Kenyan Woman 039

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Issue Number 39 • August 2013

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Issue Number 39 • August 2013

Women traded for sex

Men in Kwale barter wives for quick money

…By Omar Mwalago Omar

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he women are married but none of them is free to make informed choices over their sexual health rights. They are forced by the people most dearest to them, to have sex with other men to earn money. These are not the everyday commercial sex workers, these are honourable women who are being abused by their husbands in the business of sex for money. In this day and age, a group of men in Kinango, Kwale County are forcing their wives to engage in sex with wealthy men in a bid to seek compensation. This was revealed at a Gender Based Violence (GBV) meeting organised by FIDA at Hill Park Hotel in Tiwi Village, Kwale County where it was heard that most men prefer trading their wives for sex instead of engaging in productive work.

Norm According to a youth representative from Ng’ombeni Development Community Based Organization, the men in turn enjoy luxurious lifestyles including drinking free palm wine in posh hotels. “This is highly practiced in Kinango and some parts of our county as men see it as an easy way of generating money for their upkeep without having to struggle,” the young man explained. The meeting by FIDA was organised under the auspices of Peace Initiative Kenya (PIK), a project of International Rescue Committee that is supported by the United Stated Agency for International Development (USAID). The initiative was launched in November last year and ends in September 2013. It is made up of several partners who include FIDA, African Woman and Child Feature Service, Rural Women Peace Link, COVAW, PeaceNet, Well Told Story and Sauti ya Wanawake Pwani.

Peace The project seeks to rapidly create a more protective and peaceful environment the woman and the girl child. The PIK project is designed to support a sense of Kenyan identity that overrides ethnic and

Top: Kwale residents follow discussions during a GBV meeting organised by FIDA under the auspices of Peace Initiative Kenya (PIK), a project of International Rescue Committee that is supported by the United Stated Agency for International Development (USAID). Below: Deputy Governor Fatuma Achani addresses the meeting. Nominated ward representative Kwale county Fatuma Salim Nchizumo during the meeting. Photos: Omar Mwalago Omar gender schism. It targets large numbers of people at the grassroots level in four of the most conflict prone regions in Kenya — Rift Valley, Nyanza, Nairobi’s informal settlements and the Coast. PIK has been working throughout the country equipping women’s groups and networks with

skills to advocate for peace in their communities. It also aims at engaging communities in peace messaging and ending Gender Based Violence. It is noted within PIK that women and girls are

especially vulnerable violence. According to Fatuma Salim Nchizumo, a Continues on page 4

EDITORIAL

Kenyan women, stand up and be counted in national debates

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s the debate over how best to implement devolution as stipulated in the three-year-old Constitution rages on, the gender dimension seems to have been forgotten in the cacophony of the noise. No one is talking any more about the two thirds principle that is enshrined in the supreme law as an affirmative action approach to gender equality. This is despite the fact that most of the 47 Counties have not adhered to the gender rule in appointing members of the County Executive (Cabinet) as per the gender rule. It is also unfortunate that over 100 days since they took office following the General Election, most of the elected and nominated women leaders to the Senate, national and county assemblies are yet to be heard raising these issues from their decision making positions.

Thanks to the Constitution, each County was allocated one slot to elect a woman’s representatives to sit in the National Assembly in addition to the tough women who fought their way during party nominations and General Election romping home to victory. The debate on whether to hold or not to hold a referendum has been reduced to a male-affair with the women watching from the sidelines. Women must entrench themselves in speaking on national issues. This is not acceptable and Millie Odhiambo, Rachel Shebesh, Cecily Mbarire, Priscilla Nyokabi, Mary Wambui, Esther Murugi and Alice Wahome among others should stand up and be counted. The underlying issues other than the budget allocation controversy are just a tip of the iceberg. Sources at the Transitional Authority have revealed that some of the functions that

are not going to be handed over to the Counties include procurement of anti-retrovirals among other medical supplies, family planning and the Global Fund programmes among others. Rising cases of gender based violence as highlighted in the media daily cannot be wished away. These cases are annoying, shocking and frustrating with babies, toddlers and grandmothers not being spared by the perpetrators. It is very sad that in this day and age some women are still protecting and promoting human rights abuses in the form of Female Genital Mutilation which has been outlawed worldwide. Cases of married women going behind their husbands to take their daughters for the rite of passage have been reported in parts of Rift Valley, Nyanza and North Eastern parts of the country. Even more disheartening are the many cases

of schoolgirls dreading to go home for holidays for fear of being forced into FGM and marriage. However the anti-FGM lobby is still strong with women leaders like Maison Leshomo, Naisula Lesuuda, Zipporah Kittony and Beth Mugo. These are expected to keep the pressure on so that the authorities can fight the vice head on as they get the support of the respective communities. These are issues close to the hearts and minds of every ordinary woman and girl out there and their expectations are high that their leaders would soon address them on their behalf. Time has now come for the women leaders to stand up and be counted in the constitutional debate and not leave it to the political heavyweights (read as men) to battle it out over whether Kenyans should be subjected to another referendum or not.


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