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opefully you are enjoying the sermon series this year that has talked about our new vision. The new vision statement is: Developing all generations for significant lives in Christ. In the full expression, there are other aspects. Most recently, we’ve heard about the Marks of a Christian at Asbury. The new vision was not intended to provide details about how ministry will be executed at Asbury. But it will be the guide as we decide how we apply resources, what we will focus on, and how we will communicate. Over the next several months, you will have an opportunity to attend special meetings in which the full expression of the new vision will be explained. One lesson learned is that we need to continually improve our communications. Our new vision guides us here also. An example is different content for the bulletin. Each week we will have a short story or article that supports the sermon series or helps explain some aspect of the new vision. There will be other content that is informative along those lines, including promotion of ministries. A second goal is to be more outward focused, i.e., things that would inform and attract guests. In order to gain the space in the bulletin required for these new things we will be reducing the number of announcements, primarily including only those that have broad appeal and directly support the new vision. This is consistent with the strategic clarity element of the new vision. To make the bulletin improvements and at the same time be good stewards of our resources, Tidings will now be published every other month. The next issue will therefore be in June, not May. These changes will improve our overall communications. Some good news about the use of the sermon journal. Tom and Todd, along with our worship teams, are increasingly integrating worship and sermon elements with the contents of the sermon journal. It is a centerpiece of Asbury’s worship experience. To encourage our congregation to become familiar with the journal, it was provided free for the sermon series beginning the first of the year. That promotion was successful; the number of journals sold for the current sermon series was almost double the number from last year. The entire journal is also available at asburytulsa.org. Click the front page sermon link or search for “sermon journal.” It can be downloaded to your smart phone or tablet. Join your fellow worshipers in making this a part of your daily devotions. Our communications department has produced a great brochure titled “2012 Transformations.” This is an extremely well-done collection of stories showing the impact of ministry at Asbury. If you have not already received it, you soon will. It can be hard for any one of us to appreciate the scope of what all of us collectively are doing for the Kingdom. This collection conveys at least part of the big picture. We hope you enjoy it. By now you probably know that the debt campaign was a huge success. Over $5.6 million was pledged. We will be able to pay off our debt and begin an endowment for the longterm care of our facility. This was a huge accomplishment for 2012—and something very important to Tom. Thanks to all who are participating. We are fortunate that so many Asburians support our ministry through time, talent and money. Thank you. Please pray for Tom and the leadership team as important decisions are made regarding the implementation of our new vision. Dwight Yoder Executive Director
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Contents A Word From Tom Harrison Tryin’ to Belong Welcoming Visitors to Asbury Be Filled With the Spirit! Esther Gene Morrison: An Asbury Legend Emerge into the Light Mentoring Opportunity to Find Your Significance in Christ Have You Considered Attending the Men’s Retreat? Volunteers in Mission Stained Glass Surprise Grandpa John Home Run Movie Brings Message of Hope, Freedom in Christ Recipes of the Month Opportunities Special Announcements
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We need you! Do you have a story of what God has done in your life? Please contact us and tell us a little bit about what God has done. We will all be encouraged by hearing stories of what God is doing in the lives of those around us. Are you a writer or someone who enjoys writing? The Communications Department is always looking for someone to do an interview and write a story for us for Tidings. Have you noticed that we’ve been making some changes in Tidings? Please give us your feedback—both good and bad. Email kmains@asburytulsa.org or call 918.392.1140. Asbury Tidings is a monthly publication designed to tell stories of lives being transformed by the power of Jesus Christ. You may read back issues by visiting www.asburytulsa.org. Editor: Asbury Communications Department, 918.392.1140, kmains@asburytulsa.org Graphic Design: Tim Jurgensen, tjurgensen@ asburytulsa.org Photographers: Chris Lo (matchadesign.com), Mark Moore (markmoorephotography.zenfolio.com) Guest Contributors: Guy Ames, Jim Asbury, Lauren Burke, John Curzon, Jim Furman, Charlene Giles, Marilyn Glass, Matt Hester, Christine Hickey, Basil James, Diane King, Terry Lawson, Carol Mathews, John Westervelt
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ne of the most difficult Christian concepts is that of “The Trinity.” While “Trinity” does NOT appear in the Bible, the concept of “God in three persons” appears repeatedly. God is Spirit (John 4:24). God is not a human being (thus, male or female). That’s part of our difficulty – how can we explain the concept of a “Person” if God is neither male nor female. God is wholly “other.” Isaiah (55:8-9) says it so well: “For my thoughts are not your thoughts, neither are your ways my ways,” declares the Lord. “As the heavens are higher than the earth, so are my ways higher than your ways and my thoughts than your thoughts.” Thus, when we speak of God we invoke an element of mystery which we’ll never be able to comprehend or explain. This is why the Incarnation is so important. The pre-existent God came in the person of Jesus to show us God’s character and nature. John 1:14: “The Word became flesh and made his dwelling among us. We have seen his glory, the glory of the One and Only, who came from the Father, full of grace and truth.” God came to us. We didn’t go find Him. He took the initiative on our behalf. By knowing Jesus, we discover the truths about what the Father is like. We learn God’s attributes in a personal way. That focus and perception is far different than our own, innate, human tendency. It was to our advantage for Jesus to come to model to us the heart of God. However, Jesus was subject to the same limitations all humans’ experience. When in Capernaum, He couldn’t simultaneously be in Jericho or Jerusalem. His body limited Him to one place at a time. That’s why He promised to give to His believers a distinct advantage – the gift of the Holy Spirit. John 16:7-8: “It is for your good that I am going away. Unless I go away, the Counselor
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will not come to you; but if I go, I will send him to you.” Just as it was our advantage to have Jesus come show us God’s nature, it is to our advantage that Jesus went away. Now He sends to each and every believer His Spirit. The Holy Spirit has a multitude of roles. He brings us to faith in Jesus. He both comforts and counsels. He convicts us of sin, corrects our errors, and teaches us. He empowers us for witness and service. He brings us together in unity. He fills us with His presence. He bestows gifts upon us. He produces spiritual “fruit” in our lives (love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, gentleness, faithfulness and self-control). God is known by functions: the Creator, Redeemer, and Sustainer of life. But God is also known personally: Father, Son and Spirit. God is not merely functional; God is personal. God is not merely personal; God fulfills certain functions. One of the great gifts of God is the role and work of the Holy Spirit. The Holy Spirit is our “life coach.” I hope you know Him and allow Him access to your heart, mind and soul; He will recreate the life of Jesus in us. In Christ, Dr. Tom Harrison Senior Pastor
Important Information The Tidings magazine will be going to every other month effective immediately. We will not have an issue dedicated to May. The Tidings magazine will be a two-month issue starting with April/May. The schedule for receiving your Tidings magazine will be April, June, August, October, December. We have decided to make this change so we can focus on putting more time and resources into the weekly bulletin which feature stories related to the sermon, life application points and reflection questions. We reach a larger number of members and guests with the bulletin each week. Thank you so much for your understanding. If you have any questions or comments, please contact the communications department at 918.492.1771.
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Tryin’ to Belong by Charlene Giles
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he huddled in her car, trying to be invisible to the people of all ages hurrying past her in the giant parking lot. Why was it so hard to jump out, lock the car door, and join their procession into this beautiful building? Silently, she reminded herself of her reason for being here. It had been one of her New Year’s resolutions to start coming here regularly, and her parents were always harping on her to make this part of her weekly routine in order to improve the quality of her life. She had already taken the plunge and attended a few times, but it still seemed so hard. Taking a deep breath, she emerged from her late-model Honda and headed for the door. She smoothed down her outfit as she walked. She had tried hard to imitate the fashions she’d seen at her last visit, but her budget didn’t really have a clothing category. They were just going to have to take her as she was. She noticed last time that designer shoes, especially, seemed to be important to the women. Tough. Hers were clearly not new. Loud music greeted her inside the door, as before. It was so crowded! Parents scurried their children purposefully down the hallway. The kids were excited, chatting and happy. The adults looked pretty stressed, less enthused to be there. Maybe for most it was more of a duty than a joy to be here. She tried a few tentative smiles at some folks her age, but most just continued toward their destinations. Where were they going? The main gathering place was ahead, but she felt so alone as she entered. How hard to know where to settle in! She decided to just look for an empty spot and go there as if she belonged. All she wanted to do was blend in. She had no idea of what the proper procedures were, so she just watched the people around her and did what they did. “Surely,” she reasoned, “at some point someone will offer to show me the ropes.” But no one did. So, she spent the hour faking it. Then she navigated the busy halls again and walked back to her car. She felt better for having come, but sure wished she’d been able to talk her friend into coming with her. As she headed home she wondered whether she had the resolve to come back the next week. One thing she knew for sure. Working out at the new giant health club was not for the timid! When people come to Asbury, do they have similar feelings, or do they know from the start that they are welcome here?
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hen you walk in the front doors of Asbury as a guest, you might be a little nervous and overwhelmed by the size. We want our guests to feel welcome and to know we have information and friendly volunteers to help them navigate their way to the different services, ministries and communities.
Beginning March 17, the desk in the main foyer of the main building will now be referred to as the Welcome Desk instead of Connection Corner.
Welcome Desk – Located in the main foyer of the main building. Volunteers are available for questions before and after the 9:15 am and 11:00 am services. This is where you will be able to purchase sermon journals, sermon cds, UMW cookbooks, ticket sales and obtain information about Asbury’s ministries and events. South Security Desk – Located at the south entrance. This location is where the security guard is stationed and volunteers are available before and after the 9:15 am and 11:00 am services to guide you in the right direction.
North Welcome Desk – Located on the north side of the main building. Volunteers are available for questions before and after the 9:15 am and 11:00 am services.
Main Church Office – Located down the hall from the south security desk. Volunteers are available to answer phone calls or questions between 8:30 am– 11:00 am Sunday mornings.
Venue Welcome Desk – Located in the north entrance of the Venue. Volunteers are there before and after the 11:00 am service to answer questions, guide you to the main building if needed or to purchase a sermon journal.
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Each Sunday we recite the words of an ancient creed, “I believe in the Holy Spirit…” but many of us admit knowing little about the Holy Spirit. One preacher admitted he could teach about Jesus and God but the Holy Ghost sounded kind of spooky to him. But the Holy Spirit is not spooky nor a poltergeist but has all the characteristics of a person. The Spirit of God, also called the Spirit of Christ, thinks (Acts 15:28), speaks, leads (Romans 8:14), even has emotions (Ephesians 4:30). At his last supper, Jesus told His disciples He would soon be leaving but wouldn’t leave them alone. “I will ask the Father, and he will give you another Helper, to be with you forever, even the Spirit of truth,…” (John 14: 16-17a). Another ancient Church creed defined the Spirit as “God present with us for guidance and for truth.” The Holy Spirit is the Presence of Jesus in us. Fifty days after Easter (Acts 2), the Holy Spirit was “poured out” on Jesus’ followers. Immediately they lost their fear and began to tell the world that Jesus had risen from the dead. Within a few years that small band of uneducated Jews turned the world upside down, and two thousand years later that witness has not ended. Jesus predicted this, “But you will receive power when the Holy Spirit has come upon you, and you will be my witnesses in Jerusalem and in all Judea and Samaria, and to the end of the earth.” (Acts 1:8) As with these early Christians, the Holy Spirit creates an inner conviction that Jesus Christ is Lord.
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Growing up in a preacher’s home I was exposed to the best that the church had to offer. I loved the church and longed for a meaningful faith. By age 13, I had read the entire Bible, attended dozens of camps, retreats and spiritual services, making trips to the altar following a moving sermon. But, by age 15, I had become a skeptic. The hypocrisy of the church coupled with my own adolescent struggles called into question everything I had believed. By my junior year in high school, I announced to my parents that I was no longer a Christian. Though still attending church, I could no longer believe the fairy-tale stories of my boyhood. Then I met Bob. For the first time in my life I
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came face to face with a young adult whose faith went beyond mere belief. Bob lived like he knew Jesus. He loved others with a depth I could only imagine, and his decision to live morally flowed from an assurance of that faith. I wanted that assurance. When I asked Bob what made the difference he simply asked, “Have you received the Holy Spirit since you believed?” I didn’t know he was quoting the Apostle Paul in Acts 19. I could only answer that I really didn’t know much about the Holy Spirit. Bob and I began a pilgrimage together as he shared his own experience and the inner spiritual power that came to him when he invited the Holy Spirit to fill his life. For several months I wrestled with what I was learning until I could stand it no longer. I wanted more than religious belief; I hungered for Christ and the inner strength to live like a Christian. My best religious efforts had failed me. If the Holy Spirit could make a difference, I wanted all I could get. Late one August evening, I surrendered my intellect to the possibility that God’s Spirit could fill me, empower me and draw me to Jesus. I simply prayed to be filled with God’s Spirit. And, oh, the changes! All the years of reading the Bible seemed dull and meaningless, but that night as I opened the Book, the words almost leapt off the pages into my heart. Such clarity and understanding as never before…I had a teacher in my head. The next day my heart was overflowing with compassion that seemed so out of place. I wanted to embrace the world and to tell others of the incredible power and life in Jesus Christ. This was the launch of a 40-plus year journey of Christian living, sometimes on the mountain-top and many times in the desert, but without a doubt, the confirming presence of God’s Holy Spirit has guided me ever since. During those 40-odd years, though, I have witnessed far too many Christians who struggled with faith in much the same way I did in my adolescent years. Life is filled with a set of religious rules, obligations, even good beliefs, but without the inner passion that brings that faith to life. What’s going on? Moving into our new home this past summer, my wife, Margaret, asked that we install gas logs in the fireplace instead of using traditional wood so we would have a beautiful fire without the mess of the ashes. Knowing my lack of technical skills in relighting the pilot each fall, she asked the installer to light the pilot so that with the push of a button she could light the logs. All summer long the pilot burned but the fire was not lit; there was no heat in the house. As soon as gas hit the small pilot, fire erupted and heat began to fill the whole house. In a similar way, this is what happens in the lives of those Christians who talk about being filled with the Holy Spirit; they seem to be firing on all cylinders. We can almost see and feel the difference. Jesus described this transformation as a birth, a new birth. (John 3) I think the term “born again” has become so clichéd that we often misunderstand Jesus’ message. Birth is not the end of pregnancy but the beginning of a new life and of new relationships. While being “born again” might speak to the beginning of a new spiritual
life, we cannot become mature Christ-followers by remaining infants in our faith. Far too many of us believe that accepting Christ as Savior is our spiritual end, almost as if our family stood around the fireplace admiring the flame from the pilot light. Not until we turn on the fuel will we know the full glow of true fire. God’s passion for us is to not merely seek eternal life but that we might experience abundant life on this side of heaven; this is the point where growth takes hold. St. Paul wrote “be filled with the Spirit…” (Ephesians 5:18), which literally means, “keep on being filled over and over again…” Blue Udy, an old Australian Methodist evangelist, was once asked why we need to keep on asking to be filled with the Holy Spirit. What he answered convinces me that Christians must continue to ask God to fill us with his Spirit...“Because we leak.” The Holy Spirit is the fuel for the Christian life. Without that power, we are no more than a mere match trying to keep ourselves warm; but with the power of God’s Spirit alight in our lives, God sets the world on fire. Jesus referred to the Holy Spirit as God’s gift, and at least six times told his hearers to ask, knock and seek to receive this wonderful gift of God’s presence. So, what keeps us from making this a priority in our lives? Doubt, fear, misunderstanding, feelings of inadequacy, or perhaps simply that we don’t have the desire? Whatever the case, Jesus urges us to go after this gift of God. He compared God to a father who seeks to feed his children good things when he added, “If you then, though you are evil, know how to give good gifts to your children, how much more will your Father in heaven give the Holy Spirit to those who ask Him!” (Luke 11:13) After Jesus’ Easter resurrection, He spent 40 days teaching His disciples. At the close of that time He urged them to wait until they were filled with the Spirit of God. Perhaps that is what we need most. We need to stop our bus-i-ness and rushing about to and from church and spend time alone with God simply asking that once more he might visit us with the power of God, his Holy Spirit. Late one evening as the Wesley chapel in London was near closing, a visitor asked to have a few minutes near the altar. Wesley’s chapel is still visited by thousands yearly who recall the incredible spiritual revival that literally changed the face of England for at least 200 years and spawned a world-wide Methodist revival that touched nearly every continent since. That old Methodist visitor recalled a time when a few Christians let God fill them with his Spirit to such a degree that governments took notice. The old man prayed alone for some minutes when finally the care-taker stepped forward to remind him of the closing time. Drawing near he heard the old Christian breath a prayer, “Do it again, Lord. Do it again.” That’s my prayer for us at Asbury, that once again God might pour out his Holy Spirit as with a new Pentecost. Do it again, Lord. Do it again!
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Esther Gene Morrison: An Asbury Legend by Diane King
She was born on Easter Sunday, April 1, 1923 in Kalamazoo, Michigan, the only child of her parents. Because she was born 10 days early, the phone call to a relative declaring her arrival was suspect as an April Fool’s joke, but to any who have known Esther Gene Morrison, the only joke is on the devil himself! Hers is a life of service to the Lord Jesus Christ, even before she really knew Him. Esther Gene was raised in the Methodist church, and she has been a Methodist all of her life. Her mother was very involved with the Methodist Women’s Society of Christian Service (WSCS), through whom Esther Gene was introduced to various visiting missionaries from all over the world. She told her mother one day, “I’m either going to marry a pastor or a missionary.” As it turned out, she did both!
eight American missionaries and 30 Peruvian girls resided. She taught history and English to many of the 650 students.
She attended a Methodist college, Albion College in Albion, Michigan, where she majored in history and sociology, receiving a teaching certification that included Spanish and English education. After graduation, her plans to do social work in Chicago were circumvented by the superintendent of schools in Coldwater, Michigan, who recommended her for a fully-paid fellowship to go to Mexico for summer school. Then in 1946, Treva, a missionary in Lima, Peru, with whom Ether Gene and her mother had been corresponding, shared her desire to recruit Esther Gene as her replacement during her furlough.
Returning home to the states in 1949, Esther Gene lived with her parents while traveling all over the Midwest to share about her work in Latin American missions. She taught English as a Second Language (ESL) in a middle school while also leading a girls’ glee club. Playing the cello since childhood allowed her gifts to go beyond teaching academic subjects to the musical arena. The same cello her aunt had bought her for $100 as a child accompanied her on the first trip to Peru.
“I went to Chicago for all the interviewing and testing, although the recommendation for me had already been made. I left for Peru being very overweight. I fell in love with Peru and its people!” She returned three and a half years later, 50 pounds lighter. “I think it must have been what we ate – rice, potatoes, chicken, fish, lots of fruit, and we walked everywhere.” Esther Gene was sent to Lima, Peru, in August, which was the middle of winter, to study the language, culture, and history of the area. She traveled to the famous landmark of Macchu Picchu to see the Incan ruins, but being in the rainy season made it difficult to appreciate at that time. It wasn’t until she returned in 2006 with her granddaughter that she actually got the tour to see it in the sunshine. During that time, Esther Gene lived in the girls’ dorm at a Methodist girls’ school named Colegio Maria Alvarado, where
One of her students at the school, Ana Maria (Anita), invited Esther Gene to her home in Iquitos along the Amazon River. She accepted Anita’s invitation, met her parents, and is still in close contact with Anita and her children to this day.
It was in 1950 that Esther Gene decided to attend Garrett Methodist Seminary in Evanston, Illinois. During the first week of classes, the school had all new students stand on the front steps of the main administration building for a group picture. Only later did she realize that there on those steps in that picture, God had placed her right next to a man named Clarence Morrison, her future husband! The two met later in mutually shared classes, and they attended the planetarium on their first date on January 1, 1951. They were married in June of 1952, and he graduated in 1954 while Esther Gene was teaching Spanish in a school just east of Evanston. After working as a college representative for a year in the Chicago area, Clarence took his first pastorate in Iowa in 1955. “We moved about every five years, serving seven churches all over Iowa. I couldn’t work outside the home, because there was a rule at that time that pastors’ wives couldn’t do that, so I didn’t go back to work until our daughter was in high school.”
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Their daughter, Anita, was born in 1958, bearing the name of Esther Gene’s long-time friend from Peru.
Chuck & Connie Coggins – Esther Gene accompanies their missions group to Latin America
“We served for eight years in churches, yet we knew something was missing. Nothing seemed to change in our lives. I sat in a pew in church all my life and had even gone to seminary, but I still wasn’t born again. I thought I was a good person,” she reflects.
Jennie Hester – attended seminary and planning to be a missionary to Central Asia
That “change” took place when their search for that “something missing” led them to a country retreat. Camps Farthest Out was an interdenominational conference where the Morrisons first saw the power of the Holy Spirit. It was there they saw people healed. In their quest to deepen their walk with the Lord, the Morrisons met Frank Laubach, who started the Each One Teach One program. He helped them realize the power of God’s Word. They annually attended a Christian ashram begun by E. Stanley Jones, a missionary to India who modeled it after the Hindu ashram, but made it ostensibly Christian.
Katie Ruley – Bible teacher and current leader for Mothers’ Fellowship
For the remainder of the ‘60s and ‘70s, they studied the teachings of Rosalind Rinker, Kenneth Hagin, Kenneth Copeland, and Joyce Meyer. Their daughter Anita moved to Tulsa in 1976 to attend ORU, married her husband Ray Hoover in 1979, and shortly after having their first grandchild in 1981, Esther Gene and Clarence Morrison moved to Tulsa in 1983. After their realtor introduced them to Bill Mason, Clarence was hired as Asbury’s first pastor to seniors. At one point, Asbury’s minister of education, Chris Thompson, asked Clarence about having a Bible study for young mothers where child care would be included. Clarence immediately knew the answer to the question, “Who could we get to teach these young moms?” And so, Mothers’ Fellowship was born, with Esther Gene Morrison as the teacher. Among the first participants was the Morrisons’ own daughter, Anita, who was pregnant at the time with Esther Gene’s granddaughter Becky. Last year, Becky began attending Mothers’ Fellowship with her daughter Madison being cared for in the Asbury nursery. Clarence passed away in 2005, but God is still using Esther Gene mightily as she begins her 90th year here on earth. The legacy of all the women whose lives have been touched right here at Asbury is extensive, including: Nancy Staab – teaches all over the country for Precept Ministries, leads Bible studies here at Asbury and was first director of RoadMap (formerly known as Asbury University) Christy Capps – formerly on Asbury staff, teaches at Mayo Demonstration school Mollie Scott Swanson – served as missionary to Guatemala City, Guatemala Megan Schell – attended seminary and served as missionary in Africa
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Cheryl Steffen –Prayer ministry lay leader for Asbury
Melissa Phenicie – was in group for more than 10 years and helped EG with administration, etc. Becky Kok – her granddaughter - who was in her Mom’s belly the year Mothers’ Fellowship started 30 years ago, and now is an active member of the group! This does not include all of the spiritual children and grandchildren Esther Gene has through her work as a Spanish teacher in private and home schools, the 29 missions to Latin America on which she has traveled, as well as her singing in choir (even performing alto solos) and playing the cello in the orchestra (she was one of the original orchestra members at Asbury). Esther Gene has touched lives while teaching the Bible for Friendship and Seekers communities, leading Bible study for women’s circles, being on the prayer ministry leadership team, and still helping with the Mothers’ Fellowship group that meets on Tuesday mornings here at Asbury. Katie Ruley, who began attending Mothers’ Fellowship years ago, now leads the group, with Esther Gene assisting her. “I have had the wonderful privilege of knowing Esther Gene for over 13 years now. I started in Mothers Fellowship the fall of 1999 as a brand new mom with a 4-month-old baby boy. I was incredibly hungry for more of God’s Word, as well as fellowship with other young moms. Oh, how Mothers’ Fellowship fit the bill! Esther Gene has played an integral role in helping grow my faith, my knowledge of scripture, and my love of prayer. God blessed me BIG when he divinely placed her in my life. To have the honor of sitting next to her every Tuesday morning is something I cherish with all my heart. I pray that I can continue her amazing legacy of faithfulness and love for God’s Word for the next generation.” As this article was being written, Esther Gene was off on an Asbury mission trip to Monterrey, Mexico, where the team was doing vacation Bible school and construction. I wouldn’t be surprised if she was donning a hard hat and slinging a hammer, but at least you can bet she was helping to translate and love on those children! Happy 90th birthday, Esther Gene. ALL your children and grandchildren all over the world rise up and call you blessed! “Her children rise up and call her blessed; her husband also, and he praises her: ‘Many women do noble things, but you surpass them all.’ Charm is deceptive, and beauty is fleeting; but a woman who fears the Lord is to be praised; Give her the reward she has earned, and let her works bring her praise at the city gate.” –Proverbs 31:31
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Quotes about Esther Gene Five little words of advice from Esther Gene have changed my life and the relationships with those I love most: “Speak the truth in love.” Whether it’s correcting a child, addressing conflict with your spouse or navigating tricky waters with a friend, those five little words are life-changing! –Ellen Hargrove When I first met Esther Gene, she glowed with her love for the Lord!! As a “young” Christian back then and with my new Bible in tow, she taught me how to navigate through my Bible and could explain Scripture with such a passion. I learned a lot about myself and God in her Mothers’ Fellowship group. Esther Gene is an amazing woman that I am blessed to know!! –Brooke Kelley Esther Gene has always got a smile on her face and time for conversation. When she asks you “how are you?” she genuinely wants to know. Esther Gene is one of those women who just warm your heart. Happy Birthday dear friend, you are loved! Remember, 90 is the new 60!!!! –Dana Harrison When I think of you, the first thing that comes to mind is faithfulness. Thank you for being a faithful friend to me since the days of Aglow. Thank you for being faithful to the women you mentor and to the ministries of Asbury UMC. Thank you for your enduring faithfulness to the mission teams you have blessed. May the Lord bless you for your 90 years of faithfulness to the Lord expressed in obedience, service, prayer, worship, study and gifts. Well done, good and faithful servant! With my love, –Susan Ekhoff She is a living miracle. She still goes everywhere and does everything. She is a great teacher and many have been taught by her. She is definitely a model to all ages! An awesome Christian woman! –Nancy Staab It is through Esther Gene’s teachings in “Young Mothers’ Fellowship” (yes, that is what it used to be called) that I was first challenged to study the Bible with the expressed intention of finding ways to apply it to my husband and children. Her wisdom and balanced knowledge of Scripture were just what I needed. Also, she demonstrated long-suffering love in her care of her
mother and father before they died, and also in her care of her husband, Clarence, before his death. I didn’t realize it at first, but God put Esther Gene in my life for the past 30 years so that she could be a mentor to me. I love her and admire her greatly.” –Charlene Giles I stopped working full-time when I had my first son in August of 2004. Most of my close friends were still working full time and did not have children, so I was a little lost. I met Christy Capps at a mutual friend’s bridal shower, and she invited me to Mother’s Fellowship at Asbury. I remember being nervous because Asbury was so large and I have an unusual background. My Dad was Jewish and my Mom was Catholic, so I was raised with a knowledge of both religions. (I had a Bat Mitzvah and went to Hebrew school as a young girl, and then I was confirmed and baptized as a Catholic in my early 20s.) The first thing that comes to mind is how welcoming Esther Gene is to all believers. She embraces diversity and loves in-depth discussion. I will never forget how special she made me feel BECAUSE of my unique background, not despite it. I have learned so much from Esther Gene, and not just about the Bible. She is an incredible mentor. I could not wait to hear what she had to add to whatever Bible study we were working through. It would always be fascinating the ties she could bring to a discussion, based on her incredibly vast biblical knowledge. After feeling such a sense of community at MF, my husband and I started attending regularly on Sunday mornings, and then went on to become members of Asbury in 2007. One thing that still brings a smile to my face is how all of us women could be so nervous if we did not finish our weekly work. We would be avoiding eye contact at all costs so she wouldn’t call on us! We never wanted to disappoint. Even though I have since gone back to work at my children’s elementary school, I love that whenever I see her I still am received like a current member of Mothers’ Fellowship with a warm embrace. She is to be celebrated. She has blessed us beyond measure. Warmest regards, –Leanne Campbell She is my hero.
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INVITATION: ESTHER GENE’S 90th & MOTHERS’ FELLOWSHIP 30-YEAR CELEBRATION! TUESDAY, APRIL 2, 2013, 10:00-11:30 AM, FAMILY ROOM Finger foods, cake & coffee We are encouraging anyone and everyone who has been touched by her personally, or through Mothers Fellowship, to stop by and bless her with their presence.
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by Christine Hickey
“You have cancer.” These are the scariest words some of us could imagine hearing. For others, however, it is real. Price Brattin, Jim Buchan and Mike Hill live this reality. They share a common bond, although it is one they never would have chosen for each other. These three men, all members of the Faith Builders community, have each been diagnosed with Non-Hodgkin Lymphoma. Most of the general population has a relative or friend who has received the dreaded “C” word diagnosis, or we know someone who knows someone. Try to imagine the diagnosis is yours... How would your faith be affected? Would you curse God or thank Him for another day? Could your marriage withstand the emotional stress, physical illness and financial burden? Would you lose your hair? What would you tell the children? Would it be motivation to finally achieve items on your bucket list, not because you are ready to die, but because you are ready to live?
Price & Jolinda Brattin When Price Brattin noticed a growing lump on his abdomen, he went to his doctor. It was early July 2012 when he was diagnosed with Non-Hodgkin Lymphoma, or NHL. While he was a little worried, and it scared the family, his spirituality was not affected. Price speaks about his and Jolinda’s faith, “Our faith has grown stronger by the
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support shown from our Asbury friends and Christians in other churches. The ladies in [our friends’] Sunday school class made me a prayer quilt to keep me warm in the chemo room. They told me that they prayed for me in every corner stitch. I was and still am brought to tears as I considered what they did for me.” The Faith Builders class has taken a huge role in being supportive to both Price and his wife, Jolinda. The Brattins have been overwhelmed by the prayers, cards, and encouragement. Jolinda was very scared when she learned his diagnosis, yet she had “a calmness.” “The calm was due to my faith. I knew that with Him we could make it. This was multiplied by the outpouring of love we received from the Faith Builders class. One member sent a card every week. It is as if 100 people have wrapped their arms around us and said, ‘We are here for you, whatever you need.’ We have been members of the Faith Builders since 1990. Over and over, we have witnessed the strength of our members to take care of our own.” Price had surgery to remove the cancerous lymph nodes and received six chemo treatments three weeks apart. He never missed a day of work. “Might as well be tough and go to work and live through it. … I am fortunate that my job is at a desk most of the time and not physical labor.” Chemo took away most of his stamina, but Price has stayed active and even coached an
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Asbury Upward basketball team in which three of the Brattin’s grandchildren played. The one thing Price mentioned he hopes will return to normal is his golf game. Carry each other’s burdens, and in this way you will fulfill the law of Christ. –Galatians 6:2
Jim & Karen Buchan In July 2012, Jim Buchan experienced severe itching that led him to see his doctor. Upon hearing his diagnosis of NHL, Jim says he had unusual faith that his doctors and the treatment would prevail – and was immediately ready to start the process. His cancer did not require surgery, but Jim received six treatments of chemo three weeks apart. “When I was on the receiving end of the cards and prayers, the value of my Faith Builders classmates made all the difference in the world. It’s very special to know people are thinking of and praying for you. Having someone to talk to, ask questions, and compare your physical reactions to treatment has been so helpful.” Karen, Jim’s wife, says it was even rare for her to have low moments because Jim is such an upbeat person. She reflects, “After hearing that my husband had cancer, at first I was numb. I couldn’t believe it. But with the quick response of our internist, I felt at peace and knew God was guiding us with amazing Christian doctors.” Karen has felt God wrapping His arms around them through the Faith Builders community. “Not only did Jim receive cards, calls and prayers, but I received them as well. We were overwhelmed by their support.” The Buchans transferred their membership to Asbury four years ago and state that this move has been one of the best and most significant decisions of their lives and marriage. In God I trust, I will not be afraid. –Psalm 56:4
Mike & Sally Hill Mike Hill suspected lymphoma when he returned from a trip to Israel in September 2012 and noticed a lump in his neck. Since Price and Jim had already been diagnosed and were receiving treatment, Mike was well aware of this disease. “It was large B cell NHL, amazingly the same diagnosis of Price and Jim. Without question, when one receives such devastating news, you are drawn even closer to your Lord and Savior, as well as friends who have also endured this condition.” Like his friends, Mike received six chemo treatments three weeks apart.
Sally, Mike’s wife, feels that the Faith Builders class members have been and continue to be a rock for her and her husband. Mike explains, “With faith and the knowledge of our Father’s love for us, I have gained strength. The Faith Builders community, of which I have been a member for over 30 years, is an unbelievable source of strength for situations like this. We are a community that believes in the power of prayer. After my diagnosis, throughout my treatment and right up to this day, I continually receive cards, texts, phone calls, etc. from members of our community. Something that has revealed itself to me is the concern I have for others who have a similar diagnosis but are without Christian groups to receive this support. If there is anything that has been impressed upon me more with this recent battle with cancer, it is the utmost importance of small groups or communities of which a person needs to be a part. There is so much strength with these fellow Christians who will assist you through prayer as the Lord and your physicians get you through these times. The journey that Sally and I have taken would have been much different had we attempted it alone.” A new command I give you: Love one another. As I have loved you, so you must love one another. By this all men will know that you are my disciples, if you love one another. –John 13:34-35 The odds for three people in one small group to be diagnosed with cancer are slim, let alone being diagnosed with the exact type of the disease. There are even a few others in the Faith Builders class who have been diagnosed with different cancers recently. It is clear that while receiving such a diagnosis may feel unfair, these individuals and their families were placed in each other’s path by God’s divine plan. The bond between the three couples is impenetrable. They are a team. Tears shed, bread broken, hugs received. The gratitude for each other and for the Faith Builders is difficult for the Brattins, Buchans and Hills to put into words. The support, encouragement, texts, calls, prayers, sincere thoughts, and even gestures as small as smiles within their community and between the couples are living examples of how the scriptures teach us to care for one another. Besides the love and strength of their community, there is one thing on which all three families would agree—early detection. The first time a person notes a lump in his or her body during a self-examination that should not be there, they should immediately see a physician to have it examined. Cancer can also masquerade itself as small physical problems like a backache or itching. When in doubt, check it out! At the time of this article, all three men have had clear scans recently and are very active, enjoying life one day at a time. Praise be to God! Jim would like to add a special thank you to those putting this article together, allowing the families to share their journeys. For more information about lymphoma and leukemia, visit www.lls.org. “Faith is the strength by which a shattered world shall emerge into the light.” –Helen Keller
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Regina Daniel and former Tulsa mayor, Kathy Taylor
Trevin, Ric Bailey and Kathy Taylor
Mentoring by Marilyn Glass
On January 16, Oklahoma Mentor Day was held at the State Capitol in Oklahoma City. The event, presented by the Foundation for Excellence and its David and Molly Boren Mentoring Initiative, was designed specifically to honor Oklahoma’s outstanding youth mentors. Two of those honorees were Asbury’s own Regina Daniel and Ric Bailey. Regina and “Mr. Ric,” as he is called, have been mentoring children for several years. They will both unabashedly declare that they are “senior citizens.” But they both have an enthusiasm and zest for life that belies their ages. They would tell you that serving others makes their lives better. Regina was nominated for this prestigious commendation because of her work with students at Walt Whitman Elementary School. Mr. Ric was recognized for his mentoring through Project Transformation, a program that offers tutelage in literacy and art, computer skills training and outdoor activities.
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REGINA’S STORY: Dean and Regina Daniel have been members at Asbury for twelve years. After Dean’s retirement from the banking industry, they moved to North Carolina to volunteer with an organization that was involved in missions to third world countries. “We went on missions trips; Dean helped provide financial advice, and I handled travel arrangements,” Regina Daniel and Barbie Page Regina explains. “It was interesting work. We had the privilege of mentoring a couple from India. And often we entertained religious dignitaries from India and Africa.” But one day her mother said to her, “It’s about time you let me be your mission field.” Primarily to honor her mother’s wishes, they returned to Tulsa. She died at the age of 97. It seemed natural to Regina to continue her volunteer activity. She had been mentoring at Walt Whitman for about three years when she met a little girl who was very poorly dressed and was wearing shoes that were painfully ill-fitting. “She was wearing clothes that were not at all suitable for the weather, and her shoes were horrible,” Regina recalls. “They were worn and in tatters.” As she thought of her own grandchildren, Regina was keenly aware that she must do something. She remembered that there was a pair of tennis shoes in her car that she had bought for her great granddaughter. She retrieved them from her vehicle and brought them to the child. But the young student would not receive them. “I can’t put on those shoes; I don’t have socks,” she said. “My daddy is out of work, and we can’t afford socks.” Another volunteer, overhearing the conversation, offered to help. “I have tons of socks,” she remarked. She provided the socks, shoes were slipped onto small feet, and from that moment forward, Regina had a faithful pal.
Regina took them to the zoo or on picnics or to McDonald’s. Sometimes she would bring them to her own home for an overnight stay, so they could go to church with her the next morning. The relationship continued to develop. She and the mother of the children became friends. “I feel the Lord is drawing us together,” Regina said one day. “I feel it, too,” the mom responded. On the birthday of one of the children, Regina called to say she had a birthday cake and presents. “Oh, Regina, we’re in Utah now,” the mother wailed. “I’m sorry I didn’t tell you, but I left my husband. We had to get out in a hurry.” Though Regina misses her “surrogate family,” she soon became involved with another family that had just moved to town. She learned of their great need—they had nothing—the mother and four daughters were all sleeping cross-wise on one mattress; the apartment was completely empty! Again Regina, with the help of her daughters, began to acquire dishes, house wares, furniture, beds, etc., to help fill the empty rooms. “When I delivered Valentine gifts to the family, it was great to see the comfortable home they now have,” she exclaims. One of the most rewarding volunteer experiences she has had is her work at the Taft Women’s Prison. She was involved in helping to bring a worship service to the women behind bars. One day a young woman heard the music and came into the meeting, with tears streaming down her face. When Regina spoke to her, the young offender divulged that she was a pastor’s daughter who had fallen in with the wrong crowd. It was her first day of incarceration. Regina prayed with her and encouraged her to remain strong. She reassured her that God still had good plans for her life. Even after they were moved from Taft to a different facility, Regina maintained relationships with many of the detainees. Often, they arrived at another penal institution that did not mandate prison uniforms. She once again found herself collecting “street clothes” for those needing assistance. “It was so rewarding to meet with those ladies, get to know them and hear about their families,” she says.
As she learned more about the family, Regina discovered that there were three other sisters who needed clothes. She did a clothes drive (“Asbury people were wonderful,” she praises) and gathered huge loads of clothing for the girls. Then she found that there were two little boys, also in need of clothes. More things were gathered up and delivered.
She feels blessed that her own family is close. When she and Dean suffered the loss of their son, his widow and two children—a boy and a girl—moved nearby. And when their grandson died tragically, they brought their great-granddaughter into their home to live with them. “My husband says he runs a chauffeur service,” she laughs, “shuttling kids to school and all their activities. But we love it.”
Regina often visited the family. “My grandchildren loved to visit their home. They had many animals. On one occasion, there were cats jumping on the counters, a cat giving birth under the couch, and several dogs in the midst of it all. It was never dull.”
And my daughters help me so much. They are wonderful. They both help me find clothes and furnishings when needed.” Regina continues, “Being involved with others in their need brings me great joy. It is no effort. It is something I love.”
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Beyond his scheduled time at Project Transformation, Ric is also a volunteer bus driver. In his “off time,” he takes groups of children swimming or to the zoo. “The vision of this program is to meet the academic, physical, and spiritual needs of these kids,” he notes. “It’s great to give them some fun.” He has a history of involvement with programs that reach out to others. Ric and his wife, Barbara, previously lived in Bartlesville where he ran a crisis hotline. When they came to Tulsa six years ago, they visited Asbury (the church was recommended to them by their Lutheran pastor in Bartlesville). Immediately they knew Asbury was right for them. When they first arrived in town, Ric did hospice work. He believes it prepared him for other areas of ministry the Lord had for him.
Joanne Stadler, Trevin and Ric Bailey
Ric Bailey’s roots in mentoring can be traced back to his childhood. With a military father, his family was often on the move, and he was in many different schools. Consequently, he was a poor reader. But his mother hired a tutor when he was in third grade who worked with him to improve his reading skills. She was a lady from China who loved to read and who instilled that love of reading into Ric. He has never lost that passion for reading that he “caught” from his Chinese teacher. He, in turn, wants to spark that love of reading in children today. He is enthusiastic about the partnership between Asbury and Walt Whitman (whimsically referred to as A&W), as well as Asbury’s Project Transformation outreach. He loves young people and thoroughly enjoys mentoring them. For several years, Ric has worked with students from Walt Whitman through the Lunch Buddy program. Twice a month he eats lunch with a student, reads with him, listens to his concerns, and encourages him to trust that his life will be better. His mentee is 9-year-old Trevin, and Trevin had the privilege of accompanying Ric to Oklahoma City when he received his outstanding mentoring award. There was a scavenger hunt through the Capitol, storytelling, the opportunity to meet state government leaders, and lunch. Trevin was enthralled by everything. Although Ric is committed to the Lunch Buddy program and has participated in it for years, he actually won the Mentor of the Year citation because of his participation in Project Transformation. Asbury and other churches in town commit to certain calendar dates when they will provide volunteers to help tutor underserved children who need academic help, with an emphasis on reading. Ric is part of that group from Asbury who volunteers in Project Transformation, and he is effusive in his praise of the ministry and its organization. “These are college kids running this ministry,” he points out. “I think they do an amazing job. Everything is always so well organized and yet, it’s not just brisk efficiency. There is a real atmosphere of caring.”
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He serves as a Stephen minister. In this program, the parish nurse matches a minister to a person struggling in some area of life—loss of job, family problems, loss of loved one, for instance—and the minister listens to, prays with, and tries to channel the Holy Spirit into the life of that person in need, so that God can bring healing and wholeness. He also sits on the board, helping to provide prayer support and direction for the ministry. As a Senior Council member, he helps plan activities, trips, and entertainment for the Tweenagers (aged 55 and older). “Once a month we have a luncheon meeting. We have had some really great speakers and musicians,” he reports. Ric is excited about a new area of ministry that will soon unfold. “I really love working together as a team,” he reveals. “We have awesome leaders who model servanthood and mutual respect in this church. At every level, the leadership encourages us to ‘do the works of God.’ I have found that every time I reach out to someone’s life and give a hand up, my life is enriched.” Ric particularly wants to express his appreciation to Joanne Stadler, Asbury member and volunteer coordinator for Project Transformation. “She is a big part of my participation in this ministry,” he emphasizes. He exhorts us all to keep our eye on the prize. “Jesus is our great reward. Everything else pales in comparison. He must increase.” Ric tells of a humorous incident that occurred when he visited the Capitol. He drove the van to Oklahoma City that morning. After a full day of activities and entertainment, he and his group prepared to leave. “I walked out of the House Chamber with the accolades and affirmations of my efforts still ringing in my ears,” he chuckles. “My head was filled with all kinds of lofty thoughts. When I turned the key in the ignition, nothing happened. I had left the lights on and the battery had drained dry. I had to call AAA for assistance. Immediately I was brought back to earth and was reminded of this truth: Without Christ, I wouldn’t even be able to take my next breath. I need Him always in every situation. I was grateful for the reminder. We all had a good laugh and a good time going back home.”
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Opportunity to Find Your Significance in Christ
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ongregational Care Ministry (CCM) is looking for people to help the pastors with member care. Asbury has always been focused on providing the best pastoral care to our members. Our pastors visit you when you are in the hospital and our care ministry provides different support areas to continue that care. Asbury seeks to continue to make Christian ministry of care central to the life of the church. Moving forward, Asbury has decided to combine these two outstanding areas into one which will now be called “Congregational Care Ministry.” Asbury’s Congregational Care will be able to provide ministry of pastoral and lay Christian care to all congregants of the Asbury Church family when health needs require hospitalization or ongoing assisted medical care. Our desire is to bring a higher quality of Christian care to people whose health needs has led to either hospitalization or assisted health care of various kinds. Our objective is to launch a pilot project of five pastoral teams with at least six trained, commissioned, competent Congregational Care Ministers. CCM seeks to guide the Asbury community toward a Wesleyan understanding of healing, wholeness and Christian caring community. This partnership between lay and pastors enables Asbury to provide a deeper level of care to the church family. This new direction for care ministry is going into effect in the early fall. Right now, we are looking for caring lay members who are willing and able to assist pastors. Congregational Care Ministers will be trained and be commissioned by the church in providing “pastor-care” in variety of settings.
Responsibilities will include: • Meeting regularly as a team with their Congregational Care pastor for supervision and assignments • Make hospital calls, telephone people in need of contact, meet one-on-one with people needing a listening ear for prayer and encouragement, offer support to grieving families and proactively seek to encourage and care for people within their area. • Time commitment is 24 months. Amount of time spent in service could be significant and will vary. • Will require 3 to 4 hours per week with patients plus regular supervision and continuing education meetings with pastors. Looking for volunteers with the following skill set: • Need a genuine desire to help those in need. • Good listening and communication skills. • Must have a growing relationship with Christ and have been a member of Asbury for at least three years. • The spiritual gifts of serving, mercy, wisdom, exhortation, administration and discernment are helpful. • Use of computer for documenting is a must. • Must have basic theological and biblical understanding and study. Our pastors are praying for a new and unique set of volunteers who can well represent both Asbury and our pastoral staff in this important ministry of Christian care. Over the next couple of months our pastors will be seeking individuals who are willing to join our pilot team of Congregational Care Ministers, offering themselves for training and service over the next couple of years. If you are interested in finding out more about Congregational Care Ministry, please contact Dr. Guy Ames at 918.492.1771.
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MEN’S MINISTRY
Have You Considered Attending the Men’s Retreat? by Jim Furman
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ome join other men of Asbury and their friends at Western Hills Lodge for the Annual Asbury Men’s Retreat. This years guest speaker is Dave Jewitt of “Your One Degree”. Jewitt is the founder of Your ONE Degree, a Tulsa-based ministry that takes people through a process to discover their unique gifts and calling and teaches them to focus their energies in that one direction. “Men today are being pulled in a lot of different directions by the demands of their jobs, their families and their churches,” Jewitt said recently in an interview. This often leaves them physically and emotionally drained and frustrated. “They need perspective. They need a better decision-making process so they can get focused.” He said it all begins with one question: “Why did God put me on this earth?”
MATT HESTER:
A few months ago, I was asked to present on a transformation in the last year on my spiritual journey. The odd thing was the first thing that came to my mind didn’t happen this last year, actually it happened about five years ago when I attended my first Asbury men’s retreat. This was the first time that I stepped into an active role outside of the building of Asbury. I didn’t know anyone else before going. This was a true step of faith. I arrived and was quickly embraced with love and wisdom from other men, which had never happened before in my life. This was truly the first step in my spiritual journey. I can still remember getting into small groups and sharing my story. God had a plan for my life, but I had to take the initial step and go. This retreat is a short adventure but is a life-changing experience. This short step to go moved me to follow Jesus in a whole new light. We all start somewhere; let this be a time for you, and God will move through and in you.
BASIL JAMES:
The men’s annual spring retreat is a highlight for me each year. I get to associate with men that I do not often see and in situations unfamiliar to me. I also get to attend worship with these men and come to know them in the small groups. I marvel at the great God that made such a variety of personalities. The “macho men” that shoot skeet and trap and the guys that ride horses are a joy to watch. The younger guys on the zip line deserve my admiration (climbing the tower is something else). Our intent is to serve Him and spread His love wherever we go!
The first few retreats that I attended occurred at a time in my life that was exhaustingly busy, as it is with most men in their early forties. The big draw at the time was that the retreats included my teenage sons as part of the “rite of passage” into manhood. It is the beginning for him to develop into a mature Christian man. The opportunity for my sons to continue attending the retreats, working with younger and older men, and growing spiritually was a delight to me. The first significant imprint as a result of the Asbury men’s retreats for me was to be able to see my sons bridge that gap into spiritual manhood and enjoy it with them.
JIM ASBURY:
Thinking back, memories of past retreats are always of fellowship and devotion. Men encouraging men. Men spurring other men on to a closer relationship with Christ, sharing a special song, or a special moment in their lives. One of my most memorable moments was when our sons, who were going through confirmation classes, were invited to the retreat. A special ceremony to welcome these boys into spiritual manhood was held. Each boy was given a white T-shirt to wear as they walked through the center of a tunnel of men. As they passed, each man placed his inked hand onto the back of the T-shirt to symbolize the Hands of Asbury (Christ) holding each boy up in support. I got to be one of those fathers watching a son go through this special moment.
MEN’S RETREAT: MAY 10–11
WESTERN HILLS RANCH, WAGONER, OK
JOHN CURZON:
Asbury’s annual men’s retreat has been one of my “have to” events for more than 15 years. Like any event, you get out of it what you want, and for me, this event always delivers.
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Guest speaker is Dave Jewitt, founder of “Your One Degree” • Cost of $65 includes lodging, BBQ feast, breakfast and buffet lunch • Golf is optional (must sign up in advance with Jim Furman as limited spots available) • Register at www.myasburytulsa.org • Contact Jim Furman at 918.625.1316 or jnlfurman@cox.net for more information
Volunteers in Mission by Terry Lawson
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erving with VIM (Volunteers In Mission) teams had an impact early in my adult life. On my first trip, fresh out of optometry school, I was visiting Asbury and heard of an upcoming medical mission to the Tarahumara Indians of the Sierra Madre Mountains in Central Mexico. Even though I was not yet a member of Asbury and didn’t know anyone on the team, I was made to feel very welcome. At the end of our first day, in the swept-out barn, a young teen girl walked in leading her 16-year-old sister by a rope. She could only focus about one foot in front of her. The highest donated glasses were only about half strength of her total need, but it was enough to see the picture of Jesus that was placed on the opposite wall. She cried at her first sight of Jesus, her sister cried and yes, I cried as well. I heard a verse from the past in my mind, saying “Whatever you did for one of the least of these brothers of mine, you did for me.” How humbling to help in the work of the Father.
Terry Lawson in Tanzania
At the end of the time with the team, I felt a strong connection to Asbury and those on the team. In the 25 years since, I have been privileged to serve nearly every year, either in Mexico or Tanzania. Serving together with my wife, and then at different times with all three of my daughters has strengthened our walks in Christ as a family. Professionally, going on the VIM trips with six office staff members has been rewarding. They, and many other staff members, are always eager to help prepare the eyewear before a team departs. Team members share a bond that’s hard to explain, but we all feel it as we pass each other in the halls of Asbury every Sunday. We have shared experiences through caring for others and building relationships that will forever connect us. Our goal has always been to show the love of Christ and to play a small part in “Developing all generations for significant lives in Christ.”
Terry Lawson in Mexico
Upcoming VIM Opportunities • May 30–June 10 –– Estonia, Lighthouse • June 8–15 –– Ecuador, MBS & Construction • June 13–24 –– Tanzania, East Africa, Medical
• June 27–July 8 –– Estonia, Camp Gideon, Youth Camp • July 18–29 –– Estonia, Parnu, MBS & Light Construction • September 19–30 –– Tanzania, East Africa, Construction
For more information about these exciting mission opportunities, contact Marilene Long at 918.392.1164 or mlong@asburytulsa.org .
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onations were made by congregants in honor of John Westervelt and his work in preschool and his dedication to children. Asbury unveiled the stained-glass windows on Thursday, March 7 behind the south children’s ministry security desk as a tribute to John’s dedication. “Grandpa John” Westervelt started volunteering in the preschool older 3’s in 1995 when the teacher Helen Frymire , who was in John’s Sunday school class, mentioned having a room full of very active boys. John started the following week as a “temporary” helper on Tuedays and Thursdays, and 18 years later is still faithfully helping in that same class. The children love him, as do their mothers and teachers. The mothers always want their younger siblings to get to have John, too. Several years later pre-k teacher, Kathy Koenig, had a class of 11 boys on Monday-Wednesday-Fridays, and again John saw the need for “extra hands” working with these young men. As a retired engineer, John found new ways to challenge the boys’ thinking. Since that year Grandpa John has volunteered five days a week. Along the way, the preschool staff has grown from 20 to 38 currently. We continue to bond over our morning prayer circle, praying with and for each other’s families. The preschool children, parents and staff have been blessed by this godly man, his loving care and gentle wisdom for eighteen years.
An anonymous giver commissioned four stained glass windows for Asbury’s preschool area “in honor of Grandpa John.” I had hoped my work with preschool children would be mentioned in my memorial service someday. Now a gracious giver has allowed me to enjoy a memorial for the children while I am here to enjoy it. Whoever you are, thank you my dear friend. I love you. –John Westervelt
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Listening to the Children by John C. Westervelt
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recent Tidings article told the story of 3-year-olds Piper and Riley, twin sisters, selecting a 12-inch tree as a Christmas gift for my new apartment at Crestwood at Oklahoma Methodist Manor. These girls are in my preschool class on Tuesdays and Thursdays at Asbury. Below are recorded thoughts from my archives about children from an earlier day. Thursday October 12, 1995 Helen Frymire meets the 3-year-olds at their car in the circle drive. The children gather in the outer foyer until all 15 have arrived. As Jane Berry held the door, one little girl burst inside to say, “Me and my daddy are going on a date!” I thought, “What a wise father.” Thursday November 9, 1995 You’ll remember that several weeks ago a 3-year-old girl said, “Me and my Daddy are going on a date.” Today this same little girl was wearing a T-shirt with the message, “My Daddy is a Promise Keeper.” Tuesday November 28, 1995 Today’s theme for the 3-year-olds was “My Church.” At 11 o’clock, Miss Helen explained that we would line up and walk through the church before going to the gym for playtime. (It was too cold to go outside.) After touring the sanctuary, we stopped beside the office of Senior Pastor Tom Harrison. He invited the children into his office. It is not as if I should take off my shoes, still there is a certain aura about entering Tom’s office. The children’s attentiveness showed they had captured the mood. Tom explained, “Jesus is serious in this woodcarving. In this painting, He is laughing, and I think Jesus laughed a lot.” Selecting pictures from the long bookshelves, Tom said, “This is a picture of my family. I have three children. In this picture I am baptizing a baby.” Holding up a picture of a wedding with a bride in a long white dress, Tom asked, “Do any of you know what this picture is about?” A three-year-old answered, “Married.” Our smiling, gracious pastor then asked, “Does anyone have a question?” A little boy spoke right up, “Can we go to the gym now?” Tuesday April 1, 1997 When the 3-year-olds began preschool in the fall, Megan would sometimes cry for her mother. Today this self-assured child arrives at school with a bounce in her step and a talking smile on her face.
with the blunt side rather than the sharp edge of the plastic pattern. I turned the cutter over and pressed it into the play dough for her. Unknown to me, Megan’s tiny finger was under the play dough below the cutter. By now so very mature, she didn’t cry, but I could see her looking up at me with a grimacing expression. I felt so terrible that she could see pain in my eyes. With eyes on eyes, she said, “That’s OK, Grandpa John.” A deep love for this child grew deeper. Thursday January 22, 1998 Emily is the youngest and tiniest of the 3-year-olds. Today for the first time, she wouldn’t let Miss Helen help her out of the car. Finally, her mother parked and carried her into our waiting area. Miss Jane asked about the problem. Her mom pointed to Emily’s hair and said, “She is having a bad hair day.” Her hair was mussed with a small ponytail on one side. I thought, “This seems like an early start on what can be a serious problem for girls.” Thursday February 19, 1998 Miss Jane and Miss Helen recognize the vehicles that drop off and pick up each 3-year-old. On Tuesday, Will came in a car instead of the family van. He said, “My mother has a new car (probably rental) because her van was in a wreck, but not squished.” I asked if his mother was hurt. Will responded, “She wasn’t hurt, but she cried anyway.” Thursday March 19, 1998 Stefanie, a 3-year-old, handed me a black dress from the basket in the play area. Then holding her arms over her head she asked me to help her put it on. Her eyes were serious as she said, “Don’t mess up my makeup; don’t get my lipstick on the dress.” The only colors on her face were put there by God, so I assume she has been listening to someone at home.
A year ago, I moved to Crestwood at Oklahoma Methodist Manor. Now in my middle 80s, I have begun the final leg of life’s journey. Can heaven be far ahead? When I get to heaven, I’ll ask God if He has a preschool. Those parents that have lost a young child believe He does. Right away, I’ll apply for a job as a helper in God’s preschool.
While helping at the play dough table today, I could see that Megan had the heart shaped cutter upside down. She was trying to cut
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ODD AND ENDS
Home Run Movie Brings Message of Hope, Freedom in Christ by Carol Mathews
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aise your hand if you had or know someone who had a difficult childhood. Raise your other hand if you or someone you know has struggled with some kind of addiction. Since most of us now have two raised hands, put them down and get ready to buy a ticket for the opening weekend of the movie Home Run.” –Jeff Abramovitz, social media expert and DadPad blogger
Blogger Jeff Abramovitz is one of many people talking about Home Run, an inspirational film developed, shot and produced right here in Tulsa. The film opens in theaters April 19, but it already has thousands of fans across the country—including Christian leaders like Joel Osteen, Max Lucado and Joyce Meyers. Home Run is the story of Cory Brand, a struggling baseball star who’s forced to return home and face old demons. In a town full of surprising characters, unrequited romance and plenty of secrets, Cory finds himself in the faith-based, 12-step Celebrate Recovery program. Along the way, Home Run reveals a very powerful message: With Christ, change is possible. Freedom is possible. Home Run is for anyone, inside or outside the church, who needs to make a change in their life. The message is that no matter what burdens you may be carrying, you don’t have to carry them alone. No matter how hard you’ve tried before—no matter what has happened to you or what you believe about yourself—you can live the life God created you to live. Home Run is directed by David Boyd (Friday Night Lights, Deadwood, The Walking Dead), who says, “Home Run offers up a
way to accept love and let the rest go.” It features an impressive cast, including breakout star Scott Elrod and award-winner Vivica A. Fox, and is co-produced by Tulsa residents. With Home Run, the producers’ goal was to present Christianity and the church community in an authentic, accessible way. The film offers an unflinching look at struggling Christians working toward recovery from their addictions together—without shame or judgment. There’s this pervasive idea that the church at large is unable or unwilling to address the tough issues that many people face. In reality, more and more churches are stepping up and saying, “We know that Christianity is a journey. We all struggle with hurts, broken relationships, addictions, etc., but together we’re finding hope and freedom in Jesus.” Home Run highlights this, and we hope it will resonate with both believers and non-believers. Opening weekend may be weeks away, but the Home Run movement has officially begun. Last summer, it was named Best Feature Film and Best Inspirational Film at CBA’s Resonate Film Festival. (The panel included 18 leading Christian filmmakers, producers and writers.) And countless churches, Celebrate Recovery groups and other fans are spreading the word and claiming their tickets for opening weekend. The producers want Home Run to be something people can share with their friends and loved ones who are struggling. It’s a story that shows the promise of redemption without heavy-handed preaching and overly simple answers, and it can open the doors to meaningful and honest conversations. When we shine the light on our struggles and face them together, our stories can become messages of hope for others. Home Run opens in theaters nationwide on April 19. To learn more, visit www.homerunthemovie.com or www.facebook.com/ HomeRunTheMovie or follow @HomeRunTheMovie on Twitter. Or find Charlie and Sheri Stinson, Vicki Thompson, or Bob Carpenter who are directly involved with the film.
PASTOR GLORIA’S REVIEW
Cory Brand (Scott Elrod) isn’t really comfortable in the church pew. (All of our church scenes were shot in local Tulsa United Methodist Churches.)
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The movie was real. Cory, the lead character, was barely a protagonist at all…not a good guy at all but a broken guy, a lost guy, with very deep wounds from the past that caused deep pain in the present. I like him because I know people just like him who have things go wrong, react negatively and cause even more things go wrong. I like him because he fell down over and over and was only able to stay up when he finally let God be the One to hold him up. Anytime you walk out of the theater having laughed and cried and nodded in agreement at the truth presented, it’s a good day at the movies! Yes, I recommend it to anyone who likes kids, sports, jerks, alcohol or drugs, Oklahoma or Jesus. And honestly, even to those that don’t like these things.
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RECIPES OF THE MONTH
Spring brings special occasions for us to share with our friends. Whether you are getting together to celebrate Mother’s Day or the end of school, you’ll want to use fresh fruits and vegetables as they become available.
Asparagus Ham Roll-Ups Ingredients
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1. In a large skillet, bring 1 inch of water to a boil. Add asparagus; cover and cook for 3 minutes. Drain and immediately place asparagus in ice water. Drain and pat dry. 2. Place an asparagus spear, red pepper strip and cheese strip on each slice of ham. Roll up tightly; tie with a chive. Refrigerate until serving.
16 fresh asparagus spears, trimmed 1 medium sweet red pepper, cut into 16 strips 8 oz. Havarti cheese, cut into 16 strips 8 thin slices deli ham or prosciutto, cut in half lengthwise • 16 whole chives
Berry-Spinach Salad with Almonds Ingredients
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1. In a small skillet, melt butter over medium heat. Add almonds; sprinkle with sugar. Cook and stir for 3 minutes or until almonds are lightly browned. Spread on foil to cool; break apart. 2. In a large salad bowl, combine spinach and strawberries. In a small bowl, whisk the dressing ingredients. Pour over salad. Sprinkle with sugared almonds; toss to coat.
1 Tbsp. butter 1/2 cup(s) sliced almonds 1 Tbsp. sugar 1 pkg. (10 oz.) fresh baby spinach 3 cup(s) sliced fresh strawberries
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1/2 cup(s) sugar 1/2 cup(s) canola oil 1/4 cup(s) cider vinegar 1/4 tsp. paprika 1/4 tsp. Worcestershire sauce
Layered Broccoli Salad Ingredients
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1. In a large glass bowl, layer the broccoli, onion and cranberries. 2. Combine the yogurt, mayonnaise, honey and vinegar; drizzle over salad. Sprinkle with cheese, sunflower kernels and bacon
6 cups chopped fresh broccoli florets 1 small red onion, thinly sliced 2/3 cup dried cranberries 1/2 cup plain yogurt 2 tablespoons mayonnaise 2 tablespoons honey 2 tablespoons cider vinegar 1 1/2 cups shredded cheddar cheese 1/4 cup sunflower kernels 5 bacon strips, cooked and crumbled
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OPPORTUNITIES
Asbury Opportunities QUILTING MINISTRY
GENERAL INFORMATION SURGERY OR HOSPITALIZATION SCHEDULED?
Be sure to let Asbury know ahead of time by calling the church receptionist at 918.492.1771 so your pastors can be in prayer for you. When you enter the hospital, please designate Asbury as your church. The after-hours pastoral emergency line can be reached by calling 918.492.1771, selecting option 6, and leaving a message for the pastor on call. MYASBURYTULSA.ORG
This website is available to all members as a way to update your contact information, register for events, give online and indicate ministries you would like to receive communication from. Make sure you have an account and check it out.
ASBURY FOUNDATION Leave a legacy that continues to give forever to a ministry you want to support. There are endowments that support many areas of Asbury’s outreach including children, youth, music, missions, and training of pastors as well as a general endowment. You can easily impact a ministry through your will or a current gift. • Contact Dwight Yoder at 918.392.1113 or dyoder@ asburytulsa.org
BIBLE STUDY Check out our adult Bible studies listed in our RoadMap brochures found at all welcome centers or online at www.asburytulsa.org/ AdultMinistries/Roadmap.aspx.
CARE AND SUPPORT GRIEFSHARE
GriefShare is a weekly support group for people who are grieving the loss of a loved one. The group offers a comfortable environment where the emotions and process of grief are understood and welcomed. Participants will learn practical strategies for grief recovery through the highly acclaimed GriefShare video series, study guide and group discussion. Individuals may begin attending this group at any time. • Tuesdays, May 7–July 30, 6:30–8:00 pm, Room 1507 • Cost is $15 • Child care available • Register online or call 918.392.1191
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Utilize your love of quilting to make lap quilts that warm and comfort those who need to feel the loving presence of God in their lives. Quilts are prayed over before being given. • Second Wednesdays in odd months (January, March, etc.), Room 1621 • Contact Dotti Westerberg at 918.369.5460 or dottiwesterberg@hotmail.com S.M.I.L.E. (SINGLE MOTHERS IN THE LORD’S EMBRACE)
Join us for a DVD series and book entitled “21 Principles of a Healthy Single Mom.” You will learn to apply specific, workable guidelines so you can flourish spiritually in the midst of overwhelming circumstances. Each principle/video session is self-contained, and you may begin attending at any time. • Third Thursdays, 6:00–8:45 pm, Parlor • Child care provided • $12 for book • RSVP to Janet at 918.688.3392 or asburysmile@ymail.com HEALING HATS/BALL CAPS
An Asbury ministry created to provide hats to cancer patients who have lost their hair. “Home spun with knots of love, woven together with help from above!” Simply knit, crochet or sew a hat or decorate a ball cap of your choice and drop it in the collection box located near the northeast entrance. Find more information in the literature rack attached to the collection box. In addition, the following groups meet regularly for fellowship, while using their creative ability to make hats. Contact Sue Fisher at healinghatsmin@aol.com or 918.455.2816 • Crochet Group –– Second and fourth Tuesdays, 6:30–8:00 pm, Room 1506 • Ball Caps (If you can cut and glue, this is for you!) –– Fourth Tuesdays, 9:30–11:30 am, Room 1508 –– Baseball caps and decorating items available VISITS TO ASBURY MEMBERS
Asbury has a group of volunteers (Asbury Connection) who regularly visit people who are homebound, in nursing homes or in assisted living facilities. • Contact Lisa at 918.298.9014 or lisa_dalt@sbcglobal.net PRAYER CARD MINISTRY/ MILITARY CONNECTION
Send cards with God’s encouraging words and our prayers to those who are ill or going through hard times. If you would like to receive twice-monthly cards or know someone who would like to receive cards, please send name and address to Gwen at grmohler@aol.com. • Usually meets first and third Mondays at 9:30 am, Room 1508 • Contact Gwen Mohler at 918.258.5479 or grmohler@aol.com
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• Military: Contact Jo VanDeWiele at 918.459.0888 or Nancy at rnficken@aol.com DIVORCE RECOVERY
For those suffering from the early, highly emotional stages of divorce and separation trauma. • Tuesdays, 7:00–8:30 pm, Room 1335 • Child care available • Contact Malia Miller at 918.494.9596 or malia.miller@ sbcglobal.net DIVORCE REBUILDING
For those ready to rebuild their lives after separation or divorce. • Thursdays, 7:00–8:30 pm, Room 1335 • Child care available • Contact Jim Small at 918.697.4220 or divorce-rebuilding@cox.net MENTAL HEALTH SUPPORT FOR FAMILIES
For family members or caregivers of people affected by a mental illness. • Usually meets the fourth Thursdays from 1:30–3:00 pm, Parlor • Contact Linda Lytle at 918.298.2707 or lllytle@wildflower.net
CORE CHILD CARE HOURS
Parents who are involved in RoadMap classes and/or communities during these core hours will have child care provided for children 6 weeks–12 years of age with no reservations needed: • Sunday 9:00 am–12:00 pm • Monday and Tuesday 8:45 am–12:00 pm • Tuesday, Wednesday and Thursday 5:45 pm–9:00 pm SPECIAL VOLUNTEERS FOR SPECIAL KIDS!
Do you have a heart to help children with special needs? If so, the Children’s Ministry needs you to volunteer. • Contact Dotti Westerberg at dottiwesterberg@hotmail.com or 918.381.0874
DISCIPLESHIP DISCIPLESHIP COMMUNITIES
If you have not yet found an Adult Discipleship Community check out “Community Life” on our website, www.asburytulsa.org, or pick up a brochure at one of our Welcome Centers. • If you are 20s to early 30s, come check out our newest Sunday morning group at 9:15 am in room 1507, “Transitions,” or “Rooted” for married couples in room 2314
HOSPITALITY
ASBURY BEAR BAGS
Asbury Bear Bags with coloring books have comforted young children for many years, but now you may give a Bear Bag with a scripture-based journal included instead! Great for teens and adults. Anyone may deliver an Asbury bear to someone who is grieving. Pick up bags anytime at the south security desk.
Are you a friendly person who would be willing to serve on Sunday mornings? We need new volunteers to serve as greeters and at the welcome desk. Call the church office at 918.492.1771 to volunteer.
MARRIAGE & FAMILY
CELEBRATE RECOVERY CELEBRATE RECOVERY/THE LANDING/CELEBRATION STATION
• Celebrate Recovery - Hiding any hurts, habits or hang ups? God never intended for you to live in bondage. Every Monday night: dinner at 6:00 pm, worship from 7:00–8:00 pm, small groups from 8:00–9:00 pm, dessert from 9:00–9:30 pm • The Landing – Hope-filled truths and real-life strategies for students. Every Monday night, 6:30–9:00 pm in Venue north lobby. Grades 6–12 • Celebration Station (CR for kids) – Kids discover the same truths in age-appropriate ways through worship, crafts, games and activities. Mondays, 7:00–9:00 pm, Faith Zone. Contact Eryn Wallis 918.392.4588 or ewallis@asburytulsa.org
DATES WITH YOUR MATE
A ministry designed to bless and strengthen marriages. Materials from Christian Prevention and Relationship Enhancement Program (PREP) will be taught by certified counselors, then couples have a dinner date (or coffee!) alone. • Second Thursdays, March–October (except June and July), 6:00–8:45 pm, Room 1502 • Cost $15/date, some scholarships available • Child care provided (75 children max) • Space is limited; Register online MILESTONE WEDDING ANNIVERSARIES
Email your upcoming Milestone Anniversary (5, 10, 15, 20, etc.) to Carolyn Schutte at brucars2@cox.net or call 918.451.1559.
CHILDREN Registration forms for all children’s activities are available in the preschool and elementary lobbies.
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• Contact Michiel Conner at 918.640.4382 or michiel0930@ sbcglobal.net to volunteer
MEMBERSHIP ASBURY EXPLORATION
Are you interested in membership at Asbury or just want to learn more about who we are? Plan to attend Asbury Exploration. After a wonderful lunch, which is provided, you will enjoy time with our Asbury pastors as you learn about the ministries of Asbury, important United Methodist beliefs and how you can get into the mainstream of our life together at Asbury. • Sundays, April 7 and May 5, 12:15–2:00 pm; Lunch provided, Community Life Center (CLC) • Child care available for children 6 weeks through sixth grade • Call 918.392.1191 to register, or register online at www.myasburytulsa.org
MEN MEN’S CONSTRUCTION MISSION TRIP TO RIO BRAVO, MEXICO
Would you like to work on construction projects, such as building casitas (small houses) for those in desperate need, and help local churches in Mexico? Then be a part of the mission team traveling to Rio Bravo, Mexico. You will not only be serving others and showing the love of Jesus Christ, but you will get to know other men in our church and form relationships that will last a lifetime. No building experience or carpentry skills required—just a willing spirit! Cost is approximately $640 per person with incremental costs after the first 30 spots are taken, or for extra charges. Partial scholarships may be available. A $100 deposit holds your place, with balance due April 8. • April 14–28; deadline to sign up April 8 • For questions or to sign up, contact Jim Furman at jnlfurman@ cox.net or 918.625.1316, or Frank Field at frank.field@ wpxenergy.com or 918.630.0717 MEN’S RETREAT
You will enjoy and experience powerful worship, great conversations, and guest speaker Dave Jewitt, founder of “Your One Degree.” He will help you to discover the clarity and direction in your life that you’ve been looking for. For questions or to sign up for golf, contact Jim Furman at 918.625.1316 or jnlfurman@cox.net. • May 10–11, Western Hills Ranch, Wagoner, Oklahoma • Cost is $65, which includes lodging, BBQ feast, breakfast and buffet lunch. Golf is optional. • Register at www.asburytulsa.org; credit cards accepted HOME IMPROVEMENT VOLUNTEERS
If you are handy with a hammer, like to paint or clean out flower beds, please consider joining our Home Improvement Ministry. This is an outreach ministry that serves widows and single women of Asbury with minor home repairs and home improvement projects. Commitment is only five times a year, on Saturdays.
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CAR CARE MINISTRY VOLUNTEERS NEEDED
If you like to perform basic maintenance on cars, come join other volunteers outside the Family Room as they perform basic checkups on the tires, belts, fluids, filters and batteries of vehicles of widows and single women of Asbury. • Workdays are every other month, five times a year • To find out more, contact Mike Nalley at mnalley16@cox.net MEN’S PRAYER BREAKFAST
Make plans to join us for a great time of meaningful worship, lifechanging prayer and an awesome, big breakfast. • Wednesdays, 6:30–7:30 am, Community Life Center (CLC) • Cost is $3 per person; first-time guests are free MATURE MEN’S MINISTRY R.O.M.E.O. LUNCHEON
Are you a “Retired Old Man” who wants to “Eat Out?” If so, then these luncheons are for you! A really awesome bunch of guys meet for good food and great fellowship. • Meet every second and fourth Friday, 11:15 am, Village Inn (71st and Memorial) • Open to anyone 60 years and up • Contact Bud at bdmathes@cox.net or Jim at robersonjim29@ ymail.com
MISSIONS/VIM OJT (OVERCOMING JOB TRANSITIONS)
Unemployment isn’t forever. You can help by telling people about OJT (Overcoming Job Transitions) which meets on the third Tuesday of each month. • Tuesdays, April 16 and May 21, 6:30–9:00 pm, Room 2319 • Contact Russ Knight at OJTJobs@gmail.com 2ND SATURDAY
Looking to serve Tulsa in Jesus’ Name? Join us for 2nd Saturday, January 12, 8:15 am, at Venue, and choose from different local mission opportunities. At 8:45 we head to the ministry sites. Teams work from 9:00–11:30 am, and buses return to Venue no later than 12:15 pm. Individuals and families of all sizes encouraged. • April 13 and May 11, 8:30 am–12:15 pm, meet at Venue • Contact Betty Higgins at carevets@aol.com for more information VIM 2013 TEAM SCHEDULE
• April 17–29 –– Central Asia, Relationship, Teaching, Light Construction
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• Spring –– Cookson Hills, Oklahoma, Light Construction • May 30–June 10 –– Estonia, Lighthouse • June 8–15 –– Ecuador, MBS & Construction • June 13–24 –– Tanzania, East Africa, Medical • June 27–July 8 –– Estonia, Camp Gideon, Youth Camp • July 18–29 –– Estonia, Parnu, MBS & Light Construction • September 19–30 –– Tanzania, East Africa, Construction • Fall –– Central Asia, Relationship, Teaching, Light Construction –– Cookson Hills, Oklahoma, Light Construction • October –– Monterrey, Mexico, MBS & Construction • November 6–10 –– Rio Bravo, Mexico, Medical • Men’s Rio Bravo, Mexico construction teams are April 14–28 and November 13–17 VIM TEAM LEADER TRAINING
April 6, September 7, November 2
PRAYER PRAYER ROOM DAYS AND TIMES
Our prayer rooms are accessible to you at these times: • Mason Chapel and Venue –– Sundays from 7:00 am–12:30 pm, through the interior doors • Main Facility, Mason Chapel and Venue –– Monday–Friday, 8:00 am–9:00 pm –– Saturday, 10:00 am–3:00 pm –– Sunday, 12:30 pm–9:00 pm Call Pam in the adult ministries office at 918.392.4589 to reserve the Prayer Room for your group on a weekly or monthly basis or to obtain door codes.
SENIOR ADULTS EASTERN OKLAHOMA DAY TRIP
For more information about these exciting mission opportunities, contact Marilene Long at 918.392.1164 or mlong@asburytulsa.org .
MUSIC For more information on any of the music groups, please contact Cynthia Bedford at 918.392.1151 or cbedford@asburytulsa.org. CHANCEL CHOIR AND NEW COVENANT ORCHESTRA
Open for seventh grade through adults. • Wednesdays, 6:00–7:30 pm for orchestra; 7:00–9:00 pm for choir • Sundays, 11:00 am Sanctuary service ASBURY SINGING AMBASSADORS
Join us for a great time of fun, fellowship and singing. Ages 55 and over. • Tuesdays, 1:30–3:00 pm; Choir Room 2706 CHILDREN’S CHOIRS
HANDBELL CHOIRS
• Celebration Ringers (adults) Tuesdays, 4:30–5:30 pm, Room 2506 • Perpetual Light (women), Thursdays, 10:30 am–12:00 pm, Room 2506
Come learn about God through music as we sing, play instruments and musical games. • Wednesdays, 6:00–6:50 pm • Available for children age 4 (by September 1, 2012) through sixth grade
We will lunch at Pete’s Place in Krebs (Oklahoma’s Little Italy) then tour the Kerr Country Mansion, Museum and Conference Center in Poteau; the 11,000-square foot home of Senator and Mrs. Kerr; and the cabin of Sequoyah, inventor of the Cherokee alphabet. • Friday, April 12, 7:30 am–5:00 pm; registration forms at south desk • Cost of $30 includes transportation, admissions and lunch. TWEENAGERS PROGRAM AND LUNCHEON
We will have the honor of hearing Dr. Tom Harrison, our senior pastor, discuss things happening at Asbury and our church’s plans for the months ahead. • Thursday, April 25, 10:30 am–1:00 pm, Community Life Center (CLC) • Cost is $1.00, but donations for missions and other expenses welcome MANY OPPORTUNITIES ARE AVAILABLE FOR OUR SENIOR ADULTS:
• Adult Game Day – every third Thursday, 1:30–4:00 pm, Room 2821 • Senior Walk in the Gym With Him – Mondays, Wednesdays and Fridays, 8:30–9:00 am, gym • Senior Sit and Fit Stretching Class – Mondays, Wednesdays and Fridays from 9:00–9:30 am, gym • Senior Adult Meal & Movie – Dates and time vary. For more information or to sign up for the call list, contact Sally Wood, sally77onestick@cox.net
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SINGLES ADULT VOLLEYBALL
Do you enjoy playing recreational volleyball, mixed in with a little bit of competitiveness? All skill levels of play are welcome. Good sportsmanship and positive attitudes are required. It’s free and you do not have to be a member of Asbury to participate. • Every Sunday, 6:00–9:00 pm, gym • Questions? Contact Doug at 918.607.0830 COMMUNITIES
• Sundays, 9:15 am–New Beginnings Class, Transitions (mixed singles/married) • Sundays, 11:00 am–Ambassadors for Christ, Footprints (ladies only), Salt & Light, Christ Centered Singles, Single B.A.S.I.X. • You are always welcome to join any other communities that are not “Singles Only,” as most are a mix of singles and marrieds
STUDENTS 789 SUNDAY MORNINGS
• Sundays, 9:15 am, Junior High room upstairs in the student ministry arearoom upstairs in the student ministry area 789 WEDNESDAY NIGHTS
All proceeds benefit the Circle of Care Ministries, Child S.H.A.R.E. program. • Friday, April 19, 12:30–4:00 pm, Community Life Center (CLC) • Cost is $10, no ticket needed UMW COLLEGE SCHOLARSHIP PROGRAM
If you are an entering freshman at an accredited university or college for the school year of 2013–2014 and have a relative who is a current member of Asbury’s UMW, excluding the Priscilla Circle, you are invited to apply for Asbury’s UMW college scholarship. This $1,500 college scholarship will be awarded to a senior high school young woman. Application packets available in the main church office. The deadline for submitting a completed application is Friday, April 19 at noon at Asbury’s main office. HOME IMPROVEMENT WORKDAY
This outreach ministry serves widows and single women who are Asbury members with minor home repairs and home improvement project. If you are in need of help and qualify, just pick up an application at the south desk, fill it out, and return it at least 10 days before the scheduled work day. A volunteer from the H.I. team will contact you and make arrangements to get the job done! • Saturday, April 20 WOMEN OF THE WORD
• Wednesday, 7:00–8:00, Student Ministry Area
Gail Knox will teach on different passages from God’s Word. Join us on this new adventure among our women as we explore new vistas with a new teacher! • Every Wednesday 10:00–11:00 am, Room 2818 • Child care not available • No cost, no registration
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WORSHIP
• Wednesdays, 7:00 until around 8:30 pm, Venue • Hang around for pizza afterwards
WOMEN UMW LUNCH
This “April Salute” will honor our most mature and faithful volunteers for their many years of service. Darlene Johnson will return to present our program. Romans 16:1–3 • Thursday, April 4, 11:30 am, Community Life Center (CLC) • Cost is $8, no reservation needed
• 8:00 am • 9:15 am • 9:15 am • 11:00 am • 11:00 am
WHIRLWIND GAME DAY BENEFIT
Come be a part of Whirlwind Game Day! Hosted by Asbury’s UMW, you will enjoy an afternoon of fun and fellowship. Bring your favorite games, visit with friends and enjoy dessert and drinks. Sign up in the church office or through any UMW member.
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Traditional Service in Mason Chapel Contemporary Service in Sanctuary Casual Service in Community Life Center (CLC) Traditional Service in Sanctuary Modern Service in Venue
SPECIAL ANNOUNCEMENTS
Marriages, Births and Deaths BIRTHS
DEATHS:
• Lucie Lee Speligene born 11/18/2012 to proud parents Phillip and Jamie • Ross Wyatt Schafer born 2/5/2013 to proud parents Russ and Christy • Courtney Coleman proud parents are Frank and Jana Coleman
• Lulu Norvill died 1/27/2013 • Dottie McKie died 1/31/13, wife of Bill McKie • Jeffrey Jones died 2/3/13, son of Vernon and Marilee Jones • Lloyd Hammons died 2/5/2013, father of Connie Conrad • Helen Weaver died 2/6/13
Milestone Anniversaries 65 YEARS • Delbert & Nell Pool
05/20/48
60 YEARS • Gordon & Lois Vetal
05/02/53
55 YEARS • Hal & Ruth Johnston • Larry & Judy Lairmore
05/10/58 05/29/58
Gordon & Lois Vetal 05/02/53
10 YEARS • Jeff & Jennifer Rhoton
05/24/03
MILESTONE WEDDING ANNIVERSARIES Email your upcoming Milestone Anniversary (5, 10, 15, 20, etc.) to Carolyn Schutte at brucars2@cox.net or call 918.451.1559.
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Larry & Judy Lairmore 05/29/58
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SPECIAL ANNOUNCEMENTS
New Members
Lyle & Andrea Arbuckle with Edith Grace
Bob & Peg Gaines
Ron & Peggy Hanna
Sunil & Louise Mathew
David Shade
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Thomas & Rebecca Bennett with Thomas, Anna and Eli
Amy Bradshaw
Nathan & Ivie Hopkins
Jo Milligan
Linda Shade
Carl & Pat Millwee
Maria Smith
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Larry & Judith Kindred
Barbara Kontje
Leslee Retheford with Laney and Lakyn, & Paula Retheford
Marvin & Candace Spencer
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