The Legacy of Mary Ann Smith

may 2012

The Legacy of Mary Ann Smith

may 2012 This month I’m going to address in more detail a subject that has been referenced many times in this column. It is one of the most pressing issues we are facing. How do we pass the Faith from one generation to the next?

Asbury is fortunate because everyone in leadership and almost every person in the congregation views this as a critical goal. I say “fortunate” because not every church is in the same situation. Some have tried and given up. As hard as it may be to believe, some churches really don’t care.

I believe that the major reason Asbury has such strong support for this endeavor is that we are solidly committed to Scripture in which we find direct commands and models of behavior making clear the responsibility that older generations have to the younger regarding the Faith.

Tom, in early 2006, formally set the objective of reaching the “third generation,” by which he meant people substantially younger than himself. We still occasionally use that phrase but more often simply refer to young adults. Asbury has made substantial investments in effort, attention and money as we’ve worked toward this goal. Measured by the standard of traditional churches, we’ve done better than most. However, we do not judge our results as successful. Over the past year as we’ve studied in preparation for setting the future direction of Asbury, this desire to engage young adults has been a primary consideration. We’ve learned a few things.

Asbury is not alone in this struggle. It is being experienced across the nation. Traditional denominational churches, a set to which Asbury belongs, are having the hardest time. Some churches which do not belong to that group and which appear to be doing well reaching young adults are successful at attracting them to worship services but are struggling in the full scope of discipleship development. Asbury is not interested in attracting young adults without discipling them.

Our membership spans four generations. We’ve learned that even though there is strong congregational support for our goal, there are significant challenges inherent in the span of ages.

What often first comes to mind is the issue of worship style and music. Asbury has a proven willingness to address this. A bigger challenge deals with communications, which covers much more than how we produce printed material and videos. It includes, for example, our preaching and teaching. It also includes how we structure and promote our ministries. An underlying fundamental cause for the complication is the reality of a substantial and hard-to-grasp difference in how the world is viewed and understood among the generations. For several years the leadership at Asbury, like those in many churches, have worked hard at gaining understanding. An important question has been whether there is something fundamentally different about our youngest adults today when compared to the incoming generations of the past century or so. That is, is there something different than the normal tension that develops as young adults make their way in the world?

The conclusion reached on that question is yes. There are profound differences in thinking, perceptions and perspectives. These differences are so significant that well-intentioned individuals who share the same goal will find it difficult to sit at the same table for discussion and leave it with the same understanding. As a result, it would be easy for frustration to develop between representatives of the younger and older generations. It is important that those of us in the older generations acknowledge that young adults are the product of a cultural milieu that was in place upon their arrival. This includes the characteristics of the critical institutions of family and church.

Now we must determine how to respond to what we’ve learned. It appears clear that continuing what we’ve been doing, even with improvements, will not bring success in engaging young adults.

What is not clear yet is what new things should be put in place. That study continues. Tom has made it clear that we are not giving up on this goal. It is clear that all of us - of all ages - will need to be committed. We will keep you updated on progress. If you would like to better understand this issue I recommend the book You Lost Me by David Kinnaman.

Your support of this goal and for all of Asbury’s ministries is very much appreciated.

Dwight

Contents A Word From Tom Harrison A Family on a Mission From Moms to Daughters A Tough Act to Follow SBM: Guatemala and Jamaica SBM: Houston and Kentucky SBM: New York Outreach Three Asburians We Are Following Communities Grandpa John Congregational and Community Studies RoadMap Summer 2012 Recipes of the Month Opportunities Special Announcements

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A Word From Tom Harrison

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he 2012 General Conference for The United Methodist Church will be held April 24 – May 4 in Tampa. It’s held every four years for the purpose of officially establishing and declaring our structure, process and policies. 988 delegates are elected from all over the world on the basis of membership in the Annual Conferences. There are 9 clergy and 9 laity from Oklahoma. Guy Ames, III, who will be joining our pastoral staff in June, and I are both voting delegates.

Many things which will be discussed related to our denomination’s future. There is a genuine desire for certain changes to be made.

Legislative matters to be discussed will include: • General Church structure and budget • Clergy matters (are clergy “guaranteed” churches regardless of their effectiveness, pensions, matters pertaining to ordination) • Social and political issues (which creates the most “news”) My previous experiences at General Conference have certainly been eye-opening! I’ve learned that not everyone in the world or in the church thinks like I do. I have very serious difficulties with certain positions others hold (and they with mine). Undoubtedly, you’ll be hearing about some of these.

“Politics” usually carries a bad connotation. I understand that.

It troubles me that General Conference often seems to be less like a church and more like a huge political convention. But people, structures and organizations evolve. When I was single, my decisions were my decisions. When I got married, things drastically changed. When we had Josh, it was again an entirely different matter. A second child wasn’t quite as disruptive, but when we had our third child, Dana and I were then outnumbered.

Things changed drastically. When Asbury met at Key Elementary School, it was one thing. When we moved to Sheridan, it was different. It changed repeatedly during those days, as it did when we moved to the Mingo location.

The same political thing happens in the local church. To accomplish things, folks must get along. We see political wrangling in the New Testament. The church wrestled with governance issues, clergy roles, social outreach, finances, evangelism and mission work. They had both theological problems personality issues.

Someone defined “politics” as being: “the art of getting along.” In every sphere, politics is necessary. It takes “two to tango.” Life is more complex than one opinion trumping everyone else’s.

As within any organization or family, The United Methodist Church has imperfections and disagreements. Four primary reasons I am a pastor in this tradition are: 1. This was where I was raised; 2. I love our history and doctrine; 3. My friends and colleagues I’ve met along the way. I’m so grateful that David Thomas has been in my life since I was 15 years old (though what used to be called “Lay Witness Mission Camp”).

I’ve known Guy Ames since I was 16. I’ve known Charlie Ryser and Dub Ambrose for 30 years, and Dick Read for nearly as long. These are my friends, my church, and my life. We’re far from perfect – but it’s still good.

4. I believe God has called me to be here.

Thank you for upholding your church by your prayers, presence, gifts, service, and witness. We’re not perfect yet…but we’re pressing on towards that mark.

Dr. Tom Harrison

Spring Break Missions Report

Attention Foster Care Families

Thank you to all our stockholders for your financial support of the Spring Break Missions teams. The total amount given was $132,975.74.

In effort to better understand and assess the needs of foster care families at Asbury, we are compiling a list of foster care families (including kinship foster care). Let us know if you are kinship or regular, how long you have been a foster parent, or if you are in the process of becoming a foster parent. Please contact Dana Harrison at dana1501@att.net.

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Sandy Schwinn and Lori

A Family on a Mission

by Holly Brobst

Twelve. That’s how old Lori was when she took her first mission trip. The first of many that would shape her life, the lives of people around the world and even the lives of her own family.

It was her mother, Sandy Schwinn, an active member at Asbury, who took her on her first mission trip. In New Mexico, they painted walls at McCurdy School in Espanola. Lori continued to go on mission trips throughout high school, spending a spring break building cinderblock homes in Mexico and even traveling to Estonia one summer.

Clashes in Cambodia A trip to Cambodia would prove to be Lori’s most life-changing experience. She was in college and travelling with a group of students when the 1997 coup in Cambodia broke out. As bombs went off around them, they took refuge in the home of a Christian worker. They were forced to sleep on the floor, and many of them suffered from dysentery. But God was watching over them. The students managed to make it home safely. For some of them, the experience was too much, and they decided mission work wasn’t for them. For Lori, it was just the beginning. She left her heart in Asia.

“Happy” Encounters After graduating college, Lori was accepted by The English Language Institute of China and was assigned to teach English to young people in North Vietnam. There, she met a 17-year-old who was very sad.

Lori, along with other members of her team, shared with her the story of Jesus. It wasn’t long before she became a Christian. The change in her life was so dramatic, that they began to call her “Happy”.

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It was her mother, Sandy Schwinn, an active member at Asbury, who took her on her first mission trip.

“Lori discipled Happy,” Sandy recalls. “They spent lots of time together in Bible study and prayer, and Happy just couldn’t get enough. She was incredible, like a sponge.”

Lori spoke of her new friend in emails home. In the spring, Sandy and her husband, Mike, got to meet Happy, whose actual name is Hoa, during a trip to Vietnam. Hoa became an instant member of their family, spending much of the trip by their side. At one point, Hoa began to refer to them as “Mom Sandy” and “Dad Mike” and they began to call her their adopted Vietnamese daughter. Hoa later decided she wanted to go out as a Christian worker and joined “Youth with a Mission”. She spent five years serving in a country in Southeast Asia.

Seminary Sweethearts After a 2-year stint in Vietnam, Lori came back to attend Asbury Theological Seminary in Kentucky. That’s where she met Pete, a Florida native, who shared her major. They became instant friends, and about a year later, they were married.

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The couple was then given the opportunity to travel back to Southeast Asia, to an undisclosed country. Lori went to work for a not-for-profit company, while her husband installed water filters.

But their real work was to glorify God, and share His love with the people they met.

With her daughter half a world away, Sandy did what any mother would do; she did a lot of praying and paid Lori lots of visits.

“One of the things that I have found is that wherever she is, I always want to go and visit,” Sandy explains. “It kind of relieves my anxiety about what she’s experiencing. I’ve always gotten to see it first-hand. It’s just opened a whole world to me through my daughter. And I also know how to pray for her.”

As Lori and Hoa conquer the world, Sandy isn’t just sitting around!

The retired school teacher is getting ready to go on her own shortterm mission trip to Tanzania.

“I’m just very thankful for the opportunity to go and have these experiences on a short-term basis,” Sandy says. “And I’m very thankful to Asbury for supporting both Lori and Hoa as well.”

“I’ve become part of a world community, with friends from many countries on six continents.”

Asia is where Lori and Pete would have their first son, Silas. A few years later, they’d be back in the US welcoming Noah, their second son, into the world.

When opportunity knocked again, the family headed back to Southeast Asia, to the same undisclosed country. Only this time, they would partner with colleagues to open a café, “Common Grounds”. Today, Lori and her family continue their Christian work through “Common Grounds”.

Coming to America Last fall, Hoa, now 30-years-old, got a visa to study in the US. It took some time, but she never gave up, knowing she would come to America in God’s time.

Sandy and Hoa

The Faith Builder’s Community has prayed for Hoa for the past 14 years. But, it was just this March they got to meet her for the first time. Hoa spent a week with Sandy in Tulsa before heading back to Huntington Beach, California, where she is spending the year studying at Golden West College. After that, it’s all up to God. “If God keeps the door open, she’ll continue to work on a certificate in Teaching English as a Second Language,” Sandy explains.” If God shuts the door, He’ll open another door for her, possibly to return to Southeast Asia. Hoa lives her life totally attuned to God’s leading.”

Happy Endings What began as a mission trip to New Mexico so many years ago; has turned into something much bigger than anyone could imagine.

“I’ve visited Lori seven times during her work in Southeast Asia,” Sandy says. “Through these trips, I have met people from other countries who are involved in service. I’ve become part of a world community, with friends from many countries on six continents.

I wouldn’t have met Hoa if Mike and I hadn’t gone to North Vietnam. I wouldn’t have met the wonderful people Lori works with. These people who serve God have become very special to me.”

Pete, Lori, Silas and Noah

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Jeane White Burke and Charlene Burke Giles

From Moms to Daughters

by Charlene Burke Giles

The most important values in life are caught, not taught. Moms have the power to influence the attitudes and values of their daughters.

Basic rules of living that my grandmother, Viola White, modeled for my mom, Jeane White Burke, and her three sisters became principles my mom lived out in my growing up years. Hopefully I’ve conveyed these same values to my own daughter, Megan, who is now grown and married. Here are five of the top values that have been passed from generation to generation in my family:

1. Find joy in simple pleasures.

As they grew up, Mom and her sisters loved making music together, on piano and various instruments as well as vocally.

To this day, my mom often plays the piano or her clarinet for fun, and when we are together we love to play music and sing together. Another favorite pastime is to swing and chat. Nearly every family member has their own two-seated platform swing, which is a favorite place to gather and catch up with friends and family. Through my mom, I have learned to enjoy the flowers and birds in our own backyard. No one gets more excited about

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the first robin of spring than my mother. Baking is yet another favorite simple but delicious pleasure, and Mom makes the best pie you’ve ever tasted.

2. Work hard.

No one I know works harder than my mom. Even at age 83, she can clean circles around me. As she was growing up on the farm in Iowa, Saturdays were always cleaning days. They would gather up all the rugs and hang them on the clothesline, then beat them with brooms to get the dust out. Saturdays were cleaning days during my childhood, too. Guess what? My children will tell you that Saturdays were also cleaning days as they were growing up. The dust would fly as carpets were vacuumed, and the bathrooms would sparkle before we’d head out to do something fun. To this day, I’m sure my mom cleans the house on Saturday mornings before she heads out for a cup of coffee in the swing.

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3. Stay connected to family.

It’s hard to describe the warmth and the delicious cinnamon roll smells that wafted from Grandma White’s compact kitchen every holiday. (No one makes cinnamon rolls as good as hers; however my mom comes a close second!) As my mom, her identical twin, Jeanette, and their two older sisters arrived at grandmas, with uncles, cousins and delicious food in tow, we filled the white two-story farm house with laughter and fun.

We twelve cousins became good friends through the years, as we kids were relegated to eat at the kids’ card tables in the front room. After the feast, the men usually had a game of pinochle while the talkative sisters washed and dried the dishes in the kitchen. As adults, we cousins spread out to various states, but always tried our best to be at Grandma White’s for Christmas.

She was still having the whole family for big Christmas turkey dinners into her 90’s, and only passed away at the age of 101 in 2002. Each year my mom, Jeane, and dad, Cliff, still try to corral as many children, grandchildren and great-grandchildren as possible in their home for special times of feasting and sharing.

4. Keep in touch with friends.

Viola White and her sister Ellen Allen

Friends became especially important to Grandma White after Grandpa died at age 63. She loved having ladies over to play bridge and have lunch. Many of these women had known one another since grade school. Likewise, my mother, Jeane, still gets together every summer with four or five of her grade school friends to catch up and stay in touch. It’s no wonder that I have two school girl friends that I love to connect with each summer during my annual visit to my old hometown.

Friends are important!

Nearly every family member has their own two-seated platform swing, which is a favorite place to gather and catch up with friends and family.

5. Help those in need.

I’m sure Mom learned caring from Grandma White, just as I learned it from my mother. I wasn’t always excited to take home baked cookies to the old people at Friendship Haven, but once we arrived it was clear that they really were glad we’d come. And when Mom said that the little lady who lived next door to my grandmother got really lonely and would love to have me come by to play some cards with her, I got up the nerve to go over and meet her. Sure enough, we had a great time playing cards. So, every time we went to grandma’s I’d go next door to see Mrs. Hoyer, too. I suspect that seeds of Asbury’s Care Ministry were planted in my spirit when I was about ten years old, thanks to my mother and my grandmother.

These five values were never taught to me in a formal setting.

Instead, they were clearly presented through daily examples by my mother and grandmother. I was blessed to have a godly mother and grandmother who set the bar high. More than that, they demonstrated a joyful, abundant life that I hope I have modeled for my own children.

Happy Mother’s Day, Mom!

Four generations: (back row) Megan Burke Giles Bennett, Charlene Burke Giles (front row) Viola White, Jeane White Burke

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A Tough Act to Follow:

The Legacy of Mary Ann Smith

by Stephanie Hurd

After 41 years at Asbury, and 25 years on staff—Mary Ann Smith, Director of Global Outreach, is retiring. Following are words of commendation and appreciation by friends who have worked closely with Mary Ann over the years. This small tribute to her as a person, to her work, and to her ministry represents the sentiments of countless people who know and love her.

Pastor Bill Mason Mary Ann and husband, Rex Smith, returned to Tulsa after Rex completed dental school and set up a dental practice in Tulsa. Rex’s parents, Rex and Gladys Smith, were active in the life of Asbury— Gladys in the area of Missions Outreach and Rex in the choir and church administration. It was not long after their return that Mary Ann began to show an interest in missions. Recognizing the need for full-time leadership in this area, I asked Mary Ann to join our staff. After prayerful consideration she accepted our invitation and thus Missions Outreach began to grow.

Under Mary Ann’s leadership, we placed a stronger emphasis on missions and we recruited more of our congregation to work in the growing number of volunteer opportunities to serve others.

Mary Ann has many personal skills, not the least of which is her ability to relate to people. She worked diligently to expose our congregation to “real-life” missionaries. They became “real people” to Asbury, generating personal friendships within the Body. As more people gave of their time, talents and gifts to others, we had more resources to serve others.

Mary Ann has taught all of us “To love God and serve our fellow man.”

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Kevin Jeter Shortly after joining Asbury in the mid 1980s, my wife, Denise, and I were invited to join Asbury's Mission Commission. From that time, we have had many opportunities to observe and to work closely with Mary Ann on many of Asbury's mission related activities such as the Estonia Ministry Team, Global Outreach’s Leadership Team, and the Missionary Care Ministry Team. We also served together on several mission teams.

Mary Ann has a deep systemic understanding of how God works in His people. She understands that we tend to turn our focus inwardly trying to fulfill our own needs but we actually thrive when we serve the needs of others. Mary Ann has always worked to implement programs that engage people and encourage involvement of the church at all levels. She takes a personal interest and approach with everyone, both those serving and those being served, encouraging them and helping them to understand God’s vision and their own calling.

Asbury is a vibrant and mission oriented congregation in large part due to Mary Ann’s understanding of God’s calling on her life and on His people at Asbury and throughout the world. She has passionately worked to integrate God’s commission into every aspect of the ministry of Asbury. And she has done that with wisdom, grace and great love for all of God’s people. My family has a deep appreciation for Mary Ann and how her legacy has influenced each of us!

Grant Miller Mary Ann has been a mentor to me since I first began asking about opportunities to serve in mission as I finished college. I have always been extremely grateful for her expertise, wisdom and direction.

Asbury has been truly blessed to have a director of missions who is so willing and able to advise and counsel anyone who feels a call to serve.

All of our friends in Tanzania have the greatest respect for “Mama Mary Ann” as well. They are inspired and comforted by her trustworthy words of wisdom and advice. We all have appreciated greatly the way she trains mission teams from Asbury to be as compassionate and professional as she is.

Mary Ann’s legacy is one of absolute professionalism and shared wisdom combined with a passion for building partnerships with brothers and sisters in Christ all over the world as we participate together humbly and boldly in God’s great mission. This legacy has been evident in so many of the teams and workers she has mentored and sent out. We are grateful for her faithful dedication and service that has made these thriving partnerships possible. May God bless “Mama Mary Ann” and continue to reward her for her faithfulness!

Emily Skaggs Odom Growing up at Asbury has given me the pleasure of knowing Mary Ann for a long time. My first interaction with her was at the age of 10 during my first mission trip to Estonia with my family—

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Mary Ann was my roommate for part of the trip. Thus began my association of Mary Ann with a global worldview and the Church's mission to be a light to the world. Since then, Mary Ann has counseled me on a number of international trips and helped me find opportunities to serve overseas.

I now have the privilege of serving on her Global Outreach Leadership Team and am reminded after each meeting what an asset Mary Ann is to Asbury. Her wisdom is extensive and unbelievably valuable. I have watched her connect people of all ages to ministries of all types and locations. We see a constant flow of names of people looking to go on both short and long term missions. Mary Ann (on behalf of Asbury) offers not just support, but wise counsel and sound direction to each of them.

Mary Ann has demonstrated that effectively championing God's mission on earth requires more than just passion and good intentions. It requires a sound mind, discernment, patience and perseverance to follow the Holy Spirit. I believe God has built the Global Outreach ministry at Asbury largely by the obedience and faithfulness of Mary Ann Smith to be a good steward on Asbury's behalf. And I am very grateful to have been under her leadership.

Rev. Dick Read In addition to a fantastic work colleague, Mary Ann has been a wonderful friend. We first met when she and Rex’s two children were in Asbury’s youth ministry while I was a youth minister. The first mission “trip” we did together was with high school students to the Cookson Hills Center on Lake Tenkiller. Since then, Mary Ann and I have shared the same passion for local and global missions and also many local and international mission expeditions.

A number of years ago, Mary Ann chose to no longer sit on the sidelines and watch the work of God in local and global missions.

She decided to “put herself in the game.” Mary Ann has done her work with determination, with focus and with grit. The result of her organization and motivation skills has brought many others “into the game” also.

When Mary Ann came into leadership at Asbury, the church was doing well in global missions. Mary Ann took that “doing well” to an entirely new level and then another new level and then yet another. Asbury’s Volunteer in Mission (VIM) program is top level. In addition, while motivating Asbury’s members to get involved in these “vacations with a purpose,” she has excelled in equipping Asbury members to enter into longer-term global missions. And when Asbury folks “go into all the world,” Mary Ann insures she and her team provide much-needed missionary care. Mary Ann has developed varying missions ministries of equipping, sending, supporting and going.

Esther Gene Morrison I have known and appreciated Mary Ann since June of 1983. She has encouraged me and helped me with scholarships for the many

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VIM trips I have taken since then. It has been a dream come true to be able to return many times to Peru where I was a missionary teacher in 1946-49. I have made 24 trips to Mexico, Guatemala, Costa Rica, Bolivia, Ecuador and Peru.

Obviously, I believe that Jesus’ mandate to go and make disciples and to love and serve His people in all parts of the world is of utmost importance! Without this outreach, the Body of Christ is dead.

Mary Ann has been a prime example of loving and caring outreach and has built a huge web of contacts around the world. We are very proud to have her—and she will be a tough act to follow.

Frank and Donna Lester Frank and I met Mary Ann in the early 80's when we were all a part of Asbury's Missions Commission. Since that time we have seen her grow from an interested participant to an insightful, Spirit-led leader. God has given Mary Ann the ability to be compassionate and practical, deliberate while innovative and gentle, yet uncompromising in her passion to share the Lord with an unreached world. She always gives her best and inspires the rest of us to do likewise. We have been blessed to serve with her in many places and in many roles over the last 30 years.

Mary Ann has promoted God's commission by helping Asbury offer opportunities to serve that have challenged us, blessed us and moved us out of our comfort zones. Also, she has worked tirelessly to build relationships with fellow believers around the world.

Mary Ann's legacy is all the people she has touched by her obedience and her faith in the Lord. Asbury has a global presence

because Mary Ann Smith helped to give young hearts and not-soyoung hearts the opportunities and the encouragement to “get out of the boat” and walk with Christ.

Dr. Tom Harrison I’ve been with Mary Ann all over the world—from Tulsa to Tallinn (Estonia), from Monterrey (Mexico) to Morogoro (Tanzania).

Mary Ann has been a voice of constant wisdom and pragmatism.

She’s learned to listen deeply to people from all sides and positions.

She’s very careful in not hurting people by “helping” them. She works with teams, and empowers laity to jump in and get involved.

She has a missional heart and wants deeply for everyone to know Jesus as his or her personal Savior.

I’ve had the privilege to watch her work, see her grow, expand her network and territory, pioneer and develop our people, cultivate relationships with others abroad, and find resources to help make big things happen. She’s been a diligent steward of the funds entrusted to us.

It’s certainly been my privilege to follow her lead, receive her counsel, help implement her vision, and fly lots of miles with her. She has served us well at Asbury. She’s well-respected by innumerable people, but especially by those of us who know her best. When Mary Ann speaks around here, people listen! She may have small feet, but she’s leaving us with some big shoes to fill!

Please join us for an all-church reception to honor Mary Ann on Sunday, June 3rd at 12:15 in the main foyer.

You can help Mary Ann’s legacy continue by supporting one of two funds that have been set up in her honor - Asbury Church Foundation and the Mary Ann Smith Scholarship Fund at Asbury Theological Seminary. For more information on how to contribute, please contact Dean Hatch, dhatch@asburytulsa.org.

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Spring Break Missions: Guatemala and Jamaica

by Sylvia LaRose

This resurrection life you received from God is not a timid, grave-tending life. It’s adventurously expectant, greeting God with a childlike “What’s next, Papa?”

(Romans 8:15, The Message) The Venue auditorium was filled with students, parents and leaders sharing hugs, tales of friendship and amazing testimony.

Wednesday, March 28th was the Spring Break Missions 2012 Reunion for high school trips to Jamaica and Guatemala. Indeed, all were eager, anticipating and Expectantly Adventurous …

In Jamaica…

Asbury’s 9th and 10th grade students spent seven days in rural Jamaica partnering with elementary schools, teaching reading and math skills, leading devotionals and playing lively outdoor games. Amy Malnar and Todd Clifton led the 93 students and 23 adults who completely immersed themselves with the locals and poured out their hearts for Jesus.“You expect God to do something amazing on these trips,” Todd explained. “Not ordinary, but extraordinary!” And He certainly did.

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Noah shared a story about the lasting bond he has with a 5th grade boy named Dillon from the Hastings School. Noah always wore a treasured cross necklace his parents gave him for Confirmation.

Daily, little Dillon asked if he could have it, but it was too precious for Noah to give it up. On the last day, Dillon again asked for the necklace. “I knew God wanted him to have it,” says Noah. “So I put it around his neck, and he hugged me forever! It just melted me. I know the Lord and I will always be close to his heart, and Jesus will protect him.”

In the same group from Hastings School was Katie. A little “leftout” girl with a prominent limp caught her attention during the parachute-play activity. So Katie took the opportunity to share a book with her and was astonished by the child’s ability to read.

“What do you have to read at home?” Katie asked her. The reply was “only the bills my family gets in the mail.” Katie continued, “It broke my heart that these bright kids have so little. But what could

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I do? So I told her to expect a letter … a really, really long letter.”

Katie is making a difference in the life of this little girl by writing to her young scholar every day since returning to Tulsa.

at the orphanage when a little boy prayed blessings for the United States. “It was eye-opening! The people of Guatemala are so full of joy; they didn’t need all the ‘stuff’ we have to give to others.”

Megan was mobbed by 1st graders on her last day at the school. When the teacher asked her to sing for the class, 2 Corinthians 9:8 came to mind: He throws caution to the winds, giving to the needy in reckless abandon.“ God sure showed me my ‘reckless abandon’ when I performed The Banana Song and Father Abraham,” Megan laughs.

The need for missions made such an impression on Cole Cooper that he has a personal mission to do something about Guatemalan poverty here at home. He’s using his musical talent to develop a “Hunger Rave” to raise money to provide meals for families in need.

Linda Jones was a leader on the Jamaica trip, and this year was a family mission with her husband, two sons and a daughter going too. During her journey, she wondered where she would see God. Her answer came when she stepped into a poor, deteriorating infirmary. The facility serves local senior patients who are blind, mentally challenged, deformed or wheelchair bound. Linda described rows and rows of beds which appeared inadequate for patients, piles of mattresses and a laundry room where linens were still washed by hand. Then she told of a blind man who passionately sang songs of joy. “It was a life-changing moment,” Linda continues. “God was pointing me to that man. He touched me, and I felt the presence of God.” She shared the contentment of this man with Philippians 4:12: “I am glad in God, far happier than you could ever guess...it was a beautiful thing that you came along side me in my trouble.”

They were going to change lives over Spring Break...but in the process, their lives were changed. As God’s spirit touches and confirms who we really are, these “Adventurously Expectant” missionaries are ready for that next adventure by doing the Lord’s work in their homes, schools and social circles.

They were going to change lives over Spring Break...but in the process, their lives were changed.

In Guatemala…

Todd Peterson, Chris and Missy Cooper led Asbury’s junior/ senior high students to Guatemala City. God knitted together relationships, transforming lives and buildings during construction projects at Shalom Church, Hope for Tomorrow Orphanage and Nathan Hardeman’s Boys Home. Their mission work included pouring concrete, moving dirt and rocks, delivering food baskets and redecorating rooms, all work designed to spread the love of Jesus by serving in practical ways.

SBM 2012 was Brynne’s 6th mission trip. She described the extravagant dimensions of Christ’s love in the extreme poverty of the city and outlying areas. “When you see through God’s eyes, it’s beautiful,” she says. Next spring break, Brynne will be a college student and return to Guatemala to partner with Jesus as a leader.

“I knew something good was going to happen. I knew I was there for a reason,” exclaims Jason. He stepped out of his comfort zone as he stepped into homes smaller than his bedroom, to help families who lived with nothing. “My relationship with God really began. I didn’t worry about life. I just trusted Him.” Garrett says, “All of our hearts are breaking for these broken people. But our hearts should break for our friends here (in Tulsa) too. God opened my heart for love wherever I am.”

It was high school junior Megan’s first trip to Guatemala City. “I didn’t have expectations … I just wondered what God was going to do,” she expressed. She was amazed at how the Lord was working

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Spring Break Missions: Red Bird, Kentucky, and Houston, Texas Many Asburians gave generously in their finances to enable our youth to go on Spring Break Missions trips. Many also prayed fervently for our teams, both at home and in the prayer vigil. The hearts of our students were touched. The hearts of the people in Houston and Red Bird, Kentucky, were also touched. Quotes from some of our students: Responses of 7th grade students who went on the Houston trip

I learned that God has a perfect plan for me and made me in His image.

A lot of the kids we played with still had this awesome joy even given their circumstances.

I saw how people that are homeless are still joyful.

I am going to show God more through my actions and words.

I realized once I have God in me, I am not afraid to speak out about Him. I learned how to openly talk about my faith.

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I learned when I come out of my comfort zone good things happen.

Responses from 8th grade students who went on the Kentucky trip I’ve learned that the decisions I’ve made are not the best ones.

I feel more confident in trusting God.

I learned that homeless people have amazing stories to tell.

The major thing that changed me was that God spoke to me.

When I see homeless people, I now see them as brothers and sisters in Christ.

I learned that I need to talk to God more and listen to what He has to say.

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My life before this trip was about me, me and my problems. It was about dance and friends and image. After this week I know that’s not what it’s about. Now my life is about serving God. I learned that I, like all other JH students, can really make a difference.

I’m closer to God, and I know now that I must love everyone, even if I don’t like them.

I learned that I’m gifted in prayer.

Spring Break Missions: New York “Wow, we really live a sheltered life!” That was the statement made before our first twelve hours was up, and we had only been in three of the five boroughs. Ten college students experiencing New York City in ways few tourists do.

Hearing firsthand accounts of shootings, murders and other forms of violence seemed almost impossible to believe. Observing how the culture and environment can change in a matter of blocks is mind boggling. Stories of how gentrification (the changing for the better but displacement of the poor) can cause as much harm as good, can almost be too much to comprehend.

Although most of the students have been on most of the other Asbury Spring Break Mission trips, this one was right here in their own country, but it didn’t seem that way. On most mission trips you may have a few cultures to encounter. Here, you have hundreds of cultures and most do not get along or like the other.

36% of the population is born outside of the United States. 47% of the population over the age of five, speak a language other than English at home. The size, busyness, and energy of the city can distract you from the fact that God has a plan for the cities of our world.

We heard the story of a teenager who was kicked out of the family’s apartment for their eighteenth birthday due to overcrowding, (there are more than 26,000 people per square mile) and found hope in Covenant House (Covenant House works with teenage homeless and runaways). Former prostitutes at the RestoreNYC safehouse (RestoreNYC opened the first safehouse in the northeast US to help rescue internationals caught in human trafficking) told our group, “we cannot thank you enough for coming such a long way to help us,” as we spent the day cleaning and repairing their home.

We observed how one church, through its outreach to children, has changed generations. Living in the neighborhood (for a week) where most people only end up in unintentionally when they are lost, left an impression. We observed that most do not live--they just survive.

We, the people of the kingdom have a unique mandate to care for the needs of the vulnerable and the voiceless. The New York City trip is one that we hope and pray impacts our students for the rest of their lives!

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OUTREACH

2nd Saturday

by Radhika Aussieker

On Saturday, April 14, 141 Asbury volunteers served at 2nd Saturday on the project “Beautiful Day” sponsored by the City of Tulsa. Members joined with Redeemer Covenant Church, Mark Twain Elementary and Grace UMC to help cleanup three neighborhoods. This effort was possible through the collaborative efforts of the City of Tulsa’s Working In Neighborhoods Department, local churches and neighborhood residents.

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Three Asburians We Are Following For One Year Christian: Becoming a real man A couple of days ago, I was in a small town just north of Kampala in Uganda. I went with the six women that I am working with right now to a local high school to speak to the students about some things that are very important and sometimes uncomfortable: sex, drugs and alcohol. These women that I am with have incredible testimonies of how God has rescued them and restored them from lifestyles that include these things.They shared about how, through Jesus, they had been completely restored to purity and holiness! It was powerful.

After she spoke to the women, I got to stand up in front of all of the high school boys there and talk to them about being men. Not about being boys…about being men. It is crazy though how much these kids need it. They need to hear that being a man doesn’t look anything like the way that their society has told them it looks.

I spoke about honoring, respecting, protecting and treasuring women. I got to talk to them about stepping into their role as a LEADER in their relationships--a leader who fights for purity and honor. I got to call a bunch of boys into being MEN. If even just one of them listened to me, that was the highlight of my week.

Once the novelty of a trip like this wears off and it no longer feels like an “adventure” to take a shower with a bucket or ride a cramped bus through Africa for hours on end, you get a little perspective. There are four months left of my journey as I leave Rwanda and head to Thailand.

Rachel: Respecting women Thank you so much for you faithfulness in praying for me and offering me so much encouragement along this journey. Although my mission field has become a home for me, I still miss all my relationships at home and just the comfort of those relationships.

I’m going to be honest. I am struggling with a few things in South Asia right now, and I would love your prayers. I have really been struggling with the lack of respect that women receive from many men in this area. More personally, the lack of respect that I receive from the men who live here. Please pray for my continued protection and that God will give me wisdom as to how to deal with these situations with grace. Luckily, I work with some amazing men of

God, and they give me hope that there are respectable men in this country. I disappoint myself by being this angry, because most of the women that live here deal with this their whole lives. I think I just feel that I’m picked on extra for being blonde. Should my hair color change while I’m here, now you’ll understand why. Not really, I’ll come back blonde.

This month, we began the rehabilitation process with 58 newly released slaves. This was a group that faced some pretty extreme abuse by their owners yet have so much hope for their futures. Their resiliency is amazing. They smiled the entire three days we spent with them as they learned about their legal rights, what freedom looks, and how they have the ability to dream about a better future.

God has already begun to work in the hearts of these laborers. I am humbled to witness God’s faithfulness and be able to have the opportunity to love on these newly freed people.

Kayla: Sharing our faith ¡Hola Chamos! (Hey dudes!) I hope you all are enjoying the start of spring- I know I am loving the rainy season here in Valencia.

Ministry was great this month. God brought two visitors here from Ohio State University, Bryce and Clay, to help us during spring break, help us share the Gospel and reach out to the students here on campus.

We had an outreach on campus where we started conversations with students and asked them their opinions on religion and God. After having these conversations, we invited them to come hear Clay’s testimony and play frisbee.

Clay told us about how God reached his heart in high school and how God used him to reach his fraternity brothers. Bryce was also able to share his faith with students in Spanish for the first time. One of the students he shared with accepted Christ!

One of the girls I talked to during the outreach was really excited about God, and she told us how He’s been working in her heart, even though she is still a little skeptical of religion.

Seeing students sharing their faith with other students has been really encouraging. I am proud of the students here who are taking steps of faith to share Jesus with others. It is sweet that God is so gracious to us by showing us some fruit of our labor in our ministry. God is so good!

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COMMUNITIES

Celebrating Generations

by Diane King

One of our newer discipleship communities at Asbury goes by the name of Generations. Formed in January of 2009, it meets at the 11:00 hour on Sunday mornings in room 2319.

Generations traces its very new roots back to its founders--Pastor Dick Read and his wife, Cindy, and Mark and Teresa Springer.

When Pastor Read’s duties changed on Sunday mornings and placed him at the front of the 9:15 worship service, he and Cindy and began to discuss which community they would attend. Having been members of one at the 9:15 time slot, the Reads knew they would have to change to a community that met at 11:00. In talking to their friends, the Springers, about this, the two couples agreed that working with youth ministry so much of their lives made them partial to being with people younger than their own ages. With further discussion, the idea was born to form a new discipleship community designed to be cross-generational, spanning all adult generations here at Asbury. Marital status would not be an issue as they wanted to include singles, divorced, widowed, married, or in whatever situation those desiring fellowship found themselves.

As for the teaching on Sundays, Generations has several excellent teachers in their group who rotate teaching duties. Pastor Read, Mark Springer, and Jason Soderstrom all take turns teaching, and sometimes they even “skype in” the Schells! In addition, the Generations ladies have a Bible study once a month on Saturday mornings.

Now in their fourth year, Generations in April 2012 has 113 members aged 17–84 and everything in between. They are married, widowed, divorced, separated, and single. Averaging around 50 in attendance on any given Sunday morning, you will have difficulty finding a more diverse but loving group!

QUOTES ABOUT GENERATIONS FROM ITS MEMBERS: “I love being around people of all ages and enjoy the friendships we’ve made in our community. When we’re working on a service project, the age difference makes no difference. We’re brought together by a common bond of wanting to make a difference in the lives of others.” - Ruth Winn

Generations held their first meeting with a core group of 18 people in the Parlor on Sunday, January 4, 2009. After a few weeks of announcing this new community in the 9:15 worship service, their numbers exploded. Their second Sunday they had 52 people attending; by the end of their first month, they had grown to 70 people. The attraction seems to be, of course, the diverse demographics of Generations’ membership.

“Generations has all different ages and stages of life happening. If you didn’t know it was a community, you’d think it was a loving, caring family that was born to each other.” - Karen Ward

“Part of what I enjoy is when you walk in the room, you see the variety of different people, and we all really love each other,” says Pastor Read.

Being around younger people keeps the older folks “young”, and the younger ones come to be with the older folks because of the wisdom and experience they find in them.

The group is very mission-focused, with many different individuals and groups that they support both in service and financially.

Generations members Jason and Molly Soderstrom are Directors of Student Mobilization at the University of Tulsa, and that provides a connection for the whole community with young people at TU. Members Justin and Megan Schell left the Tulsa area to become missionaries to North Africa, but they maintain their ties to their friends in Generations and receive support from them. Matt and Jenny Hester are another couple supported by this community as they attend Asbury Seminary in preparation for full-time mission work. Generations member Michele Caine works for Pearl’s Hope Ministry, so she keeps the needs of these single mothers with children coming out of homelessness constantly before the group to help meet some of their needs. Another favorite mission activity for Generations is baking cookies for the Kairos Prison Ministry.

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“Having relocated from the great state of Ohio to a foreign land - Oklahoma - where we did not know a soul, let alone have any family - Generations has become our family, our friends, our encouragers, our mentors. Besides teaching us how to line dance, how to speak MYOKIE, how to enjoy gravy on everything, this lovely small church within a big church has taught us what Christian love and Christian fun is all about. Before Asbury, we went to Sunday School. But now we have a great group that supports us seven days a week. That’s pretty cool.” - John A. Ward

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“We have super teachers, so it is always very interesting. We have every age group, from young to old, and the mommies even bring in their babies to class. It is exactly how it should be in a group called Generations!” - Marjorie Bohannan

GRANDPA JOHN

Faith from My Mother

by John C. Westervelt

People were buying elegant clothes and new automobiles when my mother and father were married in the mid-1920s. Three children were born in three years. During the roaring twenties, most Americans thought prosperity would last forever.

A year later, the Great Depression began and, like a bulldog, tenaciously hung on year after year. When her children were all in school, Mother went to work as a schoolteacher. Wallace, Harriette, and I were in high school when Daddy died in 1943.

In 1949 Mother began payments on a small, three-bedroom brick home in Oklahoma City. She planted peace roses beside the garage, two pecan trees centered in the backyard, and flowers beside the front porch.

She often made double monthly house payments, hoping to pay off the mortgage by retirement. By faith, she paid the debt and in later years saved enough to add an extension to a bedroom with a second bath, so her two sisters could spend their retirement years with her.

Nelda and I were married in February of 1954. The tattered Bible located on my bookshelf among newer ones was a gift from my mother. Inside the front cover, she wrote, “To John and Nelda. Christmas 1954. From Mother. Build your home on this foundation, and it will be strong.”

around the Christmas tree to assemble the toys. I remember well the joy I felt. In later years I wondered, “What was so special about those Christmases?” After reflection, I concluded that Mother’s joy was contagious.

Mother’s perennial joy raised more questions. After I became a father, I asked her, “How were you able to carry on with such strength when Daddy died in 1943, and Wallace went off to war in the spring of 1945?”

Mother said, “I think it is all about faith. As a girl, my father (a Presbyterian preacher) started me on my journey of faith. With three babies and with the stock market crash of 1929 leaving your daddy unemployed, I prayed for more faith.”

“Did you receive more?”

“Yes, as I look back over the years, I realize that God used the hard times to increase my faith, so I could know more joy in the good times.”

In late October 1972, my mother’s physician called to say, “Your mother’s heart has deteriorated to the point that you boys need to come to Oklahoma City and select a nursing home for her.”

I dreaded this part of a child’s responsibility, but Wallace and I agreed to come on Saturday.

On Tuesday, Harriette called to say, “Mother, Aunt Werdna, Aunt Laura, and I were visiting in the living room early this afternoon.

Mother was sitting in her favorite chair, the wooden rocker. She closed her eyes; a countenance of joy spread over her face; and she died.”

Now in my eighties, I need more faith than ever before. As I ask God to increase my faith, I think of my mother, and then I know He will.

Mother, Wallace, Harriette, John

A tradition during the 1960s was for my family and the families of my brother and sister to gather at Mother’s house on Christmas Eve. Late at night, with the children sleeping, the adults gathered

Other stories at www.jwestervelt.com

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Congregational and Community Studies 2012 The Barna research results are available for you to review. 1,777 surveys were taken by Asbury members and visitors. 1,028 people from the Tulsa community took part in a different survey related to this research project.

Key Findings and Implications: Demographic and Theolographic™ Profile IMPLICATIONS Demographics and Faith Characteristics • Asbury’s attenders are “mature” adults with regard to their life experience, church involvement, and faith commitment.

• They are distinctly different from those in the Tulsa area; attenders are far more educated, affluent, older, and more conservative.

• There is little ethnic diversity at Asbury compared to the community.

• In general, Asbury attracts committed Christians who are similar to those already at the church.

Asbury Image and Church Awareness

IMAGE AND BRAND Asbury Attenders: • believe their church to be strongly centered on God and His Word • highly value the biblically-based instruction and worship style choices • consider the church to provide everything to everyone –– it is genuinely difficult (and not usually possible) for an organization to be known as excelling in diverse areas

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Asbury Experience

Perceptions of Church

IMPLICATIONS Experience at Asbury • Most of the congregation is highly satisfied with their church experience.

• Visitors to Asbury – who are far less engaged – are less pleased.

• The congregation has an especially high regard for Pastor Harrison – and for the preaching and teaching at the church.

• While most specific programs are rated highly, there is ample room to “raise the bar” in terms of ministry performance.

Expectations of Church

Attending Asbury

IMPLICATIONS Demographics and Faith Characteristics • Asbury’s attenders are “mature” adults with regard to their life experience, church involvement, and faith commitment.

• They are distinctly different from those in the Tulsa area; attenders are far more educated, affluent, older, and more conservative.

• There is little ethnic diversity at Asbury compared to the community.

• In general, Asbury attracts committed Christians who are similar to those already at the church.

IMPLICATIONS Asbury Engagement and Impact • A disconnect: Asbury attenders want an experience and an education. Tulsa community needs to see/wants helps with life transformation.

• Spiritual growth in Asbury congregation has more of an inward (i.e., feeling, understanding) than outward focus (that requires actions/behaviors toward others).

• Personal relationships/connections with others at the church have a profound and positive impact.

If you would like to view more of the Barna results, visit www.asburytulsa.org/barna.

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Believers Bible Study Don Herrold

SUMMER 2012 WELCOME Welcome to RoadMap, your guide for the Christian journey of life. We are pleased to offer a variety of biblicallybased classes for adults of all ages.

STEPS TO ENROLLMENT 1. Register online at www. asburytulsa.org under Quicklinks/Adults/RoadMap or call the Registration Hotline at 918.392.1191.

2. You may pay and pick up materials on Sunday, May 20th, at the CLC Gallery from 8:30–11:00 am or on the first day of class.

To insure that you will have materials by the first class session, register at least two weeks prior to the start date.

Registrations will be accepted up to the start of the class, but no guarantees will be made concerning your materials.

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Continuous study of the Bible. Currently doing a survey study of the book of Romans.

àà BIBLICAL STUDIES Forgiveness: Breaking the Power of the Past by Kay Arthur Nancy Staab and Dee Paige Unleash the Healing Power of Forgiveness.

As imperfect people living in an imperfect world, we eventually confront in nearly every relationship the need to extend or receive forgiveness. But when the wounds run deep, forgiveness doesn't come easy. As you dig into what the Bible says on this vital topic, you'll encounter the depths of God's own mercy and discover how choosing forgiveness can free you from a painful past and propel you toward being all that God intends you to be. This is one of the Precept 40-minute Bible studies with NO HOMEWORK. Workbook and childcare included. èè Tuesdays, 9:30–11:00 am èè June 5–July 24 (will not meet June 19 or July 3) èè Room 2821 èè Cost: $10

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èè Wednesdays, 6:00–7:30 pm èè Room 1508 èè Year-round, takes a break in August (will not meet June 20 or July 4) èè No Cost The Inheritance by Beth Moore Cathy Ariana This nine session lecture-only DVD series is a topical study of Inheritance throughout God's Word. Key verse: Psalm 16:5–6, "The lines have fallen for me in pleasant places; indeed, I have a beautiful inheritance."

Each video session is approximately one hour in length and will be followed by small group table discussions. This study includes a small listening guide for taking notes on the videos and has NO HOMEWORK. èè Wednesdays, 6:30–8:30 pm èè May 30–August 8 (will not meet June 20 and July 4) èè Room 2818 èè Cost: $5

Bible knowledge required. Second half of the course continues in the Winter 2013 RoadMap semester, beginning in January.

àà WOMEN

àà MARRIAGE

Women of the Word Darlene Johnson

iMarriage by Andy Stanley Greg & Katie Ruley and J & Jessica Dyer

Open Bible study focusing on the practical application of the Scripture sermon series.

Reclaim, Refresh and Renew Your Marriage. Join us for an in-depth, exciting adventure in this remarkable marriage study by Andy Stanley. We will spend 7 weeks discussing new ideas, refreshing hopes from that precious wedding day, and renewing our commitment to one another in different areas that affect all marriages. Sessions will include watching a short video and spending time with other couples in a small group setting.

You won't want to miss this opportunity to stand up with your spouse against the spiritual attack on marriage today!

Childcare provided.

èè Wednesdays, 10:00–11:00 am èè Ongoing (will not meet on June 20 and not meeting in July except for luncheon on July 18) èè Room 2818 èè No Cost (Child care not available)

àà CARE GriefShare Janie Hedrick & Jan Schueller GriefShare is a special weekly video series and support group for people who are grieving the death of someone close to them. It’s a safe place to be around people who understand what you are feeling. At GriefShare, you’ll learn valuable information about recovering from your grief and renewing your hope for the future. Group sessions are offered three times per year. You may begin attending this group at any time...each video session is "selfcontained." èè Tuesdays, 6:30–8:00 pm èè May 8–July 31 Room 1504 èè Cost: $15

CHILDCARE • Childcare is available for anyone in a RoadMap course during core hours

èè Wednesdays, 6:30–8:00 pm èè Family Room èè June 6–August 1 (will not meet June 20 or July 4) èè Cost: $15 per couple

àà COMING IN EARLY FALL BIBILICAL STUDIES - DISCIPLE – Part I Instructor: Dr. Vaughn Story These two concurrent 34-week courses are for adults wanting to study the whole Bible in order to learn what it means to be a faithful follower of Jesus Christ. No previous • Children may be dropped off 15 minutes before parent’s RoadMap class begins • Core hours: –– Monday and Tuesday mornings, 9:00 am–12:00 pm

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èè 17 sessions (first half of a 2-semester Course) àà Class A: Tuesdays, August 7– December 11 (will not meet Oct. 16 or Nov. 20) OR àà Class B: Thursdays, August 9– December 13 (will not meet Oct. 18 or Nov. 22) èè Room 2818 èè 6:30–8:30 pm èè Cost: $40 (materials supplied for both semesters) *To register for either Class A or Class B, you must attend only one of the Preview/Enrollment meetings in room 2818 at 6:30–7:30 p.m. which will be held Tuesdays, July 24 or July 31, or Thursdays, July 26 or August 2.

FINANCIAL - Financial Peace Sundays taught by Rick Booth or Thursdays taught by Ron Carter This program is not a quick fix for financial worries. It is a 13 week program which requires real commitment. By teaching you money management basics, FPU can give you hope and provided a solid plan to walk you from the financial bondage of debt into true Financial Peace. èè Sundays, August 16–November 15 (No childcare available) èè Thursdays, August 19–November 18 èè Room 2820 èè 6:00–8:00 pm èè Cost: $95 *Attend one of the two free orientations from 6:00–7:00 p.m. Thursday, August 9, or Sunday, August 12. Classes start the following week.

–– Tuesday, Wednesday and Thursday evenings, 6:00–9:00 pm • No childcare on these dates: VBS week, June 19–21, 2012 Wednesday, July 4, 2012

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RECIPES OF THE MONTH

“Whereabouts is Wesley?” Recipe Travels Chicken Curry from India ½ cup chopped onion 1 clove garlic, minced 1/4 cup salad oil 1 medium tomato, chopped 1 small bay leaf ½ teaspoon cinnamon 3 whole cloves 5 cups cubed uncooked chicken (2 ½ pounds, boned)

1 ½ teaspoons salt 1 Tablespoon curry powder ½ teaspoon cumin ½ teaspoon coriander Dash pepper 1 ½ cups water ¼ cup coconut milk

In large skillet cook onion and garlic in oil until tender but not brown. Add tomato, bay leaf, cinnamon, and cloves; cover and cook 5 minutes. Add chicken cubes; simmer uncovered slowly until juice of chicken has steamed off (about 30 minutes). Stir in salt, curry powder, cumin, coriander, pepper, and water. Cook slowly for 35 to 40 minutes, or until chicken is tender. Blend in coconut milk. Serve over rice. Makes 6-8 servings.

Submitted by Mary Ann Smith

Loco Moco from Hawaii 2 scoops white rice 1 hamburger paddy

brown gravy egg

Place two scoops of white rice in a bowl. Place a cooked hamburger patty on top. Pour a generous portion of brown gravy onto the hamburger and rice. Fry the egg (sunny-side up) and place it on top. Some folks prefer to place the egg on the hamburger and then put the gravy over top of everything.

You have a Loco Moco.

Submitted by Tera Askey If you’ve been to Hawaii, one dish you surely have seen on any breakfast or lunch menu is Loco Moco. The dish was first served in Hilo on the Big Island of Hawaii at the Lincoln Grill in 1949.

The dish has a number of variations, however, the basic recipe calls for white rice, a hamburger patty, brown gravy and a fried egg. A popular variation substitutes SPAM for the hamburger. We all know how much Hawaiians love SPAM. Another variation calls for scrambled eggs instead of a fried egg.

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OPPORTUNITIES

Asbury Opportunities RECYCLING PAPER

GENERAL INFORMATION

Recycle unwanted paper products. Three bins are available, located in the south and east parking lots.

BREAKFAST

Come enjoy fellowship with Asburians along with fresh donuts, bagels, biscuits & gravy, sausage, eggs, fruit, and cereal.

• Served from 7:00–9:00 am in the CLC • $4 for adults and $1 for children 12 and under

NEW ADDITIONS TO THE LIBRARY

The Asbury Library is a wonderful resource. Thank you to all who continue to contribute books to our Library.

SUNDAY MORNING WORSHIP

8:00 am 9:15 am 9:15 am

11:00 am 11:00 am

Mason Chapel (Traditional Communion) Sanctuary (Contemporary) CLC - Open House Worship (Acoustic Worship, Casual Setting) Sanctuary (Traditional) Venue 68 (Modern with sign interpreter)

OJT (OVERCOMING JOB TRANSITIONS)

Unemployment isn't forever. You can help by telling people about OJT (Overcoming Job Transitions) which meets right here at Asbury.

• Tuesday, May 15, 6:30–9:00 pm • Room 2319 • Contact Russ Knight at OJTJobs@gmail.com

SUNDAY EVENING WORSHIP

6:00 pm

DOORS OF ASBURY POSTERS ARE AT THE WELCOME CENTERS...

FREE! Suitable for framing.

Venue 68 (Modern)

ACCESS SUNDAYS FOR CHILDREN AND STUDENTS

6 Weeks–Pre-K K–6th Grades 7th, 8th & 9th Grades 10th, 11th & 12th Grades

8:00, 9:15 and 11:00 am 9:15 or 11:00 am 9:15 and 11:00 am 9:15 am only

FRIENDS IN CHRIST COMMUNITY

• Sundays, 11:00 am, Room 1507

ADULT DISCIPLESHIP COMMUNITIES

Adult Bible study, belonging, and serving together • Sunday at 8:00, 9:15 and 11:00 am • Options during the week - Tuesdays at 6:00 pm, Wednesdays at 6:00 pm SURGERY OR HOSPITALIZATION SCHEDULED?

Be sure to let Asbury know ahead of time by calling the church receptionist at 918.492.1771 so your pastors can be in prayer for you. When you enter the hospital, please designate Asbury as your church. The after-hours pastoral emergency line can be reached by calling 918.492.1771, selecting option 6, and leaving a message for the pastor on call.

THE GAZEBO IS OPEN

HANDS OF LOVE SIGN CHOIR

• Sundays, 5:30–6:30 pm, Family Room

CDs of Tom’s message of the day are available immediately following the worship service - $3. UMW Cookbooks available for $20. Additional volunteers needed.

BIBLE STUDY Check out our adult bible studies listed in our RoadMap brochures found at all welcome centers or online at www.asburytulsa.org/ AdultMinistries/Roadmap.aspx.

Here are some ongoing studies you may attend at any time: MEN’S BIBLE STUDY

Our study Honor Begins at Home draws from the movie “Courageous,” and focuses on men making the bold/courageous choice to lead their families in a Godly manner.

• Wednesdays 6:00–8:00 pm • Room 2821 • Facilitators: Brock King and Greg Ruley BELIEVERS BIBLE STUDY

Study on the Imperatives of the New Testament: Meanings, Objectives and Applications

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• Wednesdays, 6:00–7:30 pm • Room 1508 • Instructor: Don Herrold

–– Room 1507 –– Baseball caps and decorating items available –– Contact Sue Fisher at healinghatsmin@aol.com or 918.455.2816

WOMEN OF THE WORD

Join Darlene Johnson as she leads an open Bible study focusing on the practical application of the Scripture sermon series.

• Wednesdays, 10:00–11:00 am (No childcare) • Room 2818

VISITS TO ASBURY MEMBERS

Asbury has a group of volunteers (Asbury Connection) who regularly visit people who are homebound, in nursing homes or in assisted living facilities.

• Contact Lisa at 918.298.9014 or lisa_dalt@sbcglobal.net

CARE AND SUPPORT PRAYER CARD MINISTRY

GRIEFSHARE

A weekly support group for people who are grieving the loss of a loved one. The group offers a comfortable environment where the emotions and process of grief are understood and welcomed.

Participants will learn practical strategies for grief recovery through the highly acclaimed GriefShare video series, study guide and group discussion. Individuals may begin attending this group at any time.

• 13 Tuesdays, May 8–July 31, 6:30–8:00 pm • Room 1504 • Childcare available • Cost is $15 • Register online or call 918.392.1191 S.M.I.L.E. (SINGLE MOTHERS IN THE LORD’S EMBRACE)

Join us for a DVD series and book entitled “21 Principles of a Healthy Single Mom.” You will learn to apply specific, workable guidelines so you can flourish spiritually in the midst of overwhelming circumstances. Each principle/video session is selfcontained, and you may begin attending at any time.

• Third Thursdays, 6:00–8:45 pm • Parlor • Childcare provided • $12 for book • RSVP to Kellie at asburysmile@ymail.com HEALING HATS/BALL CAPS

MILITARY CONNECTION

Please join us in praying for our troops in harm’s way and their families. Periodic care packages and monthly encouragement cards with God’s Word are sent to Asbury-related military personnel. The Prayer Ministry also covers them in prayer. Send complete name and address to: • Jo VanDeWiele at 918.459.0888 or Gwen at grmohler@aol.com DIVORCE RECOVERY

For those suffering from the early, highly emotional stages of divorce and separation trauma.

• Tuesdays, 7:00–8:30 pm • Room 1335 • Childcare available • Contact Malia Miller at 918.494.9596 or malia.miller@ sbcglobal.net DIVORCE REBUILDING

An Asbury ministry created to provide hats to cancer patients who have lost their hair. “Home spun with knots of love, woven together with help from above!” Simply knit, crochet or sew a hat or decorate a ball cap of your choice and drop it in the collection box located next to the Gazebo. Find more information in the literature rack attached to the collection box. In addition, the following groups meet regularly for fellowship, while using their creative ability to make hats: • Crochet Group –– Second and fourth Tuesdays, 6:30–8:00 pm –– Room 1506 –– Contact Sue Fisher at healinghatsmin@aol.com or 918.455.2816 • Ball Caps (If you can cut and glue this is for you!)

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Send cards with God’s encouraging words and our prayers to those who are ill or going through hard times.

• Usually meets first and third Mondays at 9:30 am • Room 1508 • Contact Gwen Mohler at 918.258.5479 or grmohler@aol.com

For those ready to rebuild their lives after separation or divorce.

• Thursdays, 7:00–8:30 pm • Room 1335 • Childcare available • Contact Jim Small at 918.697.4220 or divorce-rebuilding@ cox.net MENTAL HEALTH SUPPORT FOR FAMILIES

For family members or caregivers of people affected by a mental illness.

• Usually meets the fourth Thursdays from 1:30–3:00 pm • Parlor • Contact Linda Lytle at 918.298.2707 or lllytle@wildflower.net

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ASBURY BEAR BAGS

Asbury Bear Bags with coloring books have comforted young children for many years, but now you may give a Bear Bag with a scripture-based journal included instead! Great for teens and adults.

Anyone may deliver an Asbury bear to someone who is grieving.

• Contact Sue at suemorey@yahoo.com

CHILDREN

DISCIPLESHIP DISCIPLESHIP COMMUNITIES

If you have not yet found an Adult Discipleship Community check out “Community Life” on our website, www.asburytulsa.org, or pick up a brochure at one of our Welcome Centers.

• If you are 20’s to early 30’s, come check out our newest Sunday morning group at 9:15 am in room 2314, “Transitions”

Registration forms for all children’s activities are available in the preschool and elementary lobbies.

CORE CHILDCARE HOURS

Parents who are involved in RoadMap classes during these core hours will have childcare provided for children 6 weeks–12 years of age with no reservations needed: • Sunday

9:00 am–12:00 pm • Monday and Tuesday 9:00 am–12:00 pm • Tuesday, Wednesday and Thursday 6:00 pm–9:00 pm

ENDOWMENTS Leave a legacy that continues to give forever to a ministry you want to support. There are endowments that support many areas of Asbury’s outreach including children, youth, music, missions, and training of pastors as well as a general endowment. You can easily impact a ministry through your will or a current gift.

• Contact Dwight Yoder at 918.392.1113 or dyoder@ asburytulsa.org

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SUNDAY MORNING VOLUNTEERS

Children’s Ministry is actively pursuing classroom, security and hospitality volunteers. We have two rotations: Alpha (1st and 2nd Sundays) and Omega (3rd and 4th Sundays) at both the 9:15 and 11:00 class times.

• Contact Abby Sluice at 918.392.4583 or asluice@asburytulsa.org MURDOCK VILLA VISITS

4th, 5th and 6th graders can serve at an assisted living housing project once a month where the majority of the residents have physical disabilities. Space is limited to the first 10 students. Make sure you sign up early and have your permission slip signed.

• Sunday, May 20, 12:30 pm • Belong 4.5 Rock 2909 • $5 for a pizza lunch • Contact Abby Sluice at 918.392.4583 or asluice@asburytulsa.org CELEBRATION STATION

Celebration Station is a 52-week complementary children’s program to Celebrate Recovery. While adults explore topics that bring healing and wholeness, kids discover the same truths in ageappropriate ways through worship, crafts, games and activities.

• Mondays, 7:00–9:00 pm • Faith Zone • Contact Eryn Wallis 918.392.4588 or ewallis@asburytulsa.org SPECIAL VOLUNTEERS FOR SPECIAL KIDS!

Do you have a heart to help children with special needs? If so, the Children’s Ministry needs you to volunteer.

• Contact Dotti Westerberg at dottiwesterberg@hotmail.com or 918.381.0874

We were recently asked, “why don’t you have volunteers holding the doors open on Sunday morning?” The simple answer is we have very few volunteers willing to do it. Most say Asbury is a friendly church, yet we don’t have enough friendly people willing to serve on Sunday mornings when the need is great to welcome folks who have possibly had little contact with people during the week. We need new volunteers to serve in a hospitality role as greeters and at Connection Corner where many people have their first experience at Asbury. The Gazebo needs new volunteers as well. Are you one of those friendly people? Contact the church office at 918.492.1771 to volunteer.

MARRIAGE & FAMILY ATTENTION ENGAGED COUPLES

If you are planning to use an Asbury pastor to officiate and/or use Asbury’s facilities, be sure to book ASAP to allow ample time for Couple-to-Couple (required premarital meetings).

MEMBERSHIP ASBURY EXPLORATION

Come to a lunch/class to learn more about becoming a member of Asbury.

• Sunday, May 6, 12:15–2:00 pm • Community Life Center (CLC) • Childcare available for children six weeks through sixth grade • Lunch provided • Call 918.392.1191 to register

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• Contact Michiel Conner at 918.640.4382 or michiel0930@ sbcglobal.net

MEN MEN’S ANNUAL GOLF TOURNAMENT

It's time for our annual Asbury Men's Golf Tournament! Format is four-man scramble. You may form your own team or be placed on a team. Net proceeds benefit Asbury's Men's Missions. To register, pick up registration form at the south desk and return with payment.

• Friday, May 11, with shotgun start at 8:30 am • LaFortune Park Golf Course • Cost is $55 per person, which includes the driving range, green fee, cart and lunch • Registration forms at the south desk • Deadline, May 6 • Contact Donnie Cox at 918.519.4567 or Clay Smith at 918.629.7727

If you like to work on cars, check tires, belts, fluids, filters and batteries, we have an opportunity for you! Put your faith and skills into action! Come join other volunteers as we perform basic maintenance check-ups on the vehicles of widows and single women of Asbury. Workdays are every other month, 5 times a year.

• Saturday, May 12, 9:00 am–noon • Family Center entrance • To volunteer, contact Mike Nalley at mnalley16@cox.net MEN’S PRAYER BREAKFAST

Make plans to join us for a great time of meaningful worship, lifechanging prayer and an awesome big breakfast.

• Wednesdays, 6:30–7:30 am • CLC • Cost is $3 per person; first-time guests are free MATURE MEN’S MINISTRY R.O.M.E.O. LUNCHEON

Are you a “Retired Old Man” who wants to “Eat Out?” If so, then these luncheons are for you! A really awesome bunch of guys meet for good food and great fellowship.

• Meet every second and fourth Friday, 11:15 am • Village Inn (71st and Memorial) • Open to anyone 60 years and up • Contact Bud at bdmathes@cox.net or Jim at robersonjim29@ gmail.com

Home Improvement teams help widows and single women, who are Asbury members, with minor home repairs and/or small home improvement projects five times a year. If you are handy with a hammer, like to paint or clean out flower beds, please consider joining a team! You will be truly blessed.

• Saturday, June 16, 8:30 am • Meet in the Family Room lobby for planning and assignments

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GLOBAL OUTREACH DINNER

Join us for the next Global Outreach dinner. Hear reports on Myanmar and focus area updates.

• Tuesday, May 8, 6:00 pm • Family Room • Deadline for reservations, May 3 • Cost $7.00 • Contact Missy Sistrunk 918.392.1163 or msistrunk@ asburytulsa.org 2ND SATURDAY

MEN'S MINISTRY - CAR CARE VOLUNTEERS

HOME IMPROVEMENT WORKDAY VOLUNTEERS

MISSIONS/VIM

Looking for an easy way to make a difference and share Christ’s love in Tulsa? Join us for 2nd Saturday and choose between local mission opportunities. Families with children are welcomed and encouraged!

• Saturday, May 12 • Venue68 • Head to the ministry sites, 8:45; teams work from 9:00–11:30 am; buses return to Venue68 no later than 12:15 pm • Contact Betty Higgins at carevets@aol.com BIBLE STORY TELLING WITH BOBBIE

We will be hosting Bobbie who will teach us how to use Bible Storytelling to more effectively share the Gospel with family, friends, and on mission. Storying is a wonderful way of sharing scripture in such a way that crosses cultural barriers. The process of storying gives the storyteller the privilege of hearing the heart of others. It is a jump start to building relationships! Bobbie is a wonderful teacher and will make it a fun day .

• Saturday, May 19, 9:00 am–3:00 pm • Family Room • Cost is $10 which includes lunch • Contact Missy Sistrunk for reservations, 918.392.1163 or msistrunk@asburytulsa.org CIRCLE OF CARE OF THE OKLAHOMA UNITED METHODIST CONFERENCE BOY’S RANCH & CHILDREN’S HOME

This is a time of change for the Boy’s Ranch in Gore, OK and Children’s Home in Tahlequah, OK. The Boy’s Ranch is a residential program that serves boys age 13–18 who are experiencing problems which prevent them from living at home and the Children’s Home services girls age 13–18. As the result of the lawsuit against Oklahoma DHS by a New York group, there are major changes expected in the care of children. The Boy’s Ranch and Children’s Home are taking proactive steps and changing to a Christian campus homes format. The cottages are being converted to be foster homes for sibling groups and foster care for

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older children. The independent living programs are also going to be expanded for 16 to 18 year olds. In making these changes, there are several ways that you can help: remodel bedrooms, bathrooms, build playground and chain link fence. Communities are encouraged to plan a work day or “working retreat” weekend with families. To check on the availability of volunteer facilities at the Ranch if you want to spend the night, please contact Barbara Wright at blwright1@yahoo.com. Communities could consider partnering to undertake projects. The Local Outreach office at Asbury can provide matching funds up to $2,000 per project. If you are interested in applying for these funds, contact Radhika M. Aussieker, raussieker@asburytulsa.org.

VIM 2012 TEAM SCHEDULE

• May 31–June 11 –– Estonia, Lighthouse, $2,700 • June 2–9 –– Ecuador, MBS & Construction, $2,000 • June 7–16 –– Central Asia, Relationship, Teaching & Light Construction, $2,200 • June 14–26 –– Tanzania, East Africa, Medical, $2,800 • June 28–July 9 –– Estonia, Camp Gideon, Youth Camp, $2,700 • July 19–30 –– Estonia, Parnu, MBS & Light Construction, $2,700 • September –– Tanzania, East Africa, Construction, $2,800 • Fall –– Cookson Hills, Oklahoma, Light Construction, $60 –– Central Asia, Relationship, Teaching & Light Construction, $2,200 • October* –– Monterrey, Mexico, MBS & Construction, $950 • November 7–11 –– Rio Bravo, Mexico, Medical, $700 * Tentative All costs apporximate.

For more information about these exciting mission opportunities, contact Marilene Long at 918.392.1164 or mlong@asburytulsa.org.

For information about the men’s Rio Bravo, Mexico opportunities, contact Jim Furman at jnlfurman@cox.net.

VIM LEADER TRAINING

• September 15 and November 3 (Oklahoma City)

MUSIC SUMMERSONG

• Sign up May 6 and 13 in the Music Ministry office, 8:30 am– 12:30 pm • SummerSong is June 11–15, 10:00 am–2:00 pm each day • Concluding program Friday, June 15, 7:00 pm, Sanctuary CHANCEL CHOIR

We have so much fun…singing, laughing and serving together.

Come share your God-given talent with us.

• Wednesdays, 7:00–9:00 pm • Choir room • Available for seventh grade through adults.

NEW COVENANT ORCHESTRA

• Wednesdays, 6:00–7:30 pm • Orchestra room PERPETUAL LIGHT

• Thursdays, 10:30am–12:00 noon • Handbell room CELEBRATION RINGERS

• Tuesdays, 4:30–5:30 pm • Handbell room ASBURY POWER & LIGHT CO.

• Sundays, 8:00–9:15 am • Orchestra room CHILDREN’S CHOIRS

Come learn about God through music as we sing, play instruments, play musical games.

• Wednesdays, 6:00–6:50 pm • Available for children age four (by September 1, 2011) through sixth grade ASBURY SINGING AMBASSADORS

• Tuesdays, 1:30–3:00 • Choir room • Available for senior adults

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ADULT GAME DAY

PRAYER ALTAR PRAYER

If you would like someone to pray with you during Holy Communion or immediately following a worship service, please come to the altar rail. A pastor or member of the Altar Prayer Team will be glad to pray with you for your needs – physical, emotional or spiritual, at the altar or in the Prayer Room.

PRAYER ROOM RESERVATIONS

The leadership of Asbury’s prayer ministry would like to remind you that the main facility Prayer Room is open not only to individuals desiring to pray in a quiet, meditative atmosphere but also to prayer groups within communities and ministries. Just call the Adult Ministries office at 918.392.4589 to reserve the Prayer Room for your group on a weekly or monthly basis.

PRAYER ROOM DAYS AND TIMES

Our prayer rooms are accessible to you at these times: • Mason Chapel and Venue 68 –– Sundays from 7:00 am–12:30 pm, through the interior doors • Main Facility, Mason Chapel and Venue68 –– Monday–Friday, 8:00 am–9:00 pm –– Saturday, 10:00 am–3:00 pm –– Sunday, 12:30 pm–9:00 pm • To obtain door codes, call Pam in the Adult Ministries office at 918.392.4589.

RECOVERY

Attention all adults! How would you like to get together on a regular basis with a wonderful bunch of fun adults and play cards, dominoes, or whatever board or card game you choose? Bring a friend and stay for as long as you like!

• Every third Thursday, 1:30–4:00 pm • Room 2821 SENIOR WALK IN THE GYM WITH HIM

All senior adults are invited to join us for power walking, coupled with lots of fun and fellowship. Come give it a try.

• Mondays, Wednesdays and Fridays, 8:30–9:00 am • Gym SENIOR SIT AND FIT STRETCHING CLASS

All senior adults are invited to join us for a time of stretching, coupled with lots of fun and fellowship. No high impact workout here. We take it nice and easy.

• Mondays, Wednesdays and Fridays from 9:00–9:30 am • Gym SENIOR ADULT MEAL & MOVIE

If you’re 55 years of age or over, our monthly meal and movie day event may be just the “ticket” for you! We get together at a different Tulsa restaurant each month, and then head off to see a “first run” movie.

• The dates and times vary according to the movie selected, but those who express an interest will be contacted a few days ahead of time so they can make plans accordingly • For more information or to sign up for the call list, contact Sally Wood, sally-wood@sbcglobal.net

CELEBRATE RECOVERY

Come join this supportive group of people. Hiding any hurts, habits or hang-ups? God never intended for you to live in bondage.

• Every Monday night: dinner at 6:00 pm, worship from 7:00–8:00 pm, small groups from 8:00–9:00 pm, dessert from 9:00–9:30 pm

SENIOR ADULTS TWEENAGERS MAY PROGRAM AND LUNCHEON

Mark your calendar to attend this special event! Our very own pastor, Tom Harrison, will be speaking this month on the "State of the Church." Music will be provided by "Miss Broken Arrow," Lydia Gray. Come enjoy the program, a delicious lunch and fellowship.

Ages 55 and older are welcomed. Donations for missions and other expenses are welcomed.

• Thursday, May 4, 10:30 am–1:00 pm • CLC • $1.00 for lunch • No reservations required

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SINGLES SINGLES MINISTRY LUNCHEON

Single adults and their families are invited to our luncheon and mixer.

Come get acquainted with other singles at Asbury while enjoying a great lunch, fun and fellowship. See you there! Bring a friend!

• Sunday, May 13, 12:15 pm–1:30 pm • CLC • Cost is $5.00 per person and kids 10 and under eat free • No reservations required SINGLES MINISTRY - MEMORIAL DAY PICNIC

Single adults and their families are invited to attend a picnic. Please bring a "family" size covered dish (with serving utensil), dessert or soft drinks to share. Hamburgers, hot dogs, condiments and utensils will be provided. Don't forget your lawn chairs, frisbees and games.

This family-friendly event is a great kick-off for summer!

• Monday, May 28, 4:00–7:00 pm • Triplex Shelter at Haikey Creek Park

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SINGLES MINISTRY “MEET AND GREET”

All singles are invited to stop by the "Meet and Greet" area, grab a cup of coffee, and mingle with other singles. Come meet new people or catch up with those you know! This is a great opportunity for the community of singles to connect with others on a regular basis.

• Every Sunday, 10:30–11:00 am • Breezeway outside the CLC COMMUNITIES

You are always welcome to join any other communities that are not “Singles Only”, as most are a mix of singles and marrieds.

• Sundays, 9:15 am - New Beginnings Class • Sundays, 11:00 am - Ambassadors for Christ, Footprints (ladies only), Salt & Light, Christ Centered Singles

• RSVP by April 29 10 11 12 SUNDAY MORNINGS @ VENUE 68

On Sunday mornings we meet for an in-depth Bible Study and discussion.

• Sundays, 9:15 am • High school room 10 11 12 SUMMER BREAKAWAY

10 11 12 Breakaway, will look a little differ this summer. We will still get together every week, sometimes at the Venue for worship and pizza, and other times we will be out of the building. Check the calendars for events, times and places.

• Wednesday nights, 7:00–8:30 pm

STUDENTS 10 11 12 SMALL GROUPS

7TH GRADE CONFIRMATION

Service • Sunday, May 6, 6:00 pm • Sanctuary • Students need to arrive at the old Breakaway area by 5:40 pm 789 GRADE BREAKAWAY – SUNDAY MORNINGS

On Sunday mornings at 9:15 am, we meet in the BAM room (upstairs in the Venue) for a large total group experience of games, worship and teachings from God’s Word. If you like large groups and worship, be there. At 11:00 am, we meet in the green classroom as a smaller group and do a more in depth Bible study.

Get connected. Are you looking for a way to get more connected?

Are you looking for a place to grow in your walk with Jesus? Then being a part of a small group is where you need to be. Our small groups meet every Sunday night; times vary. Some of the groups meet in homes and others meet at the church.

• Contact Todd at 918.392.1154 or Amy at 918.392.1156 7TH–12TH GRADE METRO WORSHIP @ VENUE 68

Come join youth from all over the city in a night to just worship Jesus.

• The first Wednesday of every month, 7:00–8:30 pm • Venue68

WOMEN 789 GRADE BIBLE STUDY

Come join us for Wednesday night Bible study; hang out, have fun and study what God’s words has for us.

• Wednesdays, 7:00–8:00 pm • Student Café DISCIPLESHIP CAMP, 789

"Disciple is Awesome!" to quote a few people who went last year.

Disciple is a discipleship camp for rising 7th, 8th and 9th grade students that involves really awesome worship, small groups, ropes course and cool students.

• June 1–5 • Registration forms due May 6 GRAD CELEBRATION

Graduates will meet at 10:30 am in the main building foyer in their cap and gown to head over to both 11:00 am services. After the service, graduate families are invited to lunch in the CLC to celebrate the class of 2012!

• Sunday, May 20

UMW MAY UNIT LUNCHEON

"One Nation Under God" is the theme for this year's National Day of Prayer which falls on May 3rd. This annual observance was decreed by the U.S. Congress in 1952. At a time when the right to pray is being attacked regularly, our own Rev. Jim Lenderman will share practical and powerful ways that prayer can impact our lives.

Scripture: James 5:16.

• Thursday, May 3, 11:30 am–1:00 pm • CLC • $7.00 for lunch • No reservations necessary UMW COOKBOOK SALES

Each cookbook is packed with over 600 delicious recipes from some of the best cooks in town! They make great gifts for Mother's Day, weddings and birthdays!

• Sunday, May 6, 9:00 am–noon • South foyer table • Cost is $20

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HOME IMPROVEMENT WORKDAY

This outreach ministry serves widows and single women, who are Asbury members, by helping with minor home repairs and small home improvement projects. H.I. volunteers make themselves available every other month, five times a year. If you are in need of help and qualify, just pick up an application at a welcome desk, fill it out, and return it at least ten days before the scheduled work day. A volunteer from the H.I. team will contact you and make arrangements to get the job done! You can also sign up by contacting Michiel Conner at 918.640.4382 or michiel0930@ sbcglobal.net.

• Saturday, June 16 • Sign up at least ten days before workday CAR CARE WORKDAY

Single women and widows of Asbury, while you wait in the comfort of the Family Room café, volunteers from the Men's Ministry will check your tires, belts, fluids, filters and batteries and do a basic maintenance check up. They will also vacuum and wash your vehicle, and then update you on what is running smoothly and what needs professional attention. This free service gives our men the opportunity to put their faith and skills into action by serving others. Workdays are every other month, 5 times a year.

• Saturday, May 12, beginning at 9:00 am • Have your vehicle in line no later than 11:30 am • Family Center entrance • No reservations necessary • Contact Mike Nalley at mnalley16@cox.net

9:15 AM OPEN HOUSE WORSHIP

• Community Life Center • A relaxed atmosphere with engaging worship led by Dub Ambrose and team • Dr. Tom Harrison’s message is simulcast with an occasional live sermon from another pastor 11:00 AM TRADITIONAL SERVICE

• Sanctuary • The Chancel Choir, the New Covenant Orchestra and various vocal and instrumental ensembles offer a variety of styles of music led by Hart Morris • Dr. Tom Harrison preaches 11:00 AM MODERN SERVICE

• Venue68 • Rich blend of ancient and modern worship, led by Chris Cleveland and team • Sign interpreters for the deaf are offered 6:00 PM MODERN SERVICE

• Venue68 • Rich blend of ancient and modern worship, led by the Ben Kilgore and team • Rev. Spencer Smith preaches

WOMEN OF THE WORD

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Wednesdays, 10:00–11:00 am Room 2818 No childcare available Teacher is Rev. Darlene Johnson

WORSHIP 8:00 AM COMMUNION SERVICE

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Mason Chapel Traditional service with music led by Hart Morris Communion is served Dr. Tom Harrison preaches

9:15 AM CONTEMPORARY PRAISE & WORSHIP

• Sanctuary • Contemporary music led by Mark Bennett and team • Time of prayer and the message will all carry a prevailing theme for the morning • Dr. Tom Harrison preaches

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SPECIAL ANNOUNCEMENTS

Marriages, Births and Deaths BIRTHS

DEATHS

• Nathan Douglas Klugh born 2/23/2012, son of Arrick & Staci Klugh, little brother of Tyler Klugh.

• Gunner Van McKenzie born 3/1/2012, son of Max & Casey McKenzie, little brother of William, grandson of Mike & Cary Nalley • Griffin Scott Beauchamp born 3/19/2012, son of Brian & Morgan Beauchamp, grandson of Scott & Marilene Long.

• Graham Joseph Westwick born 3/20/2012, son of Aaron & Jolene Westwick (staff), siblings are Savanna & Griffin Westwick

• Arlene Josephine Griggs died 3/1/2012, wife of A.C. Griggs • Phyllis Younts died 3/9/2012 • Charles Nelson died 3/10/2012 • Robert M Killam died 3/12/2012, husband of Emily • Naoma Marie Crawford died 3/15/2012 • Robert (Bob) Bruton died 3/17/2012, father of Beth (Cliff) Richison • Russ Washburn died 3/20/2012, husband of Florrie Washburn

Milestone Anniversaries 60 YEARS

35 YEARS

• Wayne & Betty Crockett 05/31/52

• Jim & Shari Gibson

55 YEARS

05/07/77

30 YEARS

• Joe & Beth Limes 05/30/57

• Chuck & Debbie Wilson • Pat & Deborah Calhoun

05/01/82 05/15/82

50 YEARS • Jim & Nancy Jones 05/12/62

MILESTONE WEDDING ANNIVERSARIES

Email your upcoming Milestone Anniversary (5, 10, 15, 20, etc.) to Carolyn Schutte at brucars2@cox.net or call 918.451.1559.

Wayne & Betty Crockett 05/31/52

Joe & Beth Limes 05/30/57

Jim & Nancy Jones 05/12/62

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New Members

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Bruce & Toni Bales

Brian & Morgan Beauchamp

Jeff & Laura Beltran

Grandt & Kara Butler

Matt & Jenn Colerick with Samuel

Royce & Chris Crawford

Brian & Carey Hooper with Beckman and Paxton

Nate Hopkins

Betty Lewis

Mike & Kathy McDonald

Steve & Billie Morris

Ryan & Summer Pittman

Greg Spencer

Betty Wright

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Kids at VBS will learn to trust our Father no matter what. They will come to know and trust God in everything through music, Bible theater, crafts, missions and games. Kids will build bonds of friendship with each other and their crew leaders.

Register at www.asburytulsa.org

VBS 1st–5th grades (Fall 2012) June 19–22 9:00 am–12:30 pm Cost: $10.00 per child (includes t-shirt)

VBS Crossroads 6th graders (Fall 2012) Tuesday–Thursday, June 19–21 8:45 am–12:45 pm Friday, June 22 8:45 am–4:00 pm Cost: $30.00

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