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New first aid brand Welly is on a mission to provide you and your Minis with fun fabric bandages (or “Bravery Badges”) and healing ointments so you are prepared for whatever scrapes or boo-boo’s come your way! The stackable first-aid tins (which can be reused, recycled, and repurposed) are sold exclusively at Target and contain premium bandages that are 2x more absorbent than other brands. —getwelly.com
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Founded by a creative team including a Warby Parker alum and mom of 2, Lalo provides a better way to shop for baby with well-made essentials, including their first product, The Daily, a simple, safe, and sleek stroller thoughtfully designed for everyday use, and now, The Chair, a 2-in-1 highchair to play chair that supports little ones as they eat, play and most importantly, reach new milestones. —meetlalo.com
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Supergoop! comes Sunnyscreen, a new line of 100% mineral SPF specially formulated for babies and kids that delivers the cleanest, safest UV protection. Sunnyscreen includes three formulas all of which are blendable and water-resistant for 80 minutes. Sunnyscreen contains non-nano, 100% mineral actives and each product is pediatrician-tested, hypoallergenic, synthetic fragrance and paraben-free! —supergoop.com
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Fit parents! LEKFit has opened a summer popup on La Brea in LA!
Treat yourself this summer at Republic of Booza—a Brooklyn parlor specializing in the 500-year-old technique of elastic booza ice cream.
LoveShackFancy just opened their first Manhattan store on Bleecker Street, fully stocked with all of their delicate, dainty wares.
Sundays, Wednesdays, Thursdays, Fridays, and Saturdays through September 1, enjoy free performances of Shakespeare’s Twelfth Night and Pericles in Griffith Park.
The latest pop-up museum— Wndr Museum—is now open in Chicago featuring a Yayoi Kusama Infinity Mirror room and more!
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Buzz and Woody are back again in this 2019 installment of everyone’s favorite childhood saga, Toy Story! In this adventurous new film, the usual suspects embark on a road trip with Bonnie and a new toy named Forky, but Woody takes them on a slight detour to find his old friend, Bo Peep!
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INSIDE LOOK: (On Right) A peek at our summer cover shoot with Justin and Emily Baldoni and kids Maiya and Maxwell— the two share what makes the other a superhero parent in their eyes! (Below) We hosted our first Mini Mom’s Night Out with BURU this summer and it was a blast!
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I know I’m not the only one who can agree we really hit the ground running once the clock struck summer! It doesn’t seem to matter how old your Minis are, summer activities and trips just keep your calendar full all season long! But there’s no rest for the wicked over here because on top of all of that, we put together this jam-packed summer issue filled with pages of endless style and parenting inspiration! We are thrilled to welcome Emily and Justin Baldoni (Jane the Virgin, Five Feet Apart) to our summer cover to share a real life
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glimpse at their roles as Mom and Dad, Erin Gates of Elements of Style whose blog (and now books!) I’ve followed for years, Jenni Kayne who has created a brand I’m forever trying to emulate in my own home and wardrobe, as well as other inspiring moms like Louise Roe, Nicole Berrie, Shani Darden, and Allie Rizzo! I hope you’ll take a breather from your busy summer to enjoy this bright, fun summer issue! Don’t forget the SPF!
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Meet the new face of sustainable diapering— Coterie! —coterie.com
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Maisonette has collabed with brands like Mott50 and Cynthia Rowley on a Mommy & Me collection! —maisonette.com
◀ GLOW GIRL
I am newly obsessed with these gold glitter sneakers from BURU! —shopburu.com
◀ HEADBAND QUEEN
This seersucker headband is perfect for laid back yet elevated summer hair days! —lelesadoughi.com
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I love this Minnow x Roller Rabbit PJ collab with sweet heart prints for the Minis! —minnowswim.com
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The baby collection from Evereden offers a great sampling of clean products! —ever-eden.com
Use code XOMINI for 20% off your first Sakara Meal Program or 10-Day Reset.
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MAISONET TE ESSENTIALS UNDER THE SEA SANDAL CENTRAL
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Designed by the brand’s in-house team, led by Karolina Petersson, formerly of Celine, children’s e-commerce destination Maisonette recently launched their first-ever private label collection, Maisonette Essentials. With kid-friendly basics at an accessible price point of under $50, the European-inspired collection includes cotton-based fabrics in a neutral color palette as well as ginghams, classic stripes, and three exclusive prints by illustrator Emily Isabella. —maisonette.com
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UNDER THE SEA
Get your Minis ready to make a splash in these water-inspired wardrobe staples that are making serious waves!
AHOY, MINI!
These sea-centric duds are a summer dream! Above: $44; High Seas Summer Romper; $44; Mermaids Tank Top Romper; winterwaterfactory.com Below: $24; Sea Life Essential Organic Onesie; applepark.com
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IN THE WATER
Ocean blue leather, tiny waves, and islands galore!. $60; freshlypicked.com
OCEAN FRIENDS
SEA YOU SOON
Wear this tank as you set up shop oceanside. $30; bloomingdales.com.
BABY SHARK
Your Mini mister will love swimming These shark print pajamas will take a bite out with these octopi! $59.95; nordstrom.com. of bedtime. $25; adenandanais.com.
sway on Sway left. Then right. Then left again. Relaxing—right? That same calming motion can now be a continuous one, thanks to the newest member of our Nuna family the LEAF wind. Creating a soft, steady breeze as it connects with just a click to your LEAF or LEAF curv*, with 6 speed settings sure to soothe your little one straight on into newborn dreamland. Here’s to swaying on...and on. *compatible with models SE-10-xxx & SE-30-xxx
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UK brand Six is redefining maternity underwear with their uncompromisingly comfortable bras and knickers. Using the highest quality French leavers lace and Italian jerseys, Six answers the need of the modern woman who doesn’t want to say sayonara to her style or identity during (or after!) pregnancy. The brand has recently launched with Net-APorter as the e-commerce site’s first maternity dedicated underwear brand and offers a capsule collection of luxurious bump and nursing-friendly staples in a variety of soft, shell hues (think powder pink and neutral tones) as well as black and navy. —six-studio.com
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THE COCOON
Amma—a collaboration between Emily Baldoni, Sharon Baldoni, and Satya Twena—launched its first product, the Cocoon, to offer moms the ability to pump or nurse in style. Originally designed by Sharon thirty years ago as she was breastfeeding her son, Justin Baldoni (Jane the Virgin, Five Feet Apart), it wasn’t until she gifted the item to Emily for her own nursing journey that the two teamed up with Satya to redesign the Cocoon for the modern mom. Providing 360 degree coverage, this breathable, organic cotton wrap allows baby to see out without allowing others to see in, making it a musthave for moms on the go. —weareamma.com
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The delicious and nourishing meal and snack delivery service for moms aptly-named, Twenty-Five Eight. Using only organic ingredients, local produce, and 100% pastured animal proteins, Twenty-Five Eight offers breakfast, lunch and dinner options, as well as pantry items like broths and nut butters. Meal plans start at $70/week and are available for delivery in Los Angeles and Orange County, as well as ship statewide to California and regions in Arizona, Nevada, Utah, Oregon, and Washington. —twenty-fiveeight.com
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Does the act of finding and booking classes for your kids stress you out? It’s time you meet Sawyer. This innovative online marketplace for parents helps families discover an entire world of activities outside the classroom. The subscription-free platform conveniently connects parents to hundreds of the most enriching activities and programs for their children right in their own neighborhood— all at the click of a button! —hisawyer.com
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One giant leap for monitor kind. The new Miku Smart Monitor ($399) offers real-time breathing and sleep tracking with no wires or wearables. Miku’s proprietary sensors work with your smart phone to alert you of changes to your baby’s vitals and nursery conditions, whether or not you have an internet connection! That means you can rest easier knowing that your monitor is working, not stuck somewhere on a cloud. Plus, no subscription required! —mikucare.com
Book Club
Grab a stack of these summer reads to tote to the beach or wherever your sunshine-filled family trips may take you!
FOR SCHOOL
THE PIGEON HAS TO GO TO SCHOOL
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BIG BROTHER PEANUT BUTTER
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BABY DRAGON, BABY DRAGON
by Melissa Marr A little girl and her wild and crazy dragon friend learn to keep pace with each other in this adventurous tale.
WE ARE THE CHANGE
Sixteen award-winning children’s book artists illustrate the civil rights quotations that inspire them most.
by Mo Willems Get your littles ready for the upcoming school year with the latest book from Mo Willems!
Joolz Tailor collection customize your ride
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Scoop
FLEUR MARCHE M E E T COT E R I E DRINKING WHILE NURSING
◀ BUSINESS OF BUD
Former goop directors Ashley Lewis and Meredith Schroeder—a dynamic duo who raised $1M in pre-seed funding while pregnant and are due three weeks apart in August—are well-versed in curating wellness experiences for women and now bring their talents to their new venture, Fleur Marche. A premium curation of the most elegant and top-quality cannabis products on a beautiful e-commerce platform, Fleur Marche reimagines CBD and seeks to help women understand the powerful wellness benefits of cannabis. —fleurmarche.com
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Every parent can agree that some of the first choices you make, from what to pack in your hospital bag to which swaddles to use, feel both endless and overwhelming.
environment? What does it all mean?
So when it comes to baby care products, knowing which rash cream or diaper to buy may seem simply perplexing. There are hundreds of options, opinions and ever-changing factors to keep in mind. Do you choose cloth or disposable? How does a biodegradable diaper impact the
Coterie understands that selecting a diaper for your child is an important and intimate decision. They also address the misinformation and noise that exists in the space, with the mission to provide parents with more accurate, concise information. The brand promises to provide transparency
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about modern diapering, equipping consumers with better knowledge to make truly informed decisions. Below are some of the diaper questions all new parents should know before deciding which are best for their family. IS IT TRUE THAT CLOTH DIAPERS ARE MORE ENVIRONMENTALLY FRIENDLY?
Let’s first look at the fact that all diapers, disposable and cloth, have an impact on the environment. In many cases, cloth and disposable diapers have no significant differences in environmental impacts, according to a study done by the Environment Agency in the UK. Cloth diapers are often made of cotton, which is very chemically dependent considering 3% of arable land is devoted to cotton, however growing it takes up 10% of all agricultural chemicals and 25% of insecticides. Cotton fertilizers are also, unfortunately, very big greenhouse gas emitters. While disposables take more raw materials to create, fill landfills and degrade slowly, cloth diapers require water and electricity for cleaning and commercial cloth diaper services require fuel for delivery trucks. Environmental factors aside, cloth diapers tend to be less absorbent and can’t draw moisture away from your baby’s skin as efficiently as disposables, which can lead to skin irritation and rashes. They also tend to feel wet and cold against a baby’s bottom. THERE ARE ‘BIODEGRADABLE’ DIAPERS ON THE MAR-
KET NOW, AREN’T THEY THE BEST SOLUTION? WHAT ABOUT ‘ORGANIC’ AND ‘PLANT BASED?’
Unfortunately, no diaper can be 100% biodegradable. Only certain components of a diaper can biodegrade, a process which actually increases CO2 emissions. As far as performance, biodegradable materials aren’t as effective when it comes to absorbency. Further, to reap the benefits of a biodegradable diaper, they need to be disposed of in a landfill with a methane gas recovery system and most US landfills are not equipped with such a system. Just as no diaper is 100% biodegradable, they also aren’t 100% organic or plant-based. Diaper industry veteran Carlos Richer has been guiding leading brands in the industry for over 35 years and advises that all disposable diapers, regardless of the brand, contain synthetic materials in order to help them function properly. Given that cloth and biodegradable diapers don’t perform as well as their synthetic counterparts, and aren’t necessarily better for the environment, Coterie made the conscious decision to focus on performance, safety, and sustainability, developing a better disposable solution. WHAT IS THE ANSWER TO DIAPER SUSTAINABILITY? HOW CAN WE CHANGE THINGS?
The long-term, sustainable solution to modern diapering is through recycling. Today, there are two major barriers to this: collecting and sorting used diapers, then sanitizing and breaking them down.
CLICK HERE TO S H O P COT E R I E DIAPERS!
Coterie is working on a 360 solution to this with partner Diaper Recycling Technology (DRT), who are pioneering recycling technologies that can recover up to 95% of raw materials from used diapers both energy and cost efficiently. They’re also developing a camera to identify diapers in the waste stream to separate collection. The success of this would mean big change for the country. To support this development and help make diapers sustainable long-term, Coterie is donating a percentage of all diaper sales to DRT. Visit Coterie.com to shop these softer, safer diapers and find the perfect fit for your little one.
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This debut stroller from Lalo includes every feature a family could need (even a phone charger!) and a warranty that has you covered as long as your family is growing! In our last issue, we pointed out the features that make this the hottest stroller of 2019 and now we’re happy to share what happened when we took the Daily stroller for a spin for the very first time. —meetlalo.com
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When baby gear brand Lalo launched this year, we knew we had to get our hands on their debut product, The Daily. This stroller—soon to be equipped for two kids with its second seat adaptors launching in the coming months—comes complete with all accessories at no extra cost and from the minute it landed at our door, we were already smitten. The branding alone feels modern and sophisticated, yet playful— a precursor to what you’ll find inside the box. Once opened, The Daily was quick to assemble and suprisingly lightweight for such a beautiful, sturdy, and fully loaded piece of equipment. There are stroller hooks, seat liners, a car seat adaptor, an all-weather cover, and parent organizer and charger all included with your purchase and given the construction and use families will get out of this stroller for literal years to come, we were floored at the reasonable price. Talk about a bang for your buck! No detail was spared with the design of The Daily and if it wasn’t for the large storage basket (seriously, the biggest we’ve seen!), the stroller’s portable phone charger might take the cake for the most thoughtful and convenient feature for parents on the go. But let’s talk about how it moves. The Daily is a dream when it comes to ease of use and smooth sailing when out with your littles. The tires are larger than your typical everyday
stroller, but Lalo assures you they will never go flat. The frame is built for ultimate shock absorption and even while cruising over gravel during our maiden voyage, The Daily did not disappoint with effortless steering and gliding toward our destination. And perhaps one of the greatest points for parents to note about this breakout stroller? The Lalo Family Warranty that covers your stroller as long as your family is growing. If you need a refresh, they will service your stroller to make sure everything is working properly and even schedule a cleaning and tune-up before you welcome a new baby. With the launch of The Daily and more products to come, Lalo deserves a big squeeze for truly designing their brand with parents in mind.
THE ANT
The latest addition to the Bugaboo family is the lightest, most compact travel stroller yet! The Bugaboo Ant allows busy parents to push and steer with one hand, making the stroller ideal for adventures or even every day! PHOTOGRAPHY COURTESY OF BUGABOO
THE BEST NEW STROLLER F O R FA M I LY T R AV E L !
SMOOTH STEER Easy maneuvering
The Ant allows you to push and steer with one hand— unheard of in ultra-light strollers!
ECO STROLL EASILY FIXED No more rivets
Designed with screws instead of rivets, the Ant makes it easy to replace parts when needed.
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You can recycle more than 80 percent of the stroller at the end of its life.
GET READY Where to buy
The Ant will be available to purchase on Bugaboo.com August 1 and in stores September 2.
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The only smart-tech convertible car seat that provides essential alerts to keep baby safe while you drive and when you arrive.
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Seeing the world through the eyes of my children. Seeing that innate and natural joy and wonder. I’m trying to figure out how I can recapture that same joy and wonder as an adult. Learning about true selflessness and unconditional love. And that poop has become a word said in the house about 25 times a day with joy and not embarrassment – I love that. Oh, and dad jokes. My kids think I’m funny which is the greatest win of all time. JUSTIN BALDONI |
What do you think is the greatest challenge of parenting?
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Making a conscious effort to not make myself their savior or a superhero. Going against my ego and showing up as I am instead of being perfect. Knowing I am going to mess them up by passing my baggage on to them no matter how hard I try not to. That’s tough. Also, energy. I mean, c’mon— I’m only 35... why don’t they get tired?! And why won’t they go to sleep?! JUSTIN BALDONI |
What surprised you most about fatherhood?
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Just how incredibly and profoundly unprepared I was and continue to be, as I am still way in over my head trying to figure out my stuff and who I am! I have a JUSTIN BALDONI |
new rule: I don’t trust anyone who thinks they are ready to be a parent. How could you ever be ready to bring a life into this world and prepare them for #angrytwitter? I also don’t trust anyone who doesn’t think they need therapy. I promise I don’t have trust issues. What is your greatest parenting worry or fear?
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That my choices today will be their memories tomorrow. And that those memories will in some way be filled with resentment for any one of my thousand mistakes I make each month. JUSTIN BALDONI |
What have you loved about watching Emily become a mom?
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My wife. I don’t have words for how deeply I respect my wife. She is an absolutely stunning mother. Filled with grace. So patient (although she thinks she isn’t, and it’s really funny when she loses it. But don’t smile when that happens... big mistake). Emily is a real-life angel with an intuition that I rely on for everything. She really “feels” our kids in a way I can’t. She is somehow in-tune with everything and knows what they need before they need it. I don’t know how she does it. We often talk about this, that if the world were right side up, mothers would be the real celebrities. JUSTIN BALDONI |
What traits do you hope your kids inherit from Emily?
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Her kindness. Her grace. Her intuition. Her innate goodness. Her unmatched grounding and quiet strength. Her resilience. Her empathy and capacity to hold another human’s darkness without judgement. Her sense of justice and wisdom. I could go on and on. I hope they grow up and have much more of her than me. But I hope they have my sense of humor, because I’m definitely funnier. JUSTIN BALDONI |
What makes you two a great team when it comes to parenting?
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If you could give your kids one piece of advice, what would it be?
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Something you should know about me is I have a hard time with rules, so I’m not going to just leave them one. But if I had to leave them “some” advice it would be... JUSTIN BALDONI |
Honest answer? We are complete opposites and I am kind of like a third child she often has to take care of. But I think because we often see things on such extreme ends, we find ourselves meeting in the middle a lot and realizing that our unique super power as parents is just that— coming together and truly co-parenting. Consulting. Talking. Sometimes fighting, but mostly talking through our thoughts and feelings and not being attached to who is right and wrong. When we do that, which is actually often, we rarely go wrong. It’s really a beautiful thing and something I never thought I would actually experience. JUSTIN BALDONI |
Lead with your heart. When you don’t know the answer, say it. When that voice inside you is telling you something, listen. Love deeply, even when it hurts. Trust God— we didn’t create ourselves. We can’t even recycle the right way, how the hell could we have any comprehension of God’s infiniteness and unconditional love? And when you are really going through a tough time and don’t know what to do, just think about what your mother would do, and do that. Finally, “Where there is love, nothing is too much trouble and there is always time.” -`Abdu’l-Bahá
What do you love most about motherhood?
MINI |
The fact that I get to experience unconditional love. I get to give it and I get to receive it. It’s a feeling that can’t be put into words, but it’s the most beautiful thing in the world. EMILY BALDONI |
What do you think is the greatest challenge of motherhood?
MINI |
Sleep deprivation to the point of insanity. I’ve been there. And I totally get why it’s used as an actual form of torture.
EMILY BALDONI |
What surprised you most about motherhood?
MINI |
How lonely it can be even though you know millions of others are going through the same thing. If people weren’t so afraid of talking about the challenges of motherhood, I think it would be so much easier to build communities and support systems where we can hold a safe space for each other. A space to show up exactly how we feel, through the good, the bad, and the ugly.
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MINI |
fear?
What is your greatest parenting worry or
That I’m going to mess up my kids and fail to give them the tools to help them soar through life.
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What have you loved about watching Justin become a dad?
MINI |
So many things. But one that really stands out is that Justin has an incredible way of bringing magic to the smallest moments. It’s like watching Hugh Jackman in The Greatest Showman! The kids’ eyes light up whenever he comes into the room because Daddy can match their natural ability of seeing magic everywhere.
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What traits do you hope your kids inherit from Justin?
MINI |
His ability to create special moments, his compassion, kindness and generosity toward people who are less fortunate than us, his resourcefulness, and his drive to leave the world a little bit better than he found it.
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What makes you two a great team when it comes to parenting?
MINI |
We are very different people, and we know that if we meet in the middle, we’re golden, so we’ve become very good at listening to each other and learning from each other. We also both love hard and are not afraid to show our vulnerability, which I think are two of the most important ingredients in parenthood.
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Talk to us about Amma, and your first product, the Cocoon. What inspired you to bring this to moms today?
MINI |
The original version of the Cocoon was designed by Justin’s mom Sharon back in the ‘80s when he was born, and she gifted it to me when we had Maiya in 2015. It was a game changer for me, as I had been looking for something beautiful that fit my style, and also worked as a cover for those moments when I wanted some privacy. There was nothing like it on the market, so we decided to launch AMMA and redesign the Cocoon for the modern mama. It’s been received with so much love and excitement from mamas all over the world. We want to pull breastfeeding mothers out of the dark corners and cramped closets and make them feel comfortable to breastfeed in style whenever they want, wher-
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ever they may be. It’s breathable, light, 100% organic cotton, and knitted in a way that allows baby to see out but nobody can see in. It can be used as a breastfeeding cover, but stands on its own as a gorgeous garment. I use it as a poncho, cape, scarf, and take it off to use as a stroller cover or baby blanket. It does it all! I can’t be on a flight without it if I’m traveling with my kiddos; they’ll only sleep if they’re under the Cocoon. If you could give your kids one piece of advice, what would it be?
MINI |
Trust and follow your innate desire to evolve and grow, travel that wild journey with kindness towards yourself and others, and always stay close to God.
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eternal
Summer
As the founder of eponymous California cool lifestyle brand Jenni Kayne, this mom of three opens up about how her brand has grown, how having a third baby has turned her world upside down, and what we can find in her new entertaining book, Pacific Natural. photography by
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C L I C K TO S H O P THE NEW CUPCAKES AND CASHMERE SHOE CO L L E C T I O N !
Let’s dive right into your life as a mom. What does your morning routine look like?
MINI |
I wake up around 7 AM and drink a big glass of water. I take vitamins, stretch, and wake up my kids for a nourishing breakfast. During the summer, I drive them to day camp, or if they’re doing an away camp, I like to fit in a pilates class. JENNI KAYNE |
You recently welcomed Baby Trooper into your family. What changes did you experience this time around with Baby #3?
MINI |
My pregnancy was pretty easy, except that I broke my leg when I was ten weeks pregnant and had to have surgery, which was pretty scary. I was on crutches until I was 20 weeks pregnant JENNI KAYNE |
which slowed me down a lot. At the same time, it allowed me to take it easy, take care of myself, and be in the moment. Trooper is so easy. Everything is more relaxed with him and so fun. I’m cherishing each moment and in no rush to get the the next phase. Having a third has definitely thrown everything on its head and there is a lot more chaos and less downtime for us, but it’s all worth it.
Tell us how you decided on your kids’ names.
MINI |
We named Trooper because he had gone through so much and ended up being so healthy and happy when he was born. Tanner we read in a book the day we went to the hospital and we loved it. Ripley was named after a friend’s brother. We loved the name, whether we were having a boy or a girl. JENNI KAYNE |
MINI |
What do you think is the greatest challenge of motherhood?
MINI |
The biggest challenge in life in general, but especially motherhood, is staying present and letting go of the things you can’t control.
My extended family and network of friends is a huge help. I grew up going to friends’ houses all the time and I can’t imagine not having that support system and community for my kids too.
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What has surprised you most about motherhood thus far?
What helps you to juggle motherhood and career?
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MINI |
How much it has widened my world view, and how it has reinforced my dedication to the environment and doing my part to making sure my kids grow up on a healthy planet. JENNI KAYNE |
What is most important to you in raising your children?
MINI |
Speaking on the Jenni Kayne brand, how would you describe the overall aesthetic? What does the Jenni Kayne brand embody?
MINI |
I like to call the aesthetic “warm minimalism.” The brand embodies living simply but beautifully, embracing the natural world, and finding ways to slow down in our busy lives to make moments memorable. JENNI KAYNE |
Since you’re a style guru, what is your idea of the perfect summer ensemble?
MINI |
Giving them the confidence they need to be themselves, making sure they grow into kind and thoughtful people who help others, and making sure our family unit stays strong and stable so there’s always a safe place for them to come home. JENNI KAYNE |
I love a simple sundress. Cotton and linen are absolute musts in warm weather. Wherever I am, you can always catch me in a wide-brimmed sun hat and a pair of espadrille flats. JENNI KAYNE |
Let’s talk about your book— Pacific Natural. What inspired you to create this book and what can we find inside?
MINI |
What do you think are must-have elements for summer entertaining?
MINI |
IA good set of servingware and glassware that can stand up to all-weather use. I love our rattan carafe and glasses— they have a nice vintage-y feel without being too stand-out retro. And, making dishes that can be made in advance and served cold or room temp—the last thing you want when you’re hosting people in the summer months is running in and out of the kitchen, sweating up a storm. JENNI KAYNE |
I’ve always loved entertaining, and as kids and family enter the picture, it’s become a bigger part of my life and I’ve started to hone my style and have a few secrets I share with friends who ask how I pull it off. I wanted to compile a little snapshot of how I mark special occasions throughout the year, because I love living by the seasons and I can always find something to celebrate. You’ll find some of my favorite recipes, some tips and tricks to make entertaining easy, and beautiful arrangements against a backdrop of some of my favorite California landscapes. JENNI KAYNE |
What are your top tips for hosting a summer party?
MINI |
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Summer is the perfect time to
comes together effortlessly for certain people only. The only reason it looks effortless is because all of the work has been done in advance, and they know that when the guests arrive is the time to relax. What are you looking forward to most about raising your kids in LA?
MINI |
The best part of living in LA sometimes is getting out of LA! Don’t get me wrong, I love it here, but living in a city and being so close to either the mountains or desert or beach is pretty unbeatable. JENNI KAYNE |
Favorite places in LA to visit with kids, GO!
MINI |
Horseback riding at Sullivan Canyon, the Brentwood Country Mart, Malibu Farm Cafe and Malibu Pier, hiking at West Ridge, or the Ivy at the shore for a special treat. JENNI KAYNE |
really let loose and embrace that carefree mentality. I love hosting a garden potluck, where everyone brings something made with what they’ve grown in their garden. Laid-back is the constant theme. Kick off your shoes and enjoy it! Oh, and always wear sunscreen. What do you think is one of the biggest myths when it comes to hosting a party or entertaining in general?
MINI |
That there’s some inherent quality or characteristic that makes a good host and that it JENNI KAYNE |
If you could give your kids one piece of advice, what would it be?
MINI |
JENNI KAYNE |
Be kind.
FA S T FA C T S BEFORE KIDS, I NEVER THOUGHT I WOULD Even know how to boil water! FAVORITE KIDS BOOK The Giving Tree. FAVORITE LOCAL RESTAURANT A Votra Sante. CAN’T STOP LISTENING TO Francis and the Lights. COFFEE ORDER I don’t do coffee! A large iced matcha with a splash of almond, please! FAVORITE PLACE TO SHOP FOR KIDS Maisonette! IF THERE WERE MORE HOURS IN THE DAY, I WOULD Linger longer after dinner. FAVORITE KIDS MOVIE The Velveteen Rabbit. SHOWS I’M WATCHING Euphoria and Big Little Lies. GUILTY PLEASURE Turkey bacon! Otherwise, I’m a strict vegetarian.
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GOOD INFLUENCE Fashion journalist, TV host, author of the style guide Front Roe, British-born Louise Roe wears literally dozens of hats in her life as a Los Angeles-based lifestyle influencer. And now that she’s welcomed daughter Honor into the mix, the new mom tells Mini what aspects of her own childhood she plans to share with her, the hardest aspect of motherhood, and exactly what she thought when she learned she was pregnant. photography by
MACKENZIE HUNKIN
color scheme, which somehow just makes it feel calm. And lots of books! Tell us about your daughter’s room. What inspired you when creating the space?
MINI |
I wanted it to feel like England, specifically the countryside, so I used floral wallpaper from Wallshoppe, and found some old sketches online, framed. I knew I’d be spending a lot of time in here, so the lighting is low and the feel is definitely calm and feminine, but not too babyish. LOUISE ROE |
Let’s talk motherhood! What has surprised you most about motherhood thus far?
MINI |
How funny a baby can be. Honor has a big sense of humor and sometimes starts a joke off, which makes me properly belly laugh. I wasn’t expecting that! LOUISE ROE |
What were your first thoughts when you learned you were pregnant?
MINI |
Thank you for inviting us into your home! Tell us about the place!
MINI |
It’s an older home, which I really wanted to find, rather than something modern. It was built in the 1930’s (which is old for LA!) and has quite a neutral palette, with antique furniture mixed in and a cozy feel. LOUISE ROE |
I didn’t believe it. We were leaving for a flight 20 minutes later and I made Mackenzie race out to the nearest shop to buy more tests. I don’t know why, but I just couldn’t believe it was true. LOUISE ROE |
What is your greatest parenting worry or fear?
MINI | MINI |
TDo you have a favorite room in your home?
I love our bedroom. It has beautiful Campaign furniture and a sage green and cream LOUISE ROE |
Probably that all-elusive balance between working too much, or too little. LOUISE ROE |
CLICK HERE TO C H E C K O U T LO U I S E ’ S B LO G , FRONT ROE!
What is most important to you in raising your daughter?
MINI |
So many things! But mostly that she is somebody who respects others, has compassion, and confidence in her own voice. But for now, somebody who eats her veggies and laughs as much as possible! LOUISE ROE |
Is there anything from your own childhood you hope to share with her or teach her?
MINI |
I was lucky to have a really amazing upbringing. Very hands-on, loving parents, lots of fresh air, running around and also, my siblings and I were taught to work hard and commit to things. I want to share all that with Honor if we can! LOUISE ROE |
What is your greatest joy of motherhood?
MINI |
I’ve become a lot closer to my girlfriends who are mothers, and I’ve also noticed the followers of mine who are mums or want to be mums, ask very detailed questions, and I of them! The dialogue is very honest, supportive and kind... one of the positives of social media! LOUISE ROE |
As cliché as it sounds, the newfound love and sense of total and utter obsession and protectiveness. It’s like you grow a whole new heart for this little being. LOUISE ROE |
What have you found to be hardest aspect of motherhood thus far?
MINI |
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Tell us how you decided on your daughter’s name.
Where have you seen the biggest changes in your life since becoming a mom?
We both loved it. It’s rare, but not so unusual that people can’t spell it. And funnily enough, when we made the decision, we were on our babymoon in a place called the Honor Bar. We had already chosen the name— so she’s not named after a bar! But it was very sweet. I kept the napkin!
MINI |
Probably the usual, practical answers of way less sleep, and not being able to be spontaneous anymore. Life takes on a more planned, ordered approach— and hangovers are so awful; it’s rarely worth it anymore! MINI |
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What are you looking forward to most about raising your daughter in LA?
MINI |
Being able to be outdoors so much, having access to the beach, and beyond that, all the beautiful national parks and mountains. We want to explore more. LOUISE ROE |
What helps you to juggle motherhood and career?
MINI |
Having incredible help. There is no way this could be done without my wonderful husband of course, but also our incredible nanny, and the support of friends. LOUISE ROE |
Has your style changed at all since becoming a mom?
MINI |
It hasn’t [changed] much. I always loved high-waisted jeans, a cute sweater, and flats. I still stick to that mostly! Easy, tailored, neutrals with a pop of color here and there. LOUISE ROE |
As a busy working mama, tell us what a typical work day looks like for you.
MINI |
We wake at 6.30, get Honor up, dressed, and make breakfast together. If it’s a weekday, Mackenzie and I will work from 8 to 4, mostly at our desks, but also shooting, filming in the studio, taking meetings, and going to appointments. Then at 4, we take Honor to the park or play in the garden, and have family time. Once she’s in bed, Mackenzie usually cooks, and we watch a movie. Some nights I have to work, or we see friends for dinner. LOUISE ROE |
FA S T FA C T S TYPICAL COFFEE ORDER Hot oat milk latte. FAVORITE LOCAL RESTAURANT Gran Blanco, Venice Beach. ON MY NIGHTSTAND Framed pics of Mackenzie and Honor, about three books on rotation, water, jewelry in an old dish. BEFORE KIDS, I NEVER THOUGHT I WOULD Have so many bottles of wine at home. CAN’T STOP LISTENING TO French Chill on Sonos! ALWAYS IN MY FRIDGE Fresh pasta, Branston pickle (from anyone visiting from England), oat milk, shrimp, smoked salmon, rosé, roast chicken, and lots of veg. FAVORITE KIDS BOOK Paddington Bear and anything from Shutterfly. They personalize their kids’ books with their name and it’s brilliant. FAVORITE LOCAL SHOP Jenni Kayne. IDEAL DATE NIGHT A loud sports bar, at the bar, with good margaritas.
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N AT U R A L MOM Nicole Berrie has made a name for herself in the world of wellness and even with two kids in tow, she doesn’t show any signs of slowing down. The founder of healthy living website Bonberi, this plantbased mom recently opened her reimagined version of a New York City bodega in Manhattan’s West Village, slinging fresh juices, smoothies, salads, grain bowls, and a myriad of other wellness-inspired goodies from homeware, to beauty, to skincare products. photography by
ANA GAMBUTO
MINI |
Do you have a favorite room?
I love the kids’ rooms. I really focused on making them bright and happy and I think we accomplished that! I took care to find pieces I truly loved like cribs from Oeuf and shaggy rugs from ABC. Pierre Frey makes the most beautiful wall coverings and their children’s versions are the perfect mix between cute and chic. The artwork is personally collected over the years from Wes Anderson’s brother Eric Chase Anderson who illustrates all his films to a Space Invader print. The funny thing is my husband and I collected these years ago before our kids and now they’re perfect for our children’s rooms. NICOLE BERRIE |
What are some of your favorite elements in your home?
MINI |
When we were renovating our home, we had super low ceilings and wondered what we would do if we broke above them. It turned out there was a type of beam that we could just cover to create a geometric ceiling of sorts. They’ve become a beautiful design element in the space and now other tenants in our building have done the same. NICOLE BERRIE |
We’re thrilled to be in your beautiful home! How would you describe the place?
MINI |
I would say mid-century meets Japanese pop art meets real life. My husband definitely veers towards minimalism and neutrals where I love color and a little quirk, so I think it’s a balance of the two. We mix found and hand-me-down objects like my parents’ Turkish oriental rug, Takahashi Murakami artwork with Eames-style dining chairs and Oeuf kids furniture. I want it to feel well-designed, but also [like] a home. NICOLE BERRIE |
My husband, who previously studied and worked in architecture, de-
signed the floating staircase and glass wall. I was definitely a shabby chic “Domino” girl before I met him and he kind of Kanye’d my life into loving minimalism and clean lines. His dream is a perfect, clutter-less, mid-century home... I’m getting there. I also like our open pantry. To me, walking into a home and seeing the massive bowls of fruit and vegetables, spice bottles, oils, and kitchen tools out on display means that nourishing our family comes first. What are your favorite elements in your kids’ rooms?
pers we chose for each room. I love that it’s such a historical house but it has fun with many different prints. For their bathroom, we chose a graffiti wallpaper that we collaborated on with a NYC street artist. Everyone thinks someone came in and actually spray painted the room! I think the thing I love the most are both of their bookcases. They’re a mix of books I grew up with and new ones we’ve found. Growing up, books were truly my greatest treasure and I’m so excited to pass down that passion to my kids.
MINI |
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I love the Pierre Frey wallpa-
Let’s talk motherhood! What has surprised you most about motherhood?
MINI |
Everything! There is a vision you have about how life is going to look as a mother and then you become a mom and your kids smash everything. Some things in the best way, some things you have to come to terms with and pivot. I’ve become a master pivoter since becoming a mom. Whether it’s finding out your kid has severe allergies to not hitting milestones on the timeline you thought. It’s the biggest lesson in going with the flow, which is a beautiful lesson that I’ve also taken into my life and work.
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MINI |
fear?
What is your greatest parenting worry or
I try not to let worry or fear run the way I parent. You can do a deep dive into Google and drive yourself crazy (and believe me I have), but I focus on the positive and making sure your children feel safe, cared for, loved, and heard. If I let fear run the show, my kids will pick up on that.
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What is most important to you in raising your kids?
MINI |
Making sure my kids feel love and that they’re taken care of— whether it’s through physical and verbal acts of love, setting firm guidelines, nourishing food, or joy.
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MINI |
What is your greatest joy of motherhood?
MSeeing my kids grow from tiny babies to little people with personalities of their own, which they were born with, is truly mind-blowing every day.
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What have you found to be hardest aspect of motherhood thus far?
MINI |
Navigating the unknown. Having Jude was the biggest learning curve because we had to learn everything from scratch. From sleep training to breastfeeding to teething to traveling, the first of everything is the hardest and when you think a phase will never end and you’ll never sleep again, boom, something changes and you’re like, “If only I had known that was a phase, I may have enjoyed it more.” So I try to use that lesson with Sea.
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Tell us how you decided on your children’s names.
MINI |
I adore the Beatles and Hey Jude was my mother’s favorite Beatles song. To me, the name conveys strength, but also kindness, which is Jude to a T. I always loved the name Sea and have been holding onto it hoping we would have a girl. The crazy part is when she was born, she had these pale blue eyes, which I would never have expected because I’m half Korean and my husband has dark brown eyes and brown hair, so her name really fit.
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What helps you to juggle motherhood and career?
MINI |
Taking time for myself. I get very selfish with my self-care whether making sure I meditate and breathe first thing
NICOLE BERRIE |
in the morning, move and sweat almost every day, making myself a green juice, or even getting a massage after the kids are asleep. For me, these are not luxuries but what I consistently need to show up for my family. This might mean something else to another person but self-care for me is paramount. Talk to us about Bonberi. How did the brand come to be?
MINI |
I worked in magazines for a long time and wondered why there wasn’t a place online that felt chic and aspirational but also approachable when it came to wellness. I launched the website with a friend and we would meet chefs, models, artists, and holistic gurus to ask them about their wellness routines, what they cooked and ate to feel grounded and strong. I slowly began to integrate my own recipes and that’s what really took off. Instagram was growing at the same
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time and we began to amass an audience on social media. When I relaunched the site on my own after having Jude, I focused on telling my own story through the lens of approachable and indulgent plant-based living, how to transition to a clean lifestyle, and food-combining. It was amazing to see how sharing my personal life and story really resonated with people so I stuck with that! Last September, an opportunity came to open a pop-up shop on Bleecker Street in NYC. Although I had no experience in retail, I had always envisioned having a real life component of Bonberi and I jumped in head first. We’re still growing and learning but now it’s become a multi-media brand with a shop, website, e-books and more, and I hope to keep growing. Do you ever experience self doubt with running such a successful brand? How do you get past it?
MINI |
All the time. Mostly before I took the deep dive to launching my business. Fear can be paralyzing, preventing you to even try something and fail. Once I got past the initial fear of risk and the unknown, then the fear slowly dissi-
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FA S T FA C T S BEFORE KIDS, I NEVER THOUGHT I WOULD Not flinch at being projectile pooped or puked on. IF THERE WERE MORE HOURS IN THE DAY, I WOULD Write thank you notes, read, listen to a podcast. FAVORITE KIDS MOVIE The Nutcracker and Moana. ON MY NIGHTSTAND My Spectra breast pump. FAVORITE LOCAL SHOP Heermance Farm and Follain. FAVORITE LOCAL RESTAURANT Malaparte. TYPICAL COFFEE ORDER Iced double espresso with a splash of homemade nut milk. FAVORITE KIDS BOOK Goodnight Moon and the Hungry Caterpillar. CAN’T STOP LISTENING TO My guided mediations by Gabrielle Bernstein. ALWAYS IN MY FRIDGE Juice ingredients: kale, celery, lemons, romaine, green apples, berries for Sea, and a box of arugula for my salads. IDEAL DATE NIGHT Dinner in the West Village with rose on ice, a walk to get chocolate sorbet from Amorino hazelnut gelato for him, and going dream house “window shopping.”
hemian. If I could live in the 1970s, aesthetically, I would forever. I’ve definitely shied away from trends since becoming a mom. I know what works for me and I invest in pieces that will last a long time rather than one season. I also love a crossbody or belt bag for running around with the kids. I don’t know the last time I bought heels, so I love a chic flat sandal like Khaite or Manolo Blahnik. My favorite pieces are usually from Warm, Loewe, Chloe, and Dries Van Noten, so Upscale Hippie. Then I mix in vintage which is my favorite thing to shop for. “The find” is so rewarding. Favorite places to visit in NYC with kids, GO!
MINI |
The Museum of Natural History, Central Park, Hudson River Park, Children’s Museom of Arts, and Teich Toy & Bookstore.
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pated. When you are the midst of doing, there is little time for doubt. You have to stick to your guns and keep going, especially when you begin to grow an audience and customer base who believe in you. For me, getting messages about how people love our recipes, dishes, and things we share and how it’s touched them and moved them to cook and be healthier is the most rewarding thing in the world. That inspires me to keep going and growing. Has your personal style changed at all since becoming a mom?
MINI |
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My style has always been a bit bo-
If you could give your kids one piece of advice what would it be?
MINI |
Listen to your intuition. It will never steer you wrong.
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MINI |
Walk us through a typical work day.
I wake up and pump for Sea’s first morning bottle, then I get both of the kids. We do bottle and breakfast together and since Sea still has her morning nap, I take Jude to school or camp. I love our walks together where we can chat and stroll through our neighborhood. Then I’ll swing by my shop, grab coffee, and
NICOLE BERRIE |
check in with the team. I usually take a late morning workout class at Tracy Anderson and head back home to shower and pump again (5x a day!), [then] back to the shop. Every day is different at work, so we’ll either be preparing for an event, a workshop, or shooting and writing content for the site and social media. Sometimes I’ll be at the farmer’s market doing research, in the kitchen recipe testing, or shop-girling it for the day— no day is the same! Around 6 PM, I’ll head home to the kids and we have family time, bath, and book time. It’s a process—about two hours long—but it’s our routine and ritual and when I get to hang with the kids. After they’re down, I’ll usually cook and my husband and I have dinner late. If we’re lucky, we’ll be able to decide on what show to watch before midnight!
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Interior designer Erin Gates has become (literally!) a household name for those interested in creating a sophisticated, yet practical and functional home. The Elements of Style blogger debuted her first book, Elements of Style: Designing a Home & a Life, in 2014 and is now sharing her best tips in her newly-released title, Elements of Family Style: Elegant Spaces for Everyday Life. photography by
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Thank you for inviting us into your home! Tell us about the place.
MINI |
Since I’m a designer, this home has been my laboratory since we bought it six years ago. It started as an untouched 1941 relic I didn’t even want to buy and has turned into such a special little home over the years. I worked with my father’s architectural firm to do three renovations on it (two of which were additions), and now it finally feels “done.” It’s a great mix of livable and luxurious, which is sort of my thing. I believe we can all have nice things AND kids and pets and not have to sacrifice our style because of a growing, active family. Our home is lots of neutrals with pops of color (mostly blue), a mix of antiques and custom-made pieces (and some great discount store finds too!). ERIN GATES |
Do you have a favorite room in your home?
MINI |
I LOVE my master bedroom. We did it as part of the biggest project we took on with this house and it was worth every penny! My clients often leave their master bedrooms until very last because they aren’t public facing spaces, but as a busy working mom, I felt I really needed a pretty and thoughtfully designed place to recharge my batteries after a long day, and this room is JUST that. Our environment is very impactful on our sense of wellbeing and having a lovely bedroom to help me relax and get good rest really helps me be the best mother and boss I can be. ERIN GATES |
Tell us about your son’s room. What inspired you in creating his space?
MINI |
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I’m actually in the process of dis-
mantling his nursery and creating a “big boy” room for him now that he is 3.5! It’s so bittersweet to get rid of the glider and crib and see him move on in life, but it’s also so exciting and wonderful. His nursery was a super serene space that I wanted to feel completely soothing for both of us. The mural on the wall is a custom piece by Susan Harter Muralpapers and was the jumping off point to the room, which is a palette of pale blues, greys, and linen tones. It was a mix of sweet and masculine, just like little boys are! Let’s talk motherhood! What has surprised you most about motherhood thus far?
I am a naturally anxious person. I’ve struggled with it my whole life, and I was worried that I would get MORE anxious becoming a mother, when in fact it made me LESS so about the stuff of daily life. All of a sudden, nothing mattered except my son’s health and happiness. It put such an important frame of reference on everything I did and experienced and really helped me feel grateful for everything I have. ERIN GATES |
What is your greatest parenting worry or fear?
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Health. I can think of nothing scarier than your child being ill in a serious capacity. It chills me to the bone. And while ERIN GATES |
I am less anxious about most things now, any issues with his health is the one thing that can really send me reeling. What is most important to you in raising your son?
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That he grows up to be a happy, healthy, kind, and loving soul and that he knows that no matter what, his Dad and I will always be there for him and love him unconditionally. I want him to be his own person and know that as parents, we are not entangling our self-worth with his achievements and failures. He is free to find his own passions and life path. ERIN GATES |
What is your greatest joy of motherhood?
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There are SO many! Getting to re-experience childhood through his eyes is pretty amazing. Watching him learn a new skill is thrilling beyond words. Hearing him tell me he loves me. The best thing might be his really highpitched belly laugh when he’s REALLY tickled about something. Nothing beats that sound. ERIN GATES |
What have you found to be the hardest aspect of motherhood thus far?
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The guilt of being a full-time working mom. I have always known about myself that I am best when I am working and never entertained stopping work when I was pregnant with Henry, ERIN GATES |
but as he gets older and gets sad when I leave in the morning, it gets harder and harder. Knowing I’m missing so many small moments in his life hurts, but I know deep down that I, personally, am a much better mother to him because I work. Not everyone is this way, but I am. I hope that he grows up to really respect women and love that he has a strong, working mama. What helps you to juggle motherhood and career?
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FA S T FA C T S IF THERE WERE MORE HOURS IN THE DAY, I WOULD Spend more time with Henry. IDEAL DATE NIGHT Seeing a funny movie at the local theater that serves wine and dinner in reclining seats. FAVORITE KIDS BOOK All the World. ALWAYS IN MY FRIDGE Sparkling water. ON MY NIGHTSTAND My Kindle. I read every night before bed. MY COFFEE ORDER Medium dark roast with half and half and two sugars. FAVORITE LOCAL RESTAURANT Nothing quite beats the steak, mashed potatoes, and lime basil gimlet at Mistral. FAVORITE KIDS MOVIE Moana. CAN’T STOP LISTENING TO Murder-y podcasts! FAVORITE LOCAL SHOP M. Flynn Jewelry. I did a fine jewelry collection with them and their shop is DARLING. BEFORE KIDS, I NEVER THOUGHT I WOULD Give up anything and everything for someone else.
every night to spend a good few hours with him before he has to go to bed. We also have an incredibly loving and caring nanny, Danege, who is such a wonderful influence on Henry and our whole family, really. They adore each other and knowing that he is in such good care allows me to focus on work when I’m there so that I can get home as soon as possible to him. It also helps that I am my own boss, so taking off time to go to a school play or a parent’s activity is totally in my control, and I set up my office three blocks from my house, so my commute is a five minute walk. I know I am lucky to have those benefits AND love what I do. I’m super grateful. Tell us how you decided on your son’s name.
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We knew before we were even pregnant his name would be Henry. It was just one of those things we always talked ERIN GATES |
about when going through infertility and decided on really early on in the process. In fact, I remember we had to cancel one cycle of IVF before I got pregnant with Henry because of a poor reaction to some medications, and I was distraught and sobbing in the doctor’s office and Andrew held me and said, “this is all for Henry. It’s all to get Henry”… and it was! If we didn’t get pregnant with the exact egg we did, our child would be different than he is, and I would not have wanted that. So he was Henry before he was even “Henry!” MINI |
Can you share your journey to baby with us?
It was a very difficult one. We had tried to get pregnant for a couple years in my early 30’s and had no luck. I was diagnosed with “unexplained infertility” and after two IUI’s and two rounds of IVF, we finally had our Henry. All in, it took about three years to have him. I was 36 when he was born and considered a “geriatric pregnancy” (I hate that term!). I was quite sick until I was 24-26 weeks pregnant and really thought I’d never want to do it again. But we’ve been trying to have another child, with no luck, for the last two years. I’ve had five miscarriages and it’s been really sad and difficult. Secondary infertility is almost hardERIN GATES |
Planning plenty of attractive and well thought out storage and using incredibly durable materials and furniture construction are my top two. I like to be able to give people an easy way to conceal the clutter of family life in a quick 15-minute tidy up— built ins, cabinetry, shelving, baskets and bins, whatever works for the space and budget. And when choosing materials, you need to be careful about cleanability, durability and buying pieces that are well made enough to withstand heavy use and abuse! What do you think is the biggest misconception parents have when designing kids rooms?
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There are many, but the one I am most vigilant about proving wrong is that whole “you can’t have nice things and kids at the same time” thing. Not true. You can use your home as a teachable moment in which your kids learn that they need to respect their surroundings and possessions. Also, better made furniture is going to last SO much longer and look so much better over time, especially when done in strong, durable, but pretty, materials. Cheap furniture will look cheap quickly when getting daily use and you’ll end up spending more money replacing it over and over than buying really well once. ERIN GATES |
er than initial infertility because you now KNOW what it’s like to have a child and be a mother and what you’re missing in a second. I also desperately want Henry to have a sibling, so I will keep trying until I am completely exhausted and can’t do it anymore. Let’s talk about your new book, Elements of Family Style! What is most important when designing a space for a family?
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There are a few things that are of utmost focus when designing a home with kids in it. ERIN GATES |
If you could give your son one piece of advice, what would it be?
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Don’t be afraid to fail. Sometimes the most important lessons in life are best learned when you haven’t succeeded. ERIN GATES |
Favorite places to visit in Boston with kids— GO!
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The Museum of Science, Children’s Museum, the Seaport, Franklin Park Zoo, Discovery Museum in Acton and Shelburne Farm in the fall to pick apples and play on the tractor playground! ERIN GATES |
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SKIN DEEP Hollywood skin guru Shani Darden is the secret behind some of the most flawless faces both on and off the silver screen. Just one peek at the expert esthetician’s website and you’ll find rave reviews from the likes of Kelly Rowland, Emmy Rossum, and Suki Waterhouse, to name a few. We caught up with Darden—and her two daughters, Phoenix and Lennon—at her Los Angeles home—to talk skincare myths, raising girls, and the lowdown on her own personal beauty routine. photography by EMMA FEIL
We’re excited to be here in your beautiful home! Can you tell us about the place?
MINI |
It’s been a dream of mine to own a home since a very young age. After getting married and having two kids, I was finally able to buy my first home last year. I had met Jake Arnold through a mutual friend and loved his mix of Californian laid back luxury and refined European sensibility. He has an effortless ability to make homes look really chic, cozy, and lived in. I feel like I’ve already lived here for years, and literally rush home after work every day to be here because it’s my favorite place.
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Do you have a favorite room in your home?
MINI |
My bedroom is my favorite because it’s so calming and peaceful. It has beautiful views to the backyard and the hills that are covered in plants. It’s a beautiful place to wake up every morning.
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Let’s talk motherhood! What has surprised you most about motherhood thus farr?
MINI |
Discovering how much you can love your kids has been such a beautiful, unexpected surprise. I am a mother of two girls and they have become my motivation to work harder and go further in my business than I ever thought I could. I love that my girls get to watch me build my brand and know that chasing their dreams is entirely possible.
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What is your greatest parenting worry or
Honestly, I worry constantly about my kids. I worry about them being in the
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car with other drivers, being safe at school, being parented and mentored the right way. I’m worried constantly, but that’s just part of being a mom. What is most important to you in raising your girls?
MINI |
Raising them to be strong, confident, independent women. Everything I do is for my girls. They’re my number one priority.
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What is your greatest joy of motherhood?
MINI |
Spending time with my two favorite little humans and watching them grow. Both of my girls are incredibly different people, so being able to cultivate their unique personalities and interests is really important to me. I also love that both of my girls have a skincare routine. We do masks together and they both know to wear SPF every single day... without me having to ask! That makes me very proud.
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What have you found to be hardest aspect of motherhood thus far?
MINI |
Balancing work and parenting. I’m lucky that I own my own business, but I’m very available and present for my clients and am also booked for an entire year. I work on Saturday mornings sometimes or around big red carpet events on the weekends. I am lucky and thankful to have a supportive husband who is very
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involved, but balancing time away from my girls to show up and be a successful entrepreneur can be challenging. It’s all about finding balance and having an incredible support system in place. I am also lucky enough to have a small, yet amazing group of people who work for me who have become my family. They are not only there for me and my business, but they’re there for my family too. What helps you to juggle motherhood and career?
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You just live and learn. It’s so hard and so challenging trying to do both,
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and when you think you’re crushing it as a mom, something at work tends to slide and vice versa. The juggle is real. You have to try and let go of the mom guilt and let yourself off the hook. Just hope you’re doing the best you can. That, and a little rosé at the end of the day never hurts! You are the skincare guru for so many! Tell us how you got started in your career.
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I’ve been obsessed with skin care as long as I can remember. Even when I was a kid, I was mixing face masks and testing new products. As a teenager growing up in upstate NY and dealing with acne, our closest dermatologist was over an hour away. I begged my mom to take me. In my
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early 20s, I moved to LA to become a model, but instead I just ended up booking a bunch of music videos as a backup dancer (and I couldn’t even dance!). Eventually I realized that skin care remained a constant obsession of mine, and so I went to school to become an esthetician. One of my first jobs was for a dermatologist, Dr. Erma Benitez. It was such a great experience for me to see and understand so many different skin types and skin issues. This is also when I first saw how much retinol can help the skin, by boosting collagen, smoothing fine lines and wrinkles, clearing acne, and decreasing pigmentation. From there, I worked at a spa in West Hollywood and eventually went off on my own doing facials in the back house on my residential prop-
FA S T FA C T S MY COFFEE ORDER Decaf almond milk latte. BEFORE KIDS, I NEVER THOUGHT I WOULD Have my own business, be launching a full line of products, or have a beautiful new Beverly Hills studio. I feel so blessed I could cry. IF THERE WERE MORE HOURS IN THE DAY, I WOULD Spend more time with my kids, unapologetically watch more “Real Housewives” and possibly eat cheesecake because I would have time to work out. ALWAYS IN MY FRIDGE Eye masks to treat puffy eyes and in my freezer are frozen gummy worms (one guilty pleasure I can’t live without). IDEAL DATE NIGHT Dinner at Petit Trois, followed by late night pinot grigio by the fire pit in my backyard. FAVORITE LOCAL SHOP House of Intuition. It’s stocked with sage, palo santo, and every crystal you can imagine. CAN’T STOP LISTENING TO Beyonce, always and forever. FAVORITE KIDS MOVIE Brave.
erty. The demand became so high that I finally opened my own studio. It’s all felt like a dream, but I know this is what I was put here on earth to do. What does your own skincare routine look like?
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[In the morning], I cleanse with [Shani Darden] Daily Cleansing Serum, which is my gentle gel cleanser that doesn’t strip your skin. It actually helps to add moisture back into your skin with Glycerin, Jojoba, and Sodium Hyaluronate. After cleansing, I use my Deesse LED Mask for 20 minutes. LED light boosts collagen in the skin, minimizes fine lines and wrinkles, and improves circulation to give you a nice glow. Next up, I will apply a Vitamin C serum for antioxidant protection, eye cream, and sunscreen. I love Supergoop’s Everyday Sunscreen. It’s lightly hydrating yet doesn’t cause congestion. I wear sunscreen every single day, no matter what.
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At night, I cleanse with Daily Cleansing Serum again, following up with my Daily Toning Essence which helps to regulate sebum production to keep pores clear. Next up is Retinol Reform. If my skin is a little more on the dry side, I like to use a hyaluronic acid serum like Dr. Nigma’s Serum No. 1 to plump up the skin. Following that is eye cream. I finish my routine with Daily Oil-Free Moisturizer, which provides lightweight hydration with natural extracts and light humectants. Twice a week I exfoliate with the
Dr. Dennis Gross Alpha Beta Peel Pads. What is the biggest misconception you think people have about skincare?
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Not every product works for everyone. You have to take the time to find out what works best for your skin, and not just select products because someone else talks about it.
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What is your biggest no-no when it comes to skincare?
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The number one mistake when
it comes to skincare, is not wearing sunscreen every single day. The sun will age you. Protect yourself! What are the elements of a great skincare routine or skincare product lineup?
MINI |
Everyone’s skin type is different, but the very basics are a great cleanser, moisturizer, sunscreen, antioxidant serum, and a treatment serum at night. From here, you can add in more specific products that suit your skin type best.
Believe in yourself, believe you can do it, and eradicate any sense of self-doubt and fear. Never be afraid to put yourself out there and chase after your dreams.
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Your favorite places to visit in LA with kids— GO!
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If you could give your girls one piece of advice, what would it be?
On the weekends, we love to hang out in our backyard. I work so much and love being in my home, and my kids are just like me. We finally got our home after years and years, so we love to entertain and just enjoy it, kids and all!
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CITY KIDS When model Allie Rizzo left West Hollywood for New York City, she settled into Manhattan life on a bustling street in SoHo. But as soon as son Henry came into the mix, she knew a few changes were in store for their family, including finding the perfect neighborhood and taking on a new position as Creative Advisor for Babyzen USA. photography by
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How would you describe your home here in New York City?
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In a word, temporary. We sold our house in West Hollywood after a couple of years living in LA and we headed back to NYC. When I found out I was pregnant, we were living on a busy street in SoHo. It was fun, but a packed neighborhood had its downsides and it made going on a casual walk with our dogs not so casual. I knew we had to find the right neighborhood before the baby arrived. Our apartment is next to one of my favorite parks in the city and the bones are beautiful; I loved the crown molding and marble bathrooms.We furnished it quite quickly just in time for Henrys arrival. It’s classic and practical with modern touches.
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Do you have a favorite room?
We spend most of our time in the kitchen and living room [since] family time often revolves around food. I love evenings in Henry’s cozy nursery which is still coming together a year later.
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Let’s talk about Henry’s room. What inspired the space?
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It ended up being a wildlife theme. After my baby shower, we had so many elephants and lions that it was the style, like it or not! His name is Henry Wilder, so I thought it was quite cute that his nursery theme is the wild.
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Let’s talk motherhood! What has surprised you most about motherhood thus far?
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Before I was a mom, I was really turned off by “mom bloggers” or women who constantly share their kids every move. I thought to myself, ‘Where’s your identity outside of your kids?’ I quickly realized that having a baby is so packed with joy it really does become the highlight of most days. I was as surprised as my friends when they joke about my mommy blogging because it had been a peeve of mine. Turns out, I just didn’t get mom joy yet.
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What were your first thoughts when you learned you were pregnant?
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I think initially it was exciting but also very nerve-wracking. I was 28 when I suspected I was pregnant, just days away from turning 29. I think the idea of leaving my 20s pregnant and not out enjoying martinis was a wake up call! A very instant snap into adulthood or at least it felt that way. The immediate reality of, boom, your body now has a passenger
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and is no longer your own was scary to me. People would ask how magical I felt and if I was exploding with joy and I was honestly thinking, ‘I have a headache and want to puke all the time, so no.’ It wasn’t until my second trimester that I began feeling things shift. Really seeing him on a scan and it not just being a speck was so incredible and helped me get really excited. When the sickness passed, I was really able to feel calm and more connected and generally blissful. Throwing up first thing every morning was not fun and a migraine can suck the joy from anything! I wasn’t the person who was instantly overtaken with glowing pregnancy joy, but I was thrilled and relieved that the joy did come and think back to those feelings all the time. What is most important to you in raising your son?
MINI |
We want him to grow up in a loving home and teach him to be a kind and respectful man. Most important job of our lives!
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Is there anything from your own childhood you hope to share with him or teach him? MINI |
Childhood even with sad moments is a magical and special time. I want to remember what I felt like as a child being curious and exploring and seeing things for the first time. I can’t wait to make sure he has those same moments and watch him see
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things with wonder for the first time. What is your greatest joy of motherhood?
MINI |
Henry is the sweetest guy and I feel so much joy around him. When I make him laugh hysterically, it’s basically the best feeling on earth. That sound is perfection.
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What have you found to be hardest aspect of motherhood thus far?
MINI |
I love sleep! I’m not someone who does well on no sleep, so that’s been the biggest challenge. Knock on wood, Henry has turned into a champion sleeper and I appreciate it!
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Where have you seen the biggest changes in your life since becoming a mom?
MINI |
In the beginning, I was in a newborn bubble so I had no real social life. Eat, sleep, feed. Now that we are out of that stage and I am back working and socializing, I feel like the changes are less noticeable and I have a nice balance of motherhood and independence.
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Tell us how you decided on your son’s name.
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The friends that introduced me to my husband now have a 10-year-old daughter and over New Years in Aspen, we asked her to write down names for the baby to entertain her. She came back with the most impressive list and one name was Wilder Grey. Everyone at the table was like he sounds like the author of the next great
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novel; we loved it. We dropped Grey but still loved Wilder and decided Henry was classic and would balance the uniqueness of Wilder. For some reason, I’ve always had a soft spot for Henry. What are you looking forward to most about raising your son in NYC?
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NYC has been incredible. We sat in the park the other day and the coolest art show just started in front of us. Moments like that happen all the time. It’s cliche, but there’s so much to do in the city that never sleeps. Plus, we can walk almost everywhere, so I rarely have to bother with car seats and traffic!
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What helps you to juggle motherhood and career?
While I was pregnant, I continued working on my animal rescue, Mother of Dogs, and took over a few of my husband’s social media accounts for business and kept busy. When Henry was around four months old, I went back to modeling with a few jobs which was a nice way to see how I felt outside of the house. It was strange at first and then I got my bearings. A few months later, I started as the Creative Advisor for Babyzen USA and it has been a blast to work with a brand that makes products my mom friends genuinely love. I’m happy being a working mom and I feel that, for me, it was important to keep up my pursuits outside of the home. The balance is key to my happiness and makes me so appreciative of every second I spend with Henry.
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As a busy working mama, tell us what a typical day looks like for you.
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Weekends are all about the family! The three of us hang non-stop and love exploring the city. During the week, we wake up with Henry and have our morning together before his nanny comes around 9:30. Each day for me is different depending on if I’m on set or just doing loads of emails. If I’m not on location, I get everything done between 9:30 and 2. [Henry] naps at 2, so I usually let my nanny go home and keep working from home until he wakes up around 4:30 and we spend our evenings together. If I have a dinner, it’s always after 8 because I put Henry to bed myself. It’s rare that I miss a bedtime. I cherish that time with him and love that he sees me right before bed. If he starts fighting it more as he gets older, I might change my mind!
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Has your style changed at all since becoming a mom?
MINI |
My style has always been comfort based. I like to feel good and anything too fussy drives me nuts. I love jeans and flats and save the exciting stuff for formal events.
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Favorite places to visit in NYC with kids, GO!
MINI |
We love Central Park and have been making that our weeekend trip.. It’s such a special place and we love just getting lost walking around. We also love Union Square Play on weekends. We take him to a cute music class that I think we enjoy the most— it’s adorable.
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FA S T FA C T S MY COFFEE ORDER Almond milk latte. FAVORITE KIDS BOOK Is Harry Potter a kids book? I’m so excited for Henry to be old enough to read them so I can relive my peak childhood Harry Potter obsession. FAVORITE LOCAL RESTAURANT Broken Coconut! ALWAYS IN MY FRIDGE Milk and yogurt. IDEAL DATE NIGHT Watch our favorite show, eat lots of pasta, and drink lots of wine. FAVORITE LOCAL SHOP Eataly. CAN’T STOP LISTENING TO Neil Young, Harvest Moon. FAVORITE KIDS MOVIE I’ll subject Henry to Beauty and the Beast and Cinderella quite a few times. My husband has never seen The Lion King, so we will all tackle that together! ON MY NIGHTSTAND Water, iPhone, and on a good night, some chocolate and a big glass of wine. BEFORE KIDS, I NEVER THOUGHT I WOULD Be this comfortable in the role of mom.
