Hope in the Midst of Devastating Darkness by Asbury Church

december 2012

his has been an eventful year for Asbury, so let me review some of what happened. It was also a milestone year. We celebrated 50 years as a church. Just as importantly, we know that 2013 starts our next 50 years. It is our responsibility to set the stage for our future. It was another great year for our ministries. Many people participated in global and local outreach initiatives. Hundreds of Asburians traveled internationally to our various focus areas. This included several hundred participants in our annual Spring Break Missions. In October, over 2000 people participated in our Day of Service to the Tulsa community. Over 800 kids attended Vacation Bible School. Celebrate Recovery and our care and marriage ministry continue to offer support to hundreds each year. Those are just a small sample. Our completely restructured local outreach ministry had a successful year. This major effort started in 2010 as a result of a church-wide study indicating a strong congregational desire to increase our scope of local outreach. Some of the more visible initiatives include our GED partnership with Union, our work with Global Gardens, and the Day of Service. The first two, located on our north property across 66th Street at Asbury corner, have just completed their first full year of operation. Prayer is part of everything we do at Asbury. Our prayer ministry recently created a prayer walk on our campus patterned on the “seven spheres of influence.” Station one is located outside the main building entrance (facing Mingo). I encourage you to take this walk. Starting late summer you saw a big improvement in the content of Asbury’s prayer journal. The journal tracks the sermon series and provides meaningful supplemental devotional material. Tom’s desire is that every person follow along in the journal with the scripture and devotional reading. This year has seen transitions in several significant staff positions including pastors and senior ministry leaders. These changes were due to retirement or because the person was responding to a call to ministry opportunity outside of Asbury. We congratulate each of them, but we also appreciate the challenges in addressing the void they leave. As part of our continuing improvement in communications, we launched myasburytulsa. org. It is available from the main page of our website. You have access to review and edit your contact information, view the church calendar, register for events, subscribe to communications, and set up regular giving. Starting this month, the communications we send to you will be based on what interests you have indicated using this system. 2012 has been a year of study and discernment of how best to respond to challenges faced by Asbury and many other churches. This includes declining participation in corporate worship and in some other ministries. One part of this multi-faceted study was the work done by Barna Group at the beginning of the year. Asbury has been given too many blessings and too many opportunities to accept the current state. In 2013 we will respond to what has been learned. New things will be put in place. We will recall one of the first things Tom said when he came to Asbury over 19 years ago, “Different is good.” You have already heard about one of the best things we can do to prepare for Asbury’s future. It is to pay off our debt. Many have already made their commitment to this campaign. If you have not yet done so but wish to, contact Dean Hatch at dhatch@ asburytulsa.org. Thank you for supporting all that Asbury does. Thank you for praying. Dwight Yoder Executive Director

DECEMBER 2012

Contents A Word From Tom Harrison RoadMap Thanksgiving Baskets and 2nd Saturday Ready for Some Leisure Hope in the Midst of Devastating Darkness A Lifetime of Missions Displaying the Power of God Seeing the Manifold Blessings of God, Even Though… God Worked a Miracle Christmas Traditions Around the World Where’s Wesley? In London! Where Has Wesley Been? Grandpa John Recipes of the Month Opportunities Special Announcements

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We need you! Do you have a story of what God has done in your life? Please contact us and tell us a little bit about what God has done. We will all be encouraged by hearing stories of what God is doing in the lives of those around us. Are you a writer or someone who enjoys writing? The Communications Department is always looking for someone to do an interview and write a story for us for Tidings. Have you noticed that we’ve been making some changes in Tidings? Please give us your feedback—both good and bad. Email kmains@asburytulsa.org or call 918.392.1140. Asbury Tidings is a monthly publications designed to tell stories of lives being transformed by the power of Jesus Christ. You may read back issues by visiting www.asburytulsa.org. Editor: Asbury Communications Department, 918.392.1140, kmains@asburytulsa.org Graphic Design: Tim Jurgensen, tjurgensen@ asburytulsa.org Photographers: Mark Moore (mark moore.photo.net) Guest Contributors: Angie Brashears, Deborah Ede, Harlan Ford, Kimberly Hedrick, Christine Hickey, Betty Higgins, Susanne Johnson, Linda and Rob Marshall, Dick Read, John Westervelt

A Word From Tom Harrison Darlene has been a wonderful presence with our pastors, on our staff, and within our congregation. Her passionate love for the Lord is evident to all. Her excitement and joy is contagious. Her willingness to open the door to her office and her heart has touched many of us. Her eagerness to share her faith in teaching and preaching has been “just what the Doctor ordered” for Asbury. I know it’s also been a “Win-Win” for Darlene, too. We know it’s in her best interests to return to Oklahoma City where all of her family, including her mother, reside; it’s still going to be VERY hard not to have her circulating down our halls. I’ll miss her

wisdom and banter. We’ve had a lot of fun together through the years. We’ve also gone through some struggles together as fellow pastors. My life, and our life at Asbury, has been immeasurably brightened by her presence. Darlene is indeed, a very special person!

Why Should You Buy a Prayer Journal? People who can’t feed themselves are either infants or those who are not well in some way. In a similar way, there IS a time when we have to be spiritually spoon-fed. But mature Christians have developed habits which create spiritual strength. In this text about maturity, note the emphasis upon “constant use.” Anyone who lives on milk, being still an infant, is not acquainted with the teaching about righteousness. But solid food is for the mature, who by constant use have trained themselves to distinguish good from evil. (Hebrews 5:13-14) A number of years ago, we decided to tie our daily readings with Sunday’s scripture. We have a theme word or concept we look at each week which is reflected in each daily reading. Our goal is for our people to read the scriptures for themselves. Now the Bereans were of more noble character than the Thessalonians, for they received the message with great eagerness and examined the Scriptures every day to see if what Paul said was true. (Acts 17:11)

We are trying to help people develop spiritual habits which will build them up in the faith. Reading the Bible and prayer are at the top of the good habits list! This is what Jesus told us to do, and it was the model of the New Testament church. I invite you to join with us on a daily study of God’s word and to engage in prayer. These small acts produce habits which produce character which results in a life script. It’s not hard to do. Please commit yourself to uphold your church by using our prayer journal as a force for good in your life.

Dr. Tom Harrison Senior Pastor

Our Very Own Hall of Famer On November 9, Pastor Tom Harrison was inducted into the Will Rogers High School Hall of Fame along with seven other inductees. This brings to 29 the number of alumni at WRHS who will be in the school’s Hall of Fame. Bill Mason, Bishop Hayes, Hart Morris and A.B. Steen were just four of those who recommended Tom for this honor. Congratulations to Pastor Tom! And did you know we have other Will Rogers alumni among Asbury members? These include Pastor David Thomas, his wife Patty, and Ed Voorhees.

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COURSES îî BIBLICAL STUDIES PRECEPT: Isaiah Part II (Chapters 40–66) Nancy Baxter and Debra Stephens èèTuesdays 9:30-11:30 am èèJanuary 22–April 2 (will not meet March

19)

èèRoom 2821 èèCost $20

BETH MOORE: The Law of Love Cindy Read èèTuesdays 9:30-11:15 am èèJanuary 8 – February 12 èèRoom 2818 èèCost $15

WINTER 2013

Nehemiah: A Heart That Can Break by Kelly Minter Cindy Read èèTuesdays 9:30-11:15 am èèFebruary 19 – April 9 (will not meet March

19)

èèRoom 2818 èèCost $15

WELCOME Welcome to RoadMap, your guide for the journey of life in Christ. We are pleased to offer a variety of biblically-based classes for adults of all ages.

STEPS TO ENROLLMENT 1. Register online at www.asburytulsa.org under Quicklinks/Adults/RoadMap, or you may call the Registration Hotline at 918.392.1191 if you do not have computer access. 2. Pay for and pick up your books on Sunday, January 6, in the main west foyer of the main building. Instructors will be available to meet you and answer your questions. Materials may also be picked up on the first day of class. To insure that you will have materials by the first class session, register at least two weeks prior to the start date. Registrations will be accepted up to the start of the class, but no guarantees will be made concerning your materials. Please help us to be ready for you by registering early.

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BETH MOORE: The Law of Love Dee Dee Geddie èèTuesdays 6:30-8:30 pm èèJanuary 15 – February 19 èèRoom 2820 èèCost $15

Faith, Hope, and Luck by Andy Stanley Dee Dee Geddie èèTuesdays 6:30-8:30 pm èèFebruary 26 - April 2 (will not meet March

19)

èèRoom 2820 èèCost $10

Romans (Part II) Gail Knox èèTuesdays 6:30-8:00 pm èèJanuary 22 – April 2 èèRoom 2821 èèCost $15

Developing A Powerful Prayer Life Jackie Carter èèWednesdays 6:00–8:00 pm èèJanuary 9 – February 27 èèRoom 1507 èèCost $10

PRECEPT: Matthew Part II Dee Paige èèWednesdays 6:00-8:00 pm èèJanuary 9 - March 6 èèRoom 1504 èèCost: $20

FAQ: The Great Issues of Christianity Dr. Sam and Chrissy Thorpe èèWednesdays 6:00-7:30 pm èèJanuary 9 – March 13 (will not meet

February 13)

èèRoom 1335 èèCost $10

Search for Significance Rev. Gloria McGee-Denton and Rev. Guy Ames èèWednesdays 6:00-7:30 pm èèJanuary 30 – April 24 (will not meet on

February 13 or March 20)

èèRoom 2818 èèCost: $15

Believers Bible Study Don Herrold èèWednesdays 6:00-7:30 pm èèYear-round, takes a break in August èèRoom 1508 èèNo cost

îî WOMEN Mothers’ Fellowship Katie Ruley èèTuesdays 9:45–11:45 am èèJanuary 8 – April 30 (will not meet March 19) èèRoom 1900 (Parlor) èèCost: $15

Women of the Word Various Teachers èèWednesdays 10:00–11:00 am èèRoom 2818 èèNo cost èèChild care not available

îî MEN Men’s Bible Study: Experiencing God Greg Ruley and Brock King èèWednesdays 6:00–8:00 pm èèJanuary 9 – April 17 (will not meet on

February 13 or March 20)

èèRoom 2500 èèCost: $15

îî CARE GriefShare Ann Peterson and Tom Berry

îî MARRIAGE & FAMILY The Art of Marriage Pat and Deborah Calhoun èèWednesdays 6:00 -8:00 pm èèFebruary 6 – March 27 (will not meet

March 20)

èèRoom 2821 èèCost $20/person

Raising Self-Reliant Children in a SelfIndulgent World Betty Higgins èèWednesdays 6:00–8:00 pm èèJanuary 9–February 27 (will not meet on

January 23 or February 13)

èèRoom 1506 èèCost: $15

îî FINANCIAL Financial Peace University Sundays January 13 – March 10 taught by Ron Carter (child care not available) or Thursdays January 10 – March 7 taught by Rick Boothe (child care available) èè6:00–8:00 pm èèRoom 2820 èèCost: $95 per kit, one kit needed per

couple

èèWednesdays January 9–April 17 (will not

meet on February 13 or March 20)

èè3:00–4:30 pm (no childcare)

OR èè6:00–7:30 pm (childcare provided) èèRoom 2319 èèCost: $15

Beyond GriefShare Ann Peterson and Tom Berry

For a complete listing of classes, costs, dates, times and locations of all Roadmap classes, visit www.asburytulsa.org/ roadmap.

èèWednesdays January 9 – April 17 (will not

meet on February 13 or March 20)

èè3:00-4:30 pm (no childcare)

OR èè6:00–7:30 pm (childcare provided) èèRoom 2201 èèCost: $12

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If you have questions, contact Diane King at 918.492.1771.

Thanksgiving Baskets and 2nd Saturday by Betty Higgins

am a hungry child. I am one of 49,000,000 people in America who go to bed hungry. I live in Oklahoma, which ranks first in the percentage of hungry people at 7.5 percent. My parents work hard at their jobs and are considered the working poor, which comprises 80 percent of the people who go hungry. One in five children in Oklahoma go to bed hungry every night, and that includes me.

30 women get check ups at Good Samaritan Women’s Health Clinic and organized closets at Asbury.

I am a 2nd Saturday volunteer. I am a person who cares about people and has a heart to serve. I got up on this November 10 morning to participate in 2nd Saturday because it is easy, productive, rewarding and my choice. I get to Venue by 8:15 to register and choose where I want to serve. I decide to help assemble Thanksgiving baskets and take them to Edenwood Apartments where they will be distributed to Youth at Heart families. A large group of us walk over to Asbury where we work together to organize the massive amount of food donated by Asbury members. At 10:00 am, seven buses crammed full of food and volunteers leave for the apartment complexes. When we get there, families start coming and the block party fun begins. There is music and laughter and face painting and games. We have a lesson about thankfulness, and I feel so thankful for this experience. I meet so many sweet kids and their moms and dads. At the end, we give each family two bags of food, a bag of potatoes and a turkey. I hate to leave. I will try to come back again in December to deliver Asbury’s Adopt a Christmas Child presents.

A volunteer, a bag of groceries and a hungry child were connected at 2nd Saturday. Only God knows what beautiful things will come from this moment.

If you, too, have a heart to serve, come to the next 2nd Saturday on December 8 and join in the fun.

A volunteer, a bag of groceries and a hungry child were connected at 2nd Saturday. Only God knows what beautiful things will come from this moment. At 2nd Saturday, 200 people went into the city of Tulsa to help beautify lives. They made sure 250 families did not go hungry on Thanksgiving, had seven block parties for kids, washed and maintained widows’ cars, winterized at Up With Trees, painted playground equipment at Helmerich Park, helped with Furniture Fest at Sharehouse ministries, mulched at Global Gardens, helped

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she has been able to meet so many wonderful people at church in the community. “Tulsa and Asbury have been good to me.” Darlene was a little fearful of retiring. She was worried she wouldn’t be able to take care of herself financially. The Lord assured her He would take of her. She is at peace with her decision is very excited. “I am looking forward to this time in my life. I want to spend time with my mom. I can’t wait to see where God takes me.” She has many great memories but a couple of her greatest memories include the kick-off luncheon for the women’s ministry in March 2000. More than 300 women attended and the gym was transformed into a beautiful setting. “The ladies outdid themselves,” said Pastor Darlene. “I was the last speaker, and all I could do was cry. I was completely overwhelmed.”

Ready for Some Leisure Retirement for Pastor Darlene Johnson by Angie Brashears

As I sat down with Pastor Darlene Johnson, I was embraced by her smile and her warmth. She is a lady you just love to know. She is a Godly woman who speaks her mind with honesty and love. She is quite the hoot, too. Darlene has an uncanny knack for saying something at just the right time to make you laugh. Darlene is retiring at the end of December to move back to Oklahoma City to be with her family. “I miss being around my family very much. I want to be home, near my mother who will be 90 years old on November 16. I had started thinking about retiring but really felt like it was time to go home after my brother died in June. I am just going to take retirement at a leisurely pace and not do too much.” Pastor Darlene has worked for Asbury for 13 ½ years and has loved every minute of it. The journey at Asbury has been glorious, and

Another great memory is the Prayer Odyssey, and last but not least is the Wednesday morning Bible study for Women of the Word. When she first started teaching Women of the Word class, they had only 15–17 people. More than 100 women attend now. This class has not only been about teaching the word of God for Darlene, but it has enriched her and created a sense of belonging. She has been able to see how God speaks to His people and brings them together for the Body of Christ. “You could sense the Spirit moving in and around the room. Hearts and souls were energized together through the Spirit. This class has given me spiritual growth at the same time I was teaching.” Pastor Darlene would like to pass on a few words to the congregation: “Asbury, thank you for receiving and accepting me. I will always have you in my heart and pray God’s blessing be poured out on you. I want you to continue to grow up young boys and girls to be great women and men of God. The church may not be like you want or what you want, but the church is the best place on Earth for His people. Asbury is a wonderful place for ministry, friendship, growth and fun.” When Pastor Darlene came here, she didn’t know anyone. She would sit in pastor meetings listening to the men talk about sports and men stuff. She decided one day to tell them about what she did over the weekend. She went shopping. They joined in and asked what she bought. “I fell in love with the pastor team from then on. I don’t know what Pastor Tom is going to do without me. He is fun to work with, very compassionate and a great teacher. I will miss all of them dearly.” To these special young ladies; Racheal Yadon, Kendall and Emory Parris, and Zoe and Lillie Taylor. “Continue to grow in Christ. To be beautiful, graceful, strong women in the Lord and do everything God leads you to do. I love you dearly.”

Reception for Pastor Darlene Johnson Sunday, December 16 at 7:00 pm Main Foyer

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hope

HOPE in the Midst of Devastating

DARKNESS by Kimberly Hedrick

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This is a true story about devastating emotional pain, the heart wrenching scars of childhood cancer, a family with two young boys falling into a darkness so deep, so wide, the fear so great, the physical pain so huge; but this is also a story of courage, bravery, triumph and love… and the cross. This is the story of our courageous son, Truman Hedrick… brave heart, cancer survivor, amputee, loved by so many. He is described by the Asbury children’s staff as having a “smile that lights up the room.”

not only crater you emotionally and physically, but also with complete financial devastation.

Truman was diagnosed with osteosarcoma, bone cancer in the summer of 2009 when he was only 9 years old. The pain he had been experiencing in his right knee had finally been figured out, and it was a devastating blow to our family. Our boys were just 9 (Truman) and 6 (Greyson) when we had to tell them that Truman had cancer. A 9 and 6 year old do not know to fear cancer, but they would soon feel the devastation that it brought onto our family. Truman would begin a yearlong treatment plan that would involve intensive inpatient chemotherapy. His body would be ravaged severely by the chemotherapy, dropping his body weight 20 pounds and damaging his hearing permanently. His body was frail, his eyes were empty, his head bald. After the first week of chemo, we thought Truman was going to pass away from the treatment alone; none of us thought we would make it through this nightmare. We prayed often for an earthly healing, for comfort and peace, for a miracle for our son, but we felt alone and isolated and scared; our family was dying inside. We knew Truman’s chances were low, yet we were doing all we could to get the best medical treatment possible. We also felt like we were losing our youngest son, Greyson, in the scramble for Truman’s life. All we could do was hold onto his little fingers and drag him through this nightmare with us.

We will never be the family we used to be, but because of God’s love, His mercy and grace, we very well may be something better.

Depression and sadness would sometimes abound in Truman’s life and ours, yet God never left us. After three months of chemotherapy and the tender age of just 9 years old, Truman courageously and bravely underwent the amputation of his right leg above the knee to try and fight the cancer. Our hearts were experiencing death that day; our dreams for our son were dying. It was truly the worst day of our lives. Seeing Truman after surgery was so hard, his right leg now gone and yet eight more months of chemotherapy must be endured, this time as an amputee. Our friends and those who loved us rallied around us to pray, to help with meals, to raise money, we began to see the love of God and his tender care. Depression and sadness would sometimes abound in Truman’s life and ours, yet God never left us. Childhood cancer will

Truman has an amazing spirit that shines through all this darkness and sadness. When you enter the world of childhood cancer, you see such devastation around you, many little friends pass away and you see it obliterate their families. I don't claim to understand any of this and I know plenty of parents of kids with cancer, who pray, who love God, who do all that you are "supposed" to do and yet still their children do not win the battle over the cancer here on earth. I can only believe that God will heal all of us--some of us will be healed on earth and some of us will be healed when we get to heaven. Three years after the amputation of Truman’s right leg above the knee and a little over two years past the intensive chemotherapy, Truman, now age 12, continues his fight and triumph to relearn all of the things that were lost with the loss of his right leg. The cancer robbed him completely of his 3rd grade year, yet here he is now in the 6th grade and doing well at school. Greyson, age 9, is now the age that Truman was when he was diagnosed with cancer. It has been a long three years. Truman continues to undergo intensive followup cancer care to check for signs of relapse. There have been many questionable scans since he left chemo, and he has undergone numerous medical procedures and surgeries. His platelets have still not recovered from the intensive chemotherapy, and he is monitored closely. He continues to have medical scans every four months to look for signs of recurrence of the cancer. He sees his prosthetist (the lovable man who made his legs) and his audiologist regularly; they have become beloved members of Truman’s prayer warriors as well. I am quite certain at this point that they were both brought into our lives by God’s unending love for Truman and our family. On July 26, 2010, Truman began walking with his prosthetic leg, and he has not stopped since that day. He has relearned to walk with a mechanical knee; he is perfecting his running, which is no easy task. Truman has competed at the Endeavor Games (lower level paralympic style athletic events for challenged athletes) in Edmond for the past two summers. Truman

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loves archery and swimming, plays wheelchair basketball and rides a hand cycle bike. 2013 will be the year he takes on learning to ride a regular bike again, with a few modifications. Truman has had the opportunity to go snow skiing in Park City, Utah, with the National Ability Center, and he really loved three-track adaptive skiing for amputees. To see him coming down the mountain on one leg is a breathtaking sight. Truman’s real love is the ocean. Although he loves the dolphins, his true love is the Orca whale. Our family recently had the opportunity to travel to San Diego to participate in the Challenged Athletes Foundation triathalon, where both Truman and Greyson had the chance to spend some time surfing in the ocean. Their smiles were amazing as they rode the waves on the board. When he grows up, Truman’s dream is to become a marine biologist and live his life in the ocean. Greyson plays football, basketball, soccer and loves swimming as well; he has dreams of being an NFL player. Both boys love to play outside, shoot basketball, jump on the trampoline and ride scooters. It is indeed a miracle to see them playing together and smiling again after coming through such darkness. Our family continues to rely on God and pray and just love each other and be so grateful for where we are. We will never be the family we used to be, but because of God’s love, His mercy and grace, we very well may be something better. The fear of relapse never leaves us as parents, but neither does God’s love…this I am certain of.

Many days our family is at the feet of Jesus, clinging to the cross, clawing our way back, climbing out of that deep, dark hole of childhood cancer, and pushing Truman forward with his prosthetic leg and hearing aids. God has given Truman a smile and an overcoming spirit. God has blessed Truman with the gift of inspiration, to help others endure hard times and have faith. He is loved by God, and God has a plan for his life. This tragedy that Truman has endured and triumphed through will be used for good in the most astounding way. We cannot conceive of God’s plan, but we know he is at work in Truman’s life and Greyson’s life every day, and we know that God endures. I have a plaque in my kitchen that says “God makes all things beautiful in His time.” Our faith has endured. Our hope is in God. In the end, all we have is the cross. And that is enough. You can continue to follow Truman’s story at: www.caringbridge. org/visit/trumanhedrick

God has blessed Truman with the gift of inspiration, to help others endure hard times and have faith

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love

A Lifetime of Missions by Susanne Johnson

Do you realize what a gem we have at Asbury? The first time I walked through the front door and stood under the flags of the world, I felt more at home than I ever had in a church. All I could think was, “Why did it take me so long to find this gem?” Asbury members’ passion and long-term commitment to world outreach continue to amaze me. Why am I so interested in reaching out to other cultures with the Gospel? I can see God’s finger tracing a path from my childhood. Though I was raised in a small town in the Ozarks, I never lacked international friends and regular contact with missionaries. We hosted so many missionaries that my parents built on what we always called the “prophets’ room” after the story in II Kings 4 where the Shunammite woman added a room for hosting Elisha when he passed through her town. Our tiny high school always had two or three foreign exchange students, and I always gravitated towards them. It was fun to learn about their homeland, help them feel at home, and do my best to make sure they returned home with happy memories of their stay and warm feelings towards Americans. This last point was especially important because I was aware that many of them were from countries where relations with our government were tenuous at best. Such exchange programs were (and are) often very effective in promoting understanding and friendship between people from countries with very different cultures. Then as a student at ORU, I had the opportunity to study and live with international students and to go on mission trips. After graduation I was blessed with a husband, Kendall, who also has a heart for internationals. We began hosting dinners in our home for international delegations of government leaders, educators, and NGO (non-governmental organization) leaders who were traveling through Tulsa. This was through “Tulsa Global Alliance,” a secular organization housed on the TU campus which sponsors our “Sister Cities” program. This introduced our children to fascinating and highly-educated people from other cultures. Our children developed a comfort with and appreciation for people who speak, dress and think very differently than Americans. The first place I headed after joining Asbury was the missions office. I poked my head in and briefly introduced myself to Mary Ann Smith, hoping for opportunities to get involved. When a seat opened up on the Global Outreach Leadership Team (GOLT) I applied. It has been rewarding to be able to meet and link arms with the missionaries we support, as well as with those on spring break and Volunteers in Mission (VIM) teams. GOLT members are asked to take the course “Perspectives on the World Christian Movement.” This course

helped me finally understand how my life and the events of our time fit into God’s ultimate plan for drawing all nations to Himself. Any believer could benefit from clearing their schedule for one semester some time in their life in order to take this course. About four years ago, members of Family Fellowship Community invited some of us in LinC to help prepare the “Free International Lunch” at the Wesley House at TU for about 75 students every Thursday. For almost 20 years Asbury has supported the campus “International Community Outreach,” and its related student-led “International Student Ministries” (ISM). The following year our daughter Taylor enrolled at TU, and she is now the president of ISM. She took Perspectives, and it changed her way of thinking about life. She has a special fondness for and connection with students from the Middle East, so she and I went on to take the Perspectives-style course “Encountering the World of Islam” to learn how to present the Gospel in a way that can be understood and even accepted by people from a Muslim background. Both courses have been hosted at Asbury in partnership with other local churches. Asbury leadership is very intentional about what services they provide to help members become all God has called us to be and to fulfill His purpose for our life. Take advantage of these offerings! I challenge you to take the “Uniquely Yours” gifts online inventory to better understand how God designed you. Then clear your schedule enough to take part in some of the equipping programs offered at Asbury. From discipleship communities to small groups to Roadmap classes and the Perspectives course, there are many avenues for growth. Then put your gifts and skills to work reaching the world for Christ. Everywhere you look there are ways to make an impact. It can be as simple as showing up for a Second Saturday outreach or participating in a prayer ministry like Acts 29 or serving international students at TU. Or you may even decide to go on a VIM trip to Tanzania. As 2012 comes to a close and we prepare to dive into a new year, realize that finding and fulfilling God’s purpose for your life is the only way to live a life with no regrets. Make this your goal. At Asbury, you will find everything you need to live a life with no regrets!

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joy

Displaying the Power of God

by Christine Hickey

Sixteen. A time of high school activities, beginning college plans and perhaps even dating. Stefanie Renkema was doing none of these things. After an injury on the basketball court while playing her favorite sport, Stefanie was experiencing pain in her lower back/ tailbone area. The continuing pain led Stefanie to her local doctor. Scans and biopsies later, Stefanie was diagnosed with a giant cell tumor, benign but aggressive, in her sacrum. Stefanie underwent surgery in June 2010 to remove the tumor, and the surgeon was successful. However, her ongoing pain was consistently causing a roller-coaster of confusion and frustration. So began a myriad of doctor appointments, powerful pain medicines and plenty of travel to MD Anderson in Houston. Treatment and pain management has more than occupied the past two-and-a-half years.

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When this medical journey began, Stefanie signed up for a blog on www.caringbridge.com. She and her mother write regular updates. Reading through the entries, it is clear that the Renkemas' faith has been a rock for their family. That’s not to say that they have always felt uplifted, guided and hopeful. Rather, the relationships the Renkema family has are built upon the rock. Their loved ones have shared in the tears, the prayers and the rejoicing. Stefanie and Kim both cite Asbury’s children and youth leaders as strong sources of strength. Kim received a text message that read, “It’s okay. Even when you don’t have the words, relax; the rest of us will cover her in prayer.” Again and again, Kim writes about being overwhelmed with the outpouring of compassion and commitment shown to her and her family by Angel Flight (www.angelflight.org) staff and pilots, along with MD Anderson doctors and staff. Broken Arrow High School faculty and administration matched that commitment by allowing her to adjust to a shortened day schedule, enabling her to maintain a 3.7 GPA.

Even when you don’t have the words, relax; the rest of us will cover her in prayer. In August 2012, the tumor returned. Despite being shell-shocked by the news, Stefanie picked herself up and started her freshman year of college as a resident at Oklahoma Baptist University. She is giving herself her own injections of medicine, with the support of her friends. When asked if she’s thought about the positive influence she may be having on them, Stefanie said, “I haven’t

really thought of it, but the other day I got a note from one of my friends, just telling me how glad she was that I was on the hall and how she loved that we got to talk about our faith. Then, she told me she could see God in me through the way I lived. All I see is my trying to sit through class without crying or debating if I can even go to class. To hear her say that meant a lot because that is the desire of my heart–to live completely in Christ and to show people Christ through what has happened to me.” Stefanie’s parents, Greg and Kim, respect the strong, faithful young woman they have raised in the house they built upon the Rock. They remain faithful that God will use this experience for something great in Stefanie’s life. “God has given me a peace about everything, that all I have to do is wake up each morning, praising and serving Him every step of the way,” says Ms. Renkema. When she dreams about the future, Stefanie sees herself working with churches in other countries and forging youth ministries. She is open to new relationships, hasn’t lost her sense of humor, and seems to have a special, sharp perspective on her priorities: “My friend, Hannah, told me the other day just to run as fast as I can for God. When I find a guy running as fast or faster, then I’ll know that that’s who I’m supposed to be with. Until then, I’m just going to work on getting healthy and try to get all my homework done.” God has made a promise to the Renkema family, as He has to each of us. “But those who hope in the Lord will renew their strength. They will soar on wings like eagles; they will run and not grow weary, they will walk and not be faint.” –Isaiah 40:31 You can follow Stefanie’s story at http://www.caringbridge.org/ visit/stefanierenkema.

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peace

Seeing the Manifold Blessings of God, Even Thoughâ&#x20AC;Ś

by Harlan Ford

Though I prefer not to be defined by loss, if I don't share now, when is a better time? I write this not because of my virility or amazing super-human abilities but because of the misplaced appearance of modeling good faith and how to lose stuff gracefully. Suppose as a child, you were told that you must go to Toledo. (In this case, Toledo just represents a place I donâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;t want to go. I'm more of a Grand Canyon or Yellowstone sort of guy but I'm sure Toledo has many virtues for those who actually know it. My apologies to the good people of Ohio!) What are possible reactions?

navigator? I have engaged in all of these drama queen antics and more but I am still going to Toledo.

Hissy fit? Done that. Still going.

Retinitis Pigmentosa

Complaint? Been there. Still going.

As an engineer, I have spent a good deal of my time designing and repairing complex systems. Take it from me, it's a miracle that anything ever works! For whatever reason, I was endowed

Refuse to cooperate? Question the authority? Plead? Curse the

If you really don't want to go, there are still lots of options short of resigned acceptance. My favorite: denial.

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with a kink in the amazing, Rube Goldberg-like process by which light becomes a comprehensible signal. In me, it doesn't repair itself normally, and so I am going progressively blind as my retina disintegrates. Not being able to ponder the imponderable, how should one react to this? Self destruct? Anger at God? Turn away from anything good? Making sure that everyone around me is miserable? OK, sometimes, but really, none of those things seem very useful and definitely don't move the ball away from Toledo. Besides, God has gifted me with a great imagination and an effervescent streak which makes sustained anger difficult. I haven't been there so Toledo can be whatever I want it to be. So why not look on the bright side?

God has gifted me with a great imagination and an effervescent streak which makes sustained anger difficult.

My father's simple goodness and faith has always been an example for me. My mother remains a great mentor and example of faith. distraction. My wife is a huge blessing to me in helping me not to take gifts for granted, and in my rational moments, I am greatly strengthened by her sensible outlook. It takes a strong person not to enable my constant pleas for little things which would weaken my abilities to fend for myself over time. Example: Plea: "I need chocolate! Please weaken me!" Response: "No". (Implied response: "I have no time for your nonsense. Be gone!") It turns out that I am almost 17% chocolate by weight and really don't need more. Who knew? She was right again. In any situations, there are manifold blessings provided by our marvelous Creator. I leave you with a few of mine.

(More than) 10 great things about losing your vision.

Gifts of God Although my condition is not painful aside from occasional encounters with sharp, hard objects, I have found it nearly impossible to reconcile my natural desire to be â&#x20AC;&#x153;coolâ&#x20AC;? with talking to a mailbox or walking into a partially open door. The good news is that the many awkward situations are festooned with comic relief. You know the feeling: "Oh, I thought you were offering me your hand! A thousand pardons!" Still, it's hard not to be overcome with thanksgiving for possessing what sight I have for as long as I have had it. In all earnestness, I am not qualified to speak about pain or sorrow as I have been given, through no endeavor or worth of my own, a great deal from God's providence. How can anyone not be grateful to have had the best parents, spouse and examples and live in the best country in the world?

Never the designated driver. Everyone is beautiful. When I move fast, I am closer to God! The house looks great! Extremely low expectations! Nubile young women are finally eyeing me more than I am them. No one has aged in years! You can get away with the most outrageous stuff! Your faithful seeing eye dog "Shep" goes first, no matter how dangerous the situation (sky diving, bungee jumping etc.)! No stress during traffic! Superhuman strength! Who is that handsome young man in the mirror?

My father's simple goodness and faith has always been an example for me. His joy and lack of complaint in many horrid circumstances makes any trial I may have seem trivial in comparison. I have a wonderful example of handling and adapting to visual loss with my mother and sister. Their stories are funny and full of life's zest. My mother remains a great mentor and example of faith. My dear wife works with folks whom God has challenged with trials of pain and humiliation which renders small any inconvenience I endure by comparison. She reminds me constantly that each person has life, dignity and worth; and more than that, gifts of God that many overlook in their

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everything

changes

God Worked a

Miracle by Deborah Ede

It was a normal Thursday evening gymnastics practice on March 8, 2012, when I was injured. We had just finished tumbling and were practicing skills on the trampoline. I was working on my hardest skill, which I had already competed a few times before. The skill is called a “half out pike” (a double front flip with a 180 degree turn at the end). All I can remember is climbing up onto the trampoline about to continue practicing my half out pike, and then my mind went blank. I woke flat on my back not able to move. My coach was next to me telling me to stay calm, then he started asking me some weird questions. He asked me if I could feel him pinching my leg, and I could not. Then he asked me if I could wiggle my fingers, which I could not do either. The only thing I could do was move my wrist up and down, but I couldn’t feel the movement at all. At first, I didn’t even know I was moving my wrist. The only thing I could feel was an unbearable pain going through my neck and back. It was as if someone had numbed my whole body but was stabbing my neck and back; it was the worst pain I’d ever felt in my life. I asked my coach if I was paralyzed, and he said he didn't know. That's when I started praying and crying out to God to help me, please help me. After what seemed like eternity, the ambulance finally showed up and rushed me to the hospital. It was becoming impossible to breathe, and I was constantly being told to keep my eyes open. As I left the gym, my teammates were on the balcony above encouraging me. When we made it to the hospital, I was taken into immediate surgery. Right before I was about to be taken in, my best friends (who had been running around the whole hospital to find me once they heard the news) found me, and told me that God was with me every step of the way, and so were they. This was one of the last things I remember from that night before I was put under. Looking back at pictures, there were so many people who came to the hospital to support me while I was in surgery such as my teammates, church small group girls, my two older brothers who were in Stillwater, my parents’ friends and even more. They were there when my surgeon came out hours later, in the middle of the night, and told my family I was paralyzed and would never walk again.

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The next day I woke up in Saint Francis Intensive Care Unit not able to move. I barely knew what was going on and would hyperventilate every few minutes. It was so hard not being able to do anything for myself. All I could do was lie in bed with a neck brace, and even my voice was just a whisper. My doctors and surgeons told me the news that I most likely would never walk again. I would ask myself and others, “Why would God let something like this happen to me?” I was at Saint Francis for a week and a half and was visited by so many amazing and supportive friends, family and even many strangers who gave their prayers, as well. My brothers took time away from college to be with me, and my best friends skipped school to spend days with me as well. One friend set up a Facebook page, “Praying for Deborah” (which is ongoing), where more than a thousand people joined. Every day I read the encouraging posts and prayers that would help me get through each day. After about five days in intensive care I was finally moved out. Then about a week later God performed his first miracle in me! It started whenever my brothers were tickling my toes one night. My feet had always been extremely ticklish, so we weren’t too surprised to find that whenever my brothers, Daniel and David, tickled them, my toes would involuntarily flinch. Then one night when my brothers and our close friend Garett were hanging out in the hospital room with me, they began tickling my feet. They told me to try my hardest to keep wiggling my toes after they involuntarily flinched. At first I couldn't do it, but then after a many tries, I found that I could continue to wiggle my left big toe! I was so shocked that I had to ask them if I was really doing it all on my own, and I was! This was the very first video took and posted on “Praying for Deborah.” Everyone was amazed to see that I had gained this movement just a week after my injury. God does hear and answer prayers. After being at Saint Francis a week and a half, I was preparing to be flown to Craig Rehabilitation Center in Denver, Colorado. When I first heard I would be going to rehab there, I was devastated, because it meant that I would not be finishing my freshman year of high school and I would not going on the spring break missions trip to Jamaica with my church.

in prayer, I began praying to God for strength to help me regain movement in my finger. As soon as I said “Amen,” I decided to try my very hardest to see if I could wiggle them, and I could! It was barely any movement, but I could wiggle each finger a tiny bit. The preacher was still praying, but I was too excited. I just had to show my family what I had gained just moments after praying to God. On May 18, more than two months since I had broken my neck, I was discharged from Craig Rehab Center. It was sad having to say goodbye to my therapists and all the friends I had made in those past two months, but I was ready to go home. On that day, I walked out of Craig Rehabilitation Center using only arm crutches (although I did have a wheelchair for long distances). I’ll never forget when we made it to the Tulsa airport; I was greeted by so many friends and their families whom I hadn't seen in two months. Then when I arrived home, I was greeted by my teammates with more posters and cheering. Since I’ve been home, I’ve continued to go to occupational therapy and physical therapy twice a week along with going to a local gym to work out. I just want to end with a thank you to everyone who prayed for me. It’s been a long, hard journey, but God was by my side every step of the way. The power of prayer is unbelievable, and God works wonders through it. His Word is also another great source that helped me through these months and is continuing to help me grow closer to Him, as well. One verse in particular that I love is, “For I can do all things through Christ who gives me strength.” Philippians 4:13. This verse is so true, and every day I would tell myself this because God is almighty, and we can do anything if we just put our faith and trust in Him. Deborah was listed as a C5/C6 fracture complete, meaning the spinal cord was completely severed. The doctors are all amazed at the miracle of her recovery. We are all thankful for God's grace and healing power. Prayer was the key in her healing. –Ellen Ede

On March 19, I was flown in a small jet to Craig Rehab Center. I was rolled in on a hospital bed able to only wiggle my left big toe, and by now it had been almost two weeks since I’d sat up. The second day there, I was lifted out of my bed by a sling and was to see a little bit of the place I would be staying for the next two months. While at Craig, I had therapy five days a week, about six hours each day. I had physical therapy, occupational therapy, pool therapy and just about any other therapy you could think of. I had amazing therapists and became really close to them. Over time, I began regaining my strength and movement. By Easter, I was able to move both my legs and feet a little bit, but I still could not move my fingers. My whole family was with me on Easter Day, and we got up early to go to the weekly Sunday church service. We had just finished worship and the sermon was about to start. As they opened

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s n o i t i d a r T s a m t s d l Chri r o the W

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Asbury is connected to many countries in the world with its missions programs. Here a some of the traditions from countries where we are engaged through Global Outreach, spring break missions trips, or special projects.

Estonia

together to bake the fancy figured gingerbread men, while having a chat and drinking mulled wine.

Christmas is the most important holiday for Estonians. Estonians trace some of their Christmas customs back to a preChristian midwinter festival called Yule. Some old traditions are still observed symbolically. Covering floors with straw or hay doesn't happen nowadays, although it is still performed in childrenâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s plays. There are a couple of traditions that some people still follow - taking Christmas bread to domestic animals in the barn and taking bread and hay for the forest animals. There is also the tradition of putting out candles for departed loved ones, especially visiting their graves and placing candles there. At Christmas, whole cemeteries are illuminated. It is very common for children to put their slippers onto the window sill in the evening to discover that PĂ¤kapikk has left some sweets in the slippers by morning. In homes the Christmas tree is brought in a day or two before Christmas and normally it is a real one. The tree is up until Epiphany on the 6th of January. Estonian families celebrate Christmas on Christmas Eve, starting with a very large meal - pork, blood sausage (with cranberry sauce), sauerkraut, cooked (or oven baked) potatoes and meat in jelly. For dessert people usually have gingerbread or piparkoogid. Baking gingerbread is a complex process, as all friends and relatives gather

Tanzania The multicultural country of Tanzania is home to an incredible range of tribes and religions. The majority of the population is Muslim, followed by Christians, Hindus, Sikhs and other local tribes. Due to the mixing and mingling of cultures, there is no shortage of exciting holidays, a diversity of festivities in which everyone takes real pride. Families that can afford to buy clothing will buy a set of clothing for their children, so you will see many children walking around on Christmas day showing off their new clothing. It is a big deal to them to have new clothing, since it may be the only set of new clothes they get for the year. Toys are not a big deal here. You see many homemade toys. To get a ball or balloon is a big gift to the children. The family goes to church on Christmas morning and usually gets home from the service at lunch time. The mom makes a dish of ugali (corn mush) or rice and if they have the money they will have meat of some sort, usually chicken or fish. Meat is a luxury here. Most families have meat one or two days each month. The protein is from milk, eggs and beans.

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Caspian

Jamaica

Even though the majority of people consider themselves Muslim, New Years traditions in the Caspian area are similar in many ways to Christmas celebrations elsewhere. People will cook and clean all day in preparation for the celebration. Family and friends will gather in the evenings for music and dancing and fireworks celebrations. Traditionally a New Year tree (like a Christmas tree) is decorated in a house as December 31 approaches which is removed only after the Old New Year passes (13th of January). A necessary attribute of celebrations are Ded Moroz (Russian) or Shakhta Babah - both of them being a character like Western Santa Claus - and his granddaughter Snegurochka. They come on New Year's Eve, give presents to children and arrange the party. As a rule, family members and friends gather together on the eve of December 31. Right before midnight they give a toast to the yester-year. At midnight after the twelfth clock strike another toast is given to the incoming New Year. Usually they drink a glass of sparkling wine (bakunians call all types of wine Champagne), although the table is abundant with many kinds of other drinks.

Congo Christmas in the Democratic Republic of the Congo is more of a religious festival than commercial. Most people won't have any presents. Christmas Eve is very important with churches having big musical evenings (most churches have at least five or six choirs) and a nativity play. These plays last a very long time. They start at the beginning of the evening with the creation and the Garden of Eden and end with the story of King Herod killing the baby boys. The birth of Jesus is timed to happen as close to midnight as possible and then come the shepherds, the wise men and the slaughter of the innocents. This means the play normally finishes about 1:00 am. However, in some places there will be further singing until dawn! The Christmas Day service starts at 9:00 am with lots more singing. On Christmas day, most families try to have a better meal than usual. If they can afford it, they will have some meat (normally chicken or pork). The rest of the day is spent quietly, maybe sleeping after a busy and late night on Christmas Eve!

Christmas in Jamaica is not much different from other countries that celebrate Christmas, except the fact it has its own flavor based on the Jamaican culture. They enjoy the same popular songs as other countries that celebrate Christmas. However in true Jamaican style the Christmas carols can also be heard in Jamaican reggae version. The Johnkanoo (John Canoe) is a traditional celebration with dancing musicians parading through the streets dressed in colorful masquerade costumes. This tradition was brought to Jamaica by African slaves. Attending church services on Christmas morning and Christmas Sunday is a must for most Jamaicans, and churches are usually overflowing at this time. Their Christmas drink is the delicious sorrel (made from sorrel sepal - a meadow plant), ginger, pimento grains (all spice) sugar and a little rum or wine. The Christmas dinner is a feast, with mouth watering foods, rice and gungo peas (pigeon peas), roast beef or pork, fried or roast chicken, fish, oxtail, curried goat, fried plantain, potato salad and baked ham (preferably the leg).

Guatemala In Guatemala, the folklore relating to the Christmas celebration is very rich and full of details. One will find many families building manger scenes, representing the town of Bethlehem. These manger scenes sometimes are so large they occupy a whole room of the home. Mountains, rivers, deserts, lake, and valleys, along with figures of the holy family, wise men, shepherds and animals are created out of natural materials like moss, colored wooddust, sand, pebbles and tropical leaves called â&#x20AC;&#x153;pacaya.â&#x20AC;? It is the tradition of the Guatemalan people to go to church on Christmas Eve and then visit family and friends. At the exact stroke of midnight, when everyone has returned home, much like

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the New Year’s celebration in the U.S., the “Christmas Embrace” is shared and young people set off firecrackers. Traditionally, everyone eats a dinner of delicious “tamal,” made of corn and rice, filled with turkey, prunes, raisins and a sauce made with local spices, which has been cooked for at least eight hours. Tamal is packed in banana leaves and tied with a dried weed. It is served with white bread and a slice of lemon, accompanied with a cup of hot chocolate or coffee. The Christmas celebration in Guatemala continues well into the early morning hours of Christmas Day. At midday on the 25th, people will again set off firecrackers and attend church. Children are very much an important part of this special celebration.

Mexico Mexicans share many traditions with the Spanish. Their main Christmas celebration is called La Posada, which is a religious procession that reenacts the search for shelter by Joseph and Mary before the birth of Jesus. During the procession, the celebrants go from house to house carrying the images of Mary and Joseph looking for shelter. At midnight the birth of Christ is announced with fireworks, ringing bells and blowing whistles. Devout worshipers surge into churches to attend the famous "Misa de Gallo" or "Mass of the Rooster." Following Mass, families return home for a dinner of traditional Mexican foods. The dishes vary with the different regions. However, somewhat common are the "tamales," rice, rellenos, "atole" (a sweet traditional drink) and "menudo," which is said to be more sobering than strong coffee. Santa Claus is not predominant, but the bright red suit is represented in the traditional flower of the season. This flower is the poinsettia, which has a brilliant red star-shaped bloom. It is believed that a young boy walking to the church to see the nativity scene showing the birth of Jesus had realized on the way that he had no gift to offer the Christ Child so he gathered up some plain green branches as he walked in. He was laughed at but upon placing the branches near the manger they started to bloom a bright red poinsettia flower on each branch. On Christmas day children are blindfolded and taken to try and break a decorated clay piñata that dangles and swings at the end of a rope. Once the piñata has been broken, the children clamber to recover the candy that was inside the piñata. Those children who have been good also receive a gift from the Three Wise Men on January 6.

Christmas Day has no special celebration though many have adopted the American style Christmas with a Christmas tree and Santa Claus.

Ecuador Christmas is an important religious festival in this predominantly Catholic country. Novenas or house tours begin the holiday season nine days before Christmas. Ecuadorians visit other homes at this time looking at the Nativity scenes. In every house, the Nativity scene is an elaborate affair. The stable, which might be made from a cardboard box, is always covered in real moss. The same gray moss cascades for up to several feet around to create a landscape. Inside, the Baby Jesus, Mary and Joseph hold court. Outside, a variety of animals watch the scene. Hordes of plastic sheep, cows, and even ducks, knee-deep in moss, share in Christ’s birth. Children place their Christmas lists into an old shoe waiting for Papa Noel to visit. On Christmas Day the children usually will find new shoes and their presents. Families will have chicken, or perhaps a bit of beef, along with their boiled potatoes, rice and salad. Normally, there is no dessert, since so many families have candies left over from their children’s Christmas bags. Rather, a plate of fried bread rounds, which one can dip in brown sugar sauce, might be passed around, along with tragos, or liquor. Dinner is eaten much later than we are accustomed to. Some families have a Christmas Eve dinner at midnight, after mass, then open presents afterwards. Other families have dinner at 11:00 pm and open presents when the clock strikes midnight. Few people receive more than one present at Christmas, and most presents are small: knick-knacks, candles, a shirt. After dinner and presents, Ecuadorians celebrate as they do with every fiesta: drinking and dancing. Out comes the beer, whiskey or rum, and the chairs are pushed back to the sides of the room to make space to dance.

Merry Christmas!

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Where’s Wesley? In London! by Pastor Dick Read

njoying a recent sabbatical in England, Pastor Dick Read was accompanied by John Wesley to Wesley's old homestead in the Moor’s district of central London, virtually in the shadow of St. Paul’s Cathedral.

In his older years, Wesley spent most of his time in London, so he built a house on City Road in 1779, where he lived until his death in 1791. The house was built just next to the newly constructed Methodist Chapel. John Wesley really enjoyed showing off his old stomping grounds to Pastor Dick. He almost came to tears when he saw the pulpit in the Chapel where he preached many a fiery sermon. The pulpit was installed by Mr. Wesley when the Chapel was opened in 1778. It was originally three tiered, the preacher would sit at the top (proclaiming the high place in worship for the preached word), the clerk in the middle and the precantor at the bottom. In 1864, long after John Wesley’s death, the pulpit was lowered by 5 foot to become a single tiered pulpit.

The Aldersgate Flame is several blocks away from the Wesley Chapel and House. This sculptured flame sits outside the Museum of London, near the church site on Aldersgate Street where Wesley had his conversion. The text in sculpture is from Wesley Journal in 1738 describing when he was walking down Aldersgate Street and heard commotion and stepped in to the Moravian Church (likeable to modern day charismatic worship).

John Wesley at the feet of...well, John Wesley. The statue sits inside the gate of the grounds.

Wesley recorded in his journal on May 24, 1738: “In the evening I went unwillingly to a society in Aldersgate Street, where one was reading Luther’s prefer to the Epistle to the Romans. About a quarter to nine, while he was describing the change which God works in the heart through faith in Christ, I felt my heart strangely warmed. I felt I did trust in Christ, Christ alone for salvation, and an assurance was given me that he had taken away my sins, even mine and saved me from the law of sin and death.”

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John Wesley died in the bedroom of his house on March 2, 1791, after a long life of tireless labor and unselfish service. The graveyard of City Road Chapel, London, is about 50 yards from his house. If JW looks particularly anxious it's because he is standing on his own grave.

Where Has Wesley Been?

s part of Asbury’s 50th anniversary celebration, Pastor Tom thought it would be fun to get John Wesley out and about once again. We all wanted to see where in the world John Wesley might go if he were part of our congregation. Since February 5, he has traveled with you and your friends wherever you went—a mission trip, vacation or “stay-cation.” As the year comes to an end, we wanted to show you some of the places Wesley has been.

Southeast Asia

Visiting Elvis in Memphis

At the Grand Ole Opry in Nashville

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On a family trip in Ireland

In front of the Blarney Castle in Ireland

Outside Old Otterbein UMC in Baltimore

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GRANDPA JOHN

Alone on Christmas Morning by John C. Westervelt Freezing rain, sleet and snow were forecasted for the week of Christmas 2000 in Tulsa, Oklahoma. I had planned to pick up my mother-in-law in Enid, Oklahoma, on Saturday and take her home on Tuesday. She didn’t like to leave her house empty for too many days in the winter. On the phone we decided that, due to the weather, she would stay home this Christmas. My daughter Mary Kim and her husband Robert had gone to see his folks in Maryland. They were to fly to Tulsa late in the afternoon on Christmas day. My son Paul, his wife Sandy and their children Brett and Amy were at Sandy’s mom’s house, three blocks from me. At six o’clock on Christmas Eve, I had joined them for pizza. Back home at bedtime, the tree and other Christmas decorations stood quietly alone in their assigned places. I awoke on Christmas morning to the soft rumble of sleet on the roof. My logical mind agreed that the Christmas no-travel arrangements were the best. My emotional mind began to reminisce. My first Christmas away from home was in 1950 when my navy destroyer stopped in Japan on the way to Korea. I wasn’t sad then because I had roommates who were ready to go ashore with me to hand out some candy to the children on the streets of Yokosuka. Throughout the years that followed, I was never alone on Christmas morning. On this morning my heart felt a little heavy. In a conversational prayer, I asked about this strange feeling and what I should do to take away the pain. The answer made good sense. Call someone else who is alone. The day before, a friend at church told me her son had decided to go home Christmas Eve to avoid the impending dangerous highways. I called, and we both felt better. My second call was to my mother-in-law. She had watched a morning TV show and planned to watch the afternoon football game. She said, “I’m glad you called to use up some of my time.” I shared my heavy heart with regard to my first Christmas morning alone in 73 years. Mom added, “As I think about it, this is my first Christmas alone in 96 years.” I no longer felt so bad.

Mary Kim called to tell me they had heard about the Oklahoma ice and sleet. I told her I wasn’t confident I could drive to the Tulsa airport. I didn’t tell her how good her cheerful voice sounded. Good sense prevailed as we decided that they would cancel their late afternoon flight to Tulsa. Christmas afternoon was a whole different matter. At noon my son Paul called to say, “We will pick you up.” Sandy’s brother had already driven across town on the ice, so he was soon waiting in front of my house. After I arrived at Sandy’s mom’s house, Amy and I teamed up against Sandy and Brett to play a Christmas gift, “Cranium: A Game for Your Whole Brain.” After an hour we agreed on a draw. With conversations crisscrossing the den, Brett slumped on the couch for an hour with his laptop computer to redesign his webpage. It all happened so quickly; my grandson passed me by in computer knowledge. Sandy’s mom, a home-economics graduate, knew how to prepare Christmas dinner. She didn’t understand that widows and widowers our age should cut back. Still, I was glad she hosted and fed me as our family celebrated Christ’s birth. When I awoke alone the morning after Christmas, my heart felt fine. There is something different about Christmas day. Twelve Christmases later, I have not had another Christmas alone and shall not have one. For you see, in June I moved to Crestwood at Oklahoma Methodist Manor. Weather permitting, family will come. If travel is impossible, I can gather with friends on campus.

Martha, a dear friend in Kansas, had had only a few minutes to herself in the preceding six months while caring for her husband in their fight against myasthenia gravis. Sharing those minutes, she called me on Christmas morning.

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Other stories at www.jwestervelt.com

RECIPES OF THE MONTH

Starry-Eyed Christmas Cookies 1 bag waffle or star-shaped pretzels 1 bag holiday M&M’s plain or peanut butter chocolate candies in red and green 2–3 bags Hershey milk chocolate kisses • Preheat oven to 170 degrees. • Placed unbroken pretzels in a single layer on waxed paper-lined cookie sheets. Place one unwrapped kisses on each pretzel. Repeat for an entire cookie sheet. • Place cookie sheet in preheated oven for about six minutes. • Immediately upon removing from the oven, place one M&M on top of the semi-melted chocolate kiss. 5. Place entire cookie sheet in refrigerator until cookies are set.

Christmas Candy Cane Cookies (makes about 25) 3/4 cup butter, softened 1 cup sugar 1 large egg

1 tsp. peppermint extract 1/2 tsp. vanilla extract 2 1/4 cups all-purpose flour

Red food coloring

• Preheat the oven to 375 degrees. In a large bowl, cream the butter and sugar. Add the egg and beat well. Stir in the peppermint and vanilla extracts. Gradually mix in the flour. • Divide the dough in half. Color one half with red food coloring and leave the other half plain. Roll out a tablespoon of red dough and a tablespoon of plain until they are each 6 to 8 inches long. Twist them into a candy cane, pinching the ends. Repeat. • Bake on an ungreased cookie sheet for 8 to 10 minutes, or until set but not brown.

Stained Glass Candy ½ cup butter 1 12 ounce package semisweet chocolate chips 1 package rainbow colored miniature marshmallows (10.5 ounce)

1 package flaked coconut 1 cup chopped walnut

• Melt butter and chocolate chips in a pan over low heat. Let the mixture cool slightly before stirring in walnuts and marshmallows. Let cool. • Spread coconut on waxed paper. Divide the cooled dough into two even portions. Form each portion into a long roll. Coat the rolls with the coconut. Wrap the rolls in waxed paper then again in plastic wrap. Refrigerate overnight or longer. Cut into 1/2 inch slices to serve.

Toffee (makes 2 pounds) 2 cups butter 2 cups white sugar ¼ teaspoon salt

1 cup finely chopped almonds (or nuts of your choice) 2 cups semisweet chocolate chips

• In a large heavy bottomed saucepan, combine the butter, sugar and salt. Cook over medium heat, stirring constantly until the butter is melted. Allow to come to a steady (but not rolling) boil, and cook until the mixture becomes a dark amber color, and the temperature has reached 285 degrees F (137 degrees C). Continue stirring constantly. • While the toffee is cooking, cover a large baking sheet with aluminum foil or parchment paper. • As soon as the toffee reaches the proper temperature, pour it out onto the prepared baking

sheet. Sprinkle the chocolate over the top, and let it set for a minute or two to soften. Spread the chocolate into a thin even layer once it is melted. Sprinkle the nuts over the chocolate, and press in slightly. Putting a plastic bag over your hand will minimize the mess. • Place the toffee in the refrigerator to chill until set. Break into pieces, and store in an airtight container. • You may substitute 3 cups brown sugar (light or dark) for the white sugar. You may also add a splash of vanilla if you’d like.

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Asbury Opportunities MYASBURYTULSA.ORG

GENERAL INFORMATION BREAKFAST

Come enjoy fellowship with Asburians along with fresh donuts, bagels, biscuits & gravy, sausage, eggs, fruit, and cereal. • Served from 7:00–9:00 am in the CLC • $4 for adults and $1 for children 12 and under SUNDAY MORNING WORSHIP

8:00 am 9:15 am 9:15 am 11:00 am 11:00 am

Mason Chapel (Traditional Communion) Sanctuary (Contemporary) CLC - Open House Worship (Acoustic Worship, Casual Setting) Sanctuary (Traditional) Venue (Modern with sign interpreter)

RECYCLING

Recycle unwanted paper products. Three bins are available, located in the south and east parking lots. Recycle aluminum cans by bringing them (in plastic garbage bags) to the wire collection cage located up the short driveway towards the east side of Asbury’s main church building. Thank you for helping to support the Boy Scouts. DOORS OF ASBURY POSTERS ARE AT THE WELCOME CENTERS...

FREE! Suitable for framing.

SUNDAYS FOR CHILDREN AND STUDENTS

6 Weeks–Pre-K K–6th Grades 7th, 8th & 9th Grades 10th, 11th & 12th Grades

This website is available to all members as a way to update your contact information, register for events, give online and indicate ministries you would like to receive communication from. Make sure you have an account and check it out.

8:00, 9:15 and 11:00 am 9:15 or 11:00 am 9:15 and 11:00 am 9:15 am only

ADULT DISCIPLESHIP COMMUNITIES

Adult Bible study, belonging, and serving together • Sunday at 8:00, 9:15 and 11:00 am • Options during the week - Wednesdays at 6:00 pm SURGERY OR HOSPITALIZATION SCHEDULED?

Be sure to let Asbury know ahead of time by calling the church receptionist at 918.492.1771 so your pastors can be in prayer for you. When you enter the hospital, please designate Asbury as your church. The after-hours pastoral emergency line can be reached by calling 918.492.1771, selecting option 6, and leaving a message for the pastor on call. SERMON CDS AVAILABLE

CDs of Tom’s message of the day are available immediately following the worship service at Connection Corner- $3.

NEW ADDITIONS TO THE LIBRARY

The Asbury Library is a wonderful resource. Thank you to all who continue to contribute books to our Library. OJT (OVERCOMING JOB TRANSITIONS)

Unemployment isn’t forever. You can help by telling people about OJT (Overcoming Job Transitions) which meets on the third Tuesday of each month. • Tuesday, December 18, 6:30–9:00 pm • CLC • Contact Russ Knight at OJTJobs@gmail.com

ACCESS HANDS OF LOVE SIGN CHOIR

• Sundays, 5:30–6:30 pm, Family Room FRIENDS IN CHRIST COMMUNITY

• Sundays, 11:00 am, Room 1507

BIBLE STUDY OVERFLOW PARKING AT UNION HIGH SCHOOL

Asbury’s Sunday overflow worship parking area will return to the Union high school parking lot (located along Mingo Road towards the north corner of their campus). Asbury shuttle service will operate continuously each Sunday from 8:30 am to 12:30 pm.

Check out our adult Bible studies listed in our RoadMap brochures found at all welcome centers or online at www.asburytulsa.org/ AdultMinistries/Roadmap.aspx.

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CARE AND SUPPORT GRIEFSHARE

A weekly support group for people who are grieving the loss of a loved one. The group offers a comfortable environment where the emotions and process of grief are understood and welcomed. Participants will learn practical strategies for grief recovery through the highly acclaimed GriefShare video series, study guide and group discussion. Individuals may begin attending this group at any time. • Wednesdays, January 9–April 10 • 3:00–4:30 pm (no childcare) OR • 6:00–7:30 pm (childcare provided) • Room 2319 • Cost: $15 • Register online or 918.392.1191 BEYOND GRIEFSHARE

Especially designed for those who have completed the GriefShare video series, this weekly support group will provide participants an opportunity to continue processing their grief while deepening their spiritual walk. Through small group study & discussion, the group will focus on transitioning from the pain of grief to hope and optimism for the future. • Wednesdays, January 9–April 10 • 3:00–4:30 pm (no childcare) OR • 6:00–7:30 pm (childcare provided) • Room 2201 • Cost: $12 • Register online or 918.392.1191 S.M.I.L.E. (SINGLE MOTHERS IN THE LORD’S EMBRACE)

Join us for a DVD series and book entitled “21 Principles of a Healthy Single Mom.” You will learn to apply specific, workable guidelines so you can flourish spiritually in the midst of overwhelming circumstances. Each principle/video session is self-contained, and you may begin attending at any time. • Third Thursdays, 6:00–8:45 pm • Parlor • Childcare provided • $12 for book • RSVP to Kellie at asburysmile@ymail.com HEALING HATS/BALL CAPS

An Asbury ministry created to provide hats to cancer patients who have lost their hair. “Home spun with knots of love, woven together with help from above!” Simply knit, crochet or sew a hat or decorate a ball cap of your choice and drop it in the collection box located near the northeast entrance. Find more information in the literature rack attached to the collection box. In addition, the

following groups meet regularly for fellowship, while using their creative ability to make hats: • Crochet Group –– Second and fourth Tuesdays, 6:30–8:00 pm –– Room 1506 –– Contact Sue Fisher at healinghatsmin@aol.com or 918.455.2816 • Ball Caps (If you can cut and glue this is for you!) –– Fourth Tuesdays, 9:30–11:30 am –– Room 1508 –– Baseball caps and decorating items available –– Contact Sue Fisher at healinghatsmin@aol.com or 918.455.2816 VISITS TO ASBURY MEMBERS

Asbury has a group of volunteers (Asbury Connection) who regularly visit people who are homebound, in nursing homes or in assisted living facilities. • Contact Lisa at 918.298.9014 or lisa_dalt@sbcglobal.net PRAYER CARD MINISTRY

Send cards with God’s encouraging words and our prayers to those who are ill or going through hard times. If you would like to receive twice-monthly cards or know someone who would like to receive cards, please send name and address to Gwen at grmohler@aol.com. • Usually meets first and third Mondays at 9:30 am • Room 1508 • Contact Gwen Mohler at 918.258.5479 or grmohler@aol.com MILITARY CONNECTION

Please join us in praying for our troops in harm’s way and their families. Periodic care packages and monthly encouragement cards with God’s Word are sent to Asbury-related military personnel. The Prayer Ministry also covers them in prayer. Send complete name and address to: • Jo VanDeWiele at 918.459.0888 or Gwen at grmohler@aol.com VOLUNTEERS NEEDED

• Design patriotic cards for Asbury-related military. Cards can be designed at home and drawn by hand or on the computer. Call Jo VanDeWiele at 918.459.0888. • Design encouragement cards for prayer card ministry. Cards can be designed at home and drawn by hand or on the computer. Calligraphers and help with mailing also needed. Contact Gwen Mohler at 918.258.5479 or grmohler@aol.com. DIVORCE RECOVERY

For those suffering from the early, highly emotional stages of divorce and separation trauma. • Tuesdays, 7:00–8:30 pm • Room 1335

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• Childcare available • Contact Malia Miller at 918.494.9596 or malia.miller@ sbcglobal.net DIVORCE REBUILDING

For those ready to rebuild their lives after separation or divorce. • Thursdays, 7:00–8:30 pm • Room 1335 • Childcare available • Contact Jim Small at 918.697.4220 or divorce-rebuilding@ cox.net MENTAL HEALTH SUPPORT FOR FAMILIES

For family members or caregivers of people affected by a mental illness. • Usually meets the fourth Thursdays from 1:30–3:00 pm • Parlor • Contact Linda Lytle at 918.298.2707 or lllytle@wildflower.net

sure you sign up early and have a signed permission slip. • Sunday, December 16, meet at 12:30 pm • Rock 6 room • Cost is $5 for a pizza lunch • Contact Christina Treat at 918.392.1172 or ctreat@ asburytulsa.org CHRISTMAS EVE SERVICE

The 4th–6th graders have the privilege of presenting the Christmas Story to the congregation at the 5:00 pm Christmas Eve Family Service. We would love scripture readers, instrumentalists, actors, and actresses to make this a memorable evening for all involved. All parts will be assigned before the first rehearsal! Adult help with rehearsals and the program is critical to get the message delivered on this special night. If you are available, please let us know! • Register by December 3 • Call Jennifer Barnes 918.392.4582 or jbarnes@asburytulsa.org for information CELEBRATION STATION

ASBURY BEAR BAGS

Asbury Bear Bags with coloring books have comforted young children for many years, but now you may give a Bear Bag with a scripture-based journal included instead! Great for teens and adults. Anyone may deliver an Asbury bear to someone who is grieving. Pick up bags anytime at south security desk.

Celebration Station is a 52-week complementary children’s program to Celebrate Recovery. While adults explore topics that bring healing and wholeness, kids discover the same truths in ageappropriate ways through worship, crafts, games and activities. • Mondays, 7:00–9:00 pm • Faith Zone • Contact Eryn Wallis 918.392.4588 or ewallis@asburytulsa.org

CHILDREN Registration forms for all children’s activities are available in the preschool and elementary lobbies. CORE CHILDCARE HOURS

Parents who are involved in RoadMap classes during these core hours will have childcare provided for children 6 weeks–12 years of age with no reservations needed: • Sunday 9:00 am–12:00 pm • Monday and Tuesday 8:45 am–12:00 pm • Tuesday, Wednesday and Thursday 5:45 pm–9:00 pm SUNDAY MORNING VOLUNTEERS

Children’s Ministry is actively pursuing classroom, security and hospitality volunteers. We have two rotations: Alpha (1st and 2nd Sundays) and Omega (3rd and 4th Sundays) at both the 9:15 and 11:00 class times. • Contact Abby Sluice at 918.392.4583 or asluice@asburytulsa.org MURDOCK VILLA VISITS

4th, 5th and 6th graders can serve at an assisted living housing project once a month where the majority of the residents have physical disabilities. Space is limited to the first 10 students. Make

SPECIAL VOLUNTEERS FOR SPECIAL KIDS!

Do you have a heart to help children with special needs? If so, the Children’s Ministry needs you to volunteer. • Contact Dotti Westerberg at dottiwesterberg@hotmail.com or 918.381.0874

DISCIPLESHIP DISCIPLESHIP COMMUNITIES

If you have not yet found an Adult Discipleship Community check out “Community Life” on our website, www.asburytulsa.org, or pick up a brochure at one of our Welcome Centers. • If you are 20’s to early 30’s, come check out our newest Sunday morning group at 9:15 am in room 1507, “Transitions,” or “Rooted” for married couples in room 2314

ENDOWMENTS Leave a legacy that continues to give forever to a ministry you want to support. There are endowments that support many areas of Asbury’s outreach including children, youth, music, missions, and training of pastors as well as a general endowment. You can easily impact a ministry through your will or a current gift.

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• Contact Dwight Yoder at 918.392.1113 or dyoder@ asburytulsa.org MEN’S PRAYER BREAKFAST

HOSPITALITY We were recently asked, “why don’t you have volunteers holding the doors open on Sunday morning?” The simple answer is we have very few volunteers willing to do it. Most say Asbury is a friendly church, yet we don’t have enough friendly people willing to serve on Sunday mornings when the need is great to welcome folks who have possibly had little contact with people during the week. We need new volunteers to serve in a hospitality role as greeters and at Connection Corner where many people have their first experience at Asbury. Are you one of those friendly people? Contact the church office at 918.492.1771 to volunteer.

MARRIAGE & FAMILY COUPLE-TO-COUPLE TRAINING

See how you can make a difference in families of the future. Serve as a support couple to an engaged couple. Meet with them to discuss strengths and growth areas of their relationship which are revealed in the results of a relationship inventory. Couples of all ages and remarried couples are needed. Twenty hours of training required. Training starts mid-February. Learn more at info/ dessert night: • Tuesday, December 4, 6:30–8:00 pm, Parlor • Contact Charlene Giles, 918.392.1145, cgiles@asburytulsa.org ATTENTION ENGAGED COUPLES

If you are planning to use an Asbury pastor to officiate and/or use Asbury’s facilities, be sure to book ASAP to allow ample time for Couple-to-Couple (required premarital meetings).

MEMBERSHIP ASBURY EXPLORATION

MEN

Are you interested in membership at Asbury or just want to learn more about who we are? Plan to attend Asbury Exploration. After a wonderful lunch, which is provided, you will enjoy time with our Asbury pastors as you learn about the ministries of Asbury, important United Methodist beliefs and how you can get into the mainstream of our life together at Asbury. • Sunday, December 2, 12:15–2:00 pm • Community Life Center (CLC) • Childcare available for children six weeks through sixth grade • Lunch provided • Call 918.392.1191 to register or register online at www.myasburytulsa.org

Make plans to join us for a great time of meaningful worship, lifechanging prayer and an awesome big breakfast. • Wednesdays, 6:30–7:30 am • CLC • Cost is $3 per person; first-time guests are free MATURE MEN’S MINISTRY R.O.M.E.O. LUNCHEON

Are you a “Retired Old Man” who wants to “Eat Out?” If so, then these luncheons are for you! A really awesome bunch of guys meet for good food and great fellowship. • Meet every second and fourth Friday, 11:15 am • Village Inn (71st and Memorial) • Open to anyone 60 years and up • Contact Bud at bdmathes@cox.net or Jim at robersonjim29@ ymail.com

MISSIONS/VIM ADOPT A CHRISTMAS CHILD

We have a wonderful opportunity to reach out to children connected to our local outreach ministries. Please prayerfully consider how you might be able to help with this outreach. If you have any questions, please contact Jamie at 918.636.2460 or Radhika at 918.392.1116. • Sunday, December 2: Wrapped gifts due back at CLC gallery • Saturday, December 8: Gifts delivered as one of the 2nd Saturday site options and there will be a mobile Christmas shop at each site 2ND SATURDAY

Looking for an easy way to make a difference and shares Christ’s love in Tulsa? Join us for 2nd Saturday and choose between local mission opportunities. Families with children are welcome and encouraged! • Saturday, November 10, 8:30 am–12:15 pm • Meet at Venue

MUSIC RICK FRALEY PIANO CONCERT

Rick Fraley, one of Tulsa’s finest pianists, will present an hour long concert in the beauty of our sanctuary. His contemporary arrangements of traditional Christmas music will take you from the hustle and bustle of the season to the manger. Please join us for this third Sunday of Advent concert. • Sunday, December 16, at 6:00 pm • Sanctuary

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CHANCEL CHOIR

We have so much fun…singing, laughing and serving together. Come share your God-given talent with us. • Wednesdays, 7:00–9:00 pm • Choir room • Available for seventh grade through adults. ASBURY SINGING AMBASSADORS

• Open to seniors 55 and over • Tuesdays, 1:30–3:00 pm • Choir Room 2706

PRAYER ROOM RESERVATIONS

The leadership of Asbury’s prayer ministry would like to remind you that the main facility Prayer Room is open not only to individuals desiring to pray in a quiet, meditative atmosphere but also to prayer groups within communities and ministries. Just call the Adult Ministries office at 918.392.4589 to reserve the Prayer Room for your group on a weekly or monthly basis. PRAYER ROOM DAYS AND TIMES

• Wednesdays, 6:00–7:30 pm • Orchestra room

Our prayer rooms are accessible to you at these times: • Mason Chapel and Venue –– Sundays from 7:00 am–12:30 pm, through the interior doors • Main Facility, Mason Chapel and Venue –– Monday–Friday, 8:00 am–9:00 pm –– Saturday, 10:00 am–3:00 pm –– Sunday, 12:30 pm–9:00 pm

CELEBRATION RINGERS

To obtain door codes, call Pam in the Adult Ministries office at 918.392.4589.

NEW COVENANT ORCHESTRA

• Tuesdays, 4:30–5:30 pm • Handbell room

RECOVERY

CHILDREN’S CHOIRS

Come learn about God through music as we sing, play instruments, play musical games. • Wednesdays, 6:00–6:50 pm • Available for children age four (by September 1, 2012) through sixth grade

CELEBRATE RECOVERY

Come join this supportive group of people. Hiding any hurts, habits or hang-ups? God never intended for you to live in bondage. • Every Monday night: dinner at 6:00 pm, worship from 7:00–8:00 pm, small groups from 8:00–9:00 pm, dessert from 9:00–9:30 pm

SENIOR ADULTS

ASBURY POWER & LIGHT CO.

• Sundays, 8:00–9:15 am • Orchestra room

BEST CHOICE SAVE-A-LABEL

PRAYER SERVICE OF REMEMBRANCE

If you have experienced grief in the loss of a loved one within the past year or two, please join us for a special service. This meaningful service is designed to help and encourage you and your family with words of comfort as you prepare for the Christmas season, as well as give an opportunity for memorial candle-lighting and prayer. • Sunday, December 16, 5:00–6:00 pm • Mason Chapel ALTAR PRAYER

If you would like someone to pray with you during Holy Communion or immediately following a worship service, please come to the altar rail. A pastor or member of the Altar Prayer Team will be glad to pray with you for your needs – physical, emotional or spiritual, at the altar or in the Prayer Room.

Save those labels! The Tweenagers are collecting Best Choice product labels and would like your help. Please turn in the UPC portion (proof of purchase) from more than 2,500 Best Choice items, including canned goods, boxed foods, eggs, cheese, etc. Best Choice products can be found at local Reasors, Food Pyramid and Warehouse Markets. Bundle your labels and drop them off at the south desk to the attention of “Tweenagers.” That’s all you have to do to help us help others. TWEENAGERS PROGRAM AND LUNCHEON

Come sing along or tap your toes as we listen to festive and holiday music by Asbury’s very own Singing Ambassadors. Ed Haynes will present the “Getting to Know You” segment. We will enjoy a delicious lunch, fun and fellowship. • Thursday, December 13, 10:30 am–1:00 pm • CLC • Lunch is $1.00. Donations welcomed • No reservations required

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ADULT GAME DAY

• Questions? Contact Doug at 918.607.0830

SENIOR WALK IN THE GYM WITH HIM

• Sundays, 9:15 am – New Beginnings Class, Transitions (mixed singles/married) • Sundays, 11:00 am – Ambassadors for Christ, Footprints (ladies only), Salt & Light, Christ Centered Singles, Single B.A.S.I.X. • You are always welcome to join any other communities that are not “Singles Only,” as most are a mix of singles and marrieds.

Attention all adults! How would you like to get together on a regular basis with a wonderful bunch of fun adults and play cards, dominoes, or whatever board or card game you choose? Bring a friend and stay for as long as you like! • Every third Thursday, 1:30–4:00 pm • Room 2821

All senior adults are invited to join us for power walking, coupled with lots of fun and fellowship. Come give it a try. • Mondays, Wednesdays and Fridays, 8:30–9:00 am • Gym SENIOR SIT AND FIT STRETCHING CLASS

All senior adults are invited to join us for a time of stretching, coupled with lots of fun and fellowship. No high impact workout here. We take it nice and easy. • Mondays, Wednesdays and Fridays from 9:00–9:30 am • Gym SENIOR ADULT MEAL & MOVIE

If you’re 55 years of age or over, our monthly meal and movie day event may be just the “ticket” for you! We get together at a different Tulsa restaurant each month, and then head off to see a “first run” movie. • The dates and times vary according to the movie selected, but those who express an interest will be contacted a few days ahead of time so they can make plans accordingly • For more information or to sign up for the call list, contact Sally Wood, sally77onestick@cox.net

COMMUNITIES

STUDENTS SPRING BREAK MISSIONS, FIRST PAYMENT

We are so excited that you are signed up for Spring Break Missions 2013! To make it easier on you we have broken the cost of the trip up into payments. Your first payment is December 9, 2012. The increment varies by trip so contact Amy, Marsha or Mark. 8TH GRADE PURITY CELEBRATION

Calling all 8th graders and their parents! It is time to celebrate all that you have learned about ‘Every Young Woman’s/Man’s Battle’ and to be their support to one another in our commitments. • December 2, 6:30–7:30 pm • CLC JUNIOR HIGH SUNDAY BREAKAWAY

Sunday mornings we have two great options. At 9:15 am, we have our large group time with a worship band, fun games and God’s Word. Then at 11:00 am, we have a small Bible study group. Whatever your preference, don’t miss out.

SINGLES 9TH GRADE SMALL GROUPS

SINGLES MINISTRY LUNCHEON

Single adults and their families are invited to this luncheon and mixer. Come get acquainted with other singles at Asbury while enjoying a great lunch, fun and fellowship. See you there. Bring a friend. • Sunday, December 9, 12:15–1:30 pm • CLC • Cost is $5.00 • Kids 10 and under eat free ADULT VOLLEYBALL

Do you enjoy playing recreational volleyball, mixed in with a little bit of competitiveness? Then come join us for a few hours of exercise, fellowship and fun. All skill levels of play are welcome. Good sportsmanship and positive attitudes are required. It’s free and you do not have to be a member of Asbury to participate. • Every Sunday, 6:00–9:00 pm • Gym

Another year is here and that means that small groups are back. This year, meetings are twice a month and held at their leader’s homes. Can’t wait to see you there! • Contact Mark Fowler 918.392.1155 CONFIRMATION PARENT MEETING

Come join us for an update on what’s happening in confirmation. • December 2, Venue • 4:45–6:00 pm 10 11 12 SUNDAY MORNINGS

Join us every Sunday morning for an in depth Bible study and discussion. • Sundays, 9:15 am • High school room

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10 11 12 SMALL GROUPS

Get connected. Grow in your walk with Jesus. Our small groups meet every Sunday night, times vary. Some meet in homes and others at the church. • Call Todd 918.392.1154 or Amy 918.392.1156 for more info 10 11 12 WEDNESDAY NIGHTS

Every Wednesday night we come together for a time of connection and worship. Our desire is to explore who God really is and how our lives matter to Him. • Wednesdays, 7:00 until around 8:30 pm • Hang around for pizza afterwards

WOMEN UMW DECEMBER LUNCHEON

The United Methodist Women are honored to have the Asbury Singing Ambassadors perform the program at our December luncheon! Their theme is “Call Him Jesus.” Come join us as we welcome this talented group of musicians and as we prepare for the birth of our Lord and Savior Jesus Christ. Scripture: Matthew 1:23–25. • Thursday, December 6, 11:30 am–1:00 pm • CLC • Cost is $8.00 • No reservation necessary UMW COOKBOOK SALES

This wonderful cookbook not only comprises over 600 delicious recipes from some of the best cooks in town, it also serves as a pictorial journey through some of our best times as a church family! Stop by the south foyer table to pick up several copies for family and friends. They make GREAT gifts for Christmas and celebrations. • Sunday, December 9, 9:00 am–noon • South foyer table • Cost is $20

WORSHIP 8:00 AM COMMUNION SERVICE

• • • •

Mason Chapel Traditional service and music Communion is served Dr. Tom Harrison preaches

9:15 AM CONTEMPORARY PRAISE & WORSHIP

• Sanctuary • Contemporary music led by Mark Bennett and team • Time of prayer and the message will all carry a prevailing theme for the morning • Dr. Tom Harrison preaches 9:15 AM OPEN HOUSE WORSHIP

• Community Life Center • A relaxed atmosphere with engaging worship led by Dub Ambrose and team • Dr. Tom Harrison’s message is simulcast with an occasional live sermon from another pastor 11:00 AM TRADITIONAL SERVICE

• Sanctuary • The Chancel Choir, the New Covenant Orchestra and various vocal and instrumental ensembles offer a variety of styles of music • Dr. Tom Harrison preaches 11:00 AM MODERN SERVICE

• Venue • Rich blend of ancient and modern worship, led by Chris Cleveland and team • Sign interpreters for the deaf are offered • Rev. Todd Craig preaches

WOMEN OF THE WORD

• • • •

Wednesdays, 10:00–11:00 am Room 2818 No childcare available Teacher is Rev. Darlene Johnson

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SPECIAL ANNOUNCEMENTS

Marriages, Births and Deaths MARRIAGES

DEATHS:

• Susan Lynn Jackson & Ty W Reinert married 9/16/2012 • Stephanie Gayle Hillman & Trey Dan Jamison married 9/29/2012 • Lindsey L Hahn & Evan Michael Spencer married 10/6/2012 • Krystal Dawn Goombi & Jordan Kent Reynolds married 10/20/2012

• Charlene Phelps died 9/30/2012 • Lynn W Anderson died 10/1/2012, widowed • Frank Marshall died 10/2/2012, husband of Billie Marshall • Virginia R. McCormick died 10/13/2012, wife of John McCormick • Elaine Hutchins died 10/20/2012, mother of Kimberly Blackketter

BIRTHS • Linley Beth Cooper born 10/10/2012, daughter of James (III) & Jamie Cooper, proud grandparents are Jim & Terry Cooper

Milestone Anniversaries 65 YEARS • Phil & Jean Essley

12/28/47

55 YEARS • Jerry & Colleen Sharp • Dale & Pat Davidson

MILESTONE WEDDING ANNIVERSARIES

30 YEARS • Earl & Donna Stutzman

11/24/82

20 YEARS 12/20/57 12/22/57

Email your upcoming Milestone Anniversary (5, 10, 15, 20, etc.) to Carolyn Schutte at brucars2@cox.net or call 918.451.1559.

• Greg & Denise Spears 11/09/92

50 YEARS • David & Maria Cowan • Dave & Gail Knox

12/15/62 12/21/62

45 YEARS • Danny & Karen Mecher 12/28/67

40 YEARS • Sid & Barbara Heidler

11/17/72 Phil & Jean Essley 12/28/47

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Jerry & Colleen Sharp 12/20/57

SPECIAL ANNOUNCEMENTS

Dale & Pat Davidson 12/22/57

David & Maria Cowan 12/15/62

Dave & Gail Knox 12/21/62

Julie Arnold

Jim and Rachel Davis

Carol Heard

John and Santita Ogren

David and Emily Peters

James Wilson

New Members

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Christmas at Asbury DECEMBER 16 5:00 pm Service of Remembrance, Chapel 6:00 pm Rick Fraley Concert, Sanctuary 7:00 pm Retirement Reception for Pastor Darlene Johnson, Main Foyer

DECEMBER 24 - CHRISTMAS EVE SERVICES 5:00 pm Family Service, Sanctuary – the Christmas story presented by the 4th-6th graders 7:00 pm Candlelight and Carol Services with Dr. Tom Harrison, Sanctuary Childcare available for 6 weeks to Pre-K for 7:00 pm service only 9:00 pm Candlelight and Carol Services with Dr. Tom Harrison, Sanctuary 11:00 pm Candlelight and Communion Service with Dr. Tom Harrison and Dr. Guy Ames, Chapel

DECEMBER 31 - NEW YEAR’S EVE WATCH NIGHT 6:00 pm Wesley Covenant Service and Communion with Dr. Tom Harrison , Chapel

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