Asbury Tidings - The Character of a Methodist by Asbury Church

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Asbury

TIDINGS FEBRUARY 2010

February we continue the sermon series on the “I AM” sayings of Jesus in The Gospel of John. Jesus’ claims were absolutely stunning! His birth, life, and resurrection are unique in the history of the human race. He doesn’t say that He is simply another teacher or philosopher, but He asserts that He is God in human flesh. He doesn’t say that there are many ways up the side of the religious landscape. Seven times He uses the adjective of distinction: “THE bread of life,THE light of the world, THE gate, THE good shepherd, THE resurrection, THE way, THE truth, THE life, THE vine ” claim.

All we do in the church is predicated upon this foundational belief in the resurrection of Jesus Christ. That was the catalyst for the Early Church. When Jesus appeared to the disciples, it was so counterintuitive that they couldn’t believe it. “Doubting” Thomas was emphatic. The Empty Tomb was the initial evidence that something was “Up!” (pun intended) Their personal encounters with Jesus assured them that He was alive! They were so changed by that, and by the subsequent outpouring of the Holy Spirit, that most all of them were willing martyrs to the cause of Jesus. Few will die for something they know is a fraud. These were convinced of their message. They went worldwide with the message. Acts 17:6 says: “These men who have turned the world upside down have come here…” (RSV).

If these sayings of Jesus really are true, and He really is who He says He is – there are HUGE implications for our lives. This is serious business. It seriously impacts the way we live. It makes a difference in our witness, worship, and worldview. It makes a difference in how we spend our time and money. It makes a difference in how we treat other people. It makes a difference when we baptize a baby and serve in children and student ministry. It makes a difference when we participate in a memorial service for one who has In the recent Sherlock Holmes movie, an evil magi- gone to be with the Lord. cian supposedly was resurrected, too. Only (spoiling the movie for you) he was a fraud. There was no res“I AM” changes everything. He has changed my urrection – it was simply a trick. Anyone can make heart. Our prayers are that the great “I AM” has come outrageous claims. If Jesus was just another religious into your heart, too. He is simply a prayer away. Ask huckster and simply died, then our faith is in vain. Paul Him to come into your life today, too. It’s the best gift writes in 1 Corinthians 15:14: “if Christ has not been you will ever receive. raised, our preaching is useless and so is your faith.” While His birth was one of a kind, and His teachings are the wisest of humanity, and His crucifixion was brutal beyond description, what ultimately validates Jesus’ claim to be Messiah are His words in John 11: “I am the RESURRECTION and the life.” If we remove Jesus’ resurrection from the Gospels everything falls apart. His claims are backed up by this: He was dead. He came back to life.

Tom Harrison, Sr. Pastor

Contents 3. 4. 5. 6. 8. 10.

What’s Happening Dating While Married A Day To Remember Beth’s Story An Adventure In Today Boy Scouts Turn 100

Managing Editor Tara Lynn Thompson

12. The Character of A Methodist tara@taralynnthompson.com 16. Am I Meek? Graphic Designer Jonathan Van Risseghem 18. Lent Devotionals jonathan@vanriss.com 21. Opportunities 32. New Members

Asbury Tidings is a monthly publication designed to tell stories of lives being transformed by the power of Jesus Christ. You may read back issues by visiting www.asburytulsa.org

Photographer Don Kreutzweiser donsimages.com

Guest Contributors Steve & Kimberly Widner, John C. Westervelt, Beth Camille, Ann McNearney, Sylvia LaRose, Dr. James B. Scott, Dr. Molly Davis Scott, Kim Beair Page 2

LEGACY GIVING

Please consider supporting the ministries of Asbury by remembering us in your will and estate planning. There is no better way for the fruits of your labor to have an ongoing impact for the Kingdom.

by Dwight Yoder, Executive Director

Call Dwight Yoder for more information. 392-1113

the time I’m writing this

the new year has just begun. I enjoy the transition from one year to another. Reflecting on and assessing the year just past is valuable and (usually) enjoyable. Planning for and looking forward to the new year creates anticipation and optimism. Asbury was blessed with another good year in 2009. All of our ministries were successful, with most improving and growing. As I write this, final numbers are not yet available but we also had a good year financially. Asbury’s accomplishments in ministry and our ability to respond to opportunities are possible because of your gifts of service and money. Thank you. Everything that Asbury does is for the purpose of making progress toward our MVO (Mission,Vision, Objectives). My job is to manage Asbury’s organization in a way that best supports Tom as he leads us toward achieving the MVO. Even though it is the beginning of February, it’s not too late for each of us to assess how we are doing toward Asbury’s Objectives. They are listed below. We can ask these questions. How am I doing? What improvements do I want to make in 2010? How can I assist Asbury in achieving these objectives as a church? Every member of Asbury: 1. 2. 3. 4. 5. 6. 7. 8.

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Confessing Jesus Christ as Lord. Living to love, seek and save the lost through Christ. Worshiping God, corporately and privately. Participating in a small group Christian community. Developing a Biblical worldview by learning and applying God’s Word. Bringing the tithe (one-tenth) in loving obedience to God’s gracious provision. Devoted to prayer. Discovering and using spiritual gifts for ministry and mission.

In these first few days of January, we have not yet approved final goals and budgets for 2010. Current thinking of our leadership is that Asbury has opportunities to which we are not fully responding. Therefore, it is possible that we will increase our budget more aggressively than we did in 2009 in order to move to the next level in our effort to “Glorify God and Make Disciples.” Specific areas being considered for increased resources include local outreach, discipleship development, young adults, stewardship development, and communications. Last month I explained that to be better stewards we are moving to a free subscription for Tidings. We are currently printing and mailing many copies that are not being read. In this issue is a subscription card. If you want to continue receiving Tidings, complete the card and mail it or drop it off at one of our hospitality desks. You may also subscribe online from our website. Please take the time to answer the survey question. This will help us deliver information that is useful to you. Speaking of communications, Tom asked me to begin writing this column because he wants to improve our communication with the congregation. If you have comments about our communication, please e-mail them to info@asburytulsa.org. Thank you for your strong support in 2009. I hope you have a great 2010.

Dating

Married

while

by Steve & Kimberly Widner

o, we’re not talking infidelity here. We’re talking about spending time with your mate. Uninterrupted time focusing on each other. Sharing time, memories, thoughts and dreams of what and where you want to be when you “grow up”

We’ve learned a lot this year about what our marriage needs and about each other. About a year ago, we decided to prioritize our marriage and our friendship. Now we have weekly dates…or at least every other week. We look forward to our “alone” time. Whether it’s going to a movie and grabbing some fast food or just driving around in our Jeep, it’s our time (sometimes we just go grocery shopping). Yes, it does require budgeting in a babysitter, but the small investment you make yields grand rewards. Quality time is one of our love languages and those two to three hours out can mean a lot to a marriage. It doesn’t have to be extravagant (or even moderately fancy), just time alone and focusing on each other is the goal here. Most of the time we spend more on the babysitter than we do on the dinner and/or movie.

And speaking of date nights, Asbury offers 8 Great Dates With Your Mate to anyone who can make themselves available once a month on a Tuesday night for eight months. That’s really pretty easy to plan and is a great resource and opportunity for your marriage. This wonderful program offers more than just Appointment? Specified time? Romantic? That’s free babysitting. It can open the door to a wonderright, we all need this…our marriages thrive on it. ful conversation with your spouse We were all so good at this prior to getting married. We would set “It is simply amazing and give you tools and insight to open up a treasure chest waita time and place, get dressed up ing for you in your marriage. what even an hour of focus and treat our date with the utmost respect and dignity while be- on a marriage once a week Often times the topic covers ing 100 percent focused on them. “real” conveyed by can do to strengthen your something “real” people in our church. We What has happened to this? In bond with your mate..” all see and hear of all of the books and videos out there to help your case, most likely the same strengthen marriages, but this is basically a Cliff Notes thing that has happened in our marriage of almost 12 version to get you jumpstarted. years…LIFE! Life brings with it stress and exponentially increasing levels of responsibility. In our case, we The format is pretty simple. You can come and drop never really lived close to family and as new parents, we off your child(ren) and then sit back and relax with the didn’t put much effort into “dating” or spending time other couples for a brief (15-20 minute) discussion bewith each other.We got caught up in our kids, jobs, and fore leaving to spend a few quality hours alone with your running from one thing to the next. We would, on ocspouse. There is no pressure put on you and it is not casion, have a date night, but we never made it a priority. mandatory to attend every month, just come as often as you can and take advantage of this wonderful ministry. Each of us came from divorced homes. After marDating your spouse should be a priority. If you don’t riages of 18 and 25 years respectively, and neither of make this a priority, it will never happen. It is simply us ever seeing our parents fight, they surprised us with amazing what even an hour of focus on a marriage once their divorces. Reflecting back on this, no, they didn’t a week can do to strengthen your bond with your mate. fight, but they didn’t spend quality time together and go on dates either. It wasn’t as if God was not in their Marriage is such a blessing. We are given such marriages, but maybe not the center of their marriages. a precious gift with our spouse. Furthermore, you only get out of marriage what you put into it This is something that we’ve recognized much earlier in our relationship and embrace the idea that God ”Whoever sows generously will also is first in both of our lives and that He is the center of reap generously.” 2 Corinthians 9:6 our marriage. We’ve both realized that as much as we The journey toward intimacy with your spouse lies depend on each other, we must put God first. It’s easy along the pathway of obedience with God… to dump on your spouse with your daily headaches. What we are learning through our daily frustrations is ”My command is this: love each other that our spouse cannot meet all our needs, only our as I have loved you.” John 15:12 Heavenly Father can.

date: .n an appointment to meet at a specified time, especially: a social engagement between two persons that often has a romantic character.

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A DAY

TO REMEMBER by John C. Westervelt

At dawn

on Thursday November 19, 2009, I raised the shade on my east window. The cool fall days of recent weeks had dropped a deep layer of leaves across the patio and rose garden. A splash of red rested on top of the Knock Out roses. I soaked up this pleasure, knowing that this day included a four o’clock memorial service for the husband of my friend Susan, who is the assistant director of Asbury’s weekday preschool.

Arriving early for the memorial service, I could see from the back of Asbury’s chapel numerous rows filled with preschool teachers. I selected a seat on the outside aisle on the right side beside Laurie, who teaches in the classroom next to mine on Monday, Wednesday, and Friday. Barbara, a 35-year veteran of Asbury preschool, sat one seat in on the row in front of me. Barbara’s son and my daughter were friends at Memorial High school, where they participated in speech contests together.

As a widower looking for a place to serve after I retired 15 years ago, I began volunteering in Asbury’s weekday preschool. Since that time, I have exchanged greetings each morning with Susan.

A few moments later Jan sat beside me on the end of the pew. I have worked with Jan and Sue in the three-year-old class on Tuesday and Thursday for ten years. I watched Jan’s four children progress through school and leave for college. Each week I learned about their progress and aspirations. The preschool teachers gather in a circle to pray before class begins. Jan leads in prayer on Tuesdays. She seems so close to God as she talks with Him about the needs of the teachers and the children.

Debbie, a longtime Asbury preschool teacher, moved to Dallas a few years ago. She was to arrive on a flight from Dallas this morning to be here for Susan. Over many years, Debbie had shared a good word, thoughtful remembrances, and an infectious smile with me. My morning volunteer job where I help Jan and Sue with three-year-olds was almost complete when Debbie arrived at the classroom door. She had come straight from the airport to share a hug with me. We chatted as we walked down the hall to the preschool office. Before I headed home for lunch, I helped Joanne, the preschool director, load three Care Bear baskets in Debbie’s car for a stop at Susan’s house. The bears would comfort Susan’s three grandchildren as they attended a memorial service for their grandfather.

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I felt such a peace following a memorial service for a sad loss. I decided that God had used Debbie and Jan to share Love, Joy, Peace, and Gentleness with me on this day. More stories at www.jwestervelt.com

Beth’s

STORY - A modern-day romance -

by Beth Camille

eptember 15, 1962. I had just turned 19 ten days before and the desire to get married made perfect sense at the time. Eloping. The word itself conjured up mystery and excitement. But to Larry and me, it simply meant beginning our marriage without all the stress of planning a wedding.

couples would see their marriage vows as a covenant with God instead of a promise too easily broken, there would be fewer divorces.

We were both students at the University of Tulsa and had met at Sears and Roebuck where I manned the candy counter and he sold automotive supplies. Our first date was on Valentine’s Day. Six months later, we were heading down the highway to a wedding chapel in Miami, OK with strains of “If I Had a Hammer” blaring on the car radio.

We have had the usual “better and worse” times...along with “richer and poorer ones,” but it wasn’t until much later that we began to get an idea of the depth and breadth of the love it takes to sustain a couple through “sickness.”

It was the beginning of our journey. While the road has been bumpy at times with unexpected detours along the way, we can see that God was along for the ride and even when we didn’t notice, He was there. And He was part of the covenant we made that day:

- I, Beth, take you, Larry, to be my husband, (this part was easy)

- To have and to hold from this day forward, I was a little nervous about announcing our sudden marriage to my family, but my intent was to spend the rest of my life with Larry. I’ve always thought that if

- For better or for worse, for richer, for poorer, in sickness and in health, -

Years earlier a blood clot had traveled through Larry’s heart and lodged in his lung. But the crisis passed and we enjoyed several years of good health, raising our children, cheering the Golden Hurricane, and traveling. In 1991, we had a life-changing experience as we participated in The Walk to Emmaus. Although we were Christians, we had never fully understood or felt the love of Jesus in such a tangible way. We found that ordinary people like us were given opportunities to share our faith. Doors continued to open for us and we walked through them, trusting that the God who had called us to serve would equip us. And though we’ve served in many capacities, one of the greatest joys we share is serving Communion during the 8 am service in the Mason Center. Page 6

Samantha, our first Meanwhile, grandchild, was born to our daughter, Renee. Our son, Ken and his

wife, Monica, began their family, now consisting of three sons, Mason, Marshall and Michael. Life was good. But we soon began a ten-year marathon of one unsettling health issue after another. During that period, Larry suffered two strokes and a TIA, and just recently was plagued with blood clots in his lungs. In 2004, I was di“While the delay was agnosed with cancer and frustrating to me, I never lung had part of my questioned God.” lung removed before receiving chemo and radiation. In 2008, it was determined that I needed to have my aortic valve replaced.While the recuperation was slow, I was relieved to have that taken care of. Meanwhile, arthritis was plaguing my shoulders and I was scheduled for a shoulder replacement. But once again, my heart became an issue and a stent was deemed necessary in order for me to survive the shoulder surgery. While the delay was frustrating to me, I never questioned God. After the shoulder replacement last summer, I was determined to do all the therapy necessary to fully recover and get on with my life. I had just finished my final grueling therapy session days before when I experienced a brain bleed where cancerous cells were found. My right side was paralyzed from the stroke-like attack, and it was then that I had a talk with God about His unusual sense of humor!

- To love and to cherish; Larry’s retirement has been spent being my caregiver and more importantly, my encourager. Never once has his faith wavered. When I find myself apologizing to him for all he has to do – cleaning, laundry, cooking, dressing me, as well as baring the brunt of my mood swings, he simply says, “That’s the deal I made when I married you.” I’ve never felt more loved or cherished.

- Until death do us part. “How do people get through life without faith?” That’s the question Larry and I continually ask and we’re so grateful that we’ve been given the assurance that even though we’re on a forever journey, this life as we know it is just a stop on the way. Page 7

- Beth and Larry Camille -

ADVENTURE In Faith by Ann McNearney

if it was the Ithe do not know cold room or blinding glare of the lights in the ER that pushed

me back to consciousness. I do know that I was clueless as to my whereabouts or how I got there. I was surrounded by medical personnel, wearing masks, efficiently buzzing like worker bees around my gurney. One of the masks asked: “Do you know where you are?” I shook my head no. “Do you know your name?” I thought about it for a few seconds and attempted to mouth the word Anne. For some unknown reason my tongue refused to cooperate. I had bitten it to shreds. I nodded yes. “Do you know who the President is?” Uh, oh… a trick question. It was January 20, 2009, inauguration day. Had I watched it that morning? I knew it was either George Bush or Barack Obama. I didn’t want to get it wrong for fear that I would end up on the psychiatric floor. I answered with a blank stare. The murky details of the preceding hours were relayed to me by a police officer who accompanied me to St.John’s ER and stayed with me until my daughter arrived. Apparently, I had suffered a grand mal seizure while driving and had totaled my car. Dang it! I just had new brakes installed. “You don’t remember having a seizure?” she asked. “Any history of epilepsy?” Not possible, I wanted to explain that I did not have epilepsy. But she continued to enlighten me on the particulars of the accident. According to passengers in the three cars I ran off the road, I had driven almost threefourths of a mile while unconscious.

“In a matter of minutes my life had turned into a badly scripted Lifetime television movie.” Mercifully, I was the only one injured. The other cars pulled off the road before I could hit them. I had crashed into a brick wall, crossed the center median twice before knocking out a tree, which incidentally came through my front windshield. The occupants in the other vehicles rushed to my assistance. They saw both airbags deployed, and the engine of my car pushed into my lap. I was still seizing.These kind Samaritans noticed smoke coming from the engine and pulled me out of the car fearing that it was about to go up in flames. While being transported to St. John’s Medical Center, I had another grand mal seizure in the ambulance and yet another while having x-rays. The police officer said that she had never witnessed such an extreme accident that did not involve a fatality. In a matter of minutes my life had turned into a badly scripted Lifetime television movie. I was admitted to the hospital for testing, and also a broken wrist, cracked sacrum, and two fractured ribs. Four days later I was released with the frightening diagnosis of epilepsy. I have had “episodes” (diagnosed as narcolepsy) my entire life. I cannot believe that I am alive. It is by the grace of God that I have survived so many near misses and catastrophes. I began visiting a skilled neurologist and trying various medications for epilepsy. My seizures persisted and were accompanied by mild to severe allergic reactions. At one point, the rash on my legs became so critical that I was referred to a dermatologist for a biopsy, which confirmed that I’m allergic to anti-epileptic drugs. I am on my ninth prescription and still have not found one that I can tolerate.

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law requires a person Oklahoma be seizure free for eight months before driving again. It’s been over a year, and I’m still unable to drive or work. My seizures are unpredictable. I have learned much about epilepsy since the accident. I have learned even more about God’s love and faithfulness.

Jesus tells us that it is more blessed to give than to receive. Why is receiving so daunting? When I refuse the assistance of someone, I am robbing them of joy. I wish I had the space to list the countless people God has used to encourage and sustain me this past year. Some would refer to my life as a run away train of misfortune. I see it as an adventure in faith. I have been to the other side of the tracks and pitched my tent. I have met people who struggle each day to remain optimistic about tomorrow.They are the people you would never run into at Border’s or meet at Starbuck’s for a $5 cup of coffee. These people frequent the Day Center for the Homeless, shop once a month at Warehouse Market, get health care from Morton Health Center. They wait in the rain for the bus.

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In the grand scheme of things, my burden is feather weight compared to the one most of these people carry. Every night I fall asleep with a full stomach in a warm bed. Although I would never choose to do 2009 over again, I would not trade what I have learned for all the tea in China. My faith has skyrocketed. I have experienced the love and provision of God in the midst of lingering adversity. He faithfully provides manna in my wilderness. I am blessed beyond measure every single day and want for nothing – except maybe an iPod. Like Paul the apostle, I have learned to be content in whatever circumstances I encounter. Truly, I can do all things through Christ who strengthens me. The road is rugged, but the view is incredible. Thank you, Asbury. Thank you, God.

BOY SCOUTS

Turn 100

by Sylvia LaRose

the Boy Scouts THIS MONTH, of America celebrates 100 years of developing youth into tomorrow’s leaders.

On February 8, 1910, Chicago publisher W.D. Boyce incorporated the Boy Scouts of America with a group of 21 young men. His purpose in founding the organization was to teach boys patriotism, courage, self-reliance and kindred values. That goal hasn’t changed much in a century. Since that first assembly, the Boy Scouts has grown into one of the largest youth organizations in the United States, with more than four million active members. It boasts a congressional charter and a string of US officials, including President Barack Obama serving as its honorary leader. More than 110 million Americans have been members of BSA since 1910.

Scout Law:

A Scout is trustworthy, loyal, helpful, friendly, courteous, kind, obedient, cheerful, thrifty, brave, clean and reverent. While old-fashioned fun is part of Scouting heritage, so is doing one’s duty to God and country. In 1966, Asbury United Methodist Church chartered Boy Scout Troop 10. Over the years, the troop has trained youth to be responsible citizens while developing character and instilling morals. Martin Cranke volunteered for Scoutmaster duties shortly after he joined Asbury in 2004. As a former Boy Scout, he knew Asbury was too great an organization not to inspire a troop. And he says he is truly blessed to part of this youth mission. “It’s a great way for boys to learn leadership skills, life skills and experience different types of professions,” says Martin.

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consists of boys from TROOP 10 age 11 to 16 years. They wear uniforms and work together in four active

But it is the Word of God that is the heart of Troop 10.The unit retains an adult Chaplin and Scout assistant who bring the Lord to every meeting and every campout. “We are an outreach program, not only to Asbury members, but to those outside the church family,” says Martin. “We want to be an active part of the church and teach the boys about God and the morals that go with His Word. We’ve seen families who have joined Asbury as a result of our program.”

patrols. It is a “boy lead” group where the Scouts plan activities, share responsibilities, then apply skills learned at meetings. And they go camping one or more times every month in the mountains, forests and fields of God’s creation. But in addition to campfires kindling friendships, Scouting is helpOn my honor, I will do my best ing mold these boys into responsible adults. The Scout To do my duty to God and my country; Oath and 12 points of the To obey the Scout Law; Scout Law are more than To help other people at all times; mere words to these AsTo keep myself physically strong, bury Scouts, they are a way of life and a moral compass. mentally awake and morally straight.

Boy Scout Oath

“It is the fabric of the Scouting program,” explains Martin. “What it means to be honest and trustworthy, to themselves, fellow Scouts, family.” And to solidify the character principles taught in Scouting, Troop 10 participates in numerous service projects benefiting the church and community. Last year the boys completed 27 volunteer endeavors.

And Troop 10 keeps growing too. When Martin took over as Scoutmaster six years ago, there were four active members and the troop was on the verge of folding. Today the group totals more than 40, with over a dozen boys expected to join in 2010. “If you have a viable program, the boys are going to talk to their friends and neighbors,” says Martin. “In our society today, I think every boy should learn core values and morals. Build it, and they will come.”

“We work at many of the Asbury events like the Mother-Daughter Banquet, Operation Hope – delivering meals, bussing tables, washing dishes,” says Martin. They ring the Salvation Army bell at Bass Pro Shop on Black Friday. Since 2005, they have collected more money on that day than any other Tulsa location. They assisted at Asbury’s disaster relief center during the ice storm. They even cleared trails during campouts at state parks.

“Mr. Cranke is a great leader,” clarifies Keith. “He’s a by the book person who keeps everyone in line. An iron fist and a soft glove.” Joshua adds, “He’s funny, dependable, he always keeps his Scoutmaster appointments, and he’s always ready to help you.”

“Volunteering is a great joy,” exclaims Life Scout Keith Whiteneck (14). “It’s fun to go camping, but it means more to serve the community.

The Boy Scout’s first century adds up to a remarkable saga, full of achievement and pride. 100 years of doing good deeds and laying a foundation for America’s youth. Now that’s something to celebrate!

My favorite is our annual Veterans Day Pancake Breakfast, because we get to talk to the veterans and serve others who serve.” Martin adds, “For every hour of service, someone is benefiting. The ‘paycheck’ is fulfilling the needs of others – whether it’s cleaning gutters, serving a meal or shoveling snow. It’s priceless.” Earning merit badges is another way Boy Scouts builds character and life skills. Joshua Burdick joined Troop 10 just over a year ago. Already he has achieved the rank of 1st Class and six badges. “Electricity and Electronics was my favorite,” Joshua describes. a light bulb worked, and we made a siren and circuit board.”

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“I am honored to be part of Troop 10,” Martin concludes. “I believe in it. And I thank God, literally.”

BOY SCOUT TROOP 10 5th Annual Spaghetti Luncheon Social Sunday, February 21st / 11-2 in the CLC Enjoy spaghetti, bread, salad and dessert with family and friends. $5 per person / $20 per family All proceeds benefit Boy Scouting Mission at Asbury

The

Character of a

Methodist by Dr. James B. Scott and Dr. Molly Davis Scott

hen Rev. John Wesley was asked to pubW lish what is the most distinguishing mark of a Methodist, he wrote a tract called “The Charac-

ter of a Methodist.” He refuted the things that nonMethodists said were the distinguishing marks: not unique opinions [Hence the famous quote, “But as to all opinions which do not strike at the root of Christianity, we think and let think.”], not any action, custom, or usage [such as covering the head or not, abstaining from marriage or meats, form of clothing], not stressing one part of the faith over other parts [not placing matters of opinion over essentials of the faith]. The distinguishing mark is character, the character of a Methodist. [1742] The editors of The Complete English Dictionary of 1753 included for the first time the word Methodist and asked Mr. Wesley to supply the definition. His answer is worthy of attention: “One that lives according to the method laid down in the Bible.” Note the use of the word method and that the method was based on the Scriptures. What then does that character look like? That character looks like Susannah Wesley, the mother of the Wesleys, of whom it is said she formed the Methodist Movement in her nursery of 19 children, 11 of whom survived. Her first focus was God, next husband and children. She wrote that her basic purpose was the saving of their souls. She herself tutored her children, having them rise at 4 am to study Latin and Greek, learn the Bible thoroughly, and apply to their lives the method laid down in the Bible. Even with so many children, each said that he or she felt unlimited personal love from their mother and had two hours alone with her each week for whatever they wanted.

That character looks like John Wesley who, though he made vast sums of money from writing his tracts, continued to live all his long life on the same amount of money he lived on during his university days, died with no debts and gave all he had to the Kingdom. He said for Methodists to “make all you can, save all you can, give all you can.” That character looks like the early Methodist people who emulated the Wesleys and their gathered leaders in faith, discipline, and self-sacrifice. How do we attain this character? It is both a gift and a responsibility. It is imputed to us as a gift when we are justified, that is, repent of our sins and turn from our way of living to God’s way for us to live, apprehend faith, and experience forgiveness. We receive salvation. Then it becomes our responsibility and indeed joy to develop what has been given to us. When we turn to living how God intends us to live, Mr.Wesley called that “holiness of heart and life”—making our lives congruent with what we say we believe.This is the second part of full salvation, sanctification. The first was a one-time decision; the second is every decision every day for the rest of our lives. This good process develops Christian character and holds us in the faith. Mr. Wesley explains further on salvation bringing about character through holiness: “By salvation I mean, not barely, according to the vulgar (common) notion, deliverance from hell, or going to heaven: but a present deliverance from sin, a restoration of the soul to its primitive health, its original purity; a recovery of the divine nature; the renewal of our souls after the image of God, in righteousness and true holiness, in justice, mercy, and truth. This implies all holy and heavenly tempers, and, by consequence, all holiness of conversation. Now, if by salvation we mean a

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“...whether in joy or sorrow,

ease or pain, clarity or confusion, there is ‘a well of water

springing up into everlasting life’

that gives perfect love and casts out fear,”

present salvation from sin, we cannot say, holiness is the condition of it; for it is the thing itself. Salvation, in this sense, and holiness are synonymous terms.”1 [Note from Scotts: holiness and sanctification are synonymous terms also.] What are the specifics of it? The specifics of character, as the Methodists understood them, are based on Scripture, as Mr. Wesley wrote in the dictionary definition. “A Methodist is one who has ‘the love of God shed abroad in his heart by the Holy Ghost given unto him;’ one who ‘loves the Lord his God with all his heart, and with all his soul, and with all his mind, and with all his strength.’ God is the joy of his heart, and the desire of his soul….” He is “happy in God, yea, always happy.” This means that whether in joy or sorrow, ease or pain, clarity or confusion, there is “a well of water springing up into everlasting life” that gives perfect love and casts out fear, making it possible for the Methodist of character to rise above difficult situations so that he can ride through them in the peace of his assurance of God’s love and protection. This person is also always praying, not only in the church service, not always on his knees, but in business, conversation, recreation, alone or in company, always relating to God in his mind. He gives thanks continually for all things, knows that all good things come from God, not his own effort, and tries to truly love other people and show them goodwill. He tries to stay “pure in heart,” purging it of envy, malice, anger, pride, unkindness and taking on instead mercy, kindness, being humble and patient. He seeks not to do his own will, but to discern God’s will and do that instead. And he gets results; he is known by his fruits. In big things, he keeps the Commandments. Page 13

In all things, he does whatever he does to the glory of God, doing the best he can, for God’s sake. He doesn’t let the distractions of the world—whether luxury items or stressful worries—distract him from God as his main goal, from living in the Kingdom of God. He participates in works of justice and mercy by “feeding the hungry, clothing the poor, visiting those who are sick or in prison…to bring them to a justifying faith that they may have peace with God.” Now how do we develop that kind of character in our everyday life and decision-making? How do we enter into the sanctification process so that we live according to God’s way—Kingdom Living, the Kingdom of God being the central message of Jesus’ teaching. We Christians are to come to repentance, faith, and holiness of heart and life in order to live in the Kingdom of God right here, right now, and into eternity. Character is the theme of one of Pastor Tom’s sermons for this month. The key Scripture is Galatians 5:16-25 whose intention is to warn the Galatian church of the perils of behavior that would exclude them from the goal of the Kingdom of God (pride, arrogance, self-centeredness composing the most powerful tools of the evil one). The opposite behavior which would be exhibited if one were living in the Kingdom of God is “walk(ing) in the Spirit” and producing the “fruit of the Spirit” (love, joy, peace, goodness, self-control, etc.). When Romans 5:1-5, another of the chosen Scriptures for this sermon, is placed next to the Galatian Scripture,we see that we are ushered into the Kingdom through justification by faith (the Holy Spirit bringing us into faith that Jesus is Lord and the Son of the Living God), whereby we “repent,” i.e., turn from our way of living to God’s way of living; Jesus forgives us of our sins;

and we receive peace with God through Jesus Christ. The latter part of the Romans’ Scripture tells us that after we have received that peace, we will know its importance when we have trouble, for it produces a perseverance in us that then produces character which is our pathway to find hope, tangible hope. The daily perseverance— sanctification—is the work of the Spirit. Sanctification, “working out our salvation with fear and trembling” (Philippians 2:12-13) produces character. In the Kingdom People study, offered at Asbury by Rev. Jim Lenderman, one of the main goals is to be intentional with one’s spiritual walk to ensure living within the Kingdom. The results are: Kingdom Living and Christian Assurance. Another way of saying that we live in the Kingdom of God is to say we have salvation. For Wesleyan Methodists, salvation has two parts: justification, as described through repentance, faith, and holiness, and sanctification, which could be described as walking in the Spirit. Justification is what God does for us; sanctification is what God does in us. The latter is Kingdom Living. Christian Assurance is the solid and complete confidence of the pardon of our sins and the security of our place in the Kingdom of God, both now and for eternity, making for Holy Living and Holy Dying.

Here are 10 characteristics of a Kingdom Person:

United with the Trinity having a consistent relationship with God the Father, God the Son, Jesus Christ, and God the Holy Spirit Formed in the Image of Christ learning more about Jesus, giving the Holy Spirit opportunity to transform us more into His image Taught and Led by the Holy Spirit helps us make specific decisions in our daily lives that are not addressed in the Bible Have a Biblical Worldview forming a framework based on the Bible for living and making decisions United to the Connexion (old word for Church) staying connected to Jesus the Vine through the Church where we are nourished and find the strength to fight evil and injustice Strategic Stewards becoming strategic, wise, and intentional about our stewardship of all things under our management Live Simply getting our priorities in proper order to serve God, not money or the world Live out Holiness living out what we say we believe Serve Christ in the Church and the World carrying on the Work of Jesus and the Will of God Produce more Kingdom People carrying out the Great Commandments to glorify God and make disciples (Asbury UMC’s mission)

Decades ago there was a popular phrase of being “sold out for God”—meaning God is the whole of one’s life, not a compartment of it; realizing that no good thing we do or good thought we have comes without the assistance of God’s Spirit; and submitting and surrendering to Jesus completely, in all areas of our lives. That’s godly character.

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AM I MEEK?

“Blessed are the meek, for they will inherit the earth” (Matthew 5:5, NIV). by Kim Beair, MS, LPC, NCC

IaboutDON’T KNOW you, but I could sure get into that promise. This scripture inspires the game of 20 questions in our minds and can end up causing internal conflict if not viewed in the correct context. Have you ever pondered meekness, only to throw up your figurative hands as there is nothing in your personality that mirrors it? Let’s look at the questions surrounding this concept and how we can get to the true meaning of this powerful word in our walks of faith.

What meekness really means is to be quiet internally, listen and wait for God to act or give instruction, and then do what it is He asks of us. This is a far contrast to what most think about this concept. To be honest, most view meekness as weakness in our culture. In our attempts to emulate meekness, we take our God-given personalities and attempt to change them into something they were not made to be. Our behavior is not the issue at all – it is our attitude. As adults, we should hide under our Heavenly Father’s wing, let Him be God, but then listen to what He wants us to do and how and when He wants it done. That does not mean, however, we should live in fear, or not be bold in our attempts to get the job done.

Here come the questions: What does meekness mean? How does that really transmit into our daily lives? Should Christians be doormats? As Christians, should we not be bold? When is it proper to be meek and when it is Godly to be bold, or even have righteous anger? How does our trust or lack thereof (in “WHAT MEEKNESS REALLY MEANS God) translate into IS TO BE QUIET INTERNALLY, LISTEN our trust, or lack of it, in terms of meekness and/or our re- AND WAIT FOR GOD TO ACT OR GIVE lationships? Are you INSTRUCTION, AND THEN DO WHAT tired already and we IT IS HE ASKS OF US.” haven’t even started to examine this fully? Bible scholars who study meekness state that it is not necessarily the ability to be quiet and passive that emulates meekness, but instead, the ability to sit back and submit to God’s authority and wisdom at all times.That said, being passive under God does not mean being quiet and wilting into fear and inaction “For God has not given us a spirit of fear, but of power and of love and of a sound mind” (2nd Timothy, 1:6-7).

Queen Esther, Mary (mother of Jesus) and Mary (sister of Martha and Lazarus) may look meek and mild on the outside, but how does that compare to Moses, King David, Peter and Paul, the bold, outspoken men of faith credited with much of the Judeo-Christian movement of the world? Inside their attitudes, they compare similarly to Esther, Mary and Mary. Though their outward personalities were vastly different, internally, they all waited on God. “Take My yoke upon you and learn from Me, for I am gentle and lowly in heart, and you will find rest for your souls.” (Matthew 11:29 KJV) Page 16

David, Peter and MOSES, Paul had to learn and be instructed on how their God-given

personalities could hinder the work they were called to do. God uses the go-getters to accomplish certain aspects of His work, but they must stay alert to not go overboard with this gift. God knows what He calls the assertive to do, and through patience and instruction, He teaches them to use their personalities with thought and temperance. If the meek will inherit the earth, then they must already have some quality that will allow them to reign over it. That quality allows “THE BEST DEMONSTRATION them to sit back and OF THE CONCEPT OF MEEKNESS take direction from God; otherwise, they COMES FROM JESUS HIMSELF could never be successful as earthly adminisAS HE WAS LEAD TO THE CROSS.” trators. Administrators must stand up to injustice, correct mistakes, make solid plans and see them through. They must be clear and purposeful in their words, thoughts and deeds, but also temperate when communicating those issues to others. Injustice and evil can bring righteous anger and one heck of a God-ordained fight to eradicate it, as demonstrated by Jesus as he drove the moneychangers out of the temple. The best demonstration of the concept of meekness comes from Jesus himself as He was lead to the cross. He did not argue or fight about it, nor did He play the role of the victim with demonstrable fear. He quietly did what God had for Him to do, because that was the culmination of why He came to earth in the first place. Again, He exhibits an attitude of humility and grace in even the worst of circumstances, while never hiding in fear and weakness. Finally, in relationship with others, the attitude Jesus exhibited on the cross “Father, forgive them, for they do not know what they do” (Luke 2:34) teaches that in any circumstance, we can still hold the heart of God up to others and be meek in our relationships – even the negative ones. Today, give your attitude a meekness check and let your personality rest – you might find you are closer to meekness than you thought! Page 17

DAILY PRAYER For the Season of Lent

is the Christian season leading up to Easter Sunday. Traditionally these forty days are a time of Lent repentance and preparing our hearts for the celebration of the Lord’s resurrection. You will notice that the season of Lent does not include Sundays. Each Sunday, known also as the Lord’s Day, is a “little” Easter, and therefore a day of celebration. There is a prayer for Sundays at the beginning of the devotional that reflects the joy of Easter that the season of Lent anticipates.

This Lenten devotional is intended to take you on a journey of transformation. Such a journey can only begin once we honestly reflect on the sin in our lives. Coming to terms with our sin should cause real grief within us. But in that grief we experience God’s grace. Such love in light of our sinful lives instills humility. A truly humble heart will find renewal. Renewal leads to greater intentionality in our daily living. As our lives turn around we find ourselves standing in the light of God’s glory, full of awe, knowing that God loves us so.

“Merciful Lord, by your grace you let us begin again. When we confess our sins to you, everything is made new and you give us a fresh start. We rejoice in new beginnings. Amen.” (Psalm 51)

SUNDAY

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WEEK ONE – SIN/CONFESSION ASH WEDNESDAY – FEBRUARY 17 Almighty God, I confess that you are not primary in my life. Other things take precedent and I struggle to keep you front and center in all I do. I speak of you carelessly and without reverence. And I ignore your call to Sabbath rest. Forgive me. Amen. (Exodus 20) THURSDAY – FEBRUARY 18 Merciful God, I confess that I don’t treat others the way Christ taught us. Too often I am judgmental, envious, prideful, arrogant, rude, and without compassion. Forgive me. Amen. FRIDAY – FEBRUARY 19 Heavenly Father, I confess that there are times I just don’t want to be bothered with the effort it takes to do the right thing. I leave the responsibility of discipleship to someone else. Forgive me. Amen. SATURDAY – FEBRUARY 20 Father, sometimes I find myself doing or saying things that I know are not right. I find myself hurting someone or diminishing myself by my words and actions. Forgive me. Amen. WEEK TWO – CONTRITION MONDAY – FEBRUARY 22 Loving Lord, with the Psalmist I pray that you create in me a clean heart. I know my sin and it grieves me. Teach me the path of righteousness for your sake. Amen. (Psalm 51) TUESDAY – FEBRUARY 23 O God, my heart is full of sorrow. When I think of your goodness and mercy I am ashamed that I do not respond to you with my whole heart. Amen. WEDNESDAY – FEBRUARY 24 Sovereign God, I hate the sin in my life. I am filled with remorse knowing that I do not live according to your ways and I ignore your purpose for my life. Amen. THURSDAY – FEBRUARY 25 Lord, I ask you to help me overcome the temptations of sin and turn in a new direction. Amen.

TUESDAY – MARCH 2 Holy Lord, it overwhelms me to know that your love is unconditional. I barely know what that means because everything in my life is conditional. It is amazing to know that no matter what I do, you have the capacity to love me through anything. Amen. WEDNESDAY – MARCH 3 Lord God, I am overcome by the knowledge that your love never ends. The world is changing so fast and nothing seems to stay the same. Yet your love endures forever. It is more than I can comprehend. Amen. THURSDAY – MARCH 4 Everlasting Lord, your grace is such a blessing in my life. I hunger to be fully known and fully loved, even while I am incapable of loving so perfectly myself. The gift of your grace fills me in the way nothing else can. Amen. FRIDAY – MARCH 5 Faithful God, to be loved is such a deeply rooted need, and yet I am incapable of knowing what love is without first experiencing your love. Teach me how to love as you love. Amen. SATURDAY – MARCH 6 Gracious One, your grace knows no ends. Let my life be a channel of your grace. Let it pour through me so that others will know the depth of your love. Amen. WEEK FOUR - HUMILITY MONDAY – MARCH 8 Amazing Lord, the culture around me encourages me to have a sense of self importance. Humility is rare and sometimes even mocked. But your call to discipleship asks me to follow with a servant heart. Help me to turn toward the desires of your heart. Amen. TUESDAY – MARCH 9 God of Righteousness, sometimes my pride gets in the way of the things I do. I want others to think highly of me so I can think more highly of myself. Help me to understand that pride is an empty achievement. Amen.

FRIDAY – FEBRUARY 26 Merciful God, restore my life and lead me in the path that leads to joy. Give me a willingness to change and to submit my life to you. Amen.

WEDNESDAY – MARCH 10 Sovereign God, sometimes it is not pride but arrogance that creeps into my life. I don’t care about those around me except for the moments when they can serve my causes and inflate my ego. Help me to see the damage that arrogance causes. Amen.

SATURDAY – FEBRUARY 27 O God, search me and know my heart; see if there is any offensive way in me and lead me in the way everlasting. Amen. (Psalm 139:23-24.)

THURSDAY – MARCH 11 Father, help me to realize that your love for me is what makes me significant. Without you I am nothing. With you I am your child. Amen.

WEEK THREE - GRACE MONDAY – MARCH 1 Merciful Father, your grace pours over my life and I am overwhelmed by such love. Your mercies are new every day. My cup overflows. Amen. (Psalm 23)

FRIDAY – MARCH 12 Holy Lord, Creator of the Universe, you sent your Son to live among us and in a demonstration of his love, he washed his disciples feet. In doing so he gave us the meaning of humility. Humble my heart, Lord, and show me how to let go of my pride. Amen.

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SATURDAY – MARCH 13 God of Salvation, teach me how to grow a servant heart. Grow a spirit of humility within me, understanding that humility comes before honor. Amen. (Proverbs 18:12) WEEK FIVE - RENEWAL MONDAY – MARCH 15 Merciful Lord, by your grace you let us begin again. When we confess our sins to you, everything is made new and you give us a fresh start. We rejoice in new beginnings. Amen. (Psalm 51) Tuesday – March 16 Heavenly Father, restore me to your righteousness and lead me in the way everlasting. Let me know the joy of your salvation. Amen. Wednesday – March 17 Renovate my heart, O Lord. Clear out the things that don’t belong and begin to build in me a life of prayer and devotion to you. Amen. THURSDAY – MARCH 18 Almighty God, regenerate your passion within me and give me an unquenchable hunger and thirst for You. Amen. FRIDAY – MARCH 19 Renew your Holy Spirit within me, Lord, and move me to the place where I am alive in your love. I want to know the abundant life you promise. Amen. SATURDAY – MARCH 20 Your mercies are new every day. Refresh my soul so that I can walk in newness of life with you. Amen. WEEK SIX - INTENTION MONDAY – MARCH 22 Lord, as a covenant people, we are quick to hear your promises, but we often ignore our responsibilities as a covenant people. I want to be a person who, every day, says to you, “Here I am. I am Yours, O Lord. Use me.” Amen. TUESDAY – MARCH 23 Almighty Father, infuse me with a spirit of determination, to live as you have called me to live. Help me to walk in your ways at all times. Amen. WEDNESDAY – MARCH 24 O God, from this day on I want to be a person who seeks to move forward, a person who is growing daily in faith, in wisdom, and in compassion. I want to be a person who is being transformed day by day into the likeness of your son Jesus Christ. Amen. THURSDAY – MARCH 25 Sustainer God, help me to persevere in all circumstances. Grow in me a faith that is firm in the face of hurt, grief, sadness, loneliness, confusion, pain, and suffering. Keep me from giving up when life gets hard. Amen.

FRIDAY – MARCH 26 Lord, I know my desire to grow is dependent on my willingness to spend quality time with you on a daily basis. I commit myself to daily prayer, daily study of your Word, and daily service in the building of your Kingdom. Let me be relentless in my commitment. Amen. SATURDAY – MARCH 27 Holy God, I want to be a faithful disciple of Jesus Christ. Teach me, that I may know the full meaning of faithfulness. Amen. HOLY WEEK - AWE MONDAY – MARCH 29 Holy Creator, when I look at the wonders of your creation I am speechless. From the stars that fill the night sky, to the mountains, to the flowing streams, to the animals that run the earth, to the breath of air that fills our lungs and gives us life, I know that your knowledge is too great for me. Yet, in the midst of all of your creation, you care for me. I can only give thanks in return. Amen. TUESDAY – MARCH 30 For the miracle of life with you, O Lord, I give thanks. Who are you that you are mindful of mankind? Yet you show me that you are, indeed, mindful of me. What blessing! Amen. WEDNESDAY – MARCH 31 Holy One, your compassion for those who have nothing, for those who are oppressed, for those without family, and for those who suffer moves me and stirs within me a compassion for them as well. I am astounded by the depth of your mercy. Amen. THURSDAY – APRIL 1 Father, your grace flows before you. To experience your unconditional love is overwhelming. It touches my deepest need, yet it confounds me. It heals me, transforms me, and gives me new life. I am filled with wonder. Amen. FRIDAY – APRIL 2 Gracious Lord, giving thanks to you for the gift of your son Jesus Christ seems so inadequate. He taught me how to love others, he died so that I can live abundantly, and he returned to show me that life with you doesn’t end. How, O Lord, can I adequately give thanks? Amen. SATURDAY – APRIL 3 Great Three in One, I am ever in awe of you. By your Holy Spirit you come to dwell within me, to be present with me, and to comfort and guide me. I praise you, O Lord, for your grace, your mercy, your wisdom, your providence, and your mindfulness of me. Amen.

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asbury

opportunities GENERAL INFORMATION

ENGAGED COUPLES If you are planning to use an Asbury pastor to officiate and/or use Asbury’s facilities, be sure to book ASAP to allow ample time for Couple-to-Couple (required premarital sessions). Six months to one year lead time suggested.

THE GAZEBO IS OPEN CDs of Tom’s message of the day are available immediately following the worship service - $3. Prayer Journals BREAKFAST Served from 7:15-9:00 am. in the CLC. are also available for $5 each. Come enjoy fellowship with Asburians along with fresh donuts, bagels, biscuits & gravy, sausage, eggs, RECYCLING fruit, and cereal. $3 for adults & $1 for children 12 Recycle unwanted paper products. Three bins are avail& under. able, located in the south and east parking lots. SUNDAY MORNING WORSHIP 8:00 am Mason Chapel (Traditional Communion) 9:15 am Sanctuary (Contemporary) 9:15 am CLC (Open House Worship) (Acoustic Worship, Casual Setting) 11:00 am Sanctuary (Traditional) 11:00 am Venue 68 (Modern with sign interpreter) SUNDAY EVENING WORSHIP 6:30 pm Venue 68 (Modern)

ASBURY FAMILY NEWS is available at the Welcome Centers. It includes births, deaths, marriages, baptisms and military listings. DOORS OF ASBURY POSTERS are at the Welcome Centers...FREE! Suitable for framing. NEW ADDITIONS TO THE LIBRARY The Asbury Library is a wonderful resource. Thank you to all who continue to contribute books to our Library.

SUNDAYS FOR CHILDREN AND STUDENTS 6 Weeks - 4 Years 8:00, 9:15, and 11:00 am K-6th Grades 9:15 or 11:00 am 7th, 8th & 9th Grades 9:15 & 11:00 am 10th, 11th & 12th Grades 9:15 am only

MARK BENNETT’S NEW CD Mark’s new CD, “Healing Songs (for Elliot)” is available Sunday mornings in the gazebo and around town at Tulsa-area Kaffe Bona locations. All proceeds benefit The Little Light House school.

ADULT DISCIPLESHIP COMMUNITIES Sunday at 8:00, 9:15, & 11:00 am, Carpenter’s Workshop on Wednesdays at 6:00 pm and Shepherd’s Flock on Tuesdays at 6:00pm. NEW, Salt & Light at 11:00 Sunday mornings in room 2820 for singles ages 30s-40s, and A Gathering for couples in their 20s on Sunday evenings at 5 pm in room 2821. If you are a motorcycle enthusiast, try our new Circuit Riders, who meet in front of the statue on the west parking lot each Sunday at 2 p.m. for a ride before fellowship time.

Friends in Christ Community Sundays, 11:00 am, Rm. 1507

SURGERY OR HOSPITALIZATION SCHEDULED? Be sure to let Asbury know ahead of time by calling Pam at 392-1199, x253 so your pastors can be in prayer for you. When you enter the hospital, please designate Asbury as your church. The after-hours pastoral emergency line can be reached by calling 492-1771, selecting option 6, and leaving a message for the pastor on call.

GRIEFSHARE Thursdays, January 7–April 1, 1:00-2:30 pm, Room 2314. GriefShare is a special weekly video series and support group for people who are grieving the death of someone close to them. It’s a safe place to be around people who understand what you are feeling. At GriefShare, you’ll learn valuable information about recovering from your grief and renewing your hope for the future. Group sessions are offered three times per year. You may begin attending this group at any time...each video session is “self-contained.” Cost: $13 for workbook. Call 392-1191 to register.

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ACCESS

Hands of Love Sign Choir Sundays, 6:00-7:00 pm, Rm. 2821

BIBLE STUDY

ROADMAP Check out the Winter 2010 RoadMap courses in the new brochure and on the Asbury website at www.asburytulsa.org. Accept Pastor Tom’s challenge to get actively involved in digging deeper into God’s Word ~ there is something for everyone!

CARE AND SUPPORT

AMERICAN RED CROSS BLOOD DRIVE Sunday, February 28, 8am – 1pm, in the gym. Call 1-800-GIVELIFE to schedule your appointment. VISITS TO ASBURY MEMBERS Asbury has a unique group of volunteers (Asbury Connection) who regularly visit people who are either homebound or in nursing homes. If you are interested in being visited, call Adrena at 392-1144, or contact the coordinator, Abby Sluice at 392-4583 or asluice@ asburytulsa.org. RÉSUMÉ ASSISTANCE AND REVIEW Do you have an effective résumé? An extra set of eyes can make a difference. E-mail your résumé to employ. transitions@yahoo.com. OJT (OVERCOMING JOB TRANSITIONS) Are you on a job hunt? Would you like to bless someone who is? Asbury offers this hands-on workshop helping with resumes, networking, interviewing and other help as well as prayer and support. Send us candidates! Tell us about jobs you know about! Come be a part and lend us your network! Meets the third Tuesday of each month, 6:30 pm - 9:00 pm, Family Room. Questions? Contact Russ Knight at ddknight1@cox. net or call Ruth at 392-1146.

EATING DISORDER RECOVERY First and third Wednesdays, 12:00-1:30 pm, Room 1621 - For individuals seeking support in the recovery process. Bring sack lunch. GRANDPARENTS RAISING GRANDCHILDREN First and third Tuesdays, 6:30-8:30 pm, Rm 1506. MENTAL HEALTH SUPPORT FOR FAMILIES For family members or caregivers of people affected by a mental illness. 4th Thursdays from 1:30 - 3:00 pm in Rm 1507. MILITARY CONNECTION Please join us in pra ying for our troops in harm’s way and their families. Periodic care packages and monthly encouragement cards with God’s Word are sent to Asbury-related military personnel. The Prayer Ministry also covers them in prayer. Please send contact information (complete name and address) to Gwen Mohler at grmohler@aol.com or call Ruth at 392-1146. ASBURY BEAR BAGS Asbury Bear Bags with coloring books have comforted young children for many years, but now you may give a Bear Bag with a scripture-based journal included instead! Great for teens and adults. Anyone may deliver an Asbury Bear to someone who is grieving. For more information, contact Beth at beth.bears@yahoo.com.

PRAYER CARD SENDING TEAM Usually meets first and third Mondays at 10:00 am in Room 1621 to send cards with God’s encouraging words and our prayers to those who are ill or going through hard times. Cards and care packages are also sent to Asbury-related military personnel. Contact Gwen Mohler at GRMOHLER@aol.com for more information, or call Ruth at 392-1146.

CHILDREN

ASPERGER SUPPORT GROUP FirstThursday from 7:00-9:00 pm in Rm 1506.For mothers of children withAsperger Syndrome.Childcare available.

Sun Mon & Tue Tue, Wed, & Thur

ALZHEIMER’S SUPPORT GROUP Third Thursday, from 1:30-3:00 pm in Rm 1621. Christian hope, support and education for friends and family of those with Alzheimer’s or other dementia. CANCER SUPPORT GROUP Second Sunday of each month, 4:00-6:00 pm, Parlor - Reflections on the 23rd Psalm & sharing for people with cancer and their families. DIVORCE RECOVERY Tuesdays, 7:00-8:30 pm, Rm 1335 - For those suffering from the early, highly emotional stages of divorce and separation trauma. Childcare available. DIVORCE REBUILDING Thursdays, 7:00-8:30 pm, Rm 1335 - For those ready to rebuild their lives after separation or divorce. Childcare available.

Registration forms for all children’s activities are available in the preschool and elementary lobbies. CORE CHILDCARE HOURS Parents who are involved in RoadMap classes during these core hours will have childcare provided for children 6 weeks - 12 years of age with no reservations needed: 8:00 am - 12:00 pm 9:00 am - 12:00 pm 6:00 pm - 9:00 pm

WEDNESDAY NIGHT LIVE (Kindergarten – 4thGrade) Wednesdays, January 13th – April 28th- 7:00 pm – 8:00 pm. Beginning in their choir room and pick up in Chapel. Join us on Wednesday nights for worship in the Chapel—Kid Style. We will combine music, high energy, verse memory and a Bible lesson in a setting that encourages kids to learn about worship. Our lessons will tie right into what we are doing on Sunday mornings. Can’t wait to see you there! If you were registered for the fall semester, you will not need to complete a new form. Otherwise, you may pick up a registration form in the Children’s Ministry area. For more information contact the age appropriate staff member: Kindergarten-Cathy at 3921170, 1st & 2nd grade-Amber at 392-1171, or 3rd – 4th grade-Jennifer at 392-4582. Page 22

5TH AND 6TH GRADE FAMILY RETREAT Friday, March 5th at 7pm to Saturday, March 6th 5pm departure, cost $80/family of 2, Heart O’ Hills Camp, Tahlequah. We are so excited about our first 5.6 family camp! This event will be for a 5th or 6th grade boy or girl and one parent. You will need to arrive at Heart O’ Hills camp (about 1 ½ hours from Tulsa) no later than 7pm Friday night for dinner. There will be separate indoor male and female cabins. Saturday, we’ll have lots of family time activities planned including sports, crafts and nature walks along with breakfast, lunch and worship in the awesome outdoor chapel. Please pick up a registration form for more details about this great event. There are a limited number of beds, so be sure to register soon! The registration deadline is Monday, February 1st. For more information you may contact Amber Cox at 392-1171 or acox@asburytulsa.org 5TH & 6TH GRADE BIBLE STUDY Wednesdays, January 13th – April 28th- 7:00 pm – 8:00 pm, 5.6 Room & Gym, Cost $7 for workbook. On Wednesday nights our 5th & 6th graders will be studying “Step Out – The Courage to Do What’s Right”. Students today need to have the courage to live in the world as God wants them to live.This study brings students the stories in the Bible that will help them develop that courage. The stories will show the students the scope of the Bible, practical application of the Bible verses they learn, and how to have the courage to live for Jesus. Your early registration helps us have the correct number of study books. If you have any additional questions, please contact Whitney Carruthers at 392-1166 or wcarruthers@asburytulsa.org.

SO YOU WANT TO BE A SMALL GROUP LEADER? Have a 6th grader and thinking about getting involve when they move up to student ministry? Are you interested in leading a 7th-12th grade small group? Don’t miss this informational meeting to find out if small group leading is right for you! February 28, lunch will be served 12:15-2! All welcome, please RSVP to mbaker@asburtulsa.org

DISCIPLESHIP

DISCIPLESHIP COMMUNITIES If you have not yet found an Adult Discipleship Community check out “Get Involved” on our website, www.asburytulsa.org or pick up a brochure at one of our Welcome Centers.

ENDOWMENTS

Leave a legacy that continues to give forever to a ministry you want to support. There are endowments that support many areas of Asbury’s outreach including children, youth, music, missions, and training of pastors as well as a General endowment. You can easily impact a ministry thru your will or a current gift. Contact Dwight Yoder at 392-1113 or dyoder@asburytulsa.org.

MARRIAGE & FAMILY

DYNAMIC MARRIAGE Give us 9 weeks…we’ll give you a dynamic marriage! This is an interactive class that will help you replace old habits with new ones in a unique, safe environment. Go from good to great, mediocre to magnificent or hurt to healed. Cost: $130/couple (many materials included, scholarships available) $50 holds your spot. To register, contact Jackie or Ron at 251-6665 or asburydynamicmarriage@windstream.net. Limited to first 12 paid couples in each class. Classes start on Tuesday, February 16, 6:30-9:00 pm OR Wednesday, February 17, 6:00-8:30 pm, Rm 2201. Childcare available.

EASTER CELEBRATION & EGG HUNT Friday, March 26th – 6:30 – 8:30. You and your family are invited to join us for our own Easterville; an Easter Journey. You may pre-order dinner for your family and then take a self-guided tour of our own Easterville which includes Jesus’ last days, crafts, inflatables, 8 DATES WITH YOUR MATE 2nd Tuesday of each month, February 9 – September and an egg hunt. 14, 6:15 – 7:00 pm, Room 1502. No cost. Gather to Pre-purchased spaghetti dinner will be served from hear a variety of topics led by various speakers (30 6:15pm to 7:15pm in the CLC. Cost will be $6/adult minutes), then have dinner out. Childcare available. and $3/child. Tickets must be purchased before Sun- NEW TOPICS/SPEAKERS! day March 21st to enjoy dinner with us. However if you aren’t having dinner you may still join us for the ATTENTION ENGAGED COUPLES If you are planning to use anAsbury pastor to officiate and/ rest of the free activities. or use Asbury’s facilities, be sure to book ASAP to allow Please bring bags of individually wrapped candy to the ample time for Couple-to-Couple (required premarital children’s ministry entrances the months of January sessions). Six months to one year lead time is suggested. and February. MILESTONE WEDDING ANNIVERSARIES For more information please contact Kim Broadhurst Email your upcoming Milestone Anniversary (5,10,15,20, etc.) to Carolyn Schutte at brucars@cox. at 392-1165 or kbroadhurst@asburytulsa.org net or call Ruth at 392-1146.

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MEMBERSHIP

ASBURY EXPLORATION Come to a lunch/class to learn more about becoming a member of Asbury. Sunday, February 7, from 12:15-2:00 pm in Community Life Center. Lunch provided and childcare is available for children six weeks through 6th grade. Call 392-1191 to register.

MEN

MEN’S PRAYER BREAKFAST Wednesdays, 6:30-7:30 am in the CLC. Attention men of Asbury. Make plans to join us for a great time of meaningful worship, life-changing prayer and an awesome big breakfast, all for just $3 per person. First-time guests are free. February 3 Don Herrold February 10 Todd Johnson February 17 Bill Johnson February 24 Mark Springer MEN’S OPEN BASKETBALL Fridays, 11:30 am – 1:15 pm, Gym. Men! Make plans to join other Asbury guys and their friends each week as we get together for a little “round ball” and lots of fun! Come show us what you’ve got, and we’ll have a great time of exercise and fellowship. Invite your friends, and we’ll see you on the court!

just $5 per person, or $20 maximum per family. You may pre-purchase tickets on Sunday, February 7 or February 14, from 8:30 a.m. to 12:30 p.m. at the south entrance, or the day of the event at the door. However, pre-purchasing is appreciated to help with planning! All proceeds benefit the Boy Scouting Mission at Asbury. ANNUAL MEN’S RETREAT Friday & Saturday, March 5 & 6, Sky Ranch in Quapaw, OK. $40 registration fee. “O BROTHER, WHERE ART THOU?”Asbury Men’s Annual Retreat. In addition to our signature Friday Night BBQ Pig Out, we’ll have great speakers and powerful times of worship, and “Bro-Groups” (small groups)! PLUS, we’ll have lots of free time to enjoy the special offerings at Sky Ranch (at minimal additional costs for some), including PAINTBALL, SKEET SHOOTING, ZIP LINE, basketball, hiking, etc.! Registration forms will be mailed to your home, and are available at all welcome centers. If you’re 20 years of age or older, plan to be a part of this life-changing experience!

MISSIONS

MISSIONS MATTERS A monthly newsletter is available with recent news of mission happenings. If you would like to receive the newsletter, please contact Missy Sistrunk at 392-1163 or msistrunk@asburytulsa.org.

MATURE MEN’S MINISTRY R.O.M.E.O. LUNCHEON Are you a “Retired Old Man” who wants to “Eat Out?” If so, then these luncheons are for you! Two groups of men are meeting every Thursday or every 2nd & 4th Friday at 11:15 a.m., for good food and great fellowship. Both groups meet at Luby’s Cafeteria (71st and Riverside), and are open to anyone 60 years and up. Choose a day and join us this week! For more information, contact Bud at bdmathes@cox.net (Thursdays), or Jim at rober@cox.net (Fridays.)

GLOBAL OUTREACH PRAYER MINISTRY News and prayer requests from our missionaries and ministries are sent each week to our prayer ministry list. If you would like to become a prayer intercessor for those serving around the world, contact Missy Sistrunk at 392-1163.

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Campbell’s soup labels & Swanson labels-benefit Cookson Hills in Oklahoma

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Small soaps and shampoo-benefit medical missions and Circle of Care

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Old eyeglasses-for adults or children-benefit medical missions

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Old cell phones-benefit Little Light House

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Old home printer cartridges-benefit Walt Whitman Elementary School

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Hearing Aids-collected by Deaf Perceptions Community

BOY SCOUT SPAGHETTI LUNCHEON SOCIAL Sunday, February 21, 11:00 a.m. – 2:00 p.m. Enjoy a generous serving of spaghetti, bread, salad, and dessert with your family and friends! The Asbury Boy Scouts, sponsored by the UMM Ministry, invite you to their 5th Annual “Spaghetti Luncheon Social”! The cost is

ONGOING RECYCLING EFFORTS • Campbell’s soup labels & Box Tops-benefit Red Bird Mission in Kentucky.

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Operation Hope collects the following receipts: Drysdales, McDonald’s, QuikTrip, Wal-Mart, Sanders Nursery and Yale Cleaners just to name a few. For a more detailed list there is Community Club Awards booklet in each Community room. Receipts can be dropped off in the Mission Office.

June 24-July 5 Estonia, Camp Gideon, Youth Camp & Construction

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Newspapers, copy paper, catalogues, etc.- collected in the recycle bins in the Asbury parking lot-benefit Asbury.

September or October Central Asia, Construction & Teaching

July 22-August 1 Estonia, Parnu, MBS & Light Construction September Tanzania, East Africa, Construction

Fall Cookson Hills, Oklahoma, Light Construction All donations can be dropped off in the Mission Office, unless otherwise noted. October 9-16 Monterrey, Mexico, MBS & Construction

MISSIONS/VIM

SUPER CARE SUNDAY FEBRUARY 7 Asbury will hold a food drive to benefit Restore Hope Ministries on Sunday, February 7 from 8 am – 2 pm. Everyone is encouraged to donate food products. The most needed items are canned vegetables, canned soup, peanut butter, canned meat, canned fish, canned fruit, and pasta products. Also, are you a “hands on” servant of Christ? We need volunteers on this day to assist our members unloading food from their cars, packing loose cans in boxes, loading boxes on the truck, and assisting members who go to Sam’s to purchase food. There will be various shifts to choose from. Please call or email Joan Kahl at 392-1176 or jkahl@asburytulsa.org. HURRICANE IKE RECOVERY TEAM The next Hurricane Ike Recovery Team is Sunday, February 21- Saturday, February 27, 2010. The team leaders are Steve Zenthoefer and Mike Mastraccio. This VOLUNTEERS IN MISSION 2010 OPPORTUNITIES February 21-27 Galveston, Texas, Hurricane Ike Recovery March 13-20 Monterrey, Mexico, MBS & Construction w/Faith UMC March or April Monterrey, Mexico, Business Mission Spring Cookson Hills, Oklahoma, Light Construction April 22-May 1 Central Asia, Relationship, Teaching & Light Construction May 20-31 Central Asia, College Students May 29-June 5 Ecuador, MBS & Construction June 3-14 Estonia, Lighthouse June 17-28 Tanzania, East Africa, Medical

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November 3-7 Monterrey, Mexico, Medical VIM Leader Training: February 27 - Oklahoma City, September 18 - Oklahoma City,October 23 – Oklahoma City. Contact Marilene Long at 392-1164 or mlong@asburytulsa.org if you are interested in serving on any of these teams or being part of the VIM Leader Training.

MUSIC

Chancel Choir Wednesdays, 7:00 pm, Choir Room New Covenant Orchestra Wednesdays, 6:00-7:30 pm, Rm 1510 Children’s Choirs Wednesdays, 6:00-6:50 pm, various rooms Asbury Power & Light Sundays, 8:15-9:15 am, Rm 1510 Celebration Ringers Tuesdays, 4:30-5:30 pm, Rm 2506 Youth Orchestra Wednesdays, 5:30pm, Rm 1506 Asbury Ringers Wednesdays, 6:00-6:50 pm, Rm 2506 Perpetual Light Thursdays, 10:30 to Noon, Rm 2506 Saints of Swing Dixieland Band Thursdays, 7-9 pm, Rm 1510 Asbury Singing Ambassadors Tuesdays, 1:30 – 3:00, Choir room

PRAYER

ALTAR PRAYER If you would like someone to pray with you during Holy Communion or immediately following a worship service, please come to the altar rail. A pastor or member of the Altar Prayer Team will be glad to pray with you for your needs – physical, emotional or spiritual - at the altar or in the Prayer Room. PRAYER ROOM RESERVATIONS The leadership of Asbury’s prayer ministry would like to remind you that the main facility Prayer Room is open not only to individuals desiring to pray in a quiet, meditative atmosphere, but also to prayer groups within communities and ministries. Just give Debbie in the Adult Ministries office a call at 392-1177 to reserve the Prayer Room for your group on a weekly or monthly basis. PRAYER ROOM DAYS & TIMES Our prayer rooms are accessible to you at these times: Mason Chapel & Venue 68 Sundays from 7:00 am - 12:30 pm through the interior doors. Main Facility, Mason Chapel, & Venue 68 Monday - Friday 8:00 am - 9:00 pm Saturday 10:00 am - 3:00 pm Sunday 12:30 pm - 9:00 pm To obtain pass codes, call Debbie in the Adult Ministries office at 392-1177. PRAYER SERVICE FOR THOSE IN NEED OF SALVATION Wednesday, February 24, 6 – 6:30 pm, Mason Chapel. Are there people in your life who need the salvation of Jesus? Then make it a point to attend this service, focusing our prayers for those without Christ in their lives. “For God so loved the world that He gave His only begotten Son, that whosoever believeth in Him should not perish, but have everlasting life.” John 3:16 WORKSHOP ON PRAYER Saturday, February 27 – 10:00 a.m. – 3:00 p.m. – Room 1300. The Bible teaches that prayer is a vital part of our Christian life. Why then are so many believers today confused about it? Examine the basic truths about prayer through some Old and New Testament examples, in a workshop led by Nancy Staab. The cost is $8 per person, which includes a catered lunch and study materials. Register by calling 392-1191 by Wednesday, February 24. YOUTH ON MISSION PRAYER VIGIL SIGN-UP This is a prayer opportunity you won’t want to miss! Commit to an hour of prayer in the Venue 68 Prayer Room, on behalf of our Youth on Mission, March 1320. Sign up for a time slot on Sunday, February 21 or 28, in the CLC Gallery. Or, you may sign up in the

foyer of Venue 68 on Sunday, March 7. Be a part of a prayer effort to support our youth and sponsors as they serve in mission fields on U.S. soil and beyond. “Then you will call upon me and come pray to me, and I will listen to you.” Jeremiah 29:12 PRAYER SERVICE FOR HEALING Wednesday, March 24, 6-6:30 pm, Mason Chapel. “Is any one of you in trouble? He should pray. Is anyone of you sick? He should call the elders of the church to pray over him and anoint him with oil in the name of the Lord. And the prayer offered in faith will make the sick person well; The Lord will raise him up. If he has sinned, he will be forgiven.” James 5:13-15

RECOVERY

CELEBRATE RECOVERY Come join this supportive group of people each Monday night at 6:00 pm. Dinner at 6:00 pm;Worship from 7:00-8:00 pm; Small Groups from 8:00-9:00 pm; Dessert from 9:00-9:30 pm. Hiding any hurts, habits or hangups? God never intended for you to live in bondage.

SENIOR ADULTS

VISITS TO ASBURY MEMBERS Asbury has a unique group of volunteers (Asbury Connection) who regularly visit people who are either homebound or in nursing homes. If you are interested in being visited, call Adrena at 392-1144, or contact the coordinator, Abby Sluice at ozyanks2000@yahoo.com SENIOR SIT AND FIT STRETCHING CLASS Mondays, Wednesdays and Fridays from 9:00-9:30 am in the Gym. All senior adults are invited to join us for a time of stretching, coupled with lots of fun and fellowship. No high impact workout here.We take it nice and easy. Come give it a try. SENIOR WALK IN THE GYM WITH HIM Mondays, Wednesdays and Fridays from 8:30-9:00 am in the gym. All senior adults are invited to join us for power walking, coupled with lots of fun and fellowship. Come give it a try. SENIOR GAME TIME Every third Thursday – 1:00 – 4:00 p.m. Attention Asbury Senior Adults! How would you like to get together on a regular basis with a wonderful bunch of folks and play a few rounds of cards, dominoes, or whatever board or card game you chose? You KNOW you’d love it! If you’re a senior adult age 55 and up, come check it out in Room 2820. Bring a friend and stay for as long as you like! This fun group will meet every third Thursday, so mark your calendars! SENIOR ADULT MEAL & MOVIE Attention all senior adults of Asbury! If you’re 55 years of age or over, our monthly meal and movie day event may be just the “ticket” for you! We get Page 26

together at a different Tulsa restaurant each month, and then head off to see a “first run” movie. The dates and times vary according to the movie selected, but those who express an interest will be contacted a few days ahead of time so they can make plans accordingly. For more information or to sign up for the call list, contact Sally Wood, sally-wood@sbcglobal.net.

us for worship, fun and games, interactive talk/lesson, and sometimes free candy and gift cards.

789 SMALL GROUPS Small Groups have begun! Being a part of a small group is awesome. It’s a great place to grow your relationship with Jesus, have fun hanging out with guys/girls your own age. A Small Group is made up of same gender FEBRUARY TWEENAGERS PROGRAM & LUNCH and the same grade PLUS two incredible adults that Everyone aged 55 and up is welcome to join us for want to hang out with you. 7th and 8th Grade Small our monthly Tweenagers meeting & luncheon, tak- Groups all meet in the Student Ministries Area this ing place on Thursday, February 25, from 10:30 a.m. year. 9th Grade groups are meeting in homes. Yes you to 1:00 p.m., in the CLC. Our program will be pre- can be in a 7th grade small group and not be a part of sented by Bill & Kathryn Metsker & friends, on their 2009 “Journeys of the Apostle Paul” trip. A Confirmation! If you haven’t signed up yet, you can do “gospel music sing’ will also take place, led by Pas- that on Sunday mornings or just come to the church tor David Thomas! You don’t want to miss this on Sunday nights, 7th grade 4:30-6:00; 8th Grade 5:00program, and don’t forget to invite your friends! 6:30; 9th grade times vary depending on the small group. For more information contact Mark or Marsha. Call the main office at 492-1771 to make your reservations BY NOON, Monday, February 22. If, during SO YOU WANT TO BE A SMALL GROUP LEADER? that week, you find you need to cancel, please also let Are you interested in leading a student small group, us know as we need to give an accurate count to the don’t miss this informational meeting. February 28, cooks. Should you choose, you may make a donation lunch will be served 12:15-2! All welcome, please for the meal when you check in that morning. Come RSVP to mbaker@asburtulsa.org join us for fun and fellowship! 789 SMALL GROUP LEADER TRAINING SINGLES If you are a 789 Small Group Leader, don’t miss this DIVORCE RECOVERY mandatory training (lunch will be served) on January 31 Tuesdays, 7:00-8:30 pm, Rm 1335 - For those suffering after church until 2pm, meet in the Venue! from the early, highly emotional stages of divorce and separation trauma. Childcare available. NO 789 SMALL GROUPS FEBRUARY 7! DIVORCE REBUILDING 789 SPRING BREAK MISSION FINAL PAYMENT Thursdays, 7:00-8:30 pm, Rm 1335 - For those ready Be sure all your money is paid for Spring Break to rebuild their lives after separation or divorce. Missions by February 14! Childcare available. SBM KENTUCKY MANDATORY TRAINING AND SINGLES SPRING LUNCHEON PARENT MEETING Sunday, March 28, 12:15-1:30 pm, CLC. Come be a If you are going on the 8th grade Kentucky Spring part of this luncheon designed for singles of all ages, Break Mission trip, you must attend the mandatory with plenty of good food and great fellowship! The training February 21, in the Venue from 3-6pm. Parcatered luncheon will consist of a delicious entrée and ents don’t miss your mandatory meeting from 4:30 salad, with homemade bread and dessert. The cost is – 6pm (no 8th grade small groups.) just $5 for adults and children 10 and under eat FREE! SBM HOUSTON MANDATORY TRAINING AND STUDENTS PARENT MEETING LIFE HURTS GOD HEALS & 789BIBLE STUDY If you are going on the 7th grade Houston Spring Break Life is crazy hard and everyone needs a safe place Mission trip, you must attend the mandatory meeting to get real and deal with it! That is exactly what Life for students and parents on February 21 from 4:30Hurts God Heals is all about. Every Wednesday night 6pm! (no 7th grade small groups.) 6-8:15pm in the Venue, 7th-12th grade, welcome anytime contact Marsha for details 392-1157. Or come PARENTING SEMINAR – THE COMPLEX learn about God in 789 Bible Study every Wednesday BLENDED FAMILY 6:30-8pm! February 28 – how do you balance step, ex and half’s in the family? Come e encouraged on how to sup789GRADE BREAKAWAY port your kids and stay sane th rough these transiSunday mornings, 9:15-10:30 am in the Breakaway tions. Sunday, February 28, 9:15 - 10:30 am or 11 am Area.This isn’t your normal Sunday school. Come join - 12:15 pm. RSVP by email mbaker@asburytulsa.org. Page 27

101112 BREAKAWAY Every Wednesday night we come together for a time of connection and worship. Our desire is to explore who God really is and how our lives matter to Him. We get started around 6:30 pm and wrap up around 8:30ish. Plan on hanging out afterwards for pizza. 101112 GRADE SMALL GROUPS Get Connected – Are you looking for a way to get more connected? Are you looking for a place to grow in your walk with Jesus? Then being a part of a small group is where you need to be. If you are already in a small group, don’t forget to re-sign up for your group. Our small groups meet every Sunday night, times vary. Some of the groups meet in homes and others meet at the church. Call Todd @ 392-1154 or Amy @ 3921156 to get more info. Small groups will not meet on February 21, March 7, 14, 21, or April 4 7TH-12TH GRADE METRO WORSHIP @ VENUE 68 Come join youth from all over the city in a night to just worship Jesus. We meet the first Wednesday night of every month from 7 – 8:30ish. MANDATORY SPRING BREAK MISSIONS TRAINING – GUATEMALA Spring Break Missions Training for Students and leaders – Guatemala; February 20, 2-8 pm, bring $3 for dinner. MANDATORY SPRING BREAK MISSIONS PARENT MEETING– GUATEMALA Spring Break Missions Parent Meeting – Guatemala; February 20, 2pm,Venue 68. Medical paperwork is due at this meeting.

through until 2:00 p.m. We have a wonderful time together, and would love to have you join us! For more information, contact Betty Seetin, and stop by some Monday and check us out! UMW FEBRUARY LUNCHEON & PROGRAM Thursday February 4, 11:30 am – 1:00 pm, CLC.Attention ladies! The program planned for February’s luncheon will be presented by Heather Chabino, entitled “The Gift of Love”. A delicious luncheon prepared by our church hostesses,Virginia & Susan,will also be served for just $7 per person. No reservations are necessary. Our scripture emphasis for this month comes from John 3:16: “For God so loved the world that he gave his one and only Son, that whoever believes in him shall not perish but have eternal life.” COMMON GROUNDS: ENCOURAGEMENT & INSPIRATION FOR WOMEN First Thursday of the month, February thru November 2010, Family Room & Café, 6:30 p.m. Women of all ages are invited to join us for this once-a-month gathering, where you will receive encouragement, hope and friendship, as well as opportunities to grow spiritually. Our first get-together will take place on Thursday, February 4, where we will begin the evening with coffee or tea, and dessert. Childcare for children six weeks through sixth grade will be provided, by emailing Cathy at cambrose@hotmail.com., no later than Sunday, January 31. Watch Asbury publications for more details, or call Cathy Ambrose for more information. We hope to see you and your friends at our first gathering of “Common Grounds”!

HOME IMPROVEMENT WORK DAYS Saturday, February 20. The Home Improvement Ministry serves widows and single moms within the Asbury family. Our men’s ministry volunteers make themselves available every other month to help folks outwith minor home repairs and/or home improvement MANDATORY SPRING BREAK MISSIONS projects. If you’d like to help, contact Joe Dullea. If you COMMISSIONING – GUATEMALA & MEXICO are in need of help, just pick up a request form at the Spring Break Missions commissioning for students south welcome desk, or call your request in to Pam and leaders going to Guatemala and Mexico. March 7, Wallace (392-1199, ext. 253), at least ten days before 8:45am, meet at Venue 68. the scheduled work day. A Home Improvement volunteer will contact you, and make final arrangements WOMEN to get the job(s) done! WOMEN OF THE WORD Wednesdays from 10:00-11:00 am in Rm 2319, Rev. Darlene Johnson, teacher. MANDATORY SPRING BREAK MISSIONS TRAINING – MEXICO Spring Break Missions Training for Students and leaders – Mexico; March 7, 12:30-2:30 pm, bring $3 for lunch.

CRAFTY LADIES FELLOWSHIP Mondays, 9:30 am - 2:00 pm, Rm 2820. Ladies, if you enjoy doing crafts and fellowshipping at the same time, this activity is for you! We gather on Monday mornings to work on our own individual arts and crafts, stop for a delicious pot-luck lunch, and continue on Page 28

WORSHIP

8:00 am Communion Service Mason Chapel. Traditional service with music led by Hart Morris. Communion is served and Dr. Harrison preaches. 9:15 am Contemporary Praise & Worship Sanctuary. Contemporary music led by Mark Bennett and team, time of prayer and the message will all carry a prevailing theme for the morning.Dr.Harrison preaches. 9:15 am Open House Worship Community Life Center. A relaxed atmosphere with engaging worship led by Dub Ambrose and team. Dr. Tom Harrisonâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s message is simulcast with an occasional live sermon from another pastor.

MARRIAGES CONGRATULATIONS Joshua Calhoun and Rhianna Burdick were married December 19, 2009.

asbury

anniversaries! 65 Years

Bill & Shirley Parkinson Feb-25

60 Years

John & Helen Schwenker Feb-10

11:00 am Traditional Service Sanctuary. The Chancel Choir, the New Covenant Orchestra and various vocal and instrumental ensembles offer a variety of styles of music led by Hart Morris. Dr. Tom Harrison preaches.

55 Years

11:00 am Modern Service Venue 68. Rich blend of ancient and modern worship, led by Chris Cleveland and team. Sign interpreters for the deaf are offered.Dr.Tom Harrisonâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s message is simulcast.

Jim & Norma Morrison Feb-12

6:30 pm Modern Service Venue68. Rich blend of ancient and modern worship, led by the Ben Kilgore and team.Rev.Spencer Smith preaches.

BIRTHS

55 Years

50 Years

Don & Ruth Bauer Feb-27

Ron & Sue Shook Nov-25

Lilah Noelle Reed, daughter of Ryan and Kristen Reed, was born November 30, 2009. Asher Cole Riddle, son of Bryan and Autumn Riddle was born December 1, 2009. Makenzie Elizabeth Grundler, daughter of Ulysses and Deidre Grundler was born December 3, 2009. Grant Ellison Koetter, son of Brandon and Darla Koetter, was born December 14, 2009

Joel & Gloria Johnson Dec-27

Dean & Jessie Cox Feb-5

Colin Russell Graham, son of Matt & Lora Graham, was born December 22, 2009.

DEATHS:

Barbara Boland died Nov. 30, 2009. Joe Henderson, husband of Pat, died Dec, 14, 2009. Elsie Lehman died December 22, 2009. Lennis Kolb died December 25, 2009.

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35 Years Randy & Betty Guthrie Dec-21 10 Years Brian & June Post Jan-7

asbury marriage Hall of Fame 50 Plus 50 YEARS Jim & Sue Allison Jim & Susie Barrett, Sr. Gary & Ruth Beatie Harold & Donna Brantley Cecil & Jan Burnett Ron & Jackie Carter Dick & Billie Corley Dean & Jessie Cox Jack & Sandy Cozier Lee & Toni Flowers, Jr. Giles & Barbara Gere A.C. & Arlene Griggs Joel & Gloria Johnson George & Dolphine Keenum Lou & Gloria Lasiter Ed & Leslie Lusk Bud & Dianne Mathes Jim & Judy Parker Truman & Linda Rachels Glen & Charlene Ravens Carl & Sue Richards Charlie & Jeanette Sessom John & Betty Jo Vogel

4/11/1959 11/21/1959 9/11/1959 7/24/1959 7/25/1959 4/24/1959 10/16/1959 2/5/1960 12/6/1959 4/18/1959 1/10/1960 9/2/1959 12/27/1959 12/23/1959 3/6/1959 6/17/1959 12/18/1959 8/22/1959 3/15/1959 7/25/1959 8/29/1959 8/8/1959 5/29/1959

51 YEARS Charlie & Sue Archambo Glen & Barbara Barnes Bob & Dorothy Beck Bob & Mary Ann Charles Don & Cleo Collins Joe & Zagnona Cox Bob & Jimmie Dozier Gene & Barbara Graves Charlie & Janet Johnston Larry & Judy Lairmore Robert & Joy Long John & Judy Marquis Bill & Jayne Mason Ken & Helen McCauley Bruce & Carolyn Nixon LaVerne & Jean Reed Vic & Liz Schock Gary & Dorothy VanFossen

8/30/1958 12/24/1958 6/14/1958 7/12/1958 6/3/1958 12/22/1958 2/20/1959 12/28/1958 8/25/1958 5/29/1958 9/20/1958 1/24/1959 7/9/1958 11/27/1958 3/29/1958 6/21/1958 8/31/1958 1/1/1959

52 YEARS Chuck & Phyllis Bailey Rick & Vi Bowers Cal & Doris Brusewitz Don & Pat Chandler Glenn & Syd Chowins Dale & Pat Davidson Rex & Dovie Edgar Bill & Martha Harrisberger Harley & Jackie Hinson Russ & Norma Jones Brown & Becky Joyner Joe & Beth Limes, Jr. Wally & Sue Maurer Bill & Monette Miller Dan & Margaret Slagle Al & Ruth Sowards John & Beverly Story Bill & Rosalie Veatch Carl & Joanne Weatherford

8/3/1957 8/18/1957 6/25/1957 3/22/1957 3/9/1957 12/22/1957 1/12/1958 11/23/1957 4/18/1957 1/25/1958 6/23/1957 5/30/1957 1/18/1958 5/11/1957 7/20/1957 11/23/1957 11/16/1957 4/20/1957 6/15/1957

53 YEARS Ronald & Phyllis Allison Rollo & Liz Brasuell John & Barbara Cluts Tom & Lou Costello Clifton & Lamyrle Cox Arlyn & Shirley Daering Bob & Jean Dalton Stanley & Shirley Dean Jim & Maxine Dempster Paul & Linda Hancock Jim & Nancy Harrison Ed & Jan Hines James & DeWanda Humphries John & Jo Keil Wayne & Sammie Kendall Marold & Patty Lohrenz Bill & Joan Matzdorf Larry & Mary Metz Frank & Darlene Peterson Reynard & Betty Spence Leonard & Mary Stubbs David & Patty Thomas Don & Barbara Thornton Milton & Patricia VanDerwiele Paul & Sherry Vanscoyoc Russ & Florrie Washburn Carl & Novella Willis

6/8/1956 5/26/1956 9/30/1956 12/29/1956 5/18/1956 1/26/1957 5/12/1956 6/3/1956 8/17/1956 1/19/1957 6/2/1956 1/19/1957 9/29/1956 12/8/1956 5/25/1956 6/17/1956 4/12/1956 5/12/1956 7/25/1956 7/8/1956 6/10/1956 8/31/1956 5/21/1956 9/1/1956 5/18/1956 11/30/1956 8/16/1956

54 YEARS George & Maxine Clinton Bill & Naomi Culver Bob & Helen Frymire Bill & Dorothy Kisselburg

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Edwin & Rita Lenfestey Bill & Dottie McKie Larry & Jeri Myerley Gary & Jackie Parker Mel & Mary Pearson Harold & Eleanor Shirk John & Shirley Ann Smith Bob & Beverlyn Summers

2/19/1956 1/7/1956 2/26/1956 2/4/1956 6/1/1955 6/4/1955 5/31/1955 8/14/1955

55 YEARS Don & Ruth Bauer Roger & Joyce Clark Ralph & Marion Daugherty Fred & Nancy Gardner Charlie & Elaine Hack Paul & Shirley Hockett Merle & Marylou Howell Vernon & Maralee Jones Howard & Joanne Ledbetter Jim & Norma Morrison Ron & Sue Shook Bill & Phyllis Taylor Ben & Joy Weddington

2/27/1955 5/8/1954 9/24/1954 1/15/1955 12/19/1954 1/14/1955 9/4/1954 4/3/1954 11/17/1954 2/12/1955 11/25/1954 8/22/1954 6/17/1954

56 YEARS Floyd & Vida Bruntzel Bill & Shirley Curry Van & Nola Dickson Ken & Carmen Finch Dwayne & Awilda Godsey Vic & Roberta Hairston Jerry & Johnna Himes Glenn & Norma Hogg Don & Betty Kent Dick & Nevin Loerke Bob & Mary Lynn Milam Walt & Marion Neary Frank & Betty Schemm Al & Lu Seiter Ron & Pat Thomson Gordon & Lois Vetal Ross & Ina Vrooman Cleo & Frankie Warren Gary & Celeste Zarley

12/13/1953 5/30/1953 11/21/1953 12/27/1953 9/5/1953 6/1/1953 2/27/1954 6/6/1953 5/30/1953 8/9/1953 9/6/1953 6/10/1953 6/18/1953 6/28/1953 8/18/1953 5/2/1953 9/26/1953 11/26/1953 3/28/1953

57 YEARS Bob & Martha Carpenter Bill & June Carr Wayne & Betty Crockett Dean & Regina Daniel Bill & M.A. Kohl Dick & Gwen Mohler Bob & Gladys Murphy Monroe & Janiece Reece Lee & Oneta Roles

4/22/1952 6/30/1952 5/31/1952 11/8/1952 10/25/1952 8/1/1952 1/24/1953 8/2/1952 9/19/1952

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Fred & Joanne Setser Dean & Marilynn Smith Gene & Mary Ellen Whiteford

6/28/1952 8/17/1952 8/2/1952

58 YEARS Richard & Darlene Baker Jack & Pat Compton Jim & Bettye Craig Don & Terry Davis Bob & Donna Keener Bill & Mary Kirwin John & Eddie Middleton Bill & Donna Ritchie Bob & Wanda Stotts John & Anna Taylor

6/10/1951 9/29/1951 6/21/1951 11/3/1951 5/4/1951 9/22/1951 11/22/1951 2/9/1952 8/31/1951 6/23/1951

59 YEARS Jim & Betty Jane Bailey Richard & Geri Dixon Lou & Loraine Edmonson Ray & Betty Gordy Dale & Patricia Gregston Jerry & Imogene Headley Clyde & Mary Johnson Alden & Sarah Miller Ray & Ada Miller A.B. & Gwen Steen David & Janet Wehrenberg

2/3/1951 11/22/1950 6/16/1950 2/17/1951 12/9/1950 2/2/1951 6/11/1950 6/4/1950 6/4/1950 12/23/1950 11/25/1950

60 YEARS Jim & LaRue Coover Tom & Lillie Hardcastle Gene & Betty Hobson Otis & Nell Osborn Joe & Mary Pottorf Harry & Lois Robbins Warren & Roberta Roberts John & Helen Schwenker Allan & Marian Tonding Wally & Barbara Westervelt

12/10/49 7/2/49 8/21/49 11/12/49 7/31/49 9/4/49 8/21/49 2/10/50 6/26/49 12/18/49

61 YEARS Tom & Elizabeth Diehl Bill & Janene Jones Dick & Joan Link Howard & Vera McCloud Frank & Bonnie Nuding Delbert & Nell Pool Tom & Evelyn Porter John & Merle Schwendimann James & Nancy Swindler Don & Ellie Todd Jack & Rosemary Wiles

8/21/1948 10/1/1948 10/31/1948 6/15/1948 12/19/1948 5/20/1948 2/18/1949 9/10/1948 7/15/1948 10/2/1948 2/5/1949

62 YEARS Jim & Fran Allen` Jack & Doris Bruin Murrel & Helen Cowherd Chuck & Maddy Crowell Phil & Jean Essley, Jr Rudy & Alice Jane Gorishek Paul & Donna Wicker

12/20/47 6/7/47 8/14/47 6/21/47 12/28/47 6/29/47 4/6/47

63 YEARS Laneer & Jean Ham Edison & Audrey Jeffus Charles & Mary Johns Lester & Betty Kelsey, Jr. Paul & Marion Kerschner Steve & Jo Moore Barney & Kay Welch

9/28/46 2/2/47 8/8/46 5/3/46 12/28/46 9/13/46 7/3/46

64 YEARS Bob & Marguerite Keasler Sid & Maxine Lee John & Joanna Neely Ted & Virginia Wellendorf

8/18/45 6/23/45 1/6/46 1/10/46

65 YEARS Herbert & Betty Maresh Bill & Shirley Parkinson

6/29/44 2/25/45

66 YEARS Gene & Joy Bortmes Vic & Betty Goodknight Bill & Betty Manley Al & Ruth Meyer Charles & Shirley Nelson Neil & Dolores Willits

2/5/44 6/26/43 9/10/43 1/28/44 11/20/43 1/6/44

67 YEARS Gene & Irene Bond

8/15/42

68 YEARS Herman & Nellie Kloehr

1/17/42

70 YEARS Frank & Bernice Sober

1/6/40

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asbury

new members

Bob & Kathy and David Avey

Mike & Kathie Bolick

Travis & Erin and Caroline Cambern

Chris and Nikki with Cade and Caton Cabbiness

Richard and Nancy Ficken with Philip and Rachel Ficken

Dave and Kristy Garrett with Joshua and Brady

Jeff & Shelli Hartman

Brandi and Cody Haws

Trevor & Ashley Hudgeons

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Marie Marshall

Darin and Amber Moden with Lincoln

Stan and LaVida Martens

John and Cashel Newhouse with Ella Grace

Joe Ragsdale

Billie Smith

Delois Shaver

Lillian Smith

Steve and Frauke Smith with James,Tait &, Emma

Sandy Warren

Terry & Lisa Vasicek and Ellie & Drake

asbury exploration classes

if you are interested in learning more about who we are, plan to attend one of the Exploration classes designed to tell you more about Asbury and what we believe. Upcoming 2010 Exploration classes will be held on â&#x20AC;&#x201C; February 7, March 13, April 11, May 2 and June 6 Please call 392-1191 to reserve your place. Childcare is available and lunch is provided Page 34

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