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table of contents MARCH 2014
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A little organization may be all it takes to help your child overcome homework anxiety. Help for Disorganized Students: 3 Strategies to Improve Grades on page 14 has tips to cure the homework blues. It’s easy being green! With help from the Center for EcoTechnology, baystateparent created a new office space that will inspire you to rethink your home. See more in Trash Heap to Tres Chic: baystateparent Creates Eco-Friendly Office Style on page 18.
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Many new mothers struggle with recurring thoughts of hurting their babies. This secret terror has a name, and help is available. Read more in Frightening Thoughts on page 20.
That’s Pregnancy with a Pee, on page 22, discusses solutions for stress incontinence — a condition often brought on by pregnancy. An estimated 15 million women in the US suffer with this condition, and help is available at any age.
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Whole Children in Hadley offers afterschool, weekend, and vacation enrichment programs for children of all ages and abilities, particularly those with special needs. Learn more in Whole Children: If You Can Dream It, You Can Do It on page 46.
CAMP BONNIE BRAE celebrates 95 years of memories
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WHY SUMMER CAMP? 3 reasons camp builds confidence
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HONORING HERITAGE: mass mom opens ethiopian culture camp
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CAMP TAKE-ME-HOME: one mom’s survival guide for family camping
OUR SPECIAL GUEST: cover model chloe rose andle WELCOME: a letter from our publisher MEET OUR CONTRIBUTORS BSP ONLINE LET’S GO: discover western mass, 10 picks for family fun TAKE 8: mass 2014 teacher of the year
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OUR MARCH FAVORITES: facts, finds, and freebies
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OUT & ABOUT: march calendar of family events
MARCH’S CHILD: meet kwin CIRCLE OF FRIENDS: area adoption events
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Greetings! In 2002, I acquired a young parenting magazine in Central Massachusetts called Today’s Parent. Having spent my career in publishing, I believed the magazine could fulfill a desire my wife, Laurie, and I had to “give back.” So we began investing in the product, expanded the staff and quickly determined that a new name, one more reflective of where we were and what we would write about, seemed appropriate. Thus began the privilege we’ve had to own and publish baystateparent magazine. It’s 2014 and baystateparent magazine celebrates its arrival in Western Massachusetts with a distinct, monthly edition of the magazine just for you! The past 12 years have been wonderful. The magazine has expanded and now serves tens of thousands of women — although men are welcome, too! — throughout Eastern and Central Massachusetts. It has earned more editorial
recognition from the national Local Media Association than any other regional parenting magazine in the country. Actually, it’s been voted the “best” regional magazine in the country six times in the past nine years. Last month, the magazine was honored with 18 awards by the New England Newspaper and Press Association. We focus so much on quality, so such recognition strikes a chord with us! Now in Western Massachusetts, and soon to come to the Berkshires in June, the magazine is distributed in over 400 locations, in nearly every town as well as online. Please join us on Facebook, too! We want to offer a special thanks to Big Y. My wife and I have always been committed to keeping the magazine FREE for readers. One of the difficult things about being “free” is that if a store can’t necessarily profit from selling the magazine, it’s harder to earn “shelf space,” as they say. We explained to Big Y what the vision for baystateparent has been and will continue to be. We discussed its purpose and they reviewed past issues. I explained that this magazine would remain free and distinctly serve as a resource for Pioneer Valley families and beyond, published every month, etc. I shared that I don’t own or manage the magazine for any personal gain. I have a fulltime career. This endeavor is about and for the “parenting” community. Big Y graciously agreed to carry this magazine in ALL of its stores in Massachusetts and to collaborate with us when it makes sense. In turn, we designed custom racks that you’ll find in every store. Pick up your copy every month – for free, always free. We’d also like to thank hundreds
of other smaller stores and familyfriendly destinations for carrying the magazine. You can also help. If you know of a family-friendly location that would allow placement of baystateparent magazine, please send an email to Jessica@ baystateparent.com. If you would like to advertise your company in the magazine, Jessica can help with that, too. My thanks to the Turley family, too, who own Turley Publications in Palmer, Massachusetts. Laurie and I have been friends with the Turleys for many years. As local publishers and printers themselves, they were eager to be a part of this project. They have enlisted their staff to join with our staff to assist local businesses that want to advertise in the magazine. Finally, we want to thank Baystate Health. As we planned the magazine, we sought input from not only “thought leaders,” but from some of the major organizations that we imagined working with. Baystate Health encouraged us to bring the magazine to Western Massachusetts and will no doubt work collaboratively with us to share important research and parent education. And so the journey begins… Our hope is that the local stories we share, the local activities we highlight, the local services our advertisers feature, and the free access to the magazine that you have, combine to make baystateparent a local treasure. We certainly treasure the opportunity to serve you. Thank you,
Kirk Davis, Owner
meet our special guest
Chloe Rose Andle Pretty in pink and dazzling our March cover is 6-year-old Chloe Rose Andle of Ludlow. We caught up with Chloe to find out a little more about life as a cover girl. Do you have brothers and sisters? Yes, my big sister is Kiana Rose Andle. She is 9. Where do you go to school? I’m in the first grade at East Street Elementary School. What is your favorite thing to do at school? I like everything, even math! What activities do you enjoy outside of school? I take gymnastics, I like to draw, driving my dune racer car,
and piano lessons (but not as much as the rest). What do you think you might like to do when you grow up? I want to be a singer. Do you have any pets? Yes, I do. I have five fish and a rabbit named Carrot. The four goldfish are named Baconette, Calli, Leo, and Bob. My Beta fish is Joe. How long have you been modeling? One day. What tips do you have for others who want to look great in a photograph? Wear lots of dresses. And if it’s a boy, wear a tuxedo.
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meet our march contributors The oldest Girl Scout camp in the country is located in the Berkshire Mountains, and freelance writer Tracey Prohaska Carroll explores the secret to its success in her article Camp Bonnie Brae Celebrates 95 Years of Memories on page 26. Tracey is a regular blogger on baystateparent. com, sharing her journey of turning 40 with her blog 40 by Forty. In addition to writing, Tracey likes to spend time with her family at their lake home, listen to music, read and box for fitness.
Heidi Smith Luedtke is a personality psychologist and mom of two who fondly remembers her childhood time at summer camp. In her article Why Summer Camp? 3 Reasons Camp Builds Confidence on page 30, Heidi explains how the camp experience can spark self-determination and encourage independence in kids. She is the author of Detachment Parenting: 33 Ways to Keep Your Cool When Kids Melt Down, offering compassion, perspective and practical strategies for managing family emotions.
Southborough writer Jane Keller Gordon said her article, Honoring Families on page 48, amazed her. For this piece, Jane interviewed a mother of four adopted Ethiopians who was inspired to start a culture camp. An empty nester with two children (ages 18 and 21), Jane is a marketing consultant who holds an MBA in marketing and an MPH in epidemiology. She provides marketing support to the Contemporary Arts International and is Director of Marketing at Latisquama Design + Marketing.
If your child is stressed or discouraged by schoolwork, Michele Ranard, M. Ed., has some advice. Her article Help for Disorganized Students on page 38 offers three strategies to help ease the homework blues and improve grades. Michele is a mother of two and a professional counselor with a decade of experience as a private academic tutor. She writes on the topics of parenting, education, humor, and wellness and has published hundreds of articles.
Trish Reske is an award-winning writer, blogger, business owner, running coach and mom of four kids ages 12 to 22. This month, she goes behind the scenes of Whole Children in Hadley, a unique organization offering enrichment programs for children of all ages and abilities, particularly those with special needs. Find this heartwarming piece, Whole Children: If You Can Dream It, You Can Do It, on page 64. To learn more about Trish, visit trishreske.com or follow her blog on Westborough Patch.
Amanda Roberge shares a shocking confession: as a new mother, she had thoughts of hurting her baby. She found that she was not alone. In her article Frightening Thoughts That Should Have Every New Mother Talking on page 20, Amanda examines the condition and who is at risk for getting it. Amanda is a busy Leominster mother of three daughters and a regular contributor to baystateparent. In addition to her work as a
freelance writer, she is a henna artist and Early Childhood Educator. These days, Sarah Whelan is busy driving her two children to basketball practice, serving on the Board of Directors for her local YMCA and Little League, and camping in the great outdoors. In Camp Take-Me-Home on page 36, she offers humor and some helpful tips for any parent who is not fond of camping. Sarah has an advanced degree in Criminology and experience as a grant writer for nonprofits. Her articles have appeared in a variety of publications, including New Jersey Family and Police and Security News.
If you are an experienced journalist interested in writing for baystateparent magazine, email editor@ baystateparent.com.
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baystateparent online baystateparent.com is an interactive community featuring an extensive calendar of area events, well researched and written feature stories, giveaways, photos, feedback, and a collection of top area bloggers. This month, we welcome our newest blogger, Christine Williams. Christine is the mom of two daughters, ages 12 and 9, and she is the co-owner of Epiphany Children’s Boutique in Northborough. Her passion, she says, is fashion. She has traveled from New York City to Los Angeles in search of the latest in children’s fashions.
Her blog is called Mini Fashion Passion, and she writes tips about styling the younger set. “Kids fashion is my sanity,” she said. “I actually enjoy shopping for my girls more than I do for myself and the result is that I am a children’s stylist and boutique owner.” In her first blog for baystateparent.com, she offers eight tips that will help ease the power play that happens when you and your child do not agree on an outfit. Have you had a fashion power struggle with your son or daughter? How did you solve it? Stop by baystateparent.com and give us your best advice!
Are you a Massachusetts blogger looking to expand your audience? Have you always wanted to blog about family life, parenting, relationships, or motherhood? If you have an interest in joining our growing team of baystateparent.com bloggers, contact editor@baystateparent.com. On Facebook, we have been sharing blogs, contests, stories and pictures. Find us. You’ll like us. facebook.com/baystateparent
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As we take our March 2014 issue to press, our most popular feature on baystateparent.com is a story by Amanda Roberge that appeared in our February 2014 issue, Self Acceptance, the Right Weigh. In this piece, Amanda reports on the message our diets send to our daughters. She interviews a number of health professionals to explain both the physical and emotional impact of dieting. She writes, “Women are going to have to be a little gentler with themselves and remove the shame and stigma from doing something so very human: eating.” Find more from Amanda Roberge on baystateparent.com.
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his month, baystateparent celebrates Western Mass, and there is plenty of reason to do so! From its beautiful vistas to its vibrant communities, Western Mass offers something for visitors and locals alike. So what do families enjoy the most about living in the area? We put the question to parents, grandparents, and kids of all ages and found 10 favorite family spots. And we know there’s more! While we get the list started here, we hope you’ll join us in expanding it. Visit baystateparent.com and add your favorite Western Mass family finds as we discover the best of the west.
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Western Mass 10 Picks
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The UMass Fine Arts Center
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1. The Naismith Memorial Basketball Hall of Fame in Springfield is a must-see for hoops fans. Nearly 300 people have been inducted into the Hall, a distinctive looking building that sits on the banks of the Connecticut River. Fans of all ages can enjoy dozens of interactive exhibits sharing over 100 years of basketball history. Skills challenges, live clinics and shooting contests are just some of the activities. For more information, visit hoophall.com. 2. The Norwottuck Rail-Trail in Northamption is a paved pathway running nearly 5 miles and rolling through Northampton and Hadley. Once a railroad line, the asphalt trail is the idyllic setting for a family bike hike or an afternoon walk. Stroller-friendly, the trail runs from New South Street in downtown Northampton to Look Memorial Park in Florence, weaving through commercial and residential neighborhoods. For more information about this trail, visit railstotrails.org. 3. The UMass Fine Arts Center in Amherst offers performances, exhibitions and educational programs for the university as well as the Pioneer Valley community. Since 1975, this richly cultural resource has provided year-round entertainment, including music, ballet, theater and art. Many programs are designed for younger students and families. For ticket information, directions and a handy list of upcoming family programs (including recommended ages), visit fac.umass.edu.
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4. Mount Sugarloaf State Reservation in Deerfield is a stunning place to spend a sunny afternoon. Open from May to October, the reservation is famous for its breathtaking views overlooking the Connecticut River, the Pioneer Valley and the Berkshire Hills. Family favorites include outstanding trails and picnic areas — and, of course, a group selfie from the distinctive observation platform. More information can be found on the state website, mass.gov. 5. Magic Wings Butterfly Conservatory in South Deerfield opened in 2000 and includes an 8000-square-foot conservatory reportedly housing nearly 4,000 domestic and exotic butterflies. The conservatory is heated by the sun and maintains an 80 degree environment. Adding to the tropical setting is a pond, waterfall and soft music. Parents of very young children should note that strollers are not permitted inside the conservatory. For more information, visit magicwings.com. 6. The Eric Carle Museum of Picture Book Art in Amherst is an inspiring celebration of art and reading through picture books. Illustrations come alive through galleries housing over 10,000 picture book illustrations, theater programs and an art studio. The nonprofit museum opened in 2002 and has been entertaining, educating and delighting families and school groups since. To learn more about this one-ofa-kind family attraction, visit carlemuseum.org. 7. Frank Newhall Look Memorial Park in Northampton has something for family members of all ages. Covering 150-acres, the park includes pavilions, playgrounds, trails, pedal and bumper boats, miniature golf, a zoo, a water spray park, tennis courts, concessions and a picnic area. There’s also a one-mile train ride that circles the park. While some attractions are seasonal, Look Park is open daily year-round from 7 a.m. to dark. For information, visit lookpark.org. 8. The Shelburne Falls Trolley Museum in Shelburne Falls is a step back in time for train
enthusiasts. Visitors can ride on an authentic railway trolley car built in Springfield in 1896 to haul people, apples, mail and more. There is also a hands-on (literally!) pump car to try, and children of all ages can climb aboard a big red caboose. Historic photos and memorabilia are housed in the visitors center along with wooden and electric trains. Learn more about this unusual stop at sftm.org. 9. Stanley Park in Westfield is a 300-acre, privately owned
botanical park with impressive gardens and trails. It is open to the public at no charge and operates from May through November. In addition to an arboretum and gardens, the park offers a playground, soccer fields, tennis courts, wildlife sanctuary and a picturesque covered bridge. The sensational scenery of Stanley Park make it a favorite spot for family photos. A map of the grounds and its many trails can be found at stanleypark.org.
10. The Holyoke Merry-Go-Round at Heritage State Park in Holyoke is a beloved town treasure. Built in 1929, the attraction was originally located on nearby Mt. Tom. When the ride closed in 1987, the town rallied and raised enough money to buy it and relocate it in a newly built downtown pavilion. The merrygo-round is now a centerpiece for birthday parties and corporate events. At only $2 a ride, it is affordable family fun. Read more about this treasure at holyokemerrygoround.org.
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Help for Disorganized Students: 3 Strategies to Improve Grades
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BY MICHELE RANARD, M.ED. JEN PAOLINI ILLUSTRATOR
“Just so you know, Mom, I’ve got a test on Friday that I’m gonna fail.” My sixth-grader is barely through the front door when this escapes his lips. Because he is an excellent student, my head is spinning. Forcing a smile, I remark, “What do you mean? You have three more days to study!” But he is already grinding his teeth, scowling as he announces, “I can’t do it.” Remaining calm, I attempt to appeal to his reason with no luck. Within seconds, I am shouting, “Fine. FINE! GROUNDED FOR A MONTH!” Sound familiar?
Disorganization and Success What my son was probably trying to convey after school that day was, “I feel distressed, Mom. I have no idea how to get organized for this test.” Unfortunately, like so many parents, I let myself grow overly emotional and failed to truly listen to his fear and concern. Organizing the Disorganized Child (2009) by Martin Kutscher and Marcella Moran provides a helpful guide for explaining in plain English how disorganized habits interfere with school success and create chaos within the home. The points below are addressed in the book and were particularly helpful to me as a parent and professional academic tutor. They all aim to help students develop healthier habits and achieve more.
Understand Why They Procrastinate According to Kutscher and Mora, kids often adopt an “I’ll get to it later” habit and put off school projects or studying for several reasons. 14 MARCH2014 15
Sometimes they simply have a poor concept of time. Other kids have poor memory for ways procrastinating has failed them in the past. Still others are too easily sidetracked and unable to resist temptation to do something more appealing. The authors remind parents that most often these issues are “the fault of the undeveloped brain, not the child” and urge parents not to yell or punish. Instead, stay positive, offer support, and help them break larger tasks down into chunks. They offer these tips to get organized: • Write down assignments in a planner. • Ask the teacher or a buddy to double-check the planner to be sure it is correct. • Place all materials touched that day into a take-home section of a folder. • Mark a calendar with completion dates for each step in a project. • Put completed work in a Take to School section of a folder. • Weekly purge the backpack and folders of papers no longer needed.
Teach Them to Question Everything The authors of this guide believe that in addition to good note-taking and study skills, the key to your child’s education is to question everything. Teaching your child to ask the following questions will enhance your child’s learning: • What did the teacher just say? • What did I just read? • Where have I seen information like this before? • How is this different from material I’ve previously learned?
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• How can I summarize this in as few words as possible? • How can I visualize this in pictures or flowcharts? • What else do I need to learn about this? • What questions about this are likely to be on the test? • Why is this important to me and the rest of the world? • So what?
Test Taking Smarts All students can use a refresher for how to best manage time on a test, and the following strategies are recommended by Kutscher and Moran: • Turn over the sheet and jot down keywords, dates, formulas, and phrases you memorized. • Look over the entire test quickly to anticipate what’s coming up. • Read directions carefully. Underline key words in the directions. • Answer easy questions first. • Place a question mark next to answers you guess on. • Keep in mind that the answer to one question might be contained
somewhere on the test. • If you have leftover time, check your answers and scan for careless mistakes. Only change an answer when you’re certain the new response is correct. • If unsure, guess. In terms of helping your child become a more organized student, the authors remind parents that “we can’t completely fix everything overnight. We can, though, expect continued progress over a mountainous terrain toward an ultimately successful future.”
This book helped Michele Ranard find a solution to a parenting issue: Organizing the Disorganized Child: Simple Strategies to Succeed in School, by Martin L. Kutscher and Marcella Moran. 2009. Harper Studio. Is there a book that helped you solve a parenting dilemma? Send your recommendation to editor@baystateparent.com or share it on our Facebook page.
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The 2014 Teacher of the Year Meet the 2014 Massachusetts Teacher of the Year (TOY) Anne Marie Osheyack, an English teacher at Northampton High School and baystateparent had a chance to Take 8 with her and we found out a few of her secrets — like that special dance she did when she found out she won!
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What did you think when you learned you were chosen as the 2014 Massachusetts Teacher of the Year? The other four women in my group were wonderfully talented, intelligent and driven individuals. So when the call came, I was sure it was going to be, “Thanks for playing, but we’ve chosen someone else.” I had to ask the caller to repeat herself! When I hung up the phone, I did an old-school Punky Brewster dance around the living room and called everyone — all my family and friends. I was absolutely ecstatic.
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How did your students react when they learned that you were the Teacher of the Year? They were rooting for me the entire way. Each class gave me a round of thunderous applause and cheers. Not only was it a great moment for me, but it was a bragging moment for them.
Why did you decide to become a teacher? I wanted to make a difference. Friends suggested teaching. It’s fitting, in a way, because there were two English teachers in high school who really turned me around and focused me on college. I see my career as a way of paying it forward.
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What is your most memorable teaching moment? It came from a girl who won our annual National Poetry Out Loud competition. She was in my drama class. Her personal life was a tough one, and she refused to participate in anything at school. When she found out she would be reciting two poems in public, she asked for my help. We worked together to prepare. The night of the competition, she blew through her first poem and rocked the house. Round two, however, was a different story. A third of the way through her poem, she suddenly drew a blank. Her confidence shaken, tears streamed down her cheeks, and she looked at me sitting in the front row and whispered, “I’m sorry.” I looked her in the eye and said, “Don’t you dare apologize, you are doing great”. To my surprise, she didn’t sit down. She struggled, stammered, and line-by-line, she finished that poem. I was so proud of her in that moment. The audience was, too, because they gave her a standing ovation.
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How does a teacher become a Massachusetts Teacher of the Year? There are three rounds in the process. The first is an application of essays and questions. Those go to the State Department of Education (DOE), where a group narrows the pool to 11 teachers. Next, there is another application and a videotaped lesson in the classroom. The pool is then narrowed to five finalists. Finally, we meet with a panel of 12 to 15 interviewers. Once that’s over, we wait for phone calls with good or bad news.
If you could make one change in today’s educational system, what would it be? I would scrap a high stakes test as the only method of proving both a student and a teacher’s value. I am not opposed to standardized testing in general, because I think there are benefits to those tests. However, I’ve seen nightmarish effects in schools across the country as a result. We are demoralizing students, losing fantastic teachers, and — really — our scores are not improving because of these fear tactics. We’ve moved to a business model of education, which has a faulty premise - that we are working with products, not people. I am a big proponent of the Common Core, and I think teachers have reservations about it because it is attached to a highstakes test, not because the Core is a bad idea in itself. In education, policies and initiatives are driven by a majority of people who have little or no experience in education. We’ve lost the idea that teachers are professionals, and we need to revive it.
What advice do you have for someone who would like to become a teacher? Anyone can be a terrible teacher. So when people tell you that teaching is easy, that’s what they are referring to. Good teaching, real teaching, is hard work and it takes a long time to get very good at it. When you go to do your pre-practicum work and your practicum hours, find the toughest, most demanding teachers in the building and watch as many of them as you can. Work under them. Demand that they push you, critique you, and take nothing less than your best. And above all else, love kids. Even the ones that make it the most difficult because they need it the most. Good luck!
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Trash Heap to Tres Chic
baystateparent Creates Eco-Friendly Office Style BY MARYJO KURTZ
The sharp stylings of the new baystateparent magazine offices are a fitting backdrop for the creative work that happens there daily. A wooden beamed ceiling soars high above the expansive Millbury, Massachusetts, work space. Brick walls and large windows span the room below. But a close look reveals something surprising. The modern digs are housed in a refurbished historic building and each furniture piece is created with recycled materials. It is a funky, green style committed to recycling — proving that everything old can be new again. “I thought the building had character,” said Kirk Davis, owner and publisher of baystateparent. “The building was centrally located — which is ideal, given that we are a statewide resource for families.” 18 MARCH2014 19
Located a short distance from the Massachusetts Turnpike, the stylish office sits in the Felters Mill building, a complex dating to the start of the 20th century. During the 1900s, a thriving textile company operated there, creating uniforms and other items for the army. But as the economy changed, the mill eventually closed and the building sat abandoned for 20 years before brothers Gianni and Mario Romeo bought it in 2011. The two renovated and repurposed the building as commercial space. In keeping with the spirit of recycling, Davis joined with designers Stephen Warshaw and Tom Reighard to fashion an office environment with repurposed materials. The three found their inspiration at the Center for EcoTechnology (CET) in Springfield,
a nonprofit company committed to green living. The company operates a warehouse of donated construction materials called EcoBuilding Bargains. Items come from homeowners and contractors. The warehouse is filled with discarded building pieces, from simple lumber to highend kitchen cabinets, from basic doors to antique light fixtures. The inventory is constantly changing. The environmental impact of this effort is notable. Dave Orsman, CET Director of Marketing and Development, said that 430 tons of materials were kept from landfills in 2013 as a result of CET. “This is the biggest reuse retail store in New England,” said Orsman. “People come here because they are motivated by making a green choice or they are looking for affordability.”
For designers, the store is a canvas for ideas. One man’s junk, as they say, is another’s treasure. “Stephen had a vision beyond what I could see in almost every piece in the store,” said Davis. “An old door becomes a beautiful desk.” Indeed, each desk in the baystateparent office is created using a door. Artistically designed and painted, the doors lay flat as work areas, topped with glass sheeting. “That’s how it works at EcoTechnology, Someone might come in and say, ‘I love that cabinet, but I was looking for a light stand.’ We can do it.” said Reighard, inventor and owner of Concepts to Reality in Litchfield Hills, Connecticut. “People come here and get inspired. Open your mind and you can create anything.”
An unusual and stunning piece in the collection is a desk designed for baystateparent publisher Kirk Davis. “We had an idea of what we wanted going into that project,” Reighard recalled. “I hand-picked all of the boards and then added antique hinges.” The drawers, he said, were salvaged from an old hardware store. One reads “taps and dies” and the other “drills.” The desktop opens to reveal leather pockets for files and supplies.
A focal point of baystateparent offices is the unique conference room table. From a large, heavy, metal industrial scrap, Reighard refinished the piece to serve as a table. “Stephen and I were at EcoBuilding Bargains and we saw this old steel metal thing, yellow and rusty with some cool rollers. Stephen envisioned a tabletop with a paper roll, and then I could just see it,” said Reighard. He added steel legs to the piece and then inlaid wooden planks to create a bottom shelf. The table, designed to bring people together, is itself a conversation starter.
The cool stylings of the office file cabinet have frosty beginnings. Reighard said the idea came from a large freezer door in the EcoBuilding Bargains inventory. “Stephen and Tom saw a refrigerator door and had the vision to say, ‘This can become something,’” Orsman recalled. “As soon as I saw it, I could picture all the pieces,” Reighard said. The freezer door lays atop the cabinet, lifting open to reveal the files inside. “The piece is built around the door. I measured to fit standard files and then built the cabinet. I pictured steel legs and a wood front,” said Reighard.
Each employee at the baystateparent offices has a unique desk. Handpicked doors serve as desktops, topped with panes of glass. All of the doors were professionally hand-painted with uniquely drawn designs by artist Jen Rochon. “It is easy to recycle doors. One of them serves as a chalkboard, another as a desktop,” said Reighard. “Some have added wood trim, some have metal pieces added to look like old-fashioned nails.” “We have creative staffers and I thought the notion of ‘sitting at your door’ all day could fly!” said Davis. “That’s what makes this idea [of recycling] so inspiring. It is making a new use out of old materials,” Reighard said. “They don’t sell desks here, but yet baystateparent now has a whole office of them.”
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Frightening Thoughts
That Should Have Every New Mother Talking BY AMANDA ROBERGE
I can recall with great clarity the moment I thought I lost my mind. It was 2001 and my husband and I were attending a very upscale engagement party on the rooftop bar of a very upscale hotel in Washington, DC. I was the model attachment parent, carrying my 2-monthold baby in a scarlet-colored sling that accentuated my prowess as a mother. But there was one problem. I kept having this compelling – disturbing? upsetting? – thought. In it, I was hurling my baby over the balcony’s glass-paneled edge into oncoming traffic. 20 MARCH2014 21
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olding her tighter and smiling pretty for the people, I made appropriate small talk and took mini-sips of a glass of white wine. I’m fine, I told myself. I am not going to throw my baby off a building. But the thought wouldn’t leave me alone, even as I backed away. I was a good mother, but good mothers don’t think about throwing their babies into traffic. I sat down and spent the greater part of the evening nursing her in a chair along the granite outer walls of the cocktail lounge, grounding myself with the rhythm of her soft little breaths. It wasn’t until I admitted this event to my own mom that I found a little peace. She confided, with apparent relief, that she’d had a few thoughts of her own when my sisters and I were babies. The more I talked about this nameless phenomenon, the more stories I heard. We all loved our babies and would never do anything to hurt them, but we’d all shared this experience of being scared by our own thoughts. It turns out that this phenomenon does indeed have a name – experts call them “intrusive thoughts” – and it falls under the umbrella of what is coming to be known as perinatal emotional complications, the blanket term that includes more recognizable afflictions like postpartum depression and anxiety. It also turns out that help is available if you know where to look. According to licensed social worker Mara Acel-Green, though intrusive thoughts are somewhat common, they are scary and apparently they are as normal as the baby blues. But it’s yet another situation where the shame and stigma have kept women silent about more than just their disturbing thoughts. New mothers have an unfortunate and potentially damaging tendency to hide all of the mental health issues they experience as a result of pregnancy and childbirth. For the millions of women each year who experience perinatal emotional complications, the inability to have a conversation about these episodes – which can range in severity from upsetting thoughts like mine to fullblown psychotic episodes like those you might see on the evening news – is one of the biggest contributors to the lack of a solution. “Perinatal,” said Liz Reinke, Maternal Child Health Nurse Care Coordinator at the Greater Lawrence Family Health Center, is a term that has long been understood to encompass the time of a woman’s life when she is pregnant and up to around one month postpartum, but in general the definition has
expanded to include the entire first postpartum year. And she agrees with her colleagues who are fighting hard to increase perinatal support structures for women that when it comes to mental health and empowering and supporting women through pregnancy and birth, the time for a serious conversation about perinatal emotional complications has arrived. If you are a mother, you are familiar with postpartum depression (PPD). Of the myriad presentations of perinatal emotional complications, it is the one that garners the most attention from not only the media but from medical practitioners themselves, and it is often the only complication they are trained to recognize, treat and screen. High profile cases leave the public with the idea that PPD is a monstrous affliction and contribute to the perpetuation of a stigma that keeps women silent – for fear of being labeled “crazy,” for fear of having their children taken away, for fear of being judged, condemned or ostracized from their community. But PPD is only one element of a very complex set of complications – with perinatal anxiety leading the charge and a wide spectrum of others following closely behind, including the very rare but extremely serious perinatal psychosis – which is more often the culprit of scary news stories. According to Liz Friedman, CoFounder of the Postpartum Support Initiative in Western Massachusetts, which is an effort spearheaded by the non-profit organization MotherWoman, where she is the Program Director, the statistics are staggering – almost as staggering as the silence surrounding the issue. “I can rattle them off. Fifteen percent of women experience anxiety and depression while they are pregnant, one to three in every thousand women experience postpartum psychosis, 40-60% of low-income women experience postpartum depression. But this all points to one thing,” she said. “Most women have either experienced, or know someone who has experienced, perinatal emotional complications. But nobody is talking about it, and it can be very hard to find the right support and treatment.” Support and treatment for presentations of these complications, said Acel-Green, can include anything from finding social-emotional support to taking medication for anxiety and depression – and everything in between. The inbetween treatments, particularly for women experiencing lowlevel symptoms, might include
and perhaps even the new mom who glides through the perinatal experience can empathize, when she talks about the lack of sleep that inevitably accompanies new parenthood. “Even in the best of circumstances, even when things go well, it’s hard,” she said. Friedman’s passionate message to new mothers is that help is available and that a small but mighty army of advocates are fighting for them all the time. “They are not alone and we know they love their babies,” said
Friedman. “Everything we are doing is to help and protect them.”
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acupuncture, exercise, mindfulness and sleep. “Treatment is specific to a woman’s individual case. But we are not listening closely to each woman’s experience and then telling them that it happens, that they aren’t alone” she said. She added that the factors that make people vulnerable to perinatal emotional complications are heredity and related to a person’s own history with anxiety and depression, stress and lack of resources and social isolation. The tragic piece of the puzzle, said Friedman, is that the screening is so easy and is a good way of determining women who are at-risk. Reinke said she periodically, but not routinely, administers one of several screening tests to women— including the Edinburgh Perinatal Depression Scale. Though it takes a mere two minutes and is somewhat accurate in flagging women at risk and getting them the support and help they need, the medical profession just has not yet recognized regular perinatal screening as useful. This is particularly damaging because for a vast majority of women, the depth of their despair keeps them from recognizing the seriousness of their condition. “I have never seen anyone come out and say ‘I’m depressed’,” said Reinke. “Never.” Through her work at MotherWoman, Friedman is continually fighting for legislation that will give all women access to support and resources. The outlook, she said, is very good. “There is so much hope for women,” she said, adding that leaders are currently hard at work to ensure that medical professionals are trained in screening and treating all of the mental health issues that arise in the perinatal period of a woman’s life. Intrusive thoughts, like those I experienced at a swanky hotel cocktail party, are far more common than people realize and can be a healthy red flag of a woman who is at risk for more serious depression and anxiety. But the biggest risk, she added, is when those thoughts are not scary. “They should scare you,” she warned. “When they aren’t scary, that‘s when it has gone more toward the perinatal psychosis end of the spectrum and that’s a very serious situation.” Women experiencing symptoms associated with perinatal emotional complications, including intrusive thoughts, fears, anxieties and depression, are encouraged to reach out for support without fear of being judged or condemned. Perhaps Acel-Green said it best,
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That’s Pregnancy With a Pee BY MARYJO KURTZ
“I have to prep to sneeze, otherwise I’ll pee myself,” a coworker recently joked. While the women in the room all enjoyed a laugh from the comment, it was clear that they also understood exactly what she was describing. Statistics bear that out. According to the National Association for Continence (NAFC), an estimated 15 million women in the US suffer from stress incontinence, and the condition is common during and after pregnancy. “Urinary incontinence is not lifethreatening, but it can affect the quality of life,” said Dr. Keisha Jones, a urogynecologist for Baystate Health in Springfield. “It can affect self-confidence and cause depression and feelings of isolation.”
The Pressure of Pregnancy Jones noted that pregnancy is a factor that contributes to the development of stress incontinence, the most common type of incontinence in women. For many, bladder issues become aggravated by physical pressure during pregnancy but the effects may not appear until well after childbirth. “Changes occur to the pelvic floor during pregnancy, a common cause for stress incontinence,” said Jones. Among the changes is a weakening of the sphincter, a circle-shaped
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muscle that surrounds the urethra and is squeezed to hold in urine. When the sphincter muscles are weakened, they can no longer hold back urine flow during sudden physical pressure, such as with a cough or a sneeze. Jones said that hormonal changes after pregnancy can help a woman regain urinary control, “but it’s usually not total improvement.” The good news, she said, is that there are many options available for women today. Unfortunately, many women do not seek treatment right away. The NAFC reports that women wait an average of 6.5 years before seeking help for a bladder control problem.
4 Common Treatments According to the National Institutes of Health (NIH), there are four common treatments for stress incontinence: • Behavior changes • Medication • Pelvic floor muscle training • Surgery Behavioral changes include drinking less fluid, urinating often to reduce the amount of urine in the bladder, and losing weight. Some patients are asked to keep a diary of urinary habits, noting patterns in incontinence. In these cases,
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changing frequency of bathroom trips may offset the episodes of incontinence. WebMD.com explains another exercise in which patients slowly increase the time between urinations in an effort to train the bladder. For example, a woman may start with one hour intervals between bathroom visits and slowly increase in half hour increments until reaching about four hours between bathroom breaks. The NIH reports that medications are often prescribed for patients with mild to moderate stress incontinence. Estrogen is also an option and commonly recommended for women who have gone through menopause, as it can reportedly improve the tone of the urethral sphincter muscles. “Pelvic floor muscle training is an effective option for many of my patients,” said Jones. Also known as Kegel exercises, the training involves squeezing the pelvic floor muscles regularly in an effort to strengthen them. “I recommend that my patients try this for at least three months. A large majority report improvement.” WebMD.com recommends tightening the muscles for ten seconds at a time, repeating ten times. The process should yield improvement if repeated three times a day over a four to six week period. While these methods usually improve symptoms, most do not cure stress incontinence, according to the NIH. For a permanent cure, surgery is recommended. The surgery that Jones recommends is insertion of polypropylene mesh into the pelvic floor. The resulting scar tissue becomes the new support of the pelvic floor. “Statistics over the past 20 years show an 85 to 95 percent success rate with this procedure,” she said. She explained that the surgery is done in about an hour, with an expected recovery time of two weeks. “It’s minimally invasive,” she added.
For many, bladder issues become aggravated by physical pressure during pregnancy but the effects may not appear until well after childbirth.
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Camp Bonnie Brae Celebrates 95 Years Jerry’s Cabin, built in the 1950s and named for a camp director during that time, is situated right in the heart of camp. It serves as the camp director’s summer home.
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Looking toward camp from the pond, it is clear that much of the property is woodland. Campers are invited explore prairie, freshwater, and wetland ecosystems as well in their nature activities.
“The Gong,” as it’s known to campers and staff, is the camp’s alarm clock, dinner bell, and emergency signal. Its sound can be heard from the far reaches of the property— even across the pond!
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Three generations of Camp Bonnie Brae campers: Jennifer Katrovil-Moriarty (center) of Pittsfield, her daughter Erin (left), and mother Rosemary Kratovil (right) of Springfield.
Girl Scout tradition since it opened in 1919, Camp Bonnie Brae continues making memories for summer campers and is now the longest running Girl Scout camp in the country. The program started ninetyfive years ago when two friends decided to create a nature retreat for girls. Edith Senet, one of the first directors of the Girl Scouts, and her good friend Edith Newall organized the camp in June that year. Today, Camp Bonnie Brae is the oldest continuously running camp in Western Massachusetts. During the years of its operation, many girls have experienced the dream the two women had. Recently, baystateparent met with one family that shares three generations of memories about Camp Bonnie Brae.
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Some of her favorite camp memories are singing together on the big back porch of the camp, swimming lessons where each girl was given a colored cap representing the class level they were in, hiking through the woods, and sitting around the campfire chatting — while, of course, eating s’mores. Her most cherished memory is the Wish Boat Ceremony. Camp Bonnie Brae director
and just be outdoors,” KratovilMoriarty said. Several years ago, KratovilMoriarty (who was eight months pregnant at the time), her mother and her daughter Erin (who was 3 ½) had the opportunity to stay at the camp together for a special event. “We stayed overnight in a cabin,” she said, excitedly. “And we’re hoping to do it again this year.”
Breakfast, Lunch and Dinner At the end of each camp session, girls are invited to craft a boat using tree bark and other natural materials. This "wish boat" gets a small candle attached and lit before its maker sets it asail in Big Pond, making a wish. Common camp wisdom says that when your candle's flame is extinguished, your wish can come true.
Fifty Dollars for Two Weeks Rosemary Kratovil attended the summer camp during its fiftieth anniversary celebration. Her daughter Jennifer KratovilMoriarty went to the camp for ten years as a youth, her last year as a counselor assistant. Today Kratovil-Moriarty’s daughter Erin continues the family tradition as she attends this year for her third summer. “What it comes down to, why the camp has lasted this long, is because of the experiences and memories so many girls have created in this incredible place.” Patricia Hallberg, Chief Executive Officer of the Girl Scouts of Central and Western Massachusetts said. Rosemary Kratovil couldn’t agree more. Prior to entering the eighth grade, Kratovil saw fliers for the camp advertising its 50th anniversary. She remembers the cost of the camp being fifty dollars for a two-week stay back then. “I was the first girl in Springfield to have her own paper route. So, I saved my own money to go,” Kratovil recalled. Only able to participate in the camp that one year and loving it so much, she vowed that one day a daughter of her own would go every year. “I still have the 50 year patch I received during that stay,” she said.
attending Camp Bonnie Brae just before entering the second grade. “I couldn’t get enough, I absolutely loved it.” KratovilMoriarty said of her first time at camp and why she continued to attend for a decade. Today, she is a mother of two daughters. Her oldest, Erin, will be attending her third year at camp this summer. Younger daughter Natalie is still a bit
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Stacy Harper said the Wish Boat Ceremonies are a big part of camp life still today. Describing the special event, she said campers choose pieces of tree bark to decorate with items from nature like berries or leaves. They then get a birthday candle to position on the bark by melting the bottom to the top of their ‘wish boat.’ Then it’s off to the lake to set the boats sailing. “They make a wish (as they send the handmade boat into the water) and when the candle goes out, their wish comes true,” Harper said.
Mud Walks and No Showers Jennifer made her mom’s wish come true when she began
young for the program, but she can’t wait to go. KratovilMoriarty works fulltime and also volunteers as a Girl Scout leader in her hometown of Pittsfield. Remembering her cherished years at Bonnie Brae brought up wonderful images of a mud hike she and campmates had taken through what they called “The Enchanted Forest.” She said that while there are trails at the camp that are not muddy, she loved the ones that were. She also noted the many changes from those days. Among the biggest are that campers today have cabins instead of tents, and showering is a daily option unlike in the past. “It’s not terribly rustic. So don’t be scared off. It’s great for kids to get away from all types of media
Her daughter Erin looks forward to another season at Camp Bonnie Brae. She first attended a day camp program when she was going into first grade. Last year, she did both the day program and the overnight program, telling her mom that the overnight was much better because she could have breakfast, lunch and dinner there. “Fun, extraordinary and awesome,” were the words Erin used to describe the camp. She said she loved canoeing and arts and crafts, especially when they made fairy houses. She also thinks it’s really cool that her mom and Nana went there, too.
Commaraderie and Safety Ketaki Rella-Brooks is the Team Leadership Coordinator at Bonnie Brae and has been with the camp for the past five years. Once a camper there for eight years, and having experienced the counselors first hand, she wanted to be a counselor for campers today. “It’s rewarding working with the campers,” she said. “It’s an accepting environment that I recommend to everyone.” That welcoming environment is a trademark for the camp, Rella-Brooks and Hallberg noted. Hallberg said, “The comfort level of being in an all-girl environment when you’re learning things like water skiing is really a safe feeling.” For more information about Camp Bonnie Brae and its history, visit gscwm.org, the website of the Girl Scouts of Central and Western Massachusetts. 26 BAYSTATEPARENTWEST 27
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Whole Children classes for kids of ALL abilities Is your child dying to learn kung fu, hip hop dance, or gymnastics but the usual classes just don’t work? Check out Whole Children, where ALL kids are successful. We have after-school and weekend classes that include recreation, performing arts, chorus, social skills and so much more! We teach skills in a way that works. Come learn, make new friends, and have fun! Check us out at www. wholechildren.org.
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Spring classes begin April 14 A detailed schedule can be found at www.wholechildren.org 41 Russell St, Hadley, MA 01035 413-585-8010; info@wholechildren.org
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Explore the Outdoors August 3 to August 6, 2014 Four day outdoor adventure in Western Massachusetts for teens entering grades 9-12. Includes camping, hiking, swimming, and zip-lining. A great way for teens in the mainstream to connect! For more information, call 413-584-3450, email info@clarkeschools.org or visit www.clarkeschools.org/summerprograms.
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Why Summer Camp? 3 Ways Camp Builds Confidence BY HEIDI SMITH LUEDTKE, PH.D.
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The Psychology of Summer Camp Time at camp may be all it takes to spark a little selfdetermination in your kid. I know it sounds too good to be true. Your school-age slacker – the one who expects you to find his homework and pack his lunch – might start doing some things for himself. And your often-bored tween might come home with more pep in her step. Psychologists use selfdetermination theory (SDT) to explain why some experiences make us feel engaged and excited while others drain and deplete us. The premise is simple: when an activity meets our needs for autonomy, competence, and relatedness, we are energized and empowered. Kids’ basic needs are no different from adults’. Kids want to do things for 30 MARCH2014 31
themselves. They crave a sense of accomplishment and routinely seek feedback. (“Look what I made, Mom!”) And kids thrive on connections with loved ones and peers. Feelings of belongingness boost their self-worth. Summer camp offers loads of opportunities to meet all these needs. And that should make kids (and the parents who love them) very happy campers indeed.
Autonomy
The need for autonomy is satisfied when kids control their own lives. At camp, your son will have endless opportunities to care for himself. Staff won’t select his clothes, organize the contents of his locker, or remind him to put on deodorant. No one will delay dessert until he eats his veggies. Independence is what camp is all about. Don’t worry. The world won’t stop if your son wears the same shirt three days in a row. His peers will speak up if he gets super stinky. During the school year, many kids jump from one regularly scheduled activity to the next with no unstructured time in between. Camp puts kids in charge of their own activities. Maybe your daughter will take a hike. Maybe she’ll paint pottery. Maybe she’ll write you an email. It is up to her to decide how she’ll spend her free time. Chances
are that she won’t sit around whining about having nothing to do. And if she does, you won’t be there to hear it.
Competence The need for competence is satisfied when kids learn new things and get positive feedback about their efforts. Your kid might choose a camp focused on art, science, sports, or music. Or he may opt for a good old-fashioned sleep-away experience, complete with row boats and weenie roasts. Some camp activities may be outside your kid’s comfort zone. Stretching is good. Your child may be unsure she can cross the slippery log over the creek. She may tremble with excitement about her role in the theater production. Peers and counselors will coax her along
and give constructive advice. By the end of camp, she’ll be the star of her own adventure stories. If your kid is an experienced camper, encourage him to share what he knows with newbies. Being an ambassador or mentor affirms kids’ competence in a big way. Teaching a peer how to trim a sail or chip a golf ball out of the tall grass will take your son’s skills to a higher level. His confidence will soar in response.
Relatedness
Your biggest concerns about summer camp may center on the social scene. Your child may not know anyone on arrival. That’s okay. Camps create connections in many ways. Your kid will be instantly bonded with bunkmates because they share a home base. Family-style
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dining and friendly competitions encourage interaction, too. The pursuit of shared goals – like building a robot or putting a frog in the counselor’s sleeping bag – cements kids’ camaraderie. Extroverted kids may make lots of friends at camp. Less sociable souls may not. What matters most is that kids have opportunities to talk, play and live with a diverse group of peers. They won’t all become fast friends. Learning to navigate the choppy waters of friendship formation is a big part of the camp experience. Your kid’s social skill set will expand – even if she doesn’t find a new BFF. No matter what your kid takes to camp, he’ll come home with a suitcase full of memories and a renewed sense of selfdetermination. You’ll see it as soon as he wakes from his long post-camp nap.
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THE BELCHERTOWN KID Z CLUB 2014 SUMMER CAMP WE’RE OPEN ALL SUMMER LONG... From The Last Day of School until The Kids Return In The Fall! FOR KIDS AGES 4 – 14 YRS. Monday – Friday 7:30 A.M. – 5:30 P.M. Part-time & Full-time Full & Half Day
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Summer Camp 2014 Offering Beginner horse programs in a friendly environment. Student will learn basic horse care, tacking, grooming, and a riding lesson everday. Not only will they learn about horses but we offer a great arts and crafts program, and hands on experience around the horses. This is an all day program from 8:30 am until 3:30 pm. The cost for this program is $300. per week. Weekly slots available, call or email for details slots fill up quickly. Located at 121 South Washington Street Multi-Child Discount Belchertown, MA
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estled into their comfy L-shaped couch with two dogs lazing nearby, single Lexington mom Jo Hannah Katz and her four adopted Ethiopian children, now aged 14 to 22, talk with great warmth and excitement about the East Coast Ethiopian Cultural Camp (ECECC). Missing from the couch but not the conversation are Jo Hannah’s unofficially adopted Ethiopian son, who is 23, and her biological daughter, who is 28. For this transracial family, the ECECC is an annual highpoint and an important lifeline to Ethiopian traditions and customs. Jo Hannah co-founded the ECECC in 2006, a year after she adopted her two youngest daughters. Her partners were Drucilla Roberts and Nick Semine, also parents of adopted Ethiopian children. Held every summer in New Hampshire, the ECECC is a weekend event filled with Ethiopian traditions, customs, and togetherness for
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adoptive families, families waiting to adopt, and Ethiopian Americans.
Recognizing Heritage “(We must) recognize and honor the life or lives from which our children come, (and) not to think that their life starts the day they join their new family,” said Jo Hannah. Having adopted her children when they were 5, 10, 15 and 16-years-old, Jo Hannah knows that this is especially true for children adopted at an older age. “It feels like my nest was empty for 15 minutes,” Jo Hannah said when reflecting on her six children. She adopted her two youngest daughters from an orphanage in Ethiopia in 2005, two years after her biologic daughter left for college. In 2007, Jo Hannah and her three daughters traveled to Ethiopia to finalize the adoption
of an older biologic brother and sister of her already adopted daughters. Completing the family in 2009, Jo Hannah’s unofficially adopted another Ethiopian son who at 18 was too old to be legally adopted. Jo Hannah said, “I know I am not my kids' first mom, but I am their mom. (They) have come through huge losses to get where they are and they have earned the right to their memories, their grief and their fears… It is my job to let go of my presumptions, assumptions and fears and embrace what happens. It is my job to keep them connected. My kids may have their heart in two places — Ethiopia and America — and I believe that by keeping them connected to their first family and culture, they will work out how to manage this over time.” Her adopted son said, “Mom, someday I may want to live in Ethiopia again, but not forever.” Jo Hannah said, “I understand.”
9th ECECC Annual Gathering July 11 through 13, the ECECC will hold its 9th annual gathering on the campus of Franklin Pierce University in Rindge, New Hampshire. When it began, there were between 30 and 35 families. Jo Hannah and her current coplanner, Mimi Johnson of Bedford, expect almost 60 families this year, which will mean around 200 people. The ECECC is the only camp of its type in New England. According to Jo Hannah, it has attracted people from the New England states, as well as New York, New Jersey, Pennsylvania, Virginia, and Maryland. It takes a lot of work to organize the Ethiopian camp. Jo Hannah said that it is the focus of her summers, when she is on break from teaching elementary school in the Lexington Public School System. All of her
Long Standing Connections The ECECC creates deep, long standing connections among adopted Ethiopian children, their parents, their parent’s biologic children, “waiting” families, and other Ethiopian-Americans of all ages. For children adopted at a young age, it may be their first group exposure to some aspects of Ethiopian culture. For those who live in areas of New England with few or no other Ethiopians, camp is the place where they can build connections and celebrate their culture and traditions in a group setting. One participant said to Jo Hannah, “We cannot thank you enough for the profound experience that we had at camp – on this, our first year.” The schedule for this year’s program is filled with separate and joint activities for young children, teens,
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friends Adoption Information Meeting. Massachusetts Department of Children and Families, 140 High St., 5th floor, Springfield. Tuesday, March 4, 4 to 5:30 p.m. Learn how to become foster or adoptive parent with the Massachusetts DCF. No registration required. 413-452-3369.
Adoptive Families Together Parent Support Group. Worcester MSPCC office, 335 Chandler St., Worcester. Thursday, March 20, 7 to 9 p.m. Monthly parent group is a parent-run, confidential group that includes open discussions during which parents can share their personal concerns and needs around adoptive parenting. Drop-ins welcome. Free. For more information, contact 857-728-2157. lbaeumler@mspcc.org. To list your adoption-related event information in baystateparent, email editor@baystateparent.com, or visit baystateparent.com to add your listing to our interactive calendar of events.
and adults. There are seminars, performances, games, concerts, and childcare. The days and nights are busy, but there is plenty of time to hang out, according to Jo Hannah. Participants of the ECECC know that year-after-year they will enjoy many Ethiopian traditions, including the Ethiopian coffee ceremony. Other highlights are Eskista (Ethiopian shoulder dancing), which is both taught and performed, Ethiopian hair braiding, clothes, food, language (Amharic), movies, guest speakers, soccer, outdoor games, and music (including instruments and church songs). On Saturday night, there is a dinner and dance, and on Sunday morning there is a fun run. The annual teen panel, “Growing Up Ethiopian,” and facilitated discussion always have a packed audience according to Jo Hannah. She said, “It’s really important to have these high school kids (here). They are the kids that the younger kids will grow into.” This past year, Jo Hannah invited three Ethiopian students from M.I.T. to participate in the weekend. “They are the role models for our children,” she said.
Future Plans Going forward, Jo Hannah is not quite sure how much bigger the ECECC should grow. She said that it works well at its current size since the Franklin Pierce campus has airconditioned accommodations for about 200 to 225 people. When asked about future goals, Jo Hannah said she would like to continue fundraising for Ethiopian humanitarian causes, which she actively does with her children. She also wants to join with other groups to provide programs relating to Ethiopian adoption, and create other platforms for these events. On a broader level, Jo Hannah said she would like to “start a similar summer weekend camp for all adoptive children/ families.” Reflecting on the ECECC, Jo Hannah said that she already knew it was a success but was sure when she heard a very young camper say to another, “Hey, are you from Ethiopia? So am I.”
Sign-up Information The ECECC program will take place Friday, July 11, 2014 through Sunday, July 13, 2014. The cost is $275 per person (age 5+), $125 (ages 3 to 4, and free for age 2 and younger. Scholarships are available from funds raised at the camp’s annual raffle and from some of the proceeds from the camp’s annual “Merkato,” a mini market of Ethiopian and Ethiopian-related products. For more information about the camp, visit the ECECC’s Facebook page (www.facebook.com/ECECC) and/or email Jo Hannah at admin@ethiopianculturecamp.org. To register, email Jo Hannah.
March’s Child: Kwin Sixteen-year-old Kwin is of Caucasian and Native American descent. He enjoys music and theatre. Kwin has participated in several plays. He also likes bowling and traveling. Kwin is creative and uses his imagination to create stories as well as write and perform rap music. He gets along well with adults and children alike. He loves one-on-one attention from adults. In the 9th grade, Kwin attends a Regional Vocational Technical School where he is supported by an Individualized Educational Plan (IEP). He would like to go on to college one day. Kwin currently lives in a group home where he does well with routine, structure, and consistency. He works hard to master new tasks and to achieve personal therapeutic goals. Kwin has some medical issues that will require ongoing attention, but they do not slow him down – as you can tell by his photo!
The ideal family for Kwin is a twoparent family of any constellation with no children or with children who are older than Kwin. A family who is open to birth family contact would be best as he has extended birth family who are very invested in his success. Kwin needs a family who can provide him with a lot of attention and affection. A family who can balance positive reinforcement with structure and stability would be a wonderful fit for him. Kwin is legally free for adoption. For more information on Kwin, please contact Wendy's Wonderful Kids Recruiter Deirdre Madden at 617- 54-ADOPT. For more information on the adoption process in general, the Department of Children and Families (DCF) holds monthly informational meetings in Worcester. Please call 508-929-2143 for more detailed information about the next meeting.
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children are involved as well. One of Jo Hannah’s daughters said, “We look forward to camp every year. We always want it to be more than three days.”
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Strategies for the
Reluctant Family Camper BY SARAH WHELAN
How about a merit badge for parents who go camping, even though they are terrified of the great outdoors? I may be a wimp, but I can’t stand bugs, pine needles on the floor, dirt everywhere, and no electricity. The truth is I hate camping! That said, I spend two weekends a year camping with my family at Camp Cachalot in Wareham, Massachusetts. I do this because my husband (an Eagle Scout, Boy Scout troop leader, and Appalachian Trail thru-hiker) and my children absolutely love it. More importantly - and I remind myself of this repeatedly during camping trips - camping is a family-strengthening activity that provides the opportunity to spend true quality time together. Somehow, I survive these family camping trips, although I have made my share of embarrassing mistakes and learned some hardwon lessons along the way. I would like to think that my suffering has not been in vain. By sharing my stories with other parents, I hope to make your family camping experience a bit more enjoyable. Here are my tips on how to survive a family camping trip when you would much rather stay home: 36 MARCH2014 37
Practice a Positive Attitude For me, it is difficult to have a positive attitude about a family camping weekend. When our campsite is finally set up and I look around at our third-worldstyle accommodations, I have to fight the urge to run for the car and attempt an escape. What works for me is to “make it about the kids.” I focus on making sure that my children and husband have a great time and that we spend time together as a family. My advice to other parents is to view camping as an opportunity to do the things you always wanted to do with your children, if you only had the time. This is your chance to make a fun craft together, go on a hike, organize a scavenger hunt, play hide-and-seek, fly a kite, go fishing, tell stories, sing songs, and make s’mores. Use the time at camp to enjoy simply being with your children.
Yield to Dirt Take my word for it. Within fifteen minutes of arriving at camp, your children will be filthy. I tell you this
so that you won’t be surprised or distressed (like I was) when you find that your normally spotless children look as if they haven’t bathed in weeks. My children dig and play in the dirt of the Camp Cachalot pine forest, and they love every minute of it. While playing with friends they see only twice a year, their faces are soon covered with not only dirt, but also smiles from earto-ear. You must resign yourself to the reality that your children are going to get dirty at camp. To get through this, assure yourself, as I do, that you will only be there for a few days. By all means, wash them up before eating and before bed, but that’s about all you can do. The dirt won’t hurt them, and you can make them soak in a hot bath the second you get home.
Brace for Bathroom Time If you are lucky, your campground will have functioning bathrooms for you to use. Be aware, however, that these bathroom facilities will not be as clean or well-stocked as your bathroom at home. Always
bring your own toilet paper with you to camp — and remember to take it with you every time you go! Another challenge for parents is the middle-of-the night bathroom trip. I know I am not alone on this one. No matter what I do, I have to get up at least once during the night to go to the bathroom. It is no fun to leave the warmth of the tent and walk in the dark, by myself all the way to the bathroom. But what other option do I have? I once thought I had the perfect solution, but boy was I wrong! At the time, I had just finished potty training my two toddlers, and I had the kind of portable potty chair that allows you to pour out its contents later on. I thought I could stay inside the tent, use this potty chair throughout the night, and simply get rid of the evidence in the morning. Unfortunately, these chairs are designed to hold a toddler-sized bathroom visit, and apparently a mom’s bladder is somewhat larger than that. Needless to say, the potty chair overflowed, and I had an embarrassing cleanup job the next morning. My fellow parents, do not try this one out for yourselves. If you, like me, cannot avoid a middleof-the-night bathroom visit, there is
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Develop Sleeping Strategies There is nothing like sleeping in a tent with your entire family. On my first camping trip, between my husband’s snoring and the sounds of the great outdoors, I thought I would never fall asleep. Falling asleep and staying asleep while camping comes easily to some, but they are more difficult for others (like me). If you are not used to sleeping outside, earplugs are an absolute necessity. Using earplugs will block out the sounds of the forest and of the other campers and help you get some rest.
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Experience the entire sugar-making process at Maple Days, Old Sturbridge Village, Saturdays and Sundays through March 23.
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On Wednesday, March 12, Danu performs traditional Irish music at Bowker Auditorium in Amherst.
On Saturday, March 1, the Eric Carle Museum hosts a folk family concert with award-winning musician Alastair Moock.
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Weekdays, 10 a.m. to 4 p.m.; weekends, 10 a.m. to 5 p.m. Exhibit features picture book illustration art by Ruth Sanderson. questions@nrm.org. 413-298-4100.
Created by Cirque du Soleil, Michael Jackson The Immortal World Tour stops at the DCU Center on Saturday, March 1.
1 Saturday Family Concert: Alastair Moock. Eric Carle Museum of Picture Book Art, 125 West Bay Rd., Amherst. 11 a.m. Parents’ Choice Gold Award Winner and three-time NAPPA Gold Award Winner Alastair Moock presents acoustic folk family concert with a zany sense of humor. Adults $8, youth $6. carlemuseum.org. Summer Camp Fair. Amherst Regional Middle School, Amherst. 11 a.m. to 2 p.m. Learn about summer camp options. Free. Girl Scout Cookie Sale. Hampshire Mall, 367 Russell St., Hadley. Saturday, March 1, 10 a.m. to 9 p.m.; Sunday, March 2, 11 a.m. to 6 p.m. The Girl Scouts of Central and Western Mass will be selling their famous cookies in the food court near Cell Ace. hampshiremall.com. Bird Banding Demonstration. Pleasant Valley Wildlife Sanctuary, 472 West Mountain Rd., Lenox. 10 a.m. to noon. Observe handheld birds. Watch demonstration on the proper use of mist nets. Participants will help gather data and release the birds unharmed. Suitable for families with children ages 3 and up. No registration required. Adults $5, children $5. berkshires@massaudubon.org Following Footsteps. Wachusett Meadow Wildlife Sanctuary, Princeton. 10 a.m. to noon. 40 MARCH2014 41
Instructor is naturalist Bruce Palmer. Find out what animals make which footprints with this tracking program. Suitable for families with children ages 10 and up. $8 adult, $4 child. massaudubon.org. Frank Maratta’s Auto and Race-A-Rama Show. Eastern States Exposition, Better Living Center, Springfield. Saturday, March 1, 10 a.m. to 9 p.m.; Sunday, March 2, 10 a.m. to 5 p.m. Featuring custom cars, hot rods, imports, trucks, dream cars. Adults $15, children 8 to 12 $8; kids 7 and under free. 860-347-3625. fmautoshow.com. Hasbro Games Art Discovery Center. George Walter Vincent Smith Art Museum, Springfield. Noon to 3:45 p.m. Try on costumes, play gallery games, enjoy hands-on art activities. Free with museum admission. Adults $15, seniors/college students $10, children 3 to 17 $8, children 2 and under free. springfieldmuseums.org. Saturday Storytime. Springfield City Library, 220 State St., Springfield. Saturdays, 1:30 p.m. Ongoing program features stories and a craft designed for children ages 3 to 8. Siblings welcome. No registration required. 413-263-6828. springfieldlibrary.org. Dancing Princesses: The Fairy Tale Art of Ruth Sanderson. Norman Rockwell Museum, 9 Route 183, Stockbridge. Through March 9.
Maple Days. Old Sturbridge Village (OSV), 1 Old Sturbridge Village Rd., Sturbridge. Saturdays and Sundays through March 23. See maple sugaring as it was done in the early 19th century rural New England in OSV’s working sugar camp. See entire sugar-making process, from tapping the trees to “sugaring off.” OSV is offering free admission for children (ages 17 and under) on weekends through March 20 when accompanied by one adult paying fullpriced regular admission. Adults $24, seniors $22. 800-733-1830. osv.org. Kids Workshop: Build a Trojan Horse. Home Depot locations throughout Massachusetts. 9 a.m. to noon. Supplies provided for this dropin program. Suitable for ages 5 to 12 with adult. Free. homedepot.com. A Classical Celebration with the Worcester Children’s Chorus. Wesley United Methodist Church, 114 Main St., Worcester. 4 to 5:30 p.m. Worcester Children’s Chorus performs classical music featuring works by Bach, Handel, Mozart, Vivaldi and more. Adults $15, children/seniors/students $10. 508-767-7077. Build a Bluebird House. Broad Meadow Brook Wildlife Sanctuary, 414 Massasoit Rd., Worcester. 1:30 to 3 p.m. Build nest boxes from pre-cut kits. Learn how to place the boxes in right habitat, plus more about eastern bluebird conservation efforts. Please bring a hammer. Suitable for families with children ages 5 and up. Adult $20, children free. Register at 508-753-6087 or massaudubon.org. Cirque du Soleil Presents Michael Jackson The Immortal. DCU Center, 50 Foster St., Worcester. 8 p.m. Tickets start at $83. dcucenter.com.
2 Sunday Free Family Concert: Peter and the Wolf. Mechanics Hall, 321 Main St., Worcester. 3 p.m. Presented by the Worcester Chamber Music Society. Meet and greet the musicians following the concert. Receive a $2 discount coupon at the door for admission to the Ecotarium. Take a new or gently used book to be donated to Reliant Medical Group Foundation’s Reach Out and Read program and be entered into a drawing to win a free family membership to Ecotarium. Free. 508217-4450. worcesterchambermusic.org. Highlights of the Blackstone River Heritage Corridor. Broad Meadow Brook
Wildlife Sanctuary, 414 Massasoit Rd., Worcester. 1 to 4 p.m. Explore the many waterways around the city that come together to form the Blackstone River and learn how the city’s history is tied to this vital water resource. Suitable for families with children ages 10 and up. Adults $12, children $8. Register at 508-753-6087 or massaudubon.org.
3 Monday Wee Ones Storytime. Springfield City Library, Indian Orchard Branch, 44 Oak St., Indian Orchard. Mondays, 10:30 a.m. This ongoing program features stories, songs, and fun rhymes for children 1- to 2-years-old with parent or caregiver. Free. Register at 413-263-6846. springfieldlibrary.org. Worcester Family Partnership Drop-In Playgroup. Worcester Family Partnership, 130 Leeds St., Worcester. Mondays, Tuesdays, Wednesdays, and Fridays from 9:30 to 11 a.m. Through April 4. Playgroups feature books, puzzles, toys, blocks and more. Suitable for families with infants, toddlers and preschoolers. Free. 508-799-3136. worcestermass.org.
4 Tuesday Music & Movement Storytime. Springfield Library, Forest Park Branch, 380 Belmont Ave., Springfield. 10:30 a.m. Recommended for children ages 1 ½ - to 3-years-old with caregiver. Free. Register at 413-263-6843. springfieldlibrary.org. Tuesday Tot Read Aloud. Eastfield Mall, 1655 Boston Rd., Springfield. 10:30 a.m. Story time and a free book for toddlers to take hom. Free. 413-543-8000. eastfieldmall.com. Dr. Seuss Birthday Celebration. Worcester Public Library, Tatnuck Branch, 1083 Pleasant St., Worcester. 3:30 to 4 p.m. Celebrate Dr. Seuss’s birthday with stories and crafts. Suitable for children ages three and up. Free. 508-799-8329. worcpublib.org.
5 Wednesday Spirit of Uganda. UMass Fine Arts Center, 151 Presidents Dr., Amherst. 7:30 p.m. Program of music and dance for audiences of all ages. Standing drums, dramatic choreography, layered rhythms, cast of 22 performers ages 10 to 20. Sounds and movements of East Africa. Ticket information 413-545-2511. fineartscenter.com. “Making Our Future Happen: Feeling Safe, Includes & Free.” The State House, Great Hall, Boston. 10:30 a.m. to noon. The Arc of Massachusetts and the Massachusetts
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Developmental Disabilities Council hold their 36th Annual Legislative Reception. People with disabilities, family members, advocates, state agency heads and their staff, and lawmakers will catch up on legislative priorities and other important issues. For information, call 781-891-6270, ext. 101 or Rutledge@arcmass.org. Storytime. Springfield City Library, Mason Square Branch, 765 State St., Springfield. Wednesdays, 10:30 a.m. This ongoing program includes stories, songs and crafts for ages 3 to 8. Siblings welcome. Free. For information, call 413-263-6853. springfieldlibrary.org. Preschool Bilingual (English/Spanish) Storytime. Brightwood Library, 359 Plainfield St., Springfield. 10 to 10:45 a.m. Program includes stories, songs, crafts for children 2- to 4-years-old with parents or caregivers. Free. 413263-6805. springfieldlibrary.org. Preschool and Toddler Wednesdays. Ecotarium, 222 Harrington Way, Worcester. Wednesdays 10:30 to 11 a.m. through Dec. 17, 2014. Preschool and toddler program features story, animal, and craft. Popular program fills quickly. Tickets reserved on first-come, firstserved basis. Free with museum admission. Adults $14, children/seniors/students $10, free for children under 2. ecotarium.org.
6 Thursday Family PJ Storytime. Springfield Library, Forest Park Branch, 380 Belmont Ave., Springfield. 6 p.m. Families with children ages 3 to 8 are invited to come to the “Family Place” to enjoy bedtime stories, songs, rhymes, and a bedtime snack. Free. Register at 413-263-6843. springfieldlibrary.org. Family Storytime. Springfield Library, East Springfield Branch, 21 Osborne Terrace, Springfield. 3:30 p.m. Stories, songs and crafts designed for children ages 3 to 8. Siblings welcome. Free. To register, call 413-263-6840. springfieldlibrary.org.
First Steps Storytime. Springfield City Library, 220 State St., Springfield. Thursdays, 10 a.m. Ongoing program features stories, songs and playtime suitable for children up to 3-years-old. 413-263-6828. springfieldlibrary.org.
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Preschool Storytime. Springfield City Library, Sixteen Acres Branch, 1187 Parker St., Springfield. 10:30 a.m. Recommended for children ages 3 to 5. Free. Register at 413-263-6858. springfieldlibrary.org. Kids Craft Night. Eastfield Mall Food Court, 1655 Boston Rd., Springfield. 6 p.m. Kids make craft to take home. Free. 413-543-8000. eastfieldmall.com.
7 Friday Monument Mountain Regional High School Band Pops Concert. Mahaiwe Performing Arts Center, Great Barrington. 8 p.m. the Monument Mountain Regional High School Band, under the direction of Jeffrey Stevens, returns to the Mahaiwe Theater to present its 31st Annual Pops Concert. Tickets $15. mahaiwe.org. 2014 Western Massachusetts Go Red for Women Luncheon. Log Cabin, 500 Easthampton Rd., Holyoke. 9:30 a.m. to 2:30 p.m. A woman at each table will have a “heart” story. Breakout sessions. For more information at heart.org. Stars Over Springfield. Springfield Science Museum, 21 Edwards St. Springfield. Join members of the Springfield Stars Club for skygazing in the Science Museum’s observatory. If overcast, a planetarium show will be presented. Adults $3, children $2. springfieldmuseums.org. Children’s Storytime. Worcester Art Museum, 55 Salisbury St., Worcester. 11 to 11:45 a.m. Story time suitable for preschool-aged children. Museum admission applies: Adults $14, seniors/ college students with ID $12, kids 17 and under free. 508-799-4406. worcesterart.org.
The 39th St. Patrick’s Road race in Holyoke takes place on Saturday, March 22. The fun begins with the Kids Fun Race at 11 a.m.
Worcester Spring Home Show. DCU Center, Exhibition Hall, 50 Foster St., Worcester. Friday, March 7, 4 to 8 p.m. ; Saturday, March 8, 10 a.m. to 7 p.m.; Sunday, March 9, 11 a.m. to 5 p.m. Featuring over 250 companies displaying the latest products and services for home, condo or apartment. Adult admission is $6. Free admission passes available at worcestershows.com.
8 Saturday Nappy’s Puppets Presents: Sing-A-Long and Father Goose’s Tales. Eric Carle Museum of Picture Book Art, 125 West Bay Dr., Amherst. Interactive show features Jim Napolitano and his shadow puppet renditions of nursery rhymes and children’s songs. At 11 a.m., the program is Sing-a-Long with Nappy’s Puppets. At 1 p.m., The program is Father Goose’s Tales. Tickets $5 in addition to museum admission charges. 413-658-1126. carlemuseum.org.
“Visions of Community” Disability Conference. Seaport World Trade Center, Boston. This Federation for Children with Special Needs conference and exhibitor fair features these topics: Special Education Advocacy, Inclusion; Challenging Behaviors, Bullying; Transition to Adulthood; Policy Initiatives, Healthcare Issues; Assistive Technology; Early Childhood, Autism; and more. For information, call 1-800-331-0688 or visit fcsn.org. Babysitting Academy. Baystate Health Education Center, 361 Whitney Ave., Holyoke. March 8 and March 9. Training program for young adults ages 11 ½ to 16 covers topics such as baby care, first aid, fire safety, home security, accident prevention, child behavior, CPR. $30. For more information and to register at 413-794-2229. baystatehealth.org.
• Use a potter’s wheel by appointment
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• Walk in to paint your own pottery • Classes for adults and kids • Birthday Parties and group events
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OUT&ABOUT Old Deerfield Spring Craft Fair. Eastern States Exposition, Young Building, Springfield. Saturday, March 8, 10 a.m. to 5 p.m.; Sunday, March 9, 10 a.m. to 4 p.m. A prelude to Spring and its celebrations with displays of handcrafts. Admission $6, children ages 6 to 12 $1. 413-774-7476. deerfield-craft.org.
9 Sunday Butterflies & Caterpillars: A Family Workshop. Eric Carle Museum of Picture Book Art, 125 West Bay Dr., Amherst. 11 a.m. Butterfly-themed activities include a discussion of the Monarch. In addition, participants create and personalize handmade nature observation journals, put together insect sculptures with natural materials, and create paper butterfly gardens to give as gifts or display at home. Suitable for ages 6 and up with an adult. Up to 2 children per adult. $25 per pair or trio. carlemuseum.org.
11 Tuesday Breastfeeding Multiples. Baystate Health, Lundy Boardroom, Wesson Building, 759 Chestnut St., Springfield. 6:30 to 8:30 p.m. This breastfeeding class addresses the needs of women who are planning on breastfeeding twins or more.
$25. For registration and more information, call 413-794-2229. baystatehealth.org.
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Music & Movement Storytime. Springfield Library, Forest Park Branch, 380 Belmont Ave., Springfield. 10:30 a.m. Recommended for children ages 1 ½ - to 3-years-old with caregiver. Free. Register at 413-263-6843. springfieldlibrary.org.
Craig Harris Drum Away the Blues. Holyoke Public Library, Children’s Room, 250 Chestnut St., Holyoke. 5 p.m. A multicultural, participatory, and all-ages celebration of songs, stories and percussion from the Celtic Isles. Free. 413-420-8101. holyokelibrary.org.
Stories and Art for After School. Springfield City Library, Sixteen Acres Branch, 1187 Parker St., Springfield. Second Tuesday of each month, 4 to 5 p.m. Stories for ages 4 to 8 to encourage active listening and looking by reading a special book and completing an art activity. Parents expected to attend with their children. 413-263-6843. springfieldlibrary.org.
Preschool Bilingual (English/Spanish) Storytime. Brightwood Library, 359 Plainfield St., Springfield. 10 to 10:45 a.m. Program includes stories, songs, crafts for children 2- to 4-years-old with parents or caregivers. Free. 413-263-6805. springfieldlibrary.org.
Tuesday Tot Read Aloud. Eastfield Mall, 1655 Boston Rd., Springfield. 10:30 a.m. Story time and a free book for toddlers to take hom. Free. 413-543-8000. eastfieldmall.com.
Family PJ Storytime. Springfield Library, Forest Park Branch, 380 Belmont Ave., Springfield. 6 p.m. Families with children ages 3 to 8 are invivted to come to the “Family Place” to enjoy bedtime stories, songs, rhymes, and a bedtime snack. Free. Register at 413-263-6843. springfieldlibrary.org.
12 Wednesday Danu. UMass, Bowker Auditiorum, 80 Campus Center Way, Amherst. 7:30 p.m. Five-member ensamble offers traditional Irish music in an authentic, clever, fun concert. Tickets and
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Family Storytime. Springfield Library, East Springfield Branch, 21 Osborne Terrace, Springfield. 3:30 p.m. Stories, songs and
crafts designed for children ages 3 to 8. Siblings welcome. Free. To register, call 413-263-6840. springfieldlibrary.org. Preschool Storytime. Springfield City Library, Sixteen Acres Branch, 1187 Parker St., Springfield. 10:30 a.m. Recommended for children ages 3 to 5. Free. Register at 413-263-6858. springfieldlibrary.org. Nature Adventures for 5- to 7-year-olds. Broad Meadow Brook Wildlife Sanctuary, 414 Massasoit Rd., Worcester. 1 to 3 p.m. Hands-on nature program explores nature topic indoors using investigations, crafts, and activities. Outdoor exploration of sanctuary. Children $12. Register at 508-753-6087 or massaudubon.org.
14 Friday Preschool Story Hour: Winter Birds. Wachusett Meadow Wildlife Sanctuary, 113 Goodnow Rd., Princeton. 10:30 to 11:30 a.m. Book, craft and walk with nature theme. Suitable for children ages 2.5 to 5 years. Adults free, children $3. Register at 978-4642712 or massaudubon.org. Girl Scout Ecology and Rainforest CampIn. Springfield Science Museum, 21 Edwards
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St., Springfield. 6 p.m. to 9 a.m. Brownies, Juniors and Cadettes take part in hands-on activities, games and demonstrations. Sleep beside a coral reef, next to African animals or under Tyrannosaurus Rex. Registration required. Scouts $50, adults $40. 413-263-6800, ext. 481. springfieldmuseums.org.
Spring at Laughing Brook. Laughing Brook Wildlife Sanctuary, Main St., Hampden. 10 to 11:30 a.m. Look for evidence of spring, such as skunk cabbage, lightening bugs, early frogs, redwing blackbirds and turkey vultures. Registration required. All ages. Admission $5 per person. 413-584-3009. arcadia@massaudubon.org.
A St. Patrick’s Day Celtic Sojourn with Brian O’Donovan. The Hanover Theatre, 2 Southbridge St., Worcester. 7:30 p.m. Singers, instrumentalists and dancers perform in the Celtic tradition. Tickets $26 to $46. thehanovertheatre.org.
Celtic Celebration. Old Sturbridge Village, 1 Old Sturbridge Village Rd., Sturbridge. Saturday and Sunday, March 15 and 16. The daytime Celtic celebration will feature Irish music, food, step dancing and stories. Free admission to the museum for children ages 17 and under on weekends through March 30 when accompanied by one adult paying full-priced regular admission. osv.org.
2014 Worcester Boat Show. DCU Center, Exhibition Hall, 50 Foster St., Worcester. Friday, March 14, 4 to 8 p.m.; Saturday, March 15, 10 a.m. to 7 p.m.; Sunday, March 16, 11 a.m. to 5 p.m. Featuring fishing boats, sports boats, pontoon boats and more. Admission is $10. Children under 16 no charge when accompanied by an adult. Discount passes available at www.worcesetershows.com.
16 Sunday Hitchcock Center Family Film: The Fox and the Child. Eric Carle Museum of Picture Book Art, 125 West Bay Dr., Amherst. 1 p.m. Film screening followed by a visit with the Hitchcock Center’s box turtle Speedy and corn snake Maizie. Admission $5, children under 5 free. 413-658-1126. carlemuseum.org.
Children’s Storytime. Worcester Art Museum, 55 Salisbury St., Worcester. 11 to 11:45 a.m. Story time suitable for preschool-aged children. Museum admission applies: Adults $14, seniors/ college students with ID $12, kids 17 and under free. 508-799-4406. worcesterart.org.
Make-A-Wish Walk for Wishes Event. Holyoke Mall, 50 Holyoke St., Holyoke. 9 to 11 a.m. Fourth annual Walk for Wishes. Event details and registration at walkforwishesma. kintera.org. Boot Camp for Dads. Baystate Health, Wesson Building, 759 Chestnut St., Springfield. 1 to 4 p.m. Class for expectant fathers covers such topics as forming a new family, the changing role of fathers, and how to meet the needs of the new mom. Veteran dads, with their babies, discuss their own experiences and answer questions. $20. For registration and more information, call 413-794-2229. baystatehealth.org.
descending rapidly to almost to the ground. Take binoculars, if you have them. All ages. Free. Register at 978-464-2712 or massadubon.org. Third Week Wonders: The Puddle. Broad Meadow Brook Wildlife Sanctuary, 414 Massasoit Rd., Worcester. Wednesday, March 19; Thursday, March 20; or Saturday, March 22. 10 to 11 a.m. Story, activity and a naturalist-led walk. Suitable for children 3 to 5 years. Adults free, children $4. Register at 508-753-6087 or massadubon.org.
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Tuesday Tot Read Aloud. Eastfield Mall, 1655 Boston Rd., Springfield. 10:30 a.m. Story time and a free book for toddlers to take hom. Free. 413-543-8000. eastfieldmall.com.
Preschool Teacher Workshop: Space Explorers. Springfield Museums, 21 Edwards St., Springfield. 2 to 3:30 p.m. Gather background information about space along with a sampling of activities and lessons that can be used in the classroom. Register by March 14. $20 per person. 413-263-6800. springfieldmuseums.org.
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Spring Woodcock Watches. Wachusett Meadow Wildlife Sanctuary, 113 Goodnow Rd., Princeton. 7 to 8 p.m. From late March to late April, woodcocks put on incredible courtship flight displays, spiraling 200 feet into the air and then
Cesarean Birth Class. Baystate Health, Wesson Building, 759 Chestnut St., Springfield. This class will prepare couples who expect a scheduled Cesarean birth for the physical and emotional aspects of a Cesarean delivery. Topics include
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Celebrate At The Carle Bring the family to The Very Hungry Caterpillar Day March 23, 12:00 pm–4:00 pm
Museum Shop Sale 15% off of all caterpillar-related books and toys
• Special activities in the Art Studio • Meet The Very Hungry Caterpillar • Win a prize on our Caterpillar Wheel • Enjoy delicious Caterpillar cookies Plus films, scavenger hunts and storytimes! Free with Museum Admission Illustration © Eric Carle 1969.
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OUT&ABOUT indications for a Cesarean delivery, signs of labor, methods of evaluating the fetus, physical and emotional changes in mothers, postpartum care. $25. For registration and more information, call 413-794-2229. baystatehealth.org. Children’s Storytime. Worcester Art Museum, 55 Salisbury St., Worcester. 11 to 11:45 a.m. Story time suitable for preschool-aged children. Museum admission applies: Adults $14, seniors/ college students with ID $12, kids 17 and under free. 508-799-4406. worcesterart.org.
22 Saturday Child in the Woods Infant/Toddler Walk. Arcadia Wildlife Sanctuary, 127 Combs Rd., Easthampton. 10 to 11 a.m. Explore the nature and beauty of Arcadia. Meet other parents and caregivers while getting exercise and learning about the natural world. Walk is on fairly level ground and will accommodate carriages or backpack kids. Suitable for children up to 5-years-old with caregiver. Adults $7, children free. Registration required. 413-584-3009. arcadia@massaudubon.org. 39th St. Patrick’s Road Race. 143 Maple St. next to MD Church, Holyoke. 1 p.m. Runner bib and t-shirt pickup 9 a.m. to 12:30 p.m. Mummers concert begins at 12:10 p.m. at the corner of Hampden and Maple streets. holyokestpatricksparade.com.
Kids Fun Run. Hampden and Walnut streets, Holyoke. Lineup starts at 10:45 a.m. Races by age group begin at 11 a.m. Free. holyokestpatricksparade.com. Beaver Hike for Families. Wachusett Meadow Wildlife Sanctuary, 113 Goodnow Rd., Princeton. 6 to 8 p.m. Discover the lodges and dams of the beaver families at Wachusett Meadow. Suitable for families with children ages 5 and up. Adults $8, children $4. Register at 978-464-2712 or massaudubon.org. Scooby-Doo Live! Musical Mysteries. The Hanover Theatre, 2 Southbridge St., Worcester. Shows at 2 and 5 p.m. Stage show featuring Shaggy, Fred, Daphne, Velma and Scooby-Doo. Tickets $17 to $37. 877-571-7469. thehanoverthreatre.org.
23 Sunday St. Patrick’s Day Parade. Holyoke. Noon. Free. holyokestpatricksparade.com.
26 Wednesday Keeping Baby Safe Class. Baystate Health, 361 Whitney Ave., 1st floor, BRL Conference Room, Holyoke. 6 to 9 p.m. This class teaches basic life support, infant CPR, first aid for choking, poison prevention, baby-proofing your
Discover How the World Works by Doing
home and car seat safety. $35 per couple. For more information and registration, 413-794-2229. baystatehealth.org. Knit-In to Benefit Children’s Miracle Network. Eastfield Mall, 1655 Boston Rd., Springfield. 10 a.m. to 7 p.m. Marathon day of knitting and crocheting baby hats and blankets to donate to families with babies receiving care at Baystate Children’s Hospital. Drop-in program. 413-543-8000. eastfieldmall.com
27 Thursday The Original Western Mass Home Show. Eastern States Exposition, Better Living Center, Young & Stroh Buildings and Outdoor Area, Springfield. Thursday, March 27, 2 to 9 p.m.; Friday, March 28, 1 to 9 p.m.; Saturday, March 29, 10 a.m. to 9 p.m.; Sunday, March 30, 10 a.m. to 5 p.m. Home and garden show includes 325 vendors. Admission $10, children under 12 free. 413-733-3126. westernmasshomeshow.com.
28 Friday Preschool Story Hour: Salamander Migration. Wachusett Meadow Wildlife Sanctuary, 113 Goodnow Rd. Princeton. 10:30 to 11:30 a.m. Book, craft and walk. Suitable for children ages 2.5 to 5. Adults free, children $3. Register at 978-464-2712 or massaudubon.org. Girl Scout Science Emersion Camp-In. Springfield Science Museum, 21 Edwards St., Springfield. 6 p.m. to 9 a.m. Brownies, Juniors and Cadettes take part in hands-on activities, games and demonstrations. Sleep beside a coral reef, next to African animals or under Tyrannosaurus Rex. Registration required. Scouts $50, adults $40. 413-263-6800, ext. 481. springfieldmuseums.org. Children’s Storytime. Worcester Art Museum, 55 Salisbury St., Worcester. 11 to 11:45 a.m. Story time suitable for preschool-aged children. Museum admission applies: Adults $14, seniors/ college students with ID $12, kids 17 and under free. 508-799-4406. worcesterart.org.
Breakfast with the Easter Bunny • Sunday, April 6 • 9 a.m.-12 p.m. See website for details
Memberships • Birthday Parties Field Trips Private Events Tuesday thru Saturday 10-4 • Sundays 12-4 444 Dwight St. Holyoke, MA 01040 413-536-7048 www.childrensmuseumholyoke.org 44 MARCH2014
29 Saturday The Big Night. Arcadia Wildlife Sanctuary, 127 Combs Rd., Easthampton. 5:30 to 8:30 p.m. Guilded tours will leave the nature center every 15 minutes to travel a 45-minute magical forest trail where participants meet costumed characters from vernal pools, breeding grounds for animals such as spotted salamanders, wood frogs, and fairy shrimp. Games, slide presentations, live pond critters. Suitable for families with children ages 4 to 16. Admission $8 per person. Registration required. 413-584-3009. arcadia@massaudubon.org
Bat House Making Workshop. Pleasant Valley Wildlife Sactuary, 472 West Mountain Rd., Lenox. 1:30 to 3 p.m. Beginner and expert woodworkers are welcome. Slide show presentation and discussion of proper care and placement of a bat house. Suitable for families with children ages 5 to 18. Adults $20, children free. Registration required. 413-637-0320. berkshires@massaudubon.org. Western Mass Mineral, Jewelry and Fossil Show. Clarion Hotel & Conference Center, 1 Atwood Dr., Northampton. Saturday, March 29, 9:30 a.m. to 5 p.m.; Sunday, March 30, 10 a.m. to 4 p.m. For people who love earth and earth science, this show features crystals, fossils, petrified wood, live demonstrations. Admission $5, kids 12 and under free. westernmassmineralshow.com. Knights! Renaissance Faire. Worcester Art Museum, 55 Salisbury St., Worcester. Saturday, March 29, 10 a.m. to 5 p.m.; Sunday, March 30, 11 a.m. to 5 p.m. Event features music, jugglers, costumed performers, theatrical performances of Shakespeare and King Arthur, sword demonstrations, storytelling, a chess tournament, and hands-on shield making workshops and sword classes. Museum admission applies. Adults $14, seniors/college students with ID $12, kids 17 and under free. 508-799-4406. worcesterart.org.
30 Sunday Springfield National College Fair. Eastern States Exposition, Mallary West, Springfield. Sunday, March 30, 1 to 4 p.m.; Monday, March 31, 9 to 11:30 a.m. The National College Fair is open to the public. Interact with admission representatives from a wide range of postsecondary institutions. Free. 703-299-6851. thebige.com.
31 Monday Mechanics Hall Concerts for Kids. Mechanics Hall, 321 Main St., Worcester. Introduction to American Composers is presented for grades 4 to 8. Introduction to Chamber Music is presented for students in grades 3 to 6. All concerts are free. Registration required. 508-752-5608.
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“If you can dream it, you can do it.” BY TRISH RESKE
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W
alk through the doors of Whole Children in Hadley, Massachusetts, and you will discover much more than special needs kids practicing martial arts, playing Pokémon, or acting onstage. You will discover a place where children of all abilities not only thrive as learners and doers of recreational and social skills, but also are accepted for the unique people they are and encouraged to be all that they can be. “There’s a sense of joy and lightness and humor here,” said Whole Children founder and director Carrie McGee. “There’s a collective way that we celebrate our kids. We don’t give up on them. Everyone is welcome, and parents in our community quickly realize that they’re not alone. We support each other.” Ten years ago, Carrie started Whole Children out of her desire to give her son, Alex (now 18) opportunities to succeed in a safe, fun, social setting. Doctors had told Carrie when Alex was diagnosed as a young child with William’s Syndrome all the things he’d never do. “I kept thinking, ‘How do you know that? How can you possibly know what he is capable of?’” she said. The idea of a place where children like Alex could develop social skills in a fun, supportive, accepting environment took hold.
“Alex was the Inspiration for Whole Children” In 2004, Carrie and a group of like-minded parents got together and started Whole Children, offering a handful of movement classes like yoga and gymnastics therapeutically designed to work on their kids’ social skills. “Alex was the inspiration for Whole Children,” she said. The first year, Whole Children operated out of a small space and served about 40 families. Since then, Whole Children has grown exponentially: In 2010, the center ran 133 classes for
over 300 kids of all abilities in a new 7,600 square foot facility complete with a gym, café, sensory movement room and more. Each year, Whole Children also puts on concerts with its Joyful Chorus. Tammy Rousseau’s son Cameron (now 16) has been attending Whole Children since its inception, when he was in first grade. Adopted from Russia, Cameron has a number of challenges, including seizures and anxiety disorder. Yet Whole Children has transformed him over the years from a child who wouldn’t leave his mother’s side to a thriving, happy kid who loves to sing and perform onstage. “To see the transformation in Cameron, to see him sing in front of 800 people… I can’t even put into words,” said Tammy. “Whole Children gave him that opportunity.”
Whole Children Grows Up As the first group of children has matured over the last ten years, Whole Children’s programs have adapted to their changing life stages as well. The center, now joined with The Association for Community Living in Springfield, is able to fund additional programs geared toward teens and young adults through their Milestones program. “As our own kids began to grow up, we included new programs that met their needs,” said Carrie. Milestones offers classes on social skills, dating, cooking, careers and independent living, along with performing arts classes. The ability to flex with the needs of children and parents is a cornerstone of the Whole Children philosophy. “It’s shaped by the people who are involved with it and care about it — not by a bureaucracy with a certain agenda. It’s really organized around this sense that you don’t have to have a specific diagnosis to come. Some people who come here have no special needs at all,” said Carrie. When Danielle of Florence first brought her son Benjamin (now 10) to Whole Children, she wanted to find a place where he would experience structure and security. Ben, an academically gifted second-grader with social
and developmental challenges, was going through a difficult time adjusting to school. But at Whole Children, “being different is the norm here. You’re not the outlier,” she said. “Whole Children was a lifesaver for us, because it was a place where Ben could be happy and feel good. It’s a safe place to be. It supports our family so well.”
The Powerful Connection with Parents Whole Children was originally formed by parents with a personal desire to meet a perceived hole in their children’s lives. The biggest surprise, according to Carrie, was the realization of how much it has met the needs of parents as well. “The number one thing we hear from parents is the sense that when they walk in here, they feel welcome,” said Carrie. “Not judged, not evaluated, just welcome.” Danielle felt this connection immediately the first time she brought Ben to Whole Children. “It’s been a place to meet other families who truly ‘get it,’” she said. “There’s a common language and a common understanding that’s really affirming.” Parents not only empathetically support each other but also feel listened to by the organization. “They are very collaborative,” said Danielle. “They work with parents to brainstorm what our needs are. Because they are parents themselves, they get it. So many agencies aren’t like that.” Carrie said that Whole Children is attuned to parents who may be wary after coming from other agency experiences that aren’t able to be so flexible. “We reassure each parent that wherever their child is, we will meet them there,” she said. “We’ve seen such growth in kids, because we just don’t give up on them. And we affirm the parents, because it’s a shared experience. We need each other.”
Future Possibilities
commuted from nearby towns in Connecticut and Vermont to participate in the center’s unique programs. When asked what’s on the horizon for Whole Children, Carrie said that wherever the future takes them, it will be grounded in their vision to help children far surpass expectations, open new doors and discover the worlds that await their future success. This vision for the organization, according to Carrie, embodies the vision the small group of parents who began Whole Children had for the center — that “anything is possible if people come together and believe in the mission and each other.” For Tammy, this hopeful vision has transformed her personal vision for her son Cameron, whom she once thought would be at home as an adult and requiring care. “Now I see him totally having a part-time job, and living independently with his friends,” she said. “As long as he has support, he can do anything. Anything is possible, and he feels this. That’s what Whole Children has given him. It has changed my child’s life.”
Whole Children Upcoming Events “A Trip to Oz” March 21 & 22, 2014 Smith College, Hallie Flanagan Theater, Northampton “Art of Giving” Fundraiser Featuring renowned local artists Hadley Farms Meeting House 41 Russell St, Hadley April 12, 2014
For more information on these events or Whole Children programs, visit www.wholechildren.org.
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Preschool Preschool & Child Care & Child Care Little Friends Child Care Center
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413-739-9998 1702 Riverdale Street, West Springfield www.potterville.com
Tues - Fri: 12 - 8pm, Saturday: 10am - 8pm, Sunday: 12 - 4pm We are closed Mondays
Have your Birthday Party at Potterville! Choose from a wheel party or a painting party, and get a 2nd clay activity, balloons and invitations for $25 per person (including firing and materials). Have your party on a Friday Afternoon, Saturday or Sunday. A $35 non-refundable deposit is required to book your party. Allergy Warning: Potterville has a live rabbit.
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Academy Hill School........................ 38 A Dream Come True Learning Center.. 49 All Starts Dance Center.................... 31 Amherst Pediatrics.......................... 42 Arbors Kids.......................................3 Baystate Children’s Specialty Center.. 52 Baystate Rehabilitation Care............. 21 Belchertown Kidz Club..................... 31 Bement School............................... 33 Berkshire Hills Music Academy.......... 42 Big Y............................................ 48 Blessed Sacrament School............... 45 Brain Balance Center....................... 5 Brighter Beginnings......................... 49 Camp Half Moon............................ 29 City Stage..................................... 13 Clarke Schools for Hearing & Speech...........................29 Community Music School................. 17 Country Bank................................. 2 Creative Kids.................................. 6 Dakin Humane Society.................... 37 EcoBuilding Bargains....................... 23 Epilepsy Foundation........................ 11 Eric Carle Museum.......................... 43 Holyoke Children’s Museum............. 44 Holyoke Mall................................. 45 Jennifer Rose Photography............... 41 Little Friends.................................. 49
Longmeadow Montessori School.........9 Louise Noel’s Dance........................ 32 MacDuffie School............................ 33 Mad Science.................................. 32 Mass Academy of Ballet.................. 25 Mittineague Children’s Center........... 49 Montessori School of Northampton.... 45 Montessori School of Northampton Summer Camp...............................33 Mountain View Training Camp.......... 32 Muddy Brook Farm......................... 38 Music Together............................... 49 Oasis Summer Camp....................... 29 Old Sturbridge Village...................... 33 Pediatric Associates of Hampden County............................49 Pediatric Services of Springfield........ 38 Pioneer Valley Montessori..................6 Potterville Pottery.......................41,49 Sing This Summer.......................... 25 Springfield JCC............................... 51 St John the Baptist school................ 10 The Teacher’s Loft (2 ads)............... 45 Thompson’s Summer Gymnastics...... 32 US Taekwondo............................... 28 Whole Children............................... 28 Wilbraham Monson Academy........... 31 Winterberry Farm........................... 28 YMCA........................................... 37
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Springfield JCC Summer Camps June 23 - August 15, 2014 • Day Camps • Travel Camps • Specialty Camps (baking, circus, outdoor adventure, science, sports, theater and more!) • Beautiful indoor and outdoor attractions • Nurturing, well-trained staff Download a brochure at www.SpringfieldJCC.org
We also offer Camp Kehillah for individuals with special needs June 23-July 3; August 4-15: Inclusion Camp August 18-22: Substantially Separate Camp JCC Summer Camps are part of the Springfield Jewish Community Center Neal Webber Building • 1160 Dickinson Street, Springfield, MA • (413) 739-4715 www.SpringfieldJCC.org • facebook.com/JCCSummerCamp
All Are Welcome! JCC Summer Camps Director: Louis Lasko, llasko@springfieldjcc.org Camp Kehillah Director: Linda LaPointe, llapointe@springfieldjcc.org 50 BAYSTATEPARENTWEST 51
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A New Era in Caring for Children and Families
Featuring over 15 pediatric specialty services under one roof, the Specialty Center is designed to offer the best in care coordination, comfort, and convenience, with a healthy dose of fun thrown in as well.
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The opening of the Baystate Children’s Specialty Center at 50 Wason Avenue in Springfield represents an iconic moment in the future of caring for children and families in western Massachusetts.
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Learn more and take a video tour at baystatehealth.org/bchspecialty.
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