christmas lingo, we learned a few American songs together. Before singing “Joy to the World”, we translated the song line by line. It was a great opportunity to talk about the Gospel and discuss why the world should celebrate the birth of Jesus. I want to thank you all for making it possible for me to share the greatest gift of all with these students: knowing Jesus Christ as their Savior. Without your support and prayers, I would not be able to share the hope that I have with them. Please pray for God to guide my team in the direction He wants us to go in ministry this coming year. Please pray also that God would lead me to the girls He wants me to pour into through discipleship.

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GRANDPA JOHN

My Extended Family by John C. Westervelt I was a seventeen-year-old senior in high school in the late spring of 1945. American troops were fighting in Europe on the way to Germany and in the Pacific closing in on Japan. Wallace, my yearolder brother, had left for San Diego for navy boot camp. My dad had died two years earlier. My mother, a schoolteacher, maintained a comfortable home for my year-younger sister Harriette and me. I remember riding my bike home from the downtown telephone office where I worked from 1:00 to 5:00 as an office boy. I knew when I reached home on north Twenty-Sixth Street the aroma of supper would be in the air. My wise mother made me feel like I was the man of the house. She often asked for my advice. So I began a lifetime of being the helper. I was not a good helpee. This worked well for sixty-five years. That all changed in February 2011 with deep snow and record low temperatures. Now in my eighties, I no longer shovel snow or venture out on snow-packed roads. After seven days of being home alone, I ran out of milk, eggs, apples and bananas. My children are in Texas. People in my Asbury community were also staying off the snow. For sixteen years I have been a helper at Asbury’s weekday preschool. The preschool teachers are in their classrooms before nine o’clock preparing for the arrival of children at 9:30. At 9:15 a strong voice in a hall some distance away calls out “Prayer Time.” Nearby, the message is relayed down the adjacent hall. Twenty women and I gather in a circle holding hands. First, needs are shared, and then one of the women leads in prayer. God was going to use His snow to teach me that my fellow preschool teachers are my extended family. I would become a receiver of help, and these teachers would be my helpers. On Saturday, February 5, 2011, the sun was out reflecting off of the snow-covered landscape. Melody Moore, a preschool teacher, and her sons, Brandon, age 16 and Christian, age 14, came to my house at 12:30, saying they wanted to shovel my snow. I asked them to do the front porch, the sidewalk to the street and over to the driveway, the driveway by the front yard, a two-foot swath in front of the garage door, and beside the garbage can. Wanting to teach her sons to give a little extra, Melody helped them also clear a narrow path all the way around the wrap-around driveway.

As Melody and her boys were finishing, Paula Smallwood, my fellow teacher in the four-year-old class, and her husband Gary delivered milk, eggs, apples, and bananas. I had given Paula the list after she had called the day before and had said she was concerned about me. She and Gary went to three stores before finding eggs. Paula and Gary lived in Alaska for five years before leaving when their son Brooks was nine months old. They had no problem driving on snow-packed roads. On Sunday, February 13, after staying in the house for twelve consecutive days, I backed across six inches of snow on the back drive and then drove forward to the street. North on 70th East Place to 51st street was mostly clear. The arterial streets to Asbury and the parking lot were entirely clear. Back home after church, I stood on the walk beside the front porch to observe the thaw that had begun with sixty-degree temperatures forecast for the week. Closing my eyes for a moment to listen, I remembered the same sound from walking beside an Arbuckle Mountains stream below Turner Falls, Oklahoma, as a boy at Methodist church camp. The running water was gurgling as it dripped off the roof into the gutter and down the spout. I looked at the steady flow of clear, cold water as it fell onto the concrete pad that directed the flow into the yard on its way to the front of the lawn. Still in a contemplative mindset, I thought, “After all those years of insisting on being the helper, I have finally experienced being the helpee. I sensed the joy of those that were able to help me. I felt good receiving. I wished I had not waited so long to learn that my extended family enjoys helping me in my time of need.”

Other stories at www.jwestervelt.com

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RECIPES OF THE MONTH

The following recipes are taken from the Asbury UMW Cookbook. Copies of the cookbook can be purchased for $20 at the gazebo on Sundays or at the front office. Proceeds support Asbury’s church projects, scholarship program, and local and global missions.

Authentic Northern Italiano Meatballs & Sauce Meatballs: 8 slices white bread, no crust 4 large organic eggs

1 c. water

Combine the above and mix well. Then mix the following into the meat mixture. 2 lbs. ground chuck 2 tsp. salt ¾ c. grated fresh Parmesan cheese 1 tsp. pepper 4 T. snipped fresh parsley 1 tsp. crushed oregano Roll meat mixture into 1 ½-inch meatballs and brown in olive oil on low heat or medium heat in canola oil. Drain and set aside. Sauce: 2 c. chopped onion 2 (6 oz.) Contadina tomato paste 5 gloves chopped fresh garlic 1 ½ T. brown sugar ¾ c. chopped parsley 1 tsp. crushed oregano 1 (28 oz.) diced tomatoes 1 (28 oz.) can whole tomatoes, cut up into large pieces 1 (14 oz.) can whole tomatoes, cut up into large pieces Saute onion, chopped garlic and parsley over low heat for 10 minutes. Add other ingredients. Bring to a light boil for 30 minutes. Lower heat to simmer. Add meatballs and cook for 4 hours. Add water, if needed, for preferred consistency. Ladle sauce over good quality spaghetti. Submitted by Nick Sesso This recipe was handed down from my great-grandmother. My mother used to make it when we would visit and she wanted to make something special. The tomato sauce has a wonderful sweeter taste. Occasionally, I will add extra oregano and garlic, which you can experiment with. Each meatball should be rolled into the size of a medium egg. I hope the readers will enjoy this family recipe.

Baked Fudge 4 eggs 2 c. sugar 4 heaping T. cocoa 4 rounded T. flour

1 c. melted oleo (margarine) 1 tsp. vanilla 1 c. nuts

Beat eggs until light. Add sugar, cocoa, flour, oleo, vanilla and nuts. Mix well. Pour into greased clear dish. Bake in a pan of water for 30 minutes at 300⁰. Submitted by Susan Parsons This recipe was my Mother’s who also shared a love of sweets as I do. It makes a bit of a crust on top with a soft consistency on the bottom. It can be topped with whipped cream to add a little bit of a creamy taste. I hope everyone who makes this special dessert enjoys it as much as I do! Baked Fudge is truly one of my favorite desserts. And it is yummy!

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OPPORTUNITIES

Asbury Opportunities RECYCLING PAPER

GENERAL INFORMATION

Recycle unwanted paper products. Three bins are available, located in the south and east parking lots.

BREAKFAST

Come enjoy fellowship with Asburians along with fresh donuts, bagels, biscuits & gravy, sausage, eggs, fruit, and cereal. • Served from 7:00–9:00 am in the CLC • $3 for adults and $1 for children 12 and under

NEW ADDITIONS TO THE LIBRARY

The Asbury Library is a wonderful resource. Thank you to all who continue to contribute books to our Library.

SUNDAY MORNING WORSHIP

8:00 am 9:15 am 9:15 am 11:00 am 11:00 am

Mason Chapel (Traditional Communion) Sanctuary (Contemporary) CLC - Open House Worship (Acoustic Worship, Casual Setting) Sanctuary (Traditional) Venue 68 (Modern with sign interpreter)

ACCESS HANDS OF LOVE SIGN CHOIR

• Sundays, 5:30–6:30 pm, Family Room

SUNDAY EVENING WORSHIP

6:00 pm

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Venue 68 (Modern)

FRIENDS IN CHRIST COMMUNITY

• Sundays, 11:00 am, Room 1507

SUNDAYS FOR CHILDREN AND STUDENTS

6 Weeks–4 Years K–6th Grades 7th, 8th & 9th Grades 10th, 11th & 12th Grades

8:00, 9:15 and 11:00 am 9:15 or 11:00 am 9:15 and 11:00 am 9:15 am only

ADULT DISCIPLESHIP COMMUNITIES

Adult Bible study, belonging, and serving together • Sunday at 8:00, 9:15 and 11:00 am • Options during the week - Tuesdays at 6:00 pm, Wednesdays at 6:00 and 7:30 pm

Here are some ongoing studies you may attend at any time: BELIEVERS BIBLE STUDY

Study on the Imperatives of the New Testament: Meanings, Objectives and Applications • Wednesdays, 6:00–7:30 pm • Room 1508 • Instructor: Don Herrold WOMEN OF THE WORD

SURGERY OR HOSPITALIZATION SCHEDULED?

Be sure to let Asbury know ahead of time by calling Joan at 918.392.1176 so your pastors can be in prayer for you. When you enter the hospital, please designate Asbury as your church. The after-hours pastoral emergency line can be reached by calling 918.492.1771, selecting option 6, and leaving a message for the pastor on call. THE GAZEBO IS OPEN

BIBLE STUDY

Join Darlene Johnson as she leads an open Bible study focusing on the practical application of the Scripture sermon series. • Wednesdays, 10:00–11:00 am (No childcare) • Room 2818

CARE AND SUPPORT RELATIONSHIP MATTERS!

CDs of Tom’s message of the day are available immediately following the worship service - $3. UMW Cookbooks available for $20. Additional volunteers needed.

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Wednesdays, January 11–February 15, 6:00–8:00 pm Room 2818 Childcare available No cost Register online or call 918.392.1191

GRIEF SHARE

GriefShare is a weekly support group for people who are grieving the loss of a loved one. The group offers a comfortable environment where the emotions and process of grief are understood and welcomed. Participants will learn practical strategies for grief recovery through the highly acclaimed GriefShare video series, study guide and group discussion. Individuals may begin attending this group at any time. Group sessions are offered three times per year. • Wednesdays, January 18–April 25, 6:00-7:30 pm • Room 1507 • Cost is $15 for materials • Childcare available • Register online or call 918.392.1191 S.M.I.L.E. (SINGLE MOTHERS IN THE LORD’S EMBRACE)

Join us for a DVD series and book entitled “21 Principles of a Healthy Single Mom.” You will learn to apply specific, workable guidelines so you can flourish spiritually in the midst of overwhelming circumstances. Each principle/video session is self-contained, and you may begin attending at any time. • Third Thursdays, 6:00–8:45 pm • Parlor • Childcare provided • $12 for book • RSVP to Kellie at asburysmile@ymail.com HEALING HATS MINISTRY

An Asbury ministry created to provide hats to cancer patients who have lost their hair. Home spun with knots of love, woven together with help from above! Simply knit, crochet or sew a hat of your choice and drop it in the collection box located next to the Gazebo. Find more information in the literature rack attached to the collection box. • Contact Sue at 918.455.2816 or HealingHatsMin@aol.com VISITS TO ASBURY MEMBERS

Asbury has a group of volunteers (Asbury Connection) who regularly visit people who are homebound, in nursing homes or in assisted living facilities. • Contact Adrena at 918.392.1144 or the coordinator, Linda Pat Colgan at 918.366.3287 or jsclpc@yahoo.com PRAYER CARD MINISTRY

Send cards with God’s encouraging words and our prayers to those who are ill or going through hard times.

• Usually meets first and third Mondays at 9:30 am • Room 1508 • Contact Gwen Mohler at 918.258.5479 or grmohler@aol.com MILITARY CONNECTION

Please join us in praying for our troops in harm’s way and their families. Periodic care packages and monthly encouragement cards with God’s Word are sent to Asbury-related military personnel. The Prayer Ministry also covers them in prayer. Send complete name and address to: • Jo VanDeWiele at 918.459.0888 or Gwen at grmohler@aol.com DIVORCE RECOVERY

For those suffering from the early, highly emotional stages of divorce and separation trauma. • Tuesdays, 7:00–8:30 pm • Room 1335 • Childcare available • Contact Malia Miller at 918.494.9596 or malia.miller@ sbcglobal.net DIVORCE REBUILDING

For those ready to rebuild their lives after separation or divorce. • Thursdays, 7:00–8:30 pm • Room 1335 • Childcare available • Contact Jim Small at 918.697.4220 or divorce-rebuilding@ cox.net MENTAL HEALTH SUPPORT FOR FAMILIES

For family members or caregivers of people affected by a mental illness. • Usually meets the fourth Thursdays from 1:30–3:00 pm • Parlor • Contact Linda Lytle at 918.298.2707 or lllytle@wildflower.net ASBURY BEAR BAGS

Asbury Bear Bags with coloring books have comforted young children for many years, but now you may give a Bear Bag with a scripture-based journal included instead! Great for teens and adults. Anyone may deliver an Asbury bear to someone who is grieving. • Contact Sue at suemorey@yahoo.com

CHILDREN Registration forms for all children’s activities are available in the preschool and elementary lobbies. CORE CHILDCARE HOURS

Parents who are involved in RoadMap classes during these core

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hours will have childcare provided for children 6 weeks–12 years of age with no reservations needed: • Sunday 8:00 am–12:00 pm • Monday and Tuesday 9:00 am–12:00 pm • Tuesday, Wednesday and Thursday 6:00 pm–9:00 pm SUNDAY MORNING VOLUNTEERS

Children’s Ministry is actively pursuing classroom, security and hospitality volunteers. We have two rotations: Alpha (1st and 2nd Sundays) and Omega (3rd and 4th Sundays) at both the 9:15 and 11:00 class times. • Contact Joanna Edwards at 918.392.1166 or jedwards@ asburytulsa.org MURDOCK VILLA VISITS

4th, 5th and 6th graders can serve at an assisted living housing project once a month where the majority of the residents have physical disabilities. Space is limited to the first 10 students. Make sure you sign up early and have your permission slip signed. • February 12 and March 4, 12:30 pm • Rock 2901 • $5 for a pizza lunch • Contact Abby Sluice at 918.392.4583 WEDNESDAY NIGHT LIVE

Join us for worship in the chapel—kid style. We combine music, high energy and a Bible lesson in a setting that encourages kids to learn about worship. Our lessons will tie right into what we are doing on Sunday morning. If you were registered for the fall semester, you will not need to complete a new form • Wednesdays, 7:00–8:00 pm (will not meet February 22 or March 21) • Mason Chapel TAKE FLYTE, 4TH, 5TH AND 6TH GRADERS

Join us as we fly through a series made just for you—“FLYTE: faith, life together” Bible study is made just for you. We’ll talk about heaven, family and more. Discover for yourself how to apply the Bible to your life. Your early registration helps us have the correct number of study books. • Wednesdays, 7:00–8:00 pm • Room 2901 • Cost is $8.00 • Contact Abby Sluice at 918.392.4583 MISSION MINDED CLASS

4th-6th graders can come explore mission opportunities in the Tulsa community. We hear from different agencies one week and then help by creating something to meet their needs the next. • Wednesdays, 6:00–6:50 pm (no class on February 22 or March 21) • Room 2909

• Cost is $10 per week • 918.392.1161 or jedwards@asburytulsa.org. 456 FAMILY CAMP

This event is for a 4th, 5th or 6th grade boy or girl and one parent. You will need to arrive at Heart O’Hills Camp (about 1 ½ hours from Tulsa) no later than 6:00 pm Friday night for dinner. There will be separate indoor male and female cabins. Saturday, we’ll have lots of family time activities planned including sports, crafts and nature walks along with breakfast, lunch and worship in the awesome outdoor chapel. Please pick up a registration form for more details. There are a limited number of beds, so be sure to register soon. • Friday and Saturday, March 9–10, beginning at 6:00 pm • Heart O’Hills Camp • Cost is $85 • Registration deadline Monday, February 6 • Contact Jennifer Barnes at 918.392.4582 or jbarnes@ asburytulsa.org ODD SUNDAY FOR 6TH GRADERS

After the 456 Family Camp, 6th graders and their parent can participate in a ropes course. • Saturday, March 10, 2:00–5:00 pm • Cost is $10/person • Registration deadline Monday, February 6 • Contact Jennifer Barnes at 918.392.4582 or jbarnes@ asburytulsa.org CELEBRATION STATION

Celebration Station is a 52-week complementary children’s program to Celebrate Recovery. While adults explore topics that bring healing and wholeness, kids discover the same truths in ageappropriate ways through worship, crafts, games and activities. • Mondays, 7:00–9:00 pm • Faith Zone • Contact Eryn Wallis 918.392.4588 SPECIAL VOLUNTEERS FOR SPECIAL KIDS!

Do you have a heart to help children with special needs? If so, the Children’s Ministry needs you to volunteer. • Contact Dotti Westerberg at dottiwesterberg@hotmail.com or 918.381.0874

DISCIPLESHIP DISCIPLESHIP COMMUNITIES

If you have not yet found an Adult Discipleship Community check out “Get Involved” on our website, www.asburytulsa.org, or pick up a brochure at one of our Welcome Centers. • If you are 20’s to early 30’s, come check out our newest Sunday morning group at 11:00 am in room 2201, “Transitions”

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8 GREAT DATES WITH YOUR MATE

ENDOWMENTS Leave a legacy that continues to give forever to a ministry you want to support. There are endowments that support many areas of Asbury’s outreach including children, youth, music, missions, and training of pastors as well as a general endowment. You can easily impact a ministry through your will or a current gift. • Contact Dwight Yoder at 918.392.1113 or dyoder@ asburytulsa.org

HOSPITALITY

Do you miss date night with your spouse? Try 8 Great Dates with your Mate. You attend a short presentation and then have dinner out. Sign up online or January 15 at South Lobby or January 29 at Venue68. • Second Thursday of each month (except June), beginning February 9 and ending in October, 6:00 pm • Room 1502 • Childcare available • $25 one-time fee ATTENTION ENGAGED COUPLES

We were recently asked, “why don’t you have volunteers holding the doors open on Sunday morning?” The simple answer is we have very few volunteers willing to do it. Most say Asbury is a friendly church, yet we don’t have enough friendly people willing to serve on Sunday mornings when the need is great to welcome folks who have possibly had little contact with people during the week. We need new volunteers to serve in a hospitality role as greeters and at Connection Corner where many people have their first experience at Asbury. The Gazebo needs new volunteers as well. Are you one of those friendly people? There are special events in early 2012 that will require many smiling servants. • Call Joan at 918.392.1176 to volunteer

If you are planning to use an Asbury pastor to officiate and/or use Asbury’s facilities, be sure to book ASAP to allow ample time for Couple-to-Couple (required premarital meetings).

MEMBERSHIP ASBURY EXPLORATION

Come to a lunch/class to learn more about becoming a member of Asbury. • Sunday, March 4, 12:15–2:00 pm • Community Life Center (CLC) • Childcare available for children six weeks through sixth grade • Lunch provided • Call 918.392.1191 to register

MARRIAGE & FAMILY

MEN

RELATIONSHIP MATTERS!

Sample one, two or all six of these new relationship workshops. Come alone or bring your friend or spouse. Skills and principles apply to friendships, parent/child relationships, marriages and work relationships. Topics include listening, sex, assertiveness, conflict, forgiveness and blended family. Facilitators will be experts in the subject matter. • Wednesdays, January 11–February 15, 6:00-8:00 pm • Room 2818 • Childcare available • No cost • Register online or call 918.392.1191 WEEKEND TO REMEMBER MARRIAGE GETAWAY

Learn practical skills and Biblical principles to strengthen and reenergize your marriage or prepare you for your upcoming marriage. Hosted by FamilyLife, a ministry of Campus Crusade for Christ. • Friday through Sunday, March 9–11 • Renaissance Hotel, 6808 S. 107th East Ave., Tulsa • To register, call 1.800.FL.TODAY or go to www.familylife. com/groups/asburytulsa to save $80/couple by registering for ANY conference using group name, AsburyTulsa.

MEN’S ANNUAL RETREAT – “WHAT’S NEXT?”

Come join other men of Asbury and their friends at our Men’s Annual Retreat. You will enjoy and experience powerful worship, great conversations in small breakout groups, panel discussions led by Todd Craig, Brad Tuggle and Don Herrold, all designed to lead and challenge you on Christian living. Our world-class BBQ feast will be Friday evening. • Friday, March 2 at 6:30 pm, through Saturday, March 3, 2:30 pm • Sky Ranch (near Miami, Oklahoma) • Cost is $50 per person, which includes meals and lodging • Register online at asburytulsa.org. Deadline is Sunday, February 26 • Contact Jim Furman at jnlfurman@cox.net or 918.624.1316 BOY SCOUTS AND UMM DINNER AND PRESENTATION

Do you have a Boy Scout in your family? Were you one? Do you want to see Boy Scouts continue in the Tulsa area? Asbury UMM is hosting a free dinner for all men interested in learning about and/ or financially support the Boy Scouts in the Tulsa area. Men from Asbury and other UMM groups in Tulsa have already sponsored tables for the evening and are providing you an opportunity to come hear about scouting in the Methodist tradition and to donate to the scouting program. Rev. Bill Mason will be giving the

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invocation. Contact us if you would like an individual invitation to dinner, would like to sponsor a table for yourself or for a group, or would like to make a contribution to the scouting program. Asbury communities and other adult groups are encouraged to participate. • Thursday, February 16, 6:00 pm • CLC • Reservation deadline February 9 • Contact Bob Walter at blwalt6884@gmail.com or 918.286.6058 • No cost MEN’S PRAYER BREAKFAST

Make plans to join us for a great time of meaningful worship, lifechanging prayer and an awesome big breakfast. • Wednesdays, 6:30–7:30 am • CLC • Cost is $3 per person; first-time guests are free MATURE MEN’S MINISTRY R.O.M.E.O. LUNCHEON

Are you a “Retired Old Man” who wants to “Eat Out?” If so, then these luncheons are for you! A really awesome bunch of guys meet for good food and great fellowship. • Meet every second and fourth Friday, 11:15 am • Village Inn (71st and Memorial) • Open to anyone 60 years and up • Contact Bud at bdmathes@cox.net or Jim at robersonjim29@ gmail.com

MISSIONS/VIM

* Tentative For more information about these exciting mission opportunities, contact Marilene Long at 918.392.1164 or mlong@asburytulsa.org. For information about the men’s Rio Bravo, Mexico opportunities, contact Jim Furman at jnlfurman@cox.net.

2ND SATURDAY

Looking for an easy way to make a difference and share Christ’s love in Tulsa? Join us for Second Saturday and choose between local mission opportunities. Families with children are welcomed and encouraged! • February 11, 8:30 am at Venue68 • Head to the ministry sites, 8:45; teams work from 9:00–11:30 am; buses return to Venue68 no later than 12:15 pm • Contact Betty Higgins at carevets@aol.com OJT (OVERCOMING JOB TRANSITIONS)

When someone asks “How are you doing?” it sounds like “Have you found a job yet?” God has created each of us uniquely for a specific purpose and some people are still seeking that. We can help. • Third Tuesday each month, 6:30–9:00 pm • Room 2319 • Contact Russ Knight at OJTJobs@gmail.com VIM 2012 TEAM SCHEDULE

• Spring –– Cookson Hills, Oklahoma, Light Construction, $60 • May 31–June 11 –– Estonia, Lighthouse, $2,700 • June 2–9 –– Ecuador, MBS & Construction, $2,000 • June 7–16 –– Central Asia, Relationship, Teaching & Light Construction, $2,200 • June 14–26 –– Tanzania, East Africa, Medical, $2,800 • June 28–July 9 –– Estonia, Camp Gideon, Youth Camp, $2,700 • July 19–30 –– Estonia, Parnu, MBS & Light Construction, $2,700 • September –– Tanzania, East Africa, Construction, $2,800 • Fall –– Cookson Hills, Oklahoma, Light Construction, $60 –– Central Asia, Relationship, Teaching & Light Construction, $2,200 • October* –– Monterrey, Mexico, MBS & Construction, $950 • November 7–11 –– Rio Bravo, Mexico, Medical, $700

VIM LEADER TRAINING

• January 21 (Stillwater, OK) • March 3, September 15 and November 3 (Oklahoma City)

MUSIC CHANCEL CHOIR

We have so much fun…singing, laughing and serving together. Come share your God-given talent with us. • Wednesdays, 7:00–9:00 pm • Choir room • Available for seventh grade through adults. NEW COVENANT ORCHESTRA

• Wednesdays, 6:00–7:30 pm • Orchestra room

• February 25–March 3* –– Monterrey, Mexico, MBS & Construction, $950

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groups within communities and ministries. Just call the Adult Ministries office at 918.392.4589 to reserve the Prayer Room for your group on a weekly or monthly basis.

ASBURY YOUTH ORCHESTRA

• Wednesdays, 5:30–6:00 pm, Orchestra room PERPETUAL LIGHT

• Thursdays, 10:30am–12:00 noon • Handbell room

PRAYER ROOM DAYS AND TIMES

Our prayer rooms are accessible to you at these times: • Mason Chapel and Venue 68 –– Sundays from 7:00 am–12:30 pm, through the interior doors • Main Facility, Mason Chapel and Venue 68 –– Monday - Friday, 8:00 am–9:00 pm –– Saturday, 10:00 am–3:00 pm –– Sunday, 12:30 pm–9:00 pm

CELEBRATION RINGERS

• Tuesdays, 4:30–5:30 pm • Handbell room

To obtain door codes, call Pam in the Adult Ministries office at 918.392.4589.

ASBURY POWER & LIGHT CO.

• Sundays, 8:00–9:15 am • Orchestra room

RECOVERY CHILDREN’S CHOIRS

Come learn about God through music as we sing, play instruments, play musical games. • Wednesdays, 6:00–6:50 pm • Available for children age four (by September 1, 2011) through sixth grade

CELEBRATE RECOVERY

Come join this supportive group of people. Hiding any hurts, habits or hang-ups? God never intended for you to live in bondage. • Every Monday night: dinner at 6:00 pm, worship from 7:00–8:00 pm, small groups from 8:00–9:00 pm, dessert from 9:00–9:30 pm

SENIOR ADULTS

ASBURY SINGING AMBASSADORS

• Tuesdays, 1:30–3:00 • Choir room • Available for senior adults

TWEENAGERS FEBRUARY PROGRAM AND LUNCHEON

PRAYER 50-HOUR PRAYER VIGIL

Asbury is celebrating our 50th anniversary by “Honoring the Generations” Sign up for a one-hour time to pray with us as we kick off this celebration. • February 3–5 • Sign up online at asburytulsa.org as individuals, groups or communities

COOKSON HILLS SEED PROJECT

ALTAR PRAYER

If you would like someone to pray with you during Holy Communion or immediately following a worship service, please come to the altar rail. A pastor or member of the Altar Prayer Team will be glad to pray with you for your needs – physical, emotional or spiritual, at the altar or in the Prayer Room. PRAYER ROOM RESERVATIONS

The leadership of Asbury’s prayer ministry would like to remind you that the main facility Prayer Room is open not only to individuals desiring to pray in a quiet, meditative atmosphere but also to prayer

Program by Steve Wright of Yellow Pad, Inc., who will relate various facts and anecdotes about Tulsa and its people found in his 24 historical calendars. Getting to Know You by Paul Hockett (Asbury’s Chancel Choir). Everyone 55 and older who enjoys great entertainment, a delicious lunch, fun and fellowship should plan to attend. • Thursday, February 23, 10:30 am • CLC • Lunch $1.00; no reservation required • Donation to Tweenagers’ missions and other expenses is appreciated

“Helping Others Help Themselves.” Each year, Asbury Senior Adults purchase seeds from local seed farms and provide 220 Cookson Hills families with individual seed packets containing 18 varieties of seeds. Each family then prepares a garden and plants the seeds, producing much-needed food for their family. How can you help? Funds are needed to buy the seeds. Anyone can make a donation, small or large. Checks or cash can be dropped off or mailed to the church. Checks should be made payable to Asbury and marked “Sr. Adult Seed Project.” You can also help us package the seeds. Thank you for supporting this most worthy mission project! • Package the seeds on Friday, February 24, 1:30-3:30 pm

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• Room 2818 • Sign up by February 13 with Jan at 918.742.2014 or Joanne at 918.622.3614 ADULT GAME DAY

• Venue Café • Cost is $8.00 • There will be no 789 Small Groups on February 19 7TH GRADE CONFIRMATION PARENT MEETING

Attention all adults! How would you like to get together on a regular basis with a wonderful bunch of fun adults and play cards, dominoes, or whatever board or card game you choose? Bring a friend and stay for as long as you like! • Every third Thursday, 1:30–4:00 pm • Room 2821

Don't miss the mandatory Parent meeting about 7th grade confirmation • February 12 and April 15, 4:45–6:00 pm • Venue, upstairs

SENIOR WALK IN THE GYM WITH HIM

All payments are due by February 12. Please make checks out to Asbury. • Houston, $100 • Red Bird, Kentucky, $175

SENIOR SIT AND FIT STRETCHING CLASS

Parents of 9th grade students are invited to come meet Todd Peterson and Amy Malnar with the Breakaway Ministry. Your student will be transitioning from junior high to high school ministry after spring break, and we would like to meet you. • February 5, 9:15 or 11:15 am • High school room in the Venue

All senior adults are invited to join us for power walking, coupled with lots of fun and fellowship. Come give it a try. • Mondays, Wednesdays and Fridays, 8:30–9:00 am • Gym

7TH AND 8TH GRADE SPRING BREAK MISSIONS MONEY DEADLINES

9TH GRADE PARENT MEETING

All senior adults are invited to join us for a time of stretching, coupled with lots of fun and fellowship. No high impact workout here. We take it nice and easy. • Mondays, Wednesdays and Fridays from 9:00–9:30 am • Gym SENIOR ADULT MEAL & MOVIE

If you’re 55 years of age or over, our monthly meal and movie day event may be just the “ticket” for you! We get together at a different Tulsa restaurant each month, and then head off to see a “first run” movie. • The dates and times vary according to the movie selected, but those who express an interest will be contacted a few days ahead of time so they can make plans accordingly • For more information or to sign up for the call list, contact Sally Wood, sally-wood@sbcglobal.net

SINGLES COMMUNITIES

You are always welcome to join any other communities that are not “Singles Only”, as most are a mix of singles and marrieds. • Sundays, 9:15 am - New Beginnings Class • Sundays, 11:00 am - Ambassadors for Christ, Footprints (ladies only), SEGUE, Salt & Light

SPRING BREAK MISSIONS COMMISSIONING

All students, parents, and leaders serving on a Spring Break Missions team will be commissioned to go out and serve in all 9:15 and 11:00 services. • Sunday, March 11 • Meet in the gym at 8:30 am to get ready HOUSTON SPRING BREAK MISSIONS TRIP – 2ND SATURDAY DAY

All parents, students, and leaders will be attending 2nd Saturday as part of their training. • February 11, 8:30 am–12:00 pm • Venue HOUSTON SPRING BREAK MISSIONS LEADERS

Mandatory training meeting to get acquainted with and prepared for the trip itself. • March 11, 3:00–4:30 pm • Venue, upstairs

STUDENTS 789 SMALL GROUPS

HOUSTON SPRING BREAK PARENT/STUDENT MEETING

All 789 small groups “Lunch Outing” • February 5, meet after church, return about 2:00 pm

This meeting is mandatory for all students planning on going to Houston for Spring Break Missions. Students must bring a parent or guardian.

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• March 11, 4:30–6:00 pm • Venue, upstairs

high school ministry after spring break. • Sunday, February 5, 9:15 or 11:15 am • High school room at Venue68

HOUSTON SPRING BREAK MISSIONS LEADERS

Final training meeting for Houston Spring Break missions trip. Immediately following this meeting is the students' training and departure early Sunday morning. • March 17, 1:30–3:00 pm • Venue, upstairs HOUSTON SPRING BREAK PARENTS OF STUDENTS

Parents of students going on this trip will drop their children off (as if they were departing) for training at 3:00 pm; we will leave early Sunday morning. • March 17, 3:00 pm • Venue GUATEMALA AND JAMAICA SPRING BREAK MISSIONS TRIP

If you are a student or leader going to either Jamaica or Guatemala, you are required to be at this trip training. • February 26, 12:30–6:00 pm • $3.00 for lunch GUATEMALA AND JAMAICA SPRING BREAK MISSIONS TRIP PARENT MEETING

If your student is going to Guatemala or Jamaica then at least one parent is required to attend the parent meeting • February 26, 3:30–4:30 pm for Jamaica • February 26, from 5:00–6:00 pm for Guatemala • Venue 789 GRADE BREAKAWAY – SUNDAY MORNINGS

On Sunday mornings at 9:15 am, we meet in the BAM room (upstairs in the Venue) for a large total group experience of games, worship and teachings from God’s Word. If you like large groups and worship, be there. At 11:00 am, we meet in the green classroom as a smaller group and do a more in depth Bible study. 789 GRADE BIBLE STUDY

Come join us for Wednesday night Bible study; hang out, have fun and study what God’s words has for us. • Wednesdays, 6:30–8:00 pm • Student Café • No Bible study on March 21 due to Spring Break missions 9TH GRADE PARENTS

Parents of 9th grade students are invited to come meet Todd Peterson and Amy Malnar with the High School Breakaway Ministry. Your student will be transitioning from junior high to

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On Sunday mornings we meet for an in-depth Bible Study and discussion. • Sundays, 9:15 am • High school room 10 11 12 BREAKAWAY

Every Wednesday night we come together for a time of connection and worship. Our desire is to explore who God really is and how our lives matter to Him. • Wednesday nights, 7:00–8:30 pm • Hang out afterwards for pizza • No Wednesday night activities on March 21 due to Spring Break Missions 10 11 12 SMALL GROUPS

Get connected. Are you looking for a way to get more connected? Are you looking for a place to grow in your walk with Jesus? Then being a part of a small group is where you need to be. Our small groups meet every Sunday night; times vary. Some of the groups meet in homes and others meet at the church. • Contact Todd at 918.392.1154 or Amy at 918.392.1156 • There are no small groups on March 18 due to Spring Break Missions 7TH-12TH GRADE METRO WORSHIP @ VENUE 68

Come join youth from all over the city in a night to just worship Jesus. • The first Wednesday of every month beginning February 1, 7:00–8:30 pm • Venue68 FROM THE YOUTH ROOM TO THE DORM ROOM

This seminar is for high school juniors and seniors and their parents. Come discuss the transition from high school to college and hear about practical ways to stay connected to Jesus and the church. • January 29, 6:00–7:30pm • Venue68

VOLUNTEER OPPORTUNITIES NEW OPPORTUNITIES ARISE EACH MONTH!

Visit asburytulsa.org, click on “Get Involved” in the middle of the page, then click on “Volunteer.” If you have questions or would like to visit with someone about serving, just get in touch with us.

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• Contact Joan at 918.392.1176 or email jhenning@ asburytulsa.org

WOMEN

11:00 AM TRADITIONAL SERVICE

UMW FEBRUARY UNIT LUNCHEON

We celebrate Asbury's 50th birthday as our senior pastor emeritus, Bill Mason, and senior pastor, Tom Harrison, present to us the past, present and future of Asbury United Methodist Church. From our humble beginnings, to a congregation of more than 8,000 members, come hear our story. Scripture: Psalms 127:1. • Thursday, February 2, 11:30 am - 1:00 pm • CLC • $7.00 for lunch, no reservations needed WOMEN OF THE WORD

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• Dr. Tom Harrison’s message is simulcast with an occasional live sermon from another pastor

Wednesdays, 10:00–11:00 am Room 2818 No childcare available Teacher is Rev. Darlene Johnson

• Sanctuary • The Chancel Choir, the New Covenant Orchestra and various vocal and instrumental ensembles offer a variety of styles of music led by Hart Morris • Dr. Tom Harrison preaches 11:00 AM MODERN SERVICE

• Venue 68 • Rich blend of ancient and modern worship, led by Chris Cleveland and team • Sign interpreters for the deaf are offered 6:00 PM MODERN SERVICE

• Venue68 • Rich blend of ancient and modern worship, led by the Ben Kilgore and team • Rev. Spencer Smith preaches

CRAFTY LADIES FELLOWSHIP

Ladies, if you enjoy doing crafts and fellowshipping at the same time, this activity is for you. We gather on Monday mornings to work on our own individual arts and crafts then stop for a delicious pot-luck lunch, before resuming our crafts. We have a wonderful time together and would love to have you join us. • Mondays, 9:30 am–1:00 pm • Room 2821 • Contact Betty Seetin or just stop by

WORSHIP 8:00 AM COMMUNION SERVICE

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Mason Chapel Traditional service with music led by Hart Morris Communion is served Dr. Tom Harrison preaches

9:15 AM CONTEMPORARY PRAISE & WORSHIP

• Sanctuary • Contemporary music led by Mark Bennett and team • Time of prayer and the message will all carry a prevailing theme for the morning • Dr. Tom Harrison preaches 9:15 AM OPEN HOUSE WORSHIP

• Community Life Center • A relaxed atmosphere with engaging worship led by Dub Ambrose and team

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OPPORTUNITIES

Marriages, Births and Deaths MARRIAGES

DEATHS

• Diane Sue Katz and Thomas Brown Amburn married 10/20/2011 • Mackenzie Kay Shorb and Christopher Kyle Cleveland married 11/20/2011 • Candis Ann Bingham and Andrew Barlow Meador married 11/26/2011 • Michele Chere Shivery and Ray Hutchins married 12/16/2011

• Richard Eldridge died 12/13/2011, husband of Nellene, father of Chris (Amanda), Ryan (Ashley) and Michael, grandfather of Marcus and Robert • Gretchel Koelln died 12/19/2011, wife of Kenneth Koelln

BIRTHS • Timothy James Bedford born 10/25/2011, son of Daniel and Katie Bedford • Johnathon Nathaniel Hedgecock born 12/6/2011, son of Sharon and Kevin Hedgecock, big sister is Jacquelyn • Reagan Pauline Whitehead born 12/11/2011, daughter of Candice Karpio (Asbury nursery staff), granddaughter of Julie Karpio

Milestone Anniversaries 65 YEARS • Edison and Audrey Jeffus

50 YEARS 02/02/47

• Clark and Judy Walton 02/03/62

60 YEARS • Bill and Donna Ritchie

10 YEARS 02/09/52

• Aaron and Emily Walton

01/12/02

MILESTONE WEDDING ANNIVERSARIES Email your upcoming Milestone Anniversary (5, 10, 15, 20, etc.) to Carolyn Schutte at brucars2@cox.net or call 918.451.1559.

Bill and Donna Ritchie 02/09/52

Clark and Judy Walton 02/03/62

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OPPORTUNITIES

New Members

Suzanne Chisholm

Casey and Kristina Covington

Allen McLaughlin

Jon and Michelle Jent with Elizabeth

Mark and Pat Meyer

Paul and Melissa Veatch with Zach

Joey Ragsdale

Patrica Watkins

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On February 19th Asbury will hold our 5th Annual Food Drive for Restore Hope Ministries. • 65% of all client households had monthly incomes of less than $1,000. • 44% of clients seeking emergency food assistance are children under 18 years old. • Only 10% are homeless. • 48% of clients using emergency food programs report having to choose between paying for food and paying for utilities. 45% of seniors report having to choose between food and medicine or medical care. • Oklahoma is the fourth hungriest state in the nation. • One in five Oklahoma children is at risk of going to bed hungry.

Contribute to the food drive with a financial contribution or canned food. Cash donations give Restore Hope wholesale buying power and the amount of food per dollar is greater.

Volunteer for the food drive. We will have volunteers at the donation tables before, between and after services on February 5 and 12. Tables will be open from 8:00 am– 2:00 pm on February 19. Volunteers needed for receiving food, sorting and boxing of food donations at the truck, loading and building pallets on the truck, volunteers to accept food at Sam’s and to unload at Restore Hope. For more information or to volunteer, contact Joan Henning at 918.392.1176 or jhenning@asburytulsa.org. NOTE: No glass jars or out of date food, please.

Non-Profit U.S.Postage PAID Tulsa, OK Permit #2439

All-Church Reception to Honor Past and Present Pastors Saturday, February 4, 2012 | 6:30 pmâ&#x20AC;&#x201C;8:00 pm | Main Foyer

Sunday Morning Worship and Communion Sunday, February 5, 2012 9:00 am and 11:00 am Sanctuary No services in other locations

Charter Member and 40+ Member Banquet

Sunday, February 5, 2012 | 1:00 pm | Community Life Center (CLC)