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editorial Publisher Deb Rochford Editor-in-Chief Michelle Burgess mburgess@azteenmagazine.com Associate Creative Director Veronica Sherbina

am ReiAnne and I am your queen.

How I got here isn’t important (though you can read Meet the Queen in dtk to find out). What matters is that it’s prom season and I’m a sophomore and I don’t have a prom date even though I’m the queen. Horribly depressing.

Making up for that – and making the relatives happy – is that you’ll find my face and/or commentary in almost every page. That’s very, very cool.

Still, I would like to use my power for good – my own good, that is. So if you know (or are) a cute junior or senior looking for a prom date, I am an AWESOME choice. Call me.

Happy Spring,

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Webmaster Tony Subia Photography Marcus Hoffman

styling Wardrobe Veronica Sherbina

ReiAnne Reese Queen/Guest Editor

Featured Contributors We asked three of our staffers about the fastapproaching end of the school year

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“For me, it’s definitely bittersweet. Being a senior, I’m ready to explore outside of Phoenix! I want to meet new people and have new experiences. But at the same time, I will miss the comfort of knowing my surroundings and everyone knowing me and vice versa. This year has been amazing! If it wasn’t for my girlfriends I’m sure how I would of survived high school. The best advice I could give to next year’s seniors is that senior year is to get all the school applications and scholarships done first semester. That way second semester you can just coast.

Next year, I’m looking forward to attending school either up north or at ASU.” – Bianca Armenta, Sunnyslope ‘10

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“This year has by far been the best yet. I got even closer with my friends (if that’s even possible) and have had some insane opportunities. That said, I am ready for the next stage in my life – Hello, college! I can’t wait to live on my own and challenge myself with an entirely new life. I’m going to major in broadcast journalism, hopefully out of state – still waiting for acceptance letters! All of the schools I applied to have bomb journalism programs so I know I’ll be happy wherever I decide to go.”

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Shout-Outs: My family and me

Collegiate The Insiders Parting advice from our panelists on how college has changed them

Coming out in high school

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ne of the biggest local bands on the scene today, The Maine is coming off a tour and O this month heads to the recording studio to work on its newest release. The guys are also teaming up with Austin Gibbs and This Century to do a series of free-with-donation shows, some in high schools, to benefit local charities that fight hunger and help underprivileged girls receive prom dresses; check out each band’s MySpace or web page for details as those events are developed.

On this particular evening, the wind is blowing but the parking lot of the Marquee Theatre is relatively calm, in contrast with the whirlwind of things that are happening on the nondescript white bus the members and crew of The Maine have been calling home on their most recent tour. Everyone is running around, getting pumped up and preparing for the upcoming show. In this tizzy of activity, guitarist Kennedy Brock takes a moment to sit down with azTeen and answer a few questions. azTeen: First, the important stuff. If I looked in your fridge, what would I find?

K: You would find probably pizza, taquitos, sandwich stuff like turkey and cheese, and root beer. azTeen: Who is your role model and why?

K: My brother is probably my biggest role model.

He’s always been there for like anything I’ve needed when I was growing up, and we get along a lot better now. He’s just somebody I look up to. azTeen: Usually the brother dynamic is better after you get out of school and you don’t have to live with each other anymore.

K: Yeah. When I’m not the annoying little sibling. azTeen: I know how you feel, I really do.

What’s your favorite song off the newest album?

K: Probably We’ll All Be, which is the last song on the record and it’s kind of about all our friends and having the chance to be on our own and hanging out and having no one tell us what to do. azTeen: Why is your band different from every other band trying to make it?

K: You know, I think we are really dedicated and we all work very hard to let people know we care about our fans and we really work very well together. I think our whole band, crew included, is like one big family and it ends up being a little more close-knit than a lot of other bands, I think. azTeen: What’s the craziest thing a fan has every given you?

K: Recently, it was given to the band but it was specifically for Pat [Kirch, drums for The Maine]. This girl made a piñata that was Pat, basically. So it looked like a Build-a-Bear kind of thing but it was literally Pat’s face with hair. It was very awesome. azTeen: Sounds like it. Was there candy inside?

K: Yeah, there was candy and it was awesome. azTeen: That’s so cool. If you weren’t in a band, what would you be doing?

Hoot hoot! azTeen talks to the Owl City of 1 Adam Young, the mastermind behind Owl City, has been on the fast track to success with his skyrocketing popularity all thanks to MySpace and his hit single, Fireflies. His bubblegum electro-pop sounds are hard to escape after the first listen, making fans want more from this addicting artist. Recently azTeen caught up with him to talk about inspirations, his innermost thoughts and some unveiled secrets.

Adam: It’s a toss-up between Shaquille O’Neal and Hulk Hogan.

azTeen: Besides insomnia, what/who is an influence for your music?

Adam Young: I listen to mostly instrumental ambient music, oddly enough. I don’t listen to much music with lyrics, so a lot of different things come into play when it comes to influence.

I really connect with certain moods that I discover in film soundtracks. My two biggest musical influences are Jonathan Ford from Unwed Sailor, and composer Thomas Newman (WALL-E, Six Feet Under, Finding Nemo).

azTeen: What is one thing that fans do not know about you?

Adam: I can’t read with socks on.

azTeen: So you’ve collaborated with some great artists like Matt Thiessen and Breanne Düren; If you could do a collaboration with any of your current songs with any artist, who would it be?

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azTeen: Are there any moments where you’ve been truly embarrassed on stage?

Adam: Someone threw underwear at me on stage. I screamed like a girl.

azTeen: If you could be Willy Wonka, what would be your ideal candy concoction?

Adam: A combination of Reese’s Peanut Butter Cups, Oreos, and powdered donuts. If that is at all possible, you let me know.

For the full interview, be sure to go to azteenmagazine.com and also be sure to check out Adam’s infectious beats at MySpace.com/owlcity.

– Music Editor Jennifer Na, Xavier ‘11 azTeenmagazine.com

K: Probably going to class, falling asleep in class, not doing very well in school probably. azTeen: Where did the name The Maine come from?

K: It came from a song by a band called Ivory.

The song The Coast of Maine was called and it was right when the band needed a name. We were playing a show and John just came up with it. It was kind of random, no real meaning behind it. azTeen: So it just kind of stuck.

K: Yeah, it just stuck. azTeen: Have you ever read azTeen before?

K: I have not azTeen: Will you read it after this?

K: Yes. I promise. Pinky swear.

Check out The Maine’s newest album Can’t Stop, Won’t Stop at myspace.com/themaine – Julianne Brenenstuhl, Notre Dame ‘11

In this moment, the City sounds good Sound the City has been catching the hearts of local fans everywhere with its upbeat, feel-good tunes and contagious lyrics that will get you up on your feet.

Lead vocalist and bassist Michael Amorosia, guitarist Ryan Boken and drummer Nate Boone make their mark beyond the Valley with their newly released album, In This Moment.

The album is a youthful, power-pop anthem to having a good time and living life by the minute and tops everything this band has done so far. Give it a listen so that when STC becomes the next Phoenix band to hit it big, you can say you knew them when. Check ‘em out at MySpace.com/ soundthecity.

– Jennifer Na

No Audition required

Just a year ago Chicago-based pop-rockers The Audition debuted its eponymous album, but now the band is back with another addictive offering. Loaded with songs that will stick in listeners’ heads all day long, Great Danger will appeal to fans of All Time Low, Jack Mannequin and Paramore.

Great Danger will be available everywhere on March 16, and fans should look for upcoming tour info by checking out The Audition’s MySpace page: MySpace.com/TheAudition.

– Jordan Laughlin, Mountain Pointe ‘11

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Film’ s prom theme: Black + White If you have never been a big fan of documentaries, now’s

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the time to break out of your comfort zone – you’ll be glad you did. Prom Night In Mississippi has all the elements of a big-budget blockbuster – drama, suspense, romance – that draws viewers into the real-life story of a Southern town that has had segregated proms (one black, one white) for decades.

Morgan Freeman offers students a deal: integrate the prom and he’ll pay for the whole thing. Sounds like an irresistible deal, but don’t underestimate the power of the status quo. How will it all turn out? Get a copy of the film through PromNightInMississippi.com and find out for yourself.

Gimme some Skin…

Jazz up your plain-jane cell phone and computer with GelaSkins. At GelaSkins.com, you can upload personal photos, messages and designs to creative protective adhesivebacked vinyl skins for your devices.

Prices vary depending on what you’re creating skin for and whether you use artwork from the site or upload your own, but basic phone skins are about $15; computers, around $30.

GelaSkins.com. model: Madison Kaapke, Gilbert ‘11

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About 15 years ago there was a trend at some high schools to wear grandma slippers to school – big, poofy, comfy-but-ugly slide-ons that made a scuffy noise when you walked down the hall. azTeen does not advocate that trend or wish in any way for its return but does understand the need to be comfortable, which is why we love Blowfish Shoes. Cali-based Blowfish touts itself as “t-shirts for feet,” which pretty much describes its inexpensive yet stylish line of flats, boots and booties. Check ‘em out at BlowfishShoe.com so that Grandma’s slippers can stay on her own feet, where they belong.

Will Curran of Arizona Pro DJs tells us what’s hot this prom season “Aside from your classic Flo-rida and Lady Gaga tracks, I see Akon’s newer high-energy music such as Sexy Chick to be hot, as well as his new track Nosey Neighbor (Takin’ It Off). Every artist seems to have a new song released every week, so we’re always on the lookout for the hottest ones.

One of the most promising new songs has got to be Pitbull’s Pearly Gates, which samples DJ Sammy’s classic song Heaven. Pitbull even just jumped on and remixed Kesha’s Tik Tok, which is a must-play at all proms. Speaking of remixes, Lil Wayne recently remixed Drop It Low, which was a huge hit at all of our winter formals.

Although there is all this new music, some of the classics such as the Cupid Shuffle and Outkast’s Hey Ya! are still some of our most popular songs. Join our Facebook fan page at www.facebook. com/AZProDJs to stay on top of the latest songs.

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Our first cover twins, Hope & Faith Maxson, both Paradise Valley ’12, are each other’s best friends and made a perfect pair at our shoot. Here’s the lowdown on the Maxson sisters: How can people tell you apart?

Faith: “I have a freckle on my right eyelid – ‘freckled Faith.’”

Hope: “I smile more – ‘happy Hope”.

What’s something no one knows about your sister?

Hope: “After my twin sees a horror flick she gets so terrified she has to sleep in bed with me.”

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Faith: “If you squint and look at her birthmark on her hip, it looks just like America.”

Is your personal style similar?

Faith: “I think we have very different style choices. I like edgy and dark-toned clothes.”

Hope: “My style is normally about comfort, and if I want to dress cute I raid Faith's closet.”

This is the Prom Issue. Are you going to prom?

Faith: “Hopefully! I already have a dress.”

Hope: “Hey, you local (PV) Trojans … currently looking for an eligible prom date!”

Who would be your ideal prom date?

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me.” (Editor’s note: that means being taller than 5’9¾).

Faith: “Well, a guy with great personality. Or Pharrell.”

What do you do when you’re not gracing the cover of azTeen?

Faith: “School, sports, music, blogging and chilling with friends.”

Hope: “Doing schoolwork, eating, sewing and making memories.”

Besides azTeen, what magazine would you like to be on the cover of?

Hope: “I would like to be on Teen Vogue.”

Faith: “Well, since I'm on azTeen already, I would definitely choose Nylon magazine.”

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Prom Night is coming up and my boyfriend says it’s time to “do the deed.” We’re seniors and have been together for a year and he has never pressured me, but it just feels wrong and a little ridiculous to have this big Prom Night plan … Am I being stupid?

– Anita, Scottsdale

Roxy: Your answer is right there in your let-

ter. You say it “feels wrong,” which automatically means it is wrong for you to do it.

Cody: Does your bf think he’s in American Pie, Part 12 or something? It’s just so cheesy!

Roxy: And we’re not talking about a

dentist appointment here. You don’t mention whether or not you really, truly think you’re ready for sex, and regardless, scheduling a prom-night rendezvous is putting on waaaay too much pressure. How can you enjoy dinner and the dance with this THING invading your thoughts all night. He’s probably way more nervous than he’s letting on as well, don’t you think, Cody?

Cody: Eh, not so much. He doesn’t have to get his hair done or anything. He’s just got to shower and layer on the Axe products. He might be a little nervous, but I guarantee you he’s not going to be the one to go “Hey, remember what we were talking about before, for after prom? I just realized it’s a really bad idea and I wanna forget the whole thing.” Not gonna happen.

Roxy: But that’s not the point.

Cody: That’s what I’m saying. He’s not going to be the mature one, so the girl’s gotta be.

Roxy: Story of my life.

Disclaimer: Neither Cody nor Roxy are licensed clinical social workers.

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e h t t e Me Queen!

ReiAnne Reese, Cactus Shadows ’12, ascended to the azTeen Queen for a Day throne after her father purchased the honor at a Teen Lifeline benefit.

She got to spend a day at our World HQ, and her presence is felt on nearly every page of this issue. She was a benevolent ruler, both wise and kind to her subjects. Here is some insight into this real-life media royalty.

Got any nicknames?

Most people call me Rei, pronounced “Ray,” but my brother calls me Weirdo or Sir. How did you enjoy being Queen?

Being Queen was more fun than I expected. I learned a lot about how editing and planning out the magazine works, it actually really fascinated me. I was more surprised that Michelle, Deb and Veronica, aka my loyal subjects, were very outgoing and spontaneous and had so much fun!

Any secret fears/talents/wishes?

I can balance a spoon on my nose and still do things, if that counts as a talent.

Describe yourself in 10 words or fewer.

Outgoing, happy, loud, awkward, spontaneous.

Any shout-outs you want to make to friends?

Cori Gunter, Elizabeth Wilson, Rachel Thrailkill, Lauren Reese, thank you guys for listening to and always supporting me!

Be honest: Now that you are a commoner again, how much do you miss your tiara?

Honestly, I miss it a lot. I wore it all day, I’m pretty sure it fits me well because I kept forgetting I was wearing it! Maybe that means I was meant to be a queen.

Get your finger out of your nose!

If your knowledge of prom etiquette stops at don’t eat spaghetti and meatballs with your hands when you’re with your date at dinner at Buca de Beppo, keep reading. Actually, finish reading this issue of azTeen, then pick up Essential Etiquette’s Prom and Dating Guide. Its “25 simple rules to make your manners shine” fits neatly into a tux pocket or demure clutch and offers such handy tips as “Rarely is it okay to announce you’ve arrived to pick up your date by honking the horn… nor is it okay to text” and “engage in conversation, not therapy.” Similarly, Emily Post’s Prom and Party Etiquette offers advice on everything from selecting your outfit to how to have fun with your friends during graduation week without blowing off your visiting grandparents entirely. Check ‘em out at eti-kits.com or emilypost.com. azTeenmagazine.com

Get on (skate)board!

From left to right: Taylor Mock, Katie Kruse and Madison Kaapke, All Gilbert ‘11

Got mad skating skills? Don’t miss your shot to grind out the goods at Scottsdale’s 11th annual Skate Competition on Saturday, March 27, from 10 to 5 at The Wedge Skate Park. $8 will get you registered to show ‘em what you can do. For more info, call 480.312.0217 or send an email to dmiller@ScottsdaleAZ.gov.

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“Some people think that sex is just a casual thing; for others, they think their virginity is ‘sacred,’ so for them sex is a big deal. For me, I’m stuck in the middle. I won’t have sex with any random dude, but I’m not ‘waiting’ for marriage.”

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“I think teens put a negative connotation on sex and are quick to label girls who are sexually active as ‘sluts’ and boys as ‘players.’ Sex is the most vulnerable situation we can put ourselves into with another person. I think as long as both people are comfortable and understand that fact, it doesn’t have to be such a big deal.”

— Lauren Messman, Arcadia ‘10

Teens’ takes on the taboo topic vary

“Going to a Catholic grade school and a Jesuit school, it’s obvious that since the day we knew what sex was we were taught that we needed to wait, but for the most part I would have to say it’s just that people want to find a person that they really feel comfortable with and with whom they have something ‘special.’ As far as the general question goes about whether teens think sex is serious or not, I think it depends on the person.”

— AJ Steimal, Brophy ‘10 “I feel like guys have more pressure to have sex in high school because they don’t want to admit to being virgins in college.”

— Sophie Cohen, Chaparral ‘10 “I really don’t believe men have ‘locker-room talk’ any more than women. However, this doesn’t account for the males that are sexually inactive and carry on locker-room talk; you don’t really find that in sexually inactive females.”

— Mario Mendez, Corona ‘10

“I think guys have sex younger than girls because girls care about losing their virginity more, but in the end I think most teens ‘lose it’ towards the end of high school, around 17.” — Kate Gonzales, Phoenix Country Day ‘12 “Most peoples’ view on sex is that it should be shared with someone you love. Locker-room talk? We’re guys – what do you expect?”

— Chris Misner, Brophy ‘12 “Some people don’t mind losing (their virginity) earlier, but others want to wait until marriage. I think there is a pressure to lose it earlier, but I think in the past few years people lose it in their junior or senior year in high school, or freshmen year in college. But it’s still getting younger. I’ve heard of sixth graders getting pregnant.”

— Katy Rector, Arcadia ‘11 “As guys we do talk about sex, but I don’t necessarily feel any pressure to do it. I think the typical age that people have sex is around 16.”

— Ivaylo Bahtchevanov, Phoenix Country Day ‘11

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‘the talk’

It might be awkward but it’s important

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n American Pie, Jim’s dad has “the talk” with him – an awkward conversation involving tennis balls and salami – using dirty magazines for props. With examples this weird, it’s no wonder teenagers are wary of the dreaded “birds and bees” conversation with the folks.

According to a survey done by O, The Oprah Magazine and Seventeen, 61 percent of girls feel uncomfortable having “the talk;” guys weren’t included in the survey but likely don’t feel any better about talking sex with Mom and Dad. This number helps explain why so many teenagers are hiding their actions from their parents. Forty-six percent of sexually active girls have opted to keep it from their parents, and the number of girls participating in oral sex (30 percent) is double what moms even suspect.

Boys say their experience can be even worse.

Brophy freshman Ben Cummings believes that “the talk” is much less common with boys and is ineffective for those who do have it. “I have never actually had ‘the talk’ with them,” he says.

“My dad has mentioned for me to be careful about the choices I make, but I don’t think ‘the talk’ is that effective.”

So is there any good reason for telling your parents if you’re sexually active? Believe it or not, yes, beginning with safeguarding your health.

‘Rebeccah,’ a senior who prefers that her real name not be used, had sex without a condom her first time. “I wasn’t expecting it – it sort of just happened,” she says. “Then I started having symptoms of a urinary tract infection, but because I hadn’t told my parents, I didn’t really know who to talk to.”

Eventually, Rebeccah called her mom and blurted everything out. “She was upset at first, but

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then she became helpful,” she says. “I think she realized that it was in the past and I needed help now.” Her mom took Rebeccah to the doctor and had a long conversation about the importance of birth control and condoms.

“I wish she had reiterated the effects earlier,” says Rebeccah, who ended up having a mild bacterial infection that was easily treated. “She had given me basic sex information, but when you are in that situation the basic information doesn’t help – you need to know how important condoms really are and how you need to make sure some form of birth control is used. I’m glad I can be open with my mom now; it’s made me a lot smarter about my sex life, and I’ve become a freak about condoms.”

Studies show that teenagers who have successful conversations with their parents are more likely to remain abstinent or to practice safe sex in the long run. Arcadia sophomore Dakota Smith remembers when she had the “sex talk” with her mom during her freshman year.

“When my mom said it, she seemed caring and concerned,” Dakota says. “She told me to be careful with what I do, and not to let anyone try to make me do something I don’t want to.” The conversation made Dakota more aware and less afraid; she says that compared what she learned in from her family chat, the school’s lessons made it seem scarier than it actually was.

Arcadia senior Mollie Zemer also thinks that having “the talk” can be very enlightening.

“You have to take their thoughts into consideration because they’ve been there and understand the repercussions.”

– Eliza Collins, Arcadia ’10 azTeenmagazine.com

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ear, discrimination, derogatory jokes and heated arguments concerning gay rights are all associated with homosexuality in America; however, more and more people are gradually accepting those who identify themselves as gay, lesbian or bisexual. Still, the process of coming out – letting those around you know that you’re gay – can be a difficult experience, especially for a teenager who is still trying to figure out his or her place in the world. “[Being gay] is abnormal to a religious-based world,” says Adam Benavides, Queen Creek ‘10. “It’s like a secret. It has to be declared and you have to be brave to declare it. It was a big shock when I came out because I used to be Mormon.”

Although he knew he was attracted to the same sex in seventh grade, Adam didn’t accept himself until the end of his sophomore year. As for his parents, their initial reaction wasn’t exactly what he’d hoped for.

“It was very hard for them,” Adam said. “The first time I told my mom, she looked me in the eyes and said ‘I will not let you [mess] up your life!’ Now she loves my boyfriend, Nathan. My dad took it harder, but he’s more reli-

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While Adam’s parents didn’t accept his homosexuality, E Institute senior Steven Struwe’s mom knew before he did.

“I never saw manly things because my dad wasn’t in my life,” he says. “I saw my mom doing her hair and putting on her makeup.

I feel more comfortable with girls. I just have more in common with them so I like to associate with them more.” Plus, he says he remembers being little and “chasing boys instead of girls on the playground” but says that he didn’t know what the word “gay” meant until other kids starting calling him that.

Steven says that being gay is not a decision and that “if I could choose, I would be straight to avoid the drama.” He adds that his mom says she is okay with him being gay but believes that deep down she doesn’t accept it.

“She doesn’t even vote for gay rights,” he says.

Similarly, Megan Burbick, Queen Creek ‘13, has yet to tell her mom she is bisexual. When Megan was 10, her mom told her

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Greenway senior Sarah Hudson lost many of her friends when she admitted to being a lesbian and says she isn’t as open about her sexual orientation with people she first meets because she doesn’t want to be judged. When she came out, Sarah says her friends “all freaked out at first” and her female friends didn’t want to hang out with her because they thought she “wanted Obstetrics and Gynecology them.” The guys were “more intrigued” but no less annoying, she says.

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“I feel like I’ve changed into a more relaxed person and I’m less controlling about what goes on around me. I don’t miss the stupid drama of high school, but I do miss seeing my best friends every day.”

Dakota Gartner Santa Barbara Community College sophomore “I’m more independent, more aware, more understanding and much more excited to learn. I think those are the main things that happen when you are in college. The only thing that I really miss about high school is the ability to slack off, because that doesn’t happen at all in college classes.

However, I think that college is everything that was good in high school but better and filled with ashtrays.”

NAU sophomore

“I have become way more independent and have found who I really am deep down inside. Going to a new place without anyone that knew me was hard, but it forced me to find who I am and what types of people I want to surround myself with.”

“I feel like college has made me much more open-minded. I’ve met so many people from different places who have completely different backgrounds, and it is really refreshing to have those new relationships, other than just being close with your friends from home.”

“Since I have been in college I have been able to develop closer relationships with people. The relationships you form in college are different then in high school. In high school, you see your friends at school, if they go to your school, or are at your activities, or any other time you make plans together.

In college, you constantly see people. You wake up in your room that has another person in it or maybe multiple people. You go to the bathroom and there are people there, you walk to class, eat meals, go to the gym, etc. and see people. It may seem difficult to find time for yourself, but you are also able to develop deeper relationships with people because they are there with you when you are happy, sad, stressed, excited, and everything in between.”

“I feel that I have become more independent and organized. I am very busy with my schooling and social life, so I need to keep organized to make sure that I don’t get behind. Plus, now I am in charge of cleaning my room, finding my meals, staying on top of my studies, and doing my laundry, so I have to make time for everything. Doing this has helped me become self-sufficient.”

ASU sophomore

“I feel as though I have become much more mature. I feel as though I have been asked to tackle many a large task and that I have done well in achieving my goals. I’ve learned to prioritize, as well as have fun.”

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University of Richmond sophomore

Jake Becker ASU sophomore

“There is so much less drama at the college level. You realize the ‘whois-dating-who’ stuff is stupid and you just don’t sweat any of that social stuff anymore. However, you will miss the closer relationships with teachers that are available in high school. Teachers are hard to find in college – they disappear at any given moment and finding them becomes a challenge.”

“I feel like I have become more independent. After taking a year of classes, I have really become passionate about my studies (graphic design), and consequently am more focused on pursuing my career ambitions.

The two major things I miss about high school are, of course, my friends and all the extra-curricular activities I was involved in. Although ASU offers a wide range of clubs, organizations, etc., I find that I do not have as much free time to devote to them all as I did in high school.”

“I have become much more aware of people as a whole, not only of their positive characteristics but the negative as well.

High school was a lot simpler and less complicated, and having your parents there supporting you all the way is something that is priceless and definitely something you will miss once you are away from them.”

“I have become more laid-back and relaxed. Before college, I always liked to plan things out, but that is pretty much impossible in college. With everyone wanting to hang out and do things at different times, you can’t expect anything to happen like you plan them to.”

“I’ve become more understanding of different personality types and backgrounds in college. Since I’ve been here I feel I’ve also come to understand how tough it is to keep up in the fast lane, especially financially in the working world. The things I miss about high school include all my old high school friends and the simplicity of life and lack of responsibility.”

Nicky Vandewater ASU sophomore

Rebecca Stanley

University of Texas senior

Jaime de la Cruz ASU junior

Christine Sperco University of Miami sophomore

Katie Petersen UofA sophomore

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UofA sophomore

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Cottey College senior

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Our savvy collegians offer some parting advice in their last installment as azTeen panelists

Naomi Tasky

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“I don’t feel very different as a person, but I think I understand how I work and how other people work better. I know what I can do when living on my own and I know what I can expect of others. I don’t really miss anything about high school; I love college!”

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Diana Robles Harvard senior

Becky Barber ASU junior

“I think I’m more mature, and much better at juggling school, internships, jobs and drama. You’re in charge of your own life, and no one can manage it but you. In high school, my mom made my appointments and made sure I was where I need to be when I needed to be there, but mom’s not here anymore! I miss not having to be responsible!”

“I definitely feel older, and for now I think that’s a good thing. I’ve learned a lot about life, about people and relationships, and also a lot of cool academic things too. I’ve voted in my first presidential election, I have a good credit score, and I’ve had the chance to work and travel outside the country. Looking back, I occasionally miss the simplicity of being a high school student, though I know that back then I didn’t think everything was so simple. I have more responsibilities now, but I also have more freedoms. I’ve loved my time in college, meeting new people and seeing new places, but what I miss most are all of the faces and places I grew up knowing back when I was home. It’s hard to keep in touch now that everyone is doing their own thing in college, but the internet makes that a lot easier.” azTeenmagazine.com

In the know

About.com’s college expert Kelsi Lynn holds a master’s from Harvard and has worked as a college adviser to kids in foster care, a program officer at a consortium of liberal arts colleges, and in positions in Student Activities, Residence Life and Dean of Students offices at several universities.

Now a freelance writer specializing in education, Lynn has been writing About.com’s popular College Life Guide since April 2008. Topics on the site run the gamut from finances and academic life to safe sex, dating and campus controversies. She spoke to azTeen about her role as guru to the masses on all things collegiate.

students as lazy, partying, unintellectual people. Many other journalists refuse to question this stereotype, and it breaks my heart to see some of the writing that is written about and for college students with this caricature in mind. I try to challenge those who think students haven’t yet been in the ‘real world’ to think about all that the average student has to balance and all of the issues that he or she has to face. Many of those challenges are similar to those the rest of us face out in the “real world” ourselves.”

Your fellow college blogger Harlan Cohen told us that nothing surprises him anymore.

How about you?

I select my own subject matter, although I am always interested in hearing ideas for new articles from everyone from my editor to my readers. I try to address issues and topics that are both reactive (e.g., my “What to Do If You Hate Your Roommate” article) and proactive (e.g., my “Ten Tips for Living with a College Roommate” article). Additionally, I write articles that, ideally, address certain groups of students who may need a bit more guidance and support than other students: first-year students and firstgeneration students, for example. Lastly,

“I’m with Mr. Cohen on this one: I’m not sure there’s much left that will surprise me after all the amazing – both good and bad – things I’ve seen while working on campuses over the years. One thing that does surprise me in regard to writing about college and college students, however, is how there seems to be an accepted – and, in my opinion, horribly condescending! – perception of

How do you select what you write about?

I also write articles that address the cocurricular aspect of college. In any good college experience, learning takes place both in and outside of the aclassroom; I try to write articles on my About.com Guide Site that help students balance all that they are involved in while also ensuring their health, well-being, and academic success.

What advice do you have for kids who are either just starting to think about college or about to go to college?

My goodness! I could give enough advice to fill your entire magazine (which is why I love writing for a website!), so I’ll just stick to the five most important things. First, if you’re just starting to think about college, don’t let a school’s price tag defer you from considering it.

It can sometimes be cheaper to attend a private school than a public one.

Second, think pretty seriously about your own learning style. If you learn best in a small classroom and by talking with professors, or if you learn best in a large lecture-style environment, look for schools that will meet that need. Third, if you’re applying to college right now, avoid trying to think about what you

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think the admissions office wants to see in your application. Write about what you love, write about what makes you excited, write what you want to write, not what you think an admissions office wants to hear. Your application will be better because of it and you can send it off feeling proud instead of nervous.

Fourth, if you’re about to go to college, my biggest piece of advice: GO TO CLASS! You’d be amazed at how not doing so will get you into trouble very quickly – and how actually going will help you stay on top of your game. And finally, my last piece of advice: don’t be afraid to ask for help. Every single college student in this country has hit at least one major speed bump during college, be it from finances, roommates, a class they’re failing, problems with their boyfriend or girlfriend, or problems handling the academic workload, so reaching out for help makes you more like an average student than one who isn’t cutting it.

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What began as a dream is now a reality for the artists and students alike at Arizona School for the Arts. The small college preparatory school has not only been recognized nationally for its outstanding academic achievements but has also become an important presence within the growing downtown arts district. The tuition-free, 5th- to 12th-grade charter school begins the day with typical core academic classes, and at lunch, clubs varying from the Anime and Manga Club to Academic Decathlon fill the classrooms. But once the afternoon bell rings, the campus transforms into a studio where artists can express themselves through music, dance or drama. In addition to its new permanent facilities, ASA utilizes Phoenix Theatre, Burton Barr Library and Ballet of Arizona. As the school grows, it will continue to foster a warm environment where individuals are encouraged to express themselves and reach their artistic and academic potential.

With such a strong history already, the future is bright for both ASA and its graduates. – Alex Nunez, ‘12

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“ASA is a place of acceptance, a place of endless opportunities and possibilities and a stream of hope for the future.”

– Debbie Robles, ‘10

“It’s a place filled with highly individual people who want to make a difference.”

– Campbell Scott, ‘12

“ASA exercises my genius.”

– Tanner Austin, ‘10

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“ASA has allowed me to be who I am with no restrictions.” – Alex Bullard, ‘10

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“I feel like ASA is like a whole different world because you have a different mix of people who all share things in common and who appreciate each other.” – Karli Rhind,’10

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“It allows me to explore my talents and discover myself.”

– Jaimie Clements, ‘12

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“In a world absent of passion, ASA creates a community in which passion is an endless supply.”

– Yasin Muhammad

…contrary to popular belief, ASA is not a private school.

It is a charter school, which means that it is completely free to attend. ...ASA has no mascot!

It doesn’t have any athletic teams, but that doesn’t mean it is lacking in school spirit. ...ASA has consistently been ranked one of the top charter schools in Arizona.

In recent years, it has even been named a National

Blue Ribbon School. Today, its graduates attend or have attended some of the nation’s top colleges and universities, including Stanford, Duke, Williams and Swarthmore. …ASA has performed as a school in many major venues, including Gammage Auditorium, Symphony Hall and the Orpheum. ASA ensembles have performed at Chase Field, The Arizona Club, the Phoenix Children’s

Museum, and even the opening of the State Senate! ...to graduate from ASA, students must have four years of core academic classes – English, foreign language, social studies, math and science.

...after sophomore year, students must choose an arts major (music, drama or ballet), and upperclassmen must take at least two classes in their major each year.

...an audition is not required to attend ASA; there are beginning arts classes as well as advanced. However, only those who are truly dedicated to both arts and academics will thrive. …ASA is approximately 80 percent female. So, if there are any guys out there in need of a prom date...

– Megan Kirchgessner, Annelisa Leinbach, and Mandy Lucia

Additional contributions to the section by Ben Diego, ’12; Callie Radke, ’10; Leila Duman, ’10; Whitney Bergstrum, ’11; Juliette Chevallier, ’10; Emily Pina, ’12; Eric Colonna, ’12; Deborah Chung, ’10; Lauren Carroll, ’10; Anna Patten, ’10

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“ASA is like a cult. And are they still paying teachers with food?”

– Max Sokol, Mountain Ridge ’10

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n brio,’ but we rds like ‘allegro’ or ‘coet that divides en we have to use woily wh stre tish the of cul m ng ssi see y cro ma e da “W r only ritual is the us have been together since middle ou t; cul a lly ua act n’t are wledge that many of is very accepting of new students at our campus. The knoda ting, but everyone kind of appealing, teachers are not imi int be o als n l ca schoo with food seems r in the past.” – Callie Radke, ’10 id pa ing be gh ou alth , ASA. And nor were they eve currently paid with pizza, “I thought ASA was like a Montessori school.”

– Will Denison, Centennial ‘11

school or a Catholic ssori than it is a public nte Mo a of re mo my entire life. Sure, ls no oo is “ASA nt to Montessori sch not at all be classified we I A, AS e for Be l. oo sch e values, but it can n unique culture and we hold a lot of the sam however, have its ow sic.” – Alex Nunez, ’12 es, do A AS ri. sso nte as Mo s of spirit… and mu ton , rse cou of d An s. philosophie l with football “I legitimately thought ASA was a real high schoo nial ’10 Centen Eary, Drew – ” hing. everyt and teams decent sports, lockers and aom ings. school — it just lacks rtc h sho hig l its rea for a up ch mu kes y “ASA is ver have more than ma tball teams that many “real es do A AS at wh t Bu . and foo computer lab ra high-tech facilities to find creative ways to Despite the lack of ultAS nt body is encouragdedcommunal ingenuity has de stu A’s er, off ls” l an high schoo Ben Diego, ’12 amenities. This individua innovate without such made ASA a school unlike any other.” –

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Conveniently located near ASA, the many art galleries, studios and art spaces are popular destinations for students to kick off the weekend. There are booths selling Central Ave and McDowell A five-minute walk from school, Burton everything from jewelry to beat-up-tiresBarr is the ideal place for an ASA student turned-sculptures. The event is free of charge, and along the walk is Tammy Co. to study, hang out or check out a good Bakery, performers of every style of mubook. Teachers also take students to the library to gather research for papers sic, and many other little shops selling and projects. It functions as the biggest unique items. It is the perfect event for a fun Friday night with all of your friends. school library in Arizona!

Burton Barr Central Library

Copperstar Coffee

Blue Fin

An ancient gas station converted into a coffee shop, Copperstar offers a wide variety of delicious drinks and desserts, as well as Five-star entertainment. The perfect place to hang out with friends, utilize the free wi-fi, or discover new music, Copperstar is the place to be.

Serving Japanese fast food, Blue Fin is a quick and cheap eat. Less than a block from ASA (and right by the light rail stop), it is a favorite for lunch and any other time you need to stay close to school.

On concert nights, it is the ideal place to meet up and grab a bite. Friendly proprietors that know and appreciate the business of ASA students make for a friendly eating experience.

Indian School and 7th Avenue

Mojo Yogurt

Mill Avenue, the Biltmore and Tempe Marketplace

Who doesn’t love frozen yogurt? ASA kids hang out at the various Mojo locations because they are the perfect places to grab a tasty treat. It always brings a smile to your face whether you’ve had a bad day, you’re studying or you’re headed to your favorite store to do some shopping with your friends.

First Friday

Downtown Phoenix, 12th Street to 17th Avenue

First Friday occurs on the first Friday of every month, as the name suggests.

Central and McDowell

Arizona Center/ Hurry for Curry

Arizona Center is an eclectic hodgepodge of shops, restaurants, and even AMC Theatres. One of the dining staples, Hurry for Curry, is a definite favorite with ASA students. Featuring a cool interactive menu for ordering and speedy service, Hurry for Curry is the place to go for fast, quality cuisine.

– Deborah Chung, ’10, and Nate Nichols, ‘12 prom 2010

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“Greece. Just the surroundings of it – the ocean, the fact that it sits on a beach … it’s incredible just to think of it!”

“I would want to go to Hawaii because it is very relaxing and would be a great getaway spot!”

—Michaela Gordon, Sunnyslope ‘12

—Alicia Moore, Aqua Fria ‘11

“Anywhere there’s a beach. I just love the smell of the ocean through the mist, the sand going between my toes.”

—Kristina G, Sunnyslope ‘10

“Hogwarts. Duh. I would hang out with Harry, Ron and Hermione and totally kick Voldermort’s butt.”

— Dara Shefska, Severna Park ‘11

“I would go to Hawaii. I have always wanted to go there and it would be a great place just to get away and relax for the week on the beach.”

“My old hometown in Suwanee, Georgia, to visit all my friends” —Karen Norling, Chaparral ‘11,

“Anywhere besides the desert! After 17 years, I’m way over it.” —Alexia Romero, Sunnyslope

“I’d like to be transported to the moon! It would be fun to float around, and I’ve always wondered what it would be like to be an astronaut.”

—Lauren Pomraning, Xavier ‘11

“If I could be transported anywhere for a week I would go the place that is my screen saver, a tropical paradise where I could get away from everything and just think by myself for a little bit.”

—Joey Koopman, Cactus Shadows ‘10

“If I could be transported anywhere, it would be London because I always wanted to go to experience European life. It’d be great to try something new.”

—Keith George, Moon Valley ‘11,

“If I could go anywhere for a week, I’d have to go to Africa so I could ride all the giraffes and hippos.”

—Ben Flores, Moon Valley ‘11

– Danielle Rosenberg, Desert Mountain ‘13

“If I could be transported anywhere for a week, it would have to be New York with one of my best friends, Cori Gunter, because we always talk about how we want to go there after we graduate.

Also, because the fashion in New York is amazing and I would love to shop there.”

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“Milan, Italy, would be my destination of choice for it is the fashion capital of the world and word has it that they create the most decadent pasta that money can buy.”

—Megan Weaver, Shadow Mountain ‘10

“I would go to Laguna Beach cuz it’s the sexiest place on earth.”

—Mike Cannon, Arcadia ‘10 azTeenmagazine.com

“If I could be transported anywhere for a week it would have to be Germany because I went there for an exchange program and am dying to go back.”

— Katie Payne,

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